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   VOL. 10

  Happy & sweet new year!
Belle et douce nouvelle année!
Happy & sweet new year! Belle et douce nouvelle année!
The future of the
Jewish Community is
in your hands.
What aspect of Jewish life do you cherish
most—learning, community, worship, caring
for those in need or social justice? Whatever
you care about most, by leaving a legacy you
ensure the things you value are sustained for
future generations.
We are so pleased to announce that we have now reached our second
milestone goal of an additional 18 donors! Thank you to those that have
pledged to leave a legacy to Temple: David Abramson, Aaron Akerman, Fadi
Aoudi, Stephanie Chabot, Robert Davis, Shellie Ettinger, Arlene Fels, Louise
Dery-Goldberg and Joel Goldberg, Denise Grossman and Steven Klempner,
Rabbi Lisa and Shelley Grushcow, Robert Heckler, Andrew and Yvonne
Koenig , Jewel Lowenstein, Mindy Mayman, Judy Mendelsohn, Dr. Barbara
Morningstar, Corey and Tiffany Phelps, Eileen Ramos Segal and Joel Segal,
Maurice and Lise Shriqui, Melissa Shriqui, Brahms E. Silver, Michael Tinkler,
Lee-Anne Torrens, Jonathan Wener, Neil Wiener, Susan Greenberg, and several
anonymous donors.

What is LIFE & LEGACY?
Life & Legacy is a partnership between the Harold Grinspoon Foundation
(HGF) and Temple Emanu-El-Beth Sholom that promotes after-lifetime giving.

Why participate?
Making a provision for Temple in your will or estate will leave a legacy for
future generations ensuring that the traditions and institutions that mean
so much to you today will exist for
tomorrow.

contact:
LifeLegacy@templemontreal.ca or
514-937-3575 ext. 208
Happy & sweet new year! Belle et douce nouvelle année!
September/October/November/December 2022
                                            Elul 5782/Tishrei/Cheshvan/Kislev/Tevet 5783

                                               Senior Rabbi                      Officers 2022-2023
In This Issue                                  Lisa J. Grushcow, D. Phil
                                               rabbigrushcow@templemontreal.ca
                                                                                 President
2 | LIFE & LEGACY                                                                Neil Weiner
8 | From the Rabbi’s Study                     Associate Rabbi and Director of   president2019@templemontreal.ca
10 | President’s Message                       Education
                                                                                 Immediate Past President
                                               Lillian Kowalski                  Susan Greenberg
SPIRITUAL ENGAGEMENT                           rabbikowalski@templemontreal.ca
4 | Shabbat Services Live                                                        First Vice-Presidents
5 | High Holy Days at Temple 2022/5783 Rabbi Emeritus                            David Moll
10 | Just Between Us - Rabbi Lerner            Leigh  Lerner
                                                                                 Susyn Borer
                                               rabbilerner@templemontreal.ca Stephen Schneider
COMMUNITY
                                               Executive Director
13 | News from our Associate Rabbi and                                           Treasurer
                                               Shellie Ettinger
		 Director of Education                                                         Michael Tinkler
16 | Temple Means Music                        shellie@templemontreal.ca
17 | Truth and Reconciliation                  Rabbis' Assistant                 Honourary Secretary
21 | Caring Cooks                              Aliza Perez                       Nancy Maklan
22 | Member Connections                        aliza@templemontreal.ca           Board of Trustees 2022-2023
30 | Next Dor: Temple's Young Adult Group                                        Aaron Akerman
      MoFTY: Temple’s Youth Group              Director of Community  Engagement Sam Berliner
31 | Temple Connect                            Sari Roston                       Jake Brock
33 | Bulletin Notices                          sari@templemontreal.ca            Stephanie Chabot
34 | Aron Museum                               Director of Marketing and         Maggie Jacobs
35 | Temple Together                           Communications                    Gloria Mintz
                                               Marci Stepak                      Jesse Prupas
LEARNING AND GROWTH                                                              A.J. Rubineau
18 | Land Acknowledgement                      marci@templemontreal.ca
                                                                                 Jordanna Vamos
20 | Kugel Club                                Music Director                    Shellie Ettinger
23 | Open Doors institute for Judaism          Rona Nadler                       Rabbi Lillian Kowalski
25 | Shabbat Specials                          rona@templemontreal.ca            Rabbi Lisa Grushcow
30 | Equity, Diversity and Inclusion at Temple
                                               Accounting                        Honourary Trustees
TEMPLE FAMILY                                  Emma Cohen                        David Abramson
36 | B’nei Mitzvah                             emma@templemontreal.ca            Denise Grossman
39 | Weddings                                                                    Stephen Yaffe
40 | New Members                               Administrative Assistant
		 Temple Gift Shop                            Adela Muszynska
41 | Special Birthdays                         adela@templemontreal.ca
      Milestone Anniversaries
                                               Administrative Assistant          The Voice
42 | Donations
                                               Rosie Zizek
48 | Yahrzeits                                                                   Committee
49 | Yizkor                                    rosie@templemontreal.ca
50 | Cemetery                                                                    Editor
                                               Food Services
                                                                                 Marci Stepak
                                               Maria Leszuzynska
                                                                                 Associate Editor
                                               Building Manager
                                                                                 Steve Robins
                                               Ricky Muise
                                               ricky@templemontreal.ca
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Happy & sweet new year! Belle et douce nouvelle année!
spiritual engagement

    Shabbat Services Live
    As we transition back to hybrid services (both in person and online), we invite you
    to visit our website for the most up-to-date information to keep you connected to
    Temple.

    Upcoming Services
     Shabbat                                        Festivals
    EREV SHABBAT EVENING SERVICE                   See full details on page 5
    Fridays I 7:45 PM
    September 2*, 9, 16, 23, 30
    October 7*, 14, 21, 28,
    November 4*, 11, 18, 25
                                                    Rosh Chodesh
    December 2*, 9, 16, 23, 30                     Join us for a short morning service, including
    *Please note for these dates, the 7:45 PM      Hallel and Kaddish, to celebrate the
    service will be online only.                   beginning of the new Hebrew month. These
    SHABBAT MORNING SERVICE                        services are online only, unless otherwise
    Saturdays I 10:15 AM                           noted.
    September 3, 10, 17, 24                        Rosh Chodesh Cheshvan
    October 1, 8, 15, 22, 29                       Tuesday, October 25th l 9:00 AM
    November 5, 12, 19, 26
    December 3, 10, 17, 24, 31                     Rosh Chodesh Kislev
                                                   Thursday, November 24th l 9:00 AM
    FAMILY-FRIENDLY FIRST FRIDAY IN THE PARK       Rosh Chodesh Tevet
    (weather permitting; otherwise in the          Saturday, December 24th l 10:15 AM
    Sanctuary)
    Fridays l 5:45 PM                              Torah Study
    September 2                                    Saturdays | 9:00 AM
    October 7
                                                   Please see details on page 23
    November 4
    December 2
    (Please note for these dates the regular       Étude de la Torah en français
    7:45 PM service will be online only)           Dimanche l 9h
                                                   Voir les détails à la page 23

        Sponsor our services
       Please consider supporting Temple in
      maintaining the technology required to
      stay in touch with our community as we
      continue to offer our services, programs
      and activities in a hybrid form. Your gift
      will go a long way in helping Temple to
     maintain these offerings. You can make an
         online donation on our website at
     templemontreal.ca/general-donations or
     by calling Rosie at 514-937-3575 ext. 213.
     Temple thanks the generosity of all of our
                technology sponsors.

4           The Voice • Hakol                           September - december 2022
Happy & sweet new year! Belle et douce nouvelle année!
spiritual engagement

High Holy Days at Temple
2022/5783
Lisa J. Grushcow, D. Phil., Senior Rabbi and Lillian kowalski, associate rabbi
Joseph Kaiser, Cantorial Soloist, and Rona Nadler, Music Director
This High Holy Day Season, we welcome you to rejoin us in our Sanctuary – or connect from home.
As we enter our third High Holy Days during Covid-19, we know that it is impossible to predict
what the situation in the fall may be. However, thanks to the commitment and generosity of our
members, we are ready for any eventuality. Our services will be in keeping with government
regulations, the guidance of our medical advisors, and the values we share.
At the time of writing, we plan on hybrid services, which will be accessible both in person and
online. If your situation permits, we encourage you to experience the beauty of our services in our
Temple home, and the joy of coming together as a community in person. But whatever you decide,
rest assured that Temple is here for you, and your presence and participation matter.
Please be sure to read Temple communications in the fall for any updates.
L’shanah tovah tikateivu v’techateimu – may we be written and sealed for a good year.

SELICHOT                                           Shofar & Tashlich in the Park (open to all)
Saturday, September 17, 2022                       – Westmount Park Pond
Havdalah, program and services in                    with Rabbi Grushcow, 3:30 PM
Sanctuary and online (open to all) at              – Pierre Elliott Trudeau Park
8:00 PM                                              with Rabbi Grushcow, CSL, 5:00 PM**
                                                     Meet by the Shalom Bloom Sculpture
EREV ROSH HASHANAH                                   Garden
Sunday, September 25, 2022
Services in Sanctuary (members and guest           CEMETERY VISITS AND MEMORIAL
ticket holders) and online (open to all)           SERVICES
Services 7:45 PM                                   An opportunity to visit our cemeteries
Erev Rosh Hashanah Dinner                          and say communal and individual prayers.
See details on page 6                              Sunday, October 2, 2022
                                                   Mount Royal, Temple section 11:00 AM
ROSH HASHANAH DAY ONE                              Lakeview, Beaconsfield 12:30 PM
Monday, September 26, 2022                         Eternal Gardens, Beaconsfield 1:00 PM
Family Experience in the Park/                     Kehal Israel, D.D.O. 2:00 PM
Sanctuary (open to all), 9:00 - 9:45 AM
                                                   KOL NIDRE
Services in Sanctuary and online
                                                   Tuesday, October 4, 2022
(members and guest ticket holders),
                                                   Services in Sanctuary (members and
10:30 AM
                                                   guest ticket holders) and online (open
Shofar & Tashlich in the Park (open to all)        to all), 7:45 PM
– Westmount Park Pond
  with Rabbi Grushcow, 2:30 PM                     YOM KIPPUR
– Westmount Park Pond                              Wednesday, October 5, 2022
  with Rabbi Kowalski, 3:30 PM                     Family Experience in the Park/
– Edgewater Park in Pointe-Claire                  Sanctuary (open to all), 9:00 - 9:45 AM
  with Rabbi Grushcow, 4:00 PM                     Services in Sanctuary (members
                                                   and guest ticket holders) and online
ROSH HASHANAH DAY TWO                              (members and guest ticket holders),
Tuesday, September 27, 2022                        10:30 AM
Services in Sanctuary (open to all) and
online (open to all), 10:30 AM                     Afternoon learning, 2:30 PM:
                                                   Nina Segalowitz in conversation with

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Happy & sweet new year! Belle et douce nouvelle année!
spiritual engagement
    Eva Kuper, on Identity and Soul-                SHEMINI ATZERET/SIMCHAT TORAH
    Searching (Sanctuary) (See bio below)           Sunday, October 16, 2022
    Rabbi Lerner on Themes of                       Simchat Torah Celebration in Sanctuary
    Repentance (online)                             (open to all), 5:45 PM
    Afternoon Service in the Sanctuary and online
                                                    Monday, October 17, 2022
    (members and guest ticket holders) 3:30 PM
                                                    Services in Sanctuary and online,
    Time for contemplation before the Ark
                                                    including Yizkor (open to all), 10:15 AM
    in the Sanctuary (members and guest
    ticket holders), 4:30 PM                        Please refer to our COVID-19
    5:15 PM Roll of Remembrance display             guidelines on page 12 before entering
    in Sanctuary                                    the Temple. If you are feeling unwell,
                                                    please stay home. We wish everyone a
    Yizkor and Ne’ilah in the Sanctuary
                                                    happy, healthy 5782.
    and online (members and guest ticket
    holders) 5:30 PM

    SUKKOT
    Monday, October 10, 2022
    Services in Sanctuary and online (open
    to all), 10:15 AM
    Pizza in the Hut, 5:00 - 7:00 PM

       Erev Rosh Hashanah
       Share the New Year with your Temple family.
       Join us on Sunday, September 25th at 6:00 PM
       for a sit-down dinner.
       Cost
       Members: Adults $60; Children $20 (10 and under)
       Friends of Temple*: Adults $70; Children $25;
       full-time students $40 (with ID)
       A minimum of 50 registrants will be required so
       pre-registration is mandatory; tickets must be
       purchased by Friday, September 9th at 2:00 PM
       and will be required for entry.
       To register, please contact Rosie at
       rosie@templemontreal.ca or 514-937-3575 ext.213
       Please refer to our COVID-19 policy to ensure a
       safe evening for all: page 12
       *Please note that to qualify for Friends of
       Temple pricing, you must also purchase a guest
       ticket for High Holy Day services.

                            Nina Segalowitz is an Inuvialuit /Chipweyan from Fort Smith, NWT.
                            She is a proud mother of three. A 60s Scoop Survivor, Nina graduated
                            from Concordia University with a Bachelor’s Degree in Applied
                            Human Sciences, a DEP in accounting and a DEP in Social Work.
                            She has dedicated her entire career to working with the Indigenous
                            community, especially with victims of violence, and is currently a
                            cultural consultant for the Canadian Armed Forces, the Montreal
                            Police Force as well as many universities and schools.
                            Nina is a multi-talented artist. An accomplished throat singer,
                            drummer and cellist, Nina has performed all over the world including
                            recently an impromptu performance with musician Bobby McFerrin.

6           The Voice • Hakol                             September - december 2022
Happy & sweet new year! Belle et douce nouvelle année!
spiritual engagement

 Simchat Torah
 Sunday, October 16, 2022
 5:00 PM – dinner for Consecration families
 5:45 PM – Simchat Torah service and celebration, including Consecration of
 our new Torah School students – come welcome our new students, dance
 with and celebrate our Torah, and help our upcoming B’nei Mitzvah students
 begin their journey!
 7:00 PM – B’nei Mitzvah family program series opener (dinner included)

                     Mission and Vision
 As the sole Reform synagogue in Montreal and Eastern Canada, our
                tent is open to all who wish to enter.
     DEDICATED: We draw on Judaism’s wisdom to nourish a spiritual,
 educational, and cultural community. We also reach beyond our walls, taking
 pride in building bridges, promoting dialogue, and creating a world of justice
                   and peace – the work we call Tikkun Olam.
DYNAMIC: We believe that Judaism evolves from generation to generation.
    Inspired by our traditions, we embrace change; we question, and seek
  meaningful answers. In this way, our community is both timeless and timely.
DIVERSE: We know that we are better together, and we see our diversity as
a blessing. We value accessibility, inclusion and integrity. We continue to grow
a community which embraces Jews by birth, Jews by choice, and all those who
                                 support them.

           Notre mission et nos valeurs
En tant que seule synagogue réformée de Montréal et de l’est du Canada,
   nos portes sont ouvertes à celles et ceux qui souhaitent les franchir.

Dévouement : Nous puisons dans la sagesse du judaïsme afin d’enrichir la
 communauté sur le plan spirituel, éducatif et culturel. Nous allons également
  au-delà de nos murs et sommes fiers d’établir des ponts, de promouvoir le
   dialogue et de créer un monde de justice et de paix – un travail que nous
                appelons Tikkoun Olam (réparation du monde).

 Dynamisme : Nous pensons que le judaïsme évolue au fil des générations.
 Inspirés par nos traditions, nous accueillons le changement; nous remettons
   en cause et recherchons des réponses pleines de sens. Ce faisant, notre
            communauté est à la fois éternelle et toujours actuelle.

   Diversité : Nous savons que nous sommes bien meilleurs lorsque nous
 sommes ensemble et notre diversité est pour nous synonyme de bénédiction.
   Nous valorisons l’accessibilité, l’inclusion et l’intégrité. Nous continuons à
grandir en tant que communauté accueillant les Juifs de naissance, les Juifs par
               choix et toutes les personnes qui les soutiennent.

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Happy & sweet new year! Belle et douce nouvelle année!
From the
    Rabbi's Study
    F  all is my favourite season. I love the smell of the air,
       the colours of the leaves, the return to school, and
    yes, pumpkin spice latte. But I’ve tried to spend as much
    time outside as possible this summer, and I’ve gained a
    new appreciation of that season as well. The robins built a
    nest under our porch and hatched three clutches of eggs,
    and we’ve been growing raspberries in the backyard (to be fair, Shelley is doing the
    gardening – but I’m really good at picking and eating!). What I’ve loved the most,
    though, is seeing the beauty and persistence of things growing all around me. The
    pepper plants that grow back even after a raid by the squirrels. The mint plants
    that remind me of Israel. Even the weeds that grow up between the stones of the
    patio, pushing them out of place. It is amazing how much things grow.
      This has also been clear to me at Temple. Summer is usually fairly quiet here,
    but not this year. Instead, we have had an abundance of simchas. People coming
    here to get married or to become bar/bat mitzvah, sometimes from all over the
    world. Shabbat services starting to repopulate our Sanctuary, with regulars and
    newcomers alike. No one takes the ability to gather for granted, and it is good to
    see each other face to face. Hineh mah tov u-mah na’im, shevet achim bam yachad
    – how good and how pleasant it is, when brothers and sisters sit together. This
    song feels true in new ways.
       We are also thriving as a Temple team. It’s been a joy to welcome Rabbi Lillian
    Kowalski to our clergy team as Associate Rabbi and Director of Education. I
    encourage you to get to know her, as she takes the helm of our Torah School and
    Introduction to Judaism program, and brings her enthusiastic, inspiring presence
    to our bimah. We are fortunate that she has chosen to put down roots here in
    Montreal. Aliza Perez is the new assistant in the rabbis’ study, and has brought
    a wonderful calm and competence to our work; I hope you’ll get to know her as
    well. And the rest of our professional and lay leadership continue to work with
    dedication, commitment, and purpose, to help our community flourish. You will see
    in these pages all the opportunities that Temple is offering for you to come and (re)
    connect, either in person or online.
      At an unveiling this summer, I spoke with a bereaved spouse who said, “I’m not
    moving on. I’m moving forward.” This is good wisdom for the times we are in. Many
    have suffered losses over the past two and a half years of the Covid pandemic: the
    loss of loved ones, the loss of health, the loss of opportunities, the loss of time.
    The challenges are not over, and we remain vigilant in taking care of ourselves and
    one another. At the same time, we are finding ways to move forward. To be back in
    person for those who can. To keep our hybrid model for all who need it, whether
    they live in another country or around the corner. I encourage you to stretch your
    wings, just like those fledgling robins. Test your comfort zones. Return to what
    matters to you, as much as you are able. Come home to Temple. Take this new
    season, and this New Year, as an opportunity to grow.
        Shanah tovah u’metukah – from my family to yours, I wish you a sweet, happy,
                                                              and healthy New Year.
                                                                  Rabbi Lisa Grushcow

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Happy & sweet new year! Belle et douce nouvelle année!
Tiré de
l'étude du rabbine
L  'automne est sans aucun doute ma saison préférée. J'adore la fraîcheur de l'air,
   les couleurs des feuilles, la rentrée des classes, et aussi, je l'avoue volontiers, le
latte à la citrouille épicée. Cet été, j'ai tout de même essayé de passer autant de
temps que possible à l'extérieur, et j'ai également appris à apprécier autrement
cette saison. Les merles ont construit un nid sous notre porche et ont pondu trois
couvées, nous avons fait pousser des framboises dans notre cour arrière (pour être
honnête, Shelley s’occupe du jardinage; et de mon côté, je suis particulièrement
douée pour la cueillette et la dégustation!). Ce que j'ai aimé le plus, cependant,
est de voir la beauté et la ténacité de tout ce qui peut pousser autour de moi. Les
poivriers qui repoussent, même après avoir été attaqués par une horde d'écureuils.
Les feuilles de menthe qui me rappellent Israël. Même les mauvaises herbes qui
poussent entre les roches du patio et qui arrivent à les déloger. C'est incroyable de
voir comment tout pousse.
  J'ai également eu le même sentiment au Temple. La saison estivale est plutôt
calme ici, mais pas cette année. Au lieu de cela, nous avons partagé de nombreuses
simchas. Des personnes sont venues pour se marier, ou pour célébrer leur bar/
bat mitzvah, parfois en provenance des quatre coins du monde. Les services
du Chabbat commencent à remplir notre Sanctuaire, avec des habitués et des
nouveaux venus. Plus personne ne prend la possibilité de se réunir comme un fait
acquis, et il est bon de se retrouver enfin face à face. Hineh mah tov ou-mah na’im,
shevet achim bam yachad – comme il est bon et agréable, lorsque des frères et des
sœurs sont assis ensemble. Cette chanson est vraie à bien des égards.
  Nous nous épanouissons également en tant qu'équipe au Temple. Ce fut un réel
plaisir d'accueillir la Rabbine Lillian Kowalski au sein de notre cercle religieux en
tant que Rabbine associée et Directrice de l'éducation. Je vous encourage à aller
à sa rencontre, puisqu'elle prendra la tête de notre école de Torah ainsi que de
notre programme d'introduction au judaïsme, et qu'elle apportera sa présence
enthousiaste et inspirante à notre bimah. Nous sommes chanceux qu'elle ait choisi
de se fixer ici, à Montréal. Aliza Perez est la nouvelle assistante dans le cadre des
études rabbiniques et a su apporter son incroyable calme et ses compétences à
notre travail; j'espère également que vous ferez sa connaissance. Et le reste de
nos responsables professionnels et laïcs continuent à travailler avec dévouement,
engagement et détermination pour aider notre communauté à se renforcer.
Vous pourrez voir dans ces quelques pages toutes les occasions que le Temple
met à votre disposition pour venir vous connecter ou vous reconnecter, que vous
choisissiez de le faire en personne ou en ligne.
  Lors d'une inauguration cet été, j'ai parlé à une épouse endeuillée qui m'a dit
« Je n'avance pas, je vais de l'avant. » Il s'agit de paroles de sagesse à l'époque
dans laquelle nous vivons. Bon nombre d’entre nous ont subi de lourdes pertes au
cours de ces deux années et demie de pandémie de Covid : perte d'êtres chers,
perte de santé, perte d'opportunités, perte de temps. De nombreux défis nous
attendent encore, et nous devons faire preuve de vigilance en prenant soin de
nous-mêmes et des autres. En même temps, nous trouvons des manières d'aller
de l'avant. Nous revenons en personne pour ceux qui le peuvent. Nous conservons
notre modèle hybride pour celles et ceux qui en ont besoin, qu’ils ou elles habitent
dans un autre pays, ou au coin de la rue. Je vous encourage à déployer vos ailes,
tout comme ces merles naissants. Sortez de vos zones de confort. Revenez à ce qui
compte pour vous, autant que vous le pouvez. Revenez au Temple. Prenez cette
nouvelle saison et cette nouvelle année comme une occasion de grandir.
    Chana tova oumetouka – de ma famille à la vôtre, je vous souhaite une belle et
                                                              douce année en santé.
                                                             Rabbine Lisa Grushcow

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President's
 Message
 O    ur building has reopened and in-person activities
      have resumed, including Shabbat services. It is
 wonderful to see Temple members and others in our
 beautiful sanctuary after a hiatus of two years. Temple
 is doing everything to make sure that these activities
 are carried out in a safe and secure environment. Even
 with the building reopened, many members continue to
 participate in Shabbat services and other Temple events online. This may well be
 the new “normal” for Temple, services and events presented both in-person and
 online – the hybrid model.
   Using the hybrid model, Temple continues to offer a wide variety of religious,
 educational and social programs, as is more than evident from this issue of The Voice.
 I hope Temple members join in these activities, whether in person or online.
  My sincere thanks to the many members who volunteer their time and to all who
 support Temple with their generous donations. My wife Sylvi and I convey our best
 wishes to you for the High Holidays.

 Le message du Président
 N   otre édifice a rouvert et les activités en personne ont repris, y compris nos
     services du Chabbat. C’est un sentiment formidable de voir les membres du
 Temple et d’autres dans notre magnifique Temple après deux années d’interruption.
 Le Temple fait tout son possible afin de s’assurer que ces activités sont menées
 dans un environnement sûr et sécuritaire. Même avec la réouverture de notre édifice,
 de nombreux membres continuent à participer aux services du Chabbat ainsi que
 d’autres événements organisés par le Temple en ligne. Ceci pourrait bien devenir la
 nouvelle « normalité », à savoir, des services et des événements offerts à la fois en
 personne et en ligne, un modèle hybride en quelque sorte.
 En utilisant le modèle hybride, le Temple continue à offrir une large variété de
 programmes religieux, éducatifs et sociaux, comme vous pourrez le constater dans
 ce numéro de La Voix (The Voice). J’espère que les membres du Temple se joindront
 à ces activités, que cela se passe en personne ou en ligne.
 J’adresse mes sincères remerciements aux nombreux membres qui ont donné de
 leur temps et à tous ceux qui ont soutenu le Temple par leurs généreux dons. Mon
 épouse Sylvi et moi-même vous transmettons nos meilleurs vœux à l’occasion des
 Grandes Fêtes.

                                                                      Neil Wiener
                                                  President2019@templemontreal.ca

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spiritual engagement

                      Just Between Us
                      Rabbi Leigh Lerner
                      rabbi Emeritus, Temple

In Israel, where the Sea of Galilee is a critical source of water, the prayer for rain is
 taken especially seriously. But not in July. Indeed, from the Seder until the end of
Sukkot, the prayer is only for dew. Why? Because Israel really only has two seasons:
wet and dry, and those “dew” boundaries pretty much describe the dry season
when the best you can hope for is a few drops of water on the plants. Our tradition
teaches that we pray for rain when it’s possible to have it in Israel, during fall and
winter, but certainly not in summer. What does this mean?
 It means we pray for what is possible, not totally impossible. So here come the
High Holidays and Sukkot, times when Jews go to services en masse or Zoom into
them. During those unique days when we examine our deeds and our lives, let
us focus our prayers on what is possible: for example, small improvements in our
relationships with others, not miraculous leaps forward; a little less complaining
and a little more thankfulness; make a habit of one mitzvah that helps another
person; give yourself two weeks to break a bad habit and see if it works, give a bit
more Tzedakah this year than last, and so on. Pray to do what is possible, and you
may find that more happiness rains down upon you and others, too, regardless of
the season.
 Loren and I send our warm wishes that your 5783 be for you and yours the best
year possible. Shana tova.
                                                                   Rabbi Leigh Lerner

Rien qu’entre nous
E   n Israël, la mer de Galilée représente une source d’eau essentielle, la prière
    pour la pluie est particulièrement prise au sérieux. Mais pas au mois de juillet.
En effet, du Seder jusqu’à la fin de Souccot, la prière n’est mentionnée que pour
la rosée. Pourquoi? Parce qu’en Israël, il n’y a en réalité que deux saisons, l’une
humide, l’autre sèche, et les limites de la saison « humide » décrivent assez bien
la saison sèche où le mieux que vous pouvez espérer est quelques gouttes d’eau
sur les plantes. Notre tradition nous enseigne de prier pour la pluie lorsqu’il est
possible de l’avoir en Israël, durant l’automne et l’hiver, mais certainement pas en
été. Qu’est-ce que cela veut dire?
   Cela signifie que nous prions pour ce qui est possible, pas totalement
impossible. Ainsi les Grandes Fêtes et Souccot arrivent, des moments où les Juifs
se réunissent en nombre pour assister aux services religieux ou sur Zoom. Durant
ces jours si uniques, lorsque nous examinons nos actes et nos vies, concentrons
nos prières sur ce qui est possible : par exemple, de petites améliorations dans nos
relations avec les autres, et non des bonds miraculeux en avant; un peu moins de
lamentations et un peu plus de reconnaissance; prendre l’habitude d’une mitzvah
qui aide une autre personne; se donner deux semaines pour se défaire d’une
mauvaise habitude et voir si cela fonctionne, donner un peu plus de Tsedaka cette

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spiritual engagement
 année que l’année dernière, etc. Priez pour réaliser ce qui est possible, et vous
 constaterez peut-être que plus de bonheur se déverse sur vous et sur les autres
 aussi, quelle que soit la saison.
   Loren et moi-même vous souhaitons nos vœux les plus chaleureux, puisse cette
 année 5783 être pour vous et vos proches la meilleure année possible. Chana Tova.

                                                                Rabbin Leigh Lerner

                                          We will be holding our 25th Annual Rosh
                                          Hashanah Food Drive to benefit MADA
                                          Community Services. The food drive will
                                          begin on Sunday, September 10th and run
                                          until Wednesday, October 5th. Large bins
                                          will be conveniently located at Temple’s side
                                          entrance near the office for you to drop off
                                          non-perishable items. Sturdy bags will also
                                          be available to take home and fill. The items
                                          most requested by local food banks are
                                          peanut butter, canned soups, canned fruit,
                                          canned fish and pasta. Items with the kosher
                                          symbol are preferred.

     TEMPLE’S GUIDELINES FOR
     IN-PERSON SERVICES
     In our ongoing effort to protect the health and safety of our members
     and guests, Temple will maintain the following COVID-19 policies:

     -Temple has lifted its proof of vaccination policy based on the
     advice of its medical experts – whereby vaccinations do not appear
     to prevent the acquisition of infection with the new variants – though
     we strongly recommend that all members and guests be vaccinated
     as a means to prevent severe disease, and continues to encourage
     our community to take a rapid antigen test before coming to Temple.

     -Masks are to be worn at all times, except when eating or drinking.
     Social distancing of at least one metre is to be observed in the
     sanctuary and elsewhere to the extent possible.

     -We ask that young children remain masked for as long as possible
     (we understand that this may be difficult!).

     Temple will continue to monitor developments and will make
     adjustments, as needed.

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                     News from our
                     Associate Rabbi and
                     Director of Education
                     Rabbi Lillian Kowalski
                     rabbikowalski@templemontreal.ca

D    During the interview process, I shared with some of you who attended
     meetings with me about Ron Wolfson and Bruce Powell’s new book Raising
A+ Human Beings: Crafting a Jewish School Culture of Academic Excellence and
AP Kindness. I was tickled to find that Ron Wolfson had spoken with the Temple
community about this very topic not long before I received my introduction here,
for in reading through this resource, I found a sense of kinship and camaraderie
with the words. Not everyone will be an outstanding student in all academic areas;
however, that is not my goal as an educator or as a rabbi. My goal is, though, to
raise these A+ human beings, people of good intention and foresight, who show
care for and concern about others and our communities, empathetic people who
can affect change in our world in big ways or small ones, through shared Jewish
experiences.
   As we prepare for a new year of learning and growth together, young and old
alike, we can see in the new year the opportunity to revitalize as we continue
traversing the on-going COVID-19 pandemic. With guidance from medical
professionals, staff, and lay leaders, we are hopeful that Torah School will resume
looking a bit more as it had before. We look forward to return of the din and
energy filling our classrooms again. We will also welcome a new Shinshinit from
Israel, Noga, to our community, who will be working with us this year. Adult
learning opportunities will continue in-person and online. There is something for
everyone at Temple here this fall! And this is only just the beginning!
   In musing on the upcoming start of the school year with a colleague and
friend, Danna Cohen, she shared: “While Judaism may say there are four New
Years throughout our calendar, we know that there is a fifth—the start of the
school year, which can be as fraught with excitement, anticipation, nervousness,
stress, and preparation as any other Jewish New Year, especially when you are
in a new place.” As your new Associate Rabbi and Director of Education, I felt
this observation keenly. These opportunities we have together in the next few
weeks and months will not just offer space for our minds to grow, but will also
cultivate connection and introduction to each other. I expect many more hellos
and welcomes as I continue to explore my new role with you.
                                                          Rabbi Lillian Kowalski
                                       Associate Rabbi and Director of Education

        In your 20s or 30s? Looking to find others at Temple?
         Watch this spot, and contact Rabbi Lillian Kowalski:
                 rabbikowalski@templemontreal.ca.

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community

 Nouvelles de notre
 Rabbine associée et
 Directrice de l’éducation
 Rabbin Lillian Kowalski
 rabbikowalski@templemontreal.ca

 A     u cours du processus d'entretien, j'ai parlé à certains d'entre vous qui ont assisté
       à des conférences avec moi du nouveau livre de Ron Wolfson et Bruce Powell
 intitulé : Raising A+ Human Beings: Crafting a Jewish School Culture of Academic
 Excellence and AP Kindness (Élever des êtres humains A+ : Créer une culture d'école
 juive d'excellence académique et de bonté). J'ai été ravie de découvrir que Ron
 Wolfson avait parlé de ce sujet à la communauté du Temple peu de temps avant
 que je ne sois introduite ici, car en lisant cette ressource, j'ai éprouvé un sentiment
 de parenté et de camaraderie dans les mots employés. Tout le monde ne sera pas un
 étudiant ou une étudiante d'exception dans tous les domaines académiques; mais
 il ne s'agit pas là de mon objectif en tant qu'éducatrice ou rabbine. Mon objectif
 est cependant d'élever ces êtres humains A+, des personnes bien intentionnées et
 clairvoyantes, qui se soucient des autres et de nos communautés, des personnes
 qui font preuve d'empathie et qui peuvent apporter des changements dans notre
 monde, petits ou grands, grâce à des expériences juives communes.
   Alors que nous nous préparons à une nouvelle année d'apprentissage et de
 croissance ensemble, jeunes et moins jeunes, nous pouvons voir dans la nouvelle
 année une occasion de nous redynamiser alors que nous continuons à traverser la
 pandémie de COVID-19, toujours d'actualité. Grâce aux conseils des professionnels
 de la santé, du personnel et des responsables laïcs, nous espérons que l'école de
 Torah reprendra un peu son aspect d'antan. Nous attendons avec impatience le
 retour du brouhaha et de l'énergie qui rempliront à nouveau nos salles de classe.
 Nous accueillerons également une nouvelle Shinshinit, Noga, au sein de notre
 communauté, qui travaillera avec nous cette année. Les occasions d'apprentissage
 destinées aux adultes se poursuivront en personne et en ligne. Nous avons quelque
 chose pour chacun et chacune cet automne au Temple! Et ce n'est qu'un début!
   En réfléchissant à la prochaine rentrée scolaire avec une collègue et amie,
 Danna Cohen, cette dernière m'a affirmé la chose suivante : « Bien que le
 judaïsme mentionne quatre Nouvel An dans notre calendrier, nous savons qu'il y
 en a un cinquième à le début de l'année scolaire, qui peut être tout aussi chargé
 d'excitation, d'anticipation, de nervosité, de stress et de préparation que n'importe
 quel autre Nouvel An juif, surtout lorsque vous vous trouvez dans un nouvel
 endroit ». En tant que nouvelle rabbine associée et directrice de l'éducation, j'ai
 pris cette observation très à cœur. Ces occasions que nous partagerons ensemble
 au cours des prochaines semaines et mois n'offriront pas seulement un cadre
 pour épanouir nos esprits, mais elles permettront également de cultiver la relation
 et la rencontre avec les autres. Je m'attends encore à de nombreux bonjour et
 bienvenue tandis que je continuerai à explorer mon nouveau rôle parmi vous.
                                                               Rabbi Lillian Kowalski
                                         Rabbine associée et Directrice de l’éducation

 Vous avez la vingtaine ou la trentaine? Vous cherchez à rencontrer
 d'autres personnes au Temple? Regardez ce message et contactez
  la Rabbine Lillian Kowalski : rabbikowalski@templemontreal.ca.

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   Welcome to our new Shinshin, Noga Yardeni
                   Born and raised in Gvaot Bar, a community village in
                   Bnei Shimon Regional Council, Noga graduated from
                   Mevoot Hanegev High School and majored in theatre,
                   communication, and radio.
                   Noga is an alumna of the Israeli Scouts and a former
                   member of the National Student Council.
                   She loves traveling, cooking, listening to music,
                   spending time with her friends and family, and learning
                   new things. Noga is assigned at Bialik High School,
                   Ecole Maimonide, and Temple Emanu-El-Beth Sholom
                   and will be part of the Hillel Cegep staff.
See more about Noga here: https://youtu.be/vxN1DThqMMg

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                       Temple Means Music!
                       Rona Nadler
                       Music Director
                       rona@templemontreal.ca

     Temple's Kol haNeshama Choir is back in person! The choir rehearses on
 Wednesday evenings and performs at a number of Shabbat and Festival services
 throughout the year. This year, we will also be preparing a new musical program
 of popular music to perform at seniors' homes throughout the city. We are also
 excited to be bringing back Temple's Shabbat Band! Over the years the band
 has brought together players of different ages and abilities, playing a variety of
 instruments including violin, clarinet, flute, guitar, mandolin, electric bass, and
 percussion.
   For more information about joining either of these ensembles, please contact
 rona@templemontreal.ca.

                          What Choir Means to Me:
                          A Voice from the Choir
                          by Temple Choir member Sophia Wolcowicz

                           Long before I sang in the Kol haNeshama choir, I
                          was a rapt fan of Temple’s exceptional music program.
                          Whether it was high holidays, festivals or services, the
                          melodies and prayers followed me home.
                             My husband Harry, and family felt the same way. On
     one occasion when heading back in the car from services, we sang Avinu
     Malkeinu. This was a special memory as our respective mothers were elderly
     and initiated singing this prayer together.
       Shortly after, we started to wonder what it would be like to lend our voices to
     choir. We immediately felt at ease with the camaraderie of fellow choir members
     and the joyful and dedicated leadership of our music director, Rona Nadler.
       Besides performing our growing repertoire, it has also been a treat to sing
     on the bima along with Temple Orchestra, Temple Quartet, renowned guest
     soloists and instrumental accompanists.
        The most significant thing I learned in choir is how to stay in tune not just
     with the melody but with the people around me from conductor to fellow
     singers and especially our congregants.
      When I see someone sing along or in peaceful contemplation, the spiritual
     warmth I feel is no different than the one I felt on that evening we sang Avinu
     Malkeinu.
       I am excited to continue this musical journey. Harry and I are looking
     forward to more wonderful concerts ahead!

     For out-of-town friends and relatives,
     The Voice can also be seen on our
     website at www.templemontreal.ca

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Truth and Reconciliation Committee

She:kon! The Truth and Reconciliation Committee accomplished a lot in its first
year! Fall and winter planning led to some stellar events from March to June,
beginning with our Land Acknowledgment ceremony, film screening, and guest
speaking in April and May. In June, a delegation joined the Spirit Walk for the
Native Women's Shelter of Montreal (our team raised $4k) and we took part
in an international art initiative with the installation of portraits of Indigenous
Montrealers on Temple's north-east wall. We have also set up a lending library,
and continued our contributions to Resilience (see Caring Cooks, p. 21). We
will also have the privilege of learning from Nina Segalowitz, in conversation
with committee member Eva Kuper, on Yom Kippur afternoon, and Suzanne
Keeptwo at Lunch Together on October 25. For next year we're hoping to meet
some Indigenous youth from Northern Quebec while they study in Montreal; to
engage Temple members with a literary challenge; to make more connections
with the Indigenous community and get more involved in an advocacy/allyship
project. If you would like to work with the committee, please drop a line at
trc@templemontreal.ca. Also see the Truth and Reconciliation page on our website:
https://www.templemontreal.ca/community/truth-and-reconciliation

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     To view the recording of our Land Acknowledgment, please visit our Vimeo
                       channel at vimeo.com/templemontreal

 Land Acknowledgement
 A      thousand years ago, The Great Peacemaker Rononhsionniton (He Extends the
        House) assembled the Five Nations Haudenosaunee (Iroquois) Confederacy.
 He taught that respect, peace, and the power of good minds lead to harmony for
 all living beings on Turtle Island. The Five Nations agreed to the symbolic Great
 Law of Peace, pledging to bury weapons and end war, make decisions through
 consensus, and share resources to benefit everyone within the Five Nations
 territory. The Kenien’kehá:ka Nation – the People of Flint stone and Keepers of the
 Eastern Door – were first among these Five Nations to accept this great message,
 and continue to be the keepers of this knowledge to this day.
   Two thousand years ago, our Rabbis taught the world is sustained by three
 things: Torah (teaching), emet (truth), and shalom (peace). We continue to live
 these values in this sacred space of our gathering. Coming from different times
 and places, our Jewish wisdom is in harmony with the wisdom of the Great Law of
 Peace. We share respect for the earth and for each other.
   The earliest treaties between First Nations and Europeans were a three-link
 chain of friendship, peace, and respect. Our Jewish ancestors came to this land as
 immigrants and refugees, long after those treaties were broken by Europeans. Yet
 we inherit a legacy in which the rights of the land’s original inhabitants have been
 denied. Our work of reconciliation therefore includes a rededication of our place
 on this island we know as Montreal:
      Known as Tiotià:ke, this land served as the ancestral home for the
      Haudenosaunee Confederacy. Today, it is also the home of our community,
      Temple Emanu-El-Beth Sholom. We acknowledge our presence on this
      unceded land of the Kenien’kehá:ka Nation, and our responsibility to the work
      of truth and reconciliation. As the contemporary custodians of this site, we
      commit ourselves to the treaty values of friendship, peace and respect from
      generation to generation.

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Reconnaissance des
terres
I y a de cela mille ans, le grand pacificateur Rononhsionniton (Il étend la maison) a
  réuni la confédération des Cinq Nations Haudenosaunee (Iroquois). Il a enseigné
que le respect, la paix et le pouvoir des esprits de bonne volonté conduisaient
à l’harmonie pour tous les êtres vivants sur l’île de la Tortue. Les Cinq Nations
ont adhéré à la symbolique Grande Loi de la Paix, s’engageant ainsi à enterrer
les armes et à mettre fin à la guerre, à prendre des décisions par consensus et à
partager les ressources pour le bien de tous sur le territoire des Cinq Nations. La
nation Kenien’kehá:ka – le peuple de la pierre à fusil et les gardiens de la porte de
l'Est – a été la première parmi les Cinq Nations à accepter ce grand message, et
elle continue d’être, jusqu’à ce jour, la gardienne de ce savoir.
   Il y a deux mille ans, nos rabbins ont enseigné que le monde reposait sur trois
piliers : Torah (enseignement), Emet (vérité) et Shalom (paix). Nous continuons à
vivre ces valeurs dans cet espace sacré de notre rassemblement. Venant d’époques
et de lieux différents, notre sagesse juive est en symbiose avec la sagesse de la
Grande Loi de la Paix. Nous partageons le respect de la terre et de l’autre.
  Les premiers traités entre les Premières nations et les Européens constituaient
une chaîne composée de trois maillons d’amitié, de paix et de respect. Nos
ancêtres juifs sont arrivés sur cette terre en tant qu’immigrants et réfugiés, bien
après que ces traités aient été rompus par les Européens. Pourtant, nous recevons
un héritage dans lequel les droits des premiers habitants de cette terre ont été
niés. Notre travail de réconciliation passe donc par une redéfinition de notre place
sur cette île que nous nommons Montréal :
     Connue sous le nom de Tiotià:ke, cette terre a servi de foyer ancestral à la
     confédération Haudenosaunee. Aujourd’hui, c’est aussi le foyer de notre
     communauté, le Temple Emanu-El-Beth Sholom. Nous reconnaissons notre
     présence sur cette terre non cédée de la nation Kenien’kehá:ka de même
     que notre responsabilité dans le travail de vérité et de réconciliation. En tant
     que gardiens contemporains de ce site, nous nous engageons à respecter
     les valeurs du traité que sont l’amitié, la paix et le respect, de génération en
     génération.

        To stay in touch, informed, and in tune with
           Temple's activities, please visit us on

            Temple Emanu-El Beth Sholom                        @templemtl

                             vimeo.com/templemontreal

    BE INSPIRED. GET CONNECTED. STAY SAFE.
               templemontreal.ca
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 Hello Temple community members, my name is Cheryl Libman and I am
 the coordinator of Temple’s Kugel Club. Here is something you maybe
 didn't know about us. This volunteer led program is here to help members
 who are in need, or know someone who is in need, of a meal or two during
 times of difficulty or of celebration. We have been cooking some incredible
 meals and desserts and are excited to expand this project to more and
 more members. We are always here for you as part of your community,
 and would love for you to come on board and join our team! Thank you
 to everyone that has already been cooking and driving to help get meals
 to our Temple members. We are currently looking for more volunteers
 to cook meals & for drivers to make deliveries. As well, we are looking at
 moving some of the cooking into Temple’s kitchen so please get in touch
 if this is something you would like to help with. For more information
      please do not hesitate to contact Sari at sari@templemontreal.ca.

 The Kugel Club will be cooking at Temple monthly, beginning Wednesday,
 September 21st, between 5:00 PM - 7:00 PM. Everyone is welcome but
    registration is required. Email Cheryl at cjlibman@gmail.com for details.

                                      Apple Picking
                                      Sunday, September 18th I 10:00 AM
                                      Spend a beautiful morning at Quinn Farms
                                      apple-picking with Temple members of all ages.
                                      We will share all the details online shortly but if
                                      you have any questions, please contact Rabbi
                                      Kowalski at rabbikowalski@templemontreal.ca

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Caring Cooks
Leslie Alcorn, Hela Boro, Denise Grossman, Nancy Weiss, and Sally Yaffe,
Coordinators

T    he concept of Tikkun Olam encourages Jews to bear the responsibility not
     only for our own moral, spiritual and material welfare but also for the welfare
of society at large. To serve and enrich the lives of a broader community. This is
what brings together the group of volunteers involved in Temple’s Caring Cooks
initiatives, which include cooking hot meals for Share the Warmth food pantry and
Resilience’s daily meal support. Along with Temple’s food drive to support MADA
and holiday gift collections for the benefit of OMETZ, Temple chooses to also
build bridges with those outside our larger Jewish community.
                                               There is a joy of camaraderie in
                                             serving and working together. As
                                             much as our amazing volunteers
                                             took up the task of cooking and
                                             sandwich/muffin making at home
                                             when Covid safety required we
                                             close the Temple kitchen, once we
felt it appropriate many were more than happy to return to the in-person cooking
at Temple this spring. We reduced our numbers of chefs, spread out and wore
masks, and even with those constraints, our volunteers were immensely happy to
be together to see familiar faces and re-connect. At the same time, others chose
to continue to cook from their kitchens and this dual front raised our production
numbers.
  Despite the shocking price increases at the grocery store, our Passover Greeting
Card fundraiser was so well supported by our congregants and friends that we
feel comfortable for the next while to be able to absorb those price increases for
supplies. Thank you to all who participated in this fundraiser. And also, thank you
to all who donate and encourage others to do so throughout the year long.
  From January 2022 to June 2022 we’ve delivered 3515 meals to Share The
Warmth which represents a considerable increase over the past years. During
that period we’ve delivered 6852 sandwiches, 1534 muffins and 406 cookies and
squares to Resilience from our at-home volunteers. We are exceptionally proud
of those numbers.
   We are opening spots to cook in our kitchen. If you can chop, stir and clean
pots and pans, we’d be happy to have you join us. We cook bi-monthly. If you’d be
interested in making simple cheese or PBJ sandwiches or baking for Resilience,
we’d love to have your support on that front as well. We pick up from you, and
again bi-monthly on the alternating weeks. For further information please reach
out to our volunteer coordinator at Caringcooks395@gmail.com.
  We wish you all a New Year that brings you and loved ones health, happiness
and a sense of security and meaningfulness. And of course…. laughter, as we
experience in our community kitchen. L’shana tova.

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 Member Connections
 Maggie Jacobs, Chair

 T   he first day I was back in Temple in person, I couldn't help myself - I hugged
     everyone!! It was joyous, warm, and so refreshing after two years of isolation.
 Our Member Connections Committee has been working hard to keep in touch
 with all of our members but now is just the right time to reconsider connecting in
 person to add to the spirited ambiance in Temple. When you are comfortable, join
 me and the Member Connection Committee to revel in the wonderful atmosphere,
 meet with old friends and familiar faces, and make some new friends, too.
   Our congregation remains consistent at almost 800 households in spite of the
 pandemic and we are proud of the strong support you have shown Temple. Member
 Connections is starting a project to find out what we can do better. Our first line
 of inquiry will be to approach those who have not maintained their membership to
 discover what they would have liked to see at Temple. And, we would also welcome
 your comments on ways we might improve our existing programs or offer new
 ways to worship, study and learn together. Please contact me at mags@ncj.ca.
   Finally, after the long pandemic hiatus, our 90 over 90 project, which has
 collected the memories of Temple’s oldest members, is coming to fruition. We are
 publishing a book with the title L’Dor vaDor (“from generation to generation”) to
 express the wisdom of those who were interviewed, and our desire to share what
 they have learned in their lifetimes. Look for this delightful book of memories in
 the fall!

       Temple member Karin Marks proudly reflects on her granddaughter's
                   contribution to the 90 over 90 project.

     W      hen we were invited to do the intergenerational interviews my mother
            Irene Marks was 101 and our grandaughter, Kylie was 12. We thought
     it would be a wonderful experience for both of them if Kylie were to do the
     interview that she did. Kylie and I attended a session where there was a
     discussion about how to go about interviewing and then she and I sat down
     for her to generate some pertinent questions.
       The interview went quite well. Kylie attempted to be very professional
     and asked about her great grandmother's early life in Germany and later
     experiences. Some of them were quite amazing as she was there when Hitler
     came to power and Naziism was pervasive. I think Kylie was perhaps more
     preoccupied with doing it "right" than with what she was hearing but she
     did manage to get lots of interesting information as well. I think she heard
     things that she didn't know and perhaps it made her great-grandmother
     more relatable than she had been. She was always a formidable presence to
     Kylie. I think her great-grandmother was very happy to be interviewed by her
     and took the whole thing seriously. It is often difficult for two people from
     such different eras to find common ground so this was a great opportunity.
        I was thrilled to watch the two of them, two of my favourite people
     interacting in that way.
       Of course, since Mum has passed away, having this interview means even
     more to us. I think as Kylie gets older hearing her little girl voice talking with
     her great-grandmother will be something she can treasure.
       I'm very happy we got to participate in this.
                                                                          Karin Marks

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                      The Open Doors Institute for Judaism offers a variety of
                      programs and activities in these three areas: Education
                      & Outreach, Identity & Inclusion, and Social Justice. This
                      initiative is made possible with the support of Marc Gold
                      and family.

Torah Study
Saturday mornings | 9:00 AM in-person and online
One of the great innovations of Reform Judaism was the openness to the idea
that the Torah might not be the literal word of God, and that we should use all the
insights of modern times to shed light on our ancient, sacred text. Every Shabbat
morning, we dive into a chapter of the Tanakh (Hebrew Bible) for in-depth study.
Archaeology and theology, sociology and science, humour and debate, faith and
doubt – we use all these approaches and more, to gain a deeper understanding of
our people’s encounter with the divine. Having many diverse perspectives at the
table enriches the conversation. Come add your voice!

   Étude de la Torah en français
   chaque dimanche à 9H00
   Veuillez nous joindre pour notre étude de la Torah hebdomadaire, chaque
   dimanche à 9 heures. Chaque semaine, nous discutons de façon animer notre
   parasha, explorant une multitude de textes et de voix juives. Les séances
   sont animées par les membres du groupe et Luisa Sinacore, une étudiante
   rabbinique à HUC. Aucune connaissance préalable ne sont requises pour
   participer. Si vous souhaitez être inscrit sur la liste de diffusion du groupe,
   veuillez envoyer un courriel à ada.luisa.sinacore@huc.edu.

             The Three Rabbis: Everyday Jewish Ethics
   The High Holy Days are over – how can I be a good person year-round?
   Learn with Temple’s Senior Rabbi, Rabbi Emeritus, and Associate Rabbi and
   Director of Education, as we explore Jewish ethics in everyday life. This series
   will be offered online only. Please refer to our website to register.
   Nov. 1: Rabbi Lisa Grushcow
   Love your neighbour – but what if they’re annoying? Loving your neighbour
   wouldn’t be a commandment if it were always easy. Explore common causes
   of conflict and attempts at resolution.
   Nov. 8: Rabbi Leigh Lerner
   Derekh Eretz: Learn about Jewish approaches to proper conduct. Topics
   include insults, privacy, dignity, respect, darchei shalom (the ways of peace),
   truth and falsehood, refining speech, mar'it ayin (assumptions based on
   appearances), saying thank you, minhag ha-makom (local custom).
   Nov. 15: Rabbi Lillian Kowalski
   Let your students honor be as dear to you as your own – an exploration of
   how we relate to and understand the youngest members of our community
   and help them learn to become the A+ human beings we hope them to be.
   We’ll explore community responsibility, pedagogy vs. andragogy, the power
   and importance of our speech in disseminating our values, and how "from
   our students, we learn the most". While the focus may be on our children,
   these values are applicable to all, across all aspects of life.

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