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Baker Lio Botello and country singer/songwriter
Kam Ross are a gay power couple on the rise
By Jenny Block, Page 8
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Bites from our blog                                                                                      Victory Fund will not be
                                                                                                         endorsing Caitlin Jenner
                                                                                                            Victory Fund issued a statement Thuirsday,
                                                                                                                                                                    The party starts quickly for Pride month this
                                                                                                                                                                June. Black Sheep Hospitality Group announced
                                                                                                                                                                its inaugural Trick the Mini Fest on June 4-7, and
 WHAT’S THE TEA: DallasVoice.com                                                                                                                                organizer Rickey Head is looking to bring Pride
                                                                                                         May 20, that it will not be endorsing Caitlyn Jen-
                                                                                                                                                                back into the gayborhood.
                                                                                                         ner for Governor of California.
                                                                                                                                                                    “Pride just hasn’t been the same since it
                                                                                                            Jenner simply doesn’t meet the criteria that all
                                                                                                                                                                moved,” he said by phone. “So I wanted to give
                                                                                                         candidates must meet for an endorsement.
                                                                                                                                                                people an opportunity to celebrate on The Strip
                                                                                                            Victory Fund requires that its endorsed candi-
                                                                                                                                                                who don’t want to celebrate it elsewhere.”
                                                                                                         dates support full equality for all members of the
                                                                                                                                                                    The event will feature a DJ lineup, drag perfor-
                                                                                                         LGBTQ community.
                                                                                                                                                                mances, the Lil Miss Trick pageant and the Mr.
                                                                                                            “While Jenner is running as an out trans
                                                                                                                                                                Trick dance contest.
                                                                                                         person, she’s doing it while throwing trans kids
                                                                                                                                                                    Tickets are available at Eventbrite.com.
                                                                                                         under the bus, telling TMZ that she supports laws
                                                                                                                                                                                                       — Rich Lopez
                                                                                                         banning trans kids from sports,” Sean Meloy, Vic-
                                                                                                         tory Fund’s vice president of political programs,
                                                                                                         wrote in a statement. “Caitlyn Jenner isn’t with us    Preston Hollow Dems
                                                                                                         – and we’re not with her.”
                                                                                                            Victory Fund has endorsed a number of               warn of email scam
                                                                                                         transgender candidates, including Tyler Titus              Preston Hollow Democrats are warning mem-
                                                                                                         who just won their primary for county executive        bers and supporters this week about a scam
                                                                                                         in Erie County, Penn. Other endorsed trans             email asking recipients to donate gift cards to the
                                                                                                         candidates include Danica Roem, who is running         group.
                                                                                                         for re-election to the Virginia House of Delegates,        “Be aware there is a fraudulent email circu-
                                                                                                         Mariah Moore, who is running for New Orleans           lating,” the group notes in an alert on the PHD
                                                                                                         City Council, and Andrea Jenkins, who is running       website and in an email sent to members and
                                                                                                         for Minneapolis City Council.                          supporters. “Do not respond to this email or
                                                                                                                                               — David Taffet   open any attachments.”
Dale Hansen                                                                                                                                                         Edwards warns, “It did not come from my
                                                                                                                                                                email address or any other PHD email addresses.
Dale Hansen is retiring                              Trans candidate wins                                Trick the Mini Fest                                    It is not associated with George or the Preston
   WFAA announced this week that sportscaster                                                                                                                   Hollow Democrats.”
Dale Hansen is retiring in September. He’s been
                                                     Democratic Primary for Erie,                        announced for Pride                                                             The scam email subject
at the station since 1983.                           Penn., county executive                                                                                                          line reads “The Preston
   Hansen became a hero to the LGBTQ                    Transgender candidate Tyler Titus moved                                                                                       Hollow Democrats,” and the
community when he aired a Dale Hansen                one step closer this week to becoming the first                                                                                  body of the email says, “Are
“Unplugged” segment about Michael Sam, after         openly trans county executive in the U.S. with a                                                                                 you available to assist? I am
Sam was snubbed by every NFL team because            victory in the four-way Democratic Primary race                                                                                  out of the state, and I’ve got
he is gay.                                           for Erie County, Penn., county executive. Titus,                                                                                 credence in you to take care
   At the time, Hansen thought sportscasters in      president of the Erie School Board, now faces                                                                                    of this. I would have called
every market would comment similarly. Instead,       Republican Brenton Davis in the November                                                                                         your phone, but presently
no one else said a word, and Hansen went on          general election.                                                                                                                I don’t have access to my
to appear on Ellen and became a hero to the             Titus, 36, became the first openly transgender                                                                                mobile phone.
LGBTQ community around the country, but              person to win any elected office in Pennsylvania                                                                                    “The Preston Hollow
especially here in Dallas.                           when they won their school board race in 2017.                                                                                   Democrats need some
   Since then, he has raised tens of thousands of       The LGBTQ Victory Fund, which backed Titus                                                                                    gift cards for donation to
dollars for Black Tie Dinner and has won Dallas      in the race, credited the candidate’s “ground-                                                                                   Veterans at Hospice and
Peace and Justice Center’s 2019 Inspiration          breaking ad detailing their coming out story,                                                                                    Palliative Care Units for
Award, the Hero of Hope Award from the               struggles with their identity and their path to                                                                                  Personal Protective Equip-
Cathedral of Hope Church and the Peacemaker          public service,” “carefully laid out policy plans                                                                                ment from Corona Virus
Award from the Turtle Creek Chorale. He’s won        addressing everything from increasing broad-                                                                                     (COVID-19). I have decided
more than 20 Lone Star Emmy Awards and has           band access to healthcare reform” and “honesty                                                                                   to make it a personal duty.
been named Sportscaster of the Year twice by         and transparency [that] resonated with voters”                                                                                   I will be responsible for the
Associated Press.                                    for Titus’ win.                                                                                                                  reimbursement.”
                                    — David Taffet                                      — Tammye Nash                                                                                              — Tammye Nash
                                                                                                         Nicole O’Hara Munro

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VOICES
    OPINIONS FROM THE COMMUNITY

Finding hope after the pandemic
Religious institutions found                                                  was about       ahead.                                        individualism alone in hard times but
                                                                              making do          We may have slain one giant, but new       on relationships we build with one an-
themselves at the center of                                                   with what       ones will emerge, and having courage          other. It will take some time, but I am
the COVID crisis, finding ways                                                you have        to face them doesn’t mean fear disap-         confident trust will return to our wor-
to continue to worship while                                                  and hop-        pears. It means we stand strong no mat-       ship spaces.
                                                                              ing some        ter what tries to knock us off our feet.         Finally, we’ll need hope. A pandemic
responding to grief                                                           of it sticks.      With in-person worship services, we        is nothing if not a hope-killer. It stretch-
                                                                                I’m not       may never recover to pre-COVID level.         es us, tests us, brings us to the very edge

M
           ore than 570,000 Americans                                         sure if we      We may have to deal with the personal         of despair. But I have hope that you
           have died from COVID-19.                                           always          trauma of returning. We may be fright-        will find hope in the coming days and
           That’s more deaths than                                            succeed-        ened of trying to establish a kind of nor-    weeks.
American soldiers lost in World War II,                                       ed,       but   malcy that doesn’t exist yet, to accept          I have hope not only because the end
the Korean and the Vietnam wars com-                                          we       per-   that some of us can’t go back to “be-         of this pandemic is near but, most im-
bined.                                                                        severed         fore” — and this is where our worship         portantly, because I choose to exercise
  But pandemics and wars are difficult                                        through         spaces and family in faith can help. We       encouragement and to trust in oth-
to weigh against one another. Wars typ-         stress, uncertainty and sometimes             can encourage one another as we walk          ers. Our job isn’t to find superhuman
ically happen far away, and those who           tragedy to find ourselves on the cusp         through the doors once more, in faith         strength during a pandemic; our job is
go to fight them understand that they           of victory. As vaccines are distributed,      that we are right where we need to be,        simply to love and lean on one another.
may not return. In a pandemic, death            herd immunity is eventually achieved,         while fully recognizing and respecting           We must love others as we have been
comes to our shores, and everyone is            and restrictions are lifted or modified,      another’s choice to continue to worship       loved. This is the fertile soil where hope,
enlisted. It’s a moment in time that has        many churches are preparing to return         from home where they need to be.              when cultivated in a community, will
the power to shift our sense of being.          to in-person worship.                            We must also learn to trust again. Af-     blossom.
As a minister and leader of a congre-              This is an exciting moment. COVID          ter spending so much time away from              The road to full recovery may take
gation fighting on the home front in            has been a worthy opponent, and it feels      friends and colleagues, we will have to       longer than we might like, and many
this battle, I have seen more heartache         like we are nearly on the other side of       re-learn what it means to live in a com-      churches will choose to continue with
and loss than any society should have           it. But our David and Goliath moment          munity again. We may wonder, “How             online or hybrid options that proved
to endure. Religious institutions found         may just be getting started, and we can’t     can I trust my neighbor to mask up, or        so valuable during COVID. Our church
themselves at the center of this crisis as      let our excitement obscure the challeng-      stay home if she’s sick?”                     will do so.
we attempted to respond to the toll of          es ahead.                                        Doubts have taken hold of us because          Regardless of how our communi-
human grief while finding novel ways               Like King David in the Bible, it would     we have been deprived of opportunities        ties move forward, one thing is cer-
to gather together and live out our faith.      have been easy to let fear consume us         to be vulnerable, to serve and be served      tain: We must move forward together.
  I am proud of our efforts at the Cathe-       as we faced the giant standing before         by one another, to simply interact with       By encouraging ourselves and others,
dral of Hope. We started Zoom groups,           us. In the story, David was outsized and      others on a regular basis for more than       building trust, and cultivating hope in
recorded messages of encouragement              outmatched, but he did not let fear get       a year.                                       our lives, we can defeat any giant that
and broadcast sermons from empty                in the way. It took courage and encour-          For most of us, we have been forced to     stands in our way. 		                     █

sanctuaries into living rooms. On many          agement — the things we’ll need most          become more self-sufficient. But healthy         The Rev. Neil Thomas is senior pastor of
Sundays, the liturgy of the pandemic            going forward — to face new challenges        societies and congregations rely not on       Cathedral of Hope United Church of Christ.

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POWER couple
PROFILE

Baker Lio Botello gets ‘Krafty’
with the support of his country-
music-singing partner Kam Ross

JENNY BLOCK | Contributing Writer

                    io Botello, 32, is one
                    crafty queen. Actual-
                    ly, he is Krafty Kween,
                    maker of baking good-
                    ies that look as good as
                    they taste. His day job
                    is managing a Farmers
                    Insurance Agency, he
explained, but “My second full-time job is
baking and crafting for my business.” For-
merly with Sugar Daddy’s, he grew up in
Fort Worth.
   “I lived in Hurst for nine years be-
fore finally making the move all the way
across DFW to Dallas,” he said.
   Botello’s former partner in business
and in his personal life was a pastry chef.
That’s how his career in baking began.
   “Living together, I was around it all the
time,” he said. “I have always been cre-
ative, and I love making beautiful things. I
was assisting most of time [at Sugar Dad-
dy’s], taking care of all of the marketing
and social media for our business, and I
slowly just taught myself to do more and       and it was what was best for us.” Shortly       about that.”                                     “He and I have been together since Oc-
more.”                                         after, his ex-partner decided to close Sugar      Grateful for his success with his re-       tober of 2019,” Botello said. “We actually
   He’s been baking as a lead and solo bak-    Daddy’s completely.                             cent pivot, Botello said it’s not something   saw each other for the first time at Alys-
er for almost a year now after assisting for      But Botello didn’t miss a beat. Still, be-   he could ever have done alone. “One of        sa Edwards’ Labor Day party.”
almost three years.                            cause he had always been assisting rather       my good friends and regular customers,           Johnson added, “I introduced them.
   Botello says he is inspired by “the im-     than working as a lead baker, he knew he        Alyssa Edwards [Justin Johnson], has          And little did I know, they would end up
pact a cake or dessert has on someone’s        still had plenty to learn.                      been a great return customer and also         being together. So, I guess that’s a crazy
special day, whether that be their birthday,      “But I am always excited to learn,”          a great mentor as I have tried to navigate    little thing called love. But I wasn’t caught
anniversary, Mother’s Day or a promotion.      he continued. “Surprisingly, my biggest         becoming a solo entrepreneur,” he said.       off guard, because they’re both really
If one of my beautiful desserts can be in      mentor was one of my competitors from             “The sweets are always sweet,” Johnson      sweet souls.”
the center of a table surrounded by peo-       my time on Netflix’s Sugar Rush — Amy           said. “I think Lio just is such a wonderful      Botello and Ross crossed paths again
ple celebrating something, then my heart       from Amy’s Cupcake Shoppe. She has been         guy. They’ve been making things for all       a few week after the party, and the two
is full.                                       a tremendous help any time I have ques-         of my events, my studio and for me, per-      have been inseparable since, Botello said.
   “I love watching someone’s face light       tions or feel unsure about something.”          sonally, for… I mean, it’s been a good min-   And that, Johnson said, makes sense, re-
up when they receive the cake or treat            While at Sugar Daddy’s, Botello worked       ute. They would make my birthday cakes.       ally. “They connect with people really
that was ordered for them, but even more       with a number of charity organizations. “I      They baked all of the things for all of my    naturally and easily. They remind me of a
so the joy it brings the person gifting the    always enjoyed heading up these projects        studio. They would bring cupcakes to my       lot of one another in that sense, because
item,” he added.                               and being a dessert sponsor for various         students.”                                    they’re so inviting when they walk in a
   Almost a year ago now, Botello left Sugar   events,” he said. And he is proud to say          “He’s just a creative person, and I think   room.”
Daddy’s. “I decided to focus on my business    that he is continuing that charity work         we’re fans of each other’s worlds.”              A graduate of Binn College, Ross is a
and take on my biggest fear — baking on        at Krafty Kween, adding, “I actually just         Botello’s current partner — in life alone   senior key account manager for a hos-
my own,” he said. “My ex-business partner      locked in working with DIFFA Dallas for         this time and not business — is Houston       pitality tech company when it comes to
and I had just run our course in business,     their event this fall. I am extremely excited   native Kameron Ross, 31.                      making a living. But he’s a country mu-

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sic singer/songwriter when it comes to            “It’s so important to have these clear
making his dreams come true.                    role models and these people that are not
   Ever since he was a kid, Ross has want-      afraid to be themselves. And Kam being
ed to be a musician. “When I was 8, my          so proud of who he is. I mean, that is in-
parents took me to a Shania Twain con-          spiring to me,” Johnson said.
cert, and I knew then that that was what          Ross released his first single in almost
I wanted to do,” he said. His first album       15 years — “If I Could Go Back” — just
was released in 2006.                           last month, on April 16. He said he has
   “I am passionate about performing            two more releases planned for this sum-
and being on stage. I love connecting           mer and that he is really excited to be
with people through the lyrics in whatev-       putting out his own music again.
er song it is that am singing,” Ross said.        He was recently booked to perform at

All photos courtesy Marcos Covos Photography

   Ross was a contestant on Season 15           Fair Park in June for Dallas Pride, and,
of America’s Got Talent, which aired last       he said, “Performing at Pride is excit-
summer in the midst of the pandemic. He         ing for me, having been an artist that
made it all the way to the quarter finals.      struggled with being a gay country mu-
   “He had an amazing time on the show          sic singer when I was younger to now
and loved that they gave him a platform         be performing at Pride.”
to share his voice with people all over the        Burgeoning careers and romance:
country,” Botello said of his partner.          It doesn’t get much better than that.
   Johnson is certainly sold on Ross’ tal-      As Johnson said of his friends, “When
ents, too. “I remember seeing Kam sing          two like-minded souls connect, it’s just
live for the very first time at Alexander’s     magnetic. And I’ve watched their rela-
years ago,” he said. “I think it was a kara-    tionship blossom into the beautiful cou-
oke night. And I’ll never forget. I turned      ple that they are inside and out. It’s im-
to our mutual friend, and I said, ‘That is      portant that we recognize that, because
a star. He is a star. And he is the future of   sometimes we can get caught up on
country music.’”                                someone’s outer features, but they’re
   Johnson continued, “There are just           both very creatively inspired.
some people that have a natural quality            “I love that they support one another
on stage. [Ross] has that ‘it factor.’ And      in their creative ventures. Both of them
then you start peeling back layers, and         have this drive that is just a force. I
you meet this human that is truly a bright      mean, they really are a beautiful power
light in this world.                            couple,” Johnson said. 		                █

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Down to the WIRE
NEWS FROM THE LEGISLATURE

With time running out in the 87th
Texas Legislature, activists watch
two bills targeting trans youth

JAMES RUSSELL | Contributing Writer
james.journo@gmail.com

                      epublicans in the
                      Texas Legislature
                      are so intent on
                      making life hell for
                      transgender kids
                      that even some
                      Democrats are join-
                      ing them. As the
biennial 140-day open season on civ-
il rights and liberties comes to a close,
lawmakers have prioritized and passed
legislation banning abortion after six
weeks, further restricting access to the
ballot box, limiting lawsuits against
18-wheeler drivers who hurt or kill
someone and allowing guns to be car-
ried without a permit.
   The abortion restrictions, which
also allow for any private citizen to
sue someone who receives, performs
or is an accessory to an abortion, was
signed into law by Gov. Greg Abbott on
Wednesday, May 21, as was the truck-
ing bill. The others remain in conference
committee, where members from both
chambers work out the differences be-
tween their respective chamber’s ver-
sion of the bills.
                                            Democratic state Rep. Harold Dutton Jr.
   Other bills making their way through
the legislature include a measure re- on the floor, Senate versions have found        ing in athletics that align with their       ily in the conservative Republican-held
quiring that any professional sports new life thanks to the efforts, in one           gender identity, it does allow students      Senate on a party line vote of 18-13
team with government contracts play case, of a Democrat.                              to use amended birth certificates; SB 29     while its House companions died. But
“The Star-Spangled Banner” before              Two Senate bills remain on the radar   would take away that option. The bill is     the Senate versions have been revived.
starting a game and a measure banning of LGBTQ groups: Senate Bill 1311 by            waiting to be taken up by the Calendars         When the committee held its initial
“critical race theory” pedagogy in pub- Sen. Bob Hall, R-Edgewood, and Senate         committee, which decides when bills          vote on SB 29, Democrat Rep. James
lic schools.                                 Bill 29 by Water, Agriculture & Rural    are heard on the House floor.                Talarico of Round Rock called it “lip-
   Yet two top Republican priorities –– Affairs Committee Chair Charles Per-             SB 1311 would ban gender-affirming        stick on a pig,” adding he knew his Re-
barring healthcare access to transgender ry, R-Lubbock. The former bans gender        health care for transgender youth, pun-      publican colleagues on the committee
youth and requiring they play sports affirming care for transgender children.         ish doctors for providing transition-re-     don’t like the bill. Voting it out would
based on the sex on their birth certifi- And SB 29 would codify existing Uni-         lated care by revoking their licenses and    be “enough to tarnish the name of this
cate and not their actual gender identity versity Interscholastic League policy       ban insurance coverage of the practice.      committee,” he said.
–– have consistently stalled despite the requiring students play on the teams         It awaits committee referral. Equality          House LGBTQ Caucus Chair Mary
momentum similar legislation is gain- based on their biological sex and not           Texas has named SB 29 as a top threat to     Gonzalez, D-Clint, urged her colleagues
ing nationwide.                              their gender identity.                   trans youth.                                 to vote no after hearing testimony from
   While various House versions of             While UIL already prohibits most          SB 29 has had a rocky road on the way     educators who opposed the bill. And
these bills died before getting a full vote transgender students from participat-     to hitting the House floor. It passed eas-
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LOCAL CRIME UPDATES

What happened
                                                                                              But, she said, this case is different.        “Whether or not the individual iden-
                                                                                           Crowe said she has asked around her ex-       tified as transgender, the focus should
                                                                                           tensive network in the trans community        remain that this was a beautiful black

to Tiffany?                                                                                and found no one who knew Tiffany.
                                                                                              “Lots of trans people don’t have ac-
                                                                                           cess to other trans folks,” Crowe said,
                                                                                                                                         human, someone’s child, someone’s
                                                                                                                                         loved one and, more importantly, a life
                                                                                                                                         that did not deserve to be taken through
                                                                                           adding that coming out as trans can be        any form of hate, prejudice, or discrimi-
Police still have no clues in the                                                          a very lonely process and not everyone        nation,” Anderson-Harvey said.
murder of Tiffany Thomas                                                                   connects to the trans community.                 Often it’s difficult to come out as trans
                                                                                              Still Crowe said, even though Tiffany      and truly live as one’s authentic whole
DAVID TAFFET | Senior Staff Writer                                                         may not have identified as transgender,       self, she said, stressing that that can be
taffet@dallasvoice.com                                                                     they were somewhere on the trans spec-        especially true in the Black community.
                                                                                           trum. Referring to the picture the family     “This may contradict cultural norms,
                         allas police con-   down by a passerby of an unresponsive         released, Crowe said, “She didn’t look        which often are binary and give no room
                         tinue to inves-     person lying on the ground at the car         like somebody who just jumped into it.”       for living free from fear or rejection,” An-
                         tigate the mur-     wash. The officer found the victim on            In their photo, Tiffany’s hair and         derson-Harvey said. “The truth will live
                         der of Jermaine     the ground, unresponsive, with a gun-         makeup are done well, something that          only with the individual and is not pred-
                         Thomas, 38, also    shot wound.                                   baffles Crowe, because Tiffany obvious-       icated on other thoughts, perceptions or
                         known as Tiffany,      Dallas Fire and Rescue responded and       ly learned hair and makeup skills some-       opinions.”
                         who was found       pronounced the victim deceased at the         where. And even if they didn’t identify          She said she hopes there will be a
                         shot to death       scene at 1:45 a.m. Witnesses reported         as trans, they were quickly identified as     break in the case and that Tiffany and her
on Saturday morning, April 24, at a car      hearing gunshots in the area at around        Tiffany.                                      family will find justice.
wash at 7171 American Way near Red           midnight.                                        And it isn’t just Crowe’s network of          Dallas police ask that anyone with
Bird Mall. Although they were “present-         Pocahontas Duvall Crowe said that it       friends that didn’t know Tiffany. Both        information regarding the murder of
ing as female” at the time of the murder,    is common for family members to deny          Naomi Greene at Abounding Prosper-            Jermaine “Tiffany” Thomas contact the
and photos provided to police show the       someone is transgender, especially after      ity and Carter Brown with Black Trans         Dallas Police Homicide Unit at 469-475-
victim presenting as female, Dallas Po-      a murder. But, she added, other mem-          Men/Black Trans Women said no one in          6004 or email andrea.isom@dallascityha-
lice LGBT Liaison Officer Chelsea Geist      bers of the trans community will usually      their organizations knew Tiffany either.      ll.com. Reference case number 070623-
said family members told police the vic-     know the victim and will come forward            Carmarion Anderson-Harvey is the           2021.
tim didn’t identify as transgender.          to point out that the person was just         Alabama state director for Human Right           Crimes Stoppers will pay up to $5,000
   According to police reports, when         coming out as trans or that they hid their    Campaign. She’s originally from Dallas        for information leading to an arrest and
a police patrol sergeant was flagged         trans identity from their family.             and has been following this case.             indictment in this case.		                █

Alan White’s
                                                                                           Inwood, going north toward his home.          not calling the case a death, but a disap-
                                                                                              But he never reached home.                 pearance. Throughout the investigation,

body found
                                                                                              White was an executive with KPMG           however, they have been considering all
                                                                                           who worked from home and was sched-           possibilities.
                                                                                           uled to participate in a Zoom call from          Now, because cause of death has not
                                                                                           home at 7:30 a.m. Jenkins filed a missing     yet been determined, White’s death has
Police hope to know cause of                                                               person report at 11 a.m.                      still not been ruled a homicide. Because
                                                                                              Park Place Motors was unable to lo-        of the state of decomposition, determin-
death soon but aren’t yet calling                                                          cate the car, even though loaner cars are     ing cause of death may be difficult, but
it murder                                                                                  normally fitted with GPS trackers. The        Geist said she hopes results would be
                                                                                           car was found a week later about a mile       available soon that can give detectives
DAVID TAFFET | Senior Staff Writer                                                         from where White’s body was eventu-           new clues.
taffet@dallasvoice.com                                                                     ally found. At the time, police said they        While the case hasn’t been officially
                                             found the remains in a wooded area and        were waiting for results to come back         ruled a homicide, Crime Stoppers is of-
                    he Dallas County         called 9-1-1. White disappeared on Oct. 22.   from SWIFS, Southwestern Institute of         fering a $5,000 reward for any informa-
                    Medical Examiner            White and his husband, Rusty Jenkins,      Forensic Sciences.                            tion that leads to the arrest and indict-
                    has yet to determine     both left their home at around 4:45 a.m.         “It is a very difficult and time-consum-   ment of a suspect in the case. In addition,
                    the cause of death for   Thursday, Oct. 22, driving separate cars      ing process unfortunately,” Geist said at     a private fund has offered $20,000 for
                    Alan White, the Dal-     on their way to separate gyms. White          the time.                                     information on White’s disappearance
                    las gay man who dis-     was last seen leaving the L.A. Fitness           In addition, White’s phone was found       and death.
                    appeared last Octo-      gym at CityPlace around 6 a.m. He was         in the car and police were waiting on            While police are waiting for autopsy
                    ber and whose body       driving a black Porsche Macan, a loaner       warrants from Apple to unlock the             results, they are actively seeking infor-
was found last week. But police hope to      car from Park Place Motors.                   phone. Then separate warrants were re-        mation in the case and ask that anyone
have more information soon, according           From there, surveillance video from the    quired for each application on the phone.     with information related to White’s
to LGBT Police Liaison Chelsea Geist.        RaceTrac gas station on Inwood Road at        There has been no word yet from police        death contact Detective Eric Barnes at
  White’s body was found near Paul           Maple Avenue in Oak Lawn showed him           where they were in that process or if it      214-283-4818 or by email at eric.barnes@
Quinn College in south Dallas on May         at a pump filling the car with gas. Another   revealed any clues.                           dallascityhall.com, referencing case
13. A survey crew working for the college    video showed him exiting the station onto        Until his body was found, police were      188623-2020.        		                   █

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PRIDE for all ages
THE MOMBIAN
                                                                                                                    Robin Stevenson (Stephanie Hull Centric Photography)

Author writes Pride books
for tots to teens and those
in between

DANA RUDOLPH | Contributing Columnist

                     here are happily
                     now many chil-
                     dren’s books about
                     Pride, but Robin Ste-
                     venson may be the
                     author who has tak-                                                                              from caregiver to         In that novel, a grandfather’s death
                     en up the subject for                                                                            child,” Stevenson      brings cousins Talia, 18, and Mark, 17,
                     the most age groups.                                                                             explained. “It in-     together at the Ontario cottage where
Over the past few years, Stevenson, an                                                                                cludes the line ‘Be    they used to spend their summers. They
award-winning author of more than 25                                                                                  yourself, love who     haven’t seen each other in years because
books in total, has published a board                                                                                 you choose’ — I        their parents are estranged. Both teens
book, a picture book, a middle grade                                                                                  think that is one      are queer and struggling with the status
nonfiction book and a young adult novel                                                                               of the meanings of     of their romantic relationships.
— all revolving around Pride.                                                                                         Pride, and I love to      Even though they don’t really get
   She told me via e-mail, “Pride has al-                                                                             think of children      along, Mark convinces Talia to take a
ways been important to me, but it has                                                                                 hearing that mes-      break from family obligations and sneak
had different meanings for me at dif-                                                                                 sage from the very     off with him and his 10-year-old sister
ferent times in my life — coming out         ilies like mine, who look forward to the       beginning of their lives.”                       on a road trip to Toronto Pride. They get
as a young adult, taking my own child,       Pride parade every year — all the kids            For middle grade children ready to            help from several older queer folks, meet
talking to queer activists around the        who love getting dressed up in fancy           learn more specifics about Pride, howev-         new friends and learn more not only
world in researching my book — and I         outfits, meeting up with friends, eating       er, Stevenson’s nonfiction Pride: The Cele-      about LGBTQ culture but also about
think all of those meanings have filtered    ice cream in the park, watching the floats     bration and the Struggle (Orca Books, 2020)      themselves.
into my writing.”                            go by, listening to music on the stages        does the trick. It blends a history of the          Told in alternating chapters by Talia and
   Her most recent book, Pride Puppy!        and feeling like a part of it all.             event with a broader look at the strug-          Mark, this is a fun yet thoughtful book
(Orca Books, 2021) is an alphabet book          “But I was also thinking about kids         gle for LGBTQ equality plus information          about family, community, and growing
and more, bursting with diversity across     who haven’t had that chance, and I             about what it means to come out, what to         up. Mark and Talia are presumed white;
LGBTQ and other identities. “A for           wanted to give them a glimpse of our           expect at Pride events around the world,         supporting characters are of various skin
awake, animals and all,” it begins, as a     beautiful, diverse, creative community. I      fun facts, profiles, a glossary and more.        tones and queer identities.
young child, a baby, and their two parents   tried to write this as a child’s eye view of      “Pride offers a factual overview of              While When You Get the Chance and
(one Black and female; the other white       Pride, focusing on the things that might       LGBTQ+ history and community, and                Pride are very different, Stevenson said,
and nonbinary) wake up in the morning        be relevant to a small kid.”                   lots of stories to encourage and inspire         “They actually touch on some similar
and get ready for the Pride march.              Pride Puppy! is an energetic delight,       young activists,” Robinson said. “It’s an        themes. … In my non-fiction book, I ex-
   Each rhyming page takes us onward         but those who want something more              outward-looking book, because middle             plained the history of Pride very directly,
through the alphabet and the day, where      soothing for the very youngest children        grade readers are at an age when they            while in this teen novel, facts about the
Julie McLaughlin’s colorful drawings         should try Stevenson’s board book Pride        are often wanting to know more about             Stonewall Uprising and changing ideas
show people of various ages, body types,     Colors (Orca Books, 2019). It takes the        the world and how they can make a dif-           about identity are woven into intergen-
skin tones, cultures, physical abilities,    original meanings of the colors in the         ference in it.”                                  erational conversations between queer
religions and LGBTQ identities. At one       Pride flag, as envisioned by creator Gil-         In contrast, her recent young adult           adults, teens, and kids.”
point, the puppy gets loose and romps        bert Baker, and turns them into a poem         book When You Get the Chance (Running               No matter what age your kids are, Ste-
across subsequent pages with the family      from parent to child: “Yellow sunshine,        Press Kids, 2021), written with fellow           venson’s books may even spark real-life
in pursuit, offering an engaging narra-      smiles so bright./I’ll hug you, kiss you,      Canadian author Tom Ryan, “is more               intergenerational conversations about
tive arc lacking in many ABC books. The      hold you tight.”                               about the emotional experience of Pride          Pride and identity as well.                █

book also incorporates a fun “seek-and-         “Board books are all about the rela-        and what it can mean to a young person              Dana Rudolph is the founder and publish-
find” activity, with additional items to     tionship between the little one and the        — who may be grappling with questions            er of Mombian (mombian.com). Join her June
discover on every page.                      adult reader, and with Pride Colors I          about family, relationships, identity — to       1 for the 16th annual #LGBTQFamiliesDay:
   Stevenson reflected, “When I wrote        wanted to write a book that conveyed a         feel that they are a part of something big-      post and share on all social media in support
Pride Puppy!, I was thinking about fam-      message of absolute love and acceptance        ger.”                                            and celebration of LGBTQ families!

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Contrived? A little
ON THE PAGE

But gay man’s ‘women’s fiction’               a misogynistic political candidate. Ev-       Learning to love laundry day                 became Richardson’s career, and laun-
tale is worth a read                          erybody hated what Rachel said on his                                                      dry is his love-language: “Caring for
                                              behalf, and they sometimes hated her,         Laundry Love: Finding Joy in a               your loved ones’ clothes shows them
                                              too. But she was happy — wasn’t she?          Common Chore by Patric Richardson            love.”
TERRI SCHLICHENMEYER | Bookworm Sez              And then she got the letter.               with Karin B. Miller; c.2021, Flatiron          The first thing to know, Richardson
BookwormSez@yahoo.com                            As Liz sat next to her dying mother,       Books: $25.99; 185 pages.                    states, is that “Our clothes are bossy.” If
                                              it hit her: Liz’s own kids and grandkids                                                   something you enjoy wearing says “Dry
The Clover Girls by Viola Shipman;            would never take care of her like that                                                     Clean Only” on the label, lay it on the
c.2021, Graydon House; $16.99;                when the time came. So what kind of leg-                                                   kitchen counter, grab a pair of scissors,
416 pages                                     acy was she leaving, then? There was her                                                   and cut that label off because, “Any-
                                              online store and a respectable amount of                                                   thing can be washed at home.”
                                              sales, but the creativity she had as a girl                                                   Here, you’ll learn how to save time on
                                              — the talent her friends appreciated —                                                     wash day. Find out why big-brand-name
                                              had never quite taken hold. And where                                                      detergents are unsafe, and see what you
                                              were those friends these days, she won-                                                    need to care for your clothes properly.
                                              dered.                                                                                     Learn to iron, eliminate horrible stains,
                                                 And then she got the letter.                                                            wash woolens and other awkward-to-
                                                 Em said she’d be dead by the time they                                                  clean items and see how to rescue yel-
                                              read their letters, that the cancer had me-                                                lowed linens and special-event clothing
                                              tastasized too far for a cure. Sweet, dear                                                 like a pro.
                                              Emily was the only one who’d kept track                                                       Remember, says Richardson, “You
                                              of everyone; she’d hoped the friend-                                                       don’t have to do laundry — you get to
                                              ship-shattering event that happened                                                        do laundry.”
                                              years ago was forgivable, and she took a                                                      These days, though, author Patric
                                              drastic move to try and make it so.                                                        Richardson doesn’t “get to” very often.
                                                 But is a four-leaf clover that’s missing                                                His husband, he says, does their wash
                                              a leaf still lucky?                              Tomorrow’s outfit is on a chair over      while Richardson runs a clothing store
                                                 There’s a meme-thread going around         there. That’s where it’s been since you      and offers “Laundry Camp” at the Mall
                                              social media chiding men who write            last washed it.                              of America. But since not everyone can
                                              awkwardly about female characters. You           What you wore today came from a           be a happy camper, there’s Laundry
   The grass is greener on the other side     might ask yourself, then, how author          basket and off a hanger, the shirt need-     Love.
of the fence. Someone else’s life is always   Wade Rouse, a gay man writing under a         ed ironing, there was a tiny stain on the       If you’re thinking that a book about
better than yours, warts and all, and you     female pseudonym, would do it. The an-        pants but who noticed? And you just          joyfully washing clothes would be a
wanted what she got, partly because she       swer is: With a semi-contrived plot and a     bought new socks, so there’s that.           mighty skinny book, you’re right, but
got it first. Greener grass often goes with   whole lotta heart.                               Time to do the wash? Yeah, but get a      laundry is only a part of this story here.
sour grapes, but, as in the new novel,           On one end, readers who are used to        load of this: Laundry Love by Patric Rich-   The rest is biography, and a love-letter
The Clover Girls by Viola Shipman, it ul-     more action-packed novels may roll their      ardson (with Karin B. Miller).               to Appalachain and Southern women. In
timately depends on how well you tend         eyes; the main characters in The Clover          In one of his earliest memories, Patric   giving props to the women who raised
your garden.                                  Girls are all celebrity look-alikes, their    Richardson’s uncle holds him aloft so        him, Richardson shows how his interest
   V, formerly known as Veronica, felt fat.   spat was schoolgirl-silly, the plot lines     that Richardson could watch laundry          in fabric grew, too; the subject of textiles,
   She was sure that her husband, Da-         are oh-so-convenient: How many times          swimming in the washer. He was almost        which may be perceived as mundane by
vid, was embarrassed by the weight            will they spread Emily’s ashes, and           a baby then, but the fascination was set:    many, is treated in this light as some-
she’d put on since the kids were born         where did Liz get all that fabric?            At age three, Richardson was “over the       thing precious and accessible.
and she’d had to give up her modeling            It’s enough to make you squint. And        moon” when he received a toy washing            If you come for the biography, you’ll be
career. Yes, she was once a cover mod-        yet, the basic story here is sweet and not    machine as a birthday gift. He remem-        glad you stayed for the hints as Richard-
el, lithe and beautiful. Now, she had an      outrageously dramatic. Shipman/Rouse          bers that it was Harvest Gold.               son shows how even the most delicate
extra 15 pounds, but no career, no for-       instead makes it gentle, loving, squeaky-        Growing up, Richardson absorbed           items can be safely home-cleaned. That
ward-looking future and no friends.           clean and perfect for sharing with any-       washday secrets from an extended fam-        fur you love? Done. That stinky-per-
   And then she got the letter.               one who devours women’s fiction like          ily of women, and he learned the ap-         fumed vintage item you found? Clean.
   When they were kids at Camp Birch-         this.                                         peal of laundry hung on a line outside.      Ahhhhhhh, so pick up the undies in
wood, Rachel told her camp-mates that            So put aside the go-go-go novels. Look     While at the University of Kentucky, he      the corner, use Grandma’s linens, shop
she’d be a famous actress someday.            beyond the contrivances, and The Clover       met three professors who taught him          thrift-stores with impunity. Go ahead,
More than 20 years later, she was fa-         Girls may be your next obsession. Find it,    about textiles, and employers educated       fear-free. Having Laundry Love should
mous alright — as the spokeswoman for         and you might not be able to leaf it alone.   him further. Love of fabric eventually       take a load off your mind.                 █

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                                      Rep. Diego Bernal, D-San Antonio, said        House sponsor of the bill, joining Rep.
                                      it was all about politics for Republicans     Ken King, a West Texas Republican.
                                      worried about primaries. He asked, “Is          Committee member State Rep. Diego
                                      the cost worth it?”                           Bernal, a San Antonio Democrat told the
                                         It died with one Republican absent         Texas Tribune it was “soul-crushing”
                                      and Dutton voting present. Then in a          and that “bringing it back up, was used
                                      dramatic reversal, Dutton brought the         as a form of retaliation by the chair-
                                      bill back up for a vote after his bill al-    man,” Bernal said.
                                      lowing Texas Education Commissioner             Dutton was slammed by LGBTQ ad-
                                      Mike Morath to remove school board            vocates. Human Rights Campaign State
                                      members was killed on a technicality by       Director Rebecca Marques said his move
                                      Rep. Alma Allen, a Houston Democrat.          showed “the petty and cruel ways that
                                      Democrats generally oppose that bill          Texas elected officials use the lives of
                                      but Dutton has advocated for more state       trans kids to score political points with-
                                      control over the Houston Independent          out regard to the actual human impact.”
                                      School District for poor performance.           He should be on watch.
                                         “I don’t know how big this problem           “We have a track record of supporting
                                      [trans youth in sports] is, and I wish I      pro-LGBTQ candidates and working
                                      did, because I’d be in a better position. I   with lawmakers to expand their under-
                                      can tell you this,” he said before the roll   standing of LGBTQ Texans,” Marques
                                      call, “the bill that was killed last night    added. “LGBTQ voters have a consis-
                                      [allowing Morath to remove ISD board          tently high turnout – and they know
                                      members] affected far more children           who stands with them, and who works
                                      than this ever will.”                         to harm them.”			                        █

                                         As a consequence of killing his bill, he     SB 29 has been sent to the Calendar Com-
                                      brought SB 28 back in retaliation. Dut-       mittee. The legislative session ends on May
                                      ton even went so far as to sign on as a       31.

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DALLAS COUNTY
                                                                            EARLY VOTING LOCATIONS

       JUNE 5, 2021
                                                                            AUDELIA ROAD BRANCH LIBRARY – AUDITORIUM
                                                                               10045 AUDELIA RD          DALLAS 75238
                                                                            BALCH SPRINGS CIVIC CENTER – MEETING ROOM
                                                                               12400 ELAM RD                BALCH SPRINGS 75180
                                                                            BETTY WARMACK LIBRARY – EMPOWER ROOM

    CITY COUNCIL CANDIDATES
                                                                               760 BARDIN RD                GRAND PRAIRIE 75052
                                                                            CARROLLTON SENIOR CENTER

COUNCIL DISTRICTS
                                                                               1720 KELLER SPRINGS RD       CARROLLTON 75006
                                                                            COPPELL TOWN CENTER - MAIN LOBBY
                                                                               255 E PARKWAY BLVD           COPPELL 75019
                                                                            CROSSWINDS HIGH SCHOOL

 BALLOT ORDER
                                                                               1100 N CARRIER PKWY          GRAND PRAIRIE 75050
                                                                            EL CENTRO COLLEGE-MAIN CAMPUS – C BLDG LOBBY
                                                                               801 MAIN ST                  DALLAS 75202
                                                                            FRETZ PARK LIBRARY – BLACK BOX THEATER
        Council District 2                Council District 11                  6990 BELT LINE RD            DALLAS 75254
                                                                            GEORGE L ALLEN SR. COURTS BLDG – MAIN LOBBY
        1 Jesse Moreno                    1 Barry Wernick                      600 COMMERCE ST              DALLAS 75202
        2 Sana Syed                       2 Jaynie Schultz                  GRAUWYLER PARK RECREATION CENTER – GYM
                                                                               7780 HARRY HINES BLVD        DALLAS 75235
                                                                            J ERIK JONSSON CENTRAL LIBRARY – EAST ROOM
        Council District 4                Council District 13                  1515 YOUNG ST                DALLAS 75201
                                                                            LAKEWOOD BRANCH LIBRARY – AUDITORIUM
        1 Carolyn King Arnold             1 Leland R. Burk                     6121 WORTH ST                DALLAS 75214
        2 Maxie Johnson                   2 Gay Donnell Willis              MARSH LANE BAPTIST CHURCH – FELLOWSHIP HALL
                                                                               10716 MARSH LN               DALLAS 75229
                                                                            MARTIN LUTHER KING CORE BLDG – GYMNASIUM
        Council District 7                Council District 14                  2901 PENNSLYVANIA            DALLAS 75215
                                                                            OAK CLIFF SUB-COURTHOUSE - MAIN LOBBY
        1 Adam Bazaldua                   1 Paul E. Ridley                     410 S. BECKLEY AVE           DALLAS 75203
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                                                                                                                                                                                 DISCUSS THIS
                                                                                                                                                                                    The HRC DFW Federal
                                                                                                                                                                                 Club holds a virtual mixer
                                                                                                                                                                                 Friday, May 21, at 6:30 p.m.,
                                                                                                                                                                                 which will feature a discussion
                                                                                                                                                                                 on how allies can become
                                                                                                                       Alicia Graf Mack,                       strategic players in advocating for and advanc-
                                                                                                                       dean and director of                    ing the interests of oppressed and margin-
                                                                                                                                                               alized communities. Led by Sara Brummel,
                                                                                                                       the Juilliard School, will              North America inclusion and diversity learning
                                                                                                                       be the featured guest                   and development lead for Accenture, the
                                                                                                                       artist at Dallas Black                  discussion will include an explanation on the
                                                                                                                       Dance Theater’s Spring                  difference between allyship, accomplice(ship)
                                                                                                                       celebration, streaming for              and advocacy. Register at HRCDFW2021May.
                                                                                                                                                               eventbrite.com. The confirmation email will
                                                                                                                       7 p.m. Saturday through                 include Zoom login information.
                                                                                                                       11:59 p.m. Sunday.
                                                                                                                       See listings for details.                                 MIX HERE
                                                                                                                                                                                    AIN hosts a Gallery Night,
                                                                                                                                                                                 its first mixer and fundraiser
                                                                                                                                                                                 of 2021 on Thursday, May
  PLAN YOUR WEEK                                                                                                                                                                 27, from 6-9 p.m., at 1604
                                                                                                                                                                                 Main St. in downtown Dallas.
   Have an event coming up? Email your                • May 22: Pilobolus in the Garden                     • May 23: WOOD/SHOP                                The event features the portraiture and still life
information to Managing Editor Tammye Nash            A TITAS-commissioned site-specific work,              The third in a series of three programs features   work of photographer Brendan Blaney, which
at nash@dallasvoice.com or Senior Staff Writer        Pilobolus in the Garden will take audience            innovative new works by Bruce Wood Dance           draws inspiration from the Dutch masters and
David Taffet at taffet@dallasvoice.com by             members through a physically and emotionally          company dancers Weaver Rhodes and Seth             focuses on light and composition. The evening
Monday at 5 p.m. for that week’s issue.               moving performance experience that explores           York at 4 p.m. on Zoom. Free. Register at          starts at La Tarte Tropezienne where attendees
   The Gay Agenda is now color-coded:                 the vistas of the sculpture garden while              BruceWoodDance.org.                                can get a glass of champagne and a bite to
Red for community events; blue for arts and           exploring the nature of nature.                                                                          bring to the gallery. A percentage of purchases
entertainment; purple for sports; green for           Nasher Sculpture Center, 2001 Flora St. at            • Through May 23: Cotton Patch Gospel              at La Tarte Tropezienne and of Blaney’s work
nightlife and orange for civic events and holidays.   noon, 1:30 p.m., 3 p.m. and 4:30 p.m.                 This rustic musical full of bluegrass, country,    benefits the clients and communities of AIN.
                                                      Tickets at ATTPAC.org.                                and gospel music is “the greatest story ever       Visit Facebook.com/events/135370881915776.
• May 21: Federal Club mixer                                                                                retold.” Outdoors at the back lot of The
Transforming from ally to advocate. A                 • Through May 22: Butterflies Are Free                Firehouse Theatre, 2535 Valley View Lane,                             READ THESE
discussion of how an in-group can advance the         Rover Dramawerks presents the classic                 Farmers Branch. $36.                                                     Award-winning author
interests of an oppressed or marginalized out-        comedy Butterflies are Free by Leonard                TheFirehouseTheatre.com.                                              Robin Stevenson has written
group. To be a part of the discussion of how          Gershe at The Core Theatre, 518 W. Arapaho                                                                                  more than 25 books overall,
allies can become strategic players,                  Road, Richardson. Thursdays and Fridays               • May 25: Name and gender                                             including four books about
visit DFWFederalClub.org.                             at 8 p.m. and Saturdays at 3 and 8 p.m.               change workshop                                                       Pride, each written with a
                                                      RoverDramaWerks.com.                                  Lambda Legal discusses what the process            specific audience in mind — from tots to
• May 24: Lambda Weekly                                                                                     looks like in Texas to secure state and federal    tweens and teens. Pride Colors is a board
Dallas City Council District 14 candidate Paul        • May 22-23: The Wars of the Roses                    identity documents. Lawyers can receive CLE        book for the youngest young’uns about the
Ridley is the guest on Lambda Weekly at 1 p.m.        Shakespeare Dallas presents a staged reading          credit. Meeting via Zoom. LambdaLegal.org.         meaning of the colors in the Pride flag; Pride
on 89.3 KNON-fm with David Taffet,                    of Shakespeare’s history plays: Henry VI Part I,                                                         Puppy is for toddlers and focuses on a family’s
Lerone Landis and the late Patti Fink.                Henry VI Part II, Henry VI Part III and Richard III   • May 27-29: Tenants/Tenets                        trip to the Pride parade. Then comes Pride:
                                                      at Samuell-Grand Amphitheatre,                        TENANTS/TENETS is a futurist dance theater         The Celebration and the Struggle, a booked
• May 22: Mr. Misster Drag Brunch                     6000 E. Grand Ave. at noon.                           performance that spontaneously generates a         aimed at the tween group that explains the
A selection of champagne with music from                                                                    fully functioning society in which its community   history of Pride, and When You Get the Chance
resident DJs and special guests and a drag            • May 22-23: Dallas Black Dance Theater               must determine their responsibility to each        is a young adult book about teenage cousins
show at 2 p.m. Tickets from $25 at Eventbrite.        DBDT’s Spring Celebration performance                 other, based on their individual identities,       on a road trip to Toronto Pride. Mombian col-
com. Mr. Misster, 3900 Cedar Springs Road.            features guest artist Alicia Graf Mack, dean          presented by Very Good Dance Theatre at the        umnist Dana Rudolph talks about each book,
                                                      and director of the Juilliard School. The virtual     Wyly Theatre, 2400 Flora St. at 8 p.m.             with comments from the author, on page 14 in
• May 22: Karen Chattum book signing                  performance can be streamed from Saturday             Tickets at tickets.attpac.org/production/55208.    this issue of Dallas Voice.
Karen Chattum, author of Tired of Being Tired, will   at 7 p.m. to Sunday at 11:59 p.m. $30 per
sign copies of her book on AIDS awareness among       household. DBDT.com.                                       Look for extended listings online at
black women. A portion of proceeds benefits AIN.
From 1 a.m.-1 p.m. at Home2 Suites by Hilton, 1300
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E. Centre Park Blvd., DeSoto.

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