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Editorial
                       Contents /                                                                             July - december 2015
Committee

                                                                                                                                                                                                  Some of the people who
                                                                                                                                                                                                  helped create this magazine
 Olusoji Oyawoye
      Editor

  Tutu Okunubi
   Art Director

                                                                                                                                                                                                  Dr. Olufemi              OC UKEJE                  ALEX OKOH                 JANET                      MRS. Lanre                 CHINEDU
                                                                                                                                                                                                  Omololu                                                                      ADETU                      Lakunle-                   ONYIA
                                                                                                                                                                                                                           Okechukwu Ukeje,          An Alumnus of
                                                                                                                                                                                                                           known as OC Ukeje is      Harvard Business
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Oseni
                                                                                                                                                                                                  Dr. Olufemi Omololu                                                          Janet Adetu, a                                        Mr. Chinedu Onyia
                                                                                                                                                                                                  is a consultant          a Nigerian actor, model   School. Alex is           Certified Corporate                                   is a co-founder of
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Lanre Lakunle-
                                                                                                                                                                                                  Obstetrician             and musician. He          currently Managing        Image and Business                                    Parsifal Partners
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Oseni is a graduate
 Vivian Agwuegbo                                                                                                                                                                                  Gynaecologist at         came into prominence      Partner, Ashford &        Etiquette Consultant                                  Limited, a strategy
  Advert Manager                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          of Economics from
                                                                                                                                                                                                  the Lagos Island         after winning the         McGuire Consulting        is the Founder and                                    consulting and
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          the Lagos State
                                                                                                                                                                                                  Maternity Hospital,      Amstel Malta Box          Ltd., a leading           Director of JSK                                       business advisory
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          University. She is a
                                                                                                                                                                                                  where he also serves     Office (AMBO)             consulting firm with      Etiquette Consortium.                                 firm involved in a few
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Human Resource/
                                                                                                                                                                                                  as the Director of       reality show. He has      strong focus on           She is a recognized                                   interesting mandates
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Business Manager.
                                                                                                                                                                                                  Clinical Services and    received several awards   Business Strategy and     expert in the field of                                in manufacturing,
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          She writes short
                                                                                                                                                                                                  Training. He has a       including Africa          Transformation,           Corporate Etiquette,                                  technology and real-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          stories and memoirs.
                                                                                                                                                                                                  passion for writing      Movie Academy             Human Capital             Professional Image                                    estate. Prior to that,
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Lanre loves to plan
                                                                                                                                                                                                  and has written          Awards, Africa Magic      Development, and          and International                                     he has held various
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          events, she is a goal
                                                                                                                                                                                                  several poems, short     Viewers Choice            Financial Advisory        Protocol. Janet Inspires                              leadership roles in the
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          getter as well, making
                                                                                                                                                                                                  stories and social       Awards, Nollywood         services. A               her audiences to                                      banking sector.
  Shola Adekoya                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           sure results are
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                                                   63                                                                                                                  38                         commentaries.
                                                                                                                                                                                                  He is also a sports
                                                                                                                                                                                                                           Movies Awards, Best
                                                                                                                                                                                                                           of Nollywood Awards,
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     consummate Banker
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     and Financial Advisor
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               improve their Social
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               Graces, Image, Style
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          achieved irrespective
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          of circumstances.          A Chemical Engineer
                                                   Getting
                                                   Involved with                43                          17
                                                                                                            First Time Mum:
                                                                                                                                                                       Bora Bora
                                                                                                                                                                       Located in In the
                                                                                                                                                                                                  enthusiast. For more
                                                                                                                                                                                                  of his writings please
                                                                                                                                                                                                                           Nigeria Entertainment
                                                                                                                                                                                                                           Awards and Golden
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     with over 25years
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     local and international
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               and Soft Skills to
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               enable them take
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          She is a home birdie
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          who finds solace in
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     by profession, Mr.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     Onyia has varied life
                                                   the future of                                                                                                       South Pacific, Bora                                 Icons Academy             experience in banking
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                                                                                Getting                                                                                                           visit femomololu.                                                            control of their careers                              experiences from
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                                                   Nigeria's Youth              Involved - The                                                                         Bora is the most           wordpress.com            Movie Awards. He          and finance.              and standout as role                                  which he has chosen
                                                                                                            Experience                                                                                                                                                                                    writing in which
                                                   During the 2015              RIL Experience                                           STAYING                       famous of French           and femilolufooty.       has featured in many                                models to others.                                     to share with our
                       STAND UP                                                                             The concept of                                                                                                                                                                                ideas/visions are
                                                   General Elections,           One of our                                               INVOLVED WITH                 Polynesia’s Leeward        wordpress.com            award-winning             He was Managing                                                                 readers.
                       The stench of the                                                                    “mummy-hood” was                                                                                                                                                                              expressed to the
                                                                                success factors                                          YOUR APPS:10                  Islands, recently          Contact:                 films including Two       Director/CEO of
                                                   Nigerians                                                naive to me when                                                                                                                                                                              audience. Lanre is
                       prison was stifling.                                     over the years is                                        Apps to Keep                  awarded the title of       femomololu@yahoo.        Brides and a Baby,        NNB                       This experience is
                                                   collectively got                                         I looked through                                                                                                                                                                              a budding writer/
Oluwatoyin Ayoola                                                               Management’s                                             You Productive                “the best island in        com                      Hoodrush, Alan Poza,      International Bank
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                       It was a mixture                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        very dear to me,           speaker who is keen to
                                                   involved in                  commitment                  the binoculars of            at Work and at                the world” by U.S.                                  Confusion Na Wa           from January 2001 to                                                            Getting involved is
                       of things she didn't                                                                 a daughter. My                                                                                                                                                     when I turned 40           let her views/opinions
                                                   choosing their own           to getting Staff                                         Home                          News. Bora Bora                                     and internationally       December 2005                                                                   about “giving” and
                       want to imagine.                                                                     definition of a mum                                                                   He was waiting to                                                                                       about life be made
                                                   destinies by voting          involved in all                                          You’re busy. We all           is indeed a tropical                                acclaimed Half of a       during which his          years old, I decided                                  when you give of
                                                                                                            would suggest ‘that                                                                   see a friend from                                                                                       know to the world.
                       She was nauseous                                         spheres of the                                           are. The average              paradise.                                           Yellow Sun.               transformational                                                                yourself, you learn
                                                   out an incumbent                                                                                                                               school who had
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               to give back to the
                                                                                organization’s              figure that was              working class                                                                                               leadership repositioned                                                         more and are also
                       and wondered if             government for the                                                                                                                                                                                                          society. I didn’t
                                                                                activities riding           more domesticated                                                                     kept him waiting                                   the bank as a leading                                                           entrusted with more.
                       this had been a                                                                                                   individual in the                                                                 Growing up was full                                                            I have spent close to
                                                   first time in history.       on the company’s            of the two figures                                                                    for 3 hours now. He                                commercial bank in        want to just have a
                                                                                                                                         21st Century is an                                                                                                                                               three years in this
                       mistake.                                                 culture of Freedom          called parent’.                                                                       suddenly knew he         of mixed experiences      Nigeria.
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                                                                                      Hanging Out
                                                                                      With
                                                                                                                 SOJ
                                     W
                                                          hat a year 2015         free. Even where you may appear to
                                                          has turned out to       be reveling in your own “gain” free
                                                          be. The elections       of charge, somebody must have gone           plus a focus on The Massai people in
                                                          have come and           through the pain needed to produce           our continuing series on African tribes
                                                          gone and our dear       that gain. Someone else paid the price       and people.
                                     nation has come out the better for it with   for what you are enjoying.
                                     many lessons learnt. One major trend                                                      I would like to welcome staff recently
                                     that cut across was the fact that many       In this edition we have contributions        deployed to leading Life Insurer AIICO
                                     hitherto passive Nigerians got involved      from multiple award winning actor,           Nigeria Plc., leading confectioners
                                     in the process, and passionately too.        model and musician of the Half               Unilever Nigeria Plc. and Egbin Power
                                     That trend led the editorial committee       Of A Yellow Sun movie OC Ukeje               Plant into the RIL family. Resource
                                     to focus on the theme Get Involved in        (Okechukwu Ukeje), motivational              Intermediaries Ltd continues to expand
                                     this edition.                                speaker and mentor, Managing Partner         through knowledge and skills acquired
                                                                                  of Ashford & McGuire Consulting              from interaction with our diverse client
                                     The essence of this theme is to educate      Limited Mr. Alex Okoh and Dr.                base that have carved a niche for us.
                                     and enlighten readers on the need to         Olufemi Omololu who is a Consultant          We thank you all for your invaluable
                                     be involved and active anywhere they         Obstetrician, Gynecologist and Social        patronage.
                                     find themselves. It is amazing how we        Commentator.
                                     usually seek Change, Transformation,                                                      While we seek to ease business
                                     and gain or benefit, but hardly ready to     A new feature page, RIL Panache              burdens, we cannot achieve much
                                     go through the sacrifice and pain that       debuts in this edition featuring certified   without feedback from you. I urge
                                     is often required for the desired gain       corporate image and business etiquette       you to share your comments directly
                                     to manifest. Nothing good comes to           consultant Janet Adetu. We also have         with me by writing to talktomdceo@
                                     anyone without some element of hard          our regulars like The RIL Doctor, The        resourceintermediaries.org.
                                     work, sacrifice, payment and I dare say      Job Street, The Conductor, Where
                                     pain. There really is no benefit without     Great Minds Meet, Best Vacation Spots        As late Myles Monroe once said,
                                     payment. "No pain, no gain". It is never     (Nigeria and International), RIL Vogue       "Whatever you allow, you cannot
                                                                                                                               criticize. Whatever you avoid, you
                                                                                                                               cannot change. Whatever you permit,
                                                                                                                               you are responsible for. It’s time to stop
                                                                                                                               praying only and start doing something.
                                                                                                                               Doing nothing is not an option. You
                                                                                                                               can either LET things happen or you
                                                                                                                               can MAKE them happen”.

                                                                                                                               Whatever you do going forward please
                                                                                                                               give, help, encourage, inspire, motivate,
                                                                                                                               serve and support. Get Involved and be
                                                                                                                               a part of the solution.

                                                                                                                               Best Regards

                                                                                                                               Olusoji Oyawoye
                                                                                                                               MD/CEO, Resource Intermediaries Ltd.

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                                                                                                                                                   then begin to compute justification for the
                                                                                                                                                   decision the heart has already come to terms          The concept of                                freedom, rights, justice and so on. The list
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       is endless and quite frankly, only requires
                                                                                                                                                   with.                                                                                               a heart that reaches out with sensitivity to

                                                                                                                                                   Such is the nature of most charitable causes.
                                                                                                                                                                                                       getting involved                                issues that may escape the care and concern
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       of the generality of the people.
                                                                                                                                                   The emotional connection with a need or
                                                                                                                                                   challenge within the social space is usually             however is                                 The symbolism of identifying with the social

                                                                                                                                                                                                           expandable
                                                                                                                                                   the point of origin or foundation for such                                                          cause establishes some form of validity for
                                                                                                                                                   causes as the Red Cross or other individual                                                         the cause and serves as a powerful tool to
                                                                                                                                                   or social cooperatives that exist to provide                                                        enlist others. It is interesting to note that
                                                                                                                                                   solutions and interventions for social good.
                                                                                                                                                   Many charities such as the Ford Foundation
                                                                                                                                                                                                            beyond this                                many societies with a decent quality of life
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       and wellbeing also have well-established
                                                                                                                                                   are usually motivated to be agents of relief
                                                                                                                                                   to some identified gaps and problems within         definition. It goes                             habits of getting involved in charitable
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       causes. The disposition to life that this
                                                                                                                                                   the social space. It is usually submitted,                                                          attitude fosters creates an atmosphere
                                                                                                                                                   that this level of engagement reveals an
                                                                                                                                                   interesting dimension of an individual’s (or
                                                                                                                                                                                                       beyond the realm                                where there is a heightened concern for the
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       common good irrespective of the individual
                                                                                                                                                   corporation) nature and personality; the
                                                                                                                                                   ability to think beyond self and to collaborate      of concern to the                              pursuits of sustenance.

                                                                                                                                                                                                         demonstration
                                                                                                                                                   for the achievement of communal good.                                                               One area where collective involvement is
                                                                                                                                                   A virtue which hitherto was despised                                                                beginning to generate the required tempo
                                                                                                                                                   especially by the Machiavellian brand of                                                            is politics and governance. Hitherto, the
                                                                                                                                                   capitalism, but which is now thought to be
                                                                                                                                                   more constructive and desirable to the long-
                                                                                                                                                                                                         of that interest                              general view of public governance is that
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       it was beyond the purview of individual
                                                                                                                                                   term wellbeing of society.
                                                                                                                                                                                                        or devotion in a                               involvements in any coordinated manner, at
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       least not in any critical sense as to influence
                                                                                                                                                   It is important to stress the fact that getting                                                     outcomes. The notion was that only the
                                                                                                                                                   involved comes from a mind set that is not          tangible manner                                 critical actors and professional politicians

Engaging For
                                                                                                                                                   seeking it’s own good alone and certainly                                                           were the determinants of political outcomes,
                                                                                                                                                   not-for-direct benefit in the sense that we
                                                                                                                                                   view rewards and benefits in a commercial              that produces                                and because they had directive benefits
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       from the outcomes, and as such provided no

                               Social Good
                                                                                                                                                                                                         a state of good
                                                                                                                                                   enterprise. In matters where there are direct                                                       room for involvement from the perspective
                                                                                                                                                   benefits such as for-profit businesses, it                                                          of charity. It is important to note that the
                                                                                                                                                   is easier to see the need for involvement.                                                          sphere of politics and governance is not
                                                                                                                                                   However, the need for involvement on a
                                                                                                                                                   non-government and non-profit manner,
                                                                                                                                                                                                           or wellbeing                                precluded from charitable engagements.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       There are many institutions especially in
                                                                                                                                                   is becoming critical is the social space.
                                                                                                                                                   The term "social space" refers to issues and           regarding the                                advances democracies, which exist to further
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       the cause of freedom and good governance.

T
                                                                                                                                                   activities the outcome of which are generally                                                       It may be safely assumed that the existence
                here is a saying that extols
                the virtue of engaging in a
                                                good; contributing skills and resources to a
                                                cause or process designed for accomplishing
                                                                                                is simple and based on the well tested
                                                                                                premise that the more the better. So
                                                                                                                                                   for the common good.                                        cause                                   of such non-governmental institutes have
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       ensured that the political machineries of
                service whose outcome or        a good purpose which touches groups             getting involved almost always implies             My view is that there are usually two basic                                                         politics and governance in these societies
                benefit goes beyond self.       beyond the individual agent.                    collaboration. The aggregation of concerns         benefits that involvement achieves for a            and the involvement of the common man           are compelled to act in manners consistent
                While this virtue may not                                                       and efforts for a common cause. Many social        social cause. One is symbolic and the other         makes no difference, is an unhelpful view       with the common good of the society as
always appear compelling in a world where       The term “involvement” is defined as            enterprises, projects and visions are indeed       is substantive.                                     when one considers the fact that the impact     dedicatedly advocated by these bodies
the individualistic approach to life and        “making oneself emotionally concerned           multidimensional and require diverse skills                                                            of such matters are not usually sovereign       who consistently research policies and
ambition receives tacit official endorsement,   in or with a cause”. The concept of getting     and competences and resources beyond               The first impetus that the act of getting           but common. We know that governments            parameters that index good governance.
and where success is usually measured in the    involved however is expandable beyond           those of an individual.                            involved provides is to avail or lend credence      should provide decent healthcare for the
context of individual well being and similar    this definition. It goes beyond the realm                                                          to the credibility of a social cause. It provides   people. However, that does not preclude         Perhaps this is one area in Nigeria where
parameters of competitive achievement           of concern to the demonstration of that         The first hurdle to be crossed in getting          a sense of justification or "rightness", if         non-sovereign groups from intervening           non-governmental engagement is critically
evaluation. The concept of committing           interest or devotion in a tangible manner       involved is establishing a “case of need” in the   you will, for the matter in the social space        in a constructive manner to either bridge       needed. The sphere of political and public
personal service in the quest for outcomes      that produces a state of good or wellbeing      mind of the individual; the moral resonance        heightening its level of awareness and              gaps in this noble objective or provide         governance. The paucity of robust data
that speak to communal good may seem            regarding the cause. Most often, getting        of the cause, in such a manner that compels        raising the banner of visibility and attention      platforms for attention and solution in         and information with which to gauge the
unappealing in such a context. However,         involved in good causes entails collaboration   concern and the need for action. This is           over the situation. There is a misconception        special areas of need within the healthcare     performance of the various political and
there is a strong movement in progressive       directly or indirectly with others with         usually not as easy as it seems because            especially in the social sphere, that what          space. Such issues as polio, cancer and other   administrative structures make comparative
thinking that is increasing emphasizing the     similar concern, enabling a network that        human beings are emotional creatures, and          belongs to everybody belongs to nobody and          health challenges have become the objects       analyses and decision making quite difficult.
concept of “getting involved” in activities     feathers the common cause.                      justifications for causes are established both     as such does not require anyone's attention.        of attention for such involvements. There       It also provides avenues for leaders to
which create benefits for audiences which                                                       in the heart and in the head. Social causes        This is where matters, issues and situations        may be other areas in education, leadership     escape the type of scrutiny that forces
may or may not include self. An approach to     It is an established fact that cooperation      that typically do not provide direct financial     of public trust usually go awry. The notion         and governance, addressing needs of special     political actors to be more responsive and
life and living which recognizes the benefit    and collaboration usually results in far        gain for the individual, usually appeal to the     that matters of commonwealth status                 groups of people like widows, orphans,
of reaching out as an instrument or agent of    better outcomes. The reason for this            heart more than the head. The head may             require the attention of only the sovereign         victims of war and other forms abuse,                                            cont'd on page 44

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How To Clean Your Teeth
                                                                                                                                                   London Smiling Dental Group.                                                                       How To Stop Looking Long
                                                                                                                                                        These are chewable tablets that show                                                          In The Tooth
                                                                                                                                                   up the plaque-a sticky, transparent film of
                                                                                                                                                   bacteria-in a colored stain on your teeth         “Brush your teeth                                People tend to think that longer looking
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      teeth is an inevitable part of getting old-but

Without A Toothbrush                                                                                                                               after cleaning to illustrate where you’re
                                                                                                                                                   brushing and flossing has missed.
                                                                                                                                                        The idea is that you then brush your
                                                                                                                                                                                                     until they are
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      it’s often due to chronic gum disease.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Here, plague builds up in the mouth
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      over time, and the body responds by losing

…and how cheese helps beat fillings! Dental hygienists reveal the tips they use themselves
                                                                                                                                                   teeth again to clean the areas that still
                                                                                                                                                   have plaque. If plaques build up for longer       clean, then spit                                 some of the bone holding the teeth in, so
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      it’s not in direct contact with the bacteria.
                                                                                                                                                   than two weeks, gums can become swollen,                                                           However, as the bone disappears, the gum
By Cara Lee                                                                                                                                        irritated and bleed, and can ultimately cause
                                                                                                                                                   tooth decay and gum disease, says O’Grady.
                                                                                                                                                                                                     out the toothpaste                               shrinks, too, so the tooth appears longer.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            “Bone loss can affect anyone, but is

                                                                                                                                                                                                     and leave the
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      more commonly seen in older people and it
                                                                                                                                                   Never Rinse After Cleaning                                                                         can cause death to loosen and fall out”, says
                                                                                                                                                   Many of us rinse our mouths with water                                                             ONeil. “People don’t feel it happening until
                                                                                                                                                   after brushing, this can actually lead to
                                                                                                                                                   tooth decay, says ONeill, who is also a           residue on the                                   their teeth starts to feel loose and by then
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      it’s too late.”

                                                                                                                                                                                                     teeth rather than
                                                                                                                                                   practicing hygienist in Belfast. The point of                                                            Gum disease is linked with numerous
                                                                                                                                                   using fluoride toothpaste is to let the residue                                                    health problems,
                                                                                                                                                   sit on the surface of the teeth. Fluoride
                                                                                                                                                   strengthens the tooth’s surface, so it’s more
                                                                                                                                                   resistant to acid from food.                      rinsing it away                                  Yes, You Should Brush Your
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Tongue
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Clean all of your mouth – including the
                                                                                                                                                   “Brush your teeth until they are clean, then
                                                                                                                                                   spit out the toothpaste and leave the residue     with water.”                                     tongue, says O’Grandy. Not cleaning the
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      tongue can cause a film of plaque to build
                                                                                                                                                   on the teeth rather than rinsing it away with                                                      up on it, which can lead to bad breath and
                                                                                                                                                   water,” says ONeill.                                                                               gum disease because you are harboring
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      more bacteria.
                                                                                                                                                   Strawberries Will Whiten                          wait an hour before brushing. For the same       	You can clean your tongue with a
                                                                                                                                                   Your Teeth.                                       reason, it’s best to brush before-rather than    toothbrush or special tongue scraper – but
                                                                                                                                                   Strawberries can improve the appearance           after–eating, including breakfast.               don’t be too rough. Anything too aggressive
                                                                                                                                                   of your smile. Studies have shown that they            If you don’t brush before breakfast, it     can take the surface off the tongue. You just
                                                                                                                                                   have a gentle whitening effect on teeth           means bacteria on the teeth that haven’t         need to dust the light film away’. O’Grady
                                                                                                                                                   says, says O’Grady. They contain malic acid,      been removed by brushing will react with         adds that toothpaste isn’t necessary on the
                                                                                                                                                   which has been found to buff stains from          sugar from food to make acid and dissolve        tongue, as it’s about removing bacteria.
                                                                                                                                                   the teeth. Keep them to meal times, though,       in the teeth.
                                                                                                                                                   and don’t over indulge, as advice about                “People think brushing and cleaning is      Bleeding Gum? You May Be
                                                                                                                                                   snacking on fruits (see above) still applies.     about getting rid of remnants of foods, but      Pregnant.
                                                                                                                                                   But beware of eating too many dark berries        it’s about reducing bacteria levels.” Most       Aside from dental health, hygienists can
                                                                                                                                                   such as blueberries and cherries as these         important is to brush your teeth before bed.     help spot what’s going on elsewhere in the
                                                                                                                                                   along with drinks such as tea, coffee and red     ‘ If there are high levels of bacteria in the    body by looking in the month. Bleeding
                                                                                                                                                   wine can stain your teeth.                        mouth then, they can multiply throughout         gum can suggest they are reacting to plague

L
                                                                                                                                                                                                     the night.                                       in the mouth; for example – this is often
             ooking after your teeth isn’t just   particularly on sugary foods, can wreck          sweets – sucking on them means your             Floss Everyday To Kill                                                                             linked with hormones and can occur during
             about preserving your smile;         your teeth. Bacteria feed on sugars on the       teeth are stilling in an acidic bath – and      Bacteria                                          …And Don’t Press Too Hard                        pregnancy. In rare cases, bleeding gums can
             Increasingly, evidence suggests      tooth’s surface to produce acid, which can       fizzy drinks. If you do have to drink one,      Everyone should use floss or use interdental      Brushing your teeth the wrong way can            suggest leukaemia or liver disease.
             it’s vital for all-round health.     weaken the enamel and deplete minerals           drink it through a straw, so the citric         brushes between the teeth once a day- this is     do more harm than good. “A lot of people         	Meanwhile, mouth ulcers can be a sign
             Research published in the            such as calcium, leading to cavities. The        acid has no direct contact with your tee        not just to clear out food debris, but also to    have receding gums because they scrub their      of iron and vitamin deficiencies, while dry
journal Immunity suggested that a type of         body’s natural defense against this is saliva,   th.                                             get ride of the bacteria that can cause dental    teeth vigorously, mistakenly thinking it’s the   mouth can be a side – effect of medication.
bacteria which causes gum disease, could          which neutralizes the pH in the mouth,                                                           disease.                                          best way to clean them,” says ONeill.
make you more vulnerable to cancer.               re-mineralizing the tooth after eating – a       Why Diabetics Must Be Extra                         “Bacteria are microscopic and can get         	Receding gums can cause the teeth               Ps: A Face Flannel Can Come
  	Scientists found the bacteria attached         process that takes about 40 minutes.             Careful                                         into any space,” says ONeill. Flossing helps      to become more sensitive because nerves          In Handy.
itself to the part of the immune system               “Constant grazing doesn’t give the body      Emerging research is showing that diabetes      disrupt bio film (the gluey mass of bacteria).    become exposed, and to look long and             Ever cleaned your mouth with your finger
responsible for attacking cancer cells,           chance to repair the damage,” says Michaela      and gum disease are strongly linked. So                                                           unsightly. She says it is important to clean     when you’ve forgotten your toothbrush? A
interfering with their protective role. The       ONeill, President of the British Society of      if you have diabetes, you need to be extra      Don’t Brush For An Hour                           the gums without pushing them too hard.          better option is using a clean face flannel
bad news is that up to 47 percent of the          Dental Hygiene and Therapy. Even a cup of        vigilant with your dental health.               After Wine                                        “Even with electric brushes, you can brush       placed over your finger – ideally with
population have moderate to severe gum            tea every hour could be harmful if you take      	Diabetic complications. Those with             People often brush their teeth and                too hard.”                                       toothpaste on it, says ONeill.
disease according to the adult dental health      sugar in it. “Stick to three or four meals a     uncontrolled diabetes are especially at risk.   immediately after drinking red wine to                People also incorrectly brush back               A face cloth has a rougher surface
survey. The good news is there are simple         day and keep your sugar consumption for          “People with diabetes should see a hygienist    avoid stains, but this can be damaging, says      and forth, which can wear away enamel            than a finger, so it helps to remove plaque,
tricks to protect your teeth. We spoke to         mealtimes, to reduce the number of acid          regularly,” says ONeil.                         Christiana Chatfield, a hygienist and owner       and gum, instead of using a gentle circular      which is sticky. If stuck without toothpaste,
dental hygienists to discover the tips they       attacks,” she says.                                                                              of Dental Health Spa in Brighton and              motion to reach all the tooth and gum.           a mouthwash with fluoride will help to
use themselves.                                       If you must snack, fatty foods aren’t as     Check Plaque With A Weekly                      spokeswoman for the British Dental Health         	You should use a toothbrush with a              remove some bacteria, though it won’t
                                                  damaging to the teeth as sugary ones, so         Do It Yourself Test                             Foundation.                                       medium-firm head, at a 45-degree angle           physically remove plaque.
Snack On Cheese, Not Fruit                        choose hummus, nuts or cheese instead.           Use disclosing tablets a few times a week to        “Wine is acidic, so it causes enamel and      where the gum and the teeth meet, says
Having a piece of fruit mid-morning               In fact, cheese increases saliva, which          test how well you are cleaning your teeth,      brushing white teeth are in that weakened         O’Grady. This angle will prevent damage to
might seem a healthy habit but snacking           neutralizes acid, says ONeill. Avoid hard        says dental hygienist Claire O’Grady, from      state can wear them away,” she says. Instead,     the gum as it follows the gum’s contour.

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                                                                                                                                                Entrepreneurs become what they are for             4. Caring                                       bear seeds for further growth. Note however,
                                                                                                                                                several reasons. Many, depending on the            Being kind, compassionate and caring at         that an Idea has no body of its own, and
                                                                                                                                                person, having a genuine passion to innovate       every opportunity.                              so it must take up the body of the human,
                                                                                                                                                and or create something of value for self                                                          transforming the host as the idea grows. The
                                                                                                                                                or society. Some choose to do so to avoid          I am also of the school of thought that ideas   host that is pregnant with ideas would break
                                                                                                                                                the politics in offices, or discrimination         and not capital or mineral resources create     unnecessary and unprofitable associations
                                                                                                                                                (perceived or real), exploitation, or a genuine    wealth. Mineral resources on their own          and start helpful ones. Such an individual
                                                                                                                                                desire to take charge of their own life. People    are nothing, but through ideas their use is     would sleep less, always seeking for new
                                                                                                                                                also become entrepreneurs in the face of           determined. Ideas create wealth. When it        opportunities to refine and express the idea.
                                                                                                                                                biting unemployment or underemployment.            does not there must be something wrong          Someone has to pay the price for that idea
                                                                                                                                                Entrepreneurs also take bits of wisdom from        with the logic behind the idea because an       to come alive. Ideas are not free.
                                                                                                                                                different people or sources even when they         idea is programmed to grow and adapt and
                                                                                                                                                do not agree with some of their values. They                                                       In articulating a sound entrepreneurial

                                                                                                                                                                                                    An entrepreneur
                                                                                                                                                operate on the principle that no knowledge                                                         idea, an important question to ask is: “why
                                                                                                                                                is lost.                                                                                           do we exist?” It is common to make the
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   mistake of answering this question with “To
                                                                                                                                                It is also important to discuss the significance
                                                                                                                                                of the right attitude and character required
                                                                                                                                                                                                    is someone who                                 make money.” While profit is essential for
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   the survival of business, it must never be
                                                                                                                                                for a successful entrepreneurial journey.
                                                                                                                                                                                                      undertakes a                                 regarded as the company's main reason for
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   being. There is a saying that "you need health
                                                                                                                                                Attitude is the established way of                                                                 to live, but you don't live to be healthy".
                                                                                                                                                responding to people and situations that
                                                                                                                                                we have learned, based on the beliefs and
                                                                                                                                                                                                     business, often                               Profits are like that for business. A company
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   needs profits to continue, but profits only
                                                                                                                                                values we hold. According to the Chambers
                                                                                                                                                21st Century Dictionary, attitude means:               at personal                                 as an objective will kill the business. If we
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   want to know what a business is, we have

                                                                                                                                                                                                     financial risks
                                                                                                                                                A way of thinking or behaving. Beliefs are                                                         to start with its purpose and the purpose
                                                                                                                                                the assumptions we make about ourselves,                                                           must lie outside the business itself. Basically,
                                                                                                                                                others in the world, and how we expect                                                             it must lie in the society, since a business
                                                                                                                                                things to be. Until your mind changes, your                                                        enterprise is an organ of society. According
                                                                                                                                                life cannot begin to change. You can’t think
                                                                                                                                                poor and expect to be prosperous. The man
                                                                                                                                                goes where the mind goes. If you think you
                                                                                                                                                can do something, you're right; if you also
                                                                                                                                                think you cannot do it you’re also right. It
                                                                                                                                                all depends on YOU.

Getting Involved
                                                                                                                                                Character is the aggregate of features and
                                                                                                                                                traits that form the individual. Our character
                                                                                                                                                is who we are as individuals. Our character
                                                                                                                                                in turn determines our responses. That is
                                                                                                                                                why a person who is wrongfully perceived to

through Entrepreneurship
                                                                                                                                                be upright and of good character could act
                                                                                                                                                opposite when no one is looking. Attitude
                                                                                                                                                can be faked, but true character always
                                                                                                                                                shows up. There are several character traits
By Olusoji Oyawoye aCOP, MIoD, fAOPN                                                                                                            that an entrepreneur should exhibit, but
Social Entrepreneur, Capacity Builder, Mentor and MD/CEO Resource Intermediaries Limited                                                        here are a few of them:

D
                                                                                                                                                1.	Trustworthiness
                  reams     are    renewable    better, and thus adding value.                       all employees are treated fairly           Being honest. Simply have the courage to
                  no matter your age or                                                         3.   They actively seek and recognise 		        do the right thing(s).
                  condition. There are always   An entrepreneur is someone who undertakes            opportunities
                  untapped possibilities and    a business, often at personal and financial     4.   They persist and are not easily deterred   2.	Responsibility
                  new ideas waiting to be       risks. The term was originally a loanword            from their goals                           Taking responsibility knowing that he or
born. Consequently, it is never too late to     from the French language and was first          5.   They take obligations seriously            she has the ability to respond one way or the
pursue your dream. Many wrongly conclude        defined by the Irish-French economist           6.   They set clear and specific goals          other in all situations.
that they can’t be entrepreneurs because        Richard Cantillon. Generally, successful        7.   They actively seek and gather
they can’t create something new. The truth is   entrepreneurs have the following nine traits:        information relevant to their business     3. Fairness
that most entrepreneurs really never create                                                     8.   They network                               Being open-minded. Listening to others.
anything new. They leverage on ideas, taking    1. They take risks                              9.   They are able to work without 		           Someone who introspects regularly, and
what already exists, creatively making it       2. They demand efficiency and ensure that            supervision and are very independent       who acts to address wrongs.

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to Peter F. Drucker, there is only one valid                            have not provided a step-by-step process
purpose for a business, and that is to create a                         to start or run a business. Well, do not
customer. This is because as Peter F. Drucker
wrote, “The customer is the foundation of a
                                                    Entrepreneurial     be discouraged because each idea is as
                                                                        unique as the host “carrier” of that idea.
business and keeps it in existence. He alone
gives employment. To supply the wants                 spirits drive     It is important to recognise that the fact
                                                                        someone started a fast food restaurant from
and needs of a consumer, society entrusts                               their garage and has gone on to become a
wealth-producing resources to the business
enterprise.”
                                                    innovation and      franchise business, does not mean that you
                                                                        can be that successful in the same business,

To be a successful entrepreneur, effective          competition and     even if you are a better cook. It is important
                                                                        that each person discovers God’s purpose

                                                   they usually have
leadership is also important. The                                       for their life, because therein lies that one
entrepreneur leads the firm or organisation                             idea that they are created for and through
and also demonstrates leadership qualities                              which their entrepreneurial skills could be
by selecting managerial staff. Management
skills and strong team building abilities are
                                                    low-level entry     developed.

essential leadership attributes for successful
entrepreneurs. Leadership is an intangible           and moderate       In conclusion, there are lots of opportunities
                                                                        for small and medium scale enterprises
virtue principally made up of people skills                             (SMEs), they are the engine of any
and a bit of strategy. I would say people skills
account for about eighty per cent (80%)
                                                     running costs.     economy, creating employment and wealth.
                                                                        Entrepreneurial spirits drive innovation and
of what makes an effective leader leaving
twenty per cent (20%) to strategy, and this             Above all,      competition and they usually have low-level
                                                                        entry and moderate running costs. Above

                                                       they impact
is exactly why many start-ups fail. Most                                all, they impact communities directly. “The
“owners” ignore people management issues                                future of the Nigerian economy (any economy

                                                                                                                                                                         UP
since the business idea is theirs and they                              in fact – my emphasis) cannot be solely
probably perceive that they understand the
vision best. This is a grave mistake because
                                                      communities       determined by the performances of the bigger
                                                                        companies; the future of Nigeria lies in the
ideas on their own are worthless. They need
                                                         directly.      development of the SMEs.”

                                                                                                                            Stand
human hosts to be expressed                                                - Professor. Pat Utomi (The Punch, April 2008)

A few people may be disappointed that I

                                                                                                                                                                                                                   By Dr. Femi Omololu

                                                                                                                            T                                                                                                 It was amazing
                                                                                                                                             he stench of the prison was     smell didn't bother her anymore. The story
                                                                                                                                             stifling. It was a mixture of   of the 20 year old inmate she was interacting
                                                                                                                                             things she didn't want to       with was keeping her seated even though it
                                                                                                                                             imagine. She was nauseous
                                                                                                                                             and wondered if this had
                                                                                                                                                                             was time to go. He was unlucky to be here.
                                                                                                                                                                             He had bad friends and was picked up with
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 how just the
                                                                                                                            been a mistake. Surely I don't belong here
                                                                                                                            she told herself. Indeed her clean jeans
                                                                                                                                                                             them when they were arrested for a crime.
                                                                                                                                                                             He knew they were guilty but he wasn't.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  thought of
                                                                                                                                                                                                                              getting involved
                                                                                                                            and polo T Shirt did announce her as a           He accepted his "guilt" for associating with
                                                                                                                            misplaced person. Still, it had to be done.      them. He pleaded for mercy from her like
                                                                                                                            She had signed up for this and she would         she was the judge. He begged for another
                                                                                                                            see it through. She and the others were
                                                                                                                            ushered into a courtyard where the inmates
                                                                                                                                                                             chance like she was God. He thanked her
                                                                                                                                                                             for her kindness because she was Chika.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                              lifted his spirits.
                                                                                                                            were sitting. They were waiting for them.
                                                                                                                            Their eyes lit up when they saw the goodies
                                                                                                                                                                             The tears dripped from her eyes. Was this
                                                                                                                                                                             the selfish Chika who didn't care for anyone
                                                                                                                                                                                                                              He couldn't wait
                                                                                                                            Chika and her colleagues had brought. She
                                                                                                                            had been told the reception would be warm,
                                                                                                                                                                             else? Chika whose life had become empty
                                                                                                                                                                             from self centeredness? Chika who had once       to experience the
                                                                                                                            but it wasn't how she had expected it. The
                                                                                                                                                                                                                             feeling of actually
                                                                                                                                                                             thought the world revolved around her?
                                                                                                                            warmth was in the eyes. They broke into
                                                                                                                            groups to meet with the inmates individually.    No it wasn't. This was a new Chika. She had
                                                                                                                            They would also share the goodies and some
                                                                                                                            words of encouragement.
                                                                                                                                                                             reluctantly joined her colleagues from work
                                                                                                                                                                             on this "mission" trip. This was a new Chika.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                             getting his hands
                                                                                                                            Two hours later, she didn't want to leave, the
                                                                                                                                                                             The new Chika had been freed by a young
                                                                                                                                                                             man in a cell. She knew she would never be              wet.
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                                                      Let's find                                                                                     First Time Mum:
the same again. She was standing up. She                                                           and even the beggars along his path. He had
had gotten involved.                                                                               been involved in all these associations. There

                                                     something
                                                                                                   were many his life had touched who didn't

                                                                                                                                                     A Personal Experience
"Get involved? Why should I?" asked                                                                even know his name or know of his passing,
Tunde. I really don't know what to do. I'm                                                         but the two minutes of interaction had been
not outgoing. I'm shy. Who will listen to
me? I'd rather just wait my turn. I'm praying
                                                  meaningful to                                    significant. Even as he had laid in the coffin,
                                                                                                   it looked like Mike was standing tall. There
over it. I believe things will turn around
soon. They have to! I'm not proud, I'm just       get involved in                                  was something angelic about him but in
                                                                                                   reality he was human. That meant that he
                                                                                                                                                     By Adeyinka Fowowe

                                                   today so that
okay with the way I am now. Everyone is                                                            wasn't perfect, but his positives buried his
in a rush. Everyone wants to be perfect.                                                           negatives so much they could not be seen.
Everyone wants to impress others. I don't                                                          Indeed that night Amina, who despised
roll that way. I just take my time, accept who
I am and do my thing.
                                                   we can truly                                    him was broken. The realization that there
                                                                                                   was no real reason to hate was eating her

"But who are you?" said a voice in his head.
                                                 experience the joy                                up in her bed, just like the worms would
                                                                                                   eventually eat up Mike's lifeless form.
"Are you good enough? Are you the best
you can be?"                                          of living.                                   Not just Mike, but also Tunde, Chika, you
                                                                                                   and me. Let's find something meaningful to
"I'm making progress,"Tunde replied. "Slow                                                         get involved in today so that we can truly
and steady, don't rush me."                                                                        experience the joy of living.
                                                 the thought of getting involved lifted his
"Ok Double T," said the voice.                   spirits. He couldn't wait to experience the
                                                 feeling of actually getting his hands wet. He
"What do you mean Double T?" Tunde               rubbed them together in anticipation.

                                                                                                     "Get involved?
queried.
                                                 The day had finally ended. The funeral was
"Tunde the Tortoise. You really love folk        over. The reception was not loud and there
tales. Just know that the tortoise kept on
moving. He actually ran the race."
                                                 was a deep persistent reflection by all those
                                                 who were there. The premature passing of a
                                                                                                     Why should I?"
This hit Tunde where it hurt. That's the
                                                 42 year old was rarely cause for celebration
                                                 and noise. Of course there were tears but the
                                                                                                     asked Tunde. I
                                                                                                   really don't know
same place where things make sense. He           eulogies had brought tears from a different
had no defence or response anymore. The          stimulus. No one could quite explain
anguish was deep. Being jobless for four         what the stimulus was, but as many of the
years and not facing his realities made this
bluntness abrupt. He hadn't lacked, as his
                                                 attendees thought about Mike before they
                                                 went to bed that night, they knew it was the
                                                                                                    what to do. I'm
wealthy parents, albeit separated, had always
provided for him. Well, in honesty, he always
                                                 fulfillment of Mike's short life that brought
                                                 the tears. It seemed Mike had done it all as
                                                                                                   not outgoing. I'm
had a story for them. They were so gullible!
But something was happening within him.
                                                 the eulogies had poured in. It was obvious
                                                 they weren't "being nice" eulogies, but heart        shy. Who will
He looked at the magazine cover again and
                                                                                                    listen to me? I'd
                                                 felt ones. Here was a man who had found
the words spoke to him in the same place         the right balance in life. He had loved God
the Double T taunt had pierced him. "Get         and man. He had served God and man. He

                                                                                                                                                     T
involved".                                       had involved himself with both God and
                                                 man. God and men had yielded to him.
                                                                                                    rather just wait                                              he concept of “mummy-             (Don’t tell him I said that) This is often      that only God knows why the baby is crying
                                                                                                                                                                  hood” was naive to me when I      based on the assumption that “it is her duty,   and what could pacify her. However, I think
He was waiting to see a friend from school
who had kept him waiting for 3 hours
                                                 As the tributes had flowed, it seemed God
                                                 himself was giving an eulogy. They all felt it.       my turn. I'm                                               looked through the binoculars
                                                                                                                                                                  of a daughter. My definition
                                                                                                                                                                                                    if she doesn’t, why then is she a mum?”         I have learnt and I’m still learning to cope
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    each new day.

                                                                                                    praying over it.
now. He suddenly knew he was a pest. He          There was a palpable force in the air.                                                                           of a mum would suggest ‘that      I have come to understand or rather learn
asked the receptionist if he could take the                                                                                                          figure that was more domesticated of the       that, having to multitask and juggle between    During my maternity leave, I was faffing and
magazine. The articles within had rekindled      Mike had been a go getter. He rarely                                                                two figures called parents’. However my        cuddling, taking care of my little angel and    lounging in the house with both grandmas
something in him. He would need a
reminder. He was elated when she said he
                                                 complained. He stood for what was right. He
                                                 was very objective. He loved to help people.
                                                                                                    I believe things                                 journey into being a “first time mum” has
                                                                                                                                                     shifted my paradigm in a swift swoop.
                                                                                                                                                                                                    household chores like a yoyo is one thing,
                                                                                                                                                                                                    and then coping with official duties at work
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    and family members taking turns to babysit
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    my daughter until reality dawned on me

                                                                                                   will turn around
                                                                                                                                                                                                    as a mum is another ball game. As a career      when I had to resume at work. As a Lagos
could take it.                                   He did so with his substance and time. He
                                                                                                                                                     Being a mum is a tasking ‘no pay, no thanks’   lady, blending the demands of being a mum,      family, my husband and I have to wake up
                                                 was loved by his colleagues at work, by his                                                         full time job. You may also escape without     a wife and still deliver on official duties/    early to get ready for work and guess what?

                                                                                                           soon
As he stood up to leave, he felt more than his   old school mates, by his church members, by                                                         a ‘well done’ compliment from anyone, not      targets could be challenging, if you consider   In less than twenty minutes, hubby, baby
body was being lifted. He left the building      his cycling club members, by his mechanic,                                                          even your husband. Not even my husband         sleepless nights you get to experience,         and I are in the car headed for the office.
feeling different. It was amazing how just       the estate security men, messengers at work                                                         says ‘thank you dear’ for being a super-mum.   coping with late night cries and whining        Fortunately for me, my office has a crèche,

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which gives me the opportunity to check on
my daughter and also ‘booby feed’ her. (sure
you know what that means)

Hmm…, I’d say the most multitasking
part of being a ‘career mum’ is when I get
back from work and I have a lot to do, like
cleaning the bathroom which was left in
a mess while rushing out in the morning,
giving my baby a bath, cooking dinner (I
don’t like to eat stale food, so I cook fresh
meals almost every day) and sometimes iron
my work clothes for the next day. While
driving home, I plan what to cook for dinner
and what to wear the next working day. On
getting home, my daughter wants to play
while I want to get busy. I play with her for
a while, then dip her in the bath as I sing
“He’s got the whole world in His hands”,
we sing and laugh as we get ready for bed.
She never sleeps immediately, so I place
her in her little rocker and then rock and
sing her to sleep. That sounds easy. Right?
Naaahhh, not so easy. Sometimes she cries
for attention because she is alone in the
sitting room while I am in the kitchen but
I try to pretend not to hear her and allow
her crying voice sound like rhymes to my
ears. You would probably think I am not a
nice mum? Not to worry, I know when she
is faking the cry and when it’s real. In fact
just so I can give her the attention required
I eat my meal like I am trying to break the
world record for fastest food devourer and
guess what? At times we visit the “white
house” together, baby on one hand while
the action goes on; sure some mothers have
experienced this when alone with their lil’
baby and “white house” call simultaneously.

Back to how we manage when alone,
sometimes ignoring her does not last,                Get a nanny- or engage family members       not to allow planning time exceed 30
because she starts crying for real when I leave       to help care for your baby. (Do not shop    minutes.
her unattended to for too long. #phew# so             for Nannies online, for security reasons)
I move to the African style of strapping her                                                      I know it is easy to say we want to do it
to my back with a wrapper which she enjoys           Housekeeping- Clean the floors during       all because as women, that is how we are
because she is closer to me, sees what I’m            the weekend, laundry on Friday nights       wired. But we all need a break, we all need
doing as we sing and talk the “Cooo Wooo              and fold clothes on Saturday mornings.      a breather, and asking for the help to make
Fooo Yooo Daaa Ahaaa” discussion till she             This gives a less stressful weekend with    that happen is ok.
shuts down like a weak radio battery.                 time for one’s self.
                                                                                                  Oh! I’m so proud to be a first time mum
Some days are better than others when                Weekly clothes should be ironed out         and I love it!
caring for babies. Check out some tips that           for every member of the family
work for some families and mine that you
can probably learn and apply to your lives           Plan your workout- at least 3 times a       Adeyinka Fowowe is a first time mum of
when you become a ‘working-nursing mum’:                                                          a beautiful baby girl, who is the center of
                                                      week for a minimum of working out           her world and inspires her not just about
Some tips for making life work                        for 30 minutes to keep the body fit. You    motherhood but life in general. She is
as a working mum                                      need the energy.                            passionate about her career as a Human
                                                                                                  Resource Consultant who juggles work
    Meal plan- Make a schedule for food             Ask hubby for help when you need one        successfully with ensuring her family is
     to be eaten during the week. It makes                                                        well cared for. She is also passionate about
     life a lot easier when there is a plan/      	Eat and rest well when you can.               training and public speaking.
     schedule to follow through. You can keep
     the food items fresh by refrigerating.       Bottom-line, in preparing for the coming
                                                  week during the weekend, always endeavor

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                                                                                                                                  I think the youths have a splendid           Sir, can you tell us how business owners,   A key example of my getting involved
                                                                                                                                  opportunity to be positive contributors      managers or team leads can encourage        with a visible public impact would be
                                                                                                                                  to outcomes, early on in their lives         staff and colleagues get involved to        the work done by the Valour Group,
                                                                                                                                  however this is a concept that may not be    help move the organisation and nation       a group of volunteers in support of
                                                                                                                                  fully grasped because at that age, several   forward?                                    the aspiration of Prof. Osinbajo to

Getting Involved
                                                                                                                                  other interests are competing for one’s                                                  be elected as the Vice-Presidential
                                                                                                                                  attention. For Nigerians in general, it      The starting point has to be one’s          candidate of the Federal Republic of
                                                                                                                                  is pleasing to see a positive upswing in     personal values. Values of integrity,       Nigeria on the platform of the All-
                                                                                                                                  desire by people to seek to influence        equity and transparency, when mixed         Progressives Congress (APC). In this

- A Leader's Perspective                                                                                                          the outcomes in spheres of influence.
                                                                                                                                  As a nation, our historical antecedents
                                                                                                                                  hitherto hindered this concept of
                                                                                                                                                                               with competence and hardwork have
                                                                                                                                                                               a way of convincing one’s colleagues
                                                                                                                                                                                                                           group we coordinated an effective
                                                                                                                                                                                                                           fund-raising campaign, with the funds
                                                                                                                                                                                                                           deployed on campaign and media
by Mr. Chinedu Onyia
                                                                                                                                  inclusion however with broader
                                                                                                                                  education and particularly exposure
                                                                                                                                                                                     Getting                               initiatives towards the realization of the
                                                                                                                                                                                                                           objectives of promoting integrity and
Good day sir and thank you for
granting Skribble this rare opportunity
                                                                                      of Parsifal Partners Limited, a strategy
                                                                                      consulting and business advisory firm
                                                                                                                                  to global trends due to the advent
                                                                                                                                  of technology, these impediments to
                                                                                                                                                                                   involved is                             honesty in governance. All of this was
                                                                                                                                                                                                                           hinged on a strong platform of group
to interview you. Skribble is a bi-                                                   involved in a few interesting mandates      inclusion are being removed.                   about “giving”                            prayer and thankfully it was successful.
annual magazine published by                                                          in manufacturing, technology and real-                                                                                               However, for every parent that “gives”
Resource Intermediaries Limited a                                                     estate. As interestingly challenging as     With your wealth of experience and              and when you                             to his child (ren) by attending every
leading Human Resource Outsourcing                                                    this 3-year entrepreneurial journey has     exposure, how can getting involved help                                                  school function or waking up early on
organisation in Nigeria.                                                              been, it would have been much harder        an employee progress in an organisation?       give of yourself,                         Saturday mornings to accompany the
                                                                                      if not for the combined life experiences    How can it also help in building great                                                   child to football practice or for every
Good day. It is indeed an honour for                                                  along my career and now can confidently     people or a great Nation?                      you learn more                            husband that supports his wife in all her

                                                                                                                                                                                   and are also
me to contribute to this publication.                                                 state that I wouldn’t swap this place for                                                                                            endeavors (work and home), these are
I’ve read a few past editions of Skribble                                             a place in paid-employment.                 As mentioned earlier, an input in one                                                    equally important examples of “giving”,

                                                                                                                                                                                 entrusted with
and I’m impressed with the broad range                                                                                            sphere eventually has an impact in the                                                   with invaluable positive impacts on
of interests featured and depth of the                                                With your wealth of experience, how         others; as such our disposition in our                                                   family life and balance. Thankfully by

                                                                                                                                                                                      more.
topics covered. The gratitude is mine.                                                would you explain the concept "Get          organization actually has an impact to                                                   His Grace I’m able to do all these.
                                                                                      Involved"?                                  the state of our community and nation.
Sir, today, you are an entrepreneur and                                                                                                                                                                                    Sir, could you encourage our readers
                                                      Mr. Chinedu Onyia
Managing Director/CEO of Parsifal                                                     I think it has to be a mindset. “Getting    For an employee, seeking to get                                                          on how to achieve their life's goals and
Partners Limited. Can you give us a                                                   involved” entails a keenness to             involved immediately projects a positive     about the authenticity of one’s motives.    purpose by Getting Involved?
brief insight about your walk up the                                                  contribute to any sphere of influence one   disposition that can endear you to the       Once this is established, people are the
ladder?                                     deeply imbibed, it continues to form      is connected to. These “spheres” include    organization. Getting involved is about      encouraged to come forward. Thereafter,     We each need to get involved in our
                                            the foundation by which one operates,     family, place of faith, work environment    “giving” and when you give of yourself,      leaders should seek to display a positive   sphere of influence as we each have
I’m a chemical engineer by profession       throughout one’s career (whether in       and indeed your community/nation.           you learn more and are also entrusted        disposition through proper etiquette        some input to make. Why wait for
but never worked in that industry,          employment or a self-employed). In        Indeed, they are all related because any    with more. These are certainly recipes       and constructive engagement including       others to shape our outcomes when
opting instead after my degree from         late 2003, I joined a Nigerian-owned      input in one sphere affects the others.     for swift elevation in the organization.     any criticisms: nothing pushes others       we can do so ourselves? Lastly, there’s
the University of Lagos, to join the        banking institution – Afribank, as part   It requires adopting a proactive attitude   It is easier to sit on the sidelines and     away than scathing responses to             nothing worse than standing by the
banking industry. I started my career       of a turnaround team. This 6-year stint   that says “I will contribute towards        do nothing, but even Scripture states        contributions. Lastly, leaders need to      sidelines and complaining about the
in the then Int’l Merchant Bank             in a local institution exposed me to a    shaping/influencing the outcomes that       that “it is more blessed to give than to     adopt a broad and transparent range         outcome when one could have gotten
(IMB) and thereafter (3 years) joined       different set of life-issues, requiring   I desire”, rather than be complacent        receive”. When you have people who           of reward mechanisms for those inputs       involved.
Citibank wherein I spent 13 years.          a different skill set. The exposure and   and sitting on the sideline. In the end,    “give” to their place of employment,         that added value. This will further
I call these my formative years in          experiences while in Afribank and         getting involved is about “giving”.         most times these are also the people         encourage inclusion.                        Thank you very much for your time sir
banking and finance as the experience       particularly thereafter, have provided                                                who are passionate about improving the                                                   and God bless you.
in a strong, foreign banking institution    me with an invaluable platform for        Sir, having said all of these, how          state of the nation. Thankfully, there are   Can you give a personal experience of
exposed me to global best-practices.        guiding me through life’s challenges      important is it for youths or Nigerians     now more avenues to get involved in the      how Getting Involved has helped define      Once again, the honour and pleasure is
The interesting thing about the concept     and propelling me even higher up in       generally to get involved?                  community and even at national level.        certain aspects of your life or career?     all mine. Thank you.
of “best-practice” is that once it is       my career. Today, I am a co-founder

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