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Middlemore
               House                     2018

Nulli Secundus - Second to None

                                  Middlemore House
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Housemaster’s
                                  Welcome
                                Congratulations on being a boarder! You are in for
                        an experience that will remain with you forever. You will
                       make life long friends, gain new skills and be part of the
                      legacy of Middlemore House.
                  In 1979 the Headmaster made the momentous and highly successful decision to introduce girls at King's in
                 1980. Following similar trends in Australia and Britain, requests from Old Collegians who had daughters they
                wished to send to their old school and the threat of closure of some Auckland boarding schools it was decided
               to bring in the first 15 girls to the then Forms 6 and 7. These 15 formed the nucleus of the 125 that were
              eventually enrolled by 2005.

Today Middlemore is a dynamic and exciting home away from home for up to 65 boarders. From 2016 we welcomed year 11
girls into the newly renovated extension which included a house managers residence. We aim to make Middlemore as
comfortable, safe and welcoming as we can. To create this environment we depend upon each girl taking responsibility for her
actions which will, in the intimate boarding setting, have an impact on others.

We expect that girls respect each other, respect each others property and the boarding house. This handbook is a very useful
guide to the daily routines, procedures and policies of Middlemore which will help each girl become familiar with how we run
Middlemore and consequently make the process of becoming a ‘Middlemorian’ that much easier. We understand that boarding
takes some girls a bit of getting used to, especially in term one. It helps to get involved with extra-curricular activities so girls
                                      are kept busy and don't have too much time to think about being homesick. We encourage
                                                                         girls to take a sport, get involved in house sport
                                                                          competitions and also try a new activity, however
                                                                          achieving a balance of activities and keeping up with
      WE AIM TO HAVE A COMFORTABLE,                                       schoolwork needs to be taken into consideration.
ACCEPTING AND POSITIVE ENVIRONMENT
IN MIDDLEMORE SO THAT WE CAN WORK                                        We do aim to make Middlemore comfortable and homely,
  TOGETHER TO CREATE A SUPPORTIVE                                        so girls staying in at the weekends do have an option of
  UNIT OF SISTERHOOD THAT RESPECTS                                       attending set weekend activities with the boy boarders
 EACH OTHER, OUR STRENGTHS AND THE                                       or they can just relax, catch up on homework and
      TRADITIONS OF THE HOUSE -                                          perhaps go out for a shopping trip or ice-cream with the
 MIDDLEMORE VISION 2015 DEVELOPED                                        tutor on duty. Girls are free to use the facilities such as
              BY YEAR 13S                                                the pool and running track during the weekends.

                                                                          Overall, welcome to the Middlemore family. We are
                                                                        looking forward to getting to know you and supporting
you in the best you can be for your time here at King’s College.

Mrs Nichola Hayes

Housemaster, 2012 - present.
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Expectations                                           when doing so.Offering a firm    boarding house. This includes pastoral
                                                       handshake if appropriate         care and wellbeing of students,
2018 at King’s College will be an                                                       academic matters where necessary and
adventure for the girls, with a whole                  asking if assistance is needed   discipline. Nichola Hayes is the current
raft of new challenges and experiences.                where appropriate.               Housemaster of Middlemore and she is
Adapting to life in boarding and girls                                                  supported by her husband, Michael and
being in the minority will be distinct         Thanking people adequately by:           their two children, Penny and Oliver.
features of those challenges. In order to
enjoy the experience and make the                      verbal thanks at the suitable
most of the opportunities available at                 moment
King’s College, girls will need to                                                      The House Manager, Clare Stewart, is
conform to what for many will be a new                                                  responsible for laundry, lost property,
                                                       writing a short note of thanks
set of expectations.                                                                    general maintenance, upkeep of the
                                                       after a person has given of
                                                       their hospitality and time.      boarding house, spare uniform and
We expect nothing less than the best a                                                  minor health matters. The House
student can offer in terms of attitude,                                                 Manager can run small errands for our
                                                       Offering to assist when people
effort and enthusiasm. The reward of                                                    out of Auckland boarders as well. The
                                                       have to clear up af ter a
wholehearted participation is a sense of                                                House Manager has set hours of work
                                                       function, etc.
belonging and mutual endeavour. Girls                                                   and is contactable by email, mobile
will be given every assistance to come                                                  phone and landline.
                                                       Using proper table manners at
to grips with their new environment
                                                       all times.
but in the final analysis, the degree to                                                Middlemore cur rently has three
which a new student feels comfortable                                                   boarding tutors who are rostered on for
in the boarding environment will                       Keeping voice levels and
                                                       behaviour within appropriate     duties in the morning and evening. A
depend largely on her own willingness                                                   boarding tutor builds close
to play a full part in the life of the House           limits.
                                                                                        relationships with the girls, ensures
and the College.                                                                        girls are complying to house rules, and

Good manners: We expect the
following:
                                               Middlemore                               makes sure girls are using their prep
                                                                                        time effectively. Boarding tutors are
                                                                                        able to help girls with prep where

         standing when an adult enters
         the room (lecture theatre or
                                               Staff                                    possible.

                                                                                        Boarding Tutors
         classroom)                            Middlemore is lucky to have
                                               enthusiastic and caring staff.           Mrs Nichola Hayes (Housemaster)
         standing when addressed by
         an adult                                                                       Mrs Karen Thompson
                                                         Middlemore
         standing back to allow adults
         to enter a door, etc.
                                                         staff care about               Miss Danielle Harpur

                                                         the girls                      Mrs Jennifer Mayne
         Greeting adults (be they
         acquaintance or strangers)
         suitably by: being the first to
         generate a greeting and               The Housemaster assumes
         looking the person in the eye         responsibility for the running of the
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Communication
                        Communication between House Staff, the College
                 parents and students is very important.
            In Middlemore we have some set procedures for communicating information.

          You can expect from us:

                 Regular newsletters from the Housemaster which includes information about upcoming events to do with the
        House.

        Phone calls or emails from the Housemaster if a girl is causing concern within the boarding house or up at school.
        Equally if a girl does well in the boarding house or up at school we like to make contact too.

        A Middlemore Newsletter at the end of every term outlining events that have happened including house sport.

        Invitations to attend pre-Chapel drinks and nibbles in terms 2 and 3 and special house events like the Pink Ribbon
        Breakfast and House Music in term 2.

Kings’ College will also send an E-News bulletin with important information. You can check the website www.kingscollege.co.nz
for calendar dates, updated information and notification of events that are of interest to parents.

We require from you:

        If your contact details change it is vital you contact reception to have these changed on the database.

        All leave requests to be logged in Boardingware unless it is in within 24hrs or an emergency, then a phone call or text
        is best.

        Notify the attendance officer of any class time absence.

                        Important contact details are listed on the last page of this booklet.

         THE HOUSEMASTER ALSO TEACHES UP AT THE COLLEGE AND
         IS NOT ALWAYS INSTANTLY AVAILABLE BUT WILL ENDEAVOR
          TO RETURN PHONE CALLS, EMAILS AND TEXTS AS SOON AS
         POSSIBLE. IN AN EMERGENCY PLEASE CONTACT RECEPTION.
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Daily Routine
                7.00am      Wakeup Bell                         Shower and duties as
                            All year levels.                    required

7.25am     Roll call in common room                                    Notices

7.45am     Room check by staff                                  Leave House for a 7.45am
8.25am     Mondays: Full House Meeting with                     breakfast in the Dining
     staff                                                      Hall

5.30pm     Thursdays: Chapel for all boarders and dinner from 6pm.
6.20pm     Yr 11 and 12 Dinner. Yr 13 allowed to go from 6pm onwards

6.50pm     Roll call in common room                                    Notices
7.20pm     Thursday roll call

                                                               Students seated in rooms
7.00pm     1st prep session begins                             Talking ceases
7.55pm     Prep break                                          No movement between
8.00pm     2nd prep session begins                             rooms
9.00pm     Prep finishes                                       No mobile use or audible
                                                               music
9.15pm     Thursday - Prep finishes

9.00pm     Supper and free time                                Students in bed
9.45pm     Yr 11s and 12s in own rooms                         Rooms in darkness
10.00pm    Yr 11 and 12s lights out                            Talking ceases
10.15pm    Yr 13s in own rooms                                 No mobile or internet
                                                               use
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Carmen Regale
                                              The School Song

                                  O floreat simper Collegium Regis

                               Et simper iam magna maius emicet!

                            Quae mater benigna, omni amore digna

                          Viri ut re fiamus, docet, VIRTUS POLLET.

                                                                 General Behaviour

Middlemore                                                             College rules always apply (see College booklet or
                                                                       website).

House                                                                  Always be punctual for House events, especially call-
                                                                       over.

                                                                       No offensive language inside the House.

Rules                                                                  NO footwear is to be worn in the House under any
                                                                       circumstances.

                                                                       The outside top deck of the Yr 12 block is out-of-
The House Staff and Prefects want to provide an environment
                                                                       bounds.
that will encourage and enable each girl to perform to the
best of her ability in as many fields as possible. Each member
of the House must be responsible and accountable for her               Keep your personal appearance neat and tidy and
behaviour, while the House should be a mutually respectful             your possessions in an orderly manner.
and co-operative, caring environment.
                                                                       Treat all House equipment, furniture and fittings, as
The Prefects and Year 13 students play a                               well as other girls’ property, with respect.
pivotal role in the day to day running of                                                ‘Borrowing’ other people’s
Middlemore and it is their responsibility                                                 possessions without their willing
to ensure that the House runs smoothly                                                    or prior consent is theft. Stealing
                                                                                          is antisocial behaviour and will
and that it is maintained properly. The
House Rules are designed to achieve this               BE                                 have consequences.
end.                                              CONSIDERATE                                      No alcohol, tobacco, or
The following information is intended as          OF OTHERS AT                             controlled substances may be
                                                                                           brought into the House at any
a set of important guidelines which will
ensure the best environment for                    ALL TIMES                               time.
everyone. Every student must read the
College rules found at the front of the                                                              Be considerate of others
student diary.                                                                             at all times.

           College rules are found in
           the front of the school diary
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Common Rooms

                                                                     All furniture must be respected and not abused. No
        Attendance is compulsory                                     feet on the furniture.
        at House Meetings, Chapel
                                                                     Bins are provided for litter.
        Services, House practices,
        House Sports and Boy                                         Ball games are not allowed in the Common Rooms.

        House activities.                                            Pool table - use with respect. Replace the dust cloth
                                                                     over the table when not in use. Return cues to the
Attendance                                                           cue rack after use.

      Attendance is compulsory at House meetings, Chapel             Each year group must take responsibility for
      services, House practices, House matches and Boy               ensuring that their Common room is tidy at all
      House activities, as directed by the Housemaster or            times.
      Prefects. Regular checks are taken.
                                                                     Do not leave your belongings lying around in the
      If you are late (more than 20 minutes or will miss a           Common room.
      roll call) for any reason in returning to school after
      leave, parents /guardians must email or phone the        Damages, Breakages and Spills
      Housemaster. It is vital that duty staff know if a
      student is late.                                               Report damage, breakages or spills immediately to
                                                                     the Housemaster, Duty Staff or House Manager.
      NO member of the House may leave the College
      grounds during school time, unless she has the                 Do NOT attempt to fix any damages yourself.
      Housemaster’s permission.
                                                               Drying rooms and Linen

                                                                     These rooms are to be kept clean and tidy at all
        A room check is carried out                                  times.

        every morning                                                Collect clothing and shoes regularly from these
                                                                     areas.
Bedrooms
                                                                     Sheets, pillows, and pillowcases are provided by the
      Each girl is responsible for the tidiness of their own         College. If you prefer to bring your own these must
      bedroom.                                                       be taken home for washing.

      A room check is carried out every morning – beds               Girls are required to bring their own swimming towel
      are to be made, lights turned off, blinds pulled up,           and bath towels.
      rubbish bin emptied, drawers closed, clothes put
      away neatly, desk and floor tidy.                              Girls are required to bring their own duvets/blankets
                                                                     for their beds.
      You may not be in others’ rooms unless invited.

      Do not leave wet towels or wet clothing of any kind in
      your room.

      Food or drink is not consumed in your
      room.

      Each term you will change room.
      Roommates for the Year 11s and Year
      12s also change.
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ENTRY DOORS HAVE A KEYPAD AND PIN CODE. FOR
 OBVIOUS SECURITY REASONS THIS CODE MUST NOT
 BE DISCLOSED TO OTHERS. MIDDLEMORE IS LOCKED
 AND ALARMED AT NIGHTTIME AND A SECURITY
 GUARD IS PRESENT ON SITE IN THE EVENINGS.

Duties                                       Fridges

From time to time all students in the        All food MUST be in sealed containers       Meals
House will be asked to do some cleaning      with your name. Do not consume other
or tidying activities. Organisation for      people’s food.                                      You MUST attend ALL meals in
special functions and end of term                                                                the Dining Hall. Regular
‘spring clean’ will involve all students     House meetings                                      checks are made.
regardless of year group.
                                             These are compulsory and are held in                If you are going to miss dinner
The day-to-day running of the House          the Common Room on Tuesdays at 8.25                 for College extra-curricular
requires that ALL girls have duty            am.                                                 activities, it is your
responsibilities. The duties/chores                                                              responsibility to communicate
include tidying and cleaning of Common       Roll Calls or call-over take place in the           with your coach/Teacher in
rooms, TV room, Kitchens, locker areas       morning and evening.                                Charge for them to organise a
and delivery of kitchen supplies.                                                                late dinner from the kitchen.
                                             Kitchen
                                                                                                 Ensure you are at the Dining
                                             ALWAYS clean up after yourself. The                 Hall doors at the correct time,
                                                                                                 wearing the correct uniform.
           All girls have a                  door will be locked if the kitchen is
                                             found untidy.
           requirement to
                                             Lockers
           do duties at
           some time                         Lockers are provided for all girls in the
                                             bathrooms. A combination lock must be
           which helps                       supplied by each girl.
           with the day to                   Separate Cubby holes are provided for
           day running of
           the House
                                             shoes and for clean laundry.
                                                                                                 WITH SOME
                                             TV Room                                             EXCEPTIONS,
Food                                                 We have Sky TV                              UNIFORM IS
         Basic supplies of milk, sugar,
                                                     This room must be kept tidy,
                                                                                                 WORN TO
         coffee, tea, milo, bread, butter/
         margarine, spreads and fruit
                                                     clean up after yourself.                    THE DINING
         are provided.
                                                     DVDs are allowed with the                   HALL
                                                     permission of Duty Staff.
         Girls may bring their own
         snacks but these must be kept
                                                     No private televisions are
         in the kitchen in a sealed
                                                     allowed.
         container which is named.

                                                     Duty staff have the right to
         •NO FOOD is to be kept in
                                                     stop a programme they deem
         bedrooms, this will attract
                                                     to be inappropriate
         mice/rats and ants!
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IT IS IMPORTANT NOT TO BRING TOO MANY
BELONGINGS WITH YOU. THERE IS LIMITED SPACE
AND YOU WILL FIND YOU WONT NEED LOTS OF MUFTI
CLOTHES. DO BRING ITEMS FOR YOUR PINBOARD E.G
FAMILY PHOTOS.

Laundry                                                                                Visitors to Middlemore
                                                       There is limited
     All clothing and footwear must                    storage space in                Year 13 Students
     be clearly labelled
                                                       bedrooms.                               Visitors must enter via the
     Change clothing regularly
     using the correct bags in the
                                                       Please do not                           Main Foyer (by the Year 13
                                                                                               block) with the permission of
     Bathroom areas.                                   bring large                             House Staff.

     School laundry is collected and
                                                       amounts of                              The Visitors’ Book must be
     returned every week day.                          clothing.                               signed by all Visitors on arrival
                                                                                               and departure.
     Clothing can be collected from
     the Year 12 Locker room at                                                                Visitors are not permitted
     any time.                                                                                 during the school day, prep

     Sheet change takes place on
                                                       You will have to                        time or after 9.25 pm.

     Mondays. Ensure that you are                      completely                              Girls may entertain their
     prompt and follow the correct                                                             visitors in the Foyer, Common
     procedures.                                       clear your room                         Room, or in the front
                                                       at the end of                           Middlemore gardens.
     The House Manager will assist
     with minor repairs to clothing.                   each term for                   Year 12 and year 11 students

     Non-labelled gear will be held
                                                       hire groups to                          Visitors (no male students)
     in the Lost Property cupboard                     use                                     must enter via the Main Foyer
     until claimed.                                                                            with the permission of the
                                                       Middlemore.                             House Staff.
     House laundry facilities may
     b e u s e d fo r s m a l l i t e m s ,                                                    The Visitors’ Book must be
     underwear and delicates using                                                             signed by all Visitors on arrival
     a white net laundry bag.                                                                  and departure.
                                              Access to the House
     Girls are to provide their own                                                            Visitors are not permitted
                                                     Use the side or wet entrances
     laundry powder and towels.                                                                during the school day, prep
                                                     for entry and exit from the
                                                                                               time or after 9.25pm.
                                                     House.
     Do not borrow another
     person’s clothing.                                                                        Taylor girls are welcome in
                                                     Girls may not return to the
                                                                                               Middlemore but must not enter
                                                     House during the school day,
                                                                                               girls bedrooms.
                                                     except lunch break af ter
                                                     having lunch at the Dining Hall
                                                     or with the permission of the             No girls are to sit in visitors’
                                                     Housemaster.                              cars outside the House.

                                                     Year 13 girls may use their
                                                     rooms during study periods
                                                     but all normal House and
                                                     College rules apply.
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COMPUTERS AND CELLPHONES THAT ARE NOT USED
  REASONABLY AND IN ACCORDANCE WITH HOUSE AND
  COLLEGE POLICIES WILL BE IMPOUNDED. THEY WILL
  BE RETURNED AT THE DISCRETION OF THE
  HOUSEMASTER.

Money and Valuables                                                                        The College is
      Items of value such as            Computers and Cellphones                       mainly uses Apple
      cellphones or computers and
      sums of money should be                 Year 11 and 12 Students may
                                                                                       computers and
      secured at all times.                   n o t u s e c o mp u t e r s a f t e r   software. The use
                                              10.00pm. All Laptops will be
      Students must take full                 left outside bedroom doors at
                                                                                       of ITunesU is
      responsibility for all valuable         this time for the night.                 found in many
      items they bring into the
      House.                                  Cellphones MAY NOT be used
                                                                                       subjects. If you
                                              during Call Over, Prep or after          have any
      All such items must be clearly          Lights Out.
      named.                                                                           questions about IT
                                              Cellphones and computers                 requirements
      Any loss should be reported to          must not be used to harass
      the Housemaster immediately.            another student.                         please contact the
                                                                                       IT department.
      Middlemore has 3 security               Computers may only be taken
      cameras that cover                      to School for academic                   Some subjects
      entranceways and common                 purposes.                                such as Design
      areas.
                                                                                       and Photography
                                                                                       require specialised
                                                                                       programs. It is
                                                                                       best to discuss
                                                                                       these with the
                                                                                       subject teacher.
Fire/Emergency
Evacuation
                                                                  Medical
Procedure                                                         Procedures
                                                                  If a student is unwell outside of school hours, she should, in
 All students must proceed to the nearest and safest
                                                                  the first instance, contact the House Manager unless it is
 exit and assemble on the Driveway in front of
                                                                  after 10.30pm. After 10.30pm, there are 2 direct dial phones
 M i d d l e m o r e H o u s e i n Ye a r g r o u p s a n d i n
                                                                  located in the Middlemore common areas for students to
 alphabetical order.
                                                                  contact the duty nurse. The duty nurse will uplift the student
                                                                  and take her to the Medical Centre.
 Wardens will call the roll and report to the House
 Duty Staff.
                                                                  In an emergency, 111 should be dialed straight away and the
                                                                  Housemaster contacted immediately.
 Do not attempt to re-enter the House until the ‘All
 Clear’ is given.
                                                                  All medication MUST be disclosed to the Medical Centre
 Do not run during an emergency evacuation.                       for health and safety reasons. We do not allow students to
                                                                  have medication in their rooms unless there are special
 Procedures are displayed in rooms and notice boards              circumstances.
 and regular practice drills take place.
                                                                  If the illness occurs at school she should inform her class
    The main causes of false                                      teacher. She will receive a medical slip from the staff
                                                                  member, be directed to the Medical Centre and parents are
    alarms in the House are                                       then informed.

    hair straighteners and                                        After being assessed at the Medical Centre she may:
    burnt food. The alarm
                                                                          Stay overnight
    system is connected directly
    to the fire station and the                                           Receive medication and be sent back to the House

    fire brigade will attend,                                             Be asked to be collected by parents and taken home.
    including false alarms.                                       You MUST NOT ring your parents to come to school to pick
                                                                  you up. The House Manager in some cases or the Medical

Driving
                                                                  Centre will do this.

                                                                             The Medical Centre is a well
                                                                             resourced
 Yr 11s and 12s are not permitted to have a car at                           facility
 school. Yr 13s may have a car but this is dependent
 on parking space availability and preference is given
 to girls who live the furtherest away from the
 College. Middlemore is allocated only a certain
 amount of car park spaces onsite.

 Permission to have a car at school will be granted by
 the Housemaster after students have applied for a
 Driving permit. DO NOT BRING a car to school until
 such permission has been granted.

 If cars are brought to school the College rules must
 be adhered to all times.

 No one is to carry unauthorised passengers.
 Authorisation requires a note from both the parents
 of the driver and passengers
King’s                                                                               STUDENT WELLBEING
                                                                                     IS VITAL FOR STUDENT

College                                                                              ACHIEVEMENT

Harassment                                                                                         Harassment
                                                                     of any kind is unwanted and unwelcome.

Policy                                                               Stopping Harassment is Important

                                                                     Harassment affects a person’s well being, self confidence, work
                                                                     and relationships with others. It is totally against the College’s
Our College community will not tolerate the oppression of the
                                                                     ethos, and may also be against the law.
one member by another. Everyone has the right to feel safe from
any form of harassment (physical, verbal, emotional and
sexual). The rights of the students to learn, and for the teachers
to teach is respected by all.
                                                                     We believe all members of the School community have an equal
                                                                     right:
All members take responsibility for their own behaviour; every
member of the School community should contribute to the well-
being of all other members. This policy applies to all members of    To be treated fairly by fellow students and staff.
the College community, including staff, students, parents and
visitors.                                                            To feel safe and secure

                                                                     To learn, and grow towards their full potential
What is Harassment?

If a particular behaviour embarrasses, upsets or hurts another       To feel valued, accepted, and cared for as unique individuals
person, then it can be classified as harassment. Harassment can
include physical, verbal, emotional and sexual.                      To have their own property (and therefore we will respect and
                                                                     protect the property of others).
        Physical: eg pushing, hitting, spitting, damaging the
        property of others.                                          You Can Act Against Harassment

        Verbal: eg repeated ‘put-downs’ name calling,                If you are guilty of harassment, stop now! If you witness
        ridiculing, swearing, racist comments                        harassment you can do something about it and thereby protect
                                                                     others. Change your friendship group if they become involved in
        Emotional: eg threatening, spreading rumours,                harassment. Report harassment, so that both the bullies and
        ostracism, make rude or threatening signs                    victims can receive help.

        Sexual: eg sexual behaviour which is deliberate,             If you are being harassed, you can take action.
        uninvited, unwelcome and which is perceived by the
        recipient to be embarrassing, offensive, demeaning or
        compromising
HARASSMENT
                                                                                         IS NOT
                                                                                       TOLERATED

                                                                  Share the Problem:

King’s College                                                    Discuss the situation with a friend, parent, brother, sister or
                                                                  anyone with whom you feel comfortable. Refer the situation

Harassment
                                                                  to any one of the contact people listed below:

                                                                          Chaplains

Policy cont.                                                              Housemasters and House Managers

                                                                          Prefects

                                                                          Tutors
            If you are being harassed,
            you can take action                                           Sacristans

                                                                          Teachers
Options
                                                                          Counsellor
The aim of the following procedure is to stop harassment by
helping you to resolve the situation with the harasser. It is
best if the harassment can be stopped by working it out,          What Next?
through discussion, repentance, forgiveness and acceptance
                                                                  You may simply wish to discuss the situation with one of the
to restore positive relations.
                                                                  contact people listed above. If you wish, they will help you
                                                                  consider appropriate action.
Act Alone
                                                                  You may approach the person who is harassing you with one
You may choose to do nothing. However, harassment could
                                                                  of these people.
continue.
                                                                  Or
Approach the person who is harassing you and request that
the offending behaviour stops.
                                                                  They will approach the harasser on your behalf.
Outcomes of Harassment
                                                                  It may be useful to keep a written record of the incidents that
                                                                  occur and give a copy to the contact person. This will help
The College views harassment as a serious matter and
                                                                  you both clarify the issue and explain to the harasser that
offenders will ultimately be dealt with under the College
                                                                  his/her behaviour is unacceptable.
discipline policy. However, the primary aim of any
intervention will be to restore positive relationships, to heal
hurt and to establish a renewed understanding of our life         Remember:
together in a Christian community. The College will treat very
seriously any case of retaliation against a person for            Confidentiality must be respected at all times unless you say
reporting harassment.                                             otherwise. You may stop or start at any point in the
                                                                  grievance procedure. In all cases the person dealing with the
                                                                  complaint will not take any action without your permission.
                                                                  Students may involve parents at any stage.
Weekend Leave and Exeat

 Leave
                                                                                                  Weekends

                                                                 No student may                   Middlemore remains open during term
                                                                                                  time at weekends apart from Exeat
                                                                 leave the                        Weekends. Exeat Weekend is a long
                                                                 College grounds                  weekend, similar to a mid-term break.
                                                                                                  They usually coincide with a public
 All boarding houses use an electronic                           without the                      holiday. The boarding house closes on a
 leave system called Boardingware.                                                                Friday evening or Saturday morning
 Users create an account, submit leave                           express                          (dependent on sports) and does not
 a n d t h e h o u s e m a s t e r a p p r o ve s ,
 declines or requests more information.
                                                                 permission of                    reopen until Monday afternoon. Exeat
                                                                                                  Weekends are scheduled into the
 An email is generated at each stage to                          the                              calendar every term so it is especially
                                                                                                  important students from outside of
 alert students and parents of the leave
 status.
                                                                 Housemaster or                   Auckland factor in these weekends and
                                                                 Tutor-on-duty                    plan accordingly. The majority of girls
                                                                                                  leave straight after school on Friday for
 Boardingware is used when a student is
 going to be absent from the House - so                          at any time.                     weekend leave but some remain in for
 between the hours of 3.30pm and                                                                  Saturday morning sport and then leave
 8.45am the following day. Generally we                                                           after that. There is a choice of return
 do not encourage that personal leave be                                                          times, girls can come back on Sunday
 taken during the school week as this                                                             night before 8.30pm or Monday
 can be disruptive to settling into a good            Hosting and Leave                           morning before House Meeting at
 pattern of boarding school life. However                                                         8.25am. We do ask that girls do not
 we recognise that from time to time                  There will be times when a girl is hosted
                                                                                                  come and go from the boarding house
 events come up which require leave                   by a friend or other acquaintance. We
                                                      especially encourage overseas or out of     over the weekend. Often the girls
 from the boarding house after school.                                                            staying in over the weekend are out on
 These events could include special                   Auckland boarders to spend time at
                                                      friends houses during the weekends.         an activity so there is nobody in the
 family dinners and medical                                                                       House for supervision and the doors are
 appointments. Where possible the                     This is a nice way to have a break and
                                                      spend some downtime. The                    locked for security reasons.
 Housemaster requires at least 24hrs
 notice to approve leave. If the leave is             Housemaster requires an email/phone
 urgent, then a phone call, text or email             call from both the parents of the girl
 from parents to the Housemaster is                   being hosted AND an email/phone call
 best. The boarding house closes down                 from the hosting party. As a host
                                                      parent we expect that you will assume
                                                                                                             Leave will be
 for the night at 10pm, therefore any girl
 who is on dinner leave must be in the                the role of in loco parentis and the                   granted at the
                                                      boarder's health and welfare will be
 House by this time or she makes
 arrangements to be back in the House                 entrusted to your care. Whilst on leave,               discretion of
 by 7.20am the following day.                         boarders will observe all of the school's
                                                      rules and regulations.
                                                                                                             the
                                                                                                             Housemaster.
                                                      Poor behavior and choices at the
                                                      weekend will of ten come to the
                                                      Housemaster’s attention and reflect
                                                      badly on King’s College.

ALL WEEKEND LEAVE REQUESTS MUST BE SUBMITTED BY
9PM WEDNESDAY THROUGH BOARDINGWARE.
KING’S COLLEGE REQUIRES A WRITTEN RECORD OF ALL
LEAVE REQUESTS.
IF LEAVE IS REQUIRED DURING CLASS TIME THEN AN
EMAIL OR PHONE CALL SHOULD BE MADE TO THE
ATTENDANCE OFFICER.
IT IS IMPORTANT WE
KNOW WHERE STUDENTS
ARE AT ALL TIMES,
ESPECIALLY IN CASE OF
EMERGENCIES. WE
OPERATE A SIGN IN
AND OUT SYSTEM IN
MIDDLEMORE. GIRLS
SIGN IN AND OUT
USING IPADS
LOCATED AT TWO
ENTRANCE WAYS.

            Leave from Class
 If a student is going to be absent from classes then an email
 or phone call to the Attendance Officer, Rhonda Daniels, is
 required.                                                       Sometimes there will be an overlap with leave required from
                                                                 class and the boarding house for example an appointment
                                                                 that starts at 2pm and the student does not return until 7pm.
            Email or phone the                                   In this case both an email to the attendance officer and a
            attendance officer, Rhonda                           leave application through Boardingware is required to cover
                                                                 both absences.
            Daniels, to notify of leave
            during class time.
                                                                 Extended leave from classes and the boarding house (3 plus
 An example of this would be a medical appointment that
                                                                 days), requires permission from the Deputy Headmaster., Mr
 takes place during period 2 and the student returns before
                                                                 John Payne.
 school finishes. Where possible, King’s ask s that
 appointments be made outside of class time.

                                     absences@kingscollege.school.nz
PREP (HOMEWORK), IS AN
IMPORTANT PART OF
BOARDING LIFE. WE HAVE
2 HOURS OF PREP
MONDAY TO THURSDAY
AND SOMETIMES AN
HOUR ON FRIDAYS. YOU
WILL FIND THIS TIME
VERY IMPORTANT AS
YOU WILL RECEIVE A
CONSIDERABLE
AMOUNT OF PREP
FOR EACH CLASS.

Prep
    Prep (or homework) is done each weeknight in the House with bedroom doors open.

    Prep commences at 7.00 pm with the 1st session lasting until 7.55 pm.

    At 7.55 pm there will be a 5 minute Prep break.

    The Prep break is designed to allow students to have a ‘comfort stop’, swap notes and obtain material from other
    students without disturbing their study.

    The 2nd session of Prep begins at 8.00 pm and continues until 9pm. Year 13 may close their doors during the second
    session but if another student is with them, the door must remain fully open.

    It is a quiet time during the Prep session (conversation with others is not permitted) and girls may not move from
    their rooms without the permission of the Prefect on duty or Duty Staff.

    Cellphones may not be used during Prep for any reason. Failure to comply will result in the confiscation of your phone/
    s for a period of time with the permission of your parents.

    Girls with computers may use these during Prep time but only for prep-related subjects. Computers will be confiscated
    if they are being misused.

    Late Prep will be available, at the discretion of the Duty Staff, on request.
Lord’s Prayer
Our Father
Which art in heaven
Hallowed be thy name.
Thy Kingdom come.
Thy will be done on
earth as it is in heaven.
Give us today our daily
bread
And forgive us our
trespasses as we forgive
those who trespass
against us.
Lead us not into
temptation,
But deliver us from evil.
For thine is the
kingdom, the power
And the glory
For ever and ever
Amen.

                                                                                      Chapel
 The Chapel is a vital and rewarding aspect of King’s College. All students attend morning Chapel twice a week.

 Weekly Chapel Services are compulsory for all students on Tuesday lunchtimes (1.30pm - 2pm) and for boarders only on
 Thursday evenings (5.30pm - 6pm).

 Weekend services are listed in the Term Calendar and should be noted carefully.

 Twice a term, the girls will be required to attend a Middlemore House Chapel Service. It is compulsory for all girls to attend;
 dates will be advertised in the Term Calendar. Parents and families are most welcome and encouraged to join their daughters
 on these occasions. These Services will usually be held at 7.00 pm, or 10.00 am.

 At Chapel, both the Lord’s Prayer and the Grace are spoken. If you do not know them, please take some time to learn the words.

 The Grace

 The Grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit, be with you all, evermore.

 Amen.
NO JEWELRY IS ALLOWED AND
THIS INCLUDES CLEAR STUDS
BEING USED TO KEEP PIERCINGS
                                                                         Uniform
OPEN                                                               Summer

                                                                          Camel Skirt

                                                                        White Blouse
NO NAIL POLISH INCLUDING
FRENCH NAILS                                                         Black Belt

                                                                  Black Dress Sandals as suggested by College

NO MAKE-UP                                           Winter

                                                           Grey Skirt

NO COLORED BRAS                                          White Blouse OR

                                                       White Shirt with Tie

NO EXTREME HAIR                                      Black opaque tights (no knee highs)

STYLES OR COLOURS                                 Black Belt

                                                Maroon Jersey

                                              Black leather shoes (lace up or loafers)

                                            Blazer – to and from school, formal wear, dinners, Chapel

Blazers must be worn every Wednesday Terms 2 and 3

         Hair must be worn shorter than collar length OR tied back
      with a black tie and/or black pins and/or black
      Headband.
Sports/Fitness Centre

      Maroon Polo Shirt

      Boy House Shirt or Singlet

      Black Shorts

      College Tracksuit

      Plain black one-piece Swimming Togs

      Netball/Hockey/Tennis Uniform
Important
                                 Contact Numbers
                             Housemaster: Mrs Nichola Hayes

                            Mob: 0211558922

                           Office: 09 2760664

                         Email: n.hayes@kingscollege.school.nz

                        House Manager: Clare Stewart c.stewart@kingscollege.school.nz 021 548 123

                                 Head of King’s College – Mr Simon Lamb - s.lamb@kingscollege.school.nz

                               Deputy Head – Mr John Payne – Pastoral: j.payne@kingscollege.school.nz

                              Deputy Head – Mr Phil Coombe – Curriculum: p.coombe@kingscollege.school.nz

                             Deputy Head - Mr Geoff Smith - Achievement: g.smith@kingscollege.school.nz

                           Deputy Head - Mrs Melissa Irving - Pedagogy: m.irving@kingscollege.school.nz

                         Director of Admissions - Mr Graeme Syms g.syms@kingscollege.school.nz

Music Administrator - Mrs Karen Thompson - k.thompson@kingscollege.school.nz (note there are 2 Karen Thompsons in
the College)

Director of Commercial Services – Mr Paul Chapman – responsible for the financial management of the school and any
queries regarding fees should be directed to him. P.chapman@kingscollege.school.nz ph 2760636

L e a r n i n g S u p p o r t – M r D av i d Wa r d – r e s p o n s i b l e fo r a ny s t u d e n t w i t h s p e c i a l l e a r n i n g n e e d s .
D.ward@kingscollege.school.nz ph 2760891

Medical Centre – Mrs Sarah Hardy – Students who are unwell are sent to the Medical Centre to be looked after. Students
must never leave directly for home without being cleared by the Medical Centre first. s.hardy@kingscollege.school.nz ph
2760624

Head of Counseling – Mrs Karen Thompson – The counsellors are always available for any confidential concerns you may
have. k.thompson2@kingscollege.school.nz ph 2760607

Chaplain – Rev Warren Watson – The Chaplain and Assistant Chaplain are responsible for the spiritual welfare of our
students and also offer guidance and counselling. w.watson@kingscollege.schoo.nz ph 2760614

Attendance Officer - Mrs Rhonda Daniels - absences@kingscollege.school.nz or phone 276 0612

                Mailing Address: please write your daughter’s name followed by c/o Middlemore House

                          For parcels or courier packages: 41 Golf Ave, Otahuhu, Auckland 1062.

                          For letters or mail via NZ Post: PO Box 22012, Otahuhu, Auckland 1640.
Middlemore House,
King’s College
Golf Avenue,
Auckland 1062
www.kingscollege.school.nz
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