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January 2021

 Christ Church
   Chronicle
    The Parish Magazine of
    Christ Church, Nailsea

£5 annually or 50p per copy
Christ Church Chronicle - January 2021 - Christ Church, Nailsea
Christ Church Nailsea
                    in the United Benefice of Christ Church, Nailsea
                       and St Quiricus and St Julietta, Tickenham
                         Priest in Charge: Rev. Julie Harris
            Tel: 859105/07857946576 email: jules.rectorccsqsj@gmail.com
Enquiries about banns, weddings and baptisms can be made via Louise Maby, Bene-
fice Administrator on 859210 or church.office@Christchurchnailsea.org.uk
Website: www.Christchurchnailsea.org.uk

Readers                            Bobbie Shannon                         856260
                                   Richard Wheller                        07974 160280
Churchwardens                      Robin Lambert                          464461
Pastoral Care Coordinator          Rhona Winter                           855718
PCC Secretary                      Jill Martin                            851559
Treasurer and Gift Aid             John Bickerstaffe                        855605
Verger                             Chas Norman                            854232
Electoral Roll Officer             Jill Martin                            851559
Mothers’ Union                     Chris Mahony                           857724
After-Eights                       Rhona Winter                           855718
Magazine distribution              Linda Randall                          790593
Magazine Editor                    June Slater                            852550
    Church Flowers                 Angela Wheller                         858613
Vestry Hall bookings               Louise Maby                            859210
    Events Group                   Jacqui Broughton                       858304
Worldwide Church Com.              Liz Everitt                            851174
Lifts to church                    Jo Hatcliffe                           858149
FFC &Tots@Christ Church            Beverley Kelly                         07790 0178641
Choir & Junior Choir               Phil Lawrence                           01454 777719
Benefice Prayer Chain              Bobbie Shannon                         856260
Safeguarding                       Elizabeth Wood                         851722
Child Contact Scheme Duty Officer                                          07749 712699
Piecemakers and CC Crafts          Val Cave                               854892
Breakfast Run                      Kim Rockett                             07894 563205
Food Bank                          Paul Murray                            235722
Webmaster                          Richard Wheller                         07974 160280

                         Christ Church Nailsea is a Registered Charity No 1145020

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Christ Church Chronicle - January 2021 - Christ Church, Nailsea
Hello Everyone
Let me start this letter by saying a huge thank you, to everyone, who
decorated Christmas trees in our Churches this year. From lights that
took on bees, to baubles made from j-cloths, we had them all. Both
Churches looked amazing and I hope went some way to helping us
celebrate this very strange Christmas!
It may be very different than previous years, but I do pray that all of you
have managed to celebrate our Saviours birth?
It goes without saying that I think we will all be glad come December 31st
to say farewell to a year that none of us could ever have dreamed of!
Whilst remembering those whom we’ve lost along the way, with love, we
must now turn our attention to the coming year.
As we enter this time of Epiphany my prayer for us all is that we
acknowledge our incarnate God as Jesus Christ with renewed hope for
our future.
I’m sure 2021 will be a year of hope for us all, a hope that should be built
very firmly upon the promises of Christ in 1 Peter 1:13:-
‘So prepare your minds for action and exercise self-control. Put all your
hope in the gracious salvation that will come to you when Jesus Christ is
revealed’ (NLT).
I am so very blessed to have a wonderful ministry Team in Richard and
Bobbie and I wanted them also to share their hopes for this coming year
Richard writes.
‘I am looking forward to a great New Year because our churches are

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Christ Church Chronicle - January 2021 - Christ Church, Nailsea
open and we are free to worship our God who doesn’t change, who
    understands us and our difficulties, who made a sacrifice for us to draw us
    closer to Him because of His great love for us. That is worth celebrating!
    So, don’t let the irritations and restrictions we live under take away your
    joy and trust. Be thankful and love the Lord your God with all your heart,
    with all your mind and with all your strength and don’t forget your
    neighbour as well!’

    And Bobbie
    Wait, Trust and Hope.
    As many of you know Lee Abbey is a very special place for me which I
    have tried to share. A few days ago I found an Epilogue on you tube and
    the main message seemed to be that we should be prepared to wait, to
    trust and to hope.
    As we enter a new year I think these words are very significant for us, a
    people of God and of course as a church.
    As you read this many will still be waiting for a vaccine against covid19
    and will have to be patient and keep to the rules and restrictions for a
    time. Praying for patience as we wait for that day when we will be free to
    leave our homes without fear and give someone we know and love a hug
    etc. Let us thank God that a vaccine has been found and be prepared to
    wait patiently. God always keeps his promises but sometimes he does
    require us to wait. So let us wait with thankful hearts.
    We also need to trust. It is easy when things seem to be going wrong to
    give up on God. But I’m sure that if we can continue to trust God to lead
    us, He will guide us and comfort us and help us and when we put our
    trust in Him, this will automatically lead to hope. So my prayer for us, as
    we enter this new year, is that we will be prepared to wait on God with
    patience, to trust in God our redeemer and to have hope for the world,
    because He who loves us, gives us that sure and certain hope, that no
    matter what happens to us in 2021, He will see us through.
    With my blessings for 2021.
    Jules

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Children’s News!

    I am sure we are all hoping for a more healthier year in 2021
    But there were still lots of things to be thankful for last year and God
    showed us new ways of reaching out to families.
    A lovely lot of Birthdays to celebrate in January:
    David Pemble will be 7yrs old on the 5th
    Seren Slee-Evans is 6yrs on the 6th
    Holly Morris will be 9 on the 9th
    Jacob Daynes is 10 on the 18th and
    Jorge Searle will be 5yrs old on the 25th

    Have a lovely Birthday from everyone at Christ Church.
    At the time of writing this I am hoping these events will be allowed to
    take place.
    The Z Club will definitely be able to get together this month on Zoom
    but it will just be on the 16th January at 6.30pm Any young people
    attending Senior School are welcome to join in, please speak to Jules
    or myself.
    Sunday 3rd January at 10.15 starts with a Children's Church 'Hope in
    the New Year' Places for a Family pew will still have to be booked
    through me at the moment for this service.
    Faith For Children (FFC) will be in the hall from 10.15 to 11.15 on the
    10th, 17th, 24th and 31st, hoping that it won’t be long before we can
    join everyone in Church.
    Tots @ Christ Church will be back with 'Bubbles' only on Tuesday
    mornings starting on the 5th and now a Friday afternoon on the 8th
    Nearly all the sessions have been booked up in January, so looking
    forward to seeing the families again

    It will be a different January this year as no Wells Children's Festival
    and no Fun@4 Christingle, but we had a wonderful Children's
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Church Christingle in December. Please remember to bring back any
Children's Society collecting candles by the end of February either on a
Sunday or into the office when it is open, thanks.
Lastly I would like to say thank you for the lovely messages on my
appointment as 'Family and Children's Worker' at Christ Church. I was very
touched to be asked and I am looking forward to this year and working with
Jules and everyone at Christ Church.
It seems that at the start of this year we are all hoping for things to get better
but whatever happens God is still Sovereign.
Every Blessing as we start 2021
Beverley Kelly
Family and Children's Worker

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CHRIST CHURCH RE-ORDERING
The re-ordering of Christ Church continues to lumber along, albeit at a much
slower pace than anyone would like.
Now that I have managed to secure initial quotations from the many potential
contractors that we shall need to use, I have developed a detailed schedule of
works and also a budget for our anticipated costs. The total budget is
£200,000, which includes a contingency, as no doubt prices will rise between
now and when we are actually able to start the work. The PCC has approved
this budget, so now our Fund Manager Brian Slater, has the difficult task of
trying to identify possible sources of funding to cover our costs. Brian has
already received a registration of interest in contributing towards our costs
from an outside organisation, which is truly encouraging. So you may wish to
check under your mattress, inside your cupboards, or maybe other places
where you keep your money hidden away, to see what spare cash you have
lying around. At this Covid restricted time, grants are proving to be very diffi-
cult to access but we will continue to keep searching. Legacies are always a
bonus, so have you considered up-dating your will and leaving a bequest to
Christ Church?
 I have recently submitted our second informal application to the DAC for their
approval for our planned re-ordering and we are definitely getting nearer the
stage when they will give us their formal approval. They have stated that they
are in agreement with our proposed re-ordering, but they have identified
some small matters of detail which we need to resolve, agree with our
architect, and the application can then be re-submitted. Let’s hope for 3rd time
lucky.
We remain totally committed to this exciting project and I am convinced that
as we move forward into the New Year we shall get the final approval from the
DAC and we will then be in a position to increase our level of activity and
move forward at a pace.

The other way, of course, of ensuring that we move forward is through the
power of prayer. I ask you to keep the project in your prayers, and to say an
extra prayer in support of our next application to the DAC.
Malcolm Pemble

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All services and activities mentioned in this magazine are based on the
assumption that we are in Tier 2 for all January
Otherwise, please see the website and the weekly Newsletter for
updates.

Both of our churches are open for private prayer, Christ Church on Monday to
Friday mornings and Tickenham Church 12-4 pm on Sundays.

Social distancing will need to be observed for the foreseeable future,
therefore face coverings must be worn and only 45 people can be accom-
modated for each Service. People may not enter the building in groups of
more than 6. To book a place you need to contact the office by email at
church.office@christchurchnailsea.org.uk or by phoning 859210 and
leaving a message by 12 noon on the Friday before the Sunday on which
you would like to attend.
Both churches now have the NHS Tracing App code at the entrance. Please
                               Pastoral Care
 If anyone hears of a church member who is ill in hospital or at home
 and would welcome prayer or a listening ear either by a personal visit
 or a phone call please contact me either by email
 rhonawinter@hotmail.com or ring Rhona on 0777 9933959

scan the bar code if you have the App on your phone.

 Speak your kind words soon, for you never know how soon it will
 be too late. - Anon

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     Happy to visit his local pub before it closed again, a man found himself
     near two nuns. Eager to talk to anyone after weeks in Tier 3, he ventured:
     “What is your order?” (Meaning their religious community.)
     The nuns happily replied: “Sausage and chips.”

     Left behind
     Shortly after the funeral of a local wealthy man, two friends were discuss-
     ing the Will. “How much did he leave?” wondered one. His friend thought
     a moment, and ventured: “Well, I suppose, everything!”

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News from Kingshill Church School
          Life-long Learning - Community - Friendship
                             HAPPY 2021
            from everyone at KINGSHILL to all our friends
                         at CHRIST CHURCH

 Our new term, Term 3, starts on Tuesday 5th January 2021 and I know eve-
 ryone in the school community will be looking forward to being with their
 friends and teachers again, still in our class “Bubbles” though. There will be
 lots of news to share about the Christmas holidays, especially as for some
 this will have included seeing family members not encountered for so very
 long.

 The school value that we shall be focusing on this term is
 “RESPONSIBILITY”. In the material that Mrs Thomson provides for each
 class to use in their own class collective worship the bible stories that will
 be included are Joseph, Creation and The Lost Sheep. I wonder how you
 would link those to the term’s value? We shall also be having class
 Christingle services at the end of January, sad though that we won’t be
 able to come together as a whole school for this.

 Governors will continue to meet remotely on Teams (a Zoom equivalent),
 with all the technological issues that that brings. Our school Ethos Com-
 mittee will also meet on Teams to look at how the school is daily demon-
 strating its Christian vision and values, including in Collective Worship and
 RE. Do contact my colleague Foundation Governor, Malcolm Pemble, or
 me, if you have any questions about our church primary school.

 Most of all please hold this branch of our Christ Church family in your
 prayers.

 Liz Everitt. Foundation Governor

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CHRIST CHURCH CHRISTMAS TREE FESTIVAL
Here are a few examples

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Mothers Union Literacy and Skills Programme

 Illiteracy holds women back, severely. It simply pushes them to the bottom
 of society, and robs them of the opportunities and confidence needed to
 combat the gender inequalities they face on a daily basis.

 Theresa is one of those women. As a girl, Theresa attended primary school,
 but when her mother and father died, so did Theresa’s education. She was
 forced to join her aunt, selling food in the market, and when she was still
 very young, she got married. Their first child was a girl, which made her
 husband angry. ‘Why do you give us girls?’ he would rage. ‘Why can you
 not give us a boy? I need a boy.’ Theresa’s husband beat her and she cried
 every day. Eventually, she fell pregnant again and had a boy.

 Though her husband worked, he drank a lot, so there was never any
 money left. It fell to Theresa to put food on the table for her family. She
 took up dressmaking and provided household support for local ministers.
 They helped her learn to speak French, but not to read or write. Illiterate,
 she was still left out of opportunities in her community and unable to
 challenge the real issues that affected her, especially at home.

 Finally, Theresa enrolled on a Mothers Union literacy and skills programme,
 where she learned not only how to read and write but how to plan and
 manage her finances. Her confidence and awareness of her rights, and the
 support available, grew so much, she left her abusive husband to make her
 own way in the world with her children.

 Today, Theresa’s life has completely changed. She’s a leader in her
 community now. Not only does she teach other women how to make
 dresses but inspires them to learn to read and write too. As the saying
 goes, ‘when you educate a woman, you educate a community’.
                                                             Chris Mahony

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North Somerset Child Contact Centre

A Child Contact Centre is a safe, neutral place where the children of sepa-
rated families can meet with their non-resident parent. The North Somerset
Centre operates twice a month in Clevedon or Nailsea and is run and man-
aged by the Mothers' Union. It is staffed by a team of volunteers, male and
female, who are all DBS cleared and trained. This is a valuable service bring-
ing much happiness to "absent parents" and their children. Referrals are
always welcome and a few more volunteers would also be gratefully wel-
comed. If you feel that you could spare a couple of hours on a Saturday
afternoon occasionally, or would like more information please phone Chris
on 01275 857724

Who does the allotment in your family?
As men take on more domestic household chores, here may be a surprise
result: more women are tackling the family allotment, and often taking the
children along to help out.
Nationally, half of all allotment holders are now women. This is up from two
per cent in 1973, and 20 per cent in 2003. It is thought that the example of
celebrity gardeners, especially Charlie Dimmock, may have helped.
The average age of holders is 57, with men typically older than women.
Demand for allotments has quadrupled since 2006, with the average wait-
ing list in London now five years

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PRAYER DIARY FOR JANUARY 2021

 1.    Let there be peace and let it begin with me.
 2.    The changing seasons.
 3.    Our thanks for the many blessings we receive.
 4.    For staff and students in all places of education.
 5.    Bristol Eye Hospital: all staff and patients.
 6.    For integrity within the justice system.
 7.    The power of the wind and sea.
 8.    For all creation.
 9.    Our hope that restrictions on all sports and the arts may soon be eased.
 10.   Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions
       never fail. (Lamentations 3: 22)
 11.   New every morning is the love our waking and uprising prove (Hymn 467)
 12.   Animals used as helpers in all walks of life.
 13.   People who have worked so hard to improve lives and all who continue to do
       so.
 14.   For literacy projects worldwide.
 15.   Fair distribution of world resources so that none shall go hungry.
 16.   Let us bring life’s hope to many who have never been loved.
 17.   In our prayer times help us to listen quietly for the Lord’s voice.
 18.   Our homes and families—places where people want to be.
 19.   Flowers, tunes … and all things that conjure up happy times.
 20.   The gentle promise of lengthening days.
 21.   How lovely it will be when Christ Church family can happily return to normal
       events.
 22.   To all who have dealt with rules and restrictions concerning the running of
       our Churches over such a long time — thank you so very much.
 23.   Those in despair who feel they can longer go on (see 1 Kings 19:3 & 4).
 24.   Victims of earthquakes and other natural disasters.
 25.   Authors and illustrators of children’s books.
 26.   Concerns about pollution and irresponsible damage to the natural world.
 27.   ‘Dear children, let us not love with words or tongues, but with actions and
       truth’ (1 John 3:18)
 28.   Foster carers — that their homes provide love, happiness and protection.
 29.   ‘My people will live in peaceful dwelling places in secure homes and undis-
       turbed places of rest’ (Isiah 32:18)
 30.   Aid projects to make clean water available to all.
 31.   Presentation of Christ in the Temple (Candlemas) (Luke 2:22).

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FEBRUARY 2021
1.   Help us to consider our words carefully — once spoken they cannot
     be taken back.
2.   Television programmes showing the wonders of this remarkable
     world.
3.   The air ambulance service South West.

  Parish Prayers
  In January, as we continue to remember all the Parish in our pray-
  ers, please pray especially for those who live, work and worship in
  Stockway North, Friendship Terrace, Friendship Road, Friendship
  Grove, French Close, Taveners Walk, The Willows and Withy Close.

  From the Registers

  Funerals

  Maurice Eveleigh (85)

  John Chivers (87)

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A crossword to start off, all solutions are on page 30

     Across
     1      ‘Again Peter denied it, and at that moment a — began to
     crow’ (John 18:27) (4)
     3      Fetters (Job 33:11) (8)
     8      Perform on a musical instrument (1 Samuel 16:23) (4)
     9      Paul describes it as ‘the third heaven’ (2 Corinthians 12:2–4) (8)
     11     Loyally (Deuteronomy 11:13) (10)
     14     Hens? Me? (anag.) (6)
     15     Not visible (Matthew 6:6) (6)
     17     Predicted site of the final great battle (Revelation 16:16) (10)
     20     Jacob’s youngest son (Genesis 35:18) (8)
     21     One of Zophar’s eleven sons (1 Chronicles 7:36) (4)
     22     For example, London, Paris, Rome (8)
     23     United Society for the Propagation of the Gospel (1,1,1,1)

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Down
1      Favourite church activity: Fellowship round a — — — (3,2,3)
2      Divinely bestowed powers or talents (8)
4      Pile together (1 Thessalonians 2:16) (4,2)
5      Commanded to justify (John 8:13) (10)
6      Timothy’s grandmother (2 Timothy 1:5) (4)
7      Killed (Psalm 78:34) (4)
10     One of Graham Kendrick’s best-known songs, — — King (3,7)
12     Indecency (Mark 7:22) (8)
13     Unceasing (Jeremiah 15:18) (8)
16     He prophesied ‘the abomination that causes desolation’ (Matthew 24:15)
(6)
18     British Board of Film Classification (1,1,1,1)
19     Pans (anag.) (4)

A Sudoku for you

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Nailsea District Leg Club
 Most importantly a very happy New Year to everyone, we’re all hoping
 that 2021 will bring the vaccine results and normality that is craved,
 though we are very aware that patience and care must continue.
 With days showing signs of lengthening and excesses of Christmas be-
 hind us, now is the time to start thinking about more exercise again. It’s
 been said so many times that moving is vitally important to keep healthy
 both mentally and physically. The weather might be on the cool side, but
 sunlight and fresh air, even if only for a short time, are so very beneficial,
 don’t let cabin fever and lethargy set in. There are lots of online exercise
 classes or local walks to follow, of which there are abundance in this area.
 Sadly we’ve lost two of our wonderful volunteer drivers Keith and Diane
 Stevens, who recently moved. But thanks to a successful garage sale of
 household items they no longer required and the generous donations
 from volunteers and supporters who found some great bargains, our
 funds have benefitted to the tune of £375. We thank them for such a
 generous and inventive idea. We wish them many happy years in their
 new home. This does mean we will be looking for more volunteer drivers
 as and when we re-open, but news of the drop-in clinic re-opening will
 be publicised as soon as it is safe to do so, rest assured we will definitely
 be back!

     Plants in your front garden
     What’s in your front garden? If it is sparse, why not consider add-
     ing some plants this year? Apparently, the presence of greenery
     can lower your stress levels as much as two months of mindful-
     ness sessions. Plants can also help you to feel happier.
     A recent trial study by the Royal Horticultural Society found that
     people who introduced ornamental plants such as juniper, azal-
     ea, clematis, lavender, daffodil bulbs and petunias had a signifi-
     cant lowering of the stress hormone, cortisol, and many reported
     that they felt ‘happier’.

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DELIVERING AND PAYING FOR THE CHRIST CHURCH CHRONICLE IN
                          2021
It is our current plan to continue to deliver paper copies of the Christ
Church Chronicle to all those to whom we’ve been doing so over recent
months. It has been good to hear how much those of you who don’t use
the internet have appreciated this, and our Special Delivery Team are get-
ting fitter by the month!
Our Christ Church Chronicle will continue to be available on the church
website and copies will also be available for collection before services.
IF YOU NO LONGER WISH TO HAVE A COPY DELIVERED OR NEED TO
BE ADDED TO THE LIST please ring the church office on 859210 and
leave a message if necessary.
We will be calling to collect magazine subscriptions only if you specifically
ask us to by ringing the office. If you are able to put yours in an envelope
labelled with your name and MAGAZINE and pop it in the church letterbox
just outside the main door we’d be most grateful.
THE COST OF THE MAGAZINE IN 2021 WILL BE 50p PER MONTH, OR
£5 FOR THE YEAR.
As you know our church finances are not in great shape and we cannot let
the magazine be a further drain on our resources. Our advertisers provide
some income, but even production of the online version has a cost impli-
cation in terms of the purchase of software and website fees.

Numbers
When the minister announced the first hymn on Zoom, “Ten thousand
times ten thousand!” the little boy turned anxiously to his father. “Does
he want us to work that out?”

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Keep it in the family!
 Start children off on the way they should go…. Proverbs 22:6
 Suppose you bought your child a football for Christmas. You all go
 outside to the garden, and in front of the family you show them
 how to score a goal. Then they have a go, but accidentally kick the
 new ball straight at your neighbour’s greenhouse, which breaks
 some glass. Are you legally responsible for the damage?
 Or supposing you buy them a bicycle, and they then try it on the
 road, and cause an accident. Will you have pay for any loss?
     A parent is not generally legally responsible for a child who
          causes an accident. There are some exceptions and some of
          them are these:
     If the child was doing something at your request for you (acting
          as your agent),
     The parent was in charge of the child at the time,
     The parent is negligent in allowing the child something which is
          risky
     Where the parent is not in proper control of the child.
 If you were showing your loved ones how you used to score a goal,
 you may be legally responsible for the greenhouse, if you are not a
 good coach. But if the child is just playing and accidentally breaks a
 window, the position may be different. If you give your child some-
 thing that is dangerous, like an air rifle or a firework with which they
 then do damage, you may well be legally responsible.
 Law and morality are different. As a good neighbour, you would
 want to pay for any damage, even if the law says you do not have
 to. Children should be brought up to admit mistakes and be re-
 sponsible. Sometimes the risks increase, especially if a youngster is
 on the road. Any parent would want to be especially careful near a
 main road.
 If someone else’s child does you or your property significant dam-
 age, what can you do? If you cannot sue the parent, you could
 claim against the child, but that is unlikely to be worth it unless the
 child has money of their own.

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      STAMPS                            ALCM DIP.ABRSM
Did you know .........                  Piano Tuition to
The Children’s Hospice can make               Grade 8
money from used postage stamps?
                                  Children and Adults welcome
Please pop them in the special       Also Theory to Grade 5
box at the back of the Church.
  Thank you on their behalf,      For more information please
        Gordon Newton                  call: 01275 852644

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One more step
 By Bishop Peter
 January takes its name from the Roman god, Janus, who is usually de-
 picted as having two faces, looking both to the future and the past. At
 the start of a New Year it is good to do the same.
 2020 will sadly be remembered as the year disrupted by COVID-19.
 Cracks in our care for each other have been revealed and it has had a
 disproportionate effect on those already vulnerable or deprived. It
 showed us that those who are most essential to our needs, those who
 clean and serve and care, are often those valued least in our economy.
 However, we also saw extraordinary acts of kindness and compassion, as
 churches and communities worked together to provide comfort, support,
 and practical care.
  So, what of 2021? The temptation may be to forget what we have learnt,
 to paper over the cracks, ignore what has been uncomfortable and to
 seek comfort in the familiar. I hope we don’t. 2020 opened our eyes to
 the harm caused when people are excluded on the basis of race, ability,
 gender, sexual orientation or wealth. Jesus calls us to a better way. Jesus
 broke the bounds of exclusion, refusing to accept the social norms and
 speaking to Samaritans, women, Gentiles, tax collectors and sinners. He
 teaches that the first shall be last and the last first. He reconciles humani-
 ty to God through his death and resurrection.
 As we look forward to 2021, we need to think again what it means to
 follow Christ and to build our lives and communities based on mutual
 love, respect and service. ‘For the Son of Man did not come to be served
 but to serve and to give his life as a ransom for many’.

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May we all know the Lord’s leading and guiding as we step out into a New
Year.
With my warmest greetings,
Rt Rev Peter Hancock
Bishop of Bath and Wells

                         When Faith Gets Shaken
                         By Patrick Regan OBE, Monarch, £9.99
                       What do you do when life falls apart, and it
                       feels as if God has left you? How do you keep
                       going when your faith is rocked to the
core? Sometimes things get so hard we're not sure where God is - or
what He's up to.
For Patrick there was illness, and loss in his family and community. Then
a series of excruciating operations took him to the brink physically, emo-
tionally, and spiritually.
Writing during his journey of recovery, Patrick explores how we find God
in times of suffering. He wrestles with how we can know God's peace
when life is anything but peaceful, what the true nature of courage is,
how we allow ourselves the grace to rest when we're running on empty,
and how we can stay fully present in the moment.

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SERVICES FOR JANUARY 2021

                     CHRIST CHURCH                           TICKENHAM

     3rd          8.30 am      Holy Communion      10.30 am Holy Communion
     Epiphany     10.15 am     Children’s Church

     10th         8.30 am      Holy Communion      10.30 am Family Service
     Baptism of   10.15 am     Holy Communion
     Christ

     17th         8.30 am      Holy Communion      10.30 am Holy Communion
     Epiphany 2   10.15 am     Service of the
                               Word

     24th         8.30 am      Holy Communion      10.30 am Service of the
                                                            Word
     Epiphany 3   10.15 am     Holy Communion

     31st         8.30 am      Holy Communion
     Presenta-      10.15 am   Holy Communion
     tion of Christ
     at the
     Temple

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Where did the Wise Men come from?
Magi from the East – it isn’t a lot to go on. The Magi had originally been a
religious caste among the Persians. Their devotion to astrology, divination
and the interpretation of dreams led to an extension in the meaning of
the word, and by the first century the Magi in Matthew’s gospel could
have been astrologers from outside of Persia. Some scholars believe they
might have come from what was then Arabia Felix, or as we would say
today, southern Arabia.
In the first century astrology was
practised there, and it was the
region where the Queen of She-
ba had lived. She of course had
visited Solomon and would have
heard the prophecies about how
one day a Messiah would be
born to the Israelites and become their king.
Matthew’s gospel (chapter 2) is clear that the Magi asked Herod: ‘Where
is the One who has been born king of the Jews? We saw His star in the
east and have come to worship Him.’ So it is possible that in southern
Arabia the Queen of Sheba’s story of how a Messiah would one day be
sent to the Israelites had survived. Certainly, there are a number of other
early legends that connect southern Arabia with Solomon’s Israel.
To many people this makes sense: that the ancient stories of a Messiah,
linked to later astrological study, prompted these alert and god-fearing
men to the realisation that something very stupendous was happening in
Israel. They realised that after all these centuries, the King of the Jews, the
Messiah, was about to be born.
One more interesting thing that gives weight to the theory that the Magi
came from southern Arabia is this: if you study any map of Palestine as it
was during biblical times, you will find that the old Arabian caravan routes
all entered Palestine ‘from the East’.

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If biblical events were being covered by today's media...

     On Red Sea crossing:
     WETLANDS TRAMPLED IN LABOUR STRIKE
     Enforcement Officials Killed While Pursuing Unruly Mob

     On the birth of Christ:
     HOTELS FULL, ANIMALS EJECTED FROM SHELTER
     Animal Rights Advocates Enraged by Insensitive Couple

     On feeding the 5,000:
     LAY PREACHER STEALS CHILD'S LUNCH
     Disciples Mystified Over Behaviour

     On healing the 10 lepers:
     QUACK PREYS ON TERMINALLY ILL
     Authorities Investigating Use of Non-traditional Medical Procedure

     On raising Lazarus from the dead:
     ITINERANT PREACHER RAISES STINK                                            Sudoku solution
     Will Now Being Contested by Lawyers of Heirs

     Crossword answers
     ACROSS: 1, Cock. 3, Shackles. 8, Play. 9, Paradise. 11, Faithfully. 14, Enmesh. 15, Unseen. 17,
     Armageddon. 20, Benjamin. 21, Beri. 22, Capitals. 23, USPG.

     DOWN: 1, Cup of tea. 2, Charisma. 4, Heap up. 5, Challenged. 6, Lois. 7, Slew. 10, The Servant. 12, Lewd-
     ness. 13, Unending. 16, Daniel. 18, BBFC. 19, Snap.

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POETRY CORNER
When I first came to Christ Church
I was a stranger and new.
So I found a quiet corner at the end of a pew.
I watched other people as they greeted
each other
“Good morning Beryl, how is your mother ?”
                                                          HAPPY NEW YEAR
In Sunday best to Christ Church they came
And sat in their places – always the same.       Heaven’s gift of another year
Familiar like family they knew one another       As the old departs and the new is
While I sat in my pew watching them              born,
gather.
                                                 Plans for a future and a hope
The organ was playing to welcome them            Preparing us for each new dawn.
on
As I waited in silence for prayers to
                                                 Yesterday has gone forever,
begin.
Then Maurice appeared right by my side           New days and ventures lie
He stopped and he asked me my name.              ahead,
His manner so gentle, so kind and sincere        Even darkness turns to light
And he hoped I’d be coming again.
                                                 When we make the Lord our
Now I’ve joined the church family                head.
Thanks Maurice to you.                           Yielding to the Holy Spirit
No longer a stranger alone in a pew
                                                 Ever mindful that He’s there,
Bur ready to welcome all through the
 door                                            As we live our lives before Him
And speak to the people I’ve not seen            Rejoicing in His loving care.
 before.

Your are now amongst angels                      By Megan Carter
Your work on earth finished.
But the memory of Maurice
Will never diminish

Tina Hellawell

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The normal activities at Christ Church are:
Weekly:
Sun 10.00am - Children are always welcome at our services.
There are always toys and books in the children’s corner in Church for tod-
dlers and babies. First Sunday of each month is Children’s Church, for
young children and their families, in Church. All other Sundays, Faith for
Children (FFC) 3-11 years meet in the Vestry Hall during the service in
church. For information in advance, please contact the Church Office.
Mon 8.30am                 Morning Prayer, Bible readings & intercessions
Tue 9.30am                 Tuesday Tots in Vestry Hall (term time)
Fri 1.30pm                 Tots in Vestry Hall (term time)
    7.00pm                 Choir Practice
Sat 10.00 - 10.30          Morning Prayer and Intercessions
    10.30 - 12.00          Church open for quiet prayer
    10.30 - 12.00          Coffee morning in Vestry Hall (unless special event)
         Louise Maby, the Benefice Administrator, is available in the Church Office
      on Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, Friday 9.45 –12 and Wednesday 9.45 –11am.
                             Alternatively phone 859210 or
                   e-mail: church.office@Christchurchnailsea.org.uk
                   Church Website: www.Christchurchnailsea.org.uk
Monthly:
Mothers’ Union       1st Wednesday alternate months starting February
                     7.30pm Vestry Hall
                     3rd Wednesday every month 2.30pm Vestry Hall
After-Eights         3rd Monday each month 8.00pm in local homes
Midweek Communion 2nd Wednesday 10.00am Holy Communion
Boys’ Night Out      First Thursday 8.30pm at White Lion
Church Breakfast     2nd and 4th Sunday each month after 8.30 service
Game On              2nd and 4th Tuesdays 2.30-4.30 in Vestry Hall
Girls’ Chat Time     4th Monday 4.00pm at Costa in the Precinct
Piecemakers          1st & 3rd Tuesday each month 1.30 Vestry Hall
Christ Church Crafts 2nd & 4th Tuesday each month 2.00 - 4.00pm
                     at 63 Westway
               Items for the magazine should be emailed to
               MagazineEditor@Christchurchnailsea.org.uk
                     or handed into the church office
                    by the 14th of each month, thanks

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