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Questions to ask
your photographer
Pg. 4
2019 wedding
color trends
Pg. 6
Selecting a wedding
reception menu
Pg. 7
February 13, 2019 Special Edition of:
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Wedding Planner Checklist
Start here Three Months Before Week of Wedding Wedding
Set your date and venues Choose the menu Discuss time frame with vendors Announcement Policy
and flowers for Courier, Advance
Reserve your officiant Deliver timeline to bridal party
Select favors Have contact information of all and Star newspapers
Begin a wedding Order products with his and your name members. A wedding announcement is $5 for a
binder/folder printed on them. photo and short description or $30 for
Browse through fashion, lifestyle, bridal, Pick up wedding attire
a photo and a complete description.
design, food and gardening magazines Buy undergarments
for ideas. Plan your second fitting.
Prepare for honeymoon Wedding announcements and photos
must be submitted no later than six
Set your budget Prepare the order of the Double check thank-you notes months after the event.
ceremony and reception
Choose your wedding party
Order programs
Begin a guest list
Applying for a Marriage License
Search for caterers, bands, Prior to a marriage ceremony in Iowa, pear at a local ofice.
florists and Two Months Before a License to Marry needs to be applied Couples are encouraged to apply sev-
photographers for at a county Recorder’s ofice. You can eral weeks ahead of their wedding date.
Check with all vendors
Make any changes they may have apply at any county ofice to be married There is a 3-day waiting period for the
on your schedule of events. in Iowa. Both parties and an individual license to be valid. A $35 fee is due upon
Seven to Six of legal age who is acquainted with both application for the license to marry, and
Months Before Meet your photographer parties need to be present when applying includes a certiied copy of the Certiicate
Discuss location and photos you prefer. for the license. All parties need to present of Marriage. The Certiicate of Marriage
Find & purchase invitations their driver’s license or ID when signing will be mailed to the couple after the mar-
Book your hair, makeup the application. Contact a county Record- riage. If you have any questions about ap-
Plan your honeymoon and vendors er’s ofice to obtain an application by mail, plying for a marriage license, contact a
Check that your passports are up-to-date if it isn’t convenient for all parties to ap- county Recorder’s ofice.
Mail out invitations
Search for bridesmaids’ dresses and map of directions
Could take six months to be ordered Set RSVP at three weeks.
and sized.
Showcase your wedding
Find a florist announcement in the
Choose your color palette. newspaper
An engagement with a photo is $5.
One Month Before The phrase “tying the knot” is steeped in lowers as part of wedding tradition. Yet,
tradition, though the origins of the phrase another theory suggests that the phrase
Transfer RSVPs to guest lists remain open for debate. One origin story can be traced back to the knotted string
Contact people who haven’t replied.
states that tying the knot can be traced that supported beds prior to the use of
Purchase marriage license back to the Roman empire, when brides metal springs. Therefore, in order to make
Could take up to six days. wore girdles that were tied in knots, and a marriage bed, couples irst needed to tie
Five to Four the groom had to eventually untie those the knot.
Send rehearsal dinner invites knots to consummate the marriage. Tying Knots also represent a dificult-to-
Months Before the knot also may be traced to the custom break bond, which is why they have long
Final dress fittings of handfasting. The marriage contract was been associated with marriage. In one
Reserve rehearsal and
established between a bride and a groom unity tradition, couples may braid or
rehearsal dinner location Make final payments by joining their hands together and knot together three strands, with one
Discuss the menu and price range.
Arrange seating for reception tying them. Although accounts vary as to representing the bride, one symbolizing
Choose your cake to order Sketch a layout of the room, use sticky whether the hands were tied only during the groom and the third representing God
Go to different tastings to pick which notes with guests’ names on them to the ceremony or later, this is believed to be as they join together in faith. Similarly, the
cake you like. quickly move them where needed. an ancient Renaissance or Celtic tradition. phrase “getting hitched” is associated with
Others speculate that the phrase traces knot-tying as well. The saying implies that
Buy wedding shoes and begin Shop for attendant gifts its origins to Hindu weddings in which two people are being tied together just
dress fittings Hand them out at the rehearsal dinner. brides and grooms tied a necklace of like a horse is tied, or hitched, to a wagon.
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Getting comfort and style in a wedding dress
edding gowns are an im- Purchase the right undergarments 12 weeks before the wedding. This is the
portant part of the wed- Improperly itting bras, shapewear and time it takes to complete most standard
ding day. The cost and sil- other undergarments can lead to dis- alterations. Brides should also budget a
houette of the dress may comfort. Some seamstresses can sew in minimum of $500 for alterations, which
garner the bulk of consid- supportive cups and brides can explore may or may not be included in the price
eration but brides might want to spend various options to reduce the visibility of of the dress.
more time considering comfort. Depend- certain things. Bring the undergarments Speak up
ing on the time of day their weddings take and the shoes you will wear at each itting. If anything is uncomfortable or needs
place, brides can spend 12 hours or more Move around in the gown tweaking, the seamstress can make al-
in their wedding gowns on their special Don’t just stand in front of the mirror terations, but only if they understand the
day. When shopping for a gown, brides and smile. Put the gown through some desires of the bride.
should look for a gown that’s both stun- paces, sitting, bending and even a little Check the details
ning and comfortable. When friends or dancing. Make sure you can comfortably The second itting is designed to check
family come along to offer advice, brides move around. that all issues from the irst itting have
feel pressure to downplay any discomfort. Try different styles been addressed. The gown should be
Consider the following tips to be lawless, The gown you have in mind may not comfortable and you should move freely.
elegant and comfortable in your gown. be the one you go home with. Try differ- At the last itting, ask the maid of honor
Know what to highlight and ent styles and materials–lighter weight or personal attendant to be there so that
what to cover up gowns for summer and heavier fabrics for they understand how to bustle or help
No two body types are the same. Spot- colder weather. you handle complicated straps or clo-
light your assets and downplay others. Try on sample gowns sures.
Gowns can be modiied so that you feel se- Most sizes will not be the size you wear Open communication with a seam-
cure and conident. Sleeves can be added every day so expect them to be ill-itting. Some shops will order a little larger size stress and bridal shop can ensure brides,
or fabric placed to cover up any perceived Once you choose a gown, the dress shop to allow for adequate tailoring. bridesmaids, and other family members
laws. Conidence and pride are important will take your measurements and order Schedule the irst itting get dresses that are beautiful and com-
parts of comfort. the gown according to a sizing guide. This should be anywhere from eight to fortable for the special day.
Questions to ask your photographer
he photographs from your •What’s your favorite part of the wed- additional fee? •What will you wear?
special day are priceless. ding? •How long after the wedding will we As with any of your wedding vendors,
You only get one shot to get •Do you shoot ilm and digital? wait to see photos? make sure you read and understand the
it right. Here are some ques- •Is the ilm black and white? •Have you ever shot at my venue before? contract. Also make sure the photographer
tions to help you ind the per- •What is your charge for overtime? •Do you use a list or do you prefer to can work with your venue with the light-
fect photographer – courtesy of “The Knot.” •Will you be my photographer or will it shoot as you go? ing and other equipment. Some venues re-
•Will the photos be retouched? be one of your associates? •What type of paper will you use for the strict the type of lighting that can be used
•Will I see proofs before or after? •Do you have backup if you’re sick or pictures and the album? during the ceremony. If you’re minding a
•How many weddings have you shot? have an emergency? •Can I share the pictures online? budget, make sure you also understand
•What is included in your packages? •Do you use assistants and is there an •Do you bring your own lighting? any extra fees that may arise.
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Tips for planning the Choosing color palettes olor can be a critical component much more.
perfect honeymoon when establishing the ambiance
for a wedding. Color can evoke
certain moods and set the tone
for the day. Some colors work better to-
Colors can come from anywhere, but
many couples try to coordinate their
color schemes with the season in which
the wedding takes place. In fact, couples
oneymoons are big busi- wedding. Here are some special loca- gether than others, so, while choosing a who ind it dificult to decide on a palette
ness, with the average tions and times to enjoy them. color scheme may seem like an easy un- can look to seasonal colors for inspira-
couple spending more Jamaica has average temps in the 80’s dertaking, some couples may ind it re- tion. For example, pastels and blooming
than $5,000 on their irst of- year round. January through April sees quires more careful consideration than lowers can set the scene for spring wed-
icial trip as husband and wife. less rain than other times. June through they irst imagined. dings, while jewel tones and rich reds
It’s important for couples working December is hurricane season. According to the bridal guide “A Prac- and greens may be itting for winter cer-
on budget to realize that there are plenty Australia has warmer temps and lon- tical Wedding,” wedding colors can give emonies.
of ways to plan a trip without breaking ger days in the winter months of North couples a starting-off point for all of the Some couples opt for more loosely de-
the bank. Couples can follow these strat- America. Australia and New Zealand are other details of their weddings. This en- ined color palettes, such as neutral and
egies as they plan their dream honey- beautiful spots to visit and enjoy while sures the wedding ultimately has a co- natural colors. Country and garden wed-
moon. family and friends are mired in winter. hesive look. Colors need not necessarily dings can borrow ideas from the land-
Plan and book early France can be enchanting to visit any match, but borrowing on similar hues scape, with natural linens paired with
The average engagement is 15 months time of year but locals advise couples can make it easier to plan wedding par- wildlowers. Using whites, grays and
long and that gives a couple plenty of to visit in September when the climate ty wardrobes, lowers, table linens, and beiges enables couples to add a pop of
time to shop for the best deals. is comfortable and tourism is minimal. color without overwhelming the setting.
Give consideration to all-inclusive Spring is another great time to visit Couples may have to incorporate col-
packages. These may be worth extra France if you want to spend time out- ors already at their wedding venues into
money upfront as they include meals, doors. their style. Fortunately, many reception
beverages and fun activities the couple Mexico is warm all year long but can sites are outitted in neutral tones to en-
would otherwise have to pay for sepa- be particularly hot in the summer. Ven- able customization.
rately. They may also remove some of ture there before summer is in full swing Brides magazine suggests that couples
the work of planning the honeymoon. and avoid vacationing in certain areas in avoid choosing too many colors. A maxi-
Resorts might not advertise it but many March, when students come in for spring mum of three with one metallic can en-
offer special amenities to honeymooning break. sure that things look cohesive without
couples like complimentary spa services, Hawaii is ideal in the spring and sum- being over-the-top.
free room upgrade, when available, and mer and costs are less expensive during Some of the 2019 wedding color
more. these times. Rains increase as autumn trends are shades of :
Delay the honeymoon sets in and Hawaii sees the bulk of va- •Berry pink (pictured at left)
Couples who have a tight budget or cationers during the winter, increasing
those who need to save money can de- prices and crowds. •Cinnamon
lay their trips, giving more lexibility and Italy is beautiful April through June
a chance to travel in off-seasons when and September through October. Ven- •Dusty rose
more affordable deals can often be found. ice tends to be misty and damp in late
A honeymoon provides a retreat for fall and early spring. Southern Italy and •Dusty blue
couples after months of budgeting, plan- Sicily can get quite hot during the peak
ning and ironing out the details of their summer months. •Purple
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Selecting a wedding
reception menu
eddings are memorable Consider potential allergies. Make
for a host of reasons. sure guests with food allergies can
While couples remem- choose something that won’t make
ber their wedding be- them sick. Common foods cause the
cause they mark the day majority of allergic reactions; peanuts,
they tied the knot, guests remember soy, sesame, and shellfish are the most
weddings for other reasons, includ- common. Allergies to wheat, milk and
ing the food served at the reception. eggs are common in children. You can
Couples who choose reception menus serve these at the reception, but make
wisely can go a long way toward en- sure to also include foods that are not
suring more compliments than com- likely to trigger a reaction. Ask guests
plaints, once the dinner is over. if they have any allergies. Ask your
Don’t worry about special foods. caterer for a list of ingredients so you
know if allergens are in the recipe.
Don’t hesitate to offer a favorite
food. A couple that loves a food
can offer it during the cocktail
hour. If you met in Thailand, offer
a Thai dish for guests to sample.
Offer an elaborate dessert. The
last bite guests will take is des-
sert. Make it unique and offer
something more traditional for
those hesitant guests.
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