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INTRA MUROS - NEW SILVER LAKES WEBSITE EASTER 2019 GOLF ACADEMY NEWS CONSCIOUS EATING
INTRAMUROS  E ST AT E N EW S | E NV I R O N M E NT | S P O RT | T R AV E L | F A M I LY L I F E

NEW SILVER LAKES WEBSITE
EASTER 2019
GOLF ACADEMY NEWS
CONSCIOUS EATING

May | 2019
INTRA MUROS - NEW SILVER LAKES WEBSITE EASTER 2019 GOLF ACADEMY NEWS CONSCIOUS EATING
INTRA MUROS - NEW SILVER LAKES WEBSITE EASTER 2019 GOLF ACADEMY NEWS CONSCIOUS EATING
INTRA MUROS - NEW SILVER LAKES WEBSITE EASTER 2019 GOLF ACADEMY NEWS CONSCIOUS EATING
CONTENTS
                                                   May 2019
   ESTATE NEWS
   From the CEO                                               5              COMPETITION
   Upcoming Events in Silver Lakes                            8              Restaurant Competition                                     27
   Easter 2019                                                9
   Mature Golfers                                             11             FOOD & WINE
   From the Country Club                                      12             Champagne vs Prosecco                                      31
   Golf Academy                                               15
   The New Silver Lakes Website                               16             TODAY’S CHILD
   Photography Talk and Equipment Display                     20             In Hil’s Head                                              34
   Meet the Staff                                             23             Life Talk: Why Empathy Matters                             36

   LIFESTYLE                                                                 HEALTH & WELLNESS
   Gardening                                                  25             Conscious Eating                                           41
   Décor: Happy Hygge                                         29             Sneaky Ways to Boost Dad’s Health                          43

   CLASSIFIEDS                                                44             James Clarke’s Back Page Humour                            48                        Photo Credit: Albert Roos

SILVER LAKES                      CONTRIBUTORS                                                                EIA PUBLISHING OFFICE Tel: 011 327 4062 - www.eiapublishing.co.za
27 Muirfield Boulevard,           Silver Lakes HOA                    Hilary Green                            PUBLISHER Nico Maritz - nico@eiapublishing.co.za
Silver Lakes, 0081                Silver Lakes Directors              Madeleine De Wet                        EDITOR Debbie Walton - 082 928 1689 - debbiewalton30@gmail.com
PO Box 11106                      Henk Booysen                        Brendon van Nieuwenhuizen               GRAPHIC DESIGNER Christo van Eeden - beyond@bdstudio.co.za
Silver Lakes 0054                 Sid Pretorius                       Chantal Le Roux                         SALES MANAGER Martin Fourie - 072 835 8405 - martin@eiapublishing.co.za
Tel: +27 12 809 0142              Corlia Mathews                      Audrey Bekker                           ADVERTISING SALES Gerdie Murphy - 082 556 9863 - gerdie@eiapublishing.co.za
Fax: +27 12 809 1119              Nienke Moolman                      Adva Beeri-Eldar                        PRODUCTION CO-ORDINATOR & ASSISTANT EDITOR
                                  Elize Malan                         Nicoleen Davies                         Nicole Hermanson - nicoleh@nowmedia.co.za

       LETTER FROM THE EDITOR

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          ife really is what you make of it and while I believe that our                                       the walking away from them that’s the hard part. But nothing gives
          inner happiness is largely up to us, it’s dawned on me that our                                      perspective like a bit of distance and the closer I get to 40, the more
          happiness is also very dependent on how we spend our time                                            liberating it’s been for me to walk away from things that don’t serve
      and with whom.                                                                                           me well. I can only hope my daughters will follow suit when it comes
                                                                                                               to hurtful friendships as well as being a good friend.
      In fact, it’s become rather obvious to me. If the parents on the side
      of the sports field make you feel unwelcome, move to the other side.                                     Emotional well-being is as important as physical health and therefore
      Have you not heard from someone you love and care about it in a                                          as curators of the young lives of our children, it’s imperative that we
      few weeks? Call them! How we are with our friends is inevitably how                                      practice self-care in order to be our best.
      our children will be with theirs and it’s become glaringly obvious
      to me that my daughters seek out friendships that mimic mine. If                                         The old adage is true: Grass is greener where you water it so
      you gossip on the phone to your friends while your children are in                                       make effort where it counts. Life is too short to be surrounded by
      earshot it is likely that your children will do the same. Do you behave                                  negativity.
      in a respectful, kind manner while having dinner with friends? If you
      do, those are the kinds of relationships your children will strive for.                                  Best,
      Acknowledging toxic relationships in our lives is kind of easy. It’s
                                                                                                               Debbie

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ESTATE NEWS

                                      NEWS FROM THE CEO
        T
              he vision of the Board of Directors               request everybody to please ensure that             driving range. While dads and their sons
              is to maintain and enhance Silver                 their family and any visitors are fully aware       had a great time at the braai, mom could
              Lakes as a world-class secure,                    of these:                                           enjoy her time off. This is a great new event
        safe, environmentally aware and good-                   • Walking or playing on the golf course is          and we look forward to seeing even more
        neighbourly residential estate for the                     only permitted from 18h00 until 6h00.            tents on the driving range every year.
        benefit of residents.                                      Golfers are continually having difficulty
                                                                   with somebody walking a dog with their           The Squash Club championship will start
        IMPROVEMENT OF SECURITY SYSTEMS                            back towards the golfers or children             in June and entries are still welcome.
        You will be aware of the upgrade of our                    playing on the course and need to be
        security systems at the gate. We are busy                  asked to move before the golfers can             The Business Expo is planned with the
        with the installation of spikes at all entry               continue with their play.                        next talk to be held by the Business
        and exit points, new cameras have been                  • When you do walk on the pathways,                 Forum. Please contact Daleen du Plessis to
        installed that are more effective than the                 please ensure that you are aware of              register your company and reserve a table
        existing cameras and new booms with                        golf balls in flight. A golf ball traveling      at the Expo.
        a Morphowave access control system                         at 340km/h will cause serious damage if
        are being installed. This system still uses                not death if you get struck on the head.         NEW MEMBER / RESIDENT EVENING
        fingerprints for access, but a member will              • If golfers are about to tee off, please           We are introducing a New Member /
        no longer have to touch any device. It is far              stand still and wait while they are in the       Resident evening where our new members
        more effective than the current biometric                  process. Please refrain from talking or          and tenants will have the opportunity
        access control system and much faster.                     using cellphones as a courtesy. Yes, it          to meet other new people in the Estate
        Good news is also that people who had                      takes concentration for a golfer to make         as well as the management team. The
        difficulty with the system reading their                   a good shot!                                     evening will take the form of an overview
        fingerprints will no longer need a card for             • The crossing on the 18th fairway is               of Silver Lakes, the various clubs available
        access as the Morphowave access control                    a major challenge. This section of               at the Country Club, some critical rules
        system will be able to identify even those                 the course may not be crossed while              and most importantly, the opportunity
        difficult-to-read fingers. It has already                  somebody is playing. You are requested           to network with other new people and
        been tested on site and proven extremely                   to please wait until the golfers have            become part of the family at Silver Lakes.
        successful.                                                passed and can then proceed. No other            Special invites will be sent to all new
                                                                   crossing is allowed during the day.              members and residents.
        We will also be re-enrolling all our
        members, residents, workers, contractors                If we do not get the full support from              Should you have any queries about any
        and other categories of people who have                 everybody on the Estate, we will have               matter on the Estate, please feel free to
        access to the Estate. This is to clear the large        no choice to consider introducing more              contact Maxine Martinho, our Member
        database of people, many of whom don’t                  security guards to roam the golf course and         Ambassador at the HOA, who will assist
        visit the Estate anymore, thereby slowing               manage the residents who do not abide               you or put you in touch with the right
        the existing system down. Once you have                 by the rules. This will be an unnecessary           person. Alternatively, please feel free to
        re-enrolled online, you will be required                expense but may well have to be considered          join us at the Meet Management session
        to have your fingerprints rescanned at                  if we do not get the co-operation of our            at the Clubhouse on dates shared with our
        the HOA. This will then enable you to use               residents. Please share with your family and        members.
        the faster and more secure access control               visitors to ensure that we create a culture of
        system.                                                 adherence to the rules on the golf course.

        We are proud to be one of the first estates             CLUBS AND EVENTS
        in South Africa to introduce this faster                The Photography Club as well as the Bird
        and more secure access control system                   Club have started well and the Country
        and thank our members for their patience                Club is proud to have introduced talks
        during the process.                                     and outings for these two clubs. This is
                                                                intended for novices as well and there is
        CHALLENGES ON THE GOLF COURSE                           no membership fee involved. Please join
        In spite of reminders and various methods               us and share the beautiful pictures on
        of communication, residents still ignore                Facebook.
        critical rules on the golf course which put                                                                 Kind regards
        them in danger on the course. We wish to                The Father and Son evening was a first at           Henk Booysen
        highlight the specific points (again) and               Silver Lakes with camping allowed on the            CEO: Silver Lakes Homeowners Association

                                                    IMPORTANT CONTACT NUMBERS
HOA OFFICE                                EMERGENCY NUMBERS                            Smart Meter Call Centre                 CLUBHOUSE
                                                                                       012 943 9950
Office hours:                             Security Control Room (24 hours)             smartmeter@tshwane.gov.za               Clubhouse             012 809 0282
Monday to Friday                          012 809 0424/5
08:00 until 16:30                         Boschkop Police 012 802 1087/4               SECURITY                                Café 41               012 809 1571
012 809 0142
info@silverlakes.co.za                    Netcare 911            082 911
                                                                                       Security Control Room (24 hours)        Takeaways
                                          Fire Brigade             10111               012 809 0424/5                          012 809 0431 / 012 809 1484
WhatsApp Number                           Power Failure     012 339 9111
081 848 2787                                                                           Bidvest Protea Coin Security
                                          City of Tshwane Call Centre                  From 18:00 to 06:00, weekdays           GOLF
Security access office:                   012 358 9999                                 24 hours Sat, Sun and public holidays
Hours as above                                                                         072 615 5862                            Pro Shop             012 809 0430
Including first Saturday of every         Water leaks: waterleaks@tshwane.gov.za
month from 08:00 until 11:00              Street lights: streetlights@tshwane.gov.za

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ESTATE NEWS

      UPCOMING EVENTS: JUNE 2019

                    1 June                        13 June
          RACE OF FAITH                      DOMESTIC AND
                                              GARDEN TALK
                    4 June                     Clubhouse at 10:00
             QUIZ NIGHT
             Members Bar at 19:00                 16 June
                                             FATHER’S DAY
                    5 June                       Book at Café 41
  PHOTOGRAPHIC TALK
              Clubhouse at 18:30                  17 June
                                              YOUTH DAY
                    9 June                         Clubhouse
FIELD INTERPRETATION
  Two Sessions: 08:00 and 10:00 from the          29 June
                Clubhouse                    LUCKY DRAW
                                               Clubhouse at 18:00
                  11 June
      BUSINESS FORUM                          For more information
Clubhouse at 19:00, Book your spot for the           contact
                                             daleen@silverlakes.co.za
             Business Expo
                                                 or 012 809 0282

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EASTER 2019
T
      hankfully that torrential rain stopped on Monday
      22 April and Silver Lakes families were able to
      make their way to the Clubhouse where they had
a lot of fun at our Kids’ Easter event. The Easter Bunny,
Pabello handed out Easter eggs and there was also an
Easter egg hunt in the park. The kids could also colour
in a picture and stand a chance to win a prize. Thank
you to Sotheby’s our event sponsor, and everyone
who spent the morning with us, we hope you all had
a Blessed Easter.

Some of the Silver Lakes staff members handed out
Easter eggs at the gates on Thursday 18 April wishing
our residents a Happy Easter. It was great to see the
community spirit make everyone smile.

                                                            Left to right: Mike Westman, Dorothy Martin and Nienke Moolman

                                                            JW, Leah and Bianca Groenewald

Juanita du Plessis from Sotheby’s with Pabello the Bunny    Paul Nkosi, Maxine Martinho and Michele Rankin
ESTATE NEWS

                                                                                                             April results

    MATURE GOLFERS
                    MATURE GOLFERS - 04 APRIL 2019                                      MATURE GOLFERS - 18 APRIL 2019
               NAME                   PLACE             2-CLUB                     NAME                  PLACE             2-CLUB
Phillip Molapo / Fernando Vieira (49) 1st       Daan Venter           Daan Venter (43)               1st             Daan Venter
Jas Wasserman / Dawie Jacobs (47)     2nd       Frans van Jaarsveld   Kobus Gouws (38 c/o)           2nd             André Meij
Fernando Vieira                       NTP # 9 Francois Booyse         Johann Myburgh (38 c/o)        3rd             Niek Hollander
Dawie Jacobs                          NTP # 13                        Phillip Molapo                 NTP #1
Hugo Pretorius                        NTP # 16                        Daan Venter                    NTP # 9
Fernando Vieira                       NTP # 18                        Niek Hollander                 NTP # 13
Francoia Booyse                       NTP # 3                         Manfred Johannes               Lucky Draw

                    MATURE GOLFERS - 11 APRIL 2019                                         MATURE GOLFERS - 25 APRIL 2019
               NAME                  PLACE             2-CLUB                        NAME                       PLACE         2-CLUB
Dawie Jacobs (36 c/o)                1st        Hennie Coetzee        Bertus de Klerk / Fernando Vieira /    1st          Daan Venter
Eugene Visagie (36 c/o)              2nd        Kokkie Martin         Ernst Roestorff / Vincent Mascini (85)
Kokkie Martin (35 c/o)               3rd        Johann Myburgh        Frans van Jaarsveld / Dawie Jacobs /   2nd
Johan Els                            NTP # 9                          Phillip Molapo / Bryan Davy (83)
Lodewyk de Wet                       NTP # 13                         Daan Venter                            NTP # 3
Kokkie Martin                        NTP # 16                         Jannie Jacobs                          NTP # 16
Phillip Molapo                       NTP # 18                         Phillip Molapo                         NTP # 4
Jannie Jacobs                        NTP # 3                          Klaas Heystek                          Lucky Draw

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ESTATE NEWS

         FROM THE COUNTRY CLUB
W
         e had a fabulous Easter weekend     are allowed to hit out of them during          Golfing hours (6h15 to end of official play)
         on the golf course. We hosted our   golfing hours.
         annual Easter tournament that                                                      We are still experiencing problems with
has been running for the past 10 years.      Here is something to brag about! The Silver    the removal of the yellow driving range
We had a record number of players – 670      Lakes League started earlier this year and     golf balls. Please note that these balls
entries over the four days.                  we have had phenomenal successes with          are the property of the Silver Lakes
                                             our league teams. Even our Caddie League       Homeowners Association and may under
The seasons are changing and we can          team performed very well finishing 4th on      no circumstance be taken off the premises.
already see this on the growth of the        the log out of 16 clubs. Well done!            It is strictly prohibited to play a round of
course. These are exciting times for the                                                    golf with driving range balls.
green keeping staff as we can start with     Golf Cart stickers
our winter projects by adding additional     To all new homeowners who own a golf
drainage for the rainy seasons, erosion      cart that is not yet registered, please do
control on the embankments of dams,          not forget to visit the Clubhouse Monday
pruning and adding additional trees onto     to Friday, at reception, to purchase your
the course and reshaping the course          golf cart sticker.
layout with new cutting patterns.
                                             General Rules
Residents walking on the golf course         Rule 10.10 Golf practising is limited to the
would have noticed that we are redoing       designated range and practise facilities
our bunkers, attending to drainage in        during the designated times only. No
the bunkers and adding new sand. The         practising is allowed anywhere on the golf
bunkers are looking very inviting with the   course at any time.                            Happy golfing
white sand but please remember that the                                                     Brendon van
bunkers are restricted areas and no one is
allowed to play in bunkers as only golfers
                                             10.11. Playing golfers enjoy priority on the
                                             golf course at all times.
                                                                                            Nieuwenhuizen
                                                                                            Golf Manager

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                      WHAT IS HAPPENING AT
                         THE ACADEMY

  Winner of the B-div juniors Jayden Botha                                                     Winner of the C-division Ips Connor van Esch

Academy players:                                • They keep an in depth statistics profile   Custom fitting:
With Club Championships a distant                 of their rounds.                           The new Titleist Ts driver and woods
memory we want to acknowledge a few             • Statistics and analysing your game is      are proving very popular clubs with the
star players among the field who did              such a big part of the game, yet most      players that have tried them out. We have
exceptionally well.                               of us (yes me included) sometimes          seen gains with everyone in ball speed,
                                                  overlook the obvious.                      launch angle, carry distance, club head
• Winner of the B-div juniors Jayden                                                         speed as well as a lower spin rate. All taken
  Botha, Winner of the C-division Ips           Interesting facts about statistics:          into consideration everyone hit the ball
  Connor van Esch                               • The average number of putts per            further. The best gain was a gentlemen
• Winner of the u/13 category Johan               round for the top 10 in the world is 28    who beat his own driver by an astonishing
  Smallenbach.                                    putts per round.                           65m carry distance.
                                                • The average green in regulation is
                                                                                             Come and try it out, book your spot in
Well done to each and every player for all        74%.
                                                                                             the next demo day for R150 or book a full
the hard work you put in.                       • The average amount of fairways hit off
                                                                                             fitting at R500, both these fees are waived
                                                  the tee is 73%
                                                                                             on the purchase of your new clubs.
Game improvement:                               • The average amount of up-and-downs
Talking about winning and getting your            for par 73%.                               Upcoming events:
game ready for the next big game or             • The majority of clients want to work       Titleist Demo days every Saturday
tournament, have you wondered how                 on their long game, yet they average       afternoon from 15:00 – 18:00. Please book
the professionals keep getting better and         around 36 putts per round and when         to secure a spot.
better?                                           in comes to chipping they average less
                                                  than 50% in scrambling.                    Junior competition every last Saturday
                                                                                             afternoon, 18 & 9 holes, please book to
                                                So here is some food for thought. If you     secure your child's spot.
                                                can improve on only those two stats, by
                                                getting your putting average to 30% and      In the June / July holidays we have two
                                                getting your scrambling up to 60% it can     fantastic holiday programmes, a full day
                                                mean as much as 10 shots per round, I        including lunch and 9 holes as well as
                                                am sure a lot of you would love to play 10   an Elite programme where we include
                                                shots below your handicap in your next       everything from training programmes,
                                                event.                                       fitness programmes, psychology and
                                                                                             more. Bookings open.
                                                We are able to analyse your game
                                                and your statistics, give us a call and      The Silver Lakes Golf
                                                start playing the best golf you can.
                                                                                             Academy team

Winner of the u/13 category Johan Smallenbach
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ESTATE NEWS

    THE NEW
  SILVER LAKES
     WEBSITE
      www.silverlakes.co.za

W
           e are excited to announce that the new Silver
           Lakes website is live! The new website is
           modern, user friendly, aligned with the latest
website trends and aims to elevate the profile of the
Silver Lakes Golf and Wildlife Estate. The main tabs on
the landing page include: ‘Home’, ‘Golf’, ‘Country Club’,
‘Estate’, ‘Game Reserve’ and ‘Contact us’. Under these
various tabs you will be able to find more information
relevant to each specific section.

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ESTATE NEWS

Under the ‘Golf’ tab you will be able to
book a golf round, book a golf day, sign
up for golf membership or corporate
membership and take a look at our
upcoming golf events. By clicking on
‘Golf course & Facilities’ you’ll be able
to click on every hole for a graphic and
narrative description of that hole. Also
watch out for the stunning drone footage
that showcases every hole of our beautiful
Peter Matkovich designed golf course.
You will also be able to see the weather
forecast for the day. At the bottom of the
‘Golf’ page you will be able to learn more
about the golf academy and what they
offer.

All forms on the website are now HTML
documents and you will be able to
complete them online and submit it much
easier and faster.

                                             Under the ‘Country Club’ tab you will be able to learn more about the
                                             recreational facilities within the Estate, restaurants & shops, functions &
                                             conferencing, clubs as well as the social events calendar. As a new added
                                             feature you will also be able book a venue for your next conference,
                                             party or function under the ‘Country Club’ tab. By clicking on ‘Restaurants
                                             and Shops’ you’ll be able to view information about the restaurants,
                                             convenience store and wine shop, which are located around the
                                             Clubhouse.

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• Welding Work, Centurion and Gemini gate motors

                                                                               • Residential Paintwork

                                                                               • Cutting and trimming of trees

                                                                               • Irrigation design & installations of Hunter, Nelson
                                                                                 and Rainbird product.
S I LV E R L A K E S G O L F E S TAT E                                         • Borehole-, Booster-, Poolpumps

                S O L E M A N D AT E                                           • Solar Photocell offgrid power replacement systems.

                                                                               • All maintenance, Building, Tiling.

                                                                               • All waterleaks

                                                                               • Trenching for electrical cables and waterpipes.

                                                                               • Geyser Repair/Replacement

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                                                                               • LED light replacement

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                       35 years of 'Passion for Property'�                                  & site management
ESTATE NEWS

    Under the ‘Estate’ tab you will be able to find
    information about the Homeowners Association,
    upcoming social events, our retirement village and
    you will also be able to page through the latest
    edition of our Estate magazine, the Intra Muros
    electronically.

:

                                                         The ‘Game Reserve’ tab includes beautiful
                                                         images of the animals and birds within the
                                                         Silver Lakes Golf and Wildlife Estate. Bird
                                                         lovers will be happy to find that the bird
                                                         list is printable to help you keep track of all
                                                         the birds that you have spotted within the
m                                                        Estate.

                                                         We hope that you will enjoy our new
                                                         website!

                                                         Happy clicking!
                                                                                                           Nienke Moolman
                                                                                                           Marketing Manager

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ESTATE NEWS

                PHOTOGRAPHIC TALK AND
                  EQUIPMENT DISPLAY
                                                          5 JUNE

J
    oin us at the Chapel on the 5th of June   They love to serve the local photographic    What equipment will be displayed?
    at 18:30 for a fact-filled Photographic   community with expert advice and great       Due to the extensive range of available
    Talk, as well as an Outdoorphoto          customer service. With an extensive range    equipment, it will not be possible for them
display of photographic equipment.            of leading brands, they ensure that you’ll   to display all products that are currently
                                              find what you're looking for. They also      available in the market. They will therefore
You do not need to be a member of             offer:                                       focus on the current best sellers and
the Photographic Club to attend this          • High-end        photographic      rental   most popular ranges of cameras, lenses,
presentation, an interest in photography         equipment,                                beanbags, tripods, backpacks, memory
will suffice.                                 • Buying and selling second-hand (used)      cards and gimbals.
                                                 gear, allowing you to
Who is Outdoorphoto?                          • Trade-in and trade up.                     If you are interested in something that is
In 2004, Hedrus and Norma van der                                                          not on display, an appointment can be
Merwe founded the online community            What is the Photographic talk about?         made with ODP’s representative to view
that would become Outdoorphoto, South         ODP will be talking about the future of      the products at their shop.
Africa’s largest photographic retailer.       DSLR vs Mirrorless cameras. They will
Today, they are still 100% founder-           discuss different genre of photography
owned and they believe that it is their       as well as which equipment is best-suited
community-style approach that makes it        for each genre e.g. Landscape, Portrait,
work.                                         Studio, Wildlife, etc.

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ESTATE NEWS

          GET TO KNOW THE STAFF
                       What’s your current position? Can you         loved) before returning to Pretoria 32 years
                       give us a brief overview of what it is you    ago.
                       do in your work?
                       I am the Personal Assistant to the CEO. I     Did you have any key mentors or people
                       assist the CEO where needed, attend and       who influenced who you are or what you
                       minute meetings, administration, arrange      believe in, in your work and life? Tell us
                       staff functions, and handle queries.          about them.
                                                                     I was the apple of my dad’s eye and he was
                       Contact details.                              my hero. Sadly, he passed away when I was
                       Tel: 012 809 0142                             21 years old but the values he taught me
                       E-mail: secretary@silverlakes.co.za           remained: Be on time, always do your best,
                                                                     be kind to others and yourself, to mention
                       Describe yourself in three words.             a few.
                       Dependable, trustworthy and loyal.
                                                                     What are your future plans or something
                       Are you married? Any children?                exciting that you would still like to do?
                       I am not married (divorced) and have          I take care of my aged mother and as a
                       three adult children and five gorgeous        result cannot really make plans as I need to
                       grandchildren.                                consider her. However, God willing, I would
                                                                     like to go scuba diving in the Great Barrier
                       What are your hobbies or interests?           Reef with my grandchildren before I’m too
                       I paint and draw when I have time. I enjoy    old to do so, and see the Northern Lights
                       cooking and experimenting with banting        in Canada.
                       friendly recipes.
                                                                     If you could change one thing in the
                       What do you enjoy most about your job         world to make it better, what would it be?
                       at Silver Lakes?                              I’d give every orphaned or abandoned
                       I am privileged to work in such a beautiful   child and animal a “forever” home. Mission
   Get to know:        Estate. I enjoy the interaction with our
                       residents and that no two days are
                                                                     impossible, I know, so I’ll have to do what I
                                                                     can for those that I can help.
   Michele Rankin      the same – there is always something
                       unexpected popping up.                        What is your motto in life?
                                                                     Every saint has a past, every sinner has a
                       Where did you grow up?                        future. So don’t give up on anyone.
                       I was born in PE, grew up in Pretoria, and
                       spent seven years in Nelspruit (which I

                       What is your current position? Can you        Did you have any key mentors or people
                       give us a brief overview of what it is you    who influenced who you are or what you
                       do in your work?                              believe in, in your work and life? Tell us
                       I am the Country Club Accountant. Daily       about them.
                       processing, monthly reporting, golf           My parents, because they always
                       membership and queries on the golf side.      encouraged me to do my best. Also Liezel
                                                                     Jordaan (former Financial Manager at
                       Contact details.                              Silver Lakes) who inspires me to always do
                       Tel: 012 809 0281                             my best.
                       E-mail: golfadmin@silverlakes.co.za
                                                                     What are your future plans or something
                       Describe yourself in three words.             exciting that you would still like to do?
                       Hardworking, friendly and punctual.           I am currently busy with my Honours
                                                                     degree in accounting, on route to CA(SA)
                       Are you married? Any children?
                       I am married and have no children.            If you could change one thing in the
                                                                     world to make it better, what would it
                       What are your hobbies or interests?           be?
                       As for now – studying.                        I would like for people to have compassion
                                                                     for one another and to treat each other
                       What do you enjoy most about your job         with respect.
                       at Silver Lakes?
                       I enjoy working as part of a team.            What is your motto in life?
                                                                     Never leave that till tomorrow which you
                       Where did you grow up?                        can do today.
  Get to know:         Ventersburg, a very small town in the Free
                       State.
Williené Breytenbach

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LIFESTYLE

      BRING
       YOUR
     GARDEN
      INSIDE
         by Elize Malan

W
           inter is approaching and we
           shall be spending more time
           indoors     cocooning.     Create
an environment with plants that will
compliment your design scheme. Whether
it is a row of potted plants on a windowsill
or a well-stocked indoor garden, an
effective display is always possible.

     No home should be
      without plants.

Plant accents
                                               This is a plant that will tolerate low light      window display. The dainty strings of
An impressive mature specimen of a
                                               and air-conditioning as long as the soil is       Ceropegia(string of hearts) or Senecio
tropical plant will completely change the
                                               kept moist.                                       rowleyanus (string of pearls) will bring
ambience of a room. Ficus lyrata with its
                                                                                                 a personal touch to bookcase shelves or
oversized leaves or Ficus benjiminii with
                                               Flowering plants                                  a room divider. Philodendron scandens
the bushy elegant shape will easily grow
                                               Colourful seasonal flowering plants               with its heart shaped foliage, trained on
three meters tall in good conditions. The
                                               and bulbs such as Hyacinths, Daffodils,           a moss pole. Will tolerate low light and
plants will need enough space and good
                                               Chrysanthemum, Begonia eliator and                requires very little floor space.
light. Coffee trees (Coffea arabica) with
                                               Cyclamen are especially useful to brighten
dark green shiny leaves grow two metres
                                               a winter interior. Mass the pots together,        Succulents and Cacti
tall and flower in ideal conditions after
                                               lower than eye-level, without foliage             The hot sunny north facing window
three years.
                                               plants, on a south facing windowsill or           will just suit them fine, but not all
                                               low table. Flowering plants are grown             succulents require good light and low
                                               in ultimate greenhouse conditions and             humidity. Sanseviera trifasciata (Mother-
                                               sold with adequate care instructions.             in-law’s tongue) will tolerate low light,
                                               Unfortunately, few homes have the                 and is a superb air purifier. Zygocactus
                                               perfect environment. Accept that the              truncactus (Christmas cactus) has a mass
                                               flowering plants may not perform to your          of drooping flowers in winter. It needs
                                               expectations and enjoy it while it lasts.         medium light and a moist environment.
                                                                                                 The natural habitat is in forests growing
                                               Terrariums                                        as epiphytes. Place the plant in a tray
                                               This is a no fuss no mess way of having           filled with pebbles and water, without
                                               plants indoors. The container can be any          the pot touching the water. This tray will
                                               shape and size as long as the glass is clear      combat dry air in a room during winter,
                                               and the plants get all the light they need.       when air-conditioning or electric room
                                               Preferably it should have a closed or almost      heaters are used.
                                               closed lid. With a closed lid very little water
                                               will be required. The plant combination
                                               should enjoy the same conditions, in              My version of a quote by Linda Solegato:
                                               particular moisture. Ferns, small Orchids,
                                               Pilea mollis, Peperomia are good choices.         “Plants indoors give us
                                               Trailing foliage plants                           oxygen for the lungs and
                                               An assortment of hanging baskets, or
                                               Kokedama mossballs, make a striking               for the soul”

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LIFESTYLE

       HAPPY
       HYGGE
N
       ow that cooler temperatures have
       arrived, it’s the perfect time to
       introduce some Hygge into our
home décor. Pronounced “hoo-gah,” the
Danish word refers to a lifestyle concept
of “comfort, coziness, contentment,
wellbeing and companionship” and what
better way to make the changing season
more palatable? Because hygge is about
creating the right atmosphere rather
than about material items, spending
a lot of money is not necessary for its
achievement.

With that in mind, here are some tips for
keeping your home looking and feeling         knits. Rugs and woven wall hangings also       Turn your bathroom into a spa
warm and cozy all winter long.                add warmth and comfort.                        Your bathroom can be a relaxing retreat
                                                                                             rather than just a place to get ready in the
                                              Layer the lighting                             morning. Put away the bulky, practical
                                              Combine candles, fairy lights and fire for     toiletries. Add candles, a plush rug, thick
                                              that warm and fuzzy feeling. Candles           towels and a cozy robe and you’re ready
                                              are central to the hygge theme – turn off      for a serene soak.
                                              the overhead lights and scatter candles
                                              throughout the space. Fairy lights can         Now that your space is ready, just add
                                              add cheer to just about any room and           comfort food and good company and
                                              they provide soft light without being          you’re ready to melt the ice.
                                              overwhelming. A fireplace is first prize but
                                              don’t worry if you don’t have one. You can
                                              achieve cozy companionship outdoors
                                              huddled around a braai or fire pit too.

                                              Surround yourself with things that
                                              matter
                                              Hygge is about indulgence but not
                                              extravagance. Use your home as a living
                                              space rather than a storage space. Take
                                              advantage of the change of season as an
                                              opportunity to get rid of things you don’t
                                              need or care about and surround yourself
                                              with only the things that really make you
                                              happy – things that hold a nostalgic value
Stick to a soft neutral colour scheme         or tell a story.
Choose soft neutrals and whites for your
wall colours to create a sense of space and   Add texture with natural elements
calm. The colour scheme should not be too     Texture can add interest to an otherwise
bold when it comes to hygge. Accessorise      minimalist space.     Incorporate warm,
                                              organic materials like wood and wool.          Audrey Maidwell is an interior decorator and
with pastel colours like soft greys and
                                              Bring the outside in and use plants and        second hand furniture and décor retailer,
beiges and rich creams and dusty pinks.
                                              flowers to add colour                          owner of Second Chance Furniture & Decor.
Limit the use of higher contrast neutrals
like black or dark brown, as these are less
                                              Create a nook                                  Tel 083 297 7671
relaxing on the eye.
                                              It’s not a hygge home without somewhere        E-mail: secondchance.fd@vodamail.co.za
                                              special to curl up under a blanket and         FaceBook: https://www.facebook.
Use cushions and throws for added
                                              relax. A me-time spot where you can            com/Second-Chance-Furniture-
comfort
                                              peacefully read a book whilst sipping tea      Decor-2180373778860831/
Coziness is key in hygge decor. Swop your
                                              or hot chocolate. Use a window bench or        Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/
light summer scatter cushions and throws
                                              a love seat and layer pillows and throws to    secondchance.fd/
for chunkier, textured versions – pile on
the velvet, faux fur, cashmere and chunky     make your nook super inviting. Books and
                                              magazines are a must but no tech allowed!

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FOOD & WINE

       CHAMPAGNE VS PROSECCO:
         THE REAL DIFFERENCES
                           Answer: Champagne is from France and          Champagne Taste Profile
What are the differences   Prosecco is from Italy and they’re produced
                           using different methods. the winemaking
                                                                         Tasting Notes: Since Champagne is aged
                                                                         longer on the yeast particles (called lees),
between Champagne vs       method is partially responsible for the       it will often have a cheese rind-like flavour
Prosecco and why does      price difference.                             that in finer examples comes across as
one cost so much more      Technically speaking, Champagne is more
                                                                         toasty or biscuity. Since the wines are
                                                                         aged in bottles under high pressure the
    than the other?        expensive to produce than Prosecco.           bubble finesse is fine, persistent and sharp.
                           However, one of the biggest factors in the    Vintage-dated Champagnes often have
                           big cost discrepancy is market demand         almond-like flavours along with orange-
                           and positioning.                              zest and white cherry.

                           Because Champagne is perceived a luxury       Food Pairing: Since most Champagne is
                           wine it commands higher prices.               intensely dry and has high acidity it works
                                                                         wonderfully as an aperitif matched with
                                 Let’s explore the                       shellfish, pickled vegetables and crispy
                                                                         fried appetizers. Sipping Champagne with
                               differences between                       potato chips may sound low-brow, but it’s
                                 Champagne and                           an insanely good pairing
                                     Prosecco:                           Prosecco Taste Profile
                                                                         Tasting Notes: Prosecco tends to have
                           Champagne
                                                                         more present fruit and flower aromas.
                           Champagne is a sparkling wine made in
                                                                         Because the wines are aged in large tanks
                           the Champagne region of France around
                                                                         with less pressure Prosecco bubbles
                           the city of Reims about 130km Northeast
                                                                         are lighter, frothy and spritzy with less
                           of Paris. It’s made with Chardonnay, Pinot
                                                                         persistence. Finer Prosecco wines often
                           Noir and Pinot Meunier grapes and is
                                                                         exhibit notes of tropical fruits, banana
                           produced using a costly method called the
                                                                         cream, hazelnut, vanilla and honeycomb.
                           ‘Traditional Method’.
                                                                         Food Pairing: Prosecco leans more
                           Prosecco
                                                                         towards the sweeter end of the spectrum
                           Prosecco is a sparkling wine made in the
                                                                         and because of this it’s an ideal match with
                           Veneto region of Italy around the city of
                                                                         cured meats and fruit-driven appetizers
                           Treviso about 24km North of Venice. It’s
                                                                         like prosciutto-wrapped melon and
                           made with Prosecco (a.k.a. Glera) grapes
                                                                         middle-weight Asian dishes such as Thai
                           and is produced using an affordable
                                                                         noodles and sushi.
                           method called the ‘Tank Method’.

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TODAY’S CH LD                                                                                               Silver Lakes

             In Hil’s Head
I'm a mom to two amazing kids – a 13-year-old daughter and a 15-year-old son. I've
been married to my best friend for 17 years and we all live in a big, old house in the
'burbs with our two cats and two dogs. I work full-time in the insurance industry
and when I'm not working, wife'ing or mothering, I'm studying towards a degree in
marketing. And in the very few spare moments I have left, I blog, take horse riding
lessons, run (slowly) and sleep! Please come hang out with me at www.inhilshead.co.za
I'd love to have you visit!

    NOT ÜBER-MOM, JUST UBER-MOM
  I
     ’m pretty sure that I am not as good a        them. And if excursions need to be paid          they need to be there, most of the time.
     mom as I could be. Yes, I have managed        for, I pay. Albeit sometimes only on the         Sometimes a little begrudgingly. The
     to keep the kids alive for 13 and 15 years    deadline date. They can read, write, add         deeper we get into these teen years, the
   respectively. No mean feat, considering I       and subtract well. Their multiplication isn’t    more I feel like a mom-Uber. Maybe a
   battle to keep cacti alive. But children are    great, but that’s what calculators are for.      mUber? Or an Uber-mom? Certainly not
   surprisingly resilient so maybe it is less      Winning, right?                                  an über-mom.
   about my nurturing and more about their
   power of self-preservation?                     As for extra murals. Well I’ve told you          I complain a lot but in truth, being a mom
                                                   before, sports mom is not a role that            is the most rewarding thing I have ever
   I’m not a terrible mom. I feed them when        comes naturally to me. In fact, I’m rather       done, even if I am doing a very mediocre
   they’re hungry. Which is every damn day!        bad at it! I encourage them to participate, I    job of it. Happy Mother’s Day to all the
   Occasionally the food is a warm, nourishing     buy them the kit and I try to watch a match      über moms and all the Uber-Moms!
   meal with colourful vegetables, whole           when I can. But I am not the typical sports
   grains and good protein. Often, it is mac       mom in full supporter’s gear, challenging
   ‘n cheese. But sometimes, it is just corn       the ref and coaching from the sidelines.
   flakes (which they pour for themselves).
   They will never starve, and they can also       Two weeks ago, I went to watch Teen 1
   make their own toasted sandwiches and           play rugby at a derby day against their
   2-minute noodles. Basically, they are ready     biggest rival school. I don’t own any of his
   to survive in the real world, right?            school’s supporter’s gear, but I thought I
                                                   would try to embrace being a rugby mom
   I’m making sure they get an education. I        for once. It was a chilly morning, so I wore
   don’t sit with them when they study and         a red jersey and jeans. His school colours
   do their homework. If tests need to be          are red and black so what could go wrong?
   signed, they must bring them to me, with        I discovered later that morning that the
   a pen. If we need to complete return slips,     rival school supporters wear red, despite
   I make the kids fill in the details first and   the school uniform being green (with a
   then I sign the bit that needs my signature.    mere smidgen of red). Go figure.
   They need to learn to fill in forms, don’t
   they? Also, I am lazy.                          Their social lives – well I think I am getting
                                                   that right. They enjoy having their friends
   I don’t do projects, but if they remind me,     over at our house, and I manage to get
   I will buy the stuff that they need to do       them to where they need to be, when

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TODAY'S CHILD

                     WHY EMPATHY           MATTERS
                           by Nicoleen Davies,
                                                 Director Life Talk Forum

S
      chools deal with bullying issues daily;   Sympathy vs. Empathy                           Research studies show when empathy is
      we see a lack of manners and respect      There is a difference. Sympathy is perhaps     high, incidences of bullying, teasing and
      creeping in, and violence amongst         best described as feeling something            discrimination are lower. When children
our youth. There could be many reasons          “for” someone; empathy is feeling “with”       feel connected to each other in an
for this, ranging from difficulties at home,    someone. When you sympathise with              environment - like a school, the incidences
to lack of parental guidance, to an attempt     someone – you feel sorry for them.             of negative behaviour drops and their
by our children to empower themselves           Empathy means truly understanding their        connectedness to their school increases.
in an increasingly pressurised world.           struggle.
Social media has resulted in one-on-one                                                        Teaching Empathy
personal social engagement decreasing           The Power of Empathy                           Like teaching children to talk and read, we
and so we are increasingly disconnecting        In our work with schools, Life Talk places     need to teach them social skills such as
in a connected world. It is also easier         strong emphasis on friendship and caring       empathy. The younger you start the better
to hide behind screens and words, and           for others – translating into having           so that becomes an instinctive behaviour,
maybe we say things we would never              empathy and compassion. We can’t expect        although it can be learnt later on as a skill.
ordinarily have said.                           our children to stand up for the victims,      Think about the following suggestions:
                                                stand up to the bully, if they fundamentally   • Model empathy/ lead by example –
We believe that having empathy can              don’t actually care what is happening to          children learn behaviour’s and develop
help address these issues.                      those around them. Caring is a vital skill        various social qualities by watching
Empathy is the ability to understand and        we need to teach. Awareness of others             their parents. In interactions in the
share the feelings, and emotions of other       is crucial to the long-term success of            presence of your children, try to show
people. It creates a link between ourselves     any anti-bullying initiative and impacts          kindness, understanding, concern and
and others, so that we may comprehend           positively on manners and values too. We          respect – they are watching you! As
what it is they may be experiencing. It is      owe it to society as a whole to nurture           a matter of fact, anyone working with
a vital element of emotional intelligence.      empathy within our children.                      children should be very aware of their

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