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Bishop Kelley High School’s Semi-Annual Periodical

   AMBASSADOR
  Winter 2021 | Volume 14 | Issue 1

Our Lasallian Legacy
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Dear Comet Family,

Happy New Year! I think all of us can agree that we are happy to see 2020 in our rear view mirror. As we embark upon
2021 we stand on the fervent hope that the months and year ahead will bring a restoration of health and peace into our
lives and our world.

As I write this letter, it is hard to believe that we are approaching the one year anniversary of when the first case of
COVID-19 was reported in the City of Tulsa. Although we knew COVID would be disruptive as we watched its effects
in Asia and Europe, none of us could anticipate the harmful effects it would have on the lives of so many and the
disruption it would cause to educational institutions.

There has been much suffering throughout the world, in our own city, and in our community. The unexpected loss
of a loved one, the loss of jobs and income, the loss of independence and an increase in isolation, the loss of stable
learning environments, lower grades, emotional instabilities, and a disruption to athletics and student activities — the
list could go on and on. The tsunami of COVID combined with a turbulent political landscape has forever changed the
topography of our lives. These changes can leave us disoriented and even bitter if we choose to focus only on these
realities.

Yet in the face of these challenging days, we have seen the best of what human beings are capable of. We call Bishop
Kelley a family for a reason; a family, when put under pressure, often grows closer together to guard and protect one
another. Just as the list is long in the face of the sufferings of COVID — the list is longer of the selfless acts of virtuous
service.

The Bishop Kelley community adapted and adjusted to the current needs with a strong focus on the health and
wellbeing of our students and families. Faculty, staff, coaches, counselors, school medical health professionals, and
administrators spent hours learning new methods and means to teach, care, and support our students and one
another. Many benefactors have continued to support our Annual Fund that guarantees the needed dollars for tuition
assistance for families that have fallen on hard times. Families have offered the school grace as we have done our best
to keep students in school and our community healthy. Random acts of kindness have been seen frequently and in
abundance.

In our Catholic faith, we keep the crucifix always in our sight as a reminder that suffering and loss is a part of our
human experience. Yet we also know that the cross and suffering isn't the end point, but rather the departure point
for something new. As we move into 2021, I ask you to join me in being a person who renews their hope by taking
some time to be grateful for the many ways God has seen us through this challenging time. Celebrate the grace of the
resurrection of suffering into joy. Be a person who looks for the silver lining in the challenge, and share that hope and
love with those around you. Our faith demands a higher response and that response is love in the face of hatred.

This new year also marks the end of a chapter at BK. At the end of this school year, we will bid farewell to Brother
Richard, marking an end to the physical presence of the Christian Brothers on our campus. The Lasallian charism will
live on at BK through our words, our actions, and the legacy the Brothers have created within our school walls and
beyond. We are grateful for their 61 years of service to the Bishop Kelley family — shaping hearts, shaping minds, and
building an educational foundation that will last a lifetime.

Be assured of the gratitude all of us at BK have for you. We are a family, the Comet
family that stands on the hope and promise of Jesus Christ.

In Christ,

Very Reverend Gary D. Kastl
President
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Table of Contents
     About Bishop Kelley                                                  2 Student Volunteer
                                                                          3 Br. Bernardine
                                                                            Scholars

                      Our Mission                                         4 Fine Arts

   The mission of Bishop Kelley High School is to carry on the
                                                                          6 Athletics Updates
    teaching ministry of Jesus Christ by providing a Catholic,            7 Internship
 Lasallian education that develops individuals whose hearts and             Spotlight
             minds are prepared for a purposeful life.
                                                                          8 Alumni Profile:
                                                                            Tyson Tuttle '85
                 Our Core Values
                                                                         10 Comets Take
                   Faith in the Presence of God                             Flight

            Concern for the Poor and Social Justice                      12 Alumni Updates

                     Respect for All Persons                             13 DEI Task Force
                                                                         14 Alumnus Profile:
                        Quality Education                                   Sarah Lowery
                                                                            Nuse '98
                       Inclusive Community
                                                                         18 Celebrating 61
                                                                            Years of Christian
                       Our Vision                                           Brothers
   Form Disciples | Educate for Life | Leave to Serve                   26 Remembering
                                                                           Alumni
Bishop Kelley High School forms disciples of Jesus Christ in the
tradition of the Roman Catholic Church. As a Diocesan Catholic          28 Retreats & Faith
 Lasallian high school, we will embrace our values and strive to           Life
implement our priorities, so all students have a just opportunity
                                                                        29 2020 AP Stats
  to attend Bishop Kelley, grow in their faith and knowledge of
Christ, and be educated by faculty and staff whose mission it is        30 Long-Time
to form both minds and hearts. In fulfilling this plan, we will see        Volunteers
 a greater diversity in our student body, more students making
  deeper commitments to Christ and His Church, and a highly             32 Upcoming Events
 engaged, mission-oriented faculty and staff. In everything we
   do, our actions will strive to invigorate faith, educate for life,   On the Cover: Br. Russell Martin
                         and leave to serve.                            with two students in the BK Library.
                                                                        Br. Russell served at BK during the
                                                                        1988-89 school year.

The Catholic Church is committed to protect our children and to help heal those affected by
child abuse. As part of a Diocese of Tulsa effort to support a safe environment for all students,
Bishop Kelley is working together with the Diocese of Tulsa to prevent child abuse and
neglect in our communities and assure that all children have access to safe, stable, nurturing
relationships and environments. If you were ever abused by anyone who worked for the Catholic
Church, please contact 918.307.4970 to share your story and receive help from the Church.
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Volunteering with Heart
                                   The Spirit of Christian Service Alive at BK
                                                       by Emma Nguyen '22
                                                                        something new,” Grisaffe said.
                                                                            Serving on the LLH Junior Board is much more than a simple
                                                                        extracurricular activity for Grisaffe. Although she had always loved
                                                                        the idea of working with kids with special needs in the future,
                                                                        volunteering at the LLH has helped her realize her passion should
                                                                        play a role in her prospective career. Grisaffe notes how small
                                                                        acts of service greatly impact the lives of others, especially with
                                                                        the opportunity to see how much the children are capable of. As a
                                                                        result, her experience at the LLH has allowed her to become more
                                                                        service-minded, helping her be more aware of her actions toward
                                                                        those around her.
                                                                            Additionally, Grisaffe constantly shares her love for working
                                                                        with the children and exemplifies her passion through further
                                                                        action. She requests donations for the LLH in place of birthday gifts
                                                                        and has researched Down Syndrome for her upcoming Brother
                                                                        Bernardine Scholars project. Even beyond the LLH, she continues to
                                                                        bring awareness and care to those with special needs.
                                                                            “I think volunteering at LLH is special to me because it is
                                                                        something I feel truly passionate about,” Grisaffe remarked. “Being
                                                                        able to see firsthand the abilities of those with special needs has
                                                                        forever changed my outlook on the way that I view others. I don’t see
Top left: Aubrei with the donations she collected for LLH
                                                                        people for qualities they lack, or things that they cannot do; rather, I
                                                                        see all the opportunities that lie within each individual.”
     There’s more than one way to show you care, and Aubrei
                                                                            While volunteering, Grisaffe spent most of her time with Poppy,
Grisaffe '22 exceeds all expectations with the love she shares with
                                                                        who graduated from LLH last spring and now attends Jenks. At the
the students at the Little Light House. The Little Light House
                                                                        2018 Mini-Laps event, Poppy dressed up as Poppy the troll from the
provides tuition-free, Christian education and therapeutic
                                                                        movie Trolls. “She is absolutely precious!” Grisaffe said.
services for children with special needs and their families in
the Tulsa area. Their mission is to glorify God by improving the        Below: Aubrei with LLH student Poppy at Mini-Laps
quality of life for children with special needs, their families, and
their communities.
     Grisaffe started volunteering at the Little Light House (LLH) at
the beginning of her freshman year. Hardworking and charismatic,
she has always had a heart for those with special needs. After
hearing about the LLH Youth Advisory Board, she decided to
apply; along with more than twenty other high school and college
students, Grisaffe helps to plan fundraisers while learning about
operating nonprofit organizations and working with children with
special needs. During the 2018 Mini-Laps event, one of her first
opportunities to serve, Grisaffe volunteered in classrooms with the
children. During the annual themed Mini-Laps fundraiser, each
child dresses up as a character to be individually acknowledged
while taking a lap around the LLH parking lot. Along with themed
outfits, some kids construct small floats out of wagons or decorate
their wheelchairs or walking devices.
     Grisaffe and fellow Youth Advisory Board members helped
prepare for the Pups, Yups, and Food Trucks event. The board
members were tasked with fundraising, asking for product
donations from local businesses, and reaching out to food trucks
in the area. They helped the fun-filled event run smoothly while
encouraging guests to continue supporting LLH.
                 “It’s a cool experience because you feel you are
            impacting those around you, and you get to learn
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Br. Bernardine Scholars Showcase Projects
                                    Changing the world despite a change of plans
                                                             by Ellie Spielman '21

Caroline Ernst sporting one of her masks          Luu's prosthetic hand design coming out of              Fatigante with his family at the car show
                                                                 the 3D printer
            In the words of Brother Bernardine Kuzminski, Bishop             impact on the safety of individuals and families in Tulsa,” Ernst
       Kelley teacher and principal (1960-1995), “Every responsibility       remarked.
       is an opportunity.” Brother Bernardine Scholars have many                 Similarly, Anthony Fatigante planned to run a car show to
       responsibilities, or rather opportunities, during their tenure in     raise money for the Alzheimer's Association of Oklahoma, but
       the program. Brother B scholars must maintain a weighted 3.75         ran into complications due to COVID-19. Fatigante’s project
       cumulative GPA, take five AP tests before they graduate, complete     was of particular importance to him, as his grandmother was
       a research paper, and present a capstone project, among other         diagnosed with Alzheimer's, and the disease had “a large impact
       requirements. The capstone project is “the culmination of [a]         on my family because my mother became one of her primary
       scholar’s time at Bishop Kelley,'' said program director, Christine   caretakers.” When COVID-19 hit Tulsa in March, Fatigante had to
       Tyler.                                                                postpone his show. As Tulsa began to reopen, he set the date for
            At the beginning of their time in the program, scholars select   the show for the first of August. After a change of venue and date
       a topic of study for a final project during their senior year. As     and adjustments for COVID-19 restrictions, Fatigante still had
       a sophomore, scholars write a research paper, allowing them           about 40 cars participate and raised over $2,800. Fatigante was
       to become better acquainted with their chosen topic for their         glad that even with complications due to the pandemic, he could
       project. During their junior year, scholars meet regularly with       support the mission of the Alzheimer's Association.
       their mentors to discuss their progress and work through any              Likewise, scholar Liem Luu’s capstone project reflects an
       issues that may arise. Mentors include a Bishop Kelley teacher,       interest in the medical field. Luu designed and 3D printed a
       the program director, and a mentor outside the Bishop Kelley          prosthetic hand. Luu’s project combined the different aspects
       community.                                                            of biomedical engineering and technology, such as computer-
            Scholar Caroline Ernst described her experience with             aided design (CAD) and drafting. “By learning how to use CAD,
       her mentors as fantastic. “The program has taught me the              I was able to explore how 3D printing can revolutionize the
       importance of time management and having a strong work                medical field.” Luu hopes to continue studying 3D printed
       ethic.” Ernst had planned to host a volleyball summer camp for        models of prosthetics and organs, which he believes will replace
       San Miguel students as her capstone project. She was excited          the current silicone and steel prosthetics, as these cheaper
       to show the students how to play the sport that she had grown         alternatives would make prosthetics more accessible to patients,
       to love; however, COVID-19 put her project on hold. While             especially low-income patients.
       disappointed that she could not share her love of volleyball              Just as Bishop Kelley has overcome obstacles to bring
       with young students, Ernst found another way to serve her             students back to school safely, the 2021 Bother Bernardine
       community. When the Tulsa City Council enacted a mask                 Scholars took a similar approach in adapting their projects
       mandate, Ernst wondered about those who didn’t have access to         and adjusting to the needs of the time. Their projects reflect
       masks, such as the homeless population. Ernst decided to begin        the scholars’ ability to use their intellectual gifts to serve their
       assembling her own mask kits, which contained fabric, rubber          communities. The 16 senior Br. Bernardine Scholars will present
       bands, and instructions and coordinated with charities around         their final projects on Wednesday evenings in January and
       Tulsa to distribute the kits. “I hope the kits will have a lasting    February.                                                            3
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Fine Arts Go Virtual
                                  The socially distant show must go on!
                                                   by Maggie Turner '21

     As COVID-19 continues to spread across the nation, the       for her to work with her fellow actors. “We even sang towards
arts have truly taken a hit. With theaters unable to produce      the wall. This made hearing others difficult. We had to make
performances for a live audience, actors, singers, and            sure we knew our notes,” Frenier continued. According to
dancers alike have struggled to showcase their talents. With      Junger, the songs the nuns sang in The Sound of Music is
a little innovation, Bishop Kelley theater has thrived. Live      four-part Latin text and extremely difficult. “These students
stream performances offer the opportunity for members of          grew tremendously in their self-confidence and leadership
the BK family to support the school’s performing arts from        skills in order to be able to sing that challenging music, and
the comfort of their own home.                                    they pulled it off beautifully, especially being spread out as
     During a typical year, the musical begins its run of shows   far as they were,” Junger added.
in mid-fall. The show went on but with many changes.                  COVID regulations forced additional adaptations,
COVID-19 regulations made it more difficult to produce The        particularly with dance scenes. Because of social
Sound of Music. Not only was there no live audience, but the      distancing, the actors could not touch for the dances. "Our
rehearsals and the performances had to change as well. First,     choreographer, Pam St. Clair, had her creative work cut
student auditions were prerecorded videos. “In past years,        out for her,” remarked Junger. “Dancing waltzes without
we have had live auditions and time slots to sign up for. But     touching is challenging, but the grace of the students and
for our COVID shows we had to film our auditions and post         the beautiful choreography made it seem as if they were still
them on Google classroom,” said performer Ellie Rocco '23.        dancing together.” Finally, instead of The Sound of Music
Rehearsals were also difficult because of social distancing       being live for a few days, it was recorded and ticketed as a
and masks.                                                        video link.
     “Singing in masks is a huge change and truly                     Tech member and performer Caleb Fuqua '21 has worked
challenging,” explained BK Musical Theater Director Amy           in the tech booth for many BK performances. “Luckily, the
            Junger. These students did it without complaint       lights and sound didn't really change all that much,” he
            and as professionals." Performer Gigi Frenier '22     commented, though they did sanitize the equipment and stay
4           mentioned how these regulations made it harder        separated in the booth.
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performed via live stream on BKTV Live, Bishop Kelley’s
                                                               YouTube channel. Men's Choir members were spaced
                                                               throughout the De La Salle Chapel with masks on as
                                                               cameraman Russ Hembry panned across the chapel.
                                                               "The virtual format allowed for more people to watch the
                                                               performance," commented Junger. "It also allows family and
                                                               friends outside of Tulsa to tune in and support our students."
                                                               The concert livestream had over 400 views that evening,
                                                               while the auditorium in the STC can only fit 275 guests. "It's
                                                               not all challenges," Junger continued. "There are blessings
                                                               through these changes as well."
                                                                   BK Jazz choir also recorded several performances,
                                                               two of which were shared on the Bishop Kelley Facebook
                                                               page over the Christmas holiday. Junger anticipates more
                                                               performances by the BK Jazz Choir will be recorded and
                                                               released in the spring.

    While many actors felt discouraged because of the
regulations, Caleb took a different approach. “It definitely
was harder, but at the same time, it was honestly a bit fun.
We had to be creative and work through problems that no
one had ever had to work through before. Also, I think the
difficult parts made our show feel even more rewarding once
we got through it.” BK Theater will present Little Women
February 10-13 followed by a cabaret of musical theater
numbers in March.
                                                               Above: 2020 Men's Winter Concert in the De La Salle Chapel,
    COVID forced changes in the choir and string ensemble
                                                               photo by Katie Mellor
performances as well. Instead of singing for an audience in
                                                               All Sound of Music photos courtesy of Timm Dower Photography
the auditorium, the Men's Choir and BK String Ensemble

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Redefining a Successful Season
    Student-Athletes and BK Staff overcome challenges in the face of COVID-19
                                                          by Lance Parks

            Photo by Timm Dower Photography                                            Photo by Jennifer Luviano
     Twenty years from now, a cursory look at Bishop Kelley           are the foundation of scholastic athletics. They committed to
Athletics in the first five months of the 2020-21 season will look    a common goal at the beginning of the season, made personal
a little something like this:                                         decisions selflessly to support the success of their team, and
     •    2020 winner of Battle of the Bishops                        showed compassion for others throughout the season. They
     •    2020 6A Volleyball State Champions                          failed together and celebrated successes together as a team as
     •    2020 5A Girls Cross Country State Champions                 well.
     •    #1 state ranking for football, boys cross country, girls         The 2020-21 athletic season has presented challenges
          cross country, and volleyball in the same week of           beyond any in recent memory, but Bishop Kelley Athletics has
          September                                                   treated these challenges as opportunities — opportunities for
     •    6 wins in 15 days by BK softball in September               coaches and staff to demonstrate how to face adversity, adapt to
     •    BK Invitational Basketball Tournament with half the         changes, and find successes in everyday moments. The athletes
          teams ranked in the Top 10 of their class in Oklahoma       have still hoisted trophies, taken team pictures, laughed
     However, those moments do not begin to tell the story            together, struggled together, and cried as well. Inevitably, like
of the effort, dedication, compassion, and resiliency that the        any year in athletics, the student-athletes have experienced
coaches, student-athletes, and staff demonstrated this year           moments on their teams this year that will lead them to be
just to get on the fields and courts. Guided by the directions of     successful members of their community in the decades to
Bishop Kelley health professionals Tierney Dower, Alicia Berry,       come. That is the Athletic Department’s goal in any season. In
and Becca Clower, the Athletic Department set protocols and           that, the 2020-21 season will still be a tremendous success.
procedures to keep the student-athletes and coaches safe and                      Photo by Timm Dower Photography
participating in a COVID-19 world.
     Practices, locker rooms, transportation, games, meetings,
eating, drinking, warming up, cooling down — all of the
functions that normally take place each day and throughout the
season for each program were reviewed, revised, and adapted
to ensure the safe participation for all involved.
     I am blessed to work with an incredible group of coaches
and staff. I can’t tell you how proud I am of their efforts to keep
us safe, mission-driven, and competing during the first few
months of the year. Our focus throughout all of this was to keep
everyone in the program safe and as much of the high school
sports experience as possible intact for our student-athletes.
Although there have been interruptions in schedules and
            setbacks throughout the year, the athletic programs
            have managed to still have meaningful moments that
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Student's Internship Guides
                              Career         Path
                  Hands on Learning through BK Internship program
                                                       by Katie Youll '21
    During their senior year, Bishop Kelley students have
the opportunity to pursue an internship instead of an on-
campus elective course. Over the years, students have selected
internships in a variety of fields, from business and law to
medicine, STEM and government. During the first quarter of
the 2020-21 school year, senior Morgan Markus worked as an
intern at the 15th Street Veterinary Group. Her family has been
taking their pets to 15th Street for more than ten years. “The
doctors there are knowledgeable and the staff has always been
kind,” says Markus.
    “I wanted to investigate pursuing a career in veterinary
medicine,” Morgan said, “I knew if I wanted to intern anywhere
it would be at 15th Street.” While at the veterinary clinic, she
has learned how to hold the dogs if they’re aggressive, how to
do nail trims, and has been able to watch surgeries and assist
the doctors. She has worked primarily with Dr. Erin Green and
Dr. Mark Shackelford. Markus says that her favorite part of
interning was watching the doctors perform surgeries.
    The most memorable day of her internship was her first
day. “A doctor was removing a tumor from a dog, and I was

                                                                   really nervous about being squeamish,” Markus recalled. “The
                                                                   entire time the doctor just explained to me the process of the
                                                                   surgery, and I didn’t feel squeamish at all. Instead, I remember
                                                                   thinking how cool it would be if that were me performing
                                                                   surgery some day.”
                                                                       “Over the following weeks, I looked forward to my time at
                                                                   the clinic and it would always be the highlight of my day.” When
                                                                   her internship was coming to a close, Markus was offered the
                                                                   opportunity to continue working at 15th Street as a part-time
                                                                   job. She happily accepted the position, and tells the Ambassador
                                                                   that she chose to stay because she values gaining experience
                                                                   for veterinary school and says the clinic has a great group of
                                                                   people.
                                                                       “I knew I wanted to pursue vet school the first day of
                                                                   interning,” said Markus. “Watching the surgeries and patients
                                                                   come in was fascinating to me. I was already considering
                                                                   going into medical school, but after interning I knew I would
                                                                   love to help animals.” After graduating from Bishop Kelley,
                                                                   Markus plans to attend the University of Oklahoma to complete
                                                                   veterinary school prerequisites.

                                                                   Left: Markus with kitten at the veterinary clinic             7
                                                                   Above: Markus assisting with a procedure
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From Tulsa to the Top of Tech
       Tyson Tuttle '85 continues Lasallian leadership as CEO for Silicon Labs
                                                    by Doug Thomas
    From solving equations in Brother Bernardine’s math            understand how electrical things worked, BK’s math and
classes in the 1980s to running a global technology company        science courses as well as creative side projects helped him
across three continents, the distance between Bishop Kelley        develop solid fundamentals which served him throughout his
and four billion semiconductor chips is shorter than you might     higher education and career.
imagine.                                                                One project was with fellow student David Hogsett, '84, who
    For Tyson Tuttle, who graduated from Bishop Kelley in 1985,    at the time wanted to develop a business as a disc jockey on
his road to the top of Austin-based Silicon Labs (NASDAQ: SLAB)    weekends.
began in Bishop Kelley’s C Wing where he took all of “Brother           “In high school, I embarked on all kinds of projects
B’s” challenging math classes.                                     including building a lighting system for David’s deejay setup,
    “I went to Holland Hall for Kindergarten through the 8th       where through a bit of 'shocking' trial and error I gained a
grade but chose Bishop Kelley for high school because of its       healthy respect for high voltages,” Tuttle said. “And I built and
strong reputation in math and science,” Tuttle said. “Brother      operated a pirate radio station, which was a great success until
Bernardine had a way of poking you (literally), prodding you,      the FCC showed up at our door one day and asked my mom to
and sometimes publicly embarrassing you as a student in an         shut it down. She immediately went to my room and pulled out
effort to motivate you to excel in his classroom. I still fondly   all the plugs. It was definitely awkward at the dinner table that
recall the scripture verses and philosophies he would write out    evening!”
        on his chalkboard before the start of each school day.”         At the age of 14, while at BK, Tuttle worked part-time at
8           While Tuttle grew up with an innate curiosity to       Darrell’s Donut Shop in Tulsa and earned $3 per hour waiting
on customers, and learning how to properly wash a coffee pot
and mop a floor. He was also a grocery bagger for Skaggs Alpha
Beta (now Albertsons') and topped pizzas at Mazzio’s. With some
financial assistance from his parents, a side job in sales at Radio
Shack, scholarships, internships and loans, Tuttle was able to
finance his undergraduate studies in the Johns Hopkins Whiting
School of Engineering where he graduated in 3.5 years with a
B.S. degree in Electrical Engineering, and where he currently
serves on the Board of Advisors helping chart strategy for
the next generation of students. He gave the commencement
speech to the Johns Hopkins Engineering School last year.
    “Bishop Kelley prepared me well for college. College math
and physics courses were actually pretty easy after the rigor of
Brother B’s instruction,” said Tuttle. “Even my early jobs helped
me develop the skills necessary to relate with people and work
with customers in the field of technology.”
                                                                                   Tuttle at the NASDAQ Stock Market
    After graduate school in 1992, Tyson settled in Austin, Texas
where he got a job at Cirrus Logic (NASDAQ: CRUS) designing           customers, learn more about markets from the top-down, gain
semiconductor chips for hard disk drives. In 1996, he spent a         a better understanding of competition, drive innovation with a
year at Broadcom (NASDAQ: AVGO) in Irvine, California, which          team, and how to achieve a return on investment.
at the time was a small startup.                                           In 2003, Tuttle started a new business line of radio and
    In 1997, Tyson returned to Austin and became the tenth            TV tuner chips to receive over-the-air signals first in mobile
employee for a new startup company called Silicon Labs. The           phones and media players, and later in consumer products
company makes semiconductor devices used in a variety of              and automotive. In the first five years, these new products
products from wireless chips for the Internet of Things in smart      generated $650M of revenue and $450M of profit for Silicon
homes, cities and factories, to tuners for flat panel TVs, power      Labs. Today, 80% of the flat panel TVs sold worldwide contain
control in electric vehicles, and infrastructure for data centers,    one of these receivers, and these chips have sold more than 3
5G and high-speed data communications.                                billion units in total.
    Tuttle helped design Silicon Labs' first product, an interface         “Since I was a student at Kelley, I have always asked a lot
for PC modems (the predecessor to the internet), which                of questions,” Tuttle said. “I enjoy getting into the details,
achieved great market success and propelled the company to            whether technical or business. What is my market? Who are my
an IPO in 2000. After completing this project, he moved into          competitors? How are we going to win? What’s our return on
product marketing and management to work more closely with            investment?”
                                                                             In 2010, Tuttle was named the company’s Chief Technology
                                                                        Officer, and in 2012 he was promoted to CEO of Silicon Labs, a
                                                                        position he continues to hold today.
                                                                             The company that first opened its doors with a handful of
                                                                        employees in 1996 currently has 1,800 employees located in
                                                                        ten design centers around the world.
                                                                             Although he runs a major publicly traded corporation,
                                                                        Tuttle is also committed to making an impact far beyond his
                                                                        role as CEO at Silicon Labs. In addition to serving on the Johns
                                                                        Hopkins Whiting School of Engineering’s Board of Advisors,
                                                                        Tuttle was also recently appointed to the boards of the Federal
                                                                        Reserve Bank in Dallas and the Texas Black Legislative Caucus
                                                                        Foundation. He also serves on the boards of the Global
                                                                        Semiconductor Alliance and the Semiconductor Industry
                                                                        Association.
                                                                             “As I reflect on my time at Kelley, the Lasallian-inspired
                                                                        servant leadership approach made a lasting impression that
                                                                        continues to guide my personal and professional life,” said
                                                                        Tuttle. “Living a life of purpose is more than just having
                                                                        a strong work ethic and a good education. It is also about
                                                                        choosing wisely, focusing on what really matters, and bringing
                                                                        others along on the journey.”
                                                                             On a personal level, Tuttle met his wife Nicole in college at
                                                                        Johns Hopkins. Together, they have two daughters and a son,
                                                                        ranging in age from 12 to 23.
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                                                                       Left: Tuttle with his wife Nicole and their three
                                                                       children, Caroline, Scout, and Charlotte
Comets Ta
        Graduates of the Bishop Kelley Class of 2020 enrolled at

Ashland University     Dillard University            Oklahoma Baptist University
Ashland, OH            New Orleans, LA               Shawnee, OK

Baylor University      Drury University              Oklahoma Christian University
Waco, TX               Springfield, MO               Edmond, OK

Belmont University     Harvard University            Oklahoma State University
Nashville, TN          Cambridge, MA                 Stillwater, OK

Benedictine College    High Point University         Oral Roberts University
Atchison, KS           High Point, NC                Tulsa, OK

Clary Sage College     Louisiana State University    Pittsburg State University
Tulsa,OK               Baton Rouge, LA               Pittsburg, KS

Creighton University   Loyola University Chicago     Rice University
Omaha, NE              Chicago, IL                   Houston, TX

Crown College          Northeastern Oklahoma A&M     Rockhurst University
Saint Bonifacius, MN   College                       Kansas City, MO
                       Miami, OK
De Pauw University                                   Rogers State University
     Greencastle, IN   Northeastern State University Claremore, OK
10                     Tahlequah, OK
ake Flight
47 different colleges and universities across the country.

 Saint Ambrose University        United States Air Force Academy University of Houston
 Davenport, IA                   Colorado Springs, CO            Houston, TX

 Saint Francis University        United States Military Academy   University of Kansas
 Loretto, PA                     West Point, NY                   Lawrence, KS

 Saint Louis University          United States Naval Academy      University of North Texas
 Saint Louis, MO                 Annapolis, MD                    Denton, TX

 Southern Methodist University   University of Alabama            University of Notre Dame
 Dallas, TX                      Tuscaloosa, AL                   Notre Dame, IN

 Southwestern Oklahoma State     University of Arkansas           University of Oklahoma
 University                      Fayetteville, AR                 Norman, OK
 Weatherford, OK
                                 University of Arkansas - Fort    University of Tulsa
 Tabor College                   Smith                            Tulsa, OK
 Hillsboro, KS                   Fort Smith, AR
                                                                  Wichita State University
 Trinity University              University of Central Oklahoma   Wichita, KS
 San Antonio, TX                 Edmond, OK

 Tulsa Community College         University of Dallas
 Tulsa, OK                       Dallas, TX                                              11
Alumni News & Updates
 Reunion Weekend: Double the classes, Double the fun!
Due to COVID-19 safety restrictions, the 2020 Alumni Reunion Weekend events were postponed.
This year, we plan to host a combined celebration for all alumni with class years ending in 0s, 1s,
             5s and 6s! All-Class and individual class reunion details to come soon.

                               September 17-18, 2021
  Visit bishopkelley.org/reunion for more details as they develop. All events will be planned in
  accordance with COVID-19 safety guidelines. Email alumni@bishopkelley.org with questions.

Paul Revard '80 was elected to the Osage Minerals    Maria Copp '08 and Scott Fujan were married June
Council, an agency of the Osage Nation formerly      27, 2020 at the Parish of Christ the King in Tulsa.
known as the Osage Tribe of Indians.
                                                     Chris Dixon '08 and his wife Julia welcomed a
Teresa Flusché '78 began a new position as House     daughter, Audrey Jane, on July 8, 2020.
and Volunteer Administrator with Porta Caeli
House (a Division of Catholic Charities of Eastern   Quinn Cooper Eves '08 and her husband Luke
Oklahoma) in January 2021.                           welcomed a son, Jack Cooper Eves, on June 26,
                                                     2020.
Steve Keenan '83 has been named the General
Manager of the new Omni Hotel in Oklahoma City.      Jordan Hammond '08 graduated from the
                                                     University of Kansas School of Medicine in
In November 2020, 14 months after breaking           Emergency Medicine in July 2020. She currently
her pelvis in a cycling accident, Molly Erker '84    lives in Denver and works in Wyoming. She
completed IRONMAN Florida.                           is engaged to Joe Thelan, who is currently in
                                                     radiology residency at the University of Colorado.
Bear Clark '98 received his Doctorate of Nursing     The couple will marry on August 7, 2021.
Practice - Family Nurse Practitioner Concentration
from the University of Wyoming in August 2020.       Cale Hammond '10 is living in Santa Monica, CA
                                                     and working for the Tennis Channel.
Charles Vendley '05 and his wife Amy welcomed
Fisher Vendley to their family on March 13, 2020.    Kurt Byers '12 and his wife Lindsey welcomed Lou
                                                     Randall Byers on April 7, 2020. The family resides in
Molly O'Connor '07 and her husband John Cappel       Rock Hill, MO.
welcomed Thomas Connor Cappel in November
2020. Molly and John live with their two sons just   Dalton Hammond '15 is currently a second year law
outside Philadelphia.                                student at Berkeley Law School in CA.

David Robinson '07 and his wife Courtney                We would love to hear from you!
welcomed their son Miller Thomas Robinson on          Send your life updates and photos to
March 12, 2020. They reside in Ft. Worth, TX.         alumni@bishopkelley.org for a shout
12                                                        out in the next Ambassador.
Diversity, Equity, & Inclusion
   A conversation with Luke Rose, Chair of BK's Diversity, Equity, & Inclusion Task Force
                                                                Fall 2020, our first semester, was primarily focused
                                                                on listening and learning in our community. We have
                                                                talked with parishes in North Tulsa, and we brought in
                                                                Dr. Jabraan Pasha from OU for a three-session training
                                                                on implicit bias within schools, healthcare, and the
                                                                criminal justice system. We also held discussions with
                                                                eight different Catholic high schools across the country
                                                                to learn how they implemented DEI initiatives at their
                                                                schools. In particular, the conversations with other
                                                                schools helped us feel hopeful that this is possible
                                                                at Bishop Kelley, and when done right, it can be a
                                                                transformative experience. The goal of listening and
                                                                learning is not finite. It is something we will continue to
                                                                do, but we grounded ourselves in the work and created a
                                                                lens of equity to use as we move forward.
What is your background in teaching and diversity
initiatives? I'm from the Bay Area in California and came       This semester (Spring 2021) is more action-oriented. In
to Tulsa through Teach for America (TFA). TFA’s goal            listening to the other Catholic high schools across the
and mission is that one day all students in the U.S., really    country, we realized that partnering with other Catholic
in the world, will have access to an excellent education.       schools and experts is the best practice and the avenue
Because a pig part of TFA training is focused on diversity      that we need to take. We have three subcommittees this
and inclusion within education, new teachers, or corps          semester.
members, are assigned to regions across the country to
serve in predominantly undeserved schools in need of            1.   External guidance search: Hiring a consultant
educators. TFA corps members participate for two years               to perform an equity audit and provide
and receive their teaching certification. The reality is that        recommendations.
not all students in the U.S. have the same access to high-      2.   Immediate impact: What can we do right now to
quality education. Solving educational inequity is my                push DEI initiatives within BK?
passion, and there are a lot of people at BK who share          3.   Strategic planning: Crafting goals in the strategic
this passion. We are all trying to provide students at BK            plan to ensure the success of our efforts for years to
and within the Tulsa community with a quality education              come.
regardless of race, gender, religion, socioeconomic status,
and other demographic categories.                               What is the timeline for the Task Force right now? Our
                                                                vision right now is to start surveying and learning from
Describe how the BK Diversity Task Force came                   the BK community as soon as possible. Realistically, we
about. During the summer of 2020, our nation saw a              would like to have the consultant in place by the end of
growing discourse around racial injustice and inequality.       this school year. We anticipate the larger action plan will
Standing as a Catholic institution against all injustice        take place during the 2021-22 school year. We want our
and in defense of life and human dignity, Bishop Kelley         community to feel comfortable sharing their stories and
released a solidarity statement calling for prayer, unity,      opinions as we work to learn and grow to be a better,
and a commitment to grow in understanding about racial          more inclusive community.
injustice, opening a platform for members of the BK
community to share their experiences. Around this time,         Any final thoughts you would like to share? Creating this
I reached out to Fr. Kastl and Mr. Franz, and we delved         task force is true to the identity of our community and
deeper into these discussions around racial justice and         our commitment to Catholic, Lasallian education. As a
took a renewed focus on equity here at Bishop Kelley.           Lasallian Catholic community, we are reminded of what
From those conversations, the idea of the Diversity             our values call us to be — to be people of faith dedicated
and Equity Task Force came about — to have a group              to building integrated communities, showing respect for
of people at BK come together to take on diversity,             all persons, concerned for the poor and social justice,
equity, and inclusion (DEI) at Bishop Kelley. At the end        and committed to education that prepares hearts and
of August, we sent a notice to faculty that we would be         minds for purposeful life. It is our duty to ensure that
establishing the group, and we now have 14 members              all students, families, faculty, and staff have a sense of
from across the faculty, staff, and administration.             belonging at Bishop Kelley.

What are the primary goals for the Task Force? What             DEI Task Force Members: Aaron Alonso, Alex Baab,
do you hope to accomplish? The ultimate goal is for all         Robbie Bachman, Medea Bendel, Deb Butler, Erin Clark,
people to feel welcome and that they belong at Bishop           Regina Foster, Jim Franz, Fr. Gary Kastl, Maria Monhaut,
Kelley. We are committed to creating an environment             Luke Rose, Mandi Schooley, Christine Tyler, and Chad
where all races and ethnicities are respected and valued        Thurman
as equals.
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Tippi Toeing Her                                          by Elle Stanger '23

                                                                  it made me push myself so much harder
                                                                  to earn a spot on the team. They made me
                                                                  better not only on the tennis court but as a
                                                                  friend and leader as well,” Nuse explained.
                                                                       Nuse, like so many other alumni, has
                                                                  fond memories of her time as a Comet. “My
                                                                  favorite memories at Bishop Kelley were the
                                                                  friendships I gained. From walking side by
                                                                  side with my buddies to class, to nights at
                                                                  football games with face paint, to cheering on
                                                                  the basketball teams in the student section,
                                                                  to the dances on the weekends, it seemed
                                                                  like one fun event to the next. It’s funny how
                                                                  it was the relationships more than anything
                                                                  that shaped me,” Nuse said.
                                                                       Tippi Toes is a dance company offering
                                                                  classes, camps, and parties that teach
                                                                  children from the age of 18 months to 12
                                                                  years the techniques of jazz, ballet, tap,
                                                                  and hip hop using original music and
                                                                  choreography. Nuse started Tippi Toes as a
                                                                  sophomore at the University of Oklahoma.
                                                                  She was desperate for money, as she had just
                                                                  gotten fired from the waitressing job that
                                                                  was paying for her car. As college students
                                                                  sometimes can, Nuse became sidetracked
                                                                  when she got tickets to the Oklahoma versus
                                                                  Notre Dame football game in South Bend, IN,
                                                                  where her best friend, Caroline Craft Fiddes
                                                                  ‘98, was a student. Not passing up the chance,
                                                                  Nuse went without realizing that she was
                                                                  scheduled to work that weekend.
                                                                       “This was a pivotal moment for me

    Mother. Entrepreneur. CEO. Bishop Kelley Alumna. All
these words can be used to describe Sarah Lowery Nuse '98.
Nuse started Tippi Toes, a now-international children’s dance
franchise, and appeared on Shark Tank with her sister, Megan
Lowery Reilly '01. She is the author of Destined for Greatness
and has her own podcast of the same title. Along with her other
accomplishments, Nuse is a children’s music album creator,
shoe designer, and speaker. She is happily married and a proud
mother of three.
    Even in high school, Nuse was a high achiever. She was
a #2 doubles state champion in tennis and was on the State
Championship teams in both '95 and '97. These experiences
made a significant impact on her and are among her favorite
        high school experiences.
            “The best part about this opportunity was the girls
14 I was with while winning. They were all so talented that
Way to Greatness
 Sarah Lowery Nuse '98 shares her journey from dance class to podcasts.

 — getting fired and having to get creative to make my car            book I share my failures, successes, and experiences where I
 payment,” Nuse said. “It pushed me out of my comfort zone and        learned and was challenged. God has given us each such unique
 into a new world of entrepreneurship. I am forever grateful for      talents, gifts, and desires, and it’s our job to focus on that as
 that experience.”                                                    a gift to the world. When we do, we are living in our greatness
     As CEO, Nuse’s goal is to put Tippi Toes on the map,             and blessing those around us.”
 impacting the lives of children around the globe. Recently, the
 franchise expanded internationally. However, Nuse believes
 this is not the end of the company’s growth.
     “God is so cool the way He lays opportunities in front of us
 to either pick up or walk away from. I know He has more up His
 sleeve. My goal as CEO is to be obedient and run the company
 as He leads me,” Nuse explained.
     Among the many things that make Tippi Toes dance classes
 special is the original music. For Nuse, it started out as a wish.
 She wanted updated music that was fun, engaging, and also had
 a positive message.
     “When I couldn’t find what I was looking for, I talked to a
 musician at church and said, ‘I wish you could help me write a
 children’s album,’” Nuse recalled, “The next day, he called and
 said he would love to help. The next week we were in the studio
 planning, writing, and recording.”
     Nuse’s book, Destined for Greatness, was published on
 September 22, 2020. It shares a name with her podcast, which
 she began in September 2018. Her friend, NY Times best selling
 author, Bob Goff, encouraged Nuse to tell her story everywhere
 and challenged her to start a podcast, write a book, and speak
 as often as possible. Destined for Greatness is inspired by Nuse’s
 goal, which is to share Jesus with everyone she meets. To do
 that, she shares the story of how Jesus interrupted her plans,
 gave her a business, and has been leading and guiding her every
 day since.                                                           Above: Nuse with her husband and three children
                                                                      Bottom right page 26: Nuse with BK's 1998 Regional Championship
     “My goal through my story is that people know they are, like
                                                                      girls tennis team
 my title says, destined for greatness,” Nuse said. “Through my
                                                                      Bottom left page 27: Nuse with her first Tippi Toes dance class

                                                                               We are always looking to
                                                                            celebrate and feature alumni
                                                                            stories. We encourage you to
                                                                              share your story with us or
                                                                               nominate a deserving BK
                                                                            alumnus to be included in the
                                                                                      magazine.

                                                                          Email alumni@bishopkelley.org.
UPDATE ON

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                         20-21 Believe in Kelley appeal; more than half of them
                         are new supporters this year! We thank you for your
                         generosity in helping to raise $213,715 towards our goal!

                         With five months left in the fiscal year, we have raised
                         43% of our $500,000 fundraising goal. If you are
                         considering supporting BiK this year, know we are
                         grateful for any gift you are able to make.

                                         Every gift makes a difference at BK!

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CELEBRATING 61 YEARS
OF LASALLIAN SERVICE

Brother Richard is always everywhere, helping
wherever there is a need. His selflessness helps make
Bishop Kelley the very best place to be. He has been the
stronghold of the Brothers for over 20 years. He is the
best friend everyone wants to have. He is one of my best
friends.

      - Gary Oberste '70, Dean of Student Activities

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Brother Richard Merkel's retirement at the end of the 2020-21 school year will
mark the end of the physical presence of the Christian Brothers on the Bishop
Kelley campus. With a shortage of vocations and growing needs within the
Lasallian community, the Christian Brothers of the Midwest District were
unable to assign additional Brothers to BK.

Sixty-three Christian Brothers have passed through the halls of BK, shaping
minds and hearts along the way. In this issue of the Ambassador, we reflect on
the many lessons they taught us and the Lasallian values instilled in us by the
Brothers who walked the halls of BK.

While we will no longer have a physical presence of the Christian Brothers on
our campus, their legacy will live on in the Lasallian values and traditions of
the BK community. Alumni, faculty, and students have shared their memories,
stories, photos, and letters with us, and we are pleased to share them with
you, our BK family.

St. John Baptist de La Salle, pray for us. Live, Jesus, in our hearts forever.

                                                               1960: Bishop Kelley opened

                                    1960s                      its doors with seven Christian
                                                               Brothers on staff: Br. Alfred,
                                                               Br. Bernardine, Br. Ferdinand,
                                                               Br. Joseph, Br. Leo, Br. Philip, and
                                                               Br. William.
                           1961: Br. Bernardine
                           became one of
                           the first Christian
                           Brothers to teach
                           girls.

  Br. Alfred, 1960 Crest

"One of my earliest memories of the
Brothers was when Brother Bernardine
had to get permission from Rome to
teach girls. I was in his first co-ed class.
The nun who taught the girls’ math class        Br. Bernardine explaining a math concept in 1963
would walk the two or three of us over
to the lockers. She would then turn us over to Brother Alfred, who would escort us
to Brother Bernardine’s classroom. Then, of course, the same procedure would be
      followed in reverse after class."
20      - Margaret Ellison '63
Top left: Br. Theodore next to his namesake at the 1968
         Christmas assembly

         Top right: Br. H. Thomas served as principal and counselor

         1965: Bishop Kelley became fully
         co-educational.

         1968: Bishop Kelley's Fall Revue
         and talent shows thrived under the
         direction of Br. Patrick O'Brien.

         Left: Br. Patrick Pilch and Br. Patrick O'Brien

1970s

        Left: Br.
        Bernardine, Sister
        Ida Marie, Mr.
        Dreas, and Br.
        Roland, 1973
                             1970: The BK Crest featured
                             drawings of the faculty by Lynne
                             Somers Butterworth '70
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1974: The yearbook was dedicated to Brother Roland Santi for his nine years of
 service at Bishop Kelley.

                                         1976: BK's first Girls Cross Country team, coached by
        Br. Roland Santi, 1970
                                         Brother Michael Martin, placed 3rd at State.

"I think what some people don't realize
about Brother Bernardine, because of
stories about how tough he was, how much
he expected, et cetera, is how loving and
compassionate he was...I loved how he kept
in touch with so many former students,
and how hardworking he was. He mowed
the grounds, cleaned the buses - no task
was below him while he was the head man
in charge! I have never regretted naming
my youngest after him...Kelley won't be
the same without the Brothers, and I am
so thankful that we had them as long as we                      Br. Jim teaching in 1979
did!"
  - Betsy Arp Bryce, '75

      1980s
1981: Br. Gus led the effort to
begin an annual dinner auction.
The first auction, "A Spring
Classic," raised over $80,000.

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                                                  Br. Gus with the 1981 Parents Club
1985: Bishop Kelley High School
                                                                        celebrated its 25th anniversary with
                                                                        a weekend of festivities in October,
                                                                        including the first Bishop Kelley
                                                                        Hall of Fame ceremony.

Above: Brothers at 25th Anniversary Mass of Thanksgiving

Right: Br. Gus poses with the 1981 State Championship Football trophy

                         Excerpt of December 1984 letter from Brother Bernardine to Molly Erker, '84

                                                                  1985: Brother Lawrence (Larry) worked
                                                                  to move BK into the computer age. The
                                                                  business office, report cards, scheduling,
                                                                  attendance, grading, and alumni information
                                                                  all moved from hand-written records to
                                                                  computerized.

                                                                   1986: The BK community celebrated
                                                                   Brother Bernardine's 50 years of service
                                                                   as a Christian Brother by creating the Br.
                                                                   Bernardine Endowment and placing a
                                                                   statue of St. John Baptist de La Salle in the
                 Br. Larry at his desk in 1985                     courtyard in his honor.

  "Brother Gus was there to help me in many ways, not just in teaching. He helped my
  wife get a job at St. Francis Hospital, he talked to me about starting a family, and
  helped coordinate my wife and I living in the recently empty convent on campus to
  save money to buy a house...I wish I had the opportunity to thank him. I understand
  St. John Baptist De La Salle focused on helping the poor and underprivileged, but
  I like to think he helped anyone who needed it. I think that’s the case for all the
  Brothers."
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   - Brian Arenson, BK Faculty member, 1982-present
1990s
1992: Catch the Spirit capital
campaign led by Brother David Poos
and Mrs. Diane Perkins raised more
than $4 million.

1993: The Activity Center was
dedicated in October of 1993. All six
of BK's Christian Brother Directors
were in attendance.

                                                    All six Brother-principals of BK since 1960: Br. Alfred, Br. Tom,
                                                             Br. David, Br. Larry, Br. Bernardine, and Br. Gus

                                                     1997: The BK Community celebrated
                                                     Brother David's 25th anniversary.

        Br. Chris and Mr. Davis jamming' out to
            "Old Time Rock 'n' Roll" in 1990

                                                       Br. David supervises the 1997 "Late Night" audience

                                                  1999: The BK Community celebrated
                                                  Brother Richard's 25th anniversary.

                                                   Left: Br. Richard with family at his 25th
                                                            anniversary celebration.
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"Br. Norman McCarthy was a quiet, spiritual man to those around him. He led with
  his heart. He introduced me to new forms of prayer and to some of the finer points of
  Lasallian spirituality. Br. Norman truly was my rock during the last semester of my
  Masters in Theology. I would go to him with something that just sounded crazy to me,
  and he would put it in context and let me know it was a process! He was a blessing!"
  -Marianne Stich, retired BK Faculty

   2000: Brother Bernardine held the first BK Alumni
   City Gathering in Oklahoma City.
                                                                                    2000s

                       Excerpt of January 2000 letter from Br. Bernardine to Beth Hannigan Tompkins, '84

  2003: The Brother Bernardine Scholars
  Program was introduced to the BK community.
  2005: The Christian Brothers were inducted into the
  BK Hall of Fame.

                                                                        2005: Brother Richard Merkel was
                                                                        named BK's De La Salle Teacher of the
                                                                        Year.
  Christian Brothers at the BK Hall of Fame Ceremony in 2005

"During my time as a student and teacher at
Bishop Kelley, the Brothers have always been
part of my time here. They have had a great
impact on my life and taught me so much
about the meaning of community and what it
takes to belong to one as special as BK. Their
friendship has blessed me."
-Maggie Gable '00, Teacher & Assistant
 Director of Student Activities                                                                            25
               Right: Br. Richard, Br. Norman, and Br. Chris
BK Remembers Dedicated Alumni
                                                         by Doug Thomas
     In November of 2020 and over a           Kevin's daughters with wife Laura Jones
span of three days, Bishop Kelley lost        Duffy '91, Sarah Duffy '11 and Elise Duffy
two alumni; one whose life was focused        '18, played soccer and ran cross country
on serving the Catholic Church, and           and track at Bishop Kelley.
the other who dedicated himself to his             John never missed any of their
family, sports — especially Bishop Kelley     athletic contests and enjoyed seeing
athletics.                                    other members of the BK community
     John Duffy '71 passed away               while supporting his son, his
surrounded by his family on November          granddaughters, and the Comets. He also
4, 2020, and Fr. Thomas Dowdell '63,          loved his Philadelphia Eagles.
attended by his loving family, died                Throughout the years, John coached
November 6, 2020.                             several Catholic Youth baseball,
     John Charles Duffy, Jr. was born in      basketball, and Junior Comet football
Philadelphia, PA, but lived his entire        teams. Toward the end of John’s life,
life in Tulsa. John’s dad, a native of        several of his former players reached out
Philadelphia, had attended and graduated      to him and to the family; their message
from a Lasallian high school there before     was consistent. They wanted to thank
marrying Mary Kealey and moving his           him for his positive impact on their lives.
family to Tulsa. John attended Marquette      When former players would cross paths
School, graduated from Bishop Kelley          with John or contact him, they typically
High School, and attended the University      referred to him as “Coach” or “Coach
of Oklahoma and the University of Tulsa.      Duffy.” That sense of reverence made
John’s siblings also graduated from           John extremely proud.
BKHS, including Marie Duffy Sinnett                Born in Roswell, NM, Fr. Thomas           City and the Diocese of Tulsa. Thomas
'64, Maureen Duffy Hoffman '67, Patricia      Dowdell moved as a child to Tulsa and          attended St. Francis de Sales in Oklahoma
(Tippy) Duffy Kane '70 (deceased), and        was a student at Bishop Kelley on the first    City and Conception Abbey and College
Bernadette Duffy Jones '73. In 1982, he       day BK opened its doors in August 1960.        Seminary in Conception, MO.
married the love of his life, Kathy Morgan    He came to the school as a sophomore,               Upon competition of his college
Duffy.                                        having attended Marquette School from          seminary, Father Tom was sent to
     A true Irishman, John loved              first grade through his freshman year          Assumption Seminary in San Antonio
passionately. His greatest loves were his     of high school. Fr. Dowdell was the first      in August of 1967 to begin his graduate
family and sports, and he was happiest        of four in his family to graduate from         theological formation. This formation
when the two intertwined. An avid fan of      Bishop Kelley, including siblings Jean         period led to his ordination as a priest
playing and watching sports, he was often     Dowdell Junger ’64, Richard ‘68, and John      of the Diocese of Oklahoma City on
the loudest in the stands as he cheered       ‘73.                                           May 21, 1971. His ordination took place
on his family members. His son, Kevin              After graduating from BK, Thomas          at his home parish of Christ the King,
'91, played basketball and baseball for BK.   discerned a vocation to the priesthood,        led by Bishop Victor Reed. Shortly after
                                                                             following the   his ordination, Oklahoma was divided
                                                                             inspiration     into two parts, and since Fr. Tom was
                                                                             of his uncle,   assigned in Oklahoma City at the time, he
                                                                             Father          automatically became incardinated in the
                                                                             Robert          new Archdiocese of Oklahoma City.
                                                                             Pickett. Fr.         Father Tom had been ordained for 49
                                                                             Pickett was     years and had joyfully served as Associate
                                                                             a priest of     Pastor, Pastor, or Administrator of
                                                                             the Diocese     parishes in Oklahoma City, Ada,
                                                                             of Oklahoma     Blackwell, Enid, Goltry, Perry, and
                                                                             before the      Billings. His final assignment before
                                                                             state was       retirement was St. Mary Church in
                                                                             separated       Ardmore from 2012-2018. During his
                                                                             into the        priesthood, he also served as Regional
                                                                             Archdiocese     Vicar.
26                                                                           of Oklahoma     Top: Fr. Thomas Dowdell
                                                                                             Left: John Duffy with his wife Kathy
                                                                                             and his grandchildren
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