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Letter from the President and CEO
                    “In all these things we are more than conquerors through him
                    who loved us.” Romans 8:37

                    Dear Friends,

                      My wife Bonnie and I are always praying and working hard
                      to raise our boys to be “Wild at Heart” and to prepare them
                      to be leaders in the community and their own families some-
                      day. They have now reached the age where I feel comfort-
                      able showing them some of the all-time great “Wild at Heart”       RecycleForChildren.org
movies from long ago, at least long ago in my mind! The list includes Braveheart,
Last of the Mohicans, The Patriot, and of course, the one that we absolutely had              A great way to recycle
to start with... Gladiator. I have always thought of conquerors as being strong men
who lead armies and are ready to fight at a moment’s notice. They definitely can               your usable clothes,
be that, but I also see a different type of conqueror each day at Arms of Hope. For                furniture and
example, whether it’s Covid or Snowvid, the way children always have child-                      household items
like faith, smiles on their faces and positive attitudes serves as a great lesson for
us “mature” adults today. Or it’s the joy of graduating high school seniors who               to help Arms of Hope.
thought they couldn’t do it, and now possess the hope and excitement for futures
filled with promise. Or it’s single mothers who come to us from homelessness,
abuse, trafficking and now have been truly changed through their case manager,                  Table of Contents
counselor and ministry staff support and guidance. Or it’s the College & Career         3    Bringing Joy to Boles Campus
young adult who is the first in their family to graduate with a bachelor’s degree. Or
it’s the families brave enough to ask for help at our outreach centers and just need    5    Campus Interns
a hand-up. Or it’s the ultimate, our residents who realize that “Neither death nor      6    AOH Graduates
life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers,    9    Resident Spotlights
neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate   13   Annual Report
them from the love of God that is Jesus,” and they choose to become followers of        19   Kawana Savage Story
the conqueror of sin and death. So with all due respect to William Wallace, Ben-        21   Mary Lou Retton Visit
jamin Martin and even Maximus, I’ll continue to teach my boys that the residents
of Arms of Hope are the real conquerors. Thank you so much for your generosity          23   Jessica McCain Story
that God uses through this ministry to help and serve those most desperate in need.     25   Remembering Randy Nicholson
This magazine is a gift to you, our loyal donors and volunteers, and we want you        29   Ten Years After ACU Accident
to celebrate with us another year of God performing miracles in this ministry!          31   AOH is Thankful for Volunteers
                                                                                        33   AOH Happenings
Sincerely,                                                                              35   Memorials & Honors
                                                                                        41   Kerrville Golf Tournament
Troy Robertson                                                                          42   Sporting Clay Tournament
President & CEO                                                                         43   Summer Ministries
                                                                                        44   Fund-A-Need
  Arms of Hope is a 501(c)(3) not-for-profit Christian organization that
  was formed by the consolidation of Medina Children’s Home (est.
                                                                                        46   Randa Upp Board Appointment
  1958) and Boles Children’s Home (est. 1924). In addition to Arms of
  Hope’s residential facilities, Family Outreach Centers in San Antonio,                   View our
  Dallas, Denton, Fort Worth and Houston assist individuals and families
  in need throughout Texas. Arms of Hope offers residential and                          Arms of Hope
  outreach programs for children and single-mother families who are                         Video
  fleeing poverty, homelessness, abuse, neglect and human trafficking.
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How can you help?
General Donations - All general donations support the programs of care provided by Arms of Hope and can be
one time gifts or can be scheduled to automatically recur monthly, quarterly or annually.
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Honors & Memorials - Donations can be contributed as a memorial or to honor a friend or relative. The donor and
the recipient or family will receive an acknowledgement.
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Gift-In-Kind Donations - Your gifts of gently used clothing and household items are either used in our programs or
sold, dependent on current needs. Proceeds from the sale of donated items help fund Arms of Hope programs. To
schedule a pick-up or identify drop-off locations, please visit RecycleForChildren.org.
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Stock/Equity Gifts - Make a gift of stocks or equities and learn how you can gain even greater tax advantages with
these gifts.
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Matching Gifts - Ask your employer to determine if matching funds are available. This is a great way to make your
gift go even further with no additional personal cost.

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Planned Giving - Discover new ways to make a gift that also takes into consideration your personal circumstances
and the needs of your heirs including Wills, Charitable Gift Annuities, Charitable Remainder Trusts and Charitable
Lead Trusts, etc. Explore the value of charitable gifts that require a little thought, but pay off in big benefits to you,
your family and Arms of Hope.
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Scholarships - Many of the children and single-mother families we care for have the desire, ability and need to
further their education. You can help Arms of Hope make certain no one in Arms of Hope’s care is ever deprived of
quality education by providing funding for scholarships for our residents.
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Sponsor a Child or Family in Our Care - Sponsorships may include Christmas gifts, a birthday surprise or simply
taking care of essential needs like clothing, food, school supplies and household items. Arms of Hope children and
families benefit immensely when you show you care by financially supporting the procurement of essential items.
Sponsorship programs are available for all giving levels.
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Livestock Donations - Livestock may be processed for food or converted to cash.
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Vehicle Gifts - Donate a running vehicle that is in good condition. We can use everything from cars and minivans
for the transportation of the children and families in our care to trucks and trailers for use in the maintenance and
upkeep of our facilities and operations.
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Wish List - Check out our wish list at ArmsofHope.org for gift ideas based on our current needs including food,
personal care items, household furnishings and other essential items necessary for providing for the children and
families we serve.
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Bringing Joy to the Boles Campus

The Harbison Family, their friends          Dale Harbison, who also leads Arms of       these ladies’ stories and their gratitude
and the staff and residents of the Boles    Hope as a Board Member, shared at the       for this program and the opportunity
Campus celebrated the grand opening         celebration, “Amy and I are very excited    afforded to them will make you shout
of the Joy Haven Duplex. These beau-        about the opening of Joy Haven on the       for joy, praise the Lord and want to do
tiful three bedroom two bath homes          Boles Campus as another milestone in        more! We chose the name Joy Haven
will provide housing for single-mother      the exciting things that are happening      because of the joy that will be brought
families in the Together Program. The       at Arms of Hope. We first became inter-     into the lives of these precious moms
Together Program provides shelter,          ested in the Together Program in 2006.      and their children as they rebuild their
food and clothing for the mothers and       The program fills a dire need in the        lives through this program and become
their children while the families receive   lives of these moms and their children      faithful servants of God. The strength of
case management, counseling, spiritual      by providing them the resources to          their faith will determine how success-
support and educational opportunities.      increase their education and job skills     ful they are in reaching their goals and
These courageous families are fleeing       while providing housing, food, cloth-       being able to take care of themselves
extreme poverty, homelessness and           ing, counseling and parenting skills in a   and their children.” He also asked those
abuse and a safe and beautiful home         nurturing, safe Christian environment.      in attendance to remember the words of
is the first step towards healing and       As we have listened to these moms           Isaiah 41:10: “Don’t be afraid, for I am
change. Between the Boles and Medina        and watched their progress through          with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I
Campuses, these are the sixteenth and       this program, what we have seen has         am your God. I will strengthen you and
seventeenth homes the Harbisons have        been truly amazing in how the lives         help you. I will hold you with my righ-
provided for our families in desperate      of them and their children have been        teous right hand.” n
need.                                       changed and transformed. Listening to
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Arms of Hope interns led devotionals and Bible studies, organized activities, chaperoned
        children and showed the love of Jesus to all of the residents of Arms of Hope!

                                                          Medina Campus Interns
Kimmie (left) is studying missions and
she volunteered at Arms of Hope while in
high school. “I have loved getting to serve
and love on the kids and the moms,” said
Kimmie.

Sara Grace (middle left) is a social work
major at Abilene Christian University. “I
would do anything to see the kids’ smiles
light up their faces and I can’t wait to see
what God has in store for the rest of their
time at AOH,” exclaimed Sara Grace.

Kaylyn (middle right)        is a sophomore
Accounting       and Nonprofit Management
major at Oklahoma State University. She’s
served Arms of Hope-Medina Campus for
three years. Kaylyn remembers, “Medina
has held a special place in my heart since
the first time I stepped foot on campus.”

Hannah (right) is a Missions major at
Lubbock Christian University. “I was incred-
ibly blessed to be an intern here and I am
so excited to continue to see what God does
through Arms of Hope,” stated Hannah.

      Boles Campus Interns
                                                                Landry (left) is finishing his degree
                                                                in Social Work/Ministry. He came
                                                                to the Boles Campus to step out
                                                                of his comfort zone and be bold in
                                                                his faith. He stated, “This job can
                                                                be difficult, but it is worth it just
                                                                seeing the smiles on these kid’s
                                                                faces!”

                                                                Katie (middle) is a Sociology
                                                                major at Texas A&M University in
                                                                College Station. She had the privi-
                                                                lege to work at the Boles Campus
                                                                last summer and immediately knew
                                                                she wanted to come back. “The
                                                                Lord is present in this place, and
                                                                it has truly been an honor to serve
                                                                and love the people here,” recalls
                                                                Katie.

                                                                Rachel (right) is a senior Family
                                                                Studies major at Lubbock Chris-
                                                                tian University who loves spending
                                                                time with kids and listening to what
                                                                they have to say. She said, “AOH
                                                                is a perfect combination of the two
                                                                and the love here is so evident!”
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AOH Graduates

  Medina Campus
  High School Graduates

                     Sapphire                                                 Ashlee
                                          Educational Accomplishments
                                              in Fiscal Year 2021
                                              6 High School Graduates
                                            28 GEDs & Educational Cert.
                                            1,727 completed college hours
                                                8 Associates Degrees
                                                7 Bachelors Degrees

                                                                             Ashlee on the Boles Campus received
                                                                             her cosmetology license. Way to go
                                                                             Ashlee!

                                                                             Emily
                                        Miranda
Sapphire on the Boles Campus earned
her high school diploma and now will
focus on her associate degree and her                                        Emily on the Boles Campus achieved
bachelor’s degree. There is no doubt    Miranda graduated with an associ-    her associate degree and now will be
that this amazing mother will con-      ate degree and is now working on a   working on her bachelor’s degree
tinue reaching her goals to help her    Bachelor of Science. She will make   in English from Texas A&M-Com-
sweet family succeed in life!           an amazing teacher!                  merce.
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Congratulations to Arm

                                                                 Alexis                                 Carra
                                           Alexis graduated from Medina            Carra in the Medina Campus

                            Taylir
                                           High School and will join the Boles     College & Career Program grad-
                                           Campus College & Career Program.        uated from Schreiner University
                                           Alexis says, “This place is just dif-   with her bachelor’s degree in
                                           ferent and special. Arms of Hope        Public Health.

                                                                                                    Ashanti
Taylir graduated from Medina High School   gives you a home when you have no
and will be serving our country in the     home.”
Marines.

              Brittany

                                           Michelle
                                                                                   Ashanti graduated from Medina
                                           Michelle graduated with an associ-      High School and is joining the
Brittany, an amazing mother of three       ate degree! This wonderful mother       College & Career Program.
wonderful boys on the Medina Campus,       in Denton is enrolling in the Uni-      Ashanti says, “I am so grateful to
graduated with her bachelor’s degree in    versity of North Texas to work on       have this place in my life. It has
Psychology.                                her bachelor’s degree and contin-       shown me what it really means to

                            Alyssa
                                           ues to mentor other moms in the         be a Christian. Without Arms of
                                           Together Program.                       Hope I would be lost.”

                                                                                   Kelly

                                                                     Jenny

                                       Jenny on the Medina Campus
                                       earned an associate degree in Edu-          Kelly worked so hard and com-
                                       cation! This amazing mother says:           pleted her GED! She is now
Congratulations Alyssa on the Medina “Arms of Hope has provided me                 working on her dream of being
Campus for graduating from Cosmetology with all the tools I needed to reach        a licensed chemical dependency
School!                                my goals.”                                  counselor.
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s of Hope’s Graduates

                                       Kisha

  Jessica
                                       We’re proud of Kisha for complet-

                                                                               Elijah
                                       ing her associate degree! This sweet
                                       mom on the Boles Campus is now
                                       on to Texas A&M-Commerce and
 Jessica on the Medina Campus grad-    nursing school. There is no doubt
 uated with her Associate Degree       she has what it takes to succeed!      Elijah graduated from Medina High
 of Applied Science and will be an                                            School and is joining the College
 amazing Medical Technician.                                                  & Career Program. Elijah says, “I
                                                                              want to be different from my fam-
                                                                              ily’s failure and I will make it happen
                                                                              because I want to succeed.”

                                                                              Dejanique

 Glenda
 Glenda, an amazing mother on the
                                       Tara
 Medina Campus, graduated from
 University of Texas-Permian Basin     Congratulations all of our Medina
 with her bachelor’s in Psychol-       Campus graduates from Christian
                                       Women’s Job Corps. Tara’s daugh-       Dajanique from the Medina Campus
 ogy. We are so proud of Glenda and
                                       ter is so proud of her!                received her GED and is now enrolled
 excited for her family’s future!
                                                                              in college.

                                                                                                       Amber
       To contact us about supporting our educational programs,
             please e-mail: Scholarship@ArmsofHope.org

                                       Eden

  Jessica                                                                     Amber from our Boles Campus grad-
                                       Eden graduated from Christian          uated with her associate degree in
 Jessica from the Medina Campus        Women’s Job Corps and now has a        Nursing! She will now continue her
 graduated from Texas A&M-Corpus       great job in Kerrville that provides   journey in the Nursing Program at
 Christi with her bachelor’s degree.   for her family!                        Texas A&M-Commerce.
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Resident
   Spotlight -
        Alexis

“Arms of Hope
is your home

                                                    Residential Child Care Program
when you have
no home.”
     -Alexis

My name is Alexis, I’m 17 years old        hold me accountable, but don’t yell or        ferent and special. I graduated from
and would be in jail if it wasn’t for      hurt me. They are what good parents           Medina High School and now I’m
Arms of Hope-Medina Campus. I              should be. I love the devotionals with        in the College & Career Program on
didn’t have the best relationship with     our Campus Minister. He explains the          the Boles Campus to be closer to my
my family growing up. I never knew         Bible on my level, but treats me like         remaining family in the Fort Worth
who my dad was and my mom did her          an adult. He loves Jesus with all of his      area. I will fulfill my dream of graduat-
best, but she struggled with showing       heart and shows me unconditional love.        ing from Cosmetology School. I want
me affection. I grew up extremely poor     The weekly counseling is life changing        to tell all donors of Arms of Hope how
and I experienced emotional, physi-        and my counselor is amazing! I can            much I appreciate you giving a place
cal and sexual abuse. My mom died of       pour out my heart, yell or cry and she        for children to get out of bad situations.
cancer when I was 11 years old and my      still is a safe place. She doesn’t make       There’s structure to show how a family
stepdad brought in a new girlfriend only   fun of me or think my thoughts are            should be, I’ve worked out bad habits
two days later. I lived with my cousin     stupid. She notices when I’m hurting          and grown emotionally and spiritually.
until two years ago, but then it became    and then helps me heal from my past           Arms of Hope is your home when you
obvious I needed something more.           abuse. I love that I got to come to this      have no home. n
I came to Arms of Hope in 2019 and         ministry and make new friends from
felt safe and loved. My house parents      all over the state. This place is just dif-
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Resident
                                                                                                   Spotlight -
                                                                                                         Carra

                                                                                              “This amazing
                                                                                              program helped me
                                                                                              finish my degree and
                                                                                              save for my future.”
                                                                                              		-Carra

                                                             College &Career Program

My name is Carra Gillaspy and I grad-        income while taking sixteen hours. I       program and it changed my life when
uated from Schreiner University with         was the only one paying for my living      I was accepted! Everyone was so wel-
a Bachelor’s Degree in Public Health         expenses. I did not have insurance and     coming on campus. This was such a
with a minor in management. I wouldn’t       had to pay out of pocket for each of my    blessing and it would have been impos-
have made this accomplishment without        medical appointments. I also had to pay    sible to go to school and provide for my
Arms of Hope. I grew up in Medina and        for my own food. I even worked in the      basic needs without this ministry. This
my parents divorced when I was in 5th        Currey Learning Center on the Medina       amazing program helped me finish my
grade. I lived with my mom in a single       Campus to make ends meet. I tried          degree and save for my future. I loved
parent household. I am the youngest of       to continue my dreams of college by        the other girls that lived with me in the
three, so it was a financial hardship on     living with my sister in Medina while      Fox Center for College & Career and
my mother. My dad was very support-          commuting to San Antonio up to three       the Minister and his wife were always
ive of my sports and school, but didn’t      times a week. In September of 2019, I      so welcoming and kind at our devo-
help very much financially. We had a         no longer had a place to live and was      tionals on campus. A huge thank you
place to live and food to eat, but it was    going to have to put it on hold or more    to all the generous donors that make
not always easy. I tried to go to college,   likely give up on my dream of being a      this ministry possible. I wish I would
but would come back to Medina each           college graduate. I decided to apply for   have found the program sooner; it has
weekend to waitress. It was my only          the Arms of Hope College & Career          blessed me beyond measure. n
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Together Program

                                                                                                        Spotlight-

                                                                                                            Fritzie

                                                               Together Program
  “Arms of Hope has given
  me the faith, courage and
resources to provide a future
 for me and my baby girl.”
           - Fritzie
All good songs have a good chorus, a        she found out this ministry was still        with her. I enjoy the devotional times
refrain that echoes over and over. For      helping people during the pandemic.          with the Campus Minister and my
Fritzie, her echo has told her time and     Fritzie entered Arms of Hope over a          counselor pouring hope into me. I
time again, “God has got me here, He’s      year ago. She remembers meeting new          believe my daughter’s success is tied
not going to drop me now.” Fritzie’s        people, new moms and feeling an over-        with mine and I now have great hope for
journey to Arms of Hope started in a        whelming peace, as God sang to her           the future for both of us. My career path
pregnancy center, in a sacred moment        heart “I’ve got you here, I’m not going      started with entry into an extremely
where she found out from the sonogram       to drop you now.” Fritzie’s growth has       competitive sonography program that
“It’s a girl.” A church member helped       not been just physical, but a deeper spir-   only accepts twelve people per year.
her with a hotel, but Fritzie knew her      itual journey as well. Before coming to      I will complete my associates degree
daughter deserved better. She even          Arms of Hope, she knew God, but has          in Diagnostic Medical Sonography in
thought that her daughter, Mia, might       now grown deeper and stronger in her         2022. I hope to someday purchase my
be better off without her. Thank God he     relationship with him through the spiri-     own home and for Mia to attend college
kept putting that chorus in her mind and    tual programs offered on campus. She         and pursue her own dreams.”
she kept fighting for her family. Fritzie   joyfully says:
looked for help, but sadly so many                                                       Fritzie will use her career path to
organizations had to shut down in 2020      “Arms of Hope has given me the faith,        minister to other girls in the same posi-
due to the pandemic. She then found         courage, and resources to provide a          tion that she was in and share with them
out about Arms of Hope. She vividly         future for me and my baby girl. Arms         the song that got her through the storm,
remembers her first conversation with       of Hope has allowed me to be a better        “God has gotten you here, and He will
the Boles Campus Intake Coordinator         mom for Mia because I am able to             not drop you now.” n
and the extreme sense of relief when        achieve my goals and be more present
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Family Outreach Centers
                                                                                           “I was feeling unaccom-
                                                                                           plished and ashamed of
                                                                                           my mistakes but my case-
                                                                                           worker did not make me
                                                                                           feel ashamed or discredited
                                                                                           me. She did the opposite.
                                                                                           She made me feel impor-
                                                                                           tant!” - Kelly

       FOC
 Spotlight-
        Kelly

My name is Kelly and I am a single           my son’s school referred me to Arms       the living room. Arms of Hope has
mother of four in San Antonio. I have        of Hope. I entered the Arms of Hope       also provided clothing and food for my
two young boys that reside with me           program because of just a coat and now    family. My caseworker has encouraged
and two adult children that live on their    have found so much more! I was feeling    and guided me through the preparation
own. Being a single mother is difficult      unaccomplished and ashamed of my          and recovery of a necessary surgery
and creates challenges such as finding       mistakes but my caseworker did not        as well as supported me as I attained
affordable housing for a family of three.    make me feel ashamed or discredit me.     my goal of purchasing a vehicle. She
I was homeless and stayed with friends       She did the opposite; she made me feel    helped me grow spiritually and regain
for a couple of months. Then, I found        important! She helped me to see that      my self-worth. I am now budgeting,
an apartment that was willing to work        God was still with me and that He had     have a savings account, and have suc-
with my income and I was approved            not forsaken or left me and with God’s    cessfully quit smoking after 25 years.
for a one-bedroom apartment. The             love and strength, I can do all things.   Life feels worthy and fulfilled and I
apartment was small and my boys slept        Arms of Hope has been in my corner        know that God will continue to give me
in the living room on bunk beds. The         from the time I entered the program.      the strength to grow and to continue to
struggle was real and our living situ-       They generously provided half of the      accomplish all the goals that I have set
ation had its challenges, but it was all     deposit to help me move into my two-      for myself and my family. I want to
that I could afford at the time. I live on   bedroom apartment. This was such a        say thank you to Arms of Hope. I am
a limited budget due to my disabilities      blessing to me. Without the assistance    blessed to have you in my life. n
that prevent me from attaining full-         I would have not been able to attain
time employment. During the winter           the much needed space and my two
months, I was in need of a coat and          young boys would still be sleeping in
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Annual Report

                           Goals
                          ORGANIZATIONAL
                                           We haven’t let Covid
                                             keep us down!

    Sometime life turns you upside down,
    so you can learn to live, right side up!
13 Reaching Generations                          All figures in this report are based on
                                                 the Fiscal Year from 7/1/20 to 6/30/21.
FAMILY OUTREACH ADULTS                                749

              Arms of Hope is a 501(c)(3) not-for-profit Christian organi-
     EMOTIONAL ABUSE
              zation that was formed by the consolidation of Medina69%
            HOMELESS                                                       Chil-
                                                                                                      MISSION STATEMENT
                                                                                                      92%

OR PROBLEMS IN SCHOOL                                                        72%
              dren’s Home (est. 1958) and Boles Children’s
         ANGER ISSUES
                                                                     Home (est.                         To transform the lives of
                                                          48%
              1924). This partnership holds over 160 years
              NEGLECT                                         54% of combined                        disadvantaged children, youth
       PHYSICAL ABUSE                                             58%
              experience in caring for
   HUMAN TRAFFICKING                  22%
                                         the physical, emotional,    educational                     and families by providing hope
              and spiritual needs of children
         SEXUAL ABUSE                      28% and single-mother    families. Al-                     and support in a nurturing,
          LEGAL ISSUES                                         55%
              though both organizations were originally created to serve as
 DRUG/ALCOHOL ABUSE                                     46%                                             Christian environment.
              homes for orphans, Arms of Hope has expanded to serve the
              growing needs of at-risk children and families. Arms of Hope
              offers residential and outreach programs for children and sin-                           VISION STATEMENT
              gle-mother families, who are fleeing poverty, homelessness,                               Reaching generations by
              abuse, neglect and human trafficking.                                            48%
                                                                                                      helping  children and families
                                                                                                       62%
                                                                                                            find43%a future with
              The Board of Directors of Arms of Hope operates with a high
         OTHER AREA
             5%
              level of commitment to provide leadership, guidance and                                      hope and promise.
              finances for the organization. Under the mentorship     38%
                                                                          of the
                          DALLAS/FW
              board, ArmsAREA  of Hope’s leadership team is in constant pursuit
                             32%
              of improving program quality and increasing the number of                              BOARD OF DIRECTORS
OUSTON
 AREA         poverty stricken and desperate children and single-mother                          Jerry Cox, Chairman - Houston
 31%
              families that we serve throughout the state of Texas and be-                       Mike Calvert, Exec. Com. - Houston
              yond. All employees are committed and directed to limit-                           Scot Foith, Exec. Com. - Flower Mound
                                                                                                                            9%
              ing administrative expenses and follow a detailed and well                         Bruce Barnard - Universal City
                 SAN ANTONIO                                                                     Jerry Browder - Denton
              thought   out line-item budget to ensure that every donor dollar
                     AREA
              is spent
                     32%to best benefit our residents.
                                                                                                 Dale Harbison - Edmond, Oklahoma
                                                           MALE                       FEMALE
                                                                            AGE 5 & UNDER
                                                                                                 Kevin   McDonald AGE
                                                                                                    AGE 6-12
                                                                                                                   - Houston
                                                                                                                      13-17
                                                                                                 Randa Upp - Abilene
              Arms of Hope’s annual budget is $8 million and the organiza-                       Beth Walker - Houston
              tion depends almost entirely on private monetary and cloth-                        Tom Winkler - Garland
              ing donations from generous individuals, corporations, foun-                       Jana Woelfel - Houston

                         PROGRAM ALLOCATIONS                                                      INCOME SOURCES
                                                                                                                                  CAUCASIAN
                                                                                                                                     20%

                                                                                                                  INDIVIDUALS &
                                                   SUPPORT SERVICES                                                 BUSINESSES
                                                       & DONOR                                   HISPANIC
                                                                                                  OTHER                29%
                                                      RELATIONS                                    44%
                                                                                                 SOURCES
                                                         15%                                         23%

                                                                                    ESTATES
                                                                                      4%
                                                                                                                                    AFRICAN-
                                                                                                                                    AMERICAN
                                                                                                                                      36%

                          PROGRAMS &                                                  CHURCHES
                            SERVICES                                                     9%
                              85%

                                                                                                FOUNDATIONS           THRIFT
                                                                                                    10%             DONATIONS
                                                                                                                       25%

                                                                                                                        ArmsofHope.org 14
FAMILY OUTREACH CHILDREN                                                          1,344
               9%

                                                                       FAMILY OUTREACH ADULTS                                749

                             INDIVIDUALS
                    dations and          &
                                   churches   for funding
GE 13-17                       BUSINESSES                                              ARMS OF HOPE PROGRAM PARTICIPANTS
HER
                    these invaluable
                                  29%
                                       services.
RCES                                              EMOTIONAL ABUSE
                                                         HOMELESS
                                                                                         COME FROM VARIOUS LOCATIONS    69%
                                                                                                                                          92%

 %                 Most of the residents in Arms of
                                          MAJOR PROBLEMS IN SCHOOL                                                         72%
                                                      ANGER ISSUES                                                     48%
                   Hope’s programs are from Texas          NEGLECT
                                                    PHYSICAL ABUSE
                                                                                                                            54%
                                                                                                                                    OTHER AREA
                                                                                                                                58%
                   and 95% come from the urban areas
                                                HUMAN TRAFFICKING                              22%                                       5%
                                                      SEXUAL ABUSE                                 28%
                   and contiguous counties of Dallas/  LEGAL ISSUES
                                              DRUG/ALCOHOL ABUSE
                                                                                                                             55%
                                                                                                                     46%
                   Fort Worth, Houston and San Anto-
                                                                                                                                                        DALLAS/FW
                   nio. The children and single mother                                                                                                       AREA
 IVIDUALS &
USINESSES          families      we     serve      are    from    all   eth-                                                                                  32%
   29%
                   nic backgrounds with 44% being                                                                  HOUSTON
                                                                                                                      AREA                                 62%
                   Hispanic, 36% African-American             OTHER AREA                                               31%
                                                                   5%
                   and 20% Caucasian. Children                           and
NDATIONS young adultsTHRIFT               participating in Arms DALLAS/FW                                                            38%
 10%
                   of Hope’s DONATIONSprograms range in age AREA
                                          25%                                       32%

                   from birth to early HOUSTON          twenties.       The                                                                  SAN ANTONIO
                                                        AREA
                                                         31%                                                                                     AREA
                   largest population of children in                                                                                              32%
    THRIFT
DONATIONS          Arms of Hope’s care are twelve
     25%
                   years old and younger with 48%                      SAN ANTONIO
                                                                           AREA
                                                                           32%
                   being 5 and under. Less than 2%                                                                       MALE                 FEMALE

                   of Arms of Hope’s residents come
  CAREER      22
                   from homes with two parents. Most                                                                                                          ETHNICITY OF
 HILDREN           placements are a result of poverty, skills and education. Now, 84% re-
                   95
                                                                                                                                                              PARTICIPANTS
                   failed adoptions, family members ceive better grades in school than
                   who can no longer take on parental when they first arrived in our care
 HILDREN              150

M MOMS         32 responsibility, single-parent homes                                with an amazing 38% now on the                                                    CAUCASIAN

                   filled     with     abuse       and      neglect      and
                                                                                                                                                                          20%
 8 GED/
                                                                                     Honor Roll. 85% of Arms of Hope’s
M MOMS
 CATIONAL        65
 TIFICATES         placements by a Juvenile Probation school-agedSUPPORT                               children
                                                                                                             SERVICES
                                                                                                                        are now able
 HILDREN           Office. Arms      28 GED/
                                            of    Hope       helps     each                             & DONOR
                                                                               1,344 to participate in extracurricular ac-
                                                                                                        RELATIONS
                                                                                                                                                     HISPANIC
                                                                                                                                                       44%
                                                                                                           15%

  ADULTS
                   resident       succeed
                                 EDUCATIONAL       by     having      them           tivities  due    to   the     support        and    re-
                                 CERTIFICATES 749
                   follow an in-depth “plan of service” sources provided by our programs                                                                                           SUPPORT SERVICES
                   that measures a variety of different and staff. 68% of all AOH residents                                                                               AFRICAN-
                                                                                                                                                                                       & DONOR
                                                                                                                                                                                      RELATIONS
                                                                         and either experienced positive reunifi-
                                                                                                                                                                         AMERICAN
                   areas in their life such as health          92%                                                                                                          36%
                                                                                                                                                                                         15%
                                             69%
                   wellness, emotional
             8 ASSOCIATES
                            7 BACHELORS
                                                72%    stability, social PROGRAMS    cation
                                                                                   SERVICES
                                                                                            &
                                                                                              with   their     family       or   graduat-
                DEGREES     48%                                                       85%
                              DEGREES
                                54%                                                  ed   from one of our programs. Most
                                    58%
   22%
         28%
                                  GENDER OF                                          of the single mothers and their chil-
                          46%
                                 55%
                                    PROGRAM                                          dren who come to Arms of Hope are
                                PARTICIPANTS                                         considered to be homeless and all
                                                                                     are poverty stricken. Arms of Hope
                                                                                     is truly making a difference in the                                  PROGRAMS &
                                                    8 ASSOCIATES
                                                                                                                                                             SERVICES
                                                       DEGREES 62%7 BACHELORS        lives of those in desperate need by                                        85%
             6 HIGH SCHOOL                                              DEGREES
                GRADUATES                                                            providing programs that offer phys-
                                                                                     ical, emotional and spiritual trans-
                                         38%
                                                                                     formation.

                                                                                  30 Arms of Hope
                                                                                program participants
                                                                               became new followers of
                                 MALE       FEMALE                                 Christ this year.

                    15 Reaching Generations
BOLES TOGETHER PROGRAM MOMS         32

                                                                                                                   MEDINA TOGETHER PROGRAM MOMS             65

                                                                                                              All campus residents receive
                                                                                                                           FAMILY OUTREACH CHILDREN
                                                         9%
                                                                                                                  professional therapy.
                                                                                                                             FAMILY OUTREACH ADULTS
                                                                                                                  In Fiscal Year 2021,
5 & UNDER          AGE 6-12               AGE 13-17                                                           6,000 hours of professional
                                                                                                                therapy were utilized by
                                                                                                     EMOTIONAL ABUSE
                                                                                                            HOMELESS                                                                               69%
                                                                                                                Arms of Hope residents.
                                                                                             MAJOR PROBLEMS IN SCHOOL
                                                                                                         ANGER ISSUES                                                     48%
                                                                                                                                                                                                      72%

                                                                                                              NEGLECT                                                            54%
                                                                                                       PHYSICAL ABUSE                                                                  58%
                                                                                                   HUMAN TRAFFICKING                          22%
                                                                                                         SEXUAL ABUSE                                28%
                                                                                   Chart
                                         NUMBER OF INDIVIDUALS SERVED IN FISCAL YEAR  2021
                                                                                  Chart   Title
                                                                                        Title             LEGAL ISSUES
                                                                                                 DRUG/ALCOHOL ABUSE                                                     46%
                                                                                                                                                                                 55%

                                                         RESIDENTIAL CARE                                                         FAMILY OUTREACH CENTERS

                                         INDIVIDUALS &                                                                                                              1,344
                                                                                                                                                                 1,344                          COL
                                                                                                                                                                                              COLLEG
                COLLEGE AND CAREER
               OTHER
                              BUSINESSES
                                 29%
                                                                22                                                             1400
               SOURCES
                                                                                                                             1400
                 23%
                                                                                                                               1200
                                                                                                                             1200
                                                                                                          OTHER AREA                                                                                   B
                         BOLES CHILDREN                                                 95                    5%
                                                                                                                               1000
                                                                                                                             1000
  ESTATES                                                                                                                                     749749                                         38%
    4%                                                                                                                      DALLAS/FW
                                                                                                                                 800                                                                MEM
                                                                                                                              800
                                                                                                                              AREA
                     MEDINA CHILDREN                                                                       150                 32%
                                                                                               HOUSTON
    CHURCHES                                                                                     AREA                          600600
       9%                                                                                        31%
                                                                                                                                                                                                      BO
                   BOLES TOGETHER                                                                                                                                                                     PR
                                                                     32                                                        400400
                   PROGRAM MOMS
            FOUNDATIONS        THRIFT
                  10%                      DONATIONS
                                              25%                                                                                 200                                                                M
                                                                                                                                                                                                    MED
                                                                                                                  SAN ANTONIO200
                                                                                                                                                                                                      P
                                                                                                                                                                                                    PRO
                    MEDINA TOGETHER                                                                                   AREA
                                                                                   65                                 32%                                                     MALE
                    PROGRAM MOMS                                                                                                  0 0
                                                                                                                                           ADULTS
                                                                                                                                         ADULTS              CHILDREN
                                                                                                                                                           CHILDREN

                  EDUCATIONAL GAINS AMONG                                                              AGE OF CHILDREN IN AOH CARE
                    PROGRAM PARTICIPANTS
                                                                                                                            48%
                                                  EMOTIONAL
                                                EMOTIONAL      ABUSE
                                                            ABUSE
                                                                                                                                               43%
                                      28 GED/
                                    EDUCATIONAL
                                                          HOMELESS
                                                        HOMELESS                                                                                                                       69%
                                                                                                                                                                                     69%
                                       92%
                                    MAJOR      PROBLEMS   IN
                                   MAJOR PROBLEMS IN SCHOOL
                                    CERTIFICATES
                                                             SCHOOL                                                                                                                       72%
                                                                                                                                                       SUPPORT SERVICES                 72%
     69%                                               ANGER   ISSUES
                                                    ANGER ISSUES                                                                                    48%
                                                                                                                                                         & DONOR
                                                                                                                                                      48%RELATIONS
        72%                                                  NEGLECT
                                                          NEGLECT                                                                                             54%
                                                                                                                                                            15%
                                                                                                                                                           54%
                                                    PHYSICAL   ABUSE
                                                  PHYSICAL ABUSE                                                                                                     58%
                                                                                                                                                                   58%
                                                HUMAN   TRAFFICKING
                                            HUMAN TRAFFICKING                                                  22%
                                                                                                             22%
                                                      SEXUAL
                                                   SEXUAL      ABUSE
                                                            ABUSE                                                        28%
                                                                                                                       28%
                                                        LEGAL
                                                     LEGAL     ISSUES
                                                            ISSUES                                                                                                55%
                                                                                                                                                                55%
                                              DRUG/ALCOHOL
                                          DRUG/ALCOHOL ABUSE   ABUSE                                                                            46%
                                                                                                                                              46%
                                                                                                                            PROGRAMS &                               9%
                                                      8 ASSOCIATES
                                                                     7 BACHELORS                                              SERVICES
                                                         DEGREES
                         6 HIGH SCHOOL                                 DEGREES                                                  85%
                           GRADUATES

                                                                                                           AGE 5 & UNDER           AGE 6-12            AGE 13-17

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Programs Offered on Arms of Hope’s Two Residential                                               RIGHT START PROGRAM
Campuses and in its Urban Family Outreach Centers Include:                                  The Right Start Program helps ex-
                                                                                            pectant single mothers prepare for
                                                                                            motherhood, while providing shel-
    RESIDENTIAL CHILD CARE                      TOGETHER PROGRAM                            ter, necessities and skills needed
               PROGRAM                                                                      to care for their newborn babies. It
                                             The Together Program helps mo-                 serves as an entry point for women
  The Residential Child Care Pro-
                                             tivated single mothers and their               coming into the Together Program,
  gram meets disadvantaged chil-
                                             children transition into successful,           who desire to be a parent and learn
  dren’s physical, emotional, edu-
                                             independent futures by providing               how to establish a healthy family en-
  cational and spiritual needs in a
                                             counseling, accountability, par-               vironment for their children.
  family-like atmosphere, where
                                             enting skills, career training and a
  house parents function as mother
  and father figures. Residents range
                                             home in a peaceful and safe envi-
                                             ronment. These mothers are flee-                    OUTREACH PROGRAM
  in age from 5 to 18 and live in cot-
                                             ing homelessness, domestic vio-                Family Outreach Centers provide
                                             lence, human trafficking, abuse or
  tages with eight to ten children.
  Arms of Hope provides for chil-                                                           physical, emotional and spiritual
                                             have lost sustainable support when             assistance to underprivileged chil-
  dren’s basic daily needs including
                                             a death, incarceration or divorce              dren and families in their own
  shelter, food, clothing, counseling,
                                             have occurred and there are no                 neighborhoods, which are some of
  supervision and education.
                                             other means of provision.                      the most financially distressed urban
                                                                                            areas in Texas including Dallas,
                                                                                            Denton, Fort Worth, Houston and
                                                                                            San Antonio. Arms of Hope provides
                                                   COLLEGE & CAREER                         short-term immediate assistance to
                                                          PROGRAM
                                         COLLEGE AND CAREER
                                                                                            prevent homelessness, hunger and
                                                             22
                                                                                            disconnected utilities. Invaluable
                                            The College and Career Program                  long-term resources are also offered
                                            provides assistance for Arms of                 to help change a person’s future, such
                                           BOLES CHILDREN         95
                                            Hope high school graduates with                 as in-depth case management, needs
                                            support through college, trade                  assessments, counseling and family
                                            school or into their first job and of-
                                         MEDINA CHILDREN
                                                                                            workshops. All clients receive prayer,
                                                                      150
                                            ten includes accommodations for                 Bible study and church referrals. For
                                            graduates, who have not yet found               those suffering from extreme abuse,
                                            a place to call home.
                           BOLES TOGETHER PROGRAM MOMS        32
                                                                                            Arms of Hope residential campuses
                                                                                            become their new home.

 Arms of Hope strongly  MEDINA  TOGETHER
                           believes      PROGRAM MOMS
                                    in evangelism            65
                                                     and discipleship.  Through spiritual opportunities including
 regular church services, campus devotionals and Christian camps, 30 participants in our Residential Child
 Care, Together and Family Outreach Center programs became new followers of Christ in Fiscal Year 2021.
 All residents are given daily FAMILY OUTREACH CHILDREN
                                opportunities  to grow in their faith by encountering house parents, case manag-                     1

 ers and counselors that show unconditional love and respect. Each campus has a dedicated minister spe-
 cifically for residents’ spiritual needs and the ministry team oversees all spiritual activities and devotional
                                 FAMILY OUTREACH ADULTS                                      749
 curriculum.

            PROBLEM AREAS UPON ADMISSION TO RESIDENTIAL PROGRAMS
           EMOTIONAL ABUSE                                                                                                92%
                  HOMELESS                                                                          69%
   MAJOR PROBLEMS IN SCHOOL                                                                            72%
               ANGER ISSUES                                                  48%
                    NEGLECT                                                          54%
             PHYSICAL ABUSE                                                                58%
         HUMAN TRAFFICKING                         22%
               SEXUAL ABUSE                              28%
                LEGAL ISSUES                                                         55%
       DRUG/ALCOHOL ABUSE                                                  46%

17 Reaching Generations
How You Can Help
 Volunteer - Arms of Hope welcomes over 60 groups per year for week
 long mission trips and weekend retreats. To bring your group to Arms
 of Hope, please inquire online at ArmsofHope.org.

 Monetary Donations - All general donations support the programs
 of care provided by Arms of Hope and can be one time gifts or can be
 scheduled as recurring gifts. Donate online at ArmsofHope.org.
 Planned Giving - Discover new ways to make a gift that also takes
 into consideration your personal circumstances and the needs of your
 heirs including Wills, Charitable Gift Annuities, Charitable Remainder
 Trusts and Charitable Lead Trusts, etc. Explore the value of charitable
 gifts that require a little thought, but pay off in big benefits to you, your
 family and Arms of Hope. Send inquiries to PlannedGiving@Armsof-
 Hope.org.
 Scholarships - Many of the children and single-mother families that
 we care for have the desire, ability and need to further their education.
 Sometimes the only missing ingredient is the necessary resources. You
 can help Arms of Hope make certain no one in our care is ever deprived
 of a quality education by providing funding for scholarships for our
 residents.                                                                        Organizational Goals
 Sponsor a Child or Family in Our Care - Taking care of needs like                      for 2022
 clothing, food, school supplies and household items is essential. The
 children and families in our care benefit immensely when you show
                                                                                 v Open an educational cen-
 you care by financially supporting the procurement of items essential
                                                                                 ter on the Medina Campus to
 to them. Sponsorship programs are available for all giving levels.
                                                                                 enhance and expand on-line
       Learn more about how you can help at ArmsofHope.org                       learning.

                                                                                 v Begin remodeling an exist-
In Fiscal Year 2021, Arms of Hope hosted 42 different volunteer groups,          ing building into a chapel on
742 volunteers and 15,890 volunteer hours! Volunteers are an invalu-             the Boles Campus to maximize
able asset to Arms of Hope whose manual labor and ministry truly make
a difference in the lives of our children and single mothers.                    space for Bible studies and
                                                                                 group devotionals.

                                                                                 v Expand a mentoring pro-
    Do You Want to Make A
  Difference by Volunteering?                                                    gram for pre-teen children
                                                                                 (ages 8-12) on both campuses,
  To bring a group of your friends                                               including a formal curricu-
  to Arms of Hope, please inquire                                                lum and day camp to increase
     online at ArmsofHope.org
                                                                                 chances of positive spiritual
                                                                                 change.

Please consider remembering
 your family and friends by
   sending memorials and
  honors to Arms of Hope.

                                                                                           ArmsofHope.org 18
Kawana
                                                                                                        Savage

                                                  Extending a
                                           Helping Hand
Kawana and her beautiful family came       and graduated with her LVN Degree           support from her AOH family while
to the Medina Campus in 2015. She was      from Schreiner University in 2017. The      strengthening the bonds with her own
so scared of what this journey would       family then transferred to the Denton       children and the community. Kawana is
mean for her family, but she still lov-    Family Outreach Center program to           now thriving as a Licensed Vocational
ingly tells how our Intake Coordinator     finish up Kawana’s licensing require-       Nurse at Riverhills Health & Rehabili-
insisted that she was the perfect candi-   ments, be closer to extended family and     tation and enjoys every minute of ex-
date for Arms of Hope’s Together Pro-      complete financial goals to ensure the      tending a helping hand while giving
gram. Kawana successfully completed        successful future for her children. She     back to others. All three of her children
several goals for herself and her family   graduated from the Denton program           have graduated high school and the
while at Medina. She cleared her driv-     in 2019. During her time at Arms of         whole family gives back to the commu-
ing record and her children thrived in     Hope, Kawana was blessed with count-        nity and AOH every chance they get.
a smaller school while participating       less case management & counseling           Kawana is a mentor for other moms in
in activities that they never dreamed      sessions, participated in Bible studies,    the program and is always willing to
would be possible. The whole family        church, parenting and life skill classes,   speak an encouraging word to anyone
formed long lasting relationships with     learned how to develop safe relation-       who needs it. The icing on the cake is
the staff and other wonderful residents    ships, developed budgeting skills and       the family’s recent realization of their
on campus. Kawana worked so hard           most importantly received love and          lifetime goal to own a house! n
19 Reaching Generations
2015                              2017

2018                               2020
              2019

                                    2021

       2021

                     ArmsofHope.org 20
Mary Lou Retton
                   American Olympic Gold Gymnast and America’s Sweetheart

Perfect 10
       Scores a

                 with her
     Medina Campus
                   Visit!

 Although the wise decision to make       hope and love, Mary Lou would’ve
 sure the health of our residents, sup-   definitely been a huge hit at our
 porters and staff are our first prior-   events. But where Covid caused dis-
 ity, Arms of Hope was saddened to        appointment, God created a wonder-
 cancel our 2020 and 2021 Dallas and      ful opportunity!
 Houston Events due to Covid. Be-
 sides hearing the testimonies from       Retton was able to visit and speak at
 our incredible residents, we had been    the Medina Campus and the residents
 excited about our plan to bring Mary     and staff were blown away by her en-
 Lou Retton to these events. An Olym-     couragement and support. She start-
 pic Champion Gymnast, but more           ed the day touring the campus and
 importantly a woman of great faith,      celebrating that we are able to provide
 21 Reaching Generations
                                                                                    ABC Photo Archives
pics without the work ethic that was
                                                                                     placed in me by my family. We were
                                                                                     taught that you were not better than
                                                                                     anyone else and if you want some-
                                                                                     thing you better work and work and
                                                                                     work. As crazy and ridiculous as it
                                                                                     seems, don’t ever let anyone tell you
                                                                                     that you can’t do something. God got
                                          Currey Learning Center and meet-           me through and if you have faith in
                                          ing some of our youngest and most          him, you can achieve anything!”
                                          adorable residents. She jumped right
                                          in and spent lots of time playing and      What a wonderful message for our
                                          loving God’s beautiful children. After     residents who are constantly striv-
                                          the tour, it was on to our Chapel of       ing to change their lives and create a
                                          Hope where Retton blessed every-           different and better future for them-
                                          one with pictures and time for good        selves and their families.
                                          conversation with everyone she met.
this ministry of unconditional love       She truly made all of the residents feel   Retton then nailed the perfect land-
and support to 125 children and sin-      important and assured them that she        ing by stating, “I walked on this cam-
gle mothers in Medina alone. Retton       was the one honored to meet with           pus and everyone was just in a golden
was excited to see the new Barnard        them! Her interview at the chapel          glow. That’s what I think Christian-
Educational Center that will provide a    blew everyone away with her humble         ity is about. People see you and want
beautiful, peaceful and modern space      and inspiring testimony of how to          what you have. All of you here have
for residents on campus to achieve        work hard to succeed.                      been that for me. What you do here,
their higher education goals. She also                                               I’m blown away. People call me a hero
enjoyed seeing the cottages for chil-     Retton stated, “I’m a coal miner’s         because I stuck a vault, but what you
dren in our Residential Child Care        daughter from West Virginia. We            guys do everyday, helping people and
Program and the newly built hous-         had what we needed, but we didn’t          breaking cycles, I’m so blessed to be
ing for our single-mother families.       have a lot, so sports were my chance.      here.” n
Retton’s favorite part was visiting the   I would’ve never gone to the Olym-
                                                                                                    ArmsofHope.org 22
On A Continued

                                                                     Road to

                                                                          Success

                                                                                              Jessica
                                                                                              McCain
My name is Jessica McCain and I am a      it, but I do remember my brother and I    fully aware of what was going on. We
proud graduate of Texas A&M Univer-       living with our mother instead of going   lived in an unsafe motel for most of
sity-Corpus Christi with a Bachelor of    with our father. Looking back now, if     my childhood and sometimes we did
Arts Degree in Psychology. For the last   I had the choice, I would have chosen     not live anywhere at all. There were
four years I have been working hard to    to go with my dad. My mother cared        days that we would go without food
achieve this goal while in the College    more about drugs, alcohol and men         and basic needs. When I turned five,
& Career Program at Arms of Hope.         than she did her own children. She did    CPS was made aware of the situation
I am so proud of what I have accom-       not take the time to watch over us and    we were living in and they took us to
plished. However, this journey has not    because of that my brother and I suf-     live with our dad. After living only
been easy.                                fered. I faced years of physical and      two years with him, he was diagnosed
                                          sexual abuse from her boyfriends and      with colon cancer. He became too sick
When I was just two years old my          acquaintances. I wish I could say my      to take care of us and I was placed at
mom and dad got divorced. I was so        mother didn’t know what was happen-       Arms of Hope-Medina Campus when
young that I do not remember most of      ing, but that was not the case. She was   I was seven years old. I was young
23 Reaching Generations
2012                                                            2011                        2011

                     2018
                                                                         2018

                                                                                                  2017

                   2016

                                                                                                2021

and scared and did not know what life      a great education and helped me with       hard, especially with my college gradu-
had planned for me, but with a lot of      years of counseling for my trauma.         ation only being a few months away. I
support from the loving staff, it became                                              was not even sure if getting my degree
the best thing that ever happened to me.   Some of my most amazing memo-              would be an option this semester, but
                                           ries are graduating from Medina High       Arms of Hope helped me navigate
Arms of Hope took me in and cared for      School in 2017, and the ultimate expe-     through this storm. My journey to get
me in a way that I hadn’t experienced      rience of being baptized at Camp Eagle     to where I am has been anything but
before. They showed me how a parent        by my Campus Minister, who is still        easy, but I now have a bright future.
is supposed to care for you. Eventually,   actively involved in my life. Without      I owe all of my successes to God, my
my dad’s health improved, but he and I     Arms of Hope, I would not have had the     father and Arms of Hope. n
decided that the Medina Campus was         opportunity to go to college and I don’t
the place where God wanted me to be        know where I would be. In January
raised. I am so thankful he made that      2021, I got the unexpected call that my
tough decision. Arms of Hope gave me       father had passed away. I took this very
                                                                                                      ArmsofHope.org 24
Remembering A Life

                                                                                                    of
  “Even if my
   mother and

                                                                                  Upbringing at
father leave me,
    the Lord
will take me in.”

                                                                                       Boles Home
 - Psalm 27:10

                                                                                       &Service to

                                                                                             Arms of
                                                                                                Hope

                      “Most                                                            Randy Nicholson
                                                                                                  1937-2021
                            me”
                     Handso
      1954
  Randy Nicholson left a lasting legacy      It was difficult, after having achieved   except that something had happened
  on Arms of Hope as a former resident       financial success, not to think, Look     between his parents and he and his
  of Boles Home, a nationally known          at me, I am at the top. Thankfully,       siblings were deemed wards of the
  businessman, and an exceptional sup-       I remembered my past and what it          state in Hunt County. The state placed
  porter and board member of Arms of         was like being at the bottom of that      them at Boles Home in 1939, where
  Hope. He overcame hardships and            ladder - and it helped me remember        there were more than two hundred
  celebrated successes, yet he was al-       that we are all equal and deserving       children who had been orphaned or
  ways interested in enjoying the pres-      of respect,” Randy wrote in his 2018      came from families whose parents
  ent rather than reliving the past. As he   memoir entitled Hindsight is 20/10:       were unable to care for them.
  would sometimes mention, Nichol-           Reflections on Life With Unveiled
  son knew what zero was and he said,        Eyes.                                     Boles was a farming environment
  “What I originally saw as adversity, I                                               where all the children learned to work
  later realized was God putting me on       Nicholson arrived at Boles Children’s     hard. Randy churned milk to make
  a path of blessing.”                       Home when he was only eighteen            butter for Boles Home and picked
                                             months old. He was the youngest of        cotton for two cents per pound. The
  “I believe that my experiences at the      four children and he never knew the       children were only able to keep a
  home affected how I viewed people.         circumstances that led him to Boles       portion of their earnings and the rest

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Randy and his siblings
                                                                  at Boles Home

“What I originally saw as adversity, I later realized
   was God putting me on a path of blessing.”
             - Randy Nicholson

        Randy with Suzie, a pig he raised
        while growing up at Boles

  went towards buying items like a tele-    ate returns. Through the experience     from God and in his memoir he stat-
  vision and radio for their dorm. When     of all these opportunities, Nicholson   ed, “I had no choice to be humble.”
  he earned fifteen dollars, he bought      decided he wanted to study business
  a pig he named Suzie and he sold          in college. The question became, how    At the age of seventeen, he got a
  several litters of her piglets to earn    could he get to college? When he        handshake and a ride to the big city
  more money. He also learned farming       graduated from Boles High School,       of Dallas to the home of an uncle he’d
  would not be a way of life for him! It    he had eight hundred dollars. Nichol-   never met. The uncle told Randy his
  was too unpredictable because even        son would have had more, but three      family was leaving for vacation and
  if you did everything right, drought      hundred dollars was stolen from his     could offer no help to the stranger
  and disease could devastate earning       jean pockets in the locker room while   standing on their doorstep. Most sev-
  potential. Plus, picking cotton made      he was playing in a basketball game.    enteen year olds might have crum-
  his fingers sore! Randy learned about     Randy remembered valuable lessons       bled on the street corner and cried,
  accounting basics while working at        learned at Boles like the emphasis      but Randy found his way to the Saner
  an office in town and selling Suzie’s     on hard work and honesty, the value     Church of Christ and was told about a
  piglets taught him about finances.        of relationships, and the importance    widow who had a room he could rent.
  These experiences helped him learn        of managing money. Most of all, he      He rented the room and found a job at
  to save money and reinvest to gener-      learned that everything he had was      Safeway. The district manager even

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Safeway grocery store

                                                                         1957
                                                  “I believe that my experiences at the home affected how
                                                  I viewed people. It was difficult, after having achieved
                                               financial success, not to think, Look at me, I’m at the top.
                                                 Thankfully, I remembered my past and what it was like
                             1959              being at the bottom of that ladder - and it helped me remem-
                                                    ber that we are all equal and deserving of respect.”

   2016                              59th Anniversary with
                                     Randa and her family

                                                                                                         1992

made sure he would be invited to         ily and when Randy and Barbara later      both parents in her life because that
work at the Safeway in Abilene while     graduated from Abilene Christian          is something he never had.
attending Abilene Christian College.     College, Mr. Hart escorted Barbara
Even though he was offered money         and Randy was honored to be escort-       Randy became the founder, presi-
for college, he turned it down because   ed by Mrs. Hart. Soon after passing       dent, chief operating officer and
he had what he considered the good       the CPA exam, Randy bought his ac-        board member of E-Z Serve Inc.
fortune of saving enough money to        counting firm, which became known         with one thousand and two hundred
pay his own way. Randy recalled, “It     as Nicholson and Mouser. In 1963,         outlets in twenty-six states, which
was obvious God was working in my        Randy sold his interest in the practice   was sold in 1986. Eventually, Randy
life.”                                   and began working for the McGloth-        was known for pioneering the “pay-
                                         lin family, strengthening his involve-    at-the-pump” technology through
While at Abilene Christian College,      ment in a large number and variety        an E-Z Serve subsidiary named Au-
Randy met Barbara Hart and they          of companies. Randy and Barbara           togas that revolutionized the retail
married on a Monday in November          welcomed their only child, a daugh-       gas industry by allowing drivers to
1957, because it was his day off from    ter named Randa, in 1966. One of the      buy gasoline at convenience stores
working at Safeway. Barbara’s par-       most important things to Randy was        without leaving their vehicle. It be-
ents welcomed Randy into their fam-      that his daughter have a home and         came an invention that was lauded
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Randy Nicholson with AOH children                             2010

                                                                         2006                   Pay-at-the
                                                                                                           -pump

by USA Today as the ninth best in-       and personal success to provide for      mor requiring surgery and radiation
vention that changed lives in the past   Arms of Hope, yet he was also an         in 1977, could keep him down. One
twenty-five years. Auto Gas Systems,     inspiration for fighting for each and    of the principles Randy taught his
launched the technology in just two      every child we serve since he was a      daughter, Randa, was, “When your
gas stations in 1987, and his company    former resident. He knew what it was     situation seems the darkest, look to
later provided software to more than     like being at the bottom and found       Him. Pray that God will give you just
two thousand stores nationwide.          hope along the way, which is exactly     enough light for the next step. We
                                         our dream for every resident in Arms     don’t have to see the whole plan, and
Randy’s family and friends fondly re-    of Hope’s care. Nicholson was a very     often the path isn’t a straight line; we
member him as a jokester who loved       tough man with a work ethic of steel     just have to trust Him and take the
having fun. Barbara also holds a spe-    who fought to persevere his entire       next step.” That is a principle Randy
cial place in our hearts and Arms of     life, despite his less traditional up-   lived by his entire life, even in the
Hope residents and staff were blessed    bringing. Not even a hospitalization     end as he fought his last fight battling
by her sweet spirit until her passing    for pleurisy from the Asiatic Flu days   Covid-19. We miss Randy Nicholson
in 2017. As an Arms of Hope board        before his wedding in 1957, cardiac      terribly, but rejoice that he and Bar-
member, Randy Nicholson used his         arrest from an IVP dye allergy in the    bara are together in heaven. n
business savvy, investment expertise     1960s or a pituitary gland brain tu-
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Arms of Hope
    Remembers
 Abilene Christian
     University
   Crash Victims
 Ten Years after the
      accident                                             ACU students’ mission trip to serve residents on the Arms of Hope -
                                                           Medina Campus was cut short by a fatal bus crash on November 4th.
Each year Arms of Hope is blessed          ized for over two months due to the se-    messages of love and support. They
by groups who visit our campuses to        rious injuries she endured and she later   were delivered by Kevin McDonald,
volunteer by providing much needed         passed in 2017.                            AOH CEO, to hospitals in San Angelo
assistance with maintaining our facili-                                               and Abilene. “The ACU students were
ties and providing ministry and encour-    After hearing the news on that fate-       touched and honored by this outpour-
agement to the children and families in    ful day, the AOH family immediately        ing of love from our residents,” Mc-
our care. Many of these special groups     began lifting up prayers for those in-     Donald remembered. “Many tears were
make their mission trip to an AOH cam-     volved in the crash and shared cher-       shed in those hospital rooms and lots
pus an annual affair which becomes         ished stories and memories of past         of memories of past visits came pour-
highly anticipated by our residents.       visits. Arms of Hope children honored      ing out as well. I was amazed and in
                                           Anabel’s family and those in the hospi-    awe of the fact that the ACU students’
After serving AOH for seven years,         tal by working for hours to create cards   primary concern was to make sure that
Abilene Christian University’s Agri-       and art projects. The cards and art were   I told the children that they were sorry
cultural and Environmental Sciences        covered with prayers, scriptures and       they couldn’t come this year.”
Department never arrived on our cam-
pus one fall afternoon ten years ago,                                                 Arms of Hope honored the group at
causing our residents and staff great                                                 the Abilene Arms of Hope Gala sev-
concern. Arms of Hope remembers the                                                   eral weeks after the accident. A video
ten year anniversary of the tragic No-                                                was played that showed photos of this
vember 4, 2011, bus accident that in-                                                 special group serving Arms of Hope in
jured thirteen and killed one.                                                        previous years and children told of how
                                                                                      the group impacted their lives. Students
Sixteen ACU students and staff mem-                                                   and faculty from the Agricultural De-
bers were travelling to Medina for                                                    partment were in attendance including
their annual mission trip when the bus                                                Dr. Emmett Miller and members of his
veered off the road around 3:20 p.m.                                                  family. In 2012, Arms of Hope com-
between the small towns of Ballinger                                                  pleted its Medina Campus Chapel and
and Paint Rock. The vehicle rolled sev-      Anabel Reid was returning                dedicated a prayer room in memory of
eral times, ejecting twelve of its occu-                                              Anabel. Her mother, Shelly Reid, and
                                             to the Medina Campus to
pants, before landing upright. Thirteen                                               Dr. Miller were in attendance at the
of the passengers were transported to        volunteer for the second con-            Chapel dedication ceremony.
different hospitals and Anabel Reid,         secutive year, when her life
19 year old sophomore environmental          was tragically taken in the              One of the passengers on that fateful
science major, died at the scene. Assis-     2011 bus accident. She has               day was Kendra Unamba. She remem-
tant professor Emmett Miller regularly       long been remembered for                 bers, “The accident was very difficult,
chaperoned the mission trip with his         her loving, servant heart.               however it showed me how many sup-
wife, Patricia Miller, who was hospital-                                              portive people I have in my life. The

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