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Bivona child advocacy center's 15th annual gala saturday, february 8, 2020 | 5:30 p.m.
thank you to our sponsors
                          PRESENTING
WHITE WINE                   ONE MOUNT                            VALET
BY THE GLASS                   HOPE                      Former Senator Jim Alesi
     CHARITABLE TRUST     B&L Wholesale Supply                COMMUNITY
 RED WINE                  Constellation Brands               SUPPORTER
BY THE GLASS                                           City Blue Imaging Services
                               LOUNGE                     Don & Deb Culeton
                          Connors & Ferris, LLC.
                                                      Golisano Children's Hospital
DESSERT BAR                   COCKTAIL              LeChase Construction Service, LLC
                             Montage Wealth             St. John Fisher College
                              Management                       Wegmans

IN KIND SPONSORS            Arbor Venues        Get Caked         Lisa's Liquor Barn
Abbott's Frozen Custard        CMI AV      Jackson Family Wines   Martin Scott Wines
Bivona child advocacy center's 15th annual gala saturday, february 8, 2020 | 5:30 p.m.
inside
                                                                                                    2    Event Sponsors
                                                                                                    4    Welcome Letter
                                                                                                    5    What is OTBN?
                                                                                                  5-7    What to Expect
                                                                                                     7   Event Schedule
                                             1 in 10 children will be sexually abused before
                                           their 18th birthday. The first step in stopping this     8    Live Auction Preview
                                             staggering statistic is education, and at Bivona       8    Pro Sports Fan Getaway
                                             Child Advocacy Center, we're working hard to           9    Flowers for a Year
                                            raise awareness of the prevalence of this abuse.        9    Sample with a Sommelier
                                           Bivona is a safe, welcoming place where abused          10    Dine Out for a Year
                                           children can begin their journey of healing. Our        10    Cruising Keuka
                                           streamlined approach partners social workers, law        11   S.W.A.T. Analysis
                                           enforcement, prosecutors, medical professionals,
                                                                                                    11   Magnum Madness
                                              therapists, and advocates together under one
                                            roof, minimizes trauma to children and preserves       12    5 Nights in Paradise
                                               the best evidence for investigators. Bivona’s       12    John Hardy Jewelry
                                                Multidisciplinary Team works together to           13    Spoil Yourself with a Spa
                                                provide the child and family the support           14    Golf Tour of Rochester
                                           services they need — through trial and beyond.          14    Wine Lovers Package I
                                                                                                   15    Wine Lovers Package II
                                                  Bivona Child Advocacy Center                     15    Dinner with the President
                                               www.bivonacac.org | 585-935-7800                    16    5-Course Dinner for 10
                                               1 Mt. Hope Ave., Rochester NY, 14620                16    Luxury in Skaneateles
                                                                                                   17    3 Nights at Lake Louise
Our Mission Bivona Child Advocacy Center delivers excellence       Our Vision A community          18    Circle of Hope
  in child abuse response, healing, and prevention through         where all children are safe     19    Gala Committee
 collaborative service, awareness, education, and leadership.        and free from abuse.
                                                                                                   19    Board of Directors
Bivona child advocacy center's 15th annual gala saturday, february 8, 2020 | 5:30 p.m.
from our executive director & committee chair
Dear Friends,                                                                         children and families we see can get the
                                                                                      help they need.
   Welcome to Bivona Child Advocacy                                                     We have also expanded our in-school
Center's Open That Bottle Night at                                                    education program, reaching more
Hope Rising, our annual celebration,                                                  than 2,300 children in more than 100
generously sponsored by our friends at                                                classrooms with Child Safety Matters,
Sage Rutty & Co., Inc. A heartfelt thank                                              giving children the tools they need to
you to our Board Chair Wayne Holly and                                                help keep themselves safe from harm.
his team for their continued support                                                    Bivona helps over 2,000 children
over the years.                                                                       each year. These are children who
   It is incredible that guests and                                                   desperately need adults to hear them,
sponsors at our annual Gala have raised                                               believe them, and commit to keeping
nearly 4 million dollars over 15 years to   expanding our mental health               them safe. By taking part in this event,
support the most vulnerable children in     department by adding a Director of        you are showing up for these children,
our community and help set them on          Mental Health Services as well as         and ensuring Bivona will be here to
the path toward healing. We, quite liter-   two therapists to our staff, and have     offer a safe place with people they can
ally, couldn't do the work we do without    partnered with several partner agencies   trust to tell their stories.
your support.                               to train therapists to provide trauma-
   This is our largest annual fundraiser    informed care so that more of the         With tremendous gratitude and respect,
for Bivona. The money raised at this
event goes right back into improving
and expanding the work our staff and
Multidisciplinary Team do to help child
victims of sexual and physical abuse and
their families begin to heal.                    Deb Rosen                             Don Tomeny
   In the past year, we have focused on          Executive Director                    Hope Rising Committee Chair

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Bivona child advocacy center's 15th annual gala saturday, february 8, 2020 | 5:30 p.m.
what to expect                                                  what is open that
what should i wear?                                                               bottle night?
• The Hope Rising Gala is a formal                                                This is the signature fundraising event
  evening — guests are encouraged                                                 for Bivona Child Advocacy Center. We
  to wear anything from semi-formal                                               are celebrating the 15th anniversary of
  to formal attire which may include                                              Open That Bottle Night by highlighting
  suits, ties, cocktail dresses or a                                              hope, a rising theme at Bivona. While
  formal gown.                                                                    guests will see changes to the event
                                                                                  this year, the evening will continue in

what should i bring?
                                                                                  the tradition of Open That Bottle Night,
                                                      Presented by                (OTBN). The idea of OTBN was created
                                                                                  in the late 1990s by John Brecher and
• A bottle of wine to enjoy with dinner.                                          Dorothy Gaiter, who wrote a wine
• Your preferred method of payment                                                column for the Wall Street Journal.
  for any purchases made during                                                   They noted people would buy special
  the evening. The Silent Auction                                                 bottles of wine, store them in their
                                             and directed to Coat Check and
  will be processed through mobile                                                homes or wine cellars and never open
                                             Wine Check where the bottle
  bidding which will require a credit                                             them because they were deemed “too
                                             of wine you have brought from
  card on file.                                                                   special”. They thought once a year
                                             home will be tagged, opened and
                                             brought to your table.               people should get together with their
upon arrival                               • Guests may then proceed to
                                             the Check-In table where your
                                                                                  friends and “open that bottle,” and
                                                                                  designated the tradition as Open That
• Guests may park their car in               information will be confirmed,       Bottle Night. The concept resonated
  the adjacent parking lot or take           you will be checked-in for mobile    and people all over began hosting
  advantage of our valet service.            bidding and your table number will   OTBN parties. This tradition continues
• Guests will be greeted at the door         be shared.                           to gain in popularity.
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Bivona child advocacy center's 15th annual gala saturday, february 8, 2020 | 5:30 p.m.
what to expect
during cocktail hours                           concludes, guests will be invited to
                                                enjoy a variety of desserts and sweets
                                                                                          auction rules
• Guest may purchase White Wines by             at the Forge Metal Dessert Bar.           • All sales are final. No exchanges
  the Glass sponsored by The Joseph &                                                       or refunds.

                                              the end of the night
  Irene Skalny Charitable Trust and Red                                                   • Please take note of expiration dates
  Wines by the Glass sponsored by ITX                                                       marked on some of items.
  Corp. Wines will range in variety.                                                      • Gift certificates DO NOT include
• There will be a cash bar open               • Guests will visit the Check-Out table       taxes or gratuity.
  until 8 p.m.                                  to pick up and pay for items won

                                                                                          live auction
• Assorted hors d'oeuvres will be available     throughout the evening.
  throughout the cocktail hours.              • Don't feel fit to drive? We're happy to
• Silent Auction items will be on               arrange a ride home for you or you
                                                                                          • The Live Auction will begin at
  display and available for bidding until       can take advantage of our ride share
                                                                                            approximately 8:30 p.m.
  8 p.m.                                        discount – Details to follow!             • Once a bid is made, it cannot be
• Guests will be invited to participate in                                                  withdrawn.

                                              payment
  a Wine Pull and Jewelry Raffle.                                                         • All travel, dinners, overnights, etc.,
                                                                                            unless otherwise noted, must

once we sit down                              • Payment by the successful bidder            be redeemed within one year of
                                                must be made at the conclusion of           purchase.
• Dinner will be served at approximately        the evening.
  7:45 p.m. A short program will
  commence which will include a live
                                              • Cash, check, American Express®,
                                                Discover®, MasterCard®, or Visa®          silent auction
  auction, an engaging speaker, and             are accepted payments.                    • The Silent Auction is open for bidding
  Helping Children Heal.                      • Checks should be made payable to            from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m.
• Once Helping Children Heal                    Bivona Child Advocacy Center.             • Each Silent Auction item will have a
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Bivona child advocacy center's 15th annual gala saturday, february 8, 2020 | 5:30 p.m.
“Buy it Now” option. The "Buy it Now" price is
  equal to 150% of the value.
• To bid, use your mobile device or find a Bid
                                                       event schedule
  Assistant with an iPad near the Silent Auction     5:30 p.m. Check-In
  to help you.
                                                     5:30 p.m. Wines By the Glass,
travel packages                                               Cash Bar, Hors d'oeuvres,
• All trips in both Silent and Live Auctions are
  subject to availability. Restrictions may apply.            and Silent Auction
  Some trips indicate specific dates for travel
  and must be used during the time designated          8 p.m. Dinner, Silent Auction
  (expiration date is non-negotiable).
• Trips may be taken only by the winning
                                                              bidding closes
  bidder and cannot be transferred to anyone
  else. If it becomes necessary to reschedule a      8:20 p.m. Program
  trip once it’s booked, the winning bidder                   With Committee Chair Don Tomeny,
  is responsible for contacting the donor to                  Bivona Executive Director Deb Rosen,
  make alternate arrangements with the                        Emcee Jennifer Johnson, and
  donor’s agreement.                                          Auctioneer Chris D'Orso

questions?                                           9:40 p.m. Dessert & Coffee Bar opens
• Contact Events Manager Ashley Dotter at              11 p.m. Event concludes
  585-935-7812 or adotter@bivonacac.org.
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Bivona child advocacy center's 15th annual gala saturday, february 8, 2020 | 5:30 p.m.
live auction preview
ULTIMATE PRO SPORTS
FAN GETAWAY!
Enjoy a trip for two to your choice of an exciting
Friday, Saturday or Sunday MLB, NBA, NFL or NHL
regular season game, non-major PGA golf
tournament* —   ­ that’s up to 5,000 games a year to
choose from among 50 markets nationwide! This
package also includes a two-night weekend stay in a
standard room at a Hyatt, Marriott, Sheraton,
Wyndham or comparable hotel; round-trip coach
class airfare for two within the 48 contiguous U.S. and
Canada; and Winspire booking and concierge services.
*Game date must be on a Friday, Saturday, or Sunday. While every effort will be made to
accommodate your first choice of game, confirmation is based on both event ticket and
hotel availability. Excludes the U.S. PGA Championship, Masters, U.S. Open, Ryder Cup,
Presidents Cup and Green Bay Packers home games.

value: $3,500
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Bivona child advocacy center's 15th annual gala saturday, february 8, 2020 | 5:30 p.m.
FLOWERS FOR A YEAR
Whether you’re a flower lover, or you want to show
someone how much they mean to you, this package
of monthly flower arrangements for a year is sure
to bring smiles and brighten spirits.
A hand-picked and
assembled flower
arrangement will be
delivered to your
spouse, loved one
—or even yourself —
once a month
for a year.                                          SAMPLE WITH A SOMMELIER
                                                     The winner will have the opportunity to have a tasting with
                                                     Sommelier Joe Ellis. Joe will meet you and your guests (up to
                                                     12 people) to sample a minimum of eight wines from his eclectic
                                                     collection. Joe’s background includes years with Wegmans Wine,
                                                     that included running educational events and wine dinners at
                                                     Tastings Restaurant. He now works for one of the largest
                                                     producers of wine in the country. He will work with you to
                                                     discover some gems — both old and new — to create an exciting
                                                     experience for you and your guests. The tasting will occur at a
                                                     mutually agreed upon time, before March 31, 2021, at your residence,
                                                     or a restaurant of your choosing. Joe will provide glassware and a
donor: kittelberger                                  minimum of eight wines. He will also offer advice for appropriate
       florist                                       pairings. Themes could include wines of France, Sparkling Wines,
                                                     Pinot Noir from around the World — use your imagination!
value: $650
                                                     donor: joe ellis value: $1,000                                     9
Bivona child advocacy center's 15th annual gala saturday, february 8, 2020 | 5:30 p.m.
CRUISING KEUKA
                                                        Bivona Board Chair Wayne Holly and
                                                        his wife Judy invite you and five guests
                                                        for dinner and a cocktail cruise at their
                                                        house on Keuka Lake. The evening also
                                                        includes a campfire, tastings of New York
                                                        State wines, and a fireworks display!

                                                        donor: wayne & judy holly
                                                        value: $1,000

DINE OUT FOR A YEAR
Everyone has those days they just don’t feel like
cooking. Luckily for the highest bidder on this
package, they’ll have an automatic out once a
month! Winner receives twelve, $100 gift certificates
to some of the best restaurants in the area.

donor: cathy d'amico & jenny vossler
value: $1,200
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S.W.A.T.                           MAGNUM MADNESS
ANALYSIS                           Does it seem like you’re opening
                                   new bottles of wine every 10
Does your inner crime fighter
                                   minutes when you’re having a
want to come out and play?
                                   dinner party or gathering? These
The highest bidder for this
                                   magnums will let you focus more
unique experience will get
                                   on your guests and less on
to bring a friend for a full day
                                   uncorking — plus, they’ll definitely
of S.W.A.T. training with the
                                   impress! This package includes:
Rochester Police Department.
                                   Sbragia 2007 Monte Rosso
The winner will have rare
                                   Cabernet Sauvignon Double
access to the full spectrum of
                                   Magnum, Beringer 2012
S.W.A.T. training, including
                                   Single Vineyard Bancroft
physical tests, live firing and
                                   Ranch Cabernet Suavignon
tactical skills. Winner will
                                   Magnum, Louis Martini 2014
be immersed in the S.W.A.T.
                                   Cabernet Sauvignon Napa
experience as an active
                                   Valley Magnum, and
member. This fast-paced day
                                   Columbia Valley 2015
will take place in whatever
                                   DeLille D2 Magnum.
environmental and weather
conditions the team members
need to work in — so no
                                   donor: tom wahl, jr.
experience is ever the same!       & glen skalny
donor: rochester police            value: $1,100
department s.w.a.t. team
value: $1,800
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JOHN HARDY
                                                         JEWELRY SET
                                                         This gorgeous sterling silver necklace and
                                                         bracelet set from popular designer John
                                                         Hardy features a chic, modern 8 mm chain
                                                         with a pusher clasp. This versatile set will
                                                         look great on anyone, and can pair with
                                                         the perfect little black dress, or dress up a
                                                         casual outfit.
5 NIGHTS IN PARADISE
Enjoy a five-night stay (including weekends) in the
                                                         donor: cornell's jewelers
upscale, gated condo community of Sea Oats on            value: $2,300
the legendary Gasparilla Island, Florida. This
spacious condo has two bedrooms, two bathrooms,
and sleeps six. It is located just feet from the sandy
beach of the Gulf Coast. Here you’ll find tranquil
living while enjoying the many sights and sounds
of this peaceful old world community. This tiny
Island is a mere seven miles long and 1/2 mile
wide. There are no high-rise buildings, fast food
restaurants, malls, or stoplights. However, the
island has all the amenities you’ll need! (Trip must
be used before Dec. 19, 2020, March excluded)

donor: corey & laura decker
value: $2,500
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SPOIL YOURSELF WITH A HOME SPA
This incredible auction item, donated by Precision Pool & Spa, includes
the consultation for, and complete installation of, a new 8-foot round
or 6-foot by 8-foot rectangular gunite spa per specifications provided
by Precision Pool & Spa. The installation includes concrete entry steps
into the spa, a solid concrete spa bench running the perimeter of the
spa, installation of a premium pebble finish inside the spa, an insulated
spa cover, and a lifetime limited warranty on the Shotcrete structure.
Additionally, the winner will receive a 4-foot round fire pit donated
by Sensenigs Landscape Supply. (If you are interested in this package,
please reach out to Ashley Dotter at adotter@bivonacac.org for full
details and specifications.)

donor: precision pool & spa value: $25,000                                  13
FOR WINE LOVERS I
 GOLF TOUR OF ROCHESTER                                                 This package consists of two rare bottles of
 This is the perfect package for the local golf lover. This package     Cabernet Sauvignon, a bottle of Schrader Winery
 includes three rounds of golf at some of the most exclusive, highest   2006 GIII Beckstoffer Georges III Vineyard,
 rated courses in town: a foursome at Oak Hill Country Club,            and one bottle of Schrader Winery 2007 GIII
 a threesome with a member of Monroe Golf Club, and a                   Rutherford Beckstoffer Georges III Vineyard. The
 threesome with a member of Country Club of Rochester.                  bottles come in a decorative wooden box.

 donor: larry & marylouise steinwachs,                                  donor: dr. walter deck value: $1,000
 shemirani and rocca wealth management
 and oak hill country club
 value: $1,400

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DINNER WITH THE PRESIDENT
                                                      ... of Keuka College. Enjoy a private summer dinner, wine, and
                                                      conversation for up to four guests with Amy Storey, president of
                                                      Keuka College, at her home — the historic Lucina Mansion — on Keuka
                                                      Lake. Enjoy an evening of dinner and conversation expertly prepared
                                                      by the College’s executive chef. The Lucina Mansion was built at
                                                      the turn of the 20th century and has been home to Keuka College’s
                                                      presidents since the 1920s. Guests are also invited to a complimentary
                                                      overnight stay in the College’s guest house on the shore of Keuka Lake.
                                                      Date restrictions apply.

                                                      donor: keuka college value: $1,500

FOR WINE LOVERS II
This high-end collection of wine includes a variety
of red, each with a 90+ point wine rating. This
collection includes one bottle of 2006 Larkmead
LMV Salon, one bottle of 2000 Chatau Palmer,
one bottle of Joseph Phelps Insignia, one bottle
of Buccella Napa Valley Cabernet Sauvignon, and
one bottle of 2012 Saxum Broken Stones.

donor: dr. walter deck value: $1,300                                                                                     15
CHEF-PREPARED 5-COURSE
ITALIAN DINNER FOR 10
A five-course Italian dinner for 10 people at the home of Ralph and
Colleen Dandrea, located in Pittsford, NY. Ralph is a sommelier and will
pair each course with a premium Italian wine from their personal cellar.
An amazing customized Italian dinner will be prepared on-site by the
chefs at The Hideaway for up to 10 guests. Must be redeemed by Feb. 8,
2021. Scheduling is based upon availability. Includes a 30-minute consult
to build menu and review dietary restrictions.

donor: max gordon & the hideaway, ralph & colleen dandrea
value: $1,800

                                                                            A LITTLE LUXURY IN
                                                                            SKANEATELES
                                                                            Take a leisurely overnight trip to beautiful
                                                                            Skaneateles and the Mirbeau Inn & Spa. This
                                                                            $1,400 package includes one weeknight stay
                                                                            at Mirbeau, and a $1,000 gift certificate that can
                                                                            be used for dinner, and spa services throughout
                                                                            the resort. Enjoy some rest and relaxation in one
                                                                            of our favorite regional destinations.

                                                                            donor: don & leslie tomeny & mirbeau inn & spa
 16                                                                         value: $1,400
THREE NIGHTS AT FAIRMONT CHATEAU LAKE LOUISE
                   Enjoy a three-night stay in a Junior
                   Suite including daily breakfast for two
                   in the dining room at this prestigious
                   member of Conde Nast’s Gold List
                   and one of the Top 500 Hotels in the
                   World, according to Travel+Leisure
                   Magazine. The Fairmont Chateau
                   Lake Louise is located in beautiful
                   Alberta, Canada. The incredible blues
                   and greens of its crystal-clear,
                   glacier-fed lake are mesmerizing
                   year-round. So whether you’re a
                   skier, a hiker, or someone who just
                   loves to soak in natural beauty, you’ll
                   love it here. This package includes
                   round-trip coach class airfare for
                   two within the 48 contiguous United
                   States to Calgary, Canada.

                   value: $3,800

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bivona child advocacy center
                                           Thank you to the
                                           Founding Members

                                                                              would like to thank
                                           of Circle of Hope
                                           CHAMPION
                                           • The Steinwachs Family

                                           GUARDIAN
                                           • Wayne & Judy Holly

                                           ALLY
                                           • Ellen & Frank Hagelberg
                                           • Jen & Matt Lake
                                           • Mark & Marcia Siewert
                                           • Don & Leslie Tomeny

                                           PARTNER
Bivona Child Advocacy Center Circle of     • Jason and William

                                                                              the official av sponsor
Hope was created to encourage                Barnecut-Kearns
commitments of three consecutive           • Abhas Kumar &
                                             Chetna Chandrakala

                                                                              of our hope rising gala
years of giving and donor participation,
allowing us to best use your gift for      • Richard & Josie Gangemi
programmatic and organizational needs.     • David & Robin Halladay
                                           • JAMBella Project
Membership levels are:                       Services, Inc.                CMI AV creates experiences and solutions
Champion: $25,000+                         • The Tim Jones Family           that match the unique qualities of each
Guardian: $10,000-$24,999                  • Deb Rosen & Larry Marx       audience. That understanding begins with a
Hero: $5,000-$9,999                        • Marty & Darcy Mucci          conversation, but continues through launch
Ally: $2,500-$4,999                        • Leonard & Deborah Olivieri
Partner: $1,000-$2,499
                                                                            day and beyond. Combining your vision
                                           • Jeremy & Kelly Thompson
Emerging Philanthropist: $500-$999         • Anne Wilder                     with our tailored audiovisual services
                                           • Tom & Ann Wolanski             creates the right mix for every attendee.
Interested in joining Circle of Hope?
Contact Jaime Anderson at 585-935-7838
janderson@bivonacac.org
                                           EMERGING PHILANTHROPIST
                                           • Jaime & Jeffrey Anderson           www.cmiav.com
hope rising                  bivona board of directors                      a special
gala committee
Thank you to the following
                             officers
                             Wayne Holly
                                                    board members           thank you to
Hope Rising Gala
                                                    Jason Barnecut-Kearns
                             Chair
                                                                            emcee
Committee members.                                  Aaron Bertram
Our Gala would not be        Kelly Thompson
                                                    Alex Castro
possible without their       Vice Chair                                     Jennifer Johnson
hard work, dedication                               Michael Crumb
                                                                            auctioneer
and commitment.              Don Tomeny
                             Secretary              Reggie Dejean
Don Tomeny, Chair            Kris Johnston          Bonnie DeVinney         Chris D'Orso

                                                                            our wonderful staff
Jaime Anderson               Treasurer              Sitima Fowler
Kathie Bivona
                                                                            and volunteers
                             Mark Siewert           Debbie Haen
Mark Cleary
                             Immediate Past Chair   Dave Halladay
Colleen Dandrea                                                             The dozens of people
Ashley Dotter                                       William Hurley
                                                                            who help with set up
Joe Ellis
                             honorary board         Abhas Kumar
                                                                            and the evening’s
                             members
Sara Hickman-Himes                                  Jennifer Lake
Andy McDermott                                                              festivities for your
Kerri Mingoia                                       Andy McDermott          enjoyment!
Marc Mingoia
                             Kathie Bivona          Dr. Celia McIntosh
Jess Baron Rumold            Lou Bivona                                     Through your generosity,
                                                    MaryLouise Steinwachs   we are able to provide a
Tony Sears                   Gary Domenico          Ted Townsend            memorable experience for
MaryLouise Steinwachs
                             Jill Knittel           Anne Wilder             all at the Hope Rising Gala!
Kristin Vanden Brul
Katie Wagner                 Tom Wahl, Jr.          LeKeyah Wilson, MD
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