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CHAT AND HAPPENINGS
                                       March 2018

Executive Director’s Column

I can’t believe we are rolling into March already. Soon the spring flowers will be starting to
bloom. With the nicer weather coming residents will want to be outside for walks and relaxing
out on the benches. Please be mindful to let the desk know that you are stepping out, as we like to
make sure all residents are accounted for in the event of an emergency.
In light of recent events on the news, we as an organization took a close look at how we monitor
the security of our buildings. We are excited to say that we do a great job! There are some areas in
which we could tighten this up. Some residents have family members that visit and may come
into the building at a door closest to their loved ones apartment. We ask that ALL visitors come
through the main door. It is our policy and a state regulation that all visitors sign in when they
enter the building.
As residents you have the ability to come and go from any door in the building. We ask that you
be mindful not to let others in when exiting or entering the building. Although we might know
who they are, it is important that we continue to follow our policy and regulations by having ALL
visitors come through the main lobby and sign in.
To follow up on my last post… we have ordered new boards for the laundry rooms. Once they
have arrived we will neatly transfer everyone’s days and times over to the new ones. If we have
any questions, we will certainly be in touch.
Last and most important… our annual Resident Engagement Survey will be coming out shortly
for you to complete. This is very important as it helps us gage what we are doing well and what
areas our residents feel we need to improve upon. The last few years, we have not met at least
90% participation. Not only do I want to meet 90% percent participation, but I want to meet
100%. Never have we reached 100%. Let this year be our year!!! This sur vey is str ictly
confidential. I encourage you to ask for help if you need it. We can have a volunteer come in to
help you complete it.
I have a full agenda for our next Town Hall meeting on March 8, 2018. I will also have a little
visitor coming to visit.
Warmly,
Jessica Stewart, Executive Director
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Contact
                                                               Information
                                                               Jessica Stewart
                                                               Executive Director

                                                               Pamela Garofolo
                                                               Director of Tapestries

                                                               Ryan Champion
                                                               Sales Director

                                                               Rev. Elizabeth Mallozzi
                  NEW RESIDENTS                                Director of Mission & Pastoral
                                                               Care
  We are pleased to welcome new residents to The Shores!
Please make these folks feel welcome and invite them to join   Mary Kate Somers
                                                               Director of Community Life
               you in all our great activities.
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E.A.G.L.E.S
               EAGLES!
Congratulations to the Philadelphia Eagles
     Super Bowl LVII Champions!

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Here’s What Happened Last Month
Valentine’s Day Celebration with Johnny Tacco
It’s always a party when Johnny comes to The Shores!

Ballroom Dancing with Ocean City Arts Center
Who knew The Shores residents were such exceptionally talented dancers?
Join instructor, Edward, Tuesdays at 3:30 in the Atrium for a lesson or just
stop by to enjoy the dance show.

                          Cassie, Jane and Judy enjoy their
                          dance with Edward.

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Here’s What Happened Last Month
The Shores “Rocks”
In our first “Rocks” activity Senior Space participants painted Valentine’s Day
rocks to share with loved ones. “Rocks” is an international activity!
Participants paint rocks with sayings and affirmations then scatter them
throughout communities to pass along positive feelings and blessings.
The Shores “Rocks” will plan additional painting activities in the Spring.

 Out to Lunch
 The Out to Lunch Bunch was heading to the Anchorage in Somers Point
 for their monthly get together. The Bunch visits a different restaurant each
 month. Sign up at the front desk if you’re are interested in joining this fun
 group.

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CHAPLAIN’S CORNER
“The Lord is gracious and merciful.” Psalm 111:4b
Holy Week is around the corner. This is especially the week that we
remember the suffering of our Savior, Jesus Christ, on the way to the
cross of Calvary. There at the end, Jesus said, “Father, forgive them
for they know not what they do.”
I wonder how well we are at forgiving. Jesus gives the perfect example on the cross even after so
much he endured. Can we follow Jesus enough to be forgiving people, day in and day out?
Sometimes it is hard. Yet, nothing we have endured is unfamiliar to God.
What do we need to do to practice forgiveness more perfectly? Let’s consider forgiveness this
March as we prepare for the celebration of Easter and Christ’s resurrection. There are two aspects of
forgiveness you may be dealing with at this time.
Self-forgiveness: “I hate what I’ve done. My guilt still haunts me.”
“Forgive” in Greek means to “let go, give up, cancel, pardon.”
Consider talking with God about what you’ve done, and the burden it alys on your heart Let the
weight of your guilt go, and accept God’s love and mercy. When restitution is needed, pray about
how to say “sorry”. What does your apology communicate? There are better ways to say sorry. Is it
expressing regret, accepting responsibility, genuinely repenting, requesting forgiveness? If so,
maybe these words apply: I’m sorry for…, This is wrong because…, In the future, I will…, Will you
forgive me?
Forgiving others: “I have continued to live with the consequence of the painful injury inflicted on
me from another. It is unforgivable.”
There are unforgiveable actions, but not unforgiveable people. Jesus teaches us this on the cross.
Trite words can’t free you form the energy that anger, bitterness and hatred carry. The way to peace
is a process of giving this pain to God. There is no easy road to this freedom. Consider talking or
writing about it without sending the letter. It is possible to forgive and be light hearted again.
Imagine finding yourself happy again. Forgiving others is one way to your own happiness.
If you need someone to talk with, find someone you can trust. The chaplain/volunteer chaplains,
your pastor, a social worker, a therapist...let us know if we can help. Easter is coming.

March Chapel Preachers:
March 7th Rev. Jeff Rickards, Grace Lutheran, Somers Point
March 14th Rev. Dan Unrath
March 21st Rev Diane Pacione, Seaville UMC
March 28th Reve. Larry Oksten, St. Peter’s UMC
March Bible Study: Mondays 10:30am in the Chapel
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Resident Council 2018
                           Welcome new and returning Council members!
                                      Carl Sheetz, President
                                Nancy Longenecker, Vice President
                                       Marge Haas, Secretary
                                            Members
March Birthdays:                           Helen Barber
1– Jackie Patrizio AL
2– Joseph Kennedy HC                      Jeanette Biletta
3– Ed Steinberg WBB
4– Rita McIlfatrick AL                     Lolita Camp
5– Larry Deming AL
5– Patricia Pitchers WBB                Stephanie Comisky
5– Elizabeth Williams HC                 Elizabeth Gleich
6– David Rhodes AL
9– Barbara Ann Debaufre                  Joseph Higgins
WBB
10– Harry Yoa TP                        Leon Kazmierczak
12– Grace Loyle AL
14– Helen Anderson AL                    Valerie Ksansnak
16– Shirley Connor HC
16– Edward Patrone AL                    Phoebe Lindacker
16– Anita Vitagliano WBB
16– Helen Zebley HC                      Louise McIntyre
22– Olga Silvers AL                       Ginny Scheetz
29—Elizabeth Hink HC
29– Dorothea McIlvenny     Thank you to the following residents for their
AL
                                     service to the Council!
Celebrations:                          Dorothy Crawshaw
Happy 95th Birthday to
Helen Anderson!                           Millie Hodson
                                          Mary Johnston
                                           Eileen Massey
                                           Nancy Rhodes

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The Giving Corner
Sharing the LOVE of ART
The Ocean City High School Leadership Club visited The Shores for a Valentine’s Day painting
party! Their generous donation of art supplies made for a fun afternoon of creativity and friendship.
The Leadership Club is one of the many clubs and activities at OCHS. Students who participate in
the club use their leadership skills to build school spirit and guide others to live a healthy lifestyle.
The Leadership Club members also volunteer in the community to carry out their goal of a positive
environment and work to help others when needed.

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The Giving Corner continued
Thank you to everyone who contributed to the OC Clothes Closet and Food Cupboard drives. With
the help of Gene Lindacher, resident volunteer and Ecumenical Society member, we delivered an
abundant supply of items. Our donations exceeded expectations! Please contact Michele Musto if you
are interested in joining the group of dedicated volunteers or donating items to the Cupboard.

      Volunteers unpacking                 Volunteers organizing donations for families: Bea
      donations: Dottie Cianci, Ken        Pinkerton, John Cogan and Marge Crane.
      Byerly and President Pat
      Crowley.
Our good neighbors Bunting Pharmacy and SJ Legal Services generously shared important
information to our Senior Space participants.

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The Giving Corner continued
Thank you to our Bingo volunteers, Elizabeth and Lexi for the special Valentine’s Day treats! Their
sweet thoughtfulness and kindness meant so much to the residents playing Wednesday night Bingo.

Some say “laughter is the best medicine”! The Shores
junior volunteers Caroline, Alice, Rose and their mother
Julie serve up the laughs with games and crafts every
Thursday during Tot Time. We are grateful for their fun
loving spirits and generosity of their time. They are
pictured here played Head Bandz with residents.

                                       These warm and colorful hats and scarves were created by
                                       the Stitch in Time Group and generously donated to the
                                       Getty Family. When the Group heard that the Gettys lost
                                       their home in an unfortunate fire they quickly got to work on
                                       these much needed items.

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The Shores Book Group
                        Calling all book lovers! New members are welcome to join the group to
                        discuss the books listed below. Meetings are the first Monday of each month
                        at 3:00pm in the Music Room, and are facilitated by Myra Degenhardt.

March 5– A Piece of the World: A Novel by Christine Baker Kline
April 2– Ford County by John Grisham
May 7– The Traitor’s Wife by Allison Pataki
June 4– The Life We Bury by Allen Eskens

Garden Club Members Wanted
Residents interested in joining The Shores Garden Club are invited to an
information meeting on Thursday March 22 at 3pm in the Town Hall.

               Chuck’s Computer Education Class
               All levels are welcome to Chuck’s one hour class held the 1st, 3rd and 4th
               Thursday of the month at 2:00pm in the Library. After class, Chuck allows 30
               minutes for one on one sessions.

                 Gigi’s Salon
           Hair~Do of the Month
            ~ Bea Sharp ~
   Salon hours: 9am-3pm Tuesday-Friday

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February Birthday Luncheon
Thank you to our birthday hosts Sophie Bradley & Bettie Cross!

   Best wishes to everyone who celebrated a February birthday!

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Important Community Information:
Aquatic Center Membership
If any resident of The Shores is interested in using our resident passes to the Ocean City Fitness and
Aquatic Center, please stop in and see Mary Kate.

Transportation
Please remember to arrive in the lobby 15 minutes early for a doctor’s appointment or a trip.

Gift Shop
You can always find something special in The Shores Gift Shop!
Hours are Monday-Friday 10-12pm & 1-3pm Saturday 1-3pm. Closed on Sunday.

Volunteer(s) wanted:
The Shores is looking for piano and guitar musical support, specifically for Sunday morning
worship. All levels welcome! Interested residents and family members please see Rev. Beth for
more information.

                                         Our Mission
                Compassionately serving in community so that all are free to
                                  choose abundant life.

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Ocean City Key Club
          presents
   ~ A Tropical Tiki Party ~

An evening of entertainment,
  dancing & refreshments
      Friday March 9
    Town Hall ~ 6-7:30pm
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