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Pg 2: New Year, New Perspective on Life
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What are Your
Resolutions this Year?
By Sue McQuinn

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          ow, it’s a new       I do not make                  I do make resolutions,           I made a resolution
          year and time        resolutions. Instead, for      but not every year. I            when I was 10 years
          to make a            me, every day is a chance      believe it is important to       old. I wanted to live long
resolution. Resolutions        to be introspective of my      always try to be a better        enough to see the year
ranked nationally in order     life and change and be         person. ~D.                      2020. Why 2020? The year
of popularity are: losing      smarter. ~K.                                                    struck me as significant
weight, eating healthier,                                                                      because I am a twin and
                                                              I have made resolutions
learning a new skill or                                                                        20/20 vision. ~F.
hobby, and spending time on     I have a resolution           in the past, when I was
our personal wellbeing. In a    to experience more            young and stupid and
                                intimacy this year.           thought they would work.         I am always aware of my
2018 National Survey, 44%
                               ~Anon.                         Now I have resolutions           resolutions and make
of people surveyed said they
                                                              to finish projects, not          them every year. They
make resolutions.
                                                              lose my temper and               are always fresh, new
  Alyssa Santos, our new       I used to make
Active Aging Program                                          learn Italian. I have            and health related. I
                               resolutions, but not
Supervisor, and I polled                                      fulfilled one of these. ~D.      keep my resolutions
                               anymore. It was always
some of our members about                                                                      because I am objective-
                               the same issues year                                            driven. ~Anon.
the idea of New Year’s         after year and then            “Yes, but I can’t tell you
Resolutions. The results       failure. Instead, I have       about them!” ~Anon.             Another tradition some
were not quite what we         an affirmation to accept       (said with a smile)           people observe on New
expected! Some folks even
                               myself the way I am. For                                     Year’s Eve is the Burning
said they have discontinued
                               13 years, I have believed      My family is very close       Bowl Ceremony. This is
making resolutions.
                               in daily prayer and            and it is easy to get         a ritual to release old
  Here are some thoughts
                               meditation. ~A.                caught up in their            resentments by writing
from our members:
                                                              situations. I am making       them down on a piece of
                                                              a resolution to do more       paper and burning the
   I don’t make resolutions,   I do make resolutions, but
                                                              for myself. ~Anon.            paper, so you can enter
   because at my age, 95,      not on New Year’s Eve. I

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                                                                                            the New Year with a fresh
   the doctor says I can do    make resolutions on my
                                                                                            perspective and a desire to
   whatever I want. ~A.        birthday, as it is a time of   What’s the point, it’s all
                                                                                            start anew.
                               reflection for me. I base my   metaphysical! ~Anon.
                                                                                              One member was putting
                               resolutions and changes
   I don’t want to grow; my                                                                 her marriage behind her
   resolution is to work on    on my life and what I need      The only resolution I        and decided to hold her own
   not shrinking. ~J.          to work on. ~A.                 made is over eighty          Burning Bowl ceremony in a
                                                              years ago, I resolved to      restaurant in San Francisco.
   I don’t make resolutions.   I used to make                  have a warm bottle every     She rolled up the paper
   I feel resolutions are      resolutions, but it was         day. PS: My mother was       and it didn’t burn, but was
   temporary. I have goals     always to lose weight.          pregnant with me when        instead buried in the wax
   I work on all year, never   The unfortunate part            she crossed the Golden       of the candle. It took one
   giving up until I achieve   was I could never keep          Gate Bridge on the           month to burn the piece of
   them. I am continually      them because, if I see          second day it was open.      paper, she said with a laugh.
   planning new goals. ~E.     food I eat it! ~J.             ~Anon.                          Have a safe and happy 2019!           3
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Whistlestop is Your                                                                                        NUTRITION
                                                                                                                                                       BITES
                                            Resolution One-Stop Shop                                                                                   By Sophia Osotio
                                                                                                                                                       Nutrition Program Coordinator

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                                                       hat are your          make some new social                  it can feel overwhelming
                                                       resolutions for       connections!                          for some. Whistlestop can
                                                       2019? Whistlestop                                           help! At Whistlestop, you
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                                            everyone! See pages 5-8 or       New                                   how to use an iPad or other
                                            visit whistlestop.org for more                                         tablet, manage your photos,
                                                                             Whistlestop offers a variety
                                            details on classes, workshops                                          iPhone basics, how to use
                                                                             of classes, workshops,
                                            and special events.                                                    apps, and much more. Check
                                                                             hands on crafts and mental
                                                                             enrichment. You could learn           each issue of the Express
                                            I Resolve To:                    a new language, take up               for that month’s technology
                                                                             Ukulele, perfect your ping            classes. Don’t forget, we also
                                            Get Fit                          pong game, or maybe learn             host an Open Lab every              Do you have a small
                                            Whistlestop offers different     how to write your life story!         Monday and Wednesday                appetite, but know that
                                            levels of fitness classes        Take a look at pages 5-8 or           from 10am to Noon where             you need to eat more?
                                            including Zumba, Matter          come in and see what we               volunteers answer your              ‘Superfoods’ like berries,
                                            of Balance, Age Reversing        have to offer.                        technology questions for free.      nuts, leafy greens, and
                                            Essentrics, Tai Chi and                                                                                    legumes are packed with
                                            Whistlesizers.                   Be More Present                       Give Back                           nutrients to get you the
                                                                                                                                                       most bang for your buck!
                                                                             Meditation is known to                Many older adults find that
                                            Eat Healthy                      decrease stress and improve           giving back is the most
                                                                                                                                                       Try out this easy recipe for
                                                                                                                                                       a quick lunch or snack.
                                            Whistlestop has several          your overall sense of                 rewarding thing they do to
                                            ongoing Nutrition Programs       tranquility, serenity, and            enrich their lives. This year,
                                            as well as low-cost, healthy     harmony. Tai Chi can train            consider giving back to your
                                                                                                                                                       Quinoa Black
                                            lunches served daily in the      the body while refining the           community by volunteering at        Bean Salad
                                            Jackson Café and a monthly       spirit and fostering a sense          Whistlestop! Whatever your
                                            Community Breakfast. The                                                                                   Cook 1/3 cup quinoa in
                                                                             of peace in our lives. Both           interests, skills or schedule,
                                            Brown Bag Pantry and                                                                                       1 cup water. Allow to cool
                                                                             classes welcome first-timers!         we know we have a volunteer
                                            Rollin’ Root Mobile Farmers                                                                                slightly.
                                                                                                                   opportunity that will be
                                            Market provide free or low-      Tackle Technology                     perfect for you. Just call Laurie   In a large bowl, combine
                                            cost fresh food and produce,                                           Vermont, or email volunteer@        1 tsp olive oil, 4 tsp lime
                                                                             Technology can be a great
                                            and our monthly Nutrition                                                                                  juice, ¼ tsp cumin, ¼ tsp
                                                                             way to stay connected, but            whistlestop.org.
                                            Bites workshops cover a                                                                                    coriander, ¼ tsp cilantro
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                                            variety of nutrition topics.                                                                               and 2 tbsp scallions.

                                            Meet New People                   A NEW LOOK FOR A NEW YEAR                                                Stir in a 15 oz can of
                                                                              You may notice that things look a little bit different on page           black beans (rinsed and
                                            Whistlestop’s Active Aging
                                                                              5. We want it to be easy for you to find out what’s going on             drained), 2 cups of diced
                                            Center is the perfect place to
                                                                              each month at our Active Aging Center, so we’re making some              tomatoes, 1 cup diced bell
                                            meet new people! In addition
                                                                              changes to our format for listing classes, workshops and events.         peppers, and ½ cup diced
                                            to our regular social groups,
                                                                              We hope you love it! Listings are now color coded, and you can           red onion.
                                            there is always someone to
                                                                              remove the center section (pages 5-8) to keep as your Go-To
                                            talk to in our lounges or in                                                                               Add the cooled quinoa.
                                                                              resource about what’s happening each month at Whistlestop.
                                            the Jackson Café. Attending
                                            a class or workshop is also       Continue to visit whistlestop.org/classes/calendar for a full list of    Season with salt and
                                            a great way to meet new           classes, and keep an eye out for further changes designed to make        pepper to taste.
                                            people who have similar           your reading easier in the months to come. Happy New Year!
                                            interests. Come on down                                                                                    Serve cold.
       4                                    to 930 Tamalpais Ave. and
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HAPPENINGS@WHISTLESTOP JANUARY
WEEKLYACTIVITIES                                                                                            SPECIAL
                                                                                                                                For a full list of classes, visit
                                                                                                                                 whistlestop.org/classes/
         FOOD            COMPUTER                 EXERCISE                LANGUAGE                MISC      EVENTS &             calendar or call
                                                                                                            WORKSHOPS
                                                                                                                                415-456-9062, ext. 100
              TIME               CLASS                                    INFO                     FEE
              9:45AM-10:45AM     Zumba Gold*                              Drop-in                   $6/8
                                                                                                           Active Aging Center Holiday Closures
 MONDAYS

              10:00AM–NOON       Computer Lab                             Drop-in                   free
                                                                                                           Mon, Dec 31: Closing at 3pm
                10:30AM-NOON     German Social Group                      Drop-in                   free   Tues, Jan 1: Closed
                10:30AM-NOON     Persian Social Group                     Drop-in                   free   Mon, Jan 21: Closed
                 11:00AM-NOON    Tai Chi                                  Drop-in                  $8/10
               12:30PM-1:45PM    Russian Social Group                     Drop-in                   free
                                                                                                           Intro to Basics of Writing Your Life Story
                                                                                                           Thurs, Jan 3; 3-4:45pm; No fee; Registration required;
                  9:30–10:30AM   Whistlesizers*                           Drop-in                   $4/5
                                                                                                           Maximum 12
              10:00AM–NOON       Mah-Jongg                                Drop-in                   free
 TUESDAYS

                                                                                                           Interested in writing your Life Stories? Meet the group leader
              11:30AM–12:30PM    French All Levels* Resumes 1/15          Drop-in                   $3/5   and learn about the Birren Guided Autobiography method.
                1:00PM-2:00PM    French Social Group                      Drop-in                          Decide if you want to join the Basic Life Story Workshop Part 1,
               1:00PM–3:00PM     Spanish 2*                               Drop-in                   $3/5   which begins Jan 10. time4yourstories.com.
               3:00PM-4:00PM     Spanish 1*                               Drop-in                   $3/5
                                                                                                           Basic Life Story Writing 4-week series, Part 1
               3:00PM-4:00PM     Too Much Stuff?                          Register                  free   Jan 10, 17, 24 & 31; 3-4:45pm; $40 /50, plus $10 textbook
              10:00AM–NOON       Computer Lab                             Drop-in                   free   fee to facilitator first day of class
 WEDNESDAYS

              9:30AM-12:30PM     Monthly Food Box for Seniors 1/16        Register                  free   The Basic Life Story Writing 4-week workshop will get you
                10:30AM-NOON     Persian Social Group                     Drop-in                   free   started writing your memoir. This course uses universal
               11:15AM-12:15PM   Beginner Ukulele* (6 weeks)              Register                $40/45   themes and sensitizing questions to help you rediscover
                                                                                                           memories and stories you may have forgotten. Weekly
               12:30PM-1:30PM    Inter. Ukulele* (6 weeks)                Register                $40/45
                                                                                                           writing assignments will be done at home. Come to the free
               2:00PM-3:00PM     The Art of Hula* (4 weeks) 1/9-1/30      Register                $32/36   introductory meeting on January 3 to find out more or go to
               3:00PM-4:00PM     Capoeira*                                Drop-in                  $8/10   time4yourstories.com. No refunds for missed sessions.
              9:00AM-10:00AM     Rollin’ Root Farmers Market              Drop-in
                                                                                                           Aging in Place with Grace
 THURSDAYS

              9:30AM-10:30AM     Zumba Gold*                              Drop-in                $6/8
                                                                                                           Thurs, Jan 3; 10-11am; No fee; Drop-in
                 11:00AM-NOON    Whistlesizers*                           Drop-in                $4/5
                                                                                                           The Marin County Commission on Aging will host Aging in Place
               12:30PM-1:30PM    Italian 3*                               Register             $30/35      with Grace from 10-11am. Participants can discuss plans for the

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                1:00PM-2:00PM    Italian Study Group                      Drop-in                $2/4      future, including matters of housing, finance and health care
               1:00PM–2:30PM     Adv. Write Your Life Stories             Prerequisite required$20/30      with a presentation by Aging and Adult Services on community
               2:00PM-3:00PM     Italian 2*                               Register             $30/35      resources and 457-INFO. The Marin County Commission on
              9:00AM-10:00AM     Community Breakfast 1/4                  Drop-in                $3/6      Aging will conduct its monthly business meeting from 11am-Noon.
                9:15AM-10:15AM   Age Reversing Essentrics Starting 1/11                          $6/8      Older Adults Housing Info Session
                10:30AM-NOON     CalFresh 1/4 & 1/18                      Reg. 415-697-7411       free     Tues, Jan 8; 11am-Noon; No fee; Registration suggested:
 FRIDAYS

                10:30AM-NOON     BrightStar Health Ck 1/11 & 1/25         Drop-in                 free     415-456-9068
                11:00AM–NOON     Brown Bag Pantry                         Register at 11:30 am    free     Jen Arent, director of Covia’s Home Match Marin, will discuss
                1:30PM-3:00PM    Spanish Social Group                     Drop-in                 free     older adult housing options in Marin. Information about
                                                                                                           Covia’s free, Home Match Marin’s comprehensive home
              2:00PM–4:00PM      Ping-Pong                                Drop-in                $2/4
                                                                                                           sharing services to older adults and the Marin Housing
               3:00PM-4:00PM     Yoga with Kelly                          Drop-in                $3/5
                                                                                                           Authority’s subsidized and low-cost housing will be shared.
*These classes will not occur on December 31-January 4; resuming week of January 7.
 AAC closed Jan. 21 for MLK Day.                                                                                                                 CONTINUED ON PAGE 6 >                5
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< CONTINUED FROM PAGE 5                                                          retirement funding strategy. Mary-Alice Cardenas, licensed HECM specialist
                                                                                                                             with Reverse Mortgage Funding LLC, and David Raub, Founding Advisor,
                                            Nutrition Bites Workshop                                                         Raub-Rock Capital Management and estate planning attorney and
                                            Thurs, Jan 10 & Jan 24; 3-4 pm; No fee; Registration required                    specialist in reverse mortgages, will bring an enlightening presentation.
                                            Join Sophia Osotio, Whistlestop’s Nutrition Program Coordinator, and             Sponsored by Valley Memorial Park.
                                            learn how to improve your health by modifying your diet. Discussion
                                            topics may include: pre-diabetes, hypertension, and weight loss.                 ESL Starting Week of Feb 4 through May 8
                                                                                                                             Monday and Wednesdays; 2-3:30pm; Sign up today and get a $5 early
                                            Community Breakfast                                                              bird discount; without discount $40/45
                                            Fri, Jan 4; 9-10am; $3/6; Drop-in                                                We will be offering levels 100, 150 and 250.
                                            Stop by and enjoy our tasty, hot breakfast buffet.

                                            Line Dancing with Dixie James                                                                            NEW CLASSES FOR 2019
                                            Mon, Jan 14, 28; 2-3pm; $5/7 each date; Registration required
                                            Don’t worry if you have two left feet – everyone is welcome to join the line-
                                            up for this 2-session dance party. Dixie James is your guide to all the line         SNEAK              Age Reversing Essentrics NEW TIME
                                            dance choreography you’ll need to know, including the Electric Glide and
                                            more. Wear your best western attire; bring a friend. The more the merrier!
                                                                                                                                 PEEK               Fridays starting Jan 11; 9:15-10:15am; $6/8; Drop-in
                                                                                                                                                    Try this slow-paced class with relaxed
                                                                                                                                                  movement to improve your mobility, strength and
                                            Rockin’ in the New Year featuring Jonny Darlin’                                                     balance. Instructor: Elizabeth Lynn
                                            Thurs, Jan 10, 11:30am-1:30pm, Lunch: Noon-1pm; Jackson Café;
                                            Advanced ticket purchase suggested $10                                           Tai Chi NEW TIME
                                            To kick off the New Year, join us for a Rockin’ Party featuring Jonny Darlin’!   Mon, 11am-Noon $8/10; Drop-in
                                            Special menu to be served. Limited number of tickets available day of event.     No break during the holidays; class will be held Mon, Dec 31. Try
                                                                                                                             something new. David Mac Lam will teach Tai Chi over the holidays.
                                            Make Valentine’s Day Cards for Homebound Older
                                            Adults/ Meals on Wheels                                                          Capoeira NEW with Abada Capoeira Marin
                                            Thurs; Jan 17; 10am-Noon; No fee; Register                                       Starting Wed, Jan 9; 3-4pm; $8/10; Registration suggested
                                            Join the fun and kick off your Valentine’s Day celebrating by volunteering       Capoeira begins with a gentle warm-up, followed by a series of acrobatic,
                                            to join us to create cards for homebound older adults. We have all the           martial art movements, for individuals and partners, building strength,
                                            supplies. Lynn will provide guidance and you provide the creativity.             balance and agility. These movements are led by the rhythm on the
                                                                                                                             berimbau, Capoeira’s lead instrument.
                                            Healthy Aging Workshop
                                            Thurs, Jan 17; 12:30-2pm; No fee; Registration required                          A Touch of Hula
                                            Are you interested in evaluating and improving your health? Join Wells           Beginning Hula NEW, Wed, Jan 9-30; 2-3pm; $32/36; Registration
                                            Whitney, Board Member of the Buck Institute, for a presentation of his           Charlotte Kobayashi has been dancing for more than 50 years! She will
                                            healthy aging scorecard. Dr. Whitney will help you evaluate and identify         teach a beginning Hula Class where you will learn the history, evolution and
                                            the areas where you can improve your health and your life.                       appreciation of Hula with five basic steps and two modern hula dances.

                                            CarePool Information Session with Kat Filley
                                            Tues, Jan 22; 2-3pm; No fee required; Registration suggested
                                            Have you resolved to volunteer in the New Year? Learn all about Whistlestop’s                           CalFresh (eligibility & application
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                                            CarePool Program, where volunteer drivers take clients to medical                   HIGHLIGHTED
                                                                                                                                SUPPORT             assistance)
                                            appointments and grocery shopping, developing lasting relationships.
                                                                                                                                SERVICES           Fri, Jan 4 & 18; 10am-Noon; No fee; Call
                                            My Life, My Choices: Advance Care Directives                                                           CalFresh/SF Marin Food Bank for assistance:
                                            Tues, Jan 15 or 29; 11am; No Fee                                                                     415-697-7411
                                            Speaker: Teresa Tooker, Provider Relations Liaison, Hospice by the Bay                             The Supplemental Nutritional Assistance Program,
                                            The New Year is a great time to make preparations for the future. Learn
                                            about advance care directives from Hospice by the Bay. If you can’t speak
                                            for yourself, an advance care directive will let your loved ones know your
                                            wishes. Receive a free Advance Care Planning packet with forms, articles,              WE APPRECIATE ALL THE WARM WISHES
                                            and worksheets. Register ahead: 415-456-9062, ext. 100.                               OUR VOLUNTEER HOLIDAY CARD CREATORS
                                                                                                                                        SENT TO OUR HOMEBOUND
                                            Home Equity Conversion Mortgage/Reverse Mortgages                                     MEALS ON WHEELS AND NOURISH CLIENTS
                                            Wed, Jan 30; 10-11:15am; No Fee                                                               THIS HOLIDAY SEASON!
                                            Learn how HECMs and reverse mortgages can be a part of a sound
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CalFresh, provides qualified applicants with an EBT card to use at
participating grocery stores and Farmers Markets.

SF-Marin Food Bank’s Monthly Food Box
Jan 16; 9:30am-12:30pm; Drop-in
The SF-Marin Food Bank operates the Supplemental Food Program,
providing a monthly box of quality U.S. Dept. of Agriculture food to low
income older adults. To register, bring ID, proof of income, and proof of
residency, and one of the Food Bank specialists will determine your eligibility.

Bi-Weekly Blood Pressure, Cholesterol Screenings, and
Medication Reviews
Fri, Jan 11 & Jan 25; 10:30am-Noon; No fee
Bi-weekly blood pressure checks, cholesterol screenings, and
medication reviews will be offered by BrightStar Care, a local agency
providing home care, caregivers, and medical staffing solutions to
families and businesses in Marin.

Free Legal Consultation
Thurs, by appointment only; call 415-459-6700
Legal Aid of Marin provides free 30-minute legal consultations for Marin
County residents who are 60+. Local volunteer lawyers offer general
advice, explain legal options and rights, and recommend referrals to
attorneys who have expertise in your particular area of concern.

Covia’s Social Call Program (NEW)
Are you an older adult or a homebound or disabled person who lives
alone? Register today for a free, reassuring call three mornings a week.
Someone will call to check in with you. Sign up: 877-797-7299.

  CREATE VALENTINE’S DAY CARDS
  FOR OUR HOMEBOUND MEALS ON WHEELS
  AND MEALS OF MARIN CLIENTS

  All cards should be handmade, in unsealed
  envelopes addressed to: Dear Neighbor/Friend.
  Cards are due on Monday, January 29th

  Whistlestop, 930 Tamalpais Ave., San Rafael

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  Questions, contact Alyssa; asantos@whistlestop.org
                                                                                                        2018

   MARIN COUNTY COMMISSION ON
   AGING MONTHLY MEETING
         WHEN: Thurs, Jan. 3, 10am – 12:30pm
        WHERE: Whistlestop Active Aging Center
                                                                                     Schedule a Tour!
          TOPIC: Life Care Planning
                                                                                   Contact: Cheri Drees
      SPEAKER: Jodi Timms, Commissioner, and Chloe Cook,                            415.383.2741 x223
                   Aging & Adult Services                                                                      EQUAL HOUSING
                                                                                                               OPPORTUNITY
                                                                                                               SNF# 010000390
                                                                                                               RCFE# 210102866

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PRE-REGISTRATION AND
                                                     Trusted providers of compassionate                                                   COMPUTER             PAYMENT REQUIRED: 415-456-9062
                                                          in-home care for seniors.                                                        CLASSES
                                                                          licensed • bonded • insured
                                                                                                                                          JAN & FEB             NEW! Learn to Make a Photobook
                                                                                                                                            2018                Tuesday, Jan 8, 10am-Noon (1 class)
                                                                                                                                                               Fee: $35 Maximum 8 people
                                                                                                                                                            Learn easy ways to store, organize and arrange
                                                                                                                                       your photos into books or prints to preserve your memories in fun and
                                                                                                                                       creative ways. Make your favorites into a permanent keepsake book.
                                                                                                                                       You’ll get hands-on practice using photo book software and learn tips
                                                                                                                                       for selecting photos, layout techniques, and simple photo editing. You
                                                                                                                                       will leave this class with several pages of your book. Bring your laptop to
                                                                                                                                       class (Windows or Mac) or use one of the computers we have. Bring your
                                                     •   Light Housekeeping & Laundry     • Bed-bound Assistance                       photos on a thumb drive. This is a great follow up to the Managing Your
                                                     •   Meal Preparation & Clean Up      • Protective Supervision for those           Photos class (though not a prerequisite.)
                                                     •   Medication Reminders               with Impaired Judgment
                                                     •   Personal Care • Respite Care     • Transportation & Errand Services
                                                     •   Wardrobe, Dressing Assistance    • Companionship, Conversation                Android Basics 2: Maps, Photos, Apps & More
                                                     •   Help with Daily Grooming         • Meal Planning, Grocery Shopping            Tuesdays, Jan 15 & 22, 10am-Noon (2 classes)
                                                     •   Bathing & Toileting Assistance   • Help with Pets
                                                     •   Help with Ambulation               And much, much more…                       Fee: $48 Maximum 8 people
                                                                                                                                       This course will review some of the basics of using your device and also
                                                                                                                                       show you some of the apps that come built in. Get the most out of your
                                                                                                                                       built-in apps including Photo editing, storing and retrieving photos, Calendar,
                                                                                                                                       E-mail, Texting, Maps/GPS, and more! Learn the steps to find and install new
                                                          (707) 931-4280 • (415) 599-4333                                              apps, and how to update, delete and organize your apps for easy access.
                                                                        northbay.homewellseniorcare.com
                                                                                                                                       (For all Android devices including Samsung, LG, Motorola, Nokia)

                                                                                                                                       iPad/iPhone Basics 2: Essential Built-in Applications
                                                                                                                                       Tuesdays, Feb 5 & Feb 12, 10am-Noon (2 classes)
                                                                                                                                       Fee: $48 Maximum 8 people
                                                                                                                                       Review basics and learn about built-in apps including photo editing,
                                                                                                                                       iCloud, Calendar, Siri, E-mail, Texting, FaceTime and more! Please bring
                                                                                                                                       your fully charged device, Apple ID and Apple password to class. (For
                                                                                                                                       Apple devices only)

                                            A Licensed Homecare Agency                                                                 ONGOING Open Lab
                                                             offering                                                                  No Fee | Every Monday and Wednesday, 10am-Noon
                                               Home Care Aide Services:                                                                Use our Apple and PC computers to access the Internet. Volunteers
                                              Agency is employer; insured, bonded,                  Celebrating 20 years of service    are available for advice on problems with your laptops and tablets and
                                               Employees registered with the state                                                     software applications.
                                              Geriatric Care Management:                  Dignity • Respect • Personal Care • Safety
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                                               RN resource specialist and advocate               All services managed by owner
                                                  for seniors and their families            Nancy Mack, RN, PHN, GCM
                                                                                                                                          Getting Technology Advice from
                                                                                                                                          a 7 year old?
                                                                                                                                          You don’t have to wait for
                                                                                                                                          your grandchild to teach
                                                                                                                                          you how to use your
                                                                                                                                          computer, tablet or smart
                                                                                                                                          phone. We have volunteers
                                            Entrees from $6-$10                                                                           available each Monday and
                                            Open to the public for lunch every weekday!                                                   Wednesday from 10am-Noon
                                            Located in Whistlestop Active Aging Center.                                                   in our Open Computer Lab.
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Did                                                                                                      • If you have a resolution to
                                                                                                           learn a language, we teach
                                                                                                           English, French, Italian and

you
                                                                                                           Spanish.

                                                                                                         • Our Active Aging Center
                                                                                                           has a FREE open

know?
                                                                                                           computer lab on Mondays
                                                                                                           and Wednesdays from
                                                                                                           10am to noon.

                                                                                                         • In 2018, Whistlestop

M
                                                                                                           touched the lives of
         any folks tell us               the 2nd and 4th Friday        • Whistlestop membership
         they don’t know                                                 is only $20 per year and          14,307 older adults and
                                         of each month at 10:30am,
         all of the things               in partnership with             provides discounts on             people with disabilities in
we do here at Whistlestop,               BrightStar Care.                classes and lunches at the        our community.
so we thought we’d take an                                               Jackson Café.
opportunity to share! Did             • We host over 140 events                                          • We offer free rides for
you know …                              at our Active Aging            • In a recent survey,               older adults to the grocery
                                        Center every month.              Whistlestop clients               store and to medical
• We have one member who                                                 reported feeling                  appointments through our
  is 110 years young!                 • The Jackson Café serves          connected, independent,
                                                                                                           CarePool program.
                                        seafood every Friday and         engaged, uplifted, hopeful,
• 287 Whistlestop                       members pay only $6.             empowered, respected,           • Whistlestop has been
  volunteers provided                                                    supported and loved.              building connections and
  22,179 hours of service to          • Our Ukulele teacher, Sandy
                                        Bailey, has performed at       • You can view the Express          changing lives for over
  Whistlestop last year.
                                        Carnegie Hall.                   online, pick it up in the         64 years!
• Our Brown Bag Pantry,                                                  Pac Sun, subscribe to a
  in partnership with the             • We host Financial                free email copy, or pay $10     At Whistlestop, we believe
  SF Marin Food Bank,                   Presentations by subject         to have it mailed to your       that you and I share in
  distributes food to over              matter experts 10 months         home each month.                the responsibility to pay
  110 clients weekly. Last              out of the year.                                                 it forward so that every
  year, we distributed                                                 • You can rent out rooms
                                      • One of our exercise classes                                      member of our community
  156,618 pounds of food.                                                for your next event,
                                        is the Fountain of Youth.        meeting, or social              can thrive. There is
• Whistlestop offers no                 Can you guess which              gathering in our Active         something for everyone
  cost blood pressure and               one? (Hint: the class has        Aging Center or Jackson         here and we can’t wait to

                                                                                                                                          JA N UA RY 2 019 WH IS TLES TO P E XPRESS
  cholesterol screenings on             whistle in its name).            Café at reasonable rates.       have you join us!

 THANK YOU!                                                             THANKSGIVING LUNCH SPONSORS
  A Volunteer Appreciation Holiday
  Tea Party for 80 Whistlestop                                          A beautiful Thanksgiving lunch for 120 guests was made
  volunteers was held at the Jackson                                    possible thanks to our generous sponsors:
  Café on November 29. This year,
  287 volunteers gave over 22,179                                       San Rafael Host Lions Club
  hours of time equating to $554,480                                    Rotary Club of Tiburon-Belvedere
  if we had to pay staff for these services. Thank you to A Piece of    Mission San Rafael Rotary
  Cake and Confections who made the delicious food for this event.
  The coffee and teas were donated by Equator Coffee and Tea.           A special thank you to Chef Luis and his staff!
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GETTING AROUND
                                             Assisted                                                                                              occasionally volunteering
                                               Living                                                                                              at the greeter desk in the
                                                                                                                                                   lounge. “I meet visitors to
                                            at its Best!                                                                                           Whistlestop who are asking
                                                                                                                                                   for assistance. I answer their
                                             ♥ 24 Hour Elder Care ♥                                                                                questions and I feel useful.”
                                                                                                                                                     Larry had a highly
                                                Family Environment
                                                   2 blocks from
                                                                                                                                                   successful career as a
                                               Downtown San Anselmo                                                                                designer of bridges and
                                            46 Mariposa Ave. San Anselmo                                                                           tunnels. “The Chesapeake
                                                                                                                                                   Bay Bridge Tunnel kept me
                                                                                                                                                   busy for four years in the
                                              Juanita says
                                                                                                                                                   1950s.” He retired from
                                            “WE CARE”                                                                                              the Norfolk Redevelopment
                                                 The most
                                              famous duck in                                                                                       Housing Authority at the
                                               San Anselmo!
                                                                                                                                                   age of 65. He then went to
                                                                                                                                                   work for Clark-Nexson, a
                                              Visit us today for a tour!                                                                           consulting firm, and retired
                                                 Call 415.755.0087                                                                                 from there 10 years later.
                                              www.bellogardens.com                                                                                   Larry reads the New
                                                                                                                                                   York Times every day and
                                                                                                                                                   the New Yorker magazine
                                                                                                                                                   weekly, both from cover to
                                                                                                                                                   cover. Alison says, “As an
                                                                                                                                                   engineer, he is meticulous.
                                                                               Larry and Alison at her wedding in 1984 at a private home high      He has this little book
                                                                               in the hills of San Anselmo.                                        where he writes everything
                                                                                                                                                   in perfect little cursive
                                                                                                                                                   handwriting. He is such a
                                                               no gas...
                                                               all electric
                                                               no noise...
                                                                               Whistlestop                                                         sweetheart.”
                                                                                                                                                     “Whistlestop has
                                                               quiet power
                                                                no
                                                                 license,
                                                                               Transportation Helps                                                introduced me to people
                                                                                                                                                   with whom I can be friends,”
                                                                                                                                                   he says. He knows every

                                                                               Expand His World
                                                                 insurance,
                                                                 maintenance                                                                       driver by name.
                                                                                                                                                     Alison adds, “Whistlestop
                                                                                                                                                   has been his means of
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                                                                               By John Bowman                                                      getting out into the world
                                                                                                                                                   and being with people.

                                                                               F
                                                                                       or Larry Kreshin,           in seven years ago, Alison’s    My father has progressive
                                                                                       Whistlestop’s buses         children, Leah and Levi, also   cognitive decline and the
                                                                                       provide more than an        lived there. Now they are       verbal interaction and
                                                                               occasional ride. “Whistlestop       both in New York City, Levi     human touch helps him to
                                                                               is a lifeline to me,” he says.                                      stay cognitively connected.”
                                                                                                                   as a sophomore at Columbia
                                              Sales, Service,                    Larry, 86, lives with his         University and Leah as a high
                                                                                                                                                     Alison believes older
                                                                                                                                                   adults are not touched
                                            Repairs, & Rentals                 daughter, Alison Kreshin,           school teacher in Manhattan.    enough. “At Whistlestop he
                                                                               and her husband in their              Larry uses the Whistlestop
                                             415.457.1664                      home in Larkspur. Alison            bus to go to Whistlestop
                                                                                                                                                   gets a pat on the back and
                                                                                                                                                   his hand is held. People
                                                                               notes that she and her father       most Wednesdays and             talk with him. He enjoys
                                              1281 Anderson Dr.,
                                                                               are the only Kreshins in the        has lunch in the Jackson        meeting with his friends in
10
                                               Ste. F, San Rafael              U.S. When Larry first moved         Café. He also can be seen       his weekly group.”
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                                                                 Quality Assured and Proven.
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                                                      to win the prestigious Best of Homecare award for our
                                                      3rd consecutive year from Home Care Pulse, a national Quality
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                                                      care providers across many areas, including compassion, work ethic,
                                                                         training and communication.

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DATE Thursday, January 10, 2019                                                                      From left to right: Joe
                                                                                                     O’Hehir, Whistlestop;
                                                                                                     Lorena Garbarino, Bright
TIME 3:00pm – 4:30pm                              Whistlestop                                        Star Care; Carolyn Tucker,
                                                                                                     HomeWell SeniorCare;
                                                  4.3438 w x 4.8438 h
LOCATION 930 Tamalpais Ave, San Rafael                                                               Andrea Nakagaki, Visiting
                                                  6-22-15                                            Angels; Carol Parks, Alegre
                                                                                                     Home Care; Kirsten Stew-
                                                                                                     art, HiredHands; Jessica
Volunteer positions include:                                                                         Price, Right at Home; Car-
                                                                                                     oline Glassell, Marin Home
                                                  Expore Creative 707-938-9960
• CarePool volunteer drivers                                                                         Care; Krystian Zebrows-
                                                                                                     ki,Visiting Angels; Kelley
• Meals on Wheels drivers                                                                            Mottola, Kindred at Home.

• Jackson Café lunch servers & cashiers
• General office help and Parking Services        Thank You Marin

                                                                                                                                   JA N UA RY 2 019 WH IS TLES TO P E XPRESS
• Home Delivered Grocery Shoppers
  (in partnership with Covia)
                                                  Home Care Association!
                                                  W
                                                             e extend our               of MHCA joined Whistlestop
For more information contact:                                heartfelt thanks to        CEO Joe O’Hehir for a
Laurie Vermont, Volunteer Program Manager                    the Marin Home             presentation and discussion
                                                  Care Association (MHCA) for           about the challenges faced by
Phone: 415-456-9067 or
                                                  their informative visit and           Marin’s aging demographic
Email: volunteer@whistlestop.org                  generous donation of $1,750!          when it comes to home care
                                                  MCHA helps older adults in            and presented a donation to
                                                  Marin find the right home             support Whistlestop’s home
       930 Tamalpais Ave., San Rafael, CA 94901   care provider, often a daunting       delivered meals program,
       415-456-9062                               task. Recently, MHCA                  Whistlestop Nourish. We value
                                                  President and Founder Lorena          the discussion and are grateful
                                                  Garbarino and other members           for this generous donation!
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Whistlestop
                                                      E PRESS
                                            Marin Senior Coordinating Council
                                            930 Tamalpais Avenue
                                            San Rafael, CA 94901-3325

                                                                  The Benefits of
                                                                  Reverse Mortgages
                                                                  Serena D’Arcy-Fisher, CFRE                                                WHISTLESTOP TO
                                                                                                                                            BENEFIT FROM

                                            I
                                                f you are thinking of retiring or      current with property taxes, insurance,
                                                are retired and trying to figure out   maintenance and potential HOA fees),                 SUBARU’S SHARE
                                                how you can afford to stay in your     the loan does not have to be repaid until            THE LOVE EVENT!
                                            own home, you may want to consider a       you pass away, sell the home, or move out.
                                            reverse mortgage. It’s not for everyone,      Want to learn more about reverse                  From November 16 through
                                            but there are many advantages to           mortgages and how they can be a part                 January 2, 2019, anyone who
                                            a reverse mortgage with even more          of a sound retirement funding strategy?              buys or leases a new Subaru
                                            options to qualify now.                    Please join Mary-Alice Cardenas, a                   vehicle from Marin Subaru
                                              A Home Equity Conversion Mortgage        licensed HECM specialist with Reverse                can select Whistlestop as
                                            (HECM) is a type of reverse mortgage,      Mortgage Funding LLC, and David Raub,                the Home Town Charity to
                                            insured by the Federal Housing             Founding Advisor of Rock-Raub Capital                receive a $250 donation.
                                            Administration (FHA) with the intention    Management, an estate planning attorney              Alternatively, they can
                                            of helping homeowners 62 and over          and a reverse mortgage specialist, for a             select Meals on Wheels
                                                                                       presentation on Wednesday, January 30
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                                            access home equity so they can live in                                                          America, and Whistlestop
                                            their homes longer with an improved        from 10-11:15am at Whistlestop.                      will receive a portion of the
                                            quality of life. A HECM can extend one’s      This free presentation is part of the             $250 donated by Subaru of
                                            retirement income and Social Security      monthly estate planning series generously
                                                                                                                                            America. We are grateful to
                                            benefits, it provides funds for home       sponsored by Valley Memorial Park
                                                                                                                                            Ed Rossi and his team for
                                            repairs or upgrades, it increases cash     Cemetery and Funeral Home in Novato.
                                                                                                                                            their continued support of
                                            flow to pay monthly bills and out of       Attendees will receive an estate planning
                                                                                       binder. Drop-ins are welcome, but it helps           Whistlestop’s programs. To
                                            pocket healthcare costs, and it provides                                                        participate, simply visit Marin
                                            an alternative to (or supplements) long-   us plan if you register: 415-456-9062.
                                                                                                                                            Subaru at 595 Francisco Blvd
                                            term healthcare insurance.                 Need help with your estate documents? Call           E, San Rafael, 415-454-9240,
                                              If you are planning to move, a reverse   Whistlestop’s Resource Office: 415-459-6700,
                                                                                                                                            and select Whistlestop or
                                            mortgage may not be worthwhile             to schedule free half hour appointments at
                                                                                       Whistlestop with Legal Aid of Marin. To learn more   Meals on Wheels America
                                            financially. However, a HECM can be        about making charitable gifts to Whistlestop,        when you buy or lease a car.
                                            used to purchase a new home. As long as    contact Serena D’Arcy-Fisher, CFRE at sfisher@
12                                          you meet your loan obligations (keeping    whistlestop.org or 415-456-9062, ext. 138.
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