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               Wellbeing in the
              Ōtautahi LGBTQIA+
                 community
                                              Research overview and findings

What is this research about?                  Key findings                                 Where to from here?

In late 2018, All Right? completed the        • Overall the research pointed to a mostly   Looking to the future, it was felt the city
Rainbow Community Resilience Research,          optimistic community.                      needed clear guidance from education,
An Exploration of Wellbeing in the            • In the key areas of education, health,     business and service leaders so that the
Ōtautahi LGBTQIA+ Community, under              and workplace wellbeing there are some     LGBTQIA+ community is not just tolerated
the leadership of Suran Dickson with Dr         things going well—and some things that     but embraced – creating a vibrant,
David Betts.                                    need to change.                            diverse and evolving city.
                                              • In general, progress has been made in
This research collects the views of the                                                    It was felt this would diminish voices of
                                                safety and inclusion—but 74% of survey
rainbow community of Christchurch,                                                         prejudice while enhancing the self-
                                                respondents had experienced negative
with the intent to better understand the                                                   worth of the queer community and
                                                or offensive comments in public over
strengths of the community, increase                                                       attracting progressive and diverse thinkers
                                                the last three years.
visibility and education and therefore                                                     to our city.
                                              • Respondents reported a decrease
reduce discrimination and enhance self-
                                                in homophobia—however, many
esteem.
                                                commented that transphobia is a key
The researchers spoke with 26 people in         issue.
focus groups and heard from 263 people        • There was a clear sense that kinship
in an online survey – all a mix of genders,     and connection are vital to wellbeing—
ages and ethnicities. Initial findings were     but 44% felt they didn’t have enough
reflected back to the community at an           connection to the rainbow community.
engagement event with about 60 people,        • Popular topics included mental health,
with opportunity for clarifying input.          the need for better sexuality education
                                                in schools, the need for better
                                                education of the general public about
                                                LGBTQIA+ people, lack of queer venues
                                                and spaces, and limited visibility of
                                                LGBTQIA+ people.
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                       Supporting our
                        young people
                          At School
                                         Information for schools and educators

Safety                                      Sex and relationship education               ‘My teachers didn’t challenge it
                                                                                         (homophobic language) so other kids just
School didn’t feel particularly safe for    Participants didn’t believe the sex and
                                                                                         knew they could get away with it.
lesbians or young gay men, and even less    relationships education offered at schools
so for other LGBTQIA+ groups. More than     was of a high enough standard for anyone,
                                                                                         What can we do about it?
half of respondents disagreed or strongly   let alone LGBTQIA+ young people. Half
disagreed with the statement that school    of respondents expressed the need for        • Provide school/staff support of an
was a safe place for transgender or         higher quality sexual education in schools     LGBTQIA+ oriented group, if one
queer/non-conforming people.                and 24% believed the need to challenge         doesn’t already exist.
                                            binary gender ideals in schools is a key     • Review sex/relationship education to
‘There is lots of bullying in changing
                                            concern for the community.                     ensure all communities feel part of
rooms.’
                                                                                           the discussion and ensure education
                                            ‘I had no education about STIs then got
                                                                                           is delivered by people who take a
Visibility                                  chlamydia and learned that way!’
                                                                                           respectful attitude towards the content.
There is a common understanding that        ‘I learned about gay sex from porn. It’s     • Partner with local queer organisations
with more LGBTQIA+ orientated groups        very much not the same as real life.’          such as Qtopia or other training
in schools and universities now, this has                                                  providers to promote training on
improved visibility of the community        Inclusion                                      diversity issues for schools.
and had a significant impact on safety                                                   • Train teachers in how to identify and
                                            There were common accounts of
and inclusion. However, there is still a                                                   handle homophobia, transphobia and
                                            troubling levels of homophobia in same
way to go.                                                                                 biphobia.
                                            sex schools, including hyper-masculine
                                                                                         • Develop school policies that support
‘As a teacher, I didn’t feel comfortable    behavior in all-boys schools, lack of
                                                                                           safety and inclusion for LGBTQIA+
being ‘out’ at an all-boys school in        intervention from teachers around
                                                                                           students and staff.
Christchurch, despite having been out at    homophobia, lack of inclusion, and
                                                                                         • Support the annual Pink Shirt Day and
other schools.’                             avoidance of queer issues in sex and
                                                                                           make use of its school resources.
                                            relationships education. The majority
                                            of the participants responded that their
                                            teachers were not well-versed or able
                                            to challenge homophobia, biphobia, and
                                            transphobia in schools, contributing to
                                            feeling a lack of safety and inclusion in
                                            school environments.
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                                 Supporting
                                 employees &
                                  customers
                                     Information for businesses & workplaces

Safety                                      Visibility and inclusion                     What can we do about it?

53% of people surveyed agreed that their    Education of the majority occurs when        • Partner with local queer agencies such
workplaces were safe and inclusive. Some    the minority group are visible, welcome        as Qtopia or other training providers
referred to the benefits of being able to   and heard. 67% of people surveyed              for training on diversity issues for
bring their 'whole self' to work.           would like to see their work environment       businesses and to increase awareness
                                            display a rainbow friendly emblem such         and respect of the rainbow community.
However 55% felt they did not need to be
                                            as a poster. There was seen to be an         • Use inclusive language and images on
‘out’ at work as they said they were just
                                            opportunity here to shed conservative          internal and external communications
there to do a job—whether as a personal
                                            images and connect into the LGBTQIA+           material.
preference or for their own protection.
                                            community to make the city more              • Develop recruitment and workplace
One 20-year old said he would ‘never
                                            rainbow friendly.                              policies that support safety and
be out at work’ in his future career, as
                                                                                           inclusion for LGBTQIA+ staff, potential
he believed it to be an unaccepting field   ‘The LGBT poster at my gym made me
                                                                                           staff and customers/service users.
(agriculture). This sentiment was echoed    feel safe.’
                                                                                         • Support the annual Pink Shirt Day
in other sectors, such as construction.
                                            Language                                       event and make use of its workplace
This may be an indicator that some                                                         resources.
                                            Homophobic, biphobic and transphobic
industries and workplaces have work to
                                            language was still considered to be
do to ensure they attract the best young
                                            an issue. Some participants felt that
talent and create accepting cultures
                                            disparaging language wasn’t always
where staff can be themselves at work.
                                            intended to be hurtful or homophobic.
                                            It was felt visibility and education would
                                            prevent peers making unwitting word
                                            choices that could hurt others.

                                            ‘I see homophobia all the time, people
                                            don’t really know they are doing it.’
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                      Supporting our
                       older people &
                        their families
                                               Information for rest homes

A time of rapid change                       Social interaction                           • Partner with local queer agencies such
                                                                                            as Qtopia or other training providers
Homosexuality was illegal in New Zealand     The research showed clearly that kinship
                                                                                            for training on diversity issues for
32 years ago. It would be challenging to     and connection was vital to wellbeing, and
                                                                                            businesses and increasing awareness
find a similar minority group in society     that the rainbow community took strength
                                                                                            and respect of the rainbow community.
who have experienced such a rapid and        from each other.
                                                                                          • Use inclusive language and images on
significant rate of social and legislative
                                             Some mentioned a lack of provision for         internal and external communications
change in such a short period of time. The
                                             social opportunities, however participants     material.
experiences of a 15-year-old transgender
                                             also reported letting each other know        • Develop policies to support safety and
male can be assumed to be vastly
                                             about existing activities. Lack of             inclusion for LGBTQIA+ staff, residents
different to a 65-year-old gay man who
                                             information about social opportunities for     and their families.
lived through homosexual law reform
                                             older people might therefore be an issue.    • Promote resources like the Pink Pages
                                                                                            online directory and the Silver Rainbow
Acknowledgement and respect                  ‘Our community is a source of strength,
                                                                                            initiative.
                                             we take pride in ourselves.’
30% of the respondents agreed with
the statement, ‘I am worried about not       ‘It’s harder for older people, I’m too
being looked after or respected as an        old for bars so it’s tricky accessing the
LGBTQIA+ person when I am at retirement      community.’
age’, with another 26% neither agreeing
                                             Both older and younger LGBTQIA+ people
nor disagreeing.
                                             commented that social activities did
The additional statement of ‘I am            not need to be exclusive to a particular
confident I can find an LGBTQIA+ friendly    age group – there was interest in cross-
rest home in the city’ returned similar      generational activities and mingling too.
results. There is concern that if people
become less articulate or their voices       What can we do about it?
less heard as they age, their sexuality
                                             • Train staff on diversity issues to
or gender identity might become less
                                               ensure LGBTQIA+ people feel safe and
respected.
                                               respected and that their relationships
‘Some people go back in the closet when        aren’t treated any differently to their
they go to a retirement village.’              heterosexual or cisgender/gender-
                                               conforming peers.
‘You’d have to ‘come out’ again in a rest
home or not be out.’
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                  Creating more
                 supportive health
                     services
                                          Information for primary care providers

Mental health                                Awareness of services                          ‘We’ve just been at the funeral of a
                                                                                            friend who died of pneumonia; he had
Poor mental health is a significant          One of the findings from the focus groups
                                                                                            undiagnosed HIV and I doubt he was out
concern and respondents felt it had the      was lack of knowledge as to what services
                                                                                            to his GP.’
greatest impact on wellbeing and sense of    exist, how safe they are and where
community for the LGBTQIA+ community.        someone in need might find support.            ‘I get asked massively stupid questions
                                                                                            about sex.’
Themes of previous experiences of stigma     For young people, Qtopia, Kindred
and a lack of dedicated and competent        and Youth Hub 298 were mentioned,              ‘I came out (as non-binary) to my GP
mental health services to support the        however there seemed to be a lack of           today. He was educated to call trans
LGBTQIA+ community emerged through           support options for older people and           people ‘it’.’
the research.                                fertility services were considered to be
                                             ill-equipped to respond to the needs of        What can we do about it?
‘Self-harm and suicide are a big deal.’
                                             rainbow people.
                                                                                            • Increase awareness around which
‘Issues go inward and no one is available.
                                             ‘What services?’                                 services were knowledgeable and
We’re all too busy treading water.’
                                                                                              compassionate by promoting resources
                                             ‘I haven’t been to a counsellor because I
                                                                                              like the Pink Pages online directory.
Substance use                                have LGBT related worries, as I wouldn’t
                                                                                            • Ensure forms and language are
                                             know where to go.’
When asked about issues facing the                                                            inclusive; avoid making assumptions.
LGBTQIA+ community in Christchurch,                                                         • Support training for medical
                                             GP services
20% responded that drug and alcohol                                                           professionals and other staff on
abuse were a concern - nearly 10% of         Just over half of contributors were not          diversity of sexual orientation, gender
the participants indicated they used         out to their GPs, a potentially concerning       identity and sex characteristics to
drugs and roughly 22% reported drinking      situation if patients don’t feel comfortable     ensure LGBTQIA+ people are safe,
alone to manage their stress. However        being themselves or talking openly.              respected and understood.
contributors stated that drugs weren’t as                                                   • Use inclusive language and images on
                                             Strong themes emerged regarding the
big a problem here as other big cities and                                                    communications material, like posters in
                                             importance of inclusive language and
whilst alcohol is a significant problem,                                                      the waiting room, pamphlets, etc.
                                             practice, appropriate cultural training and
probably no more so than the rest of                                                        • Develop policies that support safety
                                             engagement and fewer assumptions about
the NZ population. Note that this finding                                                     and inclusion for LGBTQIA+ staff,
                                             heterosexual practices and cisgender
clashes with health data, which shows                                                         clients, and their families.
                                             identities as the default.
disproportionate drug and alcohol abuse
in the rainbow community.
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                       Creating a
                     more supportive
                       community
                                               Findings for community leaders

A city of change                               ‘I have been yelled at, chased, had things    ‘We don’t have a Pride parade, but
                                               thrown at me; I don’t feel comfortable        we could have a rainbow (pedestrian)
Taking the research findings as a whole,
                                               holding hands with my partner. It hasn’t      crossing, like Wellington does.’
Christchurch has a thriving LGBTQIA+
                                               changed heaps, there are lots of people
population of thoughtful, diverse and                                                        ‘More gender-neutral toilets; the bus
                                               out there whose attitudes haven’t
good hearted people – some who feel                                                          exchange toilets are awesome.’
                                               changed.’
happy and safe, and others not. There
is a feeling that Christchurch has an                                                        What can we do about it?
                                               Venues
opportunity to shed the conservative
                                                                                             • Look for ways the LGBTQIA+
image of old and connect to the rainbow        The lack of venues specific to queer
                                                                                               community can be supported and
community, creating a narrative focused        people post-earthquake was a common
                                                                                               celebrated.
on an accepting and innovative city. It        theme. Clearly kinship and connection
                                                                                             • Ensure public places and events are
was felt this would have the potential to      are vital to wellbeing, however 44%
                                                                                               inclusive.
attract progressive and diverse thinkers       of online survey participants felt they
                                                                                             • Use inclusive language and images on
who might otherwise be tempted by              didn’t have enough connection to the
                                                                                               internal and external communications
Wellington or Auckland.                        rainbow community. People felt a
                                                                                               material.
                                               designated space would increase visibility,
                                                                                             • Reach out to local LGBTQIA+ friendly
Safety                                         connection, opportunities to be ‘seen’
                                                                                               organisations about funding and
                                               and to support others who were in need.
Some people find Christchurch an unsafe                                                        sponsorship opportunities.
and at times aggressive city, others felt      ‘There is nowhere distinct to go, not many    • Promote Christchurch as a queer
a sense of safety and belonging. Whilst        places you can safely be gay.’                  friendly city.
negative or offensive comments had been
                                               ‘I have some queer friends but I don't feel
directed at 74% of online respondents
                                               like I am part of the Christchurch queer
in the past three years, 90% felt more
                                               community. I would love to meet other
accepted than they have in the past,
                                               fellow queers but I don't know where to
which suggests attitudes are changing.
                                               start looking.’
Despite this, safety is still an issue. When
asked about their most pressing concerns,
                                               Visibility
22% referred to bullying and safety.
                                               Almost all contributors felt that greater
‘We are really comfortable holding hands
                                               visibility would further increase general
and only rarely is anything said…we did
                                               society’s understanding and therefore
get called faggots recently though.’
                                               help the LGBTQIA+ community feel safer.
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             Learnings for
          parents of rainbow
                children
                                         Supporting children to be themselves

Support from whānau and friends               Age and acceptance                          ‘Dad is a dick and doesn’t want to learn
                                                                                          but my Mum is willing to learn, I teach my
A theme for focus group members was           Within the focus groups, no apparent
                                                                                          Mum.’
ensuring they have a support network in       differences between age groups
the form of both family and friends – for     appeared; some younger people had           ‘When I was younger my mum told me
most, it was a mixture of the two. Some       very accepting parents, some didn’t,        she’d disown us if we were gay. I now
had struggled with familial relationships     and the same pattern occurred in the        have a superficial relationship with my
in the past but made a kind of peace          over 40-year-old groups. One young          mother, she has not been very accepting.’
with their parents over time as the latter    transgender man’s grandmother had paid
                                                                                          'My mother probably doesn't remember
had grown to understand or accept their       for his top surgery – a touching example
                                                                                          all the dodgy comments [she made]
sexuality or gender identity.                 of how age isn’t necessarily a barrier to
                                                                                          about lesbians while I was closeted, but I
                                              acceptance. Survey results, however,
77% of respondents agreed that having                                                     sure do.'
                                              showed a tendency to find younger family
at least one person in the family support
                                              members more accepting than older
their sexual orientation or gender identity                                               What can you do about it?
                                              generations.
made things easier.
                                                                                          • Be there for them, and know that
‘I’m in touch with my family but they don’t   Coming out                                    there is nothing wrong with your child’s
accept me. My family are out of their                                                       identity and nothing about them needs
                                              Many of the participants reported that
comfort zone and don’t have anything to                                                     changing. Affirm your child and their
                                              their experiences coming out to their
go by – they have no experience with this                                                   sense of who they are.
                                              whānau were positive, however, there
difference.’                                                                              • Display a willingness to learn about your
                                              were also narratives highlighting how
                                                                                            child’s sexuality, gender identity, and
‘I had no such thing as a support network     negative attitudes towards gender
                                                                                            the rainbow community.
as a teenager, and I considered suicide.’     and sexual diversity could create long
                                                                                          • Try and find a support group if your
                                              periods of separation in family networks.
‘Mum and Dad raised me with boys’ and                                                       child is interested in it. RainbowYOUTH
                                              Common narratives included that many
girls’ clothes, which was cool! My parents                                                  has a database of support groups
                                              family members became more accepting
really don’t mind that I am gay, they just                                                  across the country. You might also want
                                              over time, and that there was sometimes
don’t care.’                                                                                to find a support group for yourself.
                                              supportive attitudes and actions varied
                                                                                          • Stand up for the rights of your child,
                                              within families. Some commented that
                                                                                            especially if they are not adequately
                                              they would have benefitted from family
                                                                                            supported, for example, at school, in
                                              support before they came out, for
                                                                                            their activities or by their GP.
                                              instance if parents had been explicitly
                                              supportive of LGBTQIA+ people.
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