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Celebrating
Courage &
Charting
the Future
Commemorating 50 Years
of Black Women at Converse

Fifty years ago this fall, Freida Rogers Byrd and Margaret Jones Swindler became the first
Black students to enroll at Converse College. In celebration of this milestone, we reflect on
our heritage and explore the work still ahead of us with a year-long series, Celebrating
Courage & Charting the Future: Commemorating 50 Years of Black Women at Converse.

The series began last February with a panel of distinguished alumnae sharing their
experiences. It continues through the 2018-2019 year with feature stories highlighting
individual alumnae. On September 21, we will commemorate the anniversary during Opening
Convocation, lunch and an afternoon of special topic discussions. Finally, in the spring of
2019, the series will culminate with an exhibition highlighting Converse’s history of African
American students developed by students of Dr. Angela Elder as part of a class research
project.

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Last February, nearly 100 Black alumnae returned home to Converse for an
Alumae Panelists (from left to right)
                                                     afternoon of fellowship over lunch, a panel discussion with distinguished      A Tribute to Our Trailblazers       On Choosing Converse
Joy Danielle Stoney ’00                              alumnae, and a reception hosted by Converse students.
Attorney and Owner, Stoney Law Firm LLC

Stinson Woodward Ferguson ’07
                                                     Seven Black alumnae and Converse’s first Black faculty member gathered
                                                     with President Krista Newkirk in front of a packed house in Montgomery           We would not be telling this        We set out one Saturday to         I attended an African
Associate Attorney with Southern Environmental
                                                                                                                                      story today were it not for the     visit several schools. When I      American high school in
Law Center and Director of Organizational            Student Center. They discussed their Converse experiences, creating a            courage of our first two            got to campus, I stood on          Atlanta. I did not go to school
Development for J.W. Woodward Funeral Home
Inc.                                                 culture that embraces diversity, how they overcome hurdles in their profes-      students, Freida Rogers Byrd        back campus and looked at          with Caucasians the entire
                                                     sional lives, the impact of mentors, and how we can strengthen the network       and Margaret Jones                  my Daddy and said ‘This is         time I attended school, from
The Honorable Deadra L. Jefferson ’85
                                                     between alumnae and students.                                                    Swindler, to come forward           where I belong. We don’t           kindergarten until 12th
Circuit Judge, South Carolina 9th Judicial Circuit
                                                                                                                                      and share their stories. They       need to visit anywhere else.’      grade, so when I arrived at
Phyllis Perrin Harris ’82                                                                                                             blazed a trail at Converse          And he looked at me like, ‘My      Converse this was like a
Senior Vice President and General Counsel Legal                                         JOIN US TO CELEBRATE                          that at times, I’m sure, was        child with no life experience      different universe for me, to
Operations, Walmart Stores Inc.
                                                                                        at Opening Convocation                        not easy. Their stories are         has visited ONE college...,’       be quite candid. Talk about
                                                                                                                                      part of a long history of           but I said ‘I know this, trust     transforming my mind and
Dr. Kay E. Woodward                                                                     September 21, 2018                            Converse and a variety of           me. I feel it – this is where I    making me think differently
President, J.W. Woodward Funeral Home Inc.
Converse’s first Black faculty member                                                                                                 perspectives and experiences        belong.’ I think a lot of people   — one of the things I learned
                                                                                        •   Procession of Black alumnae               by our Black and minority           had this experience.               at Converse is to be fearless
Candy Moore ’93                                                                         •   Gospel Choir performance                  students.                                                              and to be confident. I felt like
Senior Vice President, Community Development                                            •   Lunch with the Converse                                                                                          I could compete with anyone,
Manager Southeast Region, Wells Fargo                                                       community                                                                                                        and I did compete with
                                                                                        •   Special topic breakout discussions                                            Deadra Jefferson                   anyone.
Dawn Davis Deck ’99                                                                     •   Reservations requested                    President Newkirk
Director of Planned Giving, ETV Endowment of
SC Inc.
                                                                                        Learn more about the 50th Celebration
Dr. Jayne Stewart Reuben ’85                                                            Series and register your participation at                                                                            Phyllis Harris
Associate Professor, Texas A&M University,                                              www.converse.edu/CelebratingCourage
College of Dentistry

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Mentorship Experiences and
Advice                                                                                                  Pivotal Moments (cont.)

  I was Converse’s first black     I created a Board of             Eleanor Roosevelt said                To me the biggest breakdown
  faculty member…The               Advisors. This is a group of     ‘Learn from the mistakes of           of the racial barrier was
  students who were here in        individuals I trust and love…    others. You can never live            when we came back to school
  the early and mid ’70s were      who know my character…It         long enough to make them              in 1980 and… there were
  exceptional students. It was a   took me years to assemble        all yourself.’ It is essential to     21-22 black women in the
  two-way mentorship. I felt I     my personal board of             have a mentor. Someone who            incoming class, that’s when I
  served as a mentor to            advisors, and they help me       has already traveled your             felt like things had really
  students – not only black        when I make life decisions       road and made the mistakes.           changed… In reflection, and
  students but all students –      about my career or some-         As children of the ’60s, our          I know the College has
  and I feel students helped me    thing personal. I think          mothers taught us that you            changed significantly in this
  in my growth process. It was     having a mentor and mentee       become better from a thing,           regard, in many respects
  a very exciting time.            relationship is so important.    not bitter…Even though you            perhaps the infrastructure
                                                                    experience hard things you            was not in place because we
                                                                    know you come out of it for           lost quite a few of those
                                                                    the better. We all need a             women… If I could go back in
  Kay Woodward                     Candy Moore                      confessor who hears without           time, there were women that
                                                                    judgment who can encourage            I wish we had helped a bit
                                                                    us to know that we will               more.
                                                                    overcome the rough patches
                                                                    of the journey. Nothing in life
                                                                    worth having is ever going to
                                                                    be easy.
                                                                                                          Phyllis Harris

                                                                    Deadra Jefferson                    Creating Unity in Our
                                                                                                        Communities

Pivotal Moments When
Barriers Were Broken                                                                                      Converse was a wonderfully       I pledged the citywide         We shouldn’t campaign so
                                                                                                          secure environment in which     chapter of Delta Sigma Theta    much on social media about
                                                                                                          to grow and to become.          at Converse with women          our grievances. Instead, go to
                                                                                                          People always ask me what       from Wofford and Limestone      individuals and have a
  I started in 1996 and that        In the 1980s we were still      In 1995, when I came to               it’s like to be a black judge   and USC Spartanburg. Of         conversation to confront
  was the year that we had 33      seeing some of the last public   Converse it was at the time           and I say maybe the better      course, we don’t have these     issues head on. We must
  black female students. It was    elements of segregation. I       when the first female was             question is what is it like     citywide chapters anymore,      intentionally reach beyond
  the largest in the College’s     remember one of the              trying to be accepted into            being a female judge, because   but at the end of the day it    what we know to be comfort-
  history…but by the end of        students…came to us and          The Citadel…In response to            being a woman always            was about how to have           able and learn something
  that first year, 15 were gone…   said ‘I’m getting married and    this challenging time,                matters, no matter what         connectivity as a family, and   different about others who
  One of my good friends was       I want you to come to my         Converse began the South              environment you are in. As      for me personally it meant a    don’t look like us.
  from the inner city of Detroit   wedding, but you can’t come      Carolina Institute of Leader-         women, we have to               lot to have that experience.
  and that was a culture shock     to the reception because it is   ship for Women (SCIL); a              remember the importance of      Everything is about culture
  to come to Spartanburg, SC…      at a whites only country         military leadership program           complimenting one another,      and about feeling accepted.
  There were some racial           club…I remember us looking       for women. (The issue)                supporting one another, how
                                                                                                                                                                          Dawn Deck
  tensions that occurred           at one another and telling       wasn’t about race but it was          to push one another - we
  during that time, and I think    her…“We just don’t feel          about women and the rights            should always know the
  now we’re a lot more             comfortable with that.”          of women…That stood out to            importance of standing on
                                                                                                                                          Phyllis Harris
  culturally sensitive.                                             me during my years here.              one another’s shoulders.

                                   Jayne Reuben
  Joy Stoney                                                        Dawn Deck                             Deadra Jefferson

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                                                                                                         In Closing                                          Reflections After the Event

                                                                                                           When I talked to these                                The turnout for the event
                                                                                                           women about their Converse                            was not purely other women
                                                                                                           experience, not all of their                          of color - not even purely
                                                                                                           stories were positive...but                           other women. The Chamber
                                                                                                           they came back and they led                           President was there.
                                                                                                           and they committed                                    President Newkirk’s
                                                                                                           themselves to making things                           husband was there. Trustees
Hopes for Converse’s Future                                                                                better when it would have                             were there. Professors were
and for Our Students                                                                                       been easy to walk away. We                            there. People I served with
                                                                                                           are all striving for this                             on the Alumnae Board were
                                                                                                           common vision that you                                there. Current students were
                                                                                                           expressed, and that means                             there. People of all shades,
     My hope for Converse is that      I love looking in the audience    My hope for Converse is that      having the hard                                       ages, and styles were present
     it is a thriving institution      and seeing that Converse          it continues to be a college      conversations.                                        and engaged. The energy was
     with wonderful women and          women do not all look alike,      that cares about her                                                                    fantastic. This is a
     is exclusively a women’s          sound alike, care about the       students. My mother was a                                                               community-wide celebration,
     college 100 years from now.       same things, believe the          widow and she passed away                                                               not just a celebration for
     Being on the Board has            same things, or want the          my sophomore year. The            President Newkirk                                     women of color.
     helped me to gain a better        same things. My hope is that      faculty here took care of me…
     appreciation for this college     what binds us and distin-         Students, you are going to
     community and to see what it      guishes us is that we share a     have adversity and you may
     really takes to make this the     commitment to excellence          not come here under the best                                                            Stinson Ferguson
     special place that it is. It      and we will all be willing to     circumstances, but what you
     takes all of us having a love     speak up when something           leave with is what you take
     for the College, and it is        wrong or inappropriate is         with you. Converse will be
     wonderful to see so many          going on, even when doing so      here for you and we want you
     women come back. But we           is not comfortable.               to be here for Converse.
     not only have to come back,
     we also have to give back.
                                       Stinson Ferguson                  Jayne Reuben
     Phyllis Harris

     The one thing I regret is         From a faculty perspective, it    I ask that we keep the
     taking for granted the            is my wish for Converse to be     momentum going that we
     relationships I formed at         much more diverse in terms        have here today…Converse
     Converse, believing they          of faculty representation….I      molded me and provided my
     were going to last forever.       encourage Converse to be          foundation from a profes-
     You have to put forth effort to   very intentional about            sional perspective…Please
     maintain relationships…as         diversity of faculty and staff,   consider that in your journey
     my pastor says, relationships     and I encourage quality           in being reconnected to
     are the currency of Heaven.       additions of faculty who are      Converse.
     Stay in touch with each other     diverse.
     and support each other.                                                                               One Converse family had five alumnae members
                                                                         Candy Moore                       present for the February event! From left: Patricia
                                                                                                           Perry Beason ’79, Wanda McDowell Moore ’91,
                                       Kay Woodward                                                        Wilesha Davis Wright ’01, Sandra Beason
                                                                                                           Watson ’79, Dawn Davis Deck ’99
     Joy Stoney

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