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Our House
Heritage Restoration Project
        2017-2018

     Society Christchurch Inc.      Est. 1898

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“   Christchurch's Home & Family
    Society may not have that same
    level of community awareness
                                                               Now, in post-quake Christchurch, Home & Family has
                                                               an opportunity not only to strengthen and continue
                                                               their work but also to do so in a remarkable historical
                                                               building generously made available to them by the
                                                               Sisters of The Community of the Sacred Name.
    as Nurse Maude and yet the
                                                               This collection of historic buildings, designed by the
    beginnings of both organisations                           legendary architect Benjamin Woolfield Mountfort, is

    in our City share common                                   to be restored and become the new base for Home &
                                                               Family. These historic buildings will not only be saved
    roots of community concern.                                for future generations in our City, they will also see
                                                               Home & Family reunited with their historic roots. The
    The Home & Family Society has been established for         buildings contain the original dispensary of Nurse
    over 100 years. Over that time it has grown from a         Maude, the woman who pioneered District Nursing in
    grass-roots organisation founded on community              Christchurch.
    concerns for the poorest among us, to a professional
    charitable society with a specific goal of supporting      We are proud to support this venture, and encourage
    families in need of a helping hand. Recognising that       others to join with Home & Family, as they look to the
    the foundation of a strong society is in maintaining       future by connecting with our pioneering past.
    the well-being of the family unit, Home & Family has a
    team of professional, trained staff with a mission of      – Lady Joanna and Sir Bob Parker
    creating environments for positive change.

    The Home & Family vision is quite straightforward:
    "All children will live in homes with whānau/family
    who cherish them, keep them safe and nurture their
    potential." In over a century of heart-felt compassion
    and supportive hard work, that is exactly what they
    have achieved for thousands of vulnerable children
    and at-risk families.

                                            Chrystal Chenery
                                            Home & Family Ambassador

                                      “     I chose Home & Family Society as
                                            my charity of choice when I was
                                            asked to be a contestant on TV3’s
                                            series of Dancing with the Stars.
                                                                                   enjoy the journey together. I
                                                                                   believe the work Home & Family
                                                                                   does enables people to get to a
                                                                                   place in their lives where this is
                                            Home & Family is a cause close to      possible.
                                            my heart, and since having the
                                            opportunity to visit their             The Our House project will mean
                                            programmes and meet some of            so much to the children and
                                            the families they work with, I         families that use Home & Family’s
                                            decided to stay on board and           service. It will be a landmark for
                                            support Home & Family in any           lasting, meaningful change.
                                            meaningful way I could.
                                                                                   It’s an amazing project that I am
                                            My vision is that we can accept        proud to get behind.
                                            ourselves as we are, make no
                                            judgments and remove                   – Chrystal
                                            expectations. Then we can all

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As long as it takes
Home & Family is unique in that it is
prepared to walk alongside its families long
after the initial funded stay of six weeks
has ended. Some families stay on for up to
a year.
Counselling also continues as long as it is needed. Home & Family acts as
a strong advocate for its clients alongside other agencies and service
providers.

Home & Family has a lasting impact which is evident in the length of
relationships it has with families who have moved on from the service.
On the first Tuesday of each month there is a shared lunch for anyone
who has ever been involved with the Home & Family parenting
programme. There are cups of tea, birthday outings, drop ins, and
invitations for staff to attend school and community events.

In assisting others to create positive home and family environments,
Home & Family has also made this commitment to everyone who comes
through its doors; that they feel at Home and part of the Family.

              Home & Family’s statistics for January – December 2016:

                              404 counselling clients
                representing a 30% increase from the previous year

                                       57% of clients
                               were aged between 3 to 17 years

                                 2,353 bednights
              of support provided through our parenting programme

                              67% of families
      on our parenting programme directly impacted by family violence

                           30% of babies
 on programme coming directly from Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU)

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Creating Environments
     for Positive Change

     Home & Family is an independent,
     Christchurch based incorporated society
     that works with children, adults and
     families facing barriers to positive
     outcomes in their lives.

     Home & Family traces its roots back
     to Christchurch in 1898 when it was
     established as the ‘Society for the
     Protection of Women and Children’.

     The Society was authorised to collect and disburse maintenance
     money to wives and children separated from their husbands
     and fathers.

     The Society successfully bid to include the act of incest in the
     Crimes Act in 1900, campaigned for the age of consent to be
     raised from 14 to 16, and in 1940 the Society made efforts to
     improve State maternity services and the inclusion of women in
     the workforce.

     These actions brought about significant social change and
     undoubtedly altered today’s society for the better.

     This family focused, forward thinking
     still drives Home & Family today.

     Street decorations for the Canterbury
     jubilee celebrations in December 1900
     shown here in Colombo Street north.

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Home & Family provides two streams of service:

                    1. a counselling service
                    2. a residential parenting programme

                    Over 100 years later, Home & Family
                    builds safe and secure families by
                    providing counselling and practical life
                    skills to families and children.

                    This support continues for as long as the family needs it, with
                    contact often continuing for years after families have moved on
                    from directly accessing Home & Family’s services.

                    The positive effects created by working with the whole family unit
                    to empower healthy, resilient and safe families have benefits for
                    the entire community. Working with the whole family unit provides
                    an opportunity for inter-generational change to occur with families
                    being able to create positive new cultures, behaviours and
                    relationships. These results are seen not only in the lifetime of one
                    generation, but throughout the lifeline of the entire family.

                    Home & Family’s vision:
                    All children will live in homes with whānau/family
                    who cherish them, keep them safe and nurture
                    their potential.

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Home & Family has eight counsellors on
     staff working with children, young people,
     couples and families.
     It is one of very few agencies that offers counselling to
     children. In fact, almost sixty percent of the counselling
     work that Home & Family undertakes is with children.

     Children as young as three years old are working with
     Home & Family counsellors, using play therapy.

     In recent years Home & Family has been seeing an
     increased number of children for counselling. This is
     significant as following a major traumatic event there is
     often a two to three year lapse before post-traumatic
     stress reaches its peak.

     Counsellors work to strengthen resilience, self-esteem,
     and relationships, and work through issues including
     anger, depression, anxiety, grief, loss and trauma. Coun-
     sellors also work with those that have been a witness to, or
     a victim of domestic violence, physical and sexual abuse.

     Home & Family sees amazing transformations
     in the lives of those they counsel. They are able
     to move on from the challenges of their current
     situations and grow and thrive.

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The residential parenting programme pro-
vides 24-hour supervised accommodation
for parents and their children.
This service focuses on situations where out of home
placements for the children are being considered. Parents
take part in supervised life-skills training to learn strategies
for safe and nurturing parenting of children. During this
time the entire family unit also has access to the
counselling service.

The parenting service in Barrington provides a secure
environment for mothers and their children. This
programme gives Home & Family the opportunity to see
what would be the best for the family as a whole with the
welfare of children as the priority in all decision making.

‘The Flats’ are located on an adjacent property to ‘The
House’. These provide a supportive environment for a
family to test the waters of living independently, while still
within access of Home & Family’s social workers and
counsellors.

Research confirms that children are better off in
the care of their own family.

Home & Family is committed to keeping
children with their families, while empowering
the parents with the tools and confidence to
parent successfully.

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This is
Terangi’s Story
                  “   I had a history with domestic violence with my
                      ex-husband.

                      Because of that my older children were permanently
                      placed with Child, Youth and Family. I battled with how
                      things were.

                      At the time I had a drug problem. It was my main source
                      of making myself feel better about my problems. And I
                      had started drinking; it would numb me so I didn’t feel
                      anything.

                      After the earthquakes I left my husband, I stopped
                      drinking, doing drugs; that was it. I’d had enough.“

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Terangi had come to the attention of the
authorities in an earlier, violent relationship.
As a result her children were moved into
impermanent care. Pregnant and very keen
to make sure she didn’t have the same
outcome this time, Terangi worked very, very
hard to turn her life around. With the
support of Home & Family there is now no
state involvement with her, her partner and
their children.

“Later that year I fell pregnant. The father didn’t       four of us lived there and we made it our home.
believe that I was pregnant so I took two pregnancy
tests to show him. I put them both on the table and       Home & Family has given us so much. After the six
left the room. When I went back he was crying, and        weeks had been and gone, and the six months had
angry, he went bananas, he left and I never saw him       been and gone, they’ve given us not just their time,
for three days and he came back absolutely drunk          but their knowledge and their care. My culture was
and attacked me. I thought that’s it, I’m out of here.    honoured from the time I walked into this house. I
It’s about me and my child, I’ll bring up my baby on      have learned heaps of tools that I can use with my
my own.                                                   parenting. Now I have the older children in my care
                                                          every school holidays. If I had known about this
So I left that relationship, I would have been about 10   agency when I had my older children I would have
weeks pregnant and I quit my job. Pregnancy was           definitely come here to keep them in my care.
great up until the point CYFs decided to come and
uplift my daughter. She was uplifted from my care         I think about the girls, how far we’ve come along. At
just after her heel prick, 24 hours after I had given     the end of the day, I’m here for my daughters, my
birth to her.                                             daughters come first. It’s gone from them thinking
                                                          about uplifting Terangimarie, to then thinking no,
I had been told about Home & Family by a very close       she’s at Home & Family with Huia, to then reducing
family member who told me “You have to go into            the custody to a support order, and now being able to
Home & Family to get our baby back”. After two            wipe the support order and give me back my full
months I was able to come to live at the Home &           custody. I can say I did it, even though all the hurdles
Family house with my baby Huia.                           were stuck in my family’s way. We did it, we did it
                                                          together as a family unit, with the assistance of Home
I was in a new relationship with my partner, and even     & Family. If it wasn’t for them we wouldn’t have what
though there was no domestic violence in our              we’ve got now.”
relationship we had to have supervised access, when
he was coming, if he was allowed to stay for tea, to
put Huia down to bed. We worked through all of it,
even though it was really hard, especially for him.
                                                          Now Terangi, Tama and the
With the help of Home & Family we were able to            girls are living in their own
prove that we were a good family and eventually we
moved across the road (into one of the Home &             home, Tama is in full time
Family flats). It was a week before Christmas and I
was finally allowed to have my partner and my
                                                          employment and they have a
daughter home. I was pregnant with Terangimarie           support network around them.
and there was no way anyone else but my partner
was going to take me to the hospital. And he did. The

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Our House
Following the devastating
Canterbury Earthquakes, Home
& Family lost the building that
had housed its head office and
counselling services.

These are currently being run from temporary premises in
Waltham.

Home & Family urgently needs a new
home, a place of its own to operate
these vital aspects of the service from.

In 2014 Home & Family secured the
purchase of the convent of The
Community of the Sacred Name on the
corner of Barbadoes and St. Asaph
Streets.
This building was home to Nurse Maude’s dispensary and the
base from which the first District Nursing Office operated.

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The convent is a grade-one heritage building that was designed by
                                            Benjamin Woolfield Mountfort and his son Cyril Julian Mountfort
                                            and built in parts from 1895–1926. It is the oldest ‘temporary
                                            structure’ still standing in Christchurch.

                                            This building, which has suffered some earthquake damage, will
                                            become the new home for the head office and counselling
                                            services. The convent has beautiful and unique heritage features
                                            including a chapel with historically significant stained glass
                                            windows.
    Benjamin Woolfield Mountfort
              [Circa 1875]
                                            Home & Family is working closely with
                                            Heritage New Zealand to ensure that
                                            the significant aspects of this building
                                            are identified so that they can be
                                            preserved and maintained as the
                                            building takes on this new purpose.
                                            It is the intention of Home & Family that Our House will have areas
                                            that can be used and enjoyed by the public so that this taonga
                                            becomes an asset to the community and a landmark for hope,
  The Convent, 1900. From left, Nurse       compassion and respect.
Maude, Sr Dora, Sr Edith, Jane(t) Davies,
 Sr Mary, Miss May Hurse, Miss Savoy        The refurbishment of this amazing building will provide Home &
        (Nurse Maude’s niece).              Family with a visible, accessible community centre from which to
                                            base its services. It will give Home & Family the potential to grow
                                            its services and reach more people who need them.

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Comparative Timelines
The history of Our House and                                                       The Community of the Sacred Name is the only Anglican
                                                                                   female order in New Zealand and was founded in 1893
that of the Home & Family                                                          by Sister Edith Mellish.

Society have some remarkable                                                       The Community was founded as a teaching and nursing
parallels.                                                                         order, initially caring for “the poor, the sick and the fallen”
                                                                                   (with a focus on unmarried mothers and orphans).

A History of The Community                                                                                                   1911
                                                                                                   The Community of the Sacred
                                                                                                                                    Community begins the
                                                                                                                                    making of wafers,
of the Sacred Name                                                                              Name is adopted as the name of      which in time supplies
                                                                                                the order. Brick building erected   all parishes in New
                                                                                                   on site. Opened October 1912.    Zealand and later the
                                                                                                                                    Pacific Islands. The
                                                                                                                                    Community also
1893                      1895                            1896                                        1900
                                                                                                                                    created embroidery for
Sister Edith arrives in   Construction of Deaconess       Nurse Maude comes                           Chapel and extension
                                                                                                                                    priestly garments, altar
Christchurch, founds      House (now ‘Our House’)         to live in the                              opened [Cyril Julian
                                                                                                                                    linen and banners.
Christchurch              begins [Benjamin                Community.                                  Mountfort]. Additions made
Deaconesses’ Institute.   Woolfield Mountfort].           Establishes a                               to building until mid-late
                          Sisters move in. House          dispensary and district                     1920s.
                          dedicated in February.          nursing scheme.

1893                                                  1898                                    1900                                                   1926
The Society of the                S.P.W.C merges with the                  The Society successfully                         S.P.W.C and S.P.C.A part ways.
Protection of Women and       Society for the Prevention of          campaigns for the inclusion
Children founded S.P.W.C.      Cruelty to Animals (S.P.C.A).            of incest in the Crimes Act
                                     Children’s Aid Society            and later age of consent is
                              established in Christchurch.           raised from 14 to 16 years of
                                                                       age through influence and
                                         S.P.W.C becomes                persuasion of the Society.
                                            incorporated.
A History of Home                                                                                 1908
                                                                Christchurch branch of S.P.W.C formed,
& Family Society                                                 stemming from Children’s Aid Society.

                                                                                                          1909
                                                               Christchurch branch of S.P.W.C holds first AGM.

                                            Ongoing work for social reform from 1900 continues, including

                                            •   Prison reform
                                            •   Curfew for unaccompanied minors in public bars
                                            •   Home for mothers of illegitimate children
                                            •   Rights of foster children
                                            •   Women inspectors in female prisons
                                            •   Separate toilets in factories for women, longer lunch breaks and better conditions
                                            •   Appointment of female police officers
                                            •   Censorship of material available to children
                                            •   Legal marriage age raised
                                            •   Women’s rights in the workforce

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Some of                                     The lancet windows in the chapel were relocated in 1900 from the
                                            original east window of St Michael and All Angels Church. These windows
the features                                were crafted by Powells of London in 1871.

of the chapel                               The altar and carvings in the chapel are by noted Christchurch carver
are of artistic                             Frederick Gurnsey, who also carved altarpieces for the Christchurch
                                            Cathedral and its chapel, as well as carvings for the Bridge of
and historical                              Remembrance.

significance.                               Three windows in the west end were commissioned for the chapel by
                                            the sisters and designed by the renowned English Arts and Crafts artist
                                            Veronica Whall (for Whall & Whall stained glass studio).

                                      1992                      2011
                                                                                                                2014
                                      Retreat house opened on   Brick building demolished
                                                                                                 The Community of the Sacred
                                      site [Don Donnithorne].   after severe damage in
                                                                                               Name sell the Deaconess Building
                                                                Canterbury earthquakes.
                                                                                                 (commonly referred to as The
                                                                                                Convent) to Home & Family and
                                                                                               work begins to fundraise the $3.6
                                                                                                million needed to restore it and
1955                           1981                                                                make it fit for purpose. The
Changes name to Society for    Changes name to           1990’s – 2000’s                        building is renamed Our House.
Protection of Home & Family.   Home & Family Society.    Two streams of service emerge.

The first window depicts St Bridget         The north-west window c.1938                    The south-west window c.1948
of Ireland and is in memory of              commemorates Nurse Maude                        depicting St Francis Xavier
Mother Edith, as Mother Edith was           and depicts St Barnabas. The                    commemorates Canon Mutter an
Irish and St Bridget founded the            window features her favourite                   early Community chaplain.
first Convent in Ireland. The               flowers, delphiniums and
forget-me-nots, daffodils and birds         love-in-a-mist, and is located near
loved by Mother Edith are in the            to where she would sit in the
foreground of the window while              Chapel.
the face of St Bridget features a
likeness to Mother Edith. This is
the oldest window and the only
window signed by Whall. It dates
from c.1928.

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This is Cheryl’s Story
“   At the point where I was told Alexsis was dead the
    world ended. I was in this numb state where I was
    barely breathing, my body was moving but I wasn’t
    there, my mind was screaming this is not true, it can’t
                                                               You’ve got to also remember we’re having constant
                                                               earthquakes during this time as well. It was not long
                                                               after the September 4th quakes. We had gone through
                                                               Christmas trying to pretend for the little boy. I was
    be true. But it was. And I now had this precious little    trying to help him cope and asking people ‘Where can
    boy to look after who had lost his mum, who had            I get help for this little boy?’ Everyone was shut, no
    been told she’d gone on holiday, who was actually at       one was accessible, they all seemed to be on holiday.
    the scene when she was killed. Murdered in the home        The Police were visiting frequently, there was no
    they shared, somewhere that was supposed to be             ‘holiday’ for us. That’s when I got told about Home &
    safe.                                                      Family and how they do child therapy. That they were
                                                               able to help a little 3 year old and how it was
    I had to explain to him why his mummy wasn’t               extremely important he got the help he needed. So
    coming back. I had to try to explain to him what a         we were put on the waiting list and told it might be six
    funeral was, what was happening to his mummy, and          to ten weeks. But there was no other alternative. The
    why I couldn’t bring her back, why I couldn’t fix it. He   only one little piece of lifeline we had that could
    didn’t want his mummy to go in a box and for dirt to       potentially help this precious little boy is Home &
    go on her. ‘I can go in there with her Nan, I’ll get her   Family. And then February 22nd hit, Christchurch fell
    out Nan.’ How do you explain to a three year old           around us and life was turned upside-down all over
    anything that’s going to make sense when it’s not          again.
    making sense to an adult?
                                                               By this stage we’re in a really desperate situation. The
    At this point we were working with the Police, working     waiting was agony. And then we had our first meeting
    to get the person responsible held accountable.            and I thought, Thank God! I’ve actually got someone.
    There were many questions to answer regarding my           And she explained what child therapy is, and I hoped
    grandson. ‘What did the little boy see?’ That’s the        it was going to work because I didn’t have any more
    question they asked. At the time he didn’t understand      energy to find anything else, and besides that,
    the trauma that had happened, but he knew                  nothing else even seemed to exist. And this therapist
    something was wrong, he could remember that she            had dealt with children in trauma and she said those
    was asleep, ‘I can’t wake mummy up. She’s asleep.          simple but profound words, ‘I can help’. I can help, I
    She’s being a lazybones Nan.’ He knew he couldn’t          can’t explain the relief I felt at those words, how much
    have his mummy but didn’t understand why. Surely           it meant.
    Nan can fix this?

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Cheryl has lived every parent
                                   and grandparent’s worst
                                  nightmare. Her 21-year-old
                                   daughter was murdered
                                     while her 3-year-old
                                    grandson was present.

It’s like you’ve had this series of tidal waves hit and     and gave me the tools and the language in the role as
you’re drifting out at sea. You feel like you’re            caregiver to make sense of what was going on for
drowning, and you’re trying to hold yourself above          him.
water, but not only that, you’re trying to hold this
little boy higher above the water than you are. And         So he was able to go through his journey. And it was
you can just cope with the water being over your            a very, very long journey. It was almost three years.
mouth, but you’re holding him up so he doesn’t have         We gave him the time he needed, not to be
to experience that, so he can go through this and it        constrained by a fixed set of sessions. And he was
impacts him as little as possible. Because, you can’t       given tools too, to be able to express himself, to try
cope with losing him as well. And the relief, that all of   to make sense of what he had experienced. And to
a sudden, he’s got a lifejacket on.                         make him feel safe. And that’s the goal, to make him
                                                            feel safe, to help him to function fully, to develop
He was in there on his own with the therapist and he        fully. To honour the promise I made to his mother, to
thinks it’s play time, and he gets to play with fun toys.   help her enable him to be the best he could be. The
What he was able to do, was he was able to express          staff at Home & Family wanted to make this little boy
himself through play, and act out his needs in the          happy and help him thrive as much as I did. They are
role play. He has a strong need to protect and be           simply amazing.
protected, and he would use his favourite animals to
act this out. To try and change the outcome. But what
I was actually seeing, is that he was able to almost
                                                            They have created this environment
release, and he had another avenue that he could            at Home & Family, a culture that feels
express what was going on in his little mind and try
                                                            like when you walk in the door you’re
to work things out.
                                                            wrapped in a lovely warm blanket.
It was about building this network of loving
individuals around this little boy. We worked as a          You’re in safe hands, in a safe place full of people
team. We would sit and discuss what I was seeing at         that truly, truly, and deeply care. And that’s the
home and be able to put it into context. She was able       difference, that’s the difference.”
to give reassurance to me that this is a point in his
journey to coming to better wellness, to be better
placed to be Ok in himself. She walked alongside us,

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As part of this campaign Home & Family has developed
    bespoke acknowledgements for those who support the
    restoration of Our House. These highly visible
    acknowledgements would be for life.

    Star Supporters
    The fence along the St. Asaph Street frontage of Our House will become
    Christchurch’s answer to the Hollywood Boulevard Walk of Fame. A
    custom made fence will have embedded in it bespoke metal worked stars
    depicting the names of our Star Supporters.

    The suggested donation to secure a Star would be $50,000.

    Paving the Way
    At the public café situated within the restored Our House, there will be a
    paved area in the garden on which a total of 25 customised plaques will
    feature the names or logos of those who have helped Home & Family to
    achieve their goal of restoring Our House.

    The suggested donation to secure a Paver would be $10,000.

    In addition, supporters may choose to Sponsor a Room,
    and create an ongoing commitment to the maintenance of
    this room with Home & Family. This support would be
    acknowledged on site at Our House.

    Why I chose to give: Mark Quinn, Fahey Fence Hire

“   When I was four years old my Dad died.
    He was 30. A week later Mum’s mum died.
    Mum was seven months pregnant at the
    time and she already had four kids. She
    couldn’t raise us and run the farm without
                                                    The same sort of thing happens today.
                                                    It’s just not as in your face. I believe that
                                                    no children should go without, that we
                                                    should be trying to create a nice pathway
                                                    for those who are struggling.
    Dad. She was forced to give up the farm,
    and my youngest sister became a tamaiti         Supporting the work of Home & Family
    whāngai and was raised by whānau in             makes me feel good. The work they do
    New Zealand. Two months after she was           is not just painting over the issues; it’s
    born, mum and the four of us moved              really helping to fix the problems.
    back to England where she was from.             Everyone deserves an opportu-
                                                    nity in life; they deserve to
    Money was scarce and Mum did her best           feel like a valued member
    for us. She may have gone hungry, but           of society. By supporting
    she tried to make sure we never did. We         Home & Family I’m just
    lived in a poor neighbourhood and I saw it      doing my small part to
    all. Some of my mates didn’t have carpet        fulfil the big hopes I
    in their houses, their Dads beat up their       have for the children
    Mums, they didn’t have lunch.                   of our community.

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“   When a heritage building ceases to be
                                           used for the purpose for which it was
                                           built 120 years ago, finding a compatible
                                           new use is really difficult. It’s often the
                                           hardest challenge we face. Then Home
                                           & Family came along and this just
                                           seemed the perfect fit.
 Jenny May ONZM, is an architectural       This former convent building and chapel was the first purpose built
  historian and Director of Heritage       home of The Community of the Sacred Name, a Deaconess order
   Management Services. She is a           founded by Sister Edith Mary Mellish in 1893. Essentially a teaching
 national executive Board member of        and nursing order, they worked within the community exhibiting
     the International Council on          similar values to those of Home & Family. These shared values and
 Monuments and Sites (ICOMOS) (NZ),        their longevity in our community for more than a century, make
    a trustee of the Christchurch          Home & Family an ideal match.
  Symphony Orchestra Foundation
  and a Lay Canon on the Dean and          Initially designed by noted architect B W Mountfort in 1895 and
 Chapter of Christchurch Cathedral.        reputedly built as temporary, the building’s survival in near original
                                           condition is quite remarkable. Thus finding a new owner willing to
                                           make all efforts to fit their use into an existing heritage building and
                                           entirely respect its original form was a rare thing. Home & Family’s
                                           approach is to touch the building only lightly, to undertake overdue
                                           remedial works and a structural upgrade. This is all work that will
                                           respect the built and intangible heritage values, ensure its survival
                                           for another 120 years and at the same time ideally fit Home &
                                           Family’s needs.

                                           – Jenny May

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Val Carter
                            Executive Director of Home & Family,
                            Val Carter, has extensive experience in
                            education and social services both here
                            and in the UK. She has worked for CYF, the
                            Ministry of Education, University of
                            Canterbury and has taught at primary,
                            secondary and tertiary levels.
                            Val’s experience of working with young people and their families has
                            enabled her to understand how precious Home & Family’s work is to our
                            community.

Val believes that the
synergy between
Home & Family, the
                        “   Home & Family’s strength is that we are
                            able to be very responsive.
Sisters’ work at the        We help families effect changes that have a long lasting impact in the
                            lives of their children. Understanding how vital early years experiences
Convent, and the            are to subsequent behaviour and development, it is easy to see why we
building itself makes       feel so passionate about the work that we do.

for an exciting
convergence within          Personally, I find being part of the Home & Family
Christchurch’s social       team hugely satisfying.
history.
                            I am honoured to have the opportunity to be involved with an
                            organisation that I know benefits and strengthens outcomes for children.
                            These outcomes are at the heart of what we do at Home & Family.

                            This opportunity to acquire and restore a building so that we have a new,
                            permanent home is too good to be missed. This hidden gem of a place
                            has had a proud tradition of helping Cantabrians, as has Home & Family.

                            We are delighted to be able to continue our work in
                            this historic context.

                            – Val Carter

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William Fulton

“   Home & Family has the unique
    opportunity of moving into the
    highly significant Heritage
    building that was The Community
    of the Sacred Name Convent.
    This remarkable collection of forms on the corner of St.
    Asaph and Barbadoes Streets sat in the shadow of the now
    demolished brick Convent building that ran along
    Barbadoes St. The Canterbury earthquakes had the effect
    of wiping out over 100 years of the Cultural Heritage of
    Christchurch, however, this building is one of the uncovered
    gems in a sea of destruction. Externally the complex
    appears like a collection of outbuildings, however, inwardly
    the spaces are like a time capsule from another era. The
    Chapel in particular is a highly significant space.

    Home & Family intends to inhabit the existing building,
    fitting as much as possible within existing heritage fabric.
    They also intend to share the building with the community
    by way of a Café opening on to St. Asaph St. This creates
    two design challenges; firstly the need to adapt the building
    to meet the current Building Code, while conserving what is special about the building; and secondly balancing the
    privacy necessary within Home & Family services against the intention of opening parts of the building to the Public.

    The new functions will require the building to adapt to the requirements of the Building Code. Fire protection in a largely
    timber structure will be imperative, ensuring both the safety of the occupants as well as the protection of the Heritage
    fabric. Structural strength and resilience will also need to be improved to meet the more onerous post-earthquake Code
    requirements. The building will need to be made Accessible to all members of the public, requiring level entry, ramps
    and Accessible facilities. The current electrical and water services will need to be improved to meet the needs of the
    Home & Family organisation. The existing materials will need to be maintained and repaired to extend the life of the
    structure balanced against the need to retain the special qualities and patina of the current surfaces.

    Fulton Ross Team Architects feels privileged to be involved with this project. We have a broad experience working on
    projects that involve Heritage buildings. This building is highly significant and while it has been hidden away for much of
    its life, we look forward to being part of the team that protects the building for the future by giving it a new life. Home &
    Family is a society that has a proud tradition of helping the community in a positive and practical way. Their services
    have been supporting families for over 100 years. Those who lived through the Canterbury earthquakes will understand
    the need for the services Home & Family provides. While the earthquakes destroyed much of the physical fabric of the
    inner city, this project takes a society that helps hold together the essential social fabric of our community and houses
    them in a Heritage building that survived the destruction of the earthquakes. It seems a perfect fit.

    – William Fulton
    NZIA B.Bsc, Dip LA, BArch

    Principal on behalf of

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W hat will Our House look like?
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Key Features
1. The Chapel                          7. Community Meeting Area

2. The Water Tank                      8. Historic Fruit Trees

3. The Gardens                         9. The TB Hut

4. The Cafe                            10. Counselling Rooms for Home & Family

5. The Museum Room                     11. Play Therapy Area

6. Open Frontage to St. Asaph St       12. Home & Family Staff areas

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The proposed restoration of the Convent will include seven
Counselling Rooms for Home & Family clients, areas for Child Play
Therapy, a reception area, staff offices and combined staff spaces.

In addition, there will be many opportunities for the    sit in the south-western corner of the building. The
public to engage with and use this wonderful building.   water tank on St. Asaph St will form a landmark for
Planned usage of the stunning chapel will include        the public and a reference point for meeting people.
weddings, recitals and tours. The chapel will also
remain in use by the Sisters of The Community of the     The St. Asaph street frontage will also be opened so
Sacred Name. The room next to the chapel has been        this special heritage treasure can be viewed and
designated as a community meeting area. The Sister’s     enjoyed by all who pass by. The weatherboard and tin
reading room will be set up as a museum to house         exterior has a uniquely Kiwi identity, the likes of which
artefacts and treasures for public view. One of the      has inspired some of our most prominent artists. The
bedrooms will remain set up, as it would have been       restoration of Our House is a chance for this building
throughout the building’s life.                          to be enjoyed by the whole community.

The gardens, featuring historic fruit trees, a
tuberculosis hut (relocated onto the site from New
Brighton) and an old apple store, will form a
welcoming entrance point to the public café which will

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Support Our House
     We have already identified Charitable Trusts and local businesses as
     partners for this project.

     Anyone interested in personally supporting
     Our House, we encourage to do so.
     The figures below indicate the value and number of contributions we are
     aiming to secure to ensure the success of this project. Bespoke recognition
     of these gifts would be developed in partnership with the contributor.

     Individual Contributions
                                      $100,000
                   $50,000                               $50,000
             $20,000                  $20,000                  $20,000
       $10,000     $10,000       $5,000      $5,000      $5,000       $5,000

     Below are examples of how tax effective giving makes full use of the
     33.3% rebate that is available.

     Pledge                  Tax Rebate               Net cost to Donor

     $100,000                $33,300                  $66,700

     $50,000                 $16,650                  $33,350

     $20,000                 $6,660                   $13,340

     $10,000                 $3,330                   $6,670

     $5,000                  $1,665                   $3,335

     Some donors prefer to manage their giving by making annual pledges
     over a specified period, for example three years. We welcome this
     approach.

     Charitable Taxation                     Donations made to Home &
                                             Family by individuals may qualify
                                             for the 33.3% tax rebate up to
     Home & Family is registered with        their accessible income.
     the Charities Services and is
     authorised to receive donations         Home & Family’s IRD number is
     by way of IRD Donee                     109 198 51 and Charities Services
     Organisational Status.                  number is 23597.

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Please help us build the house
that makes happy homes

                The refurbishment of Our House serves the Canterbury community
                through the establishment of a permanent and secure base from
                which Home & Family can continue its vital work building happy and
                safe homes for children and their families.

                Our House also protects and maintains this significant heritage
                building, allowing the good work that has always been undertaken
                from within its walls to continue. This gives the convent a new lease
                on life, preserving its place within the community it has continued to
                serve throughout its history.

                This significant undertaking will cost $3.6 million to complete.

                For over 100 years Home & Family
                has been actively contributing to our
                community and making a real and
                measurable difference in the lives of
                families.
                With your help Home & Family can achieve its goal of refurbishing
                the convent and turning it into Our House – a place where families
                are strengthened and supported.

                Help us build the house that makes
                happy homes – donate now.

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Home and Family Society Christchurch Inc.
76 Thackeray Street, Waltham, Christchurch 8023
PO Box 287, Christchurch 8140

 03 944 0635
 val@homeandfamily.net.nz
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                                                  Society Christchurch Inc.                Est. 1898
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 www.happyhomes.nz

Capital Fundraising                                                      Credits
                                                                         Charlotte Jackson

Committee                                                                Photography
                                                                          charlotterosejackson@gmail.com
                                                                          027 313 7909

                                                                         Henoch Kloosterboer
Phillip Duval                                                            Graphic Design
Home & Family – President                                                 contact@creed.nz
 president@homeandfamily.net.nz                                          021 725 845
 021 300 345
                                                                         Additional Image Credits
                                                                         Pg. 1, 23, Jo Currie

Val Carter                                                               Pg. 2, Fiona Tomlinson, Chrystal Chenery portrait
                                                                         Pg. 4, Christchurch City Libraries Archives, insert
Home & Family – Executive Director                                       Pg. 5, Lynne McCara Clark, insert
 021 0284 4270                                                          Pg. 8, Blend Images
                                                                         Pg. 11, Canterbury Museum, insert (a)
                                                                         Pg. 11, The Community of the Sacred Name, insert (b)
                                                                         Pg. 12, 13, background image, 17, Tegan Hollis-Ristrow
Eve Wingerath                                                            Pg. 14, Andriy Petrenko
                                                                         Pg. 16, 20, 21, William Fulton, sketches
Home & Family – Fundraising Manager                                      Pg. 16, Pick Digital, insert
 021 0262 0661                                                          Pg. 18, Lynne McCara Clark, insert
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