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T H E S I S T E R S O F C H A R I T Y O F T H E B L E S S E D V I RG I N M A RY | W I N T E R 2020
Forming Relationships by
Touching Hearts
SEASONing
A Message from BVM Leadership
“Carve your name on hearts, not needs, and sharing the congregation’s
blessings continues to be written on the
tombstones. A legacy is etched into
hearts and etched into the minds of others.
the minds of others and the stories This issue also offers BVM Perspective,
they share about you.” our annual development report. New
—Shannon L. Alder Development Director and Grants
goodreads.com
Administrator Ann Sweeney, a Clarke
University alum, introduces herself and
This advice by popular author Shannon highlights the achievements of the past year.
Her message makes clear that the BVM
L. Alder exquisitely captures the theme of
legacy is carried in thousands of hearts.
this issue of Salt magazine. BVMs are all When BVM Foundress Mary Frances
about hearts, not tombstones! Clarke consoled her sisters with “I have no
fears but that God will aid us as in the past as
In the pages ahead, you can meet Sr. long as you are working unitedly,” she had no
Jean Agnes Phillips through her nephew’s idea that more than 100 years later, alums,
memories, read benefactor Gerald colleagues, family members, and friends
Hoeger’s reflections on Catholic sisters, would be supporting and working alongside
get acquainted with the Gannon Scholars BVMs to keep her legacy alive and growing.
of Loyola University Chicago, and travel As you read this issue of Salt, please
to Ecuador with participants in BVM- know that we wholeheartedly endorse BVM
sponsored immersion trips. Forming Georgeann Quinlan’s expression of gratitude:
relationships by touching hearts is at the “It seems very important that we stay in
core of the BVM mission. touch with our donors in a personal way.
Stories about the BVM Disaster Fund, The donations which come in are ‘part of the
BVM Marie Greaney’s 67-year history hundredfold’ we heard about as novices. Our
of giving blood, and the Mount Carmel BVM congregation is blessed….”
Knit Wits provide glimpses of new and Dear readers, we are truly blessed by your
creative ways in which BVMs and their prayers, messages of care, and financial gifts.
partners keep the BVM mission vital. As You, too, etch your legacy in minds and
our authors illustrate, the BVM legacy hearts by partnering with us to serve others.
of relationship-building, meeting critical We are grateful.
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I N T H I S I S S U E
Winter Two Thousand Twenty
Volume 48, Number 2
Mission Statement: The Sisters of Charity of
the Blessed Virgin Mary is a community of
Catholic women religious who, in response
to a personal call from God, have chosen a
vowed life of prayer, ministry, and community. 6 9 12
BVMs express their mission of being freed Preserving Legacy for 25 Years Mount Carmel Bluffs Journey to the Middle of the Earth
and helping others enjoy freedom in service
to God’s people though their core values
of freedom, education, charity, and justice. Forming Relationships by Touching Hearts
4 Gannon Scholars Learn to Lead
Salt is published three times per year for
by Mary Fran McLaughlin, BVM
friends and family of the Sisters of Charity of
the Blessed Virgin Mary.
6 Women and Leadership Archives Celebrates 25 Years
Editor: Angie Connolly by Carolyn Farrell, BVM
communications@bvmsisters.org
Managing Editor/Staff Writer: 7 When Disaster Strikes, BVMs ‘Attend to Those in Need’
Mary Glindinning by Kate Hendel, BVM
Layout and Design: Sandra Dieter
8 Shared Values Build Community
Communications Advisory Committee:
by Terese Shinners, BVM
Lou Anglin, BVM; Carolyn (Lester) Farrell, BVM;
Mary Fran (Virginia Mary) McLaughlin, BVM;
Ann Sweeney, and Associates Lori Ritz and 10 Giving the Gift of Life, Affirming Life in Ministries
Andy Schroeder by Margaret “Peggy” Geraghty, BVM
If you would like to receive Salt, contact: 12 Travelers Share Insights, Adventures, Experiences From Ecuador
development@bvmsisters.org
by Mary Glindinning
1100 Carmel Drive, Dubuque, Iowa 52003
563-585-2854
15 Stop, Take a Breath, Observe, and Proceed
by Associate Katie Pfiffner
Calendar of Events
16 In Memoriam
March 2020
8–13 Loretto Community NGO
Delegation to the Annual Commission 18 Salt Briefs
on the Status of Women, New York
April 2020
14–19 2020 Congregational Assembly
Dubuque, Iowa
17–20 Ecumenical Advocacy Days
BVM Perspective Annual Report 2018–2019
Washington, D.C.
26 Immaculata HS Alumnae Luncheon 19 Donor Profile: Families Share Sister, Memories, and Spiritual Strength
Niles, Ill. by Mary Glindinning
26 St. Mary HS Alumnae Luncheon
Lombard, Ill.
May 2020 21 Welcome, New Sister Development Network Members!
14 Great Give Day
17 Memorial Mass, Mount Carmel
Dubuque, Iowa 23 Gratitude for Catholic Education Lasts a Lifetime
July 2020 by Mary Glindinning
18 Silver Jubilee Celebration
Mount Carmel, Dubuque, Iowa 24 Mass for Our Benefactors and Memorial Mass
26 Installation of New Leadership
Mount Carmel, Dubuque, Iowa
26 Set of 1960, 60th Celebration
Mount Carmel, Dubuque, Iowa
On the cover: In this issue of Salt, read how BVMs leave
For more events and information, visit:
bvmsisters.org/events. their legacy on hearts, not tombstones, to paraphrase
Shannon L. Alder as quoted in “Seasoning.” Writers explore
how BVMs continue to educate, as seen through the eyes
of Gannon Scholars; how they touch others’ lives by giving
Check us out online: blood; how they help preserve and share the history of
facebook.com/bvmsisters women leaders; how they inspire others to experience
twitter.com/bvmsisters
another culture; and how they prepare to share their home
youtube.com/bvmsisters
pinterest.com/bvmsisters through Mount Carmel Bluffs.
instagram.com/bvmsisters
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Thirty-seven women at Loyola University Chicago are 2019–20 Gannon Scholars. The program is named for BVM Ann Ida Gannon, who hoped
women would be inspired “not only to achieve their rightful place in society, but also to be able to use their gifts in bettering the world.”
Photos provided by Loyola University Chicago.
Gannon Scholars Learn to Lead
by Mary Fran McLaughlin, BVM
The Gannon Scholars Program, In the midst of about 12,000 research project focused on the socio-
a jewel of the Gannon Center for Women undergraduate students at LUC, emotional challenges facing undocu-
Gannon Scholars shine, claiming mented women in the United States.
and Leadership at Loyola University
some of the most coveted academic Emily, from Avon,
Chicago (LUC), is a progressive four- awards, holding on-campus leadership Ohio, is one of the first
year program that engages students in positions, and volunteering or students in the School
leadership, service, and research. interning in community organizations. of Communication’s
Recently two Gannon seniors, new creative
Juana Fonseca and Emily Robertson, advertising major
Founded in 1984, the program continues
received the President’s Medallion, and is the firm director of Inigo
Mundelein College’s legacy of academics given to an outstanding student in Communication, Loyola’s unique
and service. Appropriately, the Gannon each of Loyola’s 14 Schools. student-run communications agency.
Center was named to honor the late Ann Juana, from Chicago, As director, she spearheaded an
is a biology major on organization restructure—possible
Ida Gannon, BVM, a pioneer in women’s
a pre-medicine school because of her vision, her ability to
education and leadership who served as track. She is currently communicate that vision, and her
Mundelein’s president from 1957 to 1975. engaged in a two-year steadfast commitment to results.
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Scholars in Many Fields (Science, Technology, Engineering, Last summer she returned to work and
This year, 37 women are enrolled as Mathematics) classes, including her first live on the farm—planting and harvesting
Gannon Scholars: six are first-generation physics class, indicates potential academic crops and preparing meals for the workers
college students and 14 are women achievement and success. from fresh seasonal produce. She found
of color. In the spring of 2019, their She is already involved in several rich multi-cultural and intergenerational
median GPA was 3.92, student organizations diversity among fellow workers and
“
and 14 participate in the on campus, including created a variety of new menus featuring
interdisciplinary and one Engineers for Social seasonal plants, fresh from the farm.
in the business honors As it moves into Justice and the Latin She truly values the Gannon program
program. Their majors the future, the Gannon American Student for “single-gender space where you can
represent 26 areas of study. Center will extend Association. be yourself, speak openly about what you
The $8,000 Gannon its influence beyond As a Deferred Action think, disagree with a different view or
scholarships are awarded Mundelein College, for Childhood Arrivals opinion, put aside fear of being or looking
annually to incoming Loyola University (DACA) student, she too smart.”
first-year students and Chicago, and the United is passionate about
are renewable for three States to inspire women immigration and Encouragement Sustains Studies
additional years based on throughout the world. . .” separation of families; the Lastly, senior Radia
successful participation. —Ann Ida Gannon, BVM
environment and gender Daud, from Chicago, will
More than 1,200 2009 equity in STEM are also launch her nursing career
applications are received priorities for her. this summer.
annually for 10 places! “I would not love Now a U.S. citizen, Radia
Gabrielle Buckley, Mundelein ’77, Loyola as much if I were not in Gannon,” was born in Eritrea in East Africa and as a
director of the Gannon Center, and she says, adding that among the Gannon toddler fled with her mother to Ethiopia,
Sarah Hallett, program coordinator, Scholars she has found strong group where they lived in refugee camps while
sift through initial applications before support, even a physics tutor, and a bond seeking asylum in the United States.
potential Gannon Scholars join them in of belonging that was sparked with a This bright young student learned
the final steps: inviting 40 candidates for retreat early in the semester. English quickly when she entered public
an interview, actively participating in the Gannon Scholars meet weekly on school and advanced in her studies,
interviews, and selecting the next class. Monday evening for one hour to “check completing an International Baccalaureate
Gannon sophomore in” and explore areas of interest and certificate in high school.
Sarah Lehmann, a women’s leadership. She applied for the Gannon scholarship
psychology major from Sarah works with Gannon presenters in order to attend LUC. She realizes how
Rapid City, S.D., says who take turns to facilitate and prepare much she has received, “especially the
she was feeling scared the topic. Topics include social justice, encouragement to do my best.”
and alone before the interview, where feminism, and professional and Her research explores the health care
she experienced, with great relief, leadership skills. of refugees who are underserved because
“unconditional love and care.” of language barriers and lack of finances.
Returning in August, she coped with Research Draws Scholars Radia intends to work on a doctorate
homesickness and adjustment to new The opportunity to do in nursing practices while she gains
surroundings. Gannon proved to be her research was what attracted experience in the field of nursing.
“home away from home. It changed my Rachel Phan, a senior Ann Ida wrote in 2009, “As it moves
life and I am not alone.” accounting major from into the future, the Gannon Center will
She is discerning where her psychol- Beaverton, Ore., to apply for extend its influence beyond Mundelein
ogy major will lead her and “what God the Gannon scholarship. College, Loyola University Chicago,
wants for me.” She is drawn to a career Her research project deals with and the United States to inspire women
in health services with special attention sustainability accounting for investors. throughout the world who are struggling
to mental health. Rachel plans to stay at LUC next year not only to achieve their rightful place
to complete her master of science in in society but also to use their gifts in
Program Provides a Sense of Belonging accountancy and eventually earn a CPA. bettering the world.”
Valeria Monreal, first- Environmental issues are extremely Gannon Scholars, past and present,
year Gannon Scholar important to her. In her first year, she stand up and take a bow!
from Chicago studying joined Alternate Break Immersion through
biomedical engineering, is campus ministry during spring break to About the author: Mary Fran (Virginia Mary)
looking forward to a career visit an organic farm in Michigan. McLaughlin, BVM is enjoying retirement in
in stem cell research. Participants helped to “clear the Chicago and is a board member at Christ the
Her strong commitment and drive land” and care for some of the smaller King Jesuit College Prep, a Cristo Rey School
to keep up with her challenging STEM animals on this 150-acre family farm. in the Austin neighborhood.
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The archives house the collections of
women or groups of women associated
with leadership in the best sense of the
word: making the world a better place.
Many of our own BVMs have collections
in the archives (see below).
On Sept. 27, 2019, the WLA at
Loyola University Chicago celebrated its
25th anniversary.
Faculty and staff from both Mundelein
and Loyola, as well as donors to the
archives and interested friends, gathered at
Piper Hall. It was a festive event, as those
present were aware of the significance of
this celebration.
Celebrating the 25th anniversary of the Women and Leadership Archives are (l. to r.) BVMs Joellen Two notable WLA donors who
McCarthy, Diane (Malia) Rapozo, and Jean Dolores Schmidt; Susan Ross, Pamela Caughie; attended the anniversary celebration
BVM Carolyn Farrell; and Kate Kucera. Photo by Noah Johnsen, Rambler Productions. included Antoinette Trela and husband
John W. Schoen. They completed the
Women and Leadership Archives funding needed for the Polish Women’s
Alliance of America (PWAA) preservation
Celebrates 25 Years
project. This project will preserve and
digitize photos and ledgers in the PWAA,
which are in the WLA.
by Carolyn Farrell, BVM
Kathryn “Kate” Kucera, sister of
deceased BVM Barbara Kutchera,
Anniversaries are significant markers in life: represented Artemisia Gallery, one of the
first women artists’ cooperatives in the
a marriage, a graduation, a declaration of war. The date arrives each year
Midwest, which closed in 2003 after 30
wrapped in memories of the past. The joys and the sorrows of the event surface years in Chicago. Her papers are in the
once again as stories are shared or held in the silence of mind and heart. archives, as are the papers of more than 20
artists who were a part of Artemisia.
Through the WLA, the intertwined
Mundelein College, founded in That fall a committee of Mundelein history of Mundelein, Loyola, BVM
Chicago by the Sisters of Charity of the and Loyola faculty and staff came together Sisters, and women leaders is preserved for
Blessed Virgin Mary in 1929, became to consider an appropriate plan to carry scholars, researchers, and historians.
part of Loyola University Chicago forth Mundelein’s legacy. The outcome
in June 1991 with the signing of the of their work was the Ann Ida Gannon, About the author: Carolyn (Lester) Farrell,
memorandum of agreement by the chairs BVM Center for Women and Leadership; BVM is retired and living at Mount Carmel in
of the respective board of trustees of the Women and Leadership Archives Dubuque, Iowa, after an administrative and
each school. (WLA) are a part of the center. teaching career.
Just a Pinch
BVMs whose papers are a part of the WLA collection include:
• Ann Ida Gannon • Mary Patricia (St. Thomas) Haley
• Carol Frances Jegen • Ann (St. Remi) Harrington
• Mary Christine (Christophil) Athans • Mary Anne (Bernarde Marie) Hoope
• Anne E. (Mary Anne David) Carr • Barbara (George Mary) Kutchera
• Irma Corcoran • Catherine “Katie” (St. Thoma) McHugh
• Ann Credidio • Jean Dolores Schmidt
• Joan Frances Crowley • Margaret (Crescentia) Thornton
• Mary (Donatus) DeCock • Carolyn (Lester) Farrell Members of PWAA send care packages to
• Blanche Marie Gallagher prisoners of war in Poland during World War II,
Circa 1940. Photo courtesy of the Women and Leadership
To learn more about the Women and Leadership Archives, visit: luc.edu/wla. Archives, Loyola University Chicago.
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When Disaster
Strikes, BVMs
‘Attend to
Those in Need’
by Kate Hendel, BVM
In the autumn of 1886, the
Sisters of Charity of the Blessed
Virgin Mary living on the prairie
suffered the loss of the hogs—
clearly a tragedy as they were
“dependent on the money from
the sale of the hogs to get them
through the winter.” Sisters help clean up
from the aftermath
of the great flood
BVM Foundress Mary Frances of 1965 along
the banks of the
Clarke called on the sisters for
Mississippi River in
help in her letter of Nov. 26: Dubuque, Iowa.
“. . . I would ask you if you could
lend me a little money if you
had it to spare before Christmas.
I have never asked such a favor
from the Sisters before but I
cannot help it now . . . ”
This early crisis might be seen as a Frequently, funds are channeled through
model for the current BVM Disaster Catholic Relief Services or designated
Fund. Today when significant catastrophic funds in the local diocese. Just a Pinch
events, such as hurricanes, fires, or floods, At times when a disaster impacts a In September 2019, a total of
occur locally, nationally, or around the particularly large area where the need is $5,500 was collected by sisters and
associates for the victims of Hurricane
world, sisters and associates are invited widespread, the congregation matches the
Dorian in the Bahamas. Contributions
to make contributions to support those amount contributed by the sisters and
to the BVM Disaster Fund were sent
impacted by the disaster. sends funds to more than one location. to Catholic Relief Services.
In such cases, BVMs are “compelled Whether the contributions for
by the example and word of Mary Frances the Disaster Fund originate from U.S. Coast Guard photo by Seaman Erik Villa Rodriguez
tinyurl.com/tsn4oq8.
Clarke in her sensitive response to critical an individual or the congregation,
human situations, and strive to seek out participation enables sisters and associates
and attend to those in need . . .” (BVM to continue in mission as they partner
Constitutions #15) with various organizations who serve and
To ensure that those with the greatest assist those in need.
need receive the Disaster Fund monies, care
is taken to identify reputable organizations About the Author: Kate Hendel, BVM is
that interface directly with those affected. secretary of the congregation in Dubuque, Iowa.
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Shared Values
Build Community by Terese Shinners, BVM
During daily “Stand Up” time, Presbyterian
Homes & Services staff share concerns
and hopes as part of their mission.
Photo contributed by Presbyterian Homes & Services.
This year there will be a The Motherhouse, home to BVMs Objective factors—including finances,
since 1893 and now jointly owned by Dubuque demographics, and the
dramatic shift in the trajectory
BVM Sisters and Presbyterian Homes & environment—figured into the decision
of the Sisters of Charity of the Services (PHS), will become the hub of leading to the collaboration with PHS.
Blessed Virgin Mary story. Mount Carmel Bluffs. But profoundly more important was
This new community, product of the need to ensure alignment of values core
A new senior living the shared ministry of BVMs and PHS, to those of the BVM Sisters. Shared values
community attached to the emerged from exhaustive study by both have driven the process and will be intrinsic
Mount Carmel Motherhouse
organizations. to the life of Mount Carmel Bluffs.
For almost 30 years, BVMs have A deep and conscious commitment to
in Dubuque, Iowa, will
been engaged in planning for a future Scripture has inspirited the PHS mission
become home for BVMs with fewer and older sisters, but with a “to honor God by enriching the lives and
and other older adults in consistent determination to continue the touching the hearts of older adults.”
the tri-state area. BVM legacy despite these realities. This This resonates deeply with the BVM
intent was a major criterion in searching mission of service through ministries
for an entity to help make this possible. chosen in the spirit of the BVM
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Constitutions which call the sisters to live
the Gospel of Jesus. Mount Carmel Bluffs Reveals Logo
Prayer is part of the daily routine at
Mount Carmel Bluffs is a shared
PHS communities where, during the daily ministry of the Sisters of Charity, BVM
“Stand Up” time, staff share concerns and and Presbyterian Homes & Services.
hopes in a scriptural context. The blue, green, and yellow colors
This meshes with the rhythm of BVM of the logo represent the peaceful
prayer. BVMs meet in groups to share a surroundings of the Mount Carmel
variety of prayer styles. Shared prayer is property which has been in the care of
central to BVM Sisters and links them to the BVM Sisters since 1889.
the wider community through the BVM Each color symbolizes a different welcoming and relational to all future
element of the beautiful nature of residents. The paths lead to the future
Prayer Association.
this sacred space. Blue represents signifying a new beginning and a
Meetings to plan this shared ministry continued legacy of the BVM Sisters.
the Mississippi River upon which
are held in a context of prayer. BVMs Mount Carmel is located. The green
and PHS celebrated prayerfully together path represents the rolling hills and
the creation of the new entity and the bluffs above the river. The yellow leaf Follow Mount Carmel Bluffs
groundbreaking for the new senior represents the beautiful sunrises that Facebook:
living community. can be seen over the river. facebook.com/mount-carmel-bluffs
Responsible stewardship of resources The motion of the logo is designed Website:
to reflect an openness that is both mountcarmelbluffs.org
is another mutual commitment of BVMs
and PHS. Although the sisters’ ability to
engage in active ministry has diminished,
the congregation shares its financial
resources when possible through Ministry
Partnership Grants to other church- Mount Carmel Bluffs: Construction Update
related agencies reflecting congregational
values. Donors to the Presbyterian Homes We all know who the real
Foundation are given the opportunity to “Snoopervisor” of the Mount Carmel
earmark gifts to the PHS benevolence fund Bluffs construction crew is. From her
perch in the third floor turret, BVM
which is used to address financial hardship
Patricia Ann (Marjorie) Donahoe
that residents face from time to time. keeps a close watch on progress.
Sensitive regard for individuals
permeates the BVM and PHS ethos. The construction crew continues
BVM Philosophy of Retirement stems with excavation and pouring of
from congregational core values of foundations as framework begins.
charity, freedom, education, and justice.
PHS values, summarized in CROSS
(Christian Ministry, Ready and Engaged
People, Operational Integrity, Service
Excellence, Stewardship), ensure quality
of life for residents.
The resonance of these strong value
systems augurs well for the future of
Mount Carmel Bluffs.
In fall of 2020 sisters will move into
the Phase I building. Optimism, some
trepidation, and trust in a very transparent
process are in the sisters’ hearts.
A strong undercurrent of peace is
rooted in the words of BVM Foundress
Mary Frances Clarke: “I have no fears so
long as you are working unitedly.”
About the author: Terese (Ellena) Shinners,
BVM volunteers at St. Camillus Health Center
in Milwaukee. She is a member of the BVM
Future Planning Committee.
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Marie Greaney, BVM
has given blood since
she was in the novitiate
at Mount Carmel in
Dubuque, Iowa.
“I know it
saves lives.
It doesn’t
hurt, and
you can help
people.”
Giving the Gift of Life, Affirming Life in Ministries
by Margaret “Peggy” Geraghty, BVM
Marie (David Therese) Greaney, As children, “we thought he saved devoted much of her life to pastoral
BVM celebrated her 87th birthday by every baby in the hospital,” Marie says. care at Palos Community Hospital in
donating blood, something she has Her three brothers have also given Palos Heights, Ill.
blood regularly since their Navy days. She always felt that she received
done often over the past 67 years.
Marie first gave blood when she more than she could ever give. “People
was in the novitiate at Mount Carmel share so much. You feel so gifted by the
Giving blood is a family tradition. in Dubuque, Iowa, when an emer- trust that people place in you. It’s been
Her father, a universal blood donor gency call went out to area residents a gift to do something that means so
who was often called in the middle for blood donors. much to people in happy and sad times
Now she is among the most veteran in their lives,” she says.
of the night to give blood at
donors at Versiti, formerly Heartland
Children’s Memorial Hospital in Blood Center, in Tinley Park, Ill., Pastoral care ministry began in Illinois
Chicago, gave blood regularly where they have calculated that she’s Marie began this ministry of
throughout his lifetime. given eight gallons of blood since her pastoral care in the 1980s with a
first donation there in 1987. residency at Lutheran General Hospital
Working in hospitals, she has seen in Des Plaines, Ill.
how important blood donations are. In 1982 she began her pastoral
“I just love being able to do that. I work at Palos Community Hospital in
know it saves lives. It doesn’t hurt, and Palos Park, Ill., where she continued to
you can help people,” Marie says. minister for 21 years. In her role, she
A medical scenario has been a worked as chaplain in various areas of
familiar one for Marie, who has patient care.
10 | S A L T MAGAZINEFor 11 years Marie was the director It is a wonderful way to get to know
of pastoral services at Palos Community, donors, she says.
the first woman to serve in that position. “They’ve shared many wonderful
Just a Pinch
As director, her ministry expanded experiences. They let us into parts of Marie’s 87th birthday and
her generous history of blood
as she was instrumental in opening their private lives that they wouldn’t share
donation received special
the hospital’s first hospice center and with anyone else,” Marie says. “I think recognition this past October
establishing cancer support groups, as when I talk to people, the fact that I am in a feature article in the Daily
well as support groups for people dealing a BVM makes them very comfortable Southtown published by the
with infant death and miscarriage. because they have such respect and love Chicago Tribune.
Early in her retirement years she also for BVMs.” Focus on her donation
served as health care coordinator for the She continues to make other history was part of a campaign
BVM congregation in the Chicago area. connections, too. initiated by Versiti Blood Center
This gave her an overview of health care Now in retirement she has chosen of Illinois to encourage senior
needs in the BVM community and an to live in a Housing and Urban citizens to give blood. The
article reported her activities
opportunity to share her pastoral skills Development building where she often
in Palos, recognizing her
in another unique way. visits sick residents and drives people blood donation record, but
Marie grew up in Chicago and after to appointments. also highlighting her service
entering the BVMs, spent her early Marie is very conscious of ministering in pastoral ministry at Palos
teaching years in primary education in to people as they travel their journey Community Hospital.
Colorado, Iowa, Montana, and Chicago. with dignity to Eternal Life, as she says, Someone needs blood in
She had an early experience of “helping the sick and their families to the United States every two
working with the elderly and learning treasure their memories, telling their seconds. Regular blood donors
about aging on her first mission at St. stories for many generations to also like Marie are wonderful and
appreciated, but they can’t
Joseph Academy in Des Moines, Iowa, treasure and share.”
do it all by themselves. More
where she had the opportunity to work She shares that her frequent prayer is donors are needed to meet the
with older sisters. She feels like her “asking God to continue to bless me as ongoing need for blood.
early success and joy in this experience I travel my journey and to give me the Versiti Blood Center of
prepared her for the ministry of pastoral strength I need to help others as they Illinois encourages Chicagoland
care that she embraced so wholeheartedly travel their journey.” residents to schedule lifesaving
later in her ministry. blood donations by calling
About the author: Margaret “Peggy” (St. 1-800-7TO-GIVE.
Keeping connected Cabrini) Geraghty, BVM lives in Chicago. She If you are looking for a local
Marie is a member of the Sisters is currently chair of the board of Bethany blood drive in your area, visit:
redcross.org/give-blood.htm.
Development Network, which connects House of Hospitality, a residence for young
BVMs with benefactors. immigrant women in Hyde Park.
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HappyBirthday to our BVM Sisters!
Mary (Loras) Martens, BVM is one of many sisters, associates, and staff who give the gift of life with
each donation helping up to three people! The American Red Cross comes to Mount Carmel in Mount Carmel Blood Drive Title
Dubuque, Iowa, annually for a blood drive.
WINTER 2020 | 11Volunteer service group members accompany a WBC social worker on a visit to the homes
of families who are new to the center.
Travelers Share Insights,
Adventures, Experiences
From Ecuador
by Mary Glindinning
It was a journey to the middle of the world when
two groups took weeklong immersion trips to
Quito, Ecuador, sponsored by the Sisters of Charity
of the Blessed Virgin Mary.
Group members participate
in a minga, which is voluntary
collaborative work, to help
build a house.
For some, last fall’s excursion was a
family trip: mother and daughter Tina
and Tracy Bauer, husband and wife Tim
and Mary Moothart, and mother and son
Danita and Liam Grant.
Travelers stayed at the Working Boys’
Center (WBC), where BVMs served as
teachers, administrators, and volunteers
for more than 50 years. WBC’s staff
encourage families in their commitment
to their children and work hard to break
the cycle of poverty.
Left: Danita and Liam Grant and Mary Ann Conzett make guagua de pan (sweet bread shaped
like babies or dolls) to celebrate Día de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) at the WBC. Right: “WBC makes a difference,” says Mary
LaDonna Manternach, BVM laughs with the children in the WBC comedor (dining room). Ann Conzett. “Providing now for girls,
12 | S A L T MAGAZINEboys, and families—they now have poverty by learning skills, trades, and to open my heart, to learn from others,
security, safety, education, nourishment, money management. and to make a difference” gave structure
friendship, and family stability. What a Over the years several groups have to the discussions.
gift, all from small steps.” taken cultural and service immersion The first night’s conversation
Founded in 1964 by Father John trips, many to see how people of centered on volunteering; the next on
Halligan, SJ, the WBC began by another culture live and to be of help opening hearts; the third on learning;
addressing the needs of boys working on where they can. The groups visit schools and the fourth on making a difference.
the streets shining shoes. and homes, and some paint or serve Quotes from BVM Foundress Mary
A few years after its founding, meals at the center. Frances Clarke also sparked inspiration,
Miguel Conway, BVM added education During the recent immersion trips, prayers, and discussion.
to the offerings. each group gathered daily for prayer, Sometimes the experience could be
But it is more than a school. The Scripture reading, quiet reflection, and heart wrenching and inspiring at the
whole family is involved with programs conversation about the day. A T-shirt same time.
and workshops to break the cycle of created for the trip that says, “I volunteer Ecuador continued on p. 14.
WINTER 2020 | 13Tina Bauer (l.), Robert Monford, BVM LaDonna Manternach, Tracy Bauer, Tina (l.) and Tracy Bauer paint pillars at the WBC.
Associate Lori Ritz, and Debi Marek tour the historic part of Quito, Ecuador.
Ecuador continued from p. 13. the parents did they did so their children big helping hand considering how much
could have a better life and be happy.” longer it would have taken them to do it all
“It was a very emotional experience The people they visited want to save by themselves.”
for some of the families to explain their enough to build their own home, and one Although the people they met
situations to us, and for me, hearing of the groups was able to help make that struggle, they face the future with faith,
about the struggles the families have,” a reality. generosity, and hope.
shares Danita Grant, who visited the “The minga (voluntary collaborative “We witnessed a unique Ecuadorian
homes in the countryside. “Seeing their work, in this case helping a family to build graduation and award ceremony for adult
living conditions firsthand really helped a house) was a lot of fun. It was really great students who returned to school. We
my understanding of what their daily seeing everyone working together unitedly. painted a few columns in the courtyard as
lives are like.” Everyone pitched in and did their part to gestures of service, but we are humbled by
Most homes are modest. Some don’t help out,” says Liam, 14. the magnitude of the genuine nature of
have running water or heat, and some “At one point we even had an assembly the people that we have had the privilege
families live in one room divided by a line going where everyone would hand off to know here,” says Mary Moothart.
blanket so you don’t see the beds when the buckets filled with cement to the next The people they met are grateful
you enter. person, and then the last person would for those who touch their lives, and the
“These homes were small and not dump it in a huge pile where the base of visitors were grateful to have met them.
built very well at all,” says Debi Marek. the house was to be made,” says Liam. “I think throughout all of our days
“I was amazed at the courage, faith, and Even though he didn’t think it seemed here we have seen Ecuadorians wear all
hope the mothers had. They took what like much work was accomplished, “I still different ‘hats’ of who or what they are
they had and made it work. Everything feel like we were able to give the family a meant to be,” says Tracy Bauer. “From
my point of view, they are setting the
world on fire with their gifts, genuineness,
and hard work. They inspire me to work
hard, continue learning, and be thankful,
Just a Pinch grateful, and blessed.”
Read participants Ecuadorian reflections on the BVM Blog – Walk With Us. If you are interested in joining a future
Ecuador immersion service or cultural
discovery trip, contact Lori Ritz, director
of the office of BVM Life and Mission,
lritz@bvmsisters.org or 563-588-2351.
About the author: Mary Glindinning is a
communications specialist for the Sisters
of Charity of the Blessed Virgin Mary in
Dubuque, Iowa.
Volunteer Service Trip Reflections: Cultural Immersion Trip Reflections:
tinyurl.com/vtk5rhl. tinyurl.com/sl48jjj.
14 | S A L T MAGAZINEIn the midst of a whirlwind of change,
it’s necessary to stop and take care of yourself.
We learn literally to stop in the first of three
reflections by Associate Katie Pfiffner to be published
in Salt that will explore topics such as mindfulness,
gratitude, respect, tolerance, and compassion.
Katie is pastoral services minister for the Sisters of Charity of the Blessed Virgin Mary in
Dubuque, Iowa. She meets with the sisters for mindfulness meditation, Omega discussion
groups (based on the work of Sister Ilia Delio, OSF), Praying into the Moment with chair
yoga and breath practices, and other activities.
Stop, Take a Breath, Observe, and Proceed
by Associate Katie Pfiffner
“All you need to know is that the day can lower our stress and enable us to create
the space needed to be present.
future is wide open and you are
about to create it by what you do.” S = Stop. Take a break from what you
are doing and pause.
—Pema Chodron T = Take a couple breaths. This could be for
a few seconds or a few minutes. Notice the
There is no denying the air coming in and notice the air going out.
excitement in the air as we O = Observe the moment as it is.
think about 2020. When we Observe what you are experiencing in
look to the year ahead and this moment physically, mentally, and
consider all the change coming emotionally. Just notice, without judging
within the congregation, it as good or bad.
within the walls of Mount Carmel, P = Proceed. Proceed with a sense of
throughout the United States and the world, gentleness and a fresh perspective of how
it’s easy to get wrapped up in something that you are receiving this moment.
has yet to happen, all the while missing the
moment we are in. In many Eastern languages, the same word
Pausing for a deep breath can bring us is used for ‘mind’ and ‘heart.’ This awareness
out of our ruminations of the future right helps us tune into the connection between our
into the body, which can only exist in the thoughts, feelings, and sensations in the body.
present moment. Mindfulness—intentional It is through these same connections that we
present moment awareness without influence each moment, creating the future by
judgment—can help us stay tuned into our what we do.
mind and heart, choosing our response, As we move through the coming days,
rather than getting lost in anticipation or weeks, and months, can we pause, breathe,
expectation of what is to come. and be present to ourselves and to one another,
There is a practice in mindfulness called creating a space of gentleness and compassion
S.T.O.P., and utilizing this throughout the as we create this future together?
WINTER 2020 | 15In Memoriam
Please pray for the BVMs who have died October 2019–January 2020.
Geneve Mary Adele Marie (Charles Marie)
Moran, BVM Henneberry, BVM Neff, BVM
Nov. 30, 1925–Oct. 5, 2019 Aug. 21, 1927–Nov. 7, 2019 June 11, 1929–Nov. 14, 2019
Geneve taught in Fort Dodge, Mary Adele served in Dubuque, Fort Marie served in Kansas City and
Iowa; Chicago; Casper, Wyo.; West Dodge, and Boone, Iowa; Chicago; Hickman Hills, Mo.; San Francisco and
Hempstead, N.Y.; and Wilmette, Ill. Grayslake, Ill.; Hempstead, N.Y.; Petaluma, Calif.; Omaha and Lincoln,
Milwaukee; and Santa Rosa, Calif. Neb.; and Wichita, Kan.
“While teaching at Regina,
Geneve moved into an apartment “Adele was a kind, sweet, “St. Paul wrote, ‘Whatever you do,
with her mother, who could woman with a beautiful smile in word or in deed, do everything
no longer live alone. For many and a great sense of humor. She in the name of the Lord Jesus,
years, Geneve cared for her with was gifted with intelligence, giving thanks to God through
gentleness, patience, and love. It perceptivity, enthusiasm, and him.’ (Colossians 3:17). This is
was during this time that Geneve creativity that she used well to the way Marie lived. Her words
met her good friend, Karen serve others. She knew how to were open and honest, her deeds
Malca, whose influence turned free people to become their best by thoughtful, kind, and loving.
Geneve into a world traveler. encouraging them with unfailing
support and loving honesty. “She had a sense of humor and
“She journeyed throughout enjoyed life. She was a good
Europe and Mexico, sometimes “Adele wrote ‘One of the greatest listener who could anticipate
on educational tours with joys of my life has been the the needs of others. She was
students or other teachers and opportunity I have had to teach generous with her time and a
sometimes just for fun. Her music to children and to share hard worker—the first person
family, being quiet, at-home it with others. I pray that music people sought out when something
people, were amazed as her will continue to brighten their needed to be done. She was
adventurous side emerged, while lives and our own lives and will grateful for all that people did
Geneve was deeply grateful to all bring us all closer to God as it for her, but even more grateful
who cared for her mother when surely has done for me!’” (Eulogy) to have the opportunity to serve
she was away.” (Eulogy) others.” (Eulogy)
We Remember Georg Ek
Jan. 23, 1930–Dec. 15, 2019
Mary Elizabeth Luckey Maglione
Feb. 1, 1928–Dec. 24, 2019
Our Associates
16 | S A L T MAGAZINEIn Memoriam features excerpts from each
Sister’s Eulogy, read at her funeral liturgy. Visit
our website to read a sister’s entire obituary or
watch her funeral Mass at bvmsisters.org/obituaries.
Mary Christine Deanna Marie Ernestina
(Christophil) Athans, BVM (Bernita) Carr, BVM Molinari, BVM
April 7, 1932–Dec. 7, 2019 May 20, 1940–Jan. 1, 2020 Oct. 30, 1930–Jan. 5, 2020
Mary Christine served in Claremont, Deanna ministered in Seattle; Ernestina taught or ministered
Calif; Champaign, Ill.; Chicago; Stockett, Centerville, and Great in Chicago; Kauai, Hawaii;
Phoenix; and St. Paul, Minn. Falls, Mont.; Port Orchard, Wash.; Los Angeles, San Francisco,
St. Paul, Minn.; Chicago; and Stockton, San Jose, Santa Rosa,
“Christine was a prolific author Dubuque, Iowa. Los Gatos, and Santa Clara, Calif.
who wrote extensively on Jewish-
“Liturgy was at the center of “Ernestina’s treasure, and
Christian relations. She penned
Deanna’s spirituality; it was perhaps her favorite ‘hobby,’
several books, most notably
her source of strength and the was connecting with people.
In Quest of the Jewish Mary:
key to her communion with With that famous effusive
The Mother of Jesus in History, God. She was traditional Italian personality–large,
Theology, and Spirituality yet very attentive to early vibrant, alive–she was
. . . [Her] gifts and activities were liturgical reforms. energy and joy personified.
indeed many, but at all times she She not only enjoyed a good
was a dynamic educator. “She was a woman of party, she made it a good
courage with the power to party, lighting up a room
“The Director of the Office speak her truth regardless of the with her effervescence.
of Pastoral Planning in the prevailing opinion. Yet,
Archdiocese of Saint Paul and the litmus test for all her “She totally engaged
Minneapolis wrote, ‘Sister decisions was simple: Is this with people, making
Christine has a marvelous pastoral? She worked tirelessly conversations with her easy
ability to present data in a lively, to serve the church and its and comfortable manner.
concise, and enthusiastic fashion. people. The lifeblood of her Ernestina was always
While telling the story, she makes ministry flowed through true to herself, even when
it come alive . . . [She] is a great her counseling, her home she bubbled up outside
teacher of history. Through her visitations, her work with conventional lines. She truly
vast experiences and extensive abused spouses and children, knew the meaning of ‘being
study, she is able to draw and with the chemically freed and helping others
conclusions which are exciting, dependent.” (Eulogy) enjoy freedom in God’s
logical, and insightful.’” (Eulogy) steadfast love.’” (Eulogy)
WINTER 2020 | 17SALT BRIEFS
Virginia Piecuch (l.) and
Helen Gabel celebrated 25 years
as BVM associates in December
with sisters, associates, family
and friends in Chicago.
“Being an associate of the
BVMs for 25 years means being
in a growth relationship with
wonderful, loving, believing,
strong women,” Virginia says.
When she was first invited “to spend an afternoon with BVM
friends, I thought it would be a nice way to meet new people
and spend a few hours,” Helen says. “Little did I know! That ‘nice’
afternoon turned out to be one of the best things I have done
in my life. The relationships I have formed, the friends I have
made, turned my life upside down.”
A Warm Feeling: BVMs Make Hats and Scarves The 25-year celebration was the culmination of all those
to Keep People Warm in Winter years of friendship and love, Helen says.
It all started with a gift and became the gift that keeps
on giving.
Several years ago, BVM Isidora Lorentz’ family gave
her looms and yarn, and she in turn gave it to the
activities department.
And the Knit Wits were born. Since then, boxes of hats
and scarves have left Mount Carmel in Dubuque, Iowa,
and gone to children and adults to help keep them warm.
“It’s not charity. It’s love,” said Catherine Dominick,
The Dubuque, Iowa, County Board of Supervisors signed
BVM, who makes four or five hats a week. “I know in my
a proclamation declaring January as Slavery and Human
heart that some person is going to be able to keep warm
Trafficking Awareness and Prevention Month. The proclamation
during the winter, their head at least. That gives me so
recognized the work of the Tri-State Coalition Against Human
much joy.”
Trafficking and Slavery that BVMs and other congregations
She makes the hats in her room while she watches
helped form. The coalition engages in education and
television. “I wanted something to do besides sit
advocacy to eradicate human trafficking in Dubuque and the
there and twiddle my thumbs. I can’t go out and feed
surrounding area.
somebody. But we’re to clothe the naked, and that’s what
we’re trying to do,” Catherine says. Read more: tinyurl.com/yg5uf2oh.
This year, the Mount Carmel Knit Wits sent 347 hats for
kids to be distributed by the Retired and Senior Volunteer
Program (RSVP) of Dubuque County, along with 56
scarves that Alice Kerker, BVM hand-knit. They also sent
45 men’s hats to the Dubuque Rescue Mission, and 49
babies’ hats to Birth Right.
Read more: tinyurl.com/ye98bb3l.
What’s new
on the web? BVMs attended the SOA rally in November 2009.
From Citizen of the Year to the top 10 sports event of the decade,
BVMs joined in prayer and solidarity with the School
read how BVMs are making the news: bvmsisters.org/news.
of the Americas (SOA) Watch commemoration of the 30th
Recent stories: anniversary of the Central American University Massacre.
• BVM Christmas Service Tradition Lives On at Dowling HS SOA is a combat training school for Latin American
• More Than a Meal: Servers and Diners Feel Nourished soldiers whose graduates have committed unspeakable acts
• Mount Carmel Food, Cash Donations Timely, Needed of violence.
• Breast Cancer Awareness Campaign Buys Wigs for Patients Read about the BVMs’ long-standing presence
at the annual vigil: tinyurl.com/ygdsd3s8.
18 | S A L T MAGAZINEDonors
DonorsofofDistinction
Bus Title
Distinction
2018–2019 Annual Report
Office of BVM Development
Donor Profile:
Families Share Sister,
Memories, and
Spiritual Strength
by Mary Glindinning
The way her relatives see it, Jean
Agnes Phillips, BVM was blessed with
three families: her biological family, her
BVM Sisters, and the families she served.
“We shared her,” Jeff Smoller says
“
of the woman he called Aunt Gen.
“She was one person who had many We shared her. She
families. Each family has to appreciate was one person who
the others.”
had many families.
His aunt died in 2004, but the Each family has to
relationship with the BVMs continues. appreciate the others.”
He and his sister Susan Thiel attend
Memorial and Benefactor Masses at —Jeff Smoller
Mount Carmel in Dubuque, Iowa, as
they did with their mother before she
died in 2016.
Relatives of deceased sisters are
invited to Memorial Masses, and donors
are invited to Benefactor Masses. Close Family Ties longer work, his aunt was a supportive
“We go for Aunt Gen, obviously. Jeff drove his aunt back and forth sounding board.
But there’s a certain peace you feel when between his mother’s house in southeast “My mother was a brilliant woman,
you go to Dubuque. It’s hopeful and Wisconsin and Mount Carmel for but had no occupation.” Aunt Gen told
prayerful. It’s a very holy place. holidays, vacations, and times when the her she could be a teacher, and helped
“When we go to Mount Carmel, family needed to be together. “During her plan how to do it. Jeff’s mother,
we have sisters come up to us and say ‘I big things, crisis moments, traumatic Jeane Smoller, went on to teach for
remember Jean Agnes,’ and then share moments, when her presence was more than 35 years.
the stories of one of her other families,” required, she was always there.”
he says. When his father was ill and could no Families Share Sister continued on p. 22.
2 0 1 8 – 1 9 A nn u a l Re po r t | 19185Years A Legacy of Love
“For all that has been, thank you;
for all that is to come, yes!”
—Dag Hammarskjöld
Dear Friends,
In this issue of Salt, we include our annual report, We are also aware that mistakes happen. If you notice
BVM Perspective, to recognize many of the ways you that your name is omitted, misspelled, or incorrectly
partnered with us during the last fiscal year between identified, please accept our sincere apologies and
Sept. 1, 2018, and Aug. 31, 2019. advise the Office of Development of the inaccuracy.
Our mission lives on because of partners like you. Preparing this annual report reminded me of how
Thank you so much for your dedication, enthusiasm, grateful I am to be working for the BVM Sisters and
passion, and resources in support of the various with such remarkable people. I am thrilled to serve
ministries of the Sisters of Charity of the Blessed Virgin alongside you as partners to advance their ministries
Mary. We are truly blessed by your continued generosity. that matter most.
Last year embodied A Legacy of Love in celebration Although I was born and raised in Dubuque,
of the vitality of BVM mission for 185 years. In the Iowa, I most recently lived in the state of Washington
following pages, we highlight some of the areas where for almost 35 years while serving in the U.S. Army,
your gifts allowed us to help others in the United States attending graduate school, and working in various
and abroad. Many of you met sisters in classrooms, and roles in the executive and judicial branches of state
educating the next generation is still near and dear to government. I recently returned to Dubuque to embark
their hearts. But they also feed the hungry, speak out on this exciting journey as director of development and
against oppression, and work for justice. grant administrator.
BVM Perspective acknowledges donors whose I look forward to connecting with you more in the
cumulative contributions or contributions over the days ahead and hearing stories of your experiences with
past fiscal year made them a member of one of four the BVM Sisters.
Donors of Distinction giving circles. The BVM Monthly Thank you again for all you offer to the Sisters
Partners’ circle honors friends who contribute monthly. of Charity, BVM. We simply could not do the work
The Mary Frances Clarke Society honors those whose we do without your commitment, partnership, and
lifetime giving reached $10,000 or more. The Mount prayers. Please find peace in knowing you help make
Carmel Partners’ circle honors friends who show their the world a better place.
generosity with gifts of $1,000 or more during a fiscal Count on our prayers for you and your loved ones.
year. The Legacy Partners Society honors those whose We wish you peace, hope, and blessings in abundance
commitment to the future of the Sisters of Charity, as the new decade dawns.
BVM is demonstrated through estate plans.
Beyond the Donors of Distinction in this annual With deep gratitude,
report, a full list of our nearly 4,400 donors can be found
on our website at bvmsisters.org. An electronic donor
listing preserves resources and helps save the environment.
We appreciate your understanding as we make every Ann E. Sweeney
effort to recognize all contributions and to protect the Director of Development
privacy of donors who requested to remain anonymous. and Grant Administrator
The Sisters of Charity of the Blessed Virgin Mary is recognized as
a nonprofit, tax-exempt, religious organization by the
State of Iowa and the Federal Government.
All financial information in this report
has been reviewed by Eide Bailly LLP.
20 | BVM PerspectiveWelcome New Members! Donors
DonorsofofDistinction
Distinction
The BVM Sisters Development Network (SDN) serves as a key Meet four new members who share why
connection between benefactors and the Sisters of Charity of the they chose to be part of the BVM Sisters
Blessed Virgin Mary. Founded in 1987 with an original group of 11 Development Network.
sisters, today the SND has 20 dedicated BVMs who assist the Office
of Development. Over the past 30 years, more than 70 sisters have “My favorite ministries as a BVM led me
to connect with others,” says Brigid Mary
served on the SDN.
Hart, BVM. “As a Montessori directress
in Denver and working with senior BVMs
BVM Sisters Development Network and Cenacle Sisters in Chicago, each day
brought new and unexpected delight and
challenge. Being open to others continues
as part of the BVM Sisters Development
Network. I am glad to do my small part.”
“I decided to join the development
network shortly after I arrived at Mount
Carmel to stay,” says Suzanne (Frances
Jean (Jean Allan) Mary Anne Alice (Alissio) Joyce Carol) Effinger, BVM. “I heard about it
Beste (Leslie) Bradish Caulfield (Petrine) Cox from the sisters who were in contact with
our benefactors. I thought that that was
something I could do. The connections I
hope to have and that I am having are to
know their names, learn where they live,
and read about their experiences with the
BVMs. I write a letter every once in a while
to keep them informed about progress
Dolores (Sarah Suzanne (Frances Mary Jean (St. Maureen with the building [Mount Carmel Bluffs]
James) Doohan Carol) Effinger Christopher) Ferry Patrice Fury and to let them know the vibrant home
we have. They are helping to support our
life and they need to know about the
interesting things we have here as well as
the fun things we do.”
Georgeann (Immaculate) Quinlan, BVM
says, “It seems very important that we stay
in touch with our donors in a personal way.
Marie (David Brigid Flo (Floretta) Marjorie (Herberdette)
Therese) Greaney The donations that come in are ‘part of the
Mary Hart Heflin Heidkamp
hundredfold’ we heard about as novices.
Our BVM congregation is blessed to have
you [donors]. That is an understatement.
Be assured of my/our prayers even though
I don’t write as often as you deserve.”
Being part of the SDN will “give me a
personal chance to thank the people who
Loretta Hubl Kate (St. Wilma) Bernadette (Lucinus) Julie O’Neill support our ministries and community and
Keating McManigal
develop a relationship with them through
writing, technology, or phone,” says Diane
(Malia) Rapozo, BVM. “Keeping in touch
will let our supporters know how much we
appreciate their generosity and care for
the sisters who have been a part of their
lives. I consider being a part of the SDN a
privilege and an honor.”
Eileen (Robertrese) Georgeann Diane (Malia) Vicki Smurlo
Powell (Immaculate) Quinlan Rapozo
2 0 1 8 – 1 9 A nn u a l Re po r t | 21Left: In this family
photograph are (l.) Jeane
Smoller, Jean Agnes
Phillips, BVM “Aunt Gen,”
Jeff Smoller, Susan Smoller
Thiel, William Smoller, and
Mary-Jeane Smoller-Phillips.
Below: The Phillips sisters
(l.) Jean Agnes Phillips, BVM,
sister-in-law Marie Phillips,
Mary Spang, Emily Eisner,
and Jeane Smoller traveled
together and visited casinos.
“ She was a real
person. Aunt Gen
had a real love and
care for people.”
—Edward Wendland
Always the Best
Families Share Sister continued from p. 19.
When his father died, “Aunt Gen Vacation Visits later elderly women, sitting around the
just stepped in and took over the “She would come stay at my gaming table or at the slots, having the
funeral, emotionally, spiritually, and mother’s house. She had her room there. time of their lives.”
logistically” at a time when his mother She had a presence in the house. When Marian said the sisters shared good-
needed her, Jeff says. there was sauerkraut and potatoes, she natured bickering and bantering.
Now in times of crisis, “Aunt Gen’s” ate it all.” “She was a real person. Aunt Gen had
family asks for prayers from the sisters His mother and his aunts took trips a real love and care for people. She was
at Mount Carmel. And in gratitude, the on a Greyhound bus “just to be sisters close to everyone. That’s how she was.
family supports the BVM mission. together,” Jeff says. She was a warm person,” says Edward
Jeff says Aunt Gen taught him “love “Aunt Gen and her three sisters Rose, Wendland, another nephew. “She visited
above all. She loved unconditionally. Jeane (my grandma), and Sophie loved all the time,” coming to their small farm
Her role, even at a distance, was to take trips to the casinos in Wisconsin outside of West Allis, Wis.
powerful because of her principles, faith, like Ho Chunk, but in particular, they “She was very close to all the nieces
and spirituality.” loved going to Vegas,” said Marian Shah, and nephews. It’s like each was the
But she was not always at a distance. a grand-niece. “Four middle-aged and favorite one. She had that ability that if
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