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THE MAGAZINE OF FAITH METHODIST CHURCH | APRIL 2021

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    SPOTLIGHT ON OUR                CONVERSATIONS@                 TRUSTING GOD IN
      NEW PASTORS!                      FAITH                        TOUGH TIMES
Rev Reuben Ng & Rev Chan Mei Ming   Dealing With Mental Health   Experiencing God’s Goodness

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CONTENTS
THE MAGAZINE OF FAITH METHODIST CHURCH

                                           APRIL 2021

     01    Editor’s Note
     02    Pastor’s Letter

     04
           DEEPER IN CHRIST
           Private & Public Worship (Part 2):
                                                        24
           Sacred Meeting for the Sacrament
                                                                                     31
           SPECIAL FEATURE
     07    Rev Reuben Ng: Imitating Christ In Love
     10    Getting To Know Rev Chan Mei Ming

           HEARTBEAT
     14    One Mission Small Group Conference
     16    Conversations@Faith: Mental Health
     20    The Importance Of Fatherhood
     22    The World Needs A Father Deep Dive                                                                                  48
           Series: Overcoming Porn
     24    Everlasting Blessings and Peace                                          EDITORIAL
     28    Serving with Love
                                                        Pastor-in-Charge           Writers / Contributors
     31    A Different Christmas Celebration            Rev Reuben Ng              Ara Teo                       Jimaia Wong
     35    Bringing CNY Cheer to our Mission Workers                               Brenda Tang                   John Woon
                                                        Editors                    Claire Yeh                    Khoo Tse Horng
     36    SUN JAM Playshop                                                        Esther Ong                    Lionel Lau
                                                        Glynisia Yeo
     38    A Father’s Heart’s Cry                       Audrey Mok                 Godiva Ysip                   Mark Tan
                                                                                   Janice Lim                    Monica Tan
     40    Trusting God In Tough Times                                             Janice Ong                    Stella Seah
                                                        Sub-Editor
     42    Regathering For Worship                      Rachel Tham
     43    Back to Worshipping Onsite and Listening                                Photographers
                                                                                   Althea Chan                   Jonathan Lau
           to the Word of God                           Contributing Pastors
                                                                                   Jimmy Png                     Leong Kwok Seng
                                                        Rev Eddie Ho
                                                                                   Joash Lee                     Richmond Tan
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     45    KidsLEAP Children’s Programme
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     48    First Hybrid 11.15am Service
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EDITOR’S NOTE    1

LOVE = GOING
  THE EXTRA MILE

W
                          hen was the last time you went the extra mile for someone?

                          In his book The First Mile, author Derek Prince wrote that in the context
                          of Matthew 5:41, “Jesus here depicts a situation in which law, or social
                          custom, gives a man the right to compel another to walk a mile together
                          with him.” Jesus then challenged His disciples to not just walk the first mile
                          but to go on with the second mile.

The author then explains, “We may say that the first mile represents duty, the extra mile represents
love. Love freely does twice as much as duty can demand.”

In this hectic society we live in, many decisions are centred around self-serving causes, in order
to benefit the self. This is why we often find it heartwarming to read of a Good Samaritan or an
individual who went out of his or her way to help another human being; and who went the extra
mile for someone else, even a total stranger.

When love becomes the compass of our lives, it will influence our decisions in a way that
brings positive change around us. Likewise, God demonstrated His love for us by
sending His only begotten Son, Jesus Christ, to earth (John 3:16). That one act of
redemption changed the course of humanity and paved the way for mankind to
be reconciled back to God!

Today as we commemorate Resurrection Sunday and remember this
Great Love from heaven, will you now go the extra mile for someone
and love them with the love of Christ?

In Christ,

Glynisia Yeo
Editor

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                                                                           Once we jump into such waters, what looks to be a
                                                                          nice easy swim in still gentle waters, can very quickly
                            UNDERCURRENTS                                   become an intense struggle against currents that
                                                                                  forcibly pull and drag us into danger.
                                  I recently came across an
                                  article by Channel News
                                  Asia (CNA). It focused on the     can appreciate the danger of      to flow. When viewed from         tenderhearted. In so doing,
                                  dangers of swimming in the        undercurrents. Once we jump       the surface, everything might     we practice the biblical call
                                  open sea. If you’re wondering     into such waters, what looks      look “gentle” or even “still”.    to “be kind to one another” in
                                  why CNA would focus on a          to be a nice easy swim in still   But it is just an appearance;     a very practical way.
                                  topic better suited to training   gentle waters, can very quickly   what is underneath is a totally
                                  material found in a sea sports    become an intense struggle        different thing.                  But why can’t we just live
                                  club, it was written in view of   against currents that forcibly                                      with the appearance of
                                  an unfortunate incident that      pull and drag us into danger.     I do not believe we, as           “stillness” while nursing the
                                  occurred in 2020 — the sad                                          Christians, are called to live    undercurrents? Because
                                  drowning of a boy off             Undercurrents.                    with undercurrents. If so,        that is not what God did
                                  Changi Beach.                                                       God would not have placed         with us. He dealt with the
                                                                    They may not look dangerous,      in Scripture, verses like,        “undercurrents” we had
                                  Among other things                but they certainly can be…        “And be kind to one another,      with Him when He forgave
                                  mentioned in the article,         which brought me to reflect       tenderhearted, forgiving          us. And now, He calls us
                                  one potential danger raised       further on “undercurrents” in     one another, even as God in       to do likewise, so that the
                                  that swimmers ought to be         terms of relationships.           Christ forgave you,”              gentleness and stillness are
                                  wary of, are undercurrents.                                         (Eph. 4:32, NKJV). This verse     not just on the surface, but
                                  And what exactly are              Whether husband and wife,         seems to tell us not to live      also underneath in our hearts.
                                  undercurrents? Doing some         child and parent, fellow work     with the appearance that
                                  mini research revealed to         colleagues, siblings or even      all is “gentle” and “still”,      May we as followers of
                                  me that they are currents of      between church members/           but to deal with the              Christ be people who do not
                                  water that flow under the         worshippers, there are            undercurrents itself.             live with the danger
                                  surface of another larger         times when undercurrents                                            of undercurrents.
                                  body of water.                    exist. Perhaps it was a past      How do we do that? By
                                                                    action or deed, a careless        releasing the cause of            Shalom!
                                  What is interesting is that       word spoken, a difference in      those strong “emotional
                                  while the undercurrent may        opinions that brought about       currents”, forgiving one
                                  be intense and strong, the        disagreements, etc.               another so that the currents
                                  surface of the water will                                           have no reason to exist.
                                  more likely than not, be still    Whatever it may have been,        It is certainly not by being
                                  or have only small gentle         it caused some strong,            hardhearted and stubborn          Rev Reuben Ng
                                  waves. By now, I am sure we       intense emotional “currents”      about it but by being             Pastor-in-Charge

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PRIVATE & PUBLIC WORSHIP (PART 2):

SACRED MEETING
                                                                                                                    Holy Communion is an outward sign of
                                                                                                                   God’s inward grace to us. But it is a sign, no

FOR THE SACRAMENT
                                                                                                                   matter how sacred, so we ought not make
                                                                                                                             it more than what it is.
By Rev Eddie Ho

In my previous Faithlink           These channels are called       in Corinth met regularly for       (which Roman Catholics call       Hence, some congregations
article (Jan 2021), I shared       “means of grace,” and there     the purpose of Communion           “Transubstantiation”).            in their circuit might be
three apparent reasons why         are many types and forms of     (1 Corinthians 11:18).                                               served Holy Communion
public worship is important:       means. It can be as simple                                         Secondly, while Holy              only once a month, or every
(i) worship is not about you;      as the meals we are provided    Not More than it is                Communion may be                  two months, and others
(ii) worship is about God and      with and therefore we say                                          a sacrament, it is not a          maybe three to four times
His Church; and (iii) we ought     “grace” with every meal; or     Holy Communion is a sign           mandatory commandment             a year. The parishioners
to yearn for public worship        the Word that we read (“for     of the presence of Christ          but an exhortation. It is         were on a communion fast
working towards the ultimate       man shall not live on bread     among the people of God            a means (of grace) to             until they could partake it;
worship in eternity. That          alone,” Matthew 4:4); or        and their unity in Him. When       strengthen our faith, not an      but when they could, they
is why not only is physical        the preaching that we listen    we partake the wine or             end in itself. So, if situation   communed together.
public worship irreplaceable;      to (“for faith comes from       juice (blood), we remember         demands it – such as during
it is a sacred meeting to look     hearing,” Romans 10:17).        Jesus as the giver of new          a pandemic where minimal          This practice has stuck
forward to.                                                        Life and the New Covenant.         physical contact is called for    with us and that is why in
                                   And among the many means        When we partake the                to reduce the community           pre-COVID days, most (not
In this article, I would like to   of grace at God’s disposal to   bread or wafer (body), we          spread of the virus – it          all) Methodist churches
talk about the sacramental         bless us, there are two which   are reminded we are all one        is alright and our social         celebrated the Eucharist once
reason why we gather               are personally ordained and     Body with Him and with             responsibility to fast from the   a month.
physically and regularly to        instituted by Jesus Himself:    one another (1 Corinthians         Lord’s Supper.
worship and partake Holy           Water Baptism and Holy          10.16-18).                                                           Not Lesser than it
Communion together as              Communion, also known                                              In fact, fasting from Holy        Should Be
a congregation, whenever           as the Lord’s Supper and        Holy Communion is an               Communion is not a new
public health conditions allow.    the Eucharist. We call          outward sign of God’s              thing, it had been observed       Even so, we must
                                   them Sacraments.                inward grace to us. But it is a    and practiced throughout the      also not make Holy
What is a Sacrament?                                               sign, no matter how sacred,        history of the church. One        Communion lesser than
                                   Baptism is a sacrament          so we ought not make               example in the history of         what it is, which is a
Our God is a God of                we do only once in our          it more than what it is.           Methodism was in the 1700s        tendency of modern
grace. This means that He          life time, while Holy                                              when pastors looked after         people like us. The Church
blesses us with gifts we do        Communion is a sacrament        Firstly, because it is our faith   several parishes in different     in Corinth faced the same
not deserve (“unmerited            we partake as often as we       in Jesus Christ that saves         places and were on a circuit      problem and thus Paul in
favour”). How do we receive        can. Although there is no       us, not the act of eating His      travelling around the country     1 Corinthians 11 instructs
His gifts of blessing? We          biblical requirement, we        body and drinking His blood.       throughout the year. This         us to treat it seriously –
receive them via channels          know the Early Church took      Besides, the bread and the         means that these pastors          that is, not to do it as if
(or vehicles) that deliver His     it frequently (Acts 2:42-48),   wine are not the actual            could not be in every church      we were consuming our
grace or gift to us.               and specifically the Church     body and blood of Jesus            on every Sunday.                  own meals separately in

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                                                                                                                            REV REUBEN NG:

                                                                                                                            IMITATING
                                                                                                                            CHRIST IN LOVE
                                                                                                                             In November 2020, the Trinity Annual Conference (TRAC)
                                                                                                                             appointed Rev Reuben Ng as Pastor-in-Charge of Faith.
                                                                                                                             Faithlink chats with our new PIC and discovered more
                                                                                                                             about his life and the motivation behind his values.
                                                                                                                             By Lionel Lau
                                                If our Worship Service is like a dress
                                                rehearsal of the Ultimate Worship, then
                                                Holy Communion is like the “appetizer”
                                                of the Great Banquet.                                                       Who is Reverend
                                                                                                                                                              But an inner transformation
                                                                                                                            Reuben Ng?                        took place one day in
                                                                                                                                                              primary school. During the
our own homes, but to wait                      consecrates the elements                    is like a dress rehearsal of    A pastor who is in                Religious Emphasis Week,
for each other and partake                      at the table as if it is one                the Ultimate Worship, then
it together as a community.                     loaf and one cup (which                     Holy Communion is like          the world, but not                he watched a skit that
                                                have since been modified                                                                                      portrayed the crucifixion of
                                                                                            the “appetizer” of the
If you like, you may see the                    to two-in-one packs due to                  Great Banquet.
                                                                                                                            of the world.                     Christ and the scene opened
                                                                                                                                                              his heart to the reality of
Lord’s Supper like a “reunion                   personal hygiene and public                                                 A pastor who is                   God’s love and sacrifice in a
dinner” where every member                      health reasons). The two-in-                When we gather together for
of the family waits for each                    one pack is distributed to the              the Lord’s Supper, we look      clear about goal                  profound way.
other to fellowship with
one another over the table.
                                                congregation, who then eat
                                                the bread from the batch of
                                                                                            forward with expectation
                                                                                            and eager anticipation
                                                                                                                            setting, yet has                  That personal encounter
                                                                                                                                                              became a defining moment
It would not be a “reunion”                     “one loaf”, and drink from the              to the Great Banquet on         the heart of a                    which has left an indelible
per se if everyone were to                      “one cup” together because                  Resurrection Day, where
take it on their own over a                     we are one Body.                            we will finally and wholly be   shepherd.                         mark on his life to this day.
played video on screen or                                                                   united with our Lord Jesus
not physically present. The                     A Rehearsal for                             Christ, eating and drinking     Born to Methodist parents,        The Call
Patriarch or the Matriarch of                                                               with him and communing          Rev Reuben Ng was baptised
                                                the Ultimate                                                                in Paya Lebar Methodist           Pastor Reuben’s journey into
the family would not exactly                                                                with one another in the
                                                                                                                            Church. He grew up in Toa         full-time ministry reflected
be satisfied, would they?                       Brothers and sisters in                     Father’s kingdom (Matthew
                                                                                                                            Payoh Methodist Church            a sense of responsibility for
                                                Christ, Holy Communion                      26:29; Mark 14:25).
                                                                                                                            and Anglo-Chinese School,         his worldly sojourn and his
In our Methodist tradition, we                  is a blessed practice and a
                                                                                                                            so it can be said he is a true-   eternal place in the Kingdom
take it seriously. An ordained                  holy sign of our union with                 That is the day to behold!
                                                                                                                            blue Methodist.                   of God.
Elder (Pastor) plays “host” and                 Christ. If our Worship Service              Hallelujah, Amen!

                     From 1 May 2021, Rev Eddie Ho will be in-charge of the “Celebration” pillar comprising Sunday
                     Services and Hospitality. He will oversee ministries including Worship & Music, Children, Youth,
                                        Mandarin, and the Filipino and Indonesian Fellowships.

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                                                                                                              Reflecting on his own life and ministry,
                                                                                                                                                                                               uses these moments to pray
                                                                            daughters! The movie buff
                                                                            named his daughters after
                                                                                                              he remembers often failing God                                                   and entrust his day into God’s
                                                                            favourite movie characters,       and His demands of holiness, God’s                                               hands, knowing ultimately
                                                                            combining them with names                                                                                          that God is the one who is in
                                                                            reflecting God’s faithfulness     grace and love picking him up in                                                 charge of the church.
                                                                            and grace in his life. His
                                                                            daughters are now 19 and
                                                                                                              every instance to continue being an                                              Love Is The Key
                                                                            17 years old respectively and     instrument for Him.
                                                                            share a close relationship                                                                                         Love is the heart of Pastor
                                                                            with their father.                                                                                                 Reuben’s vision for Faith.
                                                                                                              Reflecting on his own life and        the busiest, Pastor Reuben
                                                                                                              ministry, he remembers often          reserves his Sunday evenings               He aims to lead our
                                                                            Equipped for Ministry
                                                                                                              failing God and His demands           for dinner with his family,                church in reaching out
                                                                            Joining the Methodist             of holiness, God’s grace and          and spends time with them                  to the community, each
                                                                            Church came after another         love picking him up in every          wherever possible.                         member moving in love as
                                                                            four years of “training his       instance to continue being                                                       God’s hands and feet. He
                                                                            mind” at Trinity Theological      an instrument for Him.                He exercises regularly and                 shared that goals and key
First hearing God’s call to full-         you can have mantou and           College (TTC), but not                                                  enjoys a good movie as a way               performance indicators
time ministry in his final year           chill crab?”                      without God’s lessons in          Likewise at Faith, he                 to rest and recharge.                      might give purpose and
of studies at the Singapore                                                 humility, grace and love.         recognises that each                                                             direction to Faith’s many
Institute of Commerce, his                Seven years into his trading                                        member in the church                  From intense westerns to                   successful events and
parents assured him that                  career, amidst the 9/11 crisis,   In 2007, Reverend Reuben Ng       should be the hands and               Bollywood comedies, we                     activities, but these would be
God would provide and put                 God’s call came again. This       became a Methodist Pastor         feet of God and hopes to              discovered that Schindler’s                nothing if we have not love
bread on the table. However,              time, Pastor Reuben and his       and has not looked back           see members grow in their             List ranks top of his favourite            (1 Corinthians 13).
wanting to give his family a              wife, Angela, both left their     since. Acknowledging the          gifts of healing, preaching,          movies. He recalled how he
higher standard of living, he             jobs and joined Rhema Bible       call of God in his life, Pastor   planning, and organising              and a friend left the cinema               He also hopes that the
carved out a successful and               Training Centre (RBTC).           Reuben shares that even the       events for the community.             in tears after watching its                community will notice the
enriching career as a forex               During his diploma studies        Pastor-in-charge is placed in                                           scenes of carnage and                      love our members have
trader in a bank, then saying,            there, the family was also        a local church by the grace       He wants to make disciples            sacrifice, and oppression of               for each other and the
“Why settle for bread when                blessed with their two            of God.                           of all men and women                  the marginalized.                          people around us, and
                                                                                                              in church and who love                                                           that if Faith is suddenly
                                                                                                              the community around,                 Pastor Reuben is not only the              removed from her location,
                                                                                                              whatever their backgrounds,           Pastor-in-charge of Faith; he is           that people would miss
                                                                                                              religion, race or culture.            also the District Superintendent           experiencing that love in
                                                                                                                                                    for District Two of the Trinity            community. And within our
                                                                                                              Staying Connected                     Annual Conference (TRAC).                  church family, he hopes
                                                                                                              To God                                These roles entail many                    for us to develop a lifestyle
                                                                                                                                                    meetings with people, but                  of love and outreach,
                                                                                                              In the midst of a hectic              he always remembers to stay                regardless of how that love
                                                                                                              schedule, he makes effort             connected to God daily.                    is reciprocated.
                                                                                                              to balance his time between
                                                                                                              work, recreation and family.          In between visits, or when                 “This would be the real litmus
                                                                                                              While his weekends may be             driving to appointments, he                test,” he emphasised.

                                                                                                                          Lionel is a volunteer writer on the Faith Communications team. Thirty years a student, twenty
                                                                                                                                      years an educator, and a lifetime of learning... from the Master Teacher.

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             GETTING TO KNOW
                                                                                                      come for mission work                autonomously on a day-                    I are God’s beloved, let’s be
                                                                                                      to begin! But as I prayed            to-day basis, there should                secure in that!
                                                                                                      about it, I sensed the Lord          also be connectedness and

            REV CHAN MEI MING
                                                                                                      directing me to stay on at
                                                                                                      the International Baptist
                                                                                                      Church Singapore (IBCS) and
                                                                                                      understudy the pastor to learn
                                                                                                                                           camaraderie in ministry
                                                                                                                                           for the furtherance of
                                                                                                                                           God’s Kingdom.
                                                                                                                                                                                Q    Share with us the strong
                                                                                                                                                                                     influences in your life
                                                                                                                                                                                     and ministry.
                             Our New Pastor At Faith. By Esther Teo

                                                                                                                                                                                A
                                                                                                      about pastoral ministry.             I eventually applied for a
                                                                                                                                                                                     Pastor Edmund Chan and
                                                                                                                                           “transfer of ordination”,
                                                                                                                                                                                     his wife, Pastor Anne Chan,
                                                                                                      Frustrated, I learned from the       whilst serving at Ang Mo
                                                                                                                                                                                     whose mentoring group
                                                                                                      Lord that the first call God         Kio Methodist Church as
                                                                                                                                                                                     I have been in for over 14
                                                                                                      places on the life of a person       Pastoral Team Member.
                                                                                                                                                                                     years, have been major
                                     Faith welcomed two new pastors in                                is the call to be His child; and     The Methodist Church in
                                                                                                                                                                                     influences in my life. One
                                     January 2021, one of whom was Rev                                the second is to go wherever         Singapore recognized my
                                                                                                                                                                                     of the things I learnt from
                                                                                                      He appoints. After graduating        Baptist Ordination Credentials
                                     Chan Mei Ming, who has served in                                 from the Baptist Theological         as of 1 August 2020.
                                                                                                                                                                                     Pastor Edmund is this –
                                                                                                                                                                                     “Discover the truth; Apply the

                                                                                                                                      Q
                                     full-time ministry for nearly 20 years.                          Seminary, the opportunity
                                                                                                                                                                                     truth; Reap the benefits; and
                                     Faithlink caught up with her to find out                         arose for me to become the           Who is God to you?                        Pass it on”.
                                                                                                      Minister of Cell Groups at IBCS,
                                     more about her life and influences.

                                                                                                                                      A
                                                                                                      where I had worshipped and           That is a good question! God              Too often we discover the

                                        Q
                                                                                                      served for years.                    is not just a transcendent and            truth then immediately pass
                                           Tell us about your call to full-time                                                            immanent being who lives out

                                                                                                      Q
                                                                                                                                                                                     it on, failing to first apply it
                                           ministry.                                                  Why the switch from                  there, but He is my Heavenly              to our own lives. Not having
                                                                                                      Baptist to Methodist?                Father, and my identity is                experienced the benefits

                                        A
                                           Back then, if someone had told me I would                                                       found in the fact that I am His           when we obey God’s Word,

                                                                                                      A
                                           become a pastor, I would have told them they               [laughs] Everyone seems              child. We all say we know that            it takes away from our
                                           were barking up the wrong tree! [laughs] Actually,         so curious about this! I feel        we are God’s children, but                authenticity as Christians and
                                           I am a nurse, by training, and was bonded to and           that some distinctives of            often this may not go beyond              in discipling others.
                                           working at the Singapore General Hospital. During          the Methodist Church are             head-knowledge.
                                           this time, I was accorded no-pay-leave to study for        helpful in church ministry,                                                    I am also a big advocate of
                                           my nursing degree in Australia. It was during the          and also resonate with               I discovered in the reading of            literary mentors! Authors like
                                           time in Australia that I sensed the Lord’s call to full-   me on a personal level.              The Return Of The Prodigal                Richard Foster, Dallas Willard,
                                           time ministry.                                             Connectionalism, for                 Son by Henri Nouwen that I                and Bishop Rueben Job have
                                                                                                      example, where Methodists            am not only God’s child, but              ministered to me deeply
                                           Eager to fulfil the call and feeling led to be a           are interconnected and               also His beloved; He loves                through their books. For
                                           missionary, I contemplated breaking my bond with           these connections are built          me as much as He loves His                those who would like to be
                                           SGH. However, the Lord impressed upon me to                into the church structure at         Son, Jesus. That realization              mentored by Jesus, I seriously
                                           complete my bond with SGH, teaching me that a              the various levels.                  was life-changing for me, and             recommend you read the
                                           person’s word is his honour. Slightly dampened but                                              allowed me to rest securely               Four Gospels – Jesus’ words,
                                           not discouraged, I submitted to His plan and more          Baptist churches very much           in Him, having “nothing to                life, and ministry are recorded
                                           than completed my bond as a nurse.                         function independently,              prove, nothing to lose, and               in its pages!
                                                                                                      with their highest point of          nothing to hide”.
                                           Now, bond-free, I thought the time had come to             authority being their Senior/                                                  Rev Chan Mei Ming is in
                                           begin serving as a missionary! However, the Lord           Lead Pastor and Board/                                                         the third year of her
                                                                                                                                           When we know, experientially
                                           next impressed upon me to go for theological               Council. Connection with                                                       Minister-On-Trial (MOT)
                                                                                                                                           and personally we are God’s
                                           studies. Even though I thought I did not need a            other Baptist churches is                                                      journey. Let’s pray for God’s
                                                                                                                                           beloved, we can rest securely
                                           theological degree to do mission work, the time in         voluntary, and each local                                                      strength and guidance as
                                                                                                                                           in our Heavenly Father’s love
                                           Seminary was meant to be quality time spent with           church is self-governing.                                                      she continues to minister to
                                                                                                                                           no matter what happens, and
                                           Him. Reluctantly, I obeyed.                                                                                                               our Faith family and those
                                                                                                      I believe that as much as            seek God’s approval and not
                                                                                                      churches should function             the approval of man. You and              around her!
                                           Nearing the end of my 3-year Master of Divinity
                                           studies, I thought the time must finally have                                Esther is the youngest volunteer writer in the Faith Comms team. She loves to
                                                                                                                                            read and is a bright star in the making!

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QUOTABLE QUOTES BY

      an Mei Ming
Rev Ch
       The first call of a person’s
       life is to be a child of God;
       and the second is to go
       wherever He appoints.
        ~ On her calling into full-time ministry

               As much as churches should
               be adaptive to the spaces
               where they serve, there should
               also be collectiveness and
               connectedness with everyone,
               a communal support in the
               furtherance of God’s Kingdom.

                                                   ONE
                ~ On becoming a Methodist Pastor

                                                                                 12-13 JUNE
       God is not just some
       transcendent imminent                                                      ONLINE &
       being that lives out there,
       but my Father, and my
       identity is found in the fact
       that I am His child.
        ~ On her identity in God
                                                   MISSION
                                                   CHURCH CAMP 2021
                                                                                 IN-PERSON

                                                                                  R E G I S T R AT I O N
                                                                                 OPENS 18 APRIL

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                         ONE MISSION
                         SMALL GROUP
                         CONFERENCE                   By Godiva Ysip

The One Mission Small                      and our Small Group Pastor,              Chan Siew Leong, Rev Cheng
Group Conference (OMSGC)                   Rev Peter Koh, shared about              Kim Leong, Jiamin Choo-
was originally scheduled                   discovering and embracing                Fong, Wilson Lau, Ruth
in July 2020 but due to                    our One Mission. The eight               Lew, Esther Ong, Janice
the COVID-19 pandemic, it                  English breakout sessions                Poh, Anna Tan, Pearly Sim,
was postponed indefinitely.                were conducted on Saturday,              The Tacklebox (TTB) Youth
However, our church life                   and held concurrently with               Leaders: Christiana Chan,
continued even in the midst                the Mandarin plenary and                 Adele Tan, Chloe Ting and
of this pandemic. After six                breakout sessions.                       Joseph Wong, and Small
months of waiting, our                                                              Groups, Heritage 1 & 2 and
One Mission Small Group                    The OMSGC 2021 team of                   River of Life.
Conference was held on                     Pastors, Parish Leaders, and
Friday and Saturday, 22 and                Small Group (SG) Committee               Let us continue to partner
23 January 2021.                           Members, thanks all                      God as He accomplishes
                                           participants and volunteers              His work through us – His
The English Plenary was                    who attended or served                   Church – and to those He
livestreamed via Faith’s                   at the conference. We are                has placed among us, just
YouTube channel on Friday                  also deeply appreciative to              around the corner, along the
evening. Our Pastor-in-                    the team of speakers who                 street, and across the regions
charge, Rev Reuben Ng,                     helmed the various sessions:             beyond our borders!

            Godiva is a Pastoral Team Member for Small Groups and also oversees Baptism and Membership at Faith.

                                                                                                                     New post-OMSGC equipping resources under
                                                                                                                     Small Groups are now available at our church
                                                                                                                     website https://www.faithmc.sg/portal/.

                                                                                                                     Contact your Parish Leader should you need
                                                                                                                     notes and/or an in-depth equipping session
                                                                                                                     for your Small Group!

                                                                                                                     Other OMSGC 2021 conference details are
                                                                                                                     available here: https://faithmc.sg/faithlink.

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                                                                                                                       love one another just as          that they not to be sin-            young. I have not known life
                                                                                                                       our Lord has loved us (John       focused, or think of it as a        without depression until the
                                                                                                                       13:34) and the church should      spiritual/moral failure. Instead,   last few years. I hide it very
                                                                                                                       be a safe space for them to       it should be person-focused,        well, as many who struggle
                                                                                                                       talk about it without stigma.     helping the person to see           with mental health issues
                                                                                                                       It is therefore imperative        God’s grace and hope. This          often do. Most would not
                                                                                                                       that we help to create a          is more than just telling them      suspect I was depressive
                                                                                                                       safe environment within the       that you would pray for them        unless they were closer to
                                                                                                                       church for our members to         or simply quote Bible verses.       me since I generally function
                                                                                                                       open up and feel loved and        Being person-focused means          well at work. “Difficult” is an
                                                                                                                       accepted. This allows them to     investing lots of time for them     understatement to describe
                                                                                                                       receive healing.                  to be assured of our care, our      that period of my life. It was
                                                                                                                                                         presence and our attention.         not easy to open up about my

       CONVERSATIONS@FAITH:                                                                                            TH: The statistics are indeed
                                                                                                                       a concern. Behind these
                                                                                                                       numbers are individuals
                                                                                                                                                         Knowing they are being
                                                                                                                                                         prayed for and receiving Bible
                                                                                                                                                         verses are encouraging but
                                                                                                                                                                                             depression in church. I have
                                                                                                                                                                                             been on the receiving end of
                                                                                                                                                                                             clichéd responses such as “I

       MENTAL HEALTH
                                                                                                                       suffering, and sadly, many        only when it is being shared        will pray for you,” “you need
                                                                                                                       times they remain alone and       in the context of a caring and      to trust God more,” or “don’t
                                                                                                                       misunderstood. Furthermore,       authentic relationship.             let the devil take away your
                                                                                                                       these individuals have families                                       joy.” They were well-meaning,
                                                      By Khoo Tse Horng                                                and loved ones who need           TH: Indeed, while we all have       but these responses actually
                                                                                                                       the necessary support in          good intentions, we need            shut me up.
The Discipleship and Nurture Committee                             Professor Leslie Lim who spoke on Mood              knowing how to provide            to be sensitive in how we
(D&N) conducted its second session of the                          Disorders, Dr Ken Ung on Creating a Safe            care. So, for our church to       journey with someone who            Being a church staff made
Conversations@Faith* (C@F) series on 29                            Environment, Ms Audrey Yeo on Suicide, Mr           be an environment that is         is hurting. One disturbing          it tougher as there was
August 2020.                                                       Chong Ee Jay on Addiction, and our resident         safe for everyone, it has to      point I learnt was that even        apprehension and anxiety
                                                                   counsellor, Ms Chong Mingli who conducted           start with us. We need to be a    pastors don’t feel safe sharing     over my colleagues, leaders
The focus for the second session was on                            the Youth workshop.                                 safe space for those who are      their mental health struggles.      and pastors’ response, not to
Mental Health and featured an impressive                                                                               struggling, and for those who     It indicates that the church        mention how the members
line-up of speakers who covered a wide range                       Below is a conversation between Khoo                need to feel safe when they       is really not a very safe           would think. Should someone
of related topics. Pastor Chua Seng Lee,                           Tse Horng, Chairman of D&N at Faith and             are vulnerable.                   environment to be vulnerable        with mental health issues
Deputy Senior Pastor of Bethesda Bedok-                            Tammy Ang, Pastoral Team Member (D&N)                                                 for church leaders.                 work in the church? I was
Tampines Church, was the plenary speaker.                          on the urgency for the topic of mental              What was one thing at this                                            and still am every bit as
The workshop speakers included Associate                           health for our church.                              C@F session on Mental Health      In one study by a Christian         competent as anyone of
                                                                                                                       that resonated with you?          group, only 65% of church           them and would not want
                                                                                                                                                         leaders surveyed felt that          them to give me concession
                                                                                                                       TA: Pastor Seng Lee               the church was a safe place         on their expectations on my
Tse Horng (TH): Tammy, what were the                               people experienced some form of mental              emphasised that “our mental       to talk about mental health         work. I did not want to be
reasons for having Mental Health as the focus                      disorders (mood, anxiety, addiction, etc) [2].      illness doesn’t define us; God    issues. Even more concerning        made to feel like a liability
of the second Conversations@Faith series?                          One in 11 youths is affected by depression.         defines us”. It was extremely     is that only 28% of church staff    because they thought I was
                                                                                                                       liberating and comforting to      felt equipped to help someone       “siao” (insane) or that I was
Tammy Ang (TA): According to statistics, the                       On top of the common addiction to                   be reminded that not even         with mental health issues.          using it as an excuse. I have
suicide rate among our youths and elderly is                       substances and pornography, there is a rise         our mental state should                                               felt very misunderstood and
a great concern. There were 400 reported                           in cases of cyber addiction. Looking at these       define who we are. Our            Tammy, I understand                 decided to hide it even more.
suicide cases in 2019, of which 71 were in                         statistics, we are aware that there are fellow      identities rest in God alone!     you had experienced                 Suppressing it definitely did
their twenties [1]. Based on a study by the                        brothers and sisters at Faith who also struggle                                       depression before. Would            not help the condition.
Institute of Mental Health (IMH), one in seven                     with mental health issues. We are called to         The other point that              you like to share with us
                                                                                                                       was comforting was the            your experience?                    TH: Thanks for opening
[1]
    https://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/singapore/suicide-sos-samaritans-singapore-youths-aged-20s-12985146           emphasis on those who were                                            up and being vulnerable,
[2]
    https://www.imh.com.sg/uploadedFiles/Newsroom/News_Releases/SMHS%202016_Media%20Release_FINAL_web%20upload.pdf
                                                                                                                       journeying with persons           TA: Unknown to many, I              Tammy. I must confess that
                                                                                                                       struggling with mental illness,   had depression since I was          being a co-labourer with you
               Conversations@Faith is a series of talks organised by the Discipleship & Nurture ministry. The aim is
                               to address topics of interest etc… [description will be updated]

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in D&N for so many years, I              •     Accept them as they are,         listen in silence. We have
did not have any clue that you                 connect with the person,         to resist offering answers,
had depression or even asked                   and feel the pain with the       comments, or our thoughts.
enough about your state                        person. When the person          All we should attempt to
of mental wellbeing. It is so                  feels you are there, it          do is to empathize with the
important that we take time                    really helps the person to       person, and acknowledge the
to do that for one another,                    carry the “load”. By feeling     agonising pain that they
since, as a church, we are                     their pain, trust is built and   are experiencing.
called to love one another. I                  when the time is right, the
truly believe that loving one                  person would be more             What would be very helpful is
another requires not just                      receptive to seeking help.       to offer an open channel and
goodwill but knowledge, skill,                                                  just be with them. Educate
and time.                                •     Phrases such as “I               yourself. Learn all you can
                                               understand” are not              about the person’s condition.
Could you share with us how                    helpful because one              Sign up for a course. Learn
we can better love and care                    will not be able to fully        basic listening skills.
for those among us with                        understand what the
mental health issues? What                     other person is going            TH: These are indeed very         interest to serve. It may                          TA: To my fellow brothers and                       TA: Yes, certainly. To those
would be useful for members                    through; and that is ok.         useful tips and reminders. I      help to ask the person if the                      sisters, there is hope in the                       who are helping a loved one,
in the Small Groups to take                    So try to avoid using            do believe the sense of           work or ministry is within                         condition and in the struggle                       it is a tough journey. Do not
note of?                                       this phrase.                     purpose or mission is             their capacity to manage.                          you face. Even when healing                         give up, even if it may feel
                                                                                important for a person. Our       Ministry leaders should                            is not complete or does not                         like three steps forward and
TA: The culture of capitalistic          •     Do not be in a hurry to          purpose energises us. In          not decide for that person                         come quickly, the Lord will                         two steps back at times. You
productivity has influenced                    offer solutions, quote           your opinion, can a person        unilaterally. Honesty and                          find ways to bring comfort                          are important to them. But
the church so greatly that                     Bible verses, or try to fix      with mental health issues still   authenticity builds trust. Open                    and healing to us. Take the                         please protect and take care
we compromise on human                         the person. You may not          serve God?                        conversations on how we                            first step to talk to someone                       of yourself by not doing this
relationships, even in church                  be able to do anything                                             could support each other                           you trust, and seek help; there                     alone as well. It is important
sometimes. When someone                        practical for the person in      TA: Definitely! I believe         while serving together will                        is no shame in that!                                to be aware of your own state
gets physically wounded, we                    that moment.                     all of us can serve unless        help each person grow and                                                                              of wellbeing. Seek support in
would not tell the person to                                                    the person’s condition is         gain confidence. We need                           More importantly, do not                            your journey.
ignore the pain and not think            •     Never put ourselves on           debilitating or unstable.                                                            journey alone. Ask God to
                                                                                                                  to be sensitive when serving
about it., would we? So why                    a pedestal – as if we            Otherwise, allowing the                                                              lead you to the right person if                     TH: Thank you, Tammy!
                                                                                                                  alongside persons with
would we tell someone who is                   know everything.                 person (if the person is                                                             the first person you reached
                                                                                                                  mental health issues. Look
struggling with emotional pain                                                  willing and able) to serve, can                                                      out to is not receptive. This                          To the rest of our Faith
                                                                                                                  out for signs and understand
to ignore the pain and expect            •     Do not trivialise their          facilitate the healing process.                                                      may be the thorn that we                             family, D&N will continue
                                                                                                                  when they need time out.
that they would feel better by                 experiences by saying            But each person will differ                                                          need to live with but God’s                           to provide conversations
just not thinking about it?                    statements like “never           in the capacity or the roles                                                         presence is with us, and
                                                                                                                  TH: That is very assuring. I                                                                           and equipping opportunities
                                               mind, everyone goes              they serve in. The church                                                            our Hope is in the God who
                                                                                                                  remember reading the late                          cares for us. Recognise that                            to help us be faithful
Here are some suggestions                      through it,” “it will            should recognise that these
                                                                                                                  Henri Nouwen, who had                              the journey for each one of                         disciples of Christ, in loving
(from personal and others’                     be okay,” “just pray             persons with mental health
                                                                                                                  been through depression,                           us is different, but don’t give                      and caring for each other.
experiences) that would                        la” or “all families are         issues, are serving even in
                                                                                                                  who wrote, “The main                               up as we make sense of our                             With a strong culture of
be helpful:                                    dysfunctional.” While            their brokenness. Yet despite
                                               it may be helpful to             their challenging state, they     question is not how can we                         situation.                                           care and trust, we will be
•        Listen with your heart.               normalise the situation,         can still offer their gifts and   hide our wounds… but how
                                                                                                                                                                                                                            more able to help one
         When someone shares                   such statements mostly           strengths to bless the church     can we put our woundedness                         TH: Thanks, Tammy. That is
                                                                                                                  in service to others”. Could
                                                                                                                                                                                                                         another grow in Christ. You
         deeply and openly, it                 trivialise the experiences       and others.                                                                          encouraging. How about a
                                                                                                                  you give a shoutout to those                       shoutout to those who are                             are welcome to write to
         means that the person                 of the one suffering
                                                                                                                  who are struggling with                            journeying with their loved                          me (tsehorng@gmail.com)
         is trying to trust you.               from depression.                 There is a need for honest
         Listening with your heart                                              conversations and patience        mental health issues?                              ones and friends?                                            with ideas!
         means listening in order to     It is perfectly fine to let            to journey with the person
         understand their emotions,      the person know you have               who is struggling and who           Tse Horng has been blessed by the ministry of Faith’s people and his Small Group, Barnabas, since 1982. He attends the 11.15am service with his
                                                                                                                  wife, Bee Leng, and his children are in the church’s children and youth ministries. He is a Principal of a mission school and serves as the Chairman of
         worries, and beliefs.           no words to offer, or to               has already expressed an                                        Nurture and Discipleship at Faith. He hopes to receive comments at tsehorng@gmail.com.

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THE                                                                                                                                   EVERY SEASON COUNTS
                                                                     we were presented with             unless we are transformed
                                                                     a thought-provoking                by the Holy Spirit first.
                                                                     view: In fulfilling

IMPORTANCE                                                           those aforementioned
                                                                     responsibilities, we were not
                                                                                                        When we are immersed
                                                                                                        in the Holy Spirit, we will
                                                                                                                                      Did you know that there
                                                                                                                                      is actually an “SOP” in
                                                                                                                                      fathering a child? Here’s
                                                                                                                                                                           During this session, a
                                                                                                                                                                           participant from Faith
                                                                                                                                                                           commented that he wished

OF FATHERHOOD
                                                                     building a Christian home          then begin to realise God     what participants learnt             someone had told him this
                                                                     which focuses on worship           in us, and progressively      during one session:                  earlier because his child had
                                                                     and prayer as a family; we         God with us, and                                                   already grown up and he
Family Life reports on The World Needs a Father                      were instead building a            eventually us in God. Only    (1) Making a mother happy            had missed many windows
which was conducted online. By John Woon                             “secular” home that focuses        then can we release the           during conception 		             of opportunity. However,
                                                                     on studies and successes,
                                                                                                        Spirit of God in us to our        phase promotes faster            participants also realised
                                                                     and in where Christians live.
                                                                                                        family and to the world. In       growth of the baby.              that there are teachable
In November 2020, 15 fathers        Fatherlessness And The           Upon reflection, we had
                                                                                                        this way, we become the                                            moments at every stage of our
from Faith Methodist Church                                          indeed “outsourced” the
                                    Cry Of Our Children                                                 light of the world, a city    (2) The first thousand days          children’s lives. When these
attended the TWNAF (The                                              spiritual development of
                                                                                                        that is not hidden, giving        of a baby’s life is key to       opportunities present
World Needs A Father) online        Most people may assume           our children to the church.
                                                                                                        light to everyone in the          developing his or her            themselves, fathers must
course. The sessions were led       that the role of a father is     We had failed to be spiritual
                                                                                                        house (Matthew 5:14).             brain potential.                 be prepared to provide
by Cassie Carsten and was held      not that difficult a task: He    fathers in our family, and this
                                                                                                                                                                           good support to their
over four consecutive weeks.        is required to work hard to      results in the cry of many of
                                                                                                                                      (3) Preschool days is the            children because they
There were a total of 330           provide funds for the family,    our children today.
                                                                                                                                          phase where a child              are the key
participants from 14 countries.     strengthen bonding by going                                                                           develops either                  to laying
                                    for tours as a family during     Transforming the Home                                                autonomy or 		                   a strong
The World Needs A Father            school holidays, nurture                                                                              uncertainty.                     foundation
                                    children’s spirituality by       The good news is that the
is a worldwide movement                                                                                                                                                    in them.
                                    sending them to Sunday           Bible has the power to
to help fathers bring heaven                                                                                                          (4) Children explore their
                                    School classes, and support      transform our homes. We                                              identity and sexuality
into their homes. We covered
                                    their learning by signing up     can bring heaven home, but                                           when they are in
fourteen modules in total on
topics such as, fatherlessness      for enrichment classes.          unless we (fathers) change,                                          primary school.
and the cry of the children,                                         nothing will change. We
every season counts, and the        This was what most               cannot transform a secular                                         John is a member of the Family Life Committee at Faith Methodist Church.
                                    participants thought until       home to a Christian home
father’s wound.

                                                                                                                                             MOVING AHEAD:
                                                                                                                                         THE DEEP DIVE SESSIONS
                                                                                                                                          A group of 13 Faith Methodist Church fathers have
                                                                                                                                      committed to gather every fourth Saturday of the month
A FATHER’S                           heaven home to                   must step into inner victory.     Indeed, two are
                                                                                                                                      in 2021 to help conduct The World Needs a Father Deep
                                                                                                                                        Dive Series. We are privileged and thankful to partner
WOUNDS                               our families.                    (Matthew 18:22)
                                                                                                        better than one,               with Pasir Ris Mission Church which will be leading this
                                                                                                                                         programme. The purpose for this monthly gathering
                                    • The sins of our parents        Nursing a wound is not             because they have               is to journey together in a fathers’ community and to
• How successful we                   sowed years ago may have       easy and fathers often fail to     a good reward for                encourage one another to apply the truths we have
  father our children                 created predispositions, but   address their wounds because                                                      learnt into our daily lives.
  depends on how successful           it need not create             they are fighting alone.           their toil. For if they        We invite you to join us as we aspire to bring heaven
  we manage to nurse                  our destination.               Therefore, it is important to be   fall, one will lift up                              into our homes.
  our wounds.                                                        accountable in a community         his fellow. But woe
                                    • Whatever the wound is, we      of like-minded fathers because
• If we do not address these          must own it, and we must       we need to practise biblical       to him who is alone.                  For more info on Family Life ministry, contact
  wounds, it is harder to bring       forgive that person, and we    principles together.               ~ Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (ESV)                   Wendy Voon at 6471-9420.

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THE WORLD NEEDS
A FATHER DEEP
DIVE SERIES:
OVERCOMING PORN
By John Woon

What can fathers do to
confront the negative
impacts of fatherlessness
caused by negative impact of
the porn pandemic?

What safeguards can we have
in the home?
                                    addiction, the behaviour
                                    is compulsive. With porn
                                    addiction, we spend an
                                    inordinate amount of time
                                    watching porn instead of
                                    interacting with others or
                                    completing important tasks.
                                    The consequence is failure
                                                                       X X X
                                                                   The Lure of Porn
                                                                   Why is pornography
                                                                   addictive? Pornography is
                                                                   incognito and it offers us a
                                                                   desirable fantasy world where
                                                                   we can be worshipped like
                                                                   God, with sexual relationships
                                                                   that do not reject us. Instead,
                                                                   it gives an illusion of perfect
                                                                   intimacy. Porn offers us an
                                                                   escape away from a world
                                                                   of failure and into a world
                                                                   where no judgement exists.

                                                                   During the focus group
                                                                   discussion, we attempted to
                                                                   answer two related questions:
                                                                   How should we respond to
                                                                   porn addiction as a church,
                                                                                                      Battling Porn
                                                                                                      Colossians 3:5 (NLT)
                                                                                                      So put to death the sinful,
                                                                                                      earthly things lurking within
                                                                                                      you. Have nothing to do with
                                                                                                      sexual immorality, impurity,
                                                                                                      lust, and evil desires. Don’t be
                                                                                                      greedy, for a greedy person
                                                                                                      is an idolater, worshiping the
                                                                                                      things of this world.

                                                                                                      The following are some
                                                                                                      suggested solutions that we
                                                                                                      can introduce in our homes
                                                                                                      to protect our children and
                                                                                                      help them overcome the
                                                                                                      addiction of porn.

                                                                                                      Here is a systematic
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                                                                                                                                         set in place a system of accountability. Second, we can
                                                                                                                                         replace the time-alone moments where porn might be
                                                                                                                                         watched, and replace it with some other positive habits. And
                                                                                                                                         finally, we should educate our children (and us) to run from
                                                                                                                                         unhelpful situations, and remove all things that might trap us.
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                                    and guilt.                     and secondly, what safeguards      approach: First, we should
These were some of the                                             can we put in place for our        recognise the triggers, and        (Refer to the chart above for more information.)
questions being discussed           How do we know that we are     children to protect them
during our Zoom focus               addicted to pornography?       against porn?
group discussion on 27              Here are some signs:                                               In closing, I find this song “We Fall Down” by Bob Carlisle, especially meaningful as I remember
February as part of The                                            One of the safeguards that           the families who are tackling this challenging issue in their homes and in our journey of faith:
World Needs a Father Deep           • Craving to watch porn        we can set up in our home
Dive Series.                        • Failed attempt to cut down   is for fathers [and mothers]
                                      or control watching porn     to set a godly example. The        Cursing every step of the          So when he saw a priest who      ‘Cause if the priest who fell
Pornography addiction                                              only thing necessary for the       way, he bore a heavy load          walked, for once, beyond the     could find the
                                    • Failure to complete major
can seriously damage                                               triumph of evil is for adults to   To the market ten miles away,      iron gate                        Grace of God to be enough
relationships and take                tasks at work, church,                                          the journey took its toll          He said, “tell me of your life   Then there must be some
                                                                   do nothing. We believe that
precedence over important             school, home                 there is no easy solution, it      And every day he passed            inside the place”                hope for the rest of us
functions and responsibilities      • Having social problems       takes a lot of accountability,     a monastery’s high                 And the priest replied           There must be some hope left
in our lives. If we have a porn       because of porn              and if we are willing to submit    cathedral walls                    We fall down, we get up          for us
                                                                   to God, we believe the Holy        And it made his life seem          We fall down, we get up          We fall down, we get up
                                                                   Spirit will work in us. And if     meaningless and small              We fall down, we get up          We fall down, we get up
                                                                   we are willing to be open to       And he wondered how it             And the saints are just          We fall down, we get up
                                                                   our spouse, we believe our         would be to live in such           the sinners                      And the saints are just
                                                                   spouse will go through this         a place                           Who fall down and get up         the sinners
                                                                   together with us. Remember,        To be warm, well fed and at                                         Who fall down and get up
                                                                                                                                         Disappointment followed
                                                                   no wound is so deep as to be       peace, to shut the world away
                                                                                                                                         him home,
                                                                   out of the reach of Christ’s                                          he’d hoped for so much more
                                                                   redeeming grace.                                                      But he saw himself in a light
                                                                                                                                         he had never seen before

                                                                                                       If you are trying to overcome addiction to porn or you need some help with your child, we invite
                                                                                                                            you to contact Lionel Chan from Family Life at 9642-2512.

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                                                      EVERLASTING
                                                      BLESSINGS AND PEACE
                                                Our Mandarin Ministry celebrates the Lunar New
                                                Year with an evangelistic Service.
                                                By Claire Yeh

                                                Also known as Lunar New Year            and limitation of people                           was successful. We had
                                                or the Spring Festival, Chinese         allowed in gatherings.                             a total of 158 attendees,
                                                New Year is undoubtedly                                                                    including volunteers who
                                                the most important event in             Despite these restrictions, our                    served at the event. Our
                                                the Chinese calendar, and               Mandarin Ministry Committee                        invited speaker, Reverend
                                                is traditionally celebrated by          prayed and decided to continue                     Sophia Tan preached
                                                Chinese all over the world.             with our annual Chinese New                        powerfully on “Everlasting
                                                                                        Year Harvest Service on Sunday,                    Blessings and Peace” based
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                                                          New Year in 2021              14 February 2021.                                  on Job 22:21.
                                                was very different for those
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                                                 M            in Singapore due          All glory be to God, our                           We rejoice and give all glory
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                                                    the coronavirus  pandemic.          application to hold the                            to our Lord Jesus for one
                                                There were many restrictive             event with a maximum                               salvation case. To Him be all
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                                                           like social distancing       capacity of 250 attendees                          glory and praise!
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                                                                           Claire is the Assistant Pastoral Team Member for the Mandarin Ministry and
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                                                                                              Outreach and Social Concerns Ministry.

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                                                年年纳福,岁岁平安
                                                供稿人:叶冯清颜

                                                华人新年,又称春节,无疑是                           尽管如此,我们的华语事工委                                      我们的特邀讲者,陈鸾卿牧
                                                农历中最重要的日子,是全球                           员会在祷告后,决定在2021年                                    师,以约伯记22:21和主题「
                                                华人普天同庆的传统节日。                            2月14日按原定计划举行我们                                     年年纳福,岁岁平安」,有力
                                                                                        的年度农历新年布道会。                                        地证道。
                                                由于冠状病毒大流行,2021
                                                年的农历新年与往年大不相                            我们成功申请到举办250人的                                     我们为一位朋友得救恩欢喜,
                                                同。我国实施了各种安全措                            活动许可,荣耀归于上帝。我                                      一切荣耀归于我们的主耶稣!
                                                                                                                                           清颜是华语/外展与社区关怀事工的助理教牧同工。
                                                施,如安全社交距离与限制                            们为当天出席的158名会众与                                     愿一切荣耀和赞美归于祂!
                                                聚会人数。                                   志工感谢上帝。

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SERVING
WITH L VE
A Digital Mission Trip to Shwepyithar,
Myanmar. By Janice Lim

                                                                    Serving with Love”, as well as     bandwidth and adequate IT
                                                                    home visitations.                  equipment to provide optimal
                                                                                                       participation for over 100
                                                                                                       children and youths. We also        now our testimony that with       understanding of loving God
                                                                    Planning a Virtual                                                     God, all things are possible!     through their actions.
                                                                    Mission Trip                       made contingency plans in case
                                                                                                       of power outage (which is not
                                                                                                       uncommon) at the orphanages.        After weeks of meetings,          “Visiting” Singapore
                                                                    In early October, the team
                                                                                                       Finally, we arranged to have IT     preparation, synchronized         from Myanmar
                                                                    leaders and our missions
                                                                                                       enablers and translators who        prayer sessions and
                                                                    ministry volunteers met over
                                                                                                       could provide support before        rehearsals, the big day           The highlight on the second
                                                                    Zoom to plan the programme,
                                  were able to conduct our                                             and during the 2-day event.         finally arrived. Besides the      day of the virtual trip was
                                                                    with much thought being given
                                  first ever Virtual Mission Trip                                                                          participants from the five        a video called “All About
                                                                    to how we could overcome
For most of us, the year 2020     for the children’s home in                                           With the above considerations       homes, we had 21 volunteers       Singapore”, a compilation of
                                                                    the constraints posed by a
has been a year like no other.    Shwepyithar, Myanmar via                                             in mind, the team decided to        (20 in Singapore and 1 from       short videos contributed by
                                                                    virtual setting. Hence, we
The COVID-19 pandemic             Zoom on 26-27 December                                               pre-record various segments of      Canada) calling in on Zoom        our Singapore volunteers and
                                                                    planned the programmes such
brought about massive             2020. COVID-19 may have                                              the Bible camp: Bible lessons,      with much anticipation. The       slickly stitched together by
                                                                    that they were creative, could
changes to the way we live,       hindered us from travelling                                          worship, and skits. We played       program started promptly at       one of our ministry volunteers,
                                                                    promote engagement and
work, study, socialise, attend    to meet our Myanmar friends                                          the recorded videos that came       10am Singapore time (8:30am       Zhimin. This 10-minute video
                                                                    interaction over Zoom, and
church and travel. However,       in person for the year, but                                          with simultaneous translation       in Myanmar).                      was meant to bring the
                                                                    prepared Bible lessons that our
even though it brought            God gave us the technology,                                          during the event itself. This                                         Myanmese children on a virtual
                                                                    young Myanmarese friends
numerous businesses and           manpower, expertise and                                              meant more systematic               What followed was a full day of   trip to Singapore and see what
                                                                    could relate to.
activities to a standstill, our   equipment to share His Word                                          preparatory work was required       Bible lessons on the theme of     our day-to-day life is like.
Sovereign God has continually     and love with the children and                                       of the organisers, orphanage        God’s Love, shared by several
                                                                    We were also mindful of
shown that He reigns, His work    youths in the various homes.                                         home leaders and volunteers         Singapore volunteers via video    The children had the chance
                                                                    logistical challenges, including
never stops and His Word is                                                                            from both countries.                or Zoom. The Myanmese             to view Singapore’s places of
                                                                    the observance of safe
not chained.                      In keeping up with our                                                                                   children also recapped their      interest, schools, wet markets,
                                                                    distancing measures in both
                                  previous Acts 1:8 trips, this                                                                            learning points and shared        hawker centres, parks, Faith
It is indeed by God’s generous    virtual trip included a Bible
                                                                    Singapore and Myanmar. We          Spreading God’s Love
                                                                    had to ensure that the five                                            with us their takeaways. It was   Methodist Church, how we
provision that we, together       camp with the theme,                                                 By the grace of our generous        heartening to hear many of        commute, where we exercise
                                                                    orphanages had Wifi network
with our partners in Myanmar,     “Meeting God Face to Face –                                          God, this virtual mission trip is   them share about their deeper     and pursue our hobbies. The
                                                                    connection with sufficient

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                                                                                                                      A DIFFERENT
                                                                                                                  Christmas Celebration
                                                                                                                      By Brenda Tang

media team also worked            We are indeed thankful for the opportunity to continue to
really hard to put together a     serve with love and to connect with our Myanmese field
                                                                                                                      With the sudden uncertainty of life in 2020 caused by the
summary video of the activities   partners despite the challenges of 2020!
                                                                                                                      COVID-19 pandemic, online missions became the new way of
from Day 1, showcasing the
                                                                                                                      outreach. With borders shut and leisure air travel coming to a
children’s happy faces and
                                   Here are some reflections from the participants of the                             halt, we had to adapt to the situation and find creative solutions
their craft works.
                                   two-day virtual trip:                                                              to continue to reach out to and minster to the children in Nujiang
                                                                                                                      village, Myanmar. However, challenges arose with the limited
After watching the videos,
                                   I have found this year’s                         The most important                network infrastructure in the Nujiang village.
we proceeded to our virtual
home visitations by going
                                   Bible lesson, craftwork                          lesson God has
                                   and home visit held over                         taught me is, if we               Each December over the past few years, the Tacklebox (TTB)
into breakout groups with
                                   Zoom really helpful.                             have the skills and               ministry has been spreading the Christmas joy and reaching out
the five orphanages. During
                                   The children could                               knowledge to help                 to the children through activities such as carolling and a concert
the breakout sessions, we
                                                                                                                      for the village children. Despite the physical restrictions, different
managed to improvise               experience and apply the                         others, it is useless
                                                                                                                      resources were tapped on last year to continue spreading the
familiar activities which          lessons learnt in practical                      without love. So even
                                                                                                                      Christmas joy and message to the children.
we would usually conduct           and spiritual ways.                              if we have no wealth,
during our actual trips, such      Pastor Kyaw San,                                 we still have the strength        The 2020 Tacklebox Year 4 leaders came together to record a
as, song performances by           Orphanage leader of FCC                          to act on the basis               Christmas message through video on Zoom. The message of
the children and games. We
                                                                                    of love to help others.           God’s love and encouragement for the children to continue being
also had a dialogue session
                                   The most important                               Cherry, 16-year-old girl          the salt and light of the world was sent in parts via Facebook
where the children shared
their reflections, testimonies     lesson God has                                   from FCC                          Messenger to the teaching leaders in the centre.
and thanksgiving.                  taught me is to love
                                   God with all my heart.                           Be intentional in serving         In addition, gift packs containing notebooks filled with written
                                                                                    God when doors open               words of encouragement to each child were couriered to one of
Reaping in Joy                     Cherry, 14-year-old girl
                                                                                                                      the teaching leader’s house in Lashio. The teaching leaders then
                                   from Makarios Home                               for us to serve, especially
                                                                                                                      brought the video to the children’s houses to reach out to the
It was a joy hearing so                                                             giving away our time.             families while waiting for the gifts to arrive in Lashio.
many thanking God for His          I learnt to love others                          Jessie, regular
protection and granting them       even though we are                               Acts 1:8 tripper                  The COVID-19 pandemic and infrastructure challenges did not
the opportunity to delve           not physically                                                                     stop the youths from reaching out to the children in Nujiang.
deeper into His Word or            present with them.                                                                 Even more with the ongoing pandemic, we wanted to spread the
spend time with their families
                                   Lee Lian, regular                                                                  festive cheer to the children. Even though we could not celebrate
during the lockdown. On the
                                   Acts 1:8 tripper                                                                   the festive season in person, we connected in spirit.
other hand, some also shared
how they felt isolated and
                                                                                                                      We thank the Lord for the opportunity to continue reaching out
bored when schools were             Janice is a regular Acts 1:8 tripper to Shwepyithar,
                                    Myanmar. She is part of Grace Vision Small Group and                              and connecting with the children in Nujiang.
closed for most of 2020.            enjoys travelling and reading.

                                                                                                                      Brenda is part of Echadh Small Group and serves in the Missions Committee. She enjoys
                                                                                                                      engaging the youth to explore mission fields locally and globally.

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