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Spring 2013 Complimentary
Lifestyles, Tips & Trends for the Modern Family
Spectacular
Gulf Coast Weddings
Cruise to the
Land of the Fire
Sarasota Film Festival
Honeymoon Dreams
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From the desk of
Susan Short, Publisher
“You can cut all the flowers but you
cannot keep spring from coming.”
Pablo Neruda
Aptly quoted and said by Nobel Prize winning Chilean poet, Mr.
Pablo Neruda. I have visited his home, or shall I say one of his homes
in the compelling seaside city of Valparaiso, Chile. It was left intact
as a living museum, with a small table still set for his afternoon tea.
Valparaiso is a bit of a rundown city, owning its glory to former days
when most ships stopped there to re-fuel and stock up on much needed supplies. But the small tangled streets reminded you
of San Francisco or a fairytale location that you just can’t put your finger on.
In this issue, we travel to the end of the world, to Patagonia. This is a true land of the fire, as it is often called. The sheer
beauty and drama of the landscape is something that will stay in your mind forever. It is a place that beckons you to return,
as one visit is not long enough. We were fortunate enough to view the majesty of the scenery from a small cruise ship, the
Stella Australis. All on board participated in the zodiac based activities, including a one of a kind visit to see penguins in
their natural habitat. It was nothing short of incredible.
Family Beautiful is proud to announce our first annual Wedding Issue. The Gulf Coast has always been a prime destina-
tion for weddings, and it is easy to figure out why. Our fantastic beaches and beautiful weather are the perfect combination
to create that special event on the most special day. We have compiled a wonderful section of wedding locations that will
knock your socks off! It doesn’t stop there; we have handpicked the best salons and spas that will have you looking camera
ready for those photos you will treasure for the rest of your life.
The world is our oyster, but where to go for the honeymoon? Perhaps Hawaii? Ray Collins gives us the skinny on a few
key areas in Waikiki as well as the Big Island.
Family Beautiful is a huge supporter and sponsor of several big events in our lovely area, such as the Sarasota Film Fes-
tival. Make sure to check out the schedule of events and mark your calendars, as you never know what or who you will rub
elbows with. There will be additional stories on the website as well as short videos at www.FamilyBeautiful.com.
On that note, please like us on Facebook, we often feature great restaurants and event ticket giveaways. And, last but
not least, thank you to our readers who have consistently let us know that we publish real stories from all over the world as
well as at home on topics that are compelling and thought provoking.
Look for us now at many Walgreen’s locations around Sarasota and Manatee. Happy Spring!
Susan Short
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On the Cover Contents
39 - 54 May Your Dreams Kids
Come True 8 Positive Parenting
Hot Trends
Spectacular Gulf Coast Weddings are what dreams 10 Every Child is Special
are made of. In this issue, we break down the choices 11 Giddyup for a Good Time 74 Gifts Year ‘Round
to the very best there is to offer in our gorgeous area. 12 Aikido- Peaceful Warrior
It is all here in this section for that glorious wedding
and some very creative ideas.
14 Can Parents Feed Kids Better Lifestyles
16 Early Learning Coalition 78 My Genes Fit
17 Homework Happiness 76 Inkanto – Peruvian Cuisine
18 Doing the Write Thing 80 Tuskegee Airmen
62 Tierra del Fuego 20 Diamonds within Young 82 TreeUmph
Cruise to the Land of the Fire to Patagonia, the end Filmmakers 83 “Gar-Following” the Plan
of the earth, or so they say. This storied and beauti- 84 Food & Wine on Pine
ful land is more amazing than legends have told.
Traverse the route that Charles Darwin sailed with our The Better Half 86 Pilates
intrepid Publisher, Susan Short. 22 Norwegian Dawn 86 Starflower Organic
24 La Dolce Vita Spathecary
24 Season of Delights 88 Whiskey & Apple Pie
66 Honeymoom Dreams 26 Gentlemen, Start Your Engines 90 Dining Guide
Honeymoon Dreams of a lifetime. Where should you 28 Movers, Shakers & Singers 93 Charisma Café
go and what amazing Caribbean resorts will cater to 94 Talented & Beautiful
30 Night at the Oscars
your every need? We have picked two gems for the
96 The Yoga Shack
trip of your dreams!
98 George Worthmore
Ahhh...Spa
72 Sarasota Film Festival 32- 38 Indulge Yourself
Internationally renouned Sarasota Film Festival
brings world class entertainment to the area for ten
action packed days in April. Get the behind the
Travel
56 Hawaii
scenes look at some of the latest talent.
58 Black Tie Ski Experience
60 Anna Maria Island
98 64
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Omni Amelia Island
Ortygia Restaurant
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Susan Short
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Photo Contributors
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Rod Millington,
Richard Porter, Tom Shane,
Vicki Sullivan
Article Contributors
Charles Bens, Ph.D., Barbara Caras,
Ray Collins, Leslie Cornell, Laurie
Evans, Marjorie Floyd, Meredith Garo-
falo, Stephanie Hefner, Cara Herman,
Irene Herman, Debbie Kibler, Jennifer
Ahearn Koch, Nicky Lake, Catherine
Mills, Karen Murray-Parker, Sharon P.
Oakes, Ellian Rosaire, Julie Woik
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Positive Parenting
Kids have so much to teach us, so much we forget
as reality takes over. We need to learn how to love
everything around us: life, earth, others, etc. Kids know
how to forgive, release and let go. So positive parenting
isn’t about teaching how to love, it’s teaching kids to hold
onto their love and reminding them how great life is. Kids
are born with the knowledge of love not fear! As parents
we need to remind them of this. Here are 13 tips to teach
kids love through positive parenting:
1. Teach kids through example. Be the example, the
role model, the mentor. Show the personality traits
Moors & Cabot you want your kids to have. If you show kids love,
warmth, kindness, patience and empathy, you will
get it in return.
is dedicated to helping 2. Teach them to want, not to need. Teaching love is to
remind kids they don’t need to be attached to any
the residents of Sarasota material objects and to be grateful for what they
have.
3. Discipline is love. It shows your child you care.
manage their money 4. Show love by being honest. It’s okay to say I don’t
know. Be honest, clear, simple and to the point.
during these historic times 5. Show loyalty through actions. Make sure to give daily
hugs, kisses, pats on the shoulder, hold hands, etc.
Show love to your spouse.
Independent 6. Show kids love through praise. Let them know how
proud of them you are with praise. Praise your child’s
Innovative efforts so they stay motivated and don’t give up.
7. Show them love through listening. Be an active
Accessible listener: use eye contact, don’t interrupt, show your
listening with nods of the head, non verbal gestures,
Trustworthy summarize what you just heard and ask questions.
8. Show your empathy by being an empathetic
listener. Even if you don’t understand why your kids
are upset, be empathetic. Put yourself in their shoes.
9. Show love through communication. Ask how they
are doing, what kind of day they had, how was
Let us help you preserve school? Ask questions that involve more than a yes
or no answer.
your piece of paradise! 10. Teach kids to remain their authentic self and share
their inner joy and light. We need to teach kids to
hold onto their lightness.
Serving Investors since 1890 11. Teach kids to be compassionate with random acts of
kindness. Get kids involved in volunteering at an early
age. When kids perform random acts of kindness
they feel more respect for themselves and get a boost
of happiness.
12. Teach your kids to love healthy foods by eating meals
together. Let your kids be involved in the process. They
can help make the menu, help with food shopping
and even cooking. The more involved they are, the
1800 SECOND ST. STE. 765 more likely they are to eat healthy and enjoy it. Teach
SARASOTA, FL 34236 kids to respect their body which is their true home.
13. Teach kids that mistakes are good. Mistakes are
225-4400 teachable moments that move us forward into a
better path. SUSAN SHORT
www.mcsarasota.com
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Every Child
is
Special
As a Board member of the Family Network on Disabili-
ties of Manatee and Sarasota Counties and a Gover-
nor’s appointee to the Early Learning Coalition, I am
frequently asked by parents how can they tell if their
child is developing in a normal and healthy manner.
There are many agencies, some at no cost to the parents, that provide physical and mental developmental screening
and language and speech screening for preschool aged children. Among those providing free services are:
The Evaluation Center, Palmetto (941) 721-2300. Ages 3-6 years. Through the School Board and free to parents.
Early Steps, Sarasota (941)487-5403. Ages birth to 3years. Free for most parents.
Screening Center, Sarasota (941) 953-3877. Ages birth to 5 years. Free
Easter Seals, Sarasota (941)359-9555. Ages birth to 5 years
Manatee Community Action Agency (941)827-0188 ext 7722. Preschool age children.
Children come in all shapes and sizes and capacities and develop at different rates, and absolute rules applicable to
all children are non-existent, but there are certain tried and true indicators of concern in your children’s development.
At three months, it is an indicator for concern if your child is not starlted by sound and does not watch moving objects.
At six months a child should turn his or her head to sound and be able to lift his or her head, and be able to roll over.
At nine months, it is an indicator of concern if a child cannot pick up objects, sit by his or her self, and make “oohing”
and “ahhing” sounds. At twelve months, a child should be able to crawl, use words like”Mama” and “Dada” and be
able to sit easily without using a hand. At fifteen months, a child should be able to hold up a cup, stand alone, and
point at objects or people. At eighteen months, it is an indicator for concern if a child can’t feed itself with a spoon, walk
without help, and does not say at least fifteen words. At age two, be concerned if a child can’t hold a large crayon, can’t
follow simple directions, and doesn’t pretend play. By age three, it is a significant indicator for concern if a child falls
frequently, has balance problems, shows no interest in other children, and his or her words and speech can’t be under-
stood by others.
Remember, babies and small children develop at their own pace in their own unique way, but the above listed indicators
of concern come from years of research from the University of Florida’s Dept. of Pediatrics and the American Academy
of Pediatrics. If your child’s development gives you concern, the proper approach is not to be overly alarmed or emo-
tional, but to see that your child’s development state is properly screened and evaluated. The same agencies that I men-
tioned that offer free developmental screening also offer effective therapy programs for preschool aged children. No
matter what problem your child has there are therapeutic programs available to help enrich and improve the child’s
total development.
From personal experience, I can absolutely state that nothing is more rewarding and enriching than helping a child with
developmental difficulties mature and improve. I have been blessed to raise a disabled child and help him exceed all
early expectations.
The agencies I have mentioned offer free screening and therapy to those preschoolers who are in need. Through your
hard work and the help of agencies devoted to identifying and helping children in need, your child, regardless of de-
velopmental state, can improve. Both you and your child deserve the opportunity to work together with others to enrich
and better your life. Debra Kibler
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Good Time d
Those lazy days of summer? … Not a chance! Every fun filled
day at Rosaire’s Riding Academy Day Camp is jam-packed
with exciting adventures. Boys and girls learn to ride on beau-
tiful, kid-safe horses, play with ponies, and learn all about the
variety of farm animals in our awesome petting zoo. In the
morning riding lessons, beginner riders learn confidence and
control while more experienced riders can improve their skills
in everything from rodeo to jumping, all under the watchful
eyes of our master riding instructor and all adult staff. Parents
always enjoy watching their children in the afternoon bare-
backing sessions. Campers cool off with splash time fun in
the pool and can take an ice cream break with their friends
in our well shaded playground or air-conditioned clubhouse.
Our variety of weekly themes allow our campers to experience
everything from animal care to aerial acrobatics. Campers
who attend the final month of camp will join us in our annual
kids camp circus. Where they get to show off their talents in a complete circus, including performing animal acts, with
your children as the stars. Saddle up for the most fun summer ever, gallop on in to Rosaire’s Riding Academy, where
we love to horse around. Ellian Rosaire
www.FamilyBeautiful.com 11Way of the Peaceful Warrior
AIKIDO
Traditional Aikido of Sarasota was founded seven years ago by Barry Tuchfeld Sen-
sei, who holds the rank of Sandan (3rd degree Black Belt) in this Japanese Martial
Art. Sensei is a Certified Aikido Instructor (Fukushidoin). Takemusu Aikido, meaning
to be spontaneous or creating in the present moment, is the tradition of Aikido
practiced at the Sarasota dojo (school), located off Palmer Road near Interstate 75.
Founded by the late Morihei Ueshiba, also know as O’Sensei, Aikido is sometimes called the Way of the Peaceful War-
rior. Aikido strives for conflict resolution by redirecting the energy of the aggressor, making use of many immobilizing
and constraining techniques. Founded on universal spiritual principles Aikido is a unique art of self-defense, teaching
the possibility of conflict resolution without harm. Aikido is a martial art that does not involve kicking or punching.
Tuchfeld Sensei has trained Aikido for 20 years, including direct training with one of O’Sensei most senior students,
Saito Sensei in Iwama, Japan. The teaching staff at Traditional Aikido includes women and men with considerable
experience. A priority is placed on safety for all students, ranging from 5 to 75. The Iwama Style, or “Founder’s Aikido”
is notable for its weapons training with the bokken (a wooden sword) and the jo (a wooden staff). Classes are offered
throughout the week for adults, seniors, teenagers and children. In the spirit of collaboration, senior students help junior
students learn. Karen Murray-Parker
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Can Parents
Feed Their
Children Better?
For most parents the answer to this question is a resounding These are the obvious problems, but there is a much bigger
YES. The proof for this lies in the fact that we are facing an problem that is hidden and not as easy to solve, and that
epidemic of childhood obesity and diabetes. According to involves mothers thinking that they are feeding their chil-
the American Heart Association over one third of children, dren a good diet when they actually are not. There are a
including teenagers, are overweight or obese and one third number of popular eating decisions being made every day
of all diabetes cases are now teenagers. The figure for over- that need to be addressed if we are really going to achieve
weight and obese children is three hundred percent higher a healthy diet for our children and everyone for that matter.
than it was in 1963 and teenage Type 2 diabetes was virtu-
ally non-existent in 1963. And, this situation is only going 1. Americans eat too much sugar. One hundred years
to get worse. According to the Centers for Disease Control ago the average person ate 10 pounds of sugar a
children born after the year 2000 will have about a 40% year and now this exceeds 150 pounds per year.
plus chance of being diabetic in their lifetime. According to many medical and health experts this
is the number one reason for the deteriorating health
In fact, the CDC estimates that the generation of children of our population. Soft drinks should never enter the
born after the year 2000 will be the first in history that will house or pass your lips. Fruit juice is not a very good
not live as long as their parents did. Why are we not doing substitute because is still contains too much sugar.
a better job at feeding our children and ourselves? Here are And, artificial sweeteners are not any better and have
some of the most common excuses given for why children now been directly linked to our obesity epidemic.
are not being fed better than they are. 2. Sweets as a reward are a very bad idea. Many
parents use sweets as a reward for behaving in a
• Healthy food is too expensive. certain way. Finish your homework and you can have
• Poor neighborhoods do not have quality grocery a cookie or some ice cream. This creates an addiction
stores in them. to sugar. Parents should never bribe or reward a child
• Working mothers have limited time to plan and with a sweet.
prepare healthy meals. 3. Serving starches with dinner. Most Americans expect
• Kids are left on their own too often and make bad to have a potato or a starch of some kind at dinner.
choices. This is unhealthy. Starches at dinner causes the
• Unhealthy “cultural” eating behaviors are difficult consumption of too many calories and these calories
to change. are usually stored as fat because the body thinks it
• Peer pressure forces children to select unhealthy will not be getting anymore food until breakfast, over
foods. 12 hours away. Meals should include a salad, two
• Advertising is misleading and promotes unhealthy vegetables and one 4 ounce serving of a lean protein
choices. like chicken or fish.
• Parents and doctors do not receive a very good 4. Whole wheat is not that healthy. A new book,
education on nutrition. Wheat Bellies by Dr. Davies, provides reams of
evidence that wheat is not as healthy at we have
While these “excuses” are all valid to some extent they are been led to believe it is. A new strain of wheat
not absolute. Everyday there are mothers across America introduced in the 1970’s now dominates our supply
overcoming these and other similar obstacles in order to and has many problems, not the least of which is
feed their children and their family better. They learn to buy a higher percentage of calories for each ounce of
in bulk, buy when things go on sale, buy frozen fruits and grain. This wheat also causes allergies, digestive
vegetables, get a ride to a better store, plan many meals in issues and much more. A little whole grain each day
advance, have healthy snacks in the house at all times and is okay but make sure it is organic millet, quinoa or
not even bring the unhealthy foods into the house. brown rice.
14 Family Beautiful Spring 20135. Commercial cows milk should be avoided. Mothers a high acid level in our bodies. If you must eat meat
think that milk is important to healthy bones and teeth then grass feed beef is the way to go.
but nothing could be further from the truth. We are 8. Avoid school lunches and fast food restaurants.
the only animal in the world that is not weaned off of Unfortunately most schools do not have very
milk at a very early age. Green vegetables are better many healthy choices and same goes for fast food
source of calcium. In addition mothers should know restaurants.
that commercial milk is filled with steroids, hormones,
antibiotics and saturated fat. They should choose There is no secret about what constitutes a healthy diet: it
organic low fat milk if they must serve it. Better choices is whole food comprised of healthy grains, fruits, veg-
would be goat’s milk, soymilk, rice milk or almond milk. etables, nuts, seeds and lean organic protein such as
6. Meal patterns are out of whack. Do not allow your chicken, turkey and deep water fish with high levels of
child to skip breakfast. Do not skip any meals as this omega 3 oils. And, at least 50% of the fruits and veg-
tells the body to slow down metabolism and store fat. etables should be raw in order to get enough enzymes
Do not serve big meals because this also causes the into your body. Every time you cheat and eat a less than
storage of fat. Eat small meals and snacks every 3 to healthy food your body suffers because it is not get-
4 hours if possible. And, chew your food thoroughly. ting what it needs to maintain a strong immune system,
The average food needs to be chewed 20 to 30 times make cellular repairs and make all of the hormones
in order to ensure it is the right size when it reaches and neurotransmitters needed by our bodies and our
the stomach, ensure the adequate release of enzymes brains. Eventually those cells can become stressed, then
in saliva and thus ensure that the food is actually weakened, then dysfunctional and finally mutated and
absorbed into our cells. diseased. That is precisely why it is projected that over
7. Avoid red meat. Dr. Walter Willett the head of nutrition 80% of our population will be chronically ill in another 30
at Harvard University says red meat causes diseases years and why the Economist Magazine projects that the
such as heart disease, cancer, arthritis and much more. United States will spend 100% of its GNP on healthcare
This comes from following 100,000 nurses for over by 2065. CHARLES BENS, PhD
25 years. Red meat is difficult to digest, is high in fat,
contains steroids, hormones and antibiotics and creates www.drcharlesbens.com
www.FamilyBeautiful.com 15Early Learning Coalition of Manatee County, Inc.
The Early Learning Coalition of Manatee County is a 501(c)3 non -profit agency that provides and coordinates the
services of school readiness programs in order to help all children develop the skills needed to achieve educational
success. We strive to improve the quality of services available in the community and aim to invest in the future of
Manatee County through the early care and education of its children.
Our Programs and Services include:
Child Care Resource and Referral service is a free marketing tool for legally operating providers in Manatee County.
Referral lists are available to private paying customers, as well as Early Learning\ Coalition (ELC) funded customers looking
for child care services in Manatee County. Parents are educated on how to identify quality care, are informed about different
types of care and are encouraged to continue looking for quality once their children are placed in a child care facility.
VPK is a free program aimed to prepare four-year-old children for kindergarten and build the foundation for their
educational success. VPK is available to all four-year-olds born on or before September 1 who reside in Florida, regardless
of family income. Parents come to the Early Learning Coalition (ELC) office to establish child eligibility and select the School
Year Program or Summer Program option. Parents receive a Certificate of Eligibility and may enroll their child at the VPK
provider of their choice.
School Readiness funding enables parents to remain in the workforce and obtain self-sufficiency by assisting them in
obtaining affordable, high-quality child care. Working families with low incomes that are on the wait list are offered child
care assistance as funding becomes available. Assistance to at-risk families working with Suncoast Workforce, Safe Chil-
dren’s Coalition, the Manatee County Sheriff’s Office and Manatee County Children’s Services are available immediately.
Assistance is also provided to teen parents, migrant farm worker families and families of children with special needs.
The Early Learning Coalition (ELC) works with child care providers in Manatee County to ensure they have the best
possible environment for the children in their care. Teachers and facilities are given support through trainings, techni-
cal assistance, materials, health and safety checks, continuing education opportunities and quality incentive programs.
SHARON P. OAKES
16 Family Beautiful Spring 2013Turning Homework Hassles Into Homework Happiness
Good news! Homework time doesn’t have to be a stressful time for you and your child. Power struggles over
homework create a breeding ground of discouragement for learning, and lacks a team approach in working together
to accomplish a goal. The benefits of turning homework hassles into homework happiness are endless, including the
development of skills such as responsibility, self-motivation and goal setting, while also boosting their confidence and
self-esteem.
So, let’s talk about some ways you can start establishing a positive environment for homework starting tonight!
Involve your child in deciding the time to do homework. Sometimes children just need a break after school, and
while we may want them to get their work done as soon as possible, our children might be in need of some transition
time after being in school all day.
Involving children in the decision making about the specific time that homework will be finished, will help boost
their confidence by being a part of the process. Being forced to perform a specific task unwillingly immediately gener-
ates a resistance reaction. Instead, discuss and agree on a time that works for both of you. For example, “I want to
leave for the store at 5:30, are you willing to start homework at 4:30?” Proceed through this dialogue until a mutually
agreed upon time is determined.
Explore your child’s needs. Ask your child what he/she needs in order to help them concentrate and stay seated.
Proper supplies, such as an assortment of crayon colors or newly sharpened pencils are a must, but sometimes chil-
dren simply want a cup of water or juice at their table. If they have a cold or allergies, they may need tissues nearby.
Addressing this factor teaches children identify what they need in order to complete a task or goal successfully.
Empathize and display understanding. It’s important for our children to feel heard and understood by parents. This
creates an environment where children feel safe to share their feelings. You can do this by getting on your child’s level,
making eye contact, and saying, “I felt the same way when I was your age” or “I understand. Some days I don’t feel
like sitting down to pay the bills, but I know we can have our play time together as soon as I’m finished.” Children will
model this behavior of taking responsibility and developing self-motivation skills by recognizing the connection between
completing a task and then being able to participate in the activities they enjoy.
Your desired outcome will take time. Prepare for resistance when implementing these new tools. As you are consis-
tent in your responses and collaborative spirit, your child’s behavior will gradually shift into the more peaceful home-
work time you are seeking. STEPHANIE HEFNER
www.FamilyBeautiful.com 17Doing the
R I TE
W Thing
Over the past couple of months I’ve spent a good bit of time thinking about the next article in this series in hopes of hit-
ting on something that would truly inspire readers. The subject line and what it should entail became crystal clear after
a recent encounter with a beautiful young child who so explicitly expressed her love of writing. It was in that moment I
decided to write about just that…writing.
Although I’m the author and creator of The Life and Times of Lilly the Lash®, my writing career was somewhat of an
accident. I didn’t plan to be doing what I’m doing, it just sort of happened. However, what I’ve come to learn over the
past 5 ½ years, since Lilly the Lash has come into being, is that many, many people want to, wish to, or crave to un-
leash their creativity through a writing project. My thoughts on that, “What are you waiting for?!”
Times have changed, my friends. Big publishing houses no longer hold the reigns. There are various
avenues that can be taken to get your ideas out there; you just have to pick the one that works for
you. Almost daily I’m approached by a parent or grandparent recount- ing how they used to make
up fascinating stories for their children at bedtime and would love to see them in print. I meet
incredible educators who have experienced “less than average” books, and would love to design
something special for their students. I come across folks who have trav- eled the world, have seen
a thing or two, and would love to tell their tale. My thoughts on that; “Just do it!”
If you have something in your head, write it down. It may not come out ready for the Top 10 Best
Seller List – right away – but get it down on paper. The editing can come later. The good news is
there’s something out there for everyone.
For those of you who have your sights set on the Top
10 List, you may want to investigate a writers’ class.
These classes or clubs are extremely helpful, and offer
a great deal of support in a variety of ways. Network-
ing with other like-minds is a very groovy thing. In your
travels, you’ll find there are great books available to
help you find agents, as well as publishers who except
unsolicited works. If you’re goal is to submit your writings
to a publishing house conglomerate, finding an
agent is key. If an agent likes what they see,
they’ll use their resources and connections to
take your work to the powers that be. This
process often takes months. My thoughts on
that; “Get moving!”
For the most part, I find that the people I
meet aren’t really interested in becoming a
famous author. They have a story
to tell, and they’d like to tell it. It
might be about an animal they
18 Family Beautiful Spring 2013rescued as a child, an imaginary friend they once had, or more specifically, the story of their life as they lived it. Now,
these stories may not appeal to the masses, but their appeal is massive for those whom the stories are intended. Hand-
ing down a bedtime story concocted by grandma or grandpa or mom or dad, just doesn’t get any better. Narrating
your family history in a way that only you can recall it, will be received with loving adoration and thanks; guaranteed.
Can’t draw a straight line or afford an illustrator? No worries. How about adding photos? What a great way to give
your story that heart-warming, personal touch. Think outside of the box people! You might choose to illustrate your
book with crayon drawings. They might even be drawn by your own children or grandchildren. My thoughts on that,
“What a blast!!!”
Sometimes I get the sense that people fear they won’t be able to get the words onto the paper in the way they imagine
it in their head. Well you know what? Who cares if your story doesn’t read like it was composed by Hemmingway or Dr.
Seuss? Your family and friends will most certainly find your efforts a complete delight, as they came from someone very
near and dear…YOU! My thoughts on that, “Simply SPECTACULAR!!” Julie Woik
www.FamilyBeautiful.com 19An Interview with Gus Mollasis, Host and Producer of
Diamonds Along the Highway amongst other great projects.
Diamonds within
Young Filmmakers
1. What is your film background?
GM: I am currently the co-producer and co-writer as well as host of the acclaimed PBS TV series, Diamonds Along the
Highway, which is coming back for a second season in October 2013. I also hosted a TV show called At the Movies,
(225 live shows) where we discussed various aspects of filmmaking with everyone from young filmmakers to Academy
Award winning Legends. I also can be found at the Longboat Key Education Center teaching classes about movies.
Currently I am working on screenplay about my father. (see attachment for additional information and background)
2. What exactly is the Film Camp at the Sarasota Film Society’s Lakewood Ranch Cinemas?
GM: It’s a great way for kids to learn about the craft of filmmaking and storytelling and have a lot of fun in doing
so. While it’s fun to watch a great movie, it’s even greater fun to make a movie. Being able to do at a real live movie
theatre is icing on the cake. Lakewood Ranch in many ways reminds me of a movie set. Our goal is to have fun. We
end up making some Cool Hollywood magic in sunny Florida during the Hot days of summer. And how can you beat
that? I wish they had this camp when I was a kid.
3. When is the camp? What are the hours?
GM: We start the week after the 4th of July and run
6 weeks at two meetings per week from around
10am -2pm. So in about 12 sessions we have
created a film.
4. What kind of films do the kids produce?
GM: Last year we produced a short documentary
and a short narrative film. We plan to do that again
this year.
5. Do they write actual scripts and execute them?
GM: Absolutely. This year we want to change
things around a little bit, but we want the kids
to understand all the hats that it takes to be a
filmmaker. From writing, to directing, to editing,
to acting, to marketing the film. It’s important that
everyone comes prepared and open to wearing a
different hat and sometimes many different hats
on the same day. Film is the ultimate collaborative
endeavor. When it’s done right, it is because a good
team of filmmakers worked together to produce
something good.
20 Family Beautiful Spring 20136. How long does it take for the kids to edit their films?
GM: Well that depends on the length of the film. Last year we left about have the sessions for editing.
We might up that a bit. Still, to me the most important aspect of any great film is the script. As the saying goes, “If
aint on the page, it aint on the stage.” There have been many movies that have been good despite a lack of acting
or production values- a good script is the common denominator. While it’s true you can make a bad film with a good
script, you can never make a good film with a bad script.
7. Do the kids do anything else besides make films?
GM: They market the films, create a media campaign that includes making a movie poster. This year I want them to
get involved with some social media in promoting their films. We also have wrap party and screen the film on the big
screen where we do a red carpet kind of thing. The big plus is there is no Joan Rivers around heckling what we are
wearing to the premiere.
8. What inspires you to work with kids?
GM: I’m an idea person and a people person. I love watching young minds create something from their point of view,
which many times helps me see something different or view something I had seen hundreds of times before in a fresh
new way. I learn from them as much as they do from me. What is exciting is seeing their vision, how they view their
world through film.
I am passionate about art and especially film. To me it is the greatest medium because it incorporates parts of all the
other art forms, Great writing, music, dance, cinematography, and acting.
It’s all there. That’s what excites me. When I see them, as young filmmakers create something that makes you smile, cry
or think about something in a new way, well that is my reward, my Oscar if you will. SUSAN SHORT
www.FamilyBeautiful.com 21NORWEGIAN DAWN
Who would have thought that the captain of the cruise ship Norwegian Dawn was a local resident. When Captain Paul Von
Knorring welcomed the passengers at the Latitudes returning guests party, he told us that when not onboard the ship, he lives
in Sarasota. Captain Von Knorring asked if anyone else was from there, and Family Beautiful writers Irene & Cara and their
husbands Ken & Chris responded with “Here we are” and “Sarasota in the HOUSE!”
Although both couples are veteran cruisers, none of us had experienced Norwegian’s trademark “Free Style” cruising.
The concept of Free Style Cruising is open seating with no set times for dining, except in the specialty restaurants where
reservations are required. To make that program work, many dining options are available. Some of the choices are included
in the cruise fare, while there is an additional charge for the alternative restaurants.
The specialty restaurants offer a wide variety of cuisines including Italian, French, Asian and more. One evening we chose
Moderno, a Brazilian steakhouse or churrascaria. Grilled meats are carved at the table and you may sample delicacies ranging
from filet mignon and garlic beef to lamb, chicken and more. Cagney’s steakhouse was another group favorite, with a 1920’s
film motif and exceptional service.
Another aspect of Free Style Cruising is the wide variety of activities available for all members of the family. The friendly
cruise staff encouraged the adults to participate in a wide variety of games and events. Some of these happenings were more
energetic than the regular Trivia or Karaoke that is found on most cruises. These “get-up-and-go” games included “Sing it if
you know it”, “Dancing with the Dawn Stars”, “Battle of the Sexes”, and “55 Minutes to win it”. Cara was the enthusiastic
participant from our little group, taking part in several of those events as well as singing Karaoke. She even enlisted her father
(Ken), our friend (Duwain Hunt) and staff member Neil to serve as “Pips” to her Gladys Knight.
One of Irene’s favorite spots (other than the dance floor of the Spinnaker Lounge) was the Sky Bar, where she could enjoy a
great chocolate martini while listening to a pianist play the music of Rodgers and Hammerstein. The fitness center had all
the equipment any exercise buff might want including free weights and classes. Using that exercise room might help alleviate
some of the excess pounds from the chocolate buffet or the hidden corner where fresh-made crepes were made to order later
in the evening.
22 Family Beautiful Spring 2013We were both impressed by the facilities for the younger set. They had their own secluded pool and play area designed in
a dinosaur theme with all kinds of equipment including pools with water slides and a water cannon. Norwegian’s program
for children, Splash Academy, includes Cirque du jour, interactive workshops and a kids’ center with activities ranging from
surround sound cinema to age-appropriate Wii games. All the children we saw seemed to be having a great time.
Another hallmark of this casual type cruise is that very
few people choose to “dress up”. Perhaps because of our
Sarasota connection, we were invited to the Officers
dinner with Captain Von Knorring and his staff so we
did have that opportunity but black tie was optional. If
wearing your formal finery is one of the things you enjoy
on traditional cruises, be aware that you will be in the
minority.
Freestyle cruising was not much different from what we
had expected. It is perfect for those who don’t want a set
schedule and prefer a laid back atmosphere. We found that
having an early dinner reservation worked out well for us,
allowing plenty of time to enjoy the evening’s offerings.
Cruises are high on our vacation of choice and we always
have a great time no matter which cruise we select. Choose
one that suits your preference and Happy Sailing.
Cara Herman and Irene Herman
(photo) Cara, Irene and Capt. Von Knorring
www.FamilyBeautiful.com 23“Back in those days, you
didn’t have Google,” he reminds
La Dolce Vita
us. Working full time, she spent
hours in the library studying such
matters as cognitive therapy that
would not be practiced until fifteen
years later. To this day, Herb thinks
of her as an “angel.”
Herb Baron is like no other 88-year old I’ve ever met Herb and Lorraine went on
before. He’s sharper, funnier and more affable than most to living the next fifty-six years
people I know. People are drawn to the guy. And when in their very own La Dolce Vita.
you hear his story, it makes it all the more amazing he is so They raised two children—both of
upbeat and endearing. whom became doctors—until Lorraine passed away just a
As a 17-year old in Philadephia, Herb—like most of few months months before their 60th anniversary. Before
the men and boys back then—was called off to defend the she died, she made Herb promise to write a book about
United States in World War II. When he came back three his war experiences. Lorraine, being the caring individual
years later, the smile had left his face. Herb was suffer- she was had her reasons. He kept his vow by launching La
ing from—what is now known as—Post Traumatic Stress Dolce Vita: A Love Affair until the End of Time on January
Disorder. 27, 2013.
Following four years of academic therapy, he suf- The book has received high praise from a Review
fered major relapse and returned to his cocoon. But his Editor for Amazon Books. “Herb’s memoir is written with
life suddenly changed for the good when he met his lovely enormous heart, giving this reader insight into the magic
Lorraine. Not only did she become his best friend, lover, of love, the devastating after effects of war, the complexities
but his life line, as well. For four years, she sacrificed and of a self-made business career, the joyfulness of family and
worked demandingly to nurse Herb back to his old self. She friends, and the anguish of losing the love of his life,” wrote
not only cured him; she saved his life. Judy Bell. RAY COLLINS www.HerbBaron.com
Season of Delights
Sarasota Opera opened their 2013 Winter Festival Season on February 9th with Giacomo Puccini’s “Turandot.”
It was a production that set a high standard for the rest that follow.
The sets and staging were reminiscent of an Oriental painting – a fitting backdrop to the story. Princess Turandot
has challenged her suitors to solve three riddles. If they fail, they die and they all do until an unknown prince comes
along. The role of Calaf, the prince, is sung by tenor, Jonathan Burton. He has a warm, rich voice and his rendition
of the popular aria “Nessun dorma” was very well done. Soprano, Brenda Harris had just the right haughtiness and
bravado in the title role. Maria Natale as the slave girl who dies for love had a clear, lovely soprano voice. Support-
ing roles were equally strong especially the comic trio of Ping, Pang, and Pong. They were sung by Matthew Hanscom,
Marvin Kehler, and Eric Bowden. With the expanded orchestra conducted by Artistic Director, Victor DeRenzi, and all the
pageantry the Opera House stage could hold it was the perfect opera for the Valentine season with its message of “love
conquers all.”
The Festival season continued on February 16th with Georges Bizet’s “The Pearl Fishers.” Although not as well
known as his “Carman,” this opera has lots to recommend
it. It did not have the pageantry of ”Turandot” but there were
some nice melodies and some lovely voices. Asako Tamura
– last season’s “Butterfly” – demonstrated her vocal and act-
ing skill in the role of Lelia, a priestess. Tenor, Heath Huberg,
and baritone, Lee Poulis sang well as the two men who love
her. They were especially effective in their duet about friend-
ship. As in the previous opera, choral work was strong and
this one had the added element of some very well performed
dancing. Again – love triumphed over adversity.
Two more operas completed the season. The Verdi
cycle continued with “Un Giorno di Regno” (King for a Day)
followed by the contemporary opera “Of Mice and Men” by
Carlisle Floyd. Irene Herman
24 Family Beautiful Spring 2013I needed to write, not for lust
of fame, money or glory.
My lovely wife sleeps in the dust
Who but I can tell her story?
Excerpt from
A Poem by a Non-Poet
An Ode to My Love
Herb Baron
La Dolce Vita filled a vow so sacred,
Memories told with raw honest feeling.
I wrote all she wished with nothing altered
No reticence, just complete revealing.
La Dolce Vita, a personal saga of war,
with its eerie sound of the death knell.
Tell me about it, my love would implore
But why tell a lovely angel about hell?
“Herb Baron’s memoir is written with enormous heart, giving this reader insight into the magic of love,
the devastating after effects of war, the complexities of a self made business career, the joyfulness of
family and friends, and the anguish of losing the love of his life.”
Judy Bell
Review Editor, Amazon Books
Buy La Dolce Vita now. Remember those who also would like a copy- an excellent gift.
Hard cover (library edition) $21.99 Soft back $11.99
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www.FamilyBeautiful.com 2515 Minutes with the Legendary Mario Andretti
Gentlemen, Start Your Engines
As one of the most suc-
cessful Americans in the
history of championship
racing, Mario Andretti’s
name is almost synony-
mous with speed. He is
one of only two drivers
who have ever won races
in Formula One, Indycar,
World Sportscar Cham-
pionships and Nascar. To
this date, he is the only
driver to have actually
won the Indianapolis
500 in 1969.
And, I asked him how
it feels to be a “living
legend.” His response, “I
count my blessings every
day,” and went on to add
“the sport has been good
to me, I have been fortu-
nate to have escaped in-
jury.” He also said that the
sport has evolved tremen-
dously since the early days
of his career in the sixties.
The safety then was not what it is today. Back in the early days of racing, there was a very high mortality rate, versus
now where the safety practices are quite advanced.“Everybody got smart,“ according to Andretti, “they began to apply
the same principles to safety as they did to speed and the technology has really caught up.”
What is his favorite location to race? “I have been in races in all five continents,” said Andretti, “when you are racing,
it is all the same, that car, the track, it becomes your office.”
He did say that Fiji is on his “bucket list” of places to visit where he can relax, when he can find the time. And, some
of his favorite teammates came from Sweden, which he has visited and enjoyed. But his favorite haunt other than his
Andretti Vineyard is Italy of course, where he was born and raised.
And, what is going on with the Andretti winery? It happens to be doing very well. Located in sublime and pristine
Napa Valley, it was actually never in his long range plans to be a vintner. He said he loves wine and has travelled the
26 Family Beautiful Spring 2013world in previous decades where people were less exposed to a variety of wines from exotic locales such as South Africa
and Argentina. Obviously it is much more common these days. He fell in love with Napa Valley during a visit in the 70s
and the dream evolved organically from there.
What was his favorite race? “Every race that I have won,” he said, but one did come to mind. “When I was 14 years
old, I visited the town of Monza, it was considered the super bowl of races,” Andretti went on, “it was there and then the
dream began.” Beckoned by the allure of Italian racing giant, Alberto Ascari, who was at the time one of Formula One
racing’s most dominant and best loved champions. Located north of Milan, Italy, the Monza circuit is an eminent and
storied location.
In 1978, Andretti cinched the Formula One Grand Prix title, coming full circle with his childhood dream. Although
the loss of his good friend and teammate as a result of a horrific accident originally doused much of Andretti’s enjoy-
ment of the win, many spectators said that the accident had been frightening to witness. Ronnie Peterson had been
taken to the hospital with what was thought to be only minor injuries. Andretti made the second start thinking that his
teammate was going to be OK. At first Peterson’s injuries appeared to be survivable, but the severe trauma to his legs
caused blood clots to form in his circulatory system. He died the next morning. With the passage of time, Monza, 1978,
is certainly remembered as a dark day in Grand Prix history. It is currently remembered as the day that Mario Andretti
became only the second American to capture the World Driving Championship.
So what makes a true champion in Mario Andretti’s eyes? A burning desire to achieve. Not just winning at all costs,
but to achieve greatness. And, this fabled, renowned champion has done that and much, much more.
The most important aspect of a car and its safety? Tires. “You can’t go anywhere without them,” said Andretti. And
what does he consider the best? Firestone. Their experience and technology are second to none in the world.
Mr. Mario Andretti was on hand to open the new The Tire Choice location on state Road 70. It is the 35th family-owned
store to be opened by Dan and Diane Hennelly, who have helped southern Floridians with their tire and automotive
needs for 31 years. Susan Short www.thetirechoice.com
www.FamilyBeautiful.com 27Movers,
Shakers,
&
Singers...
The 2013 Bright House Network Senior Talent Show was held on Sunday, February 10th at Neel
Auditorium on the campus of State College of Florida in Manatee County.
Ten contestants - all winners of the auditions held in January - competed for the opportunity to be
the three performers who will join with other regional winners for the title of Tampa Bay Senior
Idol. That show is scheduled for April 19, 2013 at Ruth Eckerd Hall in Clearwater.
Audience votes determined the three winners. They were vocalist, Deborah Bender; guitarist and
vocalist, Elaine “Lane” Milner; and vocalist, James “Mr. C” Campney.
The show was emceed by Family Beautiful feature writer, Irene Herman and all proceeds were for the
benefit of Meals on Wheels Plus of Manatee County. Leah Brown, Public Relations Manager at Bright
House Network, presented a check in the amount of $3,180 to Meals on Wheels Plus CEO, Maribeth
Phillips. Irene Herman
28 Family Beautiful Spring 2013www.FamilyBeautiful.com 29
The Oscars at
The Sarasota
Film Society
As it has been stated “The only way to properly watch a motion picture is on
the big screen.” Which is exactly what took place at Sarasota Film Society’s
Burns Court and Lakewood Ranch Cinemas for the 2013 Academy Awards
Presentation.
Gus Mollasis, an esteemed local
filmmaker, who has been featured
on the PBS special “Diamonds
along the Highway” emceed and
entertained the Burns Court audi-
ence for the entire evening once
again.
Meanwhile at Lakewood Ranch
Cinemas, the first annual Academy
Awards Party was launched with
some trepidation, not knowing ex-
actly what to expect from our new
audience in that area. Well, in all
candor, we were pleasantly surprised by the support and well wishes that
were received from an enthusiastic group of movie aficionados.
Ray Collins, of Ray Collins Media, was kind enough to emcee the night’s
festivities and trivia games. And a special thanks to Tom Shame of Tom
Shane photography and video, for providing us with some nice memories.
Party goers in both theaters were treated to a red carpet reception includ-
ing unlimited beer and
wine as well as a fine assortment of hors d’oeuvres, some of which were
provided by Caragulios, The Drunken Poet Café, Salvatore’s Italian
Kitchen and Solórzano Brothers.
The Film Society is already looking forward to next year’s event with the
hopes that those of you who enjoyed the experience will share it with
other friends and family.
I would be remiss if I didn’t give a special thanks to our biggest sup-
porter, Susan Short of Family Beautiful Magazine for her tireless effort as
always. Barbara Caras
30 Family Beautiful Spring 2013www.FamilyBeautiful.com 31
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