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September 2018 Volume XXXVIII Elul 5778/Tishri 5779 Number 11 - Temple Shalom!
September 2018
       Volume XXXVIII
  Elul 5778/Tishri 5779
            Number 11
September 2018 Volume XXXVIII Elul 5778/Tishri 5779 Number 11 - Temple Shalom!
4630 Pine Ridge Rd.
                                                                   Naples, FL 34119
                                                     Phone: (239) 455-3030 • Fax: (239) 455-4361
                                                               www.naplestemple.org
                                                               info@naplestemple.org
                                                      Religious Education office • 239-455-2233
                                                           Preschool office • 239-455-3227

                          Clergy                                              Staff                                        Board of Trustees
                            Rabbi                         Administrative & Clergy Assistant                                       President
                     Adam F. Miller                              Randi Butterworth                                                Debra Antzis
                amiller@naplestemple.org                   rbutterworth@naplestemple.org                                    First Vice President
                                                             Director of Communications                                          Daryl Sissman
                           Cantor
                      Donna Azu                                     Jeanette Fischer                                       Second Vice President
                 dazu@naplestemple.org                        jfischer@naplestemple.org                                        Merrill Hassenfeld
                                                                                                                            Third Vice President
                    Rabbi Emeritus                                Temple Receptionist                                             Ed Kaufman
                James H. Perman, D.D.                                  Julie Fischer                                              Treasurer
                   rabbi@naples.net                           receptionist@naplestemple.org
                                                                                                                             Harriet Lickhalter, CPA
                                                                      Controller                                            Financial Secretary
                                                                     Maxine Gould                                                David Silberg
                     Senior Staff                               mgould@naplestemple.org                                     Recording Secretary
                  Executive Director                                                                                             Dr. John Little
                                                              Maintenance Technician
                    Deborah R. Fidel                               Rick Holsbeke                                         Immediate Past President
                                                            maintenance@naplestemple.org                                       Debbie Zvibleman
                dfidel@naplestemple.org
                                                                                                                           Sisterhood President
                                                                       Music Director                                             Carole Flegel
                  Preschool Director                                    Peter Lewis                                        Men’s Club President
                     Seyla Cohen                                                                                                   Ed Cohen
                                                                     Facility Manager
               scohen@naplestemple.org                                 Victor Lucas                                          Historical Society
                                                                 vlucas@naplestemple.org                                        Helen Weinfeld
                                                         Preschool Administrative Assistant                            Ed Alexander                 Bobbie Katz
                                                                  Gloria Mellman                                        Dave Citrin                  Steve Pino
                                                            gmellman@naplestemple.org                                 Ellen Goldberg              Jeremy Schaab
                                                                                                                     Michael Feldman               Perry Switzen
                                                       Membership Engagement Coordinator
                                                               Ana Maria Tamargo                                       Yale Freeman               Scott Weinstein
                                                           atamargo@naplestemple.org

                                                                 MISSION STATEMENT
                           Temple Shalom of Naples is an inclusive Reform Jewish congregation
                           where all individuals are equal partners in making our world whole and
                           holy. We are One Family, believing in the sacredness of relationships,
                           fostering connections – one to another, Temple, Israel, Torah and God.
                           We are living Jewish values and nurturing future generations.

                                                  The Voice is published monthly. June/July are combined issues.
                                                   Editor/Layout-Jeanette Fischer • Advertising- Maxine Gould

Disclaimer: Advertisements published in Temple Shalom’s monthly newsletter, The Voice, in no way constitute an endorsement of a product or service by Temple Shalom.
September 2018 Volume XXXVIII Elul 5778/Tishri 5779 Number 11 - Temple Shalom!
RABBI’S MESSAGE
                          RABBI
                   Adam Miller

                                               Em-Brace Who You Are
Em-Brace Who You Are

Call me Robo-Rabbi.

I admit, it doesn’t have the same gravitas as the start of Melville’s Moby Dick. But it is indicative of how my summer
plans went awry. In late May, with the promise of golf, yoga, and a slower summer schedule, I learned that my knee
pain was due to a more serious injury than I first realized. I accepted the doctor’s diagnosis, and the prescription to
spend the following months with a large brace supporting my knee. My family came up with the moniker, “Robo-
Rabbi” when they first spotted my new contraption. While quite noticeable in shorts, most were unaware as it is nearly
invisible beneath pants.

While the brace has now been retired, it did lead to some physical challenges. Needless to say, walking the hills at
Camp Coleman was quite different this summer. As was the prospect of trying to keep up with three active boys! I was
particularly struggling with the loss of my summer expectations. My not playing golf probably hurt the golf industry
more than me, as ball sales plummeted. But, it was yoga that I missed the most. I discovered yoga during my sabbatical,
and found that it gives me a sense of grounding and calm.

During a conversation with an experienced yoga practitioner, he suggested that I did not need to abandon yoga just
because I could not physically do the poses in the exact same manner as before. In fact, there are many ways that one
can adapt to adjust for injuries or struggles. He suggested that perhaps by adapting my practice, I would become aware
of other skills, strengths, or abilities that I had not previously been using. Encouraged by his words, yet still hesitant,
I began trying to adapt my practice. Robo-Rabbi did some (very limited!) yoga. And, he was right – I found myself
tuning in to new elements, as I em-brace-d my current situation.

In a couple of weeks, we will be gathered together to mark the end of one year, and the start of another. As we
reminisce and remember past accolades and experiences, there is a tendency to compare the year completed with prior
years. Did we accomplish as much this year? Did we travel as much? Did we make fewer mistakes?

While these comparisons inform us, they also deceive us. How can one possibly compare one year to another? Each
has had its own unique circumstances, with events and interactions beyond our control that shaped our experiences.
Furthermore, we, as human beings, are dynamic in nature. Our physical and mental capabilities wax or wane
depending on our stage in life, and our experiences. Rather than focusing on our shortcomings – quantitatively
measuring our successes and failures – let us em-brace who we are now. Look back upon the last year and ask yourself,
“What did I learn? How have I grown? As I adapt to perceived limitations, how did I grow in other areas?”

There is an old Yiddish adage, “You are who you are, not who you were.” May you find strength and blessing this year
as you em-brace who you are today, the journey you have taken to reach this place, and the possibilities offered by the
start of a new year.

May 5779 be a year of blessing, sweetness and joy for you and all those whom you love. On behalf of our Temple staff
and leadership, I wish you a shana tova u’mtukah!

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CANTOR’S MESSAGE
                                                                       Do you like to sing? The Temple
                          CANTOR                                       Shalom choir is always happy to
                                                                       welcome new members. You don’t
                       Donna Azu                                       need to know how to read music.
                                                                       Contact Cantor Donna Azu
                                                                       at dazu@naplestemple.org
                         I’m often asked, how did you learn to        and introspection are essential for everyone who hopes to
                         sing? My answer is usually given in two      experience the transformative power of the High Holy Days.
                         parts. One - singing has always come         There are many practices that can help to warm us up for this
naturally to me. I’ve been told by my parents that I started          time of personal reflection and examination. Elul, the month
singing before I started speaking. Two - I’ve been taking lessons     that precedes the Jewish New Year, is considered a time when
for a very long time! I started when I was 16 years old and I still   God is particularly accessible to the Jewish people. The letters
take voice lessons regularly. I’ve had many different teachers        in the name of the month itself are embodied in this verse from
throughout my studies and although they all approached the art        the Song of Songs: Ani l’dodi v’dodi li (I am my beloved’s and
of singing differently, they all began the voice lesson the same      my beloved is mine), which highlights the loving relationship
way, with vocal and breathing warm-ups. In order for me to sing       between God and the Jewish people.
the repertoire well, it was imperative to prepare myself not only
vocally, but mentally.                                                During Elul, the shofar is sounded daily during the morning
                                                                      service. This tradition not only reminds us that the shofar
Though we may not all sing, we’ve all had experiences in which        will be blown on Rosh HaShanah, it also is a wakeup call of
we had to prepare ourselves beforehand. Dancers warm-up               sorts, reminding us of the High Holy Days and urging us to
their bodies to prevent injury, athletes stretch and focus before     begin our preparations. Also during Elul, Psalm 27 is added to
a game, actors take time to rehearse and immerse themselves           the morning and evening liturgy. Beginning with the words,
into the characters or roles they are preparing for. We can even      “Adonai is my light and my help; whom should I fear?” this
find “warm ups” in our daily Jewish liturgy. One example is           psalm beseeches God to protect us from our enemies and urges
the Bar’chu. The Bar’chu, our call to worship, is essentially the     us to put our faith in God. These days also are a time for us to
same thing, it’s a warm-up for the individual, helping to prepare     accept greater responsibility for the repair of our world.
us spiritually. The Bar’chu gets everyone started and ready to        Another opportunity to mindfully enter, or to continue this
proceed with the upcoming prayers.                                    process, is offered by our Selichot service. We change our Torah
                                                                      covers to their holiday robes of white, and join in carefully
Just like the Bar’chu, as we approach the High Holy Days,             selected Selichot prayers, melody, psalm, and poetry. Our
arguably our most intense holidays, we need to take the time to       readings illuminate the origins of our prayers. We gain a clearer
warp-up and prepare ourselves spiritually for what’s to come.         understanding of the connections between our history and
We can’t just jump into the Holidays without thought. During          our holidays. Our Selichot service offers the opportunity for
this time, our tradition instructs us to engage in a thoughtful       spiritual preparation and the growing intensity during the High
review of the ways we have lived in the past year, examining          Holy Days and throughout the new year of 5779.
how we have missed the mark and resolving to do better
so that we can enter the New Year committed to a life that            L’shana Tova!
more closely connects with our values. Spiritual preparation          Cantor Donna Azu

                           Soulful Shabbat Schedule 2018-2019
                          Experience the spirit of Shabbat through song and music! Soulful Shabbat
                          is a Shabbat service conducted entirely in song and features a professional
                          band. Services begin at 7:30pm.

                          2018
                          October 19, November 30
                          2019
                          January 18, February 22, March 29, May 3, June 6

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LEADERSHIP MESSAGES
                            EXECUTIVE                                               PRESIDENT
                            DIRECTOR
                                                                                  Debra Antzis
                         Deborah Fidel

Dear Friends,                                                        A good friend loaned me a wonderful book, about one
                                                                     woman’s attempt to renew her experience of Judaism by
On behalf of the entire Temple Shalom staff, I wish you and          consciously celebrating all 18 (yes, 18) Jewish Holidays that
your family a sweet New Year 5779.                                   occur in one calendar year. I am reading it a bit at a time,
                                                                     pieces of her story bouncing around in my head and coming
The ten days starting with Rosh Hashanah and ending with             to the forefront of my thoughts when something in my life
Yom Kippur are known as the Days of Awe (Yamim Noraim).              reminds me of them. Right now the book reinforces my deep
It is fitting that as I reflect on my first month as the Executive   appreciation for how our Jewish calendar is structured. I
Director, I am filled with awe. I am in awe of all that you,         love closing out summer, turning to the fall and taking stock,
the members of this sacred community have created here               planning for the new year and new season.
– a growing, thriving, and dynamic spiritual home where              Our Religious School and Preschool students recently
hundreds of people gather to share and engage with each              returned to classes, and I’m happy to report that enrollment
other, our history and traditions. Getting to know many of           in both schools is at record levels. A second set of double
you over the last month has been, well, awesome.                     doors is now in place in the school wing, to enhance the
                                                                     security measures there.
During this period, we evaluate our past deeds and plan our
future behavior. But the real work comes after Yom Kippur            Our Second year under the L’Shalom pledge system began
ends, when we put our resolutions to the test. This is why the       July 1, and we have been carefully monitoring the pledges
first mitzvah that we are called to perform at the end of Yom        that have come in. I am happy to report that we are on track
Kippur is to hammer a nail into our sukkah. This symbolic            with our pledges. Thank you all for your participation.
ritual reminds us that we need to do more than just say that
                                                                     The annual Above and Beyond campaign is gearing up as
we will do something; we need to get up off the couch and
                                                                     well. This year’s Above and Beyond chairs are Susan and Dr.
build.
                                                                     Nat Ritter, with Lori and Ed Cohen as co-chairs. The Above
                                                                     and Beyond campaign is necessary because pledges do not
Our Mission Statement speaks of building relationships – one
                                                                     cover the full cost of running the Temple every year. My
to another, Temple, Israel, Torah and God. The staff and I are
                                                                     sincere thanks to all who have already given to Above and
dedicated to working with you to make Temple Shalom the
                                                                     Beyond this year.
best community we can be so that we can all achieve those
lofty and transformative goals. Our congregation is growing          The Temple office and staff are buzzing nicely in preparation
quickly and feeling connected can be more challenging with           for the High Holy Days and the new season, and I am looking
so many new faces. But I am confident that working together          forward to a crowded sanctuary and a busy calendar.
with our clergy, lay leaders and members, we can make our
mission a reality for everyone in our community.                     I hope you and all your loved ones enjoy a happy, healthy and
                                                                     sweet New Year.
I am always available to speak with you in person, by phone          Debra
or email. Whether you have a question, a comment, an idea,
or just want to come in and chat, I look forward to listening
and responding to you.

I feel so blessed to be a part of this Temple community and I
look forward to spending the coming year with all of you.

L’shana Tova,
Deborah R. Fidel
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WORSHIP WITH US
HIGH HOLY DAYS 2018-5779
The High Holy Days at Temple Shalom are a particularly meaningful period, during which we gather to reflect and renew our
spirits. Our services are a rich and beautiful tapestry of prayer and song, incorporating both traditional and modern liturgy and
melodies that speak to the intellect and the soul.
Children are welcome to attend our High Holy Day services. We also offer Family Services, which attract multi-generational
families and those with young children on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur afternoons. Family services are specially designed to
inspire and engage children and those who love them, around the meanings and messages of the High Holy Days.
We also offer babysitting for those who prefer let our certified teachers care for their little ones while they worship. There is a cost
and reservations are required by September 4 to ensure sufficient staffing. Please see the form on page nine.

Erev Rosh Hashanah                             Kol Nidre                                     Sukkot service
Sunday, September 9                            Tuesday, September 18                         Monday, September 24 - 10:00am
Evening service - 7:30pm                       Evening service - 7:30pm                      In addition to special festival readings,
                                               Jessie Goebel will join us on the viola       Psalms of praise (Hallel) and additional
Rosh Hashanah Day 1                                                                          prayers of gratitude are included in the
Monday, September 10                           to perform Kol Nidre.
                                                                                             service.
Morning service - 10:00am                      Yom Kippur
                                               Wednesday, September 19                       Yizkor service
Family service - 2:30pm                        Morning service - 10:00am
Join Rabbi Miller and Cantor Azu for                                                         Sunday, September 30 - 9:30am
a fun and joyful celebration of the New                                                      We remember our loved ones who are no
                                               Adult study session with
Year.                                          Rabbi Perman - 2:00pm                         longer with us.

Tashlich - 4:00pm                              Family service - 2:00pm                       Simchat Torah Celebration
Please join us for Tashlich, a                 Observe Yom Kippur through story              Sunday, September 30 - 10:30am
ceremony during which we cast away             and song.                                     Simchat Torah & Consecration
our sins by symbolically tossing                                                             Complete the High Holy Day season by
bread into the water. This physical act        Afternoon service - 3:15pm
inspires us to remember our actions,                                                         celebrating the conclusion and restart of
                                               Service includes the reading of the           our Torah reading cycle . The Torah is
right our wrongs, and refocus                  Book of Jonah.
ourselves for the New Year. We will                                                          removed from the Ark and we invite you
meet at the Lake at Vineyards Park             Yizkor & Neilah - 5:00pm                      to rejoice with singing and dancing.
for a brief, creative service.                 The Yom Kippur liturgy provides us an
                                               opportunity to remember those members
Rosh Hashanah Day 2                            of our families and community who are
Tuesday, September 11                          no longer with us.
Morning service - 10:00am
                                               The word “Neilah” means “to lock”
Memorial Service                               and refers to the locking of the gates
Sunday, September 16 - 11:00am                 of heaven as we conclude Yom Kippur.
Two locations: Naples Memorial
Gardens
Palm Royale Cemetery
As we prepare for a new year, so do
we reflect on our past, remembering
those no longer with us. Mark this
season by joining our clergy to
remember the blessings shared with
us by those whom we have loved and
lost.
                                           Shana Tova!
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WORSHIP WITH US
SELICHOT SERVICE AND PROGRAM
A time to pause and reflect before the High Holy Days
Please join us for the Selichot service on Saturday,
September 1 at 7:30pm. We begin with a screening of the
documentary, “Rosenwald,” which tells the incredible
story of Julius Rosenwald, who never finished high
school, but rose to become the President of Sears.
Influenced by the writings of Booker T. Washington,
this Jewish philanthropist joined
forces with African American
communities in the Jim Crow
South to build 5,300 schools
during the early part of the 20th
century. Inspired by the Jewish
ideals of tzedakah (charity) and
tikkun olam (repairing the world),
and a deep concern over racial
inequality in America, Julius
Rosenwald used his wealth to
become one of America’s most
effective philanthropists. There will
be a brief discussion on the movie
followed by our beautiful Selichot
service.

                       Live Streaming

 If you know if someone who cannot travel or attend service
 in person, please let them know that our High Holy Day
 services are available for viewing at www.naplestemple.org.

                                                                  Harry Chapin Food Bank of SWFL
                                                                           High Holy Day Appeal
  TEMPLE SHALOM SHABBAT WORSHIP                                Donation envelopes will be available for you to
                                                               take home on Rosh Hashanah. Please return them
 Friday evening Shabbat service                                to Temple Shalom on Yom Kippur.
 7:30pm, followed by a delicious Oneg Shabbat
                                                                                 Thank you!
 Saturday morning Shabbat service
 10:00am, followed by a Kiddush luncheon

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ESPECIALLY FOR KIDS AND FAMILIES!
Creating meaningful Jewish experiences for children and families is an important part of the High Holy Days at Temple
Shalom. We that you will join Rabbi Miller, Cantor Azu and Miss Jane for a fun and joyful experience filled with music,
singing, dancing and stories. No reservation needed. These services are open to guests and unaffiliated families. Bring
your friends and neighbors!

Family Services
Rosh Hashanah - Monday, Septmber 10, 2:30pm
Yom Kippur – Wednesday, September 19, 2:00pm
These 45 minute services are appropriate for children age seven and under.                  Sukkot Celebration
Tashlich at the Lake at Vineyards Park - 4:00pm                                              Food Truck Rodeo
Please join us for Tashlich, a ceremony in which we go to a body of water to cast
away our sins by symbolically tossing bread into the water. This physical act inspires   Sunday, September 23 at 11:00am
us to remember our actions, right our wrongs, and refocus ourselves for the New                  Help decorate the sukkah
Year. We will meet at the Lake at Vineyards Park for a brief, creative service. Kids               Vittals for purchase
can easily grasp the idea of wanting to do better and saying “sorry.” We hope that       at the food truck rodeo in the parking lot
you will partake in this fun and meaningful family tradition.

Sukkot Celebration
Shake the lulav and etrog! Help decorate the sukkah and enjoy the delicious food
for purchase from the various food trucks in the Temple Shalom parking lot.
Simchat Torah
Following the consecration of Kindergarten and new Religious School students,
The Torah is removed from the ark and we invite you to join us as we rejoice in the
completion and beginning of the Torah reading cycle with singing and dancing.

                                                                                                 r a t e
The entire Torah scroll is unwrapped around the Sanctuary. How far will it go?

                                                                                         Cel e b
Children are invited to make a guess on the Torah’s length and place markers
around the Sanctuary to see who comes the closest.

Live streaming in the Rabbi James and Jane Perman Library                                        Simchat Torah
Whether you need a space for the kids to wiggle around, or a break for
yourself, we’ve got you covered! The library will be open and available with
                                                                                                 & Consecration
a toy wagon for children that need a break. Children must be attended by                     Sunday, September 30th
an adult.                                                                                           10:30am

                                                                                          Join in as we rejoice in the beginning and
                                                                                              ending of the Torah reading cycle

                                                                                                 See the entire Torah unrolled
                                                                                                     around the sanctuary!

                                                                                            Consecration of Kindergarten and
8                                                                                            new Religious School students
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High Holy Days Child Care

                   Holiday themed activities, snacks and FUN!
                      Children ages 2 to 7 years (Preschool - 2nd Grade)

                   Reservations MUST be received by September 4th
                         so that we can ensure proper staffing.
       We a re s o r r y b u t w e c a n o n l y a c c e p t c h i l d re n w h o a re p re - re g i st e re d .

Child’s name                                                          Age            Grade

1.__________________________________________                          ____            _____
2.__________________________________________                          ____            _____
3.__________________________________________                          ____            _____

Parent/Guardian name: ________________________________________________________

Cellphone: __________________________________________________________________

                Erev RH    Kol Yom                                Fees:
Child           RH   Day I Nidre Kippur
                                                                  $10.00 for one child per service
1.                 
2.                                                            $15.00 for two children of the same
                                                                  family per service
3.                                                            $20.00 for 3 or more children of the same
                                                                  family per service
     Total enclosed $______________

Please return this form with your check made payable to Temple Shalom, 4630 Pine Ridge Road, Naples, FL 34119.
Please note HHD Childcare in the memo line.

     For questions or more information please contact Gloria Mellman at 239-455-3227.

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RELIGIOUS SCHOOL MESSAGE
                     Dr.AnnaSalomon,RJE

                      For the past three years I’ve                          Thank you Men’s Club!
                      had the honor of serving as
                     the Director of Congregational                     Once again the Men’s Club provided a delicious
                     Education here at Temple Shalom.                   breakfast of bagels and lox to welcome back
                     It is with a heavy heart that I                    students, teachers and parents for the first day of
    will be headed back home to Ohio to be closer                       Religious School on Sunday, August 19. What a
    to my family. I want to thank each of you for the                   great way to start the new school year!
    opportunity to get to know you and to be part of
    this amazing community. I’m proud of all that we
    have accomplished in the past three years and I
    know that great things will continue to happen.
    Blessings for a healthy, happy and prosperous 5779.
    L’Shalom,
    Anna

                   Interim Director of Congregational Education

                   Susan Feld
                    On behalf of the Board of Trustees, we are delighted to
                    announce the appointment of Dr. Susan Feld as Interim
                    Religious School Director, effective immediately.
                                                                                      Religious School Calendar
Dr. Feld is an extraordinarily bright and visionary educator and administrator
                                                                                     September 2
who is no stranger to Temple Shalom.
                                                                                     Labor Day weekend
                                                                                     No Religious School or Sunday Hebrew
Susan Feld has spent her entire career in the field of early childhood and           School
elementary education. Her academic journey began as an undergraduate
Early Childhood major, and then she continued on to receive a Masters                September 9
degree in Elementary Education. Susan holds a doctorate in Instruction and           Erev Rosh Hashana
Curriculum Leadership.                                                               No Religious School or Sunday He-
                                                                                     brew School
Susan has been a classroom teacher for decades, teaching preschool,                  September 16
elementary school, college undergraduates, and adults in a variety of settings.      9:00am to 11:30am - Religious School
For more than a decade she served as the director of an NAEYC accredited             No Sunday Hebrew School
preschool at Temple Israel in Memphis, TN. Most recently she has served as
an Education Specialist consultant in accreditation for several programs in          September 23
the Naples area.                                                                     9:00am to 11:30am - Religious School
                                                                                     11:00am - Sukkot Food Truck Rodeo
Susan is currently an adjunct professor at Florida SouthWest College, serving        No Sunday Hebrew School
as an online instructor for the education department.
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                                                                                     4:45pm to 6:15pm - 1st day of Wednesday
In her spare time, Susan enjoys reading, tennis, and beading jewelry as              Hebrew School
hobbies. Along with her husband Jeffrey, they have lived in several different
states including New Jersey, Georgia, Tennessee, and now in Naples, FL. They         September 30
have two delightful grown children!                                                  9:00am to 11:30am - Religious School
                                                                                     10:15am - Simchat Torah
As a member of Temple Shalom, Dr. Feld knows our community and our                   11:30am to 1:00pm - Sunday Hebrew
values, and we are thrilled to have found a professional of her caliber to guide     School
our school through this time of transition. Please join us in welcoming her in
her new role here.
TEMPLE SHALOM PRESCHOOL
                         PRESCHOOL
                          DIRECTOR
                         Seyla Cohen

The Jewish Federation of Greater Naples has once again pledged their
generous support to Temple Shalom Preschool. Through a very substantial
contribution, Temple Shalom Preschool is able to give financial aid to the
Jewish families that want to be part of our preschool family, but may need
some assistance. In addition to earmarking funds for the regular school year
TSP Experience, the Federation has once again, expanded their support to
our incredible summer programs, Camp Shalom and Camp Einstein. And,
to round out our already spectacular program, they have granted funds
for some very special cultural programs. As the director of Temple Shalom
Preschool, I would like to express a personal “todah rabah” to the Federation
for this much appreciated grant.
Each year, when the preschool opens its doors to begin a new school year, the hallways fill with happy smiles, enthusiastic spirits,
and eager children. This year was no exception. Now, after several weeks, both families and students have settled into a comfortable
routine and are feeling secure and filled with confidence as its preschoolers build the foundation for future education. Our staff is
excited to start another year of growth, dedication, and challenges.
Our much loved Miss Jane is teaching the school’s unique Mommy, Me, and More classes. New parents are provided with a support
group and are given the opportunity to meet other caregivers and make new friends. Friendships can make an enormous difference
in the journey through parenthood often alleviating the feeling of loneliness
and helping new parents bond and share experiences. At the same time,
children 0-24 months are provided with a strong foundation for learning          Important Preschool dates
through interactive play, music, art, and exercise. Little ones begin to develop
                                                                                 September 3
important skills such as socialization, self-control, and physical and cognitive
                                                                                 Labor Day - Preschool closed
development, so important for the preparation for their school experience.
The demand for our outstanding preschool is sensational! Due to the                September 5
phenomenal growth, we are opening another two-year-old class this year.            POTS meeting 9:15am
Come, visit, volunteer and be a part of this amazing place we call home away
from home!                                                                         September 7
                                                                                   Preschool Super Shabbat 9:30am
For more information regarding Temple Shalom Preschool, please contact
Director Seyla Cohen at 239-455-3227.                                              September 10 & 11
                                                                                   Rosh Hashanah - Preschool closed

                                                                                   September 18
                                                                                   Preschool early dismissal

                                                                                   September 19
                                                                                   Yom Kippur - Preschool closed

                                                                                   September 24
                                                                                   Sukkot - Preschool closed

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OUR TEMPLE SHALOM FAMILY
Simchas
              Everybody loves good news!
                                                        New Members
                                                             As of July 27
                                                                                           Welcome
 Please send your good news (awards, graduations,
                                                     Mr. Ric & Mrs. Laurie Phillips              Mr. David Millstein
 engagements, marriages, births, big birthday or                                                 2614 L’Ermitage Lane
                                                     Mr. Larry & Mrs. Jill Wilker
 anniversary) to Jeanette Fischer, Director of       Mr. David & Mrs. Carol Wolfe                Naples, Florida 34105
 Communications, at jfischer@aplestemple.org.                                                    Home: 239-643-2107
                                                     Dr. & Mrs. Paul Colon                       Cell: 724-244-1377
                                                     845 Reef Point Circle                       Email: ssponte@gmail.com

        Mazel Tov!                                   Naples, Florida 34108
                                                     Paul                                       I was born in Jeannette, PA and raised
                                                                                                in nearby Greensburg, both about
                                                     Cell: 404-782-8407
It is with great joy that                            Email: pcolon2018@gmail.com                35 miles east of Pittsburgh. I am
we share with you the                                Alla                                       an attorney and now semi-retired,
marriage of Katie Little,                            Cell: 404-788-6160                         limiting my work to pro bono services
                                                                                                and not for profit organizations. I have
daughter of our                                      Email: allagdct@gmail.com
                                                                                                three grown children, Scott, Rachael
members Veora and                                                                               and Deborah, all married and each
John Little, to Rodney                               The Colon family have been
                                                     longstanding residents of Atlanta,         with two children of their won. Scott
Weiss, son of our                                                                               lives in New York City, quite close
                                                     Georgia, where Paul built his practice
members Simone and                                   as a podiatrist and Alla was a Medical     to Zabar’s, glory be to G-d, and both
Scott Lutgert. Katie                                 Esthetician. Paul was born and raised      Rachael and Deborah live in Boston.
and Rodney were                                      in Brooklyn, New York and Alla is from I have six grandchildren, Todd,
married on August                                    Riga, Latvia. Collectively they have four Carter, Curran, Graham, Ephrem and
12 in California. Best                               children and three grandchildren. Paul’s Eleanor. Like all grandparents say,
wishes to the couple                                 favorite activities are playing tennis,    they are all wonderful. Unlike what
for many long, happy                                 cycling, traveling, teaching and lecturing other grandparents say, mine really
                                                     in Israel and the Ukraine through          are. I write professionally, love to
and healthy years ahead as they start                                                           photograph and cycle, and I’m trying
this new chapter in their lives.                     Jewish Healthcare International. Alla
                                                     loves dancing, traveling and visual and    to get back into golf. I was heartened
                                                     performing arts.                           to realize that after a three-year layoff,
                                                                                                my golf game remained the same.
                                                     Mr. & Mrs. Michael Goldstein               Then I understood what that really
     B’nai Mitzvah Corner                            546 Avellino Isles Circle #11301           meant.
                                                     Naples, Florida 34119
                                                     Michael                                    Mrs. Diane Moserowitz
                    JACOB SAMUEL                     Cell: 847-380-8300                         Home: 239-992-1407
                   SEPTEMBER 29TH                    Email: mykindoftown@sbcglobal.net          Cell: 239-293-8891
                                                     Marsha
                                                     Cell: 847-507-9900                         Dr. & Mrs. Alberto Rotsztain
                Jacob Max Samuel was born            Email: mwg42@hotmail.com                   275 Indies Way #1104
                and raised in Naples. He is an                                                  Naples, Florida 34110
                8th grade student at Pine Ridge      Michael and Marsha Goldstein are           Beto and Luba
                Middle School. Jacob’s favorite      originally from Chicago, where they        Home: 239-514-8605
 things to do include playing and watching           were both born and raised. They now        Cell: 301-641-6938
 sports, video games, the performing arts (with      split their time between Naples and        Email: lubabeto@yahoo.com
 the Naples Performing Arts Center), fishing and     Lake Forest, IL. The Goldsteins love to
                                                     travel and collect art. They are involved   Dr. Rotsztain and his wife Luba
 “hanging out” with friends. He is currently in
                                                     in several non-profit art organizations.    were born in Argentina and lived in
 the cast of Annie and West Side Story. Ever since                                               Maryland for 35 years before moving
                                                     Marsha serves on the Board of three
 he was a toddler, Jacob loved listening to and                                                  to Naples. They have two children
                                                     universities and is currently on the
 dancing to music, and he now plays the clarinet     Board of Friends of Artis, Naples.          and four grandchildren. Alberto is
 in the PRMS band. He also enjoys going on                                                       a cardiologist, practicing part-time
 adventure travels with his family. Jacob loves                                                  in Naples. Luba is a retired speech
 animals and volunteered at the Humane Society                                                   and hearing therapist and a former
 for his Bar Mitzvah Project.                                                                    Hebrew teacher. They enjoy playing
                                                                                                 golf, mah jongg and bridge.

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BIRTHDAYS & ANNIVERSARIES
                                              Happy Birthday!
     1        George Buxton                   14    Ellie Cantor                  22    Nanci Reid
              Arthur Paquette                       Lori Brown                          Gilbert Rashbaum
              Judith Spintman                       Diane Moserowitz                    Vivi Goldsmith
     2        Paul Shaw                             Elaine Raad                         Eric Peltz
     3        Lawrence Cohen                        Arnold Philip Sherman         23    Mark Mellman
     4        Rowan Samuel                    15    Andrew Ichel                        Jeffrey Feld
              Jack Gish                       16    Susan Wichard                       Michele Pelletiere
     5        Robert Perlstein                      David Waldman                 24    Mel Kaplan
              Felicia Anchor                        Nancy Meyer                         Jeff Butzke
              Heather White                         Barbara Bassewitz                   Kimberly Klausner
     6        Robert Schriber                       Allyn Prosten                       Susan Weiss
              William Schulhof                17    Susan Sissman                       Stephen Weisberg
     8        Anne Newman                           Alvin Becker                  25    Murray Hendel
              Julius Goos                     18    Walter Angoff                       Alexandre Rosen
              Eleanor Angoff                        Lester Handler                26    Byron Krantz
              Lawrence Albert                       Joyce Yamron                        Gerald Bonder
     9        Bernard Weiss                         Donald Weisberg               27    Marshall Fried
              Elizabeth Lawrence-Ross         19    Adele Cohen                         Eileen Ertag
     10       Carol Lader                           Lori Cohen                    28    Charles Barry
              Martin Levine                         Sandra Cohen                        Leatrice Kaye
     11       Ellen Blum                            Albert Amar                         Nancy Colodny
     13       Daryl Sissman                   20    Susan Ritter                  29    Fred Rosenfeld
              Allison Shalom                        Marshall Sutker                     Jerome Davin
              Lisa Lauber                     21    Laurence Sibrack                    Frann Katz-McCombs
              Jason Flegel                          Elaine Soffer                 30    Sandra Schuman
              David Citrin                          Steven Feiner
     14       Shellie Specter                       Joseph Davidow

                                             Happy Anniversary!
1        Carole and Jason Flegel        14     Joyce and Paul Moskowitz      25    Donna and Curtis Treiser
3        Joyce and Barry Brown          16     Linda and Bruce Barter        27    Susan and Arthur Bookbinder
         Mike and Nina Diamond                 Alan and Eva Freeman                Marisa and Robert Perlstein
         Nancy Burgess and David        17     Sherry and Stephen Pino       29    Victoria Cooper and Alan
         Gross                                 Jessica and Scott Shwedel           Einhorn
         Bronia and Andy Ichel          18     Julie Harris and Myron 		           Don and Sarah Temple
4        Neil and Cheryl Gershman              Freedman
         Mark and Shelley Schloss       19     Laurie and Roberto Bollt
         Susan and Brian Solomon        21     John and Maxine Corbellini
7        Joan and Byron Krantz                 Meredith Frankel and Max

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         David and Gay Silberg
         Heidi Brem-Kargman and Jim
         Kargman                        23
                                               Kamerman
                                               Barbara and Loren Rosenbach
                                               Lanie and Marty Samuels
                                                                             Mazel tov!
14       Cameron Ervin-Dillard and      24     Eric Solomon and Jessica
         Helen Johnson                         Horowitz

                                                                                                                 13
Yahrzeits - September 2018
     7 Eva Akabas          14 Stephen Baron      21   Bernard Cohon        28 Laurence Rubin
       Barry Hossack          Maxine Barter           Pauline Wright          Judy Hefter
       Dr. Jesse Murray       Catherine McHugh        Shirley Tucker          Bernard Bernstein
       Brown                  Annette Gessman         Simon Baseman           Beatrice Chester
       Jon Chester            Meyer Saval             Max Bassewitz           Bernard Cohen
       Ruth Heuman            Joe Cohn                Mildred Bassewitz       Lillian Konisky
       Jay Cohen              Nathan Popkin           Bernard Strauss         Esther Davidson
       George Konisky         Jack Yohay              Leah Dorfman            Martin Diamond
       Angela Corbellini      Vladinir Dorfman        Samuel Dreier           M. Jerry Feiman
       Frank Glueck           Jack Kronish            Gertrude Koeser         Harry Fried
       Ann Schwartz           Sarah Goos              Edward Koeser           Minnie Goldsmith
       Murray Gallant         Howard Brody            Irving Frank            Benjamin Gross
       Gertrude Liberman      Samuel Ruthman          Lev Kapitanovski        Norma Handler
       Millie Levy            Zoltan Herskovits       June Goldstein          Bessie Diamond
       Sam Savitzky           Josette Torre           Beatrice Graev          Lena Wolf
       Meyer Fliegel          Paul Segall             David Graev             Louie Prolman
       Bessie Rosenberg       Arthur 			              Paula Hyler             David Schwartz
       Michael Bruce 		       Diamondstein            Gerald Sherman          Hilda Schwartz
        Kaplan                Leonard Meltzer         Henry Heil              Samuel Entoff
       Miriam Knofsky         Ida Kramer              Francis Hirsch          Nathan Meister
       Bertha Phillips        Benjamin Koplovsky      Abraham Singer          Renee Tancer Kaye
       Harold Unger           Joseph Lipschultz       Sara Singer             Elsie Lauber
       Fannie Pearlman        Tim Lipschultz          Dr. Alex Miller         Gerald Klein
       Howard Wichter         Kalman Malc             Jennie Meister          Arthur Lieb
       Lyn Phillips           Lillian Malc            Anna Zimmerman          Lena Birnburg
       Jesse Prosten          Eve Matties             John Spiegel            Berel Mair
       Edith Ganzman          David Moserowitz        Isidor Hirsch           Herbert Matties
       Irma Heller            Julius Nacht            Regina Hirsch           Shirley Rabinowitz
       Evelyn Samuel          May Glasgow             Arlene Kepp             Joe Birkenfeld
       Mannie Sherman         Keila Hurvitz           Stephen Kepp            Leah Chemerow
       Stephanie Deksnys      Bertha Rosen            Ben Kushnir             Harry Porter
       Ruth Mandel            Sam Spalter             Richard Levy            Thelma Tabachnik
       Renee Silverman        Betty Schiff            Sheldon Liebovich       Lottie Riedel
       Gilbert Wasserman      Lillian Schmidt         Abraham Lipschultz      Julia Rosensweig
       Donald Sladick         Danielle 		             Sol Rabinowitz          Sue Pfingst
       Paul Sladick           Schprechman             Sylvia Lerner           Victor Ostrow
       Maurice Stein          Lillian Schwartz        Julius Katz             William Jaffe
       Sophy Freedman         Philip Schneider        Cynthia Hafezi          William Jones
       Allan Titlebaum        Jeanette Elle           Alvin Heller            Sonia Toub
       George Trehub          Sophia Grossman         Henriette Rubin         Nathan Packer
       Diana Fink             Susanne Brav-		         Hannah Blumenthal       Lillian Shaw
       Esther Weiss           Waltzer                 Morris Teitelbaum       Benjamin Klein
       Mollie Weiss           Charlotte 		            Rosalie Salpeter        Joseph Herman
       Philip Wichard         Wasserman               Edith Satkin
                              Pearl Silverman         Alvin Weinstein
                              Janet Mensh             Tillie Golin
                                                      Robert Wollman

                    May their memories be for a blessing.
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                           Zichronam liv’rachah.                                                   27
MEN’S CLUB
                       MEN’S CLUB
                       PRESIDENT                                  MARK YOUR CALENDAR FOR
                                                                 THE ANNUAL DINNER THEATRE
                         Ed Cohen

                                                                 Saturday, February 23, 2019
I hope you’ve had a wonderful summer making memories
with family and friends.
As of this writing, you should have received our annual Men’s       Broadway Palms Dinner Theatre
Club dues statement. Please take time to renew your Men’s
Club membership, or if you are not currently a member,
                                                                            in Fort Myers
please join us; we’re counting on your support!
                                                                          The fantastic musical,
As in the past, your Men’s Club will continue to support

                                                                    GUYS AND DOLLS!!
financially and with Man Power many of the Temple’s
functions and projects. We will also continue to support our
local Jewish community and the State of Israel. Over the past
three years the Men’s Club has contributed over $60,000 in
support of many worthwhile Temple and community causes.
Although the Men’s Club has a wide variety of activities and        MEN’S CLUB MEMBERSHIP
events throughout the year, only one of them is a fundraiser.
The Men’s Club’s sole source of income is the money we raise      Have you returned you Men’s Club membership form?
from dues and the annual Dinner Theatre Fundraising Event.        For more information on Men’s Club membership please
                                                                  contact Yale Freeman, Membership Chair, at 239-530-2500
So please join us and become a member, and by doing so you        or visit the Men’s Club page on the Temple Shalom website,
will enable us to continue the support that we provide for our    www.naplestemple.org.
Temple and our community.
My wife Lori, along with the entire Men’s Club Board,                          Please STEP UP and join
join me in wishing you L’Shana Tova…. A happy, healthy,
prosperous and above all, peaceful New Year.                           the Temple Shalom Men’s Club today
Ed                                                                               Annual Membership
                                                                            July 1, 2018 to June 30, 2019

                                                                             General membership - $36
                                       MEN’S CLUB                              Please Step Up to $54

                                                                             Mitzvah Membership $136
                                                                               Please step up to $180
                                                                               Olam Membership $250
                             STEP UP                               Checks made payable to Temple Shalom Men’s Club
                          YOUR                                                  should be mailed to:
                                                                             Temple Shalom Mens’ Club
                                                                                4630 Pine Ridge Rd.
                       MEMBERSHIP                                                Naples, FL 34119                  15
SISTERHOOD

                          SISTERHOOD                                FIRST SISTERHOOD LUNCHEON
                           PRESIDENT                                   OF THE 2018-2019 SEASON
                                                                             October 9 at 11:30am
                         Carole Flegel                                              Guest speaker
                                                                                    Mark Danni
Sisterhood is ramping up for another fantastic year of events,   Before coming to Naples, Mark was a percussionist
programs, fundraisers and more. Please join us! Please           and conductor on Broadway. He is the founder and
feel free to contact me with any questions or suggestions at     artistic director of Theater Zone. The theater opened
TempleShalomSisterhood@gmail.com or 239-248-4487.                in 2006 in the G&L Theater which is located at the
                                                                 Community School of Naples. Each year, Mark
Here are some frequently asked questions:                        produces four plays in this intimate setting.
Q. How much are Sisterhood dues?                                 Cost for the luncheon: $25 for Sisterhood members
                                                                                         $28 for guests
A. Basic dues start at $50/yr., with higher tiers at $72 and
beyond. The dues help support the Sisterhood of Temple           		                    $50 to sponsor
Shalom, while a portion supports Women of Reform Judaism
                                                                 Checks payable to Temple Shalom Sisterhood
(WRJ). All Temple Shalom congregants are encouraged to
                                                                 should be mailed to:
financially support our beautiful Shabbat Onegs.
                                                                                      Barbara Druckman
Q. How can I become more involved in Sisterhood?                                      23803 Amalfi Coast Rd.
                                                                                      Bonita Springs, FL 34135
A. Everyone is welcome and encouraged to attend our
luncheons, Book Bags (Book Club discussions) and
fundraisers including our upcoming Mah Jongg tournament.         Questions? Contact Barbara directly at:
Please support our Judaica Shop. To join the Board, volunteer                       barbdruckman@gmail.com
with the Oneg Committee, Judaica Shop or in any other
capacity, please contact me.
Q. How can we support this year’s membership directory?
A. The bi-annual directory raises funding through corporate
advertising, “Meaningful Messages” and “Friends of the
Directory”. Look for information later this year.
Best wishes for a happy and healthy New Year!

     Sisterhood Donations - Thank you!
  In honor of Carole Flegel’s birthday:
  Lisa Mair, Melanie Schwartz, Stacy Nicolau,
  Tracey Ornstein and Tammy Strohl-Samuel

                                                                              Save the date!
       SISTERHOOD BOOK BAG                                                  Tuesday, January 8, 2019
        Third Thursday of each month at 1:30pm
                                                                 Temple Shalom Sisterhood Mah Jongg Tournament.
     October 18, 2018             November 15, 2018
                                                                            Morning and afternoon prizes.
     The Bridal Chair             The Great Alone
     by Gloria Goldreich          by Kristin Hannah                   Continental breakfast and Chinese lunch.
     Facilitator - Arlene Yedid   Facilitator - Judy Picus                       “Ming Toy Bring Joy!”
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                     TIKKUN OLAM                                “Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap but by
                                                                              the seeds that you plant.”
                    COUNCIL CHAIR
                       Ken Goldstein
                    As we approach the High Holy Days, these words by Robert Louis Stevenson make us think about what
                    changes we want to make in the coming year.
                     Most of the time we never really know what impact we have on the lives of our family, friends and strangers.
                     We are always “planting seeds” that, hopefully, will one day grow and flourish. Even though we may never
know our real impact, we must still plant those seeds. There are many ways we plant seeds but we hope you will think about social
action and social justice.
Here are few ways our members are currently “planting seeds.”
Volunteering
The Naples Senior Center offers many ways to volunteer. A number of our members volunteer at the Dementia Respite Support
Program. Other programs include friendly visitors, friendly drivers, social program volunteers and food pantry volunteers. For
more information contact Marna Barany at mbarany@naplesseniorcenter.org.
Guadalupe Center
“The mission of the Guadalupe Center is to break the cycle of poverty through education for the children of Immokalee.” Once
again, many of our members are active volunteers at this remarkable facility. For more information contact Kelly Hammer at
khammer@guadalupecenter.org
Harry Chapin Food Bank
Here is some information from their website, “These dedicated people help with product recovery, work in our fast-paced
warehouse, provide administrative support, conduct their own food and fund drives, and assist with special events. The Food Bank
depends upon volunteers who help us to distribute millions of pounds of food throughout Southwest Florida.” Contact Todd Lewis
at tlewis@harrychapinfoodbank.org
Social Justice
 Members of Temple Shalom have attended the Women’s March in Washington, DC as well as similar marches here in Naples. Also,
members have visited the Equal Justice Initiative (EJI), National Memorial for Peace and Justice in Montgomery Alabama and
joined hands in Philadelphia with “more than 150 demonstrators gathered by the U.S. Custom House in Philadelphia to take issue
with the country’s policies on immigration.”
What seeds will you plant in the New Year? Come join us at the Tikkun Olam Council (TOC) and help us plant those seeds. For
more information about the TOC contact Ken Goldstein at kengoldstein@mac.com.

                                                                       Harry Chapin Food Bank of SWFL
                                                                                High Holy Day Appeal
                                                                Envelopes will be available on Rosh Hashanah. Please
                                                                make your donation using these envelopes and return
                                                                them to Temple Shalom on Yom Kippur.

                                                                                       Thank you!

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HAVURAH HAPPENINGS
The word “Havurah” comes from the Hebrew word “haver” meaning “friend.” A Havurah is a group of approximately 10-12
families who meet regularly to socialize, celebrate Jewish life together, and participate in social action projects. Havurot (plural of
havurah) provide an excellent opportunity to get to know other members of the Temple Shalom family who share your values and
interests. Havurot have flourished at Temple Shalom for many years, resulting in many lifelong friendships.

Each havurah group is self-directed, planning its activities based on the interests of its members. Some groups are more social in
nature, while others focus more on religious, family or study-related activities. They may even take the form of a book club. Past
activities of our havurot have included potluck dinners, book discussions, sports (bowling, skating, hiking), musical or theater
events, movies, Shabbat dinners, Havdalah services, Passover Seders, Hanukah parties and other holiday celebrations.
Belonging to a havurah can be fun and enriching. Some members report that their havurah has become their extended family.
Whether you are new to the synagogue, or have been a member for a while, it is a way to meet people with similar interests, get to
know other families and build friendships.

How do I join a havurah?
Groups are usually formed on the basis of shared interests and stage of life. New havurot being formed all the time.If you have an
idea for a new havurah, let us know and we will do our best to help you get it off the ground. Whatever your interests, age or stage
of life, we will get you started on the path to building new lasting friendships with other members of your Temple Shalom family.
Contact Debbie Zvibleman, at 239-272-8878 for more information.

Shoshanah Havurah
Our havurah is but one of several successful Temple havurot that have formed over the years, providing a unique friendship circle
of like-minded people grounded in Jewish values and service to the community. Our Havurah has incorporated many topics and
activities into our get togethers. Some of our favorites over the years have included:
     • Sharing childhood and adult memories of holiday celebrations, especially but not limited to Hanukkah and Passover
     • Trips and travels to Israel and other Jewish sites
     • Favorite Food Memories
     • Stories about inspiring family members, mentors, friends
     • Rose Mass’s autobiography discussion (She was a favorite person to all of us, a founding member of this Havurah and the
         Havurah was named in her honor.)
     • Discussion after hearing a speaker at Temple, a sermon or a speaker in the community
     • Our Jewish upbringing and how it shaped the way we became parents and grandparents
     • Favorite books, movies
One day, twelve members of the Temple’s Shoshanah Havurah volunteered to serve at the Naples Senior Center of Jewish Family
and Community Services (JFCS). Paula Brody and Merrill Hassenfeld, Rabbi and Jane Perman, Don and Arlene Shapiro, Dan and
Judi Spintman, Howard and Sheila Agranat, and Mort and Myra Friedman spent the day at the Senior Center where they served
lunch and assisted the participants. They were unanimous in their belief that it was a richly rewarding experience.

        Please share your havurah’s events, memories, ideas and pictures!
    Send to Jeanette Fischer, Director of Communications, at jfischer@naplestemple.org for publication in The Voice. 19
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CONNECT WITH US
Shabbat Tables
You are invited to a special Shabbat Tables Kickoff Potluck Dinner at Temple Shalom on Friday, October 26 at 6:00pm. You
bring a side dish to share and Temple Shalom will supply the chicken. Whether celebrating Shabbat is something you grew up
with, or something new for you and your family, we hope that you will consider participating in this exciting new twist on the
Shabbat Dinner Trains program as part of the Temple Shalom One Family. Like the Shabbat Dinner Train, Shabbat Tables is yet
another way that we build relationships with each other and share our traditions, as we more fully realize our mission of fostering
connections – one to another, Temple, Israel, Torah and God.
What do I do to make it a Shabbat Table? Invite a fellow congregant to share your Shabbat Table, whether that table is in your
home, by the pool or at a restaurant. Before dinner starts, we ask that you do the blessing over the candles, the Kiddush for the
wine, and the blessing over the challah, if possible.
What if I don’t know the prayers? No problem. All hosts get a cheat sheet with all of the prayers. You can also listen to them on
the Temple Shalom website, www.naplestemple.org.
Who do I invite? Anyone you want! Old friends, new friends or someone from Temple that you want to get to know better. Look
up their contact information in the membership directory and give them a call or send an email and invite them. Feel free to ask
Ana Maria Tamargo, Membership Engagement Coordinator, for suggestions.
Do I need to know anything else? Yes! Please take a few pictures of your dinner and send them to Jeanette Fischer, Director of
Communications, at jfischer@naplestemple.org or our website and Facebook page. Let us know who joined you for dinner.
What should I serve? Serve whatever you would like—fried chicken, take-out Chinese, pizza or traditional foods. It is not about
the food; it is about the people. You do not need to keep kosher to participate but we do ask that you don’t serve pork or shellfish.
Are there things that I need to have? Yes, you should have Shabbat candles, wine or grape juice, and a challah, if you are hosting
at home.

If you are interested in learning more about Shabbat Tables or to sign up to be a host or a guest, call Jane Friedberg at
978-535-5049 and start connecting with other members of our Temple family.

                                         Friday, October 26 at 6:00pm
                                     Shabbat Table Kickoff Potluck Dinner

                                     RSVP by Monday, October 22 to:
                        Ana Maria Tamargo, Membership Engagement Coordinator at
                               atamargo@naplestemple.org or 239-455-3030

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Endowment
Suzanne Low, J.D., CFP®, Endowment Chair
                                                                                                     Corner
What is the Temple Shalom Legacy Society?
The Legacy Society was created to honor those who have
demonstrated the foresight to plan a future gift to Temple                                  With a completed endowment gift of $10,000
Shalom. By signing a non-binding Letter of Intent to                                         or more you will become a member of our
make a future gift, you will become a member of our                                                    Eternal Light Society.
Legacy Society. We are excited to publish our second
annual list of the Legacy Society Members in this issue.
What is a planned gift? A planned gift is a gift to Temple
                                                                   to benefit the Temple far into the future. A planned gift can set
Shalom that you plan for now with the gift to be given
                                                                   a wonderful example for your children and grandchildren to
by you or your estate in the future. A planned gift can
                                                                   show how much you care about our temple so that it can have a
help you match your personal financial goals with your
                                                                   lasting role in your family’s lives for generations to come.
desire to make a substantial and lasting difference to ensure
that Temple Shalom will continue to thrive, allowing you           Contact me at endowmentchair@naplestemple.org or 239-450-
to provide support at a higher level than you may think            8112 or call the Temple office to get a copy of the non-binding
possible.                                                          Letter of Intent and answer any questions you may have about
                                                                   planned giving. We are dedicated to helping every donor find
How does a planned gift work? Any gift that can be given
                                                                   the right opportunity for yourself and your family to create a
now may also be made to take effect in the future, when the
                                                                   legacy that is meaningful to you.
assets are no longer needed for current or family expenses.
These include cash, securities, real estate, personal
property, retirement plan assets and life insurance.                                Temple Shalom
How can I make a planned gift? You make a planned gift                          Legacy Society Members
by designating Temple Shalom as a beneficiary of your                                      As of 8/1/2018
IRA, insurance policy, trust or will. You may name your
                                                                                    Anonymous donors (5)
own fund, facility or a gift dedicated to a specific purpose
by meeting established requirements. However, a planned                          Mardelle & Bennett Berman
gift does not have to be large. A gift of any size is a blessing               Paula Brody & Merrill Hassenfeld
and will have a long-term benefit.                                               Nancy Brown & Bill Maltby
Why should I consider a planned gift? The major benefit                                Lori & Ed Cohen
of a planned gift is that it allows you to hold on to your                              Florence Chelm
money and other assets for now, to be sure you can meet                             Karen & Stan Deutsch
your family’s future financial needs, while leaving a legacy
                                                                                    Myra & Mort Friedman
                                                                                 Harriet & Merlin Lickhalter
                                                                                         Suzanne Low
                                                                                          Lorie Mayer
                                                                                     Jane & James Perman
                                                                                  Phyllis & Michael Seaman
                                                                                    Arlene & Don Shapiro
                                                                                     Janet & Howard Solot
              You will become a member of our                                          Sheldon Starman
           Legacy Society with your signed letter of                                    Richard Treiser
              intent to make a gift in the future.                                     Stuart Warshauer
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TZEDAKAH                                        Education                                        Endowment Funds
                                                Adult Education Fund:                            General Endowment :
Showing We Care                                 Enhance adult education programs                 To secure the future, enrich programs
Contributions to Temple Shalom funds                                                             and provide for emergency needs of the
are wonderful ways to show your                 Religious School Fund:
                                                                                                 congregation
appreciation of family and friends, to          Supplies and activities for Jewish learning in
                                                Religious and Hebrew Schools                     Honey Berkle Endowment:
celebrate happy occasions and to honor
the memories of loved ones. We suggest                                                           Support overall mission of Temple Shalom
                                                Religious School Enrichment Fund:
a minimum donation of chai ($18.00).            Augments the Religious and Hebrew School         The Paula Brody and Merrill
With a minimum donation of chai, a              educational programming.                         Hassenfeld Endowment:
notice of your gift will be sent to the                                                          Support operating and capital expenses
                                                Polster Religious School Scholarship Fund:
honoree and mention will be published           Religious and Hebrew School scholarships         Kraus Scholar In Residence Endowment:
in The Voice.                                   for students in need                             To bring visiting scholars to the Temple as an
Operations                                                                                       educational benefit to the membership
                                                Ben Calmenson Fund:
General Fund:                                   Sponsors children to attending Camp              The Low Family Endowment:
Support Temple operations                       Coleman                                          To secure the future of Temple Shalom and
Capital Reserve:                                                                                 Reform Judaism in Southwest Florida
                                                Joseph S. Weinfeld Faculty
Maintain and enhance buildings and grounds      Development Fund:                                The Herbert & Ruth Abramson:
                                                Curriculum and teaching skill enrichment         To supplement general operations and
Security Fund:
                                                activities for Sunday and Hebrew School          provide enrichment for Temple functions
Improve safety and security
                                                teachers
Tree of Life:                                                                                    The Janet & Howard Solot Endowment:
                                                Youth Activities Fund:                           For general charitable uses and purposes
Each ‘Rock’ and ‘Star of David’ is a donation
                                                Financial support for our youth to attend
of $540.00; each ‘Leaf ’ is $240.00. The                                                         The Truly Nolen Family Endowment:
                                                Camp Coleman, to take part in regional/
contribution must be received in its entirety                                                    To support the overall mission of Temple
                                                national youth conventions, and summer in
before engraving is ordered.                                                                     Shalom
                                                Israel experiences.
Tribute Garden:
                                                Preschool Fund:                                  Clergy/Leadership
Enhance garden, buildings and grounds.
                                                Supplies and activities for the Preschool        Rabbi Miller’s Discretionary Fund:
Dedication opportunities are available.
                                                                                                 For tzedakah, charitable purposes,and
                                                Preschool Enrichment Fund:                       general enhancement of the Rabbi's work
Worship                                         Books, magazines and media for children
Memorial Fund:                                                                                   Cantor Azu's Discretionary Fund:
                                                and adolescents
Donations in memory of loved ones                                                                For tzedakah, charitable purposes and
                                                Arby Lipman Children's Library:                  general enhancement of the Cantor's work
William Freschel Kiddush Fund:
                                                For the purchase of children and adolescent
Provide Kiddush Lunch each Saturday                                                              Leadership Fund:
                                                books and magazine subscriptions, and
following worship services. A $150 donation                                                      Enhance and enrich leadership programs at
                                                supplies
sponsors Kiddush in honor of a special                                                           Temple Shalom
someone or occasion.                            Jack and Charlotte Ward
                                                Family Children's Music Shelf:                   Library
Flower Fund:
                                                Audio and video music for children               Rabbi James & Jane Perman Library:
Bimah flowers each Shabbat. A $100.00
                                                                                                 Books, magazine subscriptions and supplies
donation sponsors flowers in memory or in
honor of a special someone or occasion.                                                          SocialAction
Mitzvah Baskets Fund:                                                                            David and Lillian Thalenfeld
Bimah food baskets for Shabbat. A $100                                                           Fund for Social Justice:
donation purchases several hundred dollars                                                       Support Temple’s participation in social
of food for JFCS.                                                                                justice events and activities

Dr. Philip & Shirley Gilbert Music Fund:                                                         Oneg Shabbat:
Enhances music at Temple Shalom                                                                  Sponsors Onegs in celebration of an event or
                                                                                                 to honor someone. This fund is administered
Prayerbook Fund:                                                                                 by Temple Shalom Sisterhood. Please contact
Prayerbooks and Torah commentaries.                                                              Sandy Stone (239) 597-1553.
Prayerbooks - $54, Torah commentary - $100
High Holy Days prayerbooks (set) - $108
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