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TEMPLE BETH EL OF BOCA RATON   JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2018 | TEVET/SHEVAT/ADAR 5778

The Spirituality of
      Children
                                                           Family
                                            Participation Shabbat
                                                         & Family
                                              Havdalah Barbecue
                                                               page 8, page 15

                                                                   Purim
                                                                      page 14

                                                Mitzvah Mensches
                                                                      page 16
Children The Spirituality of - Temple Beth El of Boca Raton
Children The Spirituality of - Temple Beth El of Boca Raton
The Spiritual
  Life of Children                                                                           BY RABBI DAN LEVIN
                                                                                             dlevin@tbeboca.org

The world is an amazing place, filled        sense of faith and belief. The
with energy and life. But not all life is    children wrestled with their beliefs
the same.                                    about God, what they thought was
   The economist E.F. Schumacher             their purpose in life, and what it
wrote that there are four levels of          meant to be good. They admitted
being. The lowest level is what he calls     their frustrations with injustice,
the “mineral” level, the basic elements      and embraced that they had to do
of physicality. Some things rise to the      something to make the world a
next level – they are alive. You can tell    better place.
the difference between a tree which is         Becoming self-reflective is not
living and a tree which is not.              always innate. To develop the
   Still one more level up, and things       fullness of our humanity, we must
are not simply alive, they are conscious.    be taught. Twice a day we are
From the smallest insect, to fish and        asked to recite the Shema and
birds and animals of every kind – these      V’Ahavta, where we are reminded
creatures are awake and aware.               of the obligation of every Jewish
   The fourth level of being is where        parent to teach our children. It is our       believe we must teach our children how
we are different as human beings. A          holy responsibility to teach our children     to answer complicated moral questions.
being has not simply matter, life,           to be self-reflective, and to help them       We must show them why it matters to
and consciousness, but something             develop their spiritual and moral core.       be good, to nurture their natural sense
altogether transformative – the power          Children listen closely to their parents,   of wonder and guide them along their
of self-reflection.
   As human beings, we are the only
                                                      It is our holy responsibility to teach our
creatures that ponder and debate the
meaning of our own existence. We

                                             children to be self-reflective, and to help them
ask ourselves: Who am I? Why does
the world work the way it does? Can
I change it? What is my life’s purpose?
What do I owe myself, and what duty do                  develop their spiritual and moral core.
I have to others – especially those who
are disadvantaged or more vulnerable
than me?                                     their grandparents, their teachers, and       journeys of spiritual exploration. We
   These are not questions that are          their religious leaders. As Robert Coles      must teach them how to use the wisdom
reserved for adulthood – we begin to         teaches, children try to make sense of        of their sacred tradition to build lives of
ponder them as children. And it is the       a complicated world from a very early         meaning, purpose and holiness.
consideration of these questions that        age. And it is our obligation to help            The world can be a difficult place, but
builds the essence of our spiritual lives.   them develop the tools they need for          when we help our children to develop
   The famous child psychiatrist Robert      their spiritual and human growth.             their inner spirituality, we provide a
Coles, in preparing for his book The           Temple Beth El takes very seriously         light that will not simply guide them on
Spiritual Life of Children, spent            our responsibility to partner with all        their own path, but give them the tools
hours listening to children ages 8-12        families in our community to nurture          to spread the light of God’s presence to
talk with each other about their growing     the spiritual life of our children. We        every darkened corner of our world.

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A MESSAGE FROM THE TEMPLE PRESIDENT

Temple Life
BY MARK SUNSHINE
TEMPLE BETH EL PRESIDENT
msunshine@masunshine.com

                   I wish it weren’t true, but in many ways                  And, I went to funerals, a lot of funerals, for classmates who
                   2017 reminds me of when I grew up in the                didn’t make it out of high school.
                   New York area in the 1960’s and 1970’s.                   But through it all, our synagogue was a second home
                   I know from personal experience that                    where I felt safe and removed from the craziness around
                   children and teens need synagogue.                      me. I depended upon the clergy and youth director. I had
                     While I didn’t understand a lot about                 my own little corner in the cantor’s office where me and
                   what was happening in America when I                    a bunch of other kids kept our “stuff”, and when we were
                   was a kid, what I did comprehend was                    confused, the adults explained things in an understandable
                   dark and disturbing.                                    and comforting way.
  I remember assassinations and race riots; the Vietnam War;                 I still think of those conversations 40-plus years later.
my brother’s draft number being 47 and my parents crying;                    Synagogue got me through high school without being
Johnson; Nixon; Kent State; student protests and then even                 damaged by adolescent mistakes and insecurities, all of which
more protests; Watergate; and stagflation. I remember when                 were amplified by then current events.
veterans were called “baby killers” and cops were called “pigs.”             Unfortunately, history is repeating itself. America is again in
I never understood how ducking and covering at school was                  turmoil and for our children and teens, Beth El is a refuge from
                                                                           the upsetting and unsettling 24/7 news cycle.
                                                                             We provide a safe environment for children to learn and play,
                             Beth El
         ...for our children and teens,                                    and for teens to grow and flourish. Our children see exceptional

    is a refuge from the upsetting and
                                                                           role models, and can spend quality time with their friends
                                                                           without parents having to worry about high risk behavior.
             unsettling 24/7 news cycle.                                     As Beth El’s President, I remember what temple life did for
                                                                           me and am committed to making sure that it can do the same
                                                                           for your children. I want every Beth El child to know we are
going to save me from a hydrogen bomb (and we were told that               there for them, and can be depended upon to be a constant
our town was a Soviet first strike target) and that worried me.            role model in an otherwise uncertain world.
  Starting in middle school, illegal drugs and sex were a                    Our children are our legacy. Now, more than ever, they need
constant, which scared me.                                                 Beth El.

             Welcome                          NEW AND RETURNING MEMBERS
                              For help getting involved, please contact Elinor Josephson,
              Director of Engagement and Programming, at ejosephson@tbeboca.org or 561-391-8900.
           Mary and Harvey Beberman                       Stacey and Keith Herman and                  Dr. Deborah Posner and Laura Posner
    Amy and Eyal Ben-Maier and their son, Aiden                their daughter, Rachel                       and their daughter, Rebecca
                Deborah Bensimon                            Marlene and Steven Josias                       Barbara and Charles Saletan
         Wendy and John Caple and their                       Joan and Donald Lamm                           Cindy and Donald Schindel
            children, Hailey and Chase                Amy Levin and Jonathan Soble and                       Marni and David Schindler
                   Elaine Colker                     Jonathan’s children, Haley and Victor                        Michael Solomon
            Ellen and Stephen Danetz                            Carole Loewenstein                                    Alyse Stoll
            Lauren and Larry Dearman                              Natalia Mandor                     Jennifer Stone and Peter Gladstone and
           Korissa and Josh Feigelman                        Benette and Tony Marco                    their children, Jaron, Blayke and Lexi
                Beth and Dale Frost                                  Maci Morse                                   Veronika Weiler
      Debra Gaier and her daughter, Allyson           Arielle and Edo Nakdimon and their                           Doris Weingrad
            Golda and Sheldon Golub                 children, Aiden, Gabriel, Liam and Noa                 Kimberly and Brian Weintraub
             Ellen and Arnold Gruber                  Ilissa and Christian Nelsen and their                      Dr. Elizabeth White
                                                            daughters, Joy and Peyton
           Stephanie and Robert Halio                                                              Tugba and Bulent Yildiz and their son, James
                                                          Kelly Perrins and Adam Hasiak

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BETH EL BASH
Construction                                                  SAVE

                                                                  A Night
                                                               THE
                                                              DATE

Update: 3 Phases

                                                                of Dinner,
BY STEVE KAUFMAN
EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR
skaufman@tbeboca.org

                 The Schaefer Family Campus three-
                 phased construction project is well

                                                                   Dancing
                 underway. Phase 1 is complete,
                 and consisted of renovations to
                 the Singer Sanctuary including
                 lighting and sound upgrades, as well
                 as air conditioning and life safety

                                                                  & Comedy
                 improvements to the Atrium.
                    Phase 2 began last month and is
expected to take approximately one year. It includes
the new lobby and covered drop off, new chapel, new
adult learning room, restroom renovations, a new
Sisterhood gift shop, and completion of a portion of
the new administrative offices. Phase 2 also includes
redecoration of the Atrium and Social Hall in the
summer of 2018.

             During         Phase 2,the main
    entrance     area and      lobby  will be
          closed off, as will the restrooms
            closest to the main Sanctuary.
  During this time, all guests will enter the
     building through the            courtyard.
  During Phase 2, the main entrance area and lobby
will be closed off, as will the restrooms closest to the
main Sanctuary. During this time, all guests will enter              SATURDAY, APRIL 7, 2018
the building through the courtyard. The Sisterhood gift
shop and lobby seating areas will not be available, and        With the hilarious Dave Barry
restroom facilities will be limited to those located closer           A night of dinner, dancing and comedy
to the doors leading to the courtyard.                               to benefit the Temple Beth El Scholarship
  A temporary entrance will be built in the rear of the
                                                                           and Financial Aid programs.
Singer Sanctuary to allow us to renovate the area in and
around the main Sanctuary doors. This will require the                          $200 per person
temporary relocation of all our Yahrzeit boards.                       $150 per person age 40 and under
  The Phase 3 completion of the administrative offices                Sponsorship opportunities available
will most likely begin in 2019. So things will be a little           Space is very limited, so RSVP early at
crowded and inconvenient during 2018. We appreciate                          tbeboca.org/beth-el-bash
your patience and understanding as we embark upon the
most intensive and disruptive phase of this major project.      Dave Barry is a professional humorist and writer who has
We will do our best to minimize the inconvenience to            written more than 30 books, two of which were the basis for
the congregation while continuing to provide you the           the CBS sitcom “Dave’s World.” Dave’s most recent book, “For
programs and services you expect from your Temple.             This We Left Egypt? A Passover Haggadah for Jews and Those
  We will provide additional construction updates in            Who Love Them,” is a hilarious take on the Passover Seder.
The Chronicle and via e-mail so stay tuned!

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COMMUNITY

              Rabbi Levin’s                  All members new to Temple Beth El in the past year are
                                             invited to attend an open house at the clubhouse of Rabbi
              New Member                     Dan and Aimee Levin.

              Meet & Greet                     Enjoy afternoon snacks and beverages while getting
                                             to know clergy, staff and other new members. This event
            Saturday, February 10, 2018      welcomes singles, couples and families with children of
                         2:00-4:00pm         all ages, and is a true reflection of our richly diverse and
                                             welcoming Beth El community.
                                               RSVP online at tbeboca.org/special-events or contact
                                             Elinor Josephson, Director of Engagement & Programming
                                             at ejosephson@tbeboca.org or 561-391-8900.
        Look for your                          The New Member Meet & Greet is hosted by our
           invitation                        Membership & Engagement Committee and generously
          in the mail                        underwritten by Sisterhood and Brotherhood.

    COMING FALL 2018                                 Kulanu Chavurot
    EAT PRAY                                         ALL OF US — GROUPS OF FRIENDS

    LOVE…
                                                     Now forming groups for Temple families with
                                                     a child in pre-K to second grade

    ISRAEL                                           Have you ever walked into Temple and wondered, “Where should
                                                     I sit? Who is here that I know?” Experience the difference that
                                                     a warm welcome and lasting friendships within Temple Beth El
    Just for adults…experience
                                                     can do for you and your family.
    Israel like never before!
                                                        Kulanu Chavurot is a Hebrew phrase that embodies the goal
    Feed your spirit with Israel’s                   of this small group initiative, Kulanu meaning “all of us” and
    incredible wine and gourmet                      Chavurot meaning “groups of friends.” By participating in Kulanu
    culture. Explore your                            Chavurot, you will have an opportunity to interact with other
    spirituality, and see a new side                 Temple members who share common interests and lifestyles,
    of Israel and yourself. Meet                     within a small group setting. Each group independently designs
    new friends and be inspired by                   its own programming touching upon our Four Pillars: Spirituality,
    the abundant offerings of our                    Education,       Social
    Jewish homeland.                                 Justice and Social
                                                     Engagement.
    For information contact
                                                        The program is
    Elinor Josephson, Director of
                                                     now being offered
    Engagement and Programming
                                                     to all Temple families
    at ejosephson@tbeboca.org
                                                     with a child in Pre-K
    or 561-391-8900.
                                                     to second grade,
    Linda and Norman Rose,                           who will be invited
    Travel Chairpersons                              through an online
                                                     questionnaire.
                                                        We look forward to
                                                     seeing this program
                                                     grow, and welcome suggestions for new groups. Anyone
                                                     interested in sharing comments or gaining more information,
                                                     please contact Elinor Josephson at 561-391-8900 or Rachael
                                                     Rand at 561-391-9091.

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INTERFAITH WEEKEND
FAITH IN ACTION: TRANSCENDING HATRED
FRIDAY, JANUARY 19, 2018
Shabbat Evening Service at Temple Beth El
6:00pm
Join our friends from St. Joan of Arc Catholic Church for an inspiring evening. We will
discuss how faith can help to transcend the hatred we encounter each day in the
news and in our lives. Our choirs will unite us in song as we explore how to
solve this important challenge together.

Italian Dinner: Breaking Bread with our Friends!
7:3Opm
Join us for pasta, eggplant and salad after Shabbat services.
$15/adult, $12/child (4-12) or $20/adult, $15/child after January 12.
RSVP at tbeboca.org/worship or to Nina Finkel at
nfinkel@tbeboca.org or 561-391-8900

SUNDAY, JANUARY 21, 2018
Mass at St. Joan of Arc Catholic Church
12:15pm
Join our clergy and choirs at St. Joan of Arc as we come together in
worship, music and dialogue.

  Shabbat Shira! Sabbath of Song
  WEEKEND CELEBRATION OF MUSIC
  JAZZ SHABBAT!
  Friday, January 26, 2018 at 7:30pm
  Rabbi Merle E. Singer Sanctuary,
  Schaefer Family Campus
  Featuring Aaron Kula
  and the Klezmer Company Jazz Orchestra
  Join us for Shabbat Shira, the Sabbath of Song
  featuring Aaron Kula’s Klezmer Company Jazz
  Orchestra and our cantorial team. Celebrate
  Shabbat with jazzed up arrangements of Shabbat
  melodies and spirited musical accompaniment that
  will transform Shabbat.

                         YOUNG FAMILY
                         CONCERT
                         ELLEN ALLARD LIVE!
                         Sunday, January 28, 2018
                         4:00pm
                         Free and open to the community but must
                         RSVP at tbeboca.org/special-events.
                         See page 14 for additional details.

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Celebrate
    JANUARY 5                             JANUARY 12                          JANUARY 19
    6:30pm Tot Shabbat:                   7:30pm Sisterhood Shabbat,          6:00pm Interfaith Shabbat
    Happy New Year Shabbat!               featuring the music of              Schaefer Family Campus
    Beck Family Campus                    Debbie Friedman                     Faith in Action:
    Bring in the new year with your       Schaefer Family Campus              Transcending Hatred
    ELC family as we celebrate our        A joyous evening led by our         This inspiring evening with our friends
    own “ball- dropping” for 2018!        Sisterhood, celebrating the         from St. Joan of Arc Catholic Church
    Pizza dinner at 6:00pm before         power of women and the life         will explore how faith can transcend
    service. No charge for dinner but     and music of Debbie Friedman.       the hatred we encounter each day, in
    you must RSVP at tbeboca.org/         Raise your voices with a rockin’    the news and in our lives. The music
    early-learning-center.                band and all of Debbie’s familiar   of our joint choirs will lift your souls,
                                          and fantastic hits!                 helping us rise above this important
    6:30pm Pre-Neg                                                            challenge.
    Schaefer Family Campus                7:00pm Family
                                          Participation Service:              7:30pm Italian Dinner: Breaking
    7:30pm Shabbat Evening                Repairing the World                 Bread with our Friends!
    Service:                              Beck Family Campus                  Join us for pasta, eggplant and salad!
    What’s in a Name?                     Tikkun Olam (repairing the          $15/adult, $12/child (4-12) or
    Schaefer Family Campus                world) is an important part of      $20/adult, $15/child after January 12.
    Parshat Shemot literally              Judaism and the development of      RSVP at tbeboca.org/special-events
    means names, so we explore            our youth. Led by Shir Joy and      or to Nina Finkel
    Shakespeare’s “What’s in a            other talented young people, we     at nfinkel@tbeboca.org or
    name?” As we begin the New            will learn to “give back” at this   561-391-8900
    Year, what do you want your           casual Shabbat service geared
    name to say about you in 2018?        for families.
                                                                              JANUARY 26
                                            As the next step after Tot
                                          Shabbat, it’s geared towards        7:30pm Shabbat Shira
                                          families with children ages 5-13.   Jazz Shabbat
                                                                              Schaefer Family Campus
                                                                              Aaron Kula and the Klezmer Company
                                                                              Jazz Orchestra will join us for the
                                                                              Sabbath of Song. Enjoy jazzed up
                                                                              orchestrations as we retell the story of
                                                                              crossing the sea to freedom! Shabbat
                                                                              Club for children ages 2-10 is available
                                                                              this evening. Register at
                                                                              tbeboca.org/worship

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S H A B B AT a time of rest and renewal, a time
          for pleasure and the growth of the spirit, a time to sing and
            celebrate with gratitude. Spend Friday evenings with us!

FEBRUARY 2
6:30pm Tot Shabbat:
                                        FEBRUARY 16
                                        6:00pm Shabbat at Six:                     Shabbat
Bring on the Music!
Beck Family Campus
                                        Our One Hour Spiritual Experience
                                        Schaefer Family Campus
                                                                                   Club!
A fabulous, musical service led by      Leave your jacket and tie at home          FOR CHILDREN AGES
our teen musicians! Our children will   and enjoy this casual and peaceful         2-10
be inspired by the musical talent       Shabbat service.                           WHILE YOU ARE IN
of the many young people who                                                       SHABBAT EVENING
surround us at Beth El.                                                            SERVICES
  Pizza dinner at 6:00pm before         FEBRUARY 23                                Fridays January 26,
service. No charge for dinner but       5:00pm Pre-Neg for Kindergarten,           March 23, April 27 and
please RSVP at tbeboca.org/early-       1st and 2nd grade families.                June 1, 2018
learning-center.                        Schaefer Family Campus                     7:30-9:00pm
                                        Healthy bites before services for          Schaefer Family Campus
7:30pm Green Shabbat!                   parents and students.
Schaefer Family Campus                                                             Enjoy Shabbat evening
In honor of Tu B’Shevat we will         6:00pm Kindergarten, 1st and 2nd           services while your child enjoys
spend the evening honoring the          grade Shabbat!                             their own fabulous Shabbat
environment; how can we protect         Schaefer Family Campus                     experience just down the hall
God’s everyday miracles and provide     Delight in a service celebrating our       with Mr. Noam.
a safe world for our children?          kindergarten, 1st and 2nd grade
                                                                                   Mr. Noam leads childcare music
                                        students!
                                                                                   at the Early Learning Center,
FEBRUARY 9                              7:30pm Shabbat Service:                    and will engage your children
6:30pm Pre-Neg                          Our American/Jewish Identity               with age-appropriate, musical
Schaefer Family Campus                  Schaefer Family Campus                     Shabbat fun! Additionally,
                                        Go to our Facebook page, Temple            teachers from our pre-school
7:30pm Shabbat Service:                 Beth El of Boca Raton on Tuesday,          will supervise crafts, games and
featuring the Dedication of our New     February 20th and respond to the           other fun Shabbat activities.
Sanctuary!                              question we will post that week.           Snacks will be served.
Schaefer Family Campus                  We will discuss and explore YOUR
Join us to honor our Rabbi Emeritus                                                The Shabbat Club is free!
                                        answers and opinions this evening
Merle E. Singer and celebrate our       as we explore our American/Jewish          Registration is required; Please
beautiful sanctuary and bright          identity.                                  call Nina Finkel in the clergy
future!                                                                            office at 561-391-8900 or online
                                                                                   at tbeboca.org/worship

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COMMUNITY LEARNING

Sacred Aging Initiative
Matter of Balance and Fall Prevention                  Lunch                              Bring your
                                                                                          own lunch.
Sunday, January 28, 2018
1:00pm
Schaefer Family Campus
                                                       & Learn
                                                       JANUARY
                                                                                            Drinks
                                                                                          provided.

Kayleigh Fessenden, OTR/L, Senior
                                                       COMPOSER MICHAEL ISAACSON
Occupational Therapist at Healthsouth
                                                       & THE ISRAEL PHILHARMONIC
Sunrise, will speak about issues of                    ORCHESTRA RECORDINGS
maintaining a healthy sense of balance
                                                       Three musical recordings that changed
and preventing falls as we age. Light
                                                       Jewish Music in Celebration
refreshments will be served.
                                                       of Israel’s 70th                    L TURNS
  This program is presented with                                                         AE        7
                                                       Tuesdays

                                                                                           ISR

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the generosity of the Temple Beth
El Brotherhood and Temple Beth El
                                                       January 16, 23, 30, 2018
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                                                       12:00 – 1:00pm
Sisterhood/WRJ.
                                                       Schaefer Family Campus

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                                                       In the last decade of the 20th
                                                       century, composer and conductor
                                                       Dr. Michael Isaacson arranged, conducted, and
                                                       produced 12 music CDs with the esteemed Israel
PARENT WORKSHOP                                        Philharmonic Orchestra. He learned much about

Raising Mindful                                        the land, the people, and their music which he
                                                       will engagingly share with you. Every week, you
Mensches                                               will have the opportunity to take a CD home with
                                                       you after these delightful meetings. Dr. Isaacson
Friday, February 23, 2018
                                                       is one of the most prolific and accomplished
9:30am-11:15am
                                                       American Jewish composers of our time.
Beck Family Campus
Breakfast will be provided.
Space is limited so RSVPs are required,                FEBRUARY
although there is no cost.                             DIVINE RULES:
                                                       THE GREAT MYSTERY OF THE
Temple Beth El members who have
                                                       COMMANDMENTS
children ages 5 and under are
welcome to join us for a fun,
                                                       Rabbi Larry Kotok
friendly workshop led by Tami
                                                       Tuesdays, February 6, 13, 20 and 27, 2018
and Rabbi Greg Weisman. As
                                                       12:00 – 1:00pm
Jewish educators and parents
                                                       Schaefer Family
of preschool-aged children,
                                                       Campus
they can share resources and                           Our commandments, known
lead discussion on what makes                          in Hebrew as Mitzvot, are the
a mindful mensch (Yiddish for a                        core of Judaism but what do
person of honor and integrity, who                     they mean to us in today’s
does what is right because it is right.)               world. Are there 10 or 613?
Adults only, please. Schmooze, learn and share with    What do we as Reform Jews do with them? Do
your fellow parents!                                   they matter anymore? Come find out with Rabbi
   We thank Parenthood for their support, as well as   Larry Kotok. He is the Rabbinic Scholar and
Brotherhood and Sisterhood for their generosity. For   Senior Advisor for Lifelong Jewish Learning at
more information, please contact Rachael Rand at       Temple B’rith Kodesh in Rochester, New York, and
rrand@tbeboca.org or 561-391-9091. RSVP at             founded the Rochester Kollel, a groundbreaking
tbeboca.org/early-learning-center by Wednesday,        community-wide adult study program.
February 21, 2018.

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SOCIAL ACTION

                                                              AH OF THE MO
                                                           TZV            NT
                                                         MI                 H

Steps for Life                                              JANUARY

5K RUN/WALK
Sunday, January 14, 2018 • 8:00am • South County Regional Park
Support the Gift of Life Bone Marrow Foundation at the 2018 Steps for Life 5k
                                                                                          Gleaning
                                                                                          Saturday, March 3, 2018
Run/Walk in Boca Raton. Led by Temple Beth El team leader Debi Jackman, we
                                                                                          8:45am – 12:00pm
are raising funds and awareness for bone marrow and blood stem cell transplants.
                                                                                          Delray Beach, Florida
                                         Registration begins at 8 am, and the 5k
                                         run/walk begins at 9:15 am. The closing          Gleaning is helping to
                                         celebration will be at 10:30am.                  collect unharvested crops
                                           Visit tbeboca.org/social-action                for our community’s
                                         for more information, to register to             hungry and poor. Join
                                         walk, or to make a donation. Contact             the Temple Beth El Social
                                         Rabbi Greg Weisman at 561-391-                   Action committee for this
                                         8900 or gweisman@tbeboca.org for                 hands-on opportunity to
                                         information.                                     support those in need.
                                                                                          We are going to be out
                                                                                          in the fields bending
                                                                                          and lifting, so those
                                                                                          who want to participate

Habitat                                                                                   need to be able to do
                                                                                          so comfortably, lifting

for                                                                                       as much as 30 pounds.
                                                                                          Children can participate

Humanity                                                                                  in this mitzvah with their
                                                                                          parents!

Build
                                                                                            More information about
                                                                                          the exact location will be
Saturday, February 17, 2018                                                               shared with those who
8:00am-12:00noon                                                                          register.
                                                                                            RSVP at tbeboca.org/
Help build a house for at-risk                                                            social-action or to
families who benefit from                                                                 Rabbi Greg Weisman at
the life-changing opportunity of home                                                     561-391-8900.
                             ownership.
        A H OF THE MON       Minimum age
     TZV
   MI                 TH
                             to participate
                             is 16 years old.
      FEBRUARY
                             Absolutely no
                             experience is
                             required! The
build will take place in south Palm Beach
County, and more information will be
available closer to the build date.
  Space is limited. Register at
tbeboca.org/social-action or contact
Rabbi Greg Weisman at 561-391-8900
or gweisman@tbeboca.org for more
information.

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           ALLARD
           IN CONCERT!                                                                 FOR
                                                                                       YOUNG
                                                                                       FAMILIES

           A CONCERT FOR YOUNG FAMILIES
           Sunday, January 28, 2018 • 4:00pm
           Schaefer Family Campus, Rabbi Merle E. Singer Sanctuary
           Ever wonder who wrote the “Friday Friday” song that the kids jump up and down singing on
           Shabbat? Enjoy a fun afternoon including the many well-known songs we sing with our kids,
           all written and performed by the amazing Ellen Allard!
           This concert is made possible through the generosity of the Cantor Stephen Dubov z”l Music
           Enrichment Fund and the Jewish Federation of South Palm Beach County.

                  Schaefer Family Campu s 333 SW 4th Avenue | Boca Raton, FL 33432 | 561 391 8900
                  tbeboca.org
10 T H ANNUAL C AN TOR ST EP HEN DUBOV Z”L MEMOR I AL C ONCER T

SUNDAY MARCH 11 2018 3:00 PM
              TEMPLE BETH EL OF BOCA RATON

SCHAEFER FAMILY CAMPUS 333 SW 4TH AVENUE BOCA RATON
Oh what a night! A funny, heartwarming musical                   Reserved Benefactor Seats $100
tribute about four good kids who went rogue and                  Preferred Admission $36
became cantors. Starring Cantors David Propis,                   General Admission $18
Michael Stein, Randy Herman and Steven Stoehr.                   Student Admission $10

Purchase tickets online at tbeboca.org or call 561-391-8900.

                           Schaefer Family Campu s 333 SW 4th Avenue | Boca Raton, FL 33432 | 561 391 8900
                           tbeboca.org
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PURIM

Community-Wide
Purim Carnival
Sunday, February 25, 2018
10:00am – 4:00pm
Unlimited ride wristbands (will be sold at event)
$10/child, maximum of $40 per family
Adults – no charge
Food for purchase
Jewish Federation
of South Palm Beach County Campus
Get together with Temple Beth El friends at this super-charged
Purim Carnival for the whole Boca Raton Jewish community.
Lots of fun rides and prizes. Stop by the Temple Beth El table
to pick up your special gift!

More information at tbeboca.org/special-events

                                                                         Wednesday, February 28, 2018
                                                                                                5:00pm
                                                                           Pizza, Pasta and Salad dinner

     Megillah
                                                                                                 6:30pm
                                                                                  Service and Purim Spiel
                                                                                 Schaefer Family Campus

                                                          “A megillah on the roof, sounds crazy, no?”
                                                                   Join our clergy and staff for a side-splitting
                                                                         Purim spiel filled with the music from
                                                                                  your favorite Jewish musical!

                                                                                            RSVP for dinner at
                                                                                 tbeboca.org/special-events
                                                                            Adults/$12; Children under 13/$10.
                                                                                            After February 20,
                                                                                                   Adults/$14;
                                                                                        Children under 13/ $12

                                                                                      Sponsored by Sisterhood

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                                                                             Art, Autism and
                                                                             the IDF
                                                                             AN EXPLORATION OF ISRAELI
                                                                             INGENUITY
                                                                             Featuring Tal Vardi and Craig
                                                                             Dershowitz
                                                                             Thursday, January 11, 2018
                                                                             7:00pm
Saturday, January 27, 2018
                                                                             Schaefer Family Campus
5:00pm – 7:00pm
Beck Family Campus                                                           Tal Vardi is co-founder     of Ro’im
                                                                                                Clifton Truman Daniel

$15/Adult and $8/Child ages 4-10                                             Rahok, a program that helps
Prices increase to $18/Adult and $10/                                        students with autism prepare for
Child ages 4-10                                                              enlistment in the Israeli Defense
after January 17, 2018.                                                      Force.
                                                                                Craig Dershowitz is the executive
It’s a great family get together with delicious
                                                                             director of Artists 4 Israel. The
barbecue food, crafts, games, Havdalah
                                                                             group advocates for Israel and
and of course s’mores. Enjoy games on the
                                                                             its freedoms through graffiti,
Beck Family Campus field and basketball
                                                                             photography, tattoos, theater, fine
court, and crafts in the courtyard followed
                                                                             arts and music.
by a delicious barbecue dinner. Conclude
                                                                                For security purposes, advance
the evening around the campfire with songs,
                                                                             registration is required by January
                       yummy s’mores and Havdalah.
                                                                             8. RSVP online at events.aipac.
                           This event has been generously
                                                                             org/boca or call 954-382-6110.
                             underwritten by Brotherhood
                                and Sisterhood. Space is
                                 limited and RSVPs
                                  are required at
                                   tbeboca.org/special-events
                                   or contact Rachael Rand
                                  at rrand@tbeboca.org
                                 or 561-391-9091 for more
                               information.

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EARLY LEARNING CENTER

Spirituality                                                                   INTRODUCING…

in Young Children                                                              Mitzvah
BY CINDY KORSHIN
                                                                               Mensches!
                                                                               As part of our Early Learning Center
BETH EL EARLY LEARNING CENTER DIRECTOR
ckorshin@tbeboca.org                                                           curriculum we teach our students about
                                                                               Mitzvot, acts of loving kindness. Instilling
                     All parents want their children to be happy. How          these values at a young age contributes
                     do we plant seeds of happiness in our children in         to a lifelong habit of helping others
                     hopes that it will last a lifetime?                       in need.
                       According to Psychology Today, research
                     suggests that having a connection to something            This program will…
                     greater than themselves is how we build that              • Coordinate with the Temple Beth El
                     happiness.                                                  Social Action Committee “Mitzvah of
                       Aristotle stated, “happiness is the meaning and           the Month” to engage with the larger
purpose in life, the whole aim and end of human existence.” In the               synagogue
Early Learning Center, we are giving our students the opportunity                community.
every day to feel grateful for all of the things we eat by saying a blessing   • Provide fun,
over snacks and meals. On Shabbat, we sing songs that teach us about             meaningful,
G-d and that G-d is everywhere. We encourage our students to collect
                                                                                 and age-
tzedakah and perform acts of kindness by giving to others.
                                                                                 appropriate
  This year we have devised some new programming that supports our
mission.                                                                         ways to learn
  Our first children’s Havdalah service is taking place at the Delray            about giving
Beach Children’s Garden. On Saturday, January 13, the children will              Tzedakah.
be enjoying a Havdalah service in a beautiful natural environment. We          • Expose our
encourage you to join us for a very special program.                             children to
  Additionally, we have started a new program called Mitzvah Mensches            the many
that coordinates with the temple’s Social Action Committee. Each                 different ways
month our children will be participating in activities and projects that         there are to support others who need
are age appropriate for our students, including donating food, gleaning,
                                                                                 help in our larger community.
or helping families enjoy Easter dinner at the Wayne Barton Center.
  At home, we encourage you to create an environment of gratitude.             • In our pre-K classes, we will institute
Start each day by asking your child what is something good that you              a “Mitzvah Mensch of the Week”
can do today. Reflect at the end of day and ask your child what was              program. Students who have shown
wonderful today? What made you smile?                                            special kindness and giving that week
  The truth is, children are born with spirituality. They live in the            will be recognized at our school wide
moment and they love unconditionally. I think we can learn a lot                 Tot Shabbat.
from kids.
                                                                               Please join us by participating in the
                                                                               following monthly Mitzvah Projects:
HAVDALAH IN THE GARDEN                                                         January—Gift of Life—Sign up to be a
Saturday, January 13, 2018 • 4:00pm-5:45pm                                     donor at Family Fun Day
Delray Beach Children’s Garden                                                 February—“Souper” Bowl—Donate a
137 SW 2nd Avenue, Delray Beach
                                                                               can of soup for a local food pantry
$25.00/Family
Indulge your child’s need for a hands-on experience in a lush,                 March—Gleaning—Pick veggies from
natural environment while you have the opportunity to get                      the field to be donated to Boca Helping
together with friends in a magical setting. Price includes a                   Hands
garden tour, besamim (spice pouch) making, light
                                                                               April—Donate food or time to make
hors d’oeuvres for adults and children, Havdalah service, and a
donation to the garden. Space is limited. RSVP at                              the Easter dinner at the Wayne Barton
tbeboca.org/early-learning-center.                                             Center a success.

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Our Town
•••FAMILY FUN DAY & OPEN HOUSE•••
                        Saturday, January 20, 2018
                            10:00am to 1:30pm
                       Beth El Early Learning Center
                                                                                  Free
                      9800 Yamato Road, Boca Raton

EXPERIENCE “OUR TOWN”
FULL OF FRIENDLY FACES AND LOTS OF ACTIVITY!
Doors open at 10:00am. Enjoy Tot Shabbat at 10:15 am, followed by a yummy Oneg and
our full program of activities starting at 10:45 am.
• Please register to attend at             • Meet Palm Beach County Fire Rescue
  tbeboca.org/early-learning-center          And Tour A Real Truck
• Meet Our Wonderful Teachers              • Dine In Our “Food Court”
• Play Soccer In Our Town Gym                With Delicious Lunch And Desserts
• Experience A Live Wild Animal Show       • Bounce Houses, Glitter Art And More
• Carnival Games                           • Meet The Palm Beach County Sheriff’s Office
                                             Community Information Team And Mounted Unit
• Arts & Crafts
                                           • Cosmos Ice Cream Truck, The Guinness Book Of
• Petting Zoo
                                             World Records Largest Ice Cream Truck

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RELIGIOUS SCHOOL

Spiritual Parenting
BY HEATHER EREZ
DIRECTOR OF YOUTH EDUCATION AND ENGAGEMENT
herez@tbeboca.org

                           Sometimes, usually in the car, I find myself thinking about my purpose
                           in the universe and connection to God, but it’s so daunting, I tell myself
                           I’ll finish the thought when I have the time. Carving out time to stop and
                           reflect about spirituality is hard between soccer, piano, homework, etc.
                                                                                                             AMANDA CHARSON
                           If I can’t find time to contemplate this ever-changing thought for myself,        Assistant Director of
                                                                                                             Youth Education and
                           how am I supposed to help my kids connect and nourish their own                   Engagement
                           spirituality? This is where Temple Beth El comes into play.                       (grades K-6)
                                                                                                             acharson@tbeboca.org
                               Our job as religious school educators is to facilitate these
                           conversations by providing a space for students to grapple with the
                           idea of God and their own spirituality. We are reinforcing their natural
                           instinct to wonder and to appreciate the awesomeness that is around
us each day, a trait that tends to fade with age. Opportunities to talk with your children may
                                           come up organically as a result of these conversations in
                                           religious school. Carving out time to connect yourself
  FAMILY PARTICIPATION                     religiously and spiritually will also help support this side of
  SHABBAT SERVICE                          our children.
  January 12, 2018                           Participating with your children at our Family                  JULES WOLFBERG
                                                                                                             Assistant Director of
  7:00pm Beck Family Campus                Participation services, Havdalah events and Family                Youth Education and
                                                                                                             Engagement
  “Repairing the World”                    Learning Days throughout the year, will pave the way as we        (grades 7-12)
                                           venture together into the world of spiritual parenting.           jwolfberg@tbeboca.org

                    Family Participation Service
                                        at Beck Family Campus
                                led by Shir Joy, Shir Ruach, and
                        other talented youth of Temple Beth El

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Youth Engagement                                                         Fostering Relationships
                                                                         through shared Jewish Experiences

CLUB KITANIM (GRADES 2-3)                                     BOFTY (GRADES 9-12)
“Superbowl Smash”                                             BOFTY Dinners, Mark your calendars:
Sunday, February 4, 2018                                      Tuesday, January 16, 2018
12:00pm-2:30pm                                                Tuesday, January 30, 2018
Beck Family Campus                                            Tuesday, February 13, 2018
Pre-game party including voting for your favorite team,       Tuesday, February 27, 2018
sports, games and more!                                       6:00pm-7:00pm Beck Family Campus
Lunch and dessert will be served. Transportation to
and from the Schaefer Family Campus will be provided.         Sha-potluck Dinner
Free to attend, registration required. Email Amanda at        Friday, January 19, 2018
acharson@tbeboca.org for more information.                    Location TBD
                                                              Bring your favorite dish and schmooze with friends.
CLUB CHAVERIM (GRADES 4-5)
Sunday, January 28, 2018                                      Football Frenzy
12-4:30pm                                                     Sunday, February 4, 2018
Wow Factory                                                   Home of Ryan Marcus (BOFTY President)
                                                              Put on your team jersey and join us                   9th grade
$25                                                                                                                    retreat
                                                              for some grub and good times
Enjoy an afternoon with your friends as you climb the
                                                              while watching the superbowl.
ropes course and rock wall, compete in laser tag, visit
Ballocity and so much more! Lunch and transportation          BOFTY Elections
will be provided. Contact Amanda at acharson@                 February 24, 2018
tbeboca.org for more information.                             Listen to your peers
                                                              speeches and vote for
JR. BOFTY (GRADES 6-8)
                                                              your next BOFTY Board.
NFTY 678                                                      *(Date subject to
Sunday, January 21, 2018                                      change)*
Spend time with friends and make new memories!
Visit https://southerntropical.nfty.org/ to register. Email   Teen Mitzvah Weekend
Jules at jwolfberg@tbeboca.org for more information.          (9-12)
                                                              February 16-18, 2018
JR. BOFTY (GRADES 6-8)                                        Our annual trip to Give Kids the
Theme Park Trip                                               World in Kissimee, FL. Two days
Saturday, February 3, 2018                                    of volunteering with peers from South Florida. Social
Epcot Center                                                  programs, Shabbat dinner experience and more! 30
Travel around the globe, under the sea, into outer space,     Community service hours given. $300.00 to attend.
and beyond! Food and transportation provided. Email           Registration closes on January 3.
Jules at jwolfberg@tbeboca.org for more information.          For more BOFTY information, please email
                                                              Jules Wolfberg at jwolfberg@tbeboca.org

  RELIGIOUS SCHOOL EVENTS, JANUARY & FEBRUARY, 2018
  Religious School Resumes                                    Shabbat Service led by Kindergarten,
  Sunday, January 7, 2018                                     1st Grade and 2nd Grade
                                                              Friday, February 23, 2018
  Martin Luther King Jr. Weekend,                             Pre-Neg at 5:00pm
  No Religious School                                         Rehearsal at 5:30pm • Service at 6:00pm
  Sunday, January 14, 2018 - Monday, January 15, 2018         Schaefer Family Campus
  Bar/ Bat Mitzvah Chanting Class Parent Orientation          President Day Weekend, No Religious School
  for Families Celebrating January 2019- June 2019            Sunday, February 18, 2018 - Monday, February 19, 2018,
  Thursday, February 1, 2018 • 4:30pm – 6:30pm                President’s Day
  Beck Family Campus
                                                              Purim Spiel, No Religious School
  Journey Through Judaism Washington, D.C. Trip               Wednesday, February 28, 2018, Purim
  Thursday, February 8, 2018 - Monday, February 12, 2018      5:00pm Pizza, Pasta and Salad Dinner
                                                              6:30pm Purim Spiel
  3rd Grade Family Learning Day                               RSVP at tbeboca.org/special-events
  Sunday, February 11, 2018 • 9:30am- 11:30am
  Schaefer Family Campus

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RELIGIOUS SCHOOL

B’nai Mitzvah

                  Quest Brodsky           Alexa Sefton          Skyler Allekotte        Nathan Pachter

                  Alex Kleinberg         Foster Bartlett        Hannah Redlich           Justin Zucker

                   Dylan Berwin         Zachary Berwin           Jake Stevens           Adam Horvitz

             Quest Brodsky                               Nathan Pachter                        Dylan & Zachary Berwin
     daughter of Danielle and Jeremy             son of Nicole and Leslie Pachter               sons of Debra Berwin
                 Williams                               1/27/2018 5:30PM                         2/17/2018 10:45AM
           1/6/2018 10:45AM
                                                         Alex Kleinberg                              Jake Stevens
            Paige Blick                         son of Neil and Rebecca Kleinberg          Son of Laurie and Haynes Stevens
daughter of Shelley and Jeffrey Gold                    2/3/2018 9:00AM                            2/17/2018 5:30PM
        1/13/2018 9:00AM
                                                         Foster Bartlett                            Adam Horvitz
            Alexa Sefton                              son of Rachel Taliento                 Son of Robin and Jay Horvitz
daughter of Stacey and Robert Sefton                    2/3/2018 11:30AM                          2/24/2018 5:00PM
         1/20/2018 10:45AM
                                                          Hannah Redlich                            Zoe Gorman
            Skyler Allekotte                   daughter of Heather and Warren Redlich         Daughter of Alyssa Gorman
       son of Lisa and Ira Allekotte                    2/10/2018 11:30AM                        2/24/2018 10:45AM
           1/27/2018 10:45AM
                                                           Justin Zucker
                                                  son of Carrie and David Zucker
                                                         2/17/2018 4:30PM

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AROUND BETH EL

ADULT
EXPERIENCES
Making new friends
and having fun
with old friends is a
big part of being a
member of Temple
Beth El. Through the
Adult Experiences
initiative, singles
and couples in their
40’s and 50’s get
together for a fun
night out. At the
comedy club outing
in October, the
group started with
dinner and Havdalah
and then enjoyed
a night filled with
laughter!

                        SISTERHOOD LUNCHEON
                        Sisterhood honored Lisa Zwick for her leadership and
                        dedication to our temple community at their annual
                        luncheon. Everyone enjoyed the fashion show, a
                        delicious lunch followed by a scrumptious dessert and
                        most of all, hanging out with their “sisters.”

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COMMUNITY
                                                                             EXPE       ADUL
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Young Adults
Shabbat Dinner
at Farmer’s                             Adult Experiences
Table                                   SUNSET WATER TAXI, TRIVIA AND DINNER AT
Friday, February 16, 2018
7:00pm                                  15TH STREET FISHERY FORT LAUDERDALE
Farmer’s Table                          Saturday, January 20, 2018
1901 N Military Trail                   Meet at 5:45pm - water taxi pick up at 6:00pm
Boca Raton                              Public Parking available
$36 per person                          $65 per person includes water taxi and dinner
Join Temple Beth El’s                   Join Shari Schwamm, VP of Adult Experiences and Rabbi Jessica Brockman
Young Adults for Shabbat                                                                 for a spectacular
dinner at one of the hottest                                                             evening on the water.
restaurants in town! Farmer’s                                                            A water taxi ride,
Table features sustainable,                                                              sunset havdalah, trivia
delicious, farm to table food                                                            and dinner for an
and delectable cocktails. We                                                             all-time favorite way
will have the back terrace all                                                           to experience Fort
to ourselves for a dinner that                                                           Lauderdale!
includes a three-course meal
and two drinks.

                                           PURIM DISCO PARTY
                                           Platforms Dance Club
                                           99 SE First Ave., Boca
                                           Raton
                                           Saturday, February 24,
                                           2018 at 6:30pm
                                           $40 includes dance
  This event is generously                 lesson, dinner and club
supported by the Temple                    admission
Beth El Brotherhood and the
Temple Beth El Sisterhood/                 Break out the disco ball and
WRJ.                                       join adult experiences for a
  Limited seating is available.            night at the disco. Evening
RSVP at tbeboca.org/20s-30s.               includes disco dance lessons,
For more information, contact              dinner in celebration of the
Rabbi Greg Weisman at                      Jewish holiday of Purim.
561-391-8900 or
gweisman@tbeboca.org                    Register at tbeboca.org/adult-experiences or contact Elinor Josephson,
                                        Director of Engagement & Programming at ejosephson@tbeboca.org or
                                        561-391-8900.

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                                                                      Truman
DINNER AND JAZZ SHABBAT
Friday, January 26, 2018

                                                                      and Israel
Schaefer Family Campus
6:00pm Dinner
7:30pm Services
$25 per adult
Enjoy Shabbat dinner together before joining the                      AN INTERVIEW WITH HARRY
rest of the congregation at Shabbat Shira: JAZZ                       TRUMAN’S GRANDSON
SHABBAT. Aaron Kula and the Klezmer Company                           CLIFTON TRUMAN DANIEL
Jazz Orchestra will join us for the Sabbath of Song                   BY PRESIDENTIAL SCHOLAR
as we enjoy jazzed up orchestrations of Shabbat                       DAVID DALIN
melodies. Register by January 19, 2018 at                             Sunday, February 11, 2018
tbeboca.org/circle-of-friends.                                        1:00pm
                                                                      Schaefer Family Campus
                                                                      $10 Temple Beth El member
              BE                                                      $18 guests
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                                                                      Clifton Truman Daniel is the oldest grandson
                                                   experiential
SENI R CIRCLE                                    programs for the
                                                                      of former United States President Harry S.
                                               senior population of   Truman. He is the son of
         M                                        Temple Beth El      the late E. Clifton Daniel
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                                                                      editor of the New York
ORTHODOXY ON FILM:                                                    Times, and best-selling
MOVIE AND DISCUSSION                                                  mystery writer Margaret
Sunday, January 14, 2018                                              Truman. Growing up
1:00pm                                                                around Harry and Bess
Schaefer Family Campus                                                Truman, Mr. Daniel was
No fee/No RSVP/Light refreshments                                     a firsthand witness to
                                                                      Truman’s thoughts about
Fill the Void was written and                                         the Holocaust, the atomic
directed by Rama Burshtein who, in                                    bomb and the birth of the
the course of its production, became                                  state of Israel. He will be
the first Orthodox Jewish woman to                                    interviewed by Dr. David
                                                                                                    Clifton Truman Daniel

direct a film intended to be viewed                                   Dalin, a widely published scholar of American
outside of the Orthodox community.                                    Jewish history. RSVP at tbeboca.org/special-
In doing so, she hoped to create a                                    events or to Aileen Spilka at 561-391-8900 or
greater understanding of the Orthodox community.                      aspilka@tbeboca.org
After the movie we will hear from Rabbi Joshua
Broide and Israel Rotter about growing up and
staying in and leaving the Orthodox community and
their reflections on the movie.

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SISTERHOOD UPDATE

                                                                                                             upcoming events
Shalom from your Sisterhood!                                                                                 Sisterhood Shabbat
                                                                                                             Friday, January 12, 2018 • 7:30pm
                                                                                                             Schaefer Family Campus
BY AIMEE LEVIN AND JILL WEINER
SISTERHOOD CO-PRESIDENTS                                                                                     Board Meeting
sisterhood@tbeboca.org
www.tbeboca.org/sisterhood
                                                                                                             Thursday, January 18, 2018 • 7:00pm

                                     Life is like a roll of toilet paper: the less of                        Mahjong
                                                                                                             Wednesday, January 24, 2018
                                     it there is, the faster it goes. That says it
                                                                                                             7:00pm
                                     all for 2017! Sisterhood had an exciting,                               Schaefer Family Campus
                                     enlightening and successful fall, and we are
                                     rocking and rolling into 2018.                                          Day Trip and lunch at the
                                        Probably, most notable was the Women of                              Morikami Museum
                                     Reform Judaism/Temple Beth El Sisterhood                                Thursday, February 1, 2018 • 10:00am
                                     Luncheon held on December 5th, honoring                                 Board Meeting
                                     Lisa Zwick. Close to 200 women were in                                  followed by Women in Balance
attendance for boutique shopping, a delicious lunch, viewing the latest fashions                             Thursday, February 15, 2018 • 5:30pm
from Mario Pucci, and of course to toast Lisa, our Woman of Valor.
                                                                                                             Lilith Salon
  In December, it’s always fun to see the children’s eyes and smiles light up
                                                                                                             Monday, March 5, 2018 • 7:00pm
during Chanukah celebrations at Temple Beth El’s Early Learning Center                                       Home of Jan Lev
and religious school. Not only were latkes prepared and served in each of the                                (Sisterhood membership is required
classrooms by Sisterhood and staff, but the children also received goodies                                   in order to attend.)
to take home: a dreidel, chocolate gelt and Chanukah candles. Parents were
invited to their child’s classroom for the celebrations, and it is thru the eyes of                          Lord & Taylor fundraiser
the children that the true love and magic of the holiday is palpable. Depending                              shopping event
                                                                                                             Wednesday, March 7, 2018 • 7:00pm
on the children’s ages, they may not even fully understand, yet as adults, we
can see their pure spirituality. As grandparents and parents, you know what                                  Board Meeting
we are talking about. Latkes and applesauce can actually bring such joy and                                  Thursday, March 22, 2018 • 7:00pm
spiritual awareness!                                                                                         Beck Family Campus
  Through the Sisterhood, we hope to bring spirituality and awareness to you,                                Women’s Seder
and you to Sisterhood. We have an exciting, jam-packed calendar this year,                                   Tuesday, March 27, 2018 • 6:00pm
and we hope to see you at one, two or all Sisterhood events. There is truly                                  Schaefer Family Campus
something for everyone.

SISTERHOOD AND SOCIAL ACTION

Women’s Seder                                                                  Searching for
                                                                               Spirituality and Equality
Tuesday, March 27, 2018, 6:00pm
Buffet Dinner followed by an Interactive Seder
as we celebrate an inspirational evening for women.
Featuring Amy Grossblatt Pessah & Patty Beck
$36/TBE Members • $45/guests • $25.00/Students
Join us for an enlightening and interactive women’s seder, as we discover ways
in which our rich Jewish tradition empowers us to help heal the world. Through
song and poetry, we will delve into the spiritual insights of Judaism’s mystical
tradition. Focusing on the deeper meanings of the Passover seder, we will explore
pathways for transformation in ourselves, our communities and our world.
Amy Grossblatt Pessah has been a spiritual seeker for entire       Patty Beck is a past President of Temple Beth El, Hebrew
life. Amy has a Master’s degree in Jewish Education and is         Union College Board member and benefactor of the Beck
currently a student rabbi in the Aleph Ordination Program. As      Family Campus. Her recent trip to Israel revealed certain
well, she has been trained in Spiritual Direction, Jewish energy   gender inequalities. She will share her comments about what
healing, Reiki, Integrated Energy Therapy and chaplaincy.          she witnessed.

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BROTHERHOOD UPDATE

Shalom from your Brotherhood!                                                                                                            upcoming
                                                                                                                                         events
BY ANDREW H. ZWICK AND ALAN S. KLASFELD                                                                                                  Annual Golf Event Honoring
BROTHERHOOD CO-PRESIDENTS
info@tbebrotherhood.org                                                                                                                  Adam Runsdorf
www.tbeboca.org/brotherhood                                                                                                              Monday, January 22, 2018
                                                                                                                                         Boca Rio Golf Club
                                   Is it January already? That means that                                                                (See below for details)
                                   Brotherhood is moving into the heart of our
                                   calendar. It ‘s time to clean out the wax and             Brotherhood
                                   put away the menorah. Break out the sweaters              Dinner and Movie
                                   and coats for the few days we will need them,             Night
                                   and get our kids back to school after their winter        Thursday, February
                                                                                             15, 2018
                                   breaks. But for Brotherhood, January means
                                                                                             6:30pm
                                   it’s time for our biggest event of the year. The          Wonder Woman
                                   Annual Brotherhood Golf Event will be at the              Beck Family Campus
                                   newly refurbished Boca Rio Golf Club on Monday,           $15 for adults
January 22, 2018. This year we are honoring our own Adam Runsdorf. Our                       $10 for kids 15 and
charity partner is the Alpha Epsilon Pi Fraternity Foundation of which Adam is a             under
past national president. This year’s tournament promises to be more spectacular              Price increase to $18/$15 after
than ever. If you are reading this it’s not too late to participate as a player, partier,    Feb 20th deadline
and of course, supporter/donor. We welcome all Temple members to enjoy in this
spectacular event.
  February brings back for us a
past event reborn for 2018. For
the families of TBE we are proud
to have our Family Dinner and
Movie at the Beck Family Campus
on Thursday, February 15, 2018
featuring “Wonder Woman.” Enjoy
good grub and a fine flick shown
outdoors…the way a movie is
supposed to be seen.
  Brotherhood is always looking
for new participants to get involved
and to enhance our group. If you’re
interested in attending a board
meeting or have questions about an              BOB MARTON*                    ADAM RUNSDORF                  RABBI DAN LEVIN

event please contact us at
info@tbebrotherhood.org.                         THE TEMPLE BETH EL  GOLF TOURNAMENT
                                                                       HONORING ADAM RUNSDORF
                                                        MONDAY, JANUARY ,  AT THE NEWLY RENOVATED
                                                             BOCA RIO GOLF CLUB, BOCA RATON, FL
                                                           BENEFITING TEMPLE BETH EL BROTHERHOOD
                                                           AND ALPHA EPSILON Pi (AEPi) FOUNDATION

                                          SCHEDULE                                                                                 GOLF COMMITTEE

                                          10:30–12:30: Registration/Luncheon/Warm-Up                                               Guy Fronstin, Esq.*, Larry Hotz, Robert Marton*, Mike
                                                                                                                                   Blackman, Louis Datz, Michael Feuerman, Marc Jaro,
                                          12:30–5:00: Tournament                                                                   Steven Kanowitz, Alan Klasfeld, David Lukes, Barry
                                                                                                                                   Podolsky*, David Pratt, Esq.*, Seth Robert, Carlos
                                          5:00–6:00: Cocktails                                                                     Romero, Mark Sunshine, Steve Terk, Neil Weiss, Andrew
                                                                                                                                   Zwick, M.D.
                                          6:00–7:30: Dinner/Awards
                                                                                                                                   *Previous Honoree

                                          Register: www.tbeboca.org/brotherhood                                         Contact: Larry Hotz, (914) 329-0847 or lehotz@gmail.com

                                                          Honoree
                                                          Adam Runsdorf owns companies operating within the pharmaceutical supply chain including a logistics services provider (WDSrx), contract manufactur-
                                                                                                    January/February
                                                          er (WDPrx) and virtual manufacturer (Centrix) with facilities in Florida and Texas2018         |          THE C
                                                                                                                                             serving national and international     H RAdam
                                                                                                                                                                                clients. ON    I ConLmultiple
                                                                                                                                                                                            serves    E          25
                                                          committees at Temple Beth El of Boca Raton and the Jewish Federation of South Palm Beach County. He is a member of AIPAC and is the past Co-Chair
                                                          of the Temple Beth El Golf Tournament. Adam, his wife Cheryl and sons Justin and Benjamin are equally involved with Jewish organizations and causes.
SFC-Schaefer Family Campus
BFC-Beck Family Campus
                                                                                       JANUARY
                                                                                         MAY                                                                                                            2014 2018
         SUNDAY                                       MONDAY                                   TUESDAY                             WEDNESDAY                                    THURSDAY                                         FRIDAY                                  SATURDAY
                                              1                                        2                                         3                                         4                                          5                                            6
                                              New Year’s Day, School and               12:00 PM-College Homecoming Lunch                                                                                              6:30 PM-Pre-Neg                              9:30 AM-Shabbat Morning Torah Study
                                                Offices Closed                                                                                                                                                        6:00 PM-Tot Shabbat Pizza Dinner (BFC)       10:45 AM-Bat Mitzvah of Quest Brodsky
                                                                                                                                                                                                                      6:30 PM-Tot Shabbat Services (BFC)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                      7:30 PM-Shabbat Evening Service

7                                             8                                        9                                         10                                        11                                         12                                           13
9:30 AM-Religious School (SFC & BFC)          4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)           4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)            11:30 AM-Youth and Education Committee    4:30 PM-BBM Fall Chanting Class (SFC       6:00 PM-Sisterhood Shabbat Dinner            9:00 AM-Bat Mitzvah of Paige Blick
                                              7:00 PM-Engagement and Membership        6:30 PM-Derech Torah/Sababa High Dinner      Meeting (OOT)                             & BFC)                                  6:30 PM-Family Participation Service Pizza   9:30 AM-Shabbat Morning Torah Study
                                                  Committee Meeting (OOT)                  (BFC)                                 4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)            4:30 PM-Religious School (SFC & BFC)           Dinner (BFC)                             4:00 PM-Havdalah in the Garden at the
                                                                                       7:00 PM-Derech Torah, Sababa High,        6:15 PM-ELC Faculty Meetings (BFC)        6:00 PM-AIPAC VIP Reception                7:00 PM-Family Participation Service (BFC)      Delray Beach Children’s Garden (OOT)
                                                                                          Confirmation (BFC)                     7:00 PM-Adult B’nai Mitzvah Class         6:30 PM-Brotherhood Committee Meeting      7:30 PM-Shabbat Evening Service:
                                                                                       7:00 PM-Shir Shalom - Adult Choir         7:30 PM-Men’s Study Group (OOT)              (BFC)                                       Sisterhood Shabbat
                                                                                                                                 7:30 PM-Social Action Committee Meeting   7:00 PM- Art, Autism and the IDF - AIPAC
                                                                                                                                                                              event
                                                                                                                                                                           7:30 PM-RAC Committee Meeting

14                                            15                                       16                                        17                                        18                                         19                                           20
No Religious School                                                                    12:00 PM-Lunch & Learn                    4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)            1/18 - 1/22-Interfaith Weekend             6:00 PM-Shabbat at 6                         9:30 AM-Shabbat Morning Torah Study
                                              Martin Luther King, Jr. Day,             4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)            7:00 PM-Adult B’nai Mitzvah Class                                                    7:00 PM-Intro to Judaism Shabbat Dinner      10:00 AM-Family Fun Day (BFC)
8:00 AM-Social Action: Steps for Life (OOT)     School & Offices Closed                6:00 PM-BOFTY Dinner (BFC)                7:00 PM-ELC Parenthood Meetings (BFC)                                                7:30 PM-Interfaith Italian Dinner            10:45 AM-Bat Mitzvah of Alexa Sefton
1:00 PM-Senior Circle: Orthodoxy on Film,                                              7:00 PM-Leadership II                     7:30 PM-Intro to Judaism                  4:30 PM-BBM Fall Chanting Class            Time TBD- BOFTY Sha-Potluck Dinner (OOT)     6:00 PM-Adult Experiences (OOT)
    Movie and Discussion                                                               7:00 PM-Shir Shalom - Adult Choir                                                       (SFC & BFC)
                                                                                       7:00 PM-Confirmation Class (BFC)                                                    4:30 PM-Religious School (SFC & BFC)
                                                                                       7:00 PM-Journey Through Judaism (BFC)                                               6:00 PM-Interfaith Teacher Dinner (OOT)
                                                                                                                                                                           7:00 PM-Sisterhood Board Meeting

21                                            22                                       23                                        24                                        25                                         26                                           27
NFTY Event (OOT)                              10:30 AM-Brotherhood Golf Outing (OOT)   12:00 PM-Lunch & Learn                    4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)            4:30 PM-Religious School (SFC & BFC)       6:00 PM-Circle of Friends Dinner             9:30 AM-Shabbat Morning Torah Study
                                              4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)           4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)            6:00 PM-Mausoleum Committee Meeting       4:30 PM-BBM Fall Chanting Class               and Jazz Shabbat                          10:45 AM-Bar Mitzvah of Skyler Allekotte
1/21 - 1/28-Family Promise Host Week (OOT)                                             6:30 PM-Derech Torah/Sababa High Dinner   7:00 PM-Mah Jongg                            (SFC & BFC)                             7:30 PM-Shabbat Evening Service: Jazz        5:00 PM-Family Havdalah (BFC)
                                                                                           (BFC)                                 7:00 PM-Spiritual Task Force Meeting      7:00 PM-Board of Trustees Meeting (SFC)       Shabbat, Shabbat Shira                    5:30 PM-Bar Mitzvah of Nathan Pachter
9:30 AM-Religious School (SFC & BFC)                                                   7:00 PM-Derech Torah, Sababa High,        7:00 PM-Adult B’nai Mitzvah Class                                                                                                 5:45 PM-Adult Experiences (OOT)
12:30 PM- Interfaith at St. Joan of Arc                                                    Confirmation (BFC)                    7:30 PM-Intro to Judaism
    Catholic Church                                                                    7:00 PM-Shir Shalom - Adult Choir

28                                            29                                       30                                        31
9:30 AM-Religious School (SFC & BFC)          4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)           12:00 PM-Lunch & Learn                    Tu Bishvat
10:00 AM-Sisterhood: Temple Beth El Fun                                                4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)
    Brunch (OOT)                                                                       6:00 PM-BOFTY Dinner (BFC)                4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)
12:00 PM-Club Chaverim (OOT)                                                           7:00 PM-Shir Shalom - Adult Choir         6:30 PM-Emerging Leaders Meeting
1:00 PM-Sacred Aging Event                                                             7:00 PM-Confirmation Class (BFC)          7:00 PM-Adult B’nai Mitzvah Class
4:00 PM-Ellen Allard Concert                                                                                                     7:30 PM-Intro to Judaism
SFC-Schaefer Family Campus
BFC-Beck Family Campus
                                                                             FEBRUARY                                                                                                                    2014 2018
            SUNDAY                                     MONDAY                                  TUESDAY                             WEDNESDAY                                      THURSDAY                                        FRIDAY                                SATURDAY
                                                                                                                                                                            1                                           2                                         3
                                                                                                                                                                            10:00 AM-Sisterhood Day Trip (OOT)          6:00 PM-Tot Shabbat Pizza Dinner (BFC)    6:30 AM-Jr. BOFTY Disney trip (OOT)
                                                                                                                                                                            4:30 PM-BBM Chanting Class Spring           6:30 PM-Tot Shabbat Services (BFC)        9:00 AM-Bar Mitzvah of Alex Kleinberg
                                                                                                                                                                                Orientation (BFC)                       7:30 PM-Shabbat Evening Service           9:30 AM-Shabbat Morning Torah Study
                                                                                                                                                                            4:30 PM-Religious School (SFC & BFC)                                                  11:30 AM-Bar Mitzvah of Foster Bartlett
                                                                                                                                                                            7:30 PM-RAC Committee Meeting

4                                              5                                       6                                         7                                          8                                           9                                         10
9:30 AM-Religious School (SFC & BFC)           4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)          12:00 PM-Lunch & Learn                    4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)             2/08 - 2/12-Journey through Judaism Trip    6:30 PM-Pre-Neg                           9:30 AM-Shabbat Morning Torah Study
12:00 PM-Club Kitanim (BFC)                                                            4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)            6:00 PM-Parenthood Girls Night Out (BFC)       (OOT)                                   7:30 PM-Shabbat Evening Service           11:30 AM-Bat Mitzvah of Hannah Redilch
5:00 PM-BOFTY Superbowl Party (OOT)                                                    5:30 PM-Facilities and Technology         6:30 PM-Emerging Leaders (BFC)                                                                                                   2:00 PM-New Member Meet and Greet
                                                                                          Committee Meeting                      7:00 PM-Adult B’nai Mitzvah Class          4:30 PM-BBM Chanting Class Spring (SFC                                                    (OOT)
                                                                                       6:30 PM-Derech Torah/Sababa High Dinner   7:30 PM-Intro to Judaism                       & BFC)
                                                                                          (BFC)                                  7:30 PM-Men’s Study Group (OOT)            4:30 PM-Religious School (SFC & BFC)
                                                                                       7:00 PM-Derech Torah/Sababa High (BFC)                                               6:30 PM-Brotherhood Committee Meeting
                                                                                       7:00 PM-Confirmation Class (BFC)                                                         (BFC)
                                                                                       7:00 PM-Shir Shalom - Adult Choir

11                                             12                                      13                                        14                                         15                                          16                                        17
9:30 AM-3rd Grade Family Learning Day          4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)          12:00 PM-Lunch & Learn                    4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)             4:30 PM-Religious School (SFC & BFC)        CHILDCARE OPEN/ EARLY                     8:00 AM-Habitat for Humanity (OOT)
    (SFC)                                      7:00 PM-Youth and Education Committee   4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)            7:00 PM-Adult B’nai Mitzvah Class          4:30 PM-BBM Chanting Class Spring (SFC        CHILDHOOD CLOSED for                    9:30 AM-Shabbat Morning Torah Study
9:30 AM-Religious School (SFC & BFC)               Meeting (OOT)                       6:00 PM-BOFTY Dinner (BFC)                7:30 PM-Intro to Judaism                       & BFC)                                    Staff Development Day (BFC)             10:45 AM-B’nai Mitzvah of Dylan & Zachary
1:00 PM-Senior Circle and Circle of Friends:   7:00 PM-Engagement and Membership       7:00 PM-Shir Shalom - Adult Choir                                                    5:30 PM-Sisterhood Board Meeting &                                                        Berwin
    Truman and Israel                              Committee Meeting (OOT)             7:00 PM-Confirmation Class (BFC)                                                        Women in Balance                         2/16 - 2/18-Teen Mitzvah Weekend (OOT)    5:30 PM-Bar Mitzvah of Jake Stevens
                                                                                                                                                                            6:30 PM- Brotherhood Dinner and Movie for
                                                                                                                                                                               families (BFC)                           6:00 PM-Shabbat at 6
                                                                                                                                                                            7:00 PM-Civil Discourse Committee Meeting   7:00 PM-Young Adults Farmer’s Table
                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Shabbat (OOT)

18                                             19                                      20                                        21                                         22                                          23                                        24
No Religious School                            President’s Day - School and offices    12:00 PM-Lunch & Learn                    9:15 AM-ELC Parenthood Meetings (BFC)      4:30 PM-Religious School (SFC & BFC)        9:30 AM-Raising Mindful Mensches Parent   9:30 AM-Shabbat Morning Torah Study
                                                   closed                              4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)            4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)             4:30 PM-BBM Chanting Class Spring (SFC         Workshop (BFC)                         10:00 AM-BOFTY Elections (OOT)
                                                                                       6:30 PM-Derech Torah/Sababa High Dinner   6:30 PM-Emerging Leaders Meeting               & BFC)                                  5:00 PM-Kindergarten, 1st, 2nd Grade      10:45 AM-Bat Mitzvah of Zoe Gorman
                                                                                          (BFC)                                  7:00 PM-Rabbi’s Circle (OOT)               7:00 PM-Board of Trustees Meeting (BFC)        Shabbat Pre-Neg                        5:00 PM-Bar Mitzvah of Adam Horvitz
                                                                                       7:00 PM-Confirmation Class (BFC)                                                                                                 6:00 PM- Kindergarten, 1st, 2nd Grade
                                                                                                                                 7:00 PM-Adult B’nai Mitzvah Class                                                                                                6:00 PM-Adult Experiences: Purim Disco
                                                                                       7:00 PM-Shir Shalom - Adult Choir                                                                                                   Service                                    Party (OOT)
                                                                                                                                 7:30 PM-Intro to Judaism
                                                                                                                                                                                                                        7:30 PM-Shabbat Evening Service
                                                                                       7:00 PM-Derech Torah/Sababa High (BFC)

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9:30 AM-Religious School (SFC & BFC)           4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)          12:00 PM-Lunch & Learn                    Erev Purim
10:00 AM-Community Purim Carnival                                                      4:30 PM-Religious School (BFC)
    at Jewish Federation Campus                                                        6:00 PM-BOFTY Dinner (BFC)                No Religious School
                                                                                       6:30 PM-Emerging Leaders Meeting (BFC)
                                                                                       7:00 PM-Shir Shalom - Adult Choir         5:00 PM-Purim Pizza, Pasta and Salad
                                                                                       7:00 PM-Confirmation Class (BFC)              Dinner
                                                                                                                                 6:30 PM-Purim Service & Spiel
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