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An Ethic
                                                                                of Love
                                                                             Understanding and Addressing
                                                                               Disparities Experienced by
                                                                                Black Women and Girls

                                                                                By samantha Paige Davis

Time, April Harrison

                                     I
The Disparities Experienced by         grew up at Grace Memorial Presbyterian church, a historically Black church in
Black Women and Girls Task             Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. I was in community with Black Presbyterians such as
Force was formed by the 223rd          Rev. Dr. Johnnie Monroe and Rev. Carmen Cox Harwell, Rev. and Mrs. George
General Assembly (2018) to           (who were pioneers in education justice), the Lavelles (who were committed to
                                     economic and housing justice), activists such as Thelma Lovette, Mary Jane Page,
investigate and offer concrete
                                     and Rev. Shanea Leonard, who—in addition to their advocacy—created space
proposals on how the
                                     for radical love, authenticity and joy.
denomination might deepen               I begin this article by naming these individuals because in order to understand
our investment toward the            the work of the Black Women and Girls Task force, it is important to first under-
liberation of Black women and        stand that the task force is not solely about recommendations. This is not about
girls. This article is an offering   the formality of the General Assembly or about naming all the ways the Church
from the youngest member of          has been complicit in violently upholding patriarchy and racism under the guise of
the task force, Samantha             Christianity. I am Black, woman and Presbyterian. for me and the Black, femme,1
Paige Davis. She offers              queer people of the taskforce, our work is about our humanity and the liberation
historical and anecdotal             of our people. The acknowledgement of history, the formalities and the recom-
context of the experiences of        mendations are necessary, but this work for us is personal and intrinsically tied to
                                     who we are and what we as individuals and a collective of Black cis and trans girls,
Black women and girls in our
                                     women and gender non-conforming people2 deserve.
society and the PC(USA);
provides rationale                   Our Multiple Social Identities
for the task force’s                 Broad efforts to address racial inequities and gender inequities consistently under-
recommendations and calls            mine the lived experiences of Black women and girls. Between 2014 and 2016,
us to be provoked into action        state-sanctioned violence—including the slaughter of Black people at the hands of
for the sake of justice and          police—sparked protests and calls for reform across the country, from the White
liberation for all God’s people.     House to the General Assembly. The 222nd General Assembly (2016) adopted

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An Ethic of Love - Presbyterian Women
When we neglect to intentionally explore the unique ways that we experience
            oppression at the intersection of our multiple identities, we fail.

recommendations that focused on              The task force identified five areas         While I’ll always be grateful for
improving life outcomes for Black         where the PC(USA) could implement           that sanctuary, I’ve learned that
men and boys. While this is urgent,       impactful policies and practices in soli-   many Black girls do not have a sanc-
commendable and necessary, it is just     darity with Black women and girls—          tuary at all. Church, schools and
as urgent for Black women, girls and      (1) adultification of Black girls,          homes can all be culprits in the era-
trans people.                             (2) gender equality for Black women         sure of Black girlhood. Regardless of
    In 1955, the United Presbyterian           in ministry and addressing toxic       plausible good intent, efforts to
Church in the U.S.A. voted to begin            theology,                              ensure we are “ladies”—including
ordaining women as ministers. It          (3) reproductive justice/human              biblical interpretations that suggest
wasn’t until nearly 20 years later that        rights,                                girls are inferior or must submit to
Katie Geneva Cannon was ordained          (4) LGBTQIA+ equality, and                  men—hinder girls from showing up
as the first Black woman minister in                                                  as their full, authentic selves; silence
                                          (5) the elimination of cash bail
the denomination. The delay speaks                                                    their speech; scold them for their
                                               practices.
to the way our lack of intentionality                                                 autonomy; and deny them agency
around race and other social identities      Our recommendations are                  over their own bodies. This is a per-
centers the experience of white           grounded in the lived experience of         petuation of patriarchy and fuels
women and names it gender equity.         Black women and girls across the            both interpersonal and institutional
Professor and lawyer Dr. Kimberlé         county, quantitative and qualitative        violence.
Crenshaw says, “If we aren’t intersec-    analysis and the biblical understanding         Given anti-Black racism, the
tional, some of us, the most vulnera-     that “the Spirit of the Lord is upon        bodies and behavior of Black girls
ble, will fall through the cracks.” 3     me, . . . [God] has sent me to proclaim     are hypersexualized, adultified and
Intersectionality is an understanding     release to the captives and recovery of     criminalized. A survey by George-
that there is no racial justice without   sight to the blind will see, to let the     town Law Center on Poverty found
gender justice and no gender justice      oppressed go free” (Lk. 4:18).              that Black girls ages 5–14 were per-
without racial justice. When we neg-                                                  ceived as more adult and less inno-
                                          Adultification of
lect to intentionally explore the                                                     cent of the same childhood activities
unique ways that we experience            Black Girls                                 as white girls.4 This year, a 9–year-
oppression at the intersection of our     I was baptized in the Presbyterian          old Black girl in crisis was hand-
multiple identities, we fail.             church when I was 12 years old.             cuffed and then pepper sprayed by
    The formation of this task force      That time was full of joyous memo-          police after they yelled at her “You
speaks to the ever-evolving and deep-     ries. It was also the time I remember       are acting like a child!” She answered,
ening analysis of our society and the     most vividly having my body, my             “I am a child!”5
church. It represents the persistent      speech and my actions policed in                This adultification equates to less
leadership of Black women in the          ways that—even then—felt odd. I             support for Black girls who are sur-
Presbyterian church and the evolving      felt seen and affirmed in only a few        vivors of gender-based violence and
commitment to intersectionality held      places, but one of those was the            more punitive approaches to their
by Presbyterian bodies.                   church. At Grace Church, I wit-             normal adolescent behavior. It means
    In our year-long exploration of the   nessed a Black woman preach and             Black girls experience more trauma
unique ways that Black women and          lead ministry unapologetically. The         and less love, care and dignity in
girls experience interpersonal and        senior pastor there convinced me that       their day-to-day encounters with the
institutional violence, we met with       my leadership was needed and that           world. Gendered and racialized vio-
experts across the country who are        my assertiveness and inquisitive            lence impacts Black girls in many
leading this work.                        nature were valuable gifts.                 aspects of life.

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The task force found a pattern of spiritual and emotional violence Black women
            theologians often endure—being excluded, policed, silenced and
                  questioned about their qualifications in their divine call.

   • One in four Black girls will be      women. The task force report reminds         that exist at all levels of the church,
     sexually abused before the age       us that during the time of chattel           we will not know the full truth of
     of 18.6                              enslavement, “Black women were not           Black women theologians’ experi-
   • In middle and high school,           recognized as human theologically,           ences and cannot expect them to
     Black girls represent 16 percent     socially or legally.” 10 Many leaders in     share their stories without support
     of the population, yet they rep-     the Presbyterian Church profited             or security. To this end, the task
     resent 44 percent of those           from and staunchly defended enslave-         force is calling on the General
     arrested.7                           ment.11 Moreover, many Christians,           Assembly to direct Research Services
                                          including Presbyterians, did not offer       in the PC(USA) to conduct a survey
   • The suicide rate for Black chil-
                                          quick or universal support of the abo-       of Black Presbyterian women,
     dren, ages 5–12, is nearly two
                                          lition of slavery, the Civil Rights          including Black clergywomen, about
     times higher than for white chil-
                                          movement or more recent calls for jus-       their experiences within the denomi-
     dren of similar ages.8
                                          tice. Toxic theology remains deeply          nation and hold regional focus
   • Black girls are over two times       entrenched in our society, so was felt       groups with black clergywomen con-
     more likely to be adjudicated for    deeply throughout the task force’s           ducted by trusted, notable, black
     “status offenses”—like truancy,      exploration of disparities experienced       women facilitators, consulting with
     curfew violations, or running        by Black women and girls both within         gender and racial justice staff in the
     away—than both white girls           and outside the PC(USA).                     Presbyterian Mission Agency.
     and Black boys.”9                        While I am not a minister, the
   To break these patterns, the task      Black women, queer and gender-non            Reproductive Justice
force is calling on the General           confirming theologians I admire and          and Human Rights
Assembly to (among other things)          love have all experienced the wrath of       Reproductive justice is the human
direct the Presbyterian Mission           t oxic theology, raring its head in the      right to maintain personal bodily
Agency (PMA) to create educational        form of misogynoir (anti-black racist        autonomy; have children or not have
resources for congregations to learn      misogyny that black femmes experi-           children; and parent the children we
and interrupt practices and policies      ence). I have witnessed and heard sto-       have in safe and sustainable commu-
that perpetuate the adultification of     ries of microaggressions from their          nities. (See pages 14–17 for more
black girls and criminalization of        professors in seminary, congregation         information.)
adolescent behavior.                      members and the white leadership in             To share a personal point of view
                                          mid-councils. I’ve related to them as a      on this subject, I am a Black woman
Discrimination and                        Black woman leader in my own pro-            who works with Black children who
Toxic Theology                            fession, of their leadership and divinity    are denied safety and access to basic
In the U.S. and many other countries,     being called into question by non-           necessities. I am a Black woman who
toxic theology has been the tool of       B lack folk, Black folk, even Black          has relied on birth control since I was
oppression to maintain power for het-     women who have internalized their            15 years old to help with debilitating
erosexual, cisgender white males and      own oppression. The task force found         periods. I am a Black woman who has
to oppress all others. Out of context     a pattern of spiritual and emotional         had an abortion and who was prayed
and/or inaccurate applications of         violence Black women theologians             over by a Black woman minister who
scripture were used to justify the vio-   often endure—being excluded,                 assured me that my body was my
lence perpetuated by white Christians,    policed, silenced and questioned about       own and that God loves me. I am a
to justify the enslavement and            their qualifications in their divine call.   Black woman who almost lost my
exploitation of Black people and the          Without safe, affirming spaces           best friend while she was in labor
rape and emotional abuse of Black         that address the power dynamics              because of a racist healthcare system

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that too often kills Black mothers        and trans women and girls, and            project toxic masculine theology that
and Black babies.                         protest legislation that harms this       casts judgment on their decisions to
    I am also a Black woman who           community.                                marry, parent or take on leadership
consistently battles the shame and                                                  roles within the church. This toxic
guilt brought on by toxic theology        lGBTQIA+ Equality                         masculine theology refers to a belief,
that says what a woman can do or          While the task force did not have a       in the simplest terms, that these life
can’t do with her own body, that lim-     specific mandate to center the voices     experiences are meant solely for the
its the definition of womanhood           of queer and trans people, Black          pleasure and/or under the authority
solely to organs or the ability to bear   queer and trans people are the most       of cis-hetero men. Outside of the
children, and that spews rhetoric         impacted by institutional and inter-      Church, the broad society continues
around personal responsibility with-      personal violence. Erasing them from      to create barriers and perpetuates an
out calling out the injustices of this    our report or the larger narrative of     “othering” narrative that restricts
world. These beliefs show up in our       Black women and girls’ experiences        queer and trans people from fully
country’s policies and practices that     would be an act of violence in of         participating civically, economically
restrict access to reproductive           itself.                                   and socially.
healthcare, that shame teen mothers,          The task force report lifts up the       To that end, the task force directs
that enact medical violence on Black      following statistics—                     PMA to offer support and grants for
femme, intersex, and trans bodies.          • LGBTQIA+ youth contem-                congregations working with Black
    Reproductive injustice is seen in         plate suicide at three times the      queer and trans organizations and
our current society as well.                  rate of heterosexual youth and        engaging in programming that
  • Nationally, Black women are               harassment or abuse increases         directly addresses the needs of the
    three to four times more likely           the likelihood of self-harm.          LGBTQIA+ community.
    to die from pregnancy-related           • Black women were 91 percent           Elimination of cash Bail
    causes than white women.12                of transgender and gender non-
                                                                                    To understand the need to eliminate
   • Black preschoolers are 4 times           conforming people killed by
                                                                                    cash bail, it is important to make the
     more likely to be suspended              violence.
                                                                                    connection between the prison indus-
     than their white peers.13              • Nearly half (47 percent) of           trial complex and the sin of chattel
   • Black Americans are three                black transgendered people            slavery. The majority of American
     times more likely than white             have been incarcerated, a rate        history—246 years—includes the
     Americans to be killed by                that is 10–15 percentage points       enslavement of Black people. Black
     police.14                                higher than the rate for all          people survived enslavement to be
                                              Black folk.                           exploited for our labor once again
   To this end, the task force directs
the PMA (among other recommen-              • fifteen percent of trans people       as indentured servants, domestic
dations) to provide grants for a core         live on less than $10,000/            workers, and industrial manufactur-
group of Presbyterians from various           year—a rate of poverty that is        ing laborers. We were stripped from
regions in the church to receive              four times the national average. 15   resources we need to thrive by segre-
sex education and inclusive repro-           While the PC(USA) position is to       gation and discriminatory practices.
ductive justice training in order to      welcome all gender identities into        Our behaviors and culture were crim-
share information with their local        church membership, many of our            inalized, our communities policed
congregations. Additionally, the          queer and trans siblings do not find      and Black people became and/or
PC(USA) should support legislation        the church to be a welcoming or safe      remained enslaved in the prison
that actively protects Black queer        place for them. Some congregations        system. While most of the narrative

         Outside of the Church, the broad society continues to create barriers and
         perpetuates an “othering” narrative that restricts queer and trans people
                 from fully participating civically, economically and socially.
                                                                                             March/April 2021          11
around mass incarceration centers                               experienced sexual violence in                next few months holding teach-ins
Black men and boys, women often                                 their lifetimes.19                            on each of the five areas of the
face the brunt of the cash bail sys-                       The tragic story of Sandra Bland                   report. We invite you to join us.
tem. Women are both the fastest                         shows that cash bail can be fatal.                    During the first one in february,
growing prison population16 and are                     After a “routine” traffic stop led to                 Rev. Shanea Lenoard proclaimed, “I
the mothers, daughters and/or part-                     her arrest, but she didn’t have the                   love the church and therefore I must
ners left to care for their communi-                    $500 for bail, Sandra was jailed. She                 criticize her.”20 I echo their senti-
ties and find bail for their loved ones                 was found dead in her cell three                      ments, this is a task force of Black
who have been detained.                                 days later.                                           people that love the church. My hope
    • Black women are imprisoned at                        To this end, the task force honors                 is that the stories, the statistics and
      twice the rate of white women;                    the work PC(USA) is doing to elim-                    the resolve provoke you into action
      Black girls are incarcerated three                inate cash bail and recommends sup-                   and stretch you into a space of pro-
      times as much as white girls.17                   porting legislation to end cash bail.
                                                                                                              ductive discomfort where you can
                                                           In closing, this work has been
    • Of the nearly 110,000 women                                                                             grow in deeper love with God and all
                                                        emotionally taxing, yet it is a labor of
      in local jails, about 60 percent                                                                        of God’s people.
                                                        love for the members of this task
      are awaiting trial and haven’t                    force. We do this in honor of all the                 samantha Paige Davis is a Black
      been convicted. About 80 per-                     Black women, girls, queer and gender                  Feminist, policy wonk and storyteller,
      cent are mothers.18                               nonconforming people who have                         committed to investing in Black youth,
    • Approximately 86 percent                          come before us and will come after                    building Black power, and cultivating
      of women imprisoned have                          us. The task force is spending the                    Black joy for the sake of liberation.

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1. femme indicates any female identifying person, regardless of genitals.
                                                                                 11. Jennifer Oast, “‘The Worst Kind of Slavery’: Slave-Owning Presbyterian
2. Cis describes a person whose gender identity matches the biological sex           Churches in Prince Edward County, Virginia,” The Journal of Southern
   they were assigned at birth. Trans describes a person whose gender identity       History, Vol. 76, No. 4 (November 2010); www.jstor.org/sta-
   differs from the biological sex they were assigned at birth. Gender noncon-       ble/27919282?seq=1.
   forming describes a person whose gender expression does not align with
   their society’s expectations around gender.                                   12. “Racial and Ethnic Disparities Continue in Pregnancy-Related Deaths,”
                                                                                     Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, September 5, 2019;
3. “Reach Everyone on the Planet . . .” Kimberlé Crenshaw and                        www.cdc.gov/media/releases/2019/p0905-racial-ethnic-disparities-
   Intersectionality, edited by Gunda Werner Institut in the Heinrich Böll           pregnancy-deaths.html.
   foundation and the Center for Intersectional Justice (Berlin, 2019);
   www.boell.de/sites/ default/files/crenshaw_-                                  13. “Black Preschoolers far More Likely to Be Suspended,” Code Switch,
   _reach_everyone_on_the_planet_en.pdf.                                             NPR, March 21, 2014; www.npr.org/sections/codeswitch/2014/
                                                                                     03/21/292456211/black-preschoolers-far-more-likely-to-be-suspended.
4. Rebecca Epstein, Jamilia J. Blake and Thalia González. Girlhood
   Interrupted: The Erasure of Black Girls’ Childhood. Washington:               14. “Black people more than three times as likely as white people to be killed
   Georgetown Law Center on Poverty and Inequality, 2017.                            during a police encounter,” Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health,
                                                                                     June 24, 2020; www.hsph.harvard.edu/news/hsph-in-the-news/blacks-
5. Deepti Hajela and Lindsay Whitehurst, “‘I am a child!’ Pepper spray               whites-police-deaths-disparity.
   reflects policing of Black kids,” february 12, 2021;
   https://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/child-police-pepper-spray-shows-          15. “Disparities Experienced by Black Women and Girls Task force
   kids-exempt-75846409                                                              Report.”
6. Jameta Nicole Barlow, “Black women, the forgotten survivors of sexual         16. “Incarceration of Women Is Growing Twice as fast as that of Men,”
   assault,” American Psychological Association, february 2020;                      Equal Justice Initiative, May 11, 2018; https://eji.org/news/female-incar-
   www.apa.org/pi/about/newsletter/2020/02/black-women-sexual-assault.               ceration-growing-twice-as-fast-as-male-incarceration.
7. Sally Afia Nuamah, “Black girls more likely to be arrested than the police    17. Ibid.
   who murdered Breonna Taylor,” October 4, 2020; https://thegrio.com/           18. Sarah Willets, “Black Mama’s Bail Out and the Abolition of Cash Bail,”
   2020/10/24/black-girls-arrested-police-breonna-taylor.                            May 8, 2020; https://msmagazine.com/2020/05/08/held-for-ransom-
8. “Age-Related Racial Disparity in Suicide Rates Among U.S. Youth,”                 dismantling-the-unjust-cash-bail-system.
   National Institute of Mental Health, May 21, 2018; www.nimh.nih.gov/          19. “Overlooked: Women and Jails in an Era of Reform,” www.vera.org/pub-
   news/science-news/2018/age-related-racial-disparity-in-suicide-rates-             lications/overlooked-women-and-jails-report#:~:text=Significant%20
   among-us-youth.shtml.                                                             mental%20illness%20affects%20an,sexual%20violence%20in%20their%20
9. Kimberlyn Leary, “Mental Health and Girls of Color,” Georgetown Law               lifetime.
   Center on Poverty and Inequality, www.law.georgetown.edu/poverty-             20. Paraphrasing of James Baldwin’s famous quote, “I love America more
   inequality-center/wp-content/uploads/sites/14/2019/12/Mental-Health-              than any other country in the world and, exactly for this reason, I insist
   and-Girls-of-Color.pdf                                                            on the right to criticize her perpetually.”
10. “Disparities Experienced by Black Women and Girls Task force Report,”
    Referral to the 225th General Assembly (2022); www.pc-

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May those who sow in tears
   reap with shouts of joy.
Those who go out weeping,
   bearing the seed for sowing,
shall come home with shouts of joy,
   carrying their sheaves.
                                           —Psalm 126:5–6

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