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                                                                                                             “I do wish my mom and dad and my
                                                                                                          brother, Carter were alive to meet Wyatt,”
        OF JOY AND MOMENTS                         about his plans to have a baby.
                                                      Cooper’s father, who died when he was 10
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                                                      His son’s middle name, Morgan, is a name            life and new love.”
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TERRY FLEMING, GAY DEMOCRATIC
     ACTIVIST, DEAD AT 58
                      John McDonald

    T
          erry Fleming, a longtime
          Florida gay rights activist,
          died Tuesday.
          Fleming was 58.
   The cause of death had yet to be disclosed to the public.
Fleming died in Gainesville, where he was a well-known
activist and Co-President of the Pride Community Center of
North Central Florida.
   He was described in a local NPR report as a “patriot in the
best sense of the word.”
   “He was always so busy, so vibrant, doing multiple
things and doing them well,” said Susan Bottcher, a former
Gainesville city commissioner.
   Bottcher met Fleming in 2004 on the John Kerry
presidential campaign. She quickly noticed his commanding
presence in the political arena.
   “Terry was a presence,” Bottcher recalled. She considered
Fleming one of her political mentors, but was intimidated
when they first met. In joining the fight for equal rights,
Bottcher said she learned to appreciate Fleming’s skills for
planning and solutions.
   “Terry always kept a finger on the pulse of the opposition,”
Bottcher said.
                                                                                                                                                           Terry Fleming. Photo via PBCHRC, Facebook.
   Fleming held many distinctions in North
Florida and statewide. As Horacio Sierra, a
Florida historian notes, he created the Stonewall
                                                        “CARRYING                    “We are all in shock and mourning the loss        light years ahead of other municipalities on LGBTQ equality
Democrats of Alachua County and helped bring
the LGBT Florida Caucus meeting to Gainesville.
                                                        ON TERRY’S                our dear friend and dedicated colleague, Terry
                                                                                  Fleming,” Palm Beach County resident Stephen
                                                                                                                                       — not just in Florida, but across the country. The Florida
                                                                                                                                       LGBTQ+ Democratic Caucus sends our condolences to
   “He ran the Pride Center there,” said Sierra,        WORK WILL                 Gaskill said.                                        Terry’s husband and family, his community and colleagues.”
a faculty member at Bowie State University in
Maryland.                                                TAKE ALL                    Gaskill now serves as president of the caucus
                                                                                  Fleming once led. Fleming served as vice
                                                                                                                                          Added Michael Albetta, caucus past president and Fort
                                                                                                                                       Lauderdale resident:
   Fleming was a founding member of the
Gainesville area’s first center for the LGBT              OF US.”                 president and president of the caucus. During
                                                                                  the 2016 presidential campaign, a bow-tied
                                                                                                                                          “Terry had everything you wanted in a leader: a steady
                                                                                                                                       hand, a smart political mind, experience, compassion and
community almost 20 years ago and according            - Tamara Perry-Lunardo
                                                                                  Fleming introduced New Jersey Senator Cory           empathy, a humble heart for service, and an infectious spirit
to a prepared statement from the organization,          CO-PRESIDENT OF THE       Booker at a Democratic party gala in Hollywood.      that inspired people to work together for a common purpose.
“remained a driving force behind its services             PRIDE COMMUNITY            “He was one of the giants of our community        For more than 20 years, I’ve counted on Terry for his counsel,
and events, which grew substantially under his            CENTER OF NORTH         who dedicated his life and career to service,”       hard work, and belief in our mission of equality for all. We’ve
                                                           CENTRAL FLORIDA
leadership.”                                                                      Gaskill said, in a press release. “First as a Navy   lost one of the greats.”
   “Carrying on Terry’s work will take all of us,”                                veteran, then as a mentor and supporter of              Tampa resident Sally Phillips, who handed the caucus
co-president Tamara Perry-Lunardo said in the statement. LGBTQ youth, as a policy advocate fighting for LGBTQ                          reigns over to Fleming, had this to say about his death:
“Not just the Board and our regular volunteers, but everyone equality, and as a Democratic activist electing pro-equality                 “Terry moved the Florida LGBTQ+ Caucus to another level
in our local community who shares the passion Terry had for candidates.                                                                of influence within our state,” Phillips posted on Facebook.
serving others, working for LGBTQ+ visibility and equality,            “Terry is a leader who can never be replaced. He brought        “He is loved by so many, including me, and he will certainly
and creating a safe space for people to be themselves.”             decades of experience and institutional knowledge combined         be missed. Ercilia and I send loving condolences to his
   News of Fleming’s death began to spread on social media with a humble spirit and ‘get it done’ attitude. Because of                 husband, his entire family and all who love him. We pray
Wednesday, disrupting Democrats across the Sunshine State. Terry’s leadership, Alachua County and Gainesville have been                they find peace in this very difficult time.”

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NEWS STATE                                                                                                                                                    NEWS LOCAL

    DAILY TRACKING OF COVID-19
         IN SOUTH FLORIDA
                      Sean McShee
                           Daily Increase in Total Known COVID-19 Cases
                                                 in Three South Florida Counties
                                                     Apr 22 through Apr 28
                                 Total
                                Total
     Rates of Increase in Total Total
                                Known    Known
                                       Known
                                        Known
                                       COVID-19   COVID-19
                                                COVID-19
                                                  COVID-19
                                                 cases from 4/22Cases
                                                            Cases    in inin
                                                                 Cases
                                                                 to 4/28
                                 =Three
     Palm Beach = 0.2, BrowardThree        South
                                         South
                                   0.1, Miami      =Florida
                                                Florida
                                              Dade           Counties:
                                                     0.2 Counties:                                                                                                                                            A mural on Wilton Drive. Photo credit: Carina Mask.
                                              Three South Florida Counties:

                                                                                                                                                              85 CASES OF COVID-19
                                                   Apr
                                                 Apr  2929  through
                                                          through   MayMay
                                                                        5 5                                                                  11,831
                                                  Apr   29 through
                                                   10,926       11,005
                                                                       May 11,351
                                                                           5                                          11,570

        Rates of
        Rates ofIncrease
                 IncreaseininTotal
                              Total  Known
                                   Known
                              10,588       COVID-19
                                         COVID-19    cases
                                                  cases    from
                                                        from 4/294/29  to 5/5
                                                                  to 5/5
    Rates of Beach
        Palm
        Palm Increase
              Beach     in Broward
              10,153 ==0.2,
                        0.2,Total Known
                                   = 0.1,
                             Broward      COVID-19
                                          Miami
                                     = 0.1,  MiamiDade cases
                                                       =
                                                     Dade = 0.1from 4/29 to 5/5
                                                         0.1
                                                                                                                 13,092 13,092       13,224 13,224
    Palm Beach = 0.2, Broward = 0.1, Miami  12,389  Dade =12,632
                                               12,389        0.112,632  12,77512,775
                                                                                                                                                     13,224
                                      12,063                                                                                13,092

                                                                                                                                                               IN WILTON MANORS;
                 11,927
                  11,927                12,063                                                       12,775
                                                          12,389              12,632
            11,927                   12,063

                                                                                                                                                               77 IN OAKLAND PARK
                                                                         4,659              4,729                 4,794                  4,847
                                   4,431              4,591
            4,228
                                                                      5,257             5,312 5,312           5,383 5,383        5,492     5,492
                                   4,953            5,144
                                                       5,144              5,257
            4,898
            4,898                    4,953
                                                                                        2,697                 2,763                2,877
                             2,554                2,600              2,614
        2,403                                                                                                       3,390                         5,492
         2,911               2,963               3,0415,144        3,080 5,257     3,130
                                                                                        3,130
                                                                                              5,312 3,311 3,311 5,383                3,390
        4,898
         2,911                 4,953
                              2,963                 3,041              3,080

                                                                                                                  3,311                    3,390
                                                                     3,080                3,130
    2,911                  2,963                 3,041
                                                                                                                                                                    Jason Parsley
            4/22
             4/29                  4/23
                                   4/30             4/24
                                                   5/1                 5/24/25           5/3 4/26     5/4 4/27                    5/5    4/28
               4/29                  4/30             5/1                   5/2                5/3          5/4                             5/5

                                                                                                                                                               C
                                      Palm Beach    Palm  Beach        Broward
                                                                         Broward        Miami-DadeMiami-Dade
                                        Palm Beach                          Broward                    Miami-Dade
                                                                                                                                                                     onfirmed cases of COVID-19 rose to 85     appropriate response, given that Florida,
        4/29                   4/30                   5/1Source:   Florida5/2
                                                                           Dept.   of   Health.5/3                        5/4                      5/5               in Wilton Manors and 77 in Oakland        Broward County, and Wilton Manors
                                     Palm Beach                              Broward                              Miami-Dade                                         Park as of Sunday. Last week those        continue to see cases climb and more people
                                                                                                                                                              numbers stood at 74 and 73.                      are dying from this virus,” Resnick said.
                                                                                                                                                                 “I know people are anxious to get back to        In Fort Lauderdale there have been 1,240
                                                                                                                                                              work and to their active lives, but continued    (1,100) cases. (The numbers in parenthesis
                                      SFGN has been there for you                                                                                             social distancing is necessary not only for      are from last week.)
                                      through the good and bad...                                                                                             our own safety but for everyone with whom           Meanwhile there are 36,078 (32,138)
                                                                                                                                                              we are in contact,” said Wilton Manors City      confirmed cases in Florida, more than 1.2
                                                                                                                                                              Commissioner Gary Resnick.                       million (1 million) in the U.S., and globally
                                                                                                                                                                 According to the Florida Department           more than 3.5 million (3 million). So far there
                                                                                                                                                              of Health as of Sunday, 5,312 people have        have been 1,379 (1,088) deaths in Florida,
                                                                                                                                                              tested positive in Broward County, up from       69,000 (56,000) in the U.S. and globally
                                                                                                                                                              4,794 a week ago.                                more than 250,000 (211,000).
                                                                                                                                                                 On Monday, Florida entered phase 1 of its        Looking at the four individual zip codes
                                                                                                                                                              reopening, but that does not include Miami-      that include some portion of Wilton Manors
                                                                                                                                                              Dade, Broward or Palm Beach counties.            33305 has 69 (62) cases; 33306 has 8 (6);
                                                                                                                                                                 Locally in Wilton Manors some parks           33334 has 84 (75), and 33311, which includes
                                                                                                                                                              reopened Monday including Hagen Park,            a large part of Fort Lauderdale has 319 (273).
                                                                                                                                                              Mickel Park and all boat ramps, which will       All of the zip codes include portions of
                                                                                                                                                              be open 8 a.m. to 6 p.m. daily.                  neighboring cities.
                                                                                                                                                                 Guidelines for visiting the parks are as         Wilton Manors City Commissioner Julie
                      AND WE’RE STILL HERE                                                                                                                    follows:                                         Carson is encouraging those that have
                                                                                                                                                                                                               the ability to donate money to give to

                        FOR YOU NOW.                                                                                                                          — All visitors must practice six-feet social
                                                                                                                                                              distancing and wear a face covering
                                                                                                                                                                                                               this GoFundMe page, set up to assist the
                                                                                                                                                                                                               employees of Wilton Manors businesses. So
                                                                                                                                                              when social distancing is not possible           far it has raised $6,926.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Manor Pines Convalescent Center, an
                                                                                                                                                                                                               assisted living facility in the city, has 59
                                                                                                                                                              — Tennis courts may be used for singles          current cases among residents and staff.
                                                                                                                                                              play only                                        This number, however, is not cumulative.
                                                                                                                                                                                                               Last week that number was 65. It was
                                                                                                                                                              — Limited restroom facilities and water          updated May 1.
                                                                                                                                                              fountains will be open                              Carson previously said, “These numbers
                            Visit SFGN.com and stay up to date on                                                                                                                                              remind us that we must continue to be
                              health alerts, event schedules, and everything                                                                                    “The measured opening of some parks            diligent in social distancing, wearing masks,
                                  you need to know in our community.                                                                                          in the City which took effect Monday, is an      and washing hands.”

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NEWS NATIONAL

LOCAL ACTIVIST TO LAUNCH A
PRIDE CENTER IN WEST TEXAS
                                        Damon Scott

    Bryan Wilson is ready to go west.
   The 33-year-old LGBT rights activist is said, to online meetings with entrepreneurs
planning the launch of a Pride Center in his to help them strategize to start or grow a
hometown of Odessa, Texas.                         business.
   The story of his South Florida activism            “Businesses are bad if they don’t evolve.
and entrepreneurism is one of preparation One of the big issues we’re seeing: people
and adaptability.                                  are trying to just hold on instead of
   Late last year Wilson opened Fort adjust,” Wilson said. “We help people open
Lauderdale’s Access Granted in downtown businesses, so we got ours going fast.”
— a co-working space and social club. It
resonated with the gay community and                        GO WEST, YOUNG MAN
business became brisk.
   Enter the pandemic, which abruptly, to             But even while keeping 4 A New Dawn,
say the least, forced the closure of all but Wilson and husband Clint Acosta Wilson
essential businesses like grocery stores and have moved up plans by a few years to launch
pharmacies across most of the country.             a dream project: open up a Pride Center in
   Those closures not only meant an West Texas in Odessa.                                                                       Bryan Wilson. Photo courtesy Bryan Wilson.
immediate loss of revenue, but also a grim            Wilson, who is from Odessa, said his time
outlook for businesses like Wilson’s. As in South Florida has prepared him for it.                   Not only that, but Wilson has also been            Odessa didn’t host its first Pride celebration
the future became so unpredictable, so                “We’ll go to Texas for the foreseeable      more heavily involved in LGBT nonprofits,          until 2018. There were protestors, Wilson
did the long-term prospects for businesses future to get it up and running,” he said.             specifically, for the past decade, and for the     said, but not many. Almost 1,000 people
that fundamentally rely on face-to-face “We’ll eventually be going back and forth                 last two years with 4 A New Dawn.                  came — not a lot by South Florida standards,
interaction like Access Granted — the [from Florida].”                                               “My husband has decades of experience in        but a big breakthrough for West Texas.
opposite of social distancing.                                      The center will offer many    restaurant management, too,” he said.                 “They are ready for this and they need it.
   “Our lease is coming up in                                    of the programs and services        Wilson married Clint Acosta on Feb. 8 in        It feels great to go out to part of the country
June and we decided due to
COVID-19 it didn’t make sense
                                       “ALL OF                   one sees — and Wilson said
                                                                 sometimes takes for granted —
                                                                                                  Baltimore in front of about 50 friends and
                                                                                                  family. They were engaged in 2018 after
                                                                                                                                                     where I feel brave again,” he said. “All of my
                                                                                                                                                     time in LGBTQN+ volunteering was for this.
to re-up,” Wilson said.
   Access Granted was one of
                                     MY TIME IN                  at the Pride Center in Wilton
                                                                 Manors.
                                                                                                  meeting on Grindr.
                                                                                                     They’d later take a multi-location
                                                                                                                                                     Fort Lauderdale has produced a couple who
                                                                                                                                                     wants to go into an area where it can be
the first businesses to close         LGBTQN+                       He said Pride Center          honeymoon that would land them in Italy.           dangerous to do what we do. But it’s because
before the official April 1 orders
took effect in Fort Lauderdale.     VOLUNTEERING                 West Texas will host trauma
                                                                 support groups, an LGBT
                                                                                                     “Two days after we got back, they started
                                                                                                  shutting down,” Wilson said of coronavirus.
                                                                                                                                                     of our experiences here that we’re ready.”
                                                                                                                                                        Wilson is raising money through
   “We wanted to take it very
seriously — older adults are
                                      WAS FOR                    youth social group, Alcoholics
                                                                 Anonymous and Narcotics
                                                                                                     Businesses would soon start closing in
                                                                                                  Fort Lauderdale, too.
                                                                                                                                                     CenterLink, grants and general fundraising.
                                                                                                                                                        There’s not an exact date set for a grand
part of our social club. We             THIS.”                   Anonymous gatherings for                                                            opening, but he expects one within a few
said, ‘even if we lose members,           - Bryan Wilson         LGBT individuals in recovery,                  ‘WE’RE READY’                        months.
we’re closing.’ Members were                                     trans and non-binary social                                                            Wilson said if he had $2 million sitting
incredibly supportive with the                                   groups and a happy hour for         Wilson is securing two office spaces now,       around, he would open an LGBT shelter in
transition of meet-ups online,” Wilson said.       queer people of color.                         one at 1,000-square-feet and another at            South Florida. He said it’s one of the few
   While Access Granted did quickly pivot             There will be mental health services        1,400-square-feet to soft-launch the center.       services that doesn’t exist here.
to online events — its tarot card club, available as well as support and social groups               His founding board members are already             “That’s what we might return for
Dungeons & Dragons group, gay Bible study for people living with HIV/AIDS.                        in place.                                          someday,” he said.
and LGBT mixers — the ease of monetizing              Wilson’s been working in the nonprofit         “People will soon see things like Pride            In the meantime, Wilson said he’ll
those offerings, especially for the long term, management sector since he was 13 years old        flags in businesses — a visual cue that you’re     definitely be back in the late fall to help
isn’t an easy road.                                including a long stint at SunServe. Now 33,    safe,” he said.                                    coordinate the rescheduled AIDS Walk.
   However, Wilson’s business consulting he’s got two decades of nonprofit experience
arm — 4 A New Dawn — did remain intact as — much of it in management — under his
the virtual world lent itself more naturally, he belt.                                                                More information is at PrideCenterWT.org.
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        to spill the tea on the world of             “The purpose of the show is to transport
entertainment and give the lowdown viewers to a happy place,” Norell said. “I
on what’s happening during this crazy want to educate viewers and let them know
quarantine. Don’t worry if                                  we are talented. If you look at the                                S O U T H   F L O R I D A   G A Y   N E W S
you aren’t sure who Smith                                   lineup, there’s nothing like it!”                                                                        Vol. 9 Issue 2

is, or why she’s known as           “THE PURPOSE               Some of Norell’s other
                                                                                                                                                                   March - April 2020

Thunderpuss. You can find                                   creations will join Thunderpuss
out on Saturday.                       OF THE               in the show. There’s R&B singer
   Thunderpuss is one of
Taina Norell’s alter egos.           SHOW IS TO             Vio’Lisha. She’s a wig designer
                                                            (with dental challenges) who
“She lives in a virtual studio,”
Norell said. “She’ll introduce
                                     TRANSPORT              works in a virtual hair salon.
                                                            “She’s my ghetto character,”
the show and discuss what’s
happening in the world. But
                                    VIEWERS TO A            Norell said. There’s also a nun
                                                            named Sister Consuelo. “She
only the good stuff.”
   It’s all part of “HD Drag on
Demand.” The show will air
                                    HAPPY PLACE.”
                                        - Taina Norell
                                                            may do a number, or she could
                                                            deliver a message.”
                                                               The lineup also includes
                                                                                                                                                      A WORLD
live this Saturday at 9 p.m.
Let’s face it — to get your
mind off the coronavirus,
                                           PERFORMER
                                                            performances from French
                                                            performer Joan Julian, South
                                                            Florida fave TP Lords, vocalist
                                                                                                                                                       UNITED
you’ve binge-watched “Tiger King,” “Ozark,” Antonia Edwards, dancer MyKul Jay
and “We’re Here.” “HD Drag on Demand” Valentine, comedian Tabatha from
promises 90 minutes of outstanding Quarantine, and famed drag performers
entertainment produced by Taina Norell. Sasha Fierce Collinwood, Asheria Pryce,
Think of it as the cure for your self-isolation and Tiffany McCray.

                To catch Saturday’s show, visit Eventbrite and search Taina Norell.               READ IT ONLINE AT THEMIRRORMAG.COM                                        PHOTO VIA ADOBE.

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5. 7. 20 20 •   11
NEWS INTERNATIONAL

 CANADA TO BUILD MONUMENT
FOR SERVICEMEMBERS UNJUSTLY
    KICKED OUT OF MILITARY
              Andrew Dier

  I
      n 2017, Canadian Prime Minister Justin
      Trudeau tearfully apologized to the
      thousands of Canadians whose military
      careers and lives were upended by a                                                                                Cleaning staff disinfects and cleans a bus stop during the quarantine in Bogotá, Colombia.
                                                                                                                                             Photo credit: Sebastian Barros Salamanca, via Flickr.
Cold War policy of purging the armed forces
of suspected homosexual service members.

                                                                                                                    LGBT PEOPLE FACE
   This past week, as part of the country’s
reckoning with this shameful chapter of                Volunteers with the LGBT Purge Fund meet to discuss
its recent history, it was announced that             the monument’s details. Photo via @lgbt_fund, Twitter.

                                                                                                               DISCRIMINATION IN COLOMBIA
a memorial will be built to recognize the
thousands of victims of this “gay purge.”           to the servicemembers who were affected

                                                                                                                   DURING SHUTDOWN
   The monument will be built in the                by the policies that stayed in place until the
country’s capital of Ottawa with funds              1990s, with about $8 million designated for
received from a $145 million (Canadian              the National Monument.
dollars) settlement in a class-action lawsuit          An international design contest is
on behalf of LGBT service members. Over             underway for the memorial, and it’s expected
$110 million of those funds will go directly        to be completed by 2024.
                                                                                                                     Andrew Dier
  For updates on the progress of the monument, check the LGBT Purge Fund website: lgbtpurgefund.com.

                                                                                                                 T
                                                                                                                     he progression of the COVID-19 virus in communities has also been expressed by
                                                                                                                     Colombia has been a slow one, thanks international organizations such as the
                                                                                                                     in great measure to early precautions Organization of American States (OAS) and
                                                                                                               — such as drastic stay-at-home orders — the UN Human Rights Commission. The
                                                                                                               taken by local and national governments.        OAS created a guide for Latin American and
                                                                                                                  With citizens confined in their homes, Caribbean governments on how to fight the
                                                                                                               however, many LGBT persons have reported virus while respecting the rights of LGBT
                                                                                                               experiencing homophobia and transphobia. persons, for example.
                                                                                                               To serve these communities in this time           Of particular concern there has been a
                                                                                                               of crisis, rights groups Colombia Diversa gender-based restriction on movement in
                                                                                                               and Fundación Santamaría,                                    Bogotá. Trans-rights groups
                                                                                                               both based in Bogotá, have                                   have expressed fear that these
                                                                                                               promoted hotlines for LGBT             SOME VIOLENCE         will give the national police,
                                                                                                               persons who have been subject          AGAINST TRANS         an organization with a dubious
                                                                                                               to harassment and are offering                               human rights record when it
                                                                                                               free mental health counseling            PERSONS —           comes to LGBT persons, ample
                                                                                                               for      those      experiencing        PARTICULARLY         authority to harass.
                                                                                                               problems with their families                                    So far, implementation of
                                                                                                               who may not be accepting of
                                                                                                                                                        AGAINST SEX         the measure has led to only
                                                                                                               their orientation or identity.        WORKERS — HAS          a handful of human rights
                                                                                                                  For those who do not feel         BEEN DOCUMENTED violation complaints, and
                                                                                                               safe in their families’ homes, as                            those are currently under
                                                                                                               a last resort, a “Casa Refugio”          DURING THE          investigation by authorities.
                                                                                                               remains open as a safe place for       QUARANTINE IN            Some      violence      against
                                                                                                               LGBT persons to stay in the city.          BOGOTÁ.           trans  persons   —    particularly
                   and                                                                                            The need for this kind of                                 against sex workers — has
                                                                                                               intervention became evident                                  been documented during the
                                                                                                               as, according to reports received from quarantine in Bogotá. But one particularly
                                                                                                               Mexico by Colombia Diversa, during the first shocking event took place recently in Medellín.
                                                                                                               days of that country’s quarantine, 15 youth A well-known social activist, Jhon Restrepo,
                                                                                                               were expelled from their homes because of was brutally beaten as he was delivering food
                                                                                                               their sexual orientation or gender identity.    to those affected by loss of income due to
                                                                                                                  As governments battle the virus with the quarantine in one of the poor comunas
                                                                                                               various restrictions, concern for vulnerable (neighborhoods) of the city.

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LIFESTYLE TWO GUYS AND A DOG

THE SELF-INDULGENCE OF SOUL WORK
                    Brian McNaught
                                                                                                                                                                                             Photo via
                                                                                                                                                                                              PxHere.

  S
       ince childhood, I’ve been a spiritual seeker. My focus was    men, or did I? This story was about being sexually abused, or
       very different then. It has changed as I’ve aged and grown    was I?
       wiser as to where to focus my attention. As a youngster,         Why sign up for both experiences? Because, my global travel
my spiritual goal was to be a holy person, a saint, guided by        to do corporate LGBT diversity training had ended, by my
my angel. That would be achieved by perfect moral behavior.          choosing, and I now had time to figure out my next storyline.
Now, the goal is to be an awakened warrior, a Snowy Owl gay          Would I start working with dying gay and transgender people,
elder, and my own angel, if you will. I think now not what I’ll      as I imagined? Did I have gifts that had yet to be discovered?
be when I grow up. I’m grown. Now, I think of how I can let go       Might I be able to use my hands to heal, as I secretly fantasize
of collected old stories that no longer serve me, and of how to      doing? What is it, God, that you have in mind for me?
move on to the next level of awareness.                                 One very gifted spiritual guide had helped me assemble
   My kindhearted husband has patiently supported me over            key words from my consciousness to answer my hunger for
the past few months, not to mention the past 44 years, as I’ve       identity. With August Gold’s guidance, I conjured, deleted,
plunged, literally head first, into experience after experience in   condensed, and ardently assembled the words, “My innocent
search of a new consciousness.                                       compassion, and my grateful love, are my God nature.” Perfect.
   “Formulate your question,” the white witch instructed             But how next will I be an instrument of the Universe? What
as I prepared to pull from the cloth bag three Runes for her         form will it take?
interpretation.                                                         I began attending the Tuesday, noontime presentations
   “How will the divine next manifest itself                                          by this Tao te Ching mentor, August Gold,
through me in my service to others?” I asked                                          and I joined the Center for Spiritual Living in
after some thought.
   Before I arrived at that Runes reading, I had,
                                                         BUT HOW                      Oakland Park, where the growth in awareness
                                                                                      is guided by Chris Michaels. Now, I was away
only a few months earlier, declared myself a            NEXT WILL                     from home on Tuesdays, on Sunday mornings,         dressed up to play the role of a former gay porn star, and I sang
Snowy Owl warrior during an intense, weekend
initiation by The Mankind Project. Surrounded             I BE AN                     and on whatever day I met with my new friend,
                                                                                      an 80-year-old gay man I volunteered with
                                                                                                                                         Christmas carols in the Coral Ridge Mall, Rosie’s restaurant,
                                                                                                                                         and the Alibi bar in mid-March. That was our Shadow Night,
by straight and bisexual men, I cried, as rarely
before, as I walked my 8-year-old self through         INSTRUMENT                     SAGE to see as a “Friendly Visitor.”
                                                                                         “What are you learning about yourself?”
                                                                                                                                         a group activity, scripted by Jack to release the unexpressed-
                                                                                                                                         selves we carried with us.
his fear and confusion as a teenager, his suicide
attempt and job loss at age 26, subsequent
                                                          OF THE                      asked Ray. I hunger for identity, mission, and
                                                                                      community, and I need to feel useful in service.
                                                                                                                                            “What are you learning about yourself?” Ray asked
                                                                                                                                         patiently, as he watched me stick to a daily regimen of exercise,
bullying, and death threats, but ultimately, I
assured him, he’d experience great fulfillment
                                                        UNIVERSE?                        And then there was the intensive nine-week
                                                                                      Jungian “rite of passage” project, during which
                                                                                                                                         journaling, and meditation. As we processed our feelings about
                                                                                                                                         our earliest childhood memories, our mothers, our fathers, a
and joy as a gay man. I sought that weekend            WHAT FORM                      I’d meet with the project-designing therapist,     death of significance, a traumatic experience, and our dreams,

                                                          WILL IT
to confront my suspicion of straight men as                                           Jack Miller, on Monday afternoons and              we were encouraged to finger paint, and pound the mattress,
bullies, and I walked away with old storylines of                                     Thursday evenings, plus extra time creating        if necessary.
abuse dropped or rewritten.
    Ray was glad to have me tell him about what            TAKE?                      bonds with the other participants. We were
                                                                                      dedicated to healing the wounds of our souls
                                                                                                                                            The Runes reading was quite clear. From the three Runes,
                                                                                                                                         drawn from the bag, and placed on the cloth from right to left, I
had happened during the ritualized initiation                                         so that we could be liberated to move forward,     was repeatedly referred to as a “spiritual warrior,” and advised
into manhood, and what I got out of it. “What did you learn          unencumbered by that which we might not have been able to           that this was my winter. “Be patient,” the white witch told me.
about yourself?” was his question. I learned that I share with       name. In all that time, more stories were told, and in the light    “You are where you are supposed to be. Your path will become
straight men the hunger for masculine camaraderie, for               of scrutiny by myself, the therapist, and the group, many of the    clearer with time.”
understanding, and for full support from other men of my             stories seemed outdated, and maybe not so accurate anymore.            “What are you learning about yourself?”
hero’s journey.                                                         “In lots of cultures, fathers and sons shower together. You         I’m learning that I have a wonderful, very supportive
   A few weeks later, I was lying on the floor of a person’s home,   were invited into the realm of the adult male,” the therapist       husband, who respects my search for answers and guidance
with a dozen other souls, men and women, mostly straight,            told me. “What gay boy wouldn’t love that?”                         in these final years of my physical life. I’m also aware that
engaged in heavy-duty, tantric breathing, led by Christian de la         “Love? What? Are you sure?”                                     my questions are my answer, that my quest is my arrival, and
Huerta, and focused on a major wound of the soul. With full             To enter the realm of sacred time, and return to our earliest    that I as the messenger is me as the message. My hunger for
attention and effort, I purged as best I could every ounce of the    consciousness, we colored, molded Play-Doh, and built sand          awareness is the meal itself. The form I’ll next take in service
confusion, shame, and anger that surrounded my unresolved            castles. We wrote letters and burned them. I created tributes       to others is the form I’m now in as a 72-year-old gay man who
memories of showering and napping with my father, from age           to my deceased best friend, and to my younger brother               searches for new understanding. I’m the messenger. That’s the
8 to 13. “I’m sorry. I never meant to have you hurt,” I clearly      whose close friendship, according to my old story, I had lost. I    message. I’m the angel. Nothing more is required of me.
visioned my father now saying in tears. “I forgive you,” I told
him. He smiled gratefully.
   “What did you learn about yourself?” Ray asked again. I
learned to let go, to forgive, and to focus on the many wonderful                         Brian McNaught has been a leading educator on LGBTQ issues globally since 1974. He has made his
qualities and behaviors of my father. The first story, carried to                         many books and DVDs available for free at Brian-McNaught.com. The New York Times named him “The
The Mankind Project, was how I had good cause to fear straight                            Godfather of gay diversity training.”

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            SPIRITUALITY                                                                                                            All Services LIVE-streamed on Facebook,
                                                                                             Church of Our Savior, MCC
                                                                                                                                              and posted on website
                                                                                                2011 s. Federal Hwy.,
                                                                                                 Boynton Beach, FL                “Love without judgement”
                                                                                                                                           Holy Angels
                SOUTHFLORIDAGAYNEWS.COM                                                            561-733-4000
                                                                                                                                     National Catholic Church
                                                                                         www,churchofoursaviormcc.org

                                             LISTINGS
                                                                                          Until further notice: Due to the                  2917 NE 6th Ave
                                                                                        current COVID-19 pandemic, our                  Wilton Manors, FL 33334
                                                                                        worship services are streamed on              Facebook.com/HolyAngelsFL
                                                                                         Facebook Live every Sunday at                  www.HolyAngelsFL.org
                                                                                          10 AM, rather than held at our
                                                                                                  church property.                     954-633-2987
ALL SOULS EPISCOPAL                        FOUNTAIN OF LOVE                               https://www.facebook.com/
CHURCH                                     MINISTRIES                                  ChurchofOurSaviorMCC. Visit our
                                                                                                                                   A home for your spirit.
4025 Pine Tree Drive. Miami Beach          5481 FL-7, Tamarac, FL 33319                web site for more details & updates.         Mass Schedule: Sabado 6:00 PM misa en español •
Sundays at 8am and 10:30am.                954-486-5959                                                                           Sunday Mass at 11 & 3 in English • All are welcome!
305-520-5410 | allsoulsmb.org              fountainofloveonline.org
                                           Pastor Dallas Walker-Green                 LIFESTYLE PHOTOS
CONGREGATION                               Worship: Sunday Mornings at 11:00 am
ETZ CHAIM
2038 N. Dixie Hwy (Pride Center Building   OPEN HEART MEDITATION
B), Wilton Manors                          Saturdays 3:30 - 5 p.m.
954-564-9232 - etzchaimflorida.org         Pride Center - Room #200
RabbiNoahKitty@etzchaimflorida.org         www.heartofthemystery.com
Friday Night Shabbat Service 8p.m.
                                           ST. NICHOLAS EPISCOPAL
HOLY ANGELS CATHOLIC                       CHURCH
COMMUNITY                                  1111 E. Sample Road, Pompano Beach
2917 NE 6th Avenue                         954-942-5887 - stnicholasfl.org
Wilton Manors                              office@stnicholasfl.org
954-633-2987 - HolyAngelsFL.net            Sundays 8:00AM & 10:30AM (9:30AM only
Sunday Mass at 11AM                        from Memorial Day through Labor Day)

CHRIST LUTHERAN CHURCH                     FIRST CONGREGATIONAL
1955 E. Oakland Park Blvd.,                UNITED CHURCH OF
Ft. Lauderdale                             CHRIST
(954) 564-7673 - christlutheranfl.org      1415 North K Street, Lake Worth
pastordeborah@christlutheranfl.org         561-582-6691 - fcclw.org                                              COURTYARD CAFE
                                                                                       COMBATS COVID-19 CRISIS
Worship: Sunday 10:00am                    office@lakeworthchurch.org
                                           Service Time: Sunday 10:30AM
CHURCH OF OUR SAVIOR,
MCC                                        UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST
Church of Our Savior, MCC                  FORT LAUDERDALE                                On Saturday, May 2, Courtyard Cafe in Wilton Manors donated 500 free meals
2011 S. Federal Hwy. Boynton Beach.        2501 NE 30th Street, Fort Lauderdale           on a first come first serve basis. The free food was meant as a way to ease
churchofoursaviormcc.org | 561-733-4000    (954)563-4271 - uccftl.org                     the burden of those who had suffered financially due to the COVID-19 crisis.
Sunday Service 10AM                        revpatrickrogers@gmail.com                     Pictured: Inside, the hardworking staff pose together during preparation.
                                           Service Times: Thursdays 10:30AM (Elliot               Photo credit: J.R. Davis. To see more, visit SFGN on Facebook.
                                           Hall) & Sundays 10:30AM (Sanctuary)

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LIFESTYLE FOOD

                                                      ISN’T THAT SPECIAL!
                                                                                                      Rick Karlin

                                                             W
                                                                   hile the shutdown has made
                                                                   things difficult for folks all
                                                                   around, there is a bit of a
                                                          silver lining here. In order to drum
                                                          up business, local restaurants have
                                                          been offering specials for pick up
                                                          or delivery orders. Here’s a list of
                                                          specials running the gamut from A
                                                          to Z (literally) that have crossed our
                                                          literal desk. As always, it’s best to
                                                          check and see if the specials are still
                                                                                                                      Chicken Cyriac, a signature dish at Bona Italian
                                                          in effect when you place your order.                        Restaurant. Photo via Bona Italian, Facebook.

                                                                AMERICAN SOCIAL                                                 WHAT THE PHO?
                                                      This Las Olas destination is offering a 20%                  Wilton Manors’ Vietnamese eatery is offering
                                                      discount on take-out orders. Also offering                   $5 sushi rolls daily, as well as its regular menu.
                                                              delivery and curbside service.                               Call 954-870-6060. mywhatthepho.com
                                                             Call 954-764-7005. americansocialbar.com

                                                                            AMBRY                                                 ZUCKERELLO’S
                                                      If you’ve got a hankering for hassenpfeffer, the             The Commercial Blvd. trattoria is offering a
                                                      Ambry is offering take-out orders featuring its              special take-out menu for $8.95. Such popular
                                                      hearty German fare, on Tuesdays, Thursdays                   dishes as Caesar salad with grilled chicken,
                                                                        and Saturdays.                             and rigatoni ala vodka are included in the
                                                              Call 954-771-7342. ambryrestaurant.com               choices available. Add a salad for $3 more
                                                                                                                   and a choice of four desserts (tira misu, cannoli,
                                                                     BONA ITALIAN                                  Key lime pie or chocolate cake) for $5 more.
                                                                                                                    That makes it a three-course meal for $16.95!
                                                      On Tuesdays through Thursdays get a                                    Call 954-776-4282. zuckerellos.com
                                                      complimentary dessert with your order. Bona
                                                      will serve up a one of its newest dessert options,                               CANDELA
                                                      a sfogliatella. This hard to pronounce, but easy
                                                      to eat, pastry features layers of flaky dough                The popular Wilton Manors spot offers up
                                                      stuffed with sweet ricotta cheese flavored with              a special menu featuring complete meals
                                                      hints of orange and cinnamon. You get one of                 (most priced between $10-$15), served with
                                                      the yummy treats with an order of $20 (two                   two sides and sandwiches ($8.50), as well
                                                      for $40; three for orders of $60). The popular               as pastellas and fresh juices from noon until
                                                      Wilton Manors’ spot is also offering a large                 8:30 p.m. Among the offerings are grilled
                                                      two-topping pizza for $16.95 (includes a two-                chicken breast, pulled roasted pork, picadillo
                                                      liter bottle of soda) and all bottled wine is 40%            Habanera (ground beef Havana style), vaca
                                                           off, if you order between 4 to 8:30 p.m.                frita, shrimp Creole and oven roasted branzino.
                                                         Call 954-565-7222 for more information. bonaitalian.com   See the menu at Candelarestaurant.com or call 954-563-8088.
                   Full Charge Bookkeeping Services

                                                          VISIT SFGN.COM/COVIDFOOD FOR MORE RESTAURANTS

                                                                           Rick Karlin is SFGN’s food editor.
                                                                           Visit SFGN.com/Food to read his previous reviews. Have a culinary tip to
                                                                           share? Email Rick at RickKarlinFL@gmail.com.

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CONVICTIONS                                                      Off The Wall

WITH A LITTLE HELP
 FROM YOURSELF
                     Pier Angelo

 I
     t is hard to be locked up at home. Every     Deep-clean your oven, dishwasher, coffee
     day looks and feels the same, we lose      maker and outdoor grill, as well as drapes,
     track of time.                             upholstery, cabinets, floors, vents and
   We don’t know if it is Tuesday or            baseboards, clean your mudroom, garage
Wednesday or what the actual date of the        and outbuildings, and, in the process,
month is.                                       inventory items that need replacing, make
   Food, drinks, TV, Zoom, FaceTime, books,     sure your will is up-to-date, make a list of
help a bit but in the end we do miss our        your closest contacts with phone numbers
physical friends and family, and                           and email addresses and pin it to
our favorite hangouts, and even                            the refrigerator with a magnet,
our offices that at times we hated so
much to go to.                           ONE WAY           keep a digital inventory of your
                                                           photos, receipts, and documents,
   One way to snap out of it is trying
to stay active. A sort of Self-Help
                                         TO SNAP           create a home maintenance
                                                           schedule program, and manage
Therapy, and it is free.                OUT OF IT          remodeling projects.
   I suggest you set up at least one
task to be accomplished every day.      IS TRYING             Only handle projects yourself
                                                           that you feel you’re truly qualified
Do those chores you have been
putting off for months or years.         TO STAY           to do. You may be better off
                                                           leaving projects with electrical
   Here are some of the things you
can do, start with the list and stick
                                          ACTIVE.          components or those at heights,
                                                           for example, to professionals
to it: take a daily walk but avoid high                    who have the right equipment
density spots, gain a green thumb by working    and skill set. Start your spring cleaning
in the backyard if you have one, otherwise      but it’s important to remember there are
start tending to indoor plants and take care    common household cleaning products you
of them, empty out closets and drawers and      should never mix, or drink for that matter,
discard things you haven’t needed or used       such as bleach and ammonia or bleach and
in years but that sit idle around the house,    rubbing alcohol.
change and/or service your furnace filters,       Unless you listen to the QUACKSALVER-
HVAC, smoke and CO detector batteries,          in-Chief.

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THE EYE OF THE STORM IS WITHIN US
                                                                     America goes back to work
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                       Norm Kent                                                                            Publisher Norm Kent spent Sunday
                       norm.kent@sfgn.com                                                                     working out so he can be ready
                                                                                                            for the start of the baseball season.

 I
                                                                                                                  Photo credit: Duke Snider.
     can’t say I am surprised about what is         though, is as arrogant as it is defiant. We never
     happening.                                     locked down in unison.
        I saw it coming six weeks ago.                 When the death toll topped 50,000 a week
   In war, there are acceptable casualties.         ago, we had 21st century militiamen storming
   In the invisible war America fights today,       a state capitol with AR 15’s, declaring “give me
I am in the age bracket where I am likely to        liberty or give me death.”
become one of them.                                    They were no Patrick Henrys, though.
   The messaging battle has been framed                They were mobsters maniacally following
correctly for all of us to see. It has come to us   their Fuhrer’s White House lead.
slowly, but the lines have been drawn in the           We did it wrong, America. Too many have
sand.                                               died because we have not listened to science
   Either we open our society, and delicately       or reason. Warnings, admonitions, and
negotiate the vicious dangers of the virus,         advisories were ignored. It could not “happen
or we collapse our economy, destroying our          here.” It did — just look at the death tolls
livelihoods, ending society as we know it           hourly. Can any of us say we could not have
anyway.                                             done better?
   It should not have been this                                            When you read that
way. We should have had more                                            3,000 fellow Americans
testing and better tracing,
more advisories and better
                                       THERE IS MORE                    are dying daily, how does
                                                                        that number sink in?
warnings. We should have
had better leaders educating
                                        UNCERTAINTY                     Imagine if news anchors
                                                                        were reporting on 20 plane
us about the hard choices.                 THAN                         crashes daily, every day, for
Instead, we have had a comedy                                           three months in a row, with
of horrors.                           UNDERSTANDING,                    no survivors?
   “So, it goes,” as the Little
Prince once wrote in that               AND THAT, MY                       What if there was
                                                                        another 9/11, not once in
excellent little book by that
name.
                                      DEAR FRIENDS, IS                  20 years, but once every 20
                                                                        hours? What if the city of      the pool guy clean the pool or the fish guy the        Our citizens are rushing headfirst into
   The result for seniors is that
if you are over 64 years old,
                                       EXPONENTIALLY                    Fort Lauderdale and every
                                                                        one of its citizens were just
                                                                                                        aquarium? Shall I let a plumber in to replace
                                                                                                        the toilet?
                                                                                                                                                            waters much deeper than we think, in lakes
                                                                                                                                                            full of alligators, with incoming tides we may
and living with compromising
health conditions, you might
                                        UNSETTLING.                     swept off the face of the
                                                                        Earth in 60 days?
                                                                                                            Normally, you go to the doctor to get better,   not be able to ever negotiate. The news reports
                                                                                                        but do you want to go to visit a place where you    will come in daily, of those who rode the surf
want to experiment right                                                   Does anyone believe          know other people are sick? It is not surprising    and survived, more still who were sucked
about now with spending the rest of your life       that an economic package from the House of          to hear hospitals are getting less visitors, not    under, never to surface again. Those of us who
on house arrest.                                    Representatives or the U.S. Senate will restore     more. Nothing makes sense yet. There is more        survived the AIDS era know of those days.
   If you go outside, you are taking a chance       our lives to normalcy? It’s simply like giving      uncertainty than understanding, and that, my           Don’t expect an ending to this column. It’s
that a cough, a sneeze, or a laughing friend        chipped beef to the brave American troops           dear friends, is exponentially unsettling.          unfolding, like the days in my life, in your life,
might be a fatal connection. An unwanted            before they hit Normandy Beach on D Day in             I could see defying the doctors and taking       and in our lives. I simply know that we cannot
encounter, or a delivery man showing up at          World War II. Many knew it would be their last      risks if I was 25, 35, or even 45 years old, but    spend our days worrying about what we can’t
the wrong address can push a lethal button.         meal.                                               when you are 70, you generally don’t go sky         control. We can shift our energy to what we
   When you are struggling to breathe on a             I am sitting here at home in the living          diving daily. If you are my age, it’s just wiser    can create. Be a force for the future, and what
respirator, and using an iPad to say goodbye        room where I have lived for the last 40 years,      not to walk barefoot on a wet river bank.           can still be. Out of adversity comes honor.
to your loved ones, you will probably have          thinking it is simply just not safe to go out          I am just a columnist, and I have only come         Those of us who live in South Florida know
a moment wondering how and where it                 anywhere any longer. I am trying to piece this      to write. I want to give science and research       of hurricanes. Every storm has an eye; a place
happened to you. Does not matter. You won’t         all together, but there is no way.                  a chance to find a protocol that can tame the       where there is tranquility and peace. In these
know for sure — the virus is invisible.                Until there is a vaccine, and every potential    virus. A vaccine would even be nicer. I can         times, it is the only place to be. Journey to it.
   Across the globe, more prudent societies         asymptomatic carrier is tested, or wears an         wait. America does not have the patience. The       Find that place, and anchor yourselves there.
wisely heeded the scientific call. Our America      N-95 mask, how can I protect myself? Do I let       handwriting is on the wall.

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CORONAVIRUS JOURNAL    Jesse Monteagudo                                                                                                                                      Photo via PxFuel.

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         hen I first heard about COVID-19 (Coronavirus),
         I was on a cruise ship, sailing with thousands
         of other on gay men on Atlantis Events’ annual
Caribbean cruise.
   I was lying on my bed, halfheartedly listening to BBC
news, when a reporter announced the existence of a new
virus that was discovered in Wuhan and was now spreading
to the rest of China.
   Chinese authorities, concerned by this new development,
were starting to restrict travel and to quarantine those who
were infected. Those of us who sailed on the Atlantis cruise
couldn’t care less. We were more interested in deciding
what to wear to the dances, the entertainers on board and,
of course, the beauty of the other sailors. If any of them
carried COVID-19 with them I do not know, though it would
not surprise me if they did, like some of the men who
attended the recent Winter Party in Miami.
   I have a special affinity for cruise ships and for sea cruises,
and not only because I have sailed on a few of them.
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company that provides shoreside and
port services for cruise ship passengers
in Port Everglades and the Port of Miami.
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among cruise ship guests and crew, I was
not ready for the worldwide spread of
                                                    BEFORE ALL CRUISE
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called “floating petri dishes” by comedian            TO A (HOPEFULLY
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to debark in various ports and forced to               OUT OF A JOB.      to cancel group gatherings and impose curfews my condo a long-delayed spring cleaning.
sail the seas indefinitely like the Flying
Dutchman. It was only a matter of time                 BUT THAT WAS       and lockdowns to prevent the spread of the            I also read, write, watch television, buy stuff online and do
before all cruise ship travel came to a              THE LEAST OF OUR     virus. Social distancing became the order of the other things that people do when they are by themselves.
                                                                          day.                                                  Though I am over 65, and thus part of a high-risk group,
(hopefully temporary) stop, and I was
out of a job. But that was the least of our
                                                          WORRIES.           Unlike other  governors, Florida’s Ron DeSantis I am   not a diligent stay at home type: I go out for walks, to
worries.                                                                  (a friend of the president) refused to institute a shop, and to visit friends. Thankfully, though I have not been
   By the time all cruise ship companies                                  total lockdown. Nor did he cancel or postpone tested, I remain healthy, and I will do my best to keep it that
agreed to cease operations, COVID-19 has spread around this state’s presidential primary, which at least gave me way.
the world: to South Korea and Japan, to Iran and Italy another day of work. (Being a poll worker is one of my various           Like all of you, I must adjust my life to this new normal,
and Spain and of course to the United States. Medical part time jobs.) Since then I have been at home, with no work hoping for the day when COVID-19 becomes a thing of the
authorities were alarmed by the new pandemic but not our to do outside of my writing. Being at home gave me the time past, or at least something we can control. We have a long
president who, at least initially, called the “Chinese virus” a and impetus to do things I would not otherwise do, like give way to go.
“hoax” perpetuated by Democrats and the media to forestall
his re-election.
   Though he later came to accept COVID-19 as the
worldwide disaster that it is, he did not make matters better                     Jesse Monteagudo is a freelance writer and journalist. He has been an active member of
by holding daily press conferences that were exercises in                         South Florida's LGBT community for more than four decades and has served in various
self-service and misinformation. A much better job was                            community organizations.
done by city mayors and state governors, who proceeded

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