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Commentator                        Adar I – Adar II 5779
                                      March 2019

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march 2019                                                                  Shabbat Services
                               FRIDAY, MARCH 1, 2019                                                       Torah Portion – Vayikra
 In This Issue                 25 Adar I
                               5:30 p.m.   Dinner
                                                                                                           Leviticus 1:1 – 5:26
                                                                                                           Haftarah Isaiah 43:21 – 44:23
                               6:00 p.m.   Pre-Neg
                               6:30 p.m.   Shabbat Services with Third Grade                               SUNDAY, MARCH 17, 2019
 Shabbat Services 2
                               		Participation (Auditiorium)                                               12:00 p.m. Purim Carnival
 Purim 3
                               SATURDAY, MARCH 2, 2019                                                     WEDNESDAY, MARCH 20, 2019
 From Strength to Strength 4
                               9:00 a.m.  Torah Study                                                      13 Adar II Fast of Esther
 Clergy’s Corner 5             10:30 a.m. Morning Minyan                                                   		         and Erev Purim
                               5:30 p.m.  Bat Mitzvah                                                      6:00 p.m.  Megillah Reading
 President’s Message 6         		         of Ava Rose Schatzman                                            		         & Purim Shpiel
 Legacy 7
                               Torah Portion – Vayakhel                                                    FRIDAY, MARCH 22, 2019
 Membership 8/9                Exodus 35:1 – 38:20                                                         16 Adar II
 Youth Engagement Religious    Haftarah I Kings 7:40 – 50                                                  6:00 p.m.   Pre-Neg
                                                                                                           6:30 p.m.   Shabbat Services
  School 10/11                 FRIDAY, MARCH 8, 2019
 Day School 12                 2 Adar II                                                                   SATURDAY, MARCH 23, 2019
                               5:30 p.m.   Pre-Neg                                                         9:00 a.m.  Torah Study
 BADC 13­­                     6:30 p.m.   Shabbat Services with Teacher                                   10:30 a.m. Morning Minyan
                               		Appreciation Shabbat                                                      5:30 p.m.  Bar Mitzvah of Daniel Kluger
 Programming 14-16

 Miami Jews 17                 SATURDAY, MARCH 9, 2019                                                     Torah Portion – Tzav
                               9:00 a.m.  Torah Study                                                      Leviticus 6:1 – 8:36
 B’nai Mitzvah 18
                               10:30 a.m. Morning Minyan                                                   Haftarah Jeremiah 7:21 – 8:3; 9:22 – 23
 New Members 18                5:30 p.m.  Bat Mitzvah of Sami Anes
                                                                                                           FRIDAY, MARCH 29, 2019
 Jog For Jenny 19                                                                                          23 Adar II
                               Torah Portion – Pekudei
 Tikkun Olam 20                Exodus 38:21 – 40:38                                                        Shabbat Parah
                               Haftarah I Kings 7:51 – 8:21                                                6:00 p.m.     Pre-Neg
 Cmte. of 100 Brunch 21                                                                                    6:30 p.m.     Shabbat Services
 Our Jewish Heritage 22        FRIDAY, MARCH 15, 2019                                                      		            with Shabbat Tropical
                               9 Adar II
 Talmud Torah 23               6:00 p.m.   Pre-Neg                                                         SATURDAY, MARCH 30, 2019
 Sisterhood 24/25              6:30 p.m.   Shabbat Services                                                9:00 a.m.  Torah Study
                                                                                                           10:30 a.m. Morning Minyan
 I’m Jewish Because... 26      SATURDAY, MARCH 16, 2019
                               Shabbat Zachor                                                              Torah Portion – Sh’mini
 Auction 27-29
                               9:00 a.m.      Torah Study                                                  Leviticus 9:1 – 11:47
 PATIO 30                      10:30 a.m.     Morning Minyan                                               Haftarah II Samuel 6:1 – 7:17
                               10:30 a.m.     Bar Mitzvah of Nathan Simon
 Dunk For Diabetes 31
                               5:30 p.m.      Bar Mitzvah of Sam Casey
 In Loving Memory 32/33

 Mazel Tov 34
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 Chavurah 35
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                                  Rita Diaz, Estat­­­­e Sales................................. 41       Lexus............................................................... 48
 Professional Directory 40        BHS/Amy Hollub, Real Estate.................. 42
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PURIM CARNIVAL          Sunday, March 17th, 12:00–3:00 pm
                              Advance Tickets: $18 • At the Door: $25
                                FREE for Kids Under 3 and Adults

                                            Rides, games
                                           and food trucks.
                                             Fun for the
                                            whole family!

                               tbam.org /carnival

Tikkun Olam Blood Drive • Sunday, March 17th, 11:00 am–4:00 pm

Megillah Reading & Purim Shpiel
Wednesday, March 20th, 6:30 pm
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            drink and
                   and be
                       be merry
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                graggers and
                           and PREPARE
                               PREPARE TO   TO ROCK!
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                          From Strength to Strength
                          Rabbi Jeremy Barras
                          jbarras@tbam.org

                             Purim and the Roots of Anti-Jewish Behavior
There is no logical rationale for antisemitism. It seems that as     For Haman, Mordechai represented something more than a
far back as anyone can remember, there was something about           man who outsmarted him along a journey. He was someone
the Jews that other groups of people hated. This was the case in     who proved to be more efficient at a particular task, but because
Pharaoh’s Egypt, in Haman’s Persia, and pretty much ever since.      he came from a certain minority status, had no business
This month, as we once again celebrate the holiday of Purim and      achieving success beyond a person of Haman’s stature. This
our ancestors triumph over Haman’s evil plot to wipe the Jews        attitude should sound familiar. According to Genocide Watch,
from the face of the earth, we might consider where Haman’s          which lists 10 Steps to Genocide, the first step is known as
hatred of Jews came from and what it might teach us about            Classification. All cultures have categories to distinguish
today’s antisemitism.                                                people into “us and them” by ethnicity, race, religion, or
                                                                     nationality. Haman was able to convince the king and the
According to our tradition, Haman and Mordechai first met            Persian people that the Jews were a real threat because they
on the road to Persia. In that time period, when King Cyrus          were different, they worshipped differently, they ate differently
had given permission for the Jews to begin rebuilding the Holy       and they simply did not fit in with Persian society. This attitude
Temple, enemies of the Jews living in Israel were angered at         succeeds in climates where both sides do not actively engage
the return of the Jews and their desire to reassert their position   in the search for common ground, which is vital to early
in Jerusalem. They hired a man named Haman to go to Persia           prevention of genocide. When populations find ways to stratify
and represent their position before the king. The Jews also sent     themselves rather than explore their similarities and embrace
one of their own to counter Haman’s claims. His name was             their differences, the Hamans of the world find room from to
Mordechai.                                                           crawl out from under their rocks. Each person, in any given
                                                                     society, should recognize this danger and do what is possible to
On the road to Persia, the two men converged on the same             create bonds between all segments of society, and create trust
route. Haman had already exhausted all of his food and water         that pervades each and every neighborhood. It was only when
rations and was in real jeopardy of not surviving the journey.       Achashveirosh realized that Mordechai, Esther and the Jewish
Mordechai was more disciplined and had rationed his provisions       people had much to offer his Kingdom that the evil of Haman
appropriately so as to last the whole trip. When Haman came          was eradicated. We all have much to offer–and we all have a
upon Mordechai he demanded that Mordechai share with him             responsibility to seek out the gifts of our fellow neighbors.
some of his food and drink, and Mordechai agreed on one
condition–Haman had to agree to become Mordechai’s servant.
                                                                     Rabbi Jeremy Barras
Fast forward to later in the story. Haman becomes second
in command to the King of Persia and one day comes across
Mordechai in the street. He demands that the Jew bow before
him, to which Mordechai reminds him that technically Haman is
still his servant, and if anyone should bow, it should be Haman
bowing before Mordechai. Not long after this incident, Haman’s
fury leads him to devise a plan to kill Mordechai and anyone
who is like him.

                                   Lunch ’n Learn with Rabbi Barras ­­­
                                                  Tuesday, March 5
                                 12:00 p.m., Adult Reading Room, RAMBAM Center
                                        The Israeli Elections in April: A Preview
            Feel free to bring your own lunch or preorder optional lunch provided by Fare to Remember Catering for $11
                                                  online at tbam.org/lunchandlearn.
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Clergy Corner
                                                                              Rabbi Jaime Aklepi
                                                                                      jaklepi@tbam.org

                               But Words Can Never Harm Me?
In 1993, when I arrived in Miami there were few women           “She is so articulate,” a Jewish man: “He is more generous
rabbis. I was only the second woman to be president of the      than I thought,” a Jewish woman: “You’re not like the
Rabbinic Association of the Greater Miami Jewish Federation     other Jewish women I know.” Often our microaggressions
and the first woman president of the South Eastern              are unintentional; we don’t mean any harm. But do you
Association of the Central Conference of American Rabbis.       remember that instance when it was directed at you? It may
Throughout my career, especially when I was younger,            go by in a flash, but in that moment you are made to feel
the fact that I was a woman came up frequently both in          different. The problem is that these comments have negative
positive and negative comments, with admiration as well         effects. When one is made to feel different one is made to
as condescension. Being a female rabbi was part of being        feeling less than another person.
an “other” like being a Jew. As a Jewish woman I was in
another category as well–the forever beloved, problematic,      Judaism instructs our behavior and our language. We are
demanding, Jewish mother. I wore all these identities and       asked to consider our words. “Open the gates of thy heart
found humorous ways to downplay and dismiss the sly, nasty      before thou openest the floodgates of thy mouth, and reflect
and inappropriate comments. For the most part I simply          concerning matters what their effect may be, viewing the
accepted that I would be treated differently. Only within the   end of a thing at the beginning. For remember, that in the
past year did I ever think that my experience could or should   power of the tongue are bound up the instruments of either
be different. I had always accepted my marginality and would    death, or life and health” (Yesod Hayirah). On Friday night
stand up for myself only in the most blatant of situations.     in our Erev Shabbat service we pause for silent meditation
                                                                after singing Shalom Rav, our prayer for peace. If you turn the
Outward discrimination never got in my way, never held          page you see that the silent prayer based on Psalm 34 begins:
me back. But I began to see that what might be considered       “My God, guard my speech from evil and my lips from
“small prejudices” made a difference in how I worked and        deception” (Mishkan T’filah, p. 62) There is a lot of Torah
lived. I also began to see that I, too, directed these “small   focused on our use of words, probably because they roll so
prejudices” against others. Have you ever said that someone     easily off our lips. Today, we are well aware that there has
doesn’t look Jewish? Does it feel differently when someone      been a shift away from civility. As caring human beings we
who isn’t Jewish says it to you? This is a microaggression;     would never espouse hate, yet the microaggressions that may
a statement, action, or incident regarded as an instance of     go unnoticed must be acknowledged and addressed if we are
indirect, subtle, or unintentional discrimination against       to live the value of guarding our tongues.
members of a marginalized group such as a racial or ethnic
minority. It might be making a positive comment which
goes against a negative stereotype. A black woman hears:        Rabbi Jaime Aklepi

                              Second Sunday Serenity | Brunch and Learn
                             Sunday, March 10 • 10:00 a.m., Meeting Room 2
              Join us for our monthly initiative to promote education and awareness about addiction and recovery.
  We will explore Jewish teachings and share personal stories in an effort to combat the stigma often associated with addiction.
 The stigma and denial in the Jewish community have been strong, but Temple Beth Am is actively creating a safe and nurturing
           environment, allowing those who suffer from addiction and their families to access resources for recovery.

                                   Contact Rabbi Aklepi at 305.667.6667 or jaklepi@tbam.org.

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                                                                     Israel was never just given to the Jewish people either by the Romans
                                                                     or the British, so we had to fight and compete to create our own
                                                                     homeland…I wanted to make sure we documented it forever and
                     M e s s a g e                                   create a long standing, new tradition so I asked my friends (and Beth
                                                                     Am parents) Mike (who is a movie producer) and Cindy Avila to
                               from the
                                                                     take a bunch of video and pictures (along with another parent who
                     president                                       is a professional photographer), so we would produce a great video
                                                                     quickly afterwards to document all of the joy and happiness of our
                     Daniela Zanzuri-Beiner                          kids’ faces (those smiling faces cannot lie) from the special day and
                     dzanzuri@tbam.org                               I picked the two great songs for the video! The video is available on
Our annual Beth Am Art Auction is set for Thursday, March 14.        our Beth Am website.
This event is an important program that raises scholarship funds,
and helps pay for technological advances needed to educate           And speaking of our special community, another thing that makes
today’s young students. As Dr. Starr reminds us, today’s             our Temple Beth Am a special is that we continuously review the
students are being trained to think for job opportunities that       serious concern of our security. We recently organized a work event
don’t yet exist. As our children and school are given the tools      for all of our temple personnel, faculty, janitorial staff and clergy to
to succeed, our Jewish Community’s foundation becomes that           participate in a simulated active shooter incident on our campus.
much stronger.                                                       Complete with a Black Hawk helicopter, police officers from both
                                                                     the Coral Gables and the Pinecrest Police Departments, as well
The Annual Auction is an exciting event that will have an open       as a Homeland Security Swat Team with smoke bombs and blank
bar, prizes that includes a Snowmass vacation, cruises, spa gift     bullets, we are happy to report that our lockdown procedures worked
cards and, most importantly, the high level and serious artwork      perfectly. The teachers were in their classrooms, the professionals
of our children that anyone would be proud to showcase in their      and the clergy were in their “safe rooms” and the security teams
home. This year, street artist Alex Yanes, known for his colorful    were able to focus on doing what they needed to. When you see our
artwork and recently commissioned by Nike and Wynwood                Director of Security Sharón Levi, please stop and thank him, as he
Walls, will be auctioning off one of his awesome pieces. (Take a     tirelessly continues to keep our campus safe and his relationships
preview look at www.alexyanes.com.) In addition to catering by       with his colleagues in various law enforcement agencies are an
Fare to Remember, (and did I say an open bar?) there will be a       advantage that serves us all.
strolling musician throughout the evening on an electric violin.
Then, stay and join us for the after-party featuring the original    See you at the auction!
dueling pianos group, Howl at the Moon. Taste craft beers
sponsored by Wynwood Brewery, play ping pong with your               Daniela
friends, and hang out with your Chavurah, your friends and your
family while supporting our Day School. We are grateful to our
Auction Co-Chairs, Jenny Efron-Duffy and Lauren Schwartz, for
all their hard work in support of the Annual Auction.

On another note, Adam Moskowitz, who has three children in
our Day School, recently created The First Games. He, his co-
coordinator Adam Hall, and 24 parent volunteers, created an
event with 14 different events and activities, focused on sports,     Compassionate Visits by Clergy
religious and general trivia, dance and gymnastics. Students are
saying it was their favorite day of the year.                           We want to be there with you because we are here for you.
                                                                     Rabbi Barras, Cantor Nelson, Rabbi Kempler, Rabbi Aklepi
As per some of my e mail exchanges with Adam:                        and Rabbi Greengrass areyour Clergy. Due to hospital privacy
                                                                      policies we are unable to inquire about congregants. Please call
We had three main goals that we accomplished as a team: (1)          the clergy office to tell us when we may visit you or a loved one.
create a new Beth Am tradition that our children will look
forward to each year, that they will greatly enjoy and remember             Mindy Robbin, mrobbin@tbam.org or 786.364.9446.
for the rest of their lives, (2) teach them about leadership,
team work and good citizenship, and (3) help strengthen the
bridge between the generations and our school and synagogue,
by creating a new tradition that our children will eventually
share with their children when they attend Beth Am and can
now share with their parents and grandparents. I had the great
pleasure this past weekend of agreeing (without really knowing
a great deal about the rules!) to start coaching my daughter’s 3rd
and 4th grade basketball team, which is another great tradition
which makes Temple Beth Am very special in our community.

Adam wanted to teach our children through the games, “that
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Thank You!
Temple Beth Am wants to recognize
and thank our Legacy Endowment
Donors. These donors empower our
congregation to celebrate our past, focus
on our present and recognize the importance
of planting seeds for future generations.

Legacy Endowment Donors have donated to our
                                                         GOLD
past Endowment Campaign or documented a gift
to Temple Beth Am in their will or estate plans.
Their generosity will play a key role in securing the
                                                                        SILVER
future of Temple Beth Am for generations to come.

These include cash gifts to the endowment,              BRONZE
planned gifts via a will or estate plan and
Declarations of Intent through our community’s
                                                                        ANTIQUE
Create a Jewish Legacy initiative.                                       SILVER

We thank each and every donor for their support.
                                                        ANTIQUE
Their commitment serves as an inspiration                GOLD

to encourage 100% participation from our
congregation at any level that is comfortable
                                                                                             You have
and fits their family and financial needs.
                                                                                         the power to
We are excited to share that we have refurbished                                   inspire others and
our Committee of 100 recognition wall in the
lobby… and it looks spectacular. To show
                                                                                impact the future of
gratitude to these donors, a flame has                                         our congregation and
been placed on the Committee of                                             Miami Jewish community!
100 board, next to their names                                                    For more information on how you can be a
in the lobby, according                                                 role model to others, secure a brighter Jewish future
to the level of their                                            at Temple Beth Am and leave a legacy gift, please contact:
                                                                     Ilana Gilat, Development Director, 305-667-6667 x106
contribution.                                             or igilat@tbam.org for a confidential no obligation conversation.
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      Membership
   Rita Diaz
   Membership Director
   rdiaz@tbam.org

               SAVE THE DATE
  OUR FIRST TULANE GATHERING!

             • Do you love both Beth Am and Tulane?
                    • Are you an Alumni of Tulane?
           • Do you have children who attend Tulane?
                     • Or graduated from Tulane?

Be a part of our first Green Wave gathering
              Tuesday, March 5
               7:30–9:00 p.m.

               At the home of
           Howard and Pam Wolofsky
             Join us for dessert and meet other
        Temple Beth Am members who LOVE Tulane.

     For more info call Rita at 305.667.6667 ext. 107
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Temple Beth Am BETH UMers’ annual
  event–our BETH UMers who make their
  professional home at UM and their spiri-
 tual home here at Temple Beth Am–was a
     huge hit! What a magical evening!
  Thank you to our members, UM Trustee
  Barbara Havenick and Len Morrison
for opening up their beautiful home to us!
     To Rabbi Jeremy Barras, Trustee
President Richard Fain, and UM President
     Dr. Julio Frenk for their words of
enthusiasm for both incredible institutions.
               Until next year!

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                  Tamara Donnenfeld
              Director of Lifelong Learning
                    tdonnenfeld@tbam.org
Erica Golden
                              Youth Engagement Director
                              egolden@tbam.org

Hi! My name is Mia Crabill. I am a tenth grader at Coral Gables Senior      communities. A
High School and a BAFTY board member. BAFTY is Temple Beth Am’s             unique part of
teen youth group for 9th through 12th graders, planned, programmed,         Winter Regional
and run by the teens on the board with the help of our advisor,             is the “Asefah”
Erica Golden. BAFTY is one of the many temple youth groups                  during which
that makes up the Southern Tropical Region (“STR”) of NFTY, the             voting for the
National Federation of Temple Youth. NFTY-STR has three Kallahs or          following year’s
conventions - each year: fall, winter, and spring. Each is in a different   regional board
location and has a different theme.                                         takes place. The
                                                                            candidates give
I have been fortunate enough to attend both the Fall and Winter             speeches and then
Kallahs this year, which were themed “Out of this World” and Harry          we gather with our
Potter, respectively. The Fall Kallah took place at a campground in         own youth group and decide collectively for whom we will vote.
north Florida. At the Saturday morning service, we got to sit by the                                                        At Winter Regional
lake and sing our hearts out to all the songs we’ve grown up with, but      Returning from these trips, I feel like a better
with fun choreography and callouts unique to NFTY. We also had a            version of myself - more outgoing, kind, courageous, and much more
party where, in keeping with the theme, we all dressed like aliens.         connected to my faith. In these two events alone, I met so many great
                                                                            teens from throughout Florida who I now call my friends. We stay in
The Harry Potter-themed Winter Kallah took place in Orlando over            touch and have already had weekend visits. I feel I am building lifelong
school break and lasted five days. We stayed in a hotel, where our          friendships.
                                  events took place. From the start,
                                  we were split into the four Hogwarts      I love being able to represent Temple Beth Am in the NFTY community
                                  houses and competed for the “House        and I am hoping that more TBAM/BAFTY teens will attend these
                                  Cup” throughout the week. There was       events. The Spring Kallah will take place March 8-10, 2019 at the same
                                  a fun talent show, a formal party on      north Florida campground that we stayed at for Fall Kallah. I highly
                                  Saturday night, and there was a day       recommend that all teens attend at least one Kallah, as it’s a truly
                                  when each youth group got to dress        memorable experience.
                                  up as a character we love. BAFTY
                                  chose superheroes. It was so much         If you have any questions, Erica can connect us! NFTY-STR means the
                                  fun that none of us wanted to come        world to me, and I know that if you try it, it will to you too.
                                  home!
                                                                            Hope to see you at a NFTY-STR Kallah soon!
                                 Each convention has a social action
                                 component in which we are educated
At Winter Regional; Mia is       about topics such as homelessness          Mia Crabill
pictured in the middle row,      or immigration and given examples
second from the left.            of how we can help in our own

                                                                CALENDAR
              Sunday, March 3                                March 8-March 10                             Wednesday, March 20
               Jog for Jenny 5K                         Spring Kallah at Camp Geneva                             BAFTY 5
             Monday, March 4                              Open to 8th-12th Graders!                      3:15-3:45 p.m. in the café!
           BAFTY Board Elections                            March 15- March 18                                Friday, April 5
           Wednesday, March 6                        L’Taken Seminar for Confirmants in            3th and 4th Grade Everything But the
                  BAFTY 34                                    Washington D.C.                                    Sleepover
          3:15-3:45 p.m. in the café!

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                        day school
                         Dr. Deborah Starr
                         Head of School
                         dstarr@tbam.org

                         The more that you read, the more things you will know.
                         The more you know, the more places you’ll go. - Dr. Seuss
  I am oftentimes asked: What do the teachers actually do on                 • Explore the sounds of language to increase phonological
  those Professional Development Days? What are they actually             awareness; use rhyme and alliteration. “See you later, alligator.” All
  learning? It is very important to Temple Beth Am Day School that        nursery rhymes. Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers. You
  we continuously invest in our teachers. We want our teachers to         get the idea.
  constantly explore current research in education, build their own
  practice, and model that one must continuously grow in one’s own           • Include alphabet activities. Read ABC books. Have alphabet
  learning. The current term is: to be a lifelong learner.                blocks, puzzles, and magnetic letters.

  Some of the learning (but not all), especially during the Teacher          • Support your emergent reader as he tries to read books and
  Work Week prior to the students returning to school in August, is       other forms of print. Create a shelf or corner in a bedroom or family
  practical and procedural. How to effectively prepare for a Substitute   room where your child can go to explore, peruse, and “read” a book
  Teacher when one is going to be absent? How to administer               by himself. Have print around (schedules, reminders, charts, etc.).
  an epi-pen (and under what conditions)? What are the School             Encourage print in play: menus, cookbooks, magazines, etc.
  Discipline and Internet Usage Policies? Other learning has to do
  with instructional and educational practice and research. Over the        • Provide a variety of books. Have classic and new literature. Have
  years, and by division (Early Childhood and Elementary School),         books with beautiful, inspiring illustrations. Have books with songs,
  some examples included: The Steps and Traits of the Writing Process,    poems, and strong rhymes. Our school librarian, Lauren Bercuson
  What is Rigor, Technology Usage in the Classroom, Grit, Homework,       can help you with this.
  Creative Curriculum, Reggio Inspired Environment, The War Against
  Boys, and Language and Literacy in the Early Childhood classroom.          • Support emergent writing. Young children need easy access to
  At this time, I would like to share some of the professional learning   materials to they can build their “writing” skills, including scribble
  regarding Language and Literacy in the Early Childhood classroom,       writing, random letter strings, and eventually “invented spelling.”
  as I think many of our families with young children, too, could         Make paper, markers, and pencils available. Take dictation from your
  benefit from what we have studied and put into practice.                child. Let her tell you something and you write it down.

  The basis of our learning came from the required reading of Learning       • Explain how books and print work. Help your child learn the
  About Language & Literacy in Preschool, a National Association for      conventions of print by: pointing to the print as you read it, invite
  the Education of Young Children (NAEYC). The overall theme is to        your child to notice the differences between pictures and print, show
  find strategies that help children extend their language and literacy   how books are read from left to right, top to bottom, encourage your
  learning and eventually get to how to get students to explore real-     child to join in with repeated lines when you read their favorite
  life experiences to inspire them to “write.” Naturally, much of what    story.
  I will share with you is most appropriate for classroom situations,
  but much can be adapted to the home (and sometimes the car!). I           • Offer activities that explore a topic (this one really needs to be
  encourage you to see how some of this can be adapted.                   done more in school).

  There are countless ways to encourage children’s love of reading,       As quoted from Learning About Language & Literacy in Preschool:
  writing, speaking, and listening. Here are nine of the best. As you     Above all, make sure your child enjoys and succeeds in reading,
  read them, consider how many of these ideas might be worked into        writing, and spoken language experiences. When children have fun
  your child’s playtime.                                                  with literacy activities, they will come back to them again and again,
                                                                          creating healthy learning habits now and for years to come.
     • Hold meaningful, thought-provoking conversations. Listen and
  respond to questions and comments. Use unusual words. Expand
  what children say. If your child says: It runned out, you might                   Tell Your Friends About Us; We Have Room to Grow
  respond with: Your marker ran out of ink.                                                          (On Some Grades)

     • Read aloud to your child. Share a variety of stories, poems, and   Dr. Deborah R. Starr
  information books over time. Talk about the text before, during, and
  after reading. Read favorites over and over, again.
Summer
       2019
                                                                                        7 Weeks
                                                                         June 10 – July 26
                                                                      For campers 15 months through 2nd grade
                                                                             Full Day: 8:30am – 4:00pm
                                                                             Half Day: 8:30am – 1:00pm

                                                                              Extended Day Care
                                                                        7:30am to 5:00pm Additional charges apply
                                                                     Weekly Rates and 7 Week Pricing is Available
                                                                   Daily Hot       Lights and   Engineering        Yoga
                                                                     Lunch          Shadow       Art Studio     Scavenger
                                                                     Camp         Wacky Water   Global Music      Hunts
                                                                     T-Shirt          World                     Shows on
                                                                                                Bop ‘Til You
                                                                   Field Trips    Splash Zone      Drop        Wednesdays
                                                                  (for certain     Slimeology                    Funtastic
                                                                 grades only)                     Musical
                                                                                  Movie Night     Theatre        Carnival
                                                                                                               once a week
                                                                                  Mad Science     Athletics

             For campers Pre-K – 5th grade
                   8:30am – 4:00pm
                          1 Week
       June 10 – June 14
                      Tech Camp                                                         4 Weeks
                      with Hilary Haber
                     Cheer Camp
    with Melissa Greenstein and Christine Mogollon
                                                                         June 17 – July 12
                                                                                 For campers 1st – 5th grade
                     Dance Camp                                                       8:30am – 4:00pm
                 with Ballet at Your School
                         6 Weeks
        June 10 – July 26
                 Basketball Camp
                 with Shahbaz Elite Training
 Social Hall with child friendly hoops and hard surface court! Get
your own jersey and learn the unique Shahbaz training technique.
              * No Basketball Camp Week of July 1-5                                Alyssa Allen, Director
                EVEN MORE ACTIVITIES!                                                FIRST TIME EVER!
Wacky Water Land, Slime Factory, Wednesday Shows,                         Interactive Theatre-in-the-Round Show
       Carnivals Days and So Much More!                                               in the Social Hall

                                More information at tbam.org/summercamps
    Liora Vogel, Camp Director | Natalia Garcia, Assistant Camp Director | camp@tbam.org | 786.762.3547                 Page 13
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                          programming
                          Andrea LeVine
                          Program Director
                          alevine@tbam.org

                                                                                            The Temple Beth Am
                                                                                             PJ Goes to School
                                                                                                Committee
                                                                                                 presents:
                                                                                            Shabbat in PJs!
                              Friday, March 8
                                                                                                      March 15
                                                                                                      5:30 p.m.
                                   5:30 p.m.
                                                                                                 Extended Social Hall
                               Pre-Neg Reception
                                                                       Put on your favorite pajamas and join
                                  6:30 p.m.                            us for an early Shabbat service featur-
                           Kabbalat Shabbat Service                    ing dinner, music, and arts and crafts!
                                                                       Enjoy some milk and cookies as
                       You are cordially invited to                    Rabbi Rachel Greengrass reads us
               a special Shabbat celebration honoring all              the PJ Library book The Better-Than-
                 of our Temple Beth Am Day School and                  Best Purim by Naomi Howland. Free
          Religious School Educators, with special recognition         of charge, but RSVP is a must!
             for those teachers celebrating milestone years.           Please email Donna Coughlin at dcoughlin@tbam.org.

         Magen David Adom and Temple Beth Am
                         proudly present                                        Join us to hear from a modern day hero,
                                                                               Benjamin Anthony and about the lifesaving
                        with special guest                                            work of Magen David Adom.
          Sgt. Benjamin Anthony, IDF (Res.)

                  A Sergeant in the IDF reserves, Anthony is a                        Wednesday, March 6, 2019
                  veteran who has served during The Second
                  Lebanon War (2006), Operation Pillar of Defense                              Temple Beth Am
                  (2012), and Operation Protective Edge (2014), as               5950 N. Kendall Drive • Pinecrest, Florida 33156
                  well as in Judea and Sumaria (The West Bank),                    7:00 p.m. Dessert Reception and Program
                  and along Israel’s northern border. More recently,
                  Anthony founded and speaks on behalf of Our                   This is a free event • Open to the community
Solider Speaks, a non-profit NGO that brings the proud truth of
Israel’s soldiers to communities worldwide. Benjamin continues to
serve on an annual basis as a combat reservist in the IDF.             R.S.V.P. by March 4th to 561.835.0510 or miami@afmda.org

MDA, in addition to being Israel’s national ambulance, blood-
services, and disaster-relief organization, works hand in hand with
the IDF to keep all Israelis safe and secure. MDA is the auxiliary
service of the IDF medical services during times of war and trains
                                                                                                                                              afmda.org
all of the IDF, Shin Bet, and Mossad paramedics, providing them
the skills necessary to save a life during the most dangerous and         Magen David Adom is Israel’s ambulance, blood-services, and disaster-relief organization, serving as
critical times of need.                                                  emergency medical first responders for the state’s 8.8 million people. MDA isn’t a government agency,
                                                                                  so it relies on people like you for funding. Through your gift, you’re saving lives.
THE HOW OF HAPPINESS
              AND WELL-BEING
   Can I create habits that will increase my well-being? Can I cultivate joy and happiness?
              Can I change my environment to improve health and well-being?

                        Drs. Ora and Isaac Prilleltensky BET I CAN!

Join us for part two of our Happiness series as our guest speakers use a heavy dose of humor
 (the laughing side), and a healthy measure of science (the learning side) to help you improve
        yourself, your relationships, and your surroundings using the BET I CAN model:
    Behaviors – Emotions – Thoughts – Interactions – Context – Awareness – Next steps

              WEDNESDAY, MARCH 13TH
                              6:30 PM | CHAPEL
       Learn the skills to improve your life and promote joy, happiness and well-being.
                            Open to all TBAM members and friends!

                              $10 for hors d’oeuvres and wine

                           RSVP at tbam.org/happiness

   Shabbat Tropical
                              Caribbean Night
                    March 29                    Service
                                                6:30 PM 7:45 PM
                                                                Dinner

             The Latin Connection of Temple Beth Am invites you to celebrate the
             treasures of the Caribbean as we learn about its Jewish heritage. Join
            us for a special Shabbat service, featuring special musical arrangements
           from Cantor Rachelle Nelson, followed by a night of cocktails and calypso!
                                  $30 FOR DINNER + DRINKS

                                            RSVP to
                          www.tbam.org/shabbattropical

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                                                                  Sunday Salon
                                                              Join us at 10:00 a.m. in the
                                                                 Adult Reading Room

                    March 3 - Marsha Cohen
                    Jews News
                    Once again, we are delighted to welcome Dr. Marsha Cohen, an independent scholar,
                    news analyst, and writer here in Miami, who specializes in the role of religion in
                    politics and world affairs. She will be presenting the most up-to-the-minute details
                    on current events that we will all look forward to discussing.

  March 10 - Abe Benyunes
  The Musical Liturgy of the Spanish and Portuguese Jews
  Dr. Benyunes will continue to enlighten us about the beauty of Sephardic worship.
  Salamone de Rossi is perhaps the most influential Jewish composer in shaping
  the musical liturgy. He was an accomplished musician, and an observant Jew. He
  asked the question, “How can we sing the song of God in a foreign land?” The
  development and resolution of this issue is fascinating and holds true to this very
  day. We shall learn much and listen to these beautiful songs.

  March 17 - Peter Tarjan
             Rescue Efforts and Resistance in Nazi Occupied Budapest,
             1944-45
                  Nazi Germany invaded Hungary, its ally against the Soviets, on March 19, 1944. Dr.
                  Peter Tarjan was a child there at the time, as the systematic destruction of about
                  800,000 Jews began under the command of Eichmann in May. Rescue efforts by
                  diplomats from neutral countries, Zionists, various anti-fascist groups and Christian
                  clergymen and women were heroic and quite effective. Their struggles and successes
                  will be presented, and we are grateful to the Jewish Genealogical Society of Greater
                  Miami for bringing us this program.

                                                                  Thursday, March 14
                                                                           2:00 p.m.
                                                                     Adult Reading Room
                                                                        Close to Home
                                                            Two young, and very different, female sol-
                                                            diers patrol the anxious streets of Jerusa-
                                                            lem, questioning Palestinians and looking
                                                            for suicide bombers. The rebellious one
                                                            finds the army demeaning; the controlled
                                                            one is obedient. Under intense pressure,
                                                            against a backdrop of any-minute-now
                                                            terrorist attacks, a friendship takes hold
                                                            and roles reverse.

        Adult Reading Room Library events are coordinated by Etta Gold, Congregational Librarian.
                           Contact Etta at egold@tbam.org or 786-264-6543.

   Reading with the Rabbis - Mondays • 11:30 a.m. • Meeting Room 3
Bring a lunch and join Rabbis Greengrass and Kempler for the next installment of
their weekly book club! We are thrilled to read and discuss Moral Resistance and
Spiritual Authority: Our Jewish Obligation to Social Justice. This new book contains a
collection of essays from rabbis around the country, including our very own
Rabbi Rachel Greengrass!

To purchase a book ($15), contact Janice Baisman at jbaisman@tbam.org.
MIAMI JEWS MONTHLY NEWS

 +                                                                           Upcoming Events

   MIAMI JEWS                                                               Miami Jews Give Back

   20s + 30s                                                                 Volunteer event serving meals
                                                                             to the homeless at
                                                                             Chapman Partnership
 Creating Jewish experiences in
 local Miami spaces for young
 professionals in their 20s and 30s.                                        Shabbat Supper Club

                                                                             Shabbat Dinner hosted at your
                                                                             home – we provide all the
                                                                             goods, all you do is invite your
                                                                             friends and enjoy!

                                                                            Miami Jews take NYC

                                                                             Join Rabbi Judy Kempler on her
                                                                             3rd annual trip to NYC! Get
                                                                             together with old friends and
                                                                             other TBAM alumni! Save the
                                                                             date: Friday March 22nd @
                                                                             Black Door in Chelsea

                                                                            Seder at the Yard
                                                                             Join Miami Jews for a unique
                                                                             and interactive Passover Seder
                                                                             co-hosted by our friends at
                                                                             Wynwood Yard. Save the date:
                                                                             Tuesday April 23rd!

 SEDER
 AT THE
WYNWOOD
  YARD

Email: miamijews@tbam.org              Instagram: @miamijews Facebook: Miami Jews 20s + 30s
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          Mazel Tov Bnai Mitzvah
 Ava Rose Schatzman
 March 2, 2019
 Ava is a graduate of Temple Beth Am Day School and is currently a 7th grade student at Riviera Prepara-
 tory School. Ava enjoys dancing, playing tennis, traveling and spending time with family and friends.
 She is an excellent student, caring friend and wonderful daughter and sister. Her parents, Jackie and Da-
 rin, and brother Zack are incredibly proud of her accomplishments and look forward to celebrating
 her special day.

 Sami Anes
 March 9, 2019
 Sami is a graduate of Temple Beth Am Day School and currently a 7th grade Honor student at Palmetto
 Middle School. Her passion is playing goalie on the Pinecrest travel soccer team. Sami loves her summers
 at Camp Pontiac. She loves to travel and spend time with her family and friends. Her mother, Heather,
 brother, Hunter, and family are very proud of the young lady Sami has become. We are all so excited to
 celebrate her Bat Mitzvah.

 Nathan Simon
 March 16, 2019
 Nathan is a 7th Grader at The McGlannan School. Nathan is smart, kind, clever and passionate about
 having fun! He loves all things science and enjoys computer coding, tennis and sailing. Nathan’s Mom,
 Dad and sisters, Lauren and Chloe, are so proud of Nathan and are looking forward to celebrating at his
 Bar Mitzvah.

 Sam Casey
 March 16, 2019
 Sam is a 7th grade gifted student in the Band Magnet Program a Southwood Middle School. He loves
 playing soccer, guitar, and drums. He is an active Boy Scout and enjoys camping, going to the beach,
 boating, fishing and spending time with his family and friends. His mom, Debbie and his sister, Emma,
 are very proud of him and look forward to celebrating this special occasion.

 Daniel Kluger
 March 23, 2019
 Daniel is a graduate of Temple Beth Am Day School, and is currently a 7th grader at Riviera Preparatory
 School. He enjoys playing the trumpet and guitar, cooking, and all things technology. Daniel loves to learn
 and try new things. His family and friends are looking forward to celebrating this special occasion with
 him. His parents, Leonor and Gary, and his brother Ben are immensely proud of him every day.

                                            New Members
Aaron Mattfeld & Jessica Adler, Lael and Samuel
Joyce Eldridge
Justin & Erica Greenfield and Aiden
Stuart Pinsker & Gladys Calderon de Pinsker
Judd & Alyson Shaw, Jayden, Jack and Jagger
									                                                                     This list reflects renewals through January 28, 2018.
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                                 tikkun olam
                                      Two Mitzvahs at the Purim Carnival on March 17!
Board Vice President:
Judge David Young

Chair:
Melissa Peerless

Clergy:
                                                             While we enjoy the rides,
Rabbi Rachel Greengrass
                                                     games, treats, and fun, Temple Beth Am
Board:                                                will also be engaging in Tikkun Olam.
Debbie Benitez
Favila Budyszewick                               We are thrilled to welcome youth from His House
Suzanne Calleja
                                                Children’s Home, along with their caregivers, for an
Gary Eisenberg
Myriam Grad                               all-expenses-paid day of carnival fun! It is truly heartwarming
Lisa Heller Green                            to see those smiles, and to know that we provide a special
Stacey Jones                                opportunity for them to be joyful and care-free for a while.
Dan Levine
Jeff Marcus
Shelley Payne                                 Remember the Purim Carnival Blood Drive!
Rachel Robbins-Turetsky
Susan Rosenthal                      Please consider stopping by the bloodmobile before, during, or after the
April Stuzin                        festivities to give the gift of blood–the gift of life. If you are interested in
                                     donating, please contact Susan Rosenthal at educatorsusan@aol.com.

       Thank you!
  Thanks to our Mitzvah Day Captains and thank you to the
    following people, who made Mitzvah Day a success!

                    Melissa Peerless
                   Bagel Emporium
                                                                          Dunks 4 Diabetes
                    Janice Baisman
                   Favi Budyszewick
                                                                        Basketball Tournament
                     Jackie Crabill
                      Tom Cromer
                                                                               April 14
                 Jennifer Efron-Duffy
                      Carol Flicker                                     The Dunks 4 Diabetes Basketball Tournament
                   Lisa Heller Green                                             is back, and bigger than ever!
                     Shelley Jacoby                                   The Marcus Family (Zach, Taylor, Jeff, and Nicole),
                      Stacey Jones                              and a wonderful group of volunteers, are planning an exciting
                    Angelina Kaye                              and fun event, to take place this year at the University of Miami.
                  Max & Sabra Kelly
                Amira & Susy Marroquin                           The annual tournament raises awareness and funding for the
                      Edith Osman                                              American Diabetes Association.
                       Jill Reiter
                    Rachel Schapiro
                                                                        Visit www.tbam.org/dunksfordiabetes
             And thanks to all the participants!                               See page 31 for more information.
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                  By Dr. Lenore C. Kipper, RJE, Judaic Studies Director, Emerita

                         All Israel (the Jewish People) is responsible for one another
                                                         (Kol Yisrael arevim zeh la-zeh)

In the past few months I have introduced you to many Jews who have         time. After serving in the army, he joined the United States Attorney
lived by our theme for the year to care about the welfare of Jewish        General’s Office in New York. When World War 11 began, Marcus
communities in the Diaspora and the land and people of the reborn          returned to the army as a lieutenant colonel. He was soon appointed
nation of Israel. This month I want to share the story of a British non-   as a judge advocate and later as a division commander, attended
Jewish officer and an American Jew who served during World War 11.         meetings of the allies in 1943. He chose to participate in the D-Day
Both stories exemplify the call to contribute to the establishment of      Normandy invasion with an airborne assault.
Israel.
                                                                           In 1944, Marcus became more engaged with his Jewish identity when
Charles Orde Wingate, 1903-1944                                            he was given the responsibility of how to take care of the millions
Charles Wingate was a British army officer and a dedicated advocate of     of starving people in Europe. A part of his assignment involved
the Jewish cause in Palestine. Wingate was a devout Christian believer     clearing out the Nazi death camps. He came face to face with the
who saw the return of the Jews to their homeland as a realization of       survivors of the Nazi atrocities. After the war, he was named chief
biblical prophecies. Stationed in Palestine, under the British Mandate,    of the War Crimes Division. He began planning for the Nuremberg
in 1936, he was known in Hebrew as “Ha-Yedid”, the Friend. He              trials and learned how deeply anti-semitism was imbedded in Europe.
helped train the Jewish Haganah fighters and opposed the Arab terror       This convinced him that the only hope for European Jewry was the
campaign against the Jewish settlements. Wingate was viewed as a           establishment of a Jewish homeland. He retired from the army in 1947
defender of the Jews despite being a British officer. The British army     and was awarded many awards by the U.S. government and the British.
and government during the 1930s were known for their pro-Arab              In 1948, once the state of Israel was established, Prime Minister David
policies and strict limitations on Jewish immigration. This was a time     Ben Gurion asked Marcus to find an American officer to serve as a
when Jewish people from many European countries needed a safe              military advisor to Israel. Marcus decided he wanted this job. He was
and secure homeland. Wingate proved to be an important friend of           brought into Israel under the name of Michael Stone so the British
Zionism and supporter of the future of Israel.                             would not know he was a former U.S. officer. They began to call him
                                                                           Mickey. He planned and organized with the Haganah, training the
Wingate was born to a military family in I903, in India, growing up        soldiers, writing manuals, developing strategies. He felt it was urgent
in a non-conformist missionary family. Wingate was raised with full        that a secret road be built to get to Jerusalem. This is described in the
knowledge of the Jewish Biblical stories, and always carried a Bible       book, Cast a Giant Shadow, which was later made into a movie with
with him. He passionately embraced the prophetic vision of Jewish          Kirk Douglas.
redemption and the Jewish return to their homeland. He received his
military commission in 1923, served in India and in Sudan, and was         “With a cease fire imminent, the powerful Transjordan Arab Legion sat
transferred to Palestine in 1936 as a captain.                             astride the main road to Jerusalem, cutting off the capital, the Jewish
                                                                           quarter of Jerusalem was about to fall, Marcus ordered the construction
The Jewish settlements depended on the British for protection against      of a road to bring supplies and soldiers to Jerusalem as quickly as
the Arab raiders, but Wingate believed that Jewish self-defense was        possible. They worked day and night, with Arab troops on the right
essential so he received permission from the British commander to          and the left”.
train and command the Jewish Haganah in offensive and defensive
tactics. However, the more successful Wingate was, the more the            Miraculously, Israel withstood the Arab assault, the road was
British were not pleased with his support of the Jews. He spoke out        completed, and Ben Gurion named Mickey Marcus lieutenant general
publicly back home, provoking many British military and government         of the IDF. One night, Marcus could not sleep. He was at the Abu
leaders. They transferred him out of Palestine. He then served in          Ghosh headquarters, inspecting the perimeter fence. He wrapped
World War 11, assisting the United States Army Air Corp. He died in        himself in his sheet, a guard called to him in Hebrew, but he did not
1944 while flying for the U.S.                                             understand. The guard, thinking he was an Arab spy, shot him, and he
                                                                           died. Moshe Dayan accompanied his body to West Point for burial.
Wingate’s personality and military genius profoundly impacted Jewish       David Ben Gurion sent this message to his wife:
defense and led to the blueprint for the Israel Defense Forces. His
knowledge, beliefs, and contributions were invaluable in assisting the     “His name will live forever in the annals of the Jewish people. We feel
Jews to provide security for the future state. Several places in Israel    confident that American Jewry will be proud of this great and gallant
are named in his honor, including the Wingate Institute for Physical       man who has given his life for the liberation of Israel.”
Education and the children’s village, Yemin Orde, Wingate Square in        David “Mickey” Marcus was a hero who fought valiantly for the two
Jerusalem, and a forest on Mt. Gilboa.                                     countries he loved, the United States and Israel If you did not know his
                                                                           story before reading this, find a copy of Cast a Giant Shadow by Ted
David “Mickey” Marcus, 1902-1948                                           Berkman, or find the movie. You will be inspired!
David Marcus was born to immigrant parents in New York’s Lower
East Side. He grew up in Brooklyn where he experienced anti-semitic        L’Shalom,
bullying. When he was eighteen he entered West Point Military
Academy and graduated in 1924. He also studied law during this             Lenore
A   WEEKEND
WE CONGRATULATE
                OF SOUL                                  Temple Beth Am invites you for a special

JON KISLAK
                                                         Shabbat filled with learning and song
                                                         Featuring Artist and Scholar in Residence

Recipient of the 2019
                                                         Deborah Sacks Mintz
Dr. Lenore Kipper Talmud Torah Award

JON KISLAK REFLECTS ON HIS TIME AT TEMPLE BETH AM:
I grew up at Temple Beth Am and celebrated life’s
milestones here, including religious school, bar
mitzvah, and confirmation. In addition, all four of my
children attended the day school. I have seen Beth
Am grow from the founding families to the flourishing
community we have today. I am confident in the future.

Temple Beth Am has provided me the opportunity
to continue my Jewish learning. I joined a TBAM          A transformative prayer leader, musician, and educator, Deborah Sacks
chavurah over 30 years ago, and our group continues      Mintz has served innovative institutions around the country as a teacher
to celebrate simchas together.                           of Torah and communal Jewish music. As the Community Singing
                                                         Consultant of Hadar’s Rising Song Institute, Deborah serves as a resource
I look forward to Saturday mornings. Torah provides      to communities across North America and beyond who seek to deepen
us with the wisdom of our ancestors; study helps me      their practice of empowered song and connective prayer. In addition to
apply Jewish values to my daily life.                    composing new Jewish music and teaching nation-wide, Deborah can be
                                                         found regularly performing and recording with a myriad of musicians
This community has given me so many                      and ensembles, including current and past collaborations with top Jewish
opportunities to learn and grow. I feel lucky to call    artists such as Joey Weisenberg, Josh Warshawsky, Noah Aronson, Elana
                                                         Arian, and Nava Tehila. A Wexner Graduate Fellow, Deborah is pursuing
Temple Beth Am home.”
                                                         rabbinical ordination at the Jewish Theological Seminary, and holds degrees
                                                         in music and religious anthropology from the University of Michigan.

                                                         We welcome Deborah as she shares
                                                         her voice with us all weekend:
                                                         FRIDAY, APRIL 4, 2019
                                                         6:30 p.m. Kabbalat Shabbat Service Honoring Jon Kislak
                                                         7:45 p.m. Festive Shabbat Dinner featuring Guest Scholar
                                                                   Deborah Sacks Mintz

                                                         SATURDAY, APRIL 5, 2019
                                                         10:30 a.m. Deborah joins our minyan community as she leads
                                                                    us in song and worship with Rabbi Jaime Aklepi
                                                         1:00 p.m. Shabbat Pray & Picnic for our young families with
                                                                    Deborah and Rabbi Judith Kempler
                                                         Register today at www.tbam.org/soulweekend
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Letter from the President
      Dear Sisters,
      It seems that this year is flying by. Passover is just around the corner, people are firming up plans for their summer vacations,
      and what is really unbelievable to me is that Sisterhood is beginning to plan our calendar and programs for next year. Last
      year, before we planned our calendar, I met with several groups of women to find out what kinds of programs they might be
      interested in. This year, we have begun our listening campaign and some of you have met with a member of the Sisterhood
      board to let us know your desires.
      For those of you who have not met with a Sisterhood board member yet, I want to know what your interests are. If you have
      attended any of our programs this year, please let me know what you liked or what you did not like. (I promise, I will not take
      any of this personally.) We want to know the kinds of programs you might want to attend or if there is a program you would
      like to lead, teach or chair. No idea will be ignored. Help us create a year that is relevant, interesting, spiritual, and certainly
      fun. Please email me your thoughts at gatormom120@aol.com. I am looking forward to hearing from all of you.
                             Warmly,                                                              “It was fabulous, surprise dinner AND
                                                                                                   great company. Rabbi Kempler was at
                                                                                                   her best while explaining Tu B’Shevat...
                                                                                                   great learning experience shared with an
                                                                                                   intimate group of “sisters”! Thank you all
                              Judy Cowan                                                           for learning and sharing together-creating
                                                                                                   a memory together!”
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                                                                                                   SISTERHOOD WOMEN’S TORAH STUDY

                      Intergenerational Women’s Pre-Seder

                                                           Where is
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                                                          the Love?
 M                                               Bringing Love into our Community
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                                                       Through Social Action
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MY
                                                       Join us for an inspiring, spiritual,
CY
                                                        educational, musical luncheon.
CMY
                                                         Bring your friends, mothers,
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                                                                and daughters!

                                                      Sunday, March 31, 2019
                                                              1 p.m.
                                                            $36 members • $45 guests
                                                            tbam.org/sisterhoodseder
Calendar                                HOW TO BE HAPPY!
of Events                               WEDNESDAY, MARCH 13, 2019
                                        6:30 p.m. | Chapel
                                        Sisterhood once again partners with the Programming
                                        Department for part two of our Happiness series with Drs.
                                        Ora and Isaac Prilleltensky! Learn skills to improve your life and
                                        promote joy, happiness, and well-being.
                                        Open to all TBAM members and friends!
                                        $18 for hors d’oeuvres and wine.
                                        See page 15 for more details!
                                        RSVP at tbam.org/happiness
Monday, March 4, 2019
SISTERHOOD BOOK CLUB
7:00 p.m.
Extended Social Hall
In The Midst of Winter
by Isabel Allende
RSVP to lpfabry@gmail.com

                                                                           Thursday, April 11, 2019
                                                                           SISTERHOOD
                                                                           MYSTERY NIGHT!
                                                                           7:30 p.m. SHARP
                                      Tuesday, March 19, 2019              The Great Escape Room Miami
                                      WOMEN’S                              2315 S Le Jeune Rd
                                      TORAH STUDY:                         Bring a friend and join your sisters
                                      MIRIAM’S CUP                         for a fun, team-building, brain-
                                      7:00 p.m.                            busting Escape Room experience!
Thursday, March 7, 2019               Chapel                               Escape games are the newest craze
                                                                           sweeping the nation. You will form
HAMENTASHEN BAKING!                   Join Rabbi Judy Kempler as we
                                      explore a relatively new ritual      teams and together solve a series
7:00 p.m.
                                      item at the Passover seder,          of puzzles using clues and strategy
Teaching Kitchen
                                      Miriam’s Cup. We will discuss its    to help you “escape!” Stick around
Celebrate Purim with your sisters                                          afterwards for dessert and schmooze
and join us for a hamentashen         symbolism as well as Miriam’s
                                      importance to the Exodus story.      with your teammates. Significant
bake! Our very own Chef Sarah                                              others welcome! $25 per person.
Davidoff will how us to roll and      There will be time at the end
                                                                           Space is limited. RSVP today at
pinch the perfect triangle cookies.   of our discussion for you to
                                                                           tbam.org/escaperoom
Don’t miss this fun, hands-           paint your own Miriam’s Cup to
on activity as Rabbi Kempler          use at your Passover seder.
                                                                           Check out our website at
teaches about different mitzvoth      $18 for Sisterhood members,
associated with Purim.                                                     www.tbam.org/sisterhood
                                      $25 for non-members includes
                                                                           For more information on all programs,
$18 for materials.                    materials and a light meal.          please e-mail us at sisterhood@tbam.org.
Limited to 25 bakers, so sign up      RSVP to                              Please include your phone number
now at tbam.org/sisterhoodbakes       tbam.org/womenstorahstudy            so we can call you back.
Commentator                                                                                           March 2019 • Page 26

                                                        I’VE LIVED
                                                        WHERE IT WAS
                                                        FORBIDDEN TO
                                                         BE A JEW AND
                                                         IT WAS EMPTY,
                                                         CRUEL AND
                                                         MEANINGLESS.
     I’m Jewish because I’m part of a civilization that brings meaning and goodness to the
     world. I’m Jewish because I’m proud of the amazing achievements of the Jewish people
     throughout history including the State of Israel.
                                ALEX AKLEPI, TEMPLE BETH AM CONGREGANT,
                          HUSBAND OF RABBI JAIME AKLEPI, AND RECENT BAR MITZVAH!

                   We all connect to Judaism in our own unique ways. Why are YOU Jewish?
                                           — WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU! —
           Send a short reflection to Andrea at alevine@tbam.org and you could be featured in the Commentator.
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THURSDAY
MARCH 14, 2019
at 7:00 PM
SOCIAL HALL, LEWIS FAMILY RELIGIOUS LIFE COMPLEX
COCKTAILS, FOOD + FUN
LIVE AND SILENT AUCTION
FEATURING LIVE ART INSTALLATION
BY ALEX YANES, ART BASEL ARTIST
After Party will follow in the Patio Area
Featuring Howl at the Moon, Dueling Pianos
ADVANCE ADMISSION: $36 per person
DAY OF EVENT: $50 per person
Adult Only Event - Childcare Available By Request
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or Miselie Charite, Special Projects Manager,
786.364.9423 or mcharite@tbam.org

ANNUAL AUCTION CO-CHAIRS
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Commentator                                                                       March 2019 • Page 28

                  THANK YOU TO OUR CORPORATE SPONSORSHIPS
                                     PRESENTING SPONSOR

                                     EXECUTIVE PRODUCER

                                          MIC DROP

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                        ®

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