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                                            CONTENTS
                  F E AT U R E S                                  O U T TA K E S
                  18 Publisher's Letter
                                                                    O U T TA K E S
                                                                  20 Open House for "The Circular Quiet"
                                                                        featuring Nancy Cheairs
                  26 Celebrating the Wedding of Cecilia
                        Walker & Matthew Heffington               20 Early Childhood Academy Groundbreaking
                  30 Celebrating the Wedding of Selden            22 Mighty Wurlitzer Organ Homecoming
                        Humphreys & Erim Sarinoglu
                                                                  22 Party off the Plaza - Wine Week
                  32 Celebrating the Wedding of Catherine
                                                                  24 Fall and Holiday Social Soirees
                        Norton & Nathan Simpson
                                                                  46 Cheryl Pesce The Lifestyle Store
                  34 Celebrating the Wedding of Katie
                                                                        Laurelwood Grand Opening
                        Walker & Adam Pike
                                                                  46 Laurelwood Sunday Stroll
                  36 Beauty To Do’s before saying “I Do”
                  38 Wedding Registry Guide                          About the Cover:
                  40 Lawson's Virtual Wedding Guide                  Maggie Holden & Blake Rowland
                  44 For the Love of Cheese: Greys Fine Cheeses      December 5, 2020
                        & Entertaining                               Photographer: Kelly Ginn Photography
                                                                     Videographer: John Ginn
                  45 Ken Hall's January / February Art Events        Location: The Jefferson Oxford
                  48 Fashion                                         Wedding Dress: Maggie Louise
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BABCOCK GIFTS - BAER’S DEN
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 FLEET FEET SPORTS - FROST BAKE SHOP
      HEATHER - THE GROVE GRILL
      HOT YOGA PLUS IBERIA BANK
  J MC LAUGHLIN - JAMES DAVIS - J JILL
JOSEPH - KING FURS AND FINE JEWELRY
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     NOVEL - ORVIS - PANERA BREAD
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    VIGNETTES INTERIORS - ZÜPMED
From the
            Publisher
            Seek the Peace and
            Prosperity of the City
            in which I have
            placed you.
            Jeremiah 29:7
                                                                               Jim Walker

            "Ah, Lord God! It is you who have made the         that 2020 will be remembered for the rest of
            heavens and the earth by your great power and      our lives as anything but clear.
            by your outstretched arm! Nothing is too hard      I recently reposted a Facebook post asking
            for you… You have shown signs and wonders          the question, “can we start using 2020 as a
            in the land of Egypt and have continued them       four-letter curse word”. The desire to quickly
            to this day in Israel and among all mankind        leave 2020 behind us is a universal prayer, we
            and have made a name for yourself, as at this      long to return to the days of walking free of
            day. You brought your people Israel out of the     masks, while not fearing a casual conversation
            land of Egypt with signs and wonders, with a       with a stranger or, more importantly, a loved
            strong hand and outstretched arm and with          one.
            great terror." Jeremiah 32:17,20,21
                                                               Jeremiah 17 lifts up the power of God that
                            Goodbye 2020                       spared Israel by delivering it from slavery, the
                                                               focus is not on the fact that Israel is enslaved,
            2020, a year of terror, confusion, uncertainty
                                                               but on the greatness of God and that He
            and loss. 2020, a year of family closeness,
                                                               reached in and saved Israel. I believe as we
            renewed time with neighbors and support
                                                               leave 2020 and work to restore our lives in
            of those in need. 2020, a year of paradoxes,
                                                               2021, we should thank God for the work of
            record profits on Wall Street while much of
                                                               the scientists and health care workers who
            Main Street lives day to day, a country divided
                                                               have made the 2021 recovery possible. We
            down the middle politically while working
                                                               should look for ways to support the local
            together to overcome damage caused by the
                                                               businesses that start to reopen as the power
            virus.                                             of the vaccine takes hold of the city.
            I was recently having lunch with a friend who      Our children and grandchildren will study
            was struggling to determine the right career       the 2020 Pandemic, I can only pray that we
            move. He is one of the blessed ones in this        all work together to put the election and
            Pandemic whose skills were much in demand          Pandemic behind us so the history books
            but determining the right choice, given the        will not only write about the damage of the
            tremendous need of the different parties           Pandemic, but they will write about how
            asking for his help, wasn’t easy. He said he       we all worked to help rebuild our nation by
            “had been praying for vision and wisdom            rebuilding our cities focusing on those who
            and found it ironic that, in the year of 2020,     have been most affected by the Pandemic.
            there has never been more confusion or lack
            of vision everywhere”. He found it humorous        Seek the peace and prosperity of Memphis.
            that 2020 Vision has always been a statement
                                                                                 Jim Walker
            that describes the ability to see things clearly
            and voiced the frustration/sentiment of us all,

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JANUARY
  FEBRUARY
       2021
                                Your Wealth is Earned

                                 Now it’s time to plan
January / February 2021
 Volume XII • Number 1           for the future.
        PUBLISHER
       Jim Walker
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    MANAGING EDITOR
  Sandi Butler Hughes
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Early Childhood Academy
Groundbreaking
The University of Memphis, Porter-Leath, and RedZone held a socially-distanced groundbreaking on November 11, 2020, in Orange
Mound. The University of Memphis and Porter-Leath are partnering to launch a new, innovative Early Childhood Academy located
alongside the Orange Mound neighborhood’s RedZone Ministries. The Academy is designed to help address a critical need for early
childhood care in the Memphis community. The site design has been inspired by the community and neighborhood traditions of Orange
Mound, and will feature 18 classrooms that will serve nearly 300 local children.

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1. Children digging 2. Sean Lee & Karen Harrell digging with children 3. Groundbreaking Group with children

Open House for "The Circular Quiet"
Featuring Nancy Cheairs
Artist Nancy Cheairs recently hosted an open house of her new works
in "The Circular Quiet.” The exhibit was held at Binder Projects,
located at 74 Flicker Street, and featured paintings she created during                  Thank you to our
the pandemic. Nancy's use of vibrant colors seeks out the stillpoint in          2021 Mid-South Go Red for Women
a chaotic world. For more information on upcoming exhibits and to
view Nancy’s work, visit binderprojects.com.                                               Leadership!

                                                                                            Susan Springfield
                                                                                            Chief Credit Officer, First Horizon
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Mighty Wurlitzer Organ Homecoming
The Orpheum Theatre
After over a year of undergoing a complete restoration in Chicago, the Orpheum’s Mighty Wurlitzer pipe organ returned to Memphis. In
conjunction with the Orpheum’s 92nd birthday, the theatre held a free concert on November 19 hosted by Orpheum President and CEO
Brett Batterson. The evening featured local Historian and Organist Vincent Astor and Orpheum House Organist Tony Thomas playing the
magnificent Wurlitzer. For more information on upcoming events, visit orpheum-memphis.com.

Party off the Plaza - Wine Week
Church Health
The 2020 Party off the Plaza benefiting Church Health featured Wine Week during the first week of November, and guests
enjoyed virtual events from their homes while supporting the wonderful works of Church Health. Wine Week offered a fun
drive-through wine pull, which featured wines valued from $100 to well over $1,000, online workshops featuring local experts
on how to construct a charcuterie board for home entertaining, fine cheeses and wine pairings, and more. For more information
on upcoming events and how to donate, visit churchhealth.org.

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1. Alex Shindler, Cara Greenstein & Kent Ritchey 2. Rabbi Micah Greenstein & Kent Ritchey 3. David Tate, Dr. Scott Morris & Kent Ritchey
4. David Tate & Penny Aviotti 5. David Tate & Anne Halloran
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“Just Married” Package: $500                         “Tying the Knot” Package: $2,500
  • 90 minutes in the Reception Hall                   • Two hours on the Orpheum stage or Grand Lobby
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“I Do” Package: $1,000                               “The Big Day” Package: $3,500
  • Two hours in the Reception Hall                   • Four hours on the Orpheum stage or Grand Lobby
  • Wedding couple plus 30 guests                     • Wedding couple plus 50 guests
  • Six bottles of champagne                          • Eight bottles of champagne
  • Tables, chairs, tablecloths, and dressing room    • Tables, chairs, tablecloths, and dressing room
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                                                     For information about the Orpheum Theatre,
 • Four hours in the Reception Hall
                                                     contact Joy Truly Brown at 901-529-4234
 • Wedding couple plus 50 guests
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 • Eight bottles of champagne
 • Tables, chairs, tablecloths, and dressing room
                                                     Packages available for events booked through June 30, 2021.
                                                     Our packages are designed to be simple, turn-key, and budget-friendly.
For information about the Halloran Centre,           If you wish to add elements beyond what is included in these packages,
contact Sara Adams at 901-529-4276                   please contact our rental managers for options and pricing, or ask about
or adams@orpheum-memphis.com                         planning a completely customized wedding to meet your specific needs.
Fall and Holiday Social Soirees
Social, A Shop for Gracious Living recently hosted socially-distanced celebrations. On a beautiful fall afternoon, the “Socialites”
held a Crazy 8 Birthday Bash to celebrate Social’s birthday. Soon after, the Holiday Open House was held with splendid decor
and great gifting ideas. Friends and Social shoppers toasted the joys of the season.

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                                ecilia Lona Walker and Matthew Curtis Heffington hosted a small, enchanting wedding
                                on the beautiful British island of Bermuda October, 2020. With a global pandemic
                                and safety precautions in mind, the couple was relieved that their locale of choice
                        had only two Covid-19 cases and required pre-flight testing, airport arrival testing and
                        quarantining before the festivities would commence. The sophisticated island, a favorite of
                        the Walker Family, welcomed 30 friends and family members with a “In Love and Lost in
                        the Bermuda Triangle” themed rehearsal dinner on the Beach Terrace of the Coral Beach
                        & Tennis Club. Guests enjoyed the ocean views, the draped orchids and greenery, Dark ’n
                        Stormies and toasts that went on into the night. The next day, the wedding took place at the
                        stoic and historical Unfinished Church - a gothic vestige built in the 1800s ravaged by fires.
                        The storied building is one of Bermuda’s most alluring ruins filled with white roses, golden
                        urns and palms for the special day. The bride was walked down the aisle by her older brother,
                        Deloss Walker, to a live string quartet playing Andrea Bocelli’s “The Prayer.” The bride and
                        groom rode back in a 1939 Ford to their cliffside reception on Longtail Terrace at the Coral
                        Beach & Tennis Club. The guests sat under the stars listening to the crashing waves and
                        dining on delicious local eats surrounded by red ranunculus and roses, beautiful candelabras
                        and chandeliers. The bride donned several outfit changes dancing with her groom to Duke
                        Ellington’s "Jeep’s Blues.” The love and excitement carried into the night ending with a unique
                        keepsake for guests to take home - a piece of original art created by French artist,
                        Jean-Paul Jacquet. The mural was a beautiful 6 ft x 4 ft tale of the couple’s relationship,
                        traveling adventures and nostalgic mementos. The following day, the entire wedding party
                        boarded a sleek 77-ft yacht named the Zara and sailed the Atlantic. After the sail, guests
                        convened for the final event - a beach bonfire with s’mores and champagne. The couple
                        hopes to have a larger, more inclusive celebration of their marriage when life normalizes.

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Photographer:
              Alexa & Matt Penberthy
        Caterer: Coral Beach & Tennis Club
                 Wedding Dress:
        Vera Wang, Rasario, Pearl Headpiece
             by Mimi Beasley of Amulet
             Other Clothing Vendors:
         Miu Miu, Hill House Home, Gucci,
          Sarah Bray Bermuda, Fox & Cat
           Vintage, Century Girl Vintage

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Selden Humphreys & Erim Sarinoglu
SEPTEMBER 26, 2020

P    lanning a wedding during COVID proved to be
     challenging to say the least.
Erim and I first met back in high school during our
senior trip to the Bahamas. We definitely noticed
each other, but mostly from afar. We each knew
that we were both heading to Washington, DC for
college, but ended up only running into each other
once during our time there. Fast forward a few
years later, we were both back in Memphis. We
reconnected on Bumble, went on a date and were
inseparable ever since!
It all came full circle during a trip to London in
January 2020 when Erim popped the question on the
London Eye, the giant Ferris wheel that overlooks
the breathtaking city. We immediately got to work
planning a beautiful, 500 people reception for
September. Then, the news of COVID soon hit and
we were thrown for a loop. We hoped the situation
would be short-lived, but despite our best attempts
to uninvite the pandemic from the wedding, she
persisted. Even with COVID, Erim and I knew we
wanted to proceed with the date. We were ready
to start the next chapter in our lives together and
didn’t want something out of our control ruining
this moment for us. Consequently, like most couples
planning a wedding during this time – we sprang
into action to navigate this ever-evolving situation to
keep our friends and family safe. We cut the guestlist
by 80%, moved the entire event to my parents’
home to keep everything outside, administered
temperature checks, handed out masks to our guests
and did everything else in our power to make sure
our guests felt safe.
 COVID certainly forced us to get creative, and in
the process, we managed to turn a less than hopeful
situation like this into such a memorable and
intimate wedding! While it was heartbreaking not
to have everyone we wanted there, we remained
positive and focused on the thing that meant most
– our marriage. We were still surrounded by our
closest friends and family, which truly made our
wedding so special. While the day wasn’t like we
originally planned, it was absolutely perfect.
-Selden

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Lead Photographer:
                  Ann-Marie Wyatt
             Second Shooter: Alex Sage
                 Cake: Kay Bakery
           Wedding Dress: Low's Bridal
            Reception Venue: Mimi and
           Jim Taylor’s Private Residence
             Coordinator: Mimi Taylor
              Flowers: Garden District
            Invitations: RSVP Stationers
        Rentals: White Door, Garden District,
              Amerispan and Mahaffey
                 Ceremony Music:
               Memphis String Quartet
                       Band:
          Al Paris and the Heartbreakers
                 Rehearsal Venue:
              Dixon Gallery & Gardens
            Caterer: Fascinating Catering
                 Hair: Annie Coates
             Makeup: Kendrick Simpson
              Live Painter: Amy Stone
             Photo Booth: 9Photo1Booth
           Preparation Accommodations:
           The University Club of Memphis
           Transportation: Walls Limo and
             Guardian Concierge Services
                Valet: Southern Valet
             Cleaners: Palvado Cleaners
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Catherine Norton &
                Nathan Simpson   SEPTEMBER 19, 2020

 O
         ur wedding was originally scheduled for April 18, 2020, possibly the peak of
         the pandemic in Shelby County. One month before the wedding, the CDC
         issued guidance that social gatherings were limited to 10 people. Thinking a
 six-month delay would be sufficient, we postponed our “big” wedding celebration
 to September 19, 2020. Nathan and I were determined to still get married on our
 original date, but with the Shelby County Clerk’s office closed since March, our
 determination led us to Fayette County, where we were able to finally get our
 marriage license. We had an intimate ceremony with just our parents and Nathan’s
 siblings, which was incredibly special.
 We were excited to have our “I Do, Re-Do” with more family and friends on
 September 19, 2020. We took numerous precautions to ensure the safety of our
 guests. Masks were required and guests were seated at least six feet apart on every
 other row in Christ Methodist’s sanctuary. We moved our reception to the spacious
 Columns to allow for abundant social distancing, and we provided customized
 masks and personal hand sanitizers for each guest. We also live-streamed the
 ceremony and first dance for guests who could not attend in person.
 Despite the unconventional circumstances surrounding our wedding, we tried to
 incorporate several wedding traditions. For my “something old,” my mom surprised
 me with a purse made from her wedding dress; my “something new” was a mask
 that matched my wedding dress; my “something borrowed” was a pair of my mom’s
 pearl and diamond drop earrings; my “something blue” was the blue and white
 chinoiserie theme used throughout our reception.
 With the help of my mom, our incredible wedding planner, and our team of vendors,
 the wedding was more spectacular than I ever could have imagined!
  -Catherine

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Photographer:                             Wedding Dress:
    Taylor Square Photography                Anne Barge / Maggie Louise
          Videographer:                         Bridesmaids Dresses:
  Message in a Bottle Productions           Alfred Sung / Bella Bridesmaids
       Caterer: CFY Catering                       Tux: Jos. A. Bank
           Bride’s Hair:                    Cakes: Cakes by Mom and Me
     Misty Davis, Salon Liani                           Venues:
      Bridesmaids Makeup:                  Christ Methodist Church and The
         Kendrick Simpson                               Columns
          Dance Lessons:                 Coordinator: Mona E. Dunlap Events
     Fred Astaire Dance Studio                 Flowers: Garden District
         Caricature Artist:                       Invitations: R.S.V.P.
    Kevin Reuter (Roto Brothers
                                             Rentals: White Door Rentals
            Caricatures)
                                                   Reception Band:
  Ceremony Musicians: Dr. Gary
                                                 The Downtown Band
Beard (organ), Barrie Cooper (violin),
  and Dr. David Spencer (trumpet)                  Rehearsal Venue:
                                                  The University Club
        Valet: Southern Valet
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Katie Walker &
                                                       Adam Pike SEPTEMBER 19, 2020

                                                       A
                                                              dam and I met our freshmen year of
                                                              high school during our first period
                                                              class, but didn’t start dating until
                                                       our senior year. When choosing colleges
                                                       to attend, I decided on Mississippi State
                                                       University while Adam went to Austin Peay
                                                       State University to play basketball. After
                                                       a year of dating long-distance, we both
                                                       decided to come back home and attend
                                                       the University of Memphis during the fall
                                                       of 2016. Fast forward to 2020, Adam is a
                                                       high school history teacher and basketball
                                                       coach at Briarcrest (where we met),
                                                       and I’m working with dogs everyday at
                                                       Whippoorwill Farms Dog Retreat (WWF).
                                                       Once Adam and I were engaged, deciding
                                                       on a venue was the easiest part of the
                                                       wedding planning process. I always knew
                                                       that I wanted to get married at the farm. I
                                                       spent every weekend hanging on the farm
                                                       and Adam quickly grew to love it as we
                                                       spent all the time we could there. We chose
                                                       September 19th for our wedding date, and
                                                       the day could not have been more perfect.
                                                       The ceremony and reception were both
                                                       outside, overlooking our lake, which made
                                                       it an awesome (and safe) venue for a 2020
                                                       wedding. No better way to start a new
                                                       chapter in our lives than getting married in
                                                       the place that means the most to us! -Katie

                                                                    Wedding Cake:
                                                                     Piece of Cake
                                                                   Wedding Dress:
                                                                     Maggie Louise
                                                                        Makeup:
                                                                Beauty by Leigh Downing
                                                                      Hair Stylist:
                                                                   Annie Shackleford
                                                                    Photographer:
                                                                   Whit Photography
                                                                        Caterer:
                                                                 A Moveable Feast and
                                                                   Hog Wild Catering
                                                                        Florist:
                                                                  Deedra Stone Designs
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Where a Dog Can Be a Dog:
    Whippoorwill Farms Dog Retreat

      P
            ets are our furry family, and
            Whippoorwill Farms Dog Retreat
            is the best place ever to treat
      your dog! It’s a cross between summer
      camp and boarding school for pups.
      Located 30 minutes east of Collierville,
      Whippoorwill Farms Dog Retreat
      (WWF) is the place of doggy dreams.
      Katie Walker Pike is a life-long dog-
      person and in 2018, she founded WWF.

      “I pursued my passion for dogs and
      started my own doggy-daycare/boarding
      facility, Whippoorwill Farms Dog
      Retreat,” Katie said. “WWF is located
      on my family farm where the pups have
      all the room they need to run, play, and
      swim in our beautiful lake.”

      High-energy pups have lots of wide-
      open space for running; water dogs have
      a pond for swimming; and there are
      dozens of balls to chase - and people to
      throw them.

      WWF offers pick-up and drop-off for
      their dog guests included in their fee.
      Midtown and Downtown pick-ups
      available for a minimal charge. And
      what would a retreat be without a little
      pampering? After a full day of doggy
      play, bathing services are also available.

      Follow them on
      Instagram and Facebook
      @whippoorwillfarmsdogretreat and
      see all the happy dogs having the time
      of their lives... and Katie too!
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Beauty To Do’s Before Saying “I DO”
    E
            verybody needs pampering before the special day, whether you are the mother of the bride, member of the bridal
            party, and especially the bride! We are fortunate to have many day spas throughout the city that offer such services
            for brides to look and feel their best before the big day. We chatted with Eden Spa & Laser, one of the premier spas in
            Memphis, for ideas and services for the bride and the bridal party to get wedding ready!
    Eden Spa offers several options to be “bride beautiful”, namely custom facials, laser treatments, spray tans, and hair styling.
    Typically, it is good to start a skincare regimen a few months before the wedding day to see the best results. Laser treatments
    can be done in combination with facials to get rid of brown and red spots. If aging, acne, or too much time in the sun has
    left your face less than perfect with blotches, wrinkles, or lines, laser skin resurfacing may help your skin look younger and
    healthier. Laser resurfacing is a treatment that reduces facial wrinkles and skin irregularities, such as blemishes or acne scars.
    The technique directs short, concentrated pulsating beams of light at irregular skin, removing skin layer by layer with precision.
    Closer to the wedding date and for an immediate glow, Eden recommends Oxygen facials the week of the wedding. Oxygen
    facials just may be the perfect solution to glowing skin, as it nourishes and revitalizes every cell of the skin pore by pore.
    The facial consists of cleansing, extractions, steam, and massage, and pure oxygen along with vitamin A, C, and E, and 87
    different minerals. The result of radiant and hydrated skin is seen immediately following the facial. Other benefits of Oxygen
    facials range from thorough pore cleansing to lightened hyperpigmentation, improve blood circulation and promote collagen
    production for younger looking skin. Oxygen may also strengthen skin's elasticity and help eliminate acne-causing bacteria, as
    well as reduce fine lines and wrinkles, even out skin tone, and diminish pores.
    Another way to achieve a nice glow, especially this time of the year, is with a spray tan. Eden offers custom spray tanning. The
    spa’s custom spray tan artist uses advanced technology and an all-natural, anti-aging sunless tanner made with antioxidants
    and pure botanicals to leave skin radiant with a natural-looking color. It’s a quick, easy and damage free way to get a beautiful
    tan. Infinity sun spray tans that are based on your skin tone are highly recommended, especially for a winter wedding when
    you don’t want to look too dark.
    Several non-surgical facial rejuvenation options are Botox® or injectables for the lips, frown lines and crow’s feet around the
    eyes. It is recommended to schedule a complimentary consultation with one of the Eden nurses well in advance of the wedding
    date. Botox Cosmetic is a quick,minimally-invasive procedure consisting of a few tiny injections for relaxing lines, crow’s
    feet, and wrinkles. Results may be noticed within 24 to 48 hours, and last up to 4 months for moderate to severe frown lines.
    Juvederm is a smooth, gel filler that instantly smoothes away wrinkles around the mouth and nose, and just one treatment yields
    natural-looking results that can last up to a year.
    As for hair, Eden offers pre-wedding color, cuts, and up do’s for the bride and bridal parties. And to wind down from wedding
    stress, Eden recommends a massage the week of the wedding. Ahhhh, just what every bride (and groom) needs! Complimentary
    consultations are available for all services at Eden Spa & Laser.
   Another service for bride’s planning weddings these days may be Covid-19 testing. Eden, in partnership with East Memphis
   Direct Primary Care conveniently located directly next to Eden, now offers the Covid-19 rapid test.
                                                                                                              Eden Spa & Laser
                                                                                         1044 Brookfield Rd, Memphis, TN 38119
                                                                                                                (901) 683-1066
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Wedding Registry Guide
                      Ordering online can still include shopping local. These specialty shops offer bridal registry items
                      ranging from casual china to heirloom china, outdoor entertaining pieces to luxury linens, and
                      every beautiful thing in between! With personalized service and knowledgeable staff, registering
                                              and shopping local is a special part of the wedding.

                                       Herend                     Assorted Fine Linens + Bedding                                   Sasha Nicholas

Babcock Gifts                                       Lisa Mallory Interior Design                     Social: A Shop for Gracious Living

F    or more than 40 years, Babcock Gifts
     has offered unparalleled service and
quality gifts of all kinds. As one of the
                                                    S   ince 1997, Lisa has welcomed a truly
                                                        diverse clientele, including countless
                                                    brides to her shop in Chickasaw Oaks,
                                                                                                     S  ocial offers an exquisite selection of
                                                                                                        china including Herend, Sasha Nicholas,
                                                                                                     Waterford and Wedgwood. They also have
finest gift shops in the region, Babcock            which specializes in sumptuous linens,           crystal stemware, outdoor dining pieces,
Gifts offers something for all gift-giving          lovely gifts and accessories for the home.       fabulous serving pieces, and so much
occasions, from the bridal shower to the            Lisa’s irrepressible love to create and          more. Social has lots of great gift ideas for
50th anniversary and every celebration in           “finish” design projects coupled with a quick    groomsmen and bridesmaids, as well as
between. Offering one of the area's most            and sure instinct both for what looks good       a huge selection of hostess gifts that they
extensive china and crystal collections for         and what suits the individual client define      can beautifully wrap and have ready for
wedding registry, Babcock Gifts kindly              the Lisa Mallory Interior Design experience.     pick up. They also offer monogramming
requests that you call to schedule a                Lisa invites you to visit their website, which   and engraving services. Social is constantly
consultation with their wedding staff for           showcases the talent and personality that        getting new items, so they advise brides
registrations and returns. For the initial          exist at Lisa Mallory Interior Design. Check     to come see them often to add to their
consultation, please allow two hours for the        out the online wedding registry to see what      registry. Laine Park and Lauren Daughtry
visit. Brides are selecting treasures to last a     is available to new brides and call the shop     are the Social Bridal Consultants, and
lifetime, and Babcock doesn’t want to rush!         to schedule your appointment.                    they are wonderful in helping brides make
Local delivery is provided, and gift wrap is                                                         selections. You may email them at
complimentary. Come by the store, call, or          Chickasaw Oaks Village Shopping Center           registry@social-memphis.com or call the
                                                    3080 Poplar Ave.
send an email so Babcock Gifts can assist           Memphis, TN 38111
                                                                                                     shop to set up an appointment.
with picking out the perfect wedding                (901) 452-5575
gift purchase.                                      lisamallorydesign.com                            650 South Perkins
                                                                                                     Memphis, TN 38117
Laurelwood Shopping Center                                                                           (901) 766-6746
4538 Poplar Ave.                                                                                     social-memphis.com
Memphis, TN 38117
(901) 763-0700
babcockgifts.com

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Monday - Saturday
   Helping set your table
                                                  10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m.
and choose the perfect gift
  for more than 45 years                          www.babcockgifts.com
                                                  (901) 763 -0700

   LAURELWOOD SHOPPING CENTER 4538 Poplar Avenue Memphis, TN 38117
Lawson Baker + Kennedy McDaniel, 08/08/2020, Joshua Tree, California

                             Lawson's Virtual Wedding Guide
           Weddings are special, and a virtual wedding should be no different. When Lawson and Kennedy decided to
           carry on with their plan to get married, they didn’t want it to be any less-special just because it would take place
           via the internet.

     Text a GIF for Save the Date                                        To Zoom or Not to Zoom?
     Yes, e-vites emails are easier but they lack anything               We looked hard at other video streaming platforms like
     resembling a cool factor. The name "evite" alone feels              Hopin.to video conferencing platform. At the end of
     like Myspace. Make a GIF. Text it to all of your friends +          the day, we choose Zoom because (a) it just works, and
     family. Takes a little more work but it's way cooler.               (b) everyone helping us knew how to use the Zoom as
                                                                         did most guests.
     Easy GIF                                                            Make sure to upgrade your Zoom account to support
     Upload a photo or video of you and your bride-to-be                 the number of guests and features you want (cloud
     to giphy.com. Add some digital swag to it. Download it.             recording space needs to be over 1GB). You'll want to
     Boom - you made your first GIF! Spare no emoji. Use                 record the session both to the cloud and ask a co-host
     them everywhere - they are the universal language.                  to record locally as well (higher quality). Set up your
                                                                         event in advance with all the necessary settings to
     Collecting RSVPs                                                    thwart your nephew from "annotating" on the screen
     Create a Google Form or use Typeform to organize your               or guests entering the event too early (enable waiting
     RSVPs. Text or email the RSVP link with your GIF. Done.             room).
     Buy a Nice Camera                                                   Picking your Stream Team
     Gear, gear, GEAR! Use the money you saved by going                  Your stream team matters. These people will make or
     virtual to buy your family a nice mirror-less digital camera.       break your virtual wedding, and they are your
     Not only will your wedding stream look like a movie, but            Wedding Masters.
     the compliments will flow in every work Zoom video call.            The Positions:
     It'll come in handy on your honeymoon, too.
                                                                         Master of (Zoom) Ceremonies - The admin of your
     Go Wired                                                            virtual wedding should be the chief organizer. Think
                                                                         director meets wedding coordinator.
     Plug everything in. Ethernet, microphone, speaker, and
                                                                         Master MC - Your MC is probably the best salesperson
     camera should all be plugged directly into your computer.
                                                                         in your friend group or family. Sell ice, eskimo. Yea,
     Why? Latency matters. Wires = fast.
                                                                         that person.
     Wifi + BlueTooth = slow. You'll lose milliseconds to each           Internet Reverend - Your officiant, your priest, your
     wireless connection. Multiply that by each connection               Internet Reverend. Ideally, this person is cool and really
     type and anyone else talking at your wedding. Next thing            knows you and your bride.
     you know you are speaking over each other during your
     wedding vows. They aren't being rude. That's latency.               Master of Jams - Your DJ is your friend with the best
     Anyone with speaking parts should wire up. Smooth video             Spotify Playlist. Give them your desired vibe then let
     + voices to follow.                                                 their free spirits roam.

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The Wedding
Prepare to Entertain!
When people sit in front of a screen, they expect to
be entertained. Fear not. Think of it like a wedding
strapped on top of a bunch of short skits with lots of
great crowd reactions.

Your Agenda Script
Write out a script to get an idea of who says what
when. People will turn it into their own but they need
a starting point. This will also help you get an idea of
wedding length. Shoot for no more than 30 minutes
for the wedding and 2 hours max for the entire event.

Instruction + Tech Support
Okay, this one may be overkill but it helped our guests.
Drop an agenda and a few easy to read instructions in
the mail. Your guests will thank you for the instruction
manual. Not everyone is living their work lives on
Zoom calls. And, grandma has no idea what you're
talking about. Make it easy for the newbies and the
pro's among your invitees.

Add Something Physical
Okay, we've been pretty digital this entire time but
let's find something memorable. It's a special day.
Let's make sure the special feeling comes through on
both sides of the screen. Send some swag in a pre-
wedding mailing along with instructions, the agenda,
and other wedding day details. Print some stickers or
make temporary tattoos with Inkbox.com to spice it
up a little. Digital events need physical objects to tie
emotion and, as a result, memories to an event.

Your Guest Book
Buy a stack of plain artist postcards and send them
to your guests in the pre-wedding mailing along with
a handful of colored pencils. We had an Art Brunch
after the wedding. Pre-address the postcards and add
a cool stamp so guests can just drop them in the mail.
These postcards are your first wedding memories.
I promise you'll love the diversity in what you'll get
back. This is a sampling of our Art Brunch postcards.
It's really fun to see the artist in everyone.

Guest Photographers
Your guests are your photographers. Ask them to
take screenshots and selfies of their zoom. Capture
their surroundings. Capture their experience. Your
wedding is literally everywhere. Pretty cool, right?
Pro tip: Make sure to set your Zoom event settings to
automatically record to the cloud to capture you and
all of your wedding party and guest interactions. As
the wedding couple, plan to record your video stream
locally to your computer, as well. This will ensure you
have the highest quality video and audio coming from
all that sweet gear you just bought. Use Quicktime on
your Mac or VLC on your desktop.
The reception
 Wait! Don't forget an Intermission.
 Planning a two-hour event takes a lot but imagine being
 the stars of the show, live on-screen with a hot mic for all 2
 hours. Bad idea. After your Officiant introduces you to the
 crowd as Mr. & Mrs., walk down your aisle towards your
 video setup. Then turn off the mic. Turn off the camera.
 Take a 15-minute Intermission. Tell your partner you love
 them. Enjoy the moment. After intermission, jump back
 on screen with your guests for your reception. Which
 brings up the next item: Dinner Tables.
 Dinner Tables
 After our sunrise wedding and intermission, we made our          Live Toasts
 breakfast live with our guests. We love entertaining friends     We all have witnessed wedding toasts gone awry. Pre-
 at home so we recreated that experience for our wedding.         recorded toasts are a great back up for an unexpected
 Breaking bread with family and friends is a hallmark of          technical issue. More importantly, it makes the speaker to
 all wedding receptions. Don't miss this opportunity to eat       really think about what they want to say to you and your
 with those closest to you. Create virtual dinner tables with     partner. That being said, live is better for toast. The emotion
 Zoom's Breakout Room feature. While your guests are              of the event can bring out the best in your closest confidants.
 eating and hanging out “at the table,” you and your partner      Give them the stage.
 can hop through breakout rooms as a Zoom Co-Host.
                                                                  Dancing & the After-Party
 The Cake                                                         Okay, you made it through the wedding jitters. Past the
 It's not a wedding without a cake, right? But, your guests       technical hiccups of a live-streamed event. They will
 aren't all going to bake a cake, and good luck trying to get     happen, keep the camera rolling. You're married. Now it's
 that many cakes delivered on time. Enter: the microwave          time to party.That's it.You are married. Congrats and dance
 cake. Include the recipe in the pre-wedding mailing you          your hearts out!
 sent out so everyone has their ingredients ready on the big
 day. During the reception, cue to let people know when to        Lawson Baker-McDaniel and his wife Kennedy McDaniel-
 make the cake, making sure you budget enough time for it         Baker are San Franciscans at heart but are living in Joshua
 to cool before there's any official cake-eating on-screen.       Tree while they search for a place to call home in the desert.
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How To Create
                                                                                                       This Masterful
                                                                                                        Cheeseboard
                                                                                                    Gather cheeses, accoutrement, and any
                                                                                                    garnishes (optional). Vary pairings in
                                                                                                    texture: juicy, sweet, crunchy, salty, or
                                                                                                    acidic. Cut cheese to have long, broad
                                                                                                    pieces, not cubes - have maximum
                                                                                                    surface area for tasting. Pro tip: Cheese
                                                                                                    should be eaten at room temp but is
                                                                                                    easier to cut when it is cold. Slice cheese
                                                                                                    straight from the fridge, then plate it as
                                                                                                    it rises to room temp.

                  For Love of Cheese:
                                                                                                    Plate each of the cheeses. Find an
                                                                                                    attractive way to stack each cheese
                                                                                                    so that a piece can be easily grabbed
                                                                                                    without disturbing other pieces. The

    Greys Fine Cheeses & Entertaining                                                               cheeses should be a “step-up” in flavor
                                                                                                    between the first and third cheeses.
                                                                                                    Add three pairings for each of the
                                                                                                    cheeses, from sweet to salty with
                                                                                                    different textures. Add some pickles
By Sandi Butler Hughes
                                                                                                    (pickled anything-green beans, Brussels,
Photo Courtesy of Greys Fine Cheeses & Entertaining                                                 etc) nearby as well. Having these helps

K
       urt Mullican is a cheesemonger, but he is more like a cheese-evangelist. He is
                                                                                                    cut the richness of all the cheese, and it
       enthusiastic, knowledgeable, and he loves sharing his passion with other devoted
                                                                                                    pairs with the last cheese as well.
       turophiles from beginners to the more advanced. Kurt along with partner Jackie Mau           Add some “conversation crackers.”
are the co-owners of the new Greys Fine Cheeses & Entertaining. Their shop opens mid-               Crackers work great as palate cleansers
February in the Williamsburg Shopping Center near the corner of Poplar and Mendenhall.              and give something to snack on between
Greys will be the ideal platform for Kurt to connect with shoppers and share the deliciousness      cheeses. This gives a chance to chat in
of cheese.                                                                                          between cheeses and provides more
                                                                                                    crunchy texture also.
“I’ve had a lifelong infatuation with food, and I’ve cooked my entire life,” Kurt said. He has
experience in the food industry in his hometown of Lebanon, TN, as well as in Memphis               Hit it with a garnish and serve! This is
working as a private chef. “Cheese is always the underlying piece - the foundation of my            a well-balanced experience that will
thoughts around food. It’s also something you can learn about for a lifetime, and never             be an absolute showstopper. Throw in
win - there’s always a new cheese or something new to learn.” As Jackie and Kurt were               some wine and forget about cooking
preparing to open their business, they visited several creameries across the country,               dinner- this is it!
including Tennessee’s Sequatchie Cove Creamery located near Chattanooga. “We wanted
to understand the process and to have education so we can pass it on to others,” Jackie said.
Before the idea of a storefront was conceived, Kurt crafted made-to-order cheeseboards for
delivery. The pairings of cheeses with cured meats, fruits, nuts, condiments, and crackers
were very popular, and will continue to be a cornerstone at Greys. The cheeseboards are
                                                                                                       Shopping list:
available for all size events, from an intimate date night to a large rehearsal dinner. Of course
                                                                                                    Montealva, a mild Goat’s milk cheese
they are delicious, and the presentation is stunning. In addition to the boards, Greys offers
                                                                                                    from Spain
cut to order cheese, a cheese bar, workshops, all things relating to cheese, plus wine and
beer. The cheese bar is conceptualized as a sushi bar, and rather than raw fish, exquisite          Pairing: lemon-sultana marmalata with
cheeses will be featured.                                                                           caraway and saffron
Greys’ cheeseboard pairings (cheese + meat + accompaniment) are specially selected by               Ossau-Iraty, sheep’s milk cheese with more
Kurt, and include a handwritten note from him of what flavors pair nicely together and why.         flavor (said to be one of the first cheeses
“90% of learning is unlearning,” he said. “People like to imagine there’s a secret formula for      ever produced in France)
deliciousness. While there can be, if you like it, then it’s a good pairing. That’s important.
                                                                                                    Pairing: black cherry confit; another
People shouldn’t be scared to try something they don’t think they like - that’s how you learn.”
                                                                                                    option - Amarena or luxardo cherries
Cheeseboards may be a trendy concept, but Kurt sees it as so much more. “Cheese has been
                                                                                                    Challerhocker cow’s milk cheese from
around forever. People have been making cheese since 8,000 B.C., but if we can capture
                                                                                                    Switzerland (flavor star of the show!)
the minds of the people turning their heads to it now, we can make lifelong fans of such an
awesome product. Making milk immortal,” he laughs.                                                  Pairing: crunchy walnuts and dried figs
When asked exactly what is a cheesemonger? He smiled and replied, “A purveyor of                    Pickled anything
happiness.” Preach it, Kurt!
                                                                                                    Crackers
To learn more about cheese, cheeseboards, and all things cheesy, visit greyshd.com.
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