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Grit - Gavin Carvalho - Fremont Youth Soccer Club
Grit

Gavin Carvalho
Grit - Gavin Carvalho - Fremont Youth Soccer Club
Overview

                               Three key traits of Grit
 Grit Scale
                               How do young players improve
 Calculate your Grit score     their Grit now?
 What is Grit?                Story about Grit – Laney Smith
 Why is it important?         How can parents foster Grit in
                                their children?
 Story about Grit –
                               Resources for players
  Manchester United vs PSG
                               Resources
Grit - Gavin Carvalho - Fremont Youth Soccer Club
Not at all   Not much   Somewhat    Mostly   Very much
                                                                    like me       like me    like me   like me    like me

                  New ideas and projects sometimes distract             5           4          3         2          1
                           me from previous ones

                 Setbacks don’t discourage me. I don’t give up          1           2          3         4          5
                                     easily

How much grit    I often set a goal but later choose to pursue a
                                  different one
                                                                        5           4          3         2          1

do you have?                  I am a hard worker
                  I have a difficulty maintaining my focus on
                                                                        1
                                                                        5
                                                                                    2
                                                                                    4
                                                                                               3
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                                                                                                         4
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                                                                                                                    5
                                                                                                                    1

- answer the     projects that take more than a few months to
                                     complete

questions                   I finish whatever I begin
                     My interests change from year to year
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                                                                        5
                                                                                    2
                                                                                    4
                                                                                               3
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                                                                                                                    5
                                                                                                                    1

below and add            I am diligent, I never give up                 1           2          3         4          5

up your score.
                  I have been obsessed with a certain idea or           5           4          3         2          1
                 project for a short time but later lost interest

                   I have overcome setbacks to conquer an               1           2          3         4          5
                              important change

                                       - Angela Duckworth – Grit: Power of passion and perseverance
Grit - Gavin Carvalho - Fremont Youth Soccer Club
Calculate your grit score

•   Step 1: Add up your total score from the previous page
•   Step 2: Divide score by 10.
•   Step 3: Score will fall between 1-4
          Not Gritty                          Moderately
                                              Gritty

         1               2                3                4

                             Slightly
                                                               Very Gritty
                             Gritty

                             - Angela Duckworth – Grit: Power of passion and perseverance
Grit - Gavin Carvalho - Fremont Youth Soccer Club
Grit is the passion and           Grit is the ability to
       perseverance an            stick to committed
     individual has that          goals and to work
        enables them to           towards the fulfillment
   pursue and achieve             despite the struggles
        long term goals           and difficulties that
                                  gets in the way

                           GRIT
                                                            What is Grit?
 Grit is more important
 than talent or IQ when
 it comes to success –
 Angela Duckworth
Grit - Gavin Carvalho - Fremont Youth Soccer Club
Why is Grit important?

                                     Driver of achievement and
                                     success
                                01
                                                    Without Grit,

 Skill x Effort =
                      05                 02         Talent is nothing
                                                    but unmet
  Achievement                                       potential

                           04         03         The ability to recover
                                                 from setbacks
Talent x Effort = Skill
Grit - Gavin Carvalho - Fremont Youth Soccer Club
Stories about Grit – When Grit beats Talent

•   In last year’s Champions league, Manchester United drew Paris St. Germain in the
    last 16. Paris, a far more talented team featuring Neymar and Mbappe took a 2-0
    lead in the first leg of the tie, creating a near impossible challenge for United to go
    away to Paris and have to score atleast 3 goals to qualify for the quarters. See the
    highlights:
•   First Leg Highlights: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q_za6Khtnbg
•   Solksjaer interview before second leg:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qhpXxfNZoTo
•   Second Leg Highlights: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jnu4LP1Z1mg
Grit - Gavin Carvalho - Fremont Youth Soccer Club
High ability
Incredible zeal   Three key
Capacity for      traits of Grit
 hard labor
Grit - Gavin Carvalho - Fremont Youth Soccer Club
Maintain Hope                      Set Micro Goals
                 Look at situations and                Set achievable daily and
                 events from an optimistic             weekly goals. These are
                 perspective, look for the             going to be crucial wins
                 positive aspects of the               that will spur players
                 event and make it a                   onto bigger challenges.
                 positive for you.
                                                       Discover and
                             Practice        ENGAGE    develop interests
                            Regularly
How do          Development takes time,
                                               IN      Take time to research
                                                       new       activities  and
                 c
young players
                practice your interests
                                                       hobbies to try, find new
                regularly and put the
                                                       activities and pursure
                effort in. This resilience
                                                       them. Give interests time
improve their   will carry over into other
                aspects of your life.
                                               THE
                                                       to develop.

                                                       Develop purpose
Grit now?           Be Disciplined
                Follow through on all
                                             PROCESS   Make mini-decisions and
                                                       take mini-steps towards a
                your mini-goals and takss              larger goal. This will give
                that you have setup, this              you     direction      and
                will help you continue to              purpose while fostering
                improve.                               commitment
Grit - Gavin Carvalho - Fremont Youth Soccer Club
Story about Grit – Laney Smith

                                 Link to video
                                 https://youtu.be/1XtQV8KHIg0
How can parents foster Grit in their
 children?

                                                BE OK WITH MISTAKES AND
           OPPORTUNITY TO                       IMPERFECTION
                  CHOOSE                       Harsh criticism can stifle new interests.
                                               Instead, allow kids to make mistakes and be
Give your child the opportunity to pick        imperfect. Mistakes will allow them to learn
their activities, tasks from 2 to 3 options,   better and imperfections are normal with
this will foster interest and passion.         development. It will foster passion and the
                                               want to improve.
              ENCOURAGE
         EXPERIMENTATION                       CREATE QUITE TIME
                                               Have a small portion of the day that is free
Encourage kids to try something new, this
                                               from all screens, phones and tablets. Allow
will allow them to do research and find
                                               time to dream, be creative and be
new interests and hobbies. For example,
                                               imaginative. .
during this period, encourage them to do
something they have never done before.
Resources for
   Players
                 The Grit Guide for Teens
                 A Workbook to Help You Build
                  Perseverance, Self-Control, and a
                  Growth Mindset
                 Caren Baruch-Feldman
Resources

• Duckworth, A. (n.d.). Grit: The power of passion and perseverance .
• Baruch-Feldman, C. (2017, October 3). What if Grit, and why is it important? . Retrieved
  April 22, 2020, from https://www.newharbinger.com/blog/what-grit-and-why-it-
  important
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