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Volume 4, Issue 6
                                                May 2020

Tom Pietrogallo
Poverello
Tribute to BSO Deputy                Better Business Bureau
Shannon Bennett            Helping Our Small Business Community

Care Resource                                     Stacy Ritter
A Commitment to LGBTQ+ Healthcare   Greater Fort Lauderdale CVB
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CONTENTS                                                     Steven O. Evans, PhD
                                                            Publisher and Editor in Chief
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 Volume 4, Issue 6 | May 2020
                                                                   Arthur Wood III
Cover Story                                                       Associate Editor
     TOM PIETROGALLO                                        Arthur.OutClique@gmail.com
44   POVERELLO
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                                                              Director of Graphic Design
 7 Travel                                                              Mike Ritzi
                                                             Executive Director of Sales
11 Realtors & Brokers
                                                                     Cindy Curtis
22 Professional Services                                               Irv Scott
                                                                    Sales Managers

50 Churches & Synagogues                                            Connie Evans
                                                     Chief Copyeditor and Mother of the Publisher
53 Health, Wellness & Fitness                                  Tom (Tomcat) Pence
                                                                 Distribution Manager

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                                                                 National Advertising

                                                                   Gregg Shapiro
                                                            Senior Entertainment Writer

                                                                  Denny Patterson
                                                                Senior Lifestyle Writer

                                                               Contributing Writers
                                                   Andrew Armano, Rod Davis, Dr. Stephen Fallon,
                                                    John M. Hayden, Marty Kiar, Dr. Chris Nelson,
                                                      Kip Reynolds, Stacy Ritter, Patrick Rogers,
                                                          Eric Noel Roman, Dr. David Webb

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Change. Connect. Love.
                                                                     By Steven O. Evans, PhD

                                                               C
                                                                      hange. That’s one of the scariest words in the English
Photo by Michael Murphy Photographic

                                                                      language. But right now, we are all wanting just that,
                                                                      change. A change back to normal. But what is normal?
                                                                What will normal be?

                                                                Who would have thought that an airborne virus would have
                                                                attacked our country and our world so quickly, putting everyone
                                                                in the physical lockdown. The economic and emotional impact
                                                                that this has created has been unprecedented.

                                       Unlike other pandemics in the past, our digital world has created connections that we have
                                       been almost forced to use. We are video conferencing each other. FaceTime™, Zoom™,
                                       Facebook Live™, HouseParty™, and so many others. Our digital world has exploded like we
                                       never expected. This is now our key to staying connected and to our source of information.

                                       I know many (all?) of us are frustrated, unsure, lonely, and maybe even angry. Our
                                       expectations of our government, relationships, religious beliefs, medical providers,
                                       careers, and maybe even ourselves, are all shaken to the core. I know I have taken much
                                       time to reflect on life and what is most important.

                                       I do know this. We were built for relationships. At the end of this “mess,” we as people
                                       were made for relationships. The current strain on our economy is only exacerbated by our
                                       continual and uncertain disconnect from those that mean the most to us.

                                       But this will end. Whatever the “new normal” will bring, our relationships can and will
                                       sustain us. If I have (re-)learned anything through this personally, it is this, “A new
                                       command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.“
                                       So, let happiness abound.

                                       Peace to each of you.

                                       Steven O. Evans, PhD
                                       Publisher & Editor in Chief

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WE TRULY ARE GREATER TOGETHER
Photo Courtesy of Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention & Visitors Bureau

T
       ourism is the main economic driver in
       Greater Fort Lauderdale. More than 13
       million people visit every year and spend
over $8 billion during their visits. Those dollars
ripple throughout the community, supporting
as many as 180,000 local jobs.

Visit Lauderdale, a.k.a. the Greater Fort            We are working behind the scenes to
Lauderdale Convention and Visitors Bureau            connect first responders and other travelers
(GFLCVB), develops and manages the                   categorized as essential lodgers with hotels
marketing and promotion of our area as a             that remain open throughout the pandemic.
visitor and meetings destination. We were            On our website and @VisitLauderdale social
off to a great start for 2020 with our hotels        media, you’ll find our “Eat Local” campaign
reporting close to 90% occupancy in February,        with lists of restaurants offering takeout,
and then the spread of the COVID-19 became           drive-thru, curbside, and delivery services.
a global pandemic. The impact on the travel          To stay engaged with future visitors,
industry and the U.S. economy is already             we’re also promoting the many virtual
enormous, but we know that our tourism               experiences offered by our area attractions
industry, and our community, is resilient.           and museums.

This challenge will not define us. Until it is       Our travel sales team has turned this
safe to invite visitors to return, we all need       challenging time period into a great online
to support each other and remember that              learning experience for kids that teaches
even during times of social distancing, our          them math, science, history, geography,
award-winning Greater Together message of            and more using locations and situations
welcome applies right here in our community.         throughout Greater Fort Lauderdale. Once
For the time being the GFLCVB is focusing on         they complete all the subjects, they
several initiatives that allow us to celebrate       become certified Visit Lauderdale Junior
and support local businesses and at the same         Ambassadors and are encouraged to invite
time recognize the people who are emerging           their friends and family members to visit
as true local heroes.                                while they play tour guide. I invite you to join
                                                     your kids for this engaging program found at
Every one of you probably knows at least one         www.Sunny.org/Junior-Ambassador.
person who has done something selfless
or amazing during the crisis. Maybe it's an          When local, state, and national travel
employer that is against all odds keeping            industry partners agree it is safe, we’ll be so
employees on the payroll, or someone who             excited to extend our welcoming message
has lost their job, but is volunteering to raise     of diversity to visitors. Until then, stay safe,
money to deliver food to those who are out           be well, and remember, we truly are Greater
of work, or someone helping to support our           Together.
medical workers. We invite you to submit
their stories of courage and kindness at             Sincerely,
www.Sunny.org/Lauderdale-Heroes so we can            Stacy Ritter
share this news.                                     President / CEO, GFLCVB

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THE JOY OF LENDING
By Kip Reynolds

L
     ending in the United States is happening,
     but it’s not the easiest process and can
     be very invasive, stressful, and often
exhausting.

                                                                                                         Photo Courtesy of Kip Reynolds
Any Realtor worth their salt should always
ask you if you have your pre-qualification(s)
or pre-approval letter. Don’t be surprised if
a professional agent declines showing you
property until you have this letter in hand.
Be grateful you’ve aligned yourself with an
experienced leader.

To acquire this letter, you will need to submit    Settlement statement from previous home
a minor amount of information, so the lender       sale, if applicable
can get a general sense of your ability to repay
the sum you require. A good lender will help       Bear in mind that the above is very general. Some
you to understand the fundamental difference       loan programs have specific requirements. For
between what you can afford and what you           example, if you are a veteran you will need to
should afford. They will clearly share the terms   provide your certificate of eligibility in addition
of the mortgages available to you for your         to other specialized pieces of information.
situation.
                                                   The lender will collect all documents, review, and
The proof is in the pudding, so be prepared        provide another list of requested documents.
for the standard repeated requests for             Often the lender will request the same document
information. In addition to things like valid      many times. The best way to handle this little
identification, some general information           joy of lending is to be extremely organized. Use
needed will be:                                    the cloud to safely store these documents
                                                   with clear file names so that you can easily
Pay stubs for the last 30 days                     answer any request quickly without too much
                                                   anxiety. Letters of Explanation (LOE), often
Last two federal tax returns                       required to “source” funds, are another slightly
                                                   invasive demand, but necessary and standard
Last two W-2s                                      practice, if you want to acquire a mortgage.

Proof of any additional income                     A good realtor will coach you well in advance
                                                   so you are prepared for these requests and
Last two statements on all bank accounts           requirements. Having someone in your corner
                                                   that will help you understand the lay of the
Statements for all        investment     and/or    land will minimize many of the hurdles in the
retirement accounts                                home buying process.

                                                                Kip Reynolds, PA CRS
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                                                   901 E Las Olas Blvd., Ft Lauderdale
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                       2020 SENIOR EXEMPTIONS

R
       esidents who have applied for             communication with our office can
       the 2020 Low-Income Senior                be handled via email, fax, phone, or by
       Exemption, but have not yet               USPS mail. Residents can email any
provided the supporting income                   documentation directly to our Customer
documentation, still have plenty of time         Service Department at CSEmgmt@BCPA.
to do so. Many residents have contacted          net or fax to (954) 357-6188. If you prefer
our office concerned about having the            to mail your information, our mailing
necessary paperwork in time as the IRS           address is Broward County Property
has extended the 2019 tax filing deadline.       Appraiser, Attn: Customer Service, 115
Applicants have until September 18,              S Andrews Avenue, Room # 111, Fort
2020 to provide our office with a copy of        Lauderdale, FL 33301.
their 2019 Income Tax Return Form 1040
or SSA-1099, as well as any additional           Once it is safe to do so, our office will
supporting documentation for their               return to our regular schedule of visiting
exemption application.                           communities to assist with filing for
                                                 exemptions and answering any questions
Our office will be mailing Senior                residents may have. In the meantime, we
Exemption receipts in mid-June to                are always here to help. Please do not
all residents who have completed                 hesitate to contact our office directly at
their application along with income              (954) 357-6830 or email me at
verification. Any exemption applications         MartyKiar@BCPA.net.
approved after this mailing will show on
the 2020 TRIM (proposed tax) Notice              Take care,
mailed by our office in August.

During   these    uncertain     times,    all    Marty Kiar, CFA

 Marty Kiar is the Broward County Property Appraiser and longtime advocate for LGBTQ equality.
 The Broward County Property Appraiser’s Office is located at
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RUNNING WITH RATS
By Eric Noel Roman

T
      he temperature is typical for a January
      evening, it is Saturday night, Sunday
      morning 2:00AM. I just finished working
and am sitting in the Aventura Mall parking lot
lacing my running shoes. I am the only car in
the lot and there is a stillness everywhere. I
have to run a minimum of ten miles tonight
before bed. Not the safest time to be out
running, luckily I chose an affluent area to hit
the pavement. I have a goal, in three months
I have to be prepared to run a 100 mile
endurance race.

Aventura mall has become a tourist                 scurrying alongside me.
destination, filled with high-end shopping
and opportunity to see a celebrity. Fancy high     I finished one lap around and did not see the
rises create a three mile circle using the mall    eerie cat again. However, I managed to catch a
as the main gate. Just behind the mall sits        glimpse of what was causing all of the rustling
Turnberry Isle Country Club and golf course.       of the bushes. As soon as I noticed what was
This city is beautiful, by day the hustle and      running alongside me I could not help but
bustle of commerce act as the heart beat of        realize that this city has the same problems
the city. At night, the city has many wonderful    every city has. Rats, and quite a few of them.
restaurants and social spaces to gather. The       I have seen these rats all over Miami in the
golf course has a walking path circling it         past: buildings, homes, businesses, schools.
measuring a whopping 2.8 miles.                    You name it they are there or have been there.

This city is gorgeous. I began my run this late    Rats, found in every aspect of life, no matter
night looking around. To one side I have the       how pretty things are, or how well things are
lavish lifestyles of some of the more affluent     kept. There is always a dark side to things.
residents of South Florida. To my other side,      Sometimes it is unavoidable to find yourself in
I have the golf course sitting quietly, unlit,     the dead center of their environment. It does
seeming to hide something scary.                   not take much to run past these rats. Just put
                                                   a bit more distance from you and them and
As I ran along the path with Frank Sinatra in my   keep running. Keep the focus on your goals and
headphones playing quietly, I noticed a black      you will finish with little to no issues.
cat perched on a pole of the wooden fence
watching me. A few hundred feet later I see        That night I managed three laps. I finished at
something scurrying along the same fence. I        4:00AM. Only to be nine and a half miles closer
changed my running path from along the fence       to my training for my 100 mile race. I paid no
to the opposite side. I turned the volume down     mind to the rats, stayed focused, and met my
lower on my headphones and could hear things       goal.

Eric Noel Roman DJ, obstacle racer, motivational writer from North Miami Beach, living life one day
                    at a time, and making a difference one person at a time.

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FRONT STEPS PROJECT
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                                  www.michaelmurphy.com

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HOME IS WHERE THE HEROES ARE
SEND US YOUR STORIES OF LOCAL HEROES

W
           e know that part of the reason why we’re greater in Greater Fort Lauderdale is because
           of the heroes that call our community home. During these uncertain times, we’re relying
           on our local heroes more than ever. And while these selfless individuals go above and
beyond for our residents without expecting any recognition, we cannot allow them to go unnoticed
any longer. Their humility is a virtue, and that’s why we need your help identifying and celebrating
our local heroes.

The Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention & Visitors Bureau is collecting these stories to share on
social media @VisitLauderdale, the CVB website, and with the news media. For example, several
local restaurant groups started the Hands for Hospitality (www.GoFundMe.com/F/Hands-For-
HospitalityFTL) fund that is raising money going directly to hourly restaurant employees now out
of work due to the shutdown of dining room service at local restaurants.

What is a Hero?
We think it’s a person who exceeds all expectations in order to help others. They’re doctors, nurses,
and first responders. They’re bus drivers and airport and seaport workers. They’re restaurant and
retail employees just to name a few. They’re our neighbors, our friends, and our family. So, join us in
recognizing those who give us hope when we’re hopeless, courage when we’re afraid, and a much-
needed reminder that home is where the heroes are.

Heroes and heroic acts include, but are not limited to:

  People spreading kindness                          Businesses, individuals, or organizations
  Doctors                                            providing for unemployed and furloughed
  Nurses                                             workers
  First responders                                   Hospitality workers going above and beyond
  County employees                                   helping someone who is a first responder or
  Bus drivers                                        staying in a hotel during the crisis
  Airport workers                                    Groups or individuals creating something
  Seaport workers                                    beautiful like art, music, or entertainment to
  Restaurant employees                               make people feel better
  Retail employees                                   Someone who shopped for a person that
  Businesses donating to the healthcare              is unable to leave their home – delivered
  industry                                           groceries, picked up medications

How to help: Share your nominations, stories, and photos so we can tell the stories of the people
doing good in the community. If you have a story of a local hero that you’d like to share, please fill
out a submission at www.Sunny.org/Partners/Industry-Updates/Submit-A-Local-Hero or email at
GFLMarketing@Broward.org.

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HELPING OUR SMALL BUSINESS COMMUNITY
By Rod Davis
CEO, BBB Serving Southeast Florida and the Caribbean

S
        mall businesses are the heart of every    Ways to Support Small Businesses
        community. Imagine your town or city      Shop Now: If  you are able to make a purchase
        without your favorite restuarant, gift    now, contact your local business favorites
shop, bar, spa, nursery, dentist, landscaper,     and find out what options are available. Most
etc. It would not be the same place.              businesses are finding ways to continue to
                                                  operate within the new social distancing
According to research from Funding Circle,        and safety precaution guidelines. Technology
52% of small businesses contribute to charity     permits businesses to engage with
and 90% of those dollars go to support local      customers, collaborate and share pictures and
charities. These same businesses also             information whether using SKYPE®, Zoom®,
sponsor local events, sports teams, and           or other tools. Is it time to give your landscape
other community gatherings. A study by Civic      a refresh, repaint your home’s exterior, or
Economics found that for every $100 you spend     power wash your roof? Talk to your favorite
with a local business, $68 are spent in our       contractor, or request bids at:
communities. Only $43 stays in the local market   www.SEFlorida.App.BBB.org/Connect.
when spending $100 with a national brand.
                                                  Maybe you have been putting off a purchase
Every day we see the negative impact on           or know what you want to buy for a birthday
employment due to COVID-19. According to          or holiday present. Local businesses can
the Small Business Administration, small          use the revenue now and you will avoid
businesses employ over 60 million people          last minute buying down the road. Many
and half of the non governmental workforce.       restaurants and stores are also making gift
These business owners employ people in our        certificates available. Two national websites
communities, live in our communities, and         have been set up to help small businesses
support our communities. It is time for us        promote their services: www.Kabbage.com/
to support them for all they have done and        HelpSmallBusiness and www.SupportLocal.
continue to do for us.                            USAToday.com. If your favorite business is not
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currently on the site, you may want to reach        Support Local Employees:
out and encourage them to consider it as            The local unemployment rate has increased
another way to feature their great products,        dramatically over the last few weeks.
food, or services.                                  While all industries have been hit hard, the
                                                    hospitality sector, according to CNBC, has
Restaurants and bars/breweries have adapted         by far the largest number and percentage
to provide food and growlers for pick up and/       of workers now unemployed. Local groups
or delivery. Many restaurants offer delivery        are creating funding campaigns to help.
directly or through apps like GrubHub®,             Miami-Dade and Broward Counties have
Delivery Dudes®, or UberEats®. If you want          GoFundMe® campaigns set up for workers
to continue to enjoy dinner out at your favorite    in the hospitality sectors:www.GoFundMe.
restaurant after COVID-19 is no longer a health     com/F/MiamiRestaurantEmployeeReliefFund
threat, then we need to continue to support our     and        www.GoFundMe.com/F/Hands-For-
local hospitality sector by picking it up, having   HospitalityFTL.
food delivered, or buying a gift certificate for
future use.                                         There are many other campaigns set up and
                                                    operating throughout our area for people
Creative Ways to Support Business:                  and groups negatively affected by COVID-19.
Under our current Emergency Orders, some            Always review any giving options to make sure
businesses are unable to provide service to         they are established for worthy causes and
the public, but many are still hard at work         going to those designated in the giving request
for us. Letting other family and friends know       before you share your hard earned money.
how a business is continuing to operate
in these trying times might be a lifeline to        Supporting Our Front Line Heroes:
keep them afloat. A short plug on your social       Nurses, doctors, firemen, police officers,
media pages with a recommendation might             people working in our essential businesses,
generate some much needed customers for             and those supporting their work behind the
the business.                                       scenes are putting their lives on the line to
                                                    keep our country and communities operating.
We all have a few extra minutes on our hands        Remember to share your gratitude with them
since most of us are not commuting to and           every day and in meaningful ways. Contact
from work these days. Why not take a few            government officials to ensure they have
minutes to share a positive review about a          needed supplies and equipment, contribute to
favorite contractor, spa, dentist, or other local   the charities supporting our local heroes, and
business you have visited this year that did a      send a thank you note or gift basket. A gift will
great job for you? You can leave a review at        show our appreciation and also help another
www.BBB.org/Leave-A-Review.                         local business!

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ABOUT BIKTARVY                                   right away if you get these symptoms:
                                                 weakness or being more tired than usual,
BIKTARVY is a complete, 1-pill,                  unusual muscle pain, being short of
once-a-day prescription medicine                 breath or fast breathing, stomach pain
used to treat HIV-1 in adults and                with nausea and vomiting, cold or blue
children who weigh at least 55 pounds.           hands and feet, feel dizzy or lightheaded,
It can either be used in people who              or a fast or abnormal heartbeat.
have never taken HIV-1 medicines                Severe liver problems, which in rare
before, or people who are replacing              cases can lead to death. Tell your
their current HIV-1 medicines and                healthcare provider right away if you
whose healthcare provider determines             get these symptoms: skin or the white
they meet certain requirements.                  part of your eyes turns yellow, dark “tea-
BIKTARVY does not cure HIV-1 or AIDS.            colored” urine, light-colored stools, loss
HIV-1 is the virus that causes AIDS.             of appetite for several days or longer,
                                                 nausea, or stomach-area pain.
Do NOT take BIKTARVY if you also take
a medicine that contains:                       The most common side effects of
                                                 BIKTARVY in clinical studies were
 dofetilide                                     diarrhea (6%), nausea (6%), and
 rifampin                                       headache (5%).
 any other medicines to treat HIV-1           These are not all the possible side effects
                                               of BIKTARVY. Tell your healthcare provider
POSSIBLE SIDE EFFECTS OF BIKTARVY              right away if you have any new symptoms
                                               while taking BIKTARVY.
BIKTARVY may cause serious side
effects, including:                            You are encouraged to report negative
                                               side effects of prescription drugs to the
 Those in the “Most Important Information     FDA. Visit www.FDA.gov/medwatch or
  About BIKTARVY” section.                     call 1-800-FDA-1088.
 Changes in your immune system.               Your healthcare provider will need to
  Your immune system may get                   do tests to monitor your health before
  stronger and begin to fight infections.      and during treatment with BIKTARVY.
                                                                     Continued on next page.

Please see Important Facts, including important warnings, continued on the
next page and at BIKTARVY.com.
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               IMPORTANT FACTS FOR BIKTARVY® (CONTINUED)

BEFORE TAKING BIKTARVY                                         BIKTARVY and other medicines
                                                                may affect each other. Ask your
Tell your healthcare provider if you:
                                                                healthcare provider and pharmacist
 Have or have had any kidney or liver                          about medicines that interact with
  problems, including hepatitis infection.                      BIKTARVY, and ask if it is safe to
                                                                take BIKTARVY with all your
 Have any other health problems.
                                                                other medicines.
 Are pregnant or plan to become
  pregnant. It is not known if BIKTARVY                       HOW TO TAKE BIKTARVY
  can harm your unborn baby. Tell your                        Take BIKTARVY 1 time each day with or
  healthcare provider if you become                           without food.
  pregnant while taking BIKTARVY.
 Are breastfeeding (nursing) or plan to                      GET MORE INFORMATION
  breastfeed. Do not breastfeed. HIV-1 can                     This is only a brief summary of important
  be passed to the baby in breast milk.                         information about BIKTARVY. Talk to
Tell your healthcare provider about all                         your healthcare provider or pharmacist
the medicines you take:                                         to learn more.

 Keep a list that includes all prescription                   Go to BIKTARVY.com or call
  and over-the-counter medicines,                               1-800-GILEAD-5
  antacids, laxatives, vitamins, and herbal                    If you need help paying for your
  supplements, and show it to your                              medicine, visit BIKTARVY.com for
  healthcare provider and pharmacist.                           program information.

                                                                     Please see Important Facts,
                                                                       including important warnings
                                                                         above and at BIKTARVY.com.

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PINK SUB & CATERING AND FABSCOUT
OUT AND PROVIDING MEALS FOR OUR COMMUNITY
By Steven O. Evans, PhD
Photo Courtesy of Michael Murphy Photographic

T
       hese times of crisis have brought        our community in this time of need.
       out some of the best in people.
       Dawn Holloway of Pink Sub &              I have been onsite almost every time,
Catering and Howard Andrew from FabScout        and the joy that they express cannot be
Entertainment have been working together        described. I went by just this past week.
to provide free, hot meals to our community.    Their smiles (even behind the masks)
Each week at various locations, they and        made my day.
their teams have distributed hundreds of
hot meals. Drive by. No touch. No questions     Dawn said, “It really is time to give back to
asked. And maybe best of all, cheerful          people who have taken care of us. The one
smiles.                                         thing we can do is feed people.”

I’ve been in touch with Dawn and Howard         The next give back (as of this writing) will
about this project. They have been so           be Friday and dedicated to Roy Rollins who
excited about being able to just give back to   recently passed.

       Contact Dawn or Howard on Facebook® about how to participate.

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WHAT MAKES US CLIQUE
   TOM PIETROGALLO, CEO
                 THE POVERELLO CENTER
  Photography and written by Andrew Armano | www.AndyArmano.com
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T                                                  TP
      his series focuses on individuals who                 We still have our food pantry open
      give to our community and make a                      and we are offering safe ways for
      positive impact on the lives of others.      our clients to access nutritious food. Our
Often it is through our personal adversities       thrift store is closed and we rely heavily on
that we discover who we are and transform          the income from the thrift store to fund our
the challenges into strength.                      programs, so it is difficult.

Tom Pietrogallo, CEO of Poverello, sat with        We have had some immediate support from
us to talk about the good work Poverello is        some of our existing relationships. AHF
doing and about his journey personally and         (AIDS Healthcare Foundation) has provided
professionally. Poverello runs a wildly popular    assistance. Target® has come through for
thrift store which helps fund its programs,        us, and we have looked for ways we can help
including its food bank. Tom’s background          others. Poverello has space in Pompano that
as a social worker with an MBA makes him           we realized United Way could use to help food
especially qualified to lead Poverello. Tom’s      delivery to Veterans.
personal story and values are an inspiration,
and it's OutClique’s honor to share his wisdom,
resilience, and encouragement during the
COVID-19 pandemic.
                                                   AA
                                                   career?
                                                             Have you been working with people
                                                             affected by HIV/AIDS your whole

Andrew Armano: As we speak, we are in the
midst of the COVID-19 pandemic. All but
essential businesses are closed. We are under
                                                   TP       Basically, yes. Before I was at
                                                            Poverello, I was working at Care
                                                   Resource, but all the way back in the beginning
a “safer at home” guideline. Every aspect of our   of my career I was in child protection and many
lives has been affected. There is uncertainty      of the people I worked with had HIV/AIDS.
about the future. Those of us of a certain age     They were facing serious issues such as child
lived through the worst of the AIDS crisis.        custody arrangements or planning for their
Are there insights or wisdom our generation        kids after they were gone. Of course, as a gay
can share with everyone now when we are all        man, I also had my own thoughts about my
facing this shared COVID-19 pandemic?              mortality and future. So, the personal and the
                                                   professional aspect of the crisis was difficult
Tom Pietrogallo: We understand how rich a          to navigate.
single contribution to someone's life can be.
We know what a difference someone who
simply leaned into our lives made. Of course,
we have to protect ourselves, but that doesn’t
                                                   AA       The face of HIV/AIDS is changing. How
                                                            does Poverello adapt to meet the
                                                   different needs of its constituents?
mean we can’t find ways to lean in, to help.
We have an advantage because we have lived
through something that taught us lessons
which can be applied now. We have a program
                                                   TP        We have to listen to the people who
                                                             need our services. Just because I am
                                                   HIV positive, doesn’t mean I have the same
to help people in emergency situations, so         life experiences or needs as someone else.
individuals, even those who might not be our       We have to see the world through their eyes:
core constituents, can request assistance at       How does it feel for someone to come into
Intake@Poverello.org.                              the food pantry and ask for assistance with
                                                   food? That's not an easy thing to do for a lot of

AA      How has the pandemic affected
        Poverello?
                                                   people. We want to ensure their reaching out
                                                   for help is not fraught with barriers and shame.

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AA      What drew you to social work in the
        first place?
                                                    you want to do.

TP      I was the little kid that was a mess
        on the playground because if someone
                                                    AA       Were you raised in a religious
                                                             environment?

was hitting someone else, I would cry. It
bothered me. I've always had that sense of
deep concern and care. It's been there since I
                                                    TP       Yeah. I was raised in an evangelical
                                                             home.

was a small, small kid.
                                                    AA      What was that like for you growing up
                                                            with that? Some fundamental religions

AA     I sense you have a spirituality within
       that innate compassion you have.
                                                    can be pretty conservative and moralistic.

Would you say that is true?
                                                    TP      My family is very loving and accepting.
                                                            I didn't really experience any of

TP      Yes. Even as a child I was drawn to the
        feeling that there is a God who cares
about you and wants to have a relationship
                                                    the judgmental culture until I got to a very
                                                    conservative Christian college I attended,
                                                    Grand Rapids Baptist College [now Cornerstone
with you.                                           University].

AA      How do you nurture that connection?
        How do you prevent burn-out?                AA       Was that a big culture shock?

TP      When I need to take time to recharge
        from dealing with some really serious
problems that people experience all the time,
                                                    TP       It really was. As a young kid, I guess
                                                             I expected this was going to be
                                                    kumbaya every day, but it really was something
I have to find a way to let all that go. As a       very different; a lot darker than that, to be
sensitive person I have to do this.                 honest. For me, I think mainly because I didn't
                                                    experience that growing up in it, growing up in

AA       I understand exactly what you're
         talking about because, actually, I'm
like that, too. I noticed that you have a Masters
                                                    my family and in my church. It didn't shake me
                                                    to my core or it didn't deter me from faith. My
                                                    faith came out of that unscathed.
in Social Work and an MBA. That's quite an
accomplishment!
                                                    AA        Yeah. I was raised to be careful
                                                              when listening to anyone in a pulpit.

TP       Nobody really shows you in social work
         school how to create a yearly budget
or how to manage the HR issues that you may
                                                    It doesn't matter whether they're a spiritual
                                                    guru, a church leader, a dean of a university,
                                                    or a boss. The letter of the law that they are
have. I did the weekend MBA up at FAU. It was       passing down, I look at it to be sure it's fair,
an amazing experience learning that aspect of       that it's not self-serving, that it's not too rigid.
what I think of as caring, the caring business.

AA       That brings us to the practical side of
         caring - the business administration.
                                                    TP       Right. Exactly. I agree with you
                                                             wholeheartedly because the thing
                                                    that resonates with me is thinking about
It’s essential.                                     loving God and then loving your neighbor. The
                                                    point is to ask yourself how do you best do

TP      Without that you really aren't enabled
        to do all of the wonderful things that
                                                    that? Well, from my perspective, you have to
                                                    prepare yourself. You have to look at what the

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needs are. You have to respond appropriately.

AA       What has Poverello been able to
         accomplish recently that you are
really excited to see come to fruition?

TP       We have embarked on a project to
         help people in our system who are not
virally suppressed. We needed to help them
navigate whatever difficulties that impacted
their treatment. We just did our numbers from
last year and we are at 90% viral suppression,
up from 80%. We're very proud of that.

AA      That's fantastic. Poverello isn’t a
        healthcare provider. How did you
achieve that?

TP       I'm very proud of what our team has
         been able to do. It's not just me sitting
in this office that did it. It’s the people at the
front at the food pantry who have shown
compassion and a willingness to talk with our
clients about something that a lot of people
find really difficult to talk with others in a non
threatening way. When an individual is ready
for assistance, he or she then feels safe
talking to our staff.

AA      That's really innovative. Circling back
        to where we started, the COVID-19
pandemic, you spend so much effort helping
others. What can others do to help Poverello?

TP      We need funds. We need more
        volunteers that are willing to actually
drive and do a no-touch delivery right now. If
someone's sick at home with what might be
this new virus, they still don't want to infect
someone else. We really need people and we
need resources.

AA      Thank you for all that you do for others.
        It's been inspirational to speak with you.

TP       Thank you for helping us get the word
         out about Poverello.

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ARE WE TAKING A TEST?
By Rev. Patrick Rogers, MDiv.

L
     et’s talk about the 2020 COVID-19
     pandemic. Are you feeling anxious and
     restless from staying home and the
need to isolate? Do you feel lonely? Do you
miss your friends, co-workers, family, and
your social circle? Do you feel depressed? Do
you feel grief and loss from losing your daily
routine? Are you worried about or have you lost
your job? Do you miss celebrating Passover
or Easter with your spiritual family? Are you
an essential worker and undergoing risk and
danger from being exposed to the virus?

It can feel like the plagues we read about in           today that this virus is punishment or a lesson
the Old Testament. Yet the water in our Fort            from God! How sad! Their theology has not
Lauderdale canals haven’t turned to blood, the          changed or evolved in the last fifty years since
canals also aren’t filled with frogs or flies. But,     I was a child myself. What should evolve is our
Job’s story did include death and incredibly            interpretation of Job’s challenges.
challenging times.
                                                        We can endure all things through strong faith! No
The most impactful difference between the               matter what the cause, or how bad the situation,
time of Job’s plagues and the pandemic of 2020          love does prevail. Job’s love of God prevailed!
is how the two different times in history can           Just look at the outpour of love that has sprung
be perceived by humankind. Many of us were              forth regarding the challenges expressed in the
taught growing up that Job’s story is about God         first paragraph of this article. There are people
testing Job’s faith. In the Bible, the plaques          concerned about others who never had felt the
were actually put on to Job by Satan, not God. So       need to help others before. There are multiple
often we have reconfigured the story to believe         fundraisers for hospitality employees and others
that God was intentionally testing Job. It wasn’t       out of work. There is food being distributed and
God, but it was Satan attempting to prove to            meals cooked and given by people who care
God that he could break Job’s will, dedication,         about people. Being isolated has helped us
and faith in God. A totally different story.            realize the difference between being connected
                                                        electronically and in person. A real hug will never
We were erroneously taught in Sunday School             be the same to me after enduring this pandemic.
and by our preachers that God tests us, God’s           I will never take that for granted again. I am not
children. I don’t believe that God sits around          diminishing the struggles and challenges still
and is bored and takes a look at your or my life,       occurring, but I do know that God is in our midst.
and when things are going well decides to test
you or me in order for us to prove our “faith”          I don’t profess to have all the answers because
and “dedication.” What loving parent would do           who even knows what the future holds, but I do
that to a child? I believe in God as patient, kind,     know that my faith in God has always prevailed
compassionate, loving, and forgiving!                   even when I questioned where God was or could
                                                        not imagine any solution. I believe in God and
Some modern-day preachers are professing                that is not going to change!

                         Rev. Patrick Rogers, MDiv. – Community Activist and Senior Pastor
                                     at United Church of Christ Fort Lauderdale
                      Photo Courtesy of Rev. Patrick Rogers, MDiv.

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THAT DREAD YOU FEEL ISN’T COVID-19
By Stephen Fallon, PhD

T
       here’s a hum of fear deep in your mind. Maybe you
       blame it on the relentless COVID-19 news coverage.
       The gap between ratings-pumping hysteria and the
White House’s “nothing to see here” script doesn’t make
you feel confident that the greatest nation has a handle on

                                                                                                         The Scream by Edvard Munch
this pandemic. Compulsively checking the local tally of new
COVID-19 cases every single day probably doesn’t make you
feel calmer, either. Meanwhile, parades of faceless people in
masks everywhere remind you of some apocalyptic movies.

If you haven’t acquired COVID-19, and no one close to you
has fallen dangerously ill, why are so many of us tossing and
turning in bed, and feeling unmotivated all day?

Uncertainty is unsettling. We don’t know when       that somehow your body senses you’re going
this outbreak will pass. New information about      to be the next to fall ill? Actually, your mood
coronavirus keeps revising what we thought          is more a function of evolution than prophecy.
was true just weeks before.
                                                    Self-isolation triggers ancient alarm bells. Our
Helplessness    is   unsettling.Unlike our          bodies are screaming (through chemical
ancestors, we’re not used to staying on alert       imbalances), trying to get our attention, and
for invisible enemies that can take people          warn us to get back to the group, where we’re
down in everyday life. When people die, it’s        programmed to feel safest. As the classic
supposed to make sense. Heart attack? His           R&B song put it: “I’m so tired of being alone.
diet was awful. Cancer? Everyone knew he            I’m so tired of on my own.”
smoked too much. Now we hear of people
dying and no one knows why. Maybe the virus         Mother Nature actually hard-wired into us an
got onto the change they got back at the            impulse to gather in close groups for safety.
                                                    [1] For our ancestors, it was being alone that
supermarket. Maybe the package delivery guy
coughed. Maybe it was the hand-shaking at           put you at risk, not being too close to people.
church. Who knows?                                  Alone, you could freeze to death outdoors, or
                                                    die after a fall because no one was there to
COVID-19 upsets our usual answer to the             patch you up, or get killed by a predator or rival
eternal question: “Why?” It upends our “just        tribe.
world belief,” the conviction that bad things
only happen for predictable reasons. That faith     Even today, Mother Nature gives us positive
was never really justified; random tragedy          reinforcement when we stay close to other
happens. It was just a comforting myth, until       humans. Partners and close friends who see
it mocked its validity. Still, you’re pretty sure   each other every day smooth out one another’s
that you’re taking the best steps you can           emotional spikes through an automatic,
to keep yourself safe — maintaining social          unnoticed chemical reaction called “limbic
distance from other people, and wearing a           regulation.”[2] After a loved one dies, surviving
face mask when you rush through the store for       spouses who maintain strong social circles
provisions. So why do you still feel a gnawing      double their own survival rates. Even having
dread? Does your persistent anxiety mean            a dog or a cat helps because all mammals

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unconsciously transmit this emotional tether                collapse created helpful coping tools.
line to others.[3]
                                                            Allow yourself to grieve. Denial doesn’t make
On the other hand, if we’re alone too much,                 problems go away; they just fester. Allow
we literally risk our health. Men who live alone            yourself to note that this situation is crummy
without close friends show higher levels                    and not fair. In your mind (or even on paper), tell
of inflammatory chemical markers in their                   the COVID-19 all the ways that it’s messing
bloodstream (C-reactive protein, interleukin-6,             with your life. Then take a deep breath, and try
and fibrinogen).[4] These chemicals make                    to reframe to happier thoughts.
them feel anxious. Often, solitary men try to
quiet the chemical alarms with excessive                    Celebrate better times. Concentration camp
alcohol use and drugs.                                      prisoners would build community and resiliency
                                                            by describing in great detail the bountiful meals
People who are partnered or married typically               they’d once enjoyed together. Veterans in war
outlive those who are single. Among the                     zones would fortify hopes for civilian life by
elderly, the risk of premature death is three-              sharing photos of their sweetheart back home.
to-five times higher for those who live                     Families scraping by during the Depression
alone.[5] All ages are impacted. When minor                 would gather around a last treasured item,
diseases swept through orphanages in the                    seeing it as a talisman to a better future.
13th century[6] and again in the 1940s,[7] they
didn’t just cause a few little ones to fall ill.            Tell your body that things are normal. If you
They wiped out huge numbers of infants who                  stay up all night binging Netflix®, and eat only
shared just one common trait: they were the                 junk foods, you’ll throw your body on a roller
ones not regularly cuddled and touched.                     coaster of chemical changes. Try to maintain
                                                            your regular diet and sleep times. If you
Loneliness isn’t “just” an emotion. When                    exercised in a gym, find ways to improvise at
people feel a loss of a relationship, the part of           home. Select take-out food or groceries that
the brain that activates is the same part that              are similar to your usual meals. You’ll keep
lights up when the body is painfully injured.[8]            your daily clock (known as circadian rhythms)
Yet today, this innate security impulse for                 better aligned, and you’ll feel more yourself.
grouping together is the very source of our risk
of COVID-19. Our wiring hasn’t adapted. Can                 Even if we can’t be together during this lonely
you rewrite these primitive scripts, so that                time, you’re not alone in what you’re feeling.
you can both stay safe and not feel awful?                  We’ll make it through these days of anxiety.
Survivors of wars, famines, and economic                    This won’t last forever.

     Dr. Fallon is the Executive Director of Latinos Salud. www.LatinosSalud.org
[1] Diamond J. Guns, Germs, and Steel: The Fate of Human Societies. New York: W.W. Norton, 1997.
[2] Money, J. Love and Sickness: The Science of Sex, Gender Difference, and Pair-Bonding. 1980, Baltimore: Johns
Hopkins University Press.
[3] Lewis, Thomas, et al. A General Theory of Love. New York: Random House, 2000.
[4] AHA Scientific Sessions 2003: Abstract 3378. Presented Nov. 11, 2003.
[5] Ornish D. Love and Survival: The Scientific Basis for the Healing Power of Intimacy. New York: Harper Collins,
1998.
[6] Coulton G.G. St. Francis to Dante. London: David Nutt Press, 1906, p. 242-243. Cited in Lewis T, et al. A General
Theory of Love. New York: Vintage Books, 2000, p. 68-69.
[7] Spitz R. “Hospitalism: An Inquiry into the Genius of Psychiatric Conditions in Early Childhood.” Psychoanalytic
Study of the Child 1945; I:53-74.
[8] Eisenberger N, Lieberman M, and Williams K. “Does Rejection Hurt? An fMRI Study of Social Exclusion. Science,
October 10, 2003, 302: 290-296.

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WHAT HAPPENS AFTER A STROKE

A
       lmost 800,000 Americans suffer               impaired limbs and teach compensatory
       a stroke each year. Approximately            strategies to lessen the impact of remaining
       two-thirds of them survive and need          deficits.
rehabilitation. Rehabilitation plays a vital role
in helping stroke victims regain their ability to   Occupational therapy is geared to helping
take care of themselves and achieve the best        patients relearn skills necessary for daily
possible quality of life.                           living, such as getting dressed, combing
                                                    hair, preparing meals, or doing housework.
The types and degrees of disability experienced     Occupational therapists may go to a patient’s
after a stroke will depend on the area of the       home and suggest ways to make it more
brain that is damaged. In general, stroke can       safe and accessible. For example, they may
cause five different types of disabilities:         recommend installing grab bars in the bathroom
                                                    or removing rugs that could cause a fall.
  paralysis or difficulty controlling movement
                                                    Speech therapy is done to re-educate stroke
  sensory problems                                  patients about all aspects relating to speech,
                                                    including how to speak, understand, read, write,
  trouble understanding or using language           solve problems, and even swallow. Depending
                                                    on the extent of the language problem, speech
  challenges with thinking or memory                therapists can use pictures or demonstrate
                                                    how to perform tasks several times or in a
  emotional disturbances                            different way to help the patient communicate.

Rehabilitation usually begins within a day or two   It is common for patients to become
after the stroke. It may start with prompting       depressed after having a stroke. Signs of
the patient to change positions often while         depression include sleep disturbances, change
lying in bed and engaging in range-of-motion        in eating patterns, fatigue, irritability, lethargy,
exercises to strengthen limbs affected by the       weight fluctuations, and social withdrawal.
stroke. Therapy may then continue in inpatient      Treating depression can include increased
rehabilitation units (where the patient stays       social activity, psychological counseling, or
at the facility while undergoing therapy),          antidepressant medications.
outpatient units (where patients can spend
several hours a day, but not stay overnight),       The success of a rehabilitation program depends
or home-based rehabilitation (where                 on patient cooperation and commitment.
rehabilitation is done in the patient’s home).      Although therapy sessions may be scheduled
                                                    several times a week, it is important to do
Rehabilitation typically involves three kinds of    therapeutic exercises every day. Because the
therapy: physical, occupational, and speech.        risk of having a stroke is higher for people
Physical therapy is designed to help patients       who have already had one, following a healthy
deal with motor and sensory impairments.            lifestyle is important. Stroke patients should
Physical therapists work with patients to           eat healthy, be as physically active as possible,
improve strength, endurance, range-of-motion,       control conditions that contribute to stroke or
gait abnormalities, and sensory problems. They      recurrent stroke such as high blood pressure,
educate survivors how to regain use of stroke-      and follow their doctor’s orders.

Our physician referral service can provide a wealth of information about our doctors and help you
                            make an appointment. Find a physician now
             1-833-764-5452 or visit www.FloridaMedCtr.com for more information.

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A COMMITMENT TO LGBTQ+ HEALTHCARE
MINDFUL AND COMMITTED TO HOLISTIC HEALTH
By Care Resource

C
       are Resource is a nonprofit, Federally
       Qualified Health Center (FQHC) with
       locations in Midtown Miami, Little
Havana, Miami Beach, and Fort Lauderdale.
Since its founding 35 years ago, Care
Resource has shown dedication to LGBTQ+
healthcare and the health of South Florida’s
underserved communities. The health center
is continuously recognized as a leader in
LGBTQ+ Healthcare Equality Index (HEI).
Care Resource’s best practices in LGBTQ+
care include, but are not limited to: an Equal
Employment Opportunity Policy to ensure
non-discrimination in management practices
and decisions, LGBTQ+ Patient Training for
staff, and an LGBTQ-inclusive patient non-
discrimination policy. Care Resource chats
with one of their own, Robert Goubeaux, DO,
Medical Director at Care Resource.

In this short interview, Dr. Robert Goubeaux     to join Care Resource. After learning about
shares lessons and experiences gained from       the center’s commitment to the community,
working with the LGBTQ+ community. In his        I decided to make the change. In April 2016,
four years of service with Care Resource, he     I accepted the position and began to serve
has remained mindful of the overall health       as Medical Director of the Miami Beach/
needs of LGBTQ+ patients.                        Midtown offices in November 2016.

Care Resource: Tell us about your
professional background. How did you find
your way to Care Resource?
                                                 CR      When you first began to practice,
                                                         what was the general understanding
                                                 of LGBTQ+ healthcare?

Robert Goubeaux, DO: I completed my family
practice residency in 1997 and then I joined
a group practice where I stayed for about
                                                 RG       At the time, it was still very taboo
                                                          to speak of LGBTQ+ health issues;
                                                 the environment for LGBTQ+ healthcare
19 years. During that time I was also the        was not positive. Often, people who were
Family Practice Program Director and it          LGBTQ+ weren’t comfortable going into the
just so happened that my chief resident at       doctor’s office because they didn’t know
the time was Dr. Sheryl Zayas who became         whether they would be welcome. Back
Care Resource’s Medical Director after she       then, because of HIV, people were really
graduated from residency! Dr. Zayas had          discriminated against. Doctors refused to
reached out to me several times to invite me     see patients who had HIV and would make

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