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September 2021 - The United Church of Christ, Southbury
September 2021

   The Reverend Susan Murtha, Interim Senior Pastor
    Corinne Brewer, Director of Music and Organist
      Carla Preiman, Bridge Leader of Pastoral Care                 The United Church of Christ, Southbury
            Open, Bridge Youth Group Leader                                    283 Main Street North
            Bonnie Havery, Bell Choir Director                                 Southbury, CT 06488
     Emmi Ostar, Bridge Christian Ed Administrator                               203-264-8807
            Haley Rowland, Technical Director                        E-Mail: churchoffice@uccsouthbury.org
           Carla Preiman, Office Administrator
                                                                        Website: www.uccsouthbury.org
               Open, Nursery Coordinator
                                                         Call-In Telephone Ministry: 203-405-2448, Passcode 315391#
  Amy Hannon, Teaching Director, The Preschool Center
                                                                              Sunday Worship Services
    Deborah Bennard, Teacher, The Preschool Center
                                                                                   9:30 a.m. - Worship
    Katie Keane, Teacher Aide, The Preschool Center
                                                                         Fellowship after 9:30 a.m. Worship
             Bruce Kennedy, Church Sexton

Dear members and friends of UCC Southbury,

I pray you have had some summer sabbath – a break from normal routines, a chance to lose track of time, visits
with family and friends, and more. After such an intense year, my time away from the normal work routines
of many meetings and reports, and from day-to-day needs and preparation for Sunday worship, was a blessing.
It was also very productive. During my study leave weeks, I had time to immerse myself more deeply in
scripture study and prayer, to do some worship planning for the fall, to work on some church initiatives that
required focused blocks of time, and more. On my vacation weeks, I had visits with friends who I haven’t
seen in ages, a “sisters’ weekend” on the Cape, time for some home projects, and best of all a wonderful trip
to southern California to visit my son and his family.

As I noted above, I did a few home projects this August (well, maybe more than a few as many were overdue!).
One project was giving away a lot of “stuff.” In my basement, I had boxes on shelves that I never even opened
when I moved to my little bungalow seven years ago. Obviously I did not need what was in them, save the
one labelled “Simon’s childhood – special stuff.” Also, every dresser and closet in my bedroom and my spare
bedroom was filled … with my clothes, shoes, accessories. And these were true even after downsizing two or
three times over the years.

It’s a curious thing but the small farmhouse where my husband and I lived for 26 years and raised our son had
minimal amounts of space to store stuff – only three small closets, no garage, a wet basement that couldn’t be
used for storage, a crawl space in the attic (with no dropdown ladder). And we were fine there; it never occurred

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to us that we needed more space. And that was true because we didn’t have a lot of stuff. But that
was a long time ago. Now the average American house is twice as big as it was fifty years ago,
while in the same period family units became smaller. How much stuff is enough? And how much
space is enough to store it all? I love Rev. Martin Cophenaver’s reflection on this topic. He writes,
“I’ve never been to a dog track, but I’m pretty sure about one thing. I think I know the name of
that wooden rabbit that keeps the panting pack running around the track. The rabbit’s name is
Enough. And whether it is a dog race or a rat race, no one ever seems to catch it. Dear God, you
take care of our every need. Quiet our hearts and rebuke us when we fear we do not have enough.
Amen.” I hope you too got closer to God and further away from your stuff this summer.

I look forward to being together, catching up on your news, and launching our new church year!

Blessings,

Pastor Susan

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Kids’ Chapel – Sundays at 9:45 am
                   Kids’ Chapel will continue to be held both in person after the Children’s
                  Message if you are in church with us and on Zoom from home, Kids’ Chapel will
                  start at approximately 9:45. We hope you all will continue to join us either way.
                  For those at home, we will provide some packets of activity sheets and/or crafts
                  that may be used in the lesson. If you would like to have these, you may pick
                  them up in the bin outside the door to the church Social Hall. If you would like
them dropped off at your house, please let Patti Kahl know at 203-982-9450 or
patti.h.kahl@gmail.com, and we will be glad to do that.
We will continue to learn more stories from the Bible about God’s love for all of us. Check your
weekly S.H.I.N.E. for each week’s topic and Zoom invitation from Emmi.

                        Neighbors in Need Project for August
                  We will continue to collect school supplies for those in need in our area in
                   September.
                  As you begin your back-to-school shopping, please think about others who may
                   need backpacks, lunch bags, rulers, folders, pencils, crayons, and other
                   supplies.
                  Please bring your donations to the bin marked for School Supplies at the door to
                   the church Social Hall.

 Come and join us as we kick off a new year for Kids’ Chapel!
      Gathering Day is Sunday, September 12th.
      Join us at our outside church service at 9:30 am.
      After the service we will have information and registration for our faith
       formation program while the children enjoy fun activities and ice cream
       sundaes on the Church Green.

                               Thank you to all who have volunteered as helpers with our Kids’
                               Chapel program. A big THANK YOU to CE Board members Cathy
                               Ostar for her hard work with Emmi on putting together Chapel
                               Boxes for our Kids’ Chapel program and to Lisamay Cleary-Cast for
                               organizing our Firepit and S’mores event.

                               If you would like to enjoy some special time on Sunday morning with
                               our children as Emmi leads our Kids’ Chapel, please sign up on
                               Signup Genius or contact Patti Kahl at 203-982-9450.
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HOLIDAY FAIR 2021

                     SAVE THE DATE:
                 SATURDAY NOVEMBER 13

We are excited to announce that the 55th     Annual UCC HOLIDAY FAIR
2021 will be held on SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 13, 2021, from 9:30 a.m. until 3 p.m.
Crafts will be sold at a Christmas Market on the Green, while the social hall will be
open as the Snowflake Café, with a live auction taking place at 2 p.m. We have
exciting new ideas for this year and are looking for new committee volunteers to
help us make the fair a continued success! Please contact Amy Gulick, Heidi
Kossakowski or Kate Noble for more details.

REMINDER from 2019 Holiday Fair:
As we look forward to the upcoming 2021 UCC Holiday Fair, we would like to remind
anyone who had donated a gift/service to the Holiday Fair Live Auction in 2019 to
please honor your generous donations at this time to those winning bidders who
have paid for your contributions, but have not had the chance to redeem them due
to Covid-19. Thank you again for your generous donations!

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Happy Fall! As we continue to negotiate these challenging changing times let's rejoice in the path
we are all on, find rejuvenation in the opportunities to find new paths of worship through music!

This fall we bring a new program - "My Song" In this program a K-12th grade student can choose
any hymn or song they would like to have the congregation sing or listen to. Our first volunteer
was Mia Thoennessen and her song was Go Tell It On The Mountain. She did a wonderful job. We
are looking for volunteers for October and November, so if you are between Grades K-12 and
would like to pick a hymn for us all to sing please contact Mrs. Brewer
(corinnebrewer3@gmail.com). Mrs. Thoennessen, Miss Trudy or the church office. We can't wait
to sing your song!

The Adult Choir and the Bell Choir will be meeting to discuss what opportunities we have for
singing and playing in the time of Covid with the idea of what we can do safely. I remain hopeful
that we will be able to have our ensembles rehearse and sing/ring in worship very soon. I hope to
have good news in the October newsletter.

Thank you to our many soloists, vocal and instrumental who have contributed so much over the
last 18 months. We have been blessed with your many offerings and hope you will continue to
offer your talents in the upcoming services. If you haven't offered yet and would like to sing a
song or play an instrument I have great news! We have some openings for the next few months.
So......please reach out to me Corinnebrewer3@gmail.com. If you have been waiting for your
chance, it's here! Questions, I'm always glad to answer and offer help with your journey.

The music committee is currently exploring the possibility of hosting a concert. Would you like to
get involved? They would love to hear from you, please reach out to Pam pjgerl54@gmail.com or
myself Corinnebrewer3@gmail.com

Thank you for your support of our music programs either in song, on an instrument, serving on a
committee, in a choir or offering ideas. Everything is important but the most important offering
to a great program is you.

Corinne

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UCC Southbury Update: News from Council

Pastor Susan and the Staff continue to send regular emails on Tuesday and Friday, as well as the
monthly newsletter. Are you feeling connected to all that is going on in our congregation? If not, then
find a member of the Church Council and let us know!

Here are some of the activities to remember from the summer, and that we can look forward as we enter
a new church year – still somewhat restricted by a need to be careful in the face of the Delta variant of
Covid-19, but ever faithful about our future as a church family.

 Worship and Fellowship -- we have become accustomed to worshiping online, as well as in person,
 since the Covid pandemic arrived. Some are disappointed to have to wear masks again when we
 worship inside our sanctuary, but it seems a small sacrifice to maintain health and safety for a little
 while longer. We appreciate your patience as we wait out the Covid variants.
     This fall, we welcome the Mattatuck Unitarian Universalist Church to share our
       building. We look forward to finding many ways in which we can all benefit from this
       co-habitation!
     SMILE-our families ushered out the summer with a campfire on August 20
     Women’s Fellowship has been diligently working to create a directory of our members that
       we can access on-line. This is incredibly helpful for staying in touch with our friends, since
       the contact information can be found right on our phones! See the article in this newsletter
       about how to make sure your information is correct and password protected.
     Two upcoming events to welcome our community, and give us the chance to work and play
       together in preparation. Both involve an outdoor component, so we can be safe, visible, and
       welcoming to all! Many thanks to the creative minds steering these changes.
o     Rummage Sale is coming Sept. 20 – Oct. 2! Look in this newsletter for more information.
       New this year is your ability to bring your own tag sale to our church green during the day
       Saturday!
o     Holiday Fair is coming Nov. 13 (foul weather date Nov. 20) – Like so much that we do for
       our community, this event comes with plenty of opportunities for volunteers! We will again
       have the chance to bid on auction items, and purchase crafts and other wonderful gift items,
       online. Please help us spread the word.
     The search committees have continued meeting this summer. The members of the
       committees continue to honor the covenant they made with the congregation, which
       includes: “to maintain strict confidentiality”. The congregation’s continued prayers for
       the search committees are greatly appreciated.
     Many crafty members and friends have stepped up to make comfort caps in a variety of styles,
       --knit, crochet, sewn, etc.… Bonnie Loiseau has collected 315 caps since this project started
       last spring, and they are being gratefully accepted by multiple cancer care centers in our area!

Stay well and stay safe!
John Bacigalupi and the entire Church Council

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New Space Sharing Agreement with
       Mattatuck Unittarian Universalist Society
                       (MUUS)
We are so pleased to announce that UCC Southbury has finalized a space-sharing agreement with
Mattatuck Unitarian Universalist Society (MUUS), beginning September 1, 2021. This initiative was
presented to the congregation in late July and approved by Church Council at their August meeting.
First and foremost, this initiative supports UCC Southbury’s Ministry Plan calling us to turn our focus
outward so that both we and future generations can thrive – exploring faith, nurturing community,
and serving our world. Specifically, it offers significant potential ministry and mission collaboration
benefits. It also provides significant rental income to UCC Southbury which will financially support
our ministries.

The Space Sharing Agreement allows MUUS to hold worship services, religious education classes,
meetings, and other events at UCC Southbury while they work towards building their own facility
in Woodbury.
Specifically, MUUS will:
      Hold worship services in our sanctuary at 11:00 on Sundays with a coffee hour following.
       (UCC Southbury will continue to hold its worship services at 9:30 (in-person and via
       Zoom), with coffee hour following);
      Hold youth religious education classes in two of the Methodist building classrooms during
       their worship service;
      Schedule in-person meetings and choir rehearsals during the week. Our Church
       Administrator, Carla Preiman, will coordinate meeting times and locations for both
       congregations;
      Use the kitchen/ social hall periodically, including once a month for their mission project of
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   Schedule any infrequent, special events (weddings, memorial services, etc.) as needed and
       as the church facilities are available;
      Participate in our COVID task force meetings and follow the same requirements/ guidelines
       as UCC Southbury.

As our relationship evolves we hope to join forces on a number of shared ministries and outreach
programs that are held important by both congregations. These may include youth programs/ PF,
community outreach programs (GWIM, DCFS, food and fuel banks, social justice programs), and
other programs that either congregation might initiate.
UCC Southbury and MUUS are forming a coordination team to ensure our relationship moves
forward in a smooth, positive, and synergistic manner. The UCC Southbury team members are Bob
Langley, Donna Ryan, and Pastor Susan.
By way of introduction, MUUS “---gather(s) as a welcoming community; to honor the sacred in all
of life, to foster spiritual growth, nurture curiosity and learning and build a just, compassionate and
sustainable world.” (MUUS website)
MUUS has a congregation of approximately 70 members, with 50 members attending their weekly
worship services.
Many MUUS members are already friends and acquaintances within our community. Please greet
and welcome them to our congregation and to our facility in the coming weeks.

With joy,

Bob Langley, and Jack Kelly, on behalf of Church Council

                                                                 FIREPIT NIGHT!

                                                               What a great time we
                                                                  had roasting
                                                                marshmallows and
                                                                 playing games!!

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Things are warming up and we are back to
                                                       collecting liquid based food donations in the
                                                       GWIM Soup Kitchen box behind the social
                                                       hall. Please consider donating items such as
                                                       crackers, cookies, granola bars, fruit roll
ups, rice, instant mash potatoes, powdered milk, soup, maple syrup, juice packs,
dry cereals and soups, pancake mix, coffee, tea, jello, pasta, parmesan cheese
in a container, mac and cheese, dried beans, etc... Any questions please call
Jandi du Bois at 203-405-1640.

    Things are warming up and we are back to collecting liquid based food donations in the
    GWIM Soup Kitchen box behind the social hall. Please consider donating items such as
    crackers, cookies, granola bars, fruit roll ups, rice, instant mash potatoes, powdered
    milk, soup, maple syrup, juice packs, dry cereals and soups, pancake mix, coffee, tea,
    jello, pasta, parmesan cheese in a container, mac and cheese, dried beans, etc... Any
    questions please call Jandi du Bois at 203-405-1640.

                            We’re beginning our Southbury Food Bank collection once again at UCC! Now
                            that spring has arrived, and the colder winter months are over, we’re able to
                            once again collect cans of soup and stew outside in our bin, at the back of the
                            church. There is a large covered bin to the side of the social room doors,
                            marked for Southbury Food Bank. You may also leave your cans on the shelves
                            outside of the sanctuary. Our church has signed up to donate cans of soup and
                            stew each month, but any non-perishable food donations would also be
gratefully accepted. Gift cards from the Southbury grocery stores are always very much appreciated too,
and may be sent to UCC, then will be passed on to the Southbury Food Bank.

“For I was hungry, and you gave Me something to eat; I was thirsty, and you gave Me something to drink; I
was a stranger, and you invited Me in.” Matthew 25:42

Thank you very much for you generosity! You are very much appreciated!
Many Thanks,     UCC Board of Missions
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Directions for Joining Worship Service
                         Joining Worship by Phone (audio only):
                         1. The toll free phone numbers: 877-853-5247 OR 888-788-0099

                         2. Enter the Meeting ID: 802 855 502 followed by #

Join Worship by Live Streaming - If you already have a Zoom account:
       10 minutes prior to worship, click on this link: https://uccsouthbury.zoom.us/j/802855502
       OR open your Zoom program on your computer or your App,
       Press the “Join” icon/button
       Enter the following Meeting ID: 802 855 502
       Press the “Join” button

Directions for Joining the Social Hall Experience
AFTER WORSHIP: Hang up / leave Zoom              Five minutes later join the Social Hall Experience

Join the Social Hall Experience by Phone (audio only):
       1. The toll free phone numbers: 877-853-5247 OR 888-788-0099
       2. Enter the Meeting ID: 954 790 337 followed by #

Join the Social Hall Experience by Live Streaming - If you already have a Zoom
account:
5 minutes AFTER worship, click on this link: https://uccsouthbury.zoom.us/j/954790337
OR open your Zoom program on your computer or your App,
      Press the “Join” icon/button
      Enter the following Meeting ID: 954 790 337
      Press the “Join” button

           Live Streaming – Creating a UCC, Southbury Zoom Account
       1. If you do not have a UCC, Southbury Zoom account, you will be receiving a separate email
       from Zoom. Please register right away in order to avoid last minute glitches / get technical
       support if needed.
       2. In the email from Zoom, Vinny Antezzo from Church
       Council (v.antezzo@uccsouthbury.org) will be inviting you to join the Church’s Zoom account
       for free.
       3. Click on the “Activate Your Zoom Account” button and follow the directions.
       4. If you need help registering, please email Vinny at v.antezzo@uccsouthbury.org.

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Thank you!
   Thank you to Holly Patrick for her generous donation of food for the GWIM

    pantry.

 Thank you to our church membership for the food that went up to the Waterbury

    Soup Kitchen.To Lee DiCorpo for organizing a wonderful gathering at Sitting

    Duck restaurant. It was great to see so many people.

 A note from GWIM:

Dear United Church of Christ of Southbury,

Thank you so much and for all your amazing, awesome, "oh so many fabulous
groceries" for the GWIM Community. Jandi and Dr. Erik delivered and assisted in
unloading the treasures. Thank you for your giving hearts and unconditional
love. I embrace your priceless generosity. Thank God for you.

Love and Gratitude,
Barbara Ann Dublin MS
Executive Director
 Thank you to those who came in the past few months in to get the paper
    newsletter ready for mailing.

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Mask Requirements for UCC Southbury- August 12, 2021

Dear members and friends of UCC Southbury,
As many of you know, with the spike in Covid-19 infections driven by the ‘Delta’ variant the CDC
and the CT Department of Health have each issued guidance associated with the wearing of masks
while in Indoor settings. The details associated with the guidance varies between these
organizations related to vaccination status and the rate of infection in the local community. The
Covid Task Force has met to review the implications of these factors on our Covid guidelines.
Living our Christian values, we strive to allow all to participate in our services and programs. That
suggests that we should not discriminate based on vaccination status. We are similarly inspired to
care for the vulnerable amongst us. Youth, especially those under the age of 12 who are unable to
be vaccinated as well as those with religious or medical exemptions are particularly vulnerable to
the spread of the delta variant. We need to balance these two concerns.
In order to minimize the risk to our members, friends and employees, the Task Force has
recommended, and the Church Council has adopted the following changes to our Covid Guidelines:

       1) Require masks for all attendees (vaccinated or unvaccinated) while attending UCC
       Southbury indoor church activities, including but not limited to Indoor Worship Services.
       2) Prohibit indoor congregant singing. Music soloist(s) or other ‘performers’ unmasked
       singing will be allowed when shielding is in place between the performer and others.
       3) Return to mandatory use of improved air circulation procedures in the Sanctuary, Parlor
       and Social Hall. This applies to UCC activities as well as others using our facilities, MUUS,
       AA, Scouts etc.
       4) Return to monitoring CO2 measurements when a large number of people gather
       (Worship, larger meetings etc.).
       5) Be vigilant in the use of microphone shields whenever more than 1 person will be using
       a microphone. A supply will be available and the person coordinating the AV for an event
       will be asked to enforce this policy.
       6) No changes are recommended regarding Outdoor Services and other outdoor activities.

These changes will be effective starting this Sunday, August 15.

We will review these guidelines as infection rates decrease and when new guidance is issued by the
CDC and/or the CT Dept of Health.

We are all in this together and hope that the unvaccinated population decreases, and the vaccination
continues to provide significant benefits in allowing us to return to normal.

Blessings,
John Bacigalupi                                 Be Safe
Council President                          Please wear a mask
                                                indoors

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You can now give online by just clicking the link below.

             Of course we continue to accept pledges and donations from
              your bank by EFT, or by mailing your check to the church.

NEW EDITION FOR SEPTEMBER - OCTOBER
       UPPER ROOM DEVOTIONAL online version or PICK UP
Type into your browser: https://www.upperroom.org/devotionals for Upper
Room Or           Click here for the day's devotional
OR Call in for the day’s devotion at: 1-877-600-7218
And you may also pick up your copy of the Upper Room by the Nursery or in
the Narthex. Large print and small booklets available.

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01-Sep   Peter Dzubay        10-Sep   John Boyd            20-Sep   Peter Addison
 01-Sep   Bill Kimball        10-Sep   Katie Schnyder       20-Sep   Jake Platt
 01-Sep   Caitlin Schmitt     10-Sep   Don Shanks           21-Sep   Dawn Dzubay
 01-Sep   Grace Watson        11-Sep   Wendy Gaipa          21-Sep   Kirsten Makijczyk
 03-Sep   Derek Friend        11-Sep   Cole Tepedino        23-Sep   Doug Muratori
 04-Sep   Chris Salzo         11-Sep   Mitch Tepedino       24-Sep   Trev Galiette
 05-Sep   Amy Gulick          12-Sep   Lyndsay Fenn         25-Sep   Kristen Bacigalupi
 05-Sep   Joshua Meade        14-Sep   Taylor Cucchiara     25-Sep   Elyse Ludwig
 05-Sep   Lily Sarian         14-Sep   Pat Erhard           26-Sep   Patsy Morris
 06-Sep   Cheryl Ernst        15-Sep   Scott Hamm           27-Sep   Jack Kelly
 06-Sep   Vern Vanis          16-Sep   Jared Nevins         28-Sep   Chuck Allen
 06-Sep   John Wallace        18-Sep   Dick Hill            29-Sep   Alicia Bennett
 08-Sep   Natalie Kimball     18-Sep   Andrea Thoennessen   29-Sep   Collin Thompson
 08-Sep   Kristen Schick      19-Sep   Sydney Anderson
 08-Sep   Brian Wiser         19-Sep   Hunter Simmons
Please note if you do not want your name on the birthday list please contact the
church office at 203-264-8807 or email at churchoffice@uccsouthbury.org

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