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BY THE NUMBERS
    LGBTQA audiences have higher
incomes and greater educational
attainment than the population
at large. They dine out more, are
brand-loyal, and are influential
retail trendsetters
• Same-sex households shop
more than the average US
                                                                                                                                            SEPTEMBER I VOLUME 1 I ISSUE 1
household in important retail
                                             5 LGBTQ
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channels, including electronics,
pet stores, online retailers,
health food, and warehouse club
                                             BARTENDERS
stores.                                      TELL US
• Gay men and lesbians travel                WHAT’S
more than their mainstream
counterparts, both domestically
                                             SHAKING
and internationally
• In 2013, nearly two-thirds                 YOUR NEW
of gay and bisexual men and
lesbian and bisexual women                   WEEKEND
purchased tickets for                        GETAWAY
performing-arts events
• St. Louis has the largest
                                             REVEALED
percentage of gay and lesbian
families with children.
• Thirty-four percent of same-
sex couples in STL are raising
children under 18.
• LGBTQA consumers are
heavily influenced by targeted
advertising and community
support and outreach.                                                                                                                            CHEF ROB
• LGBTQA individuals are mobile
and technology leaders                                                                                                                        CONNOLEY ON
• Nearly half of all gay and                                                                                                                  LOVE & BEETS

                                              pridefest
bisexual men and lesbian and
bisexual women contribute to
a charity or nonprofit at least                                                                                                                      RAPPER
annually                                                                                                                                          ERIC DONTÈ
                                                                                                                                                   GETS REAL
• Single 39.5%
• Dating 14.25%
• Partnered 36%
                                                   CAN IT SURVIVE... AND THRIVE?
• Married 8%
                                                                                                                                                   A BEAUTY
• Master’s/JD 21%                                                                                                                                QUEEN WITH
• College graduate 29%                                                                                                                              A CAUSE
• Some college 27%
• 76% of LGBTQA individuals
have annual household incomes
above the national average of
$40,000
• 30 % of LGBTQA
individuals have an annual
income above $100,000
                                    Data Sources: Williams Institute, 2013 St. Louis Pride Center Report, The Urban Institute, GlenGariff Group 2013 LGBTQA Missouri Issues
                                    Survey, U.S. Census Bureau, Washington D.C. Urban Institute, CMI 7th LGBT Community Survey

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AT A GLANCE
   Out in STL is the only lifestyle magazine in St. Louis
designed for LGBTQA and Allies, consumers who are enjoying
a new era of acceptance, social mobility and economic
growth. Our core reader is 22-60 years old, professional or
pursuing higher education, partnered up or actively looking,             A magazine exploring — and celebrating
                                                                          — the LGBTQ community in St. Louis
busy building a full life of friendship, (alternative) family and
social engagement. Out in STL readers are socially active and                               Publisher Chris Keating
                                                                                            Editor Nicholas Phillips

engaged in their communities.                                                                  E D I T O R I A L
                                                                                           Copy Editor Evie Hemphill

   Through advertising, networking mixers, social media,
                                                                                             Columnist Chris Andoe
                                                                           Contributing Writers Eric Berger, Seán Collins, Melinda Coo-
                                                                          per, Dera Luce, Melissa Meinzer, Monica Mileur, Ben Westhoff
                                                                                          Editor at Large Sarah Fenske

grassroots and events, we help create a buzz around your                                            A R T
                                                                                           Art Director Kelly Glueck

business. All campaigns include a combination of print,
                                                                         Contributing Photographers Susan Bennet, Lindy Drew, Monica
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SECTIONS AT A GLANCE
                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Policy OUT IN STL

                                                                                                                                                                                                    Illinois’ Ban on the
                                                                                                                                                                                                   “Gay Panic” Defense
                                                                                                                                                                                                 Wouldn’t Solve a Problem
                                                                                                                                                                                                 — But it May Prevent One

                                                                                                                                                                                              I
                                                                                                                                                                                                    f a man on trial for murder and adopted the “gay-panic
                                                                                                                                                                                                    defense,” it would sound something like this: I’m sorry I
                                                                                                                                                                                                    killed the victim, your honor, but he winked at me, and he’s
                                                                                                                                                                                                    gay, so that’s provocation. I deserve a lesser charge.
                                                                                                                                                                                                        Last spring, the Illinois state legislature overwhelming-
                                                                                                                                                                                                    ly approved legislation barring the defense. If Republican
                                                                                                                                                                                               Governor Bruce Rauner signs it, Illinois will join California as
                                                                                                                                                                                               one of only two states to take this step.
                                                                                                                                                                                                  It’s fair to ask why, given that the law’s proponents concede
                                                                                                                                                                                               the “gay panic” defense is exceedingly rare. “A lot of legislators
                                                                                                                                                                                               I have talked to have said, ‘This is a thing?’” says Mike Ziri, di-
                                                                                                                                                                                               rector of Equality Illinois.
     POLICY

                                                                                                                                                                                                  But Ziri says he and his allies want to push back against “the
                                                                                                                                                                                               idea that a flirtation from a gay man or a transgender individ-
                                                                                                                                                                                               ual is something that deserves violence. You are essentially
                                                                                                                                                                                               blaming those individuals for the violence committed against
                                                                                                                                                                                               them.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                  A case from California shows how such an argument can
                                                                                                                                                                                               arise even in liberal states.
                                                                                                                                                                                                  In 2008, Larry King, fifteen, began wearing makeup and
                                                                                                                                                                                               women’s accessories. He asked a middle school classmate to be
                                                                                                                                                                                               his valentine. Two days later, that student, Brandon McInerney,
                                                                                                                                                                                               shot King twice in the back of the head, killing him. Attorneys
                                                                                                                                                                                               for McInerney argued that he was pushed to an “emotional
                                                                                                                                                                                               breaking point” by King’s unwanted flirtations. The jury dead-
                                                                                                                                                                                               locked, and McInerney later pleaded guilty to voluntary man-
                                                                                                                                                                                               slaughter to avoid a retrial. He was sentenced to 21 years.
                                                                                                                                                                                                  In response, California became the first state in 2014 to pro-
                                                                                                                                                                                               hibit attorneys from claiming that a violent act had been trig-
                                                                                                                                                                                               gered by the revelation of the victim’s actual or perceived gen-
                                                                                                                                                                                               der or sexual orientation.
                                                                                                                                                                                                  Anthony Michael Kreis, a visiting assistant professor at the

                                                                                                           “You are essentially                                                                Chicago-Kent College of Law, says that the proposed Illinois
                                                                                                                                                                                               law is “aimed to hedge against scenarios like Larry King.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                  Ironically, it wouldn’t have altered a recent trial in Illinois
                                                                                                           blaming gay men or                                                                  that some consider a “gay panic” case. In 2009, Joseph Bieder-
                                                                                                                                                                                               mann admitted to stabbing another man multiple times but

                                                                                                               transgender                                                                     claimed it was self-defense because the man had threatened
                                                                                                                                                                                               him with a sword and ordered him to disrobe. The jury acquit-

                                                                                                            individuals for the
                                                                                                                                                                                               ted Biedermann.
                                                                                                                                                                                                  Kreis says the new measure, which he helped draft, does not
                                                                                                                                                                                               affect self-defense claims such as Biedermann’s. Rather, Kreis

                                                               California was the first state              violence committed                                                                  says, the bill simply blocks defense attorneys from arguing in
                                                                                                                                                                                               court that their client’s violence was justified solely because
                                                               to ban the “gay panic” defense in 2014
                                                                                                              against them.”                                                                   the victim was of the same sex and made nonviolent advances.
                                                                                                                                                                                                  All told, 145 Illinois legislators voted for the bill. None op-
                                                                                                                                                                                               posed it, though 32 did not cast a vote. Ziri says he thinks
                                                               Illinois is poised to follow suit in 2017                                                                                       “there is a very good chance” that the governor will sign it. n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Qs OUT IN STL

                                                                                                                                                      Jen Everett
                                                                                                                                                    An emerging artist on race, identity and the image
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 BY Dera Luce

                                                                                                                                               U
                                                                                                                                                      p until this summer, Jen Everett had an ordinary routine. She would
                                                                                                                                                      wake at 7:30 a.m., go to work as a project engineer for a construction
                                                                                                                                                      firm and then come home around 5:30 p.m. to her partner and their
                                                                                                                                                      thirteen-year-old son in south city. In her bits of spare time, though,
                                                                                                                                                she took photographs. And she was good at it. Everett was invited to ex-
     VIEWS

                                                                                                                                                hibit her work at galleries and exhibitions all over town.
                                                                                                                                                  Now she’s taking the plunge: Everett, 36, is leaving her construction ca-
                                                                                                                                                reer behind to enroll in a master’s program at the Sam Fox School of De-
                                                                                                    T

                                                                                                                                                sign and Visual Arts at Washington University in St. Louis.
                                                                                                   ET
                                                                                                   ER

                                                                                                                                                  Sometimes it takes fresh eyes to truly see our city. A native of the Detroit
                                                                                               EV

                                                                                                                                                suburbs who graduated from Tuskegee University, she moved here for
                                                                                               N
                                                                                              JE

                                                                                                                                                work in 2004. At this point, she has been a local for fourteen years, so we
                                                                                          BY
                                                                                         ED

                                                                                                                                                consider her a fully naturalized St. Louisan — and one of our rising stars.
                                                                                     ID
                                                                                    OV
                                                                                    PR

                                                                                                             OISTL: Your ongoing series “Sons of          festival from Tower Grove Park to down-
                                                                               OS
                                                                               OT

                                                                                                             Rest” documents the black queer com-         town, and it completely changed the dy-
                                                                              H
                                                                           LP

                                                                                                             munity of St. Louis. What inspired you       namic. In a park, people have the tenden-
                                                                          AL

                                                                                                             to start the project?                        cy to linger and just be more carefree,
                                                                                                                                                          and downtown I just don’t find that the
                                                                                                             Jen Everett: Well, it actually grew out of   festival itself has the same character. I’m
                                                                                                             an assignment for the Vital Voice to doc-    happy I had the chance to document that
                                                                                                             ument the Pride festival. I noticed that     because I don’t really see that happening
                                                                                                             the black folks would congregate in this     anymore.
                                                                                                             one little shelter, and they would have
                                                                                                             music and just kick it. So I just started    In observing and being a part of these
                                                                                                             gravitating towards it and making pho-       three groups — black, queer and a St.
                                                                                                             tos.                                         Louis resident — what have you no-
                                                                                                                The only time you really see a big        ticed about the ways they interact
                                                                                                             group of gay people kicking it and not       with each other?
                                                                                                             being concerned about anything or any-
                                                                                                             one is in a club. And I mean, clubs are      I’m a black woman, and that’s something
                                                                                                             fine, but there should be other places       you can tell when you look at me. And I
                                                                                                             where people can go and be out and not       think the queerness is … it’s kind of a
                                                                                                             be afraid.                                   dance you have to do. In certain settings
                                                                                                                Even when I was done with the assign-     you can be very open, and in others
                                                                                                             ment, I continued to document that com-      people might not be comfortable with
                                                                                                             munity, but then they moved the Pride                              Continued on 10
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SECTIONS AT A GLANCE
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 Views OUT IN STL

                                                                                                         The Bi-Muda
                                                                                              Triangle
                                                                             NAVIGATING ALTON, WHERE LABELS CAN VANISH

                                                                                                         I            consider Alton,
                                                                                                                      Illinois, the
                                                                                                                      undiscovered
                                                                                                         Sausalito of the Mississippi
                                                                                                         River. It’s a picturesque town
                                                                                                         about 22 miles north of the
                                                                                                         Arch, a place with dramatic
                                                                                                         topography and grand vistas.
                                                                                                         It also happens to have

                                                                                                                                           PHOTO BY ELAINE MARSCHIK
                                                                                                         mysteries below the surface.
                                                                                                         And a Historic Museum of
                                                                                                         Torture Devices.
                                                                                                            The museum’s proprietor is
                                                                                                         Janet Kolar, Alton’s hearse-
                                                                                                         driving (and hearse-racing)
                                                                                                         “Mistress of the Macabre.” A                                                                                                                                           A drag queen charms at Bubby & Sissy’s
                                                                                                         couple of years ago, I was

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             Qs
                                                                      Chris Andoe, a.k.a. “The Em-       writing a Halloween feature
                                                                   peror of St. Louis,” was a colum-     for the Vital Voice and I
                                                                   nist for the Vital Voice and is the                                           “I’m here and you’re here,”                                long-established sexual pref-   at Bubby & Sissy’s, labels are    been with men who identify
                                                                                                         wanted to profile her. My
                                                                   author of the book Delusions of                                             she replied serenely, “so this is                            erences can momentarily fade    not central to one’s identity,    as straight. Similarly, Chris
                                                                                                         interview requests went
                                                                   Grandeur (Cahokia Press, 2015).                                             a good time.”                                                or vanish altogether. I real-   and self-exploration and ex-      Keidel, the openly gay own-
                                                                                                         unanswered, so one Saturday
                                                                   You can contact him at chrisandoe@                                            What followed was part dis-                                ized there was something        perimentation are common.         er of the burger bar Bottle &
                                                                   gmail.com.
                                                                                                         afternoon I stopped by the
                                                                                                                                               cussion and part seance —                                    about Alton that lowered the       “Our bar’s famous for our      Barrel, spends much of his
                                                                                                         Mineral Springs Antique
                                                                                                                                               and one of the most fascinat-                                barriers between queer and      tagline, ‘An open-minded          time with straight male
                                                                                                         Mall, where her museum is
                                                                                                                                               ing interviews of my life.                                   straight.                       place,’” Demornay says. “So       friends. “And that leads to
                                                                                                         located. Inside the lobby I
                                                                                                                                                 That anecdote speaks to                                       Treva Swain works the        people know it’s safe for         me hanging out with a guy
                                                                                                         passed several shops packed
                                                                                                                                               the way one should approach                                  door at Bubby & Sissy’s. She    them to lower their inhibi-       having a great time, and ev-
                                                                                                         with glassware, then turned
                                                                                                                                               Alton. Unless you downshift,                                 talks about girls crowding in   tions and be themselves.”         ery now and then, it leads to
                                                                                                         down a long, dimly lit
                                                                                                                                               settle in and observe, you’ll                                for bachelorette parties only      Sarah Edington is a regu-      something much more fun
                                                                                                         corridor leading to the
                                                                                                                                               miss the story.                                              to make out with women by       lar who makes the 40-minute       with someone no one ever
                                                                                                         museum. The gates were
                                                                                                                                                 That’s especially true at                                  the end of the night. Then      drive from St. Charles just to    suspected would be in a

   Get over here &
                                                                                                         foreboding — and padlocked.
                                                                                                                                               Bubby & Sissy’s, a bar that                                  there’s the trans woman who     enjoy the vibe, which to her      same-sex relationship.”
                                                                                                         I began to leave.
                                                                                                                                               hosts several highly attended                                sometimes arrives with a        feels more welcoming than            You might think you know
                                                                                                            “Who are you looking for?”
                                                                                                                                               drag shows each week. After I                                boyfriend, and sometimes a      anywhere else.                    LGBT St. Louis inside and

           ...bite me.
                                                                                                         asked a nearby shopkeeper.
                                                                                                                                               began dating my husband,                                     girlfriend. And then there         “In most bars, bi folk get     out. You may have even vis-
                                                                                                            “Janet Kolar,” I replied,
                                                                                                                                               who is from Alton, I became                                  were the shows in which en-     open hostility,” she says.        ited Alton, utilizing all the
                                                                                                         “but she’s not here.”
                                                                                                                                               a semi-regular at the bar.                                   tertainer Trixie LaRue ran-     “But Bubs is friendly to us.”     navigational tools at your
                                                                                                            “Oh, she’s around. Just
                                                                                                                                               While the employees and                                      domly assembled a group of         In Alton, the relative open-   disposal, and found nothing
                                                                                                         have a seat and she’ll be back
                                                                                                                                               owners are “family,” the pa-                                 mostly straight men from the    ness to bisexual activity ex-     out of the ordinary. But
                                                                                                         by.”
                                                                                                                                               trons, at first blush, seemed                                audience and within minutes     tends past the confines of        when exploring the town’s
                                                                                                            So I downshifted out of my
                                                                                                                                               largely straight. But as I met                               had them all dancing            one bar. Native Brian Ray,        Bi-Muda Triangle, it’s im-
                                                                                                         city rhythm and settled in.
 8509 Delmar St. Louis • 222 E Park Street, Edwardsville, IL                                             Before long, she arrived. I in-
                                                                                                                                               people, I heard stories about
                                                                                                                                               the times some of them fell
                                                                                                                                                                                                            through the crowd in their
                                                                                                                                                                                                            underwear.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            who doesn’t even frequent
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Bubby & Sissy’s, estimates
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              portant to understand those
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              tools are of little use. Here,
                 www.jillyscupcakebar.com                                                                troduced myself, asking if this
                                                                                                         would be a good time to talk.
                                                                                                                                               into what I call the “Bi-Muda                                   Drag Show Director           that 90 percent of his sexual     you can’t even rely on your
                                                                                                                                               Triangle”— a realm where                                     Teighlor Demornay says that     encounters in the area have       gaydar.                        n

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Feature OUT IN STL

             St. Louis’ annual LGBTQ
                                                                                 Local Pride(s)                                                                                                                                                                                      In recent years, though,

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  a growing number of peo-

             celebration is splintering.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       ple in the area have formed
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             their own groups and festivals.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             FEATURE
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Some of these offshoots arose from

             Is that a bad thing?             BY Melissa Meinzer
      et’s set aside for now any tension among the various pride
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       a desire to affirm a unique identity.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     Others were born of convenience. One
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  emerged as a defiant refusal to be absorbed
      celebrations in St. Louis and establish this: There are a mil-                                                                                                                                                                                           into the mainstream.
        lion legit ways to be proud. You can catch gleaming beads at                                                                                                                                                                                          They co-exist peacefully, for the most part. In
           one of the city’s largest parades. You can set up a booth at a                                                                                                                                                                                June, representatives from each converged for a
             street party to let your neighbors know you exist. You can                                                                                                                                                                               panel discussion, “A Proud History,” at the Missouri
                admire a radical drag show, or boogie until dawn at the                                                                                                                                                                             History Museum.
                  prom your high school never dared to throw.                                                                                                                                                                                      “I think it’s a great thing, having a lot of options” says
                      There are as many ways to be proud as there are ways to                                                                                                                                                                  Matt Harper, Pride St. Louis president. “We’re kind of like the
                      be queer. And a pride festival is often integral to one’s life                                                                                                                                                        big brother. We like being that resource. I love what they repre-
                        journey: It can be the first time you feel like a part of the                                                                                                                                                    sent and wish we could help out more.”
                          tribe — or any tribe, for that matter. Pride festivals are a                                                                                                                                                   What remains to be seen, however, is whether these alternative
                            crucial part of the LGBTQ experience worldwide. St. Louis                                                                                                                                              “small prides” offer so many advantages that they sap the strength of the
                               is no different.                                                                                                                                                                                  big event downtown, or render it obsolete — an outcome some observers
                                    For more than three decades, the go-to vehicle for celebrat-                                                                                                                              would lament.
                                    ing pride in our region has been PrideFest. The tradition be-                                                                                                                             Steven Louis Brawley, founder of the St. Louis LGBT History Project, says
                                      gan in April 1980, just months after the National March on                                                                                                                         that PrideFest has always been a symbolic institution, a unified flexing of po-
                                        Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights, when local activists                                                                                                                  litical muscle, and “the one signature pride.”
                                          dared to gather in the Central West End for a charity walk.                                                                                                                Are we leaving it behind?
                                            Thirty-seven years later, the organizers have coalesced into
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                                               Pride St. Louis, a full-fledged nonprofit with programming                                                                                             For Pride St. Louis, the year 2017 was wildly successful — and rocky.
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                                                year-round.                                                                                                                                        On a mild and sunny Sunday in June, thousands crowded downtown to take
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                                                     Today, the organization runs a community center. It awards                                                                               in the capstone event of PrideFest 2017, dubbed “Community Proud.” The
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                                                     scholarships. It hosts a weekend-long festival that takes over                                                                        parade stepped off just after noon, after MetroLink trains disgorged crowds of
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                                                       downtown, turning the city’s commercial and governmental                                                                         rainbow-clad visitors from near and far.
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                                                         heart into a gorgeous explosion of rainbows, glitter and the                                                                   Cleve Jones, founder of the San Francisco AIDS foundation and creator of the
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                                                           heartiest of parties.                                                                                                   NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt, served as grand marshal. Also on hand
                                                               Since the festival’s move downtown five years ago, it has                                                         were people in T-shirts depicting Hillary Clinton’s myriad monochrome pantsuits
                                                               become by some measures the most identifiably St. Louisan,                                                     arranged in a rainbow; at least two people holding signs featuring 2017’s most
                                                                 too, with the iconic Gateway Arch serving as a backdrop for                                               delightful gay meme, the Babadook, a horror movie monster; opposite-gender
                                                                   the parade.                                                                                           couples with toddlers; and a lovely young man in purple skinny jeans, stilettos, a
                                                                                                                                                                      feathered mask and nothing else.                                  Continued on 20

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SECTIONS AT A GLANCE                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     Your Pathway to Parenthood

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Female/Female Parentage                                                                Male/Male Parentage

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Donor Egg                                                                              Gestational Surrogacy

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        California Cryobank/                                                                   Fertility Preservation
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Donor Egg Bank USA                                                      Your Pathway to Parenthood
                 Nightowls OUT IN STL                                                                                                                                                                                                                   Partner                                                                 Your Pathway toflavors OUT IN STL
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Parenthood
                                                                                                                                                       [THE LAST WORD ]

                                                                                                                                                        Benji                                                                                                                                                                                 www.mcrmfertility.com
                                                                                                                                                        Link
                                                                                                                                                        Sanctuaria
                                                                                                                                                        4198 Manchester Ave., 314-535-9700

                                                                                                                                                        Benji Link says he likes working
                                                                                                                                                        in the Grove because he feels
                                                                                                                                                        comfortable and safe there; it’s
                                                                                                                                                        appropriate, then, that the bar
                                                                                                                                                        he tends is at Sanctuaria. The
                                                                                                                                                        drink he likes best is “The Last
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                                                                                                                                                        least the Prohibition era. To
                                                                                                                                                        him, it’s simple, balanced and
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                                                                                                                                                        perfect; sweet, tart and strong.                                                                                                                                Donor Egg Bank USA
                                                                                                                                                        It’s an easy sell to the guest                                                                                                                                  Partner
                                                                                                                                                        who isn’t sure what to order,
                                                                                                                                                        and easy to memorize as well:
                                                                                                                                                        It consists of gin, Chartreuse,
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                                                                                                                                                        maraschino liqueur and lime
                                                                                                                                                        juice and is served up.

                                                                                                                                                       [THE MOMMA BEAR]                            k n ow n f o r t h e b e s t s u s h i .
                                                                                                                                                                                                 r e m e m b e r e d f o r g r e at t i m e s !
                                                                                                                                                       Alissa
                                                                                                                                                       Reeves
                                                                                                                                                       The Scottish Arms
                                                                                                                                                       8 South Sarah St., 314-535-0551

                                                                                                                                                       At the Scottish Arms, a friendly soccer
                                                                                                                                                       bar in the Central West End, the term                                                                                                                                 KARAOKE WEDNESDAY & THURSDAY 5PM-1:30AM
                                                                                                                                                       “Momma Bear” refers to two things:                                                                                                                                   INDUSTRY NIGHT EVERY WEDNESDAY 5PM-1:30AM
                                                                                                                                                       first, the house’s variation on an Old                                                                                                                                   DARTS TUESDAY & THURSDAY 5PM-1:30AM
                                                                                                                                                       Fashioned, one built on Angel’s Envy                                                                                                                             AB FAB FRIDAYS HOSTED BY ADRIA ANDREWS 5PM-1:30AM
                                                                                                                                                       bourbon (which is finished in port wine                                                                                                                               COCKTAILS & CABARET SATURDAYS 3PM-1:30AM
                                                                                                                                                       barrels) and sweetened with agave                                                                                                                                         SUNDAY FUNDAY SHOW 1PM-MIDNIGHT
                                                                                                                                                       instead of simple syrup. Secondly,

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        OPEN 7
                                                                                                                                                       “Momma Bear” is the nickname of bar
                                                                                                                                                       manager Alissa Reeves. She created
                                                                                                                                                       the drink for a special event and has
                                                                                                                                                       kept it on the menu ever since. Reeves
                                                                                                                                                       claims her establishment boasts a                                                                                                                                DAYS A
                                                                                                                                                       certain romantic energy: She met her
                                                                                                                                                       wife, Amy, there five years ago and
                                                                                                                                                       reports having witnessed several
                                                                                                                                                                                                                sushi                             •   c o c k ta i l s   •   sake                                        WEEK!
                                                                                                                                                       couples return to the bar to take          7 7 2 6 F O R S Y T H • C L AY TO N • 3 1 4 . 2 9 6 . 8 0 9 6
                                                                                                                                                                                                            W W W. TA N I S U S H I . C O M                                                                            7109 S. BROADWAY ST. LOUIS, MO                       314-312-6683
                                                                                                                                                       wedding photos in the booth where
                                                                                                                                                       their own flame was first kindled.
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                      be the truest you, whoever that may be
                          WE’RE PROUD TO LEND OUR HANDS
     ESCAPES

                   6 6 3 5 D E L M A R B L V D - S T. L O U I S , M O 6 3 1 3 0 - 3 1 4 . 8 6 3 . 8 2 8 8
                                    E N I G M ATAT T O O S . CO M
                                                                                                            Blair Smith runs the Elsah General Store with his wife, Dory.

                      South City Scooters                                                                                                                                                                                                     Elsah has two B&Bs to choose from. Above, the entrance to the garden of the Green Tree Inn.

                                 Show Your Pride
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       flood of 1993, Davis explained,                 sodas. If you drop by on a
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              ELSAH                                                    the sheetrock covering the interior             Wednesday morning, you might
                                   Arrive Alive
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Continued from pg 49
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       walls was destroyed. But that led               spot locals chatting away over
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              happier. Connie will cook your                           to the discovery underneath of                  Danishes and coffee during their

                                              2017 JET
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              complimentary breakfast. She                             smooth blonde wood with                         weekly meet-up.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              says the customers vary widely:                          hand-painted patterns dating                       All of this is just a short drive
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              One morning, an Amish family                             back to 1885, when the building                 (or bike ride) away from the great
                                                                                   49cc                                                                                                                                                       shared a table with a group of                           was constructed.                                hiking opportunities at Pere
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              kids with dyed hair and piercings.                          We also stopped by the Elsah                 Marquette State Park, which
                                                                              $
                                                                                  160000                                                                                                                                                      The Davises only have two rules,                         General Store (22 LaSalle                       has twelve miles of marked trails.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              no matter who you are or what                            Street, 618-556-0709), which was                   If a nice glass of chardonnay
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              your personal beliefs may be:                            everything I’d hoped it would be.               is more your speed, keep in
                                                                                   150cc                                                                                                                                                      “Respect our property, and re-                           Picture Oleson’s Mercantile from                mind Elsah is a dry village, but
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       Little House on the Prairie. Blair and          the Grafton Winery & Bre-
                                                                               $
                                                                                   170000                                                                                                                                                     spect our guests.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 Connie even gave us a quick                           Dory Smith re-opened the store a                whaus (300 West Main, Graf-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                  ALL PHOTOS BY JESS LUTHER

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              walking tour of Elsah. The first                         few years ago to meet the need                  ton, IL 62037, 618-786-3001) is
                            Free Fulmer Helmet with                                                                                                                                                                                           stop on our walk was Farley’s
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Music Hall (37 Mill Street, 618-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       for a town grocery. They stock all
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       the basics, plus some St. Louis
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       only five miles down the road,
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       where you can sip on reds,
                                Scooter Purchase                                                                                                                                                                                              374-1059), a multipurpose build-                         specialities such as Ted Drewes                 whites or a tasting flight of their
                        Sales Tax, 1 year parts warranty and 60 days labor warranty                                                                                                                                                           ing now used for parties, wedding                        Frozen Custard, Dogtown Pizza                   signature beers.                     n
                                       included with scooter purchase                                                                                                                                                                         receptions and Contra dances,                            and Kakao chocolate. They also                     Melinda Cooper is a musician and
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              which she described as a mixture                         offer an extensive list of local                  frequent contributor to the Riverfront
                                                314.664.2737                                                The Maple Leaf Cottage Inn is another B&B in Elsah at 12 Selma Street.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              of folk dancing and “making new                          pure cane sugar sodas, including                     Times. You may contact her at
                                   4301 Connecticut at Morgan Ford                                                                                                                                                                            friends set to music.” After the                         Dog n’ Suds root beer and Excel                        melindajcooper@gmail.com
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       Performers OUT IN STL

              TeddyBear
              Therapy

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 PERFORMERS
               Tragedy dogs rapper Eric Dontè — andBYdrives  him

              E
                                                      BEN WESTHOFF
                                   ric Dontè is not in counseling. His music is how he gets
                                   out his anguish.

                             “I think a lot of people feel like I do but are afraid to
               say it out loud,” he says, sitting in his bare-bones apartment in the
               Shaw neighborhood. “I’ve hit rock bottom so many times, what’s
               the worst that can happen at this point?”
                   Dontè, 23, is six feet two inches tall and rail thin, with a frowny-
               face emoji tattooed on his left arm. His song “Sad Lives Matter”
               begins with crying, then chronicles the 2011 suicide of his best
               friend, who shot himself in the head.
                   The day before, they’d gone to Build-A-Bear to get teddy bears.
               After the suicide, Dontè carried his bear with him for years as a
               way to remember his departed comrade. The bear finally met its
               demise last year when another friend’s mother inexplicably tossed
               it.
                   His exuberant concerts feature him singing, rapping and
               bouncing off backup dancers and hype men. The shows are
               highlighted by fans throwing teddy bears on stage for him. They
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               ALL PHOTOS BY SARA BANNOURA
               know he lost his favorite, and he carries different ones with him
               wherever he goes.
                                                                                                     feels assured. Citing such influences as Marilyn        ther had wished they were closer. “At least I          er the world seems to be crashing around him,            Dontè noodles in his studio in
                   Many musicians describe their music as cathartic, but Dontè’s is                                                                                                                                                                                          mid-July — with the help of a
                                                                                                     Manson, Tyler the Creator and Missy Elliott, he         know now, but I wish I would have known be-            which happens with distressing frequency. It’s not
               nothing but. It’s atmospheric, artful hip-hop that is moody and                                                                                                                                                                                               friend.
                                                                                                     maintains a vivid, gender-bending aesthetic,            fore,” Dontè says.                                     always enough. He often feels crippled by social
               drawn from his life — as in, he’s sometimes literally reading from
                                                                                                     wearing pink braids and tiaras in his videos. His           Around the same time, his brother was shot         anxiety, making it hard to perform, hard to bring
               pages of his diary. Although he has all the makings of a critical fa-
                                                                                                     good looks have won him modeling shoots and             several times — emerging from a coma the day           positive energy to fans who are counting on him
               vorite, has performed at the Bonnaroo Music and Arts Festival and
                                                                                                     runway shows.                                           after their father’s death. Dontè doesn’t know         for inspiration.
               maintains a passionate local fan base, he’s not quite there yet.
                                                                                                        Meanwhile, tragedy keeps striking. His father        what inspired the attack, and the shooting is still       The title of his upcoming EP, A Lamp in the
               Some of the beats he uses sound amateurish. His music isn’t yet
                                                                                                     died of a heart attack in July. They’d been grow-       under investigation. “It’s tough, but I’m making       Room, due out in late summer, is a metaphor for
               available on streaming services (though it will be soon). He also
                                                                                                     ing closer since his dad kicked him out of the          it,” he says.                                          this feeling. He wants to be “a burst of light” in
               lacks a publicist or manager.
                                                                                                     house at age eighteen, unaccepting of his son’s             His art is a bright spot — and that, he says, is   dark rooms for his fans, but “because of my
                   But his songs are so gut-wrenching and original that his success
                                                                                                     sexuality. After the funeral, Dontè learned his fa-     “how it’s always been.” Music is his ally whenev-      anxiety I’m not sure I want Continued on 44
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         Wellness OUT IN STL
                  Authentic Hong Kong Style Cuisine
                                                                                              Good Queen The                                                                                                                                                                        Last March, O’Flaherty spoke at
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   Washington University in St. Louis
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        about defying expectations.

      VOTED ST. LOUIS’
     #1 CHINESE CUISINE!                                                                 WHYMISSMISSOURI2016TOOKONTEENSUICIDE

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                                                                                                                                              Seán Collins
                                                                                              t’s a Saturday in a small town in Missouri.
                        FRESH & HEALTHY.                                                      There’s a beauty pageant underway, and a young teen —
                                                                                              we’ll call her Tya — is nervous. She keeps to herself all                                                                                                                                                                 ALL PHOTOS COURTESY OF ERIN O’FLAHERTY

             WE CARE ABOUT WHAT YOU EAT!                                                 day long. She thinks she doesn’t fit in with the other girls. She
                                                                                         stays at the edge of room, looking in.
                                                                    szechuan chicken
                                                                                            She has never been to a pageant before and never per-
                                                                                         formed in front of so many people. Tya prays her voice finds
                                                                                         the words when it’s her time to sing.
                                                                                            The moment finally comes. She takes the stage. The shyness
                                                                                         disappears, and her voice is strong.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 WELLNESS
                                                                                            Tya, a thirteen-year-old lesbian, found her voice.
                                                                                            “She was amazing,” says Erin O’Flaherty, Miss Missouri
                                                                                         2016 and the first openly gay contestant to compete in the na-
 OPEN DAILY                                                          DIM SUM
                                                                    EVERYDAY
                                                                                         tional Miss America pageant.
                                                                                            O’Flaherty was there that Saturday night as a special guest.
  11AM-10PM                                                         11AM-3PM
                                                                                         She heard Tya sing and then after the pageant spotted her           schools and discovered an awareness gap.                                 Childhood Experiences. Experiences like having a parent with a
 8116 olive blvd. • (314) 567-9997 • wontonkingstl.com                                   walking along the road out of town. They chatted. The girl             “People didn’t know about the Trevor Project,” she says. “I’d         serious mental illness, drug and alcohol abuse in the household,
                                                                                         said she was headed to a friend’s house. And immediately            get into these schools and kids who really needed the resources          intimate partner violence in the household, the death or incar-
                                              THE                                        O’Flaherty could sense the young girl needed help.                  didn’t know about them.”                                                 ceration of a parent.
                                   Best                                                     “You have to put yourself in someone’s shoes,” says O’Fla-
                                                                                         herty. “I remember what it was like to be that age and be navi-
                                                                                                                                                                Outreach is key, according to Dr. Katie Plax, a professor of pe-
                                                                                                                                                             diatrics at Washington University School of Medicine. Granted,
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         The more of these experiences that a young person has, the
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      more likely they are to engage in violence, the more likely they
                               Steak House                                               gating my sexuality. I grew up in a very small town. I didn’t       urban kids need help too; that’s why Plax founded the Spot, an           are to have a problem with alcohol or drug use, the more likely
                                          SINCE 1964
                                        OPEN 7 DAYS                                      come out until I was at least eighteen. The process was long.       outreach and drop-in center in St. Louis that welcomes them.             they are to have STDs or HIV, the more likely they are to have
                                                                                         Because I didn’t have anybody around me that I perceived to            At least urban kids enjoy a relative diversity and geographic         heart disease and other illnesses, the more likely they are to en-
                 CELEBRATING 53 YEARS                                                    be like me.”
                                                                                            O’Flaherty’s participation in Miss America last September
                                                                                                                                                             proximity to services. Their rural peers often don’t.
                                                                                                                                                                “Life in a rural community can be really protective in its own
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      gage in self-harm.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         “These Adverse Childhood Experiences are really bad for us,”
                   STEAKS•CHICKEN•BURGERS•GYROS                                          was an LGBTQ milestone that garnered national attention.            way,” Plax says, “unless you feel stigmatized, then it’s really awful.   Plax says. “And we’ve underestimated their true impact on our
             BRATING
        LE                                                                               What drew less coverage was her charity platform — and her          Everyone knows your business.”                                           health. Because we think, ‘Oh, that’s not really our biology, that’s
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                                                                                         reasons for choosing it.                                               Dr. Plax agrees that the Trevor Project is an excellent resource      “social” — biology is over here and social is over there.’ The
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                                                                                            O’Flaherty championed suicide prevention, with a special         for young people. She is especially impressed by the organiza-           neck, amazingly, connects our brains and our bodies.”
                        rfe
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                                                                                         focus on the Trevor Project. It’s a national nonprofit that helps   tion’s two-way texting service, which allows young people to have           Seen in this context, youth suicide becomes a critical issue of
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             years of
                                                                                         young LGBTQ people through moments of crisis. The risk of           a text conversation with a trained counselor.                            minimizing the total volume of stress felt by young people, espe-
                                                                                         self-harm in that demographic is disproportionately high. A            “They’re able to examine texts and figure out who needs to be         cially young people who are facing a number of ACEs. But it
                                                                                         study last year by the Centers for Disease Control showed that      triaged. They’ve mapped it out to know who is most at risk,” ex-         also calls for LGBTQ adults to be available for young people.
                                                                                         the rate of suicide attempts among lesbian, gay and bisexual        plains Plax. If you’re trying to reach young people, there’s proba-      Finding trustworthy adults is important — people who under-
                                                                                         youth is four times higher than that of straight youth. For         bly no better way than through their phones.                             stand what young LGBTQ people face and can serve as a social
                                                   STEAK & CHICKEN DINNER                questioning youth, it’s twice as high.                                 “Texting’s huge,” says Plax. “Text messaging is important for         balance to the rejection and homophobia they encounter. That’s
                                                 $11 W/TAX. INCLUDES BAKED                  The former Miss Missouri had some experiences of her             all populations of young people, but especially for youth who feel       why gay-straight alliances and places like the Spot save lives:
                                               POTATO, SAL AD, & TEXAS TOAST
                                                                                         own with youth suicide. When she was a teen growing up in           they’re on the margins. Because sometimes it’s easier to text            They offer a place where you can be yourself.
                                                                                         Florence, South Carolina, her close friend (who happened to         things that are deeply felt than it is to say them face to face.”           Flying the rainbow flag helps, Plax says. “The flag really mat-
                               •DINE IN OR CARRY OUT•                                    be straight) took his own life at age thirteen.                        Dr. Plax stops for a moment, as if she’s searching for the per-       ters. When kids see that flag they know the people there know
                        ACROSS FROM THE FOX THEATRE                                         “I was so sad how his cries for help went unheard until it       fect words. Then she finds them.                                         something. It conveys messages that are important in profound,
                             516 NORTH GRAND
                                                                                         was too late,” she says.                                               “Loneliness literally kills.”                                         wordless ways.”
                               (314) 535-6033
                            BESTSTEAKSTL.COM                                                These days, help is more available, even for LGBTQ kids,            She adds, “Stigma and shame and racism and homophobia —                  Erin O’Flaherty once raised a flag in her own way. Today, she
                                                                                         but they don’t always know it’s there. Acting as Miss Missouri,     these are all real things that really impact young people’s lives.”      lives a more low-profile life, co-managing a women’s clothing
                                                                                         O’Flaherty visited various gay-straight alliance clubs at rural        And these things impact our health. Plax talks about Adverse          boutique in Chesterfield called Ra-            Continued on 48
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Agenda OUT IN STL
     AGENDA

                          YOUR FALL,
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        These are just three of the many pho-
                                                                                                                                    either of these two books at Left Bank.               acts. During the intermission, the col-                 version of it.” In 2015, she published a
                                                                                   LIT THAT’S LIT                                   Eileen Myles reading, free, 7 p.m.; Gay Men’s Read-   orguard will play music from the film                   book of those photographs, Every Breath
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        tos by photographer Jess Dugan (cen-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        ter) now on exhibit at UMSL.

                                   PLANNED
                                                                                                                                    ing Group, free, 7:30 p.m., Thurs. Sept. 28, Left     Romy and Michele’s High School Reunion,                 We Drew. Now she’s exhibiting 30 of
                                                                                   Lovers of belles lettres can enjoy a feast of    Bank Books, 399 N Euclid Ave, 314-367-6731,           which was released twenty years ago, in                 them, along with a video component, at
                                                                                   literary discussion at Left Bank Books on        www.left-bank.com                                     1997 — the same year BandTogether was                   UMSL through October 14. She shot the
                                                                                   September 28. In the back of the shop,                                                                 born.                                                   portraits across the country, but many

                                         GET A PIECE OF
                                                                                   nationally renowned lesbian poet Eileen                                                                BandTogether Halloween Concert, free, donations wel-    were in Chicago and Boston, in her sub-
                                                                                   Myles will be discussing her most recent                                                                                                                       jects’ homes, and often in their bedrooms,
                                                                                   work, Afterglow (A Dog Memoir). Ostensibly       MONSTER BALLADS                                       comed, 8 p.m., Sat., Oct. 14, 560 Music Center, 560
                                                                                                                                                                                          Trinity Ave., 314-935-6564, www.bandtogetherstl.        using medium- and large-format cameras.
                                          CULTURE, OFF                             it’s a love letter to her late pit bull Rosie,
                                                                                   whom she welcomed off the street and             BandTogether, an LGBTQ not-for-profit
                                                                                                                                                                                          com                                                     The collection includes gay men, gay
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  women, straight men, trans women and

                                            THE BEATEN                             loved for sixteen years. But according to
                                                                                   British reviewer Helen Macdonald, Myl-
                                                                                   es’ new work is “really about life and ev-
                                                                                                                                    devoted to music performance, has an-
                                                                                                                                    nounced its theme for the annual Hallow-
                                                                                                                                    een Concert on October 14: “Tale as Old               THE PICTURE OF
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  even her partner Jess, with whom Dugan
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  settled in St. Louis three years ago. All of
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  her subjects, she has said, “represented
                                                  PATH                             erything there is.” Meanwhile, down in
                                                                                   the basement of the shop, the Gay Men’s
                                                                                                                                    as Time.” With about 100 volunteer mu-
                                                                                                                                    sicians on the stage, many in costume, the            MANHOOD
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  something I either saw in myself or want-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  ed to embody.”
                                                                                   Reading Group will meet to discuss the           concert band will swirl through pieces re-                                                                    “Every Breath We Drew” exhibition, free, Gallery
                                                                                   novel Guapa by Kuwaiti-born author Sal-          lated to stories that have been passed                When artist Jess Dugan began shooting                   210, University of Missouri–St. Louis, through Oct.
                                                                                   eem Haddad. The book follows a single            down through generations. Think Dracula,              portraits of her friends in 2011, she says,             14, Tues. - Sat. 11 a.m. to 5 p.m., 44 East Dr. on
                                                                                   fateful day in the life of Rasa, a gay man       The Hobbit, Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr.        she gravitated to those who had “found a                UMSL campus, 314-516-5976, http://gallery210.
                                                                                   in the post-Arab-Spring Middle East              Hyde, The Legend of Sleepy Hollow and Beauty          way to be masculine that’s more gentle                  umsl.edu/
                                                                                   whose life is teetering into chaos. You’ll       and the Beast, among others. The band will            and more vulnerable than the mainstream
                                                                                   get a twenty percent discount if you buy         play more than a dozen pieces over two                                                                                                     Continued on 30
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                                                                                                                                                                                                  Beets
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    of the
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           Heart
     FLAVORS

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 A STAR CHEF REVEALS THE EMOTIONAL ORIGIN OF A ROOTY DISH
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          BY ERIC BERGER

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                I              t’s hard to believe chef Rob Connoley when he
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               says he doesn’t like beets.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 Consider his “Rolled Roasted Roots” dish.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               He uses the core of a red beet like the veal
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             shank in ossobuco, then slices the remainder of that beet —
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             plus a golden one — into thin strips, which he wraps around
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             the core. He serves it atop a chickpea cake and finishes it with
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             bechamel sauce.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               Still, he insists: “I could care less about beets.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               So why does Connoley, a James Beard Award nominee fa-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             mous for using foraged ingredients, bother to gussy up these
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             earthy roots?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               His husband, Tyler, loves them.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               Connoley first made the dish years ago at the Curious Kum-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             quat, the destination restaurant he used to run in Silver City,
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             New Mexico. It quickly became one of Tyler’s favorites. And
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             what began as a labor of love now promises to fit perfectly
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             into the sort of cuisine Connoley plans to serve at his upcom-
                PHOTOS BY JAY HEMPHILL

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             ing restaurant, Bulrush.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               “I don’t like wimpy, light vegetarian dishes,” says Connoley,
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             a Bridgeton native who moved back to the area last year. “I
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             was in a ranch and mining town before, so I had to make sure
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             that the food would satisfy people.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               He found that even when he put beets in a chilled salad, they
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             punched above their weight: “Your body reacts to them like meat.”
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FUTURE DEADLINES
MARCH 2020                                            Meet us :

MARCH 27
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HITS THE STREETS                       of greater St. Louis identifies as LGBTQ. On
                                       paper, that’s just a number and string of
                                       letters; in real life, it’s a rich mix of humans
                                       more than 100,000 strong — and countless

MARCH 20
                                       interesting stories.

                                       It’s those stories that compelled us to launch
                                       Out in STL. We know the mainstream media
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                                                                                                                                            28.
                                       issues that matter to you, much less repre-
                                       senting the LGBTQ spectrum in all its
                                       diversity. We wanted to do our part to
                                       address that, with stories focused on the way
                                       you live and the things you care about:
                                       politics, personalities, food, arts, nightlife,
                                       travel, health and much more.

                                       Out in STL is a quarterly product of Euclid
                                       Media Group, the parent company of the                                                        TABLE OF

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                                       Riverfront Times. We’re keenly aware of the
                                       challenges that print journalism faces in the                      CONTENTS
                                       digital age, but we’re encouraged by the
                                                                                                                     VIEWS.......................................6
                                       success of our sister publication in Texas,
                                                                                                                     QS..............................................8
                                       Out in SA. Just like that publication, which is
                                                                                                                     POLICY....................................10
                                       now thriving in its third year, we intend to be
                                                                                                                     FEATURE.................................18
                                       completely local, both in terms of what we
                                                                                                                     AGENDA..................................28
                                       cover and the writers who contribute. And

JUNE 19
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                                       while the publishing business is still a                                      NIGHTOWLS...........................37
                                       business, we plan to donate a percentage of                                   PERFORMERS........................42
                                       the proceeds for each future issue to a                                       WELLNESS.............................46
                                       different local charity serving the LGBTQ
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                                                                                                                     ESCAPES................................50
                                       community.

                                       We look forward to your feedback, and we
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SEPTEMBER 2020
                                                                                                                    plans to base the menu around
                                                                             ROB CONNOLEY                           ingredients that he has foraged.
                                                                             Continued from pg 35

                                                                                                                                                                                                           S
                                                                                                                      As the author of Acorns & Cat-
                                                                                The first time Connoley made        tails: a Modern Foraging Cookbook
                                                                             the dish and sent it out to his hus-   of Forest, Farm & Field, Connoley
                                                                             band, he heard a loud “squeal or       has been doing pop-up restau-
                                                                             chirp” from the dining room.           rants and charity events around
                                                                                “Half of me was happy that I        St. Louis since his return. He

SEPTEMBER 11
                                                                             got the right dish for him,” re-       spends a couple hours each
                                                                             calls the chef. “The other half        morning hiking on public and pri-
                                                                             was thinking, ‘You need to be qui-
                                                                             et; there are customers out
                                                                                                                    vate land outside the city, search-
                                                                                                                    ing for blueberries, wild mush-                                                 WHAT FIVE L
HITS THE STREETS                                                             there.’”
                                                                                Tyler, whose job now involves
                                                                             helping immigrants get housing,
                                                                                                                    rooms and sumac. When he
                                                                                                                    comes back, he says, “my legs are
                                                                                                                    completely cut up and scratched
                                                                             clothes or legal services, says of     and bloody.”

SEPTEMBER 4
                                                                             the dish, “It’s just amazing to          As for the “Rolled Roasted
                                                                             look at; it’s just so beautiful. And   Roots,” he says he would be sur-
                                                                             it was exciting that it was a whole    prised if they don’t show up at
                                                                             dish of beets.”                        Bulrush, if perhaps in a slightly
                                                                                Tyler often serves as the prima-    different format. “You know I
ARTWORK DEADLINE                                                              ry taste-tester for the dishes
                                                                               Connoley is developing. At Bul-
                                                                                                                    can’t serve my old stuff!” he
                                                                                                                    points out.
                                                                                rush, which is expected to open       Not that Tyler would complain. n
                                                                                 early next year, Connoley
                                                                                                                     Eric Berger is a journalist in St. Louis who
                                                                                                                     writes for St. Louis Magazine, the Riverfront
                                                                                                                    Times and the St. Louis Jewish Light. You can
                                                                                                                       reach him at eric.berger87@gmail.com.

DECEMBER 2020
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                                                                                                                                                       bread-maker will win oven
                                                                                                                                                       mitts, while the chili champion
                                                                                                                                                       will win an apron. The Peo-
                                                                                                                                                       ple’s Choice winners, mean-
                                                                                                                                                       while, shall win eternal fame.
                                                                                                                                                       Chili Cook-Off, free, donations encour-
                                                                                                                                                       aged, 12 p.m. Sat. Oct. 14, PrideCen-
                                                                                                                                                       ter, 3738 Chouteau Ave., 314-317-
                                                                                                                                                       0077 Ext. 3, www.pridestl.org

                                                                                                                                                       GET FILTHY
                                                                                                                                                       As queer culture goes main-
                                                                                                                                                       stream, its “edgy underground
                                                                                                                                                       nature” dissipates, says Maxi
                                                                                                                                                       Glamour, a fashion designer
                                                                                                                                                       and event planner for Qu’Art
                                                                                                                                                       (a.k.a. Queer Art). To keep the
                                                                                                                                                       rebel vibe alive, Glamour and
                                                                                                                                                       DJ Monsieur Gaston have an-
                                                                                                                                                       nounced the first annual Filthy
                                                                                                                                                       Filth Fest for the night after
                                                                                                                                                       Thanksgiving. It aspires to be a
                                                                                                                                                       “super queer showcase” of live
                                                                                                                                                       music, drag, burlesque, paint-
                                                                                                                                                       ers, vendors, clowns and more.
                                      Join Maxi Glamour (above) for a
                                         raunchy party downtown the
                                             night after Thanksgiving
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                                                                                                               in which case you’re in luck.           There will also be a panel of
                                                                                                               Individuals and teams will              guest speakers — including a
                                                                     .

                                                                         CHARITABLE                            compete (for entry fees of $10
                                                                                                               and $20, respectively) to make
                                                                                                                                                       city alderman! — to discuss
                                                                                                                                                       being queer in St. Louis and

                                                                         CHILI                                 the most scrumptious chili and
                                                                                                               cornbread. It’s free to come in
                                                                                                                                                       how to make a difference in
                                                                                                                                                       the community. “There’s a lot
                                                                         You may wish to attend the            and taste their creations,              of hyper-polished pretty prin-
                                                                         PrideCenter’s inaugural Chili         though donations are encour-            cesses in the limelight, and
                                                                         Cook-Off simply because you           aged. A fixing station loaded           that’s cool,” notes Glamour,
                                                                         believe in its mission: to pro-       with cheese, sour cream, tabas-         “but equally important are the
                                                                         vide a safe space for LGBTQ           co, salt and pepper, crackers,          evil queens that make the story
                                                                         individuals, to operate a lend-       onion and chips will let you            interesting.”
                                                                         ing library and to run a Cyber-       customize your bowl. The                Filthy Filth Fest, $10, adults only, 9
                                                                         Center where folks can search         judging starts at 2 p.m. and the        p.m. Fri. Nov. 24, The Crack Fox,
                                                                         for jobs or take online classes.      awards ceremony at 3:30 p.m.,           1114 Olive St., for more information,
                                                                         Or you might just be hungry,          at which time the best corn-            contact quartstl@gmail.com
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                            lice-friendly and nowhere near               just about getting some
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                            Grove event, she says, “I ran
                            into so many activists. As long
                            as they keep those people in-
                                                                         While it’s great to have
                                                                         options, there will always
                                                                         be a place for the biggest,
                                                                                                                   lies.
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                               PROMO communication                          “They give a place for baby            example, have                                                                        and afternoon tea. Delight in dinner and cocktails at one of                                                                                                                                                          All St. Louis Area Locations
                            director Katie Stucken-                      queers to go experience their first       come under fire                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           Are Locally Owned & Operated
                                                                                                                                                                                                            four on-site dining spots. Whether a weekend jaunt,
                            schneider, for example, says                 taste of queerdom,” says Grego-           from environmental
                            this kind of fete feels right to             ry of Queer Trans People of               groups. But without them,                                                             business stay or family vacation the Cheshire makes certain
                            her.                                         Color. “For so many people who            funding concerns become in-                                                                    your stay is convenient and comfortable.
                               “South city people who
                            identify as super queer, peo-
                            ple like us go to Tower Grove
                                                                         are just starting to know them-
                                                                         selves, maybe Pride is a success.
                                                                         It’s helping people come out and
                                                                                                                   tractable.
                                                                                                                      “Corporate sponsorship of
                                                                                                                   pride may often be the differ-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      S  ince 2007, the number of people
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      dying from opioid overdose (heroin,
                            Pride,” she says.                            discover people who are like              ence between fiscal survival           That’s                                                                                                                                                                                   We are             prescription painkillers & fentanyl)
                               According to Powers, 7,000                them.”                                    and the less-than-admirable            why we                                                                                                                                                                                                      has skyrocketed. We all know
                            revelers attended this year.                    It’s also the festival that has        alternative,” says InterPride’s        did both                                                                                                                                                                               facing an            someone who’s been affected.
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                            and by word of mouth. And                    — and is considered a                        Johnson, of the Metro Trans         drang: He is the founder of                                                                                                                                                                                 l   A respiratory illness
                            while they can’t make the                    must-attend by mayors and                 Umbrella Group, was full of            the St. Louis LGBT History                                                                                                                                                             ST. LOUIS REGION     l   Injecting
                            sidewalks any wider or the                   megacorporations such as                  praise for Tower Grove Pride.          Project and this year’s recipi-
                            weather any nicer, Powers                    Monsanto and Peabody.                     He also attended and staffed a         ent of the Lisa Wagaman                                                                                                                                                                                     Overdoses don’t have to be fatal
                            says they’re happy to adjust to                 PROMO’s Stuckenschnei-                 booth at PrideFest where he            Lifetime Community Service                                                                                                                                                                                  Naloxone (Narcan®) can reverse an
                            the feedback.                                der echoes Gregory’s senti-               interacted with crowds of              Award. He’s been making a                                                                                                                                                                                   overdose, and is available without
                               “If you leave the commu-                  ment. She says that PrideFest,            trans people, but didn’t march         study of the city’s LGBT his-                                                                                                                                                                               prescription at many pharmacies— or
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                            don’t have the engagement                    are crucial for newly out peo-               “Our community is unique            better than most that tension                                                                                                                                                                               For more information on overdose risk
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                               Part of that is keeping ven-              rural areas. For those people             and sits better with being more        ly new.                                                                                                                                                                                                     resources to reverse an overdose visit
                            dor fees low — $75 this year,                — and she was once one of                 localized,” he says. “I’m also a         Even the first festival in                                                                                                                                                             Together We
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                            $250 downtown. Vendor vet-                   ants flying rainbow flags is              have reached hundreds of               versy, he points out, because                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         ORDER ONLINE
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