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THE VICAR’S LETTER
Dear friends,
This Christmas will be strange, but it         precisely into these horrendous
needn’t be without hope.                       circumstances that God sends his
We may be facing the most unusual              Son, Jesus – to bring salvation to the
Christmas – carol services without             world.
congregational
singing; families                                               The true light that
                            Reverend Duncan Carter              gives light to everyone
restricted in their
visits etc. but, amidst                                         was coming into the
                                Holy Trinity Vicarage
the cancellations and                                           world. John 1:9
                                     Church Street
the disappointments,             Henley-on-Thames               Things may seem
there will also be a           Oxfordshire RG9 1SE              somewhat dark at the
huge opportunity.               Tel: (01491) 574822             moment, but think how
Because, if things                                              light has a way of
seem a bit darker this    The Vicar is always glad to see transforming things –
year, the light of        anyone needing help or advice. Christmas trees
God’s love can shine       Talking through problems and         sparkle in our homes!
all the brighter.         praying with people are his top The joy of Jesus’s light
If you are not feeling      priorities. Do not feel worried     is that it transforms not
too full of hope at the    about sharing your problems,         trees, but people’s
moment cast your          whatever the concern, large or whole lives.
mind back to the first       small. For your reference, his        So, be encouraged
Christmas…                          day off is Saturday.           this Christmas.
You are living under                                               The greatest danger
the occupation of                                                  is not the lack of
foreign troops. You are not yet                  interest around us – two lockdowns
married, but you are expecting a                 have given many people a desire to
baby. Just at the point when the birth           explore what really matters in life. The
is due, you are forced to walk 80 / 90           biggest danger is more likely to be the
miles to your fiancée’s family-home…             weariness within us. It would be such
and not for a pleasant visit, but                a shame if, worn down by Covid
because you are going to have to pay             regulations, organising zoom meetings
higher taxes. You aren’t even                    and finding misplaced face masks, we
welcome when you get to the town.                failed to find time this Christmas to
Then the baby is born, and suddenly              hold out the hope that God has given
when you are exhausted and                       us and that people so need.
struggling with all the challenges of
motherhood you are forced to flee for            The light shines in the darkness, and
your life and become a refugee in a              the darkness has not overcome it.
foreign land.                                    John 1:5

Yet what sustains you, (and can                  Best wishes,
sustain us all today), is that it is                                Duncan
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Trinity at Four update
Dear friends,
Kept Safe
One of the new phrases that 2020            Not stay safe, but kept safe. Because
has brought into existence is 'Stay         Jesus Christ went through death into
Safe'. Do you remember when                 everlasting life, those who trust him
everyone started signing off their          can be kept safe through all the trials
emails or messages that way? Now of         of this life for that everlasting future
course where people can, of course          themselves. Kept Safe. So much
they should stay safe. But have you         better than 'stay safe'! And as
noticed how just saying 'stay safe'         believers, our focus must be on his
doesn't actually help anyone to feel        keeping of us, for a future beyond the
safe? That's because we look at this        bounds of this broken world – for that
chaotic world and realise that sadly,       is what will make us the people of
often even our personal safety is out       peace, rather than fear, that he calls
of our control. Which is what makes         us to be, even – indeed, especially –
this promise from Deuteronomy 33:27         in the midst of a pandemic.
so precious and wonderful:" The
eternal God is our refuge and                                  With grateful thanks,
underneath are the everlasting arms."

                                                                            Sam
                                                      The Reverend Sam Brewster

                          Looks like the sexton went to Spain
                           after all, and is still in quarantine.
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Heaven and Hell
This week I was asked about a              force it on him. It may be supposed
difficult verse in John’s gospel – a       that no one being condemned to
verse that speaks about God’s wrath.       death would reject a pardon, but the
The argument was put that if God           rule must be the same.' George
loves everyone we must all eventually      Wilson did not accept his pardon -
be ok regardless of how we live our        and went to execution by his own
lives – yet John records words of          choice.
Jesus that challenge that view:
                                           The free pardon and the new life that
“Whoever believes in the Son has           God offers us, on the basis of the
eternal life, but whoever rejects the      death of Christ, must similarly be
Son will not see life, for God's wrath     accepted if its benefits are to be
remains on him." John 3:36                 enjoyed. The offer is there for anyone
                                           to receive, but the New Testament
What are we to make of this? One           makes it plain that a pardon is valid
version even translates it ‘...God’s       only if it is accepted. If we ignore or
wrath will remain on him forever.”         reject it, then we must pay the penalty
I recalled the story of a man in the       – one we all deserve.
USA some years ago. His name was           In the modern world it may not even
George Wilson. He had been indicted        be an overt or dramatic rejection of
for robbing a mail van and putting the     God which leaves us in peril. Studdart
life of the driver in jeopardy. He was     Kennedy wrote a poem about our
condemned to death. However,               indifference to what Christ has done
shortly before his execution he was        to avert God’s wrath:
pardoned by the President. Yet, when
the warder presented the pardon to         ‘When Jesus came to Golgotha, they
the prisoner in his cell, he refused to    hanged Him on a tree,
accept it saying that he wanted to die.    They drove great nails through hands
'Well,' the warder said, 'all right you    and feet and made a Calvary.
will die; we'll go ahead with the          They crowned Him with a crown of
execution.' But Wilson’s attorney          thorns; red were the wounds and
obtained a stay of execution. It was       deep, for those were crude and cruel
his contention that you could not          days, and human flesh was cheap.
execute the man if he had been
pardoned.                                  When Jesus came to Birmingham,
                                           they simply passed Him by,
The case was brought to the                They never hurt a hair of Him, they
Supreme Court of the United States         only let Him die.
and the decision of that court read as     For men had grown more tender, and
follows: “A pardon is a deed, to the       they would not give Him pain,
validity of which delivery is essential;   They only just passed down the
and delivery is not complete without       street, and left Him in the rain.
acceptance. It may be then rejected
... and if it be rejected, we have         Still Jesus cried “Forgive them; for
discovered no power in a court to          they know not what they do.”

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And still it rained this wintry rain that   Perhaps the wonder is, not that some
drenched Him through and through.           should be left to face the wrath of
The crowds went home and left the           God, but that anyone should find His
streets, without a soul to see,             grace! Yet that is the promise!
And Jesus crouched against a wall,          Whoever believes in the Son has
and cried for Calvary.’                     eternal life
                                                                                 DC

                               Christian Aid
The year 2020 sees the 75th                    and children in a camp every
anniversary of the founding of                 month.
Christian Aid, setup by British and            Bangladesh: building hand
Irish churches to help those left              washing stations for Rohingya
homeless, hungry and destitute by the          refugees.
Second World War.                              Afghanistan: distributing hygiene
                                               kits with soap to 1,400 people.
The latest edition of the Christian Aid        Nicaragua: support for coffee
Magazine highlights the great effects          farmers who are getting lower
that the corona virus epidemic is              yields because of climate change,
having on us all, but especially on the        by helping them to shift to climate-
poorer countries, where Christian Aid          resistant cocoa production.
works with its partners to alleviate
poverty and bring justice.                  How can you continue to help?
                                              Give: see caid.org.uk/neighbours
Can I take you back to May this year,         Act: ask the UK Chancellor Rishi
to what was a virtual Christian Aid           Sunak to champion debt
Week? Many of you were kind                   cancellation for the poorest
enough to support Christian Aid               countries at
through my JustGiving page, as the            caid.org.uk/debtpetition.
usual house to house collection and           Pray: download prayers at
sponsored walk could not take place.          caid.org.uk/autumnpray.
I did manage a walk, and have written
about it in Trinity Times. Throughout       The Christmas appeal is aimed at
the country many people found               helping people in Ethiopia where
different ways to support CA, and           there is long-term drought, by hoping
raised a total of £4 million.               to provide reliable sources of water
                                            and seeds that grow in drought.
Examples of the ways in which CA
has been responding to corona virus         Finally, you might want to catch up
and other areas of need include:            with an online service of reflection that
   Guatemala: help for women at             was on Wednesday 4th November at
   increased risk of domestic               3:30 p.m. at caid.org.uk/reflection.
   violence with online counselling
   and transport to safe houses.            For more information go to C.A.’s
   Nigeria: distributing food               website at caid.org.uk.
   packages to 48,550 men, women
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Children’s Pages
                                       Christmas
Christmas is nearly here! More than two thousand years ago the Jews were longing for
the coming of their Messiah. The Old Testament had promised that when He came, He
would preach good news to the poor, bind up the broken hearted, proclaim freedom for
the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners, proclaim the year of the Lord’s
favour, comfort all who mourn and to bestow on His people a crown of beauty instead of
ashes. Jesus did all those things. He was and is the Son of God, and whoever has seen
Him has seen the Father. Whoever believes in Him will have the best gift of all – His Spirit
within them, which gives them eternal life.
      Angel                   Mary                    Gift                     Birth
    Bethlehem                Jospeh                  Herod                     Star
    Christmas                 Jesus                   Gold                    Hymns
      Kings                   Baby                Frankincense                Manger
      Stable                Shepherd                 Myrrh                    Donkey

                                                                Alex Miles-Kingston – Age 14
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                                   Epiphany
‘Where is the one who has been born king of the Jews? We saw his star in the
east and have come to worship him.’ So Matthew tells of the coming of the Magi,
or Wise Men, to Bethleham. Did they come from Arabia Felix – nowadays
southern Arabia? How many came? No one knows, but by the 6th century they
were named Gaspar, Melchior, and Balthasar. Why gold, frankincense and myrrh?
Gold stands for kingship: Jesus was King of the Jews. Frankincense stands for
divinity; Jesus was to be worshipped. Myrrh stands for death and burial; Jesus
would become a sacrifice and die for his people. The Wise Men were the very first
Gentiles ever to worship Jesus. Isaiah foresaw this response to Jesus: ‘Nations
will come to your light, and kings to the brightness of your dawn.’ The Magi
wanted to worship Jesus; Herod wanted to kill him.
Hope             Year             Twelfth night     Enlightenment     Realization
Epiphany         Feast            Traditions        Beginning         Adoration
Revelation       Jesus            Resolutions       Christianity      Celebration
New              Baptism          January           Festival          Church

                                                       Isabella Miles-Kingston – Age 12
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AN ANGEL HAD TOLD MARY SHE
WOULD HAVE A VERY SPECIAL BABY

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SERVICES in DECEMBER
The Vicar, the Reverend Duncan            THURSDAY 24th DECEMBER
Carter, will lead the morning services,               Christmas Eve
with the assistance of the Licensed
Lay Minister, Michael Forsdike.           4:00 P.M.    CANDLELIT CAROLS*
The Reverend Sam Brewster, will
lead the Trinity at Four services.        5:30 P.M.    CANDLELIT CAROLS*

     SUNDAY 6th DECEMBER                  11:30 P.M.    CHRISTMAS
      Second Sunday of Advent                                COMMUNION

10:00 A.M. MORNING WORSHIP                   FRIDAY 25th DECEMBER
                                                 Christmas Day
4:00 P.M.        TRINITY AT FOUR
              at Christ Church URC        8:00 A.M.      HOLY COMMUNION
     SUNDAY 13th DECEMBER                 10:00 A.M. CANDLELIT CAROLS*
       Third Sunday of Advent
                                          11:00 A.M. CANDLELIT CAROLS*
10:00 A.M.    HOLY COMMUNION
4:00 P.M.    CANDLELIT CAROLS*
5:30 P.M.    CANDLELIT CAROLS*

     SUNDAY 20th DECEMBER
      Fourth Sunday of Advent

10:00 A.M. MORNING WORSHIP
                   with carols
                                            SUNDAY 27th DECEMBER
4:00 P.M.    CANDLELIT CAROLS*                First Sunday of Christmas
5:30 P.M.    CANDLELIT CAROLS*            10:00 A.M.     MORNING WOSHIP
                                          4:00 P.M.        TRINITY AT FOUR
                                                         at Christ Church URC

                                          Places will need to be booked for the
                                          Carol Services marked with an
                                          asterisk. Please use the link
                                          https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/o/holy-
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2021 Diary Dates
Since we don’t know what restrictions will be like for January we cannot plan our
 January services yet. When we have an idea of what we can do, we will make
                announcements in church and on the website.
Sunday 3rd January              Epiphany

Wednesday 17th February         Ash Wednesday
Thursday 1st April              Maundy Thursday
Friday 2nd April                Good Friday
Sunday 4th April                Easter Sunday

Sunday 9th May –                Christian Aid Week
Saturday 15th May
Thursday 13th May               Ascension
Sunday 23rd May                 Pentecost
Sunday 30th May                 Trinity Sunday

Sunday 28th November            Advent Sunday
Saturday 25th December          Christmas Day

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PETER WILLIAMS
                                          service, he was based at several RAF
                                          stations, and it was during this time
                                          that he met his wife to be, Barbara,
                                          introduced to him through mutual
                                          friends. Barbara and Peter were
                                          married in July 1956, at West Malling,
                                          in Kent. Two years later their son
                                          Andrew was born in Lancashire, and
                                          in 1960, their daughter Clare in
                                          Scotland. During his time in the RAF,
                                          Peter was mainly a night fighter pilot,
                                          part of the cold war defence, and he
                                          flew Meteors and Javelins. He always
                                          felt that his twelve years of service in
                                          the RAF were the most rewarding and
                                          important years of his life.
                                          On retiring from the RAF in 1963,
                                          Peter joined the Civil Aviation
     Peter Williams (1931 - 2000)
                                          Authority as an air traffic controller.
Peter Williams was born on 23rd           His first post was at Edinburgh
February 1931 in Lancashire, the          Airport. In 1969, he was posted to
second son of Henry and Catherine         London Airport, West Drayton,
Williams. His family home was in          working not with the Heathrow traffic,
Littleborough, near Rochdale, the         but mainly with the transatlantic traffic.
heart of the cotton industry; he had      In later years, he became involved
two brothers. In his younger days,        with training and other aspects of air
Peter was a member of the Saint           traffic control.
Andrew’s church choir in nearby
                                          1969 was the year Peter and family
Dearnley, and a patrol leader in the
                                          moved here to Henley, home now for
local Boy Scouts Group. On leaving
                                          over fifty years. This was also the
Heywood Grammar School, he
                                          year Holy Trinity church became part
became a draughtsman’s apprentice
                                          of the Williams’ family lives, at a time
until he was called up in 1950 for
                                          when John Clarke was vicar.
National Service, and chose to serve
in the Royal Air Force.                   Peter retired in 1991, and began what
                                          he always called his third career. This
Peter’s National Service years
                                          was the time for him to pursue his
confirmed his long interest in the RAF
                                          many interests of photography,
and flying, so he made the decision to
                                          woodwork, music, aviation,
make this his future career. In 1952,
                                          computers, railways, and walking
he began his pilot training in Southern
                                          (especially in Switzerland and
Rhodesia (now Zimbabwe) where
                                          Austria). Following their walking
there was an RAF station and training
                                          holidays, Peter and Barbara would
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give delightful and entertaining slide     produce a new monthly magazine
shows in the Parish Room, illustrating     under the title, “The Trinity Times”,
their holiday adventures. Another of       and produce the magazine using new
Peter’s passions was music. He took        desktop publishing technology using a
up playing the trombone and joined a       computer. Together with the help of
local brass band. Peter and Barbara        his wife Barbara, he carried out the
enjoyed travelling with the band to        complete magazine production,
give concerts at various venues both       including printing and distributing over
at home and abroad.                        a period of eight years, producing one
                                           hundred editions. His monthly article,
Peter was actively involved in Holy        ‘See You on Sunday’ appeared every
Trinity church life for over half a        month, always on the back cover.
century. He has been a PCC member,
a sidesman, played the piano for           On 21st March 2020, Peter sadly died,
church services, and produced the          and his funeral took place on 17th
graphic advertisement pages for the        April 2020. Regrettably, the Covid-19
church magazine. Using his                 pandemic restrictions in force at the
woodworking skills, Peter has made         time prevented the service from being
church furniture from the wood of the      held at Holy Trinity church; and so it
old pews, including two large curved       took place at a family only service, at
and carved pew fronts to fit the new       the Reading Crematorium, with
chair layout following reordering in the   Duncan presiding at the service. We
late 1980’s, and an altar table for use    hope to hold a memorial service to
when holding services in the parish        celebrate Peter’s active and
room. In addition, Peter has carried       meaningful life at Holy Trinity church
out a hundred and one other jobs for       when conditions permit.
the church over the years.
                                           Peter is missed so much by his wife
In 1993, as one of his retirement          Barbara, his two children, Andrew and
projects, Peter took on the editorship     Clare, daughter-in-law Dianne, his two
of the church magazine. He was to          grandsons, and great-granddaughter.
                                                                            BBW

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BRENDA CLOKEY (1926
                                 (1926--2020)
                                                   Brenda filled her time as a school governor at
                                                   Attwood Primary School, as a registered
                                                   Samaritan, and was an active volunteer
                                                   fundraiser and Treasurer for Doctor
                                                   Barnardo's. During this period, she and
                                                   Kenneth were regular visitors to the stewards’
                                                   enclosure at Henley Royal Regatta. At this
                                                   time, Brenda's attraction for Henley
                                                   developed to the extent that when Kenneth
                                                   died in 2002, she followed his long-time
                                                   suggestion and moved to live near her son
                                                   John and his family.
                                                   Brenda soon settled into Henley life and
                                                   joined the Ladies Probus Club, and also the
Brenda Clokey, who for many years lived in         Phyllis Court Club where she loved
Kings Road, was well known to many around          entertaining friends and family, and where
Henley as "Granny Brenda" as she stood in          she held her grandson’s 18th birthday and her
the school pickup queue to collect her             own 90th birthday parties.
grandchildren, Tom and Daniel, from Rupert
House School in the early 2000's.                  Not long after celebrating her 80th birthday
                                                   aboard Hobbs' magnificent Steamer the "New
Brenda was born Brenda Buckton, in Buenos          Orleans", Brenda was sadly diagnosed with
Aires, Argentina, in 1926, the eldest child of     late onset Parkinson’s disease. However she
Jack and lsabel Buckton. Her father had            was none-the-less determined to make the
travelled, with the Bank of Argentine, to          most of her later years, and could regularly be
Argentina, where he met lsabel Comber, from        seen striding down the tow path from the
a second-generation Anglo Argentine family         Leander Club to the Flower Pot Hotel for
living in Buenos Aires. Brenda moved back to       lunch, or supporting lock transits up to
England with her mother in the 1930's.             London with her friend Graham on his Henley
After attending school in Cambridge, Brenda        based barge. Brenda was a regular worshiper
was plunged into wartime Britain as a student      at Holy Trinity Church, and took part in its
nurse at the Queen Mary's Roehampton               social events. She also delighted in being
Hospital, based in the pioneering maxillofacial    recognised and hailed as "Granny Brenda", in
burns and rehabilitation wards. At this            Waitrose or just walking around the town,
hospital, after the war had ended, Brenda met      even though by her own admission in her
her future husband to be, Kenneth Clokey,          later years, she could not always remember
then a Captain in the Royal Ulster Rifles who      all the names of those who greeted her.
was recuperating after contracting Typhus,         ln her final years, after the death of her
following his participation in the liberation of   neighbour Graham, Brenda became unable to
the Bergen-Belsen concentration camp.              cope with her Kings Road three-story town
Brenda and Kenneth were married in 1948,           house, and moved to the newly opened
and thereafter moved numerous times around         Chiltern Court Care Centre, in the Bluebell
London as Kenneth resumed his medical              Nursing care ward. Brenda soon built a great
studies as a trainee surgeon at Guys               rapport with her nurses and carers and they
Hospital, before settling in Sanderstead in        would regularly help her "escape" into the
1953 after becoming a qualified dental             town, by wheeling her stroller down to her.
surgeon (LSD). Brenda's first and only child,
John, was born in 1960, and Brenda                 Brenda died peacefully of old age, aged 94,
combined being a mother with supporting her        with her son at her side, on 17th September,
husband’s dental practice, both as a nurse         after a long and wonderful life.
and receptionist. ln the 1970's and 80's,

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30th ANNIVERSARY

                                                       FUNERALS
                                            12th Nov   Sheila Mary Plumridge
                                            20th Nov   Reginald Alfred Willis
                                            23rd Nov   Peter Roberts

Duncan has now completed 30 years’
service as vicar of Holy Trinity church.
He was instituted and Inducted as the
eight vicar of Holy Trinity church on the
26th November 1990.
                                              A Prayer for the Unemployed
Only two previous incumbents of Holy
Trinity church have served for longer       God, our Father, I turn to you seeking
periods, the Reverend R. M. Willis who      your divine help and guidance as I look
served for 32 years from 1912 to 1944,      for suitable employment. I need your
and the Reverend W. P. Pinckney, who        wisdom to guide my footsteps along
served for 40 years from 1849 to 1889.      the right path, and lead me to find the
One of his first jobs Duncan had to do      proper things to say on this quest. I
when he first arrived was to get the        wish to use the gifts and talents you
leaking church roof fixed. This task was    have given me, but I need the
soon accomplished following the             opportunity to do so with gainful
successful raising of sufficient funds.     employment. Do not abandon me, dear
                                            Father, in this search, but rather grant
At present Duncan is facing one of his      me this favour I seek so I may return to
most challenging times, which is to         you with praise and thanksgiving for
keep the church running during the          your gracious assistance. Grant this
worst pandemic the country has faced        through Christ, our Lord.
in recent times. Modern technology has                                          Amen
come to our aid, and although the
church has to be closed during the
lockdowns, church services can still be
seen on line by those having the
required devices and knowhow. The
good news is that the church is still
coping, and we look forward to soon
getting back to normal.
                                      JB

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Christmas Roast
For anyone who would like a vegetation option for their Christmas Roast this year,
                  maybe they would like to try this recipe.

Cut 2 avocados in half.                           Mix and then stuff the avocados.

                                                  Add pine kernels (wheat-free version)
                                                  or bread crumbs.

                                                  Roast in the oven at 180°C for 25 to
                                                  30 minutes.

                                                  Serve with all the Christmas
                                                  trimmings.
Scoop out the centres.

Cut up some cheese (half blue, half
cheddar).

                                                                      Christopher Wellings
     “I am looking for a Christmas Card that contains inclusive
     language, yet retains the richness of 16th century English
     and is overtly Christian whilst been sensitive to the multi-
     faith patterns of out day… any suggestions?”

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Advent Books
This is a selection of book titles covered in the Church Times of 23rd October.
Frequencies of God: Walking                 Living in Hope
through Advent with R. S. Thomas,           Catherine Fox.
by Carys Walsh’.                            York Courses £3.80 (booklet); audio CD
Canterbury Press £12.99                     £8.99; transcript of audio £3.55; course
Interprets the poetry of the Welsh          pack including one each of the above
priest R. S. Thomas through the             £16.30
Advent prisms of waiting, accepting,        The 27-page booklet and accompanying
journeying, birthing, and seeing.           CD, with its transcript, are divided into
                                            four sessions. These are entitled Living
At Home in Advent: A domestic               well, Dying well, Hell-bent on destruction,
journey from Advent to Epiphany,            and Going to heaven when we die.
by Gordon Giles.
BRF £8.99                                   Sacred Space Advent and
In this BRF Advent Book, Gordon             Christmas 2020-2021.
Giles identifies the three                  The Irish Jesuits.
Advent themes that his reflections          Messenger Publications £4.50
seek to explore: “hope, expectation         This neat, pocket-sized book inhabits
and trepidation”. At Home in Advent is      a coronavirus-free environment. The
intended both for individual use and        spirituality is sound, and thoroughly
for groups. With daily thoughts             Ignatian, but there is little here to
accompanied by questions, activities,       relieve the anxiety of Advent 2020.
and prayers.
                                            Journeying through Advent with New
Into the Heart of Advent: Twenty-           Daylight: Daily Bible readings and
five conversations with Jesus, by           group study material. Sally Welch,
Penelope Wilcock.                           editor.
SPCK £9.99                                  BRF £2.99
This is a series of dialogues with          Extends from the First Sunday of Advent
Jesus, covering all the familiar Advent     through to Saturday 9 January 2021.
themes ranging from the Holy Family,        There is also a short, “do-it-yourself”
on day one, to the infant light, day 25.    Advent retreat included, with the themes
The tone is deliberately devotional;        of new beginnings with John the Baptist,
the style is familiar.                      Mary, Joseph, Jesus, and the wise men.
                                            This was also written with no reference
The Glorious Journey: A reflection          to the pandemic, so feels a bit out of
book based on “The Two Popes”,              touch and not helpful advent reading this
by Liam Kelly.                              year.
DLT £6.99
An Advent book based on the Netflix         The Celtic Year: A rhythm of prayer
film The Two Popes. This is a nicely        and meditation for the eight points
balanced secular commentary on              of the Celtic year. David Cole.
seasonal themes such as listening,          BRF £8.99
change, mercy, and loneliness.              This covers the whole year, rather
                                            than just Advent.
                                                                         Mike Hails
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YOUR MAGAZINE TEAM 2020

 The magazine team wish all readers a Happy Christmas and a Happy New
 Year 2021, and hope that you have enjoyed reading the church magazine
          during the year, which is its 130th year of publication.
Editor          Richard Young         Distribution
                                      Manager           Rosemary Woodroffe
Proof-readers   Stuart Brewer
                John Burton           Thank you to all our magazine
                Michael Forsdike      contributors. Without your valuable
                Jean Smith            contributions, the magazine would be
                Susan Young           greatly lacking in valued content;
                                      more next year please.
Printing        Sam Brewster
                                      We encourage you all to submit
Magazine        Paul & Lyn Clayden    articles of interest for inclusion in the
Distributors    Andrew Galletley      magazine. Such articles can include
                Maureen George        reports of church activities, accounts
                Ian & Ruth Forster    of holidays and outings, recipes,
                Mike Hails            puzzles, letters to the editor, relevant
                Pat Herrington        current topics. Please do not hesitate
                Sally Jones           to send them in to the Editor, either in
                Barbara Williams      electronic or manuscript form.
                Rosemary Woodroffe

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On How to Mix Town and Country – or not
                                                                      The Rectory
                                                       Saint James the Least of All
My dear Nephew Darren
Your idea for our two churches to hold       been obsolete before Jesus’s first
a combined New Year’s Day walk was           birthday, and a CD of Madonna’s
an admirable one, although I could           greatest hits.
sense a certain clash of cultures when
your party arrived at the starting point     I do concede that our two
with boots, waterproofs and GPS              congregations learned much from one
equipment. Our own group, rather             another. Our ladies were most
anticipating tottering between tea           interested to hear about the latest in
shops, with a little light shopping in       personal trainers, while yours
between, sported tweed suits,                discovered how to bring a pan of jam to
shopping bags and furled umbrellas.          a rolling boil. Your men seemed
                                             impressed to hear of squirrel shooting
Even the two sets of dogs seemed             while ours gathered useful tips for
bemused with one another, with your          caravanning abroad. And poor Miss
Westies and King Charles spaniels            Mill’s poodle learned that the great
making enough noise to scare all the         outdoors was a parallel and hostile
wildlife in the county, and our              universe.
Retrievers puzzled why the pheasants
were not dropping from the sky. Dear         By mid-afternoon, however, the balance
Miss Mill’s miniature poodle, with the       of power shifted. When the leader of the
painted toenails, will probably need life-   walk from your group lost his SatNav,
long counselling; the furthest she had       our members felt the need to assert
walked previously was from her bed to        themselves. The gentlemen navigated
beside the dining room table.                using wind direction, moss on trees and
                                             angles of the sun, while our ladies, with
The electronic navigation equipment          tweed skirts furled somewhat higher
brought by members of your group             than one would have wished, showed
made me think that if only the wise          yours how to wade through a peat bog
men had had these blessings, they            without complaining.
wouldn’t have had to follow anything as
unreliable as a star. Although I             Perhaps town and country really can
suppose that instead of gold,                learn from one another. But if Major
frankincense and myrrh, they would           Bullock’s wife arrives for Mattins next
then have arrived with an MP3 player,        Sunday sporting the latest gym gear,
a mobile phone, which would have             you will have much to answer for.

                                                                   Your loving uncle,

                                                                             Eustace

                                                                          Parish Pump

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PARISH JOTTINGS
Remembrance Sunday                         until at least 2nd December in order to
                                           stem the recent steep rise of corona
                                           virus infections, caused by many
                                           people not obeying the rules, and not
                                           socially distancing two metres, since
                                           the easing of the previous lockdown
                                           restrictions.
                                           The online ‘Zoom’ services work very
                                           well, and if you wish, you can actually
                                           sing at home, whereas you are not
                                           allowed to do so in church for fear of
                                           the added risk of any infected person
                                           spreading the virus. With the recent
         When you go home                  hope of a vaccine being available in the
        Tell them of us and say            not too distant future, we may be able
          For your tomorrow                to hold normal services in church
          We gave our today                again, perhaps before next Christmas.
This year, our Remembrance Service,
took place on Sunday 8th November.
Due to the Lockdown restrictions, it had
to be viewed on ‘Zoom’. The service
was led by Duncan and Michael,
speaking from their homes, with the
remote congregation taking part in their
homes, via their online device screens.
During the service, we observed the
two-minute silence as usual.
A wreath was placed on the church
main entrance gates, as suggested by
Ian Forster, and Rosemary Woodroffe
placed poppies on the war graves in        Pathways Magazine
the churchyard.                            The latest edition of Pathways is now
                                           available. This edition focusses on the
Another Lockdown                           climate emergency, and the need to
The notice on the church door read,        take action now. Due to Coronavirus
“Under the current restrictions, the       crisis restrictions, for the first time, the
church sadly has to remain closed          Diocese of Oxford has produced an
throughout November (except for            online-only PDF version of our
ongoing support groups and                 diocesan magazine, which can be
educational use by the school)”.           downloaded from -
Starting from 5th November, the second     ‘https://www.oxford.anglican.org/pat
lockdown is to remain in place             hways-pdf-version/’.
                                                                                    JB
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Holy Trinity Church banner (2018)

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THE Trinity TIMES
  The current parish magazine of Holy Trinity church, Henley-on-Thames.
    Published monthly throughout the year. This issue is Number 313.
1,536 Holy Trinity church parish magazines have been produced since 1890.

            CONTACTS AT HOLY TRINITY CHURCH
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   The Reverend Duncan Carter      Holy Trinity Vicarage          57 4822
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    Readers are invited to contribute articles, features, notices, etc., for
    publication in the Trinity Times. Submissions should be delivered to
  Richard Young, 11 Saint Mary’s Close, (Telephone 578422), or may be
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