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ST. NICHOLAS CATHOLIC PARISH FEBRUARY 10, 2019
FEBRUARY 10, 2019   ST. SUNDAY
                    5TH NICHOLAS   CATHOLIC
                               IN ORDINARY    PARISH • FEBRUARY 10, 2019
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ST. NICHOLAS CATHOLIC PARISH FEBRUARY 10, 2019
WELCOME TO OUR PARISH!

               MISSION STATEMENT                                                      PARISH STAFF
St. Nicholas Roman Catholic Parish is a community of disciples    Pastor: Father Mark Guzman
called to grow in holiness and lead all to the Father through     (253) 851-8850 frmark@stnicholascc.org
Jesus Christ. United in the Eucharistic Sacrifice and anointed
                                                                  Deacon: Dale Fickes
by the Holy Spirit, we reverently celebrate the Liturgy, boldly
                                                                  (253) 851-5035 deacondale@stnicholascc.org
proclaim the Truth of the Gospel, and courageously lead a life
of Christian Love.                                                Deacon & Prison Ministry: Mikhail Alnajjar
                                                                  (253) 851-8850 deaconmikhail@stnicholascc.org
                        ADDRESS
                                                                  School Principal: Davin Reyes
3510 Rosedale Street NW, Gig Harbor, WA 98335                     (253) 858-7632 dreyes@sncsgh.org

                                                                  Parish Administrator: Mary Shelton
                    PARISH OFFICE
                                                                  (253) 649-0006 mary@stnicholascc.org
Hours:           Monday - Friday 8:00 AM - 5:00 PM
                                                                  Bookkeeper: Mark Hayes
Phone:           (253) 851-8850                                   (253) 851-8659 markh@stnicholascc.org
Fax:             (253) 851-8823
Email:           office@stnicholascc.org                          Program Coordinator for Faith Formation: Nina Potter
Web:             www.stnicholascc.org                             (253) 649-4599 nina@stnicholascc.org

                                                                  Youth Ministry: Michele Heitzmann
                   MASS SCHEDULE                                  (253) 851-9040 michele@stnicholascc.org

Saturday       5:30 PM                                            Evangelization: David Charboneau
Sunday         8:30 AM & 11:00 AM                                 (253) 649-4240 david@stnicholascc.org
Weds. - Friday 9:00 AM
                                                                  Communications/Bulletin: Margaret Betts
                     CONFESSION                                   (253) 970-4277 margaret@stnicholascc.org

Thursday         5:30 PM to 6:00 PM                               Music Ministry: Debra-Lee Jaap
Saturday         3:30 PM to 4:30 PM                               (253) 649-4239 deb@stnicholascc.org

                                                                  Facility Steward: Mark MacLeod
           SACRAMENTAL EMERGENCIES                                (253) 649-4273 markmac@stnicholascc.org

Monday - Friday, 8:00 AM - 5:00 PM: (253) 851-8850                Hall Custodian: Brenda Duffy
After Hours & Weekends: (253) 549-1954                            (253) 851-8850 brenda@stnicholascc.org

                       MINISTRIES                                 Assistant to the Pastor: Corinne McKibben
                                                                  (253) 851-8850 corinne@stnicholascc.org
St. Vincent de Paul Assistance
(253) 851-0554                                                    Sacristan: Mark McKibben
                                                                  (253) 514-9275 markmck@stnicholascc.org
Marriage & Funeral Arrangements: Fr. Mark Guzman
(253) 851-8850 office@stnicholascc.org                            Receptionist (Morning)/Facility Scheduler: RoseMary Sam
                                                                  (253) 851-8850 office@stnicholascc.org
Baptism Arrangements: David Charboneau
(253) 649-4240 david@stnicholascc.org                             Receptionist (Afternoon): Christopher Polinsky
Annulment Ministry: Deacon Dale Fickes                            (253) 851-8850 office@stnicholascc.org
(253) 851-5035 deacondale@stnicholascc.org
                                                                  Pastoral Evangelization Council: David Charboneau
Sick & Homebound: Deacon Dale Fickes                              (253) 649-4240 pec@stnicholascc.org
(253) 851-5035 deacondale@stnicholascc.org
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ST. NICHOLAS CATHOLIC PARISH FEBRUARY 10, 2019
THIS WEEK AT ST. NICHOLAS

SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 10                                                     THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 14
8:15 AM         Toddler Nursery - Parish Center #7                      Happy St. Valentine’s Day
8:30 AM         Mass - Jean Olson                                      8:30 AM        Rosary - Church
9:30 AM         Hospitality Hour - Parish Hall                         9:00 AM        Mass - Erna Belle Rodgers 
9:45 AM         K-6 Faith Formation - Parish Center # 1                 10:.00 AM      Adoration - Church
11:00 AM        Mass - Erin Tatum                                       10:00 AM       Morning Bible Study - Parish Hall
12:30 PM        Cenacle Group - Parish Center #3                        5:30 PM        Confession - Reconciliation Chapel
7:00 PM         Infinite - Church & Parish Center #1 and #3             5:30 PM        Unicycle Club - Parish Hall
                                                                        6:00 PM        Choir Rehearsal - Parish Center #5
MONDAY, FEBRUARY 11                                                     6:20 PM        Benediction - Church
8:30 AM         Rosary - Church                                         6:45 PM        Open Door Prayer Group - Parish Center #3
9:00 AM         Communion Service                                       7:00 PM        Landings - Parish Center #1
9:30 AM         Hearts Afire - Parish Center #1
11:00 AM        Funeral Mass - Elise Allen                             FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 15
3:00 PM         Chess Club - Parish Center #2                           8:30 AM        Rosary - Church
4:30 PM         K-6 Faith Formation - Parish Center # 1                 9:00 AM        Mass - Florence Ray 
                                                                        4:30 PM        Chaplet of Divine Mercy - Church
TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 12                                                    5:00 PM        Young Families Marriage Retreat - Parish Hall
8:30 AM         Rosary - Church
9:00 AM         Communion Service                                       SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 16
9:30 AM         Women’s Prayer & Share - Parish Center #3               8:00 AM        Young Families Marriage Retreat - Parish Hall
10:00 AM        Spirituality Book Group - Parish Center #2              3:30 PM        Confession - Reconciliation Chapel
6:00 PM         Evening Bible Study - Parish Center #4                  5:30 PM        Mass - Michele Maitland
                                                                        6:30 PM        Men’s Speaker - Parish Hall
WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 13
8:30 AM         Rosary - Church                                         SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 17
9:00 AM         Mass - Julie McVey                                     8:15 AM        Toddler Nursery - Parish Center #7
1:30 PM         Presidents Day Assembly - Parish Hall                   8:30 AM        Mass - St. Nicholas Parishioners
6:00 PM         Men’s Bible Study - Parish Center #2                    11:00 AM       Mass - Tom Doyle
6:00 PM         Youth Group - Parish Center
6:30 PM         Youth Group - Church

                                                                DAILY READINGS

SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 10                                                     THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 14
Is 6: 1-2a, 3-8; Ps 138: 1-5, 7-8; 1 Cor 15: 1-11; Lk 5: 1-11           Gn 2: 18-25; Ps 128: 1-5; Mk 7: 24-30

MONDAY, FEBRUARY 11                                                     FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 15
Gn 1: 1-19; Ps 104: 1-2a, 5-6, 10, 12, 24, 35c; Mk 6: 53-56             Gn 3: 1-8; Ps 32: 1-2, 5-7; Mk 7: 31-37

TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 12                                                    SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 16
Gn 1: 20-2: 4a; Ps 8: 4-9; Mk 7: 1-13                                   Gn 3: 9-24; Ps 90: 2-6, 12-13; Mk 8: 1-10

WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 13                                                  SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 17
Gn 2: 4b-9, 15-17; Ps 104: 1-2a, 27-30; Mk 7: 14-23                     Jer 17: 5-8; Ps 1: 1-4, 6; 1 Cor 15: 12, 16-20; Lk 6: 17, 20-26

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ST. NICHOLAS CATHOLIC PARISH FEBRUARY 10, 2019
FROM THE DESK OF FR. MARK                      Fr. Mark Guzman, Pastor

                   (253) 851-8850 • frmark@stnicholascc.org

 O
                        ur readings today remind us of the great privilege we have in calling ourselves children and disciples
                        of the Most High God. The First Reading from Isaiah describes a vision of the prophet in which angels
                        surround the Lord. They proclaim, “Holy, holy, holy is the LORD of hosts! All the earth is filled with his
                        glory!” Our God invites us to such deep intimacy and friendship with Him that we sometimes can
                        forget just how majestic and unspeakably holy He truly is. While we can approach Him with the
                        confidence of a child before his father, we must also remember the deep reverence and awe that we
                        owe to Him.

This sense of awe and reverence should motivate us to deepen our discipleship way of life as
well. As we contemplate the holiness of God, we come to a heightened awareness of what a               “Our God invites
privilege it is that He has chosen to include us in His work of spreading the Gospel to others
through the grateful sharing of the gifts He has given us. We can make the words of the
                                                                                                         us to such deep
prophet Isaiah our own: “Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, “Whom shall I send” Who will            intimacy and
go for us? Here I am, I said, send me!”
                                                                                                         friendship with
The theme of awe before God continues in the Gospel passage from Luke, where we again see
                                                                                                            Him that we
the juxtaposition of a God who is so near to us, yet who is altogether holy and powerful. In this         sometimes can
passage we find Jesus preaching to a crowd who is pressing in on Him to listen. (What an
                                                                                                          forget just how
inspiring image! Do we “press in” as we listen to the readings proclaimed in Mass with this same
sense of wonder and urgency?) In response, Jesus uses very ordinary means so that the crowd                  majestic and
can hear Him. He simply gets into one of the nearby boats belonging to Simon so that His voice         unspeakably holy
will better carry over the water. He finishes speaking and then tells Simon the fisherman to
lower his nets for a catch. Simon is skeptical about this instruction but obeys, putting his fishing
                                                                                                             He truly is.”
talents to use as Jesus asks. The result is a catch of fish beyond Simon’s wildest imaginings.
Overwhelmed, he fell at Jesus’ knees, “for astonishment at the catch of fish they had made
seized him and all those with him.”

When we truly embrace a discipleship way of life, putting our talents, time and treasure at the service of the most High
God, we, too, will be astonished at what God will do. Our lives may take a direction beyond our wildest imaginings. But just
as Jesus reassured Simon, “Be not afraid,” He reassures us, too. We need not fear a stewardship way of life. Rather, we
should embrace the adventure it presents us and prepare to be astonished by what our awesome God will do. “Here I am
Lord, send me!”

                  Yours in Christ,

                  Fr. Mark Guzman, Pastor
                                                                                                             Catholic Stewardship, Inc.

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WORSHIP AND SPIRITUAL LIFE                      David Charboneau, Evangelization

                   (253) 649-4240 • david@stnicholascc.org

       “BATTLE READY” RETREAT
           THIS WEEKEND!
National speaker Doug Barry is coming to our parish this
weekend! Mr. Barry will be offering a FREE three day retreat at
our parish and will offer the following sessions:

MARRIED COUPLES: FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 15
5:30 PM Rosary & Confession
6:00 PM Dinner
6:30 PM Talk: Heroic Marriage                                               FEBRUARY
8:00 PM Closing Prayer                                                        11TH
MARRIED COUPLES: SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 16
8:00 AM Breakfast
8:30 AM Morning Prayer
9:00 AM Talk: Battle Ready Family
11:00 AM Mass & Marriage Blessing
12:00 AM Lunch
                                                                              PRAYER TO OUR LADY
MEN: SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 16
                                                                    “Oh ever immaculate Virgin, Mother of Mercy, Health of the
6:30 - 8:30 PM
                                                                    Sick, Refuge of Sinners, Comfortess of the Afflicted, you know
Young or old, married or single: Guys, this talk is for you!
                                                                    my wants, my troubles, my sufferings. Look upon me with
TEENS: SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 17                                          mercy. When you appeared in the grotto of Lourdes, you
1:00 - 3:00 PM                                                      made it a privileged sanctuary where you dispense your
Teens, prepare for the challenges of this world! Parents are        favors, and where many sufferers have obtained the cure of
welcome.                                                            their infirmities, both spiritual and corporal. I come, therefore,
                                                                    with unbounded confidence to implore your maternal
Free childcare is available on Friday and Saturday!                 intercession. My loving Mother, obtain my request. I will try to
To arrange childcare, please email David Charboneau by              imitate your virtues so that I may one day share your company
February 11th at david@stnicholascc.org.                            and bless you in eternity. Amen.”

                                                SAINT OF THE WEEK
                                     Saint Cyril, Monk & Saint Methodius, Bishop - February 14th

                         Sts. Cyril (827-869) and Methodius (815-884) were brothers born in Thessalonica (Greece), in the ninth
                         century and are known as the “apostles to the Slaves.” Cyril was a scholar and linguist, and Methodius was
                         a monk. As part of their work, they translated some of the Scriptures into Old Slavonic and devised a
                         liturgy in that language. Shortly before his death, Cyril became a monk; Methodius continued the mission
                         alone and later was made an archbishop.
                                                                                                                  2019 Sourcebook Pg. 85

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ST. NICHOLAS CATHOLIC PARISH FEBRUARY 10, 2019
ST. NICHOLAS CATHOLIC SCHOOL                         Davin Reyes, Principal

                 (253) 858-7632 • dreyes@sncsgh.org

                                                                      THANK YOU FOR MAKING
                                                                     CATHOLIC SCHOOLS WEEK A
                                                                             SUCCESS!
                                                                  It was a wonderful week of celebrating Catholic education
                                                                  and honoring our nation, community of supporters, students,
                                                                  staff, and families. We started the week with a well-attended
                                                                  parish appreciation breakfast and school open house. We
                                                                  ended the week with a visit from Bishop Daniel Mueggenborg
                                                                  and a special surprise assembly for students.

                                                                          NOW ENROLLOING FOR
                                                                          2019-2020 SCHOOL YEAR
                                                                  Early learning classes (Preschool and Pre-K) are almost full. Be
                                                                  sure and secure your spot! Registration forms are available in
                                                                  the school office, or you can apply online (new families) at
      EARLY LEARNING FUND:                                        www.stnicholascs.org/apply. Tuition assistance is available
    DICK AND SHARON ABRAMS                                        through our Guardian Angel and Del Garber scholarship funds.
                                                                  For more information, visit www.stnicholascs.org/admissions .
Dick and Sharon Abrams, St. Nicholas Catholic Church
parishioners, recently endowed a fund that will benefit the        OUR AUCTION IS JUST AROUND
entire Archdiocese of Seattle called the “Fulcrum Early                   THE CORNER!
Childhood Education Fund at the Seattle Foundation.” Dick
and Sharon honored St. Nicholas Catholic School by becoming       The 2019 DREAM auction will take place at Ocean5 in Gig
the Presenting Sponsors for the 2019 Revel and Reveal Auction     Harbor on Saturday, February 23, 2019 from 5:30 - 10:00 PM.
and will advertise this fund through various means, including     A limited number of tickets are still available! You can
the auction catalog. The Early Learning Fund will assist early    purchase    them     at    www.stnicholascs.org/auction.
childhood learning programs by providing tuition assistance,      Many thanks to our event sponsors:
curriculum and assessment materials, training and support for
                                                                     Dick & Sharon Abrams               Jim & Donna Boulanger
staff, teacher education and certification, and grants to            Spencer & Bett Lucas               Master Orthodontics
expand programs and facilities!                                      Robert & Judy McFarland            Evan & Katherine Leitz
                                                                     John & Gail Quigg                  Bill & Jen Finnerty
To contribute to this fund or to other Fulcrum Foundation            Ace Hardware - Gig Harbor          Kele & Kristen Kanno
                                                                     Wade & Beth Perrow                 Kitsap Credit Union
programs,     contact,     Conne      McGlynn     Bruce      at
                                                                     Vinnie & Delores Shefler           Tara Pezzoli
conne.bruce@fulcrumfoundation.org. Last year, St. Nicholas           Connelly Law Offices, LLC          Planet Headset
benefitted from a grant that enabled the school to have a first      Rick & Kim Cummins                 Rush Construction
class Wi-FI Network. This year, Fulcrum has awarded grants to        Panagiotu Pension Advisors, Inc.   Sambataro Family Foundation
                                                                     Patriot Fire Protection            The Sievers Real Estate Team
subsidize the school’s operating budget and cover costs for
                                                                     Knights of Columbus,               Tim Ryan Construction
marketing materials. In addition, each year Fulcrum awards           St. Nicholas council 9238          Bordeaux Orthodontics
scholarship grants to our students!                                  Kim Gould                          Our Lady of the Harbor Assembly

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ST. NICHOLAS CATHOLIC PARISH FEBRUARY 10, 2019
YOUTH MINISTRY                  Michele Heitzmann, Youth Minister

                  (253) 851-9040 • michele@stnicholascc.org

   LAST INIFNITE SESSION NEXT SUNDAY

  Sunday, February 10th is our last Infinite
  session on vocation. All High School juniors
  and seniors are invited to join us from
  7:00 - 8:30 PM in Room 3 in the Parish Hall.

 ENCOURAGEMENT FOR YOUTH                                                                   He suggested the attendees learn
  FROM ARCHBISHOP SARTAIN                                                                  from the example of Blessed Pier
                                                                                           Giorgio Frassati, the patron of World
On a rare sunny weekend in January, over 600 youth, young                                  Youth Day. As a youth in Italy,
adults, youth ministers and volunteers chose to be indoors for                             Frassati served and befriended the
the Archdiocese of Seattle’s annual Catholic Youth                                         poor of Turin, accompanying them
Convention.                                                                                “in the name of Jesus,” the
                                                                                           archbishop said.
This year’s theme was “World Youth Day in Seattle,” because
the convention coincided with the final two days of the                                   Frassati, who died of poliomyelitis at
worldwide youth event in Panama. Locally, the usual                                       age 24, also highly valued Christian
convention for high school students was joined by a                                       friendship; he had a group of friends
conference for young adults.                                     who prayed and shared the goal of following Jesus,
                                                                 Archbishop Sartain said. “How can I be a friend to people
The youth and young adults heard from their archbishop, who      around me?” the archbishop prompted the youth, assuring
spoke Saturday afternoon on the theme of accompaniment.          them that their good conduct, joy and belief in Jesus can bring
He assured them of God’s love, no matter where they go or if     others to him.
they try to run away from him.
                                                                 “Christian friendship is always about how we grow in
“The greatest accompaniment of all happens in the church and     following Jesus,” the archbishop said. “Being a Catholic means
in the sacraments,” especially in the celebration of the         that we know Jesus is alive and present in the church.”
Eucharist, Archbishop Sartain said.
                                                                                           - Adapted from Gabrielle Nolan, NW Catholic

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Youth must register by February 15th, 2019
                          Contact Michele Heitzmann to register: michele@stnicholascc.org
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ST. NICHOLAS CATHOLIC PARISH FEBRUARY 10, 2019
MEET YOUR NEIGHBOR

   Get to know the members of our parish family! Would you like to be interviewed? Or would you like to nominate someone to be featured?
                                For more information, contact Margaret Betts: margaret@stnicholascc.org

                                                       STEPHANIE KILMER
                                           Tell us a little about yourself and your family.
                                           I grew up in a big Catholic family in University Place and went to St. Charles all the way through
                                           elementary school, then on to Curtis High School. My extended family is huge. I think we are up to
                                           fourteen great-grandchildren. My grandma is one of twelve kids, and my mom is one of six, so we
                                           always have big parties. My Dad is a fraternal twin and my husband is an identical twin. We have one
                                           son and fraternal twins, and all three attend school here. I have been a teacher for eleven years, and am
                                           in my second year teaching third grade at St. Nicholas.

                                         Did you always know you wanted to be a teacher?
                                         I did! Ever since I was a kid, I knew it’s what I wanted to do, and I never wavered from it. I remember
                                         sitting in my third grade class being absolutely enamored with my teacher. I wanted to do that for kids
                                         myself someday. I received my B.A. in Elementary Education with an endorsement in Reading from
                                         Central Washington University. In the spring of my senior year, I was offered a job to teach at Visitation
                                         Catholic School in Tacoma, which had been my grandmother’s parish growing up! I taught first grade
                                         there for six years, then I came to St. Nicholas and taught first grade for two years. We had our babies
and I stayed home for two years. Then I came back part-time to teach music for two years, before transitioning last year to teaching third grade.

Tell us a little about your classroom. What are some of your goals for your students?
Fostering a “growth mindset” is really important to me. I try to tell my kids, “There isn’t anything you can’t do. There are only things you can’t do
yet!” I work really hard at teaching through a positive approach. I generally try not to limit their education to just sitting at a desk and listening to
me talk! I try to make a lot of activities based around movement and games and interaction, to keep their days interesting. I want them to have a
genuine love of learning. They also have standing desks, which helps so much with their attentiveness.

Students’ favorite part of third grade is participating in a “classroom economy.” We use a house system, similar to Harry Potter, with four houses:
“Animo” (Courage), “Amicus” (Kindness), “Quantum” (Respect), and “Integritas” (Integrity). Students pay a monthly rent for their space in our
classroom and earn money for their houses through a points system. At the end of the week, they get to shop in our classroom store for treats
and prizes.

They earn bonus points by living out a list of rules called the “Essential 36.” This is a list of life skills designed to help build kids’ character. A few
examples from the list include; “Always say ‘thank you’ when given something,” or “Always make eye contact when someone is speaking,” or “If
you win, do not brag. If you lose, do not show anger” or “Stand up for what you believe in.” Any time I witness kids living out these Christian
behaviors, they earn extra points. At this age, they are so motived by earning! I see the difference it makes in them throughout the year. They
learn so many lessons in selflessness, integrity, and personal responsibility. We want to help form kids to succeed in life.

You are a parishioner, a school parent, and the third grade teacher at our school. What is it like balancing all of those roles?
It took me time to come to the life-work balance I have now. Two months before our twins were born, my husband started a new job, which I
was really grateful for, because it allowed me to stay home. But he immediately had to travel a lot, which was really hard for me. All of my life, all
I wanted to do was stay home and raise my family. And then I actually stayed home, with three kids under three, and I thought “Oh my gosh, I
can’t do this!” I was dumbfounded. I felt so guilty about that! I kept thinking, “What is wrong with me? This is all I ever wanted. My kids are my
whole life, but I miss my job.” It surprised me so much, and took me a long time to realize that God was calling me to a different lifestyle than
what I’d had in my head. I prayed about it, and over time, I realized that working and raising our kids were both paths to holiness. Working makes
me a better mom, and being a mom makes me a better teacher.

What do you love most about the school?
I love that faith isn’t limited just to religion class, it’s just a natural a part of every subject here at St. Nicholas, which is so different from what I
grew up with. Teachers and families are so proud to be Catholic. Catholic school is something I always knew I wanted for my kids, but early on, it

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was hard to convince my husband, who hadn’t gone through Catholic education, that it was worth the cost. But when we looked at the monthly
cost compared to daycare, we realized how affordable Catholic school really was. We felt so drawn to it, and we couldn’t deny the call. It has
been worth every cent. There has never been a single day where they didn’t want to go to school. Never. It’s incredible. They are so happy, and
they are thriving. The students cheer each other on, and they are there for each other. They’re just such nice kids, who come from genuinely nice
families. That’s not to say it’s without dramas, but it’s exactly the kind of environment we wanted for our family.

Do you have any special devotions?
At the beginning of this school year, Mr. Reyes gave all of us teachers pictures of Our Lady, Untier of Knots. I had never seen that image before,
but I loved it. It reminded of Mary’s maternal love for us. She is just up in Heaven, being a mom, taking care of us. She takes all our problem and
hands them to Jesus.

Recently, I have fallen in love with praying the Rosary, which is new for me. I really only started praying the Rosary regularly last year when I
started teaching the third graders how to pray it. I was honestly intimidated by it at the time. It seemed so long! But the more I did it, the more I
loved it. We now pray a decade of the Rosary every day in class. The students know all the Mysteries and all the prayers that go with it by heart.
The Glorious Mysteries are my favorite to reflect on, especially Our Lady’s Assumption and Coronation. It shows me just how much Jesus adored
his mother and how much she adored Him, which is something I hope I am instilling in my family, my sons especially. I want them to always know
how important family is. When you really delve into the connection between Mary and Jesus, it makes you think: WOW. This is what I have with
my kids! God gave me the gift of motherhood to better understand Himself, and His love.

Really what changed everything for me was this past October, when our school had a prayer gathering with a statue of Our Lady of Fatima,
blessed by Pope Francis. It was the most powerful, spiritual experience I’ve ever had. I got down to the assembly, and I instantly started crying. I
cried through the entire Rosary that we prayed as a school. I was a mess! All the kids were asking, “Are you okay Mrs. Kilmer?” I had to tell them
that I was crying tears of joy! I was just so moved by Mary’s motherly love. I had this uncontrollable, undeniable connection to Our Lady, and
since then, I have prayed the Rosary every single day.

Who are some of your favorite saints?
I love Mother Teresa. I feel like I learn so much from her about how to be a better mom. I especially love her saying, “If you want to change the
world, go home and love your family.” When I first came across that quote, it didn’t make a lot of sense to me, because I wasn’t a mom yet. But
now, my family is the most important thing to me. When you ask what I like to do in my free time, I’ll tell you that I basically just want to be with
my family! The way Mother Teresa treated every person like her own child is so inspiring. We’ve been given the huge responsibility by God of
raising these little souls, and we are going to present them to the world someday. We have to do our best to teach them how to love and be
kind and how to know the difference between right and wrong.

I also love St. Philip Neri, because he is the patron saint of joy. I try to find joy in everything I do. It’s not always easy, but he helps!

What do you like to do for fun?
I love reading, and read a lot with my kids at home. Everything is kind of centered around our kids because I feel like we only get them for so
long. It makes me anxious thinking about them growing up! I just want to soak up every moment I can with them when they’re little. That quote,
“The days are long, but the years are short” could not be more true. My extended family owns a property out at Vaughan Bay and we spend just
about every weekend there in the summer. Just being together with all the kids and cousins running around is just so much fun. A lot of our time
is spent right now with the dog we got for Christmas - “Gus” - an Australian Labradoodle. He is failing puppy school right now, because he’s too
social… but we love him! He has the best temperament, which is wonderful for our kids. They’re at the perfect age to take care of him and play
with him. He wears them out, and they wear him out!

What is the most important life-lesson you want to teach your own children, and your students?
In my classroom I have a big sign that says, “You are God’s masterpiece.” I want our kids to know that God has plans for their lives, and I want to
encourage our kids to stay close to Him. I grew up in a generation where God was presented as all “sunshine and rainbows,” but there wasn’t a
whole lot of depth. That’s the way it was in school for me, growing up. We went to Mass and prayed before meals, but my faith was sort of
external for me until I became an adult. God was always there, but I never really understood how closely. It wasn’t until I had my own family and
got more involved in the church and the school that my faith transformed. I hope that raising our kids in this community will help them all
through their lives.

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STEWARDSHIP

    STEWARDSHIP OF TREASURE
           Your generosity as of February 3rd, 2019

         Stewardship                        $     12,684
         Online Stewardship                 $      4,799
         Children                           $         43
         Loose                              $       1042
         Total Weekly                       $     18,569

         Total Year to Date Offerings       $    717,527
         Year to Date Budget                $   690,542
         Over Budget                        $    26,985

         Holy Days                          $          0
         Total Year to Date                 $     37,218

         Building Fund                      $       415
         Total Year to Date                 $     9,582

           NEW TO THE PARISH?                                          FINANCE COUNCIL UPDATE
Are you new to the parish? Registration forms can be found         I am pleased to announce that Mr. Jeff Black and Mr. John
online at www.stnicholascc.org/new, in the Narthex of the          Soukup have accepted the appointment from Father Mark to
Church, or in the Parish Office. Completed forms can be mailed     serve on our Parish’s Finance Council. Their terms begin on
or dropped off at the Parish Office or placed in the collection    July 1, 2019 and end June 30, 2022.
basket. If you have any questions, please contact the Parish
Office at via at (253) 851– 8850 or office@stnicholascc.org.       Please pray for them and other members of the Finance
                                                                   Council that they be provided wisdom and are guided by the
     STEWARDSHIP REFLECTION                                        Holy Spirit.

“There is nothing we have; nothing; that is not a gift.            I would also like to take this opportunity to thank the other
Everything we are and everything we have is founded in the         parishioners who expressed their interest and willingness to
loving generosity of the Creator. When we know this, not just      serve on the Finance Council.
in our minds but in the depths of our hearts, then life takes on
a whole new meaning. Then we have a whole different                Peace,
perspective about our time or our talents or our treasure, our
bodies, our minds, hearts – everything that we are and             Jim Martz
everything that we have – takes on a completely different
perspective.” - Bishop Carl A. Kemme, Bishop of Wichita

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            HOSPITALITY HOUR
Join fellow parishioners in the Parish Center after Sunday
Masses for fellowship and introduce yourself to the parish
community. We would like to thank Karen & Tori and The
Snay Family for hosting this week’s Hospitality Hour for the
Parish Community.

          COLD & FLU SEASON
Please be conscientious of the health of our parish family. are
reminded to use good common sense in the reception of Holy
Communion during the cold and flu season.

If you are feeling ill or think you may have been exposed to a
                                                                   THE JOY OF LIVE: CELEBRATING
virus, you should refrain from partaking of the Blood of Christ
                                                                   50 YEARS OF HUMANAE VITAE
from the chalice. In the same way, you should refrain from
                                                                          CONFERENCE
offering your hand to others at the sign of peace. Likewise if
                                                                  All Catholics are invited to attend The Joy of Life: Celebrating
you are not comfortable sharing the sign of peace or receiving
Holy Communion from the chalice for fear of infection, you
                                                                  50 Years of Humanae Vitae Conference which will be held on
                                                                  Saturday, March 2nd at St. Brendan Catholic Church. This
should feel no pressure to do so.
                                                                  event offers "Ted talk" style presentations by Bishop
                                                                  Mueggenborg, Dr. Sarah Bartel, Jason Kidd, Ashley
All of us must be aware of such sensitive matters in the
                                                                  McCullough and more. Meet and network with other
intimate life of the Christian community and we should expect
                                                                  Catholics throughout the day at the vendor booths and
that some will refrain from the sign of peace and the chalice
                                                                  exhibits. Learn more at www.cwbn.us/joyoflife or call
out of care for our well being and not out of unkindness or a
                                                                  (253) 278-6550.
lack or piety.

             OUR LADY OF                                              UNBOUND AWARENESS TRIP
         THE VISITATION GUILD
                                                                                                         Now’s your chance to
                                                                                                         make the blessing of
                            Our Lady of Visitation Guild
                                                                                                         sponsorship real to you
                            invites all ladies of the parish to
                                                                                                         and your sponsored
                            join us in the social, friendship,
                                                                  friend. Join an Unbound awareness trip in 2019 and experience
                            support, and service. Regular
                                                                  a new culture, the ins and outs of our program, and best of all,
                            meetings of the Guild are on the
                                                                  the excitement of meeting your sponsored friend face to face.
                            3rd Wednesday of each month
                            (from September to June). The
                                                                  More information can be found at www.unbound.org/trips or
                            Guild members gather at 9:00 AM
                                                                  by contacting a trip coordinator at trips@unbound.org or
                            mass with the meeting and social
                                                                  (800)875-6564. We can’t wait to travel with you!
                            following in the Parish Hall.

To learn more about the Visitation Guild, contact Bev
McCoskey at (253) 851-5331.

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     ADORATION VOLUNTEERS                                              CONGRATULATIONS ESSAY
            NEEDED                                                       CONTEST WINNERS
Did you know that St. Nicholas Catholic Church offers             The Knights of Columbus recently sponsored an essay contest
adoration and benediction every Thursday from 10:00 AM -          at our parish school. The Fourth Degree Knights are the
6:20 PM? We are always looking for volunteers to help. If you     patriotic degree, and in keeping with that mission, we asked
can’t commit once a week maybe you could be a sub to fill in      the students to write on the following topics, and awards
when some else can’t. We are required to have 2 people at all     were given as follows, listed in order 1st, 2nd, and 3rd places
times. If you like to be a substitute or permanent time please
contact Christopher Polinsky in the Parish Office at (253) 851-   6th Grade: "What Patriotism Means to Me"
8850 or chris@stnicholascc.org.                                   Lance V., Luke G., Michael B.

                                                                  7th Grade: "The Bill of Rights"
     MENTAL HEALTH MINISTRY                                       Noah M., Jackson M., Cynthia S.
          COMMITTEE
                                                                  8th Grade: "What the Constitution Means to Me”
invites you to find out how YOUR parish and faith community       Mikayla B., Christian A., Alanna S.
can provide understanding and support to those suffering
                                                                  Thanks to all who participated in this meaningful essay, and
from mental illness and their families. Attendees will receive
                                                                  congratulations not only to the students, but to our dedicated
specific tools and resources from parishes that have been
                                                                  teachers and parents as well.
offering this support to their parishioners and families
impacted by mental illness. Come to one of following FREE
workshop luncheon events. Wednesday February 13th at Holy                   ST. VINCENT DE PAUL
Family Parish, Kirkland OR at Wednesday March 20th at St.                       FOOD PANTRY
Luke’s Parish in Shoreline from 11:30 AM – 1:30 PM. Lunch
provided. Register for a luncheon by emailing Erica Moore         Our demand has increased and food is going quickly. We need
with the Archdiocese of Seattle at ericac@seattlearch.org.        cereal, small canned pork and beans, chili and cookies. Thank
                                                                  you for your continued support and generosity for the people
   NATURAL FAMILY PLANNING                                        in need. God bless you all St. Vincent de Paul.

Is there a way to plan your space your children that is moral,        CAMPUS SPRING CLEAN UP!
effective, safe and draws you closer to each other and God?               SAVE THE DATE!
Yes! Natural Family Planning provides the right environment
to most easily discern your family size questions. To learn       Our Parish-Wide Campus Work Party will be held on Saturday,
more visit www.ccli.or or call Chris or Christine Ryalls at       March 9th from 8:00 AM - 3:00 PM. For more information or to
(253) 851-7445.                                                   volunteer, please Contact Mark MacLeod, Facilities Director, at
                                                                  markmac@stnicholascc.org. Pray for good weather!
         LITURGICAL MINISTERS
                                                                          FACILITIES VOLUNTEER
Paper copies of the current schedule are available in the                      COMMITTEE
Sacristy for anyone who would like one. If you do not have a
computer and need a sub or need to make changes to your           Would you like to be a part of the new Facilities Committee?
schedule or are not comfortable with the scheduler you can        If you could share your time and talents please contact Mark
call or text Mark McKibben at (253) 514-9275 to make changes.     Macleod at (253) 649-4273 or markmac@stnicholascc.org.

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  IS YOUR MARRIAGE IN CRISIS?                                         CHAPLET OF DIVINE MERCY
        THERE IS HOPE!
                                                                                   Please join us in Church on Friday evening
               When marriages are in crisis, couples often                         at 4:30 PM to pray the Chaplet of Divine
               feel alone, frustrated and hopeless. But                            Mercy for each other, our parish, and a
               there is hope! Retrouvaille (pronounced                             world in need of God’s mercy and
               retro-vi) has helped tens of thousands of                           salvation.    Through St. Faustina, our
               troubled marriages. There is always hope,                           Blessed Lord promises souls who pray the
               and you are not alone in your struggle. For                         Chaplet and trust in His unfathomable
               confidential information about Retrouvaille,                        mercy, endless graces. It’s a blessed way
               or to register for our upcoming weekend            to begin your weekend and takes about 20 minutes.
March 22-24, 2019, call (206) 706-2608 or go to                   Remember. Christ can never be outdone in His generosity.
www.helpourmarriage.org.

       WORLDWIDE MARRIAGE                                               ADVERTISER OF THE WEEK
       ENCOUNTER RETREAT                                          Please patronize the businesses advertised on the back page
                                                                  of this bulletin. Their support allows Catholic Printery to print
Worldwide Marriage Encounter - a weekend marriage                 this bulletin at no cost to the Parish. When you patronize
enrichment retreat - gives the tools for a strong vibrant         these businesses let them know that you saw their ad in our
marriage. Sign up today for a Worldwide Marriage Encounter        bulletin. Advertiser of the week is: Kelley Home Services
at www.mrwwme.org. The next retreat weekend will be held
at the La Quinta Inn and Suites in Tacoma,
March 29-31, 2019. Please contact Jeanpierre and Gay Charette
at (253) 582-0239 for more information.

                              PRAYERS FOR OUR TROOPS & FIRST RESPONDERS

           Please pray for the men and women, and their families, who devote their lives to the safety of our country.
                           To add or remove a name from the list, write to: margaret@stnicholascc.org

                                                                  SSgt Dakota K-R Moist, USMC
            Lance Corporal Thomas S. Arnesen, USMC
                                                                  Staff Seargant Jason Naputi
            Captain Claire Betterbed, USA
                                                                  Master Sergeant Merideth Naputi
            Captain Elizabeth Betterbed, USA
                                                                  PFC Tyler Munn
            Lieutenant Tommy Betterbed, DMD USN
                                                                  James R. Olson, Firefighter/Paramedic
            SSG Dane Betts, USA
                                                                  Jason R. Olson, Tacoma Police Officer/Pierce County Search and Rescue
            Julianna P. Haven, Critical Care Nurse
                                                                  1st Lieutenant Casey Peloquin, USAF
            Nathan Haven, EMT
                                                                  PFC Graham Potter
            SGT Mitchell Jeffers, USMC, Force Reconnaissance
                                                                  MIDN 3/C Will Ryan, USN
            2nd Lieutenant Joseph Keenan, USMC
                                                                  Patrick R. Sam, Gig Harbor Police Officer
            LCDR Matt Kokkeler, USN
                                                                  Captain Kimberly Sandberg, USN
            SFC Ryan Kraeger, USA
                                                                  Joe and Linda Siegel
            Master Sergeant Justin Patrick Mansfield
                                                                  Eric Waters, Division Chief, Gig Harbor Fire Department

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