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                  Self-Defense         A MOTHER
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Lenore Arnow is a Asheville-based
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using her talents to inspire and
encourage others through her words and
original media content. Arnow holds a                                                                                   6
Bachelor of Science in Psychology and
an M.S.Ed. Guidance and Counseling
from Old Dominion University and has
a background in dance, language arts,
and music. She is dedicated to making
a difference in her community by
creating positive messages and imagery
through her words and lyrics.
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messages for people of all ages including
children’s books, poetry books, and
creative stories. Her background in
children’s counseling and education
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is what inspired her to write positive
and uplifting stories and poems for
children. As a volunteer for AmeriCorps
VISTA from 1988-1992, Arnow
developed projects for community
education and helped promote reading
for the Literary Council of Buncombe
County in Asheville, North Carolina.
One of her biggest projects included
“The Reading Rap,” a song to
encourage children to read.
Arnow wrote and directed numerous
PSAs for the Literary Council with
the song’s lyrics. Many teachers began
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into their curriculums to inspire their
children to read more and soon found
them singing it in class and on the                        FIRST EDITION | JANUARY 2021
playground. “The Reading Rap”               PU BL ISHER/EDI TOR                 Carolina Spark Magazine
became so popular that in 1997, Arnow       Crystal Pressley                    is a publication of
produced “The Reading Rap” DVD              Crystal@CarolinaSparkMagazine.com
video featuring a compilation of the                                            Crystal Clear Marketing, llc
                                            A RT D I R E C T O R                Old Fort, NC 28762
students’ performances. The DVD
has been used in school programs and
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continues to have a positive impact on      AC C OU N T E X E C U T I V E       Carolina Spark Magazine
children. Arnow continues to write          Jennifer Allen                      is distributed bi-annually throughout
poetry to share with others in the hopes                                        North Carolina and South Carolina
                                            P RO O F R E A D E R
of inspiring people to see the beauty in
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life and to always hope for the best.
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Contents
FA SH I ON                 I N S P I R AT I O N A L   F A M I LY                  FIERCE &
& BE AUT Y                 WOMEN                       6 Crystal Pressley:        PHENOMENAL
56 Uniquely Neva           48 I Fell in Love with        Keeping it Together      13 Wendy Newman
38 Pandemic Apparel           a Dump Truck            37 A Mother Like               Designs
24 A Carolina Retailer     54 7 Rings                    No Other                 35 Leah McGrath rd ldn
   Weathers the            18 Eye On Your Home:       W O M E N ’ S H E A LT H    51 Robbin Brophy,
   Pandemic                   Melissa Rulli                                          Tax Preparation
                                                      26 Connecting Without
 8 Styled Photoshoot:      10 Comedian                   Expectation
   Slay Babe                  Hilliary Begley
                                                      30 5 Steps to Stop
28 A Dress for             63 One Mother’s Journey       Worrying
   So Much Less            60 Confessions             58 Self Defense for
HOME LIVING                   of a Dog Fosterer          Women
40 Interior Designer       FOOD & BEVER AGE           64 Our Voice
   Discusses 2021 Trends                              62 New Year’s
                           22 Review:
50 Top Tips for               Juicy Lucy’s               Resolutions:
   Decorating                 Bar & Grill                The Health Dare             Exclusive!
                                                                                        Interview
                                                                                    with WNC Native

                                                      44 Surviving Change            and Comedian
                                                                                                      Self-Defense
BUSINESS
                                                                                                                     A MOTHER
                           46 Meal Prep 101                                              HILLIARY
                                                                                         BEGLEY
                                                                                                      for Women      LIKE NO OTHER

& FINANCE                  47 Recipe: Coconut         E N T E R TA I N M E N T
                                                                                  cover photo
21 Building From the          Pecan Oatmeal           15 Fairy Tale Project       DiPietro Photography
   Ground Up                                                                      hair   & makeup
                           34 Recipe: Blackbird        5 Asheville Lyricist       Fab Flawless Makeup Artistry
52 Sweet Security             Chicken Wings              Lenore Arnow

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Keeping it Together

                                                                                                                         Photos By Clay

    Crystal Pressley Finds Balance with Work & Family
                        Creator and Publisher of North Carolina Bridal Magazine and
                Carolina Spark Magazine Discusses How She Maintains Work-Life Balance

F
       or many people, juggling the de-      “I don’t set schedules. I’ve never been       sales representative for IWANNA, a clas-
       mands of a career and personal life   that way. I’m just a day-to-day type of       sified newspaper company. After her first
       is an ongoing challenge, especially   person,” she says.                            interview, she left thinking she didn’t have
in our hustle-driven culture. As women,                                                    a good chance of receiving a job offer. A
                                             As a wife, mother of four boys, two grand-
we tend to multitask and juggle multi-                                                     week later, the head sales representative
                                             children and content producer, her ev-
                                                                                           called her and said he really liked her per-
ple roles, from mother to career-woman       eryday life can easily become hectic, but
                                                                                           sonality and wanted to give her a chance.
and everything in between. Sometimes         keeping her priorities in order has helped
taking time for ourselves is an option we    her manage it all. “My family is my top       In her first month, Pressley brought in
don’t even have time to consider. Ashe-      priority, no matter what,” she says. “My      fifty new clients. She soon realized this
ville-native and creator of North Carolina   passion has always been my kids.” Her         was what she wanted to pursue as a ca-
Bridal Magazine and Carolina Spark Maga-     husband and her children also motivate        reer. “I knew I wanted to go into adver-
                                             her to excel in her career.                   tising sales because I loved it,” she says.
zine, Crystal Pressley, knows what this is
                                                                                           During her time at IWANNA, she learned
like and has worked to achieve a healthy     Pressley’s journey in the print advertising
                                                                                           a tremendous amount about sales, print
work-life balance by taking things one       industry originally started out in 2009
                                                                                           advertising, and customer relationship
day at a time.                               when she landed the role as an account
                                                                                           management, which she took with her

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into her next role as a sales manager for
the magazine WNC Woman. After WNC
Woman came to an end, Pressley did not
know what to do next. Working part-
time at a bridal shop, she soon discovered
her love and passion for the wedding in-
dustry. She found herself at a local brid-
al show after which she was encouraged
by her friends and customers to start her
own publication.
The first issue of North Carolina Bridal
Magazine (NCBM) was published in 2019
and is a go-to resource for brides who
are planning their special day. The pub-
lication showcases talented professionals
throughout the Carolina region from
caterers to bridal shops and makeup and
hair artists. The magazine also features
real wedding stories, designer interviews,
and other inspiring content to help brides
visualize their wedding day. The goal of
NCBM is to help local businesses grow                                                                                       Photos By Clay
and become the most trusted statewide
resource for couples getting married in        keeps going and doesn’t let anything           out a support system full of people who
North Carolina. After successfully creat-      stop her. “Finding help with the business      encourage and uplift. Pressley finds most
ing and publishing the first two issues of     is the challenging part, but I am one of       of her support in her husband and chil-
NCBM, Pressley realized Western North          those people who doesn’t stop. I go and        dren, as well as her loyal customers who
Carolina also needed a go-to women’s           go and go. I just continue on until there’s    believe in her. “My kids push me a lot,
magazine to inspire and empower wom-           just no more time to do it.”                   and it’s nice to have that,” she says. “To
en of all ages, and so she created Carolina                                                   have their support and my husband’s sup-
Spark Magazine.                                For Pressley, the key to managing her          port is all I really need. I’ve had a lot of
                                               time is setting achievable goals in every      customers who have also helped me and
“I kept seeing this idea because we really     area of her life, something she highly rec-    believed in me.”
need something that is a local women’s         ommends all women do. “If you set your-
magazine — a go-to educational source          self a goal, then you’re going to reach it     Pressley hopes to continue to achieve an
for every type of woman,” Pressley says.       if you want it badly enough,” she says.        even greater level of work-life balance in
                                               “That’s what I’ve done with everything         order to spend more time with her kids.
“When I worked at WNC Woman, that
                                               in my life.”                                   She hopes Carolina Spark Magazine will
was what I really saw myself doing — in-
                                                                                              reach women across the Carolinas and
spiring and empowering women. I love           Having a good support system is also es-       empower them to be the best they can
helping businesses market themselves.”         sential to maintaining a healthy balance       be. Pressley’s inspiration stems from her
Managing two large publications, raising       in her personal life and professional life.    grandmother who always told her, “You
four children and taking care of herself       For women feeling overwhelmed by re-           can do absolutely anything you set your
can be challenging for her, but Pressley       sponsibilities, she recommends seeking         mind to.

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MAKING MOVES AND MAKING A STATEMENT.

EMPOWERING AND TEACHING WOMEN TO LEVEL UP AND DESIGN THE LIFE THEY LOVE!

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                               Comedian & WNC Native

                           Hilliary Begley
             Finds Her Way to the Stage and Beyond
                                               Written by Rosa Linda Fallon

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C
        ommanding the stage with her
        boisterous voice, larger-than-life
        personality, and hilariously relat-
able stories, Asheville native and comedi-
an Hilliary Begley captivates each audi-
ence with her unique and engaging style.
Begley is best known for her starring role
in the Netflix film “Dumplin’” along-
side Jennifer Aniston and Dolly Parton.
Most recently, she starred as Dixie Flagg
in the 2019 film When We Last Spoke,
starring Melissa Gilbert, Corbin Bern-
sen and Cloris Leachman. Her journey
to the stage and screen has been one of
challenges, trial and error, and exciting
adventures.
As a fan of theater and comedy her whole
life, Begley always felt she was born to be
an entertainer. After enrolling in drama
class in the eighth grade, she soon real-      outdoor comedy shows but has some              er-daughter relationship.” Growing up,
ized her strong passion for pursuing a         upcoming events planned for next year.         Begley had a tricky relationship with her
career in the entertainment industry. “It      Her comedic talent is what landed her a        mother and became self-conscious of her
was my last year of middle school. That        debut on-screen acting role a couple of        weight at a very young age. She hopes her
was how I found out about theatre and          years ago.                                     role in “Dumplin’” makes a difference by
realized ‘This is what I want to be!’,”                                                       breaking the stigma toward curvy wom-
                                               Begley was cast as the character Aunt          en and inspiring them to be the best they
Begley said.                                   Lucy in the Netflix film “Dumplin’” after      can be. For young women wanting to
In 2010 she set out to Los Angeles to          being discovered on Facebook through a         break into the industry, Begley says, “Do
begin her career with hopes of being an        mutual friend. She had opened for Jon          it. Just do it!”
actress and comedian. However, Begley          Reep at The Orange Peel in Asheville,
faced more challenges than she expect-         and the video of her performance circu-        As for where you can catch her next,
ed. “Nothing worked, reality slapped           lated on the social media platform, catch-     Begley will be on tour for the rest of the
me in the face, and I moved home,” she         ing the attention of a casting director        month of December with Bridgette Mar-
said. Her dream of being an entertainer        who was working with Jennifer Aniston          tin, her onstage co-star. Together, they
followed her back. In 2012, she landed         at the time. After seeing her videos, Anis-    are known as “The Feral Hogs” and have
an onstage Halloween gig with the local        ton thought she was hilarious and called       been performing together since last year.
hip-hop band, Free Radio and received a        her in for an audition. The rest was his-      One of their stops will include Begley’s
great response from the audience.              tory. Begley describes the opportunity as      hometown, Brevard, NC, on January 28,
                                                                                              2021 (location to be determined). Begley
It wasn’t until one of Begley’s good friends   one which literally dropped right into her
                                                                                              and Martin were also recently accept-
from middle school encouraged her to           lap as if it was just meant to be. “Every-
                                                                                              ed into the 2021 Aloha Comedy Festi-
get in front of the microphone for stand-      thing I’ve ever strived for just blows up
                                                                                              val which will take place in Honolulu,
up comedy that she really discovered her       in my face,” she said. “And then a whole
                                                                                              Hawaii, in February, something she is re-
talents as a comedian and began to take        opportunity will drop in my lap and it’s
                                                                                              ally looking forward to. For tickets, visit
it seriously. Since then, she has toured all   like, ‘Are you going to take this?’”
                                                                                              www.alohacomedyfestival.com.
over the Carolinas and the United States       “Dumplin’” follows the story of a self-ab-
as a professional stand-up comedian and                                                       Begley promises the audience her show
                                               sorbed teen pageant queen (Aniston)            will be hilarious and hard to forget.
entertainer. She hosts a regular Sunday        as she butts heads with her plus-sized
night comedy show called “Hallelujah!          daughter Willowdean during pageant             “The show is full of sordid takes on dating
Hilliary’s Comedy Revival” in Asheville,                                                      and stories of a life well lived — The Fe-
                                               season. The role of Aunt Lucy was a
North Carolina.                                                                               ral Hogs are ready to make you laugh out
                                               small but pivotal one. Aunt Lucy loved
Most of her inspiration for her comedic        and inspired Willowdean to be her best         loud at a show you won’t soon forget!”
content comes from her everyday life           self, something Begley says she wishes she
with her boyfriend, her plants and things      had had growing up. The film challenges         T O U R DAT E S
she does on a regular basis. “Every day        societal beauty ideals which Begley re-        January 28              Brevard, NC
– what I’m doing, how I’m doing it,” she       lates to. “The point of the movie was to       January 29              Nashville, TN
says. “It’s mostly observational paired        challenge the ideals of fat not being beau-    February 12–13          Anniston, AL
with my hidden idea of things.” Since          tiful,” she said. “Another thing that was      February 14             Florence, AL
COVID, Begley has mostly been doing            challenging in the film was the moth-          February 25–27          Honolulu, HI

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WENDY NEWMAN DESIGNS AND PHOTOGRAPHY
Wendy Newman has been a professional         original photograph to the
photographer for over 45 years. She has      finished print. Not every
been published in various media from         image can be a kaleidoscope
magazines to greeting cards, and has         and images such as
won numerous awards. For ten of those        flowers can become
years, she was the owner and director of     multiple kaleidoscopes.
The Modeling Connection, a chain of          Each image is different
finishing schools, modeling schools and      and unique.
agencies in Florida.
                                             Wendy’s design
She taught etiquette, social graces,         philosophy is to create
skincare, make-up, photography,              intriguing, imaginative,
dressing for success, self-esteem            and unique mandala
building, creating resumes and skills for    designs to inspire joyful
job interviews. Wendy is a former Miss       expression, celebrate love of
Florida, with a degree in fashion design     place and travel, and happy,
from Miami International University of       healthy holistic living. The concept
Art & Design in Miami, FL.                   starts with her original photographs,
                                             that she first deconstructs. Then comes
In 1999 Wendy’s family moved from
                                             the artful process of reconstructing a        Society Gala 3 years in a row, as
Florida to Asheville, NC, where she
                                             multi layered mandala that can take           well as the major fundraiser for the
discovered a new world of astonishing
                                             up to 30 hours to create. Masterfully         Diana Wortham Theater.
locations, unique settings and inspiring
                                             constructed leggings with a high
characters. The changing seasons offer                                                     “Asheville Imagined” art and umbrella
                                             compression, custom Poly-Lycra blend
new fallen snow, blooming flower fields                                                    show proudly hung at the AC Hotel
                                             fabric for outstanding comfort, support,
and spring rains to fill the waterfalls.                                                   in downtown Asheville for 9 months.
                                             breath ability, and performance. Dye
Wendy has taught photography at              sublimation printing, creates vibrant         Be sure to look at the art through
UNCA, Carolina Day School, in the            patterned prints that won’t ever fade.        the 3D glasses. Along with numerous
home school sector, and teaches private                                                    other exhibitions, she has permanent
                                             During the past 4 years these mandala         installations in such places as the
classes in her home, both in Asheville
                                             images have evolved into a clothing           University of Miami Frost School
and Florida.
                                             and umbrella line. They are available         of Music, the new Embassy Suites
She also donates a great deal of time        on the website wendynewmandesigns.            Riverfront in Greenville, SC, the
photographing terminally ill children,       com, at Grand Bohemian in Asheville           Arras Hotel and many others.
cancer survivors and warriors through        and Charleston, Biltmore Estate,
“Wendy’s Cancer Warriors” to which           Asheville Yoga Boutique, Omni Grove           Wendy says, “I love bold, rich colors and
the proceeds of all her art sales go.        Park Inn and many other fine stores           different architecture. My images are not
This provides the warriors with images       and museums. The scarves, leggings,           limited to buildings or places as I take on
as well as photo shoots in Asheville,        umbrellas and kimonos are beautifully         people, wineries, magazines, museums,
surrounding areas and Florida — all for      constructed in Miami, California              tours, graduations, custom wedding
free! Wendy was on the board of Genesis      and Canada.                                   scarves and family crests for truly
Alliance, for 10 years in Asheville, which                                                 heirloom pieces. My work is unique and
                                             Wendy Newman Designs and                      I don’t know anyone else who does it. It’s
served abused women and children and
                                             Photography supplied custom signature         endless what can be customized. When
she was a finalist in the WLOS Person
                                             scarves and umbrellas for the patrons         I was at the Dali Museum in Spain,
of the year for her Cancer Warrior work.
                                             to the Vizcaya (museum and home)              I discovered that my work is all 3D!
After being a photographer with a            Centennial Gala, and performed the            That in itself is a story.”
degree in Fashion Design 45 years,           same service for the Naples Winter
(with Asheville being home for the last      Wine Festival (napleswinefestival.com).
21) finally two passions met, when the       The Naples Winter Wine Festival,
images fell onto the fabric. For the past    benefitting children with disabilities,
4 years, Wendy has been consumed by          raised over 16 million dollars and was
a new project, where she deconstructs        proclaimed by the Rob Report, as one
her photographs and rebuilds them as         of the top 10 entertainment events in
                                                                                           Wendy Newman
mandalas. The Mandala Project is an          the world for the wealthy, as well as         Wendy Newman Designs
ongoing endeavor of love. Each one           the prestigious SW Florida Wine and           828.273.0346
takes days to create with endless hours      Food Fest. Wendy created scarves and          wendynewmanphoto@gmail.com
of creation, from the beginning of the       umbrellas for the Asheville Preservation      WendyNewmanDesigns.com

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November 11 – 12, 2021

                           2021 NCTA
                      Women in Trucking Council

                                SUMMIT                Raleigh, NC
                                         Women = A Rising Force in Trucking
                         This day and half event promote leadership development, advocacy, mentorship, and
                         personal wellness for women in the workplace, as well as their male peers. An array of
                      keynote speakers will explore topics that propel female professionals forward in their careers.

                                                          Event Speakers
                           Kelly Radi’s powerful, relatable messages focus on person accountability, healthy
                           communication, and nurturing relationships. Attendees will leave refreshed and
                           confident, armed with new perspectives and practical, action-based take-aways.

                        Dawn Holzer 20+ years of business acumen in leadership will provide insight on why
                        managing up is a skill set you must need providing the tools for this smart career move.

                          Debbie Gardner is an expert when it comes to teaching self-defense to “nice people
                         in high-risk careers” such as trucking. Beyond self-defense, you will use fear-control
                                strategies in every area of life when you are faced with stress and fear.

                               Kellylynn McLaughlin a professional truck Driver & training engineer with
                        Schneider National is passionate about the trucking industry and is a tireless advocate
                        for professional drivers. McLaughlin will share why she encourage women to consider
                                                  professional driving as a career path.

                                                     Sponsor and register today,
                                                    please visit NCTA’s website at
                                                   www.nctrucking.com/women-in-
                                                         trucking-summit.

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In the eight months since theater companies across Western North
Carolina closed due to the pandemic, many theater companies have
struggled with how to bring audiences safely back to their seats.
Montford Park Players’ outdoor arena offers the ability to produce high
quality performances, while allowing the audience to practice social
distancing. They are fortunate to be one of the first theaters to succeed
                      in planning a 2021 season.

Montford is excited to premiere its new        sticks over the winter, these women are
season in 2021, featuring its first ever       busily writing, developing and rewriting.
show written by four dynamic female            They have conducted readings online
playwrights, each interpreting a Brothers      over Zoom to hear and edit their plays,
Grimm’s fairy tale. Slotted to run June        under the direction of Lamberth. “Each
25 to July 31, 2021, a large ensemble cast     playwright is bringing their unique vision
will play multiple roles in all four short     and interpretation of Grimm’s,” says
plays. Honor Moor, Kathryn Langwell,           Lamberth. “It has been a very artisti-
Monica McDaniel and Barbie Angell are          cally and rewarding project. I am happy
excited to combine their writing talents
                                               to be working with four talented women
and collaborate during the Pandemic. In
                                               writers.”
addition to highlighting 4 female writers,
Montford is co-producing with writer           Barbie Angell is an Asheville poet,
Honor Moor and has hired veteran               writer, actor and artist. She has been
director Victoria Lamberth.                    voted one of the “Best of WNC” poets
“I have always wanted to interpret a           in Mountain Xpress, for the past 10 years.
Grimm’s fairy tale into a play. I spent        She is a regular actress and writer at the
hours in my youth reading the tales over       Magnetic Theater.
and over again. I selected three other well    Katie Langwell is a co-writer/performer
known strong writers with clear voices”        for the “How To” comedy crew and spent
said Moor. “Montford Park Players was          many years acting in New York. She
the obvious choice to produce this project.”   writes a full length play every year for the
While the Hazel Robinson Amphi-                entire Hanger Hall School for Girls and
theatre collects raindrops, snow and           is their resident French teacher. 

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Honor Moor’s recent works include sell       in Western North Carolina, Nashville,       Asheville’s Montford Park Players has
out shows of “The Mountain Political         Memphis, and Los Angeles. She brings        North Carolina’s longest running Shake-
Action Committee,” and a follow up           her directing and development skills to     speare Festival. Founded in 1973, it is one
sequel at The Magnetic Theatre. Moor         the Magnetic Theatre, where she is also     of the oldest outdoor Shakespeare the-
wrote a full length 5 woman show “What       developing an original bluegrass musical    aters in the United States. Montford Park
Happens After Manhattan” produced            by Tom Godleski called “The Sparrow         Players is dedicated to providing excep-
and developed at the Magnetic in 2019.                                                   tional dramatic entertainment for the
                                             and the Whippoorwill.” Lamberth is
She spent the 90’s working as an actress                                                 enrichment, education, and enjoyment of
                                             excited to take on this large project,
in New York and was a member of a                                                        our audiences, free of charge.
                                             despite this crazy time of the pandemic.
southern repertory company. She feels
                                                                                         The Hazel Robinson Amphitheatre,
blessed to work with three other talented    Montford Park Players is quickly be-        located in the Montford neighborhood
writers and a gifted director. She credits   coming one of North Carolina’s preem-       provides a laid back opportunity for audi-
The Magnetic Theatre for fostering           inent theaters for the creation and pro-    ences to bring a blanket or camping chair
new works.                                   duction of new plays. As one of Western     and enjoy a unique theatre experience.
In 2012, Monica McDaniel founded her         North Carolina’s outstanding art and        Montford Park Players is proud to be one
production company, WinniesChild Pro-        cultural organizations, Montford Park       of the few theaters in the United States
ductions. McDaniel specializes in cre-       Players has ambitiously expanded its        with performances that are free to the
ating powerful stories that are relatable    mission of producing classical theater to   public, though donations are requested
to the African-American community,           include new works, inspired by classical    by passing the hat during intermission.
and has sold out shows at the Asheville      literature. Led by Executive Director,
Community Theatre.                           John Russell the theater’s priorities in-
Victoria Lamberth comes to this project      clude new play development and re-          written by     Honor Moor
after many years of acting and directing     imagined classics.                          photographer   Laurie Johnson Photography

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January 2021 * Carolina S park Magazine 17
Eye
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                                                                                 ave you ever wanted to own your own
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I
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BUILDING FROM THE GROUND UP
Ellisha McLaughlin Discusses
the Foundation of a Successful Construction Business
          llisha McLaughlin is the Manag-      this market.” As Managing Partner,           to her feminine proclivity to be innately
          ing Partner of Alpha Two Inc.,       McLaughlin’s responsibilities include        nurturing and productive in a fast-paced
          a successful roofing company in      everything from hiring and training          environment.
WNC. While her achievements from the           the staff, to marketing and customer
                                                                                            She also had two excellent female lead-
outside can appear a solitary endeavor,        service. Though she sometimes misses
                                                                                            ers in her industry to look up to. “I have
Ellisha is quick to share how family sup-      the hands-on part of her construction
                                                                                            been inspired and supported by two really
port and strong mentors have been the          career, prior to going into manage-
                                                                                            strong women mentors,” McLaughlin says
building blocks of her professional success.   ment, McLaughlin doesn’t miss being
                                                                                                       of Kelly Wade and Lindy Ryan.
Growing up in Nicholas Coun-                                                                           When she worked with them,
ty, West Virginia, McLaughlin                                                                          Wade was vice president of
helped her stepfather in his con-                                                                      North American Roofing, and
struction business and learned                                                                         Ryan (of Tecta America) was
a great deal about the trade. “I                                                                       the first women president of the
caught the bug,” she says of the                                                                       National Roofing Contractors
construction industry. “I love                                                                         Association. “I wouldn’t have
the culture. It’s kind of a work                                                                       the skillset or the tenacity to be
hard/play hard kind of culture                                                                         where I am today if it weren’t
and it seemed to fit my upbring-                                                                       for those fantastic women,” she
ing and my wants and desires                                                                           acknowledges.
in a career at a very young age.
                                                                                                       “Women can gain support and
And I just stayed in it.”
                                                                                                       confidence from other wom-
She went on to work for large                                                                          en… and men as well,” Mc-
national roofing companies,                                                                            Laughlin says, referring to her
where she was required to trav-                                                                        brother in this case. She feels
el a great deal. This lifestyle                                                                        Jeremy is the Yin to her Yang.
was not always convenient for                                                                          “He has his skill sets and I have
McLaughlin, as a single co-par-                                                                        mine, but together, they work
ent. “I kinda had this existen-                                                                        harmoniously.”       McLaughlin
tial crisis,” she explains, when                                                                       loves that, together, they have
thinking about her future.                                                                             built a family business from the
During this time, McLaugh-                                                                             ground up. “It’s rewarding be-
lin had what she referred to                                                                           cause at the end of the day, we
as a ‘back porch conversation’                                                                         know that everything that we
with her brother, Jeremy. He was already       up on roofs. “Honestly, unless there’s a     have put into this is for us, for our team,”
running his own construction company,          customer service issue, I try to stay off    she says. “So, everything we do is for us,
Alpha Construction, Inc., out of West Vir-     the roof,” she says. “I conveniently al-     by us.”
ginia, and suggested that they partner-up      ways wear open-toed shoes, heels and
                                                                                            Watching Alpha Two Inc. grow and prog-
and start a commercial roofing business        sandals, so I can say, ‘Darn, I brought
                                                                                            ress fills McLaughlin with a sense of pride,
in WNC that McLaughlin would operate.          the wrong shoes.’”
                                                                                            as well as of gratitude for all the support
So, in 2016, they opened Alpha Two Inc.
                                               As far as being a leading woman in           and trust from the people in her life. “It
While thrilled about the opportunity and       male-dominated industry, McLaugh-                           took a team,” McLaugh-
grateful for her brother’s confidence in       lin’s experiences have been primarily                           lin smiles. “I couldn’t
her, McLaughlin was a little intimidated       positive. “You have your instances                                imagine doing any-
at the thought of striking out on her own.     now and again, but for the most                                    thing else.”
“It’s a big leap from the safety and secu-     part, I’ve found it wildly accept-
rity of a national employer,” she admits.      ing,” says McLaughlin. “It’s not
“It’s going from having a specified role       always men vs women, or wom-
every day to wearing a variety of hats, jug-   en vs women.” She even attributes                                  contributing writer

gling that simultaneously with growing in      some of her professional success                                  Meg Hale Brunton

                                                                                       January 2021 * Carolina S park Magazine 21
restaurant review                                                  A sheville , N orth C arolina , is a
                                                                    beautiful city that lies west of the Blue

  J UI C Y LUC Y ’S BAR & GR ILL
                                                                    Ridge Mountains. It is known for its life
                                                                    of art and historic architecture. Asheville
                                                                    is also filled with a diverse community of
                                                                    food. Turning off of US-25, you’ll find
                                                                    Juicy Lucy’s Bar and Grill and experi-
                                                                    ence a new spin on burgers, by Asheville
                                                                    locals, The Barlas brothers and family.
                                                                    Juicy Lucy’s Bar and Grill provides you
                                                                    with all the essential bar foods, with in-
                                                                    novative flavors cooked to perfection.
                                                                    You can order their specialty cheese filled
                                                                    burger, The Juicy Lucy, with your favorite
                                                                    beverage, or a perfectly blended milk-
                                                                    shake, for those who have a sweet tooth.
                                                                    Wings are not short of flavor and served
                                                                    with their specialty hot sauce, Spicy Lucy
                                                                    Gone Wild. Whether you choose to dine
                                                                    in, dine out, or request delivery, those
                                                                    who dine at Juicy Lucy’s Bar and Grill
                                                                    can find themselves experiencing new
                                                                    flavors for all ages and all palates.
                                                                    The Barlas brothers love of food stems
                                                                    from the vivid memories they have of
                                                                    their father. They watched him take the
                                                                    time to grind his own burgers and devel-
                                                                    op relationships with his customers, in his
                                                                    own restaurant business. An immigrant
                                                                    from Greece, their father learned how
                                                                    friends and family come together with

22 Inspiring Women of the Carolinas * CarolinaS park Magazine.com
food being the center of attention. From   garlic white sauce, and teriyaki BBQ) the    For Chris Barlas and his family, being
the passion their father had, the Barlas   Cowgirl Bacon Burger (habanero jack,         a part of the restaurant industry has be-
brothers would go on to open three more    applewood smoked bacon, avocado and          come more than a business. They take
restaurants, Juicy Lucy’s Bar and Grill,   white sauce), and the Luxe Burger (100%      pride in seeing people enjoy the food,
Cornerstone Restaurant, and Stone          ground Rib-eye with lettuce, tomato,         bridging family, and people stopping on
Ridge Tavern. Through these restau-        red onion, and pickle). Juicy Lucy’s Bar     their trips. They love seeing someone
rants and their love of food, the Barlas   and Grill also features local Bison, Elk,    wearing a Juicy Lucy’s Bar and Grill
brothers continue to bring happiness to    Watusi Cattle, and Yak burgers from          sweatshirt at the food store or a custom-
other families.                            Dr. King’s farm in Leicester, NC. Juicy      er using a picture of one of his burgers
                                           Lucy’s Bar and Grill includes everything     as the screen saver on their phone, like
Chris Barlas, one of the three brothers                                                 Alergra of Bethlehem, GA.
and General Manager of Juicy Lucy’s        from Fried Green Tomatoes to a Paco (a
Bar and Grill, expressed how important     spicy taco in a pita) and a Ballpark hot     Chris said “it is exciting to see people
it is to make all restaurants different    dog (add any build your own toppings) to     come back to the restaurant from near
from one another, with a very distinct     Smoked Gouda Mac and Cheese (topped          and far, to enjoy a laid back and comfort-
and separate vision. The vision for        with applewood smoked bacon, scream-         able atmosphere, while having a good
Juicy Lucy’s Bar and Grill was seeing      in’ sauce, chopped tomato and basil).        beer or a great cocktail with a hamburg-
a local neighborhood coming together       Juicy Lucy’s milkshake bar provides          er of their choice.” He also loves seeing
with people from all over the country.     hand spun specialty shakes such as the       the growth of the people who work at the
A restaurant with a vibrant and lively     Sober Elvis (banana, peanut butter, ba-      restaurant. When you meet Chris you
atmosphere, and the opportunity to turn    con, and honey) or adult shakes contain-     will sense his love for his staff and cus-
a simple burger into something people      ing alcohol like the Drunk Elvis (banana,    tomers. It gives him great satisfaction to
would not only remember, but also enjoy.   peanut butter, bacon, honey, and banana      see people come together for a cause and
The Barlas brother’s mix of creativity                                                  enjoy a good meal. He is continuing his
                                           liqueur). Juicy Lucy’s Bar and Grill fea-
and passion took off and today we get                                                           father’s legacy and love of food by
                                           tures a lot of different items that have
to experience it as Juicy Lucy’s Bar and                                                                bringing locals and new-
                                           kept people coming through their doors
Grill, opened July 2012.                                                                                   comers to Juicy Lucy’s
                                           and they remember them when                                       Bar and Grill.
Juicy Lucy’s Bar and Grill features        they leave. Whether it is ordering
unique specialty hamburgers such as        a simple burger with typical top-
The Juicy Lucy (a hamburger stuffed        pings and sides or taking the more
                                                                                                             written by
with american cheese), The Bahama          adventurous options, it is certain-
                                                                                                             Savannah Foley
Mama (grilled pineapple, shaved ham,       ly an experience to remember.

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l in a Re ta il er:
        A Caro              d
        How She W  e at here
        The Pandeemxtic
          and What’s N     y Ly   nn Bramlett
          Written by Shelb

        T
             here is no question that there has
             been an immense change in the
             industry of fashion and retail,
        after the pandemic struck us all hard
        in 2020. Shopping from home has
        now become a way of life, for most.
        The trends of fashion have also taken
        a big turn towards affordability
        and comfort. With people spending
        most of their time working and
        staying safe at home, it’s no wonder
        athleisure and home wear has grown
        exponentially this year.

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I’m a firm believer that you don’t need     more comfortable shopping online.               appear to be uplifting and cheery.
to spend a ton of money to look chic and    They ask questions and make comments            This is a welcome sight from the dark
stay on‑trend. Sure, we love to splurge     that they may not do otherwise. “I think        and dreary days of the COVID-19
on an investment piece every now and        people are more relaxed behind a                pandemic. I predict there will be a
then, but if you’re looking to add a bit    computer.” They don’t have to worry             desire for creativeness, as people get
of newness to your wardrobe there are       about getting sick or waiting in lines for      tired of sweatpants and activewear,
plenty of affordable options to keep your   stores that have number restrictions.           but designers won’t forsake lounge
outfits current without sacrificing your    There is no rush or distractions.
                                                                                            wear completely. I believe designers are
wallet or style.
                                            Affordable Styles For You, post’s several       thinking about comfort and how to build
Affordable Styles For You, is an online     times a day on the boutique’s platforms         it into your everyday wardrobe. This
boutique in Asheville, NC, that offers      and constantly updates their website            will be a trend that we will see. Faux
trendy, stylish, yet comfy clothing         with the latest trends and sales. This          leather, statement jackets, 70’s inspired
ranging from S–3Xl. It is owned by          reminds people that they are here and           fashion, and luxe house slippers that
Athena Silver and has been a huge           want to be your go to for affordable            can go from house wear to outerwear
passion of hers since 2018. Athena          clothing. They also have numerous other         is in the forecast. I am most excited for
said it was all about strategically using   items such as shoes, accessories, and           the shade of bubble gum pink to make
social media and her website to reach       jewelry. You can shop anytime on their
                                                                                            its reappearance.
her customers. Luckily with Facebook,       website as well as their Facebook page.
Instagram and now TikTok, people all        Athena enjoys going live on Facebook            COVID took so much of 2020, so here is
over the world can shop the latest trends   three times a week to show you the latest       to 2021! Affordable Styles for You, wants
at affordable prices.                       products and sales. She also makes sure         you to show up, dress up, and let’s make
                                            to talk about the fit of the garment, so        it a good year. Let your style represent
Athena has benefited socially as well, by
                                            you do not have to worry about an item          who you are, and don’t be afraid to step
increasing her social media presence.
                                            not being true to size.                         out of the box and get creative with your
“I really enjoy it, I have made good
connections with customers,” she said.      Looking ahead to 2021, The Pantone              wardrobe. Let your body be a canvas
She also believes one of the reasons for    Color Institute has released its annual         and show your art. If it makes you feel
her success, is that people have become     fashion color trend and these colors            good and smile, wear it and own it!

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CONNECTING
                               W I T H O U T E X P E C TAT I O N
THE POWER OF GRATITUDE                          We are the most connected society, yet     communities can encourage us when
                                                most disconnected. We think we are         we are down and give us the strength to
AND RELATIONSHIPS
                                                connected by social media, however,        deal with life along the way. I know that
IN OUR LIVES                                    how deep are those relationships?          my Rotary Family keeps me connected
Do you want happiness? Deepen and show          It is when we deepen these relationships   to community and those relationships
gratitude for your relationships personally     that the magic happens. How can we         are priceless. Who is your family outside
and professionally and happiness will find      deepen relationships and have a happier    of family?
you. Happiness is within you when you           life? Showing Gratitude and love for       Why don’t more people nurture
develop gratitude as a habit.                   our connections. Being aware of the        relationships and make sure they
The more closely we are connected               relationship and taking inventory of       appreciate others? In my opinion, it
to the people we love, the happier we           people in our lives that mean something    is that they are not consciously aware
feel and the more personal satisfaction         to us. Also, choosing to give gratitude    of connection and gratitude seems
we have in our lives. Most people rate          without expectation. Showing gratitude     too simple to make such an impact.
moments of connection and shared                and love without an agenda.                When you become aware of gratitude
enjoyment with their loved ones as their        These important relationships not only     and connections it is hard to unlearn
most important life experiences.                include family and personal friends        what needs to happen to make that
Love and connection do not just                 but communities we belong to and           relationship even deeper. Once you
happen, you need be aware and choose            professional relationships. Forming        are aware, making gratitude a habit
action. Gratitude and Love are choices          connections and a sense of community       becomes your character and how you
we make. We choose to be grateful;              with work colleagues, neighbors and the    show up in the world and to others.
we choose to be connected to others.            various groups that make up our identity   Choosing grateful over grumpy is
How are you choosing connection?                all contribute to our well-being. These    your choice.

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BEING AWARE                                     Choose Gratitude: Relationships                   away, collect your thoughts and then
                                                are nurtured by frequent displays of              engage at a higher energy level, such
OF RELATIONSHIPS                                                                                  as gratitude. Being aware of your energy
                                                gratitude. Whether these are simply
AND GRATITUDE                                                                                     level when you are communicating is an
                                                kind words of thanks to an important
                                                                                                  amazing skill.
The two major challenges in                     colleague, a gift to an important
maintaining close personal relationships        friend, affection with your partner or            Forgiveness: All relationships at some
are neglecting the relationship and not         a reassuring hug for a child, everyone            point will need forgiveness. If you hold
showing appreciation intentionally.                                                               onto anger or disappointment it only
                                                needs to be appreciated and nurtured
Being consistent in your relationship                                                             hurts you. One of my favorite quotes is
                                                in close relationships.                           holding onto anger is like you drinking
nurturing personally and professionally
                                                                                                  poison and hoping the other person dies.
will change your life!
                                                                                                  Let go of anger, be grateful for the lesson
What are some ways we can deepen                   We need connection.                            and choose forgiveness. In the long
the relationships in our lives?                    It is one of our six                           run, anger only hurts your life not the
Be present: I am so guilty of this, ask            universal human needs.                         other person.
my husband. Put your phone down, be
                                                                 – Tony Robbins
present with the ones you love. Make
sure they know you appreciate and
care about them. This does not happen           Listen Actively: Taking time to
overnight, you become aware and then            understand the other person’s point
you choose to put the phone down and            of view is key to connecting with that
actively listen and BE PRESENT.                 person. You can also repeat what they
Take time: Spend quality time with              say so that you can confirm that you
your friends, family and important              understood their meaning.
relationships. Be sure to map it out on a       Learn to communicate: Learn to                             Kim Angeli
                                                                                                  written by
calendar so the time does not slip away         communicate in a loving and positive              CEO & Founder of Grateful Box®
from you. Life is so fast and fleeting          way. If you are feeling angry, walk               KimAngeli.com

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Finally!
            A Beautiful Dress for So Much Less
Candler Budget Bridal Shoppe                been. Now over 9 years in business and     regardless of their budget should be
was opened by Miss Carol and Linda,         we have made a lot of customers happy.”    able to afford their own dream dress.
because of a dream that Miss Carol had                                                 Miss Carol and Linda say we have a
                                            Candler Budget Bridal Shoppe, has a
over 30 years ago. Miss Carol’s dream,                                                 dress for everyone and have dedicated
                                            thorough process, to help brides-to-be
along with her and Linda’s many years
                                            determine which dress is the one. Carol    ourselves to providing beautiful dresses
of business experience, made the dream
                                            and Linda want each bride to be 100%       and gowns, at reasonable prices, here in
became a reality.
                                            satisfied with their choice. If there is   the Asheville area.
The dream began 30 years ago, when          even a bit of hesitation, they will ask
Carol Davis’ daughter picked out a dress                                               Candler Budget Bridal Shoppe,
                                            the bride to pause, go home and think
that they couldn’t afford. Carol had                                                   continues to thrive and provide the very
                                            about it.
saved money for this dress, but it wasn’t                                              best in selection, customer service and
enough and they both left the store         If you are looking for a personalized      affordability. They have over 500 new
crying. This planted the seed for a shop    experience, from people who value who      dresses from top designers, in sizes 4-26
that offered beautiful but affordable       you truly are, Candler Budget Bridal       that are $400-$1000. Veils, belts and
wedding dresses. Carol says, “I wanted      Shoppe, is the place to go. Before any
                                                                                       other accessories are also available at
to make sure, that no bride left my shop    bride walks out the door, they will make
                                                                                       great prices.
crying, because she couldn’t afford the     sure that you feel validated, empowered
dress of her dreams and what a joy it has   and special. They believe that everyone,   Finally – a beautiful dress for so much less!

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