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WE
                           ARE

AMPLIFYING
THE VOICES
OF OUR YOUTH
YOUTH CONVERSATIONS 2019
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Contents

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DEAR YOUNG
            Minister's Message   14       Narratives of Success

                                 WE ARE REDEFINING
SINGAPOREANS                     OUR OWN VERSIONS
                                 OF SUCCESS

6           Executive Summary

THIS IS OUR TIME
                                 23           Lifelong Learning

                                 WE ARE CHANGING
                                 COURSE AND
                                 LEARNING
                                 DIFFERENTLY

                                 27
                                 WE ARE REWIRING
                                                 Mental Health

                                 MINDSETS
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WE ARE CALLING
              Race & Religion     45    Environmental Sustainability

                                  WE ARE TRASHING
OUT RACISM FOR                    OUR OLD WAYS
WHAT IT IS

36
WE BELIEVE THAT
               Social Equality    49
                                  WE WANT TO SHAPE
                                                        Geopolitics

EQUALITY IS NOT A                 THE FUTURE OF THE
LUXURY                            REGION

41           Social Inclusivity

WE ARE REMOVING
                                  53
                                  VOICES THAT
                                                    Youth Message

THE INVISIBLE                     MATTER
CLOAK

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                                  YOU ARE MORE
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MINISTER’S MESSAGE

              Dear Young
              Singaporeans
                     a message from Grace Fu

                      GENERATION ME OR GENERATION
                      WE?

                      Society is often quick to pin labels on you,
                      our youths—the “Strawberry Generation”,
                      “Generation Me” and more. They claim
                      that you bruise easily, are not able to face
                      challenges and feel deeply self-entitled.

                      I disagree with these labels.

                      I believe that you are a great force for
                      positive change. While you may think and
                      operate differently from the previous gen-
                      erations, I know that you care very much
                      about our society. I have seen how you
                      have brought valuable perspectives, fresh
                      ideas and solutions to the many challeng-
                      es we as Singaporeans face. I have also
                      seen many of you step up and take the
                      lead to effect change in our community.
                      With your passion and sense of purpose,
                      I believe we can shape a brighter future
                      for Singapore, together.

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MINISTER’S MESSAGE

                                          Turn Conversation Into Action
                                          Conversations must yield opportu-
                                          nities for collaboration and action.
                                          Many of you have already done so
Your Voice Matters                        by forming new communities, and
My Ministry and the National Youth        together, translating some of the
Council started the Youth Conver-         ideas into collaborative action. I am
sations in response to your desire        glad to see some of you stepping up
to be heard, to be empowered and          to create positive and tangible im-
to have a greater stake in our future.    pact. I hope more of you can similar-
The Youth Conversations provides          ly step up, take action in areas you
you with a safe space for dialogue        are passionate about, and support
and sharing of diverse views, based       one another’s efforts. The National
on mutual respect, an openness            Youth Council is ready to support
to listen and the desire to under-        you by providing access to infor-
stand one another better. Since April     mation, networks and the necessary
2018, as many as 8,000 of you, from       resources. We will also be creating
all walks of life, came forward to        access for our youth leaders to part-
share your views with other youth         ner directly with agencies on policy
and policy makers. You engaged            issues that matter to them.
in meaningful discourse with fellow
youths and the government about           Later this year, we will be launching
the challenges you and other citi-        the SGYouth Action Plan, which en-
zens face as a nation.                    capsulates your views, dreams, and
                                          aspirations for Singapore, from what
I trust that those of you who partic-     you have shared through the Youth
ipated walked away with broader           Conversations and other platforms.
perspectives and an understanding         We will work together with you to
of national issues. This is crucial for   translate your feedback into policy
us to have a shared vision of how         changes, and support you to lead
we want to progress as individuals,       initiatives in areas that you and oth-
a society and a nation.                   er young Singaporeans care about.

The conversations should also             Every single action, no matter big
reach out to more of our young            or small, counts. Lead your own
people, with more diverse back-           conversations and catalyse actions
grounds. Look out for the Digital         with your friends to bring about the
Youth Conversations that will be          change you want to see. Be ambi-
launched later in 2019. This will give    tious, not only for your own aspi-
you more opportunities to partici-        rations, but also for the collective
pate and expand your networks with        good of our nation. I am confident
other online communities.                 that you will rise up to the challenge.

                                          Yours,

                                          Grace Fu
                                          Minister for Culture, Community and Youth
                                          Chairperson, National Youth Council

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THIS IS
OUR TIME
Our times are not easy. As young Singaporeans living in the
21st century, our world is changing very quickly around us.
Every day in the news, there are new technological disrup-
tions, new shifts in global powers, new pandemics, new
trends, new threats—the list is never-ending.

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EXECUTIVE SUMMARY

It wasn’t that long ago that the world   This time is messy, but it is ours.
seemed united around the promise
of borderless trade and travel. To-      Today, 42% of the world population
day, globalisation has produced its      is under 25 years of age. Here in
winners and losers. World leaders        Singapore, every one in four per-
have won elections by riding the         sons is under 35 years of age, num-
waves of nationalism and populism,       bering over 1 million. We are the
driven by populations increasingly       future Singapore, so we have to
weary of being overlooked. As a          build on foundations laid by those
result, the walls between nations        before us, and continue to adapt
                                                                                  YOUTH IN SINGAPORE¹
are getting taller. And can we talk      and create the rules that we will
about climate change? We don’t           hold on to as a people. We have to          Resident Population:
need to be scientists to see how out     chart the path ahead, the dreams                  3.994M
of whack the weather has become.         we want to chase and the home we
                                         will build together.
In the short span of a few years,
we’ve seen our home change dra-          We aren’t doing this from scratch.         Youth:
matically. There are new housing         Compared to young people living            1.055M
estates, new MRT lines, new build-       in other parts of the world, we are
ings, and new schools created from       fortunate to have an effective sys-
shrinking cohorts. This quickening       tem, good education, accessible
pace comes with escalating expec-        healthcare and above all, peace.
tations. Do well in school but don’t
stop there, lifelong learning is the     Life in Singapore is good and we
way to go. Don’t stick to traditional    can make it even better.
courses, go for a broad-based ed-

                                                                                1 million
ucation. But focus on the growth
sectors, which also keep changing,
mind you. Get an overseas stint
but come back. And please have                                                   There are over 1 miilion youth
children, two or more if you can.                                              residing in Singapore, making up
                                                                               approximately 1/4 of our resident
                                                                                           population.

                                                                               Youth is defined as persons aged

                                                                                 15 to 35
                                                                                       years old

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EXECUTIVE SUMMARY

YOUTH HAVE A STRONG SENSE              There are great opportunities for
 OF PURPOSE AND PLAY AN                connection and action like never
  ACTIVE ROLE IN SOCIETY               before. With a few clicks, we can
                                       reach out to like-minded people,
                                       and we can start a movement and
                                       hear the voices of many more re-
                                       sounding back.
                                                                                      > 5,000
     9 in 10
consider helping the less fortunate
                                       A video of a turtle with a straw up
                                       its nostril can change how we live
                                       our daily lives. A 26-year-old can tell
                                                                                 of us participated in online polls,
                                                                                 contributing some 3,000 state-
  and contributing to society as       world leaders at a United Nations         ments casting close to 140,000
      important life goals²            climate summit that they aren’t do-       votes on topics of discussion that
                                       ing enough. Singapore youth are           mattered to us—aspirations for
                                       indeed ready, and are taking action.      young people, doing more for the
                                                                                 environment, building an inclusive
                                       We have what it takes to be ex-           society, mental health, and geo-
                                       traordinary. We lead the world in         politics.
                                       Math and Science scores, we top
                                       Asia in employment, education and

       2 in 5
                                       entrepreneurship mobility, and our
                                       people are passionate about mak-
                                       ing a difference.
    youth (aged 15—24) have
   volunteered in the past year³
                                       We can bridge that gap between                         Close to

                                                                                         3,000
                                       hope and reality. And that is why
                                       we came together for the Youth
                                       Conversations in 2018—a platform
                                       that allows for us to speak up on         of us joined 30 Youth Conversations
                                       what we believe in, deliberate with       on these topics, diving into issues
            more than                  one another, and to partner poli-         and listening to voices and per-

       3 in 5
                                       cy-makers to create solutions on          spectives that we never considered.
                                       issues that we care about.
youth have participated in at least
                                       In all of these sessions, we heard
one civic activity in the past year4
                                       from youth who were different from
                                       us, with different life stories and
                                       experiences. We heard from youth
                                       outside the room, through digital
  From April to June 2018, youth       tools that brought in diverse views
 voted on statements provided by       and perspectives. And we were
  one another, in response to the      heard by experts and policymak-
             question                  ers who wanted to know what we
                                       thought.
 “AS A YOUTH IN SINGAPORE,
 WHAT ARE YOU CONCERNED
         ABOUT?”5

    Here is what we voted for:

 Inclusivity
 Pathways to Success
 Active Citizenry
 Environment & Sustainability
 Governance & Politics
 Education & Learning
 Jobs & Economy
 Cost of Living
 Mental Health
 Marriage & Parenthood

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                                                              “How should we define
                                                              Success?”
OUR ASPIRATIONS AND CONCERNS
                                                              Our journey uncovered the com-
                                                              plexity of success, particularly the
                                                              difference between how society
During our conversations, we shared how our aspirations       defines success, and how we see
are different from our parents, and how we are discovering    it. For many of us, nowhere is this
                                                              tension more keenly felt as when
different pathways for ourselves in life, while balancing     our parents tell us what they expect
                                                              of us. For most of us, success is
family and societal expectations and practical needs.         being able to chase our dreams, to
                                                              grow and discover ourselves in the
We’re fuelled by our curiosity and passion as we learn, and   journey toward our goals whether
want to forge our success stories on our terms, without       we reach them or not, and finding
                                                              happiness in the experiences of life.
letting stress overwhelm us.                                  It is our hope that Singapore will
                                                              encourage new dreams, different
                                                              pathways and provide support to
“One of the first things we did was the                       help us achieve them.

values board, where we tied a string                          “When was the last time you
                                                              learnt something new?”
between opposing values. The idea is that
                                                              Learning does not stop after school.
there is no one definition of success                         We shared similar views on the im-
                                                              portance of learning, particularly
that you might have as an individu-                           with the fast pace of change today.
                                                              Given our commitments to work,
al. It’s more of how your values inter-                       family and friends, learning is often
                                                              the last thing on our minds. When
play and there are different tensions                         we do decide to commit the time
                                                              and money, it’s a tough choice be-
that exist. I think one good example is                       tween professional upgrading for
                                                              career advancement and a person-
work-life balance—do you want to spend                        al interest that we are passionate
                                                              about.
more time at work, or with family and
                                                              But for something so personal, the
friends, or doing things that you like?"                      onus falls on us to take charge of
                                                              our own path and at our own pace.
—Pay Leon Khee, participant at the Youth Conversation         Society can play a part by providing
 on Narratives of Success                                     the resources, networks, and sup-
                                                              port for us to tap on when we find
                                                              the right circumstances.

                                                              “What should we do to address
                                                              mental health in Singapore?”

                                                              The stress of juggling our dreams
                                                              and life’s demands can take a toll on
                                                              our mental health. The proportion of
                                                              people who have experienced a
                                                              mental disorder has increased over
                                                              the past few years, with depression
                                                              emerging as the most common.
                                                              We brainstormed about what more
                                                              could be done for mental health in
                                                              Singapore—whether it’s putting out
                                                              more positive stories of persons in
                                                              recovery, having public figures
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talk openly about mental health,
or broadening education among
young people and their parents.
The stigma of an invisible ailment
makes it so much more difficult for
sufferers to seek help.

The Conversations led to action.
Two of us came together to start
The SOAR Initiative (School of Abili-
ty and Recovery), that aims to foster
mental wellness and reduce stigma
in the community through educa-
tion. Many of our peers who par-
ticipated have also stepped up to
form a resource panel for the Health
Promotion Board, giving feedback
on their publicity, programmes and
collaterals for mental health. Youth
Corps Singapore has also strength-
ened education and equipping for
youth volunteers passionate to
make a difference in this area. There
are so many possible avenues to
make difference if we choose to
step up and stand in the gap!

                                        “During the youth convo, we were very thankful for
                                        a safe space created for the participants. Because
                                        of that, the youth felt safe to share their personal
                                        struggles with mental health. It was very encouraging
                                        to see our youth rising up and having courage to share
                                        their personal struggles and lend their trust and sup-
                                        port to fellow peers who are facing similar problems.“
                                        — Cho Ming Xiu, participant at the Youth Conversation on Mental Health.
                                         Together with his friends, Ming Xiu started Campus PSY—a mental health
                                         literacy training programme aimed at equipping youths to better support
                                         their peers with mental health issues.

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TOWARDS A MORE INCLUSIVE
SOCIETY                                                      “I think there are no real one-off solu-
                                                             tions. Education as a long-term approach
We want to build an inclusive Singapore,                     is key, so it is important to continue to
with space and love for those who are
                                                             organise such events where students and
different. Across class, age, race, religion,
                                                             youth of different backgrounds can
and where we come from, Singapore must
                                                             come and interact, to really understand
be big enough for all of us to belong. We
understand that it won’t be easy. But we                     each other’s experiences, which can open
care, and see what others might not—                         up new perspectives on these issues.”
the casual racism of a “joke”; the uneven                    —Sujandren Alaghimanvalan, participant at the Youth
                                                              Conversation on Race and Religion
opportunities enjoyed by different people
in society; and invisible people whom we
might conveniently forget.

“What should we do about               “Is life fair?”                          “How can we show migrant
racism?”                                                                        workers in Singapore that we
                                       Our Conversations touched on how         value them?”
Together we reflected on how           inequality and exclusion can cut
common casual racism can be,           across many labels, because all of       Our dream of an inclusive Singapore
and how often it goes unacknowl-       us have multiple identities—race,        extends to the invisible workers in
edged. We struggled with what we       religion, gender, sexual orienta-        our midst. The Youth Conversation
should do in those situations and      tion, choice of career, or disability.   on Migrant Workers was a learning
challenged each other to be cou-       Too often, we talk about inequality      journey for us to the ‘homes’ of
rageous against the status quo. We     when we are really asking for fair-      the migrant workers at the Tuas
reaffirmed the importance of honest    ness. And fairness and inclusion are     View dormitory, hosted by migrant
conversations so we can build a        ideals that we strive towards even       worker ambassadors. This was fol-
deeper appreciation for our diver-     if it will never be perfect. But that    lowed by a panel discussion with
sity. Not everyone had a personal      doesn’t mean we should accept the        representatives comprising policy
experience of racism or discrimina-    status quo. There is room for us to      makers and authorities.
tion, but everyone made an effort to   make a difference, as did Clarence
understand how it mattered.            Ching, who started Access, a pro-        Among the participants, many of
                                       gramme that focuses on tackling          us were already working with mi-
                                       education inequality in Singapore        grant workers in our school or vol-
                                       through providing greater equal-         unteering in projects. We asked
                                       ity of opportunities, mentorships        candid questions on the adequacy
                                       and apprenticeships for students.        of housing regulations and paths
                                       Whether we start by looking at our       to resolve employment disputes.
                                       own mindsets and attitudes, or our       We wrestled with the trade-offs and
                                       institutions and policies, what mat-     implications to what had seemed
                                       ters is that we start. Through our       like straightforward tweaks to em-
                                       actions, we can build the future we      ployment legislation. We left with a
                                       want to live in.                         better understanding of the issue
                                                                                and a deeper conviction that as
                                                                                youth, we can do more to help the
                                                                                invisible workers among us.

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OUR PLACE IN THE WORLD                        “What can we do to fight
                                              Climate Change?”

                                              We came together over two Youth
For many of us, the threat of climate         Conversations on Climate Action
                                              and Zero Waste. While we all came
change is a growing concern. We are           to the conversation with different
increasingly dedicating ourselves to sus-     starting points, with some of us
                                              leading local sustainability efforts,
tainability efforts, and we see advocacy      and others just starting to think
                                              about these issues, we all agreed
gaining momentum. While we understand         that we needed to do more to bring
                                              Singapore towards becoming a
that environmental sustainability might       zero-waste nation.
not be at the top of everyone’s minds, we     We may have strong views on fight-
want to challenge our society to do better,   ing climate change, but through the
                                              process of dialogue, we also rec-
to create a more sustainable environment      ognised that sustainable practic-
                                              es to reduce waste must consider
for everyone and for future generations.      other perspectives. Take banning
                                              straws for example—we can and
                                              must step up our efforts to reduce
                                              usage of plastic straws, but this
                                              must not come at the cost of oth-
                                              er’s needs, such as people with
                                              disabilities. We walked away from
                                              these conversations with a stronger
                                              conviction to do more in our daily
                                              lives, be it learning how to recycle
                                              right, or starting conversations with
                                              our family and friends.

                                              “What is Singapore’s place
                                              within ASEAN?”

                                              The insightful discussion opened
                                              our eyes to the inter-dependence
                                              among ASEAN member states and
                                              the considerations behind our for-
                                              eign policy. Most of us gained a
                                              broad understanding of Singapore’s
                                              position within the region and that
                                              made us think about how we can
                                              be Singapore’s ambassadors in our
                                              circles and professional networks.
                                              This topic held special significance
                                              because of Singapore’s Chairman-
                                              ship of ASEAN in 2018.

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                                                       FROM CONVERSATION TO ACTION
  What did we make of all these Youth Conversa-
  tions? As we listened deeply to each other and
  connected on the issues that matter to us, three
  key insights about us youth emerged:                 We want Singapore, our little Red Dot,
                                                       to continue to be exceptional, and help
  3 KEY POINTS EMERGED FROM THE 2018                   shape a world that is even better than to-
  YOUTH CONVERSATIONS
                                                       day's. We want to inspire our children and
  1. Youth are not apathetic
  They want to find out more, about many issues        our children’s children to achieve more.
  that concern them. They want to hear from policy
  makers about what was really going on behind
  the scenes, about the dilemmas, trade-offs and       This report charts our journey through
  other considerations. Among the participants,
  more than four in five were new to the National      the Youth Conversations. It describes the
  Youth Council, keen to expand their perspectives.
  After the conversations, 79% indicated they had      hopes and ideas of young people stepping
                                                       up to make a difference in our own way.
  a better understanding of issues that Singapore
  faces.
                                                       But we can only do so much by ourselves.
  2. Youth want to make a difference
  In fact, some are already initiating action on the   We need to partner with the rest of Singa-
  ground across issues and causes. But there are
  many more youths who aspire to make a differ-        pore as we find our way forward.
  ence, but who may lack the awareness, oppor-
  tunities, resources and networks.

  3. Youth want to be engaged through different        This is our time.
                                                       And we claim it.
  modes, reflecting their diversity and versatility
  Not all need to engage in deep face-to-face con-
  versations to gain an appreciation of the issues
  that matter to them, or to contribute. Many more
  youths participated digitally through social media
  and online polls. Time is a precious resource.

      YOUTH CONVERSATIONS GAVE
  PARTICIPANTS OPPORTUNITIES TO HEAR
   AND APPRECIATE NEW PERSPECTIVES

     86%                         87%
  were more aware of               were more
   other citizens’ views      appreciative of what
    and perspectives,         they had in common
  which might be differ-           with others
    ent from their own

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WE ARE
REDEFINING
OUR OWN VERSIONS OF

SUCCESS

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NARRATIVES OF SUCCESS

WE NEED A NEW WAY OF LOOKING AT SUCCESS                      TOP 10 LIFE GOALS THAT ARE
                                                             VERY IMPORTANT TO YOUTH
AND FAILURE, TO SUPPORT THE DIVERSITY OF OUR
                                                            The 2016 National Youth Survey
ASPIRATIONS. HELP US DREAM BIGGER.                          showed that while careers are im-
                                                            portant to youths, it was secondary
                                                            to learning and acquiring new skills.
                                                            Earning lots of money surprisingly
                                                            came in 5 th in the list. Youth also
WE ARE REDEFINING SUCCESS                                   value helping the less fortunate and
                                                            being able to contribute to society.

It wasn’t so long ago that your proudest moment was         Home ownership                 70%
                                                            Strong family relationships    70%
seeing us stand up and take our first steps. How we         Learn/acquire new skills       62%

made you smile when we called you ‘Ma’ and ‘Pa’ for         Successful career              59%
                                                            Earn lots of money             46%
the first time. We see the milestones you lovingly laid     Help less fortunate            41%

out for us: doing well in school, finding a girlfriend or   Contribute to society          40%
                                                            Get married                    36%
boyfriend, getting a degree, landing a good job, getting    Have children                  35%
                                                            Good religious life            31%
married, and having kids. We know that you want the best
for us. You mean so much to us, and how you see our
choices shapes how we see ourselves and our narratives
of success.

We appreciate you and others journeying alongside us
as mentors and friends—to advise, support and even                WHAT YOUTH VALUE
challenge us in our pursuits. However, we also ask that     These findings were similarly re-
you take the time to understand how complex our world       flected in a series of online polls
                                                            on the topic of success for the
has become, and that you give us space to define what       Youth Conversations. Over 500
                                                            respondents defined success as
success means for ourselves.                                broader than getting good grades,
                                                            traditional jobs and financial sta-
                                                            bility. Instead, youths strive for
                                                            non-conventional goals, such as
                                                            personal development, caring for
                                                            their well-being and seeking out
                                                            purposeful experiences.

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NARRATIVES OF SUCCESS

                                                                                    “When it came to domains of suc-
                                                                                    cess defined by us, most of us
                                                                                    chose personal factors like family,
                                                                                    finance, spirituality and emotional
                                                                                    well-being. On the other hand, do-
                                                                                    mains of success defined by society
                                                                                    tend to be more objective-driven,
                                                                                    such as career and studies […] I
                                                                                    found myself relating with stories
                                                                                    about the dilemma of choosing
                                                                                    courses in school or carving own
“What I shared about was real-              This Is What Success                    career paths, all while balancing ex-
ly how to align both passion and            Means To Us                             pectations from family and friends.”
purpose. With passion being what
makes you happy, brings you joy,            In a 3-part series that took place
and purpose being how you can               over 5 sessions and 7 months, we
contribute to others and to the wid-        explored what success means to          —Jocelynna Seah,
er community with the things that           us. Here are the key takeaways           Youth Conversation participant
you are passionate about.”                  from our conversations.

—Jared Kong, an in-house lawyer             1. Success is more multi-dimen-         “I used to think there shouldn’t be a
 and part-time DJ, on how he                sional than what it used to be.         tension between any of the worlds,
 brought together his passion with                                                  and that I should only choose one of
 a rewarding career                         There is a difference in how we see     those worlds. In this session, I had
                                            society defines success and what        to think about what would be the
                                            we believe success should be. We        best of these two tensions. When
                                            think that society values success       I thought about it, I realised I’ve
                                            in the domains of studies, career,      already been doing that in my life,
                                            finance, family and having a place      like juggling and balancing between
                                            of our own. But as youth, we also       these two worlds. It made me real-
                                            place great value on personal learn-    ise that I shouldn’t be so adamant
                                            ing and growth, freedom, passion,       about just choosing one world. It
                                            meaning and emotional well-be-          really gave me this objective view
                                            ing. And for society as a whole,        of my life.”
                                            we would be successful if we are
                                            compassionate, kind and caring.

                                            We are pragmatic, and we know           —Ng Sze Min,
                                            money is important to fulfil basic       Youth Conversation participant
“I grew up in a typical family, where       needs. We have families to support
I’d come home with a 92% and my             and bills to pay. But what we also
parents would ask, what happened            seek is a broader definition of suc-
to the other 8%? I was at the height        cess and more diverse pathways
of my career at 22, and yet, I real-        to get there. Our pathways and
ised I was unfulfilled, still looking for   choices may appear at times com-
that missing 8%. I thought passion          peting and contradictory, but what
meant I had to suffer for my craft,         we learn and experience within the
but now I realised that passion has         journey is just as important as the
to graduate to compassion, a con-           destination.
nection to something larger than
yourself.”                                  That is why many of us live in the
                                            complexity of having to navigate
—Inch Chua, a singer-songwriter             the tensions in life. We are aware of
 on how she took a break at the             the need to responsibly fulfil prac-
 height of her career to rediscover         tical needs; at the same time, we
 a balance of pursuing passion              want to live for more. While this
 and self-exploration.                      path is not easy, we believe that
                                            we can determine our successes
                                            and create the meaningful lives that
                                            we desire.
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NARRATIVES OF SUCCESS

HOW WE THINK SOCIETY VIEWS SUCCESS, AND HOW WE VIEW
SUCCESS

Top 3 Domains of Success               Top 3 Domains of Success
According to Society                   According to Youth

Our views on societal definitions of   Our goals, however, are much
success focus on these few             more varied:
domains:

• Career/Work                          • Emotional well-being
• Finance/Money                        • Personal learning/growth               Clement Tan, a participant who had
• Studies                              • Family                                 a conversation with his parents
• Family                               • Finance/Money                          after the Youth Conversations
• House/Belongings                     • Spirituality

                                                                                “I think my parents and I realised
                                                                                there are differences between our
                                                                                expectations of how I should lead
                                                                                my life. While my mom made her
                                                                                choices based on what she thought
                                                                                was ‘natural’ or ‘best for my fu-
                                                                                ture’, I believe that these implicit
                                                                                narratives of ‘natural’ and ‘best’ are
                                                                                based on some sort of social norm
                                                                                of her generation.

                                       2. Believe in us.                        On hindsight, although I realised
                                                                                that the intention of what she did
                                       We are grateful for our families.        was for my own good, I would
                                       Nothing beats having your love and       have preferred that the execution
                                       support. We know you want the            of what she did was more tactful. As
                                       best for us, and it is not easy to let   a young kid and now a young adult,
                                       us do something different, new or        it may still be hard to discern the in-
                                       uncertain. Allow us to take owner-       tentions of the giving party from the
                                       ship of our choices, and have the        sentiments of the receiving party.
                                       space to discover and learn. It’s
                                       okay to let us fall; we will pick our-   I think this is what may be causing
                                       selves up and find our way in life,      the tension between parents and
                                       as you did too.                          youth now. For example, parents
                                                                                say, ‘you must get good grades’.
                                       At our conversations, many of us         And then, the child feels his worth is
                                       voiced our desire to be able to de-      only tied to the grades. But implicit
                                       fine, for ourselves, what success        in that statement is the nuanced un-
                                       means. We believe we can chart           derstanding that our society, espe-
                                       our own paths and create oppor-          cially government institutions, use
                                       tunities.                                grades as the meritocratic leveller
                                                                                to determine who gets the job and
                                       During our conversations, we also        who doesn’t, which in turn deter-
                                       heard from others who found a            mines who gets a stable income
                                       balance between pursuing their           and ultimately, lives a ‘more com-
                                       dreams and meeting the expecta-          fortable’ life.
                                       tions placed on them. They shared
                                       about difficult conversations they       Maybe it’s the silent concession
                                       had with their parents about their       of the parent to the realities of an
                                       tensions. It reminded us that having     institution that has and is still fo-
                                       such open communication with our         cused on grades. Or maybe it’s the
                                       own parents is important and deep-       generic Asian mentality of having a
                                       ly empowering.                           measurable medium of comparison
                                                                                between two things.”
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NARRATIVES OF SUCCESS

   WHAT IF YOU COULD TELL YOUR PARENT YOUR INNER FEARS?

            We penned letters to our parents on what we didn’t
                               dare to say.

                                                                 3. In redefining success, we
                                                                 should also redefine failure.

                                                                 We want to redefine and be more
                                                                 accepting of failure, but still it’s
                                                                 tough to not worry about failing.
                                                                 We are also pragmatic and see that
                                                                 conditions out there can be com-
                                                                 petitive and sometimes unforgiving.
                                                                 Also, we might have to strive harder
                                                                 than before for the same goals. But
                                                                 that’s life and we can accept it.

                                                                 As we try to redefine the notion of
                                                                 failure for ourselves, we’ll need to
                                                                 deal with the stigma around not
                                                                 being good enough and the fear of
                                                                 being judged if we make a misstep.
                                                                 In Singapore where standards are
                                                                 high, expectations can be daunting.

                                                                 But failing is naturally part of grow-
                                                                 ing and learning, and we know
                                                                 these anxieties can hold us back
                                                                 from reaching our full potential. Yet,
                                                                 overcoming these anxieties is easi-
                                                                 er said than done, and it would help
                                                                 if society can progressively shift its
                                                                 perspective of failure as necessary
                                                                 growth experiences.

                                                                 We recognise that it will take cour-
                                                                 age to forge our own paths, and
                                                                 to persevere in the face of circum-
                                                                 stances. Hearing the stories of
                                                                 fellow youth who have overcome
                                                                 failure gives us hope and inspires us
                                                                 to take charge of our own journeys.

                                                                 We want to be brave and open in
                                                                 the face of unknowns, to explore
                                                                 opportunities and possibilities, to
                                                                 overcome our self-doubt, and to
                                                                 see failures as opportunities to-
                                                                 wards success. We see in each oth-
                                                                 er courage, perseverance, passion
                                                                 and purpose.

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NARRATIVES OF SUCCESS

At the final Youth Conversation on Redefining Success, Together, we shared what we believed was
holding us back.

                                       “In the booth where we expressed our
                                       ideal successes for Singapore, pasted
                                       were distinct goals that we would not
                                       have considered successes a dec-
                                       ade ago, like “empathy” and “accept-
                                       ance” […] Indeed, the idea of success
                                       encompassing the achievement of
                                       certain career ideals was challenged       4. As a society, we want to be
                                       by the sheer variety of hopes and          more inclusive, compassionate
                                       dreams that participants had, even         and kind.
                                       those beyond the workplace […] If
                                       such discussions can lead us toward        Redefining success is not an indi-
“I’ve faced quite a number of re-      a society that is more accepting of dif-   vidual pursuit. Our personal suc-
jections and failures throughout       ferent ways people think of success,       cess is defined in relation to our
our 5-year journey. Courage and        perhaps thoughts of successes and          friends, family and society. In the
perseverance are often not loud        failures may be less distressing and       final conversation, we saw that our
and dramatic—they are often quiet      burdensome, especially to youth like       individual life choices determine
and made up of many small steps        myself who do not know much about          the nature of our society. And so,
that shows a firm resolution to keep   what we want to achieve just yet.”         standing at the nexus of the pres-
trying.”                                                                          ent and the future, we want to live
                                                                                  a life with a larger purpose and to
—Jumaiyah Mahathir, co-founder                                                    be able to make a difference in our
 of Halalfoodhunt                                                                 community.
                                       —Grace Neo,
Jumaiyah was one of the resource        Youth Conversation participant            We hope for a Singapore that val-
persons who shared with partici-                                                  ues and appreciates our different
pants how her team kept their chins                                               perspectives, skills and talents. In
up despite their challenges. Despite                                              one of the group activities in our
rejections by investors and many                                                  conversations, nearly 7 in 10 of us
setbacks, Halalfoodhunt is now an                                                 expressed a wish for Singapore to
established halal food directory in                                               be more inclusive, kind and com-
Singapore.                                                                        passionate—a broader narrative of
                                                                                  success.

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NARRATIVES OF SUCCESS

     OUR REFLECTIONS AND HOPES FOR OURSELVES AND SINGAPORE

  I am Chew Si Min                         I am Melissa
  and to me, success means:                and to me, success means:
  being happy and caring about other       Doing my best in all that I strive to
  people’s happiness                       achieve
                                           I care about Youth Development
  I care about education                   and a successful Singapore should:
  and a successful Singapore should:
                                           have a more connected community
  give students opportunities to explore   platform to voice and/or share suc-
  interests outside academics like in      cess, failures, learnings and stories
  theatre, arts, music, etc

                                           I am Jun Jie
  I am Abdullah                            and to me, success means:
  and to me, success means:                doing what you love no matter what
  living a meaningful life, learning and   others may say or how society might
  experiencing as much as possible         define success to be
  I care about contentment                 I care about my loved ones
  and a successful Singapore should:       and a successful Singapore should:

  be a place where everyone has the        embrace different talents and
  opportunity to do what they want         aspirations regardless of background,
  and be supportive of each other          social status or interests

                                           I am Clorisa
  I am Jack Kong Jing           Kai        and to me, success means:
  and to me, success means:                adhering to your own goals (can be
  bring out the best within ourselves      passion, purpose) and being satisfied
  I care about the future                  with your achievements
  and a successful Singapore should:
  be a more caring, comprehen-             I care about social issues
                                           and a successful Singapore should:
  sive, inclusive, cohesive, open-heart-   work hand in hand. listen, under-
  ed, open-minded, and meaningfully        stand and empathise with each
  peaceful and harmonious society          other, taking action to make impact
                                           on disadvantaged people. Be kind.

  I am Jerry                               I am Izzanzurin
  and to me, success means:                and to me, success means:
  accepting and loving yourself on your    making my parents proud of me and
  own terms                                taking very good care of them when
  I care about smiles
                                           they come to old age
  and a successful Singapore should:       I care about the people of Singapore
                                           and a successful Singapore should:
  embrace gratitude, appreciation, and
  celebration of life and people.          continue doing what it means to be
                                           successful

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NARRATIVES OF SUCCESS

5. Success is not a destination; it's a journey.

Life is a constant negotiation of opposing values and priorities. In meeting
fellow youth who came for the conversations, we’ve come to realise that we
are all at different points, moving at our own pace.

Many of us start out uncertain            Some of us are standing at the
and unsure because we haven’t             edge, we have some idea of what
quite figured out what we want and        we want, but still we are held back
what drives us. We are quite com-         by the weight of our own fears and
fortable where we are; beyond this,       that of others’ expectations. We do
we haven’t yet asked ourselves the        not want to disappoint ourselves or
hard question of how far we are           those who love us. We are finding
willing to go and how much we are         it scary to take the leap into the
prepared to risk.                         unknown, as we do not know if we
                                          will find success.

               Comfort                         At the
                zone                           edge

                                                                                “During the session, I was
                                                                                surrounded by people who
                                                                                have made it, and youth
                                                                                like me who are searching
             New growth                     Taking the                          for roads that lead to the
              and new                         plunge
               ground                                                           discovery of their passion
                                                                                and purpose. It was a safe
                                                                                space to explore multiple
 S ome of us have made i t                Some of us have chosen to
 across the abyss and found our           take that leap into the unknown,      possibilities of our lives and
 own version of success. We did not       and are swimming in fear and
 always know that we would make           self-doubt. We’re not sure if we      take small steps in the
 it, but today we find ourselves, on      will achieve our dreams but we are
 solid ground of our own making.          trying. While the fear is great, we   midst of uncertainty to
 But life is not all peaches and roses    are committed to who we want to
 once we land; having reached a           be and emboldened by those who        create new possibilities for
 personal milestone, we keep going        have succeeded before us.
 on this journey, onwards to new                                                ourselves.”
 challenges, new discoveries.
                                                                                —Marielle Descalsota,
                                                                                 Youth Conversation participant

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NARRATIVES OF SUCCESS

                                                                                       A youth athlete and aspiring profes-
                                                                                       sional sportsperson, Diane recalled
                                                                                       a powerful point shared at the Youth
                                                                                       Conversation panel discussion on
                                                                                       Redefining Success, Together.

                                                                                       “Mr Alex Soh (a life coach) said that
                                                                                       his idea of success is about having
Samuel Choo,                                                                           happiness and health. This is mean-
Youth Conversation participant                                                         ingful for me. You can’t buy happiness
                                                                                       or health. Having both are more im-
At one of the Youth Conversations,                                                     portant than other forms of material
Samuel shared his experience with                                                      wealth. Doing track and field makes
fellow participants, hoping that oth-                                                  me happy, even if it is not something
ers might find strength from his                                                       that other people would consider a
story. Samuel mixed with the wrong                                                     proper career. One thing I learnt from
company during his formative years        “Being constantly tired and stressed         the Youth Conversation is not to let the
and was sentenced for drug abuse          became the norm for me. It got to            views of others decide what success
to a year in military prison during his   the point that I couldn’t see any oth-       means to me.”
National Service.                         er possibility than the reality that I
                                          was living. Throughout my first clini-
During his time in prison, his family     cal year, I felt insignificant, and often
would travel every month without          stuck in the identity that I was never       —Diane Hilary Pragasam,
fail from the east to the west to         enough—never smart enough, never              Youth Conversation participant
visit him. That was the turning point     hardworking enough.
which made him realise the love his                                                    This Is Our Time; Redefine
family has for him.                       After a summer of intrapersonal work,        Success with Us.
                                          it made me realise that I had every
Following his release, Samuel cut         choice and ability to live a life of my      It’s hard not to compare in Singa-
ties with bad company and has             own calling. A group of us started           pore, but if we want a more inclu-
stayed drug and smoke‐free. He is         Project HAY (How Are You?) after a           sive and accepting society, that
currently pursuing his studies and        life-changing summer that we had             change starts with us. It starts with
is grateful that his family did not       with a dear mentor who taught us             the recognition that all of us have
give up on him and had constantly         about social emotional learning. The         different starting points in life, with
been supporting him to bounce             6 of us shared our personal journeys,        our own paths to lead. Our collec-
back in life.                             and we realised that this was an issue       tive choices and pathways add up
                                          that so many of our peers were go-           to the collective story of us.
To Samuel, success is about not           ing through, yet no one ever speaks
letting his family and friends down       about.                                       Through the Youth Conversations
and keeping the promises he has                                                        on Success, it became clearer what
made.                                     Through Project HAY, we hope to              success means to us as a genera-
                                          someday see our community care               tion. But it takes more than us youth
                                          for ourselves as much as we do for           talking among ourselves. It would
                                          our patients. Until then, we will still be   be naive to think that the current no-
                                          working tirelessly to see that happen.       tions of success held by many in our
                                                                                       society can be changed overnight.
                                          To you, I’d want to say “Have courage
                                          dear heart”. You don’t necessarily           We hope our parents and socie-
                                          have to make a huge change, but              ty will hear us. Better yet, be our
                                          imagine the few people whose lives           friends and mentors. Jour ney
                                          you’ve changed for the better just           with us as we redefine and push
                                          because you did what you did.”               the boundaries of what it means
                                                                                       to be successful for ourselves
                                                                                       and Singapore.

                                          —Mak Wei Zhi,                                This is our time, come redefine
                                           Youth Conversation participant              success with us.
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WE ARE
CHANGING
COURSE AND
LEARNING
DIFFERENTLY

              23
LIFELONG LEARNING

                                  WE CAN FIND THE JOY OF LEARNING IF WE TAKE
                                  CHARGE OF HOW WE LEARN.

                                  WE ARE RETHINKING LEARNING

                                  We spend over a decade sitting for tests and exams,
                                  being told that we need to do well in school to do well in
                                  life. When we finally graduate from school and step out
                                  into the working world, it feels like yes, now is when our
                                  lives can finally begin.

                                  Reality kicks in when the job hunt begins. Suddenly, all
                                  those years of formal education seem barely sufficient to
                                  score us an interview. Things are moving so quickly these
                                  days that what we learnt in school might be outdated by
                                  the time we graduate. New skills are emerging as quickly
                                  as old ones become obsolete. When we land a job, we
                                  are told that we need to upgrade to stay relevant, because
                                  if we don’t, we will get left behind.
DO YOU THINK WHAT YOU ARE
 LEARNING/HAVE LEARNT IN
 SCHOOL IS PREPARING YOU
                                  Every year, salary guides tell us       also reflected in a Youth.SG poll in
 WELL FOR THE WORKFORCE?
                                  which professions are the most          April 2018. Among 376 respond-
   Unsure/Disagree that learn-    promising, and every year, the          ents, 7 in 10 agree that learning
   ing helps to prepare for the   pecking order changes. We would         prepares us for the future.
   workforce                      love to know what the future skills
                                  that we need are, so that we can        The same poll also highlighted our
   Agree that learning helps to   get there in due time, but no one       fears regarding the relevance of our
   prepare for the workforce      has such prescience. And so, we         formal education. 7 in 10 were either
                                  can only try our best to keep learn-    unsure or disagreed that learning in
                                  ing, whether through short courses,     school had sufficiently prepared us
                                  part-time studies or from mentors       for entry into the workforce. This
                                  at work. It’s our best bet against an   underscores our attitudes towards
                                  uncertain future.                       learning, particularly young working
                                                                          adults among us who have gradu-
        31%                       We Are Gear ing u p for an              ated from the structured education
                                  Unknown Future                          system and entered the workplace.

                       69%        Among the top life goals for youth,
                                  ‘Acquiring new skills and knowl-
                                  edge’ comes in 3rd after ‘Having a
                                  place of our own’ and ‘Maintaining
                                  strong family relationships’. Our
                                  strong emphasis on learning was
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LIFELONG LEARNING

Across two Youth Conversations on         Challenge 2: We can’t decide            Challenge 3: We don’t know
Lifelong Learning sessions in 2018,       if we should prioritise learning        it all
we came together to discuss the           something useful or something
challenges we face and to brain-          that we enjoy                           Much as we don’t like admitting it,
storm ideas on how we might better                                                we don’t know everything in our
support young working adults.             For some of us, formal certification    professed areas of expertise. And
                                          is a fundamental part of our on-        it takes a certain kind of maturi-
Challenge 1: We don’t have                going professional development,         ty to acknowledge weaknesses; it
enough time or energy                     and a necessary step for career         demands vulnerability that some of
                                          progression. For the rest of us with    us may yet not be brave enough to
Holding down a full time job can          career paths that are more varied,      admit. Our fear or misplaced pride
drain the life out of us. At the end of   the multitude of options makes it       can stand in the way of learning
a work day, we barely have enough         difficult to choose what to pursue.     new things.
time or energy for much else.             No one knows what skills might be
Learning is often reduced to short        needed four years from now, so
news articles or nuggets of interest-     what we think might be our next         “[Let] yourself know that
ing facts that we scroll through on       career break might just be irrelevant
our mobile phones. Anything more          by the time we are done.                it is okay to fail, that
than that becomes a serious com-
mitment that we have to carefully         Conversely, we need to decide if        you can learn through
consider.                                 picking up something that we enjoy
                                          might have a bigger return on our       failures… embracing the
With little time or energy, learning      mental wellbeing, even if it may not
often becomes a chore. Those who          improve our earning ability. With       fact that you are not
pursued part-time degrees talked          limited time and energy, negotiating
about the personal discipline they        learning priorities is a challenge.     good enough, that you need
had to exercise and sacrifices they
had to make in order to pursue their      "We are advancing so fast               to learn new things, and
learning. On bad days, it’s easy to
do just enough to get by.                 as a society. I guess what              have the ability to move
                                          we need to do is to grab                forward from it.”
“I’d succumbed to being
                                          hold of every opportunity               —Youth Conversation participant
nothing more than anoth-
                                          to learn. For example, I
er drone reading emails,
                                          work as a pharmacist
checking for social media
                                          and part of my job is to
updates, and perusing me-
                                          dispense medicine accu-
dia releases.”
                                          rately. Now with tech-
—Rice Media article, ‘“Why Do I
 Feel Dumber As I Grow Older?”            nology, this process is being
 Said Every Singaporean Ever’6
                                          automated in order to
                                          minimise error. Instead of
                                          learning how to dispense
                                          medicine, I need to learn
                                          how to operate such ma-
                                          chinery."
                                          —Nirmal Bhai,
                                           Youth Conversation participant
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LIFELONG LEARNING

      9 in 10                                                                       We Are Rediscovering the Joy
                                                                                    of Learning
Respondents preferred to learn
                                                                                    Equipping ourselves with new
through non-traditional approaches
where they attend courses relevant        1. Learning is a journey                  learning approaches and mind-
to their personal interests, learn from   We engage in introspective reflec-        sets will support us better in our
their peers, engage in online learn-      tion, make sense of our experienc-        learning journey. Through the Youth
ing platforms, or have a personal         es and struggles, and draw insights       Conversations, it became clear that
mentor.                                   for ourselves. It is through this jour-   while competition motivates many
                                          ney that we grow and understand           of us to learn, this anxiety is tiring
Compared to learning through tra-         ourselves.                                and counter-productive. We want to
ditional approaches such as in a                                                    rediscover our love for learning by
classroom setting, new learning for-
                                                                                    taking charge of our own learning
mats allow us to set our own pace
and style of learning, and are hence                                                journey, whether through new sub-
more engaging and authentic.                                                        jects, skills or formats.

                                                                                    Beyond tangible programmes, we
                                          2. Learning feeds our passions            are embracing different mind-sets
 WHAT DOES LEARNING MEAN                  We pursue our interests and do            towards learning. From our group
         TO YOU?                          not limit ourselves to what is con-       discussions at the Youth Conver-
                                          ventional.                                sations, we came to realise that the
                                                                                    joyful learning mind-sets we have
Learning through                                                                    are expressed in these different
non-traditional approaches                                                          ways.

21% Attending any course out of                                                     We Never Stop Learning
    passion/personal interest
                                                                                    This new mind-set is in truth quite
21% Listening to other people share                                                 old. Henry Ford said that “Anyone
    their life stories/experience                                                   who stops learning is old, wheth-
                                                                                    er at 20 or 80”. There’s a similar
13% Reading online (lifestyle,            3. Learning is part of everyday           Malay saying—“Pelajar Sepanjang
    entertainment content, fiction        life                                      Hayat”—which means “student for
    books, etc)                           We see learning as a cornerstone          a lifetime”. Both maxims are quoted
                                          of our lives, and not just the class-     often, probably because they hold
13% Having a personal mentor              room. It is part of all our interac-      a grain of truth.
                                          tions with others and the things we
12% Watching documentaries                observe.                                  Learning is evidence of an aspir-
                                                                                    ing young mind, one that is never
10% Reading online (news, research                                                  satisfied with his or her lot in life.
    papers, etc)                                                                    There are undoubtedly challenges
                                                                                    in pursuing lifelong learning, but we
                                                                                    can overcome them. We will expand
                                                                                    the possibilities open to us in an
Learning through                                                                    uncertain world with the seeds of a
traditional approaches                                                              joyful learning mind-set, paired with
                                                                                    the blessing of divine discontent
10% Attending courses to obtain           4. Learning is driven by                  that drives us to always do better.
    professional work-related             purpose
    certification                         We assess the usefulness and rel-
                                          evance of the knowledge we gain
                                          by how it helps us keep pace with
                                          changes and circumvent challenges
                                          in the world. More importantly, we
                                          learn best when we have a sense
                                          of purpose for what that knowledge
                                          is for and how it can make a posi-
                                          tive impact on the world and those
                                          around us.

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WE ARE
REWIRING
MINDSETS
         27
MENTAL HEALTH

WE WANT TO TALK OPENLY ABOUT MENTAL HEALTH
—IT’S OKAY TO BE DIFFERENT AND IT’S OKAY TO
SEEK HELP.

STRESS IS PART OF OUR LIVES
                                                                                                 “In working with patients

Our challenges are manifold. We stress about our studies,                                        suffering from mental
stress about our relationships, stress about money, stress                                       illness, we found that so-
about work, stress about our future, and stress about our                                        cial stigma is a major
health. In a vicious cycle, this stress in turn affects our                                      block for them, in getting
health. There’s just no running away from stress. So, we                                         back to their previous
deal with it in the best way we know. We share our prob-
                                                                                                 lives, and being accepted.
lems with our family and friends, on social media, and we
                                                                                                 Even though they had sig-
get by. But sometimes, when it gets a bit too much, our
mental health takes a hit.                                                                       nificantly recovered from
                                                                                                 their mental illnesses, they
The National Youth Survey 2016                       The Singapore Mental Health Study
found that youth experience similar                  2016 also found that depression is          were still not accepted
stressors across our life stages,                    the most common mental disorder,
with top three stressors remaining                   with 1 in 16 people suffering from it       back into their homes.”
the same across the 2013 and 2016                    at least once in their lives.
study.                                                                                           —Team M.U.S.E.
                                                     The same study also found that the
According to the Singapore Mental                    proportion of people suffering from
Health Study 2016, the proportion                    mental disorders not seeking help
of people who have experienced a                     remains high, with more than 3 in 4
mental disorder has increased from                   people suffering in silence.
1 in 8 to 1 in 7 over recent years.7

         YOUTH ARE STRESSED OVER THE FUTURE AND THEIR
                       RESPONSIBILITIES8
          Rating from 1—Not at all stressful, to 5—Extremely stressful

                           Mean Scores for Stressors
                                2013     2016

                                                                                                 Team M.U.S.E from Youth Corps
                               3.46
                               3.46

                                       3.43

   5—Extremely stressful
                                              3.36

                                                                                                 Singapore filmed a social exper-
                                                        3.22
                                                               3.3

                                                                            3.13

                                                                                   3.23
                                                                                          3.07
                                                                     3.04

                                                                                                 iment video inviting passers-by
                                                                                                 along Orchard Road to reach out
                                                                                                 to someone suffering from schizo-
                                                                                                 phrenia with a simple act of giving
  1—Not at all stressful                                                                         a high five. The short video gives a
                                A        B               C             D              E          glimpse of the stigma that people
                                                                                                 suffering from schizophrenia face,
                           A   Future Uncertainty
                           B
                                                                                                 and the compassion in all of us.
                               Studies
                           C   Emerging Adult Responsibilities
                           D   Health of Family Member
                           E   Finances
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MENTAL HEALTH

The Issue Is Stigma                             MORE SUPPORT, MORE AWARENESS, MORE INCLUSIVITY

A 2018 survey by the National
Council of Social Service found that
6 in 10 people have a misconcep-
tion that mental health conditions
are caused by a lack of self-disci-
pline and willpower. Furthermore, 5
in 10 people indicated that they are     A poll conducted with 170 youths           They also felt that more could be
unwilling to live with, live nearby or   on mental health issues found that         done to increase awareness on
work with a person with a mental         the majority feel that more sup-           mental health issues, destigmatise
health condition.9                       port is needed for young people in         mental health, and create a more
                                         schools and workplaces                     inclusive society
It doesn’t have to be this way.

We want those of us suffering from
                                                Disagree (%)                                          Agree (%)
mental disorders to know that it is
okay, and that they will be support-
                                                               Words like ‘crazy’ come to my
ed. Living with a mental disorder is      74%                  mind when I hear the term ‘mental                  26%
already so difficult, and it shouldn’t                         illness’.
be tougher than it already is.
                                                               Being able to talk about mental
                                           0%                  issues is important.
                                                                                                                  100%
Fighting the stigma starts with edu-
cation to help youth and the people                            We should be inclusive of those
around us understand what mental           0%                  with mental health issues.                         100%
disorders are. And because mental
disorders are invisible, we will teach                         There should be greater publicity
                                           0%                  on the mental health resources                     100%
Singaporeans to be more compas-
                                                               that are currently available.
sionate towards others who are
different.                                                     There should be more mental well-
                                           1%                  ness group activities for young peo-               99%
                                                               ple in schools or in the workplace.

                                                               Workplaces in Singapore need to
"I think it's very impor-                                      support those with mental health
                                           0%                  problems, instead of discriminating                100%
tant to question our own                                       against or stigmatising them.

biases, insecurities and
fears, because these are
the underlying factors in
mental health stigma-
tisation. When we have
that awareness with-
in ourselves, it would be
easier for us to recog-
nise how and what we
want to contribute."
—Nawira Baig, mental health
 advocate

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MENTAL HEALTH

    TOGETHER, WE ARE CALLING FOR SINGAPORE TO
    TAKE ACTION ON MENTAL HEALTH.

    1. Let’s use social media campaigns to spread awareness
    about the issue and learn how to support our friends in their
    times of need.

    2. Let’s put out more positive stories
    and show how sufferers have recovered to lead fulfilling
    lives.

    3. Let’s rebrand mental health terminology
    to be more positive.

    4. Let’s humanise the issue and encourage sufferers
    to step out of the shame to seek treatment.

    5. Let’s care for the caregivers,
    who support sufferers through their journey.

Put the Positive Word Out                    in their video also uncovered the        “It was heart-warming to
                                             inherent compassion in Singapo-
Over the years, there has been in-           reans.                                   see everyone very open to
creased attention on mental disor-
ders. In 2016, the #Howru campaign           Through the Youth Conversation           the concept and to see
saw celebrities showing their sup-           on Mental Health, the insights
port for World Suicide Prevention            and ideas were shared with rele-         people come up to give
Week by wearing a black plaster              vant government agencies includ-
on their inner wrists. In 2018, Chan-        ing the Health Promotion Board           a high five. Even though
nel NewsAsia Insider produced a              (HPB) Mental Health and Strate-
4-part documentary series on de-             gic Planning team, the Agency for        there was a low num-
pression, drawing attention to how           Integrated Care (AIC) Community
it affects students, working adults,         Mental Health Division, the National     ber of high fives in the
women, and the elderly.                      Council of Social Service (NCSS)
                                             Youth Alliance Team, and the Public      beginning, there was still
In the Youth Conversation on Men-            Service Division’s Moments of Life
tal Health, close to 50 passionate           Families Programme Office.               acceptance from peo-
students, volunteers, mental health
professionals and working profes-            Many of these participants have          ple for who they are.”
sionals came together to share               also stepped up to form a panel
what more could be done for mental           of resource persons for the Health       —Eddie Chan, Team M.U.S.E
health in Singapore.                         Promotion Board to provide feed-
                                             back for HPB’s programmes and
We Care About Mental Health                  collaterals, share insights about
                                             mental health-related issues among
Among us, there are many who care            young people, and raise awareness
passionately about changing things           of HPB’s initiatives in their own net-
for the better.                              works.

Through their social experiment vid-
eo, the members of Team M.U.S.E
met volunteers who wanted to be a
part of their project, and challenge
the stigma against schizophrenia.
The honest responses of strangers

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MENTAL HEALTH

Through this Youth Conversation,            other agencies like NCSS and AIC,         “I also think it’s very im-
Ying Ying, 32, and Geraldine, 27,           they’ve also lent support to youth
came together to start a project            groups like Campus Psy and Hush           portant to bring mental
called The SOAR Initiative (School          Teabar.
of Ability and Recovery), that aims                                                   health literacy to school.
to foster mental wellness and re-           As the closing event for the Men-
duce stigma in the community                tal Health Awareness Singapore            We have physical educa-
through education. They reached             Learning Series in 2018, Campus
out to more people to join them and         Psy organised “Stay Woke Youth            tion, and I think we should
more than 20 people from all walks          Fest” in the National University of
of life responded to their open call.       Singapore to get students to learn        also have mental health
Starting in January 2019, they are          more about mental health.
running a series of workshops titled                                                  education in schools.
“Slowing Down” to help partici-             Campus Psy has also joined forces
pants learn how to take care of their       with 8 other organisations to collec-     They go hand in hand.”
mental health.                              tively design solutions to address
                                            mental health issues among chil-          —Nawira Baig, mental health
                                            dren and youth, with the support of        advocate
                                            the Singapore Tote Board.
“I think that education, honest conver-
sations and meaningful interactions
with persons in recovery will really                                                  We Can Fight the Stigma
make a difference in breaking down          “I felt that there is progress in terms
that ‘us’ versus ‘them’ barrier to sort     of youths and young adults coming         Stress will always be in our lives.
of level the playing field for different    forward to talk about mental health       Our struggles today may not be
stakeholders in the community.              issues. There is more awareness           for basic needs like those of our
                                            and more advocacy done in terms           grandparents’ generation, but they
The response to SOAR’s workshops            of events, or even dialogues like the     are challenging nonetheless. While
has been quite good, people turned          Youth Conversations on mental health      life in Singapore is fast-paced and
up, and they gave good feedback             by NYC and Youth Corp. which is a         demanding, it doesn’t have to be at
about the content of the workshop,          good sign, because a few years back,      the expense of our mental health.
and the quality of the trainers, so I       there weren’t such open discussions
think that’s quite heartening for me,       or open dialogues on mental health        Now, we need everyone to sup-
knowing that there is so much support       issues; people weren’t talking about      port us in spreading the word and
from the ground.”                           it, it’s like a taboo topic. Even now,    fighting the stigma. Help us make
                                            there’s still prevalent stigma. But you   a difference.
                                            realise, youth and young adults are
                                            more forthcoming because they see
                                            a lot of campaigns going on, like for
—Lee Ying Ying, co-founder of the           example, the recent beyond the label
 SOAR Initiative                            campaign by NCSS.”

Championing Mental Health

Also happening in 2019 is a series          —Cho Ming Xiu, co-founder of
of film screenings by Sherman Ho             Campus PSY
from the Happiness Initiative. Sup-
ported by the National Youth Fund,
the “Happiness Film Festival” is a
series of film screenings and Q&A
sessions that aim to make it easier
to talk openly about personal strug-
gles with mental health.

With more of us stepping up to
champion mental health, Youth
Corps Singapore has also strength-
ened education to equip youth
volunteers passionate to make a
                                           Photo credit: Youth.SG
difference in this area. Along with
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