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NEWS

CLIFFORD RETIRES AS
CHAPLAIN TO
BISHOP OF CONNOR
The Rev Clifford Skillen, former
assistant editor of the ‘Gazette,’
has retired as the Bishop of
Connor’s Senior Domestic
Chaplain. He had served in that
capacity throughout the entire 12
years of Bishop Alan Abernethy’s
episcopacy.
   Clifford said: “It was always my
intention to step down when Bishop       Shirley Crutchley, left (photo: Ann Wright), and Marie Anderson, pictured in
Alan retired - and prior to the          their gardens with their Maundy purses.
diocese entering a new era under a
new bishop - though I didn’t
anticipate it would be quite so soon
                                         MAUNDY GIFTS FOR
                                         SHIRLEY AND MARIE
or in such unfortunate circumstances
as Bishop Alan’s ill health.
   “It has been a great personal
privilege - and hugely enjoyable         Two loyal Church of Ireland                 lonely elderly people, and befriends
- not only to have served Bishop         parishioners were honoured to               those who are struggling with loss
Alan and the diocese in this position    receive Her Majesty the Queen’s             and grief. She has set up a variety of
throughout all of his episcopacy, but    Maundy money – by special                   community-based support groups in
also to have been able to play even      delivery!                                   her local area, and has served as a
a small part, especially in                 Shirley Crutchley from Kilhorne          diocesan lay reader.
institution and ordination services      Parish, Annalong, Diocese of Down              Marie was nominated for the
which marked very special occasions      and Dromore, and Marie Anderson,            Maundy money by former Bishop of
in the life of parishes and the          Christ Church Parish, Lisburn,              Connor, Alan Abernethy. “I knew the
ministry of diocesan colleagues.”        Diocese of Connor, were among               bishop from attending church events
   Clifford wished Bishop Alan and       this year’s recipients of the traditional   and his annual Lenten Talks, but I
his wife Liz a happy retirement. “I      Maundy purses.                              got to know him a bit better because
would also like to wish Bishop-              Sadly, the Maundy Service               we went on the same journey at the
designate George Davison every           planned for April 9 in St George’s          Cancer Centre,” Marie said.
blessing for the future,” he said.       Chapel, Windsor, didn’t go ahead               “He was getting his radiotherapy
   Bishop-designate George said:         because of the restrictions around          at 12 noon and I was getting mine
“The diocese owes a great debt of        Covid-19, but both Shirley and Marie        at 11.30. We enjoyed each other’s
gratitude to Clifford for his faithful   received their Maundy coins in the          company while waiting. I had 27
support of Bishop Alan at so many        post.                                       sessions and the bishop had more,
public occasions in the life of the          Shirley thanked former Bishop of        but we went through the whole thing
diocese.                                 Down and Dromore, the Rt Rev                together.”
   “As he retires from this role I -     Harold Miller, for putting her name            Marie has been a parishioner in
and I’m sure all of us - offer him our   forward. “It was truly a completely         Christ Church Lisburn for more than
sincere thanks and wish him God’s        unexpected but lovely surprise,”            50 years. She was a Sunday School
blessing in the years ahead.”            Shirley said.                               teacher from 20 years, has been a
                                            “I am disappointed that the              long-term member of the Mothers’
                                         ceremony at St George’s Chapel              Union and for a number of years
                                         was cancelled, but I feel honoured          was branch leader. She also worked
                                         to have received a letter from our          as the parish administrator and was
                                         Queen and also the special Maundy           secretary of the Select Vestry for five
                                         purses, and these will always be            years.
                                         greatly treasured.”                            She said she was honoured to
                                             Each year, The Queen distributes        receive the Maundy money. “I still
                                         special Maundy money to a number            can’t get my head around why I was
                                         of pensioners in recognition of their       chosen. There was a letter from the
                                         contribution to community and to            Lord High Almoner, and I read about
The Rev Clifford Skillen with Bishop     the Church.                                 what people have done in Church
Alan Abernethy at the Thanksgiving           Shirley is a former principal           circles and I think, ‘that’s not me!’
Service last December prior to the       teacher of a primary school. In             There are lots of people who are
bishop’s retirement.                     retirement, she visits vulnerable and       much more deserving!”

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CONTENTS
05       Pastoral care during
         Covid-19
06       Coronavirus stories
10       Fancy a virtual run?

12       Diocesan Focus
18       New archbishop
         outlines vision
19       Veteran celebrates
         100th birthday
20       Practical advice for           8-9: Mark Ferguson, lead singer of the Mark
         parishes                       Ferguson band, is the subject of our Q&A.
22       A global pandemic
                                        14-15
25       The Big Question
26       Devotional
30       Blooming marvellous!
31       Mothers’ Union
34       Archive of the Month                                                  17                                  21

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EDITORIAL

RISING TO THE CHALLENGE
   It is hard to believe how quickly         I watched a ‘funny’ video on social         church’ once this
the extraordinary becomes the             media which showed hundreds of                 pandemic is over, will
ordinary. Two months ago, reading         chickens racing madly out of a barn            change.
accounts of Wuhan residents               and down a hill. The video was                    We make no apologies for the
living in lockdown because of the         captioned: ‘When they let us out!’ I           many coronavirus-related stories
coronavirus, I would never have           suspect, however, that as lockdown             in this issue. Key workers and
imagined that in a short space            regulations ease, we will actually             others are doing an incredible job
of time we would have to do the           step out slowly, nervous about                 making sure we, the public, stay
same, and for so long.                    re-entering the world.                         safe and well. Health workers,
   The shocking daily death tolls            What a joy it will be to be able to         law enforcement officers, food
experienced by our European               return to the sanctity of our churches.        producers, teachers and other key
neighbours are now being recorded         This crisis, however, has proved               workers are having to adapt the way
here: A tidal wave of grief sweeping      that while our buildings have had              they work - many at risk to their own
through our communities as loved          to close, the Church remains open              health. We thank them sincerely.
ones die, exacerbated by the              and continues to carry out a vibrant              To keep our distributers safe, this
unimaginable, but tragically real,        ministry.                                      issue of the ‘Gazette’ is available,
ban on wakes and services of                 Clergy and others have risen to             free to all, in online format only,
thanksgiving, and the strict limit on     the challenge of transferring ministry         and can be printed at home at
numbers attending a burial.               to an online platform - David Ritchie,         www.gazette.ireland.anglican.
   Older people are the most              Chief Executive of the Representative          org. Our office is currently closed,
isolated and the most vulnerable.         Church Body, comments (page 21)                but if you have a story to share
Taking steps to reduce the former         that many parishes say numbers                 in our June issue, please email
increases their risk of the latter.       tuning in for Sunday services online           editorcofigazette@gmail.com.
Thankfully, the evidence shows that       are far in excess of those attending              Thank you for downloading the
social distancing is working. If we       worship before the pandemic.                   ‘Gazette.’ I am delighted that we can
keep it up, we will beat this virus       That is a clear endorsement of the             continue to provide this service and,
and, one day, life will return to the     efforts of our clergy - and perhaps            at the same time, encourage our
‘ordinary’ that we once enjoyed.          an indication that the way we ‘do              readers to stay home and stay safe.

VIRTUAL SERVICE OF INTRODUCTION IN MEATH AND KILDARE
The Rev Fran Grasham has taken
up her post as part-time priest-in-
charge of Geashill Union, Diocese
of Meath and Kildare, following a
virtual Service of Introduction
conducted by Bishop Pat Storey.
   The service took place on April 27
using the Zoom online platform. Fran
was accompanied by her husband
Steve and seven others, including
diocesan registrar Karen Seaman.
   Bishop Pat said: “We had to
adapt to the restrictions on social
distancing because of Covid-19, by
holding the Service of Introduction
virtually. Even though the
parishioners of Geashill Union have       Bishop Pat Storey conducts a virtual Service of Introduction for the Rev Fran
not been able to hold a physical          Grasham (inset).
Service of Introduction, the warmth
of their welcome is just as real, as is
                                             Please check our website and social media for updates on
Rev Fran’s enthusiasm for ministry          deadlines and publication of the June issue of the ‘Gazette.’
amongst them.”
   Prior to taking up her new             DISCLAIMER
                                          Any views which may be expressed in the features, news reports, articles, letters and
appointment, Fran served as a
                                          reviews are not necessarily those of the editor or of Church of Ireland Press Ltd. Editorial
non-stipendiary minister in the           comment and other articles do not necessarily contain the official views of the Church
Kildare and Newbridge Group of            or Ireland. The editor reserves the right to decline any advertisement, letter or other
Parishes and as Chaplain to the Irish     material without assigning any reason. Publication of advertisements does not necessarily
Defence Forces.                           imply endorsement of products or services advertised.

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CORONAVIRUS

AT THE HEART OF
                                                                                 were introduced, we knew
                                                                                 immediately that this would be very
                                                                                 challenging for our patients and their

PASTORAL CARE
                                                                                 loved ones at what is perhaps the
                                                                                 most vulnerable times in their lives.
                                                                                     We have been overwhelmed by
                                                                                 the generosity of so many towards
THE PROVISION OF PASTORAL CARE IN                                                our appeal. The iPads have already
                                                                                 been used to provide valuable final
THE MIDST OF COVID-19 HAS BEEN A                                                 connections with families, to
                                                                                 provide pastoral care to patients
GLOBAL CHALLENGE, WRITES HOSPITAL                                                who were unable to have visitors,
                                                                                 and to virtually bring family guests
CHAPLAIN, DR DANIEL NUZUM                                                        to a wedding which they could not
                                                                                 attend in person.
At the heart of palliative care is      upset for our patients, the pastoral         At the heart of pastoral care is
the philosophy of living as well as     care team led on the provision of        ‘relationship,’ and this new initiative,
you can for as long as possible in      virtual care with patients using iPads   that I am proud to be part of with
the midst of a life-limiting illness.   and video conferencing. This             our pastoral care team and the wider
   Marymount University Hospital        provided pastoral care for patients in   multidisciplinary team, has meant a
and Hospice is a specialist inpatient   isolation and also allowed patients      lot to our patients and their families.
palliative care service located in      to connect with their loved ones at      It is another example of the
Cork, with 44 inpatient beds, in        home. Following an initial generous      tremendous ‘can do’ attitude that is
addition to 66 residents in our         donation of two iPads and the            evident within our Marymount staff
Service for the Older Person and a      evident success of the initiative, a     and community.
large number of community palliative    drive was launched to provide this           The provision of pastoral care in
care patients who are cared for at      service for all patients.                the midst of Covid-19 has been a
home or in care facilities.                                                      global challenge for chaplains and
   Due to the increase of the           APPEAL                                   pastoral care teams around the
Covid-19 virus in the wider             A fundraising appeal was made on         world. At a time of isolation and
community, Marymount Hospice            Good Friday, and within 24 hours         uncertainty, healthcare chaplains
reluctantly had to introduce severe     more than €20,000 was raised and         have been providing meaningful care
visiting restrictions to protect our    more than 80 devices hand-delivered      and exploring new ways of
vulnerable patients and the staff       to the hospice and hospital. Most        maintaining care for patients, their
who care for them. This was a           were brand new and ordered by            loved ones and staff colleagues.
difficult decision, and in many ways    individuals and companies especially         The spiritual challenges of the
goes against the core philosophy of     for Marymount. At the time of writing    Covid-19 pandemic such as
family-centred care that Marymount      the appeal had reached €45,000,          isolation, fear, uncertainty,
holds dear.                             including €35,000 through our            loneliness, abandonment are
   Recognising that the                           GofundMe site and              immense. As chaplains, a
absence of loved                                        a €10,000 donation       number of us are collaborating
ones was a                                                  from Apple.          globally to share good practice,
source of                                                      When visiting     research, and experiences to
                                                               restrictions      develop innovative ways to provide
                                                                                 meaningful pastoral care.
                                                                                     To support the iPad initiative,
                                                                                 please visit: https://ie.gofundme.
                                                                                 com/f/MarymountTechAppeal.

                                                                                    Dr Daniel Nuzum is a member of
                                                                                           the Pastoral Care Team at
                                                                                   Marymount University Hospital and
                                                                                         Hospice and is a Healthcare
                                                                                       Chaplain and Clinical Pastoral
                                                                                        Education Supervisor at Cork
                                                                                              University Hospital and
                                                                                                      Cork University
                                                                                                            Maternity
                                                                                                            Hospital.
                                                                                                 @marymountcork@
                                                                                                         danielnuzum

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CORONAVIRUS

 A VITAL ROLE IN
                                                                                 work. We have added additional
                                                                                 canteen and hand-washing areas and
                                                                                 employed extra cleaners to ensure

 FOOD PRODUCTION
                                                                                 communal areas are disinfected on a
                                                                                 regular basis.
                                                                                    “We have identified ways of
                                                                                 ensuring social distancing which
                                                                                 include staggering breaks, and have
                                                                                 regular meetings with all staff to
                                                                                 ensure they are aware of government
                                                                                 advice and regulations.”
                                                                                    Food producers like Codd
                                                                                 Mushrooms are essential during this
                                                                                 crisis. “Our staff are playing a vital
                                                                                 role in keeping food production
                                                                                 moving and feeding the country,”
                                                                                 said Hazel. “We are committed to
                                                                                 ensuring that all retailers receive their
                                                                                 orders without delay. We will strive
                                                                                 to keep up a level of production to
The Codd family (pictured), all         the Irish market. How has Covid-19       ensure that mushrooms are supplied
members of the parish of St             impacted the company?                    to the quality and volumes required
Columba’s Church in Tullow, Co             “The greatest challenges we           by the retailers.”
Carlow, Diocese of Cashel, Ferns        currently have are ensuring the safety      William Codd is a member of
and Ossory, have been growing           of our staff and the unpredictability    Diocesan Synod and Hazel is Lay
the finest quality mushrooms at         of orders,” Hazel said. “While sales     Honorary Secretary of the General
their home farm in since 1989.          in the catering sector have reduced      Synod.
   “Over the last 30 years we have      dramatically, retail sales have
seen many changes and have              increased.”                              MAGGIE’S MISSION
progressed to a modern, purpose            She said that the health and safety   A retired nurse
built mushroom and packing facility     of all staff is paramount. “We have      from Gilnahirk
which currently employs 240             had to implement huge changes to         has joined
people,” explains Hazel Codd.           keep our employees safe. We are          the army of
   Codd Mushrooms Ltd is now the        currently taking temperature checks      volunteer
largest supplier of mushrooms into      on everyone before they commence         seamstresses
                                                                                 making hospital
TEACHER’S BOOK SUPPORTS CHILDREN                                                 scrubs to help
Primary school teacher Mike                                                      keep staff and
                                         Teacher and                             patients safe
Forde, who grew up in the rectory
                                         author Mike                             during the              Maggie Murphy.
of St Cedma’s, Larne, Diocese of
                                         Forde.                                  coronavirus crisis.
Connor, where his father Stephen,
now Dean of Belfast, was rector,                                                     Working with the ‘Dundonald
has published a new book to                                                      Darners’ group, Maggie Murphy’s
support children in the midst of                                                 first scrubs are already in use at the
the coronavirus crisis.                                                          Ulster Hospital, helping to protect
   Mike now lives in Lancaster where                                             high-risk, immuno-compromised
he teaches at Ingleton Primary                                                   cardiac and cancer patients, and the
School. He penned the story in an                                                staff caring for them.
effort to help pupils come to terms                                                  Maggie, a warden of St Dorothea’s
                                        adventures of Parsley Mimblewood.        Church, Gilnahirk, Diocese of Down
with the school shutdown.               “Each chapter explores an issue that
   “I initially shared it as a Kindle                                            and Dromore, was a MacMillan nurse
                                        might be weighing on children’s          until her retirement. She wanted to
book with the class and it was          minds at the moment such as
downloaded hundreds of times                                                     return to nursing to offer
                                        dealing with emotions, missing           bereavement support to families
and shared by teachers across the       friends and feeling cooped up,” said
country,” said Mike. “I’ve now                                                   affected by the pandemic, but at 73,
                                        Mike. “At the end the chapter, there     her family felt it was too
created a website for the book -        are prompts and questions to
https://parsleymimblewood.                                                       dangerous, so she has been making
                                        support parents to discuss these         scrubs instead.
wordpress.com/ - so that anyone can     issues as a family.
access it for free.”                                                                 Maggie, a long-term volunteer
                                           “It seems to have appealed to lots    with Christian Aid, also rings the
   Titled ‘How to NOT go to school,’    of children and families beyond my
the story follows the whimsical daily                                            church bell at 8pm on Thursdays to
                                        school.”                                 show gratitude for frontline workers.
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Donoughmore parishioner Marcella Eager chats to Archdeacon Neal O’Raw.

WHEN STREAMING
                                                                                      The visits are all conducted in an
                                                                                   appropriately socially distant
                                                                                   manner and clergy have a

IS NOT AN OPTION
                                                                                   dispensation to move beyond their
                                                                                   2km radius to carry on their work.
                                                                                      “On a normal pre-Covid-19
By Lynn Glanville                         the only way forward.                    Sunday, I might see two or three
                                             Neal is the rector of                 dozen people. It’s a rural area and
How do you ‘do church’ during             Donoughmore and Donard with              there is quite a small Church of
a lockdown when going online is           Dunlavin. Located on the west side       Ireland population. I started limited
not an option? When your fellow           of the Wicklow Mountains, the parish     visiting, focusing on those who are
clergy are becoming YouTubers or          is among the most rural in the           particularly isolated. I had been
streaming services on Facebook            Diocese of Glendalough. Here,            calling people, but I don’t like the
Live, but you and your                    internet is creaky at best, and even     phone and, as a former long
parishioners are largely confined         mobile phone coverage is far from        distance lorry driver, I like to be out
to a broadband blackspot?                 guaranteed.                              and about. This helps keep up the
   It’s back to basics for the               “My answer to this has been to        Sunday connection and maintains
Archdeacon of Glendalough, the            meet people face to face,” Neal          the sanity of the rector,” he says.
Ven Neal O’Raw, who now finds that        says. “I drive up to a parishioner’s        With his ‘walk and talk’
socially distant conversations with       gate and ring them. They come            philosophy, Neal is as busy in
parishioners across their gates are       outside and we have a chat.”             lockdown as ever before.

WE CAN EMBRACE EVEN IF WE ARE NOT THERE
Bereaved relatives mourning the           You are in the Mourne Mountains.         Holy Week, the resurrection hope
loss of a loved one - whether             This is where this lady was born and     does bring comfort.”
the death was a consequence of            brought up, and this is the family          Paul said that as some clergy are
contracting Covid-19 or not - are         grave. You are reading Psalm 23,         confined to home for 12 weeks,
now facing the additional pain of         which is what she requested as part      clergy who are able are helping out
restrictions in terms of funerals.        of her funeral service.                  in other parishes. “There has been
                           In Northern       “The birds are singing, and the       a lot of sharing,” he said. He paid
                        Ireland,          sheep are bleating and you think -       tribute to the hard work of
                        regulations       this is a funeral. This is someone for   undertakers and graveyard staff.
                        dictate social    whom we would have loved to have            Following appeals by the Bishop
                        distancing must   had a service in a church, singing       of Derry and Raphoe, the Rt Rev
                        be observed in    the hymns she chose, and just being      Andrew Forster, and the Roman
                        graveyards, and   able to hug.                             Catholic Bishop of Derry, the Most
                        only 10 people       “Families and congregations           Rev Dr Donal McKeown, the
                        may be present    cannot be there. That’s the hard part.   Northern Ireland Executive reversed
                        at a burial.      Ecclesiastes says there is a time to     a decision to close cemeteries.
                           The Ven        embrace. We cannot embrace                  Expressing his concerns about the
Paul Dundas.            Paul Dundas,      physically, but we can embrace           closures, Bishop Andrew said the
Archdeacon of Dalriada and rector         through sharing our thoughts and         legislation allowed public parks to
of Christ Church, Lisburn, Diocese of     prayers online on Facebook and           remain open but forced cemeteries
Connor, has conducted a number of         WhatsApp. We can embrace                 to close. “We’re literally ‘standing
these graveside funerals.                 someone even if we are not able to       on holy ground’ when we’re talking
   Reflecting on the funeral of a         be there.                                about this issue,” Bishop Andrew
parishioner who died of Covid-19,            “We have been very blessed by         said, “because cemeteries are a
held in Castlewellan, Co Down, Paul       the weather. We can stand by the         place of memory, they’re a place of
said: “It is very surreal standing at     grave and not get blown away. And        grief, they’re also a place of hope
a graveside, the sun beating down.        for those suffering during Easter and    and resolution as well.”
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EVENTS CAUSED ME
                                                                                      There have been a few significant
                                                                                   events in my life that have caused
                                                                                   me to ask questions. Times when I

TO ASK QUESTIONS
                                                                                   have had to really choose to believe
                                                                                   that God is still in control, in spite of
                                                                                   circumstances.
                                                                                      In 1998 I was involved in a serious
MARK FERGUSON IS THE FOUNDER OF                                                    car accident, as a result of which my
                                                                                   passenger lost his life. In 2001, I lost
THE MARK FERGUSON BAND, A CO                                                       my mother to cancer. In 2010, my
                                                                                   wife Delia gave birth to our daughter
ARMAGH-BASED WORSHIP GROUP                                                         Ana-Lily. We were soon to learn that
                                                                                   she was born with a rare condition
    1/ Tell us about your background.                                              meaning that she is severely
    I was brought up in a loving and                                               physically disabled and has a variety
lively Christian home. My father,                                                  of complex medical needs.
Dean Raymond, is a retired Church                                                     This is probably the greatest daily
of Ireland clergyman. His longest                                                  challenge, and has led my wife and I
spell as rector was at Mullabrack                                                  on a rollercoaster of questions and
Parish, near Markethill. This is where                                             hospital admissions - continually
I grew up.                                                                         having to find a ‘new normal’ after
    My late mother, Rosemary, was                                                  many trying situations.
a primary school teacher. She was                                                     However, in everything I am
heavily involved in the life of the       The band: James Donaldson, Matt
                                                                                   reminded that Jesus freely chose
church too. Both my parents               Duke, Mark Ferguson and Tim Duke.
                                                                                   the way of suffering, ie the cross, to
encouraged music, and particularly        band’ on a regular basis for a           bring about an end to all suffering.
singing, around the home at all           number of years. Initially we only       I must hold on to this! I must trust
times! I have two brothers and two        played at Resonate each month, but       God to make me stronger by leaning
sisters. My siblings all sing and play    were soon invited to play at events      more firmly on Him.
a variety of instruments too, so          all over Ireland - in church halls,         Our daughter is nine years old
music and singing songs and hymns         churches, festivals, civic centres,      now and brings us joy every day, we
together around the piano was - and       open air stages, theatres etc.           wouldn’t change anything about her.
still is - part of our family life.          Recently, having become busier        We have seen her have an impact on
                                          with jobs, families and so on, there     people that we will never have, and
   2/ What prompted you to form           has not been a regular band as such.     we have seen her reflect the glory of
the band?                                 I have been less busy with it all too.   God in ways that go deeper than our
   In August 2006, I became involved      Now, I usually call upon a number of     words could ever describe.
in an inter-Church outreach initiative    good musician friends and singers as
in Portadown called ‘Xpression.’ The      and when I need them.                        6/ Do you feel your music is a
week-long event began each day                                                     ministry?
with morning worship. It ended with           4/ How much of your music do             I do. I feel very humble, yet greatly
an open air celebration of praise and     you write yourself?                      privileged when I receive messages
worship in the town centre.                   Over the years we have released      from people telling me of how the
   Towards the end of the week, the       three albums and one EP. ‘Your           songs have had an impact on them.
regular worship leader was unable         Name On Our Lips’ (five track EP in      For this I am thankful to God. I feel
to attend and I was asked to fill in. I   2009), ‘Dust’ (studio album in 2013),    that the songs ultimately belong to
suppose this was the ‘birth’ of what      ‘Hidden’ (studio album in 2016) and      God and his people.
became the band. Xpression was to         ‘Hidden Live’ (live album in 2019,           I never really see the songs as
play a big role in the growth of the      songs from ‘Hidden’ studio album         ‘mine’ as such, so I am delighted
band over the coming years.               and some new material).                  when I am reminded that they have a
                                              I wrote all of the songs. Most are   life or ministry of their own as it were,
    3/ Who makes up the band and          for use in sung worship, but there are   as God uses them as he pleases.
where and how often do you play?          also some songs of a more personal
    In September 2006, a monthly          nature that have been born out of           7/ Should more churches
inter-Church youth event called           life’s experiences. The albums and       introduce ‘praise band’ worship
‘Resonate’ was in need of a band.         the songs are available on all the       alongside the traditional hymn and
I invited two of the guys who had         usual digital platforms. There may be    organ?
played at Xpression, Matt Duke            the odd one knocking around a Faith         I think this is a question for each
(drummer) and James Donaldson             Mission Bookshop too!                    individual church. It depends on the
(electric guitar) to join me. Matt                                                 people that the music ministry is
asked his younger brother Tim (bass)         5/ Has your faith ever been           there to serve. I do not feel that any
to join us too - this became ‘the         tested?                                  church should rule out one or other,

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INTERVIEW

                                                                                      outside for walks, usually with some
                                                                                      music in my ears. I enjoy watching
                                                                                      sports - soccer in particular. I love to
                                                                                      travel. I could sit and look at a map
                                                                                      of the world for hours and imagine
                                                                                      myself in places that I’ve been to or
                                                                                      would yet love to go to!

                                                                                         11/ Do you have a song that you
                                                                                      feel would speak to people at this
                                                                                      time of worldwide crisis?
                                                                                         One song that people have been
                                                                                      asking about or using during this
                                                                                      time has been ‘Beneath the Cross.’
                                                                                      After my daughter was born and my
                                                                                      wife and I discovered she would not
                                                                                      be the little girl that we were
                                                                                      expecting, I had a very dry period
                                                                                      during which I didn’t write any songs.
                                                                                         One day I picked up my journal
                                                                                      and read the following words that
                                                                                      I must have written at some point
                                                                                      before Ana-Lily was born:

                                                                                           ‘It’s beneath the cross of Christ
                                                                                            That my soul finds rest at last
Mark Ferguson.                                                                                I can soar on eagle’s wings
but should seek to provide a variety     service. I see it like a two-way                 Fearing not what this life brings.’
of opportunities and ways for people     conversation, as we listen to God’s
to engage with God through music         Word, we should have an opportu-                  The words broke me completely.
and sung worship, regardless of the      nity to reply to Him in the worship          I can’t remember writing them! These

                “
style.                                   that follows. I think this is all possible   words were easy to write when all
                                         in both styles!                              was well, but I now found myself in a
                                                                                      place where I had to choose whether
                                            8/ Is this a full-time job?               or not I really believed them.
  The most important                        No! It can be busy and there                 I picked up the guitar again and
thing is not the style,                  are times when it has certainly felt         eventually finished the song. The
                                                                                      song goes on to say, ‘the cross is not
                                         like my job! However, I am a music
  but that the music                     teacher. I am currently working at           the end, I know that my Redeemer
                                         Sperrinview Special School in                lives, and I will live with Him’! I
  and words glorify                      Dungannon. I teach the full                  realised that if ‘the cross in not the
God above ourselves                      curriculum and co-ordinate the music         end,’ then equally, ‘this world is not
                                         within the school. Challenging but           the end.’ Something that we all can
   and our opinions

                ”
                                         equally rewarding!                           shout!
                                                                                         Because Jesus went to the cross
                                            9/ Have you ever been tempted to          and defeated death, this fallen world
   There is certainly a place for both   step away from Christian music into          and all the disability, sickness, viruses
- the most important thing is not the    the mainstream industry?                     that we experience have been
style, but that the music and words         Perhaps in my younger days,               defeated too! The words of the
glorify God above ourselves and          before fully deciding what to do with        bridge say:
our opinions, and give His people a      my life. I have written songs for my
place in which to meet Him and be        wife and songs about life, but these         ‘The blind will see and the lame will walk.
transformed by Him.                      haven’t always been recorded or                       The cross is not the end
   I believe it is more important        released commercially!                           Every tear is gone, a new day has
to focus on how the words of the            If God allows, I intend to record a                        dawned ,
                                                                                              This world is not the end.’
songs connect with God’s Word and        new album and plan to put what you
what He is specifically saying to the    might call some more ‘mainstream’                It took me some time to be able
Church at any particular time.           songs on that.                               to sing the words, ‘and the lame will
   It is also vital that our worship                                                  walk,’ without crying! However, this is
gives space for us to respond              10/ What are your other interests          the joy of being a follower of Christ -
corporately and individually to what     and hobbies?                                 in spite of current frustration or fear,
God has said in any particular             I enjoy reading. I love to get             this world is not the end!
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PEOPLE
                                                                                    to Alastair. In the summer of 2013,
                                                                                    he organised Run4Christ around the
                                                                                    perimeter of the island of Ireland,
                                                                                    covering 1,298 miles, spread over 53
                                                                                    ‘marathons’ and taking eight weeks
                                                                                    and three days. On some days he ran
                                                                                    up to 30 miles.
                                                                                       Alastair is now seven years older,
                                                                                    and happily married to Elise and
                                                                                    father to Josiah (3) and baby Edith.
                                                                                    His aspirations, he says, are more
                                                                                    modest. “If you break down the
                                                                                    distance of 380km (approximately
                                                                                    236 miles) over 52 running days, it
                                                                                    translates to a manageable 4.5 miles
                                                                                    per day and as such would be within
                                                                                    the UK Government restriction of
                                                                                    one session of exercise per day,” he
                                                                                    explained.
The Rev Alastair Donaldson on his 2013 Run4Christ marathon around the
                                                                                    FAITH
island of Ireland, covering 1,298 miles.
                                                                                    There is another, ultimately more

ALASTAIR SET TO                                                                     important, reason for his mission. For
                                                                                    Alastair, his running challenges have
                                                                                    served as a visual demonstration of

RUN ‘VIRTUAL RACE’
                                                                                    his faith in Jesus Christ.
                                                                                        “God has always seen me through
                                                                                    and my runs, in my own head at
The coronavirus pandemic has                They then ‘run the race’ remotely       least, have acted as a parable of
brought many challenges. It                 alongside other entrants,” Alastair     sorts to how He is bringing me and
continues to cause much                     explained. “When they finish, they      those who would trust in Him to
heartbreak, but new opportunities           submit proof of completion - pictures   Heaven,” Alastair said.
and benefits have also arisen.              or downloads of their GPS watch             “This coronavirus pandemic has
   The Rev Alastair Donaldson, rector       etc. A medal will then be sent in the   really shaken the foundations of

                                                            “
of Kinawley and Holy Trinity Parish,        post.”                                  individuals and society across the
Diocese of Kilmore, Elphin and                                                      world. The need for Gospel truth has
Ardagh, has a love of running. Like                                                 never been greater. Pointing people
all those who share his passion, he                                                 to the Easter hope of Christ as
found the cancellation of races for              God has always                     Saviour is more urgent than ever.”
which he had trained hard was taking           seen me through,                         To this end, he is using his ‘virtual
a toll on his mental health.                                                        run’ to raise awareness of the work of
   “I had planned, God willing and            and my runs... have                   Irish Church Missions in Dublin and
injuries permitting, to run a                                                       their prayerful intention to see 10
number of major races between
                                               acted as a parable                   new Gospel congregations planted
                                                    of sorts

                                                            ”
Easter and the end of June,” Alastair                                               by 2028. These range from
said. “However, with the lockdown,                                                  pioneering work in the Silicon Docks
one by one these disappeared from                                                   among the business community to
the race calendar.”                                                                 the ongoing pastoring of an ethnic
   As he looked to the days and                Alastair saw a new opportunity       Iranian community, already feeling
weeks ahead, Alastair discovered the        for himself and others with a love      isolated, in both Belfast and Dublin.
concept of ‘virtual running.’ “At first I   of running. “With my 38th birthday          “In the months going forward
thought it was something to do with         approaching, I began once again to      such Gospel initiatives may prove
a computer game, but it was nothing         think like Pheidippides, the original   vital to all the citizens of Dublin and
of the sort,” he said.                      marathon runner. Running was the        throughout the country and island,”
                                            only sport I was ever good at. Over     Alastair said.
ATHLETE                                     the years, I have seen it both bless        Alastair is keen to hear from
He soon discovered that ‘virtual            me and use me to bless others. I        anyone interested in running
running’ is big business. “The idea is      thought of remotely running 380km       ‘remotely’ with him, or partnering
not necessarily new, but has gained         (my age to the multiple of 10) over     him through prayer or financial
much traction of late. A typical            the months of May and June,             giving. Please visit https://www.give.
athlete will enter a race of whatever       excluding Sundays.”                     net/RunandPlant380 or Facebook -
distance through various organisers.           Distance running is nothing new      search for RunandPlant380.

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CORONAVIRUS

PRESERVATION OF LIFE AT CORE
Detective Constable Clive McKee,           us in a professional and responsible      thoughtful and measured manner.
a member of Devenish and                   manner. Covid-19 has not changed          I do not wish to cause a risk to any
Rossorry Parishes, Diocese of              this ethos, but it has given us           members of the public or my
Clogher, is a Police Service of            challenges in conducting every day,       colleagues. It is fair to say the way
Northern Ireland (PSNI) officer            on the ground, police work.               we go about our business has
attached to the Economic Crime                “Policing ‘the lockdown’ in the        changed but we still carry out our
Unit South Area, Enniskillen.              area that I serve is challenging for      police duties.”
   He has been with the PSNI for 33        all, but it is being made easier by the
years, primarily in the Criminal           majority of people understanding          CONSEQUENCES
Investigations Branch. “Prior to           the dangers of Covid-19 and gladly        Clive said that even in this crisis,
Covid-19, being a police officer was       complying with the restrictions that      crime still happens. That, in turn, has
already challenging,” said Clive.          have been imposed by Government.          serious consequences for victims and
“Every day had its surprises, drawing      Our communities should be praised         the wider community.
upon your personal strengths, your         for the manner in which they have            “We in the Police Service still
experience and the training that you       faced this virus.                         endeavour to investigate and bring
have received.                                “Present events have changed           before the justice system those who
                                           how I conduct my business. I have         have alleged to have committed
ETHOS                                      to bear in mind the serious health        whatever crime,” he said. “The
“Always in the forefront of one’s          implications if I do not take into        preservation of life is at the very core
mind as a police officer is that you       consideration social distancing           of policing ethics, and we who serve
are there to serve all within the          measures, washing hands etc, but          in the PSNI will do everything in our
community. I, along with my                I also must consider the health of        being to effect this ethos, along with
colleagues from within all branches        those persons I may be coming into        our partner agencies and all in the
of the PSNI, have this ethos and we        contact with because of my role as a      community.
cherish the responsibility that has        detective.                                   “We are there to assist without
been given to us to keep people               “Every operational matter and          fear or favour, all within our
safe, protect life, investigate crime      encounter that I have with members        community who require the service
and to effect the powers given to          of the community is dealt with in a       that we gladly give.”

WE HAVE A ‘WOBBLE ROOM’
WHERE WE TAKE TIME OUT
Joanne Clayton, a member of                and keep themselves safe, always
Knockbreda Parish, Diocese of              mindful of changes.
Down and Dromore, is a CT                      Joanne added: “Not being able to
radiographer in the Ulster Hospital        go to church has been difficult, but
in the South Eastern Health and            it has been great to be able to live
Social Care Trust.                         stream the Sunday services or catch
   “The challenges we face at              up on social media.”
present are scanning and x-raying              She feels she and her colleagues
seriously ill patients of all ages,        are ‘coping incredibly well.’ “We
who are faced by staff wearing full        have a little prayer group that meets
personal protective gear and trying        once a week, or more often if
to keep them calm and reassured            someone needs it,” she said. “We
that we are doing our best to help         are an amazing team who all know
                                                                                     Radiographer Joanne Clayton.
them,” Joanne said.                        each other well and can tell when
   “I worry daily that I might carry the   someone might need a little extra         their doorstep each week. I just can’t
virus home to my family, so I’m            support. We also have a ‘wobble           help smiling when I see a rainbow
taking every precaution I can to           room’ where we can go and take            that’s been lovingly painted for us.”
protect them. Working additional           time out if we need to, it’s a quiet         It is vital that key NHS staff like
shifts means that I have even less         space that just recharges the soul.”      Joanne carry on working. “We need
time to spend with my own family.”             Joanne added that the support         to ensure that our patients get an
   She said friends and colleagues         from the public has been wonderful.       accurate, timely diagnosis to enable
have to stay calm and reassure each        “It has kept us all going when we’ve      our doctors, nurses and the rest of
other that they are doing all they can     been exhausted - from hand creams         our healthcare heroes to treat them
to prevent the spread of the virus         to food and buns to clapping on           appropriately,” Joanne said.

                                                                           CHURCH OF IRELAND GAZETTE I 11
DIOCESAN FOCUS

TUAM, KILLALA AND ACHONRY DIOCESE
A YEAR IN REVIEW
By Alistair Grimason

We have been busy in Tuam,
Killala and Achonry (TKA) in the
past year. Lots of small - yet in
their own way important - things
have happened which I wish I
could acknowledge individually.
But I am constrained to cherry-
picking a few significant highlights.
   General Synod 2019 is where
we start, when an historic Bill was
passed which effectively united the
dioceses of Tuam and Limerick. This
was subject to ratification by the two
diocesan synods. That ratification
was affirmed unanimously by both
Tuam and Limerick. The unification
will come into effect when either or
both of the current bishoprics
becomes vacant.                          The Tuam, Killala and Achonry and Mory, Ross and Caithness youth
   As we await organic unity, the        exchange.
dioceses continue to work on nuts        Roundstone and Maebh in Achill. It is
and bolts like diocesan regulations,     hoped that all three will be ordained
the financial scheme etc. At the same    priests in the autumn.
time, TKA and Limerick and Killaloe         Galway had a major event early in
are doing as much as possible in         2020. This year is the 700th
a ‘together’ way. We had our joint       anniversary of the building of St
clergy conference in Adare and our       Nicholas’ Collegiate Church. A
joint Quiet Day in Tuam Cathedral at     service celebrating St Nicholas’
which Bishop John McDowell, now          past, present and future was held on
Archbishop of Armagh, was guest          February 9 2020. Honoured guests        Bishop Rooke, Bishop McDowell and
speaker. When the bishops of the         included Michael D Higgins,             Bishop Kearon at the joint Quiet Day.
Church of Ireland were invited by        President of Ireland, Mrs Higgins,
Limerick and Killaloe to visit for a     and Church and civic leaders.           the internet or social media. And
Mission Weekend in November, TKA                                                 folks are doing their pastoral best by
was also included, which ended with      CRISIS                                  telephone and generally are minding
Choral Evensong in St Mary’s             We couldn’t let this article pass       one another.
Cathedral, Limerick.                     without at least a nod to the
                                         current global crisis, which has        CHALLENGES
SCOTLAND                                 severely curtailed activities in the    As we struggle to rise to the
In June of last year, seven TKA young    diocese and beyond. For instance,       challenges of these strange times,
folk visited our link diocese of Mory,   the Rev Canon Jen McWhirter,            we look forward to better days with
Ross and Caithness in the north          who was appointed incumbent of          the hope that all of us in the Church
east of Scotland. Friendships were       Aughaval Group of Parishes earlier in   of Christ might look back and hear
forged, stories and culture swapped,     the year, has had her institution       an echo of the words of Scripture
and simply a great time was had by       service postponed indefinitely.         ‘Well done, thou good and faithful
all. A return trip by the ‘Piskies’ is      Covid-19 has prompted many           servant.’ Until that time, we keep in
anticipated later this year.             of us in TKA to explore new ways        mind the words of Julian of Norwich:
   Ordinations can be infrequent         of ‘being Church.’ A weekly - and       ‘All shall be well and all shall be well
occurrences in TKA, but in 2019 we       during Holy Week, daily - recorded      and all manner of things shall be
had three! The Rev Karen Duignan,        act of worship has been posted on       well.’
the Rev Carole Reynolds and the          our website. A booklet of services,                     Dean Alistair Grimason
Rev Maebh O’Herlighy were made           readings and prayers has been                                        is Diocesan
OLM deacons in St Mary’s Cathedral,      produced and widely distributed                        Communications Officer
Tuam, in September. Karen is             by post to parishioners, specifically                 for the Diocese of Tuam,
now serving in Kilglass, Carole in       aimed at those who cannot access                            Killala and Achonry.

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NEWS / MISSION

From left: The Rev Jonathan McFarland; the Ven Robert Miller, Archdeacon of Derry; the Rev Canon David Crooks,
diocesan registrar; and Bishop Andrew Forster. (Photo: Jonny Collins @UlsterImage).

I AM DISAPPOINTED
                                                                                     behind us, we will all pull together to
                                                                                     celebrate God’s faithfulness in an act
                                                                                     of thanksgiving for my institution.

ONLY FOR MEMBERS                                                                       BISHOPS’ APPEAL
                                                                                     In the light of the global Covid-19
JONATHAN MCFARLAND REFLECTS ON                                                       pandemic, Bishops’ Appeal - the
HIS INSITUTION BEHIND CLOSED DOORS                                                   Church of Ireland’s World Aid and
                                                                                     Development Programme - is
You might imagine that I was               me of their commitment to press on.       releasing €50,000 to five key
disappointed to be having my                  The reason I am not disappointed       partner mission and development
service of institution as rector to        with all of this is that, given the       agencies - Christian Aid, Tearfund
the Parish of Urney, Diocese of            serious circumstances, I am simply        Ireland, CMS Ireland, USPG and
Derry and Raphoe, behind closed            very grateful that the service actually   Motivation.
doors. After all, as a parish, we          went ahead.                                   The emergency responses include
had been preparing the service for                                                   distributing essential supplies and
months.                                    STRIPPED DOWN                             information to people whose
   All the invitations had been sent       On the night, the service was at-         markets have shut down, people
out, the readings and hymns chosen         tended by my wife and daughter,           who live in informal settlements and
and the order of service was ready         Bishop Andrew, Archdeacon Millar,         refugee camps, and people who are
for printing. Then along came the          the Rev Canon David Crooks and a          living with a disability.
coronavirus.                               congregation of 20, made up mainly            The Rt Rev Patrick Rooke, Chair
   The service was planned for             by members of Urney Select Vestry.        of Bishops’ Appeal, said: “Aware of
Friday March 20, but as we moved           There were no hymns. The service          the financial pressures parishes are
closer to this date, the restrictions      had been stripped down to the             currently experiencing, the Church
on social distancing became tighter        legal essentials and some prayers         of Ireland is not launching its own
and tighter. It was looking like all our   and words of encouragement from           major appeal but asking dioceses,
plans were about to be scuppered           Bishop Andrew.                            parishes and individuals to give what
and that the service would have to            If I felt any disappointment, it was   they can to the appeals launched by
be postponed.                              for the members of my parish who          our partner agencies, with Bishops’
   In the days and even in the hours       had been looking forward to a full        Appeal acting as a conduit. In the
before the institution, major              scale celebration.                        midst of our own sufferings and
adjustments had to be made.                   We left the service with the deep      fears at this time, it is vital that we
Bishop Andrew Forster and                  commitment that when all this             remember those in countries with
Archdeacon Robert Millar reassured         trouble with the coronavirus is           fewer resources and expertise.”

                                                                           CHURCH OF IRELAND GAZETTE I 13
INSPIRING GEMMA
                                                                                   had, and believes it has helped her
                                                                                   recovery.
                                                                                      “The day after my accident, the

HAS PLANS TO TAKE
                                                                                   rector of Tullow Group of Parishes at
                                                                                   the time, the Rev Andrew Orr, and
                                                                                   parishioners held a prayer service for

TO THE HIGH SEAS!
                                                                                   me and I believe it was brilliant - a
                                                                                   full church with people I didn’t even
                                                                                   know!” she says.
                                                                                      “The January after I came home,
MARGARET HAWKINS MEETS THE                                                         we had a service of thanks, just to
                                                                                   show everyone how their prayers had
COURAGEOUS GEMMA WILLIS                                                            worked. The church was fit to burst.
                                                                                   It was lovely to see. I will always
Gemma Willis has been looking             had 14 operations in the 16 months       remember it.”
forward to being part of the crew         she was in hospital.                        Gemma says she had very good
on a tall ship due to sail from Cádiz        She recalls a later conversation      pastoral support while in hospital
to Lisbon as part of the Parade of        with a doctor. “He told me that there    too.
Sails race this summer.                   were seven surgeons standing round          “As people say, these are the
   While the Tall Ships Races 2020        me trying to decide if it was worth      moments that open your eyes, when
hang in the balance due to the            their while doing anything as my         you go through trauma and you
coronavirus pandemic, Gemma’s             injuries were so bad,” Gemma says.       need someone to talk to, to rant to,
ambition to be selected and her           “It’s shocking to think that. It makes   to give out to and to be thankful to,
determination to take part are            me even more thankful for being          so it was great to have so much
nothing short of miraculous.              alive and doing so well.”                support.
   Gemma, 24, a pastry chef from                                                      “So many people came to see
Tullow, Co Carlow, was seriously          CHALLENGES                               me and Hilda Plant, who is chaplain
injured in a road traffic accident        While life now has many challenges,      in the Mater, used to play hymns
on August 5 2013, and now uses            including needing a wheelchair, an       and read different prayers to me.
a wheelchair. But this courageous         ileostomy bag and catheter, Gemma        She’d ask, ‘what prayer do you want
young woman is inspiring others with      focuses on the positive, and             today?’ ‘St Patrick’s Breastplate’ was
her story of recovery and resilience.     celebrates the fact that she can         my favourite. ‘Christ beside me…’”
   Even the prospect of being             be as independent as she is.
hoisted up to a ship’s crow’s nest in        “One surgeon I see regularly for      PHILOSOPHICAL
her wheelchair hasn’t daunted her.        check-ups is amazed at how I am          Gemma is philosophical about the
“I am terrified of heights, but you’ve    doing. When I tell him I can change      accident of which she has no
got to take these opportunities,”         my own stoma bag and can get into        recollection and in which her mother,
says Gemma.                               the chair myself he is delighted, as     Elizabeth, was less seriously hurt.
   She has been sharing the story of      there was so little hope for me in the      “I always say ‘for whatever messed
how she was ‘put back together,’ as       early days. I had setbacks too, so       up reason this happened, it was
she calls it, at the Mater and the        they can’t get over how well I came      meant to happen,’ she says.

                                                         “
National Rehabilitation Hospital          out of it all,” she says.                   Getting to the point of
(NRH) in Dún Laoghaire.                                                            acceptance of her injuries was ‘a
                                                                                   mixture of everything.’
INJURIES
Gemma’s list of injuries is long. In an
                                              Faith did help                          “Faith did help because in times
                                                                                   of trauma you need to believe in
induced coma for six weeks,               because in times of                      something, but you also need the
                                                                                   time to accept these things. One
doctors worked to repair the
damage - she has metal rods on             trauma you need                         of the stages is grief. You have to
either side of her spine which was                                                 grieve. I think understanding is a big
severed, she suffered a ruptured              to believe in                        one too. You have to understand the
                                                                                   extent of your injuries before you can
bowel, one kidney couldn’t be saved
and her cheek bone was broken.            something, but you                       start to even process it all.”
Gemma’s right leg had to be
amputated due to artery damage,
                                          also need the time                          Gemma says that she had no
                                                                                   awareness of disability before her
and the toes on her left foot had to        to accept these                        accident.
                                                                                      “I never had contact with
be removed.
                                                 things

                                                         ”
   Gemma then suffered headaches                                                   wheelchairs before - never pushed
six months after the accident, and                                                 one, never sat in one, was never up
a scan showed that spinal fluid had                                                close to one.”
leaked into her brain which resulted        Gemma says she is thankful for the        Now she prefers one that she can
in more surgery. All in all, Gemma        pastoral and prayer support she has      push along herself, with its

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PEOPLE
colourful wheels, to an electric one.
“I felt so un-independent when I
tried an electric chair,” she says.
    Gemma and Elizabeth had been
travelling home from Naas
Hospital where Gemma had had an
eye condition treated, when the
collision happened.
    “I don’t want to know anything
about the accident because I can’t
change it,” she says.
    But isn’t talking about what
happened difficult for her?
    “No, I’m used to it, and I like
talking to Transition Year students
about it, for example. I tell them not
to take anything for granted, that
you might make plans but that
challenging things can happen in
life and that good can come out
of them. And that friendship is so
important. My friends I’ve had since
school have been wonderful and I’ll
always be thankful for that.”

LANDMARK
There have been a few landmark
stages for Gemma. “As my mum
would say, with time you get more
daring - you are just so used to it.
When I came home from hospital, I
would always want someone there
when I was getting into bed in case I
would fall. Now I do it without
thinking about it. Your confidence
builds with time.”
   She was glad to get home to her
mother’s cooking too! “It’s funny the
things you long for - lamb chops,
cheese toasties, homemade soups
and of course - having a sweet
tooth and being a pastry chef - I was
always yearning for interesting
desserts!”
   Gemma also missed the family
farm when she was away. “Lambing
was always my favourite time of year.
In ways I feel so helpless, but I still
try to help when I can, with
bottle-feeding or moving sheep,
when I’ll be the one stopping the
gaps!”
   In the future Gemma hopes to be
able to drive again, but in the
meantime she has her tall ships trip
to look forward to - at some stage in
the future.
   “I’m very excited about it. I’m
hoping for a new wheelchair               Gemma Willis.
before then. Working as crew, we will     probably want to keep me in the         Mater Foundation, which is aiming
have to do a different job every four     galley but I want to try everything!”   to raise €140,000 for two life-support
hours. Being a chef, they will              Gemma is an ambassador for the        machines.

                                                                         CHURCH OF IRELAND GAZETTE I 15
CORONAVIRUS

                                                                                       keep everyone safe and treat them
                                                                                       effectively. This is a very fast
                                                                                       changing environment with high
                                                                                       levels of pressure.

                                                                                       PRESSURES
                                                                                       Michael said the entire primary care
                                                                                       team is doing ‘a superb job’
                                                                                       despite the obvious pressures. “We
                                                                                       are very grateful for the huge
                                                                                       support people are showing to front
                                                                                       line workers. We are all concerned
                                                                                       that we may miss a serious condition
                                                                                       because people are not
                                                                                       contacting us for advice. If you
                                                                                       are unwell, please get in touch!

A FAST CHANGING                                                                           “We are all feeling tired, as new
                                                                                       ways of working and emotional
                                                                                       pressures can be draining. We are

ENVIRONMENT
Pharmacist Michael Ogilby.
                                                                                       also concerned about the risk of
                                                                                       infection, and the potential to carry
                                                                                       infection home. My faith and the
                                                                                       prayerful support of my church and
Michael Ogilby, a parish reader in          centres,” Michael said. “My team           family are a huge comfort.”
the United Parish of Ballyclare and         is working to maintain treatment of           He said it is vital that as a General
Ballynure, Diocese of Connor, is            pre-existing conditions, supporting        Practice Pharmacist, he and his
Lead General Practice Pharmacist            and reassuring our patients.               team work to support GPs. “We can
with the East Belfast Federation               “We would normally call in              continue to prescribe medication for
   He says the coronavirus has forced       patients with long-term conditions         on-going conditions. This ensures
a transition from physically seeing         such as hypertension and diabetes          everyone is receiving the best
patients to remote management.              for review - with many patients also       possible care even when their
“The GPs in the practice are triaging       requiring blood tests. This contact        conditions are not related to the
by phone and working in the Covid           is no longer possible. Our aim is to       coronavirus,” Michael said.

YOUNGER PEOPLE ‘TERRIFIC’                                                              and resilient
                                                                                       during the crisis,”
Alan Cox, principal of Temple                  “The solution is to be found in         he said. “The
Carrig School, Greystones, Diocese          getting the balance right, and every       Leaving Cert,
of Dublin and Glendalough, says             school principal to whom I’ve spoken       which, let’s face it,
the Covid-19 shutdown presents              accepts that we’re only feeling our        feels especially
‘an interesting challenge’ for              way in the dark at the moment.”            life-changing
schools.                                       Alan paid tribute to ‘the sterling      when you’re
   “Remote teaching and learning,           way’ in which teenagers have               actually doing it,            Alan Cox.
even with all the new technology            supported social distancing                IS stressful to go
that most schools are accessing, is         measures. “In general, younger             through, there’s
novel to us and we’re having to learn       people have been absolutely terrific       no doubt about it. So to have it
as we go,” Alan said.                       in acceding to the instructions to stay    moved around, prolonged and
   “In the first week of the school         at home,” he said. “They hate it -         no certainty that it might not be
closure, our teachers - in a fit of well-   they’re just at the stage in their lives   changed further is hard luck.”
meaning diligence - churned out far         when it is innate in them to want to           Alan said the school Chaplaincy
too much work, which left students          get out into the world and explore it,     Team has now switched to working
reeling and the teachers themselves         but in Temple Carrig we challenged         online, and the school continues
up all night marking.                       our students that this was the most        to hold an End of Week Assembly
   “Online live lessons via platforms       patriotic thing they’d ever been           on Zoom at 3.20pm every Friday.
such as Zoom, Microsoft Teams,              asked to do and they deserve credit        “Again, the Chaplaincy Team and
Google Hangouts etc, seemed an              for how well they have supported the       other staff have been wonderfully
obvious replacement for real school,        lockdown.”                                 creative in driving these short,
but we soon found that this idea               He also paid tribute to the stoic       prayerful services,” Alan said.
militated against the many students         attitude of the school’s Sixth Year            He added that students have also
who were now left minding younger           students as they approach their            been challenged to ‘do something
siblings while parents were still out       Leaving Cert exams. “This                  truly incredible’ during this crisis, for
at work.                                    generation has been calm, strong           which a new prize will be presented.

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