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                                                                                              Lorraine Khan

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                                   Fatherhood: the impact
                         :         of fathers on children's
                                   mental health
 Summary
There is growing awareness about the importance of          intellect or masculinity. Fathers can create a high
mothers’ mental health and the impact they can have         quality co-parenting alliance with their partners,
on their children’s mental health. However, less is         including when fathers are not living with their
known about fatherhood and the impact fathers can           children, and help their children to build positive,
have on their child’s mental health. This briefing paper    trusting relationships.
explores the direct and indirect impact of fathers on
                                                            However, fathers have received little support to be
children’s mental health, from positive supervision
                                                            the best parents they can be, and the importance
and language development, to emotionally buffering
                                                            of fathers’ own mental health has been neglected.
mother and child against environmental stresses.
                                                            Chaotic or conflict-ridden family circumstances, work
From pregnancy to adolescence, fathers are a major          pressures and stereotypes about masculinity can get in
influence on a child’s emotional and behavioural            the way of being the best parent they can be.
health. The relationships a father builds within a family
                                                            This briefing specifically explores the role of fathers
are far more important to a child’s mental health than
                                                            and focuses on their positive potential to have an
traditionally valued paternal characteristics such as
                                                            impact on the wellbeing of their children.
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                                                   The impact of fatherhood on                        Father's influence on child
                                                   children's mental health                           mental wellbeing
                                                  Assessing the impact of fathers on children’s      Fathers exert influence on children’s
                                                  mental health is challenging. Fatherhood is        development and mental health through both
                                                  not a clearly defined state and fathers’ roles     their direct interactions with children, and
                                                  in western societies have been changing over       through indirect influence (e.g. providing
                                                  time. Expectations of fatherhood can also          instrumental or emotional support to their
                                                  be different according to different cultural       partners). For instance, a father’s function
                                                  contexts.                                          as a source of maternal emotional support
                                                                                                     tends to enhance the quality of mother-child
                                                  There is, however, good evidence suggesting
                                                                                                     relationships and in turn facilitates positive
                                                  that responsible and involved fathering starting
                                                                                                     adjustment by children. Conversely, when
                                                  from the prenatal period and continuing
                                                                                                     fathers are unsupportive and marital conflict is
                                                  into adolescence has positive effects on the
                                                                                                     high, children may suffer (Cummings, Goeke-
                                                  wellbeing of children well into adulthood.
                                                                                                     Morey & Raymond, 2004; Cummings & O’Reilly,
                                                                                                     1997).
                                                                                                     A good example of indirect influence starts
                                                                                                     well before a child is born. It begins with a
                                                   What is fatherhood?                               father’s relationship with the child's mother and
                                                                                                     includes active involvement during the prenatal
                                                  Traditionally, research has focused on very
                                                                                                     period. Starting from conception, both parents
                                                  narrow conceptualisations of fatherhood
                                                                                                     have a responsibility to provide a safe and
                                                  when considering the impact of fathers on
                                                                                                     nurturing environment for the foetus. Stress
                                                  children’s mental health and development.
                                                                                                     and lack of support can trigger or exacerbate
                                                  For example, studies focused on fathers’ roles
                                                                                                     maternal mental illness that can have negative
                                                  as breadwinners, as gender role models, or
                                                                                                     impacts on the evolving mental health of the
                                                  on their presence or absence in the family
                                                                                                     unborn child. Fathers can therefore assist in
                                                  structure.
                                                                                                     buffering mothers from environmental stresses
                                                  More recent research has recognised the            and in sustaining a stable in utero environment
                                                  evolving nature of fatherhood and that fathers     by providing emotional and physical support to
                                                  often assume a range of roles in their families    the mother during her pregnancy. Post-birth,
                                                  which can include breadwinner, companion,          a father can also ease the mother’s workload,
                                                  playmate, caregiver, spouse, protector, model,     buffer the infant from overexposure to stress
                                                  moral guide and teacher. Fathers often differ      during critical early months and provide
                                                  with respect to the relative importance they       compensatory support to the infant should a
                                                  place on these diverse roles (Lamb, 2004).         mother need to recover from maternal mental
                                                                                                     illness (Gere, 2014).

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 Aspects of fatherhood                              and the quality of relationship that a father
 associated with good child                         builds with his children, rather than being
 mental health                                      related to gender-specific characteristics
                                                    (Lamb, 2004). Evidence suggests that the
Involved fathers are considered to more             individual characteristics of fathers (such as
effectively promote the mental health and           their masculinity or their intellect) are much
wellbeing of children and young people.             less important than the characteristics of the
Involved parenting comprises of three               relationships they build with their children.
dimensions:                                         Children who have secure, supportive,
•   A father’s engagement with children and         reciprocal and sensitive relationships with
    families;                                       their parents are much more likely to be well
•   Their accessibility to their children;          adjusted than children whose relationships are
                                                    less satisfying (Lamb, 2004).
•   Their assumption of responsibility for their
    children.
(Lamb, Pleck, Charnov & Levine, 1987)
Research also reveals more similarities than
                                                     Paternal communication
differences in the way that fathers and mothers     There is good evidence that effective paternal
positively influence the mental health and          communication with children is important for
wellbeing of their children. Evidence has           a range of reasons from infancy right up until
consistently found that the following features      adolescence and young adult years. During
are associated with positive child outcomes,        infancy, fathers have been noted to have
regardless of whether the parent involved is a      communication styles which are particularly
mother or a father:                                 beneficial to child development. Research has
A warm child-parent relationship – warm,            noted that fathers can often be less in-step with
nurturing relationships and closeness are           communication patterns between a mother
important features of a father-child relationship   and infant, and may therefore engage in more
and are protective features for children’s mental   complex forms of communication with their
health. Warm paternal parenting has also            offspring. Because these more complex forms
been shown to be positively associated with         of speech place greater linguistic demands
improved child cognitive outcomes, during both      on children, fathers are thought to serve as
primary and secondary school years (Bronte-         an important bridge to the outside world (Ely,
Tinkew, Carrano, Horowitz & Kinukawa, 2008;         Gleason, Narasimhan, & McCabe, 1995). Thus,
Fagan & Iglesias, 1999; Chen, Liu, & Li, 2000).     fathers’ unique communicative styles teach
                                                    children about the linguistic and communicative
Sensitive parenting – this involves a parenting     demands of social exchanges.
style that is empathetic to the needs of
children and which is neither too intrusive nor     Furthermore, open, involved and interested
too distant. Sensitive fathering (responding,       communication between fathers and children
talking, ‘scaffolding’, teaching and encouraging    is noted to be beneficial to young people’s
children to learn) predicts children’s cognitive    wellbeing right up until adolescence -
and linguistic achievements in the same way         particularly for girls. Findings from the ongoing
that sensitive mothering does (Lamb, 2004).         Health Behaviour in Schools survey indicated
                                                    that children whose fathers engaged in open
Effective parenting skills – The important          and ongoing communication had better body
dimensions of fathers’ influence are those          image satisfaction and (particularly for girls)
that have to do with parental characteristics       higher levels of wellbeing (Brookes, 2014).

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Fathers are still largely not accessing parenting
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                                                   Secure paternal attachment                         programmes; neither are they promoted
                                                  The establishment of a secure attachment with       or delivered in father-friendly ways. Such
                                                  a caregiver is a fundamental building block for     programmes are often run at times when fathers
                                                  good mental health. Studies suggest that an         are least likely to be able to attend (Lamb,
                                                  independent attachment relationship between         2004). Some pilots have been completed in
                                                  the child and each parent is formed within the      Scotland running proven programmes in male
                                                  first 18 months of the child's life (Gogineni and   prisons with some positive early results.
                                                  Fallon, 2014). And fathers' caregiving and play
                                                  sensitivity are equally as important as maternal
                                                  sensitivity in determining toddlers' later           Ongoing engaged fathering
                                                  security (Grossmann et al., 2002).
                                                                                                      As children begin developing into late
                                                  An important developmental stage during             childhood and adolescence, the mental
                                                  infancy is building resilience and moving away      health benefits related to having an involved
                                                  from reliance on the primary caregiver as the       and positive father influence become more
                                                  sole buffer against external environmental          evident. For both boys and girls, engaged
                                                  stress. Studies suggest that secure infant-         paternal care is associated with lower levels
                                                  father attachment and paternal play are             of impulsivity and higher ratings of inhibitory
                                                  related to cognitive and social development         control (Meece and Robinson, 2014). And in
                                                  encouraging active, autonomous, curious             low socio-economic status families, a father's
                                                  and safe exploratory attitudes and behaviour,       engagement has been shown to reduce the
                                                  rather than avoidance of new social situations      frequency of behavioural problems in boys and
                                                  (Paquette et al., 2003). Research in the area       psychological problems in young women, as
                                                  of developmental psychopathology suggests           well as decreasing delinquency (Sarkadi et al.,
                                                  that if fathers are not involved, are not warm,     2008). Positive father-child relationships also
                                                  if they do not encourage the autonomy of the        help with future interpersonal relationships.
                                                  child, and if they display anxiety, the children    For example, the better the father-child bond,
                                                  themselves can be at risk of anxiety (Bogels        the more an individual will use constructive
                                                  and Phare, 2008). As such, warm attachment          conflict resolution (Tastan, 2013). And men who
                                                  relationships and play between children and         experienced interactive fathers were more likely
                                                  their fathers can have a huge impact on self-       to become interactive with their own infants
                                                  esteem, social competence and managing              (Johnson, 2008). Fathers should be encouraged
                                                  adversity.                                          to nurture their relationships with their children
                                                                                                      throughout all stages of their childhood.

                                                   Authoritative parenting                             Paternal accessibility
                                                  Consistent boundary setting and positive            It is not just the amount of time that a father
                                                  supervision promotes positive child mental          spends with a child that is important in terms
                                                  health rather than authoritarian, controlling,      of promoting their mental health. It is also the
                                                  harsh or, alternatively, lax parenting. Many        quality of contact and the extent to which this
                                                  parenting programmes help parents develop           contact reflects effective parenting approaches
                                                  effective parenting techniques to promote           and contributes to a high quality and warm
                                                  children’s mental health and to help children       attachment with a child (Amato & Rezac,
                                                  calm themselves in the face of frustrations         1994). Fathers should be informed of the vital
                                                  (NICE, 2013).                                       importance of developing and nurturing secure
                                                                                                      attachments with their children early in their
                                                                                                      lives.

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    Fathers as part of a wider
                                                          of depressed mothers. Furthermore, if a
    family structure                                      mother suffered from depression during
Family context and dynamics are often at least            pre- and post-natal periods, it was the
as important to children’s mental health as the           father’s depressed status within the same
individual relationships fathers forge with their         period which became a predictor of the
children. Fathers’ influence on children’s mental         child’s greater likelihood of experiencing
health must thus be viewed in the broader                 poor mental health (Lamb, 2004). Poor
familial context; positive paternal influences            mental health during the perinatal period
are more likely to occur not only when there are          is not uncommon among men. Therefore,
supportive father-child relationships but when            we must be aware of the mental health of
the fathers’ relationships with their partners,           fathers and provide early identification,
ex-partners and other children establish a                support and treatment when indicated.
positive familial context.                           •    Fathers have beneficial effects on their
Fathers can contribute to the wider complex               children when they have supportive and
family system to support children’s mental                nurturing relationships with them as
health:                                                   well as with their siblings; when they
                                                          are competent and feel fulfilled; and
•    By establishing an effective high quality
                                                          when they are successful and supportive
     co-parenting alliance. Co-parenting relates
                                                          partners. There is no single father’s role
     to the behaviours a parent displays which
                                                          to which all fathers should aspire. Rather,
     support or undermine the other parent,
                                                          a successful father, as defined in terms of
     (whether they are present in the household
                                                          his children’s development, is one whose
     or not) (Palkovitz et al., 2013). Positive
                                                          role performance matches the demands
     co-parenting relationships enhance
                                                          and prescriptions of his socio-cultural and
     parent-child relationships. However, poor
                                                          familial context.
     co-parenting has been noted to contribute
     to higher levels of anxiety in children in
     infancy and early school years (McHale and          The importance of family
     Rasmussen, 1998).
                                                         structure for children’s
•    Marital harmony and positive relationships          mental health
     between parents prove to be a resilience
     factor for children, while negative             There is good evidence that family structure
     relationships (such as marital conflict and     is an important influence on children’s mental
     exposure to aggression) are seen as a           health. For example, children from lone parent
     risk (Fagan and Palkovitz, 2007) and are        and divorced families have consistently poorer
     consistently associated with poor child         mental health than those living in married
     adjustment. Marital discord has been noted      families. This is concerning given the UK’s rising
     to affect men and women in different ways,      divorce rates. In the past, research has focused
     with men tending to withdraw more from          merely on the presence and absence of fathers
     children in the face of marital disharmony.     to explain these poorer outcomes. However,
     This pattern of withdrawal carries with it      more recent studies recognize the broader
     knock-on risks to children’s mental health      range of variables which may contribute to
     and should be highlighted to fathers.           these negative outcomes, including:
                                                     •    High levels of family discord, conflict and
•    Fathers have been noted in research to
                                                          exposure to displays of aggression (Amato,
     fulfil a pivotal buffering or protective role
                                                          2000, 2005; Pryor & Rodgers, 2001);
     within the family system when children are
     faced with poor maternal mental health. For     •    The absence or discontinuation of a high
     example, the presence of a non-depressed             quality, supportive ongoing relationship
     father was associated with lower rates of            with fathers (Lamb, 2004);

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•   Poorer socio-economic circumstances due         There is good evidence from longitudinal
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                                                      to lone parenting or family breakdown           studies that paternal closeness and
                                                      (Lamb, 2004);                                   involvement, more than maternal closeness and
                                                  •   Higher levels of stress faced by the            involvement, promote competence and protect
                                                      remaining caregiver which impacted both         against psychological distress in adolescents
                                                      on the caregiver’s and child’s wellbeing        and young adults. The effect of paternal
                                                      (Lamb, 2004);                                   involvement is irrespective of high or low
                                                                                                      maternal involvement, irrespective of divorce,
                                                  •   Greater social isolation of the remaining
                                                                                                      and appears to be irrespective of child gender.
                                                      caregiver and absence of a co-parent to
                                                      help out with core parenting tasks and          There is very mixed evidence from studies
                                                      decision making (Lamb, 2004).                   focusing on paternal involvement or non-
                                                  Studies also noted that poorer outcomes could       involvement of any differential effect on the
                                                  be mitigated in lone parent households or           mental health of children of different genders.
                                                  where family breakdown had occurred if:             The overall message from findings suggests
                                                                                                      that there is equal benefit from paternal
                                                  •   Non-resident fathers were encouraged and        closeness and involvement for both female and
                                                      able to maintain a positive relationship with   male offspring (Lamb, 2004). Positive effects
                                                      children (sometimes avoidance and low           are also noted regardless of the age of the child.
                                                      motivation on the part of fathers prevented
                                                      ongoing contact, but sometimes this was
                                                      prevented by maternal gatekeeping);              Impacts of negative paternal
                                                  •   Non-resident fathers adopted ongoing             behaviours on child wellbeing
                                                      responsibility for economically maintaining
                                                                                                      Just as positive paternal interactions have
                                                      children, supporting them emotionally
                                                                                                      benefits for the wellbeing of the child, so
                                                      and buffering them from economic or
                                                                                                      negative interactions also carry with them
                                                      environmental stresses;
                                                                                                      potential risks for children’s mental health.
                                                  •   Parents attempted to minimise discord in
                                                                                                      Fathers often don’t seek help for mental health
                                                      ongoing dealings concerning the children.
                                                                                                      difficulties. This can be problematic in many
                                                  Following divorce, children consistently            ways, as evidence shows that fathers with
                                                  do better when they are able to maintain            better mental health can buffer children from
                                                  meaningful relationships with both parents          the worst effects of a second parent suffering
                                                  unless the levels of safeguarding risk or inter-    from mental illness. Fathers may also be more
                                                  parental conflict remain unusually high (Kelly,     likely, through their own poor mental health
                                                  2000; Lamb, 2004).                                  status, to undermine the future mental health of
                                                                                                      their children. Furthermore, parental attitudes
                                                  In both intact and non-intact families, ongoing
                                                                                                      to mental health and mental illness very much
                                                  father involvement and nurturing is positively
                                                                                                      influence children’s attitudes towards seeking
                                                  associated with children’s intellectual
                                                                                                      help (Khan, 2016). If a parent experiences a
                                                  development, social competence, internal
                                                                                                      high level of stigma and avoids help seeking,
                                                  locus of control, ability to empathise and lower
                                                                                                      children are also more likely to be affected
                                                  levels of young adult distress (e.g. Yongman,
                                                                                                      by stigma and adopt avoidant strategies
                                                  Kindlon & Earls, 1995; Fagan & Iglesias, 1999).
                                                                                                      preventing essential early help.
                                                  Interestingly, frequency of contact with the
                                                  father on its own did not contribute to young       Longitudinal studies have also shown
                                                  adults' wellbeing, so it seems that the quality     consistent associations between paternal
                                                  rather than quantity of father involvement is       alcoholism and an increased risk of conduct
                                                  more important in supporting their wellbeing        disorder and substance abuse in children,
                                                  (Bogels and Phare, 2008).                           with a possible higher risk in the sons than
                                                                                                      in the daughters of affected fathers. Paternal

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alcoholism is also associated with an increased

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risk of mood disorders and depressive
                                                         What men feel about
symptoms in adolescents (Chen and Weitzman,              fatherhood
2005), academic underachievement, low self-          Fathers generally express enjoyment with time
esteem and relationship-based difficulties.          spent with children – even as children move
Given that substance misuse is often adopted         into adolescence (Larson & Richards, 1994).
as a self-medication for poor mental health, it      Fathers generally say they want to spend
is important that fathers model effective coping     more time with their children (Lamb, 2004).
mechanisms for managing poor mental health           Many men set their goals depending on their
rather than coping mechanisms which may              own recollections of their own childhood,
increase familial/paternal distress and shame.       choosing either to compensate for their fathers’
                                                     deficiencies or to emulate their own father
Paternal incarceration                               figure. Longitudinal studies of men in more
Every year, about 200,000 children have a            chaotic and conflict-ridden family circumstances
parent who is in prison (Prison Reform Trust,        who had split from partners indicated that they
2016). Wakefield and Wildeman’s (2014)               also had high hopes for being a good father,
study provided compelling evidence that              despite their later loss of contact with children.
parental imprisonment (particularly of fathers)      These and other findings have indicated that
uniquely contributed to substantial increases in     there is an important opportunity to build on
children’s behavioural problems. Furthermore,        this early enthusiasm for fatherhood and to
girls with multiple health, safeguarding and         nurture effective co-parenting and fatherhood
social vulnerabilities in the youth justice system   skills during these preparatory and early years
who were also involved in gangs were six times       of pregnancy and birth.
more likely than other female offenders to have
a parent who had been to prison (Khan, 2013).            Barriers and facilitators to
                                                         effective fatherhood
Exposure to damaging behaviour through
contact with fathers                                 •    Fatherhood and its anticipation is a golden
                                                          opportunity to support positive parenting;
The majority of incidents of domestic violence
                                                          enthusiasm is high among men at this time.
and more damaging forms of abuse (such
as sexual abuse) are perpetrated by a small          •    Traditionally there have been fears about
minority of men and some by fathers. Domestic             the compatibility between traditional
violence has been noted to affect both girls              notions of masculinity and active
and boys while sexual abuse more frequently               fatherhood (Haas, 1992; Lamb & Levine,
impacts girls. Ongoing unsupervised contact               1983; Russell & Hwang, this volume). This
with fathers who are unable to develop                    may now be changing with the evolution of
appropriate, safe and secure attachments with             changing notions of masculinity in the UK.
their children is highly likely to be detrimental    •    Father involvement is affected by multiple
to children’s longer term mental health.                  interacting systems operating at different
Where an ongoing relationship with a father               levels over the life course including:
is not desirable, a warm relationship with the            •   Psychological factors (motivation,
remaining resident caregiver can still help                   confidence in parenting, skills, self-
to promote children’s mental health. There                    confidence) - Men often cite lack of
is also evidence of the protective benefits                   self-confidence, skills and maternal
of building warm, positive attachments with                   disapproval of greater paternal
alternative adult role models who develop                     involvement as a barrier to getting more
trusting and good quality attachments, such                   involved in supportive child rearing
as grandparents, step-fathers, teachers, peer                 (Lamb, 2014);
mentors, and youth workers.
                                                          •   Individual child characteristics (e.g.
                                                              temperament and gender);

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•   Social support (relationships with          In many cases, current parenting programmes
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                                                          partners and extended family members,       could easily be renamed ‘mothering
                                                          partner approval, validation and            programmes’, as the involvement of fathers and
                                                          gatekeeping of increased paternal           a focus on co-parenting is unusual. To address
                                                          involvement);                               this, parenting skills programmes should also
                                                                                                      be made more widely available in employment
                                                      •   Community and cultural influences
                                                                                                      settings or scheduled at father-friendly times
                                                          (socio-economic opportunity, cultural
                                                                                                      with benefits sold in gender-engaging ways.
                                                          ideologies);
                                                                                                      There has been insufficient focus on the
                                                      •   Institutional, legal and public policy
                                                                                                      development and evaluation of fatherhood
                                                          practice (e.g. supportive and father-
                                                                                                      programmes. This should be rectified with
                                                          friendly employment policies, welfare
                                                                                                      longer term evaluation and follow up of
                                                          support, child support enforcement,
                                                                                                      their impact on children’s mental health and
                                                          contact arrangements).
                                                                                                      cognitive outcomes.
                                                  Barriers imposed by the workplace have
                                                                                                      More broadly, there has been less research
                                                  traditionally ranked among the most important
                                                                                                      focus on aspects of fatherhood which promote
                                                  reasons fathers give to explain their low
                                                                                                      positive child and adolescent development and
                                                  paternal involvement (Lamb 2004). Although
                                                                                                      mental health.
                                                  there have been some improvements (e.g.
                                                  increased paternity leave, flexible working), it    For every family going through divorce, a post-
                                                  is unclear how much take-up there has been of       divorce parenting plan supporting children’s
                                                  flexible working by fathers to support parenting    emotional wellbeing should be developed
                                                  activities. It is also difficult to assess the      focused on co-parenting and maximising
                                                  extent to which attitudes promoting positive        children’s wellbeing. Post-divorce parenting
                                                  fatherhood exist in the workplace. Research         programmes which help parents to minimise
                                                  indicates that for every free hour a parent has,    negative impacts on children’s wellbeing should
                                                  fathers spend a smaller proportion of this free     be accessible.
                                                  time with children than mothers (Lamb, 2004).
                                                                                                      Fatherhood, parenting programmes/
                                                  Finally, in social policy, there has been more
                                                                                                      information and father-friendly employment
                                                  focus on promoting ongoing economic provision
                                                                                                      practices (e.g. leave policies, flexible working
                                                  for children by fathers than the policies
                                                                                                      practices) should be encouraged in the
                                                  and opportunities which promote ongoing
                                                                                                      workplace.
                                                  emotional involvement.
                                                                                                      There should be greater focus on the mental
                                                                                                      health of the entire family by primary and
                                                  Implications & recommendations                      specialist mental health providers. At present
                                                                                                      there is a fragmented focus on either child
                                                  There is good evidence that initiatives aimed at    or adult mental health. Parents with mental
                                                  maximizing self-confidence, motivation and the      health difficulties should receive swift support
                                                  potential contributions of fathers should begin     and be helped to consider the impact of their
                                                  at birth, when many fathers (even those at high     conditions on the broader family unit. There
                                                  risk of family breakdown) are highly motivated      should be more help specifically for children
                                                  to remain involved in their child’s life (Lamb,     whose parents have a mental illness. There
                                                  2004). Fatherhood programmes should take            needs to be more recognition of the protective
                                                  a preventive approach by providing services         potential of fathers with good mental health
                                                  to new fathers well before they distance            on the family when a mother experiences poor
                                                  themselves from their children (Tamis-LeMonda       mental health. This is particularly important
                                                  & Cabrera, 1999, 2002). Policymakers and            at high risk times such as during and after
                                                  practitioners should focus their efforts early on   pregnancy. Maintaining good paternal mental
                                                  to strengthen fathers’ capabilities and support     health at this time is essential as fathers can
                                                  stable couple relationships.                        make compensatory adjustments to mitigate

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any impact of maternal mental illness on child      Many fathers struggle to make the most of

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mental health and development.                      their potential. Chaotic and conflict-ridden
                                                    family circumstances, work pressures and
Given that a father’s good mental health can be
                                                    stereotypes about masculinity can get in the
a protective factor for children’s mental health,
                                                    way for some. Most fathers want to do the best
therapeutic interventions should consider
                                                    for their children, but some end up distancing
more centrally paternal mental health assets
                                                    themselves from their families and, in the worst
in the family unit (Gere et al., 2013). Evidence
                                                    cases, cause harm.
suggests that at present fathers are largely
left out of child and adolescent therapeutic        Yet with greater attention to the importance of
interventions when a child has diagnosable          fatherhood and more support for fathers, we
mental health difficulties.                         could give many more children, whatever their
                                                    family background and circumstances, a better
                                                    and healthier start in life.
 Conclusion
From the first spark of life, fathers can make
a difference to their children’s mental health.
From pregnancy and early years through to
adolescence, fathers are a major influence on
a child’s emotional and behavioural health.
Fathers, like mothers, can boost their child’s
mental health through warm and sensitive
parenting, good communication, boundary-
setting and positive supervision. The
relationships a father builds within a family
are far more important to a child’s mental
health than traditionally valued paternal
characteristics such as intellect or masculinity.
Fathers can create a high quality co-parenting
alliance with their partners, including when
fathers are not living with their children, and
help their children to build positive, trusting
relationships.
There is also evidence that fathers
can sometimes have a distinctive and
complementary role to mothers. For example
providing emotional and physical support
during pregnancy can buffer both mother and
baby against environmental stresses, with
major short- and long-term benefits. And the
ways fathers communicate and play with infants
may be more challenging and help them to
engage in more complex activity, acting as a
safe ‘bridge’ to the wider world.
Yet for too long, the role of fathers in their
children’s mental health has been ignored and
poorly understood. Fathers have received little
help and support to be the best parents they
can be. And the importance of fathers’ own
mental health has been neglected.

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