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                                                                                                            Obituary
                                                                                                                                      Waiss Lankford-Har-                               claim. He was very proud to have been the
                                                                                                                                      ris received his eternal                          hairdresser for the Dallas Cowboy Cheer-
                                                                                                                                      rest Aug. 3, 2020, at                             leaders on the tv show Making The Team for
                                                                                                                                      the age of 44. He was                             several years.
                                                                                                                                      born on March 17,                                    He was a vibrant, energetic, funny, loving
                                                                                                                                      1976, in Grand Saline                             and caring young man. He loved life and
    Rainbow-themed signs went up this week on either end of the Cedar Springs Strip, marking                                          to Larry Ross Sr. and                             people and never met a stranger.
    the gateway to Dallas’ Oak Lawn gayborhood. The signs are part of a beautification project                                        Jayne Lee Lankford,                                  Waiss is survived by his husband Ron
    that includes rainbow crosswalks on Cedar Springs. (David Taffet/Dallas Voice)                                                    the youngest of three                             Harris; his mom Jayne; his brother Brandon
                                                                                                                                      sons. He was raised                               and Brandon’s children Preston and Alyssa;
    EBJ announces $565,000                             help us increase rapid access to lifesaving                                    in his hometown of                                his brother Tony and Tony’s wife Sarah and
                                                       HIV medications for HIV-positive populations          Mineola before moving to Dallas.                                           their children, Olivia, Brody and Brock; his
    in federal grants to                               and to expand the delivery and utilization of             Waiss was preceded in death by his                                     aunt JoAnn Moreland and her husband
    Abounding Prosperity Inc.                          comprehensive care and treatment services             father, his beloved grandmother Lillian                                    Vernon; his Uncle Jim Kuykendall and Jim’s
       U.S. Rep. Eddie Bernice Johnson an-             for Black women with HIV in Dallas County.”           Kuykendall, his Aunt Joice, and his lifelong                               wife JJ and their children Jessica Locke and
    nounced Thursday, Aug. 13, that Abound-                                            — David Taffet        friend Miz Lilly Pettie.                                                   Jennifer Hallgren and their families. He is
    ing Prosperity Inc. has received a total of                                                                  A talented hair designer, Waiss followed                               also survived by thousands of friends whom
    $565,000 through two federal grants from
                                                       Texas Voting 101 …
                                                                                                             his passion with love and vigor, achieving a                               he loved with all of his heart and who loved
    the U.S. Department of Health and Human            Crash Course                                          high level of accomplishment that few can                                  him.
    Services as part of the Special Projects of           Q: I think I’m registered to vote in Texas, but
    National Significance Program.                     I’m not sure. How can I confirm?
       Abounding Prosperity Inc. provides services        A: Go to votetexas.gov. That’s the official
    addressing health, social and economic             Texas voting website. On the right side of the         Pet of the week • Kody
    disparities among Black Americans, with a          window you will see “AM I REGISTERED?”
                                                       Click on that button.                                                                               Meet Kody, a                 with. He’s kind of a daddy’s boy and tends to bond more with men,
    particular emphasis on gay and bisexual men,
                                                          Q: I know I’m registered, but I can’t find                                                       3-½-year-old German          so hopefully there will be at least one male in the home he can look
    cisgender women, transgender women and
                                                       my voter identification postcard. Is that a                                                         shepherd mix with            up to (no offense ladies). Kody can get a bit rowdy sometimes, so
    their families.
                                                       problem?                                                                                            the most handsome            he is looking for some humans who have experience with large,
       Johnson said, “These federal grants will
                                                          A: No. You do not have to bring the card                                                         smile! He can be a little    energetic goofballs like him and no children. If you have other dogs
    support critically needed programs and
                                                       with you to your voting place. If you are reg-                                                      shy at first. But once       at home, bring them to meet Kody to see if they get along, and if
    resources at Abounding Prosperity, and this
                                                       istered, your name will be on their master list.                                                    he gets to know you,         you’re looking for a fun-loving dude to stay active with, he’s the
    funding will allow our communities to benefit
                                                       You will have to provide a government-issued                                                        his playful personality      one for you. Kody is waiting to meet you at the SPCA of Texas’ Jan
    from culturally tailored care specific to our
                                                       ID, though.                                                                                         really shines. He loves      Rees-Jones Animal Care Center in Dallas.
    most vulnerable populations living with HIV. I
                                                          Q: Looks like I’m not actually registered in       hard and plays hard, so he will need a new family that can keep up.        In an effort to reduce the potential for spreading COVID-19, the
    am proud to support the work that Abounding
                                                       Texas. How can I register?                            His foster mom said he’s super smart; he knows sit, down, leave it         SPCA of Texas’ shelters, clinics, mobile adoption events and mobile
    Prosperity does to provide comprehensive
                                                          A: Go to votetexas.gov. That’s the official        and get it. He also learned how to use the bells on the door to go         wellness events remain closed to the public until further notice.
    health and social services to our constituents
                                                       Texas voting website. On the right side of the        outside in just one day. But he sometimes uses his intelligence for        Adoptions are available by appointment only. Adopters will
    and their families.”
                                                       window you will see “REGISTER TO VOTE.”               mischief and has learned to turn over his slow feeder bowl to get          need to submit an adoption inquiry form in order to begin the
       Abounding Prosperity CEO Kirk D. Myers
                                                       Follow directions from there.                         his food faster. So now he eats his food out of snuffle mats and he        tele-adoption process and schedule an appointment to complete
    added, “We are thrilled to be the recipient
                                                          Q: What is the registration deadline?              loves them! Kody will require a house with a large, private backyard       the adoption. Browse our available animals at spca.org/findapet
    of two SPNS grants. These two grants will
                                                                                                             where he can get all of his zoomies out multiple times a day. He’d         and visit spca.org/dogadopt to inquire about a dog or spca.org/
                                                                                                             do best with an active family looking for a dog to exercise and play       catadopt to inquire about a cat.

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Harris:
          History-making
          choice for VP
                   U.S. senator from California
                   known for supporting LGBTQ equality

                                                                                                                            Sen. Kamala Harris (photo by John Locher/Associated Press)

LISA KEEN | Keen News Service                      Richard Socarides, another long-time         of Asian descent to run on a major party’s    ident, she would establish a position of
lisakeen@mac.com                                LGBTQ Democratic activist, called Har-          ticket for the White House. She is a pop-     “chief advocate for LGBTQ+ affairs” in
                                                ris a “smart choice and the right choice.”      ular Democrat who made a strong bid           the White House, reverse the Trump ad-
           t was not a big surprise, but it        “I think she’ll be a great vice presi-       for the party’s presidential nomination       ministration ban on transgender people
           was a much-anticipated reve-         dent,” Socarides continued, “and she            herself in a field that, early on, included   in the military and “ensure that religion
           lation: Democratic presidential      will eat Mike Pence alive at their debate       more than two dozen viable candidates.        cannot be used to discriminate against
           nominee-apparent Joe Biden           and spit him out on the floor — as he de-          Harris launched her campaign in Janu-      LGBTQ+ individuals.”
           announced Tuesday, Aug. 11,          serves.”                                        ary 2019 in Oakland, with a rally attend-       But the selection of Harris to join
           that he has chosen U.S. Sen.            Lorri Jean, chief executive officer of the   ed by more than 20,000 supporters, and        the Biden ticket was never a certainty.
           Kamala Harris of California to       Los Angeles LGBT Center, the largest of         she polled third early in the year, behind    As recently as July 29, the Washington
           be his running mate.                 its kind in the nation, said Harris was a       Biden and U.S. Sen. Bernie Sanders. Fol-      Post reported an anonymous source as
  Political observers considered Harris         “moderate” choice for Biden but a good          lowing a Democratic debate in which she       saying that one of Biden’s key advisers
the top contender for months, and var-          one for the LGBTQ community.                    confronted Biden over his pride in hav-       in vetting the VP list, former U.S. Sen.
ious surveys and data indicated she is             “Kamala Harris was one of the moder-         ing worked with segregationists “to op-       Christopher Dodd, was arguing against
highly popular with the LGBTQ com-              ates on the [vice presidential] list. Biden     pose busing,” her campaign saw a surge        choosing Harris. Dodd was reportedly
munity.                                         was definitely sending a message in that        of support.                                   unhappy with Harris’ debate attack on
  And behind the headlines Tuesday,             regard,” Jean said. “Fortunately, from an          But other candidates popular with the      Biden’s working with segregationists,
NBC News reported that the Biden cam-           LGBTQ perspective, she has long been            LGBTQ community, including open-              but Dodd issued a statement saying the
paign has also assigned openly-lesbian          an ally.”                                       ly-gay candidate Pete Buttigieg, soon         anonymous source’s comments “do not
commentator Karine Jean-Pierre, one of             Biden pledged during a Democratic            had their own surges and quickly leap-        represent my view of Sen. Harris … .”
his senior advisors, to serve as his run-       debate in March that he would choose a          frogged over Harris. She dropped out of
ning mate’s chief of staff.                     woman for his running mate. Since then,         the race in December, citing insufficient     Career on the fast track
  “Kamala Harris is a strong choice,”           various news media examined lists of            funding for her campaign.
said Nadine Smith, executive director of        likely choices.                                    A study of campaign contributions            Harris was sworn into the U.S. Senate
Equality Florida. “She is smart; she’ll KO         Some lists, including that of the New        by zip code showed she had been the           just three years ago but has quickly risen
Pence if he’s not too afraid to debate her.     York Times, included openly-lesbian             second strongest fundraiser in heavily        to become one of its best known mem-
  “Selecting Kamala Harris shows that           U.S. Sen. Tammy Baldwin. All the lists          LGBTQ zip codes, behind Buttigieg.            bers. On the Senate Judiciary Commit-
Joe Biden isn’t afraid to have leaders          included Harris — usually at the top of            Harris was one of the few Democrat-        tee, she played a pivotal role in grilling
around him who push him forward on              list, too.                                      ic presidential candidates to release her     some of President Trump’s most con-
race and other critical issues. She’s a stel-      Biden’s choice of Harris makes her the       own plan addressing a wide range of           troversial nominees, including his first
lar pick,” Smith said.                          first Black woman and the first candidate       LGBTQ issues. She promised, as pres-          attorney general, Jeff Sessions, and his

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second Supreme Court nominee, Brett          contender alongside Harris. She was          win, the first openly-LGBTQ person            tainly considered age. The former vice
Kavanaugh.                                   was praised by LGBTQ activists in 2011       elected to the Senate, to be a running        president is 77 and frequently scru-
   Prior to becoming senator, Harris         when, U.S. ambassador to the United          mate.                                         tinized for signs of aging and cogni-
served as California’s attorney general      Nations, she was a strong advocate for         Potential candidates from states with       tive decline, as is incumbent President
and, before that, as district attorney for   having the United Nations General As-        Republican governors — including War-         Trump, 74. Warren of Massachusetts,
San Francisco. She earned a reputation as    sembly restore a reference to “sexual ori-   ren (Massachussets), Sen. Maggie Has-         another strong contender for the Demo-
a tough prosecutor and a strong support-     entation” in a resolution to oppose the      sen (New Hampshire), and U.S. Rep.            cratic presidential nomination who was
er of equal rights for LGBTQ people.         killing of vulnerable minority groups.       Val Deming (Florida) — all started with       considered a top choice for vice presi-
   As the state’s attorney general, Harris      Rice also helped pass a UN resolu-         a strike against them. If they won the       dent, is 71.
strongly opposed Proposition 8, a 2008       tion on the human rights of LGBT                national office, their seats in Congress      Harris, by comparison, is 55.
ballot measure that banned marriage for      people, pushed to have several                   would be chosen by the Republican            Meanwhile, the Democratic Nation-
same-sex couples in the state. As sena-      LGBTQ organizations obtain ac-                    governors of their states.               al Committee announced Aug. 11 that
tor, she has been a strong supporter of      credited status at                                                    Baldwin didn’t       Baldwin and Buttigieg will both speak
pro-LGBTQ positions, co-sponsoring the       the UN and called                                                   have that problem.     to the national convention audience on
Equality Act and earning a perfect 100       for the integration of                                            Wisconsin’s governor     Thursday, Aug. 20, the evening Biden
percent score from the Human Rights          LGBTQ concerns in U.S.                                        is a Democrat. But Bald-     will deliver his nomination acceptance
Campaign.                                    foreign diplomacy.                                       win’s appeal on the vice pres-    speech.
   But Harris has had her critics in the        Others believed to have                             idential short list likely came        Because of the coronavirus pandem-
LGBTQ community, particularly regard-        been considered by Biden                                from the fact that she rep-        ic, the political parties will not stage
ing her early opposition to providing        as a potential running mate                              resents a key electoral swing     their usual in-person conventions but
gender transition surgery to prison in-      included U.S. Rep. Karen                                  state — Wisconsin — and,         a hybrid to include some in-person
mates.                                       Bass of Los Angeles, chair                                 like Harris, is considered      gatherings and prime-time speeches on
                                             of the Congressional Black Caucus,                        both moderate and liberal.       national television and through various
Other possible picks                         and U.S. Sens. Elizabeth Warren, anoth-        “But Baldwin is relatively little known     social media.
                                             er tough competitor for the Democratic       nationally, and many Democrats might             Democrats meet Aug. 17-20. The Dem-
  All the potential running mates for        presidential nomination this year, Tam-      object to an all-white ticket,” noted the     ocrats’ LGBTQ Caucus is slated to meet
Biden were pro-LGBTQ. Susan Rice,            my Duckworth of Illinois and Baldwin.        Times profile.                                Aug. 18. 			                             █

former national security advisor to Pres-       The Times said the Biden campaign           In addition to a racial and gender             © 2020 Keen News Service. All rights re-
ident Obama, was said to be a strong         “somewhat seriously” considered Bald-        balance on the ticket, Biden almost cer-      served.

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honors Dr. Suzanne Slonim for                 fibroids with a hysterectomy, UFE uses                                                                                During         the   A
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DAVID TAFFET | Senior Staff Writer            Slonim was named president of the med-                                                                             cedure she does,        S
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taffet@dallasvoice.com                        ical staff at Methodist Dallas Hospital —                                                                          while      stopping     J
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                         named Dr. Su-        serving as president and two as immedi-                                                                            doctors,      Slonim    a
                         zanne Slonim as      ate past president.                                                                                                quickly adopted         C
                         one of its busi-        During that time, her UFE specialty                                                                             the use of tele-        S
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                         the year. For 15     for the relatively unknown, minimal-                                                                               has been able to        R
                         years,    Slonim     ly-invasive procedure.                                                                                             prepare some pa-        a
served as medical director of interven-          Gynecologists generally steer away                                                                              tients for upcom-       K
tional radiology at Methodist Dallas          from the UFE procedure because pa-                                                                                 ing     procedures      m
Hospital before she founded the Fibroid       tients complain of pain afterwards. But       the finest medical care, something she        online.                                        S
Institute Dallas exclusively to treat uter-   Slonim said that is because those doctors     said trans men and women don’t always            She has reopened the office, but before     B
ine fibroids with a minimally-invasive        haven’t managed their patients’ pain.         receive.                                      doing so, Slonim said, she added ma-           I
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procedure.                                    She prepares patients ahead of time with         Gerber said that commitment to pro-        chines that clean the air of mold and oth-     B
   Slonim and her wife, Pam Gerber,           medication especially for that first week     viding the finest care possible is one of     er pathogens to help keep her patients         R
searched locations around the country         as the fibroids begin to shrink.              the things she admires most about her         and staff safe. Hand washing stations are
extensively before deciding on moving            In her first year in her own practice,     wife, describing Slonim as a cross be-        placed throughout the office.
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to Dallas. “We were looking for a place       about 10 percent of Slonim’s clients came     tween an old-school family doctor and a          “Texas Medical Association has been
to be safe, happy and welcomed,” Ger-         through referrals from other doctors.         modern physician using the latest tech-       great in getting us all the PPE we need,”      f
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ber explained.                                Now, as her work has been recognized          nology.                                       she said. And she reopened feeling her
   They had been living in Palo Alto, Ca-     by area gynecologists, about 80 percent          Slonim’s technique involves insert-        office was as safe and protected as pos-       a
lif. but couldn’t afford to continue living   are referrals.                                ing a wire into a blood vessel in the pa-     sible.                                         A
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there comfortably. So they looked in Mi-         Slonim said removal of just the uterus     tient’s wrist and steering it up the arm         Slonim and Gerber have been togeth-         C
ami, Washington, D.C., San Diego, Tam-        can be a very bloody operation requiring      and down the torso into the uterus while      er 30 years. They met in an L.A. Bar: “I       F
pa and a few other cities but found the       transfusions. In some cases, even when        monitoring the progress on a screen.          want to be explicitly clear on this one,”      F
LGBTQ community in Dallas to be the           a woman will eventually need the uter-        That takes about a minute. That’s the         Gerber said. “She asked me to dance.”
most organized and most welcoming.            us removed, doctors now refer patients        “latest technology” part.                        They live in a townhouse in the So-
   Gerber said she was apprehensive           to her to shrink fibroids first, making the      The “old-school family doctor” part        HiP section of Oak Lawn with a cou-
about the move. She had preconceived          removal a much safer operation.               and her bedside manner she may have           ple of chickens out in the chicken coop
notions about Dallas, but both Gerber            Today, Slonim’s office is the only one     learned from her parents, both of whom        Slonim had built for Gerber’s 50th birth-
and Slonim quickly found Dallas to be         that specializes in only doing UFE. “I        were doctors. Her father was from New         day. Slonim said she wanted fresh eggs,
an easy place to live. And, Slonim said,      feel passionate about it and love doing       Jersey and her mother came to the U.S.        and they started with seven chickens.
it’s a great place to practice medicine.      this procedure,” she said. And she’s pas-     for college from Iraq then stayed for         They’re down to two including one who
Among the things she likes about Texas,       sionate about making sure anyone with         medical school. Slonim said her father        was injured, has recovered and is now
Slonim added, is that the state has pro-      fibroids is given the option of UFE.          retired when he was done paying for her       pigeon-toed.
hibitions against corporations practicing        Although her company’s nondiscrim-         medical school, but her mother, at 89, just      As for her business, Slonim — who has
medicine. So Slonim joined an existing        ination policy includes sexual orienta-       stopped seeing patients earlier this year.    spoken on the subject around the world
practice as an interventional radiologist.    tion and gender identity, Slonim said            Slonim said her patients have her          and has written a number of books on
   The couple planned to stay in Dallas       she’s never treated a trans man. That’s       cell phone number and call her directly       the subject including her latest, Pain Free
five years. That was 20 years ago.            probably because fibroids are fed by es-      when they need her help. Gerber recalled      Periods, available at FibroidFree.com —
   While at her practice, Slonim created      trogen, and hormone treatments block          one patient who was in pain because of        hopes to replicate her model in other
a niche market in uterine fibroid embo-       the growth of fibroids. But, she said, if     a problem with a port who contacted           cities with other doctors who are as pas-
lization or UFE. Fibroids are abnormal,       a trans man with a uterus was seeking         Slonim in the middle of the night. The        sionate as she is about treating fibroids
usually noncancerous, growths in the          treatment for fibroids, she’d assure him      doctor had that patient come to their         with UFE rather than major surgery. █

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LIFE+STYLE

 Eliad                                           fashion

 Cohen:
 Life of the party
The beefcake model and
clothing designer’s job as a
party producer is on hold during
the pandemic, but he plans to
come back stronger than ever

ARNOLD WAYNE JONES | Executive Editor
jones@dallasvoice.com

C
           hances are, even if the name
           doesn’t ring a bell you would
           recognize Eliad Cohen on
sight… and not necessarily his face.
For about a third of his 32 years, he
has been one of the most iconic fitness
models (1.3 million Instagram follow-
ers alone) idolized in the gay universe,
known as a daddy from his early 20s.
   “That Arabian hairy chest!” he
laughs, joking that his mom insists,
“That’s how I came into the world.”
   He embraces that identity, though; in
fact, it’s a tenet of his happiness to be
comfortable in his own skin. “I’m really
happy — I have some friends who
are so stressed about ageing, but I am
OK with it. You get to know yourself
better.”
   Knowing himself — indeed, accept-
ing himself — wasn’t always easy.
“Israel is different from [the rest of the
Middle East] — Tel Aviv is the gayest
city in the world! Like, really insane.”
But Cohen wasn’t from Tel Aviv. Grow-
ing up in a smallish city in the north of
Israel, being openly gay didn’t seem
like an option. “When I was young, I
didn’t accept myself,” he says. It was
an era where “calling someone gay [on
a playground] was a slur. Also, I was in
the army — we were [in close quarters]
and taking showers together naked,”
so admitting he was gay felt awkward.
After he came out of the closet, he told

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Employment
his army buddies. “They said ‘We love
you, and it doesn’t matter to us if you
                                              well-known. And it just continued and
                                              continued. I’m now 32 — I started when           Discrimination Lawyer
sleep with men or women. You are our          I was 21 — and I’m still happy,” he says.
brother.’”
   It was slightly harder on his moth-
                                                 Although he has many interests and
                                              channels of fame — from modeling to                Law Office of
er, whom he says was “completely
shocked — it came from nowhere. I had
                                              acting, social media influencer to fitness
                                              icon — most of his work comes as a                Rob Wiley, P.C.
a girlfriend who spent a lot of time in       party producer and promoter, and in
my house. But afterwards, we talked a         that job, he has found even more reason
lot. She said I should get married, and       to be out, proud and motivated.
I said, ‘No, ma, I have to be myself.’ I’ll      “One fan I will never forget: I was
never forget: The day after I told her,       doing a party in Carnivale in Brazil and
she said, ‘Promise me one thing,’ and         flew from Mardi Gras in Australia. It            214-528-6500 • robwiley.com
she looked me straight in the eye and         was like 24 hours on a flight, and I was            2613 Thomas Ave., Dallas, TX 75204
said, ‘Never, never let them fuck you!        destroyed, but this guy who was super
You always fuck them.’” (Cohen is mum         shy asked me for a picture. I told him
as to whether he’s kept that promise.)        about the party I was hosting and told
   But for Cohen, coming out was just         him he should come. He said no, he was
the first step in self acceptance. He         too shy, but I said, come, be near the
didn’t really come into his own until he      stage, and when I see you I will bring
began modeling and found that, within         you up. And I did. I put him in the
a period of about two years, he went          [control booth]. It was a huge party for
from closeted army veteran to interna-        10,000 people, and he could see every-
tionally famous beefcake icon for the         thing. After about a month, I got an
gay community. How that success has           email from him. He had gotten a tattoo
lasted amazes even him.                       on his arm of a moustache, which was
   After his first big break, appearing on    the logo of the party. I asked him why
the cover of the queer magazine Sparta-       he did that. He said he has been fighting
cus, he decided he needed to work hard        cancer, and that after chemotherapy
and make as much money as he could,           [treatment], he wouldn’t remember
before his shelf-life expired and fans        much. He did this because he said, ‘You
were ready to move on to the Next Big         were nice to me and generous to me and
Thing.                                        gave me the power to fight the cancer.’
   “I was ready to say, ‘You’re not the       I started to cry when I read it. Now he’s
new guy anymore.’ But I got even more         living his life. This is really, really mean-
                                                                ingful to me. It gave me
                                                                the power to be from
                                                                the north of Israel and
                                                                know I can affect some-
                                                                one from the other side
                                                                of the world.”
                                                                   Of course, the par-
                                                                ty-producer career path
                                                                is not much in evidence
                                                                during corona.
                                                                   “I moved to Miami
                                                                from WeHo about eight
                                                                months ago because [it
                                                                was more convenient
                                                                since I] travel a lot for
                                                                work,” Cohen says,
                                                                though he’s spent the
                                                                last five months like
                                                                the rest of us, shelter-
                                                                ing in place. It’s been
                                                                bad “because there is
                                                                nothing happening [on
                                                                the party circuit]. On
                                                                the other hand, I am
                                                                having such a great
                                                                time being home. For 11

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                                      years, about the maximum I have been         be super comfy,” Cohen says. “Some-
                                      at home is two weeks. It’s good sleeping     times I have these cool clothes from ex-
                                      in your own bed and making your own          pensive designers, but they stay in my
                                      breakfast.”                                  closet because they aren’t comfortable
                                         And he’s hopeful for the future.          — they are too tight. Clothing should
                                         “It will be 2021 [before parties are      show the muscles but not be too tight. I
                                      back],” Cohen muses. “I am sure a            don’t find it sexy [when guys dress like
                                      vaccine will be ready, and people will       that] — it’s like, you’re trying too hard.
                                      be starving for a party. When it’s back,     Relax... really.”
                                      I am sure it will be huge. But it will be       Practicality was another concern (“I
                                      a new normal — outdoor events rather         like to close the zipper so I won’t lose
                                      than inside. We must evolve and move         my wallet or phone or keys”). And he
                                      on: New productions, new events, new         wanted to pay homage to his time in the
                                      parties…” maybe even bringing some-          Israeli army. “Mass’ father was also a
                                      thing to North Texas. (“I did my party       military guy, so we wanted something
                                      in Houston a few years ago; I’ve never       masculine, sexy and nice, but also easy-
                                      been to Dallas, but I hear it’s amazing.”)   going,” he says.
                                         In the meantime, he’s busy on his lat-       Cohen (who last year got out of a
                                      est venture: promoting his new clothing      two-year relationship and is now happi-
                                      line, Massbranded for Eliad Cohen.           ly single) recognizes that while athlei-
                                         “We started planning it a year ago.       surewear was once considered weekend
                                      I met Mass [Luciano] and his [Mass-          gear, in the post-pandemic world it
                                      branded] partner in London, and we           has become the de facto uniform of the
                                      started to design.” They were supposed       Zoom meeting and at-home worker,
                                      to launch in April, but the pandemic         putting his brand ahead of the curve.
                                      pushed back the release date of his line,       “Good timing,” he grins.                █

                                      though not the focus.                           Check out the fashion collection at Mass-
                                         “The first thing always is, you must      branded.com.

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M   usic has become such a profoundly important part of our lives during the pandemic. And there are multiple ways to get it,
    especially this week.
                                                                                                                                                                        best bets
                                                                                                                                                                       best bets: music

 Playlist: Gary Lynn Floyd, My 88 Keys, Vol. 2: Quarantined. Even if
 he hadn’t been a staple of Dallas stages for decades, we’d love telling
 people about Floyd’s voice, one of the most emotionally pure you’ll ever
 hear. Floyd follows up his 2015 album My 88 Keys, Vol. 1: Unplugged with
 his new post-corona record, filled with relaxing, spiritually-fulfilling songs,         Streamable: Undermain In Concert. Undermain usually mounts live theater, but while the
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 Available for purchase or streaming on AppleMusic and Spotify.                          and styles. Until Aug. 19 you can listen to the band Caftan, pictured, and Aug. 20-Sept. 5 the
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                                                                                                                                            Joseph Veazie. If you’ve missed the
                                                                                                                                            experience of seeing an actual musician in
                                                                                                                                            the same physical space as you making live
                                                                                                                                            music, well you can get back to it … sort of.
                                                                                                                                            The city of Addison last month launched a new
                                                                                                                                            drive-in concert series — live music enjoyed
                                                                                                                                            from the safety of your car. The second
                                                                                                                                            weekend launches Friday with the band
                                                                                                                                            Extended Play and culminates Saturday with
                                                                                                                                            popular local singer Joseph Veazie, pictured.
                                                                                                                                            15499 Julian St. at Addison Circle Park. Aug.
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Cassie Nova
                                                                                                                                                               I can’t believe my baby is 12 years old.
                                                                                                                                                            Seems like just yesterday I was teaching him
                                                                                                                                                            to fetch, and now he always seems to have
                                                                                                                                                            a ball in his mouth … just like his daddy.
Ellen’s being mean,                                                                                                                                            My dogs have really helped me during
                                                                                                                                                            this quarantine bullshit. Every day they
and Sunny turns 12                                                                                                                                          make me laugh, and I never feel too lonely.
                                                                                                                                                            Even if I want to be alone … nope. They
    Y’all, I hate hearing all this stuff about                                                                                                              refuse it. Even if I want a moment to myself,
Ellen. I hate hearing that she’s mean and that                                                                                                              fugitaboutit! I shut the bathroom door and
many people that work for her find the work-                                                                                                                I have tiny noses snorting and little paws
place toxic. I just hate it. If she turned a blind                                                                                                          reaching for me. They are called lap dogs for
eye to injustice or sexual harassment by one                                                                                                                a reason: They are not happy unless they are
of her producers, then I will be mad.                                                                                                                       in your lap.
    I honestly hope it’s not true, but you know                                                                                                                   We literally sleep in a dog pile. At any
what? For all of those people that are so                                                                                                                   time during the night, I have at least two
ready to “cancel” her solely based on the                                                                                                                   dogs touching me. And as soon as my hus-
“fact” that she is mean, y’all can piss off.                                                                                                                band leaves for work in the mornings, I can
    I’ve seen so many posts on Facebook                                                                                                                     easily have all five dogs on me. I think they
lately saying that she is finally getting what                                                                                                              are worried I am going to get cold, so they
she deserves. Because she is mean? Ri-                                                                                                                      are warming me up.
diculous. Are we just going to forget all she                                                                                                                  I’m not sure what they will do when I final-
has done to help normalize our community                                                                                                                    ly go back to work. They will probably have a
to the rest of the country. If you are living                                                                                                               party: bitches and blow for everybody. Rude!
an out and proud life today, you can thank                                                                                                                     Remember to always love more, bitch less
people like Ellen DeGeneres for starting that                                                                                                               and be fabulous. XOXO! Cassie Nova
conversation with America. So many young
people do not realize what it was like in the
time before.
    Before Ellen came out on television, there
                                                                                                                                                             this week’s solution
were so few positive gay role models on TV.
I’m not saying everything changed overnight
when she came out, but it was a real start to
the change in the way the American public
viewed us. And I, for one, will always be
grateful to Ellen for that.                          is not on stage. I hate that so much for her.       about Ellen, but I am still a fan. But Lord help
    So she is mean; let’s break that down.              Look, if it comes out that Ellen is crazy evil   me if y’all ever go after Kelly Clarkson! I will
Some people don’t know what it is like to be         and sets fires to flaming bags of poop on           fight a bitch over Kelly.
an entertainer and be “on.” I am not saying          the steps of an orphanage, I will absolutely           On a lighter note, yesterday was my
that I am on the same level as Ellen, but I          be heartbroken. And I will let her go, so to        Pomeranian Sunny’s birthday. Yes, we are
am an entertainer … regardless of what you           speak. But just because some people find            those gays that know our dogs’ birthdays.
have heard. Believe me, it’s exhausting to           her mean? NO.                                       But we don’t make it into a big deal. We just
always be ON. Smiling, joking and being                 I’ve been called a bitch for not stopping        had a small cake and a very intimate and ex-
upbeat like you are onstage all the time is          to joke around with someone I don’t really          clusive get-together with a few decorations,
exhausting.                                          know. Luckily, being a bit of a bitch is on         an ice sculpture of Sunny and a bouncy
    I don’t think she is mean just to be mean;       brand for me. I guess that is the real problem      house.
I just think she is not always ready to enter-       most people have with Ellen; her brand is              We are feeling the repercussions of the
tain, and that gets misinterpreted as being          being nice. She says be kind to one another         party today, though. Everyone is SO hungov-
a bitch.                                             at the close of every show but doesn’t              er, so I made myself a Bloody Mary … you
                                                     always practice what she preaches. In that          know, hair of the dog.
    One of my very good friends is an enter-
tainer, but when she is offstage, she is actu-       way, sure, she is a bit hypocritical. I get that.      I took Sunny some Pedialyte a few min-
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                       scene                                                                            Material Boy

                                Look for big news soon from DVtv host
Andrew and Dante at the pool.
                                Brad Pritchett

                                                                           Solution on Page 16
                                                                           Across                       47 “I vant to be alone”        12 Part of BART
                                                                           1 The sound of music           actress                      13 Jamie of M*A*S*H
                                                                           5 The Sound of Music         48 gfn.com assets              21 Food for a stallion
                                                                             character                  50 Pakistani Seinfeld          22 Oral sex participant
                                                                           10 “La vie en rose” singer     character                    25 Wheelchair routes
                                                                           14 Moby Dick chaser          51 End of the quip             26 Your Movie Sucks
                                                                           15 Rupert Everett’s          59 Melville story of             author Roger
                                                                             An ___ Husband               the sea                      27 Part of UHF
                                                                           16 Uncommon,                 60 George, who was             28 It may be straight
                                                                             to Caligula                  Mary Ann                       or electric
                                                                           17 Grease prop               61 R.E.M.’s                    29 Diplomatic agent
                                                                             for Travolta                 “The ___ Love”               31 Player on first, in
                                                                           18 South Pacific fruit       62 Lightly burn                  Glenn Burke’s sport
                                                                           19 Pt. of USA                63 Monastery’s                 32 Like sourballs
                                                                           20 Start of a quip from        main man                     33 “Faboo!”
                                                                             Billy Eichner              64 One playing with            35 Spot in Vegas
                                                                           23 “Ta ta!”                    balls at the circus          36 Enjoy orally
Eric and Seth                   Lorie and Adlee
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                                                                           25 Willing and able          66 Good to eat                 43 Bottom
                                                                             partner                    67 Pulls a boner               45 Broadway cast, e.g.
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                                                                           39 More of the quip           5 Reproduction                53 Yellow-brick way
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                                                                             in the navy                 6 Figure skater Rippon        55 Madonna and
                                                                           41 Post- opposite             7 Philosopher Descartes         Christopher
                                                                           42 Force to leave             8 Parrot in Aladdin           56 Not worth
                                                                           43 Lozenge before a kiss      9 Over one’s head               oral treatment
                                                                           44 Stravinsky string,        10 Troy Perry may offer        57 Close by
                                                                             perhaps                    one up                         58 Has an STD, e.g.
Jake and Lucifer                Jason “just Biden” his time til November   46 Mission ending            11 Shakespeare’s foot

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