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February 16, 2018 1
GOING February 2018
A Special Supplement to
LOCAL
How couples can
benefit from hiring
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BUILDING
YOUR
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What to expect
with wedding costs
& Naked Cakes
Frosting-free cakes
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2 February 16, 2018
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February 16, 2018 3 4 Looking beyond gender for modern wedding parties 5 12 wedding tricks add ease to planning and fun 6 Wedding costs: What to expect 7 Did you know? 8 Wedding transportation trends 9 Affordable bachelor and bachelorette party ideas 10 How to handle seating wedding guests 11 Serious wedding style for short-haired brides 12 Living centerpieces set receptions apart 13 Rustic bouquets add natural flair to wedding celebrations 14 Different roles for the father of the bride 14 Tips for a special mother/son dance 16 Maintain honeymoon beauty 17 Choosing wedding color palettes 18 Wedding tools make planning easier 19 ‘Plus one’ etiquette for weddings 20 How guests can cut costs and still attend 22 How you can benefit from hiring local vendors 23 Is airbrushed makeup the way to go? 24 Jewelry care and cleaning guidelines 25 Unconventional wedding menu ideas 25 Frosting-free cakes the latest trend 26 Successful toasts help shape social events
4 February 16, 2018
Looking beyond gender
for modern wedding parties
C
ouples are increasingly According to The Daily Mail,
bucking long-established over the past year, weddings
trends to make weddings across Australia and other
uniquely their own. One of today’s areas of the world have seen
more popular tradition-busting a rise in “groomswomen”
trends is not adhering to gender and “bridesmen,” blurring the
lines when couples select friends lines of wedding traditions.
and family members for their Couples have often said that
wedding parties. choosing whomever they desire
Until recently, the vast majority to stand beside them during the
of wedding couples selected wedding is more authentic than
members of the same sex to separating people simply because
of gender. coordination can make for better a tad sticky is with older, more
fill the roles needed for the
photos. A woman standing on traditional guests. They may not
ceremony and reception. For Take for example a groom- the groom’s side can coordinate understand the freedom of choice
example, grooms would choose to-be who is especially close to with the color of the bridemaids in the wedding. However, couples
fellow males to serve as their his sister. Such siblings may serve dresses, but wear a different can discuss their bridal parties to
groomsmen while brides choose as bridesmaids, but grooms may style. Or she can wear a dress select people who they think might
other females for their bridal want to have their sisters by their that matches the color of the prefer couples adhere to tradition.
parties. The wedding resource sides on their big day. groomsmen’s suits. A man Another possible snag is with
The Knot says the days of having
Foregoing gender roles may standing with the bride can have bachelorette parties and bachelor
men on one side and women on
make for a unique, customized accessories, such as tie, vest parties. A solution to this dilemma
the other are gone. Coed wedding
parties enable brides and grooms wedding. However, it does create and pocket square, that match may be to simply organize a
to have their favorite people by the question of what wedding bridesmaid dresses. getaway weekend for the entire
their side, regardless of gender. party members will wear. Again, One of the areas where mixing bridal party, and not separate
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February 16, 2018 5
12 wedding tricks Wedding tips can help
keep stress minimal and
add ease to planning and fun reduce expenses.
1. Fake the cake. related details in one place,
Save some money by asking the create a separate email
bakery cake artist to decorate address exclusively for wedding
a foam-tiered “mock” cake for correspondence.
pictures and display, and serve
guests from an inexpensive 6. Use veil weights.
sheet cake in the kitchen. These weights can be sewn
into veils to prevent fly-aways
B
2. Use labels. during outdoor ceremonies or
rides and grooms
Once the guest list is finalized, photoshoots. understandably feel a little
create a database of guests’ stress when planning their
addresses. Print out two sets 7. Keep bugs at bay. weddings. Adding to the pressure
of labels: One for addressing Spray chair and reception table is the fact that, according to
the invitations and the other to legs with insect repellent. Dryer a WeddingWire.com report,
the average couple in their
address the thank-you cards. sheets also can be tucked into 30s spends $32,000 on their
inconspicuous spots to keep wedding. That is a lot of money
3. RSVP tricks. bugs away. riding on one day.
Number the back of RSVP cards But planning a wedding can be
and correspond the numbers 8. Save money on favors. even more fun than it is stressful,
to the guest list. If one or more Unless the favor is something especially for those couples
who employ a few tricks of the
responses is illegible, refer to the to eat or something especially
wedding planning trade.
number to figure it out. practical, you may consider
skipping the favors altogether,
4. Embrace as many guests tend to forget to to pin photos of the couple to a 12. Stock up on
inexpensive decor. take them home anyway. string, cataloguing how they met string lights.
Dollar stores and craft stores are and their time together leading Lights can be wrapped around
great places to find inexpensive 9. Use page markers up to the wedding. trees outdoors, strung indoors
decorative items. Empty wine for seating. around windows or draped along
bottles can be painted or glazed Use multicolored, self-sticking 11. Use loose flower buffet tables to create a romantic
to serve as vases. Candle page markers to create easy centerpieces. ambiance.
lanterns can be picked up at low seating arrangements. Each Loose flowers in a vase are
cost at many retailers. color can represent a category: easier to sort and transport home Weddings can be expensive
His, Hers, Friends, Work. for guests who want a memento. and stressful; therefore,
5. Create an Make precut butcher’s paper or couples can use all the tips they
email address. 10. Make a photo clothesline. cellophane available to make can to corral their expenses
To have all of the wedding- A clever and inexpensive idea is bouquets. and tame their nerves.
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WEDDING
COSTS:
WHAT TO
EXPECT
N
ewly engaged couples preferences, including where be multitiered intricate designs, couples choose. The Knot notes
may experience an they hope to tie the knot. so they will cost more than that budgeting between $400
array of emotions By breaking down wedding birthday cakes. According to and $500 for transportation might
when they sit down to plan their expenses, couples can get a Statistics Brain, wedding dessert be wise.
weddings. Some couples cannot clearer picture of how much will come in around $390.
wait to jump into planning and they may need to pay for their Wedding gown: Brides-to-be
want to catalog every aspect of weddings and where they may Music: The Knot says should expect their gowns to
the process, while others may need to cut costs. wedding bands cost around cost around $1,100 and the veil
proceed with caution because $3,500, which is more than or headpiece to be roughly $120,
they don’t know what to expect Reception site: According to twice as much as hiring a deejay according to the Association of
— particularly in regard to cost. The Knot, a premiere wedding ($1,200). Soloists or ceremony Bridal Consultants.
planning resource, couples can musicians may cost around
Many couples find it difficult expect their receptions to eat $650. Photography and Video:
to create their wedding budgets up the largest chunk of their Preserving wedding day
because they have no previous wedding budgets. Wedding Wedding planner: Many memories costs around $2,800
experience to draw on. The reception venues may cost couples employ wedding for video and photography
wedding planning advisor between $10,000 and $15,000. planners to make planning services, based on data from
CostofWedding.com indicates The average price for catering their weddings easier. Wedding Statistics Brain.
the average wedding cost in the per person is roughly $70. Bar planners cost an average
United States is $26,720, with service may be around $2,000 of $1,300, says Thumbtack, The smaller details, such as
most people spending between for a three- to four-hour party. a company that matches accessories, gifts, officiant fees,
$20,000 and $34,000. Seventh Some reception sites combine professionals with people who stationery, spa services, and
Heaven Event Catering states the room cost with the food and require their services. favors can quickly add up as
that, in Canada, the average beverage costs, while others well. Couples should be sure to
wedding costs around $30,000. have à la carte fees. Transportation: Limousines leave some wiggle room in their
Such costs can vary and other transportation prices budgets for incidental expenses
greatly depending on couples’ Cake: Wedding cakes tend to vary depending on the vehicle(s) that may pop up.
February 16, 2018 7
Did you know?
Since Ancient Roman times, June has been a popular month for couples
to tie the knot. The month’s namesake, the goddess Juno, was said to
be the protector of women in every aspect, but most notably in regard to
marriage and childbearing. Therefore, it made sense to get married and take
the first step toward creating a family in June. For practical reasons, June
also has been a prime month for marriage because the month is neither
especially hot nor especially cold in many areas of the world. While dressed
in formalwear — whether having an outdoor wedding or an indoor one — no
one wants to be overheated or uncomfortably cold.
While June is a still a popular month to get married, the wedding resource
The Knot indicates that autumn, in particular the months of September
and October, has overtaken summer as the most popular wedding season.
Warmer-than-average temperatures in autumn over the last few years as
well as a dazzling display of natural color help make the fall a popular time
for nuptials. Interestingly enough, perhaps due to a slightly cooler climate,
a 2015 survey from Wedding Bells found August to be the most popular
month to get married in Canada, and that 67 percent of weddings in Canada
that year occurred between June and September.
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Wedding
transportation trends
C
ouples planning their continues to be one of the
weddings routinely rely on most popular methods of
professional transportation transportation. However, to set
to bring them to and from the their weddings apart, couples are
ceremony and reception. According trending away from traditional
to The Knot Real Weddings Study stretch limousines and renting
2016, roughly half of all engaged something more trendy, such
couples will hire a transportation as limos built upon sports
service such as a limousine or party cars. SUV-based limos are
bus for their weddings. still popular, with Hummers,
Wedding transportation options Escalades and Navigators
abound, and some are more offering the wow factor.
popular than others. The following Vintage cars: For that A-list
are some of the ways couples are look right out of a classic movie,
getting to the altar on time. stepping out of a vintage vehicle
Shuttles and buses: Investing creates red-carpet moments.
in the guest experience means Dream cars for this type of
couples are seeking ways to glamorous arrival and departure
provide comfort and convenience include Rolls Royce, Bentley,
for their guests and wedding party Aston Martin and others. Many
members. Rather than asking private companies rent classic
guests to get themselves to and vehicles. Couples also may
fro, couples may employ buses or contract with those who attend
shuttles stocked with amenities classic car shows.
to transport a greater number of Water transport: Couples
people. The Real Weddings Study celebrating by the ocean, a lake The Knot says that couples before their weddings. The
indicates this type of transport has or a river can make a grand spend around 6.5 months more exotic the transportation
grown considerably more popular entrance aboard a vessel. Water researching their wedding option, the earlier couples
in the last six years. taxis, pontoon boats and even day transportation options should make their decisions
sleek speedboats may be the and will make their decision to ensure they can book their
Exotic limousines: The and a reservation five months first choice.
chauffeur-driven limousine transportation of choice.
February 16, 2018 9
Affordable bachelor and
bachelorette party ideas
more enjoyable than simpler
soirées.
Taking steps to control costs
can help cost-conscious couples
and their friends. The following
are some affordable ideas that
can be fun for all involved.
Bar or winery crawl:
Partygoers typically want to enjoy
a night out on the town, and
traveling from one establishment
to another can be a fun way to
do just that. Everyone invited
can set themselves apart with
a signature item (hat, T-shirt,
or colored
W
clothing), and
eddings can make the
be expensive. rounds.
Various
Attend a
sources estimate Camp out: Get in touch with
group event:
the average cost of nature by enjoying a camping
Group events
weddings is anywhere trip, complete with a campfire
include sporting
from $26,000 to and a few brews. Spending time
events,
$31,000. Couples and in the wilderness can restore
concerts,
their parents may bear focus and let stress melt away.
theater shows,
the brunt of wedding
or a night at a Poker or game night: Groups
expenses, but those who
comedy club. can gather around the poker
have accepted a role in
Investigate table to test their skills in poker
the wedding party also
discounted and other card games. With
can expect their share of
tickets for large some free-flowing beverages and
expenses.
groups. snacks galore, games can get
Taking into account pretty animated.
Belt out the
gifts, wardrobes,
like to travel for their bachelor/ tunes: Open Dinner party: Hire a chef to
makeup, bridal showers,
bachelorette parties, and cost- mic nights at restaurants, bars visit your house and prepare
and travel, including getting
conscious bridal party members and other establishments around a meal for guests. Serve a
to and from the bachelor/
may be concerned about how town may make for a fun way signature cocktail and let the
bachelorette party, bridal party
expensive such parties can be. for friends to share a few laughs conversation flow.
members are on the hook for a
Pulling out all the stops can be together. Participants need not Bachelor and bachelorette
lot of money when their friends
exciting, but there’s no guarantee be professional singers to join in parties can be affordable without
or family members tie the
these types of parties will be on the festivities. sacrificing fun.
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How to handle
seating wedding guests
R
eceptions may be big or using a self-made chart, inquire wedding party sit
small, lavish or casual. with the venue about the shape with their spouses
But regardless of their of tables, how many guests each instead of at the
size or style, receptions all share table can seat, and the location dais.
a common element: They will of tables around the space. Organize
require couples set up seating Start with the wedding family tables.
arrangement for guests. Even Get some help. Enlist the help
party table. Couples can Tables for parents, grandparents
though assigned seating isn’t of parents to seat their friends
ease themselves into the task and immediate family members
mandatory, selecting seats for and extended family members.
of seating by doing the easy of the bride and groom also
a sit-down dinner makes things Parents may know best who
tables first. The primary one is are high priority. Both families
simpler and reduces confusion. gets along and who should be
the wedding party table. This can be combined at one table,
Some reception venues may separated.
traditionally can be a dais or a or they can be separated into
even require assigned seating sweetheart table flanked by the two tables. These tables should Seat dancers near the dance
so that catering staff can service wedding party. According to be the closest to the bride and floor. To encourage dancing,
tables accordingly. Martha Stewart Weddings, the groom. place guests who tend to be
Seating guests can be tricky, table should be centrally located lively close to the dance floor so
Consider mobility issues.
but employing a few strategies and the wedding couple should others can see them getting up
Next seat guests who have
can make the process go quickly sit in the middle. A male-female to dance and join in.
specific needs at tables.
and smoothly. pattern follows on either side Elderly guests may want to be Couples can use apps, lists
Use a seating chart. A of the couple, consisting of the away from the band, deejay or or self-made charts to plot their
seating chart, whether it’s venue- ushers, bridesmaids, best man, speakers. Guests in wheelchairs reception seating arrangements.
specific or one couples make and maid of honor. If much of the may need an accessible seat Create place cards or a central
themselves, is essential. If you wedding party is already married, near the exit. chart so guests can find their
couples may opt to have the seats promptly and easily.
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Serious wedding
style for short-haired brides
O
n a day
when all Color,
eyes and embellishments,
cameras will be retro styles,
trained on them, it’s and clever
natural for brides
and grooms tying up-dos can
the knot to want set short bridal
to look their best. hairstyles apart.
As a result, many
couples invest a
portion of their
budgets into spa and
beauty treatments,
with many even
hiring salon stylists
to ensure their
wedding-day looks
are flawless.
Women with
desired. Braids can
short hair may lament that they
be placed into the
do not have many options when
front or rear crown
styling their hair for their wedding
days. Some may even consider
growing out their locks. However,
plenty of creative styles exist for
of the head to look like a hair
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Experiment with color gathered into a braid or bun,
you can opt for adorned pins,
One way to “tress to impress”
barrettes or headbands to add a
is to experiment with some color.
touch of sparkle to the look. Ask
Well-placed highlights, balayage
a stylist to tease the crown of
treatments, ombre, or peek-
your hair to achieve a little more
a-boo underlights can add an
height and impact.
extra spark to a bride’s normal
hairstyle. Speak with a qualified
stylist about what you plan to Half-up style
achieve with a wedding-day look,
Many women with short hair
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Braids can add whimsy to look beautiful on their wedding
shoulder-length or shorter hair. days. Short hair can be
In addition, braids can anchor manipulated into many camera-
short locks when an up-do is ready creations.12 February 16, 2018
Living centerpieces
set receptions apart
W
eddings are special blooms, bumping up the filler-
occasions for all to-flower ratio and opting for
involved. Guests may low-profile centerpieces instead
look forward to the ceremony and of towering alternatives, couples
festivities to follow, and couples can expect to pay around $2,000
who are hosting do not want to on wedding flowers, offers
disappoint. Brides and grooms The Knot, a go-to resource for enhanced by miniature rose endurance, change, hope, and
often look for new and innovative wedding planning. But opting bushes. Winter weddings may be vitality. Incorporating butterflies
ideas to set their weddings for the following clever living dressed up with small evergreen into reception centerpieces can
apart from ones they may have centerpiece alternatives might trees or potted holly. make guests feel like they are
attended in the past. not only impress guests, but also Marine life draws attention. stepping into a living garden.
do so on budget. Couples can opt for inexpensive Small, mesh-lined cages filled
While budget often determines
freshwater fish to add ambiance with foliage and butterflies might
what couples can and can’t do at Choose potted plants. Potted
and a focal point for the reception add that special touch.
their wedding receptions, brides- plants can serve as both favors
and grooms-to-be can prioritize and reception centerpieces. tables. Small goldfish bowls Living centerpieces offer
certain components if they are Live plants also can be an can be decorated with gravel something different from floral
looking to impress. eco-conscious decision for that matches the color of the centerpieces. However, because
couples who are interested in wedding theme. One lucky guest live plants and animals may be
Centerpieces is one aspect
incorporating “green” elements at each table can take home part of the display, couples need
of the reception where couples
into their weddings. Couples the miniature aquarium after the to account for their welfare. This
can get creative without breaking
tying the knot in the autumn can festivities. means ensuring they will be
the bank. Flowers are popular
place mums inside of a hollowed Butterflies are whimsical. cared for after the wedding, or in
centerpieces at weddings. But
pumpkin or gourd. Spring and Some cultures or religions the event of butterflies, released
even with cost-cutting measures,
summer weddings can be view butterflies as a symbol of into the evening sky.
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Rustic bouquets add natural
flair to wedding celebrations
C
ouples opting to get back to basics, never been more popular — among both urban
streamline their nuptials and create more and rural couples alike.
intimate and less superficial affairs often Coordinating a rustic wedding may mean
gravitate toward rustic celebrations to showcase letting go of perceived notions of how
their ideals. Rustic weddings also may appeal everything from food to favors to flowers should
to environmentalists and men and women who be. In fact, one way to describe rustic weddings
want their weddings to be as eco-friendly as — and especially the floral arrangements that
possible. adorn them — is “purposely imperfect.”
Rustic weddings may include those Rustic wedding bouquets may seem like they
ceremonies and receptions that take place were plucked right out of the garden or grabbed
outdoors or in abodes, such as barns, wineries, through a stroll in a meadow. They’re rarely
castles, or converted silos or town factories. In symmetrical or feature the customary flowers of
fact, Bridal Guide says that barn weddings have more formal wedding celebrations.14 February 16, 2018
Different roles Tips for a special
for the father of the bride mother/son dance
P
opular movies
and televisions
shows give
the impression that
the job of the father
of the bride in a
wedding is ultimately
about making sure
the festivities are
adequately funded.
In the movies, fathers
fret about the costs Grooms are the unsung heroes of weddings.
of everything from They often put others first, including letting their
flowers to photos. own mothers shine on the dance floor.
W
But gone are the eddings celebrate the unions of happy
days when the father couples ready to pledge their lives to
of the bride bankrolls each other. In theory, the wedding day
his daughter’s entire spotlight should be shared equally by brides and
wedding. The Knot’s grooms. But brides often eclipse their grooms, as
“2014 Real Wedding guests are drawn to stunning bridal gowns.
Survey” reported
that, on average, Though grooms might play second fiddle for
the bride’s parents much of their wedding days, there is one moment
contribute 43 percent when all eyes are on the groom and a special lady
of the total cost of a in his life. The mother/son dance is a wedding
wedding; the bride tradition that many grooms embrace as their
and groom contribute opportunity to show their mothers how much they
another 43 percent; love and appreciate them. The mother/son dance is
the groom’s parents an ideal time to create a special moment, and the
spend 12 percent; following are some tips to personalize the dance.
the remaining 2 Precede the bride and her father. Make your
percent of the budget own tradition and switch up the timing of the
is paid for by family dances. Be the first to take a spin on the dance
members or friends. floor and set the tone for the other traditional songs
bar during the reception, ensuring
That frees up Dad for other roles in to come.
that guests’ needs are being met. He
wedding planning. With some creativity,
also can keep an eagle eye trained on Create a photo montage. Work with an
couples can find ways to incorporate
anyone who may have overindulged entertainment company or photographer to
the father of the bride into the festivities
and needs to take a break. create a slideshow of images showing you and
in even more productive ways.
Speech: Give your father an your mother together and separately. If possible,
Wedding sites: Assign dear old include some photos that were shot during the
opportunity to shine by letting him
dad the important task of looking at wedding ceremony, asking the photographer to
make a speech. Remember, this is a
potential wedding reception sites prior capture the look on your mother’s face during
momentous day for Dad as well, as he
to visiting them yourself. He may have pivotal moments of the ceremony.
may be trying to come to terms with his
certain connections through work or
daughter starting a new life. Show off your dance skills. One increasingly
attended business or leisure occasions
at catering halls and other venues. Father-daughter song: Let Dad pick popular wedding trend is for fathers and brides to
Dad’s connections can pay off. Let him father-daughter song, and go with his choreograph the father/daughter dances. Grooms
impart his negotiating skills and find the choice even if you had something else and their mothers can follow suit, particularly if you
best deals with the ideal backdrop for in mind. both have some stellar dance moves.
the festivities. Ceremony: Even if you prefer a less Let Mom choose the song. Give your mother
Wardrobe: Let your father assist traditional wedding ceremony, let your the opportunity to express her sentiments to you,
the best man and other groomsmen father walk you down the aisle. This will as mothers of the groom do not typically toast their
in securing their tuxedos or other likely be a moment he’ll remember for sons during weddings or even rehearsal dinners.
wardrobe essentials. Dad also can step years to come. Invite other son/mother duos up. If the
in and return rented items following the Expand the father of the bride’s role idea of dancing alone with your mother is a bit
wedding. in the wedding by assigning him tasks intimidating, give other mothers in attendance an
Beverages: Dad may be fitting to where he can put his style, experience opportunity to share the spotlight. Celebrate all
keep tabs on what is occurring at the and excitement to good use. mothers in attendance, encouraging any mothers
and sons who are present to dance together.February 16, 2018 15
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Sunscreen: Sunscreen is a a few late nights while you’re
must whether you’re traveling enjoying romantic, candlelit
Maintain
to the pink beaches of a tropical meals or hitting up the hot
island or the slopes of a ski spots around a resort. Ensure
resort. Choose a product that honeymoon photos do not show
honeymoon
protects against both UVA tired eyes with an eye cream that
and UVB rays, and be sure to can reduce puffiness and dark
reapply every 80 minutes or so, circles.
especially after perspiring or Tinted moisturizer or BB
beauty swimming. Sunscreen will help
prevent damaging and painful
sunburns that can adversely
affect a trip.
cream: A high-quality tinted
moisturizer or BB cream will
hydrate skin and add just a sheer
wash of color to even out skin
Makeup-remover wipes: tone. Pair with lip balm and a
Even high-end resorts may not waterproof mascara and your
provide the correct face bar for honeymoon face will be ready.
removing makeup and refreshing Teeth whitening treatment:
skin. Makeup-removing wipes Couples who invested time and
can offer deep cleaning in a few money into achieving whiter
convenient swipes.
A
teeth for their weddings don’t
ccording to TripSavvy, some planning to ensure a fun Hair refresher: Brides who want to let all of that hard work
99 percent of couples and memorable trip. In a Bridal want to get a few extra days go to waste. Brush on whitening
who choose to have Guide survey, wedding couples out of a wedding day hairstyle product after eating and drinking
traditional weddings take a indicated they were most likely to should pack a hair refreshing to prevent stains and freshen
honeymoon. Around 1.4 million worry about wardrobe, swimsuits, spray to tame static and add breath.
couples in the United States sunglasses, sunscreen, and UV protectors that keep locks Blotting papers: Humid
depart for honeymoons around luggage when getting ready to pampered until they’re ready climates may cause perspiration
the world each year, spending an depart. to wash. Dry shampoos also and oils to leach out of the skin.
average of $4,466 on the trip. allow for a little refreshing of hair Tame shine and that greasy
Couples who want to look their
between daytime adventures and feeling with blotting papers
Though not nearly as best on their honeymoon and in
evening dinner. purchased from a cosmetics
pressure-filled as wedding their honeymoon photos should not
planning, honeymoons do require forget to pack the following items. Eye cream: There may be retailer.
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Choosing
wedding
color palettes
S
ome brides may feel garden weddings can
beholden to the color white borrow ideas from
on their wedding days, at the landscape, with
least in regard to their gowns. natural linens paired
Those who do often embrace the with wildflowers. Using
opportunity to showcase their whites, grays and
personal styles and set the mood beiges enables couples
for their nuptials by embracing to add a pop of color
various colors throughout their without overwhelming
ceremonies and receptions. the setting.
Color can be a critical Brides magazine
component when establishing suggests that couples
the ambiance for a wedding. avoid choosing
Color can evoke certain moods too many colors. A
and set the tone for the day. maximum of three
Some colors work better together with one metallic can
than others, so while choosing a ensure that things look
color scheme may seem like an cohesive without being
easy undertaking, some couples over-the-top. Also,
may find it requires more careful brides and grooms
consideration than they first needn’t feel pressured
imagined. by the “hot” colors of
According to the bridal guide the moment. As with
A Practical Wedding, wedding clothing and hairstyles,
colors can give couples a starting- trends change. It is
off point for all of the other details better to select colors
of their weddings. This ensures that will stand the test of time and
the wedding ultimately has a look good for years to come.
cohesive look. Colors need not Couples may have to
necessarily match, but borrowing incorporate colors already at their
on similar hues can make it easier wedding venues into their style.
to plan wedding party wardrobes, Fortunately many reception sites
flowers, table linens, and much are outfitted in neutral tones to
more. enable customization.
Colors can come from The wedding resource The
anywhere, but many couples Knot also says having a basic
try to coordinate their color knowledge of the color wheel
schemes with the season in can help. Typically, colors that
which the wedding takes place. pair well together are those
In fact, couples who are finding that are opposites on the color
it difficult to decide on a palette wheel. Also, colors that share
can look to seasonal colors for proximity on the color wheel will
inspiration. For example, pastels have similar tones and play well
and blooming flowers can set the together. Examples of opposite
scene for spring weddings, while colors include purples and
jewel tones and rich reds and yellows, reds and greens, and
greens may be fitting for winter oranges and blues.
ceremonies. Couples should not be afraid
Some couples opt for to take some chances with their
more loosely defined color color palettes, especially if they
palettes, such as neutral and want to make a bold and modern
natural colors. Country and statement.18 February 16, 2018
Wedding
tools
make
planning
easier
E
nsuring an event goes on
with minimal hiccups takes
patience and thorough
planning. This is especially Phones, tablets and computers can give couples access to many different wedding planning resources.
true for weddings, when many
elements must merge together
for a memorable day. Today’s Wedding LookBook: This iWedding Deluxe: In addition categories, read reviews, and
couples have a bevy of new app enables couples to browse to managing timelines, to-do directly connect with those
resources at their disposal to through thousands of dresses, lists and vendors, this app offers businesses.
facilitate wedding planning. accessories, jewelry, and inspiration ideas for gowns, HitchSwitch: Brides or
much more. The app will help manages and tracks gifts, and grooms who may be changing
The internet makes vetting
customers find products in their offers first dance suggestions their names can do so in one
vendors and reading reviews that
area. from iTunes. However, it is only convenient place. Three different
much easier, but wedding-related
Shutterfly: This photo, available to iPhone users. packages cater to various name-
apps also can simplify wedding
planning. The following are some invitation and image-sharing tool AllSeated: This tool can changing needs.
top picks as culled by Wedding can be an inexpensive place to help couples figure out seating Vistaprint: These stationery
Shoppe, Inc., The Knot and create save-the-date stationery, arrangements by creating 3D specialists offer an array of
Lifehacker. invitations, and photo memory floor plans of the event, and services, from cards to invitations
books. couples can pull contacts from to personalized envelopes. Once
Wedding Spot: Couples can
Appy Couple: This app and email and social networks to a design is chosen, Vistaprint
search for their ideal wedding
website helps couples manage establish a guest list. If floor will offer add-on suggestions for
venue based on location, budget,
their budgets, timelines, wedding plans are unavailable in their coordinating items, helping to
styles, and capacity. The website
parties, and seating charts, while database, they can be drawn. create a cohesive look for the
enables users to plan their ideal
weddings and get cost estimates also allowing them to share The Knot’s Marketplace: festivities.
based on guest list and options. photos. There is a free version With the click of a button, Wedding websites, apps and
Users also can access discounts and basic packages that allow couples can search for more can streamline wedding
and exclusive deals. access to more features. wedding vendors in all different planning.
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‘Plus one’ etiquette for weddings
C
ouples tying the knot Length of relationship name on the invitation. Couples invitation to understand some
typically want to share can ask single friends whether key plus-one rules as well.
One way to set limits on
their excitement with as they plan to bring a date to the • If the invitation does not say
plus ones is to look at invitees
many friends and family members wedding and who their dates “plus one” or “and guest,” that
on a case-by-case basis.
as possible. Preliminary wedding might be. means you have been invited
Think about unmarried guests
guest lists can be quite extensive, alone. It is rude to bring a guest
and the type of relationship
but many couples ultimately unexpectedly.
status they currently claim. Number of single friends
shorten such lists in adherence to
For example, a cousin who • Avoid asking to bring
their budgets. Another consideration is
has been dating someone someone to the wedding if you
One fuzzy area in regard to for several months can be how many single people will be
invited to the wedding. If it’s a were not originally given the
guest lists is whether or not encouraged to invite this option.
to include a “plus one” on the serious boyfriend/girlfriend. small number, a blanket plus-
invitation for single friends or one rule can be established. • If you were given plus-one
Recently divorced or However, if many guests are status, be sure to respond with
family members. A “plus one”
widowed guests may not single, which tends to happen your guest’s name. If you can’t
refers to single guests’ dates.
feel comfortable bringing a when young couples are confirm who you will be bringing
Party planners may extend the
date along, but because this getting married, the cost can be or don’t know if you will have a
courtesy of giving single guests
person was in a committed prohibitive. Single friends and date for the evening, it is better
the choice of whether they would
relationship so long, it may be family can be seated together to come alone.
like to bring someone along to
well worth the courtesy to allow so that they can converse and
the event or attend solo. The • Don’t use the plus one as a
these types of guests to bring have fun.
rules concerning plus ones are chance to bring a friend only for
someone along so they can feel
flexible, and ultimately, it may be the free food and drinks.
more comfortable.
up to the couple to create their
Etiquette experts at The Knot For the guests … Weddings can be complicated
own plus-one rules. The following
say that, whenever possible, all It’s important for people on to plan, and negotiating plus
tips can help couples determine
guests should be addressed by the receiving end of a wedding ones for single guests is part of
which way to go.
that planning.20 February 16, 2018
How guests can cut costs and
still attend loved ones’ weddings
C
ouples and/or their out-of-town wedding
families can expect to guests. But guests
spend tens of thousands might be able to save
of dollars on their weddings even more by shopping
before saying “I do,” making around for their own
weddings one of the largest discounted rates at
expenses for a couple apart from hotels and other lodging
buying a house or new car. accommodations.
But brides- and grooms-to-be Websites like Orbitz
are not the only ones who may and Hotels.com can approach does not pan out, to help cover some of the costs
have to invest quite a great compare rates at all the hotels guests might be forced to choose of the wedding. Even if couples
deal on wedding days. Guests, in a given city, letting wedding between costly flights or not cannot afford that gesture, they
including bridal party members, guests explore all of their attending the wedding. Budget- will understand if friends or
may also be responsible to pay alternatives in a single search. conscious travelers may find family members cannot cover the
a substantial sum. According Guests who are especially it less stressful to book flights additional costs associated with
to the 2016 American Express patient can use the Hotel Tonight as early as possible. Doing so being in a bridal party.
Spending & Saving Tracker, app, which allows users to allows guests to find flights at Split expenses. Another way
Americans expected to spend book heavily discounted rooms the times they most prefer to fly, for guests to save money is to
an average of $703 per each no more than seven days in and it also makes it possible to split certain expenses with fellow
wedding they attended in 2016. advance of their expected spread the cost of attending a guests. Single guests can share
occupancy. Guest also can try wedding out over a longer period
Few people are willing to miss hotel rooms with fellow guests
finding affordable lodging on of time.
the wedding of a beloved family attending solo, and even couples
the popular homestay network
member or friend, even when the Say no to joining the bridal can join up with other couples
Airbnb.
costs of attending the wedding party. While it’s an honor when and split the cost of double
can be high. Fortunately, there Book travel early. Many brides or grooms ask certain rooms. Sharing expenses such
are ways for wedding invitees travelers insist the best flight friends or family members to as rental cars and trips to and
to attend the festivities without deals can be found as late as be in their bridal parties, guests from the airport is another way
breaking the bank. six weeks before the desired should not feel compelled to for guests to coordinate their
departure date. But there’s accept that invitation if they efforts to save money.
Shop around for lodging. no guarantee that waiting that cannot afford it. If money is tight, The costs of attending a wedding
Many couples arrange for long to book flights will benefit explain the situation to the bride are growing. But savvy guests
discounted hotel rooms for their wedding guests. If the patient and groom, who might even offer can save money in various ways.February 16, 2018 21
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How couples can benefit
from hiring local wedding vendors
XO Group says one in four couples now host Proximity
destination weddings. Local vendors can meet with brides and
Once couples choose a town or city to host grooms more readily throughout the planning
their weddings, they can begin exploring the process, making things less stressful on the
benefits of working with locally-based vendors. happy couple. This also makes it easier to
drop off deposits, attend meetings, make fitting
appointments, or attend styling sessions.
Savings
Couples who travel for their weddings and
employ local vendors will not have to pack as
much. Using local vendors eliminates the need
to bring along bulky dresses, decorative items,
flowers, and much more. Plus, couples needn’t
pay to transport and house vendors brought
along from back home.
Environment
L
Individuals who take great strides to
ocal conserve resources by reducing their energy
vendors consumption and protecting the environment
are often often find that shopping local is beneficial.
a go-to choice Local vendors are more likely to source
when couples their materials from other local businesses,
are planning reducing their carbon footprints along the way.
their wedding Familiarity For example, local caterers may rely on local
ceremonies and receptions. As the “shop farmers for their foods, affording couples the
local” movement grows in popularity, weddings Local vendors will be familiar with the area
and possibly even the location where the chance to host eco-friendly or even farm-to-
present a prime opportunity to embrace this table weddings.
movement. wedding will be held. That can help couples
avoid having to give directions, discuss venue
Couples may have different ideas regarding
where to tie the knot, but local vendors can
protocols, and handle other tasks that must Customization
be worked out with non-local vendors. For Working with local vendors often translates
be hired regardless of geography. Brides example, local photographers familiar with
magazine says the biggest factor influencing into getting more personalized service and
a particular venue will know all of the best attention than mass retailers or merchants can
wedding location is the size of the guest list places to get shots, and some vendors may
and the number of people who wouldn’t be provide.
have preexisting relationships with venue
able to attend if the wedding was in a particular representatives that could ensure wedding day Going local when choosing wedding vendors
locale. Hometowns might be the traditional operations go smoothly. is an increasingly popular choice among
choice regarding wedding location, but the couples about to tie the knot.
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Is airbrushed
makeup the
way to go?
H
air and makeup is an important creating a matte
part of wedding day planning. finish. Makeup
Brides and grooms want to artists can
look their best on their wedding days, custom-blend
when they will no doubt take dozens shades to get the
of photos, if not more. Men may apply right match for
some oil-absorbing powder to tone their customers’
down shine on their skin, but women skin tones. And
tend to pull out all the stops when because the fine
selecting bridal makeup — often hiring mist of airbrush
professional makeup artists to create a makeup enables
signature look. true skin tone to
Airbrush-applied makeup is an option show through, it applying other makeup.
women may want to explore. The can appear much more natural.
Airbrush makeup is compatible with
wedding resource The Knot says that Many airbrushed formulations are well-moisturized skin and takes to it well,
makeup airbrushing is quite popular in silicone-based, enabling long-lasting but dry skin may flake, crack and look
the world of movies and modeling and wear and water-resistant properties. flat, advises Essence Designs.
is now becoming more popular among This is advantageous when hugging and
brides-to-be. When applied correctly by kissing on one’s wedding day. Some Brides who end up shedding tears of
a professional, airbrush makeup can airbrush makeup can last up to 16 hours. joy on their wedding days might find that
have a number of perks. airbrush makeup can streak, which can
Some airbrush formulations are be difficult to cover up.
Understanding airbrush makeup can water- or alcohol-based. Alcohol-based
help brides determine if it’s the best options can be used to cover tattoos or Because it requires a certain skillset
choice for them. birthmarks. and equipment, airbrush makeup tends
to be more expensive than traditional
Airbrush makeup is comprised of a Touchups are minimal with airbrush makeup when done by a professional.
very thin liquid makeup that is applied makeup, and the formulations can be
with the use of an air gun. This produces layered to cover blemishes. Airbrush Airbrush makeup can create a flawless
a thin, even layer of foundation, often makeup also creates a pristine finish for look and may be an option for brides to
consider.
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Jewelry care and cleaning guidelines
Bridal gowns and tuxedos ears, and wrists of bridal party wipe down jewelry with a soft
may get their fair share of members, individuals should cloth after wearing it to remove
attention at weddings, but the learn how to keep their jewelry oils and sweat.
subtle details of brides’ and investments looking pristine. Be careful around swimming
grooms’ wedding attire also Remove jewelry pools, spas and the ocean
garner guests’ attention. during hard work Couples should remove
Breathtaking jewelry worn Exercise caution when jewelry before partaking in
by the bride, groom and wearing jewelry during water-based activities on
members of the bridal party strenuous activities or when their honeymoons. According
looks great on the day of the jewelry can be damaged. Also, to jewelry retailer Zales,
wedding and in photos couples watch when handling slippery chlorinated water can react
will keep for decades to substances such as soaps and with the metals found in
come. Naturally, engagement oils, as jewelry may fall off and jewelry, causing color changes
rings and bridal bands are become lost. Instead, remove and even structural changes.
the shining stars of the precious jewelry and store it Don’t risk jewelry falling off in
celebration. However, other in a safe location, such as in a the ocean. Store it in a secure
pieces of jewelry also make jewelry chest or a drawer. location before diving in.
for cherished accessories for
weddings. Exercise caution with Beware the sun, too
beauty products The Gemological Institute
Bridal jewelry is an
investment worth maintaining. Apply lotion, cosmetics, of America, Inc. states that
According to a 2013 report perfume, cologne, and sunlight can affect the durability
Protect jewelry by the Jewelers of America, hairspray before putting on and color of colored gemstones.
by cleaning it couples spend an average jewelry. These substances can Over time and in excess, the
regularly and of $4,000 on engagement discolor certain metals or even sun and heat can fade or
exercising caution rings and more money on damage stones. Prolonged damage some stones, such
when engaging in wedding bands. Considering contact with perspiration and as amethyst, topaz and pearls.
certain activities. several thousands of dollars bodily oils also can cause Other stones can darken with
may adorn the necks, fingers, discoloration over time. Gently exposure to the sun.
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Unconventional Frosting-free cakes
the latest trend
wedding menu ideas
Taste reigns supreme at weddings featuring creative menus.
Food trucks/carts
Outdoor weddings can be enhanced
with the addition of trendy food trucks.
These restaurants on wheels can inject
burgers, sandwiches, international
delights, crêpes, noodles, and so many
more flavors into a wedding.
High-end options
Couples may want to give guests
a taste of the lavish with olive oil and
vinegar tasting stations, whiskey bars,
French hors d’oeuvres, Kobe beef sliders,
lobster tails, risotto stations, and more.
T
raditionally, one of the more
Childhood favorites
memorable aspects of wedding When it comes time for dessert, some
A
receptions is the food. Whether it couples opt to avoid or downplay wedding
new trend is taking hold both in North
was fun, tasty or something entirely new cakes in favor of something simpler. A
America and on the other side of the
for guests, food tends to leave a lasting cookie-and-milk bar, doughnut holes, soft
Atlantic Ocean. Cakes are being pared
impression. pretzel stations, pie pops, or dessert shot
down so that frosting and fondant coverings are
jars push creativity and sweetness to new
The experts at Boho Weddings say now nearly absent from the confections.
levels. Do-it-yourself dessert stations,
that, more than ever before, couples They’re called “naked cakes,” and these
such as s’more-making and ice cream
are seeking menu ideas that reflect their simplified desserts showcase the texture of the
sundae stations, also can be big hits.
personalities as a couple as they seek cakes and their fillings. According to culinary
to make a statement at their events. Couples are increasingly feeling
experts, the idea for the naked cake came from
Celebrating with delicious, unique foods less beholden to traditional wedding
Christina Tosi, owner of Momofuku Milk Bar. It’s
can make receptions that much more reception menus as they look to infuse
an award-winning bakery with locations across
amazing. their personal tastes into the foods they
the United States and Canada. Now many other
plan to serve their guests. Many catering
pastry chefs and bakers are hopping on the
managers and chefs welcome the
Bite-sized bursts naked cake bandwagon, with the trend being
chance to work with couples looking to
highlighted by the likes of Martha Stewart and
Tapas and a movement toward small create unique reception menus.
the respected wedding resource The Knot.
bites has started to take hold at wedding
receptions. Such a choice allows guests Just because these cakes may be short on
to try many different flavors without exterior buttercream doesn’t mean they fall
filling up too quickly. From sliders to mini flat on flavor or visual appeal. Cakes can be
grilled cheese to soup shots to bite-sized embellished with fresh blooms, gum paste-
pizzas, many of these small bites feature molded flowers, edible pearls and gems, fresh
flavors borrowed from familiar comfort berries, and much more. The Knot notes many
foods — just presented on naked cakes are garnished with flavors that are
a miniature scale. included in the cake, such as chocolate chips,
crumbs, cookie dough, or candy sprinkles.
Couples who are stripping down their
Comfort stations and bars weddings to include more basics and natural
Couples who love comfort food can effects may be drawn to these naked cakes.
put it on display with a crostini station, They’re also an option for those who find
a mashed potato bar, a chicken and frosting, buttercream and fondant too sweet
waffles station, a gourmet popcorn snack for the palate. Naked cakes enable the interior
station, or a ramen noodle bar. flavors to really shine.You can also read
