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R ANGOLI
                                 THE                         MAY 2018

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WOMEN’S
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  Women‘s Foundation
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            THE RANGOLI
            A publication of the
    Overseas Women’s Club of Bangalore
             Editor: CHERYL GREENE

           Commissioning Editor: VACANT

             Layout: PINK LEMONADE

   Distribution Team: TOSHI TSUBOUCHI & EVA
                  PETERSITZKE

OVERSEAS WOMEN’S CLUB
    OF BANGALORE

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    (A division of the Overseas Women’s
           Foundation, Bangalore)
           President: SHERRY WALTER

          Secretary: EMILY BENNIGHOF

            Treasurer: GARY GABBINI                    04   Editor’s Note
   Vice-President, Charities: MONICA DEXTER            06   President’s Note
      Vice-President, Fundraising: VACANT
                                                       08   What's on this Month
         Vice-President, Events I: VINNY
            PARAMESHIRE-HERNIER                        10   FOCUS ON CHARITY
                                                            Why We Do What We Do: The 2018
   Vice-President, Events II: LISA RENSTROEM
                                                            Charity Grant Allocation Process
 Vice-President, Advertising and Communication:
                 NALINI NARANG                         12   FEATURE

                                                                                                         16
                                                            Shilpa Antony Raj: A Strong,
Vice-President, Membership: MEREDITH MEHRA
                                                            Formidable Woman
      Vice-President, Publications: VACANT
                                                       16   EVENTS
                                                            The OWC Easter Egg Hunt and
                                                            Family Fun Day!
  OVERSEAS WOMEN’S
FOUNDATION, BANGALORE
                                                       19   FESTIVALS
                                                            What is CINCO DE MAYO, Anyway?
    Managing Trustee: SUSHEELA M THOMAS
                                                       21   PASSION AND PURPOSE
  Trustees: FRANCES RAO and SUSANNE PERIS                   Links for Migrant Children

                                                       24   CULTURE
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EDITOR’S NOTE

                             Editor’s Note
                             Hello friends,
                             So, I’ve been reading this book called, 'The Bad Ass Librarians of Timbuktu'. No, no! It
                             is not what you think. It details the recent rise and fall of Timbuktu and northern Mali,
                             and how people fought to preserve the thousand year old Arabic texts from insurgents
                             in North Africa. Not quite Indiana Jones, but incredible for the perseverance and
                             personal sacrifice they suffered to save their heritage. It follows the story of a young
                             man whose father chose him to be the custodian of his family’s collection of ancient
                             manuscripts and how he went on to establish some of the greatest modern libraries of
                             ancient Arabic works.
                             Sometimes we learn from the most unexpected places. That might be a good way to
                             describe life in India. For our May Rangoli sacrifice, love and devotion are some of
                             the common themes in our articles, and we cover Maharaja’s to migrant children in
                             one issue. It begins with our feature article on Shilpa Raj, our speaker from March’s
Cheryl Greene                International Women’s Day Event, which is written by Sara Marassi. Sara captures the
Editor                       heart of Shilpa’s talk — and how Shilpa’s life course altered at the moment her parents
                             chose to send her away to school at the tender age of 4 to Shanti Bhavan.
                             In this month’s Charity Focus Sharon Otmar writes about the Grant Process and the
                             painstaking work and details that go into deciding how every cent the OWC raises gets
                             distributed to our 20 Charities. Sometimes I think the Charity Committee never sleeps
                             when I consider how much they accomplish each year.
                             Wanting to highlight some of our OWC member’s other projects, I write about three
                             bad-ass moms who have reached out to Bangalore’s poorest and most vulnerable to
                             create Links for Migrant Children, a nonprofit that is devoted to improving the lives of
                             babies and young kids in migrant camps. Their sacrifice and devotion to their cause is
                             truly commendable.
                             On the lighter side in May’s Rangoli — we have the smiles and delight of kids as they
                             work hard at the game of fun during OWC’s Easter Egg Hunt. Smita Agrawal writes
                             about a festive cultural event in the city’s center, the Maharaja of Mysore’s birthday
                             celebration. Where else can you mingle with royalty? Elizabeth Simon explains the
                             mystery behind the popularity of Cinco de Mayo, the Mexican Fiesta that the U.S. can’t
                             seem to get enough of. And Julie Sall details why she is always eager to go back to
                             Jaipur, her favorite city in India.
                             And as a goodbye letter to Bangalore, we have a poignant piece written by Terry Ann
                             Wilson called 'The Monday Morning Commitment', about how her and a friend’s
                             correspondence led them to many unexpected revelations about being moms, about
                             their families, and their lives as expats.
                             I dedicate this issue to all our Moms, Sisters, Aunties, Grandmothers, and Girlfriends.
                             Thanks for all you do and for the wisdom you have shared.
OWC website:
www.owcbangalore.org
                             To tomorrow,

OWC Facebook page:           Cheryl
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overseaswomensclub           editor@owcbangalore.org

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PRESIDENT’S NOTE

                                     President’s Note
                                     Hi everyone,
                                     I was thinking about all that the OWC has going on right now and I started to think what
                                     photos I could contribute to the OWC Photo Competition. And I realized that I currently
                                     have nothing, which is very sad. I am not the type of person that normally takes photos.
                                     I’m not sure why, because when I do look at photos that I have taken it makes me happy
                                     and I relive each event.

                                     So I decided to do a little research about happiness and taking of photographs. Did
                                     you know that there are studies now that show people who take photos on a regular
                                     basis are generally happier than those who don’t? I always thought it was silly watching
                                     people take countless photos of their food, selfies, a sign of the place they were at, etc.
Sherry Walter
                                     I thought they were too busy recording their moment rather than being in the moment.
President
                                     However, I now see how important it is to do both. They say that photographs help the
Overseas Women’s Club of Bangalore   brain to focus on short and long term memories and by doing so exercises the brain.
                                     There are even some studies that say it helps in keeping the memory portions of our
                                     brains healthy while aging.

                                     So, I now want to be one of these people that take pictures of what I used to consider
                                     mundane things, so that I can exercise my memory and be happier. And by doing so, I
                                     might soon be one of those people who are lucky enough to be selected as a winner of
                                     our Photo Competition and say, “I took that picture”.

                                     Let’s all try to be happier and share our experiences through pictures. The time as an
                                     expat is often so short; not only for the person leaving, but also those we leave behind
                                     here. So let’s share more. I hope many of you feel the same way and look forward to
                                     seeing your photos in the Rangoli, on Facebook, Instagram, email, or whatever way you
                                     want to share.
OWC website:
www.owcbangalore.org                 Love. Learn. Care. Share.

                                     Always,
OWC Facebook page:
www.facebook.com/                    Sherry
overseaswomensclub                   president@owcbangalore.org

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The purpose of the Overseas Women’s Club as outlined
                                    in the Constitution:
                                    1. To promote social welfare by aiding needy public charitable projects without
                                       restriction to caste or creed, with both funds and personal involvement.
                                    2. To welcome foreign newcomers in Bangalore and help them establish
                                       themselves in the community.
                                    3. To promote sociability among the members and their families.
                                    4. To help members and their families gain a better understanding of India
                                       through cultural and social activities and programs.

                                    The OWC of Bangalore supports the following charities:
                                    1.    Accept Society                            11.  Freedom Foundation Trust
                                    2.    ASHA Foundation                           12. Helpline Charitable Trust
                                    3.    Asha Niketan                              13. Jagruthi
                                    4.    Ashraya                                   14. Navachetana
                                    5.    Bangalore Education Trust                 15. New Ark Mission
                                    6.    Bangalore Hospice Trust/                  16. proVISION ASIA
                                          Karunashraya                              17. Sai Shankar Loving Lights Trust
                                    7.    Child Care India                          18. SKID (Sheila Kothavala
                                    8.    Deena Seva Charitable Trust                   Institute for the Deaf)
                                    9.    Divine Light Trust for the Blind          19. Shristi Special Academy
                                    10.   The Dominican Sisters of the              20. Vision India
                                          Presentation

What's On                                                             Membership
This Month                                                             Notices
                                                               The Overseas Women's Club of Bangalore would like to welcome
                                                             its newest members and say goodbye to those who have left in the
May 4, 2018 Friday                                             past two months. We are excited for all of your new adventures.
Cinco de Mayo - Conrad Hotel
7:00 - 10:00 pm                                                              New
                                                                             Members
May 9, 2018 Wednesday
AGM Meeting @ Hilton Hotel Embassy Golf Links                     •   Barbara Ives           •   Jalyssa Roycroft
10:00 am - 12:00 pm Meeting
                                                                  •   Nelly Crisp            •   Kavita Kumar
12:30 pm - 2:00 pm Lunch
                                                                  •   Eunjin Bae             •   Kalaivani Vaidyalingam
May 29, 2018 Tuesday                                              •   Johan Andersson        •   Vik Kashyap
Speaker Meeting - Vijay Lourd, Salsa Dancer                       •   Dawn Hinke             •   Sridevi Chimalamarri
Shangri-La Hotel, Capresse Restaurant, 18th floor                 •   Natalia Rettich        •   XinZhu Yu
10:00 am-12:00 pm followed by lunch                               •   Karina Shetty          •   Edith Hummel

*Please check the OWC Mobile App for
                                                                If you know of any members who may have left and are not
Events updates                                                  listed here, please contact membership@owcbangalore.org
                                                                Meredith A Mehra, Vice-President - Membership
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OWC MEMBER DISCOUNTS
   A number of our local business friends offer generous discounts with a valid OWC Membership Card, always show before billing and when
  making a reservation. Some other establishments may also provide discount but don't advertise so show your card and ask! Conditions apply

                    Hotels, Restaurants and Bars                                                         Services & Shopping
 Caperberry & FAVA, UB City - 10% discount on food and drinks. A la carte         Archanna - The Cheese Shop and BOTANICALS - 15% discount on any cheese
 menu only and cannot be combined with any other discounts or specials.           order or his and hers cosmetics. To order call 7406198106 / 7621939375 for
                                                                                  home deliveries
 Chinita Mexican Restraunts, Koramangala and Indiranagar - 10% discount on
 Food and Beverages. Not with other discounts.                                    Clarins Skin Spa - Complimentary treatment valued at Rs.1,800 on booking
                                                                                  of any Clarins Tri Active Face or Body Treatment on first visit.
 Chocolate De Lux, UB City Collection Mall - Discount of 20%
                                                                                  EKA - Near Ulsoor Lake - 10% discount
 Ciclo Cafe, Indiranagar - 20% on Food, 10% on Liquor. No other discount
 allowed.                                                                         Five Oceans Club – Discounted Membership for OWC Members; Rs. 600
                                                                                  per family (paid annually). Must be a Five Oceans member to receive
 Forage Restaurant – 10% discount on food and soft beverages                      membership pricing on Five Oceans/OWC Events.
 Holiday Inn & Suites Bangalore - 20% discount on Food & Beverages and Spa        Hamilton Realtors – 10% discount
 services. Not available on discounted offers.
                                                                                  Heler Skin, Hair & Lifestyle - Complimentary Medical Hydration Facial valued
 ITC Gardenia - 20% discount on food and beverages. Not to be combined with       Rs.3,999 on undertaking any Aesthetic Treatments.
 any specials or major Holidays.
                                                                                  INTEREM International Removal Division of Freight Systems India Pvt Ltd. -
 ITC Windsor – 15% discount on food and beverages. Not to be combined with        10% discount
 any promotions or major Holidays at the hotel.
                                                                                  Jiva Spa, Vivanta by Taj, MG Road - 25% discount on all spa and salon
 Lavonne Café, Domlur - 10% discount in the Cafe, except specialist cakes.        services Monday to Thursday 11am to 3pm
 Leela Palace – 15% discount across all outlets and 20% discount on Thursdays     Jiva Spa, Vivanta By Taj, Whitefield, Yeshwantpur and International Airport -
 at Citrus excluding alcoholic beverages.                                         15% discount
 LEELA RESORTS - Leela Palace, Udaipur. - 15% discount for The Leela Getaway      Jiva Grande Spa and Salon, Taj West End Hotel - 20% discount. Cannot be
 Offers for The Leela Palace Udaipur. Reservation only through our hotel          combined with other offers or on major holidays.
 website www.theleela.com by using the promo code LGOWC
                                                                                  Jean-Claude Biguine Salon – 20% discount at JCB Salons in India
 Marriot, Whitefield – 15% discount on food and beverages but not applicable
 to WBC Retail outlet.                                                            Montage, Vittal Mallya Road – 15% discount on framing and all artwork
 Marzipan Cafe and Bakery - Ulsoor Road & Raintree offer 10% discount, The        Mimosa Artist Studio, Koramangala – 15% Discount off all paintings by
 Sanctuary (Hospital Road) 20% discount.                                          MiniArora. By appointment 9845003583
 NANDO'S – 15% discount                                                           Mirrors and Within - 10% discount
 Novotel, Bengaluru Techpark – 10% discount at The Square - brunch buffet, a la   Navrathan Jewellers & Antiqueart – 25% discount on making charges for
 carte and soft drinks. Not valid on specials and holiday deals.                  jewellery purchased in-house. Ask about free coins with purchases of gold,
                                                                                  silver and diamonds.
 Park Plaza Bengaluru Hotel Marathahalli - 15% Food. Ask about additional
 discounts at restaurants                                                         OneRoze (Bespoke florals & luxury hampers): Ub City , level 2 - 10%
                                                                                  discount on florals and 15% on bulk festive hamper orders, call 7022262000
 Portland Steakhouse & Café – 10% discount on food                                for deliveries.
 SBARRO – 10% discount for a group of 5 to 9 people, 15% for 10 or more           Polished Nail Studio. The Boutique Nail Studio. Indiranagar. - 10% Discount
 people on regular menu items                                                     on all services billed above Rs 899/-.
 Shangri-La Hotel, Bangalore – 15% discount on food and beverages.                Ritz-Carlton Spa, Bangalore – 15% discount
 Taj Bangalore - Int'l Airport- 15% discount on food and soft beverages at most   Roche Bobois and Maison by International Furniture Brands, Ulsoor Road -
 restaurants. Lunch for minimum 10 Pax @ Rs 1000+Taxes pp, 3 courses plus         30% Discount
 mocktail at Café 77 East (Weekdays Only). Not to be combined with other
 specials or on major holidays.                                                   S2 Spa by Emma – 20% discount on massages and spa treatments
 TAJ WEST END HOTEL - 15% discount on food & soft beverages, max group of         Sancha Tea Boutique, Lavelle Road - 10% discount
 10. Not valid on major holidays. Cannot be combined with other offers.
                                                                                  Smaash - Phoenix Marketcity Mall, Whitefield Main Rd. and Lido mall 1 MG
 The Druid Garden Restaurant – 15% discount on food and soft beverages.           Road – 15% bonus on games and 15% discount on food and soft beverages.
 Cannot be combined with other specials or major holidays.                        10% discount on party packages (min 10 pax)
 The Grand Mercure - 10% discount on food & soft beverage at our All day          Sohum Spa, Mövenpick – 10% discount
 dining restaurant 12th Main valid till 31st Dec, 2018 to all OWC members.
                                                                                  Thar Handicrafts Gallery - 10% discount, cannot be combined with any other
 The Oberoi Bengaluru - 15% discount on food and soft beverages. Discount not     offer
 available for Sunday brunch or lunch, speicals or major holidays.
                                                                                  The Rolling Pin - 10% discount on traditional European breads & desserts
 The Ritz-Carlton, Bangalore – 15% discount on food and beverages in all
                                                                                  The Palms Spa, Nandi Durga Road - 15% discount on massages, facials,
 restaurants for party size of 8 or less. Discount not valid on major holidays.
                                                                                  scrubs, manicure, pedicure, The Matrix Therapy etc. Valid 7 days a week
 Toscano, VR Mall and Whitefield Restaurants Only – 10% discount                  from 10am to 8pm
 Vivanta By Taj, M G Road – 10% discount on food and soft beverages, includes
 a la carte and regular buffet including sunday brunch
 Vivanta By Taj, Whitefield - 15% discount
 Vivanta By Taj, Yeshwantpur - 15% discount on Sunday brunch and 20% rack
 room rate discount. La Patisserie - 15 % Discount
The OWC is not responsible for cancellations or changes made by the vendors
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                                                                    Why We Do
                                                                    What We Do:
                                                                    The 2018 Charity Grant
                                                                    Allocation Process
                                                                                                                            By
                                                                                                                  Sharon Otmar

Sometimes it can seem as though the OWC                             great detail to be able to recommend appropriate and necessary
                                                                    funding to the OWC Trustees and the Executive Committee. The
is constantly asking us, the membership, for                        first step is to figure out roughly how much money we have to
money. Whether it’s membership renewal,                             donate. Every year it differs depending on the amount we raised
                                                                    throughout the year through the OWC’s various fundraising
a donation for the Holiday Gift or Food                             efforts. If it’s a good year financially, the charities benefit, and if
Drives, a cover fee to enter the Christmas                          it’s not, then the grants will be negatively affected. This is why
                                                                    the support of the membership is so key.
Bazaar or tickets to India Night, we are
constantly shelling out money.                                      During the grant process, we keep in frequent contact with

A
                                                                    the charities, requesting clarification if needed, advocating
                   nd we happily do so because we know we           for their slice of the pie with the committee, meeting with key
                   are part of an amazing organization which        stakeholders to better understand workflow, and to determine
                   supports 20 local charities, which in turn are   how the items requested fit in with the charity’s mission. We
                   able to do their incredible work for those       choose to fund items based on a variety of criteria that range
                   most in need in Bangalore. But specifically,     from the amount of funding we have to distribute in a given
                   where does the money go? Who receives            year, the amount of funding they received from us in prior years,
it, and what do they use it for? And does it really matter if I     how well funded or not well funded the charity is, whether
don’t attend the fundraising events? Does my contribution           the charity really needs the item, have they really thought the
really matter? Having had the pleasure of my first charity grant    request through, and do they have the infrastructure and staff
process, I’m now in a position to say, YES! And I will share with   to support it? This process is an art, not a science, thus, we have
you exactly where it goes, who it benefits, and how the grant       to be extremely detail-oriented to ensure that the membership’s
allocation process works.                                           money is put to the best use possible.

Every January our OWC supported charities are asked to submit       Some items that were asked for this year by OWC charities were
applications to the Charities Committee for funding. Once these     outdoor play equipment for the mentally challenged and autistic
applications are received, the committee spends hours (this         children at Shristi Special Academy, school tuition for physically
year we met for 20 hours!) in meetings discussing them all in       challenged, blind and/or deaf children supported by ProVision

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Asia, and an industrial washing machine for formerly homeless      Dear Ms. Sharon:
who have been literally picked up off the streets by New Ark.
                                                                   Vishwas' children and the trustees wish to acknowledge most gratefully
During the next step we send our recommendations to the            your kind and generous donations in the past to our children's welfare.
Trustees and Executive Committee, who have one week to             We, the trustees and the staff of Vishwas, are committed to ensure that
                                                                   the children get all possible opportunities to realise their full potential.
review them before the Charities Committee meets with them.
                                                                   Your partnership with us on a consistent basis has been most inspiring
During this meeting, we present our recommendations, and the
                                                                   to all of us.
OWC Trustees and EC have a chance to ask any final questions,
and can either approve our recommendations or disapprove           We appreciate the sincerity of members of OWC in seeing our children
them. Happily, this year all of the Charities Committee’s          grow up to be healthy, happy, and productive human beings. It is not
recommendations were approved! I could not wait to tell            only the money you give, but also, most importantly, the fact that
my charities, and in response to an email I sent to Bangalore      you care about our kids. May you and your dear ones know that our
                                                                   children, as they grow up, will be the testament of all our efforts, and
Hospice Trust, I received this response from the CEO, which
                                                                   your contributions are a vital part of this accomplishment.
shows how much our OWC support means to our charities:
                                                                   Vishwas achieved one major milestone this year. Madhavi, the girl who
“My heartfelt thanks to you and all the wonderful members
                                                                   has been with us since about 15 years, completed her Engineering and is
of the OWC and in particular the EC for this very generous
                                                                   now employed at Tech Mahindra, a leading software company.
donation. What a wonderful way of compassionate giving to the
local community. Each one of you is an affirmation of the innate   Other Vishwas children continue to do well. Amrutha passed out from
goodness that lies within every human heart.”                      10th std with 97% and two other girls passed out with over 75%. One
                                                                   boy also passed out of NTTF after completing his Diploma course and is
The letter below from the Trustee of Helpline, a home              now gainfully employed.
for orphaned, abused and abandoned children, further
                                                                   All the school children moved to the next grade, and currently 6 children are
demonstrates why we do what we do, and how vital our work
                                                                   in the 10th standard, and we expect the majority of them to do very well.
really is.
                                                                   Children are now being formally trained in Robotics, for which we have
                                                                   arranged for a tutor. This is not part of school curriculum, but we think
                                                                   exposure to robotics will help in the long run.

                                                                   Children are regularly sent for football coaching, and they participate in
                                                                   friendly matches.

                                                                   Children attended a residential yoga camp for 10 days. This apart from
                                                                   learning yoga, has also helped in them bonding together very well.

                                                                   To sustain the interest we have arranged for yoga classes once a week.

                                                                   Based on the academic performance, tutors are focusing on areas of
                                                                   improvement for every individual child. This we are sure will help in the
                                                                   children doing better in studies.

                                                                   Thank you once again to the committee and all the members.

                                                                   A huge thanks to you, the membership, for all that you
                                                                   do to help the charities who do such important work for
                                                                   the citizens of Bangalore. If you would like to participate
                                                                   in the grant process for 2019, please consider joining the
                                                                   Charities Committee. We would love to explain more in
                                                                   person. Stop by our Charities desk at Leela on Thursdays
                                                                   from 10-12 am, or email us at
                                                                   charities@owcbangalore.org.

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FEATURE

Shilpa
                                             This year we celebrated International
                                             Women’s day with a special guest, Shilpa
                                             Raj. Shilpa is a twenty-four-year-old, who

Antony Raj:                                  entrusted the adventures of her life to an
                                             autobiography that starts from her birth

A Strong,                                    up to the present day. She chose to share
                                             her story in order to shed light on her

Formidable                                   background and to give voice to a group of
                                             people in India who usually do not get heard.

                                             I
Woman                                  By
                              Sara Marassi
                                                     n addition to her book, Shilpa’s story is also highlighted
                                                     in the four-part Netflix documentary 'Daughters of
                                                     Destiny,' that tells about Shanti Bhavan Children’s
                                                     Projects, a pioneering school founded in 1997 in
A Talk with the writer of 'The                       Bangalore by the Indian-American businessman

Elephant Chaser’s Daughter'                          Abraham George.

                                             Our meeting began with the showing of the part of the first
                                             chapter of the series: 'The Untouchables'. The documentary
                                             explains the unjust social order that has been rooted in India
                                             for over one thousand years that condemns over twenty-
                                             five percent of Indians to remain in poverty. Despite its
                                             constitutional abolition, the customs surrounding untouchables
                                             in society is still found in many places in India. The resulting
                                             deprivation and discrimination is both social and economic,
                                             which precludes Dalit women to a hard life.

                                             Shilpa explained to us that she inherited the Dalit, or
                                             untouchable status. However, at the age of four, she had the
                                             privilege and amazing luck of being selected to study at Shanti
                                             Bhavan. This coed school was created to break the cycle of
                                             poverty and to address inequalities in rural villages by providing
                                             a free quality education to twelve boys and twelve girls each
                                             year. The premise being that one child could lift their family
                                             up with them through their educational achievements and
                                             economic prospects.

                                             Watching the documentary, it was very emotional and touching
                                             to hear the rural village children speaking about their journey to
                                             this faraway school, and to see them leave everything they knew
                                             for this new life at Shanti Bhavan.

                                             The writing of her book allowed Shilpa to understand her own
                                             experiences because, at the time she left her home she was
                                             only a child and she didn’t understand the changes in her life.

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Shilpa spoke maturely and honestly, with the awareness of a          completely different path from her siblings. Shilpa’s father’s
person who had survived sacrifices and unhappy events. Talking       choice gave her an opportunity to break free from the shackles
about her parents and siblings, she painted a realistic picture of   of social norms that dragged her mother and sister down.
her family and where she came from. In her village, the women
                                                                     Consequently, such change also meant great pressure on her and
are married young, and her mother had to make the choice to
                                                                     other kids’ shoulders. For they were the first in their family to go
leave the family to work as a maid. In Shilpa’s autobiography, all
                                                                     to college and to work for multinational companies. They grew
hardships, the constant despair, the bonded labor, the domestic
                                                                     up with a new self-confidence that made them feel they could
abuse from alcohol use with her father and grandfather, and the
                                                                     face up to any kind of challenge. And they became an ideal for
dreams of achieving future riches have been brilliantly translated
                                                                     their siblings and friends who remained behind and attended
into words.
                                                                     government schools in their villages.
The firsts chapters of the book reveal that the way to Shanti
                                                                     How did she manage? Shilpa recounts, 'Growing up in an
Bhavan was not easy at all. First, she met with the reluctance
                                                                     environment in which every mistake, every decision, every exam
of her mother, Sarophina, who did not want to leave her first
                                                                     had a higher price' since it 'reflected on your family' took its toll.
daughter to the care of total strangers. The documentary
                                                                     However, she knew, 'I cannot simply give up and lie down'.
dealt with villagers’ judgements, rumours and suspicions. And
sending her to school collided with the common acceptance of         Though her education and support from Shanti Bhavan helped
a woman’s destiny which is 'living about serving her husband         her, it created a personal and cultural rift between Shilpa and
and bearing his children.' The inferior way in which women are       her immediate family. Shilpa and the other Shanti Bhavan
treated in her village made it hard to digest and equally hard to    children shuttled between two opposite lives: the scholastic
understand how this cultural norm is still in practice today.        residence life on one side, and their traditional village family life
                                                                     on the other. For her, the two very different worlds collided in
Notwithstanding all these obstacles, Shilpa’s father decided
                                                                     the core of her being.
to send her to Shanthi Bhavan. His choice made it possible for
her to grow up better educated. And her new experiences at           She felt guilt and uncertainty as to her proper place. She had
the coed environment where girls were made to feel equal to          two choices: to keep looking back with a constant complaint or
boys changed her as a human being. All of this took her on a         to take all the good that came along for a better future. Shilpa

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chose to decide the fate of her own life and to keep moving         an untouchable community have to undergo every day. For
forward. Her desire to become a pychologist stems from her          her and the other students of Shanti Bhavan, they grew up in
own turmoils and her sister’s tragic end.                           an environment that contrasted with traditional expectations
                                                                    of their villages. Yet, they are part of a path to progress
Shilpa mustered courage to talk about her personal life because
                                                                    for disenfranchised groups who do not have access to the
she felt it was better for others to understand the feelings of
                                                                    advantages of the middle class in India.
denial, pain, shame, and confusion she had experienced. She has
turned her personal story into a symbol of the grief of an entire   In case you are lucky to meet Shilpa Raj in person, just give her a
people who are ruled and discarded as untouchables even today.      hug and try to spread out her story as much as possible.

As for the next chapter, Shilpa proudly explained how she is
studying for her master’s degree in psychology. As an example
                                                                    https://www.nytimes.com/2017/07/28/arts/television/
of how far she has moved in a different world, when she told
                                                                    daughters-of-destiny-netflix-tv-review.html
her father about her degree program, he didn’t know what
psychology was. Her story makes it very evident that there’s a      https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2017/jul/27/
gap between her and her parents. Yet she tells of their pride and   daughters-of-destiny-review-a-documentary-full-of-hope-and-
acceptance of her new life too.                                     adorable-children

I thoroughly enjoyed her talk, and learned so much. In addition,    https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/35661389-the-
I recommend her book highly. It is masterfully narrated,            elephant-chaser-s-daughter
and Shilpa’s writing style brings you into her world, without
                                                                    http://authorinterviews.net/conversations/shilpa-raj/
discounting it. Shilpa's memoir speaks for those who are almost
voiceless. It relates the troubles and torment that people in       http://theindianauthors.in/interviews/shilpa-raj-interview/

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  The OWC Easter
  Egg Hunt and Family
  Fun Day!
  By
  Lisa Roenstrom

                              This fun and delicious event
                              took place on March 17, 2018
                              from 10am to 2pm.
                              OWC volunteers made the day
                              very special for all the kids
                              by planning fun games and
                              having yummy treats. A special
                              thank you to the Canadian
                              International School for
                              hosting this event and to our
                              Events Committee for making
                              it all happen!

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                                       Your Attendance is Requested
                                                                HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE
                                      OWC >> AGM 2018
                                        Wednesday, 9th May

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                                         From 10am-2pm
                       The AGM will be held at the Hilton Hotel Embassy GolfLinks.
                  The meeting portion is 10 to 12 and LunchBunch immediately following.

                INR 1650 pp all-inclusive
                > Tea/Coffee/Cookies on arrival
                > Buffet Lunch at the poolside

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                  /restaurant
                 This is a members only event.

                RSVP
                activities@owcbangalore.org, at any OWC Coffee Morning, on the OWC
                Mobile app or through the OWC Emailer link.

                                      We will draw for Door Prizes,
                                     but you must be present to win!

  I N D I A N SUMMER BAZAAR

S AT U R D AY                                                             2   J U N E      2 0 1 8

      Come to spend the day shopping with over 40 unique and creative
    vendors. While visiting the vendors, don’t forget to check out the many
   specials being offered at the Phoenix Marketcity on Whitefield Main Road

                            Where: Phoenix Marketcity
                           When: Saturday, 2nd June 2018
                             Time: 12:00pm to 6:00pm
   For more information contact:
                     summerbazaar@owcbangalore.org

                          A FUNDRAISING EVENT OF THE
                 O V E R S E A S W O M E N ’ S C L U B O F B A N G A LThe
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Every year, the OWC donates vital, non-perishable food items to some
of our supported charities to ease the costs of feeding the vulnerable.
  EVENTS

 Give with us and help make a real
            difference!
       BUY...                               ...DROP...                     ...GIVE
  Simply buy some of                         Hand over your           Or contribute cash at
   the much-needed                           items at one of              OWC coffee
  groceries from the                        our drop locations        mornings or via the
       list below.                             by 31st May.            online link below.
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         Tur/toor dal - 1 kg
         Sugar - 1 kg
         Sunflower refined oil - 5 ltr bottle
         Atta (wholewheat flour) - 5 kg

      *Please only give these exact amounts.

     Food Drive Drop Locations
NORTH - Monica Dexter, No. 69, 5th Cross, 1st Blk,
2nd Stage, RMV Extension, 560094. Call Srini, 984 565
8032, for directions. No need to call to confirm drop
off in advance.
SOUTH - Sharon Otmar, Villa 12 Adarsh Palm Retreat
Community, Bellandur. Call 961 115 2808
CENTRAL SOUTH - Janice Bluett-Duncan, New Kabini
Hostel, NIMHANS, Hombegowda Nagar, 560029. Call
994 596 8980
WHITEFIELD - Gail Hogg, Villa 1, Phase 1, Palm
Meadows. Call 962 029 2224
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       For queries contact Food Drive coordinator Janice: +91 99 459 689 80
FESTIVALS

What is
CINCO DE
MAYO,
Anyway?
By
Elizabeth Simon

If you have ever been in the USA during the                             officially the day that the Mexicans won a next to impossible
                                                                        battle against the French in 1862 at the Battle of Puebla. Unlike
first week of May you may have seen many                                St Patrick’s Day, it is not a nationally recognized holiday in
brightly colored Latin American restaurants                             Mexico (as St Paddy’s in Ireland) and is recognized more within
                                                                        the US than it is in Mexico, as September 16 is actually Mexican
and bars sporting cheap Margaritas and                                  Independence Day.
Coronas on May the 5th. If you’ve stepped                               So why was this holiday appropriated so strongly by the Mexican
into one of these establishments, you may                               American population? Like most issues, many factors may
                                                                        have been attributed to influencing the celebration of Cinco
have been privy to the celebration of all                               de Mayo. The first, possibly being timing. At the time when
                                                                        this battle was being fought, we had a very strong Chicano
things Mexican while drinking a LOT of                                  population (Mexicans born and raised within American borders)
alcohol. But the whole time you may have                                in the Southwest of the country who were VERY impressed
                                                                        with the strength of the Pueblan people: a symbol of strength
been wondering, why the party?                                          for Mexicans. Also, the battle was against the French, who had

Y
                                                                        been one of the benefactors of the Confederacy in the Civil
                   ou may have noticed even, that it seems an           War that was currently threatening to tear America apart. Most
                   awful lot like St Patrick’s Day with a little more   controversially, some consider it just to be the effect of great
                   red and white thrown in with the celebration.        advertising. Half-priced tequila shots and imported beer can
                   There’s a very good reason for that: Cinco           still bring in a lot of money for local and national bar/restaurant
                   de Mayo has become as much of a day of               chains - any excuse to get Americans out to drink will usually
                                                                        result in great sales.
                   celebration of Mexican-American pride (and
lots of drinking) in much the same way as St Patrick’s Day has for      That being said, I’m a huge fan of the party and celebration of
Irish-Americans.                                                        Latin American pride. As the parent of a Latin American boy,
                                                                        I love any chance to celebrate any part of Latin America in
The difference between the two is the origin and what                   the United States, especially given the political climate there
appropriations have been made. St Patrick’s Day started in              these days. On Cinco de Mayo, I hope to sit by a pool with a
Ireland for Irish Catholic people and continues to this day to be       margarita in hand, nachos near the other, listening to some great
a celebration of the same. Cinco de Mayo (the fifth of May) was         raggaeton, gosando. ¡Viva la fiesta!

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PASSION AND PURPOSE

    Links for Migrant Children
    — Providing Access to Health and Nutrition for India’s Most
    Vulnerable — OWC Members at Work                                                                                                    By
                                                                                                                             Cheryl Greene
                                                                                   concentrated their effort in the Munnekollal, Krishnappa Garden,
                                                                                   and Nagavarapalya Communities.

                                                                                   With the help of other volunteers, they conduct monthly
                                                                                   health checks for children 0-6 years of age that attend the
                                                                                   local Anganwadis in these migrant communities, and often go
                                                                                   door to door as well. In addition, Sara, Sharon, and Urvi have
                                                                                   organized other important initiatives here, such as incorporating
                                                                                   government vaccination campaigns because migrants are often
                                                                                   overlooked by the government run Primary Health Centers.
                                                                                   A few recent initiatives were Pulse Polio vaccination days,
                                                                                   deworming campaigns, and general health and vaccination
                                                                                   camps for all the children under 6. Links makes important
                                                                                   relationships within these communities to build the families’
                                                                                   trust. By partnering with government agencies, local private
                                                                                   hospitals, and other nonprofit agencies, LMC has made some
                                                                                   amazing strides to help improve migrant children’s lives and give
                                                                                   them a better future.

                                                                                   According to a recent study published by the World Health
                                                                                   Organization, “There are almost 1 billion migrants worldwide,
                                                                                   with 214 million international migrants and another 740
    In 2017, three expat women, got together and                                   million internal migrants moving within countries”1. In India
    organized visits to migrant children in camps                                  alone, internal migration is estimated at 400 million people,
                                                                                   and effects women and children the most. To put that number
    in Bangalore to see how they could help in                                     in perspective that is more than the combined populations of
    some small way. Out of these first visits,                                     the United States, Canada, and Australia. With just about 30%
                                                                                   of India’s population living in migrant communities too many
    Links for Migrant Children, a local nonprofit in                               children are not receiving what they need to thrive. We see
    Bangalore, was started by Sara Janssen, Urvi                                   many of these migrant communities and the families that live
                                                                                   there on our daily commutes. The blue tarps and haphazard
    Jariwala Shah, and Sharon Otmar.                                               partial brick structures that we drive by are the homes to

    T
                                                                                   thousands of families working and living in poverty all around
                     heir goal is to reach out to the youngest                     us. In cities such as Delhi, Mumbai, and Bangalore, these
                     children of migrant communities in Bangalore                  communities comprise a large part of the local population. With
                     because the babies and children in migrant                    all the economic growth in Bangalore, you might be asking why
                     communities are the most vulnerable to                        is it happening here?
                     hunger, malnutrition, disease, and lack of                    In a report by the United Nations and Unesco for Community
                     education. For the most part, they have                       Radio they explain,
1
 World Health Organization, “Improving the Health and Well-Being of Children of Migrant Workers.”
(1 April 2018). http://www.who.int/bulletin/volumes/95/12/17-196329/en/
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PASSION AND PURPOSE

                                                                   offer help in the form of informal pre-school education
In India, states such as Uttar Pradesh, Bihar,                     programs for children before they enter government schools.
                                                                   They disperse government food, as well as some healthcare.
Rajasthan, Madhya Pradesh, Uttarakhand,                            The Anganwadi workers help with pregnant mothers and
Andhra Pradesh, Chhattisgarh, Jharkhand,                           post-natal care as well. Unfortunately, Anganwadi workers are
Odisha, and Tamil Nadu are seen as source                          overwhelmed by the sheer numbers that need help, and sadly,
                                                                   they are not paid equally to other government workers. This
states, from which a large number of people                        underfunding of a vital program for migrant communities means
move out in search of better opportunities.                        the programs don’t accomplish as much as they could, leaving
Delhi, Mumbai, Maharashtra, Gujarat,                               too many migrant children behind.
Haryana, Punjab, and Karnataka are seen                            That’s where Links for Migrant Children is trying to make a
as destination states, where many of these                         difference. They are filling a vital gap in the most basic healthcare
migrants go.2                                                      for the youngest children. Malnutrition, disease, and undiagnosed
                                                                   and untreated health problems mean migrant children don’t fare
                                                                   as well. They can fail to meet their growth milestones and are
Bangalore’s growth in the last 5-10 years has attracted millions   generally underweight. And a lack of proper nutrition is a problem
of new people, most don’t speak Kannada, and they often lose       for their developing brains at their young age.
critical government aide when they move to a new state.            The founders of LMC have helped hundreds in a short time.
While the issue of internal migration in India has reached epic    In February of 2018, Sarah, Sharon, and Urvi organized
                                                                   their volunteers to participate in 'National Deworming Day'.
proportions, it is not a new problem. Trying to deal with this
                                                                   Overlooked by 'government sponsored medical dispersement
issue nationwide, the Indian government aimed to provide
                                                                   programs,' Munnekullal benefitted from 'the amazing Links for
better standards of health for migrant families back in 1975.
                                                                   Migrant Children volunteers, a government health inspector,
Called Anganwadis, they were created by the Indian Government      a social worker and teachers from Simridhdhi Trust's Bridge
as a part of the Integrated Child and Development Services         Program, over 300 children in Munnekullal and a nearby school
Program. With the aim to alleviate child hunger and malnutrition   received deworming medication, parasite prevention education,
in rural areas, migration camps and slums in cities, Anganwadis    nutritious snacks, soap for effective hygiene, and were assessed
                                                                   2
                                                                    Unesco, “Internal Migration: A Manual for Community Radio Stations,” (1 April
                                                                   2018). http://unesdoc.unesco.org/images/0023/002318/231862E.pdf
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                                                                    Working in Bangalore’s migrant communities and providing
                                                                    vaccinations means Links’ small grass-roots programs are
                                                                    preventing future suffering often associated with many diseases
                                                                    like polio or measles, and studies show that better health
                                                                    outcomes improve educational opportunities for these migrant
                                                                    children too.

                                                                    Before founding Links, OWC members, Sharon and Urvi were
                                                                    working with local Anganwadis, and Sarah was a volunteer nurse
                                                                    for Sunshine school, a French association that supports hygiene
                                                                    projects in slum schools as well as working with other NGOs.
                                                                    When she met Urvi and Sharon, the three of them decided to
                                                                    focus primarily on health and nutrition for children in Bangalore’s
                                                                    migrant camps. While most internal migrants are often denied
                                                                    basic human rights, these three hard working expats are helping
                                                                    the women and children who live in these communities feel more
                                                                    at home with their well planned health checks and by providing
                                                                    the most basic necessities to their survival.

                                                                    3
                                                                     LMC Facebook. (5 April 2018). https://www.facebook.com/
                                                                    linksformigrantchildren/
                                                                    4
                                                                     LMC Facebook. (1April 2018). https://www.facebook.com/
                                                                    linksformigrantchildren/
                                                                    5
                                                                     World Health Organization, “10 Facts on Immunization,” (1 April 2018).
                                                                    http://www.who.int/features/factfiles/immunization/en/

for malnutrition'3. By providing deworming medicine to kids and
soap to the mothers for proper hygiene, diseases are prevented
and health improves for the entire family.

And only a month later, Links for Migrant Children held a very
successful 'Polio Vaccine Campaign' in Munnekollal migrant
community. In one day, due to partnering with local volunteers
as well as community members they were able 'to bring
the pulse polio vaccine to over 320 children in this migrant
community. In addition to setting up a vaccine camp in one of
the empty shelters, mobile teams went door-to-door vaccinating
children'4. They partnered with Sahayya NGO, who brought
‘healthy snacks’ as well as other key medical professionals who
donated the medicine.

While Links for Migrant Children is still a rather new enterprise
for these three expats—their work is the key to a healthy future
for these kids. Immunization programs provide invaluable health
prevention measures. The World Health Organization states,

There is arguably no single preventive
health intervention more cost-effective than
immunization5.

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CULTURE

Celebrating Royal Birthdays                                                          By
-An Evening of Royal Traditions                                            Smita Agrawal

                                  On March 24, 2018, the Ritz-Carlton
                                  Bangalore hosted an evening of Royal
                                  Traditions that celebrated the 26th
                                  Birthday of the 27th Maharaja (King) of
                                  Mysore and current head of the Wadiyar
                                  dynasty, Maharaja Yaduveer Krishnadatta
                                  Chamaraja Wadiyar.

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                                                    he Who’s Who of Bangalore attended this
                                                    event amidst vast media coverage. I was
                                                    privileged to witness and be part of this grand
                                                    celebration. It commenced with an inaugural
                                                    Mashaal (Torch) Lighting Ceremony by the
                                                    Maharaja at the lawns of the Ritz-Carlton —
                                  with a flourish of drums and synchronized champagne sabering,
                                  he marked the auspicious day, that was also celebrated as ‘Earth
                                  Hour’ all across the globe.

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                                                                       Delving into the History of the
                                                                       Mysore Dynasty
                                                                       After the former scion of Mysuru, His Highness Srikantadatta
                                                                       Narasimharaja Wadiyar died in December 2013 leaving behind
                                                                       no heirs, his wife Her Highness Pramoda Devi, formally adopted
                                                                       Yaduveer Urs (born as Yaduveer Gopal Raj, the only son of
                                                                       Swarup Anand Gopal Raj, a member of the Wadiyar family,
                                                                       and Princess Tripurasundari Devi, niece of the late Maharaja
                                                                       Srikantadatta Wadiyar) in February 2015, and named him the
                                                                       late scion’s successor. This adoption made him the natural son
                                                                       of Maharaja Srikantadatta Wadiyar and Maharani Pramoda Devi
The hotel and its lawns came alive with this celebration in a way      Wadiyar, and he was formally renamed Yaduveer Krishnadatta
I have never witnessed before, and it made me proud to be a            Chamaraja Wadiyar.
resident of Bangalore. At that moment, I felt I was in a special
and unique spot in the Indian subcontinent. The presence of the        He received his initial education in Bangalore at Vidya Niketan
Maharaja attired in a dashing dark violet suit and flashing royal      School and then at the Canadian International School. He
diamond studded earrings and his wife, Her Highness Trishika           obtained an undergraduate degree in English literature and
Kumari Devi, the former Princess of Dungarpur (Rajasthan), now         economics from the University of Massachusetts, Amherst.
the Maharani of Mysore, made everything about the hotel that           With his coronation ceremony on May 28, 2015, he became, at
evening feel magical.                                                  23, the twenty-seventh maharaja of the Kingdom of Mysore. On
After the initial ceremony, the highlight of the evening was           June 27, 2016, over a year after his coronation, Yaduveer Wadiyar
a scintillating performance by the acclaimed Sivamani on               married Trishikha Kumari, daughter of Harshvardhan Singh and
percussion, accompanied by U Rajesh on mandolin and Harmeet            Maheshree Kumari of the Dungarpur, a royal family from Rajasthan.
Manseta on keyboard. Sivamani, is an acclaimed percussionist           The Kingdom of Mysore was a kingdom in southern India,
who plays many instruments including drums, octoban, darbuka,          traditionally believed to have been founded in 1399 and was
udukai, ghatam, and kanjira. U Rajesh is one of the most sought        ruled by the Wodeyar family. The kingdom reached the height of
after classical artists in India and was the youngest participant of   its economic and military power and dominion in the latter half
the Magic Mandolin Festival in Germany in the '80s and is credited     of the 18th century under the de facto ruler Haider Ali and his
with a performance at the Lincoln Center in New York as well.          son Tipu Sultan and is now a part of the State of Karnataka.
From fire displays and Indian classical music to perfect sparkling
wines, I was swept up in the night’s traditions which showcased
the best of what Bangalore has to offer.
                                                                       Closing notes
                                                                       The Mashaal Lighting at the Ritz-Carton will continue as
                                                                       a daily ritual with blazing fire torches lining the walkway
                                                                       leading up to the hotel at 7 pm. This riwaz (tradition)
                                                                       is slated to become a must watch ceremony and is one
                                                                       cultural event that I highly recommend everyone try
                                                                       to witness in person in the coming days. The lighting
                                                                       ceremony will signify the dramatic convergence of
                                                                       nature’s 5 elements, space, air, fire, water, and earth.
                                                                       The waterbody (water) lining the walkway reflected by
                                                                       a line of blazing torches (Fire), fanned upwards by the
                                                                       evening winds (Air), will remain with guests as glowing
                                                                       #RCMemories.

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COOKING

Seasonal Fruits for a
Healthier Life!                                                                                                          By
                                                                                                          Sameera Fernandes

A recent trip to the Madivala fruit and                                should feel heavy for its size. Look for the yellow spot:
                                                                       watermelons develop a splotch where they rest on the ground.
vegetable market turned out to be quite                                When this splotch is creamy yellow, it's ripe. Give it a thump: tap
exciting for our family. The children were                             the underbelly of the watermelon. A ripe one will have a deep
                                                                       hollow sound. Under-ripe or over-ripe melons will sound dull.
so excited to see brightly coloured seasonal                           These fruits are packed with potassium, vitamin A and C, so do
fruits such as mangoes, chickoos, papayas,                             consume in plenty.
grapes, guavas, pomegranates, musk                                     It’s the mango season too! Ideal places where varieties of
melons, and watermelons. We ended up                                   mangoes can be purchased at wholesale rates include the KR
                                                                       Market, Madivala fruit market or near the Jaymahal/TV Tower.
carrying boxes homes.

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                                                                       Varieties such as the Raspuri, Sendura, Totapuri, Mallika,
                     uring a brief conversation with the fruit         Alphonso, Malgova, and Neelam are expected to arrive shortly.
                     seller, I learnt that not only do these fruits    Don’t forget that the Lalbagh Botanical Gardens features a
                     and vegetables taste fresh when they are in       Mango and Jackfruit festival too. Organized by the Department
                     season, there are a host of other benefits too.   of Horticulture and the Karnataka State Mango Development
                     Since they do not require transportation over     Marketing Corporation Limited (KSMDMCL) every year, this
                     long distances, the freshness is contained and    festival orients visitors and fruit lovers to the joys of the fruits
they taste better.                                                     and the varieties that are available in the state.

My personal favourite has always been the watermelon.                  For all those who would like to experience the varieties of mango
The best part is that they are easily available and one of the         that the state of Karnataka has to offer, a trip to the Mango and
healthiest to have as well. There is a definite art to pick out the    Jackfruit festival at the Lalbagh Botanical Gardens has been
sweetest and juiciest watermelons. Big or small, the watermelon        planned. Reach out to the Nature Lovers Club to know more.

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The Monday Morning
Commitment                                                                                                               By
                                                                                                          Terry Anne Wilson
                                                                     Yet we discovered that as the months progressed, our writing
                                                                     turned to myriad subjects including loss of identify of our children
                                                                     (and us), rootlessness, anxiety and depression, ageing parents,
                                                                     health and wellness, traumatic childhood experiences, and creating
                                                                     homes for our families against an ever-changing backdrop. There
                                                                     was also much joy to write of both past and present.

                                                                     Comments since the book launch, in The Hague, affirm that our
                                                                     stories resonate and offer guidance and for this we are thankful.
                                                                     We realized from the outset that our honest and emotional
                                                                     exchange needed our loved ones’ understanding of our mission:
                                                                     to enlighten, to offer solace, to remind families that they are not
                                                                     alone in navigating the challenges of an overseas life. I recall a
                                                                     poignant comment from my twenty-one-year-old.

                                                                     “Mom I don’t mind if you write my story. If it can help someone not
In May of last year, a friend and I decided                          go through what I did, or help parents, then I’m happy to do that.”

to write to each other every Monday for six                          Andrew’s story is one often experienced among young adults
                                                                     who had never lived in their passport country, but return
months. The result is our newly published                            for university then struggle to define identity and personal
book, Monday Morning Emails. We often                                narrative. For our son, it took a failed year of university, a stint
                                                                     in the Canadian military and menial work before eventual return
penned our ‘letters’ on the move from                                to study. His is just one story, a cautionary tale of preparing your
France, Canada, England, Wales, and from                             children for re-entry.

home in the Netherlands and here in India.                           Monday Morning Emails not only offers life experience from us, as
                                                                     authors, but we also called upon eight experts. These psychologists,
We had made a commitment to write;                                   educational consultants, mentors and veteran expats, offer their
                                                                     wisdom and analysis. This includes poignant quotes.
wherever we happened to be and through
                                                                     My favourite? Perhaps this one by Becky Grappo. “Perfect
whatever we were personally experiencing.                            families only exist in fiction. Real families have conflict. They
That was the essence - we both knew the                              struggle. They fight. But strong families, even with imperfect
                                                                     parents and imperfect kids, always come back to the table to
therapeutic power of writing.

A
                                                                     keep working on that imperfect institution we call family.”

                  t first, we thought our book would mostly be       And so, as we leave Bangalore at the end of April it is with much
                  about the empty nest stage. Between the two        fondness. Yet I believe in turning the page and using these first
                  of us, Jo Parfitt and I have raised 5 sons in 12   steps as an author to write the next chapter, wherever this
                  different countries, supporting our husband’s      journey takes us.
                  careers while circling the globe from the US
                  to Oman, Malaysia to Qatar, The Netherlands        Monday Morning Emails is published by Summertime Publishing
to India. The topic of how we viewed our futures after those         Terry Anne Wilson is an author, speaker, and blogger at
parenting years was part of our initial conversation.                notesonaboardingpass.wordpress.com

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TRAVEL

   Jaipur
   Exploring the Wonders of the
   Pink City, Again and Again
   By
   Julie Sall

Our very first internal trip in India was                    our experience that day. Luckily, we were able to ask questions
                                                             about what was going on and why, and to see the exuberance
to Jaipur, April 2016, just a month after                    of the celebrants as they doused us and themselves in color.
we moved here from the US. It was                            That was two years ago, and we joined the family last month to
                                                             celebrate again — ending up very purple!
to celebrate Holi, the festival of color.
                                                             Since arriving in India, we have tried to travel once a month
We wanted to be where the holiday is                         because time passes quickly, and there is so much to see.
celebrated to the fullest and Jaipur came                    However, Jaipur has captured our hearts, and we have been back
through. The vibrancy and joy with which                     at least four times (I’ve lost track) with different things to see
                                                             and experience each time.
the city and people celebrated the holiday
                                                             You can fly directly to Jaipur, the capital of Rajasthan, from
was a treat, but what made it even more                      Bangalore in 2.5 hours. Another way to get there is from Delhi
special, was participating in the activities                 — from there it is only an hour flight or a five-hour drive. Jaipur
                                                             is in the desert and that is a blessing and a curse. History shows
with a local Rajasthani family.                              that the Rajasthanis were very shrewd, building Amer Fort

W
                                                             to protect the city, marrying a daughter to a warring Mughal
                         e were fortunate to get             emperor for political partnership, and developing alternate
                         introduced to Annpurna              industries since farming there wasn’t an option.
                         Rathore, a local Northern Indian
                                                             In the early 1700s, Maharaj Jai Singh II laid the foundation for the
                         tour guide, who invited us to
                                                             well-ordered city that Jaipur is today. A brilliant scientist, he built
                         join her family. No other holiday
                                                             the city, and divided it into blocks, some for official use, but most
                         celebration has lived up to         for the public. It is ‘relatively’ easy to get around and find each

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