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         MARCH 2019   VOL. XII   NO. VIII   diocesetucson.org     — ver pagina 18

  Death & Dying

Church teaching on cremation
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The 2019 Annual Catholic Appeal relies on us — See page 3
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2 CATHOLIC OUTLOOK                                                           LENT 2019                                                                    MARCH 2019

                                                                                                                   Questions and answers about
                                                                                                                   Lent and Lenten practices
                                                                                                                   From usccb.org

                                                                                                                     Q. Why do we say that there are 40 days of
                                                                                                                   Lent? When you count all the days from Ash
                                                                                                                   Wednesday through Holy Saturday, there are 46.
      A season of reflection, preparation, and renewal
                                                                                                                      A. It might be more accurate to say that
                                                                                                                   there is the “40-day fast within Lent.”
                                                                                                                   Historically, Lent has varied from a week to
  Lenten regulations for fasting and abstinence                                                                    three weeks to the present configuration of 46
                                                                                                                   days. The 40-day fast, however, has been more
   Ash Wednesday (March 6) and Good Friday                59. When fasting, a person is permitted to eat           stable. The Sundays of Lent are certainly part
 (April 19) are obligatory days of fasting and            one full meal, as well as two smaller meals that         of the time of Lent, but they are not prescribed
 abstinence for Catholics. In addition, Fridays           together are not equal to a full meal. The norms         days of fast and abstinence.
 during Lent are obligatory days of abstinence.           concerning abstinence from meat are binding
 For members of the Roman Catholic Church,                upon members from age 14.                                  Q. So does that mean that when we give
 the norms on fasting are obligatory for ages 18-                                                                  something up for Lent, such as candy, we can
                                                                                                                   have it on Sundays?

  Rice bowl provides Lenten reflections easy to digest                                                                A. Apart from the prescribed days of fast
                                                                                                                   and abstinence on Ash Wednesday and Good
  For Catholics seeking to experience a deeper spirituality this Lent, Catholic Relief Services offers a variety   Friday, and the days of abstinence every Friday
  of exercises through its Lenten almsgiving program, Operation Rice Bowl.                                         of Lent, Catholics have traditionally chosen
  It can be found through the “Reflections” tab at the organization’s website, crsricebowl.org.                    additional penitential practices for the whole
  Following is a sample of the items for reflection:                                                               time of Lent. These practices are disciplinary
                                                                                                                   in nature and often more effective if they are
                                                                    What is Lent?                                  continuous, i.e., kept on Sundays as well. That
                                                  Lent is our time of preparation. A 40-day journey of             being said, such practices are not regulated by
                                                  prayer, fasting and almsgiving, Lent is a journey that           the Church, but by individual conscience.
                                                 spans Ash Wednesday through Holy Week, culminating
                                                    in the great celebration of Easter. As Catholics, the            Q. I understand that Catholics ages 18-59
                                                   spiritual pillars of prayer, fasting and almsgiving guide       should fast on Ash Wednesday and on Good
                                                    us in daily reflection on our own lives as we strive to        Friday, but what exactly are the rules for
                                                       deepen our relationship with God and neighbor.              these fasts?

                                                                                                                      A. Fasting on these days means we can have
                                                            What should I give up for Lent?                        only one full, meatless meal. Some food can
                                                                                                                   be taken at the other regular meal times if
                                                      The “Catechism of the Catholic Church” invites               necessary but combined they should be less
                                                  Catholics to abstain from meat during the Fridays in             than a full meal. Liquids are allowed at any
                                                Lent. In addition to meatless Fridays, Catholics are also          time, but no solid food should be consumed
                                              invited to offer daily sacrifices. By giving up little things        between meals.
                                             we make room for God to act in our lives in new ways.
                                                                                                                               Q. Are there exemptions other
                                                                                                                                  than for age from the
                                                                                                                                      requirement to fast on Ash
                              Lenten alms change lives                                                                                  Wednesday and Good
      Our almsgiving has the power to transform the world. During Lent, CRS                                                               Friday?
 Rice Bowl invites you to reflect on some of the lives that are changed through
                                                                                                                                                  A. Those that are
 Lenten almsgiving. Read stories of hope from Guatemala, Uganda, Sri Lanka,
                                                                                                                                                excused from fast
    Sierra Leone and Gaza - and be sure to reflect with your family using                                                                        and abstinence
                        our Lenten family resources.                                                                                              outside the age
                                                                                                                                                  limits include
                                   Holy Week                                                                                                      the physically
                                                                                                                                                  or mentally
      Palm Sunday marks the beginning of Holy Week, one of the most
                                                                                                                                                  ill including
  significant moments of the Church year. During this week, we journey                                                                            individuals
  with Christ from his triumphant entry into Jerusalem to his final meal                                                                          suffering from
with his closest friends and ultimately to his death on the cross. As we walk                                                                    chronic illnesses
 with Jesus through Holy Week, we call to mind the countless men, women                                                                         such as diabetes.
   and children who even today carry heavy crosses: crosses of hunger, of                                                                      Also excluded are
homelessness, of a lack of resources or security. In these brothers and sisters,                                                             pregnant or nursing
  we encounter Christ, Christ who continues to walk that long road to Calvary.                                                             women. In all cases,
                                                                                                                                         common sense should
                                                                                                                                      prevail, and ill persons
                                    Stations of the Cross                                                                          should not further jeopardize
   Journey with Jesus to Calvary with these Catholic social teaching inspired Stations of the                                their health by fasting.
       Cross. There is also a Lenten retreat available, called “Companions on the Journey.”
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MARCH 2019                                                                                                                                                     CATHOLIC OUTLOOK 3

The 2019 Annual Catholic Appeal relies on help from all of us
By MICHAEL BROWN                                                              Nedder said.                                           trains parish and ministry leaders
Managing Editor                                                                  Contributions to the Appeal also                    and provides educational materials
   It is very possible you have heard                                         pay for other significant expenses,                    on safe environments for all people
this plea: “Support the works of                                              including tuition for seminarians,                     in their care, ranging from children
mercy.”                                                                       which costs about $40,000 per year.                    to vulnerable adults.
   Leaders of the 2019 Annual                                                    Prison ministry and support                            “We want to make sure that all
Catholic Appeal hope the message                                              for families who find themselves                       children, youths and vulnerable
is familiar as it promotes the annual                                         unexpectedly homeless are also                         adults are safe,” Nedder said.
campaign.                                                                     ministries that receive strong                            He said he was confident that
   Citing the theme of “Living our                                            diocesan support, Nedder added.                        the 2019 Appeal would succeed
Faith through Acts of Charity,”                                                  “The wonderful thing about our                      because Catholics around the
Catholic Foundation Interim                                                   communities is how the people trust                    Diocese recognize the importance
Director Ernie Nedder noted that                                              their pastors ,” he said. The success                  of the services the diocesan Church
when it comes to performing                                                   of the Appeal depends upon the                         provides.
the works of mercy, the Diocese                                               success of that relationship.                             “The people of God are the
can address broader needs that                                                   Nedder acknowledged that some                       Church,” Nedder said.
individual parishes cannot. “We rely                                          US dioceses have had to deal with                         The 2018 Annual Catholic Appeal
on the support of Catholics in those                                          negative headlines arising from                        fell just below goal, with $3,997,304,
parishes to provide the resources to                                          a new wave of reports involving                        after three straight years of
perform those works of mercy.”                                                clergy sex abuse. However, in the                      increases. In 2017, aided by several
                                        meals. The Knights of Columbus
   Whether it is the $500,000                                                 Diocese of Tucson, not only have                       bequests, the Appeal finished at
                                        also support those and other local
the Appeal disburses to Catholic                                              the bishops, priests and lay leaders                   $4,268,384. That followed the 2016
                                        works of mercy. However, parishes
Community Services, or the                                                    been pro-active on the issue, but                      and 2015 Appeals, which came
                                        meeting community members’
$250,000 it sends to sustain                                                  the Appeal also funds the Office                       in at $4,037,140 and $4,003,024,
                                        immediate physical needs may defer
poor parishes, Nedder said the                                                of Child, Adolescent and Adult                         respectively.
                                        plant maintenance or be unable to
Appeal’s success all starts with the                                          Protection, more commonly known                           For more information about
                                        financially afford large unexpected
relationship that Catholics have                                              as the Protection Office. Among its                    the Appeal and parish goals, visit
                                        capital expenses.
with their own parish.                                                        other responsibilities, that office                    cathfnd.org.
                                           “We need to help those parishes
   Nedder noted that many parishes
                                        and the challenges they face,”
run food pantries or provide holiday

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                                                                                     form the faith of their children, including how      event will be led by the pastor, Father Alonzo
                        DIOCESAN EVENTS                                              to relate lovingly with teenagers, young adults      Garcia. The celebration includes singing by the
Charismatic renewal gathering at Sacred Heart                                        and adult children who separate themselves           choir, Scripture readings, praying a special “Ave
 Thursday, March 14, 6:30 p.m., Sacred Heart                                         from the Church. “The Sacred Balancing Act:          Maria” scriptural rosary and a special pre-Easter
   Church, 601 E. Fort Lowell Road, Tucson                                           Busy Lives and Family Spirituality” is the second    homily. During the celebration, 10 people will
   The Diocese of Tucson Renewal Committee                                           in the Luthen Lecture Series sponsored by the        sit at the altar and take turns reading Scripture
will hold its monthly “Alive in Christ” event                                        Jordan Ministry team. Hendey is founder of           and then pray a Hail Mary. The process will be
with the theme “Our Spiritual Battle.” All are                                       CatholicMom.com, a bestselling author of books       repeated for each of the Joyful mysteries. Three
welcome to joyfully praise and worship with                                          for adults and children and serves as editor-at-     Hail Mary’s will be prayed in Spanish. After each
song, Scripture readings and words. For more                                         large for Ave Maria Press. For more information,     decade, the choir will sing a short version of Ave
information, call Gloria at (520) 237-7060 or                                        visit JordanMinistry.org or call (520) 623-2563.     Maria. “Behold Thy Mother” was created to bring
visit tucsonccr.org.                                                                                                                      the rosary to the next level. It marks the capstone
                                                                                                  PIMA SOUTH VICARIATE                    of a yearlong program promoting the rosary to
 National blogger speaking at St. Thomas                                                                                                  parishioners.
Thursday, March 28, 7 p.m., St. Thomas Church,                                       St. Margaret Mary holds Lenten fish dinners
      5150 N. Valley View Road, Tucson                                                 Fridays in Lent, 4-7 p.m., St. Margaret Mary                      PIMA EAST VICARIATE
  Blogger Lisa Hendey delivers a model for busy                                            Parish, 801 N. Grande Ave., Tucson
families partnering with their parish, school and                                      The menu varies weekly, with the dinners
communities, providing tools to more efficiently                                     sponsored by various parish ministries. All           Contemplative prayer group at St. Pius X
                                                                                     proceeds from the sales benefit the parish. For      Mondays, March 4-April 22, 6:30-8:30 p.m., St. Pius
                                                                                     the menu items each week, call the parish as 622-     X Parish, 1800 N. Camino Pio Decimo, Tucson
                                                                                     0168.                                                  For more information, call the parish office,
                                                                                                                                          (520) 885-3573.
                                                                                      ‘My Broken Christ’ to play at San Miguel
                                                                                     Saturday, April 27, 4 p.m. (English) and 7 p.m.
                                                                                      (Spanish), San Miguel Catholic High School,
                                                                                          6601 S. San Fernando Road, Tucson
                                                                                        “My Broken Christ,” a one-man play, will
                                                                                     be sponsored by Our Lady of Fatima Parish.
                                                                                     It is based on a book by Jesuit Father Ramon
                                                                                     Cue. Tickets range from $10-$50 and can be
                                                                                     purchased online at Eventbrite.com/O/Our-Lady-
                                                                                     of-Fatima-Parish-18499057248.

                                                                                                  PINAL WEST VICARIATE
                                                                                      St. Helen’s sets scriptural prayer service
   Outlook photo courtesy of the Office of Child, Adolescent and Adult Protection.    Monday, March 25, 7-8 p.m., St. Helen of the
 Compliance officers from around the Diocese gathered
Jan. 26 at Most Holy Trinity Parish, Tucson for their annual
                                                                                          Cross Parish, 205 W. 8th St., Eloy
convocation. From left are compliance officers Rick Sanchez                            The parish celebrates the Annunciation
                                                                                                                                                                          Outlook photo by Iliana Gonzales
from Blessed Sacrament, Mammoth and Marci Krogstad from                              with “Behold Thy Mother,” a holy hour of
St. Elizabeth Ann Seton, Tucson; office Director Rosemary                                                                                Representatives from St. Odilia Parish in Tucson
                                                                                     prayer, contemplation and celebration. The          were among the participants in the annual March for
Celaya-Alston; presenter Andy Maurer; and compliance officer
Diane Espinoza from Our Lady of the Valley, Green Valley.
                                                                                     service will be preceded by an opportunity for      Life in Tucson on Jan. 19. About 900 attended the
                                                                                     reconciliation and eucharistic adoration. The       annual Respect Life Mass celebrated in St. Augustine
                                                                                                                                         Cathedral, preceding the march.

                                                                Bishop’s Calendar – MARCH 2019
      MARCH                                                                                                      10           3 p.m. - Rite of Election - St. Augustine Cathedral
      2                    10 a.m. - Confirmation, St. Jude Church, San Luis                                     12-14        Newly-ordained five years of less mentoring program,
                                                                                                                              Redemptorist Renewal Center
                           4 p.m. -Confirmation, St. John Neumann Church, Yuma
                                                                                                                 17           10 a.m. - Mass for the Kino Heritage Society, St. Augustine
      3                    3 p.m. - “Alive in the Savior” Award, Jordan Ministry Team,
                                                                                                                              Cathedral
                           Viscount Suite Hotel, Tucson
                                                                                                                 18-20        Catholic Rural Life strategic planning retreat in
      4                    10 a.m. - Ongoing formation for priests, Redemptorist
                                                                                                                              Minneapolis
                           Renewal Center, Tucson
                                                                                                                 30           11 a.m. - Confirmation, St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Catholic
      5                    11 a.m. - Catholic Foundation, 2019 Grant Award ceremony,
                                                                                                                              School, Tucson
                           TEP Building, Tucson
                                                                                                                 31           9 a.m. - Confirmation, St. Francis of Assisi Church, Superior
      6                    Noon - Ash Wednesday Mass, St. Augustine Cathedral,
                           Tucson                                                                                             2 p.m. - Confirmation, St. George Church, Apache Junction
      8                    Noon - Mass, Catholic Community Services, Tucson                                      APRIL
      9                    11 a.m. - Confirmation, St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Church,                               2            4 p.m. - Knights of the Holy Sepulchre, semiannual meeting,
                           Tucson                                                                                             Skyline County Club, Tucson
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MARCH 2019                                                            Obituaries                                                                                                                   CATHOLIC OUTLOOK 5

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                                                                         Obituaries                                                                               MARCH 2019

Msgr. Robert Fuller, beloved homilist and pastor, dies Jan. 23
    TUCSON, Arizona — Msgr. Robert D.                  help.
Fuller, editor of the Arizona Register diocesan           “I cannot tell you what a great friend Bob was
newspaper and known also for his inspirational         to our family, to all families,” Click said, adding
eight-minute homilies, died Jan. 23 at age 88.         “He was a great man of God. Everybody he
   Born Sept. 8, 1930, in Keokuk, Iowa to Dwight touched he made a difference. I told him that last
and Gladys (Kibble) Fuller, he attended parochial night.”
elementary schools in Keokuk and Marshalltown,            Click visited with the priest the evening before
Iowa before moving to Tucson with his family,          Msgr. Fuller’s passing.
where he attended                                                                         Local priests also recalled
Immaculate Heart                                                                       his service.
Academy and Sts. Peter                                                                    Msgr. Thomas Cahalane,
and Paul Catholic School                                                               pastor of Our Mother of
before he graduated from                                                               Sorrows Parish in Tucson,
Tucson Senior High                                                                     said Msgr. Fuller was one
School in 1948.                                                                        of his oldest friends here.
   He entered seminary at                                                              “He was the first priest who
the Los Angeles College                                                                greeted me when I got off             Msgr. Robert Fuller
Junior Seminary and                                                                    the airplane 56 years ago.”
St. John Seminary in                                                                      “We became close                   Diocesan Tribunal
                                                                                                                             1957-62
Camarillo, California, and                                                             and fast friends, kindred
was ordained a priest on                                                               spirits,” Msgr. Cahalane
                                                                                                                             Chancellor, Diocese of Tucson
April 25, 1956, in Sts.                                                                said.
                                                                                                                             1962-70
Peter and Paul Church by                                  Catholic Outlook file photo     The priests had visited
Bishop Francis Green.           Msgr. Robert D. Fuller                                 the  day before Msgr.                 Editor, Arizona Register
   He was assistant pastor                                                           Fuller’s death, which Msgr.             1963-65
at Queen of Peace, Mesa, 1956-57, before the           Cahalane called “painfully graced.”
erection of the Diocese of Phoenix.                       “It was Bob’s time to go and he was very, very                     Executive Director, RENEW
   He served in the diocesan Tribunal (1957-62), aware of it.”                                                               1981-86
director of the Bureau of Information, which              Msgr. Cahalane recalled that upon entering
later became the diocesan Communications               Msgr. Fuller’s room, Msgr. Fuller said, “‘An angel                    Pastor, St. Frances Cabrini
Office, and as chancellor for the Diocese (1962-       has brought you here.’ It was a real experience of                    1987-2018
70).                                                   grace for me.”
   He was appointed editor and business manager           When Msgr. Fuller retired from St. Frances
of the Arizona Register on June 7, 1963, after         last summer, Msgr. Cahalane said, “his heart was                 University of Arizona Newman Center and was
serving as assistant editor in 1961-63.                telling him to continue, but his body was telling                assigned to the diocesan Tribunal. Msgr. Fuller
   He was given the title of monsignor in 1965,        him no.”                                                         was also a chaplain for the St. Thomas More
with his investiture on Dec. 16 that year.                Msgr. Fuller had a great gift of language, being              Society for Catholic lawyers.
   Msgr. Fuller also was administrator at All          able to express truths in ways people could                         Msgr. Fuller was honored at a 2015 dinner to

                        “
Saints, Tucson (1965-69), and at St. Augustine         understand.                                                      raise money for retired priests.
Cathedral in 1969. He was the founding pastor at          “He was able to communicate things in the                        He was also a guest of honor at the 2008
St. Pius X, serving                                                                                   moment            Catholic Foundation Cornerstone Gala.
from 1970-81.                                                                                         they were            When asked what were highlights of his many
   Msgr. Fuller left                   “I cannot tell you what a great happening. It’s                                  years as a priest, Msgr. Fuller said, “It’s filled with
Tucson for five                 friend Bob was to our family, to all a unique gift,                                     what I see are highlights - every baptism, every
years, 1981-86, to                                                                                    being able to     wedding is a highlight.”
work for RENEW,                   families, ... he was a great man of communicate                                          “It’s my privilege to proclaim God’s Word
an organization           God. Everybody he touched he made a and articulate                                            and bring it into (people’s) lives,” he said. “The
based in Newark,                                                                                      the here and      Church isn’t just the priests. It’s the people of
N.J.                        difference. I told him that last night.” now, while                                         God who are the Church.”
   He returned                                                                   - Jim Click still being in                Msgr. Fuller is survived by a sister, Peggy
to Tucson in                                                                                          the present       Angelastro (Mike) of California; sisters-in-law
1987 to serve as pastor at St. Frances Cabrini,        moment,” Msgr. Cahalane said, “just like his                     Dora Fuller and Rose Marie Fuller; nephews
Tucson, where he was a master of “eight-minute         homilies.”                                                       Dr. Greg Fuller (Denise) and Robert Fuller
homilies.” He retired as pastor in 2018 after             Salvatorian Father Bill Remmel, who assisted                  (Sandy); great-nephews Shawn and Alan; and
more than 30 years. He served as the vicar for         Msgr. Fuller at St. Frances Cabrini, said, “I                    nieces Sarena, Jennifer and Julia. Monsignor was
Education and as the vicar for Pima Central            always looked up to him and his wisdom,” said                    predeceased by brothers Milton and Cyrus, and
parishes part of that time.                            “Recently, he would celebrate Mass about once                    by a sister, Nikki Marshall.
   He subsequently published a series of books         a week and a lot of people would come to hear                       A vigil service was held, Jan. 31 at St. Frances
called “Homilies from the Heart,” with proceeds        him.”                                                            Cabrini Church. A Mass of Christian Burial was
benefitting the Casa Maria Soup Kitchen for low-          Among Msgr. Fuller’s many areas of ministry                   celebrated Feb. 1 in St. Augustine Cathedral.
income residents.                                      was also Catholic marriage. He would speak                       Bishop Edward J. Weisenburger was the main
   Auto dealer Jim Click and his wife, Vicki, knew at gatherings for married couples that were                          concelebrant; Msgr. Cahalane was the homilist.
Msgr. Fuller as a pastor and a friend for decades.     sponsored by the international Christian Family                  Interment followed in Holy Hope Cemetery.
When Click became Catholic, it was with his            Movement, taught marriage courses at the
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MARCH 2019                                                                                                                                                                  CATHOLIC OUTLOOK 7

Faithfully raising funds for Catholic education
Gracie Quiroz Marum is a force for good at the Catholic Tuition Scholarship Organization
By MICHAEL BROWN                                                                                                                                             smart. … She’s always on the cutting
Managing Editor                                                                                                                                              edge.”
   The Catholic Tuition Scholarship                                                                                                                             Marum saw the advantage
Organization turned 20 years old, a                                                                                                                          of inviting corporate donors to
benchmark celebrated at a dinner                                                                                                                             participate in the education tax
in February.                                                                                                                                                 break at a time when people in
   CTSO board members and                                                                                                                                    other scholarship organizations
leaders attribute the success of the                                                                                                                         were targeting individuals. She
agency to its longtime executive                                                                                                                             had already gotten a leg up on
director, Gracie Quiroz Marum.                                                                                                                               individual givers by targeting tax
   Marcy Euler, president of the                                                                                                                             preparers and financial advisors,
CTSO Board of Directors, noted                                                                                                                               providing them with information
that Marum has been with the                                                                                                                                 that they could pass along to clients.
group since the beginning, even                                                                                                                                 “That was just brilliant,” Euler
when she was still formally working                                                                                                                          said. “She’s an innovator who
on the Annual Catholic Appeal in                                                                                                                             listens to her board members.”
the diocesan Development Office.                                                                                                                                Euler recounted a conversation
   Marum’s work has been more                                                                                                Outlook photo by Steff Koeneman she  had with Marum, asking her
than just soliciting businesses for                    CTSO Executive Director Gracie Quiroz Marum shows her surprise at being publicly honored at           to identify the executive director’s
donations, Euler said. Marum was a                     the Catholic Schools Seton Award Endowment Dinner and CTSO 20th Anniversary Gala Dinner               greatest accomplishments. Euler
                                                       held at the Marriott Starr Pass Resort in Tucson Feb. 1. Marum has been a driving force at CTSO
force in recommending updates to                       since its founding.                                                                                   said Marum started with dollars
the various tuition support                                                                                                                                  raised: CTSO started with $1
                                                        always oriented toward making                    not have been able to send their
legislation over the years, including                                                                                                                        million and 800 donors the first
                                                        Catholic education affordable.                   children to Catholic schools and
that which allowed corporate                                                                                                                                 year, compared to $13 million and
                                                           “Her passion has been serving                 get a quality education,” said Euler.
donations. Her priorities have                                                                                                                                                See MARUM on page 8
                                                        families who otherwise would                     “She’s dynamic, compassionate and

 Cuffari receives Seton Award at Catholic Schools dinner
                                                                               Lynn Cuffari received the 32nd annual St.              In 1982, she earned a Journalism degree from
                                                                            Elizabeth Ann Seton Award for her “history of             the University of Arizona.
                                                                            dedicated service, support and leadership within             In 1983, she married Joseph Cuffari, an Air
                                                                            the Diocese of Tucson Catholic Schools.”                  Force officer. While stationed in Naples, Italy,
                                                                               The award was given at the third annual                Lynn earned her master’s in education from
                                                                            Catholic Schools Endowment Dinner at the                  Framingham State University of Massachusetts,
                                                                            Marriot Starr Pass Resort Feb. 1.                         which had a program for military families
                                                                               Also honored was the Catholic Tuition                  stationed overseas. The family relocated
                                                                            Support Organization (CTSO), marking its 20th             to Yuma in 1997 and Cuffari was hired at
                                                                            anniversary.                                              Immaculate Conception Catholic School,
                                                                               Cuffari said her education career began in the         teaching computers and language arts.
                                                                            utility room of her childhood home in Easton,                In 2001, after a move to Tucson, she joined
                                                                            Maryland, where she and her sisters would                 the faculty at Immaculate Heart as a middle
                      Outlook photo courtesy of St. Augustine High School   spend many hours “playing school” on rainy                school English and literature teacher. In 2006,
  Lynn Cuffari, principal of St. Augustine High School and                  days when they could not go outside.                      she became the principal; five years later,
  2019 Seton Award winner, poses with Bishop Edward J.                         Her family later moved to Arizona and she              she was appointed principal at St. Augustine
  Weisenburger at the Catholic Schools Endowment Dinner.                    graduated from high school in Phoenix in 1978.            Catholic High School.
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  Schools’ Dahl to receive national education award
   Diocesan Superintendent of Schools Sheri           education is accessible and affordable to any
Dahl will receive a 2019 “Lead. Learn. Proclaim.”     family that desires it for their children,” Dahl said.
Award from the National Catholic Educational          “I am really proud of how hard the staff, pastors
Association (NCEA) for dedication and                 and principals have worked to make people aware
commitment to excellence in Catholic education.       of these programs and to be their advocates.”
   Dahl is one of 27 recipients chosen from more         In nominating Dahl, many of those supporters
than 150,000 teachers, administrators, diocesan       spoke highly of her efforts.
leaders and organizations dedicated to the nation’s       “Efforts over the years have not only increased
Catholic schools. She will receive the award during   school enrollment – keeping some schools on the
the annual NCEA 2019 Convention & Expo, April         verge of closing open – but have made quality
23-25 in Chicago.                                     Catholic education a possibility for different
   The annual award honors those in Catholic          underserved student populations,” wrote Assistant
school education who have demonstrated a strong       Superintendent Barbara Monsegur.
Catholic educational philosophy, exceptional             “Her vision of excellence, partnered with
efforts, dedication and achievements.                 her expertise, willingness to listen, observe,
   Dahl was hired in 2010 as assistant                collaborate and analyze different situations being
superintendent before becoming superintendent         faced by school communities has proven to be
in 2014. She serves on the board of directors         invaluable in terms of the benefit to principals,
for Western Catholic Educational Association          pastors, teachers and the Department of Catholic
(WCEA) and she is also a WCEA Elementary              Schools,” wrote Bishop Edward J. Weisenburger in
Commissioner.                                         his letter recommending Dahl for the award.
   Dahl said she was grateful for the recognition        St. Augustine Catholic High School Principal

                                                      “
and credits the Catholic Schools’ office team,        Lynn Cuffari credited Dahl for seeing Catholic                                     Catholic Outlook photo by Steff Koeneman

school principals and other leaders for the success                                                             Sheri Dahl
of southern Arizona Catholic schools.                                                                           maintaining a focus on our Catholic identity.”
   “Most rewarding to me has been working with                                                                     Dahl even received a letter of support from out-
incredible school leaders and witnessing the                 We are trying to let people                        of-state.
positive impact their leadership development has
on their school communities,” Dahl said. “That is
                                                          know that Catholic education                             Karen Barreras, superintendent of Catholic
                                                                                                                schools for the Diocese of Reno, Nevada, wrote
the essence and joy of my role as superintendent.”       is accessible and affordable to                        that she first met Dahl through their membership
   Dahl said that joint effort, especially when            any family that desires it for                       in the regional Western Catholic Educational
getting out the message of the affordability                                                                    Association. The two shared an embrace of the
of Catholic education, has increased diocesan                 their children,” Dahl said.                       Alliance for Catholic Education (ACE), a program
enrollment by 10 percent since 2013.                                                                            from the University of Notre Dame that helps
   With greater emphasis placed on educating                                                                    struggling schools in mission dioceses.
parents and school supporters about the benefits      education’s big picture and applying it to                   “This exemplified Sheri’s commitment to
of Empowerment Scholarships and donations             individual school settings. “The professional             Catholic education with high academic standards,
to the Catholic Tuition Support Organization,         development opportunities she and her team have           especially important in mission dioceses that do
enrollment jumped nearly 600 students.                brought to the principals is targeted to strategies       not have the resources to develop or pay for high-
   “We are trying to let people know that Catholic    we can specifically implement – all while                 quality professional development,” Barreras wrote.

 MARUM continued from page 7                          story about Marum was when a Catholic

 6,000 donors last year. “Over the years, she has
                                                      school outside greater Tucson was undergoing                   CTSO started with $1
                                                      personnel changes, and the staff had not
 raised $124 million in scholarships,” Euler said.    collected scholarship applications for any of the              million and 800 donors
    Marum said her second greatest
 accomplishment was keeping administrative
                                                      students.                                                     the first year, compared
                                                         “She (Marum) called me and (longtime CTSO
 costs down. Euler recounted. Tuition                 employee) Julieta Gonzalez and we went there                  to $13 million and 6,000
 Scholarship Organizations are allowed to use
 10 percent of revenues for administrative costs;
                                                      ourselves to fill out the applications. By the end           donors last year. “Over the
                                                      of the day, every single student had been done.”
 CTSO holds the line at five percent. “That gives        “She’s always thinking ahead,” Nedder said.
                                                                                                                   years, she has raised $124
 you much more money for school assistance.”          “She’s always thinking about what more she can                million in scholarships,”
    A third point of pride is helping to keep         do.”
 struggling Catholic schools open. Euler said            Ginny L. Clements, past CTSO president,
                                                                                                                            Euler said.
 that before Marum’s work on CTSO, as many as         called Marum “the hardest worker I know. She             tirelessly she worked to do the right things,
 three Catholic schools were in danger of closing     loves what she does, and it shows in what she            managing each dollar entrusted to her care. I am
 because of low enrollment. “Now those schools        has accomplished in the past 20 years of helping         extremely proud of her accomplishments and
 are at or near capacity,” she said.                  children who want a Catholic education.”                 proud to call her my friend,” Clements said.
    Ernie Nedder, interim executive director             “As a past president of the CTSO, I saw how
 of the Catholic Foundation, said his favorite
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MARCH 2019                                                              LIFE AROUND THE DIOCESE                    CATHOLIC OUTLOOK 9

                                                                                                                 Outlook photo by Michael Brown
 1                                                              Outlook photo courtesy of Julieta Gonzalez   2

 5                                  Outlook photo by Michael Brown       3                                       Outlook photo by Michael Brown

 1. San Miguel High School senior David Amerson
addresses the crowd including hundreds of Catholic school
students at a Catholic Schools Week rally in Phoenix Jan.
30.
2.Bart Pemberton, of the Msgr. Donald H. Hughes
Assembly Knights of Columbus, gives Bishop Edward J.
Weisenburger a check Feb. 6 in the Diocesan Pastoral
Center, representing the proceeds from the annual fund-
raising dinner Jan. 20. The check, for $19,483, will go to
help support diocesan seminary education.
 3. Bishop Weisenburger joined St. Augustine Catholic
High School, Tucson, leaders, in blessing a new wing of                  4
classrooms at the school Jan. 23. From left are Principal
Lynn Cuffari, school board President Richard Schaefer and
school President David Keller.
4.Bishop Weisenburger was the main celebrant for the
annual Mass of Jubilees for Professed Religious at Sts. Peter
and Paul Church, Tucson, Feb. 3, and attended a lunch
afterward in their honor. From left are Jesuit Father Sean
Carroll, Franciscan Brother David Paz, Capuchin Father
John Francis Samsa, Missionary Servants of the Most
Holy Trinity Brother Andres Rivera, Franciscan Sister of
Christian Charity Leonette Kochan, Bishop Weisenburger,
Franciscan Sister of Christian Charity Mary Beth Kornely,
Jesuit Brother Guy Consolmagno, Sister of St. Francis of
Mary Immaculate Karen Berry, Jesuit Father Paul Gabor
and Immaculate Heart of Mary Sister Francesca Marti.
5. A St. Ambrose Catholic School fourth graders and
mariachi players Alyssa Gonsalez and Jaeden Moreno listen
to Msgr. Jeremiah McCarthy, moderator of the Curia, prior
to performing at the Diocesan Pastoral Center Jan. 29 as
part of the school’s Catholic Schools Week celebration.
Photos on the Santa Cruz Parish anniversary will appear in
the April issue of the Catholic Outlook.                                                                         Outlook photo by Michael Brown
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10 CATHOLIC OUTLOOK                                              CREMATION                                                                   MARCH 2019

Frequently asked questions:
   Q. What should I do when a loved one dies?

    A. When death occurs, after you provide
 for the initial care of the body by calling the
 appropriate authorities - if applicable - and
 the physician, you then should call the funeral
 home of your choice to make an appointment
 to discuss the funeral arrangements.
 You then need to call the cemetery and
 make an appointment to finalize the
 burial arrangements. Once the “business” calls
 are made, you should then call the relatives of
 the deceased to begin the process of notifying
 the family.

   Q. How soon after death should a person be
 buried?

    A. Laws vary from state to state and some
 limit the maximum time allowed before final
 disposition of an unembalmed body. However,
 today many funeral homes have refrigeration
 available and can keep a body for an indefinite
 amount of time. If a traditional funeral is
 desired, some of the things that must be
 considered include securing official permits
 and authorizations, placement of death notices,
 notifying friends and family, preparation of
 the burial site and religious requirements. Your
 funeral director will be well-versed on the
 regulations.

   Q. What happens to a grave site after
 burial?

    A. Graves are filled in a three-step
 process after the interment. After each third
 of the grave dirt is placed back into the grave,
 the soil is tamped and compacted. Settling may
 occur but is kept to a minimum because of
 the procedures used to compact the soil.
 Graves in grass areas are sodded or seeded in
 the spring or in the fall (generally during the
 months of March through May and September            Other online resources:
 through November). If there is concern about         What to do when a loved one dies:
 the appearance of the grave, please notify the       https://www.aarp.org/home-family/friends-family/info-06-2012/when-loved-one-dies-checklist.
 cemetery office and we can discuss it with you.    html

                                                      When a parent dies, this is a resource from American Hospice about how adult children can
   Q. When I buy a grave, do I receive a deed?      help the surviving spouse:
                                                      https://americanhospice.org/working-through-grief/helping-a-grieving-parent/
    A. No. The purchase of a grave is really the
 purchase of the “Interment Right” which               When an estranged child, now an adult, needs to be told about a parent’s death, from
 is the right to designate who may be buried in     rejectedparents.net:
                                                       https://www.rejectedparents.net/telling-an-estranged-adult-child-about-a-family-members-death-
 that grave and what kind of memorial is to be
                                                    do-they-have-a-right-to-know/
 placed, subject to what the cemetery’s rules
 permit. You’re not really purchasing the grave        An article from Psychology Today describing how children process the idea of death:
 itself. The grave remains the property and           https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/hard-realities/201301/how-do-children-comprehend-
 responsibility of the cemetery.                    the-concept-death

                                                      A list of other resources courtesy of the Archdiocese of Philadelphia:
   For more information, visit dotcc.org.
                                                      http://phillycatholiclife.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/Some-Good-Resources-on-Grief-and-
                                                    Loss-012111.pdf
MARCH 2019                                                                   CREMATION                                                                                 CATHOLIC OUTLOOK 11

Church’s teaching on funerals with cremated remains
 By Sister Lois Paha and                  on the care of the cremated                           columbarium. The practice of                         prayers at the passing of these
 Msgr. Jeremiah McCarthy                  remains including their presence                      scattering cremated remains on                       loved ones from life on earth to
    The “Order of Christian               at the Mass of Christian Burial.                      the sea, from the air, or on the                     eternal life. “This is the body once
 Funerals” in the Catholic Church            Among end of life issues                           ground, or keeping cremated                          washed in baptism and anointed
 contains the prayers and directives      when planning the details of the                      remains in the home of a relative                    with the oil of salvation and fed
 for the care of our deceased loved       funeral service, cremation can                        or friend of the deceased are                        with the Bread of Life. This is the
 ones. In three parts, it offers the      sometimes be overlooked or left                       not the reverent disposition that                    body whose hands clothed the
 Welcoming of the Body and the            to someone else to carry out. The                     the Church requires.” (“Order of                     poor and embraced the sorrowing.
 celebration of a Vigil, prayers and      1997 cremation directives call for                    Christian Funerals,” Appendix                        ...Thus, the Church’s reverence
 remembrances on the evening              the same respect for the cremated                     II, 417, 1997). The instruction                      and care for the body grows out
 before the Funeral Mass; and the         remains we give to the body of the                    also reminds us that the place of                    of a reverence and concern for
 Funeral Mass; followed by the            deceased. The remains should be                       entombment should be marked                          the person whom the Church now
 Committal Service. This rite has         placed in a worthy vessel which                       in a way to memorialize the                          commends to the care of God.”
 been used since 1989; however,           is brought to the service with the                    deceased.                                            (“Order of Christian Funerals,”
 at an earlier time, the Catholic         same dignity given to the coffin                         Why does the Church offer                         Appendix II, 1997)
 Church did approve cremation if          carrying a body into the Church.                      these instructions for the care of
 it was done in a way respecting             The instructions for the final                     the cremated remains, we ask?                           Sister Paha is an Adrian
 the holy dignity of the body of a        disposition of these remains                          The reasons for the choice of                        Dominican Sister and diocesan
 baptized Christian. In 1997, an          tell us: “The cremated remains                        cremation vary but the care of the                   director of Pastoral Services.
 appendix to the Funeral Rites was        should be buried in a grave or                        body of the baptized Christian                          Msgr. McCarthy is diocesan Vicar
 included, offering a clear directive     entombed in a mausoleum or                            continues to be uppermost in our                     General and Moderator of the Curia.

Cost figures in decision to cremate, says Cemeteries director
By MICHAEL BROWN
Managing Editor
                                                           Cost comparison for interments                                                               Hanlon said that in double burial
                                                                                                                                                     plots, families can have two bodies
                                            (figures below are estimated at the low end of price scale; actual prices will vary)
   Diocesan Catholic Cemeteries                                                                                                                      and two cremains.
                                              **These costs do not include cremation or embalming. Catholic Cemeteries do not provide mortuary
Executive Director Tom Hanlon                                                                                                                           Solano noted there were
                                         services, only interment. Cremation and embalming costs may vary and are not included in the costs below.
said three factors influence a                                                                                                                       several options available for
bereaved family deciding what                                                        C R E M AT I O N                                                cremains besides burial in full
to do with the remains of a                                                                                                                          body plots. There are urn gardens,
                                                 Service                                                    Cost
loved one: cost, precedence and                                                                                                                      and above ground niches in
circumstances.                                   Cremains in a niche with a interment fee, marker                                   $5,642           mausoleums (equipped to hold full
   Hanlon noted that while many                  and vase included                                                                                   bodies as well as cremains) and
people believe cremation and                     Total                                                                           $5,642.00
                                                                                                                                                     columbariums (with niches solely
interment of an urn in the ground                                                                                                                    designed for cremains).
or a niche costs less than body                                                                                                                         Those costs, with everything
burial, it very much depends on                                                     B O DY B U R I A L                                               included, range upward from
burial choices the family makes:                                                                                                                     $5,642. That does not include the
                                                Service                                                     Cost
ground or niche, fancy or less fancy                                                                                                                 cost of cremation.
urn, gravestone, etc.                           Cost of plot                                                                        $3,300              Solano said the expenses
   Also, if niches have already                                                                                                                      for burial of cremains versus
been purchased and the remains                  Concrete/Steel liner                                                                 $940            traditional burial can be very much
of another family member are in                                                                                                                      the same.
                                                Service/interment fee                                                               $1,310
repose there, cremation may make                                                                                                                        Hanlon said that “given their
more sense.                                     Memorial stone                                                                       $800            druthers, most families would
   Finally, if there are circumstances                                                                                                               prefer burial” of an intact body.
– such as a body that might                     Total                                                                           $6,350.00               Solano, who has a license to
have been ravaged, mangled or                                                                                                                        run a cremator – a facility that
decimated in death - when there          was up to 34 percent.                                  setting up and breaking down the                     cremates human remains – cautions
are few remains of a body because           Juventino Solano, a Catholic                        site for the interment, and other                    families against choosing cremation
of how the person died, cremation        cemeteries representative, noted                       associated costs were another                        on the basis of price alone. He
again may be a better option.            the cost of burying a body can vary                    $1,310. A 1memorial stone runs                       said families and loved ones
   The popularity of interment           widely depending on survivors’                         another $800-$900.                                   should investigate carefully and
of cremated remains, known as            desicions. A concrete or steel liner                      Cemetery plots, if a family plot                  read reviews and reports about
cremains, has increased slowly but       to protect the casket from the                         has not already been purchased, can                  companies conducting cremations
steadily at Catholic Cemeteries.         elements and prevent the ground                        start at $3,300, bringing the overall                before choosing who will provide
For the fiscal year ending June          above it from sinking can cost                         costs to a range starting at $6,350.                 the service.
30, 2018, cremains interment             $940. An internment fee – opening                         Those costs do not include                           Mourners deserve the peace of
accounted for 32 percent of              the ground, recording the death,                       funeral home expenses, including                     mind that the remains they are
services. For the first six months of    maintaining he site and equipment,                     embalming of the body.                                             See HANLON on page 12
the current fiscal year, that figure
12 CATHOLIC OUTLOOK                                                                                                                                                    MARCH 2019

                                                                                                                           said.
 HANLON continued from page 11                                                                                                Hanlon said he travels to about 12 parishes
being given are really those of their loved one, he                                                                        a year to host brief presentations, followed by
said. “You get what you pay for,” he said.                                                                                 question-and-answer sessions to explain the
   Hanlon noted that buried urns still need                                                                                services Catholic Cemeteries provide.
casings, although he added that some products                                                                                 “We start by talking about the Catholic funeral
recently on the market can double as both                                                                                  liturgy and talk about the rite,” Hanlon said. “We
urns and casings, with brass plates identifying                                                                            run through all the arrangements that Catholics
the cremains, and that are suitable for use in                                                                             have to make.”
churches.                                                                                                                     Most information is conveyed during the
   Sometimes, if a family is dealing with one                                                                              question-and-answer period, he added. The
parent who has died and another one that is                                                                                entire meeting usually takes about 90 minutes
ailing, family members will request a delay in                                                                             and is very well received.
the interment of the decedent pending the death                                                                               “The people who come tell us they feel really
of the one that is ailing. Hanlon said he tries to                                                                         well served,” said Hanlon.
accommodate that request, rather than having to                                                                               In 2017, the Cemeteries office converted crypt
charge two interment fees over a short period of                                                                           space to be used as urn niches when it became
time.                                                  Hanlon noted.                                                       clear that some families had been holding on
   What’s a reasonable amount of time?                   Catholic Cemeteries here in the Diocese will                      to cremains for years without a plan or the
   “I can’t answer that. You would have to go to       work with the family to defer interment of the                      resources for a proper burial.
your parish priest,” he said.                          cremains until the family can afford it, “but                          Hanlon said the cemeteries would consider
   Sometimes, a family deals with financial            arrangements have to be made because they (the                      repeating that program but had no time frame for
hardship and can’t inter the ashes right away,         family) can’t keep the remains indefinitely,” he                    when it would happen.

Trip to Uganda sends Sahuarita pastor home packing new lessons
 By MICHAEL BROWN                                                                                                                            his experiences and Catholic
 M anaging Editor                                                                                                                            social teaching, in helping people
    Thin and short, Rosa, 97, had                                                                                                            become aware of the need to
 migrated 10 times through the                                                                                                               support the work of CRS. He
 desert from her native South                                                                                                                also talks about the importance
 Sudan, to the Bidi Bidi refugee                                                                                                             of Operation Rice Bowl, the
 settlement in Uganda. Father                                                                                                                CRS Lenten program that helps
 Juan Carlos Aguirre, pastor of San                                                                                                          raise awareness of the plight of
 Martin de Porres in Sahuarita and                                                                                                           Catholics and others around the
 global ambassador for Catholic                                                                                                              world, while seeking financial
 Relief Services, visited Uganda                                                                                                             support from US Catholics.
 in January and was impressed by                                                                                                                Acknowledging his
 Rosa’s determination and her will                                                                                                           responsibility first to his parish,
 to survive.                                                                                                                                 Father Aguirre said he was
    “She sells brooms that she                                                                                                               otherwise available to speak at
 makes by hand for two dollars” to                                                                                                           other parishes and groups in
 supplement the food allocation                                                                                                              the Diocese. “I am willing to go
 she receives from the United                                                                                                                anywhere for Rice Bowl. It is
 Nations’ World Food Programme,                                                                                                              really something I love to do.”
 he said.                                                                                                                                       Going on these missionary
    Rosa is lucky. She and another                                                                Outlook photo courtesy of Father Aguirre   trips “helps keep me grounded,”
 family member are one of the             Rosa, center, is 97 and has migrated to Uganda as a refugee 10 times from                          Father Aguirre said, adding that it
 nearly 1,500 fortunate recipients        South Sudan. Here she stands with the delegation from Catholic Relief Services,                    is easy to get caught up in parish
 of a housing unit built by CRS           including Sahuarita pastor Father Juan Carlos Aguirre, in the blue shirt standing in               life and in the struggles currently
 during the last two years. Each of       the doorway of her new home.                                                                       facing the Church in the US. He
 the domiciles consists of a single      Rosa enjoys.                                to restart it four years later. In                      said he appreciates the chance
 unit, with two “rooms” separated           “You understand (their                   2012, Father Aguirre traveled to                        to see how many Catholics cope
 by a divider, and a detached            frustrations) and how long this is          Burkina Faso.                                           with different challenges in other
 latrine.                                going to take,” he said.                       Following his third trip, Father                     global settings.
     In a refugee settlement that           The CRS housing program                  Aguirre said, his role is as an                            Father Aguirre said that while
 hosts almost 300,000 people,            targets the most vulnerable                 ambassador/educator, where he                           he enjoys being an advocate
 most of whom live in stick shacks       populations, including the elderly,         speaks on behalf of CRS to groups                       for CRS and appreciates the
 covered by donated tarps, the CRS       women and orphans.                          around the country. Later this                          support from Bishop Edward J.
 “homes” can’t come fast enough.            Father Aguirre began as a                year, he will travel to Boynton                         Weisenburger for that part of his
 Father Aguirre recalled attending       Global Fellow as a seminarian               Beach, Florida, to speak to                             ministry, he does not have any
 a meeting with angry residents          in 1997, when he traveled to                seminarians at St. Vincent de Paul                      future trips scheduled yet.
 who have waited and will                Zimbabwe. CRS temporarily                   Seminary.                                                  “I am here (and available) as
 continue to wait for years to get       halted the program in 2007, only               He is invited to speak about                         long as they (CRS officials) want
 a chance for the kind of shelter                                                                                                            me to go,” he said.
MARCH 2019                                                                                                                                          CATHOLIC OUTLOOK 13

Vatican summit: Great expectations to practical outcomes
By CAROL GLATZ                                                                                                                     the voice and recommendations
Catholic News Service                                                                                                              of laypeople and victims - many
   VATICAN CITY — All eyes and                                                                                                     who had gone unheard for years -
ears will be on the Vatican during                                                                                                 listened to.
an unprecedented gathering Feb.                                                                                                       4. Pope Francis will be present
21-24 to discuss the protection of                                                                                                 throughout the meeting, which will
minors in the Catholic Church.                                                                                                     include plenary sessions, working
   When Pope Francis announced                                                                                                     groups, prayer, a penitential liturgy
the international meeting in                                                                                                       and a closing Mass.
September, it sparked an optimistic                                                                                                   In letters to the bishops of Chile
note that the global problem of                                                                                                    and the US, Pope Francis has made
abuse finally would be tackled with                                                                                                clear what he thinks the Church
a concerted, coordinated, global                                                                                                   needs to do to respond to the abuse
effort.                                                                                                                            crisis.
   The breadth of the potential                                                                                                       Administrative solutions
impact seemed to be reflected                                                                                                      involving new policies and norms
in the list of those convoked to                                                                                                   are not enough, he has said.
the meeting: the presidents of all                                                                                                    He told Chile’s bishops that abuse
the world’s bishops’ conferences,                                                                                                  and its cover-up “are indicators
the heads of the Eastern Catholic                                                                                                  that something is bad in the Church
churches, representatives of the                                                                                                   body.”
leadership groups of men’s and                                                                                                        Therefore, they must not only
women’s religious orders and the                                                                                                   “address the concrete cases,” but
heads of major Vatican offices.                                                                                                    also “discover the dynamics that
   The pope tried to dial down what                                                                                                made it possible for such attitudes
he saw as “inflated expectations”                                                                       Photo by CNS Paul Haring   and evils to occur.”
for the meeting, telling reporters in   Father Hans Zollner, one of the meeting organizers                                            Those attitudes are driven by
January that “the problem of abuse      pope’s Council of Cardinals who           procedures and methods are                       the temptation “to save ourselves,
will continue. It’s a human problem”    are not presidents of their bishops’      effective” and viable in the Catholic            to save our reputation,” he told the
that exists everywhere.                 conference and four members of the        Church, he said.                                 Chilean bishops.
   Many survivors and experts,          organizing committee.                        Church leaders must know what                    In his letter to the US bishops,
too, have cautioned that it was            Everyone invited will be               the norms are, he said, but the                  he warned against the tendency to
unrealistic to assume such a brief      expected to learn what his or her         meeting also will stress that the                play the victim, to scold, discredit,
meeting could deliver a panacea for     responsibilities are as a leader or a     procedures themselves “will not                  disparage others and point fingers.
abuse and its cover-up.                 bishop and to know the church laws        magically solve a problem.”                         5. Expect the meeting to be
   So, what should people expect        and procedures that already exist to         For example, he said, it was “a               one critical step along a very long
from the four-day meeting? The          protect the young.                        source of delusion” for US Catholics             journey that began decades ago and
following five points hit the              2. Organizers hope that by             when the 2002 Dallas Charter did                 must continue.
highlights:                             listening to victims and leaders          not fix everything.                                 Further measures will be taken
   1. It will be first and foremost     who have learned things the hard             In fact, the meeting will not be              after the meeting, Father Zollner
about raising awareness, including      way, participants will be inspired to     about producing any documents, but               has said. For instance, a task force
that the scandal of abuse is not a      adopt a culture of accountability and     pushing people to take the needed                made up of child protection experts
“Western” problem, but happens in       transparency.                             steps toward greater transparency                “will probably be instituted in the
every country.                             Hearing what abuse and                 and accountability, Father Lombardi              various continents” to help bishops
   To make that point clear, the        negligence have done to people has        said.                                            create, strengthen and implement
organizing committee asked every        the power to transform the listener,         Those steps already are spelled               guidelines.
participating bishop to sit down        “to truly open the mind and heart,”       out, he said, in Pope Francis’ 2016                 The different “teams” of the
with a survivor of abuse before         Jesuit Father Hans Zollner told           document, “As a Loving Mother,”                  task force should be able to help
coming to Rome and hear that “Me,       reporters Feb. 12.                        on the accountability of bishops and             “for years to come to measure the
too,” from a person of his own             Just to be sure those voices are       religious superiors.                             success of this exercise of realizing
country, culture and language.          heard, the meeting will also feature         “It must be put into practice                 one’s own responsibility, even on
   Jesuit Father Federico Lombardi,     testimonies from survivors from           effectively,” he said, adding that he            the global level, in the face of public
who is moderating the meeting, said     countries where the reality of            was “convinced and firmly hope                   expectations,” he told the Vatican
there would be between 160 and          abuse is still largely ignored, said      that this meeting will give a push in            newspaper in January.
180 participants. He told reporters     the priest, an abuse expert who is        that direction.”                                    Even though the church is well
Feb. 12 to expect the presidents of     part of the meeting’s organizing             3. There will be a kind of “parallel          aware of larger, related problems
about 115 bishops’ conferences, a       committee.                                assembly” as large numbers of                    of abuses of power, conscience
dozen heads of Eastern churches,           He said the word “accountability”      survivors and advocacy groups                    and abuse and violence against
prefects of Vatican congregations       doesn’t even exist in many                converge on Rome to call for greater             seminarians, religious women and
directly involved with Vatican          languages, which often means              accountability, action and reform.               other adults, the meeting will focus
norms regarding abuse and               that culture might lack a clear or           A variety of events are planned,              exclusively on protecting minors
negligence, eight delegates from the    coherent understanding of this key        including an evening “Vigil for                  from abuse, Fathers Zollner and
men’s Union of Superiors General,       concept.                                  Justice” near the Vatican and a                  Lombardi said.
10 delegates from the women’s              For that reason, the summit            “March for Zero Tolerance” to St.
International Union of Superiors        will devote a day to discussing           Peter’s Square, but a major focus                  Contributing to this story was
General, three members of the           accountability and “what structures,      will be media outreach and getting               Cindy Wooden in Rome.
14 CATHOLIC OUTLOOK                                                                                                                                 MARCH 2019

    ‘Ignorance of Scripture is ignorance of Christ’
Last in a 10-part series.               “bother” because the Bible is a         to be seen and tasted and felt. It      the Father loves me, so I also love
By CACKIE UPCHURCH                      place of encounter. It provides the     creates the foundation for a fully      you. Remain in my love. … Love
Director, Little Rock Scripture Study   opportunity to learn about Jesus        human life, even in times of peril.     one another as I love you” (Jn 15:9,
   Centuries ago, in caves believed     and to know him in an intimate          Paul writes words of assurance to       12). Our experiences of God’s love
to be located beneath what is now       and relational way. Likewise, we        Jesus’ followers in Rome who are        move us to love, taking Jesus and his
the Church of St. Catherine in          recognize that Jesus knows us, each     suffering persecution, telling them     actions as our guide. Of course, that
Bethlehem, a man by the name of         of us, and his way of knowing is to     that absolutely nothing can separate    may be easier said than done.
Eusebius Sophronius Hieronymus          love. The classic children’s hymn                                                  It is difficult, for example, to love
began an arduous task. He studied       proclaims this truth: “Jesus loves                                              an enemy, to be single-hearted, and
Hebrew so that he could translate       me, this I know, for the Bible tells                                            to reserve judgment about others.
the Old Testament into Latin, the       me so.”                                                                         While these challenges are real, they
language of the people in the Roman        Think for a moment of the many                                               are nonetheless part of the mandate
Empire. He produced numerous            ways Jesus reveals God’s love. He                                               given us by Jesus in his preaching
biblical commentaries.                  gathers children to his side, those                                             (Mt 5-7, Sermon on the Mount;
   Better known to us as St. Jerome,    who were counted among the                                                      Lk 6, Sermon on the Plain). These
this scholar was far from perfect. It   least in his day. He touches the                                                actions and others are signs of the
is said that he was “intemperate in     unclean and heals the sick, restoring                                           love we receive, and a reminder that
controversy,” “singularly agitated,     them to their communities. He                                                   God’s love is not a possession to be
impatient, and proud,” and that         forgives sinners, even some who                                                 guarded but a gift to be shared.
his harsh opinions made him so          do not think themselves worthy of                                                  So, why bother with the Bible?
unpopular in the Roman church that      forgiveness and do not ask for it                                               Because it reveals God’s love for
his time in Bethlehem was in fact       (such as the Samaritan woman at                                                 us, and because God’s love is
self-imposed exile.                     the well).                                                                      transformative.
   St. Jerome’s years of biblical          Jesus calls out hypocrisy,                                                      Some people describe the Bible
study could have led him to an          providing an opportunity for                                                    as a school or a library, a place
additional and certain arrogance        repentance and conversion. He                                                   of learning and understanding.
but instead, in the midst of it all,    speaks the truth even when it is                                                However, the Bible could also be
he offered this gem: “Ignorance of      difficult to hear. He assures those                                             described as a sanctuary, a place
Scripture is ignorance of Christ.”      who are anxious and proves himself                                              of God’s presence set aside for
For all of his intellectual pursuits,   worthy of trust. He nourishes the       them from the love of God in            true encounter with the Divine.
everything came down to the             crowds with fish and bread and solid    Christ Jesus: “In all these things we   When we open our Bibles, I hope
necessity of encountering Christ        teaching. He entrusts his mission to    conquer overwhelmingly through          we come with both expectations –
in the Scriptures, the Word of God      his followers. He sacrifices his own    him who loved us” (see Rom 8:37-        eager to learn and to discover new
that remains alive and relevant in      life for our sake. He shares eternal    39).                                    understandings, and equally eager
every age.                              life with mere mortals like us.            In John’s Gospel, Jesus tells        to respond to God’s initiative and to
   Over the course of this 10-part         This love of God revealed in Jesus   his followers, then and now, that       grow in love.
series, we have asked “Why bother       is not reserved for the afterlife,      the love he has for us is personal,
with the Bible?” Ultimately, we         but is real and tangible, something     intimate and life-changing: “As
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