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Rev.	
  Max	
  Cross	
  	
  writes	
  .	
  .	
  	
  

                                                                                                             celled	
  
       	
  
                                          	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  Christmas	
  is	
  can
                                          	
                                                                                                                                                              count	
  the	
  number	
  	
  
                                                               w    ell     	
   can     ce       l	
      Christmas.”	
  I	
  cannot	
  
              “W e	
               m ay        	
  a     s	
                                                                                                                                                        Yet	
  as	
  I	
  sit	
  here	
  	
  
                                                                  e	
  h     ea    rd     	
   tha           t	
  sentiment	
  this	
  year.	
  
              of	
  tim             es 	
  I     	
  h    av                                                                                                                                                            hristmas,	
  I	
  see	
  	
  
                                                              y	
   t ho         ug     ht     s	
     t    o	
    wish	
  you	
  a	
  fantastic	
  C                                                                                                                       	
  cancelled.	
  If	
  anything
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   	
  
              collecti               ng             	
   m
                                                                                                              tio         n	
   t ha      t	
     C     hr          ist           ma              s	
  is	
  m ost	
  certainly	
  not                                                                   m    or    e	
  t his	
  
               around	
  us	
  the	
  determ
                                                                                                ina                                                                                                                                                                                             ven	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   hristmas	
  is	
  needed	
  e
                                                        ou     ld	
    s  ee       m	
     t   ha            t	
  t   he    	
  hope	
  found	
  within	
  C                                                                                                       arl ier  	
  t his  	
   y    ear,	
  perhaps	
  than	
  
               at	
  all,	
  i       t	
  w                                                                                                                                           e	
       l igh              ts	
  appeared                            	
  e
                                                                                                orati                   on     s	
    a nd         	
   f   es         tiv
               year	
  than	
  before.	
  Dec                                                                                                                                                                                         f	
  Christmas.	
  
                                                         re,   	
   a s	
   p     eo    ple           	
   loo          ke   d	
  towards	
  the	
  hope	
  o
               ever	
  befo                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      istmas.	
  I	
  cannot	
  tell	
  
                                                                                                                                                                  n      ot          	
  b    e	
        allowed	
  to	
  do	
  this	
  Chr
                                                                                                                                            w       ill	
                                                                                                                        ruth	
  is	
  I	
  cannot	
  even	
  
                	
  
                                                                                               t	
  w        e	
      w   ill	
   o    r	
  
                  I	
  cannot	
  predict	
  wha                                                                                   t	
  w       ith           	
   y  ou              r	
   f    rie            nds	
  and	
  family.	
  The	
  t
                     you	
  if	
  you	
  will	
  be	
  able
                                                                                                    	
  to	
       m      ee                                                                                                                                                     gs	
  on	
  the	
  day	
  we	
  
                                                                                                                                                        ate              	
  J    es         us           	
  in	
  our	
  Church	
  buildin
                     tell	
  you	
  if	
  we	
  will	
  be	
  a
                                                                                                     ble           	
   to	
   c ele         br                                                                                                                                             	
  every	
  year.	
  That	
  
                                                                                                                                                          t	
     I 	
  c     an           	
  d     o	
       i    s	
   tell	
  you	
  what	
  I	
  tell	
  you
                     choose	
  to	
  celebrate	
  h
                                                                                                      is	
  birt           h.	
        W     ha                                                                                                                                       e	
  is.	
  That	
  the	
  hope	
  
                                                                                                                                                   	
   w         ho           	
   i  nv         ite            s	
   you	
  to	
  explore	
  who	
  h
                     there	
  is	
  a	
  God	
  who	
  lov
                                                                                                            es	
  y       ou      	
  a nd                                                                                                                                                      ifts	
  that	
  will	
  be	
  
                                                                                                                                                                  is	
     f    ou            nd              ,	
  n   ot       	
  in	
  the	
  mountain	
  of	
  g
                      everyone	
  seems	
  to	
  d
                                                                                                  esire	
  s                o	
      m   uc           h	
                                                                                                                                         you	
  pick	
  up	
  the	
  
                                                                                                                                                       ow               ev           er,          	
   i  n	
       t he         	
  love	
  expressed	
  when	
  
                      purchased	
  this	
  year.	
  
                                                                                                   It	
  is	
  fou               nd      ,	
      h                                                                                                                                               	
  drop	
  into	
  the	
  
                                                                                                                                                                           I  t	
       i  s	
   f    ou            nd      	
  in	
  the	
  tin	
  of	
  beans	
  you
                                                                                                            ely	
  neig                hb         ou              r.	
                                                                                                                                 und	
  you	
  as	
  you	
  
                       phone	
  to	
  ring	
  that	
  lon                                                                                                                     	
   s      ile       nc           e	
     t ha          t	
   you	
  allow	
  to	
  form	
  aro
                                                                                                        It	
  is	
  found                    	
  i n	
       t    he                                                                                                                                          	
  in	
  Christmas	
  
                       foodbank	
  collection.	
                                                                                              se        	
  w       ho              	
  a    re          	
  s   uff       eri            ng      	
  at	
  this	
  tim e.	
  It	
  is	
  found
                                                                                                            er	
  for	
  tho
                       lift	
  that	
  faltering	
  pray
                                                                               f ou     nd       	
  i    n	
   the	
  stable.	
  
                        itself	
  and	
  it	
  is	
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    view	
  The	
  
                                                                                                                                                                   ma               s	
     E     xp           er         ien         ce      	
  around	
  St	
  Thomas’,	
  
                                                                                                                                                     ist                                                                                                                                               other	
  way	
  of	
  
                        	
  
                                                                                                           for	
  The	
  C                hr
                          Whether	
  you	
  join	
  us	
                                                                                                                      ov           ie	
         o      n	
    o    ur         	
  website	
  or	
  seek	
  som e	
  
                                                                                                             nity	
  Nati                  vit          y	
        M                                                                                                                                     ething	
  to	
  find	
  it.	
  
                             Bedhampton	
  Commu                                                                                                                   hr         ist          ma                 s,	
    t    his         	
   y ear	
  of	
  all	
  years	
  do	
  som
                             exploring	
  the	
  hope	
  fou
                                                                                                                    nd	
  with                  in	
        C                                                                                                                                            n	
  the	
  fact	
  that	
  
                                                                                                                                                        d	
        a     ll	
      t    he          	
  t     im        e	
   w         e	
   h      ave	
  the	
  hope	
  found	
  i
                                                                                                             be	
  cancelle
                             Christm as	
  will	
  never	
                                                                                                                                                                 an	
  Jesus.	
  
                                                                                   	
   m      an           ge       r	
  grew	
  into	
  the	
  God	
  m
                             the	
  babe	
  in	
  the
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    illed	
  Christmas,	
  	
  
                              	
                                                                                                                                              Have	
  a	
  m erry,	
  hope	
  f
                                                                                                                                                                              	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             Max	
  &	
  Suzy.	
  

                              	
                               	
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Christ is born 50p - Bedhampton Church
SERVICE	
  OF	
  MEMORIES	
  
  In	
  Bedhampton,	
  a	
  service	
  of	
  Memorial	
  was	
  
  held	
  at	
  St	
  Thomas’	
  at	
  the	
  beginning	
  of	
  
  November	
  in	
  memory	
  of	
  those	
  who	
  have	
  died	
  
  during	
  the	
  year.	
  	
  
  The	
  small	
  socially	
  distanced	
  congregation	
  
  listened	
  to	
  hymns,	
  including	
  Dear	
  Lord	
  and	
  
  Father	
  of	
  mankind,	
  The	
  Lord’s	
  My	
  Shepherd,	
  	
  
  Be	
  still	
  for	
  the	
  presence	
  of	
  the	
  Lord	
  and	
  Lord	
  of	
  
  all	
  hopefulness.	
  Prayers	
  were	
  said	
  for	
  all	
  those	
  
  that	
  we	
  love	
  but	
  see	
  no	
  longer.	
  	
  If	
  you	
  were	
  
  unable	
  to	
  attend,	
  you	
  were	
  not	
  forgotten.	
  
  Candles	
  were	
  lit	
  and	
  a	
  Memory	
  board	
  created.	
  

                                                                                        Come	
  and	
  join	
  us	
  for	
  .	
  .	
  .	
  

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  .	
  .	
  on-­‐line	
  
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  Bedhampton.church	
  

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Christ is born 50p - Bedhampton Church
 

The	
  Christmas	
  Experience	
  	
  
When	
  thinking	
  about	
  this	
  year’s	
  festive	
  season	
  for	
  some	
  
reason	
  I	
  keep	
  hearing	
  the	
  brilliant	
  late	
  Alan	
  Rickman	
  as	
  
the	
  Sheriff	
  of	
  Nottingham	
  in	
  the	
  film	
  Robin	
  Hood:	
  Prince	
  
of	
  Thieves	
  shouting	
  ...	
  ‘and	
  call	
  off	
  Christmas!’	
  I	
  realize	
  in	
  
one	
  way	
  that’s	
  not	
  possible	
  because	
  celebrating	
  the	
  birth	
  
of	
  Jesus	
  will	
  happen	
  whatever	
  we	
  do,	
  on	
  the	
  other	
  hand	
  
it	
  looks	
  most	
  likely	
  that	
  the	
  Christmas	
  services	
  to	
  which	
  
we	
  look	
  forward	
  such	
  as:	
  The	
  Family	
  Crib	
  Service,	
  Carols	
  
by	
  Candlelight	
  and	
  Christingle,	
  probably	
  cannot	
  take	
  
place	
  this	
  year.	
  This	
  could	
  make	
  us	
  feel	
  as	
  if	
  the	
  
coronavirus	
  has	
  cancelled	
  Christmas.	
  At	
  the	
  time	
  of	
  
writing	
  this	
  article	
  even	
  the	
  Midnight	
  celebration	
  looks	
  
difficult	
  –	
  and	
  probably	
  impossible	
  for	
  the	
  numbers	
  of	
  
people	
  who	
  usually	
  come	
  along	
  to	
  St	
  Thomas’.	
  
	
  
With	
  these	
  likely	
  restrictions	
  in	
  mind	
  we	
  have	
  come	
  up	
  with	
  an	
  idea	
  which	
  should	
  enable	
  
many	
  adults	
  and	
  children	
  to	
  share	
  in	
  a	
  Christmas	
  Experience.	
  A	
  number	
  of	
  painted	
  figures,	
  
many	
  of	
  them	
  life	
  size,	
  will	
  illustrate	
  the	
  Christmas	
  story	
  in	
  a	
  journey	
  around	
  the	
  outside	
  
of	
  St	
  Thomas’	
  church.	
  Near	
  to	
  each	
  figure	
  or	
  group	
  scene	
  will	
  be	
  a	
  QR	
  (Quick	
  Response)	
  
code	
  which,	
  when	
  scanned	
  with	
  a	
  smart	
  phone,	
  will	
  link	
  the	
  user	
  to	
  a	
  website	
  where	
  that	
  
part	
  of	
  the	
  Christmas	
  story	
  will	
  be	
  told	
  and	
  a	
  suitable	
  Christmas	
  Carol	
  will	
  play!	
  
	
  
If	
  you	
  didn’t	
  understand	
  a	
  word	
  of	
  that	
  last	
  sentence,	
  go	
  with	
  a	
  younger	
  person	
  with	
  a	
  
smart	
  phone	
  to	
  St	
  Thomas’	
  between	
  12th	
  -­‐	
  24th	
  December	
  3pm	
  –	
  6pm	
  and	
  experience	
  
the	
  Christmas	
  story.	
  Just	
  in	
  case	
  you	
  don’t	
  have	
  a	
  smart	
  phone	
  or	
  a	
  smart	
  youngster	
  with	
  
you,	
  there	
  will	
  be	
  story	
  boards	
  alongside	
  each	
  scene	
  with	
  the	
  same	
  story	
  as	
  the	
  audio	
  file.	
  
	
  
                                                                            Make	
  sure	
  you	
  wrap	
  up	
  warm,	
  socially	
  
                                                                            distance,	
  stay	
  safe	
  and	
  follow	
  
                                                                            government	
  guidelines.	
  This	
  is	
  an	
  event	
  
                                                                            to	
  which	
  you	
  can	
  encourage	
  family	
  and	
  
                                                                            friends	
  to	
  come	
  in	
  their	
  own	
  time	
  and	
  
                                                                            grouping	
  –	
  there	
  will	
  be	
  invitation	
  
                                                                            leaflets	
  to	
  pass	
  on.	
  Christmas	
  hasn’t	
  
                                                                            been	
  ‘called	
  off’	
  it’s	
  just	
  going	
  to	
  be	
  
                                                                            very	
  different	
  this	
  year.	
  
                                                                                                               Roger	
  Matthews	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  
                                                                                                               	
  	
  	
  Churchwarden	
  	
  
Two	
  of	
  the	
  painted	
  figure	
  groups	
  currently	
  in	
  production	
  
which	
  will	
  be	
  around	
  the	
  outside	
  of	
  St	
  Thomas	
  Church.	
  
   	
                                                                       	
                	
                                             	
  
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Christ is born 50p - Bedhampton Church
                                                  	
  
        Christmas	
  
	
  	
  	
           c an’t	
  c ome	
  too	
   early	
  	
   ( from	
  Revd	
  Peter	
  Crumpler,	
  St	
  Albans,	
  Herts)	
  
   	
  
   Every	
  year	
  it	
  happens.	
  We	
  hear	
  Christians	
  lamenting	
  how	
  ‘Christmas	
  comes	
  earlier	
  every	
  
   year.’	
  	
  	
  Since	
  this	
  September	
  (or	
  before!)	
  supermarkets,	
  shops	
  and	
  garden	
  centres	
  have	
  
   been	
  selling	
  Christmas	
  jumpers,	
  socks	
  and	
  pyjamas	
  and	
  all	
  kinds	
  of	
  other	
  seasonal	
  
   merchandise.	
  Should	
  we	
  be	
  annoyed	
  or	
  exasperated?	
  Should	
  we	
  have	
  gone	
  around	
  
   reminding	
  people	
  that	
  it’s	
  much	
  too	
  early	
  for	
  tinsel	
  and	
  mistletoe?	
  
   	
  
   This	
  year,	
  of	
  all	
  years,	
  the	
  answer	
  from	
  churches	
  and	
  Christians	
  of	
  all	
  denominations	
  must	
  
   surely	
  be	
  a	
  resounding	
  ‘NO.’	
  	
  
   	
  
   As	
  people	
  began	
  looking	
  to	
  Christmas	
  for	
  some	
  light	
  in	
  the	
  gloom	
  of	
  the	
  pandemic,	
  it	
  
   sounds	
  a	
  woefully	
  wrong	
  note	
  if	
  the	
  Church	
  is	
  saying	
  ‘hold	
  back,	
  it’s	
  not	
  time	
  yet…’	
  
   Because	
  Christmas	
  is	
  that	
  time	
  of	
  year	
  when	
  increasing	
  numbers	
  of	
  people	
  want	
  to	
  come	
  
   to	
  church	
  services	
  and	
  share	
  in	
  the	
  story	
  of	
  the	
  new-­‐born	
  King.	
  It	
  is	
  when	
  carols	
  are	
  played	
  
   in	
  shopping	
  centres,	
  and	
  there	
  are	
  openings	
  to	
  speak	
  of	
  the	
  meaning	
  of	
  the	
  season.	
  
   Churches	
  m ight	
  not	
  be	
  able	
  to	
  host	
  big	
  indoor	
  carol	
  services	
  this	
  year,	
  but	
  the	
  challenge	
  is	
  
   how	
  we	
  take	
  the	
  Christmas	
  m essage	
  out	
  into	
  the	
  streets	
  and	
  neighbourhoods	
  around	
  our	
  
   buildings.	
  	
  This	
  year	
  has	
  been	
  one	
  like	
  no	
  other	
  for	
  millions	
  of	
  people,	
  with	
  little	
  prospect	
  
   of	
  better	
  news	
  into	
  the	
  New	
  Year.	
  So	
  we	
  need	
  to	
  be	
  declaring	
  the	
  Christmas	
  message	
  of	
  
   hope	
  and	
  light	
  and	
  joy	
  in	
  the	
  darkness.	
  	
  But	
  also,	
  we	
  need	
  to	
  be	
  doing	
  so	
  with	
  sensitivity	
  
   and	
  care,	
  for	
  the	
  m any	
  who	
  will	
  find	
  it	
  hard	
  to	
  be	
  celebrating	
  this	
  pandemic	
  year,	
  and	
  with	
  
   the	
  prospect	
  of	
  large	
  family	
  gatherings	
  in	
  doubt	
  because	
  of	
  Covid	
  19	
  regulations.	
  
   	
  
   We	
  will	
  especially	
  remember	
  families	
  who	
  have	
  been	
  affected	
  by	
  the	
  virus,	
  so	
  our	
  mission	
  
   is	
  to	
  bring	
  a	
  message	
  of	
  hope,	
  and	
  to	
  do	
  so	
  with	
  love,	
  humility	
  and	
  sensitivity	
  to	
  a	
  hurting	
  
   disorientated	
  world	
  –	
  one	
  that’s	
  eager	
  for	
  light	
  in	
  the	
  gloom.	
  	
  For	
  many	
  people	
  who	
  have	
  
   lost	
  loved	
  ones	
  and	
  livelihoods	
  during	
  this	
  traumatic	
  year,	
  Christmas	
  will	
  not	
  be	
  easy.	
  	
  
   (Archbishop	
  of	
  York,	
  Stephen	
  Cottrell)	
  
   	
  
                                               The	
  Archbishops’	
  call	
  to	
  prayer	
  
                          Archbishops	
  Justin	
  Welby	
  and	
  Stephen	
  Cottrell	
  call	
  us	
  to	
  prayer.	
  
   Bearing	
  in	
  m ind	
  our	
  primary	
  vocation	
  as	
  the	
  Church	
  of	
  Jesus	
  Christ	
  to	
  pray	
  and	
  to	
  serve,	
  we	
  
   call	
  upon	
  the	
  Church	
  of	
  England	
  to	
  make	
  this	
  month	
  of	
  lockdown	
  a	
  month	
  of	
  prayer.	
  More	
  
   than	
  anything	
  else,	
  whatever	
  the	
  nation	
  thinks,	
  we	
  know	
  that	
  we	
  are	
  in	
  the	
  faithful	
  hands	
  
   of	
  the	
  risen	
  Christ	
  who	
  knows	
  our	
  weaknesses,	
  tiredness	
  and	
  struggles	
  and	
  whose	
  
   steadfast	
  love	
  endures	
  for	
  ever.	
  During	
  this	
  time,	
  we	
  invite	
  you	
  to	
  fast	
  in	
  an	
  appropriate	
  
   way	
  and	
  to	
  pray	
  for	
  our	
  nation,	
  its	
  leaders,	
  its	
  health	
  and	
  essential	
  services	
  and	
  all	
  those	
  
   who	
  suffer.	
  In	
  his	
  letter	
  to	
  the	
  Romans,	
  St	
  Paul	
  asks	
  the	
  people	
  to	
  serve	
  the	
  Lord,	
  to	
  rejoice	
  
   in	
  hope,	
  be	
  patient	
  in	
  suffering,	
  persevere	
  in	
  prayer	
  and	
  to	
  extend	
  hospitality	
  to	
  strangers.	
  
   (Romans	
  12,	
  9-­‐12.)	
  None	
  of	
  this	
  is	
  easy,	
  especially	
  not	
  at	
  the	
  moment.	
  But	
  it	
  is	
  our	
  calling.	
  
   	
  
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Journeys	
  or	
  lockdown	
  this	
  Christmas?	
  
	
  
Christmas	
  is	
  a	
  busy	
  time	
  for	
  travel,	
  as	
  many	
  of	
  us	
  venture	
  a	
  great	
  
distance	
  to	
  see	
  family	
  or	
  friends	
  again.	
  But	
  this	
  year	
  coronavirus	
  has	
  
put	
  an	
  end	
  to	
  all	
  that.	
  Seeing	
  all	
  our	
  loved	
  ones	
  this	
  Christmas	
  will	
  be	
  
difficult,	
  if	
  not	
  impossible.	
  Soon	
  we	
  may	
  not	
  be	
  travelling	
  anywhere	
  
very	
  m uch	
  at	
  all.	
  	
  
Have	
  you	
  noticed	
  that	
  the	
  Christmas	
  story	
  is	
  about	
  journeys?	
  It	
  begins	
  	
  
with	
  Mary	
  and	
  Joseph	
  travelling	
  from	
  Nazareth	
  to	
  Bethlehem.	
  Then,	
  some	
  shepherds	
  
receive	
  news	
  from	
  an	
  angel	
  about	
  a	
  special	
  birth.	
  They	
  travel	
  through	
  the	
  night,	
  across	
  dark	
  
fields	
  and	
  down	
  unlit	
  streets	
  to	
  search	
  for	
  the	
  baby	
  Jesus.	
  
	
  
After	
  this,	
  in	
  an	
  eastern	
  country	
  some	
  wise	
  m en	
  see	
  a	
  new	
  star,	
  one	
  that	
  heralds	
  a	
  new	
  king.	
  
They	
  leave	
  home	
  and	
  set	
  out	
  with	
  only	
  the	
  star	
  to	
  guide	
  them,	
  and	
  their	
  faith	
  to	
  reassure	
  
them	
  that	
  Someone	
  special	
  is	
  waiting	
  at	
  the	
  end	
  of	
  their	
  journey.	
  	
  	
  All	
  these	
  travellers	
  must	
  
have	
  wondered	
  what	
  really	
  lay	
  ahead.	
  Nothing	
  was	
  fully	
  understood,	
  carefully	
  planned	
  for,	
  
or	
  safe.	
  They	
  all	
  travelled	
  with	
  questions	
  and	
  uncertainties.	
  These	
  
travellers’	
  tales	
  tell	
  us	
  that	
  God	
  may	
  suddenly	
  enter	
  into	
  our	
  familiar,	
  or	
  this	
  year,	
  unfamiliar	
  
circumstances.	
  
If	
  our	
  response	
  is	
  anything	
  like	
  Joseph,	
  Mary,	
  the	
  shepherds	
  and	
  wise	
  men	
  –	
  to	
  be	
  obedient	
  
to	
  His	
  call	
  in	
  serving,	
  witnessing	
  and	
  worshipping,	
  we	
  shall	
  be	
  greatly	
  blessed	
  and	
  rewarded.	
  
	
  
We	
  are	
  all	
  on	
  life’s	
  journey.	
  If	
  we	
  travel	
  with	
  God,	
  He	
  will	
  be	
  faithful	
  and	
  lead	
  us	
  to	
  His	
  
heavenly	
  Home.	
  
	
  
Ways	
  to	
  avoid	
  stress	
  this	
  Christmas	
  
	
  
Change	
  your	
  expectations	
  this	
  Christmas.	
  Don’t	
  waste	
  time	
  lamenting	
  what	
  should	
  have	
  
been.	
  Instead,	
  try	
  and	
  enjoy	
  whatever	
  is	
  possible	
  this	
  year.	
  
Make	
  a	
  list.	
  Include	
  sending	
  cards,	
  buying	
  presents	
  and	
  organising	
  food	
  for	
  the	
  big	
  day.	
  
Having	
  a	
  list	
  helps	
  keep	
  you	
  in	
  control	
  of	
  your	
  life.	
  
Set	
  a	
  reduced	
  budget.	
  With	
  a	
  pandemic	
  raging,	
  this	
  no	
  time	
  to	
  take	
  on	
  Christmas	
  debt.	
  
Don’t	
  overindulge.	
  Too	
  much	
  alcohol	
  and	
  rich	
  food	
  won’t	
  improve	
  your	
  life.	
  
Keep	
  calm	
  and	
  keep	
  kind	
  –	
  urge	
  your	
  family	
  members	
  to	
  try	
  and	
  avoid	
  any	
  flare	
  up	
  of	
  family	
  
tensions.	
  If	
  you	
  need	
  to	
  cry,	
  cry,	
  but	
  then,	
  keep	
  on	
  keeping	
  on.	
  
Exercise	
  each	
  day	
  -­‐	
  it	
  releases	
  happiness-­‐inducing	
  serotonin.	
  That	
  will	
  help	
  you	
  to	
  keep	
  calm	
  
and	
  positive	
  over	
  the	
  festive	
  period.	
  
Entertain	
  the	
  children:	
  plan	
  ahead	
  various	
  films,	
  games	
  and	
  whatever	
  it	
  takes	
  to	
  give	
  them	
  a	
  
memorable	
  Christmas.	
  	
  	
  
Make	
  the	
  most	
  of	
  Zoom	
  this	
  year	
  with	
  far-­‐flung	
  relatives	
  and	
  friends.	
  
Most	
  of	
  all,	
  include	
  God	
  in	
  your	
  Christmas!	
  This	
  is	
  His	
  Son’s	
  birthday	
  -­‐	
  include	
  Bible	
  readings	
  
and	
  carols	
  in	
  your	
  family	
  routine	
  over	
  the	
  festive	
  period.	
  	
  
	
   	
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  Next	
  planned	
  Physical	
  Services	
  
                   th
     Sunday	
  6 	
  December	
  9am,	
  St	
  Nicholas’	
  Church,	
  Holy	
  Communion	
  
                th
     Sunday	
  6 	
  December	
  11am,	
  St	
  Thomas’	
  Church,	
  Holy	
  Communion	
  
                       th
     Wednesday	
  9 	
  December	
  9.30am,	
  St	
  Thomas’	
  Church,	
  Holy	
  Communion	
  
     	
  
     Christmas	
  Unwrapped	
  (Zoom	
  Meeting)	
  
     2nd,	
  9th,	
  16th	
  &	
  23rd	
  December	
  7.30pm	
  –	
  8.30pm.	
  A	
  video	
  and	
  discussion	
  based	
  journey	
  
     through	
  Advent.	
  Contact	
  the	
  parish	
  to	
  sign	
  up.	
  
     	
  
     Zoom	
  meeting	
  software	
  is	
  available	
  for	
  Microsoft,	
  Apple	
  or	
  Android.	
  You	
  can	
  also	
  call	
  
     0203	
  481	
  5240	
  and	
  enter	
  the	
  meeting	
  ID	
  when	
  asked.	
  
     	
  
     The	
  Christmas	
  Experience:	
  	
  12th	
  –	
  24th	
  December	
  	
  (see	
  page	
  3	
  ).	
  
     Christmas	
  Day	
  Services,	
  Covid19	
  restrictions	
  permitting.	
  	
  	
  
                8am	
  Holy	
  Communion;	
  	
  10am	
  	
  Family	
  Service,	
  both	
  at	
  St	
  Thomas.	
  	
  See	
  page	
  17.	
  
                On-­‐line	
  service	
  also	
  available.	
  
     January	
  12th,	
  2021	
  :	
  	
  Christingle	
  Service	
  at	
  St	
  Nicholas.	
  
     The	
  Alpha	
  Course	
  –	
  Late	
  January	
  2021	
  –	
  An	
  open	
  and	
  informal	
  dialogue	
  about	
  
     faith.	
  	
  Who	
  a re	
  you	
  going	
  to	
  invite?	
  
               On-­‐line	
  services	
  are	
  available	
  on	
  Facebook	
  and	
  on	
  the	
  Parish	
  Website.	
  
      Please	
  note	
  that	
  the	
  above	
  was	
  prepared	
  before	
  the	
  latest	
  Government	
  update.	
  

                                                                                   FAMILY	
  NEWS	
  
                                                                                   We	
  send	
  our	
  good	
  wishes	
  	
  
                                                                                   to	
  those	
  who	
  celebrate	
  
                                                                                   birthdays	
  and	
  anniversaries	
  	
  
                                                                                   this	
  month	
  including	
  Peter	
  
                                                                                   Coe,	
  Sandra	
  Matthews,	
  
                                                                                   Chris	
  Davis	
  and	
  Chris	
  Tambling.	
  
    HELP	
  NEEDED	
  
    The	
  Magazine	
  Team	
  is	
  seeking	
  someone	
  who	
  is	
  a	
  Bedhampton	
  resident	
  (not	
  compulsory)	
  
    who	
  is	
  good	
  at	
  gathering	
  interesting	
  local	
  news	
  which	
  could	
  be	
  included	
  in	
  this	
  magazine.	
  
    You	
  would	
  be	
  invited	
  to	
  either	
  attend	
  the	
  magazine	
  meetings	
  which	
  are	
  usually	
  held	
  once	
  a	
  
    month,	
  or	
  to	
  keep	
  in	
  touch	
  by	
  email	
  which	
  is	
  what	
  we	
  have	
  been	
  doing	
  during	
  these	
  past	
  
    few	
  months	
  of	
  lockdown	
  and	
  restrictions.	
  
    Please	
  contact	
  Max	
  if	
  you	
  are	
  interested	
  or	
  if	
  you	
  would	
  like	
  m ore	
  information.	
  
    Email:	
  Hello@Bedhampton.church	
  	
  
	
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                                                  SAMARITANS’	
  
                                                       	
        PURSE	
  SHOEBOX	
  APPEAL	
  
                                                       	
  
                                                                                         The	
  Amazing	
  Journey	
  
                                                                                   of	
  a	
  Simple	
  Shoebox	
  Gift	
  
                                                                                                               	
   ....	
  
                                            	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  The	
  boxes	
  are	
  on	
  their	
  way	
  
	
  
THANK	
  YOU	
  again	
  to	
  everyone	
  who	
  has	
  supported	
  this	
  appeal,	
  another	
  chance	
  to	
  help	
  
meet	
  the	
  needs	
  of	
  victims	
  of	
  war,	
  poverty,	
  famine	
  disease	
  and	
  natural	
  disaster	
  around	
  the	
  
world	
  while	
  sharing	
  the	
  Good	
  news	
  of	
  Jesus	
  and	
  showing	
  that	
  we	
  care.	
  
                                                                         Thank	
  you,	
  Kim,	
  Sally	
  and	
  Cathy	
  
If	
  you	
  can,	
  follow	
  the	
  story	
  and	
  the	
  journey	
  of	
  the	
  boxes	
  by	
  going	
  to	
  Samaritan’s	
  website.	
  
www.samaritans-­‐purse.org.uk	
  
	
  
The	
  Rowans	
  Hospice	
  
At	
  Christmas,	
  in	
  recent	
  years,	
  we	
  have	
  been	
  supporting	
  the	
  work	
  of	
  the	
  Rowans	
  Hospice	
  in	
  
Waterlooville,	
  which	
  depends	
  heavily	
  on	
  fundraising	
  for	
  most	
  of	
  its	
  funding	
  to	
  keep	
  it	
  
running.	
  Last	
  year,	
  the	
  Hospice	
  commemorated	
  its	
  25	
  years	
  of	
  existence	
  with	
  fundraising	
  in	
  
order	
  to	
  continue	
  the	
  good	
  work	
  carried	
  out.	
  This	
  year	
  it	
  is	
  hoped	
  to	
  contribute.	
  
www.rowanshospice.co.uk	
  
	
  
The	
  Children’s	
  Society	
  
With	
  the	
  sale	
  of	
  Christmas	
  cards	
  not	
  possible	
  in	
  church	
  this	
  year,	
  we	
  will	
  be	
  supporting	
  the	
  
work	
  of	
  The	
  Children’s	
  Society	
  at	
  the	
  Christingle	
  Service	
  planned	
  for	
  Sunday	
  12th	
  January	
  
at	
  St	
  Nicholas	
  Church	
  at	
  4pm,	
  virus	
  restrictions	
  permitting.	
  
www.childrenssociety.org.uk	
  
There	
  are	
  of	
  course	
  other	
  well	
  deserving	
  charities	
  in	
  need	
  of	
  support.	
  
	
  
How	
  many	
  Christmas	
  carols	
  do	
  you	
  really	
  know?	
  
	
  
Here	
  is	
  a	
  challenge:	
  	
  why	
  not	
  spend	
  some	
  time	
  learning	
  the	
  words	
  to	
  traditional	
  carols	
  this	
  
year?	
  Polls	
  have	
  found	
  that	
  too	
  m any	
  of	
  us	
  know	
  the	
  title	
  of	
  a	
  carol	
  and	
  the	
  tune	
  and	
  the	
  
opening	
  line	
  or	
  so,	
  but	
  then	
  we	
  have	
  to	
  m ake	
  it	
  up.	
  This	
  year	
  you	
  probably	
  have	
  more	
  time	
  
at	
  home,	
  so	
  get	
  going!	
  
Sadly	
  we	
  may	
  not	
  be	
  singing	
  carols	
  together	
  much	
  this	
  year	
  but	
  there	
  is	
  nothing	
  to	
  stop	
  
you	
  from	
  turning	
  on	
  the	
  radio	
  or	
  finding	
  your	
  CDs	
  and	
  singing	
  along	
  at	
  home.	
  
The	
  BBC	
  will	
  be	
  broadcasting	
  Carols	
  from	
  Kings	
  on	
  Christmas	
  Eve	
  on	
  BBC	
  2	
  and	
  on	
  BBC	
  
Radio	
  4 ,	
  in	
  the	
  afternoon,	
  and	
  on	
  Radio	
  3	
  on	
  Christmas	
  Day	
  at	
  2pm.	
  It	
  is	
  pre-­‐recorded.	
  
       	
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Christ is born 50p - Bedhampton Church
HOW	
  REMEMBRANCE	
  DAY	
  WAS	
  OBSERVED	
  	
  
	
  	
   	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  in	
  2020	
  Lockdown	
  2	
  
	
  
The	
  second	
  lockdown	
  of	
  2020	
  began	
  a	
  few	
  days	
  before	
  
Remembrance	
  Day	
  so	
  arrangements	
  had	
  to	
  be	
  quickly	
  
changed.	
  Churches	
  were	
  closed	
  and	
  no	
  congregation	
  was	
  
permitted	
  to	
  attend	
  a	
  service.	
  Hastily,	
  Max	
  organized	
  a	
  
small	
  group	
  to	
  perform	
  and	
  observe	
  the	
  annual	
  event	
  a	
  	
  
few	
  days	
  before	
  and	
  then	
  broadcast	
  it	
  on	
  the	
  website	
  for	
  
Remembrance	
  Sunday.	
  Meanwhile	
  in	
  London,	
  proceedings	
  	
  
were	
  very	
  much	
  scaled	
  down	
  for	
  the	
  ceremony	
  at	
  the	
  Cenotaph.	
  
	
  
Present	
  were	
  Commander	
  Nigel	
  Langhorn,	
  RN	
  retired,	
  Commander	
  John	
  Prime,	
  RN	
  retired,	
  
CPO	
  Bridget	
  Main,	
  CPO	
  Alec	
  Matthews	
  retired,	
  Catherine	
  Langhorn,	
  Sandra	
  Matthews,	
  
Warden,	
  Ann	
  Partridge	
  Churchwarden	
  and	
  Rev	
  Captain	
  Max	
  Cross	
  CF.	
  the	
  wreath	
  was	
  laid	
  
on	
  the	
  War	
  Memorial	
  by	
  John	
  Prime	
  and	
  the	
  two	
  minute	
  silence	
  observed.	
  Nigel	
  Langhorn	
  
and	
  Bridget	
  Main	
  read	
  the	
  lessons	
  and	
  Max	
  Cross	
  gave	
  an	
  address.	
  Recorded	
  music	
  was	
  
played	
  throughout.	
  The	
  recording	
  is	
  still	
  available	
  to	
  watch	
  on	
  the	
  website.	
  

               WHAT	
  DID	
  YOU	
  DO	
  DURING	
  THE	
  LOCKDOWNS	
  IN	
  2020?	
  
               The	
  first	
  lockdown	
  lasted	
  from	
  March	
  and	
  eased	
  in	
  June.	
  How	
  did	
  you	
  pass	
  your	
  time?	
  
               Did	
  you	
  take	
  up	
  a	
  new	
  hobby?	
  Knitting,	
  gardening,	
  DIY?	
  	
  Were	
  you	
  able	
  to	
  help	
  others?	
  
               We	
  are	
  now	
  in	
  the	
  midst	
  of	
  a	
  further	
  4	
  weeks	
  lockdown	
  so	
  there	
  is	
  time	
  to	
  be	
  spent	
  on	
  
               another	
  project.	
  	
  Tell	
  us	
  your	
  stories.	
  
               Either	
  send	
  by	
  email	
  to	
  Hello@Bedhampton.church	
  or	
  send	
  in	
  writing	
  to	
  The	
  Rectory.	
  
               Please	
  m ark	
  your	
  envelope	
  “Magazine”.	
  

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                                                          ‘In	
  Flanders	
  Fields	
  the	
  poppies	
  blow’	
  
                                  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  Part	
  31	
  of	
  a	
  monthly	
  series	
  on	
  the	
  men	
  of	
  Bedhampton	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  
                                  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  who	
  lost	
  their	
  lives	
  in	
  World	
  War	
  2	
  and	
  whose	
  names	
  appear	
  	
  	
  
                                  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  on	
  the	
  War	
  Memorial	
  in	
  St.	
  Thomas’	
  or	
  in	
  the	
  graveyard.	
  
                                                                      Leslie	
  Pearce	
  (1921-­‐1943)	
  
                                         Gunner	
  1462822,	
  80th	
  Anti-­‐Tank	
  Regiment,	
  Royal	
  Artillery	
  
Leslie	
  was	
  born	
  in	
  Bedhampton	
  in	
  1921,	
  the	
  second	
  son	
  of	
  Christopher	
  and	
  Lilian	
  Pearce.	
  By	
  
the	
  time	
  of	
  the	
  1939	
  Nation	
  Register	
  the	
  family	
  were	
  living	
  at	
  76,	
  Park	
  Lane,	
  Bedhampton.	
  
The	
  oldest	
  son	
  also	
  called	
  Christopher	
  (born	
  1914)	
  was	
  married	
  and	
  lived	
  elsewhere.	
  Three	
  
other	
  sons,	
  Leslie	
  born	
  1921,	
  Cecil	
  1925	
  and	
  Leonard	
  1928	
  were	
  all	
  living	
  at	
  home.	
  
Christopher	
  his	
  father	
  worked	
  as	
  a	
  Laundry	
  Motor	
  Van	
  Driver.	
  
With	
  the	
  outbreak	
  of	
  war,	
  Leslie	
  joined	
  the	
  80th	
  Anti-­‐Tank	
  Regiment,	
  Royal	
  A rtillery,	
  Service	
  
No:	
  1462822.	
  	
  In	
  Nov	
  1941	
  the	
  80th	
  arrived	
  in	
  Singapore	
  as	
  part	
  of	
  the	
  Malaya	
  Command.	
  
They	
  were	
  soon	
  heavily	
  engaged	
  with	
  the	
  Japanese	
  army	
  as	
  they	
  advanced	
  rapidly	
  down	
  
the	
  Malay	
  Peninsular	
  towards	
  the	
  British	
  stronghold	
  of	
  Singapore.	
  They	
  took	
  part	
  in	
  the	
  
Battle	
  of	
  Jitra,	
  11th-­‐13th	
  December,	
  1941	
  when	
  the	
  army	
  suffered	
  huge	
  losses	
  against	
  a	
  
much	
  more	
  prepared	
  and	
  mobile	
  Japanese	
  army.	
  All	
  the	
  Commonwealth	
  forces	
  were	
  
recalled	
  for	
  the	
  defence	
  of	
  Singapore	
  but	
  it	
  fell	
  on	
  15th	
  February,	
  1942	
  after	
  a	
  week	
  of	
  
fierce	
  fighting	
  and	
  80,000	
  allied	
  soldiers	
  were	
  taken	
  prisoner.	
  W inston	
  Churchill	
  called	
  it	
  	
  
the	
  “worst	
  disaster”	
  in	
  British	
  m ilitary	
  history.	
  
Leslie	
  was	
  either	
  taken	
  prisoner	
  in	
  the	
  battles	
  before	
  or	
  was	
  one	
  of	
  those	
  who	
  was	
  
imprisoned	
  after	
  the	
  surrender	
  of	
  Singapore.	
  With	
  thousands	
  of	
  other	
  commonwealth	
  
soldiers	
  in	
  captivity	
  he	
  was	
  forced	
  to	
  work	
  on	
  the	
  infamous	
  ‘Burma	
  Railway’	
  or	
  ‘Death	
  	
  
Railway’.	
  180,000	
  civilian	
  labourers	
  and	
  60,000	
  allied	
  POWs	
  were	
  used	
  to	
  construct	
  the	
  
railway.	
  12,621	
  of	
  the	
  allied	
  POWs	
  died	
  in	
  the	
  construction	
  of	
  the	
  railway	
  through	
  disease,	
  
                                                                                                maltreatment	
  and	
  accidents.	
  
                                                                                                Leslie,	
  aged	
  just	
  22,	
  died	
  on	
  
                                                                                                18th	
  July,	
  1943	
  and	
  was	
  buried	
  
                                                                                                in	
  the	
  Kanchanaburi	
  War	
  
                                                                                                Cemetery,	
  not	
  far	
  from	
  one	
  of	
  
                                                                                                the	
  bridges	
  that	
  the	
  POWs	
  
                                                                                                constructed,	
  an	
  event	
  
                                                                                                immortalised	
  in	
  the	
  film	
  The	
  
                                                                                                Bridge	
  on	
  the	
  River	
  Kwai	
  
                                                                                                (1957).	
  
	
  
                                                                                                                                                 Rev	
  David	
  Proud	
  
	
  
	
                	
       	
                      	
         	
     	
    	
      	
                                                                  	
                   	
  
	
         	
     	
       	
                      	
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A	
  tribute	
  to	
  .	
  .	
  .	
  
     Denise	
  Deacon	
  
     By	
  Matthew	
  Deacon	
  (Son)	
  
Mum	
  loved	
  her	
  garden,	
  she	
  would	
  get	
  me	
  cutting	
  
the	
  grass	
  twice	
  a	
  week	
  even	
  when	
  it	
  didn't	
  need	
  
doing.	
  She	
  would	
  text	
  me,	
  "are	
  you	
  popping	
  over	
  
today?"	
  which	
  would	
  mean,	
  ‘Please	
  come	
  over,	
  I	
  
have	
  some	
  things	
  I	
  want	
  you	
  to	
  do.’	
  	
  Mum	
  was	
  a	
  
bit	
  of	
  a	
  free	
  spirit	
  where	
  she	
  would	
  spend	
  all	
  day	
  
every	
  day	
  out	
  in	
  her	
  car	
  and	
  that	
  is	
  where	
  she	
  got	
  
the	
  nickname	
  from	
  me	
  and	
  Katie	
  Anne,	
  driver	
  
Miss	
  Daisy.	
  	
  
She	
  lived	
  for	
  her	
  Sundays	
  when	
  she	
  could	
  spend	
  it	
  
with	
  her	
  sister	
  Pat,	
  where,	
  depending	
  on	
  the	
  
weather,	
  they	
  would	
  go	
  down	
  to	
  the	
  beach	
  where	
  
they	
  would	
  spend	
  the	
  day	
  at	
  the	
  bandstand,	
  or	
  go	
  
to	
  the	
  Hot	
  Walls	
  and	
  catch	
  some	
  sun	
  rays,	
  
followed	
  by	
  a	
  roast	
  dinner	
  at	
  Lady	
  Hamilton’s.	
  Or	
  
if	
  it	
  was	
  raining	
  cold	
  and	
  miserable,	
  they	
  would	
  go	
  	
  
shopping,	
  it	
  didn't	
  matter	
  what	
  they	
  did	
  as	
  long	
  as	
  she	
  was	
  with	
  her	
  best	
  friend,	
  sister	
  Pat.	
  	
  
She	
  loved	
  animals	
  and	
  last	
  summer	
  she	
  found	
  a	
  hedgehog	
  in	
  her	
  garden	
  one	
  evening	
  and	
  
she	
  fed	
  it.	
  This	
  hedgehog	
  kept	
  coming	
  back	
  night	
  after	
  night	
  and	
  it	
  started	
  staying	
  in	
  the	
  
shed	
  overnight.	
  She	
  asked	
  me	
  to	
  m ake	
  a	
  wooden	
  box	
  for	
  this	
  hedgehog	
  and	
  it	
  made	
  itself	
  
at	
  home	
  for	
  weeks	
  and	
  weeks.	
  She	
  started	
  to	
  worry	
  about	
  it	
  outside	
  so	
  she	
  would	
  shut	
  the	
  	
  
                                                   shed	
  door	
  at	
  night	
  to	
  look	
  after	
  it.	
  I	
  would	
  say,	
  “Mum	
  you	
  
                                                   can't	
  keep	
  it	
  locked	
  up,	
  it’s	
  a	
  wild	
  animal.”	
  She	
  would	
  say,	
  
                                                   “I'm	
  not	
  letting	
  it	
  get	
  run	
  over	
  or	
  something.”	
  She	
  would	
  
                                                   buy	
  it	
  hedgehog	
  food	
  and	
  it	
  would	
  come	
  out	
  of	
  its	
  box	
  
                                                   and	
  eat	
  it	
  right	
  in	
  front	
  of	
  her,	
  even	
  in	
  daylight.	
  She	
  fell	
  in	
  
                                                   love	
  with	
  it	
  and	
  one	
  night	
  she	
  left	
  the	
  shed	
  door	
  open	
  
                                                   and	
  it	
  must	
  have	
  left,	
  but	
  it	
  didn't	
  come	
  back.	
  She	
  was	
  
                                                   quite	
  upset.	
  She	
  was	
  also	
  very	
  much	
  fond	
  of	
  all	
  our	
  dogs,	
  
                                                   Bella,	
  Yogi,	
  Willow	
  and	
  recently	
  passed	
  Boo.	
  	
  	
  
                                                   Mum	
  and	
  her	
  sister	
  Pat	
  would	
  go	
  to	
  Turkey	
  every	
  year	
  
                                                   where	
  they	
  would	
  stay	
  at	
  the	
  same	
  hotel	
  and	
  just	
  spend	
  
                                                   the	
  day	
  at	
  the	
  pool	
  or	
  beach.	
  Mum	
  loved	
  her	
  2	
  weeks	
  
                                                   away	
  with	
  Pat	
  where	
  it	
  would	
  just	
  be	
  them	
  two	
  and	
  no	
  
                                                   one	
  else.	
  
	
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Mum	
  worked	
  at	
  the	
  chip	
  shop	
  in	
  Bedhampton	
  for	
  37	
  years.	
  	
  
In	
  that	
  time,	
  it	
  had	
  changed	
  ownership	
  several	
  times	
  but	
  she	
  
was	
  the	
  life	
  and	
  soul	
  of	
  the	
  chippy	
  where	
  she	
  would	
  play	
  
mummy	
  and	
  nanny	
  with	
  all	
  the	
  staff.	
  	
  
And	
  only	
  this	
  year	
  she	
  went	
  out	
  for	
  a	
  birthday	
  meal	
  with	
  
some	
  of	
  the	
  girls	
  at	
  the	
  chippy	
  and	
  I	
  got	
  a	
  phone	
  call	
  around	
  
midnight	
  asking	
  me	
  to	
  come	
  and	
  pick	
  her	
  up	
  in	
  a	
  road	
  in	
  
Havant.	
  I	
  thought,	
  ‘Hang	
  on,	
  isn't	
  this	
  suppose	
  to	
  be	
  the	
  	
  
                                                           	
  
other	
  way	
  round	
  where	
  the	
  parent comes	
  to	
  get	
  the	
  child?’	
  
But	
  that	
  was	
  my	
  Mum	
  all	
  over.	
  
	
  
She	
  loved	
  a	
  family	
  Christmas	
  where	
  we	
  would	
  all	
  be	
  together	
  	
  
having	
  dinner	
  and	
  opening	
  presents.	
  W hen	
  we	
  were	
  kids	
  she	
  	
  
would	
  take	
  us	
  to	
  theme	
  parks	
  during	
  summer	
  holidays	
  so	
  that	
  every	
  day	
  of	
  one	
  week	
  we	
  
would	
  go	
  somewhere	
  different	
  and	
  then	
  later	
  when	
  me	
  and	
  Donna	
  were	
  a	
  little	
  older,	
  she	
  
started	
  taking	
  us	
  abroad.	
  Our	
  first	
  foreign	
  holiday	
  was	
  Minorca	
  and	
  we	
  had	
  the	
  best	
  
time.	
  She	
  met	
  my	
  Dad,	
  Chris,	
  48	
  years	
  ago	
  where	
  he	
  was	
  in	
  a	
  pub	
  with	
  his	
  mates	
  and	
  my	
  
Mum	
  went	
  over	
  to	
  him	
  and	
  sat	
  on	
  his	
  lap	
  and	
  asked	
  for	
  a	
  drink.	
  My	
  Dad	
  couldn't	
  believe	
  his	
  
luck	
  and	
  they	
  ended	
  up	
  having	
  4	
  children,	
  A aron,	
  Richard,	
  Matthew,	
  and	
  Donna,	
  together,	
  
although	
  one	
  of	
  them	
  wasn't	
  his	
  own,	
  Dad	
  brought	
  him	
  up	
  as	
  his	
  own.	
  She	
  had	
  9	
  
grandchildren,	
  Lee,	
  Jack,	
  Harry,	
  A lfie,	
  Rhys,	
  Caitlin,	
  Max,	
  Albie	
  and	
  Jake,	
  and	
  she	
  loved	
  them	
  
all	
  very	
  much.	
  	
  She	
  was	
  also	
  very	
  close	
  to	
  her	
  sister	
  Pat’s	
  kids,	
  Vanessa,	
  Mark	
  and	
  Gary,	
  and	
  
Pat’s	
  grandchildren,	
  Sonny,	
  Candy	
  and	
  Junior.	
  
	
  
A	
  Parish	
  Tribute	
  
On	
  Monday	
  12th	
  October,	
  at	
  1:45pm,	
  we,	
  as	
  her	
  	
  
own	
  family	
  and	
  her	
  church	
  family,	
  said	
  our	
  good-­‐	
  
byes	
  to	
  Denise.	
  Her	
  cortège	
  passed	
  by	
  the	
  Deep	
  	
  
Blue	
  chip	
  shop,	
  where	
  Denise	
  had	
  worked	
  for	
  37	
  
years,	
  allowing	
  her	
  colleagues	
  to	
  say	
  a	
  final	
  	
  
goodbye,	
  on	
  the	
  way	
  to	
  St	
  Thomas’	
  Church.	
  
Her	
  funeral	
  service,	
  led	
  by	
  Rev	
  Max	
  Cross,	
  was	
  packed	
  with	
  her	
  family	
  and	
  friends,	
  all	
  
following	
  the	
  Covid	
  rules.	
  The	
  only	
  church	
  family	
  allowed	
  was	
  Christine	
  Hirsch,	
  who	
  read	
  a	
  
beautiful	
  goodbye	
  poem;	
  Sally	
  Tritton,	
  who	
  read	
  the	
  23rd	
  Psalm;	
  and	
  Janice	
  Stott	
  and	
  
myself	
  who	
  were	
  honoured	
  to	
  be	
  Vergers.	
  We	
  heard	
  some	
  lovely	
  stories	
  about	
  Denise’s	
  life	
  
with	
  lots	
  of	
  reflective	
  m usic	
  and	
  prayers.	
  	
  After	
  the	
  service,	
  our	
  church	
  family	
  had	
  a	
  chance	
  
to	
  wave	
  goodbye	
  from	
  the	
  roadside	
  as	
  the	
  cortège	
  left	
  for	
  Portchester	
  Crematorium.	
  
She	
  will	
  be	
  sadly	
  missed	
  by	
  us	
  all,	
  particularly	
  for	
  her	
  membership	
  of	
  the	
  Fun	
  Club	
  and	
  her	
  
loving,	
  bubbly	
  nature.	
  Denise	
  had	
  been	
  watching	
  and	
  joining	
  in	
  with	
  our	
  online	
  services	
  
during	
  lockdown.	
  
                                                                                          Goodbye	
  dear	
  friend.	
  	
  	
  	
  Alec	
  Matthews	
  
	
     	
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Bidbury	
  Mead	
  WI	
  
The	
  Bidbury	
  Mead	
  Women’s	
  Institute	
  needed	
  to	
  keep	
  their	
  m embers	
  in	
  touch	
  with	
  one	
  
                                                                        W
another,	
  so	
  we	
  started	
  our	
  Bidbury	
  Belles	
  Bulletin.	
  The	
  first	
  edition	
  was	
  at	
  Easter.	
  Members	
  
input	
  included	
  articles,	
  stories,	
  recipes,	
  puzzles,	
  photos	
  and	
  ‘useful	
  to	
  know’	
  sections.	
  The	
  
Bulletin	
  also	
  kept	
  us	
  up	
  to	
  date	
  with	
  the	
  Hampshire	
  Federation	
  News.	
  Thank	
  you	
  to	
  Kathy	
  
and	
  Shelagh	
  for	
  putting	
  the	
  Bulletin	
  together.	
  
	
  
Ruth	
  asked	
  me	
  if	
  I	
  would	
  like	
  to	
  come	
  over	
  to	
  sit	
  on	
  her	
  
front	
  lawn	
  for	
  the	
  VE	
  Day	
  2	
  minute	
  silence,	
  we	
  sat	
  there	
  
talking	
  to	
  a	
  couple	
  of	
  neighbours	
  for	
  a	
  while	
  and	
  saying	
  
hello	
  to	
  passers	
  by.	
  There	
  is	
  a	
  photo	
  of	
  us,	
  social	
  
distancing	
  of	
  course.	
  
	
  
Aline	
  m ade	
  knitted	
  hearts	
  for	
  QA	
  and	
  St.	
  Richard’s	
  
Hospital,	
  some	
  members	
  made	
  masks	
  and	
  scrub	
  bags,	
  
which	
  were	
  given	
  to	
  the	
  hospitals	
  and	
  local	
  surgeries.	
  
Members	
  had	
  the	
  opportunity	
  to	
  view	
  a	
  virtual	
  Spring	
  
Council	
  Meeting	
  in	
  September,	
  with	
  the	
  inspiring	
  guest	
  
speaker	
  Ben	
  Fogle.	
  The	
  book	
  club	
  was	
  resumed	
  recently.	
  
	
  
We	
  have	
  met	
  on	
  Bidbury	
  Mead	
  and	
  have	
  also	
  done	
  	
  
some	
  Litter	
  Picks	
  on	
  the	
  Mead,	
  as	
  seen	
  pictured	
  by	
  	
  
the	
  spider	
  bin	
  we	
  donated	
  a	
  few	
  years	
  ago.	
                                         	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  Jane	
  Tandy	
  
	
  
Here’s	
  wishing	
  that	
  everyone	
  stays	
  safe	
  in	
  the	
  m onths	
  ahead.	
   Bidbury	
  Mead	
  WI	
  President	
  
	
  
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     1st	
  Bedhampton	
  Scout	
  Group	
  	
  
	
         	
            	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
   	
     www.1stbedhampton.co.uk	
  

This	
  is	
  the	
  second	
  month	
  I’ve	
  been	
  pleased	
  to	
  report	
  we	
  have	
  returned	
  to	
  face	
  to	
  face	
  
Scouting.	
  This	
  is	
  in	
  line	
  with	
  national	
  guidelines	
  and	
  supported	
  by	
  a	
  number	
  of	
  additional	
  
mitigations	
  including	
  being	
  outside	
  only	
  and	
  limited	
  numbers.	
  There	
  was	
  a	
  small	
  rumour	
  
going	
  round	
  that	
  the	
  Church	
  was	
  preventing	
  us	
  from	
  m eeting	
  indoors.	
  This	
  is	
  completely	
  
not	
  true	
  and	
  we	
  are	
  very	
  grateful	
  for	
  the	
  way	
  the	
  Church	
  has	
  supported	
  us	
  throughout	
  the	
  
Pandemic.	
  Unfortunately	
  the	
  Prime	
  Minister	
  announced	
  last	
  night	
  a	
  month	
  long	
  lockdown.	
  
As	
  I	
  write	
  this	
  we	
  wait	
  to	
  see	
  if	
  there	
  is	
  any	
  impact	
  on	
  m eeting	
  face	
  to	
  face.	
  If	
  there	
  is,	
  we	
  
                                                                                         th
will	
  return	
  to	
  online	
  Scouting	
  and	
  remember	
  the	
  5 	
  Scout	
  Promise	
  “A	
  Scout	
  has	
  courage	
  in	
  
all	
  difficulties”	
  (that	
  includes	
  Beavers,	
  Cubs,	
  Scouts,	
  Explorers	
  and	
  Adults).	
  
	
  
During	
  October	
  the	
  Beavers	
  have	
  been	
  
exploring	
  space	
  and	
  building	
  volcanoes.	
  	
  
The	
  Cubs	
  have	
  been	
  playing	
  Pooh	
  sticks	
  	
  
and	
  learning	
  about	
  the	
  old	
  St	
  Thomas’	
  
Church	
  (Thank	
  you	
  Alec).	
  They	
  have	
  also	
  
been	
  scavenging	
  on	
  Hayling	
  Beach	
  and	
  
building	
  shelters	
  (and	
  testing	
  them)	
  –	
  	
  
happy	
  to	
  report	
  that	
  after	
  buckets	
  of	
  	
  
water	
  were	
  thrown	
  on	
  their	
  shelters,	
  
almost	
  all	
  the	
  cubs	
  stayed	
  dry.	
  	
  
We	
  are	
  still	
  looking	
  for	
  help	
  in	
  the	
  Cub	
  
section	
  on	
  Tuesday	
  evenings	
  as	
  I	
  have	
  	
  
now	
  fully	
  moved	
  into	
  the	
  Scout	
  section.	
  
The	
  Explorers	
  have	
  been	
  running	
  the	
  Scout	
  and	
  Explorer	
  programme	
  and	
  we	
  have	
  been	
  
treated	
  to	
  some	
  well	
  planned	
  evenings	
  involving	
  a	
  Quiz	
  night	
  and	
  an	
  international	
  theme	
  
involving	
  creating	
  of	
  a	
  lot	
  of	
  international	
  monuments	
  out	
  of	
  cardboard	
  boxes	
  form.	
  	
  	
  We	
  
will	
  also	
  be	
  creating	
  our	
  own	
  Parliament	
  without	
  the	
  in-­‐fighting,	
  politics	
  and	
  scandal	
  of	
  the	
  
UK	
  one	
  I	
  hope!	
  	
  We	
  m ay	
  have	
  some	
  budding	
  young	
  Politicians	
  in	
  our	
  midst!	
  
Our	
  Covid-­‐	
  delayed	
  AGM	
  will	
  take	
  place	
  at	
  7.30pm	
  on	
  30th	
  November	
  2020	
  via	
  Zoom	
  (NB	
  
Most	
  modern	
  web	
  browsers	
  play	
  Zoom	
  –	
  you	
  don’t	
  need	
  “the	
  App”).	
  We	
  have	
  sent	
  the	
  
invite	
  around	
  the	
  Scout	
  Group	
  members	
  but	
  everyone	
  please	
  feel	
  free	
  to	
  email	
  
nigeljvosper@sky.com	
  for	
  a	
  direct	
  invite.	
  
	
  
Until	
  next	
  month	
  keep	
  smiling,	
  look	
  after	
  yourselves	
  and	
  each	
  other.	
  
                                                                                                                                        Nigel	
  Vosper	
  
                                                                                                                               Group	
  Administrator	
  	
  	
  
	
  	
  
                  	
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Winter	
  Solstice	
  –	
  21st	
  December	
  
A	
  Midwinter	
  festival	
  has	
  been	
  a	
  part	
  of	
  life	
  since	
  pre-­‐Christian	
  times.	
  When	
  the	
  hours	
  of	
  
daylight	
  are	
  fewest,	
  the	
  warmth	
  of	
  the	
  sun	
  weakest,	
  and	
  life	
  itself	
  seemingly	
  at	
  a	
  
standstill,	
  our	
  ancestors,	
  the	
  pagan	
  peoples	
  of	
  Europe	
  and	
  Western	
  Asia,	
  kept	
  festival	
  by	
  
lighting	
  bonfires	
  and	
  decorating	
  their	
  buildings	
  with	
  evergreens.	
  	
  	
  
With	
  the	
  advent	
  of	
  Christianity,	
  the	
  Spring	
  gods	
  became	
  identified	
  with	
  Christ,	
  and	
  the	
  
birthday	
  of	
  the	
  sun	
  with	
  the	
  birthday	
  of	
  the	
  Light	
  of	
  the	
  World.	
  
The	
  early	
  church	
  father	
  Tertullian	
  did	
  not	
  approve	
  of	
  Christmas	
  decorations.	
  “Let	
  those	
  
who	
  have	
  no	
  light	
  in	
  themselves	
  light	
  candles!...	
  You	
  are	
  the	
  light	
  of	
  the	
  world,	
  you	
  are	
  
the	
  tree	
  ever	
  green....”	
  
Four	
  centuries	
  later,	
  this	
  had	
  changed.	
  Pope	
  Gregory	
  instructed	
  Augustine	
  not	
  to	
  worry	
  
about	
  harmless	
  outward	
  customs,	
  as	
  long	
  as	
  the	
  right	
  God	
  be	
  worshipped	
  through	
  them.	
  
And	
  so	
  many	
  A nglo-­‐Saxon	
  customs	
  were	
  never	
  discarded,	
  but	
  simply	
  endowed	
  with	
  a	
  
new	
  significance.	
  	
  By	
  1600,	
  homes	
  and	
  parish	
  churches	
  were	
  decked	
  	
  
with	
  “holme,	
  ivie,	
  bayes”	
  and	
  other	
  things	
  green.	
  
	
  
Christmas	
  Eve	
  –	
  24th	
  December	
  
Christmas	
  Eve	
  has	
  its	
  own	
  customs,	
  the	
  most	
  popular	
  of	
  which	
  is	
  going	
  to	
  Midnight	
  Mass,	
  
or	
  the	
  Christ-­‐Mas.	
  This	
  is	
  the	
  only	
  Mass	
  of	
  the	
  year	
  that	
  is	
  allowed	
  to	
  start	
  after	
  sunset.	
  In	
  
Catholic	
  countries	
  such	
  as	
  Spain,	
  Italy	
  and	
  Poland,	
  Midnight	
  Mass	
  is	
  in	
  fact	
  the	
  most	
  
important	
  church	
  service	
  of	
  the	
  entire	
  Christmas	
  season,	
  and	
  m any	
  people	
  traditionally	
  
fast	
  beforehand.	
  In	
  other	
  countries,	
  such	
  as	
  Belgium	
  and	
  Denmark,	
  	
  
people	
  dine	
  during	
  the	
  evening,	
  and	
  then	
  go	
  on	
  to	
  the	
  Midnight	
  Service.	
  
	
  
Christmas	
  throughout	
  the	
  Christian	
  world	
  -­‐	
  25th	
  December	
  
For	
  nearly	
  four	
  weeks	
  leading	
  up	
  to	
  Christmas,	
  Christians	
  recognise	
  a	
  	
  
period	
  called	
  Advent.	
  It	
  means	
  ‘coming’.	
  It	
  is	
  a	
  time	
  of	
  spiritual	
  preparation.	
  	
  'Coming'	
  
refers	
  to	
  Jesus’	
  first	
  coming	
  as	
  a	
  baby,	
  but	
  it	
  also	
  looks	
  forward	
  to	
  a	
  day	
  when	
  Jesus	
  is	
  
expected	
  to	
  return	
  in	
  triumph	
  at	
  His	
  ‘second	
  coming’	
  to	
  establish	
  perfect	
  justice	
  and	
  a	
  
new	
  order	
  of	
  peace.	
  Advent	
  marked	
  a	
  time	
  of	
  refraining	
  from	
  excessive	
  eating.	
  Then	
  
Christmas	
  Day	
  reintroduced	
  them	
  to	
  the	
  joys	
  of	
  feasting.	
  Christmas	
  celebrations	
  lasted	
  
for	
  12	
  days,	
  with	
  gifts	
  exchanged	
  as	
  a	
  climax	
  at	
  Epiphany	
  (6th	
  January).	
  
Christmas	
  Day	
  is	
  celebrated	
  as	
  the	
  anniversary	
  of	
  Jesus’	
  birth,	
  although	
  the	
  actual	
  date	
  is	
  
not	
  known.	
  Most	
  Christians	
  celebrate	
  it	
  on	
  25th	
  December.	
  Christians	
  make	
  a	
  point	
  of	
  
taking	
  communion	
  on	
  Christmas	
  Day.	
  	
  Many	
  make	
  it	
  the	
  first	
  thing	
  they	
  do	
  as	
  the	
  clock	
  
strikes	
  midnight.	
  	
  On	
  6th	
  January	
  the	
  Christmas	
  festival	
  continues	
  with	
  a	
  celebration	
  of	
  
Epiphany,	
  which	
  m eans	
  ‘the	
  appearance’.	
  	
  Christians	
  remember	
  the	
  visit	
  of	
  wise	
  m en	
  
(magi)	
  to	
  Jesus,	
  bringing	
  gifts	
  of	
  gold,	
  frankincense	
  and	
  m yrrh.	
  	
  
	
  
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  Children's	
  Christmas	
  Carols	
  	
  
                                                                            	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  as	
  misunderstood	
  by	
  children…	
  
                                                                            	
  
                                                                            Deck	
  the	
  Halls	
  with	
  Buddy	
  Holly	
  	
  
                                                                            We	
  three	
  kings	
  of	
  porridge	
  and	
  tar	
  	
  
                                                                            On	
  the	
  first	
  day	
  of	
  Christmas	
  my	
  tulip	
  
                                                                            gave	
  to	
  me	
  	
  
                                                                            Later	
  on	
  we'll	
  perspire,	
  as	
  we	
  dream	
  by	
  	
  
                                                                            	
  	
  	
  the	
  fire.	
  	
  
                                                                            He's	
  makin	
  a	
  list,	
  chicken	
  and	
  rice.	
  	
  
                                                                            Noel,	
  Noel,	
  Barney's	
  the	
  king	
  of	
  Israel.	
  	
  
                                                                            With	
  the	
  jelly	
  toast	
  proclaim	
  
                                                                            Olive,	
  the	
  other	
  reindeer	
  
                                                                            Frosty	
  the	
  Snowman	
  is	
  a	
  ferret	
  elf,	
  I	
  say	
  	
  
                                                                            Sleep	
  in	
  heavenly	
  peas.	
  	
  
                                                                            In	
  the	
  meadow	
  we	
  can	
  build	
  a	
  snowman,	
  	
  	
  	
  
 “Nice	
  idea,	
  Amelia,	
  but	
  I	
  don’t	
  think	
  that	
  the	
   	
  	
  	
  then	
  pretend	
  that	
  he	
  is	
  sparse	
  and	
  	
  	
  	
  
Angel	
  of	
  the	
  Lord	
  	
  Zooming	
  with	
  the	
  shepherds	
   	
  	
  	
  brown.	
  	
  
   would	
  have	
  the	
  same	
  dramatic	
  effect.”	
                   O	
  come,	
  froggy	
  faithful.	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            	
  
 Christmas	
  to	
  Me	
  
 	
  
 Christmas	
  to	
  me	
  is	
  nativity	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  Christmas	
       	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  t	
  o	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    	
  	
  	
  m
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                	
  	
  	
  	
  e	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                	
  	
  	
  i	
  s	
    	
  	
  	
  t	
  he	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  M	
  	
  	
  agi	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  
 And	
  the	
  sound	
  of	
  carol-­‐singing;	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  i	
  n	
  
                                                                                                                                                                               Who	
                                  p        ut	
                a        ll	
         o        f	
       t     heir	
                                  f     aith	
                                  	
  	
  	
  a	
  	
  	
  s	
  	
  tar,	
   	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  
 But	
  to	
  others	
  it	
  is	
  revelry	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  And	
  
                                                                                                                                                                               	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  i	
  n	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                        	
  	
  	
  s	
  	
  earch	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  o	
  	
  f	
  	
  	
  t	
  	
  he	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  l	
  ittle	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  C	
  	
  	
  hrist	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  c	
  	
  hild	
                    	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
   	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  
 And	
  the	
  sound	
  of	
  shop	
  tills	
  ringing.	
                                                                                                                      They	
  willingly	
  travelled	
  so	
  far.	
  
 	
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              	
  
 Christmas	
  to	
  me	
  is	
  shepherds	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  Christmas	
  
                                                                                                                                              	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  t	
  o	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                               	
  	
  	
  	
  m	
  	
  	
  e	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            	
  	
  	
  i	
  s	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             	
  	
  	
  w
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         	
  	
  	
  orship	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  
 On	
  a	
  hillside	
  attending	
  their	
  sheep;	
  	
                                                                                 Giving	
  thanks	
  for	
  the	
  Saviour’s	
  birth;	
  
 And	
  the	
  sound	
  of	
  angelic	
  voices	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  But	
     	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  t	
  	
  o	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                  	
  	
  	
  m
                                                                                                                                                                                              	
  	
  	
  	
  any	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                              	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  o	
  	
  f	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   	
  	
  	
  t	
  he	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  f	
  olk	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  I	
  	
  k	
  	
  now	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  
 Over	
  a	
  town	
  bathed	
  in	
  sleep.	
                                                                                             Christmas	
  has	
  no	
  real	
  worth.	
  
 	
                                                                                                                                        	
  
                                  So	
  what	
  will	
  YOU	
  see	
  this	
  Christmas?	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  
                                  Will	
  you	
  think	
  of	
  that	
  baby	
  so	
  small?	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  
                                  And	
  recognise	
  that	
  the	
  love	
  of	
  God	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  
                                  Came	
  to	
  earth	
  that	
  first	
  Christmas	
  of	
  all?	
  
                                                                                                                                       	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  by	
  Colin	
  Hammacott	
  
             	
                                                                                                                        	
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  all	
  
	
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               i  n	
  y   ears	
  g       one	
              occasion	
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  are	
  available	
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  Wordsearch	
  for	
  December	
  	
  2020	
  	
                                  Silent	
  Night	
  
	
   This	
  m  uch-­‐loved	
   c arol	
  c omes	
      f rom	
        A ustria,	
  w here	
  it	
  was	
  first	
  sung	
  as	
  Stille	
  Nacht,	
  heilige	
  
	
   Nacht	
    o  n	
  C hristmas	
   Eve,	
  1     818.	
   It	
   was	
  w ritten	
  by	
  Father	
  Joseph	
  Mohr,	
  a	
  young	
  priest	
  at	
  	
  
	
  St	
  Nicholas	
  parish	
  church,	
  in	
  the	
  village	
  of	
  Oberndorf	
  bei	
  Salzburg.	
  As	
  Christmas	
  1818	
  
     approached,	
  he	
  asked	
  the	
  local	
  schoolmaster,	
  Franz	
  Xaver	
  Gruber,	
  to	
  compose	
  a	
  m elody	
  
	
  for	
  his	
  carol.	
  Gruber	
  was	
  organist	
  in	
  the	
  nearby	
  village	
  of	
  Arnsdorf,	
  and	
  so	
  was	
  happy	
  to	
  
	
  oblige.	
  On	
  Christmas	
  Eve	
  they	
  presented	
  the	
  carol	
  to	
  the	
  church	
  during	
  the	
  midnight	
  
	
  mass.	
  The	
  carol	
  went	
  on	
  to	
  become	
  loved	
  world-­‐wide;	
  and	
  the	
  version	
  sung	
  by	
  Bing	
  
	
  Crosby	
  is	
  the	
  third	
  best-­‐selling	
  single	
  of	
  all	
  time.	
  	
  	
  	
  
	
  	
                                                                                                          Silent	
                    Christmas	
  
	
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                     Father	
  
	
  	
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                     Joseph	
  
                                                                                                             Austria	
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                                                                                                             Stille	
                  Organist	
  
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                   Midnight	
  
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                                                                                                             Single	
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SPECIAL	
  ANNIVERSARIES	
  IN	
  2020	
  
During	
  2020,	
  quite	
  a	
  number	
  of	
  special	
  anniversaries	
  were	
  due	
  to	
  be	
  commemorated	
  or	
  
celebrated.	
  Due	
  to	
  the	
  virus	
  restrictions,	
  many	
  plans	
  had	
  to	
  be	
  changed,	
  scaled	
  down	
  or	
  
abandoned	
  completely.	
  Below	
  are	
  listed	
  a	
  number	
  of	
  people	
  or	
  events	
  that	
  are	
  remembered.	
  	
  
800	
  	
  The	
  foundation	
  stone	
  of	
  SALISBURY	
  CATHEDRAL	
  was	
  laid	
  in	
  1220.	
  When	
  complete	
  the	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  building	
  had	
  the	
  tallest	
  spire;	
  it	
  also	
  houses	
  the	
  Magna	
  Carta.	
  
400	
  	
  MAYFLOWER.	
  The	
  Pilgrim	
  Fathers	
  set	
  sail	
  in	
  the	
  Mayflower	
  from	
  Plymouth	
  on	
  16th	
  	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  September	
  1620	
  and	
  headed	
  to	
  the	
  New	
  World,	
  landing	
  at	
  Cape	
  Cod.	
  	
  
	
  
300	
  	
  Birth	
  of	
  GILBERT	
  WHITE	
  in	
  July,	
  in	
  Selbourne,	
  Hampshire	
  a	
  pioneering	
  English	
  naturalist.	
  
250	
  	
  WILLIAM	
  WORDSWORTH,	
  poet,	
  born	
  in	
  April,	
  1770.	
  
250	
  	
  Ludwig	
  Van	
  BEETHOVEN,	
  composer,	
  born	
  in	
  December,	
  1770.	
  
                                                                                                                                                                             	
  
250	
  	
  Anniversary	
  of	
  the	
  BIRTH	
  OF	
  TOURISM	
  in	
  Britain	
  in	
  the	
  Wye	
  Valley,	
  Herefordshire.
200	
  	
  FLORENCE	
  NIGHTINGALE	
  born	
  in	
  May,	
  1820.	
  To	
  cope	
  with	
  extra	
  NHS	
  beds	
  needed	
  	
  	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  during	
  the	
  Covid19	
  pandemic	
  this	
  year,	
  Nightgale	
  Hospitals	
  were	
  constructed.	
  
150	
  	
  Anniversary	
  of	
  CHARLES	
  DICKENS's	
  death	
  in	
  1870.	
  
125	
  	
  NATIONAL	
  TRUST	
  founded	
  in	
  January	
  1895,	
  one	
  of	
  the	
  largest	
  charities	
  in	
  the	
  UK.	
  
125	
  	
  BBC	
  PROMENADE	
  CONCERTS	
  founded	
  in	
  1895.	
  This	
  year,	
  there	
  were	
  no	
  audiences	
  and	
  	
  	
  	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  concert	
  recordings	
  were	
  broadcast	
  from	
  previous	
  years.	
  
100	
  	
  WESTMINSTER	
  ABBEY:	
  TOMB	
  of	
  the	
  UNKNOWN	
  WARRIOR.	
  The	
  body	
  of	
  the	
  Unknown	
  	
  	
  	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  Warrior	
  was	
  carried	
  through	
  London	
  and	
  laid	
  to	
  rest	
  in	
  the	
  Abbey,	
  11	
  November.	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  On	
  the	
  day	
  of	
  her	
  wedding	
  in	
  1923,	
  the	
  future	
  Queen	
  Mother,	
  Elizabeth	
  Bowes-­‐Lyon,	
  	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  laid	
  her	
  bouquet	
  at	
  the	
  Tomb	
  on	
  her	
  way	
  into	
  the	
  A bbey,	
  out	
  of	
  respect	
  to	
  her	
  late	
  	
  	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  brother	
  Fergus	
  who	
  died	
  at	
  the	
  Battle	
  of	
  Loos	
  in	
  1915.	
  In	
  the	
  decades	
  since,	
  royal	
  	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  brides	
  have	
  carried	
  on	
  the	
  tradition	
  and	
  their	
  bouquets	
  have	
  been	
  laid	
  at	
  the	
  Tomb	
  on	
  	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  their	
  wedding	
  days.	
  	
  	
  TV	
  viewers	
  m ay	
  have	
  seen	
  our	
  Queen	
  lay	
  a	
  bouquet	
  resembling	
  	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  her	
  own	
  wedding	
  bouquet	
  in	
  the	
  week	
  before	
  Remembrance	
  Sunday.	
  
100	
  The	
  first	
  complete	
  public	
  performance	
  of	
  The	
  Planets	
  by	
  Gustav	
  Holst,	
  15	
  November.	
  
75	
  	
  	
  VE	
  Day,	
  MAY	
  8-­‐10,	
  Nationwide.	
  This	
  year	
  events	
  were	
  held	
  in	
  our	
  front	
  gardens,	
  socially	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  distanced.	
  	
  
75	
  	
  	
  Death	
  of	
  Anne	
  Frank	
  in	
  1945	
  aged	
  just	
  15;	
  famous	
  for	
  her	
  diary	
  about	
  World	
  W ar	
  II.	
  
50	
  	
  	
  GLASTONBURY	
  FESTIVAL	
  50	
  years	
  	
  Saturday	
  19th	
  September;	
  	
  that	
  same	
  night,	
  the	
  	
  	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  American	
  musician,	
  singer,	
  songwriter	
  and	
  guitarist,	
  Jimi	
  Hendrix	
  died.	
  
40	
  	
  BBC	
  CHILDREN	
  IN	
  NEED	
  began	
  in	
  1980	
  and	
  has	
  since	
  raised	
  more	
  than	
  one	
  billion	
  pounds.	
  	
  	
  	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  Sir	
  Terry	
  Wogan	
  was	
  one	
  of	
  the	
  first	
  presenters,	
  continuing	
  until	
  2014.	
  
10	
  	
  The	
  Rickshaw	
  Challenge	
  started	
  in	
  2010	
  led	
  by	
  Matt	
  Baker	
  as	
  part	
  of	
  Children	
  in	
  Need.	
  	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  To	
  date,	
  over	
  £25	
  m illion	
  has	
  been	
  raised	
  by	
  this	
  event	
  alone.	
  	
  	
  
                                                                          Read	
  more	
  at	
  https://bitaboutbritain.com/anniversaries-­‐2020	
  
	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
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                                                                                                                                                                         ANNOUNCEMENTS	
  
	
  
       From	
  the	
  Parish	
  Registers	
                                                                                               	
  	
  	
  Planned	
  e vents	
  for	
  December	
  
       There	
  were	
  no	
  Thanksgivings	
  or	
  Weddings.	
                                                                	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  Covid19	
  restrictions	
  permitting	
  
                                                                                                                                          	
  
                                                                                                                                                                                   th
                                                                                                                                	
  	
  	
  SUNDAY	
   	
  13 ,	
                                                            (	
  Advent	
  2,3,4	
  )	
  
       	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  BAPTISM	
  
       We	
  welcome	
  into	
  	
                                                                                              	
  	
  	
  Christmas	
  Day	
  	
  8am	
  Holy	
  Communion	
  
       the	
  church	
  family	
  	
                                                                                            	
                 	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  10am	
  Family	
  Service	
  
                                                                                                                                	
                 	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  both	
  at	
  St	
  Thomas	
  	
  	
  
       	
  	
  	
  Isla	
  Prothero	
                                                                                           	
  

       	
  	
  	
  	
  	
  	
                                                                                                   	
  	
  	
  SUNDAY	
                                                                                	
  
                                                                                                                                	
  
       REST	
  IN	
  PEACE	
                                                                                                    The	
  Christmas	
  Experience	
  at	
  St	
  Thomas	
  
       We	
  pray	
  for	
  the	
  families	
  	
                                                                                             th          th
                                                                                                                                	
  	
  	
  12 	
  –	
  24 	
  December,	
  3pm	
  –	
  6pm	
  
       of	
  those	
  who	
  have	
  recently	
  died.	
  	
  
       	
  
                                                                                                                                Regretfully,	
  no	
  Carol	
  Service	
  this	
  year.	
  
       	
  	
  	
  	
  Barbara	
  Johnson	
  
       	
                                                                                                                       	
  	
  	
  	
  No	
  Midnight	
  Communion	
  Service	
  	
  
       	
  
  Public	
  services	
  
  Services	
  will	
  follow	
  the	
  on-­‐line	
  pattern	
  
                                                                                                                         JANUARY	
  2021	
  
  with	
  Messy	
  Church	
  on	
  the	
  first	
  Sunday.	
                                                             Magazine	
  
  www.bedhamptonparish/worship	
  
                                                                                                                         	
  
                                                                                                                               For	
  information	
  about	
  advertising	
  and	
  the	
  
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  by	
  mail’	
  service,	
  contact	
  the	
  Parish	
  
  We	
  ask	
  that	
  you	
  inform	
  us	
  if	
  you	
  are	
  going	
                                                                          Office	
  (see	
  below)	
  
  to	
  attend	
  one	
  of	
  the	
  services.	
  You	
  can	
  do	
                                                      We	
  warmly	
  welcome	
  advertisers	
  to	
  our	
  magazine	
  
  this	
  on-­‐line	
  at	
  Bedhampton.church/book	
                                                                      but	
  the	
  Parish	
  does	
  not	
  accept	
  responsibility	
  for	
  
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  by	
  phone	
  on	
  023	
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                                                                                      the	
  quality	
  of	
  work	
  carried	
  out.	
  
  We	
  thank	
  Max,	
  Suzy	
  and	
  all	
  the	
  team	
  for	
                                                         All	
  material	
  for	
  the	
  next	
  issue	
  should	
  be	
  sent	
  to	
  
                                                                                                                            the	
  Parish	
  Office,	
  St	
  Nicholas	
  Church,	
  Belmont	
  
  continuing	
  to	
  produce	
  on-­‐line	
  services.	
                                                                              Grove,	
  Bedhampton,	
  PO9	
  3PU	
  by	
  	
  
  We	
  wish	
  all	
  our	
  readers	
  a	
  happy	
  and	
                                                                                     10	
  am	
  on	
  Friday	
  4 th	
  December	
  
  peaceful	
  Christmas.	
                                                                                                                                                                   	
  
                      	
  
                      	
                                                              	
     	
  Rector	
  :	
  	
  Rev	
  Max	
  Cross	
   	
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  Office	
  open	
  9	
  am	
  –	
  1.00	
  pm	
  on	
  Monday	
  to	
  Friday	
  
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                                 Services	
  from	
  SEPTEMBER	
  2020	
  onwards	
  
         A	
  new	
  pattern	
  of	
  services	
  started	
  in	
  September,	
  with	
  one	
  service	
  
         in	
  each	
  church	
  on	
  each	
  Sunday.	
  The	
  pattern	
  will	
  look	
  something	
  
               like	
  this,	
  shown	
  below.	
  The	
  on-­‐line	
  service	
  will	
  also	
  still	
  be	
  
                           available	
  every	
  Sunday	
  for	
  the	
  time	
  being.	
  
                    Sunday	
  one	
  -­‐	
  Online	
  -­‐	
  	
  8am	
  Sunday	
  Worship	
  Online.	
  
                    Sunday	
  one	
  -­‐	
  Online	
  -­‐	
  	
  8am	
  Sunday	
  Messy	
  Church.	
  
                    Sunday	
  one	
  -­‐	
  St	
  Nicholas’	
  -­‐	
  	
  9am	
  Morning	
  Worship.	
  
                    Sunday	
  one	
  -­‐	
  St	
  Thomas’	
  -­‐	
  11am	
  Morning	
  Prayer.	
  
                    Wednesday	
  one	
  -­‐	
  St	
  Nicholas’	
  -­‐	
  9:30am	
  MU	
  Holy	
  Communion.	
  
                    	
  
                    Sunday	
  two	
  -­‐	
  Online	
  -­‐	
  	
  8am	
  Sunday	
  Worship	
  Online.	
  
                    Sunday	
  two	
  -­‐	
  St	
  Nicholas’	
  -­‐	
  	
  9am	
  Morning	
  Worship.	
  
                    Sunday	
  two	
  -­‐	
  St	
  Thomas’	
  -­‐	
  11am	
  Holy	
  Communion.	
  
                    Wednesday	
  two	
  -­‐	
  St	
  Thomas’	
  -­‐	
  9:30am	
  Holy	
  Communion.	
  
                    	
  
                    Sunday	
  three	
  -­‐	
  Online	
  -­‐	
  	
  8am	
  Sunday	
  Worship	
  Online.	
  
                    Sunday	
  three	
  -­‐	
  St	
  Nicholas’	
  -­‐	
  	
  9am	
  Holy	
  Communion.	
  
                    Sunday	
  three	
  -­‐	
  St	
  Thomas’	
  -­‐	
  11am	
  Morning	
  Prayer.	
  
                    Wednesday	
  three	
  -­‐	
  St	
  Nicholas’	
  -­‐	
  9:30am	
  Holy	
  Communion.	
  
                         	
        	
                 	
                    	
        	
  
                    Sunday	
  four	
  -­‐	
  Online	
  -­‐	
  	
  8am	
  Sunday	
  Worship	
  Online.	
  
                    Sunday	
  four	
  -­‐	
  St	
  Nicholas’	
  -­‐	
  	
  9am	
  Morning	
  Worship.	
  
                    Sunday	
  four	
  -­‐	
  St	
  Thomas’	
  -­‐	
  11am	
  Holy	
  Communion.	
  
                    Wednesday	
  four	
  -­‐	
  St	
  Thomas’	
  -­‐	
  9:30am	
  Holy	
  Communion.	
  
                    	
  
                    When	
  a	
  m onth	
  has	
  five	
  Sundays	
  or	
  Wednesdays.	
  
                    Sunday	
  five	
  -­‐	
  Online	
  -­‐	
  	
  8am	
  Sunday	
  Worship	
  Online.	
  
                    Sunday	
  five	
  -­‐	
  St	
  Nicholas’	
  -­‐	
  	
  9am	
  Morning	
  Worship.	
  
                    Sunday	
  five	
  -­‐	
  St	
  Thomas’	
  -­‐	
  11am	
  Morning	
  Prayer.	
  
                    Wednesday	
  five	
  -­‐	
  St	
  Thomas’	
  -­‐	
  9:30am	
  Holy	
  Communion.	
  

         We	
  ask	
  that	
  you	
  inform	
  us	
  if	
  you	
  are	
  going	
  to	
  attend	
  one	
  of	
  the	
  services.	
  You	
  
         can	
  do	
  this	
  at	
  Bedhampton.church/book	
  or	
  by	
  phoning	
  the	
  office	
  on	
  023	
  9245	
  
         0955.	
  We	
  hope	
  the	
  need	
  to	
  warn	
  us	
  will	
  be	
  removed	
  shortly.	
  If	
  you	
  have	
  any	
  
         questions	
  contact	
  the	
  church	
  office	
  or	
  Rev	
  Max	
  Cross.	
  

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