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FALL
                                                                                       2014-15
                                                                                          2019

                                                                        Identity and Equity
                                                                        Group Leaders

20 Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion:        33 Creating a Greater Sense of
   Then & Now                                  Inclusion Among Young Men
    A Conversation with Brighid Dwyer ‘97      Catching Up with Julian Vasquez ‘17
20 Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion: Then & Now 33 Creating a Greater Sense of Inclusion Among Young Men
inclusion
equity        “The concept of safe spaces,
               much like affinity groups, was
               new to me and I did not initially
               see their importance. Now, I see
               how the Young Brothers group
               helps reduce the sense of feeling
               different or not belonging that
               men of color face by providing
               an environment in which to
               discuss issues surrounding their
               identities.”

 diversi ty
               EDER R. ‘21

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VOICES OF MARIN ACADEMY

                                                                                                                            WHAT’S INSIDE
                                                                                       I have also
                                                                                       thought in
                                                                                  recent years how
                                                                                    amazing it was
                                                                                   that more than
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                                                                                                         LIVING DIVERSITY,              MOVING THE WORK                                         COMINGS AND GOINGS

                                                                                     twenty years        EQUITY, AND INCLUSION
                                                                                                         Travis speaks to the long-
                                                                                                                                        FORWARD
                                                                                                                                        Meet MA’s current Dean
                                                                                                                                                                                                Faculty and staff arrivals
                                                                                                                                                                                                and departures for the new
                                                                                  before it became       standing DEI work at MA        of Equity and Inclusion,
                                                                                                                                        Mya Sullivan
                                                                                                                                                                                                academic year at MA

                                                                                    commonplace,
                                                                                      MA had its         10
    IDENTITY AND EQUITY (IDEQ) AT MA
                                                                                     first Director
                                                                                                         GO FORTH                       26                          senior class, model core
                                                                                                                                                                    values on Opening Day
                                                                                                                                                                                                56
                                                                                                         Congratulations to our         MA’S IDEQ GROUPS
Diversity expert, Alison Park of                                                      of Diversity       2019 graduates!                BUILD COMMUNITY AND
                                                                                                                                                                                                INSPIRED TO LEAD

                                                                                                                                        INCLUSION                                               MA’s Annual Report
BLINK, facilitates a training for Marin                                            and Inclusion—                                       Students share
                                                                                                                                                                    30
Academy IDEQ Leaders.                                                                 wow, that is       14                             transformative IDEQ
                                                                                                                                        experiences at MA           ALUMNI NOTES
                                                                                                         GO WILDCATS!                                               Reflections from Director
                                                                                   impressive! MA
                                                                                                                                                                                                EDITOR
                                                                                                                                                                    of Alumni Engagement,       Hervé Ernest
                                                                                                         2018-2019 Wildcat athletics

                                                                                                                                        29
                                                                                                                                                                    Rebecca Abbey
                                                                                      had a lot of       year in review                                                                         CONTRIBUTING WRITERS
                                                                                                                                                                                                Rebecca Abbey
      TEDx Talk                                                                                                                                                                                 Derek Anderson

      Excerpt                                                                      foresight in this                                    MODELING EQUITY AND
                                                                                                                                        INCLUSION
                                                                                                                                                                                                Kier Holmes ‘89
                                                                                                                                                                                                Eddie Lee ‘04

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                                                                                                                                                                                                Mark Stefanski

      “The main thing I kept hearing                                              area which I think                                    MA’s Student Senate                                     PHOTOGRAPHY
      throughout the room was that                                                                                                      President, and the entire                               Marin Academy Communications
      these kids felt alone. I had                                                 speaks to why I       DIVERSITY, EQUITY, AND                                     CHARTING THE COURSE         Marin Academy Parents
                                                                                                                                                                                                Sameer Khan
      never seen young men so                                                                            INCLUSION: THEN &                                          A peek into the lives       Robert Longley
      openly ready to share what was                                               was drawn to it.      NOW                                                        of MA alumni                Jake Thomas

      going on inside of them. They      OUR HISTORIC COMMITMENT TO                                                                                                                             Nexus Magazine and Nexus Now
                                                                                                          A conversation with MA                                                                are produced by the Office of
      weren’t just ready, they were      ACCESSING AN MA EDUCATION                                                                                                  ALUMNI SPOTLIGHTS           Institutional Advancement at:
                                                                                                          alumna, Brighid Dwyer
      in need of it. The construct of    MA Promise is Marin Academy’s                                                                                                                          Marin Academy
                                                                                                         ‘97, on her past MA                                        33 Julian Vasquez ‘17      1600 Mission Avenue
      unhealthy masculinity is a force   commitment to ensuring the most                                  experiences and her current                                                           San Rafael CA 94901
      that young men aren’t even                                                                                                                                    43 Loren Elliott ‘09
                                         talented students from all backgrounds                           role as Associate Dean for
      aware of.”                         across the Bay Area have access to a
                                                                                     BRIGHID DWYER ‘97    Diversity and Inclusion at
          —Julian Vasquez ‘17            Marin Academy education. Read more                               Princeton University
                                         at ma.org/ma-promise.

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COMING UP AT MA

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A     MA all-class Alumni Reunion takes place on the MA campus. — 10/12                                   OCTOBER | Mark                           OCTOBER | Marin Academy’s Theater Program presents the Fall                                DECEMBER | Come
                                                                                                          your calendars! The                      Theater Production of “Metamorphoses” by Mary Zimmerman.                                   and experience
B	
  Sophomore Family Community Action Day in San Leandro. Join fellow
                                                                                                          MA all-class Alumni                      This play by Mary Zimmerman is based on Ovid’s Metamorphoses                               Marin Academy
  sophomore families touring the MedShare facilities and helping sort surplus
                                                                                                          Reunion will take                        written in 8 A.D. and other, contemporary writings, including the                          students displaying
  medical supplies which are then delivered to communities in need around the
                                                                                      place on Saturday, October 12 on the       poems of Rainer Maria Rilke. First produced in 1996, the play was a hit on Broadway      their passion for being creative at
  world. — 10/12
                                                                                      MA campus. Bring your family and           and Zimmerman won a Tony award for her direction. The play intertwines a number of       the Roots/World Music Concert on
C     College Application Workshop. — 10/16                                           friends for an afternoon of reconnecting   Greek myths that focus on the theme of love and transformation. The play is, by turns,   Thursday, December 5 and Friday,
D	
  Marin Academy presents the Fall Theater Production: Metamorphoses by Mary           filled with MA music, food, drinks,        humorous and poignant and features an ensemble of actors in multiple roles. Runs         December 6 at 6:30 p.m. in the
  Zimmerman. — Begins 10/31                                                           campus tours, and tons of activities       October 31 through November 2 at 6:30 p.m. in the Performing Arts Center.                Performing Arts Center.
                                                                                      for all ages. Classes celebrating a
E     An evening for 9th grade parents, hosted by the Human Development
                                                                                      milestone anniversary will hold their
      Department. Join Zach Lurie, co-founder of Roots to Branches for a discussion
                                                                                      own events following the all-class
      on the teenage brain, screen time, and social media. — 11/19

                                                                                                                                 19                                             20
                                                                                      reunion. We can’t wait to see everyone                         NOVEMBER | Join                                NOVEMBER | The
F	
  Marin Academy Dance Program presents Winter Dance Assembly. — 11/20                 back on campus this Fall!                                      Zach Laurie, co-                               Marin Academy
G     Roots/World Music Concert. — 12/5                                                                                                              founder of Roots to                            Dance Program
                                                                                                                                                     Branches, to discuss                           presents Winter
                                                                                                                                 the ways constant access to media              Dance Assembly, Wednesday
                                                                                                                                 and screens is affecting our youth and         November 20, 11:10 a.m. and 12:05
                                                                                                                                 society. The evening will address: brain       p.m. in the Performing Arts Center.
                                                                                                                                 development and emotional resilience           The Marin Academy Taiko Ensemble,
                                                                                                                                 in the age of social media, the increase       directed by Galen Rogers, will present
                                                                                                                                 of anxiety in the current context of           a selection of traditional and original
                                                                                                                                 constant access to information, and            compositions, and the Marin Academy
                                                                                                                                 social media as a mirror to society.           Dance Company (MADCO), directed by
                                                                                                                                 Hosted by the Human Development                Randee Paufve, presents new works by
                                                                                                                                 Department.                                    students and faculty.

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NEWS BRIEFS

         LIVING DIVERSITY,                                                                                                                                         BRIZENDINE
            EQUITY, AND
             INCLUSION                                                                                                               H
                                                                                                                                                aving completed its
                                                                                                                                                twelfth year and two full
                                                                                                                                                departmental rotations, the
                                                                                                                                                Brizendine Scholars Program
                                                                                                                                     has become an established MA
                                                                                                                                                                                  offered specific methodologies
                                                                                                                                                                                  for ameliorating the inherent bias,
                                                                                                                                                                                  privilege, and motivational limitations
                                                                                                                                                                                  of them. In the afternoon, Feldman
                                                                                                                                                                                  worked just with the science
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       parts of the world. Later in the year,
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       noted ceramicist Adrian Arleo visited
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       for two days, while Hwie Li Tsao-Pupo
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       taught a master class in Chinese brush
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       painting, Eric Zachary Whitten taught
                                                                                                                                     tradition that enhances both student         department, focusing specifically on                 a master class in landscape painting,
                                                                                                                                     and faculty learning. For 2018-19, the       homework issues and grading.                         and Jan Blythe worked with the Three-
                                                                                                                                     program brought a total of 14 experts                                                             Dimensional Thinking students with
                                            BY TRAVIS BROWNLEY, HEAD OF SCHOOL                                                       to campus.                                   The science department shared the                    mixed media. Michael Gillette also
                                                                                                                                                                                  2018-19 program with the visual arts                 came to campus and exposed students
                                                                                                                                     In the fall, the science department,         department, which brought six guest                  to the world of illustration.
                                                                                                                                     led by Department Chair Ellie Beyers,        artists to campus for classroom-based
                                             our mission provide us with ongoing         from their own words, some of the           sponsored an all-school event entitled,      workshops with students. Former MA                   Finally, Brizendine funds also helped
                                             opportunities and challenges to             transformative journeys students            “Art of Scientific Communication.” The       faculty member and current UC-Santa                  bring Dr. Millery Polyné of New York
                                             continue building and making our            experience from their involvement           series of workshops explored different       Cruz professor Lewis Watts headlined                 University’s interdisciplinary Gallatin
                                             programs stronger, and reaffirm our         with our Identity and Equity Groups;        ways in which scientists communicate         the work with students. The founder                  School to MA to help sophomores
                                             commitment to inspire and foster a          and much more. You’ll also catch            effectively through different mediums.       of the photography program at MA,                    deepen their appreciation for the
                                             purposefully diverse, equitable and         up with MA alumni in Class Notes            These included:                              Watts came full circle as he worked with             complexities in Haiti as part of the
                                             just community. Marin Academy               and celebrate the generosity of our                                                      students in Josh Smith’s photography                 sophomore End-of-Year Project.
                                                                                                                                     ii Rogelio Bernal Andreo, an                 classes. Watts also spoke at an                      Polyné’s work helped enrich student
                                             is not the first to do this work, but       wonderful community in the Annual
                                                                                                                                        astrophotographer, on images;             assembly and presented the student                   understanding of Haiti’s history, culture,
                                             we keep thinking, questioning, and          Report section.
                                             creating initiatives to push the work                                                   ii Tyler Dewitt, YouTube/TED Talk guru,      body with examples of his work in                    and promise for the future.
                                             forward. And, special programs such as      This fall we debut our new                     on video communication;                   Paris, New Orleans, Cuba and other
                                             Conference On Democracy, Brizendine         Transdisciplinary Leadership Program
                                                                                                                                     ii Sara ElShafie, UC-Berkeley Graduate
                                             Scholars, and LitFest reinforce the idea    with the class: Culture Shock:
                                                                                                                                        Student, on storytelling;

I
                                             that many voices are welcomed at MA,        Migrations, Exile, and the Refugee
    t’s true that Marin Academy has                                                                                                  ii Forrest Hanson ‘06, on science blogs;
                                             even when those voices may clash with       Crisis and welcome our first MA
    a long tradition of striving to be
                                             our own viewpoints.                         Promise scholars. These two initiatives     ii Larry Gonick, author and graphic
    an inclusive school, a school in
                                                                                         further our diversity, equity, and             artist, on cartoons;
    which students and adults work
                                             In the following pages, you’ll read         inclusion efforts and keep MA at the
together to create a truly multicultural                                                                                             ii Marjorie Sun, journalist, on scientific
                                             more about MA’s DEI work as we              forefront of progressive education. I am
community. I am so proud to be part of                                                                                                  writing.
                                             reconnect with Brighid Dwyer ‘97 and        thrilled! I hope you enjoy reading all of
a school that lives this everyday, from
                                             learn about her participation in the        the stories in this edition of NEXUS as     In June, the science department
a dedicated faculty that teaches and
                                             early Multicultural Learning Program,       much as we’ve enjoyed bringing them         invited Joe Feldman of the Crescendo
values the multiplicity of perspectives
                                             which provided a strong foundation          to you.                                     Education Group to campus to
to students who do much to further the
                                             for MA’s future work. For Brighid, it                                                   conduct an all-day professional
goals of inclusivity and accessibility on                                                Warm Regards,                                                                             Adrian Arleo                   “Art of Scientific Communication”               Dr. Millery Polyné
                                             shaped and contributed to her role at                                                   development workshop about how to
a daily basis.
                                             Princeton University. In addition, you’ll                                               change teachers’ grading practices            Eric Zachary Whitten                            Lewis Watts                    Joe Feldman
                                             meet our Dean of Equity and Inclusion,                                                  with an eye for greater equity. In
Equity and inclusion are historic
                                             Mya Sullivan, who is helping to move                                                    the morning, which was open to all
values of our school. Prioritizing
                                             our DEI work forward in alignment                                                       teachers, Feldman traced the history
these compelling issues, developing
                                             with MA’s Strategic Plan; understand,                                                   of traditional grading practices and
our values as a school, and living

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NEWS BRIEFS
                                                                HEADMASTER’S CUP
                                                                For the first time in MA history, the faculty has decided
                                                                to award this cup to two extraordinary individuals

                          GO FORTH!
                                                                whose contributions couldn’t be measured against
                                                                each other. Travis Brownley, on behalf of the faculty,
                                                                awarded Kenyamarie Mahone and Ainsley Walker the
                                                                Headmaster’s Cup, an award established by Board of
                                                                Trustees President James Thacher to honor the values
                                                                of MA inspired by the school’s first headmaster, Bill
                                                                McCluskey. Kenyamarie Mahone is a tenacious leader,
                                                                an engaged member of our community, a scholar-
                                                                athlete, and an advocate for MA whose work ethic and
                        Congratulations to the Class of 2019!   compassion speak to our core values. Ainsley Walker
                                                                is a powerful dancer and artist who brings her voice
                                                                to the stage. She is thoughtful, candid and honest.
                                                                She asks great questions, and she is a courageous and
                                                                graceful leader who is willing to put things out there
                                                                and to reflect on her decisions.

        I can proudly say
           that our time
       here was nowhere
        near perfect, and
       nowhere near any
      high school musical
      or ‘Glee.’ It was far                                                                                                 ZUMBRUN AWARD
                                                                                                                            In memory of Danielle Plumb Zumbrun ‘79 and in
      too interesting, and                                                                                                  recognition of her keen appreciation of nature and

         we were far too                                                                                                    her sense of responsibility as a caretaker of the earth,
                                                                                                                            the Zumbrun Award recognizes outstanding student
       compelling for any                                                                                                   leadership in the Outings Program. A staple of the
                                                                                                                            outings department for the entirety of her four years at
            of the sort.                                                                                                    MA, Sophie Schneider’s love for the natural world pours
                                                                                                                            out of her, and her welcoming, open leadership style
                                                                                                                            invites others to encounter the wilderness with ease
                                                                                                                            and confidence. Whether meeting with the mindfulness
                                                                                                                            group in the garden, leading outings on the coast, or
                                                                                                                            building bridges for Crossroads students to participate
                                                                                                                            in the outings program, Sophie leans into her passion for
          KENYAMARIE MAHONE ‘19                                                                                             the created world every day, and invites others to do the
                                                                                                                            same.

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And They’re Off...

Babson College                            New York University (3)                      University of North Carolina at
                                                                                       Chapel Hill
Barnard College (3)                       Northwestern University
                                                                                       University of Oregon
Berklee College of Music                  Occidental College
                                                                                       University of Puget Sound
Boston College                            Pomona College (2)
                                                                                       University of Richmond
Brown University (4)                      Rhode Island School of Design
                                                                                       University of Rochester
California Polytechnic State University   Santa Clara University (3)
(San Luis Obispo)                                                                      University of San Diego (2)
                                          Smith College
Chapman University (2)                                                                 University of Southern California (3)
                                          Southern Methodist University
Colby College                                                                          University of St. Andrews
                                          Swarthmore College
Colgate University (2)                                                                 University of Washington (Seattle
                                          Trinity University
                                                                                       Campus) (2)
Colorado College (4)                      Tulane University of Louisiana (7)
                                                                                       University of Wisconsin (Madison) (2)
Columbia University                       University of California (Los Angeles) (2)
                                                                                       Vanderbilt University (2)
Dartmouth College (3)                     University of California (San Diego)
                                                                                       Vassar College (3)
Elon University                           University of California (Santa Cruz) (2)
                                                                                       Warren Wilson College
Lehigh University (2)                     University of Colorado Boulder (4)
                                                                                       Wellesley College
Lewis & Clark College                     University of Miami
Macalester College                                                                     Whitman College (2)
                                          University of Michigan (2)
Middlebury College

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ATHLETICS

                       GO WILDCATS
                                                                                                                                     NCS Team Academic Awards
                                                                                                                                     FALL 2018
                                                                                                                                      Boys Water Polo – 3rd Place
                                                                                                                                      Girls Tennis – 1st Place (tie)

                                                                                                                                     WINTER 2019
                                                                                                                                      Boys Basketball – 2nd Place
                                       2018-2019 MA Athletics                                                                         Girls Basketball – 2nd Place

                                                                                                                                     SPRING 2019

                                         Wildcat Year in Review                                                                      
                                                                                                                                     
                                                                                                                                         Student Baseball – 3rd Place (tie)
                                                                                                                                         Boys Lacrosse – 3rd Place
                                                                                                                                        Girls Lacrosse – 2nd Place
                                                                                                                                        Girls Track & Field – 3rd Place
                                                                                                                                        Boys Swimming – 3rd Place

C
           ongratulations to all of our MA student-athletes and    program that focuses on the life lessons learned through sport,
           coaches on a terrific 2018-19 year in athletics! We     we love to highlight the standout achievements attained by our
           want to acknowledge the hard work and celebrate the     various programs. Thanks to our entire MA community for your
           accomplishments of all our student-athletes, coaches,   continued support of MA Athletics. It means so much to our
and everyone in the athletics program. While MA Athletics          student-athletes and coaches, and we would not be as successful
will always strive to be an extension of the classroom and a       as we are without the tremendous support we receive!

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ATHLETICS

Team Athletic Awards
BCL-WEST/BAY AREA                                               ii Girls Lacrosse: NCS Division 2 Quarterfinals
CONFERENCE CHAMPIONSHIPS:                                       ii Boys Lacrosse: NCS Division 1 Finalists
ii Girls Cross Country: 3rd Place                               ii Girls Swimming: NCS Division 1 28th Place
ii Boys Cross Country: 5th Place                                ii Boys Swimming: NCS Division 1 32nd Place
ii Girls Tennis: 5th Place                                      ii Boys Tennis: NCS Division 1 Singles 1st Round, NCS Division II
ii Girls Volleyball: 4th Place                                     Team Quarterfinals

ii Boys Water Polo: 9th Place (Marin County Athletic League)    ii Girls Track & Field: NCS 1A Participants

ii Girls Water Polo: 6th Place (Marin County Athletic League)
ii Girls Basketball: 5th Place                                  CIF STATE CHAMPIONSHIPS:
ii Boys Basketball: 4th Place                                   ii Girls Cross Country – Chiara Savage-Schwartz – 71st Place
ii Girls Soccer: BCL-West Champions                             ii Girls Soccer: #1 seed in Division 3 NorCal CIF Championship
ii Boys Soccer: 2nd Place                                          Tournament – Finalists

ii Student Baseball: 6th Place                                  ii Boys Soccer: #5 seed in Division 1 NorCal CIF Championship
                                                                   Tournament - Champions
ii Student Golf: 4th Place
ii Girls Lacrosse: BCL-West Champions
ii Boys Lacrosse: BCL-West Champions
ii Girls Swimming: 2nd Place
ii Boys Swimming: BCL-West Co-League Champions
ii Boys Tennis: 3rd Place
ii Girls Track & Field: 5th Place
ii Boys Track & Field: 8th Place

NORTH COAST SECTION CHAMPIONSHIPS:

ii Girls Cross Country: Canceled Due to Air Quality
ii Boys Cross Country: Canceled Due to Air Quality
ii Girls Tennis: NCS Division 2 Quarterfinals
ii Girls Basketball: NCS Division 5 1st Round
ii Boys Basketball: NCS Division 5 Quarterfinals
ii Girls Soccer: NCS Division 5 Finalists
ii Boys Soccer: NCS Division 5 Champions
ii Student Golf: NCS Division 2 – Individual Qualifiers

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NEWS BRIEFS

                   SENIOR RISING
  As tradition would have it, our 2020 senior class takes over
 The Circle on Opening Day, marking the official beginning to
their senior year. And providing inspiration to the entire school
        body, they had a powerful message of inclusion.

The Class of 2020
  has decided to
focus on inclusion
 and acceptance.
We are doing so by
breaking down the
 barriers between
the various friend
  groups, cliques,
and grades at MA!

              MAX W. ‘20
         Student Senate President

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DIVERSITY, EQUITY,
                                                                                                     MA student-athlete. “Don Alexander           athletics, outings, clubs, and student
                                                                                                     [MA science teacher and swim coach]          senate. “I remember that we met in
                                                                                                     was a really important encouraging           Thacher Hall, the ‘new’ science building
                                                                                                     influence throughout my time at MA,          at the time,” Brighid shared with me. “I

      AND INCLUSION:
                                                                                                     as were several other MA teachers,”          was really excited about meeting folks
                                                                                                     recalls Brighid. It was gratifying to also   I would go to high school with. It was
                                                                                                     hear Brighid express appreciation for        a big adventure taking the van across
                                                                                                     her invitation to a modest pioneering        the bridge from Oakland each day,             It was great to

       THEN & NOW
                                                                                                     program for incoming freshmen, MA’s          and it was a lot of fun. Not only did I
                                                                                                     Multicultural Leadership Program             enjoy the academic component—being          see that our class
                                                                                                     (MLP), one that I co-directed while in       challenged—but I felt supported in
                                                                                                     my former role as Freshmen Dean. We          having conversations about identity.”       was so successful,
                                                                                                     began the MLP in 1993 as a 3-week
                                                                                                     summer program, designing it to be           The fact that the MLP included white
                                                                                                                                                  students from Marin made a difference
                                                                                                                                                                                               even in our first
                                                                                                     part of our school’s wider effort for
                                                                                                     our community to embrace cultural            for Brighid. “I recall a sense that we
                                                                                                                                                  were really learning from one another,
                                                                                                                                                                                                 year at MA. I
                                                                                                     pluralism. With very few non-white

                     A Conversation with Brighid Dwyer ‘97                                           students enrolled in the school at           that we were all learning together.
                                                                                                                                                  Folks of color could say to the white
                                                                                                                                                                                               think the school
                                                                                                     the time, the program emerged from
                                                                                                     conversations with MA parents and            students, ‘This is MA, this is who we
                                                                                                                                                  are. Everyone is valued, and we can
                                                                                                                                                                                              helped to create
                                                                                                     students of color who emphasized the
                                   BY MARK STEFANSKI
                                                                                                     need for non-white students to feel          all learn from one another.’” Brighid
                                                                                                                                                  also emphasized the importance of
                                                                                                                                                                                                   a support
                                                                                                     like they belonged in the school, to
                                                                                                     have a group of friends, and to feel         MLP participants continuing to meet
                                                                                                                                                  formally as a group during the actual
                                                                                                                                                                                              network, not just

                                                       O
                                                                                                     connected to the support systems that
                                                                     ne of the terrific perks        were available. Until that time, MA was      school year, providing ongoing support
                                                                                                                                                  for one another. “For me, those
                                                                                                                                                                                               for the kids, but
                                                                     of being a long-time            challenged with a high attrition rate for
                                                                     MA faculty member is            students of color.                           meetings helped to dispel the impostor
                                                                                                                                                  syndrome, the feeling that ‘maybe I just
                                                                                                                                                                                                  also for our
                                                                     the opportunity to stay
                                                       in touch with so many wonderful               Brighid was a member of the inaugural
                                                                                                     group of 15 students in the MLP, 12 of
                                                                                                                                                  don’t belong here.’”
                                                                                                                                                                                              families. MA had
                                                       MA alumni and bear witness to their
                                                       dynamic lives and accomplishments.            whom comprised the entire number of
                                                                                                     incoming students of color enrolled for
                                                                                                                                                  Another factor for Brighid’s successful
                                                                                                                                                  MA experience was the school’s hiring
                                                                                                                                                                                              a lot of foresight
                                                       One such alumna is Brighid Dwyer ‘97,
                                                       who now serves as the Associate Dean          the fall of ‘93. We intentionally invited
                                                                                                     this diverse group to our campus
                                                                                                                                                  of Kim Shaner, an African-American
                                                                                                                                                  English teacher who also advised
                                                                                                                                                                                                  in this area,
                                                       for Diversity and Inclusion at Princeton
                                                       University. When Brighid discovered           for an opportunity that summer to
                                                                                                     maximize their chances for academic
                                                                                                                                                  MA’s Multicultural Activity Group.
                                                                                                                                                  “I remember thinking Kim was so
                                                                                                                                                                                                 which I think
                                                       that an upcoming issue of Nexus had
                                                       chosen “diversity, equity, and inclusion”     success, to set the stage for fuller
                                                                                                     involvement in the life of the school,
                                                                                                                                                  cool; a New Yorker who moved to
                                                                                                                                                  San Francisco and taught at MA. I
                                                                                                                                                                                               speaks to why I
                                                       for its theme, she was eager to speak
                                                       with me via Zoom about her experience         and to help populate a shift toward a
                                                                                                     culture of greater equity and inclusion.
                                                                                                                                                  remember thinking she was the first
                                                                                                                                                  teacher I had who looked like me.
                                                                                                                                                                                               was drawn to it.
                                                       at MA, and to share her excitement
                                                                                                     We employed older MA students of             I had other Black teachers, but she
                                                       about her current role at Princeton.
                                                                                                     color as teacher assistants to help lead     was younger and talked to me like I
                                                       Brighid reflected on her first                seminars in history, science & math, and     was a mature teen who could handle
                                                       experiences at MA with great fondness,        English & writing. In addition, the MLP      discussing the honest realities of life.”
                                                       vividly recalling several details, like the   offered forums for discussing cross-         Brighid’s current work has inspired
                                                       special shoes that she wore to her initial    cultural issues both at MA and in the        a keen interest in the development
                                                                                                                                                                                                 BRIGHID DWYER ‘97
                                                       interview at the school - “multicolored       world at large. The new students also        of inclusive curriculum in higher
                                                       Converse” - and remembering her               became familiar with the multiple ways       education, and in this context, she had
                                                       welcoming first practice with the MA          in which leadership roles were available     a lot of positive things to say about her
                                                       swim team, all part of an exciting start      to them beyond the classroom,                experiences in the MA classroom. “As I
                                                       to her highly successful 4 years as an        including opportunities in the arts,         have developed syllabi for classes that

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DIVERSITY, EQUITY, AND INCLUSION: THEN & NOW

I have taught, I have often reflected                                                                                                                                                                              gender non-conforming, especially if          beyond race.”
back on my experience in high school.                                                                                                                                                                              that is a population that you are not
And as I look at some of the books                                                                                                                                                                                 used to working with? How can we be           Brighid shared that she considers
that are currently on my shelf, they                                                                                                                                                                               welcoming and inclusive of folks with a       “ability” as the next frontier in the
include Bless Me, Ultima and Their                                                                                                                                                                                 wide variety of identities?”                  arena of equity and inclusion, both for
Eyes Were Watching God, I realize                                                                                                                                                                                                                                higher education and for independent
they are books that I read while at MA.                                                                                                                                                                            When I asked Brighid about some of            schools. “A lot more students are
I remember learning about Hinduism                                                                                                                                                                                 the tools she employs in facilitating         coming to elite schools with health
in history class. These are significant                                                                                                                                                                            conversations exploring equity and            concerns, different kinds of illnesses,
memories that I have. At the time, as                                                                                                                                                                              inclusion, she identified setting up          and a range of physical and learning
part of growing up in the Bay Area,                                                                                                                                                                                conditions to have open and honest            abilities, and I don’t think a lot of
and because it was part of MA’s ethos,                                                                                                                                                                             dialogue. “We need to talk to one             institutions are equipped to be there
it didn’t strike me as odd or unusual. It                                                                                                                                                                          another and listen fully in ways that we      for these folks. I think there is a desire
struck me that, ‘This is the canon. This                                                                                                                                                                           realize how our own humanity is tied to       to include these folks, and to have the
is what everybody learns.’ In reflecting                                                                                                                                                                           the well-being of others. This changes        resources to serve them, but we have a
back, I think my high school did a very                                                                                                                                                                            the conversation and it changes how           lot of work to do.” When I commented
good job in exposing me to a variety                                                                                                                                                                               we respond to one another.”                   to Brighid that her job seems so
of backgrounds and experiences.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  meaningful and rich, she responded
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   Toward the end of our talk, I                 wholeheartedly. “Yes, the work is very
It felt like water; it didn’t feel like
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   couldn’t help but think about the             rewarding, and it’s really exciting. It’s
anything unusual. As I see some of the
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   enormous degree to which the                  great to be in a place with so many
other curricula that current students
                                            Members of MA’s Multicultural Leadership Program: (Back row, standing from left to right) William Winfield, Erin Miwa ‘97,                  Brighid Dwyer circa 1997   landscape of diversity, equity, and           resources, and I think Princeton has
are working with, it’s something that       Sarahdia Pierre-Louis ’94 (TA), Nikki Reidy ‘97, Sabrina Stewart ‘97, Tony Richardson ‘97, Arun Khanna ‘97, Khary Johnson
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   inclusion has expanded in the last 25         done a great job in deploying its
stands out. It really helped build my       ’94 (TA), Rachel Goeriz ’94 (TA), Michael Daglow ‘97. (Front Row, sitting or kneeling, left to right) Dawud Lankford ‘97, Ramiz
                                            Monsef ‘97, Brighid Dwyer ‘97, Jolie Yuska ‘97, John Wheeler ‘97, Forest Swartout ‘97, Saoirse Byrne ‘97, Mark Stefanski,                                              years, becoming more aware of its             resources in really meaningful ways.”
perspective from an early age and I am      Paul Simpson ‘97, Hyun Chang ’96 (TA)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   multifaceted complexity in my own
really thankful for all of that.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   personal perspective here at MA, and          At the very end of our talk, as I thanked
                                            geography, and numbers themselves                                   about the collaborative opportunities
Every student of color in Brighid’s                                                                                                                                                                                for Brighid during her journey from MA        her, Brighid once again expressed
                                            do not make for a more equitable                                    between the centers and other units
9th grade class returned to MA the                                                                                                                                                                                 to Princeton. Even so, Brighid shared         deep gratitude for her time at MA. “I
                                            and inclusive school culture. But we                                on campus. For example, collaboration
following year, academically successful,                                                                                                                                                                           a caveat. “I think we are still in a place    really feel MA helped shape me into
                                            were heading in a positive direction.                               with the Office of Disability Services
with many taking on leadership                                                                                                                                                                                     where a lot of people equate diversity        the person I am, and I say that with a
                                            In Brighid’s words, “It was great to see                            and the Davis International Center
roles. Several ran for student senate,                                                                                                                                                                             with race. To be sure, there are still a      full heart and so much thanks and joy.”
                                            that our class was so successful, even in                           provides an opportunity to think about
and one was elected (that would be
Brighid); one was student co-chair for a
                                            our first year at MA. I think the school                            intersectional identities such as Latinx                        I really feel MA                   lot of conversations about race that
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   need to happen. And clearly there’s
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 And, she then extended a very enticing
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 invitation: “Send MA students our way!
                                            helped to create a support network,                                 and ability identities, or international
captivating AIDS-awareness assembly;
two made significant contributions
                                            not just for the kids, but also for our                             and queer identities.”                                        helped shape me                      a lot of colorism, and a lot of literal
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   racism, and people are being killed
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 We would love to have them—I’d love
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 to give them a tour!”
                                            families. MA had a lot of foresight in
to the school’s music program; and
one became eligible as a high school
                                            this area, which I think speaks to why I                            “My job includes supporting staff and
                                                                                                                helping them create curricula, and it’s
                                                                                                                                                                               into the person I                   because of the color of their skin. But I
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   think giving voice within the context of      Do we have any takers?
                                            was drawn to it.”
All-American swimmer (that would also
be Brighid). Years later, two others,       Fast-forwarding to Brighid’s current
                                                                                                                also supporting everybody within the
                                                                                                                Division of Campus Life—helping them
                                                                                                                                                                              am, and I say that                   diversity to other identities is essential,
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   and that when we do talk about race,
Paul Simpson and Dawud Lankford,
served as MA Trustees. The successful
                                            role at Princeton University, she was
                                            effusive in describing the positive
                                                                                                                be really intentional in their diversity
                                                                                                                and inclusion efforts. This includes
                                                                                                                                                                                with a full heart                  it doesn’t become the ‘Black-White
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   paradigm.’ Since moving from the West
experiences of Brighid and her
classmates proved to be a turning point
                                            efforts and wide-ranging opportunities
                                            within the university to promote equity
                                                                                                                Athletics, Career Services, the Office
                                                                                                                of Religious Life, University Health
                                                                                                                                                                                  and so much                      Coast, I feel this paradigm is much
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   more prevalent on the East Coast.
in MA’s path toward greater diversity,
equity, and inclusion. For the fall of
                                            and inclusion there. “My current job
                                            is within Student Affairs. I support
                                                                                                                Services, and others. We have a wide
                                                                                                                array of units that have different goals
                                                                                                                                                                               thanks and joy.”                    In California, there were many more
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   conversations about Asian identity,                Mark Stefanski has been teaching
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   Latinx identity, and even sometimes                science at MA since 1988 and
1994, the number of incoming students       the work of the folks who are in the                                and ways in which they operate. So, if
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   Native identity. There is a lot of hurt            has a long and storied history.
of color increased from 12 to17, and we     LGBT Center, The Fields Center for                                  we take the example of a practitioner
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   and a lot of value in experiences we               His accomplishments are many,
continued to increase our geographic        Equality & Cultural Understanding,                                  in the health center having someone
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   are not hearing when we aren’t able to             spanning multiple departments and
diversity, attracting more students         and the Women’s Center. I work with                                 who comes in needing medical
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   provide space for folks of other racial            programs. Visit the staff and faculty
from outside of Marin. As we know,          the staff in those centers to help                                  services, let’s say with the flu, how do
                                                                                                                                                                                                                   identities. And I think the same is true           page at ma.org to learn more.
diversity extends far beyond color and      them develop their work and to think                                you respond to that person if they are

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MOVING THE WORK
     FORWARD
                                          education and an M.A. in American
                                          History and Government, she is able
                                          to handle multiple disciplines of
                                          education and curriculum design.
                                          She spent years at The Laurel School
                                          in Ohio in the roles of Director of
                                          Equity and Inclusion and the Chair for
                                          Learning Enhancement. She also taught
                                          eighth grade history and served as the
                                          Assistant Director of Middle School
                                                                                        They’re really
                                          at Rabun Gap-Nacoochee School
                                          in Georgia. At MA, she is a member
                                                                                        ready to take
                                          of the mathematics department as
                                          well as our new Dean of Equity and
                                                                                      this whole idea                                                                                           Mya Sullivan facilitating a workshop with Identity and Equity Group Leaders.

                                          Inclusion. Mya brings a great deal
                                                                                        of equity and

M
                                          of expertise in diversity work to MA,                                      socioeconomic status, geography, and        that are helping guide her through                    experience as a woman of color, and
              ya Sullivan has spent a
              long time doing diversity
                                          but with a particular focus on making
                                          links between diversity matters and          inclusion work                gender to create an inclusive education
                                                                                                                     with equity, access, and cultural
                                                                                                                                                                 this work and some of the questions
                                                                                                                                                                 she’s tackling. “How do we serve
                                                                                                                                                                                                                       having had limited opportunities
                                                                                                                                                                                                                       but learning to overcome in those
              work in independent         curriculum design.
              schools, as well as in                                                 in schools a step               fluency at its core. By encouraging and
                                                                                                                     inspiring critical thinking, creativity,
                                                                                                                                                                 all of our students from an equity
                                                                                                                                                                 inclusion standpoint? How do we make
                                                                                                                                                                                                                       situations. “What I have found is, those
                                                                                                                                                                                                                       experiences gave me opportunities
corporate and non-profit settings. If     “The interesting part of the story is,
you spend any time in conversation        before I applied for this position, I’d          further.                  and empathy, diversity empowers
                                                                                                                     students to learn and lead in a globally
                                                                                                                                                                 sure that not only are we preparing
                                                                                                                                                                 people to walk through those doors
                                                                                                                                                                                                                       to practice being resilient, gave me
                                                                                                                                                                                                                       opportunities to really practice how to
with her, you’ll discover that she’s      said no more diversity work for me,”
                                                                                                                     interconnected world. And the kind          of opportunity when they open, if they                adapt in situations that were unfamiliar,
deeply knowledgeable and passionate       laughs Mya. “Then I read the job
                                                                                                                     of compassion that comes from               haven’t had access to them before, but                gave me a lot of practice in how to
about creating equitable learning         description and learned about MA’s
                                                                                                                     experiencing diverse perspectives is        how are we ensuring that the folks on                 seize the most of opportunities, even
environments that are intentional,        long, long history with this work and
                                                                                                                     essential for developing highly effective   the other side of the door are ready                  in context that perhaps weren’t set up
dynamic, and sustainable. Before Mya      what I realized was, they’re ready for
                                                                                                                     leaders.                                    to open it? What are we going to do                   for me.”
came to MA, however, she actually         the next level. They’re really ready
                                                                                           MYA SULLIVAN                                                          to make sure that they have the tools
wanted to step away from doing            to take this whole idea of equity                                          Mya is supporting the work of our                                                                 And so, for Mya, her Why is about
                                                                                                                                                                 to be able to create opportunities
diversity work.                           and inclusion work in schools a step        Dean of Equity and Inclusion   Identity and Equity Groups as well,                                                               ensuring that every member of the
                                                                                                                                                                 for other people?” Working on these
                                          further.”                                                                  continuing the amazingly impactful                                                                MA community has the same chance
Originally from Cleveland, OH, Mya                                                                                                                               issues is “why I was most excited!” she
                                                                                                                     work that Dean of Multicultural Life,       exclaims.                                             to practice those things, “because
has spent a considerable amount of        MA is now in its third year of a bold
                                                                                                                     Sanjai Moses, had been doing for                                                                  ultimately,” she says, “that’s what leads
time in independent schools, in both      new Strategic Plan that calls for, among
                                                                                                                     the last fifteen years. In a recent         On this topic of Why she does this                    to success!”
teaching and administrative capacities.   other things, expanding diversity and
                                                                                                                     conversation with Mya, she spoke            work, Mya explains that it’s because it’s
With an undergraduate degree in math      breaking down barriers related to race,
                                                                                                                     fervently about some of the principles      grounded so much in her own personal

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MA’s IDEQ GROUPS
     BUILD COMMUNITY
      AND INCLUSION                                                                                         LAURA C. ‘20                                 EDER R. ‘21                                  ZUZU O. ‘20

                                                                                                            different to mine, has allowed me            people to see about us, and those we         As a result of the tight knit community

                        T
                                                                                                            to create a community within Marin           wish to hide. During the latter part of      within the group, I have become very
                                   he Identity and Equity          personal journeys, and how being a       Academy in which I am comfortable            this activity I realized, as men of color,   close with my co-leader, Jeff P. ’20,
                                   Groups at MA are designed       part of MA’s IDEQ community helped       being vulnerable. Both ASO and the           we all hide certain things from others       and the adults in attendance in a
                                   to empower students to          them develop an appreciation of          IDEQ groups have become spaces in            ranging from our situations at home,         way that I know I can rely on them if I
                                   lead discussions about          their own identities and advocacy for    which I can also share my perspective        personality traits we dislike, and more.     need anything. For all these reasons,
                        identity factors and how they shape        diversity of ideas.
 I wanted nothing       our community here at school and
                                                                                                            and feel both heard, understood, and
                                                                                                            questioned. Others push me to solidify
                                                                                                                                                         I also realized that there was a space
                                                                                                                                                         on campus to feel heard and talk
                                                                                                                                                                                                      I’m committed to the Young Brothers
                                                                                                                                                                                                      group as it continues to foster a safe
                        beyond. Student leaders are trained        LAURA C. ‘20: Since leading MA’s
    more than to        in facilitation, leadership, and social    Asian Student Organization, I have
                                                                                                            my beliefs as well as confirm my own
                                                                                                            understanding of the thoughts and
                                                                                                                                                         about what we usually conceal about
                                                                                                                                                         ourselves, or our lives. After this first
                                                                                                                                                                                                      place for men of color on campus.

                        justice, and are supported by an adult     come to embrace and value diversity                                                                                                ZUZU O. ‘20: Transitioning into high
  provide a space       in the community who helps students        of thought. Being able to lead an
                                                                                                            opinions I hold. This complexity and
                                                                                                            solidification of my own beliefs has
                                                                                                                                                         meeting was over, I was keen for the
                                                                                                                                                         next one.                                    school after going through a process
                        hone the skills to engage in difficult     Identity and Equity group at Marin                                                                                                 of coming out in middle school was
 for young people       conversations that respect everyone’s      Academy, I have been able to observe
                                                                                                            been a result of the discussions that
                                                                                                            I have been a part of within the DEI         I believe that with the Young Brothers       daunting. It had been a difficult and
                        perspectives, to speak their truths, and   one of the only aspects of school                                                     group, I have gained a sense of              grueling task that I did not want to
   who felt out of      ask the hard questions. Current and        where students are both the leaders
                                                                                                            department at Marin Academy.
                                                                                                                                                         community with fellow men of color           repeat. So, for my freshman year
                        former student leaders share with us       and the participants. Learning through   EDER R. ‘21: When I was applying             on campus, including staff members.          of high school, I went back into the
  place or without      some of their direct experiences and       others’ experiences, both similar and    to MA, I was really intrigued by the         Before coming to MA, I saw staff and         closet, which fed a deep and insidious
                                                                                                            Young Men of Color group (now Young          faculty members as people who are            insecurity I had about my sexuality and
   community to                                                                                             Brothers group) because of the safe          solely at school to talk about education     the way I was viewed because of it. It
                                                                                                            space it offered to the self-identifying     but the Young Brothers group, and            felt as though all the progress I’d made
   come and feel                                                                                            men of color on campus. The concept          other MA programs, have shown them           in the direction of self-acceptance
                                                                                                            of safe spaces, much like affinity           to be more than that; staff and faculty      had been stunted, if not reversed
embraced, perhaps                                                                                           groups, was new to me and I did not          members are here to support, learn           entirely. As a teenager, I sought
                                                                                                            initially see their importance. Now, I see   from us students, teach meaningful           community, membership, and a feeling
 for the first time,                                                                                        how the Young Brothers group helps           curricula, and a myriad more reasons.        of acceptance, and my queerness did
                                                                                                            reduce the sense of feeling different, or                                                 not seem advantageous in my pursuit
   as exactly who                                                                                           not belonging, that men of color face        The Young Brothers group has given           to achieve those things. It was going
                                                                                                            by providing an environment in which         me and the attendees a place where we        to Queer Affinity, and finding a place
      they are.                                                                                             to discuss issues surrounding their          are able to discuss any subject without      and community there that made me
                                                                                                            identities. Surely enough, this is what      discouragement, no matter who it may         realize that my being gay did not have
                                                                                                            occurred at my first meeting.                involve. I believe it is important to have   to impede my ability to have wonderful
                                                                                                                                                         these spaces in order for staff to hear      and fulfilling friendships. It gave me
                                                                                                            At this meeting, we did the ‘Mask            what we have to say and share our true       a space to recognize my struggles,
                                                                                                            Activity’ inspired by Ashanti Branch,        thoughts on important matters that are       and not only to recognize them but
                                                                                                            where we anonymously shared traits           not talked about or are discouraged          to be in a space where I could find
          ZUZU O. ‘20                                                                                       and personal experiences we want             from talking about at school.                commonality with others and from that

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realize that maybe life won’t be so
                                                                                          tough, and one facet of my identity

                                                                                                                                           MODELING EQUITY
                                                                                          doesn’t have to impact my future.

                                                                                          For me, I really wanted to provide
                                                                                          representation for gay men. Society
                                                                                          often fetishizes queer women and

                                                                                                                                            AND INCLUSION
                                                                                          stigmatizes queer men. I wanted to
                                                                                          lead GSA because I knew I could show
                                                                                          people that being a gay guy really
                                                                                          doesn’t make a difference, people can
                                                                                          be happy and gay. I mean, gay does
                                                                                          mean happy.
KENYAMARIE M. ‘19                             KYLE T. ‘20
                                                                                          The biggest thing I gained from my
                                                                                          experience as being a leader was                                                        BY MAX W. ‘20, STUDENT SENATE PRESIDENT
                                                                                          perspective. Sometimes my own fears
forge bonds and connections. It was           KYLE T. ‘20: When I first came to           hold me back so much more than any
Queer Affinity that led me to come out        MA I knew that I was gay. I had this        individual could. I had these fears
to my parents and soon to the whole           vision that all of a sudden I would         that I would never be accepted as a
                                                                                                                                                                                    Thank you, Travis, for the introduction,     divided among these lines only. The
school. When the opportunity arose at         be surrounded by a bunch of kids            man which made me shy away from
                                                                                                                                      Perhaps it’s no coincidence that MA           and thank you all for being here. As         senior class sitting among the younger
the end of freshman year to become a          who all thought, acted, and felt like       masculinity as a whole. I found it easier
                                                                                                                                      had chosen to focus on its long-              Travis said, my name is Max and I will       grades is our way of kicking off the
leader of Queer Affinity, it seemed like      me. However, the reality was a little       to embrace the gay stereotype than be
                                                                                                                                      standing diversity, equity, and inclusion     be your student body president and           year by modeling what we hope to see
an obvious choice. I wanted nothing           different. I am, at the time, the only      true to myself and face real rejection.
                                                                                                                                      work in this fall’s NEXUS and that            cruise captain on this wild ride for         in the future. Changing a social norm
more than to provide a space for              out male senior. My freshman year, I        Leading GSA taught me that when
                                                                                                                                      School Senate President, Max W. ‘20,          the next 180 days. Many of you voted         is never easy, but if we all commit to
young people who felt out of place or         remember looking around the halls           it comes down to it, people are way
                                                                                                                                      gave a speech on inclusion on Opening         for me, and some of you did not,             getting outside of our comfort zones
without community to come and feel            and feeling kind of alone. Not lonely,      more empathetic than I gave them
                                                                                                                                      Day. Certainly, the two events were           but we can talk about that later. And        and talking to new people, it will begin
embraced, perhaps for the first time, as      I connected with plenty of amazing          credit for. I led GSA to help other
                                                                                                                                      not coordinated, but it may just be           freshmen—well, you didn’t really have        to feel normal. I want to challenge each
exactly who they are. Leading Queer           people, but more alone in the sense         people open up their perspectives, and
                                                                                                                                      testament to the deep work that’s done        a say in the matter. Just picture me as      and every person in this room, teachers
Affinity gave me that chance, as well as      that there was this big piece of my         yet what I saw totally changed my own
                                                                                                                                      in this area on campus everyday. Travis       a kind grandmother figure in your life       included, to break outside of your
a chance to pay it forward for all that       identity that others just couldn’t relate   view of the world, and for that, I am
                                                                                                                                      often speaks about compassion, and            and this speech is like a warm batch of      social comfort zone at least once this
the club had given me.                        to. I felt disconnected. GSA (Gender        forever grateful.
                                                                                                                                      Max, as well as the entire senior class,      cookies. Those of you who have been          week. Sit with a new person at lunch, or
                                              and Sexuality Awareness) was an
KENYAMARIE M. ‘19: Leading GROW                                                                                                       truly exemplified this value and, with        at these opening assemblies before will      go to a new club meeting, or strike up
                                              opportunity for me to show others
(Global Role of Women) has taught me                                                                                                  humor, created a great tone to kick-off       notice that, unlike the years past, my       a conversation with a teacher you don’t
                                              that they weren’t alone. What I liked
a lot about community and activism                                                                                                    the school year. With his speech, he          seniors (as I like to call them) did not     have. And I get it, it’s the first week
                                              about GSA was that anyone can go to
and facilitation. Leading a club and                                                                                                  and the senior class made everyone at         sit in the designated senior corner and      back, so all I’m asking is once. And tell
                                              meetings regardless of their gender
creating dialogues has really helped me                                                                                               opening assembly feel included, and           instead dispersed themselves among           me about it! Send me an email with
                                              and sexuality. It is a place where
become a better facilitator and leader
in all facets of my life. I’ve learned that
                                              people can be informed and find                 GSA was an                              that modeling is part of the DNA at
                                                                                                                                      MA.
                                                                                                                                                                                    the other grades in the bleachers. We,
                                                                                                                                                                                    as a grade, have decided to focus this
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 what you did, or tell me in the hallway.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 I will be going around and checking
                                              companionship and understanding
as people share, to really listen, instead
of focusing on the specific facilitation
                                              without the risk of having to confirm         opportunity for                                                                         year on inclusion. We would like to
                                                                                                                                                                                    extend an invitation to the rest of the
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 with random people. I met one of my
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 closest friends in the world on a chance
                                              their identity. That’s what drew me to
skills I want to use in my response. I’ve
also learned that club meetings are
                                              GSA, I wanted to offer that support to          me to show                                                                            MA community to take this goal on as
                                                                                                                                                                                    well. I, as well as the rest of the senior
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 encounter when I started talking to
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 her for, basically, the first time outside
                                              people who felt or were feeling like I
just a small part of being in IDEQ. In
GROW, we hold club meetings every
                                              once did and sometimes still do.              others that they                                                                        class, want to focus on breaking down
                                                                                                                                                                                    the boundaries between the various
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 of our math class. You never know
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 what one small interaction with a new
few weeks, but we also lead outings
and feminine hygiene drives for local
                                              Leading GSA really taught me that
                                              just because people don’t necessarily
                                                                                             weren’t alone.                                                                         friend groups, cliques, and grades
                                                                                                                                                                                    at MA. Our school is filled with many
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 person can lead to. This could be the
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 year that changes your life. Heck, you
homeless shelters. The IDEQ program           agree or associate with your identity,                                                                                                incredible communities: those who            could meet someone walking out of
does a great job of recognizing that          doesn’t mean they can’t learn about or                                                                                                play sports, or who do theater, and          this very assembly who ends up being
simply talking about and understanding        offer support to you. I was repeatedly                                                                                                even each individual grade, just to          a lifelong friend. So why not? It’s up to
an issue (while great), isn’t always          shocked by how open people were                                                                                                       name a few. The strength of each of          us to decide how this year goes, so let’s
enough to create change in our                and how much empathy everyone had.                                                                                                    these individual communities is really       make it one to be proud of!
communities.                                  There were moments when I would                                                                                                       important, but we shouldn’t be a school
                                                                                                        KYLE T. ‘20

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                                                                                                                                                                          educational experiences and how cross-
                                                                                                                                                                          country coaches, Ken Ellingboe and Liz
                                                                                         Seven MA alumni will be in faculty and staff roles this
                                                                                         academic year. They are: (clockwise from top) Leslie Beach                       Gottlieb, instilled a practice of running
                                                                                         ‘04, Interim Outings Director; Diane Boodrookas ‘10, Senior                      that carries him through his work today.
                                                                                         Associate Director of Admissions; Moriah Buckley ‘96, College
                                                                                         Counseling and Learning Services Assistant, Spanish Teacher;                     Every other day at around 11:00 a.m.,
                                                                                         Josh Cherner ‘01, Math Teacher; Taylor Tan ‘06, Math Teacher;                    I can see the flood of 400+ students
                                                                                         Sarah Janoff-Brinn ‘03, School Counselor; Aaron Gill ‘94,
                                                                                                                                                                          making their way to the gym for our
                                                                                         Athletic Trainer
                                                                                                                                                                          all-school assembly where many
                                                       BY REBECCA ABBEY
                                                                                                                                                                          memorable senior speeches are made.
                                                                                                                                                                          Senior speeches can range from
                                                                                                                                                                          stand-up comedy gold to emotional
            y office on the third floor      together to engage in conversation                                                                                           and tearful moments of kinship and
            of Foster Hall has a very        on everything from Harry Potter to                                                                                           vulnerability for the entire community.
            small window overlooking         the Global Role of Women (GROW)                                                                                              Many of these speeches contain words
the redwood deck of the Science +            to tuition assistance at MA. Our                                                                                             of advice to fellow students and a
Innovation Center. For such a tiny           student-led groups have grown and                                                                                            mature understanding of the fleeting
opening, this window gives me a wide         evolved over the years and still remain                                                                                      time left in childhood. One of my
and interesting glimpse into the cycles      true to our founding values. In this                                                                                         favorite parts of senior speeches is
of life at MA. In the fall and winter, the   NEXUS, you’ll find the incredible                                                                                            when students express a moment that
deck is filled in the early morning with     interview between Science Teacher,                                                                                           changed them at MA. One of those
prospective students and their parents,      Mark Stefanski, and Brighid Dwyer ’97                                                                                        enlightening experiences happened
preparing to embark on a campus              who were part of MA’s Multicultural                                                                                          for Julian Vasquez ’17. In an interview
tour as they make the challenging and        Leadership Program (MLP) that began                                                                                          with fellow alum, Eddie Lee ’04, Julian
exciting decision of where to attend
high school.
                                             in 1993. The 3-week summer program
                                             was co-directed by Mark and designed
                                                                                                                                      For the first                       reflects on the opportunity he had
                                                                                                                                                                          to give a TEDx Talk on unhealthy

As MA nears its 50th anniversary, we
                                             to be part of our school’s wider effort
                                             for MA’s historically white community
                                                                                                                                   time, alumni will                      masculinity—a topic that became
                                                                                                                                                                          important to Julian as he discovered his
are seeing more and more alumni on
that deck with their 8th grade children
                                             to embrace cultural pluralism. Carrying
                                             on as a student group and meeting
                                                                                                                                     be involved in                       own ability to be vulnerable; a lesson
                                                                                                                                                                          we should all be so lucky to learn in
who will decide whether or not MA
is for them as much as it was for their
                                             throughout the year, the MLP laid an
                                             important foundation for our ongoing
                                                                                                                                   the prospective                        high school.

parents. Such an important time in our
history provides the perfect opportunity
                                             equity and inclusion work at MA.
                                                                                                                                  student interview                       I’m excited and grateful to be starting
                                                                                                                                                                          another school year at Marin Academy
to connect alumni with students in a
profound way and I’m thrilled to launch
                                             In the Spring, when the window is open,
                                             I can hear students practicing plays
                                                                                                                                    process, giving                       where I’m joined by SEVEN awesome
                                                                                                                                                                          alumni who will be back on campus in
a new program for just that. For the
first time, alumni will be involved in the
                                             and performances and start to see
                                             unbelievable artwork and projects taking
                                                                                                                                    alums a unique                        faculty and staff roles. I’m also excited
                                                                                                                                                                          that MA will be launching a podcast
prospective student interview process,
giving alums a unique chance to build
                                             shape and I am reminded of just how
                                             much talent has walked these hallways.
                                                                                                                                    chance to build                       in 2020 which will offer a wide range
                                                                                                                                                                          of topics and conversations and will
the future at MA. I’ve had the privilege
of participating in the process for the
                                             From athletes to artists and playwrights
                                             to photographers, alumni are leaders
                                                                                                                                  the future at MA.                       provide a great opportunity to hear
                                                                                                                                                                          more about the ways alums are living
last two years and have been awed by         and experts in their fields. One of                                                                                          our mission statement. In this coming
the kindness, humor, intelligence, and       those leaders is Loren Elliott ’09 who                                                                                       year, I hope our alumni find moments
courage young people have today and          was recently awarded a Pulitzer Prize in                                                                                     of connection with MA that inspire and
hope our alumni have the opportunity         Photography for his work documenting                                                                                         motivate you in the same ways you
to experience the same and to share          the exodus of Central American Asylum                                                                                        were inspired and motivated during
their experiences and wisdom in return.      seekers fleeing their home countries for                                                                                     your time here and I’ll be looking out
                                             the US. In conversation with fellow alum,                                                             REBECCA ABBEY          from my window in Foster Hall to watch
As the school year progresses, I see         Kier Holmes ’89 we learn more about                                                                                          it all happen.
student clubs and groups joining                                                                                                           Director of Alumni Relations
                                             how Loren has been shaped by his

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                              CHARTING
                                                                                                                    ALUMNI SPOTLIGHT

                                                                                                                    Creating a Greater Sense of
                             THE COURSE                                                                             Inclusion Among Young Men
                                                                                                                    Julian Vasquez ‘17
                                                                                                                    During his junior year at Marin Academy,      should retaliate aggressively if
                                                                                                                    Julian Vasquez and the rest of the            challenged. Instead of expressing or
                                                   CLASS NOTES                                                      MA community watched a screening
                                                                                                                    of a documentary by Jennifer Siebel
                                                                                                                                                                  identifying his feelings, a man should
                                                                                                                                                                  turn to anger and defense mechanisms.
                                                                                                                    Newsom titled “The Mask You Live In.”         “The problem with that is, not only can
                                                                                                                    The film follows young men struggling         you cause harm to your relationships,        As he prepares for his second year
                                                                                                                    to stay true to themselves, while also        but you don’t really learn how to trust,”    of college, Julian hopes to be able

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                                                                                                                    trying to understand masculinity in           says Julian. “If you can’t be vulnerable,    to pursue more human development
                     Leslie Alden shares,                                                 Helen Hansel has
                                                                                                                    America. As he watched the young              you can’t ever truly be yourself and         work in the future, and perhaps even
                     “I still live in Marin!                                              been living in the East
                                                                                                                    men in the documentary wrestle with           express how you’re really feeling.”          as a career. He appreciates MA not
                     After 13 1/2 years                                                   Bay for many years.
                                                                                                                    society’s narrow definition of masculinity,   Julian began working with Charis             only for connecting him with mentors
                     working for elected                                                  She writes, “I am a
                                                                                                                    something resonated with Julian.              and Ashanti to organize and present          who provided important guidance, but
Marin County Supervisors — in                                        psychotherapist with a part-time private
                                                                                                                                                                  workshops on human development. In           also for being a place where this type
particular, the late Charles McGlashan,                              practice. Mostly, I’ve spent my career         “It was really mind blowing,” he says.        2016, Charis was given an opportunity
a visionary climate leader — I left                                  years running non-profits. I retired from                                                                                                 of learning is so strongly encouraged.
                                                                                                                    “The language and conversation                to give a TEDx talk in Tahoe, but she
in July to work full-time on climate                                 that three years ago and wrote my first                                                                                                   Julian encourages current MA students,
                                                                                                                    around this topic had never really been       only agreed to participate if one of
solutions and community engagement.                                  mystery (alas, unpublished). I just started                                                                                               especially male students, to not see
                                                                                                                    introduced to me. I grew up being             her students could give one as well.
I’m fortunate to have worked on                                      back volunteering for Ashby Village (an                                                                                                   vulnerability as a sign of weakness, but
                                                                                                                    taught the ‘rules’ of what it meant           Julian was chosen to be the speaker
significant projects for the County,                                 aging in place program) and consulting                                                                                                    instead as an indicator of courage. “It’s
                                                                                                                    to be a man and how to behave. I              and present a TEDx talk on masculinity
including launching Marin Clean                                      to FRSN (a retreat for First Responders                                                                                                   brave to share your feelings in front
                                                                                                                    started to analyze my behavior and            titled “A Young Man’s Relationship to
Energy and DRAWDOWN: Marin.                                          with PTSD). Doing a little bit to make                                                                                                    of people,” says Julian. “It shows real
                                                                                                                    assess how much of it I had just been         Culture.” In his talk, Julian told a story
I took a sabbatical over the summer,                                 the world a better place has been a                                                                                                       strength to trust others.”
                                                                                                                    using to survive and fit in.” At the          from one of his workshops. He was with
mostly to tackle boring house projects,        A                     mission of mine. I have a 24-year-old son      time, Julian had been working with            a group of high school boys and doing
but also to catch up on reading and                                  working in the tech world and a 16 year-       Charis Denison, who was previously            an activity where everyone would share
spend time with friends. Now, I’m busy                               old daughter who I just dropped off at         MA’s human development teacher,               the fears and emotions that they didn’t
participating in panel discussions,                                  The Mountain School in Vermont for a           to organize workshops on topics like          want to discuss. Julian was unsure
presentations on climate solutions, and                              fall semester of intensive study and farm      ethics, values, and finding healthy ways      how the group would respond to the
working with multiple stakeholders on                                work. I’ve done some standup comedy            of behaving. Julian also had a personal       activity, but one student bravely let his
climate policy and community actions.                                over the years, but I admit that the           connection with Ashanti, as Ashanti           guard down in front of his peers and
Another joy is seeing my daughter,                                   current political climate has dampened         had been his math teacher in fourth           revealed his most personal struggles.
Caitlin, living in Brooklyn, settle in to                            my humor. I never thought I would say          grade. “I reconnected with Ashanti            Soon, the other boys all began openly            Eddie Lee ‘04 is a writer, editor,
her community, with a challenging and                                this, but I would go back to the 70s and       and was really interested in working          sharing. “The main thing I kept hearing          and content creator for Little
rewarding job at the Rosa Luxemburg                                  high school in a heartbeat.”                   with him from the get-go,” says Julian.       throughout the room was that these kids          Passports, a children’s learning
Foundation in Manhattan, the non-
                                                                                                                    “I realized it was so important to raise      felt alone,” Julian shared in his TEDx. “I       subscription service based in
profit arm of Germany’s Democratic
                                                                                                                    awareness around the rules that we’d          had never seen young men so openly               San Francisco. Eddie and his
Socialist party. She’s working on good
                                                                     A	
                                                                       Leslie Alden ‘75                             been given. That makes it easier to           ready to share what was going on                 wife Annie welcomed their first
stuff, too.”
                                                                 B                                                  realize what’s healthy and unhealthy.”        inside of them. They weren’t just ready,         daughter to the world this past
                                                                     B   Helen Hansel ‘76 — “I still love to
                                                                                                                                                                  they were in need of it. The construct           February. He hopes all of his MA
                                                                         ski!!”                                     Like many young men, Julian grew
                                                                                                                                                                  of unhealthy masculinity is a force that         classmates, teachers, and advisors
                                                                                                                    up being taught that a man wasn’t
                                                                                                                                                                  young men aren’t even aware of.”                 are doing well.
                                                                                                                    supposed to show weakness and

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