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Service of Remembrance - and Thanksgiving will be broadcast on RTÉ One television and - Irish Kidney Association
The first virtual
         35th Annual
Service of Remembrance
    and Thanksgiving
    will be broadcast on
   RTÉ One television and
 RTÉ Radio One Extra (LW252)
on Sunday 15th November
          at 11.00am
Service of Remembrance - and Thanksgiving will be broadcast on RTÉ One television and - Irish Kidney Association
EDITORIAL
            Some initial thoughts on
            entering my new role
                                               I
                                                      feel extremely honoured to be appointed as your new
                                                      CEO. Many years ago, a family member experienced
                                                      kidney failure and we benefited from the services of the
                                                      Irish Kidney Association (IKA), so I have had a particular
                                                  interest in the work of the IKA since that time.
                                                     Thanks to my predecessor Mark Murphy, (full tribute page
                                                  30-33) I join a high-profile organisation which has
                                                  consistently had much more influence than its size would
                                                  suggest in supporting patients with end stage kidney disease
                                                  and their families. This is due to the excellent staff and the
                                                  huge number of committed, energetic and passionate
                                                  volunteers.
                                                     On my first day, I participated in the recording of the
                                                  Service of Remembrance and Thanksgiving for TV in Newman
                                                  Church. This was a marvellous introduction into the real heart
                                                  of the IKA. It was an exceptionally moving and emotional
                                                  experience. You can read the full report on page 5-7. Not
                                                  many people are privileged to have the benefit of such a
                                                  meaningful first day in a new role.
                                                     We live in an incredibly challenging time. COVID-19 has
            impacted both our physical and mental health. People with kidney disease are particularly
            affected. From previous experience of patients who are medically compromised, I can fully
            understand the challenges faced by kidney patients when suddenly having to adapt from
            living a somewhat normal life to having to accept further vulnerability and restrictions.
                However, the best minds in the world are working on solutions, but it is likely we will still
            have to live with this virus for some time. It will also continue to impact our activities as a
            patient-centred organisation. For example, our Support Centre continues to be sequestered by
            Beaumont Hospital, (refer to article on page 9).
                Of most concern is the fact that organ transplant figures are disappointing – particularly,
            when we see the progress being made in Northern Ireland where two thirds of the waiting list
            has been cleared – albeit under a different and unique structure than we have here.
                We are also faced with increasingly onerous regulations, which also have a cost. However, it
            is right that we be both transparent and accountable to our members and to the people who
            so generously donate their time and money. Not only must we continue to be of assistance to
            our community, but also the positive impacts and results of our activities must be seen. Our
            Board, which is representative of all our Branches, has a key role to play in this regard.
                We must make sure that we are focussing on the needs and priorities of people with kidney
            disease and ensure that we understand what these needs really are. We must remember the
            needs of those patients on long-term dialysis and some of those patients whose specific
            health circumstances prevent them from hope of an organ transplant. We have to ask
            ourselves where our major priorities lie: should they be in improved healthcare, easier access
            to home dialysis and increasing organ donation, or are better Government disability supports,
            patient aid, mental health services or supports to return to work more pressing priorities?
            I look forward to working with you to hear your views.
                Our new Strategy Plan is nearing finalisation. It will have a strong focus on delivering high
            quality services to both Members and Branches at a reasonable cost. The world of information
            technology and digital health presents many opportunities for us to help our members more
            effectively. While this will initially require more expenditure, it will ultimately enable us to
            reduce the annual income deficit, while improving services in the longer term.
                IKA people work closely with healthcare professionals. Often, we have filled a gap in
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resources and information. While we
will continue to collaborate closely      4    NEW IKA CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER
with all health care professionals, we
also need to maintain our                 5    35TH ANNUAL SERVICE OF REMEMBRANCE & THANKSGIVING
independence and become an even           8    EUROPEAN DAY FOR ORGAN DONATION & TRANSPLANTATION
stronger advocate and effective
campaigning organisation for our          9    RENAL SUPPORT CENTRE
members. We will work closely with        10   DUCKS QUACK FAREWELL TO ETDSC
Irish and International organisations
working to improve the lives of those     12   CHAMPION DANCER PLEDGES 18TH BIRTHDAY FUND
with kidney disease.                      13   BILLION STEPS CHALLENGE
    We are already faced with many
healthcare issues. These range from       14   TO SCHOOL OR HOMESCHOOL
ensuring that we minimise the             16   MAINTAINING OUR MENTAL HEALTH IN TOUGH TIMES
impact of COVID-19 on our renal
community to advocating for an            18   PEER SUPPORT
increase in the number of transplant      20   LIFE IN LOCKDOWN
operations. From coping with the
effect of the eventual enactment of       22   EMERGENCY SURGERY TO SENIOR HURLING
the proposed Human Tissue Bill and        25   SOCIAL MEDIA & COMMUNICATION
the development of Sláintecare to
advocating for the automatic setting      26   TRANSPLANT LADIES HAVE IT ALL SEWN-UP
up of dedicated renal hospital wards      28   “AN APPLE A DAY KEEPS THE DOCTOR AWAY”
once patient numbers reach a certain
level at an individual hospital.          30   TRIBUTE TO MARK MURPHY
    So, there are plenty of challenges,   34   3 DAVES RUN VIRTUAL BOSTON MARATHON
but we are very fortunate to have an
active community, and, thanks to our      36   CARLOW’S GALS AROUND THE GLOBE
extremely generous benefactors and        37   CELEBRATING 17TH ANNIVERSARY OF SECOND TRANSPLANT
branch fundraising, we also have the
capacity and potential to make the        38   TEARS OF DELIGHT FOR LAUREN
IKA an even stronger and more             40   POOCHES UNITE WITH RORY’S STORIES FOR FUNDRAISER
effective organisation.
    Once we update the Strategy Plan,     42   JASPER THE ROOKIE KIDNEY
with your input and after Board           44   BAKER RAISES DOUGH FOR CHARITY
approval, we will be arranging a
special launch event to tell you about    46   AROUND THE BRANCHES
our new strategy.                         58   MEMBERSHIP FORM
    I am excited to be in my new
position as CEO of this significant       59   BRANCH SECRETARIES
organisation, and I am confident that     60   CHRISTMAS CARDS
by working together we can make an
even bigger difference to the lives of                                                                    FRONT COVER
those affected by kidney disease.
                                                                                                          Donor mother Sallyanne
    I could not finish without
acknowledging, once again, our                                                                            Clarke, Prof. Jim Egan, ODTI,
heartfelt gratitude, appreciation and                                            The first virtual
                                                                                                          and Revd. Gary Chamberland
                                                                                  35th Annual

thanks to our donors and donor                                             Service of Remembrance
                                                                               and Thanksgiving
                                                                                                          filmed by cameraman
                                                                               will be broadcast on

families. It is only their exceptional                                        RTÉ One television and
                                                                            RTÉ Radio One Extra (LW252)
                                                                                                    ber
                                                                                                          Seamus Callagy of Kairos
                                                                            on Sunday 15th Novem

generosity, often in times of great
                                                                                     at 11.00am
                                                                                                          Communications at Newman
personal tragedy, which continues to                                                                      University Church, Dublin 2
make the ongoing life-saving work of                                                                      for the pre-recorded Irish
organ transplantation possible. This is                                                                   Kidney Association's
truly the ‘gift of life’.                                                                                 35th Annual Service of
                                                                                                          Remembrance and
                                                                                                          Thanksgiving for broadcast
                                                                                                          on RTÉ One and RTÉ Radio 1
                                                                                                          Extra on Sunday, 15th
                                                                                                          November at 11am.
                   CAROL MOORE                                                                                         Photo: Conor McCabe
         CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER
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THE IRISH KIDNEY ASSOCIATION APPOINTS

    Carol Moore as new Chief Executive Officer
                                                                                                   CAROL’S CREDENTIALS...
                                                                                                    Carol Moore brings to the Irish Kidney
                                                                                                    Association (IKA) her considerable experience
                                                                                                    in healthcare, education, telecoms, and
                                                                                                    not-for-profit organisations delivering
                                                                                                    community services.
                                                                                                       Carol is a fellow member of Chartered
                                                                                                    Accountants Ireland with over 30 years’
                                                                                                    experience working in the private and public
                                                                                                    sectors in management consultancy roles.
                                                                                                       She holds a Masters in Psychology,
                                                                                                    post-graduate qualifications in social science,
                                                                                                    education and psychometrics and she is a
                                                                                                    qualified mediator.
                                                                                                       Just before taking up her new role with
                                                                                                    the IKA she was a co-founder of LIFEWISE, an
                                                                                                    online alcohol harm reduction service as well
                                                                                                    as Governance Manager with Mental Health
                                                                                                    Ireland, the national Mental Health
            Carol Moore and Colin Mackenzie. Photo: Conor McCabe Photography                        Organisation with member branches all
                                                                                                    around the country.
                                                                                                       She is also a co-founder of the registered
                                                                                                    charity Dual Diagnosis Ireland, the

O
      n behalf of all involved with the IKA, it is my pleasure                                      organisation for people who have the
      and privilege to welcome our new Chief Executive                                              co-occurring disorder of both mental health
      Officer, Carol Moore.                                                                         issues and substance abuse.
   Carol, as a Chartered Accountant with a Masters in                                                  Carol also helped co-found Mental Health
Psychology, among other qualifications, and a former CEO                                            Reform, the leading national coalition of
brings with her a wealth of administrative experience,                                              mental health care in Ireland which has over
                                                                                                    70 member organisations. She was a
especially suited to the current needs of our Association.
                                                                                                    non-executive director with CORU, the state
We look forward to working with Carol through this                                                  agency regulator for multiple health and
challenging period, and are confident that present difficulties                                     social care which promotes high standards
in communications, due to the current pandemic, can be                                              among health and social care professionals.
overcome.                                                                                              Carol lives in Rathfarnham, Co Dublin with
   Carol's already apparent dedication to the welfare of                                            Caitríona, the youngest of two daughters,
patients and carers, together with new approaches and                                               who works in fundraising for Movember, the
                                                                                                    global men’s mental health charity. Her eldest
supported by our dedicated staff gives us great optimism for
                                                                                                    daughter Sarah works as a Speech and
the future.                                                                                         Language Therapist in New Zealand.
   Carol, on behalf of myself and the Board and Staff, I offer                                         Carol strongly believes in social justice and
you our support as we continue our endeavours to improve                                            compassion for people experiencing hardship
the welfare of all kidney patients.                                                                 and with her broad wealth of knowledge and
                                                                                                    experience we look forward to having her at
                                                           COLIN MACKENZIE                          the helm guiding our Association through
                                                                                                    these challenging times.
                                                          Hon. Nat. Chairman
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The Irish Kidney Association's first virtual and

         35th Annual Service
 of   Remembrance and Thanksgiving

                         will be broadcast on
        RTÉ One television and RTÉ Radio 1 Extra (LW252)
        on Sunday, 15th November, 2020 at 11.00am (GMT)
and available to view on RTÉ Player www.rte.ie/player and on www.ika.ie
                        Previously recorded at
             Newman University Church, Dublin 2
                by Kairos Communications

   During the broadcast you will be invited to participate in the
  Service of Light ceremony by lighting a candle in memory of
  organ donors who have given the precious ‘gift of life’ to others.
Service of Remembrance - and Thanksgiving will be broadcast on RTÉ One television and - Irish Kidney Association
Sean Connelly

   PRESIDENT, CLERGY, CELEBRITY & TRANSPLANT COMMUNITY
   UNITE FOR TELEVISED EVENT HONOURING ORGAN DONORS
                                                         First Virtual
   35th Annual Service of Remembrance
            and Thanksgiving

                                               T
                                                          he IKA promises a truly                  candle will be lit in memory of
     People from all walks of life and
                                                          special and poignant Service             deceased donors who gave the ‘gift of
     beliefs, united in their wish to honour
                                                          for people of all beliefs which          life’. The Service will be led by two
     organ donors, are encouraged to come
     together for the Irish Kidney                        is laced with beautiful music            members of the successful Transplant
     Association’s 35th Annual Service of                 and symbolic processions,                Team Ireland, liver transplant recipient
     Remembrance and Thanksgiving which                   readings and messages from               Deirdre Faul and Team Captain Harry
     will be broadcast on RTÉ on Sunday,       the President of Ireland and two                    Ward, a kidney transplant recipient.
     15th November 2020 at 11am. This will     Archbishops, and other celebrated                       The ‘Book of Remembrance’, a ‘Roll
     be the first time for the inter-          members of society, who are all                     of Honour’, has been an integral part
     denominational Service to go virtual,     invested in acknowledging deceased                  of the Service since its inception with
     transitioning from a previously large     donors and their legacy, the ‘gift of               the names of organ and tissue donors
     in-church congregation of 2000+ to a      life’. This Service is a mixture of                 carefully inscribed by calligrapher
     broadcast production by Kairos            sadness and joy for the families of                 Annette Daly from Glenageary, Co
     Communications which will feature on      organ donors and transplant recipients              Dublin for the past 35 years who also
     RTÉ One and RTÉ Radio One Extra           alike. For many donor families this                 features.
     (LW252). It will also be available to     unique annual Service has become an                     This year’s Service includes a special
     view on RTÉ Player (www.rte.ie/player)    anniversary to both remember their                  message from the President of Ireland,
     and on www.ika.ie                         loved ones, and for transplant                      Michael D. Higgins, Patron of the IKA,
                                                           recipients, the opportunity to          which pays homage to deceased
                                                           honour and give thanks for              organ donors and their families.
                                                           the wonderful ‘gift of life’            Grateful transplant recipients
                                                           they have received.                     including heart, lung, liver and kidney,
                                                               The IKA is asking the               and members of deceased organ
                                                           public to actively participate          donor families, have been filmed
                                                           in this year’s Service,                 carrying out various symbolic roles for
                                                           especially during the very              the pre-recorded Service.
                                                           symbolic Service of Light                   The inter-church Service was
                                                           ceremony, when it is hoped              recorded at Newman University
                                                           that, in households the                 Church, Dublin 2, in October with
                                                           length and breadth of the               celebrant Rev. Gary Chamberland and
Fr. Finbarr Treacy working on camera shots
                                                           country and beyond, a                   Archbishop Michael Jackson delivering
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the Homily. Archbishop Diarmuid
Martin shares a Reflection. Music at
the Church is directed by Steven
Warner, Associate Director, Newman
University Church and involves the
widely revered cantor Dr. Sharon Lyons
and music by the Vocare Ensemble.
   There is a special inclusion from the
‘Circle of Life’ Commemorative
Garden for organ donors in Salthill,
Galway with Eleanor Shanley singing
accompanied by classical guitarist
John Feeley. They are watched on by
the Garden’s creators, Martina and
Denis Goggin, the parents of a
deceased donor, and some grateful
transplant recipients.
   Among those filmed at Newman
University Church, is Sallyanne Clarke,
                                             Fr. Finbarr Treacy,
the mother of deceased donor                 Producer, Kairos Communications
                                                                                              Fr. Gary Chamberland from different camera views
Andrew who was baptised in the
same church. Sallyanne and her             Sunday, 15th November to watch the             evolved from a grieving organ donor
husband Derry run the Michelin star        Service, which was filmed in the               mother who contacted the IKA in
L’Ecrivain Restaurant in Dublin. Alan      magnificent setting of Newman                  their first office in Monkstown, Co.
Finnegan, delivers a testimony about       University Church and at other                 Dublin. The mother expressed her
the profound impact of the passing of      locations, amid COVID-19                       distress and sadness that her son’s
his late brother, deceased donor Paul,     restrictions.”                                 organ donation had never been
the chef, who famously prepared a             Producer Fr. Finbarr Treacy, from           acknowledged. At the time there was
meal for Michelle Obama and her            Kairos Communications and Steven               no system in place at the Old Jervis
daughters when she visited the family      Warner, Associate Director at                  Street Hospital to acknowledge and
pub in Dalkey, Co. Dublin.                 Newman Church, worked closely with             thank organ donors and their families.
   Senator David Norris, who               the IKA’s Liturgy committee, who               In consultation with the then newly
underwent a liver transplant, recites      were involved in its planning and              appointed National Transplant Co-
Seamus Heaney’s poem, ‘The Miracle’,       content and they include:- Colin               ordinator, Phyllis Cunningham, it was
at Newman University Church. Majella       Mackenzie, IKA Honorary National               decided that a Service be held to
O’Donnell, whose mother had                Chairman (Dublin), Lorraine Costello,          publicly acknowledge and recognise
experienced temporary kidney failure,      Patient Support Officer (Dublin),              the courageous generosity of organ
sends a message of encouragement           Gwen O’Donoghue, IKA PRO, Board                donors and their families. The
from her home in Donegal. Members          members Valerie Brady (Meath), Joan            inaugural Service, in 1986, had an
of the medical profession Dilly Little,    Gavan (Tipperary), Monica Finn                 attendance of 300 people in St Mary’s
Transplant Surgeon and Surgical            (Roscommon) and Pat May (Carlow).              Church, Haddington Road,
Director of the National Kidney            The flowers which adorn the church             Ballsbridge. Since then, the numbers
Transplant Service and Professor Jim       altar were arranged by Una Whelan              have increased annually with an
Egan, a lung physician who is the          (IKA Dublin East+Wicklow).                     attendance of over 2000 people now
Director of the HSE’s Organ Donation          The concept for this Service                attending from all over Ireland.
Transplant Ireland, also feature.                                                                               Transplant Surgeon Dilly Little
   Speaking in advance of the Service,                                                                          being recorded by Ita Callaghy
IKA Hon National Chairman, Colin                                                                                              at the monument
                                                                                                                              for organ donors
Mackenzie, explained, “This Service                                                                                      at Beaumont Hospital
embraces people from all walks of life                                                                                 by production company
                                                                                                                       Kairos Communications
and all beliefs including humanists. It                                                                                           for the virtual
is a hugely important event on the                                                                                    Service of Remembrance
annual calendar for many donor                                                                                               and Thanksgiving
families and transplant recipients as
well as for the wider community,
including donor and transplant
coordinators and medical, surgical and
nursing staff. We are confident that
our first virtual Service provides a
worthy and fitting replacement to the
traditional church event that has been
taking place since 1986. We sincerely
hope that people from home and
abroad will tune in to RTÉ at 11am on
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EUROPEAN DAY FOR
ORGAN DONATION AND
TRANSPLANTATION (EODD)

‘The one bright light
          in a very dark time’
                            he aim of the day is to promote                centralised database where the public can
This year the
European Day
for Organ
Donation and
                  T         awareness of organ donation in
                            Europe. It is an opportunity to
                            honour all organ donors and their
                            families and to thank
                  transplantation professionals throughout
                  Europe whose hard work helps to save lives
                                                                           register their wish to be an organ donor –
                                                                           unlike in Ireland. In 2015 Wales introduced
                                                                           a Soft Opt-Out system which necessitated
                                                                           the addition of a ‘No’ option to their
                                                                           national registry. Any successful public
                                                                           awareness campaign needs a clear ‘call to
Transplantation   and improve the quality of life of many                  action’ that gives the public the opportunity
                  people.                                                  to engage and respond and having a
(EODD) was           There is a specific focus on the                      YES/NO Registry allows for this.
                  importance of making one’s own wishes on                    Last year in Ireland, 274 organ transplants
held on           organ donation known to families and next                were carried out. 153 kidney transplants
Saturday          of kin. The day is also an opportunity to pay            were performed at the National Renal
                  tribute to all the deceased and living donors            Transplant Service at Beaumont Hospital, 25
10th October.     who have helped severely ill patients to                 of which were living donor transplants. 66
                  regain a normal life.                                    liver transplants occurred at the National
                     In Ireland, the Organ Donor Card has                  Liver Transplant Service at St Vincent’s
                  been the national ‘Call to Action’ since it              University Hospital, and 38 lung transplants
                  was first introduced by the Irish Kidney                 and 15 heart transplants took place in the
                  Association over 40 years ago. The card                  National Heart Lung Transplant Service at
                  continues to be the public prompt to                     the Mater Misericordiae University Hospital.
                  encourage the family conversation – this is                 Organ donors are at the centre of the
                  why it has the space for the next of kin                 success that is transplantation. Whilst we
                  signature. We took this into account when                are all aware of the need for organs, we
                  developing our Digital Organ Donor Card                  must also look at organ donation from the
                  App in that the sharing of your wishes with              donor’s perspective. It is the potential to
                  family and friends is at its core.                       leave a legacy to your family. Many donor
                     Whilst our European neighbours have                   families have described the donation as ‘the
                  organ donor cards, they also have a                      one bright light in a very dark time.’

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RENAL SUPPORT CENTRE
    will continue to be used by
Beaumont Hospital until October 2021
A
        s members know in
        the early days of the
        pandemic, Beaumont
        Hospital officially
sequestered (legally took
over) the Irish Kidney
Association’s Renal Support
Centre at Beaumont for use
during this COVID pandemic.
   I visited this wonderful
centre and talked online to
the Support Centre staff. I
can really appreciate the
enormity of the temporary
loss of the Centre. It is not
just a roof over people’s
heads, away from a sterile
hospital environment, but a
place of comfort, safety and
warmth. It is a place where
patients and their families
can relax together, have a
cuppa, cook their own
meals, talk to staff who are
also patients, and also chat
to other families
experiencing the same
struggles. Strong and lasting      Centre cannot be operated            of bringing the Centre up to     up a sub-group to develop a
relationships are formed           in the current COVID                 hospital infection control       plan for the return of the
there. This “peer support”,        pandemic environment. This           standards. They are also         Centre and also the
as the professionals call it, is   is because the Centre was            paying for patients to stay in   development of our Cork
a vital part of the IKA            not built to conform to              a nearby hotel, the Clayton      property and we will be
community and the Support          hospital level infection             Hotel. So, when the Centre       bringing in various volunteer
Centre is our crown jewel.         control standards. This              is returned to the IKA in        experts to consider how best
This COVID pandemic has            means that any patient               October 2021, we then            to do this.
broken many of these               staying in the Centre would          anticipate (subject to expert       For patients who would
connections, but hopefully         be at increased risk of              health advice) to be able to     normally have stayed in the
only temporarily.                  infection. Additionally, the         safely operate the Centre        Support Centre, alternative
   The IKA have had                staff (who are also patients         again, without incurring the     accommodation, which
considerable discussions with      in a high-risk group)                considerable upgrade costs.      includes bed, breakfast and
Beaumont Hospital                  operating the Centre are also            We really understand the     parking, has been arranged
Management on their very           at increased risk of harm. As        fact that people will be upset   with the nearby Clayton
urgent ongoing requirement         a responsible employer, we           by the temporary loss of the     hotel which can be accessed
for the Centre. The IKA            cannot expose our                    Centre, but we believe we        from the M50. Members
Board itself debated this          committed and valued staff           had no other course of           should phone Patricia, Frank
issue at length.                   to increased infection risks.        action in these very difficult   or Simon at 087-4169907
   A major factor for the             Beaumont Hospital is now          circumstances.                   for bookings.
Board, was the fact that the       paying the considerable cost             The IKA Board is setting          Carol Moore, CEO, IKA

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2020 EUROPEAN TRANSPLANT & DIALYSIS SPORTS CHAMPIONSHIPS

Ducks quack farewell to ETDSC
 which fell ‘fowl’ to pandemic
                                                                W
                                                                        ere it not for COVID-19,
                                                                        Sunday, August 9th would
                                                                        have marked the final day of
                                                                what would have been the largest
                                                                international organ donor awareness
                                                                event this year and held in Dublin –
                                                                the 2020 European Transplant &
                                                                Dialysis Sports Championships
                                                                (ETDSC).
                                                                   500 participants, including heart,
                                                                lung, liver, kidney transplant recipients
                                                                as well as dialysis patients and
                                                                supporters, from 30 nations, would
                                                                have been saying farewell to the
                                                                week-long 11th ETDSC 2020. The
                                                                Championships were due to begin on
                                                                August 2nd and organised by the Irish
                                                                Kidney Association (IKA) but had to be
                                                                cancelled due to the pandemic.
                                                                   To mark the cancelled
                                                                Championships, which are a
                                                                celebration of life through sport, two
                                                                grateful Irish transplant recipients and
                                                                members of Transplant Team Ireland
                                                                were joined by a kidney donor father
                                                                and his transplant son who enjoyed
                                                                the fun and frolics of a virtual
                                                                international Duck Race. The Duck
                                                                Race, involving 30 green ducks, each
                                                                with their nation's flag colours on
                                                                their plastic plumage, was held at a

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PHOTOS BY CONOR McCABE PHOTOGRAPHY

Harry Ward                                                          Sam and Ivan Kinahan

water feature beside the IKA's head office at Donor House           Kinahan (5) from Baldoyle.
in Dublin's Park West.                                                  Ivan who had returned to work since donating a kidney
   A video of the event was shared online via YouTube with          to Sam last June had taken this week off work for the
the 30 nations (link https://youtu.be/cEBDcKAhZzU). A               Games and had planned to take part in a Donor Race for
Slovenian duck won convincingly followed by Germany in              families of deceased organ donors and living donors.
second place and Cyprus third while Ireland's duck bobbed               Harry said, "we are sad that our Championships in
along behind.                                                       Dublin this year were called off but, in the true spirit of the
   Team Ireland Captain Harry Ward, from Baldoyle,                  Irish team, we made sure that at least some fun was to be
underwent a kidney transplant 13 years ago while                    had. We hope one day again we can say a Céad Míle Fáilte
newcomer to the team Simon Keegan from Dublin 1, who                welcome to Ireland. We should have been celebrating with
was on life support before undergoing a heart transplant            competitors and supporters from all over Europe to Dublin
two years ago observed with father and son Ivan and Sam             this week for the 11th European Championships.”

                                                                    Simon Keegan

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CHAMPION DANCER PLEDGES

18th Birthday Fund
                                                            Katie and Matt McAlevey at their home      our appreciation to Jackie and the staff
                                                                 the day after Katie's18th birthday.   at the Beacon in Drogheda for taking
                                                                         (Photo by Andrew Spearman)
                                                                                                       such good care of my dad when he
                                                                                                       was receiving dialysis treatment and
                                                                                                       also to the transplant and nursing
                                                                                                       team at Beaumont Hospital who took
                                                                                                       care of him when he received his
                                                                                                       transplant.
                                                                                                           “When he got his transplant last
                                                                                                       year, I could see the difference in him
                                                                                                       straight away, it was like night and
                                                                                                       day. He has a much better quality of
                                                                                                       life now. We are making the most of
                                                                                                       having him stay at home with us. He
                                                                                                       has much more energy now and his
                                                                                                       complexion looks so much healthier
                                                                                                       now also. Unfortunately, after COVID
                                                                                                       lockdown, he has had to close the

M
           arking an 18th birthday for       was a success for a long time, and                        business because of all the restrictions
           many young women means            even though it eventually failed, my                      on pubs, as well as the fact that
           glamming up for a big             family are very grateful to his first                     because he is a transplant patient and
           celebration and being gifted      kidney donor for giving him a lifeline                    immune suppressed and must be
with an abundance of presents, part          and eighteen good years to enjoy life,                    extremely careful.”
and parcel of what is expected for           get married, run a pub and have a                             Katie and her sister Holly (16) are
their coming of age. However, for a          family.                                                   6th and 5th year students respectively
young Dundalk woman, who                         “His second transplant took place in                  at St. Vincent’s Secondary School in
celebrated this milestone birthday           May 2019 because of another selfless                      Dundalk. They are both world dancing
amid pandemic restrictions, on Sunday        organ donor. Before this transplant,                      champion medallists from the hugely
11th October, she had a different            for six years he had to have dialysis                     successful dancing school Scoil Rince
perspective.                                 and attend the Beacon in Drogheda                         Mona Ni Rodaigh. Katie and Holly as
    Katie McAlevey from Drumcar said,        three times a week for his treatment.                     solo dancers have been placed among
“I am just grateful to be able to share      For most of my teens my father has                        the top-30 finalists from all over the
my 18th with my family and especially        been struggling with his kidney failure                   world every year for almost a decade
my father whose quality of life has          and even though he managed to keep                        while also winning the coveted World
improved considerably since his kidney       running the family pub in                                 Champion title as part of the 8-hand
transplant last year. That’s why, instead    Castlebellingham, he had very little                      reel team. This year would have been
of getting presents, I want to help          energy and poor quality of life. Even                     their 10th year to take part in the
highlight organ donation and raise           when he was having a difficult time,                      World Dancing Championships which
funds for the Irish Kidney Association       he always remained upbeat. With the                       would have taken place in Ireland
through a Facebook fundraising               little energy he had, he still made the                   were it not for COVID-19. Katie and
platform.” Katie's fundraiser has            effort to travel around with me and                       Holly’s younger brother Mark (12)
already raised over €1400 for the            my sister as we competed in dancing                       doesn’t share his sisters’ passion for
charity.                                     competitions in different parts of the                    Irish dancing, he is a keen footballer
    Dancing since she was three years        world while organising dialysis                           playing with his local club, Rock Celtic
old Katie is a world champion Irish          treatment wherever we would go. He                        in Blackrock.
dancing medallist. She is the oldest of      also was on the sidelines to support                          Katie who is now in her final year of
three siblings and daughter of               my younger brother when he played                         school is undecided about whether
publican Matt and nurse Ciara                football. He helped raise €4500 for                       she should pursue a career in nursing
McAlevey. Katie explained, “my father        the IKA through fundraisers he ran in                     or as a primary school teacher when
has had two kidney transplants in his        the pub while he was on dialysis. I am                    she leaves. However, she explains “the
lifetime. He received his first transplant   proud of my father for the way he has                     one thing I do know is that were it not
when he was 30 years old before he           lived with his kidney condition and I                     for organ donation my father may not
married and it lasted eighteen years.        am also proud for the families of his                     be here and I felt very fortunate to
That’s the same length of time that I        kidney two donors.                                        have him around to share with me in
have been alive! His first transplant            “Our family would like to express                     celebrating my birthday.”
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BILLION STEPS CHALLENGE
T
     he Billion Steps Challenge is    WHAT IS THE BILLION STEPS                            people, with the aim of walking and
     an opportunity for everyone      CHALLENGE?                                           exercising regularly and counting those
     (including family, friends and   • The Billion Steps Challenge aims                   steps to add to a collective total.
even nurses, doctors and hospital       to encourage everyone in the                   •   We are partnering with MoveSpring, an
staff!) to get involved in a global     wider transplant community to                      online fitness platform which integrates
programme that is aimed at              take the first step towards a life of              with most fitness trackers, however
encouraging people to be active         activity and movement.                             manual entries will also be an option for
and also to talk about organ          • Regular exercise not only benefits                 those who do not have a fitness tracker.
donation.                               physical health but also boosts                •   All physical activities count and can
   You can find out more, and how       mental well-being.                                 be converted to steps with our
to sign up here:                      • We want to show the world that                     Activity to Steps Convertor guide.
www.wtgf.org/Billion-steps-             those living with a transplant are                 This means a cycle, swim or yoga
challenge                               serious about their health and the                 class can all be easily converted to
                                        precious gift they have been                       steps. Every step counts!
IT’S FREE AND OPEN TO                   given. What better way than to                 •   The challenge is open to everyone. Teams
EVERYONE!                               walk a collective billion steps to                 can be made up of many different
   The Challenge is taking place        the moon and back?                                 combinations including, but not limited
now and the collective goal is to     • The Billion Step Challenge invites                 to, transplant recipients, medical
reach a total of one billion steps      everyone to sign up into small                     professionals, living donors and donor
between now and December 13th.          teams of between 2 and 5                           families, friends, family, colleagues and
                                                                                           neighbours.
                                                                                       •   There is no age limit and no experience
                                                                                           needed. It starts by taking the first step
                                                                                           to a more active and healthy life.

                                                                                       WHAT’S IN IT FOR ME?
                                                                                       • A healthy lifestyle is important for
                                                                                         everyone, but it is especially important
                                                                                         after an organ transplant. Poor lifestyle
                                                                                         habits can increase the risk of organ
                                                                                         rejection.
                                                                                       • The Challenge is designed to motivate
                                                                                         transplant recipients to get active. We
                                                                                         also recognise the benefits for the entire
                                                                                         transplant community.
                                                                                       • COVID-19 may have kept many of us
                                                                                         apart with restrictions on social
                                                                                         interactions and travel but this challenge
                                                                                         allows us to come together as a
                                                                                         community, promote organ donation and
                                                                                         transplantation and get active.
                                                                                       • This challenge is part of the greater
                                                                                         Fit for Life! initiative which is designed
                                                                                         to help transplant recipients live full and
                                                                                         active lives through ongoing physical
                                                                                         activity and participation in organised
                                                                                         sports.
                                                                                       • This challenge aims to motivate everyone
                                                                                         in a fun and interactive way to exercise
                                                                                         within their means, starting with some
                                                                                         simple goals, such as walking around the
                                                                                         block and building towards more
                                                                                         ambitious goals.
                                                                                       • There is a great interactive chat facility in
                                                                                         the App which opens up the opportunity
                                                                                         to connect with others around the world!

                                                                                       Contact colin@ika.ie if you have any
                                                                                       questions.
                                          IKA S   U P P O R T   A   U T U M N   2020                                               13
To school or
Pranathi O’Donovan

                                                                     homeschool
                                                                     That is the question..
                                                                     for transplant children
                                                                     Pranathi with her
                                                                     mother Anne Marie

RTÉ One TV News and children’s TV news                                   transplant child, has been     were advised that, if
                                                                         getting on with her home       possible, we should seek to
News2day, covered a story at the beginning                               schooling through her          homeschool her rather than
of September on the dilemma and                                          parents who are also           returning to school as her
                                                                         working from home.             immunosuppression regime
uncertainty around children who are health                                  Anne Marie said,            would increase her risk of
compromised returning to school.                                         “Pranathi will be four years   COVID infection should
                                                                         post heart transplant in the   positive cases present within

E
         arlier in the year, the   featured two lively                   Spring (2021) and since her    her school or social
         then Taoiseach Leo        transplant recipient girls            transplant she is doing        contacts.
         Varadkar announced        from Waterford, one a heart           amazingly well, full of           “Pranathi is doing very
         the sudden closure        transplant recipient and an           energy, happiness and          well with her home-
         of all schools from       only child, who didn’t return         health. Paranthi's care is     schooling routine. Each
the 12th March which was           to school while the other             jointly managed by the         morning she has a zoom
to continue until the 29th         girl, who had received a              Children's Heart Centre in     meeting with a Newtown
March to help combat the           combined liver and kidney             Crumlin and Great Ormond       Junior School liaison teacher
spread of COVID-19.                transplant, returned to               Street, London. Throughout     and is working away on all
However, as the prevalence         school along with her two             the COVID pandemic she         the usual school subjects
of the virus continued to          siblings.                             has been very fortunate to     albeit remotely. She loves
escalate, the government              Almost two months since            have had the very best of      being able to go to the
ruled that children should         their appearance on RTE we            medical advice as to how       skate park for her 11 o’clock
not return to school until         checked in on their progress          her family should keep her     break and the biggest
after the Summer holidays.         just before schools’ mid-             safe and reduce exposure to    positive of homeschooling is
Pupils and parents tried to        term break.                           Coronavirus risk.              that we have promised not
adapt to the new normal for           Anne Marie Lally and her              “Our family cocooned        to give homework!
learning, homeschooling,           husband are both lecturers            throughout the first              “There is no doubt that
during the extended hiatus.        at Waterford IT. Anne Marie           lockdown and maintained        arts and craft have been a
   As schools re-opened in         described how their                   only a very small number of    super fun element of
September RTE News,                daughter Pranathi                     interactions since then. In    homeschooling and the
facilitated by the IKA,            O’Donovan, a heart                    August as her parents we       good autumn weather
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Lexi and sister Ali                                                            Lexi with her mum Kim
                                                                                and dad Declan at the
                                                                                national launch of Organ
                                                                                Donor Awareness Week
                                                                                in 2017.

presented lots of                happy for her to continue
opportunity for nature walks     going to school. Thankfully
and outdoor learning.            any of their young liver
Pranathi recently had her        patients between Ireland
annual flu jabs and we are       and the UK that have tested
all hoping that her next         positive for COVID-19 have
vaccine will be a COVID          recovered well. The school
vaccine so that she'll be able   has been great in keeping
to get back to school, family    me reassured that all public
visits and lots of playtime      guidelines are being
with her friends.”               followed. Obviously, Lexi
    Lexi Murphy (10)             herself was already so used
underwent a combined liver       to the importance of good
and kidney transplant in         hand hygiene so she
Birmingham in 2016. After        continues to be extremely
much consultation between        happy to stay going to
her parents, Kim and             school.”
Declan, and her medical             Pranathi embarked on a
team and consideration to        100km cycle challenge,
the complication of having       starting on 30th July cycling                 heart failure four years       faster, I want to raise money
two siblings who would be        a 10km distance on ten                        previously.                    for Ronald McDonald House
attending school, it was         different days within a                          On her online fundraising   so that all families with sick
decided that Lexi should         month. She raised an                          platform IDONATE she           children can stay together
return to National school        impressive €4500 for                          explained her motivation. “I   and have a home away from
along with her younger           Ronald McDonald House                         was very lucky to get a        home as long as they need
sister Ali (6). It was also      where her parents had                         wonderful donor heart three    it.”
important that her older         stayed to be near her when                    years ago and now that I'm         Well done Pranathi and
brother Dillon (15) returned     she became gravely ill with                   able to cycle farther and      Lexi!
to school as he is in 3rd year
preparing for his Junior
Cert. Kim who works as a
hairdresser has to be very
vigilant in ensuring that she
doesn’t carry the virus home.
    On the RTÉ News feature
Lexi displayed impressive
flexibility with acrobatics on
and off the trampoline at
her home. In the almost two
months since returning to
school her mother Kim
explained “Lexi continues to
bounce around and is full of
energy and she loves
attending school. She has
been keeping great, thank
God. She was in Crumlin
hospital this week for a
routine check-up and a           Pranathi on completing her fundraiser
scope. Her doctors are           for Ronald McDonald House.
                                                  IKA S      U P P O R T   A   U T U M N    2020                                         15
Maintaining our
Mental Health
in Tough Times

                             I
                                   n my last article I wrote about and          vitally important that we do what we can
                                   complimented the emotional                   to manage our own mental health.
                                   resilience I see in so many of you               The WHO, HSE and Mental Health
                                   who are living with the uncertainty          Ireland, have continually updated and
                                   and unpredictability that comes with         circulated a vast amount of information
                             a long-term health condition. The coping           online, to make resources widely
                             skills that are developed to deal with the         available to anyone looking for support.
                             difficulties of illness can really stand to us     One area that is greatly focused on is
                             in challenging times.                              anxiety. I thought it might be useful to
                                However, I am also very aware that the          share some information that is presented
                             prolonged situation of the COVID -19               around anxiety and how best we might
                             pandemic is affecting all of us in various         manage it in these tough times.
                             ways and with this a high level of stress
                             may be experienced. People who                     WHAT IS ANXIETY?
                             previously coped well may now be less                  Anxiety is one of the most common
                             well able to cope. Some may newly                  mental health problems presenting
     By AOIFE SMITH          develop a mental health condition. Those           worldwide. However, anxiety is a normal,
                             who previously had few experiences of              understandable response and its function
                             anxiety may suffer an increase in number           is to increase a person’s ability to respond
                             or intensity, and those already diagnosed,         to a threat.
                             may see a worsening or a relapse of a                  Anxiety can keep us safe; it is our
                             previous condition.                                body’s natural way to warn us when
                                The World Health Organisation (WHO)             something doesn’t feel right. It involves a
                             has reported an increased level of mental          type of fear usually associated with a
                             health conditions seen in several studies          perceived threat or something going
                             around the world due to the impact of              wrong in the future.
                             COVID-19. Therefore, right now it is                   Research has shown that severe or

  Aoife can be contacted      The Irish Kidney Association provides a FREE and confidential counselling service for those on
      at Donor House          treatment, their families and carers either through their counsellor based at Donor House or
                              through a nationally registered locally based counsellor network.
      on 0818-543639
                                 If, as a person on treatment, family member or carer, you feel it would be of benefit to you
       or 01-6205306          to speak to a counsellor or if you would like a referral to a counsellor in your local area,
 or by email: aoife@ika.ie    please contact Aoife at Donor House.
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ongoing threat can play a                                                                            control emotionally and
prominent role in the                                                                                physically. If COVID-19 has
development of anxiety disorders.                                                                    increased your anxiety feelings
Persistent unpleasant feelings of                                                                    remember that you can help
uneasiness, apprehension and                                                                         to manage them, remember
worry can be distressing and can                                                                     what is in your control.
have physical, behavioural and                                                                          Mental Health Ireland
emotional effects.                                                                                   produced a poster to help us
                                                                                                     to do just that - ‘Focus on
WHAT DOES ANXIETY FEEL LIKE?                                                                         what you can control’.
    Everyone experiences anxiety                                                                        If you want to talk to a
differently. Physically it can                                                                       professional, many therapists,
manifest as a racing heart,                                                                          including myself, are now
sweating, rapid breathing,                                                                           doing appointments by phone
disturbed sleep, tensed or weak                                                                      or conference call, in
muscles, loss of appetite,                                                                           accordance with current
stomach churning, dry mouth or                                                                       guidelines and will resume
feeling dizzy.                                                                                       normal service when it is safe
    Emotionally, it can manifest as                                                                  to do so. You can continue to
excessive or undue worry, feelings                                                                   contact me here at the Irish
of panic, loss of self-confidence,                                                                   Kidney Association and I will
difficulties concentrating or                                                                        arrange it for you, or you can
irritability.                                                                                        contact your GP to avail of the
    Any of these symptoms,                                                                           range of options they have
individually or in combination,                                                                      available.
can affect the way we behave in                                                                         Thank you to all who called
any situation.                                                                                       or emailed the counselling
                                                                                                     services provided here at the
WHAT CAN WE DO...                                                                                    IKA. Please continue to email
    These feelings can be intense and        of it can help. Anxiety can cause sleep       me with topics that might benefit you
alarming to experience, nevertheless it      disturbances, but sleep disturbances          to read about. Your comments to me
is important to remember that these          can cause anxiety. It can be useful to        will be completely confidential, no
feelings can be managed. If you feel         use relaxation techniques such as             names will be used, and no reference
that you are worrying excessively, that      meditation or mindfulness to help you         will be made to any person or any
it is interfering with everyday life and     prepare for sleep.                            specific email. If there is a common
that it has become upsetting or                 Breathing techniques are particularly      theme in the requests, I will base the
difficult to control, it may be the right    beneficial when it comes to managing          next article around that topic.
time to look for support.                    anxiety. It is well proven that simply           Thank you to the Tipperary Branch for
    Anxiety, like many other mental          breathing out for longer than you             the invitation to join their Zoom Branch
health conditions can be harder to           breathe in has a relaxing effect on your      meeting. I look forward to the day that
treat if you wait, getting help early will   body. Try breathing in for a count of         I get to meet you all in person!
really help to reduce the impact. Now        three and breathing out for a count of           I would also like to take this
more than ever is a ‘good time to talk’,     six to notice if there is a difference in     opportunity to wish Mark Murphy the
it is highly likely that whoever you         how your body feels.                          very best in his recent retirement and
choose to talk to may be experiencing           There are many YouTube videos,             to express heartfelt good wishes to
some of these feelings too. Talking it       downloads and apps to guide you               Lorraine Costello on her pending
through with family, friends or              through these techniques if you are           retirement. It has been a pleasure to
colleagues may help you both feel            ‘techie’, or if not asking someone who        work with you both.
supported.                                   is will help.                                    And to our new CEO, Carol Moore,
    How my physical activity is, how I          Often people describe an experience        the very best of luck in your new
eat and how I sleep, if unbalanced,          of anxiety as an ‘anxiety attack’             position. I am excited about the
have all been shown to affect mood           because they are left feeling out of          journey ahead!!
and well-being negatively. So, it is
important to check the basics.
    A small increase in physical activity                                      HELPFUL LINKS
has been shown to trigger brain
                                              • If you need urgent help, Samaritans can be contacted on 116 123 or email
chemicals that improve our stress
                                                jo@samaritans.ie.
levels. Very sweet foods can cause an
                                              • https://www.who.int/teams/mental-health-and-substance-use/covid-19
initial sugar rush which often can be
                                              • https://www2.hse.ie/wellbeing/mental-health/covid-19/minding-your-mental-
followed by a sharp dip in blood sugar
                                                health-during-the-coronavirus-outbreak.html
levels which can cause anxious
                                              • https://www.mentalhealthireland.ie/
feelings.
                                              • https://www.aware.ie/
    Caffeine is also known to increase
                                              • Mindfulness apps such as Calm and Headspace.
anxiety levels, minimising your intake
                                              IKA S   U P P O R T   A   U T U M N   2020                                         17
PEER SUPPORT
    WHAT DOES IT MEAN
  AND WHY IS IT IMPORTANT?
A
         ccording to our                                                                                and lifestyle changes that
         constitution, ‘The       By COLIN WHITE, IKA NATIONAL PROJECTS MANAGER                         are associated with living
         main objectives of                                                                             with a chronic condition.’*
         our Association are     significant impact on how             management refers to                Individuals who provide
         to aid, assist by any   we, as individuals, interact          ‘support for a person with a     peer support offer three
means, counsel and support       in so many aspects of our             chronic condition from           types of support based on
people living with, or           daily lives. As a support and         someone with the same            experiential knowledge:
affected by end-stage renal      service driven organisation,          condition or similar             emotional, informational
disease.’                        it is therefore an opportune          circumstances.’*                 and appraisal. Emotional
   If we speak of the            moment to reflect on our                 With the growing              support involves caring,
Association in broad terms,      core values and activities            incidence of chronic illnesses   empathy and
our Branches can, ironically,    and think about how we                worldwide, society is having     encouragement;
be likened to our roots          continue to deliver on our            to reflect on how best we        informational support
whilst the Board, through        objectives.                           can work towards replacing       involves advice, suggestions
Donor House, oversees the            When looking at the role          a centralised care model         with alternative actions and
bigger picture in terms of a     of our Branches, fundraising          with one that involves           factual feedback relevant to
national representation and      and peer support generally            appropriate self-                a particular topic; and
also supporting individuals      come to the fore but what             management where ‘self-          appraisal support involves
through the provision of a       does ‘peer support’ mean              management refers to a           affirming feelings, thoughts
broad range of services and      and why is it important?              person’s ability to manage       and behaviours and thus is
supports.                            Peer support in the               the symptoms, treatment,         motivational, encouraging
   COVID-19 has had a            context of chronic disease            and physical, psychosocial       the individual to continue
18                                           IKA S   U P P O R T   A   U T U M N   2020
with problem-solving             about it and they are likely         security of an established               a day! Whether we are
attempts despite setbacks.**     to speak of it in positive           like-minded community.                   living under COVID-19
   This is a very academic       terms. However, as a good               Traditionally, our Branches           restrictions or not we can
way of saying that peer          peer supporter they are              held face-to-face meetings               embrace the networking
support comes out of an          going to address the                 on a regular basis. Now that             ability we have as a national
individual’s own experiences     question from the                    our collective realities have            organisation with roots in
of a situation similar to that   perspective of the person            changed we need to look at               every county. Let us
of their peer.                   asking, rather than simply           being innovative so that we              facilitate people getting in
   For peer support to be        basing their response on             remain relevant. Zoom has                touch with each other in
truly impactful it clearly       their own experience and             become one of the new                    their own time whilst letting
needs to be objective and        circumstances.                       means of communication                   them know that the
rooted in fact but there also       When it comes to peer             and a number of our                      structures of the Association
needs to be a relationship of    support, how do you get to           Branches are holding regular             are there to offer support
trust and understanding          understand the other                 ‘meetings.’ The value of                 and services.
between the peers to ensure      person’s perspective                 such contact can be                          It’s all about offering clear
that it is both appropriate      whether you are giving or            immeasurable; an                         communication pathways to
and relevant. The supporter      receiving the support? It            encouraging word, a new                  everyone living with, and
needs to be clear about the      comes down to empathy –              insight or a feeling that you            affected by, end stage
limits of their experience,      having an understanding of           are alone can be particularly            kidney disease and meeting
knowledge and                    the individual and what they         informative and supportive               their needs in the way that
understanding and be very        are bringing to the                  in these isolating times.                is most appropriate to them.
open about the importance        discussion. Put simply,                 We currently hear so                  There are always many
of seeking confirmation and      getting to know each other.          much about contact tracing               questions but there are also
reassurance from medical            This is where our                 in the media. Let’s put our              many answers, some of
professionals, and others,       Branches come in. Offering           own twist on it and consider             which can come from within
where necessary.                 a forum for peers to meet,           tracing contacts at Branch               our own community.
   A question often asked        get to know each other and           level who can support each               #StrongerTogether
by individuals who are due       discuss shared experiences,          other. The facilitation of               #TogetherApart
to start dialysis is which       our Branches are our                 peer support does not only                   Please contact Colin
treatment type;                  grassroots network. The              have to happen at a formal               White (colin@ika.ie) if you
haemodialysis or peritoneal      added value that our                 meeting. A ‘virtual’ coffee              have thoughts and
dialysis is ‘better.’ An         Branches bring outside of            can help brighten up many                suggestions on this area.
individual who has had a         simple friendship is the
positive experience with         connection into support              *
                                                                           Online peer support interventions for chronic conditions: a scoping
peritoneal dialysis is           services, the contacts to                 review protocol. Sarah Elizabeth Patricia Munce, BMJ Open 2017
                                                                           Sept 24
obviously going to be able       follow up issues beyond an           **
                                                                           Peer support within a healthcare context: a concept analysis. Dennis CL,
to talk more knowledgably        initial enquiry and the                   Int J Nurs Stud. 2003 Mar; 40(3):321-32.


Individuals who provide
peer support offer three
types of support based on
experiential knowledge:
emotional, informational
and appraisal.

                                            IKA S   U P P O R T   A   U T U M N     2020                                                        19
last ten years. However, emboldened

Life in
                                                                                           by a successful attempt at peanut
                                                                                           butter cookies I was suddenly churning
                                                                                           out caramel slices and lemon drizzle
                                                                                           cake like no man’s business. I attribute
                                                                                           this unexpected development to an
                                                                                           extremely unsound theory involving

Lockdown
                                                                                           the transfer of baking powers via my
                                                                                           mother’s kidney, considering she’s a
                                                                                           woman who can knock out an apple
                                                                                           tart in her sleep and would have a tray
                                                                                           of scones baked and in front of you
                                                                                           before you knew what had happened.
                                                                                           Of course, it could also have been

B
         ack at the end of January, I got                                                  down to quarantine boredom, but I
         home from hospital after my                                                       like the magic kidney powers
         kidney transplant, which I                                                        explanation better.
         received thanks to my                                                                 As the COVID case numbers rose,
wonderful donor mother Frances. In                                                         the situation grew ever more serious,
between watching everything on                                                             and when people over 70 and the
Netflix and indulging in all the things I                                                  medically vulnerable were encouraged
desperately missed while on a renal                                                        to cocoon, (a term we’ve all come to
diet (specifically jambons from the                                                        know and loathe), the daily walks had
nearest deli counter and crisps – all of                                                   to go out the window. For those six
which I now only have in moderation                                                        weeks my exercise involved a steady
before any dieticians give out to me), a                                                   amount of swearing at Joe Wicks
countdown was on. While reading                                                            while I huffed and puffed my way
over all the recommendations that the                                                      through his daily YouTube workouts,
hospital send you home with –                                                              hating every minute of it. The fact that
avoiding any large gatherings, washing                                                     my dad is a kidney recipient too meant
hands regularly and not allowing any                                                       that he was also cocooning for that
visitors with coughs or colds for the                                                      stretch of time, although in his case,
first six to eight weeks post-transplant                                                   living in gorgeous rural Waterford
                                               By KARYN MOYNIHAN
– I don’t think anyone could have                                                          meant that he could do loops of the
known how familiar it would all
                                                   (October 2020)
                                                                                           large garden or walk along the road
become.                                     considering making it a karaoke party          for an hour and not meet a single
    By now it’s so commonplace that         so I could call it kidneyoke, a term that      other person, something I was highly
masks and hand sanitiser join the           I was extremely pleased with. While I          jealous of when I couldn’t go past my
‘phone, wallet, keys’ checklist before      count myself very lucky that my                own front door in Dublin.
leaving the house. But back then, I         operation went ahead when it did and               When some of the restrictions for
was looking forward to reaching the         without any issues, I couldn’t help            cocooners were eventually lifted and
end of my post-transplant quarantine,       feeling a little hard done by when I           we could go outside again, I
meeting up with friends in the pub,         reached the point that I could be out          completely lost the run of myself and
maybe going on holiday later in the         in the world again, only for it to             demanded that my partner and I go
year and actually having the energy to      coincide with Government                       for a 10k walk on the first day of the
be out and about, even just for a           announcements shutting the country             new guidelines. I had a great time
wander around a shopping centre. The        down and initiating what would                 striding around Phoenix Park, looking
last time I had been in a shopping          become lockdown.                               for deer and taking photos by the
centre before that point I was                 At first, it wasn’t so bad. I was still     Papal Cross, but needless to say, 10k
completely worn out after twenty            getting out for daily walks, and my            after six weeks of not being out
minutes. This time I’d be doing laps of     partner Aengus and I got into jigsaws          walking at all was ridiculous and I
Liffey Valley and there’d be no             in a big way. I even started baking,           could only stagger out for significantly
stopping me!                                which was extremely unlike me, as up           shorter and more ache-filled walks for
    Once I was free to go out and see       until then my go-to creation was a             the rest of the week until I got back
people I was going to throw a new           banoffee pie, which is more a case of          into the swing of things. By the end of
kidney party too. I hadn’t ironed out       putting a series of things in the fridge       June I was back on form and without
any of the details by then, but I was       and I had made it maybe twice in the           doing any damage to myself, managed
                                                                                           another 10k walk, this time for the
        Getting through this pandemic when you’re                                          IKA’s virtual ‘Run for a Life’. It’s not
                                                                                           quite the level of my auntie Noelle
        medically vulnerable really does just mean                                         Conway, a seasoned marathoner who
       having to adapt your routine over and over to                                       will be taking part in this year’s KBC
                                                                                           virtual Dublin Marathon and raising
          make sure you feel as safe as possible.                                          funds for the IKA on the 26th October,
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