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                              ‘I see no
                            betrayal of
                          the old good
                        in striving for
                        the new good.’
                          David Firth
The Friend 'I see no betrayal of the old good in striving for the new good.' David Firth
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                       INDEPENDENT QUAKER JOURNALISM SINCE 1843

                               12 March 2021 | Volume 179, No 11
                                      www.thefriend.org

                                     News           4
                  YMG, Woodbrooke and more          Rebecca Hardy

                                         Letters    6

                                      Still life    8
                        A foundational element      David L Saunders

                         Thought for the week       9
                           Watching this space      Pat Carney-Ceccarelli

                        Meeting the challenge       10
                      Thinking about the future     Mary Aiston

                          Something to give         12
                     Remembering David Firth        Harry Albright & David Firth

                                      Review        14
                     The Life That Never Ends       Patsy Freeman

                                        Review      15
                          The Glorious Journey      Frank Regan

                                        Review      16
                                   Breathtaking     Nick Wilde

                                         Q Eye      17
                  The lighter side of Quaker life   Elinor Smallman

                           Friends & Meetings       18

 ‘In a meeting rightly held a new way may be discovered which none present had alone perceived
 and which transcends the differences of the opinions expressed. This is an experience of creative
insight, leading to a sense of the meeting which a clerk is often led in a remarkable way to record.
   Those who have shared this experience will not doubt its reality and the certainty it brings of
                    the immediate rightness of the way for the meeting to take.’
                                  From Quaker faith & practice 3.06
The Friend 'I see no betrayal of the old good in striving for the new good.' David Firth
News
                                                               ‘I have volunteered
                                                               to help the new Penn
                                                               Club committee at St
 news@thefriend.org                                            Katharine’s and hope to
                                                               attend future member
                                                               events just as a way of
                                                               keeping in touch.’

                                                                                                                           Julia Hargreaves
 Staff say goodbye as           final day. We all got made        The club was due to
 The Penn Club finds            redundant this morning.’       celebrate its centenary last
 new home                          ‘We had the idea of         year. It was opened by the
 The entire staff team at       continuing as a virtual        Friends Ambulance Unit
 the Quaker-founded guest       club but I am not sure         in 1920.
                                how that would have                                             The citation for the
 house The Penn Club
                                worked in practice. At         Quaker wins award for          award reads: ‘The idea
 was made redundant last
                                least now the club has a                                      that not only scientific
 week, only days after the                                     scientific modelling
                                physical location,’ he said.                                  results from geoscientific
 club revealed that it had                                     A Quaker from Settle
                                   According to a                                             models should be
 found a new home.                                             Meeting has won an
                                press release from                                            published, but also
    The historic                                               award for her contribution
                                The Penn Club, The                                            that the development
 Bloomsbury club                                               towards science.
                                Royal Foundation of St                                        and source code of
 announced last month                                             Julia Hargreaves was
                                Katharine dates back to                                       those models should be
 that, due to the                                              awarded the 2021 Union
                                the twelfth century and                                       reviewed, very much
 devastating effect of the                                     Service Award of the
                                shares a lot of values with                                   stems from Hargreaves.
 pandemic on its finances,                                     European Geosciences
                                the Club. ‘It provides a                                      Before GMD there was
 it would be forced to close                                   Union (EGU) for her
                                safe, comfortable place to                                    no space for geoscientific
 its doors at Bedford Place                                    scientific modeling. The
                                stay, set in lovely gardens                                   models to receive the
 by the end of March. No                                       Yorkshire Friend edited the
                                and with good transport                                       necessary level of peer-
 agreement could be found                                      EGU journal Geoscientific
                                links to central London.’                                     review scrutiny that
 with the landlords.                                           Model Development
                                   The Penn Club board                                        delivers open, transparent
    Fergal Crossan, former                                     (GMD) from 2008-19.
                                is recommending that                                          science, and model
 general manager, told                                            Julia Hargreaves told the
                                members move to                                               developers received little
 the Friend that he was                                        Friend that ‘a big driving
                                house membership at St                                        to no credit for their
 delighted that The                                            force’ for her work was the
                                Katharine’s. A Penn Social                                    work. Now, such a place
 Royal Foundation of St                                        ‘necessity to make climate
                                Committee will be formed,                                     exists with GMD, and the
 Katharine had ‘extended                                       science more open’. She
                                to continue organising                                        geosciences have hugely
 the hand of friendship’                                       said: ‘It is easy to be too
                                members’ events and                                           benefited from this
 by providing a new home                                       far ahead of your time
                                provide a link between the                                    endeavour.’
 for the club. He added:                                       and get ignored, and
 ‘Sadly the news does           old and new. It is planned     even ridiculed. However,
 not change the position        to install a special long      if you can take small          BYM announces
 for any of the staff here.     table in the dining room       steps always towards the       Yearly Meeting dates
 St Katharine’s are fully       for shared conversations.      goal, and take enough          Britain Yearly Meeting
 staffed. Like here, most of    Membership benefits of         people with you at each        (BYM) has announced
 their staff are furloughed     St Katharine’s include         step, then years later         the dates for the 2021
 at the moment. They have       discount on room               you can look back and          Yearly Meeting Gathering
 promised to keep in touch      rates, food, room hire,        see a revolution has,          (YMG) which will be held
 if anything opens up so I      and opportunities to           in fact, occurred. The         online due to the Covid-
 can pass the information       participate in courses and     surrounding structures         19 pandemic.
 on to the Penn Club team.      retreats.                      are important too. The           The event will be
 Technically today is my           Fergal Crossan said:        EGU is determined              spread over three weeks
                                                               in its “bottom-up”             instead of one. Main
                                                               attitude, always ready         business and worship will
                             WORDS                             to experiment with new         happen Friday to Sunday,
                                                               approaches. Despite all        30 July to 1 August, and
                                                                                              Friday 6 to Sunday 8
  ‘The carbon footprint
                                                               that, I had been feeling
                                                               unappreciated, and it          August. There will be
                                                               has restored my faith          sessions for children

      will be lower.’                                          in human nature to
                                                               see my contribution so
                                                                                              and young people from
                                                                                              Monday to Friday, 2 to
           Britain Yearly Meeting on the online                clearly perceived by my        6 August. During the
             2021 Yearly Meeting Gathering.                    colleagues.’                   three weeks beginning

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in mid-July there will be      this really developed in                            NUMBERS
opportunities to get used      2020. We have seen a lot

                                                                       18,000+
to online platforms, and       more people coming on
meet together in online        courses for the first time,
community spaces, from         including people who
reading and craft groups,      found Quakers during
to singing.                    the pandemic and our
   ‘This year, Covid-19        online worship. Feedback      Total attendance for Woodbrooke’s online worship in 2020.
presents a challenge and       suggests much greater
an opportunity. With           diversity in general,         assistant head, Outreach      is hosted on the Quaker
less travel and fewer          particularly age.’            and Co-curricular, and        Meetings Network, which
documents, the carbon             Woobrooke also ran         I offer my heartfelt          was launched in October
footprint will be lower. And   a series specifically for     congratulations to            2019 following the 2017
some may join online who       Friends in New Zealand        her and all colleagues        Yearly Meeting Gathering
would not be physically        and a second for all          involved in this area. We     in Warwick. Keith
able to attend in person’,     Friends across the Asia       are hugely proud of what      Walton, co-founder of the
BYM said in a statement.       and West Pacific Friends      has been achieved.’           initiative and member of
   Clare Scott Booth, clerk    World Committee for              The award also             Wandsworth Meeting, said
for YMG, said: ‘In this        Consultation (FWCC)           recognises other outreach     that a group of volunteers
very challenging time,         Section, as part of           work the school does          from all over the UK looked
how are we to live our         Woodbrooke Where              with local education          at many existing websites
testimonies to equality        You Are. The statement        settings. These include a     to gather ideas. Edwina
and truth? Join us at          says that Woodbrooke          partnership with Foundry      Hughes from the steering
Yearly Meeting Gathering       continues to face ‘huge       College Pupil Referral        group said: ‘Experiment
2021 as Quakers seek           financial challenges’.        Unit in Wokingham,            with Light is a Quaker
to determine what love                                       in which school               practice which is based on
requires of us.’               Leighton Park School          members have delivered        early Friends’ discoveries.
                               recognised for                weekly drumming and           It was devised in 1966 by
Big increase in                outreach work                 parkour sessions to KS2       Quaker and theologian Rex
attenders, says                The Quaker school             students excluded from        Ambler following his study
Woodbrooke                     Leighton Park has been        mainstream education          of early Friends’ writings.
The numbers of                 awarded the 2020 Award        and provided work             He wanted to discover what
people signing up for          for Outstanding Local         experience placements         it was that made them so
Woodbrooke courses             Community Involvement.        for KS4 students              sure, so centred, so willing
increased by over a third        The prize from the          interested in grounds and     to suffer privations to
in 2020, the Quaker            Independent Schools’          maintenance pathways.         keep alive their faith. He
centre has reported.Total      Association is in             ‘During lockdown, LP          discovered a process by
attendance for its online      recognition of the school’s   staff visited Foundry with    which the Light may be
worship in 2020 was also       outreach work, particularly   weekly donations of Lego,     accessed.’
more than 18,000.              during the pandemic.          books, garden equipment,         The meditations app
   ‘We have been really          Last Easter, the            refreshments and paint        has been designed and
encouraged by the              school founded a hub          for vulnerable students       developed by a Friend
engagement from Friends’,      partnership producing         attending school during       from Godalming Meeting,
it said. ‘Many new Friends,    free PPE for frontline        the pandemic.’                Alain Foussat. ‘After
Friends from across the        key workers from almost                                     seven years of trying to
world, and the Quaker-         500 organisations across      ‘Experiment with              get this project going,
curious are experiencing       Berkshire. The ‘Safer         Light’ launches website       we contacted Alain and
Woodbrooke for the first       Vision’ initiative brought    The steering group of the     a few months later our
time.’                         together eighteen partner     Quaker ‘Experiment with       app was released on
   Jon Martin,                 schools, three commercial     Light’ has launched a new     Apple App Store and the
communications manager         organisations and one         website and app.              Google Play Store,’ said
from Woodbrooke, told          university to create and         The free app can           Edwina Hughes. ‘We are
the Friend that course         dispatch over 39,000          be downloaded onto            delighted with the result:
participation increased by     face shields. £28,000         phones, and enables           a beautiful, simple-to-use
thirty-seven per cent, with    was raised through the        users to discover what        and practical app (it works
attenders coming from          GoFundMe crowd-               Experiment with Light         without internet access).
twenty-nine countries.         funding site                  is, where it comes from,      You can download it by
‘Woodbrooke has always           Head Matthew Judd           and how to join a group,      typing in “Experiment
been an internationally-       said: ‘The area has been      as well as accessing the      with Light” into either
minded institution, but        led by Natasha Coccia,        meditations. The website      store.’

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the Friend               Letters                               participating. There have been
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               Editorial               Last year David Gray, principal of    hundreds of miles across the east
   Articles, images, correspondence    Brummana High School (BHS) in         of England.
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        editorial@thefriend.org        Brummana Meeting, appealed to         crises in the country, there is little
     or sent to the address above.     Friends for support for families at   doubt the school is going to need
                                       the school affected by the terrible   more generous support in the
                Editor                 explosion in the summer, and the      coming months and years.
             Joseph Jones              wider economic problems this            As the principal David
              Journalist               country is facing.                    Gray consistently reminds the
           Rebecca Hardy                 We are really grateful that many    community: ‘We live in hope,
                                       Friends did respond, along with       however, and shall not give up.
    Production and office manager      other donors in Lebanon and
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              Sub-editor               the school families directly          a beacon of light and rebuild.’
           George Osgerby              affected by the devastating 4           Thank you very much for so
         Arts correspondent            August Beirut port explosion,         generously supporting Brummana
         Rowena Loverance              who tragically lost either their      High School families during such
     Environment correspondent         homes or their businesses.            desperate times.
          Laurie Michaelis               Thanks to you and the other         Will Haire
          Clerk of trustees            many donors those families can        Convenor, Fundraising Committee,
               Lis Birch               now be assured that their children    Quaker International Educational
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   The Friend Publications Limited     2020, over $130,000 for the Beirut    The 12 February edition of the
        is a registered charity,       fund as well as the bursary and       Friend has just reached me, and I
           number 211649               capital funds has been raised         have read the report about those
                                       from 175 donors across the world      objecting to HS2. As someone
                                       through our three donations           who for a period worked for the
                       Printed by      platforms in Lebanon, the UK and
                       Warners                                               rail industry, and is still involved
                                       the US.                               with TravelWatch NorthWest, I
                       Midlands Plc,     This campaign has been a truly
                       The Maltings,                                         suppose I am biased.
                                       remarkable community activity           A big part of the problem with
                       Manor Lane,     with students, staff, parents, old
                       Bourne,                                               HS2 is its name: many people
                                       scholars, trustees, governors         think the project is about getting
                       Lincolnshire    and friends of the school all
                       PE10 9PH                                              from London to points north

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more quickly – we can get there         differently based on some personal       that late date. Irenaeus was a most-
quickly enough already they say.        characteristic, as opposed to their      respected authority whose teacher,
But the greatest benefit of the         expertise or experience. That            Polycarp, was a disciple of the
project is creating more capacity       characteristic might be skin colour      author, John Mark. John certainly
on the railways, particularly for       or religious faith.                      claimed to be have been loved
freight trains, and, moreover, ones        It might equally be physical          personally by Jesus in life.
with electric locomotives hauling       ability, sexual orientation, status,       I would not claim that John
them. Is it not a good thing to         wealth, age, regional language (and      Mark was better informed on all
get diesel-engined heavy goods          plenty more). Part of our biological     of Jesus’ life, only the last three
vehicles (HGVs) replaced by             programming is to react against          years in Jerusalem. John’s Greek is
electric trains?                        anything different. Therefore it is      not ‘sophisticated’; it is plain, good
  Living in Carlisle I often see the    difficult to train ourselves not to      classical Greek.
daily ‘Tesco train’ come through.       discriminate.                              He certainly does not present
This one train takes forty HGVs           We may believe that we are all         Jesus as the incarnation of the
off the M6. Once the first part of      born equal, children of God, but         Greek logos. Rather he recognised
HS2 is completed there will be          until we see every person just as a      that the reverence of the Ephesians
many more opportunities for such        person, we have not mastered our         for the doctrine of their great
rail movements.                         instinct to discriminate. Putting        forebear, Heraclitus, who called
  Do the objectors to HS2 really        our belief into practice is not easy.    the origin of all things in the world
disapprove of the transfer of freight     So our prayers and support             ho logos, bore resemblance to the
from road to rail, and from diesel      should go to all at Friends House        Jewish reverence for Yahweh (not
power to electricity?                   involved in this breakdown of            Jesus) as Creator. Great preachers
Ian K Watson                            relationships. May they heal what        begin by finding common ground
Cumberland Area Meeting                 can be healed and learn from the         with their congregation.
                                        experience.                                John had lived long enough in
Friends House accused                   Geoff Pilliner                           Ephesus to recognise the need to
I was saddened to read of the           Alton Meeting, Hampshire                 do so.
breakdown of relationships and                                                   Elaine Miles
accusations of discrimination by        Question of racism                       Jordans Meeting, Buckinghamshire
race and religion at Friends House      I think we are starting to have
(26 February).                          too much of ‘a sinner that I am’         Sheep and goats
   But I was also concerned over        attitude on the question of racism.      Whenever the ‘overseer, episkopos,
how to react to this report. Should     Hoonie Feltham (22 January)              bishop, crook, shepherd, pastor’
I be pleased at the openness that       wrote: ‘A question struck me “Am         sequence comes up, I’m reminded
led to the publishing of this news,     I a racist?” The inescapable answer      of my upbringing on a sheep farm
angry that we are ‘washing our          was “Yes”.’                              in County Durham.
dirty linen in public’, or curious         So what is the definition of a          The main function of a
about the motivation behind             racist that we Quakers mostly            shepherd’s crook is to catch the leg
publishing this news item? One          accept? The Cambridge dictionary         or neck of a sheep that’s running
thing is clear: the Society of          says ‘someone who believes that          away from you.
Friends is potentially no better        their race makes them better, more         Of course, good shepherds do
than anyone else in dealing with        intelligent, more moral, etcetera        care greatly for their flocks, but we
discrimination.                         than people of other races and           should bear in mind that the point
   We should not make judgements        who does or says unfair or harmful       of a flock of sheep is wool, and
based on the report. We were not        things as a result’.                     milk, and leather, and meat.
involved. We can ask whether the           According to that, Hoonie is not        Terry Pratchett considered the
line managers would have treated        a racist.                                shepherding metaphor for religion
a white person the same as the          Eric Walker                              in his novel Small Gods. What if,
person of colour.                       Ipswich Meeting, Suffolk                 he asks, the central metaphor was
   Equally, we can ask whether the                                               instead goat herding? Sheep, he
claimant would have responded           John’s gospel                            suggests, are stupid and must be
in the same way to a line manager       The fourth gospel was written near       driven (that’s something of a slur
of colour as she responded to a         the end of the first century, but its    on sheep), but goats are intelligent
white line manager. If the answer       author had been just a youth at the      and must be led.
to both questions is no, then no        time of the crucifixion, which he        Keith Braithwaite
discrimination is evident.              alone of the disciples witnessed,        Marple Meeting, Greater
   Discrimination is treating people    and he lived, as Irenaeus tells us, to   Manchester

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                                      Still life: David
                                                                                 ’m always disappointed when I hear the
                                                                                 emphasis in descriptions of our worship put on
                                                                                 ‘silence’; I am always encouraged when I hear the
                                      L Saunders on a                            emphasis put on ‘stillness’. The one is essentially
                                                                                 negative: the absence of words. The other is

                                      foundational element                       positive: it is about presence and being. Silence is
                                                                                 the easy bit, it’s about what isn’t there. Stillness is
                                                                                 the hard bit, it’s about what is there. Silence is an
                                                                                 acoustic condition; stillness is about our state of

                                      ‘Silence is an acoustic
                                                                   being. The former is the means but the latter is the end.
                                                                       Our contemporary culture is so noisy that silence can be
                                                                   a blessing in itself, but spiritually it only gets us part way.
                                      condition; stillness is      True stillness takes us beyond silence, below words, to our
                                                                   deepest centre. Early Friends knew this. Of the fourteen
                                      about our state of being.’   references to stillness in Quaker faith & practice, several are
                                                                   from our early days. ‘Be still and cool in thy own mind…
                                                                   Stand still and cease from thine own working’, said George
                                                                   Fox; ‘Sit down in pure stillness’, Alexander Parker; William
                                                                   Penn wrote of the ‘Still, small voice that speaks to us in this
                                                                   day’; James Naylor cautioned us to ‘stand still and act not’.
                                                                       So stillness was a central, foundational element in Quaker
                                                                   worship and experience. Jesus models the balance between
                                                                   full-on action and engagement with times of retreat. We too
                                                                   need to make space in our lives to recharge our batteries.
                                                                   We can learn to do this, to create space to hear that ‘Still
                                                                   small voice’. Small acts of kindness and compassion reveal
                                                                   the eternal is here present among us. Those ‘thin’ places,
                                                                   where the ‘now’ and the ‘beyond’ meet are not just on
                                                                   mountain tops but can be all around us if we cultivate the
                                                                   eye to discern them.
                                                                       Over the centuries, contemplatives and mystics have
                                                                   known, and sought to attain, a state of stillness. Do we still
                                                                   know and experience this? And how do we move from
                                                                   silence to stillness? Perhaps the clue is in that time-worn
                                                                   phrase ‘The practice of the presence of God’. Many of our
                                                                   achievements in life come about through hard work and
                                                                   practice. Athletic prowess involves the discipline of regular
                                                                   exercise. Musical and artistic excellence is built on hours
                                                                   of repetitive practice. The same applies to the things of the
                                                                   spirit. So perhaps what we need is the spiritual equivalent
                                                                   of the athlete’s workout routine. Making a regular space in
                                                                   our lives to put our busy minds on hold, giving priority to
                                                                   being. This may seem a self-indulgent luxury when there
                                                                   is so much to do – so many needs to be met; so many
                                                                   injustices to be confronted. Our Protestant heritage leans
                                                                   more towards ‘doing’ than ‘being; perhaps the Catholic
                                                                   heritage makes more room for the latter. The one is
                                                                   outward, and a necessary part of our social witness, but the
                                                                   other is inward and provides the engine power for action.
Photo by serge vorobets on Unsplash

                                                                       Many Friends find inspiration in the teachings of Richard
                                                                   Rohr and the institution he founded, the Centre for Action
                                                                   and Contemplation. Action and contemplation are not
                                                                   alternatives but complementary – it’s not a case of either/or,
                                                                   it’s both/and. During a retreat a priest once summarised for
                                                                   me the Jesuit pattern of prayer: ‘I’m here, you’re here, thank
                                                                   you, sorry, help.’ So prayer starts with ‘being’, with a sense
                                                                   of presence. So let us ‘mind’ the stillness, seek the place of
                                                                   being, the place of encounter, the place of power. n

                                                                   David is from Norfolk & Waveney Area Meeting.

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                                   Thought for the week:
                                                                                           ur spirituality and our mental
                                                                                           health are equally rooted
                                                                                           in our personal experience.
                                   Pat Carney-Ceccarelli                                   During times of personal and
                                                                                           collective upheaval, can we

                                   watches this space                                      make space for each other
                                                                                           in our Quaker practice?
                                                                                           Space that might transcend
                                                                                           ordinary conversations into

                                   ‘Today we are graced
                                                              truly compassionate ones? Space for humbly sharing
                                                              experiences like grief, shame, anger, pettiness and
                                                              irritation, as well as the supreme grace of compassion
                                   with new tools to          and gratitude? This matters so much when feelings of
                                                              unworthiness upend us, or when great losses shake our

                                   access in each other       foundations. Struggling for meaning can leave us barren
                                                              and dry.

                                   the potential for shared
                                                                 Perhaps like George Fox we feel that only Jesus can
                                                              speak to our condition, and we can find comfort in our
                                                              direct access to Spirit. But others may be in need, and can
                                   healing and growth.’       find connections in sharing, if we reach out. Or perhaps
                                                              we affirm that we can have direct access to a transforming
                                                              experience of Divine revelation. As Quakers living today
                                                              we might experience a dynamic faith and practice that is
                                                              moving and transformative. Our ways of accessing each
                                                              other have evolved since those days in the seventeenth
                                                                                             century when authoritarian
                                                              ‘We are learning systems were challenged
                                                                                             by those seeking authentic
                                                              about trauma,                  spiritual experience. Today
                                                              and finding                    we are graced with new tools
                                                                                             to access in each other the
                                                              ways to healing                potential for shared healing
                                                              and wholeness.’                and growth. The ‘I and Thou’
                                                                                             of relational willingness to
                                                              share and patiently stand with each other can increase the
                                                              spaces for spiritual growth as we move on.
                                                                 We have tools from psychology and psychotherapy, plus
                                                              the mindfulness techniques so embraced in Buddhism,
                                                              as well as ways of finding our embodiment of wholeness
                                                              in movement: dance, yoga, qigong and other body work.
                                                              We have increasing sharing of sacred practices and
                                                              knowledge of indigenous cultures that we might draw
                                                              upon. Quakers are no longer excluded from creative
                                                              expressions like painting, drawing, photography, poetry,
                                                              and the performing arts. These are all an unfolding of the
                                                              creative life force.
                                                                 We grow in awareness through our work on white
                                                              privilege, recognising the arrogances of the white middle
                                                              class, through the challenging work of Quaker Peace
                                                              & Social Witness. We understand more about our
Photo by Toa Heftiba on Unsplash

                                                              contributions to the environment, and seek together better
                                                              ways to safeguard it. We are learning about trauma, and
                                                              finding ways together towards healing and wholeness.
                                                                 The Covid-19 pandemic and volatile political and
                                                              economic eruptions have forced us into time for reflection
                                                              and urged us towards solutions. Perhaps time is ripe for
                                                              us to embrace more fully the opening of our tender hearts
                                                              and share what love requires of us. n

                                                              Pat is a member of Jesus Lane Meeting, Cambridge.

                                                                                              the Friend 12 March 2021 9
The Friend 'I see no betrayal of the old good in striving for the new good.' David Firth
Meeting the challenge: All Friends
 in an Area Meeting need to think
 about its future, says Mary Aiston

 ‘I hope we will not just leave these
 issues to our trustees – we should
 all be taking an interest.’

I
              s your Area Meeting (AM) a vibrant and            other charity. The exception from registration was due
              thriving spiritual community? What will           to run out on 31 March 2021, but this deadline has been
              your AM look like in five years’ time? Ten        extended to 31 March 2031. This extension is intended
              years’, twenty? What proportion of your AM’s      to give excepted charities time to prepare for registration
              energy, money and capacity is spent running       and to allow the Charity Commission time to register all
              the AM itself? Is it easy to find Friends to      excepted organisations in a coordinated way.
              serve as trustees?                                   It would be understandable if trustees of excepted
                 If you were already thinking about these       AMs breathed a sigh of relief at this point, and
              questions then read on. If you were not, now      prioritised other work. But I hope they won’t do that,
 would be a good time to start. Why not begin by asking         or at least not just yet. Instead, I hope all Friends in
 to see your AM’s most recent trustees’ annual report and       excepted Area Meetings will take the opportunity for
 accounts, or speak to one of your AM trustees?                 prayerful consideration of how they operate, because if
    Our trustees do an important job, ensuring: that our        Friends want to make any changes to their structures it
 resources are properly stewarded; that risks are identified    is easier to do that before the AM has to register.
 and managed; that we understand our financial position;           It is important to remember that, while thinking
 and that we plan for the future. We are lucky to have so       about how AMs work raises lots of practical issues,
 many Friends willing to take on this role. As a member         for Friends this is always a spiritual exercise requiring
 of Quaker Stewardship Committee, which reports to              prayer and discernment.
 Yearly Meeting and provides support and advice to                 It can be difficult to know where to start but these
 trustees, I have met some fantastic Friends who give           may be useful prompts:
 their time in these roles, but I hope we will not just leave
 these issues to our trustees – we should all be taking an      •   Is your AM a vibrant and thriving spiritual
 interest.                                                          community?
    What follows is primarily of interest to Friends in         •   What will your AM look like in five years’ time, in
 England and Wales because the rules are different in               ten years, in twenty years?
 Scotland. Nineteen AMs have been excepted from
 having to register with the Charity Commission. That           •   What proportion of your AM’s energy, money and
 is because the government has extended the deadline                capacity is spent on running the AM itself?
 for excepted charities to register, and we have a choice       •   Is it easy to find Friends willing to serve as trustees
 about how we use that breathing space.                             for your AM?
    In England and Wales, an Area Meeting is an excepted
 charity if its income is £100,000 or less. It must comply       Once you have considered those questions you
 with charity law but does not need to register with the        may be ready to focus on how your AM is organised;
 Charity Commission or submit annual returns there. Its         •   Are there other options for organising your AM
 trustees have the same responsibilities as trustees of any         that would make it easier to run?

10 the Friend 12 March 2021
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•   Are there other options that would make it easier to      thinking about it. Briefly, the benefits include limiting
    find Friends to serve as trustees?                        the legal liability on individual trustees, which might
                                                              make it easier to find Friends willing to serve as trustees.
If you are not sure what options might be available to           The drawbacks are the work involved in becoming
you, the good news is that other Friends are already          incorporated, which is likely to require legal advice and
thinking about these issues and identifying different         changes to bank accounts. AMs that have converted to
ways forward.                                                 CIOs have found that it has made little difference to
   Meetings have much more permission to do things            their ongoing administration or governance.
differently than people sometimes think. For example,            Of course, not all excepted AMs will decide they
the centrally-run Simpler Meetings Project aims to find       want to change their structures. But if you do then it
ways to reduce the burden on key role holders and its         is easier to do that before registering with the Charity
                             webpage (www.quaker.org.         Commission, so now is a good time to be thinking
                                                              about this.
‘The good news uk/simplermeetings) is a great                    And if your excepted AM decides not to make any
                             place to look for ideas.
is that other                  Friends in Wales are           changes then I would still recommend that you keep a
                                                              focus on the work needed to register with the Charity
Friends are                  exploring  the scope for a
                                                              Commission.
                             single trustee body and
already thinking single charity for Meeting of                   Most of what is needed is good practice for all
about these                  Friends in Wales.                charities – in particular, agreeing a schedule of the
                               Friends in London              property your AM owns, and documenting your
issues.’                     recognise that their structure   relationship with any linked charities. Your successors
                             of nine charities involves a     will be very grateful you kept this work moving!
lot of work. It means that, out of around 1,300 London           If this all sounds rather daunting then the good news
Friends, they have to find sixty-seven trustees and forty-    is that there is help available. The Quakers in Britain
seven treasurers.                                             website has lots of information (including more on
    One option is a single charity with one set of trustees   CIOs). Go to www.quaker.org.uk/trustees. The model
for the whole of London while keeping the seven Area          documents referred to are available from Neil Jarvis at
Meetings. But that is not the only option, others are         qsc@quaker.org.uk.
being considered too. In other parts of the country              You can also get help from your Quaker Stewardship
neighbouring AMs are exploring different ways to              Committee Link Friend. Clerks to AM trustees should
collaborate, or merging altogether.                           know who this is, and Neil Jarvis can help put you in
   Another big question to think about is whether             touch. Members of Quaker Stewardship Committee
your AM wants to become a Charitable Incorporated             look forward to hearing from you. n
Organisation or CIO (SCIOs in Scotland). Some AMs
have already gone down this route and others are              Mary is from Quaker Stewardship Committee.

                                                                                              the Friend 12 March 2021 11
David Firth, former editor of the
Friend, died last month. Harry
Albright, one of his successors,
remembers some of David’s fine
commentaries
‘You do not need to be an expert, or a
bishop, or a journalist, to write in the
Friend, but its readers do expect you to
speak directly of what you have seen.’

                                                            ‘A
I was very sad to learn of the death of David Firth,                                 n interesting suggestion came
one of my predecessors at the Friend.                                                from a reader a few weeks
   David was always very supportive of me as a young                                 ago, that we might regularly
editor. He lived not far from Friends House and                                      publish short pieces of more or
would often visit. He was always very kind, and he                                   less verbatim ministry which
was aware of how the job had changed since his time,                                 had been heard in a Friends
as Britain Yearly Meeting became more diverse in                                     Meeting and found particularly
matters of theology (or lack thereof!). He appreciated                               valuable. It was a pity, he felt,
the challenge for his successors in trying to balance                                that such things should not be
the various views in a (forlorn) attempt to please          more widely shared.
everyone!                                                      I must confess that my frivolous mind conjured up the
   He would often greet me by saying something like:        heading ‘Gems of Ministry’, somewhat in the Reader’s
‘Amongst the many excellent items in the Friend             Digest style, perhaps with a decorative border. But in my
recently…å’ and go on to highlight something that           reply I agreed that many fine utterances can be heard in
he felt was particularly good. Sometimes (I blush to        Meeting; and indeed we do occasionally receive short
say) it was one of my commentaries. I took this as the      pieces which the writers say arose from ministry, and
highest praise, because in fact it was David who was        which it seems right to print.
the master of the commentary in the Friend. In his             Many Friends might share my hesitations over
sixteen years of service, he honed the editor’s             encouraging a flow of such pieces, however. It is partly
commentary into a fine art, and a collection of some        a matter of keeping in proportion the whole idea of
of his best, Familiar Friend, was published in book         spoken ministry. Even if it is inspiring and speaks to our
form in 1982.                                               condition it is only a part of what Quaker Meetings are
   Here is some of his work, containing many principles     about. We do not go to meeting ‘to hear the ministry’
to which the Friend still tries to adhere. The issues are   in the way that (I hope) many chapelgoers go in
familiar even now. The last two extracts are from his       anticipation of a good sermon. Much of the ministry in
final commentaries as editor. They reveal an openness       Meeting cannot be heard at all.
and generosity of spirit that was a gift to the reader         Then there is our conviction that a true piece of
and a model for those of us who tried to step meekly        ministry is something given – given indeed by God. It
into his footsteps.                                         is given to a particular group of people on a particular
   David was a kind, gentle man and an excellent            occasion. Such ministry is sui generis, and it might not
journalist. I was proud to call him a colleague and         be right to take it and use the words in another context.
a friend, with both a small and capital F. I will miss         My final hesitation will be understood by other editors
him.                                                        of religious journals, as we have all at times received
                                                            contributions – usually verse – which the writers tell
Harry was editor of the Friend 1997–2004.                   us was dictated to them by a Voice. The Voice has also

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told the writer to send it to our particular journal and    ‘You do not need to be an expert, or a bishop, or a
for that reason he or she expects us to publish it in       journalist, to write in the Friend, but its readers do
the next issue. Such divine arm-twisting is just not        expect you to speak directly of what you have seen,
fair, and at the risk of committing a considerable sin,     done, found, felt. And therefore believe. Most valued
we treat such offerings according to normal editorial       of all, after we have looked abroad and at our national
criteria.                                                   affairs, are those personal revelations of religious
  In spite of all these hesitations, I am sure that         doubts, discoveries, hesitations and leaps forward.
many of our most valuable articles – especially those       “Return home to within,” said Francis Howgill, “sweep
of a ‘devotional’ nature – do have their origin in          your houses all, the groat is there, the little leaven is
                             the thoughts of a Friend       there, the grain of mustard-seed you will see, which
‘I see no                    sitting in Meeting. We         the Kingdom of God is like.” Amid all our willing
                             cherish the story of the       coverage of Quaker business and busyness it will likely
betrayal of the              Quaker who over Sunday         be some simple, sincerely shared “opening”, in letter or
old good in                  lunch remarked, ‘I was just    article or poem, that pierces our dullness with a shaft
                             thinking in Meeting…’ only     of Truth.’
striving for the             to be admonished by an
new good.’                   elder, ‘Friend, thee should
                             not have been thinking in      ‘I write these last words with a full heart. Working
Meeting!’ Though the story has a point, thought is not      for the Friend has been for me a spiritual enrichment.
simply to be banished like this from our weekly hour        This enrichment has come partly from a modest
together. Surely God speaks to us there in thoughts,        broadening of my religious understanding; but mainly
which are not always for sharing on the spot. Seeds are     it is what I have learned from those who make up the
sown, which may after a lot more thinking come to           present body of Quakers. I never felt hesitant in giving
fruit in the written word.                                  space to the most diverse views, if I could sense that
  Those articles are a wonder to me. We never get           these Friends were writing from the heart.
many of that kind, but one always seems to float in at         In my second Commentary, feeling a need to
the right moment, unbidden. In fact one cannot ask          introduce myself, I wrote: “I am equally at home with
even the most practised Friend to sit down and ‘write       the speakers of God-language (of which I myself speak
us a “devotional”’ – their finest thoughts tend to turn     a remote dialect) and with those who must use other
to ashes and they resort to ‘conned and gathered stuff ’.   terms. I see no betrayal of the old good in striving
Better to wait. Time after time someone or other feels      for the new good. And I expect Friends to love one
a strong impulse to share their thoughts with us all,       another.” After sixteen years, I still feel that way; above
often very personal searchings, and often from an           all the last bit’. n
individual who has never written for us before and
may never contribute again. Bless them for doing so.’       David was editor of the Friend 1974–1990.

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                                                           his is a delightful anthology of
The Life That Never Ends: An                               Friends’ experiences. For ease of
anthology of Quaker spiritual/                             reading, it is arranged under different
                                                           headings: ‘As Death Approaches’,
psychic experience, by Quaker                              ‘After Death Communications’, ‘Near
                                                           Death Experiences’, ‘Animals and
Fellowship for Afterlife Studies                           Afterlife’, and there are also some
                                                           miscellaneous experiences.
                                                             In ‘As Death Approaches’, Doreen

Review by Patsy
                                   Varley tells us about her husband Joe, who was coming
                                   towards the end of his life. Adopting a state of mindfulness,
                                   Doreen began tuning into him, and found she could tell
Freeman                            whether or not Joe needed her. She sensed a glowing
                                   presence around his feet. This glow continued until his
                                   entire body was a ‘Being of Light’. He died very peacefully.
                                      There are also a number of interesting after-death
                                   communications. Sylvia Izzard tells us about the occasion
                                   after the death of her husband Jim, when a friend of his
                                   visited. As they were talking about Jim, all the lights fused.
                                   Problems with the lighting continued. One evening in
                                   desperation, Sylvia and a friend lit a candle and spoke
                                   to Jim, asking him not to worry and to please solve the
                                   lighting problems. From then on there were no issues.
                                      John Philps recounts an occasion after his wife died.
                                   He was driving to Kent when he felt himself lifting up,
                                   surrounded and embraced by love. He knew it was his wife.
                                   At the end of the lane was a crossroads – the exact place he
                                   and his wife had visited on their last day out. He describes
                                   it as ‘mind-blowing’; it showed him that love is never lost.
                                      In the section on near-death experiences, Rosalind Smith
                                   gives an interesting account of a lady who, whenever she
                                   hears an ambulance, sends up a mental prayer, or thought,
                                   for the person involved. It goes something like: ‘If this
                                   person is not going to recover, then please let their passing
                                   be pain-free, gentle and peaceful – and if they are going to
                                   recover then let their recovery be full and complete, and
                                   may they have no debilitating after effects.’ One day she was
                                   passing a road accident and she sent up her usual prayer.
                                   Sometime later, at a gathering, a stranger came up to her
                                   and said that she had been looking for her. ‘I almost died
                                   in a road accident, but what saved me was you being there,
                                   and receiving the thoughts you sent up for me.’
                                      Four months after she died, my daughter Jasmine began
                                   communicating with me telepathically. She made her
                                   presence felt in any number of different ways; one occasion
                                   was when a heavy brass lamp that hangs from the ceiling,
                                   began to swing backwards and forwards. My grandson,
                                   Harry, was staying at the time. They were both very close.
                                   I’m sure she did this to show him that Auntie Jasmine’s
                                   presence was with us. The signs she sent enabled me to
                                   return to life with renewed enthusiasm.
                                      My own sense after reading this anthology is that it will
                                   serve to open hearts and minds – enough to at least remain
                                   open to the great mystery that surrounds death; and the
                                   possibilities of there being a Spirit form after the body dies.
                                   May this anthology also instil new confidence in those
                                   wanting to share their own insights, but who may have felt
                                   reluctant because of their fears of ridicule or rejection. n

                                   Patsy is the author of In Search of You: Letters to a daughter.

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The Glorious
                                did not have the good fortune to see the film
                                on which this book is based. Its principal
                                characters are Joseph Aloisius Ratzinger, then
Journey, by Liam                pope, and Jorge Bergoglio, the current pope
                                (then cardinal). It starred Anthony Hopkins as

Kelly                           Ratzinger and Jonathan Pryce as Bergoglio.
                                  The plot is simply a visit to Ratzinger by
                                Bergoglio to discuss the latter’s retirement. The
                                visit is fictitious. It gives the writer the possibility

Review by Frank
                   of blending artistic license, fact, fiction and imagination on
                   the basis of actual events and concrete personalities.
                      The film is a rare piece of work. It is not often that
Regan              theological discussion and spiritual experience find a place
                   in popular entertainment. The conversations are far from
                   arcane theological discourse – the themes are at the heart of
                   being human: forgiveness, mercy, loneliness, suffering.
                      The film is pro-Bergoglio, but we are not viewing
                   a verbal joust between good pope and bad pope. The
                   opinions expressed are not outlandishly conservative
                   or progressive. There is no theological sparring. It is a
                   dialogue between two leaders from two different worlds,
                   two different pastoral experiences, two different points of
                   departure, being of the same generation and faith tradition.
                      The book is very practical, a manual for discussion
                   alongside the film. Each chapter starts with a viewing of
                   a short segment, followed by a quotation; then comes an
                   exploration of the theme, ending with a prayer.
                      The first chapter is entitled ‘The Journey’. This is a
                   favourite of mine, perhaps because I am near the end of
                   mine and am in need of a few pointers. Our author refers
                   to Jeremiah who heard God say to him, ‘Before I formed
                   you in the womb I knew you’. God and I go back a long
                   time. There is a bit of Abraham too: ‘Leave your country,
                   your kindred and your father’s house for a country I shall
                   show you’. On my journey I acted from time to time like
                   the prodigal son, but God was prodigal of mercy and
                   compassion. Bergoglio says ‘We have to keep journeying…
                   Don’t spend your life sitting on a couch’. There is more than
                   one way to journey nowadays, via memory and prayer. And
                   the couch will serve as wheelless chariot.
                      Another favourite chapter is the one on loneliness. We
                   are millions of people here in the UK who live on our
                   own. We spend our days teetering between the sadness of
                   loneliness and the joy of solitude. Are we alone or are we
                   lonely? Life is cruel in taking away those we love. It leaves
                   us wondering how it will be, waiting each day for the final
                   consummation.
                      Loneliness is the inability to experience the presence of
                   God. In his memoirs, Jean-Paul Sartre wrote that there is
                   a God-shaped hole in the heart of each one of us. Blaise
                   Pascal said that within each one of us is a space only God
                   can fill. Psalm 42 connects to our downcast soul and invites
                   us within to plumb to where ‘Deep speaks unto deep’.
                      Other chapters talk about love, change, mercy and
                   listening. This is not a book for our Vaticanologists. There
                   is no curial gossip or prelates’ backstabbing. Two human
                   beings meet in a mode of ‘I and Thou’. It is good to listen
                   and then to ruminate and meditate. n

                   Frank is from Newton Abbot Meeting.

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Breathtaking: Inside
                                                      his book is about faith. Not faith in
                                                      God, but faith in medicine, and faith
                                                      in one’s fellow professionals.
the NHS in a time of                                    ‘You have to promise me
                                                      something… you’ll make sure you
pandemic, by Rachel Clark                             won’t catch it. You, the nurses, all of
                                                      you here.’ This is from one of two
                                                      sons watching their father die. It is
                                                      a poignant start to this story of the

Review by Nick Wilde
                              coronavirus by Rachel Clarke, who writes in the night
                              when she can’t sleep. She chronicles the development of
                              the pandemic from its start in China, where the alarm
                              was raised and suppressed, to its rapid spread across the
                              world, fuelled by international travel and connectivity.
                              Her husband is an airline pilot, and the link is not lost;
                              indeed Rachel succumbs to the virus and is very ill.
                                 Those who have read Dear Life will know that Rachel
                              believes in a good death. One patient, Steve, was able to
                              watch one last Chelsea match on television, with his son,
                              on New Year’s Day. Then there’s the man assiduous about
                              handwashing and mask-wearing, unwittingly shaking
                              hands with an old friend who reveals after the visit that
                              he hasn’t felt well. Within days Ken is in intensive care.
                              As the virus progresses across Europe to the UK the
                              government response is ‘breathtakingly’ too little and too
                              late. The NHS responds to the changing circumstances
                              despite the austerity-imposed reductions in beds and staff.
                                 The inability to accompany relatives on what may be
                              their last journey is tragic. There are many sitting in their
                              cars watching the hospital they cannot enter. For the very
                              best of reasons the very worst is happening. To read about
                              the medical procedures brings it all home. When Rachel
                              gets home she does not greet the children but rushes
                              up stairs to ‘scrub every speck of infection away’. Her
                              daughter is upset. “‘Work-life balance” doesn’t come close
                              to capturing the forcefulness with which medicine clashes
                              with parenthood.’
                                 When the first doctor dies we learn about the
                              staggering number of deaths among the medical
                              profession, and the equally-staggering lack of proper PPE.
                                 A daughter sits at the kitchen table writing a diary of
                              her father’s treatment so he can read it when he comes
                              home – as she has to believe he will. It is an act of faith.
                              He, a man of deep faith, has the church community
                              supporting his family.
                                 Rachel notices the spontaneous willingness to help of
                              so many people who give their time to helping others;
                              the innate ability with which a young student nurse
                              communicates with the daughter of a patient critical
                              on a ventilator. A few weeks later Rachel is sitting with
                              father and daughter in the garden. A marvellous outcome
                              compared with what nearly was.
                                 Her honesty is in contrast to the politicians who
                              bamboozle us with pseudoscientific statistics and what
                              has been called ‘number theatre’.
                                 A lot of this makes grim reading but the quality of the
                              writing carries you along. Rachel Clarke is an excellent
                              writer and communicator. n

                              Nick is from Hampshire and Islands Area Meeting.

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                                                           stitching strength, love    mainly textile, panels.
                                                           and hope and says: “We         The panels were

eye@thefriend.org
                                                           are the makers of our       ‘influenced by the beauty
                                                           own future.”                of nature, the horrors of
                                                              ‘Creating through        the Holocaust, the need
                                                           hope allows us to           for clean air, protection
                                                           work on ourselves as        of pollinators…
                                                           we work for a better        [and] will be joined
A pop of pep                   Craftivism in               world. We reflected         together while we
An episode of BBC1’s           constrained times           on what most touched        ourselves wait to
Bargain Hunt, which            A recent all-age Meeting
                                                           our hearts in terms of      gather in person to
aired on 19 February,          for Worship inspired
                                                           positive changes we         explore our ideas
saw a former student of        Friends in Winchester
                                                           would like to see in the    further and consider
a Quaker school snap           to flex their creative
                               muscles.                    world and how               how we might become
up a bottle of pop with
                                 Clarissa Palmer,          those ideas could be        crafty activists’.
Friendly associations at
Oswestry Showground.           from Winchester             transformed into clear         Clarissa reflected:
   Bargain Hunt sees           Meeting’s Children          messages using craft        ‘During these difficult
pairs of contestants           and Young People’s          forms.’                     times making something
challenged to buy three        Committee, told Eye            Friends were inspired:   by hand, generated by
objects in an hour and         about the session, held     some drew, some             positive thoughts, was
then make a profit by          via Zoom.                   looked through their        uplifting. Craftivism
selling them at auction.         ‘Inspired by Craftivism   recycling for materials,    is a form of activism that
   Ten minutes into the        and the Loving Earth        one created a creature      seems particularly suited
show, with only twenty         Project we considered       from an abandoned           to these constrained
minutes of shopping            the words of Betsy Greer,   glove found during a        times when gathering en
time left, a bottle of         “godmother” to activist     lockdown walk, while        masse to seek to effect
‘Quaker Pep’ was spied         crafters, who sees in       others fashioned small,     change is not possible.’
by one team’s expert. The
label shows a miner in
a flat cap quenching his
thirst with a refreshing,
non-intoxicating, swig.
   Auctioned by Charles
Hansen in Staffordshire,
the pep pocketed the
team a £4 profit.
   The quirky Quaker
find was produced by
Howell Davies & Co,
based in Abercynon in
Wales, in the 1920s, and
reflects efforts by the
Temperance Movement
to urge people to turn
away from alcohol.
   How flavourful this
particular pop was is
anyone’s guess, as the
label is less than specific:
                               Photo: Pendella Buchanan.

‘An imperial beverage
blending nature’s aids
to health.’ However,
Friends can be reassured
that it proudly boasts
‘a well-known analyst’s
report’ determined the
drink to be ‘a perfectly
wholesome beverage’.

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life when allowed. Enquiries:            days at the Friend.                     Ashford by train every Tuesday
deirdremorris88@gmail.com                                                        morning to layout the galley proofs
                                         Many Friends will have their own        and proofread the final artwork.
Kathleen HAINES 25 February,             memories of David; previous             Headley’s provided a small ‘cubby-
peacefully. Member of Abingdon           contributors, former trustees, other    hole’ office for the Friend, a tiny
Meeting, formerly Colchester.            colleagues and obviously members        oasis of calm in the busy printworks.
                                         of Friends House Meeting. I can’t
Mary SHEPPARD 2 March, peace-                                                    After David’s final sign-off, the
                                         imagine anyone not liking and
fully. Widow of Kenneth, mother                                                  Friend went to print on Tuesday
of Richard, Melanie and Dianne.          respecting him.
                                                                                 night to be mailed to subscribers
Member of Beverley Meeting and               I remember David fondly from
                                         my early days at the Friend. My         and distributed to wholesalers on
attendee at Scarborough, previously                                              Wednesday morning.
of Bridlington, Bradford and Halifax.    job interview in 1989 was held in
Aged 98. Donations: Quaker Peace &       his room, but with David more             Another routine was David’s
Social Witness.                          host than interviewer. In Drayton       monthly trip to the hairdresser,
                                         House, the offices had been likened     I believe at Horne Brothers
Memorial meetings                        to a ‘private detective’s office in a   menswear on Regent Street. David
                                         1930s B-movie’. The telephone dials     seemed to like a regulated life, or
Joyce Isabel CROSFIELD widow             still carried the number EUSton         maybe he just accepted the yoke;
of Edward Chorley. A memorial                                                    his daily lunch at The Penn Club,
                                         7549, a format superseded in 1958!
meeting will be held by Zoom on
                                             David exuded an air of calm         the weekly routine of the Friend,
Saturday March 20 at 6pm GMT.
Unless you already have, please          competence and had a quiet,             the monthly round of Meeting for
contact johnecrosfield@gmail.com         sensitive spirituality. He had come     Sufferings (and his barber), and
if you wish to attend.                   to the Friend in 1974 after working     the annual event of Yearly Meeting.
                                         with George Gorman in the                  He was a gentle man with a wide
Diary                                    Outreach section of Quaker Home         range of knowledge and a sense
                                         Service. The previous editor was        of whimsy. I was surprised by the
ABOUT TIME TO BE QUIET                   wanting to retire and the trustees      colourful clothes he was wearing at
North West Regional Gathering,           of the Friend ‘arm-twisted’ David
Saturday 27 March, 9.30-12.45.                                                   his retirement tea party at Friends
                                         (if Quakers ever do such a thing)       House, his office attire having been
Speakers and Workshops including
                                         into taking the helm. Before QHS        almost always a uniform beige.
for parents of children, and on social
media. Details: andrew.backhouse@        he had been a copywriter at an          Obviously he didn’t just get his
phonecoop.coop or 01625 537087.          advertising agency, where he met        hair cut on his trips to Horne Bros!
                                         his wife Jill.
                                                                                 In retirement he was looking
BUILDING PEACE FROM THE                      My first eight months at the
                                                                                 forward to indulging his passion
GROUND UP Saturday 13 March              Friend were David’s last, but I
online conference. Fellowship of                                                 for languages by studying Russian.
                                         benefitted greatly from his
Reconciliation and Church and Peace.     experience and wisdom. He had              Our paths didn’t cross much
Talks and workshops: responding          perfected the art of declining          after he retired, but whenever we
to hate, tackling racism, creating       unsuitable manuscripts, still typed     bumped into each other at Friends
prayers for peace and more. Register                                             House it was always a delight. He
                                         double-spaced in those days, by
now: http://bit.ly/3pnSfDB                                                       and Jill always placed a Christmas
                                         returning them to the author with
SIDCOT SCHOOL QUAKER                     a headed postcard on which he’d         greeting in the Friend, which gave
GENERAL MEETING Wednesday                write simply, “Not one for the          us the chance to share notes and
afternoon 24 March. This will be         Friend I’m afraid. Love David”.         greetings. Despite our short
an electronic meeting from 1pm to        This is a tactic I’ve adopted           overlap, my eight months working
4.30pm. For details of how to join       whenever I’ve had to decline an         with David set the tone for all my
the meeting please contact the clerks    advertisement, luckily this is a very   time at the Friend ever since.
at ssqgm2021@fastmail.fm                 rare event.                                God bless David, and his wife Jill.

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