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You Are Doing a Mitzvah!

By Dawn Berney, Executive Director
              JSS staff know          using this issue to give them an      pages and reflect on this season
              the impact we           opportunity to tell you.              of thanksgiving and miracles,
              have on the lives       I hope you see that by                consider the good deeds you
              of our clients,         supporting JSS in whatever way        are performing right here for
              volunteers, and         you choose, you are doing a           your community by supporting
              even our donors.        mitzvah (a good deed). Whether        JSS.
              Our readers rarely      you reach out for our assistance,
get to see the good we do up          attend our events, offer your          “Acts of kindness never die.
close, because we must protect        time as a volunteer, or donate         They linger in the memory,
the confidentiality of our clients.   goods, services, or funds, you         giving life to other acts in
But many clients, volunteers,         allow us to fulfill our mission. As
and donors want the wider                                                    return.” Rabbi Jonathan
                                      you read the stories and look
community to know how we                                                     Sacks z”l.
                                      at the faces in the following
change lives here. And we are

                                      (Another) Blessing to the Jewish Community
                                      JSS honors Tim and Kathy               time in history. And they provide
                                      Mazur for taking the mitzvah           so much more than financial
                                      of tzedakah (creating justice in       support! They are active
                                      the world through charitable           participants in growing the
                                      giving) so seriously. For the past     program, from sponsoring Rabbi
                                      two years they have generously         Eric Weiss’ inspiring talk last fall,
                                      funded JSS’s chaplaincy                to helping us launch our new
                                      program. Their support                 pen pal program by donating
                                      demonstrates the power of              notecards featuring one of
                                      charitable giving on people’s          Kathy’s beautiful paintings. Their
                                      lives. The Mazurs enable JSS           generosity and vision bless us
                                      to care for the spiritual needs        and our community.
                                      of unaffiliated Jews in our
                                      community at this very difficult
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Tribute Donations
JULY–OCTOBER, 2020

                            Tribute Gifts
                            A tribute gift is a meaningful way to convey sympathy to the bereaved, memorialize a loved one, commemorate a
                            special occasion, or honor a person’s life and accomplishments.
                            Your gift to Jewish Social Services made in honor or memory of this special person ensures a legacy that extends
                            far into the future. To make a Tribute gift, please visit our website at jssmadison.org or call 608-442-4081.

In Memory of Harriet Amsterdam          In Honor of Izzy Liam Goldstein       In Memory of Loris (Lou) Levy         In Honor of the Marriage of
Sara Berg                               Livia S. Asher                        Andrea H. Levy                        Ben Wolf and Kate Snyder
                                        Brad Goldstein and Rachel Rosenfeld                                         Dr. Jeffrey Kushner
In Honor of Frederic and Trude Arm                                            In Honor of Jim Mackman
Benjamin Arm                            In Memory of Kaete Granick            Eve-Lynn Siegel                       In Honor of Nan and
                                        Barbara L. Granick                                                          Jim Youngerman
In Honor of Richard (z”l) and                                                 In Honor of Tim and Kathy
                                                                                                                    Daniel and Bettine J. Lipman
Elizabeth Askey                         In Memory of Florence Grossberg       Mazur’s Anniversary
Benjamin Arm                            Dawn Berney and Ed Angelina           Eve-Lynn Siegel                       In Memory of Betty Zechman
                                        Steven Koslov and Mary Fulton                                               Linda S. Barrett
In Honor of Rabbi Renée Bauer                                                 In Honor of the New Grandson of
                                        Louise Goldstein and                                                        William and Bunny Spitz
Dr. Robert Bauer and Rosyland Bauer                                           Sue Milch & Wilt Saunders
                                         Bruce Thomadsen
Joseph and Carol Chulew                                                       Louise Goldstein and
                                        Jim Mackman
Dr. Roseanne Clark                                                             Bruce Thomadsen
                                        Karen Pollak
Felyce Gilford
                                        Elaine R. Rosenblatt                  In Memory of Betty
Lynn Lederman
                                        David J. Schwartz                     Sommerfeld Miner
Dr. Erica R. Serlin
                                        Eve-Lynn Siegel                       Merle and Patti Sweet
In Memory of Ghita Hill Bessman         Bill and Bunny Spitz
                                        Robert Van Der Leest                  In Memory of Marshall Mitzman
Dr. Marcus Cohen and Sheila Cohen
                                        Rabbi Paula Winnig                    Rabbi Irvin and Vivian Ehrlich
Louise Goldstein and
 Bruce Thomadsen                                                              In Memory of Robert Pantoga
                                        In Memory of Dolores Colen Gruen
                                                                              Donna A. Friedsam
In Honor of Paul Borowsky               Dr. Michael Ostrov and
                                         Dr. Karen Ostrov
                                                                                                                     JSS 2020-2021
Eve-Lynn Siegel                                                               In Honor of Nancy Resnick
In Honor of Ari Jacob Censky            In Honor of Betsy Haimson             Dr. Marcus Cohen and Sheila Cohen      Board of
Marianne Rosen                          Judith Herstand                       In Honor of Ralph Rice                 Directors
                                        In Memory of Edgar R. Holmes          Yael and Eric A. Lund
In Memory of Iva Cohen
Marc Shovers and Jan Loeb               Barry Mirkin and Dr. Irene Mirkin     In Memory of Matilda Ripley            Brad Goldstein
                                        In Honor of JSS Staff, For All        Louise Goldstein and                   (President)
In Memory of Alice Fenyo
                                        the Good Work You Do                   Bruce Thomadsen
Dr. Marcus Cohen and Sheila Cohen
                                        Marjorie Aiello                       In Memory of Reine Rothblatt           Carousel Bayrd
In Honor of Thomas                      Maya Garbuz                                                                  (Vice President)
                                                                              Cheryl Lerner
and Jeanne Foss                         David Goldenberg
Benjamin Arm                                                                  In Honor of Francie Saposnik           Barry Gidal (Immediate
                                        In Honor of Dawn Berney, and          Joseph and Carol Chulew
In Memory of Lois Frank                 Wonderful JSS Staff & Volunteers!
                                                                                                                     Past President)
Barry Mirkin and Dr. Irene Mirkin       William and Corliss Karasov           In Memory of Naomi Siegel
                                                                              Daniel and Bettine J. Lipman           Nathan Lipton (Treasurer)
In Memory of Lottie Frank               In Memory of Yakov Kaplan             David J. Schwartz
Jerri McCallum-Schwartz and             Bela I. Elkin                                                                Rachel Rosenfeld
                                                                              Eve-Lynn Siegel
 Robert D. Schwartz                                                                                                  (Secretary)
                                        In Memory of Iver and Molly Karp      In Honor of Bill and Bunny
In Memory of Ralph D. Gants,            Norma Klagos                          Spitz’ 60th Anniversary                Livia Asher
brother of Fred Gants
                                        In Memory of Erin Karp                Dr. Marcus Cohen and Sheila Cohen
Rabbi Paula Winnig
                                        Norma Klagos                                                                 Bob Breslow
                                                                              In Memory of Meyer
In Memory of Ruth Bader Ginsburg
                                        In Honor of Seymour Katchkey          and Beatrice Sweet
Jack Sherman                                                                                                         Ariela Karasov
                                        Anonymous                             Merle and Patti Sweet
In Memory of Jeff Golden
                                        In Memory of Judith Klehr             In Memory of Ruth Tsotsis              Stormy-Kito Justice
Kathleen N. Nichols
                                        Louise Goldstein and                  Rachel Reed
In Honor of Toony Goldenholz             Bruce Thomadsen                                                             Nancy Leff
                                                                              In Memory of Mindy Wiseman
Haya and Moshe Yuchtman
                                        In Memory of Sheldon Klein            Alene Wiseman                          Amy Lessing
In Memory of Herman Goldstein           Carol Klein
Kendall and Mary Rouse                                                                                               Sarah Sherman
                                        In Memory of Julia Lakritz
                                        Amy Lakritz

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Volunteering Updates
                                                  Our current volunteers       to develop safe ways to keep in
                                                  help in many socially-       touch. We invite you to share your
                                                  distanced ways. Through      ideas and experiences as we work
                                                  phone calls to program       to find ways to provide support
                                                  participants, gift baskets   throughout the community safely.
                                                  for Rosh Hashanah and
                                                  Hanukkah, and online and     Have an idea, a suggested
                                                  written correspondence,      topic, or presenter? Questions
                                                  we are working to all stay   or suggestions for volunteering?
                                                  connected during an ever-    I look forward to hearing from
                                                  evolving situation. We       you: paul@jssmadison.org or
                                                  will continue to reach out   608-442-4083.
Denny Geller, Debbie Spear, and JSS Volunteer     to program participants,
Engagement Coordinator Paul Borowsky, prepare     clients, and volunteers
menorahs for delivery in 2019.

H Jewish Social Services Extends a Sincere Apology to Some 2019 Contributors
In the Summer 2020 issue of Connections, we accidentally omitted some of the generous donors who supported
JSS during 2019. We extend our deepest apologies. Without ALL of our donors, JSS could not provide valuable
services to our community.
Harriet (z”l) & Michael (z”l) Amsterdam   Steven Goldstein & Laura Heisler     Pearl Nathanson
Beth Israel Center                        Islamic Relief USA                   Carol Ottenstein & Ronald Sklansky
Lawrence Dahl                             Steven Levine (z”l)                  Muriel Rotter
Bernie & Lenora Goldstein                 Rona Malofsky (z”l)                  Sol Zaichick
Herman Goldstein (z”l)                    Joel & Deborah Minkoff

Maskerade Parade with JSS Staff
JSS staff in costume greet visitors for our safe drive-by fall celebration on October 28. See if you can recognize
staff in their various creative costumes!

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JSS Changes Lives!

                                                                FAMILY

                                  Maya Garbuz has provided our family with invaluable
                                 assistance in the process of adapting in a new country.
                                      We would like to express our deep gratitude from our entire
                                     family – new immigrants – to JSS case manager Maya Garbuz!

                                                                                     MARINA

                                                                             Personally for me,
                                                                           a lonely woman with
                                                                        hearing impairment, JSS has
                                                                         been like a caring mother.

                         LINDA

      In 2020 JSS provided assistance for me and
    my family to get stable housing. I want to say a
    big ‘thank you’ to Jewish Social Services for the
              excellent work that they do.

                                      JUDI
                                                                                     BETH
                           Joni (Pico, JSS Social                        My dad was dying. He
                           Worker) made me feel                     asked for a Rabbi. Rabbi Renée...
                           a warmer, truer, lucky                    was exactly who we needed. I
                            connection with the                     knew, though it wouldn’t be the
                         Madison Jewish community.                   same, things would be alright.

                                                                M&O

                                  In challenging days, we made a call for help (a cry of
                                   our souls) to these remarkably kind people. And for
                                    three years now we have been feeling their care,
                                             attention, and constant support.
                             We are grateful to fate for such a generous gift – a meeting with the wonderful
                             people at Jewish Social Services (Maya Garbuz, Dawn Berney, Paul Borowsky
                                     and Jim Mackman). Our gratitude and a deep bow to you all.

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Beit Olamim: A Serene Oasis on Madison’s West Side
By James Stein, MD, President of Jewish Burial Association of Madison

I invite you to take a walk or       space already feels more            shrubs, and flowers keep living
drive to visit Beit Olamim,          serene. It is heartwarming to see   from season to season. If you
located within Sunset Memory         families using the driveway to      have questions about the
Gardens at 7302 Mineral Point        visit their loved ones.             Jewish Burial Association of
Road. The driveway is complete,                                          Madison (JBAM), please see our
so you now can enter directly        Madison’s Jewish cemetery is a      website at www.jbamadison.org,
off of Westfield Road. With our      place of life where we connect      call 608-467-3493, or email
recent beautiful plantings and       to those who have moved on          info@jbamadison.org. We are
landscaping, our community           and keep them alive forever in      here to help.
                                     our hearts, just like the trees,

Doing Mitzvot (Good Deeds) at JSS and Beyond
By Linda Reivitz, Past President, JSS Board of Directors

               Many years ago,
               I decided I was
               going to do one               Many years ago, I decided I was going
               good deed every
               day. Give someone
                                               to do one good deed every day.
               a call. Visit or
               lend a hand or an     agencies in Dane County             Jews not affiliated with a local
ear when needed. It seemed           were leaving. But they were         congregation. With generous
like a nice thing to do. I wasn’t    replaced by new staff, and our      funding, we initiated the Levy
expecting a Nobel Prize, but if it   excellence in compassionate         lecture series each summer.
brought a little joy to someone,     service never wavered.              Over the years, I experienced
so much the better.                                                      many of these and I saw how
                                     We continued to picnic with
How lucky for me that, in 2011,                                          much joy they could bring.
                                     seniors and deliver menorahs
I joined the JSS Board, an                                               The smiles tell all.
                                     to them at Hanukkah. We
organization whose mission is        held Shabbat programs at            A few years back the Board
doing mitzvahs! In my first few      senior living facilities and        made the decision to partner
years on the Board, change           offered Lechayim meals and          with HIAS to resettle refugees.
was the watchword. Senior staff      programs on Mondays. We             I had the opportunity to help
who had made JSS one of the          began a chaplaincy program          people new to the U.S. learn to
most respected social services       to serve the spiritual needs of     grocery shop (so many boxes
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of cereal!), to register kids for   more times than any other. That    the playground. I’ll keep trying
school, to go to a public library   decision brought even wider        to do my own mitzvah every
for the first time, and to share    community support to JSS.          day (you can too). I leave the
laughs over silly Swahili-English                                      board knowing that JSS will
                                    My tenure on the Board is now
translations from Google.                                              continue also.
                                    done. I’ll miss my trips to the
Helping the stranger is one of
                                    JSS office, interacting with
the most basic of our Jewish
                                    the staff, and hearing the Gan
values, repeated in the Torah
                                    (preschool) kids chattering in

Why Jewish Social Services Matters to Us
By Ronnie Hess and Ron Rosner, Volunteers and Contributors

                                    or providing assistance and a           We’ve found new
                                    sense of community to seniors,        resonance in the old
                                    the infirm, disabled, and
                                    disadvantaged.                        cliché: ‘It is better to
                                                                          give than to receive.’
                                    We think it was our friendship
                                    with Barbara Spierer, Francie
                                    Saposnik, and Louise Goldstein     honored our friends and their
                                    that got us involved with Jewish   families with tribute gifts, in
                                    Social Services. They thought      moments of joy and sorrow.
                                    there was something we could       Contributing to refugee relief in
                                    offer by way of skills, time,      Madison is of special interest to
                                    and inclination. We hope they      Ronnie. JSS’s work in this area
                                    were right.                        is vital.

                                    Ron: Ronnie started out giving     Ron and Ronnie: We’ve found
                                    a talk at a Lechayim Lunch.        new resonance in the old
                                    She befriended a woman             cliché: “It is better to give than
Ronnie: I don’t know if my
                                    who had grown up speaking          to receive.” We’re grateful that
father, Louis Hess, benefited
                                    French, as Ronnie had; the two     in small ways we’re helping
from a Jewish social service
                                    became lunch buddies. We’ve        people live more peaceful and
network when he arrived in New
                                    also delivered menorahs and        prosperous lives through JSS.
York during World War II, but I
would like to believe he did.
Ron: I remember my father,
Louis Rosner, writing checks on
weekends to various charities.
Ron and Ronnie: We both
learned from our families the
                                                  Warm Hanukkah
importance of connecting                          Wishes from
with people committed to
helping others – refugees                         JSS Staff
settling into a new home,
needing food, clothes, a job;

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Staying Connected While Staying Safely Apart
By Paul Borowsky, Volunteer Engagement & Events Program Manager

                                                                                  the personal experiences
                                                                                  of friends and participants
                                                                                  of JSS. Topics include: talk
                                                                                  with local author Doug Moe,
                                                                                  retracing family histories of the
                                                                                  Holocaust, working with Tibetan
At JSS, Zoom gatherings are “the new normal” (for now).                           refugees, life and resilience after
                                                                                  becoming blind, and learning to
With online-only programming,                 who participated in pre-COVID       play the wooden spoons during
there are both challenges                     programs to find out what           COVID times.
and opportunities. The most                   barriers people have to joining     Many new presentation and
challenging aspect is not                     us online.                          discussion topics are in the
being together in person. The                                                     works. Rabbi Renée Bauer will
                                              Don’t forget that every Monday
opportunity is the wide variety                                                   present topics related to the
                                              a volunteer leads Yoga from a
of people we can invite (from                                                     Bible and Jewish wisdom on the
                                              Chair on Zoom. You can also
anywhere with an internet                                                         third Thursday of each month.
                                              find links to Zoom recordings
connection) to present and                                                        Her presentations on using
                                              of our guest programs on
participate. We realize that                                                      Jewish wisdom to help during
                                              the JSS website under the
joining in an online event                                                        challenging times, and her
                                              “Programs” menu (jssmadison.
is dependent on a person’s                                                        discussion of Eve and Lilith in
                                              org/zoom-recordings). Look for
willingness and computer                                                          the Garden of Eden are among
                                              recorded programs on health
experience, and on having the                                                     the Zoom recordings you can
                                              and wellness, history, ecology,
right equipment. We are in the                                                    find on the JSS website.
                                              and more. Many of these are
process of surveying people

  Volunteer of the Year Award Goes to Betsy Haimson
                              At our Annual
                              Meeting in October,                     What an honor to be selected
                              JSS Board and staff                       as ‘Volunteer of the Year’
                              presented Betsy                         at JSS. I adore teaching Yoga
                              Haimson with our
                                                                     from a Chair. I am, every week
                              2020 “Volunteer of
                              the Year” Award.                            I teach it, completely
                              Betsy began                            overwhelmed by the fantastic
                              volunteering at JSS                     group of people who join me!
                              over 20 years ago.
                              She participates in                               - Betsy Haimson
                              many aspects of
                              our work including
strategic planning and currently serves on the                 by moving “Yoga from a Chair” to an online
Senior Adult Committee, helping with event                     format. Monday without yoga is like a luncheon
and program planning. We appreciate Betsy’s                    without food! Thank you, Betsy, for your decades
dedication to helping JSS adjust to COVID times                of service to our community.

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RABBI’S CORNER by                                                 Just as we add one candle at a time to
                                                                 the menorah, we can add more light to
     Rabbi Renée Bauer                                             the world with simple, small deeds.
                The Talmud records a debate about
                the lighting of Hanukkah candles.             When we ask, “when will this pandemic end?” let
                Shammai says: On the first day one            us shift our attention to where we have been. Let us
                kindles eight lights and, from there,         find power in the creativity and resiliency we have
                gradually decreases the number of             used to adapt to life in the time of COVID.
lights. Hillel says: On the first day one kindles one         Just as we add one candle at a time to the
light, and from there on, gradually increases the             menorah, we can add more light to the world with
number of lights. (Babylonian Talmud, Shabbat 21b)            simple, small deeds. We can call a family member,
Shammai’s decreasing light reflects the story of              write a note to a friend, volunteer for an hour, help
the jug of oil that lasted 8 days. But instead, we            an immigrant find the right English word, say a kind
celebrate according to Hillel, lighting candles based         thing to a stranger. With each small gesture we
on the days that have passed, not the days that are           increase the light.
left. And Hillel’s practice reflects the principle that       Jewish Social Services is here to help if you are
holiness should always increase, never decrease.              struggling to find light in your life or if you want
As we add one candle to our menorah each night,               to brighten someone else’s. Do not hesitate to
let us use Hillel’s reasoning as spiritual guidance.          reach out to us.

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