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MARCH 2021 - Soroptimist International of Riverside
MARCH 2021

  On February 23rd, Soroptimist International of Riverside held their monthly Zoom
   Program Meeting with guest speaker Aurora Feehely, Golden West Region Public
 Awareness Pillar. (Aurora is highlighted in yellow in the above screenshot.) Aurora
spoke to members about how to promote SI Riverside on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter
and Tik Tok and how to get the word out about our club activities through social media
 posts and press releases. It was a very informative meeting with members discussing
           various public awareness ideas and asking inquiring questions.
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•    EDUCATION: Women and                    SENIOR DELEGATE
                                           girls deserve to lead full and          Charlene Johnson
                                           productive lives through                  (951) 907-0096
                                           access to education.                 gracious135@yahoo.com

                                      •    DIVERSITY & FELLOWSHIP:                JUNIOR DELEGATE
                                           Women from varied                       Debra Steinmiller
                                           backgrounds and                         (951) 369-0817
                                           perspectives work together           dwchotro@sbcglobal.net
                                           to improve the lives of
                                           women and girls.
                                                                              PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE
          SOROPTIMIST
            VISION                             2020-21
                                          BOARD OF DIRECTORS
      Women and girls have the
    resources and opportunities to
                                                  PRESIDENT
     reach their full potential and
                                                Edith Gingerich
          live their dreams.
                                               (951) 640-3881
                                             edithg@earthlink.net
          SOROPTIMIST
                                               VICE PRESIDENT
            MISSION
                                                Melanie McKee
                                               (760) 586-3131
Soroptimist is a global volunteer         mckeemelanie4@gmail.com
   organization that provides
women and girls with access to             RECORDING SECRETARY                       Edith Gingerich
the education and training they                 Lynn Scecina                      2020-21 SIR President
   need to achieve economic                   (951) 317-2141
        empowerment.                       woodcrestchiro@aol.com

                                      CORRESPONDING SECRETARY
          SOROPTIMIST                        JoAnn Moore
            TAG LINE                       (951) 662-4505
                                       jamatlakelemon@aol.com

    “INVESTING IN                               TREASURER
                                               Debbie Ferraro               As we enter Women’s History
       DREAMS”                                (951) 212-2358
                                            debbers813@aol.com
                                                                            Month, Soroptimist International
                                                                            celebrates 100 sterling years of
                                                                            assistance to women and girls via
          SOROPTIMIST                      ASSISTANT TREASURER              a Live Virtual Event on Sept. 25-
          CORE VALUES                        Barbara Walling                26, 2021.
                                             (714) 875-0873
                                           wbmuse@sbcglobal.net             It’s interesting to note that Stuart
Soroptimist International of the
Americas is committed to:                                                   Morrow, an Irish immigrant,
                                               SENIOR DIRECTOR              helped       organize    the    first
                                                    Tillie Soliz            Soroptimist club in Oakland,
•     GENDER EQUALITY:                           (951) 285-9682
      Women and girls live free                                             California, in 1921. For more
                                           tilliesoliz20@gmail.com          information       on    Soroptimist
      from discrimination.
                                                                            International's 100th anniversary,
                                              JUNIOR DIRECTOR               check       out     the    hashtag
•     EMPOWERMENT: Women                          Ellen Clizbe
      and girls are free to act in                                          #Soroptimist100.
                                               (951) 321-9590
      their own best interest.               eclizbe@yahoo.com              Locally, I’d like to thank all of the
                                                                            donors and buyers from our
                                                                            recent Valentine Virtual Auction as
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well as the committee chair,
JoAnn Moore, Melanie McKee for               MARCH 2021                        APRIL 2021
her assistance with the technical             CALENDAR                         CALENDAR
end of things and all the auction
committee members. The virtual
auction met 60% of goal with total
revenue of $5,825 plus the
committee received $8,945 in
cash donations from our virtual
fundraiser.

These       are    phenomenal
contributions in a Covid-19
pandemic. Thanks again to all to
donated and participated. It’s
through your help we can assist
more women and girls Live their
Dreams.

Coming up on March 6th, we will
be holding our 12th annual "Live           ALL MEETINGS IN
Your Dream: Dream It, Be It                 MARCH WILL BE                 ALL MEETINGS IN
Conference," only this time it will           ON ZOOM                       APRIL WILL BE
be virtual. Thanks to Michelle                                               ON ZOOM
Paradise, Ellen Clizbe and all the
                                      1   ZERO DISCRIMINATION
committee members for doing
                                          DAY                        6   BOARD MEETING
such a great job converting this
                                                                         12:00 PM on Zoom
outstanding conference to a
                                      2   BOARD MEETING
virtual Zoom meeting format.
                                          12:00 PM on Zoom           7   WORLD HEALTH DAY
This conference is designed to
expose and mentor 7th and 8th
                                      6   VIRTUAL LIVE YOUR DREAM:   10 SI RIVERSIDE CHARTERED
grade AVID students to many
                                          DREAM IT BE IT                4-10-1948
potential career paths they may
                                          CONFERENCE
never have considered.
                                                                     12 EQUAL PAY DAY
                                      8   INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S
Have a great month and stay
                                          DAY                        13 BUSINESS MEETING
safe!
                                                                        12:00 PM on Zoom
                                      9   BUSINESS MEETING
                Edith Gingerich
                                          12:00 PM on Zoom           22 INTERNATIONAL EARTH
           2020-21 SIR President
                                                                         DAY
                                      10 NATIONAL WOMEN AND
                                          GIRL'S HIV/AIDS            27 PROGRAM MEETING
                                          AWARENESS DAY                 12:00 PM on Zoom

                                      21 INTERNATIONAL DAY FOR
                                          THE ELIMINATION OF             DATES TO REMEMBER
                                          RACIAL DISCRIMINATION

                                          NO PROGRAM MEETING
                                               IN MARCH
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May 20-22, 2021                 •   Fundraise for female-focused       Soroptimist International urges
    GOLDEN WEST REGION                    charities.                         governments to:
    SPRING CONFERENCE
      Virtual on ZOOM                                                        •   Endorse     the    “Women’s
                                              SOROPTIMIST                        Empowerment        Principles:
   September 25-26, 2021                    INTERNATIONAL                        Equality Means Business”
SOROPTIMIST INTERNATIONAL                                                        and encourage the private
  OF THE AMERICAS 100th                                                          sector to sign up and report
   ANNIVERSARY ONLINE                                                            on the principles.
        CELEBRATION
                                                                             •   Uphold and implement
        July 20-23, 2022                                                         areas of the Convention on
       SIA 47TH BIENNIAL                                                         the Elimination of All Forms
         CONVENTION                                                              of Discrimination Against
          Seoul, Korea                                                           Women and the Beijing
                                             Soroptimist                         Platform for Action which
                                            International                        address the importance of
      MARCH 8, 2021
                                                                                 women’s representation in
      INTERNATIONAL                        Position Paper:                       leadership and decision
       WOMEN'S DAY                                                               making and take notice
                                                                                 of     CEDAW’s      General
                                          LEADERSHIP                             Recommendation Number
                                                                                 23 on women in political
                                      Soroptimist    International     is        and public life.
                                      committed to the empowerment
                                      of women as leaders and decision       •   Support      the   work      of
                                      makers, yet recognizes that                international     partnerships
                                      women are consistently under-              such      as     the     Inter-
                                      represented in positions of                Parliamentarian Union to
                                      leadership. Structural barriers as         increase the percentage of
                                      well as differences in access to           women in government.
International Women's Day is a        resources and capacities render
global day celebrating the social,    women less likely to achieve           •   Implement efficient methods
economic, cultural and political      leadership positions than their            to augment gender equality
achievements of women. The day        male counterparts.                         in leadership positions.
also marks a call to action for
accelerating     gender     parity.                                          •   Eliminate all forms of
                                      Women’s         participation     in
Significant activity is witnessed                                                violence directed towards
                                      decision-making at local, national
worldwide as groups come                                                         women in positions of power
                                      and international levels is a
together to celebrate women's                                                    or those participating in
                                      fundamental prerequisite for the
achievements or rally for women's                                                elections.
                                      realization of equality, sustainable
equality.                             development and peace. Not only
                                                                             •   Monitor and report on
                                      does the inclusion of women’s
Marked annually on March                                                         women’s participation in
                                      voices     and      a      gendered
8th, International Women's Day is                                                politics and decision making
                                      perspective improve their status
one of the most important days of                                                at all levels.
                                      but works to improve society as a
the year to:                          whole.
                                                                             •   Adopt        UN     Women’s
•   Celebrate women's                                                            recommendation             to
                                      All women and girls, regardless of         “encourage            greater
    achievements.
                                      their educational attainment, are          involvement of women who
                                      entitled to have their voices heard        may       be    marginalized,
•   Raise awareness about
                                      and to take on leadership roles in         including         indigenous
    women's equality.
                                      their families, communities and            women,        women      with
                                      beyond.                                    disabilities, women from
•   Lobby for accelerated gender
    parity.                                                                      rural areas and women of
                                                                                 any ethnic, cultural or
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religious    minority,     in         collective which can influence      Once again your dedication
     decision-making      at    all        lives.                              allows us to continue our work
     levels, and address and                                                   supporting women and girls to
     counter the barriers faced by     Soroptimist International:              pursue their dreams, despite the
     marginalized women in                                                     many challenges that were
     accessing and participating       •   Educates society as a whole         presented in a health crisis. We
     in politics and decision-             on the benefits of equal            learned new ways to reach
     making at all levels”.                representation of women and         supporters and you responded!
                                           men in decision making.
Soroptimist    International    will                                           The Auction enabled us to reach
continue to:                           •   Empowers women and girls            almost 60% of our goal of
                                           with the skills, confidence and     $10,000. This amount will help
•   Encourage girls from an early          capabilities necessary for          with scholarships and grants to
    age to participate in decision-        taking on leadership and            high school seniors, female heads
    making and to learn the skills         decision-making positions in        of household and to our service
    necessary to become leaders,           the     family,      in    their    programs.
    championing the SI theme               communities, in the private
    “educate to lead."                     sector, in the public sector        If you were not able to join us at
                                           and in local, national and          the Virtual Valentine Auction this
•   Harness the power of the               international       government      year, we encourage you to visit
    media and new technologies             bodies.                             our website:
    to      promote    women’s
    participation in leadership        •   Enables opportunities for            www.soroptimistriverside.org
    and decision-making.                   women and girls through
                                           lobbying and advocacy for           There you will find information
•   Adopt a life course approach           increased representation.           about donations and upcoming
    to women’s participation,                                                  ways to participate in achieving
    working towards a world                                                    our goals.
                                         From Soroptimist International
    where      women’s       voices    website: soroptimistinternational.org
    are   equally      represented                                                           With deep gratitude,
    throughout their lifetimes.                                                                     JoAnn Moore
                                           FEBRUARY 6-10, 2021                   Chair, Virtual Valentine Auction
•   Support    initiatives which            VIRTUAL VALENTINE
    ensure that decision making             DESSERT AUCTION                           MARCH 6, 2021
    processes are participatory,
                                                                                    LIVE YOUR DREAM:
    responsive, equitable and
    inclusive.                                                                        DREAM IT, BE IT
                                                                                       CONFERENCE
•   Provide educational and
    leadership opportunities to
    women and girls to ensure
    that there is equal access to
    the capabilities necessary to
    successfully and confidently
    take on positions of power
    and influence.

•   Recognize that achieving
    gender        balances        in
    leadership is about all sectors
    – government, civil service,
                                       THANK YOU!                              Soroptimist     International     of
                                                                               Riverside will hold their 2021 "Live
                                                                               Your Dream: Dream It, Be It
    private     sector,    political
                                       Those two words cannot express          Conference" on Saturday, March
    parties, trade unions, the
                                       the amount of gratitude I have for      6th starting at 8:00 AM and
    judiciary,          employers’
                                       all the participants of the 2021        ending at 1:10 PM. This year, due
    organizations,       academic
                                       Virtual Valentine Auction.              to the COVID-19 pandemic, we
    institutions and any other
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cannot meet in person so the           format, this year's "Live Your         members to get to know you and
conference will be held on Zoom.       Dream: Dream It, Be It                 support you to reach your goals.
                                       Conference" should still be one of     This has been a great project for
Since      2008,      Soroptimist      our best.                              us. Going forward, we wish you
International of Riverside has                                                the best for the future.
annually presented our “Live Your      See you all on March 6th.
Dream: Dream It, Be It                                                        Now, on to what we did in
Conference” to introduce 7th and                        Michelle Paradise,    February. With the last few dollars
8th    girls   in    the    AVID             Live Your Dream: Dream It,       from the generous donations
(Advancement Via Individual                       Be It Conference Chair      members gave at Christmas, plus
Determination)     program     to                                             a few dollars I added, I put
various career opportunities and                                              together Valentine gift bags for
the way to achieve career goals.                                              each of the young ladies.

                                                                              The bags, donated by JoAnn
                                                                              Moore from her stock supplies,
                                                                              were filled with a small box of
                                                                              Russell Stover chocolates, one of
                                                                              Truffles, some loose candy, a few
                                                                              trinkets and a gift card to Chipotle
                                                                              Mexican Grill (more "Thanks" to
                                                                              JoAnn).
                                            INSPIRE LIFE SKILLS
                                                TRAINING

The      conference        includes
workshops provided by successful
women      in    many      different
professions, outstanding keynote
speakers and activities aimed at
setting goals and outlining the
steps to achieve them. We want         I want to start this month's article
the girls to discover how to           by saying a very heartfelt "Thank
achieve their dreams, one step at      You" for the wonderful support
a time, with the help and support      you've given over the past 5 years
of the amazing women in                helping the young ladies of
Soroptimist     International     of   Inspire House reach their goals.
Riverside and other professional                                              On February 17th, Kacey Sutton-
women from the Riverside area.         Last week Kristi Perez, Founder        Davidson brought dinner from
                                       and Director of Inspire Life Skills    California Pizza Kitchen. Keeping
This year we already have 94 girls     Training, contacted me to say they     in mind that two of the young
registered and we look forward to      have a new, small group of             ladies are vegetarians, she
all of the members of SI Riverside     friends to take over supporting the    ordered what she called a
also attending.                        Luther Street Inspire House. She       "'vegetarian delight" including 2
                                       also thanked SI Riverside for the      boxes of Buffalo cauliflower
Watch your email inbox for a link      years of support we have given.        appetizers and 5 pizzas, all
to the Zoom meeting and please                                                vegetarian.
plan to join us.                       "Thank You" Kristi Perez, Inspire
                                       Life Skills Training and the young
Even though it will be virtual         ladies of Luther House for the
requiring adjustments to the           opportunity you gave our club
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circumstances that have or could            help us to be better known
                                      derail their dreams.                        for our work.

                                      Working      in     21   countries     •    Our Dream Programs have
                                      and     territories,   Soroptimist          the highest potential to
                                      economically empowers women                 improve the lives of the
                                      and girls who have faced                    women and girls they
                                      obstacles such as poverty,                  benefit, and also their
                                      violence and teen pregnancy.                families, communities and
                                      Through our Dream Programs,                 the world at large.
                                      Soroptimist provides these women
                                      and girls with access to the           Who are the specific women and
Thank you for being the
                                      education and skills training they     girls we are trying to reach
wonderful, caring and generous
                                      need to reach their full potential     through the Dream Programs?
ladies that you are. I am lucky and
                                      and live their dreams.
proud to be a member of
                                                                             Live Your Dream Awards: For this
Soroptimist     International    of
                                      We do this work because we             award, we seek applicants who
Riverside.
                                      believe:                               have overcome obstacles and are
                                                                             trying to get their lives back on
                  Linda Robertson
                                      •    Some women and girls face         track, build a better life for
           Inspire Program Chair
                                           specific barriers to reaching     themselves and their families and
                                           their full potential and living   lift themselves and their families
           SOLT                            their dreams and these are        out of poverty through education
Soroptimist Orientation and                the women and girls who           and skills training. These women,
                                           need our help.                    who have dependents, have
    Leadership Training
                                                                             overcome obstacles including
                                      •    Quality education, more           domestic and sexual violence,
                                           than any other intervention,      teen pregnancy, addiction, health
                                           holds the greatest potential      issues, the death of a family
                                           to transform the lives of         member or mental health issues.
                                           women and girls.                  They want to increase their
                                                                             standard of living but lack the
                                      •    Women and girls who have          financial resources to access the
                                           faced obstacles such as           education      and training     to
                                           poverty, sexual and domestic      succeed. Around the world, head
                                           violence,      homelessness,      of household women have the
                                           addiction, teen pregnancy         highest poverty rates. Helping
                                           and other circumstances are       these women improve their
                                           in most need of access to         education and skills offers them
     Our Target                            resources and opportunities
                                           to reach their full potential
                                                                             the best chance of improving their
                                                                             lives and the lives of their
     Population                            and live their dreams.            children—ensuring more positive
                                                                             outcomes for generations to
                                      •    Our      Dream     Programs       come.
Soroptimists     believe    EVERY          specifically support the UN
woman and girl has a right to live         Secretary General’s call          Dream It, Be It: For this program,
her dream. It’s stated in our              for accelerating women’s          we seek girls who do not have
vision: Women and girls have the           economic       empowerment        access to the resources or
resources and opportunities to             because they are rooted in        information     they     need   to
reach their full potential and live        the UN agenda for women’s         adequately plan for their futures.
their dreams.                              equality.                         We focus on girls in secondary
                                                                             school who, in most cases, are
We know all women and girls can       •    Our brand-unifying Dream          between the ages of 14 and 18.
face discrimination solely because         Programs can maximize             We aim to empower girls at risk
of their gender. We also know              Soroptimist’s impact on           for having their dreams derailed
some women and girls face                  these women and girls and         because of obstacles including
greater challenges because of                                                poverty, unstable home lives,
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living in foster care or teen
pregnancy. They lack access to           MARCH BIRTHDAYS
professional role models and
career education and do not
understand the steps needed to
accomplish their goals. Helping
these girls identify their career
goals and path to success will
empower them to overcome the
barriers they face now and in their
future in order to live their
dreams.
                                       Annamarie Megrdichian    Pam Bradford posted: "After 8
In order for this strategy to                                      year old grandson Braden
continue to be successful, we must          March 20th              finished his virtual home
continue to change the way we                                    schooling today, he plopped
think and the way that we                                       down on the couch and spent
approach our work. We need to
                                          Edith Gingerich
                                                                time working on his new book
align our resources at every level          March 24th            which he is calling 'Batman
– club, region and federation – to                              2099.' He uses the app 'Book
focus on the Dream Programs                                    Create' that came pre-loaded on
because we know our Dream                 Kathy Michalak
                                                                 the tablet that his elementary
Programs:                                   March 25th             school provided for virtual
                                                                   learning. This app allows
•   Are evidence-based.
                                                                  Braden to write and record
                                             MARCH
                                                               stories and import graphics and
•   Create a measurable impact           CLUB MEMBERSHIP         photos to design each page.
    on women and girls.                   ANNIVERSARIES           'Batman 2099' already has
                                                                           19 pages!"
•   Address a need in all of our
    communities.

•   Support the work that matters
    to us including ending
    violence against women and
    girls and lifting them out of
    poverty.

•   Define our impact to a larger
    audience.
                                         Carolyn Kegarice       Jana Cook posted: "And it's still
•   Appeal to potential members              3-1-1986             snowing. Nice to have the
    and supporters.
                                                               record breaking freeze out of the
                                                                    way before we move."
•   Attract funders.                     MEMBER MOMENTS
                                          ON FACEBOOK
Working together, following the
same strategy, reaching for the
same goals, focusing on our
common mission and programs,
we can do everything that is
important to us including securing
the future of Soroptimist for
generations to come.

 Taken the Soroptimist International
     of the Americas website:
          soroptimist.org
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Susan Exon posted: "Beautiful                                        Kathy Michalak was tagged in a
 progression of the sunset over                                        post by Byrka Mindreau-Banks.
      the ocean tonight."                                             "Got a tour by Kathy through the
                                                                      beautiful homes built by Habitat
                                                                       for Humanity on Meyers Street.
                                                                      Congratulations on this amazing
                                                                      project. You guys are a jewel to
                                                                              our community."

                                      Paula McCroskey posted a
                                    treasured Facebook memory
Debbie Ferraro was tagged in a      from February 2015: "Thank
memory from 3 years ago posted        You Rich Ramirez and Jose
 by Chelsea Lea Storm-Larsen.     Medina for being such amazing
  "Looking forward to our next     mentors over so many years at
         happy hour."             RCC and even now! It was great
                                   to see you both at the Riverside
                                         Sports Hall of Fame
                                           ceremony today!

                                                                      Michelle Paradise posted: "Early
                                                                        V-Day dinner with friends."

  Edith Gingerich posted: "My
  beautiful granddaughters 10
           years ago."
                                  Annamarie Megrdichian posted:
                                   "Every day we should celebrate
                                      something no matter how
                                      crummy we feel. Today I
                                  celebrate the beauty of the snow
                                     outside (while I am safe and
                                            warm inside)."
                                                                       Kathleen Parra posted: "Yeah,
                                                                        second shot done! Feeling
                                                                                 thankful."

 Charlene Hildebrandt posted:
      "Happy Birthday!"
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Janet Payton posted: "Sending a         Tillie Soliz updated her
  little sunshine to all my snowy             profile picture.
       cold family and friends."

                                                                         Susan Wolf posted: "Great but
                                                                        short visit with Uncle Christopher
                                                                                  over weekend."

                                                                          OTHER MEMBER NEWS

Honorary Member Judy Pekarek
posted: "I bet all my California
  friends are jealous of this
weather in my new hometown."
                                    Carol Allain Speer shared a post
                                    by Soul Alchemy. "NASA has a
                                     poster hanging with bees that
                                    reads: Aerodynamically a bee's
                                      body is not made to fly. The        The members of SI Riverside
                                       good thing is that the bee       send best wishes for a quick and
                                             doesn't know."             full recovery to member Carolyn
                                                                              Kegarice following her
                                                                                  recent surgery.

                                                                               INFORMATION

Linda Robertson was tagged in a
  post by Robbin Staley Banks.
"Our beatiful Traci, how we miss
  you! How could it be 2 years
 since we saw your smile. It will
always be lost in our souls and a
    loneliness in our hearts."
                                      Kacey Sutton-Davidson was
                                      tagged in a post by Fel Mel.
                                    "Galentine's wine tasting night."
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                                           larger fellowship             You know time has a way of
SOROPTIMIST INTERNATIONAL
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                                       in business, for country          you unaware of the passing
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                                                                         and embarking on my new life
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                                                                         seems like eons ago and I
          FACEBOOK                                                       wonder where all those years
 Soroptimist International of the                                        went.
            Americas
                                                                         I know that I lived them all. I
                                                                         have glimpses of how it was
back then and of all my hopes        this I know, that when it's over     •   Going out is good but
and dreams. But, here it is... the   on this earth, it's over and a           coming home is even
winter of my life and it catches     new adventure will begin!                better!
me by surprise.
                                     Yes, I have regrets. There are       •   You forget names but it's
How did I get here so fast?          things I wish I hadn't done and          OK because other people
Where did the years go and           things I should have done, but           forgot they even knew you!
where did my youth go? I             indeed, there are also many
remember well seeing older           things I'm happy to have done.       •   You realize you're never
people through the years and         It's all in a lifetime.                  going to be really good at
thinking that those "older                                                    anything especially golf.
people" were years away from         So, if you're not in your winter
me and that winter was so far        yet, let me remind you, that it      •   The things you used to care
off that I could not fathom it or    will be here faster than you             to do, you no longer care to
imagine fully what it would be       think. So, whatever you would            do but you really do care
like.                                like to accomplish in your life,         that you don't care to do
                                     please do it quickly! Don't put          them anymore.
But, here it is. My friends are      things off too long! Life goes by
retired and getting grey. They       quickly. So, do what you can         •   You sleep better on a
move slower and I see an older       TODAY, as you can never be               lounge chair with the TV
person in myself now. Some are       sure whether this is your winter         blaring than in bed. It's
in better and some worse             or not!                                  called "pre-sleep."
shape than me but I see the
great change. Not like the ones      You have no promise that you         •   You miss the days when
that I remember who were             will see all the seasons of your         everything worked with
young and vibrant but, like me,      life so, LIVE FOR TODAY and say          just an "ON" and "OFF"
their age is beginning to show       all the things that you want             switch.
and we are now those older           your loved ones to remember
folks that we used to see and        and hope that they appreciate        •   You tend to use more 4
never thought we'd be.               and love you for all the things          letter words.
                                     that you have done for them in
Each day now, I find that just       all the years past!!                 •   Now that you can afford
getting a shower is a real target                                             expensive jewelry, it's not
for the day! And taking a nap is     "Life" is a GIFT to you. The way         safe to wear it anywhere.
not a treat anymore, it's            you live your life is your gift to
mandatory! Cause if I don't on       those who come after. Make it        •   You notice everything they
my own free will, I just fall        a fantastic one.                         sell in stores is sleeveless.
asleep where I sit!
                                     Remember these things:
                                                                          •   What used to be freckles
And so, now I enter this new
                                                                              are now liver spots.
season of my life unprepared         •   It is Health that is real
for all the aches and pains and          Wealth and not pieces of
                                                                          •   Everybody whispers.
the loss of strength and ability         gold and silver.
to go and do things that I wish I
                                                                          •   You have 3 sizes of clothes
had done but never did!              •   Your kids are becoming you
                                                                              in your closet, two of which
                                         but your grandchildren are
                                                                              you will never wear.
But at least I know, that though         perfect!
the winter has come and I'm
not sure how long it will last,
But "Old" is good in some
things:

Old Songs, old movies and best
of all, our dear OLD FRIENDS!

Stay well, "OLD FRIEND!"
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