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Volume LXXVII • Number 5
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                                         JANUARY 2021 • 17 TEVET - 18 SHEVAT 5781

       Tu B’Shevat, Jewish Arbor Day, falls on
               Thursday, January 28th.
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From Our Rabbi . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .           3                        our Web site
President’s Message . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .          5
Men’s Club Happenings . . . . . . . . . . . .                6              http://www.sonsofisrael.com
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Donations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .     14
Trees in Israel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .   15
December Birthdays . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .            17
December Anniversaries . . . . . . . . . . . .              17
Mazel Tov/Condolences . . . . . . . . . . . . .             17
December Yahrzeit List . . . . . . . . . . . . .            18
Calendar: January . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .         26
Calendar: February . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .          27
Minyan Times . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .          28

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FROM OUR RABBI
                 DR. HESCHEL AND DR. KING
                               By Rabbi Robert S. Pilavin

T    he first Shabbat of 2021 – January 2 - is Parashat Vayechi (18 Shevat). By
     coincidence, Rabbi Dr. Abraham Joshua Heschel passed away on that same Hebrew
date – and on Shabbat as well. January 18 is the national observance of the birthday of
Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. In Selma, it was Dr. Heschel (far right) who marched with Dr. King in a now-iconic
photo.
                                                                           Heschel and King enjoyed a great
                                                                        friendship. Heschel invited King to
                                                                        address the Rabbinical Assembly at their
                                                                        March 1968 convention. King was to
                                                                        have been Heschel’s Seder guest a few
                                                                        weeks later.      Sadly, he ended up
                                                                        delivering a eulogy at King’s funeral one
                                                                        week before Pesach.
                                                                           While Heschel was a noted scholar
                                                                        and theologian, he is best remembered as
                                                                        a social activist. His most accessible
                                                                        work is The Insecurity of Freedom:
                                                                        Essays on Human Existence. Many of
                                                                        these 20 essays address the Jewish
                                                                        community; others display the wide
                                                                        range of his religious concerns. His
1964 address to the American Medical Association is entitled “The Patient as a Person.” He spoke to both the
White House Conference on Children and Youth (1960) and the White House Conference on Aging (1961). He
was highly regarded by Christians. “Sacred Image of Man” (1957) was given to the national convention of the
Religious Education Association. His “Protestant Renewal: A Jewish View” (1963) was written at the invitation
of the editor of the Christian Century. His “The Ecumenical Movement” (1963) was delivered at the dinner for
Augustin Cardinal Bea and reprinted in the Catholic News.
        While he would go on to become an outspoken critic of the Vietnam War, Heschel first involved himself
in the struggle for civil rights. For example, “The White Man is On Trial” (1964) was delivered at the
Metropolitan Conference on Religion and Race. “Religion and Race” (1963) was the opening address at the
National Conference on Religion and Race.
        The latter essay includes his defense of Dr. King from the clergy who opposed King’s efforts to advance
racial equality. Heschel disapprovingly quotes a (white) preacher who claimed that “the job of the minister is
to lead the souls of men to God, not to bring about confusion by getting tangled up in transitory social
problems.” By contrast, Heschel insisted that the Hebrew prophets believed God was concerned about
precisely these problems. In this essay, Heschel offers a famous definition: “A prophet is a person who holds
God and men in one thought at one time, at all times.” Heschel continued, “our tragedy begins with the
segregation of God, with the bifurcation of the secular and sacred.” Heschel acknowledges the fact that some
Americans may have a spotless record where race relations are concerned. Nevertheless, “an honest estimation
of the moral state of our society will disclose: Some are guilty, but all are responsible.”
                                                                                   Rabbi, continued on page 15

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PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE
                                   By Steven Kass

      s we approach the end of what has    results of much lower infection
A     been for most of us, an extremely
challenging year, it appears that there
                                           numbers, the number of people
                                           returning to our Shul for Shabbos
is light at the end of this dark tunnel.   services will increase. Additionally, I
Perhaps it is coincidentally symbolic      am pleased to report that our joint
that as we just celebrated Chanukah,       Hebrew School program with Chabad
which is about a miracle of light at a     has continued without break and
time of darkness, we now find              without incident. Last month it
ourselves on the cusp of another           included a Chanukah Menorah Car
miracle, a new vaccine which will          Caravan which culminated in a
hopefully over the next few months         socially distanced Menorah Lighting
propel us out of the current darkness      outside our Shul on Wednesday night.
we now face. Good news is always           We thank everyone who participated
good whenever it happens, but more so      and look forward to other happy events
at the start of a New Year. It portends    in the upcoming year.
of things better to come and slowly but        As further explained in this month’s
surely, a return to more normal            issue, I am looking forward to
situations in our lives.                   speaking with all of you during our
    I am pleased to report that we         upcoming Congregational Zoom
recently have been able, under strict      meeting scheduled for Thursday,
rules and procedures, to resume our in-    January 29th at 7:00PM. Instructions
person Shabbos services. While our         for participation will become available
numbers are still very much limited,       by email in the coming weeks.
less than fifteen people, it has been a        On behalf of the Rabbi, our Board
source of satisfaction to our members      of Directors, our staff, and myself, we
who wish to attend. Hopefully, as the      all wish you a most Happy and Healthy
availability of the vaccine becomes        New Year.
more available, with the concurrent

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MEN’S CLUB HAPPENINGS
                                                  By Michael Katz, President

I   hope you and your families are all safe and well.

     Let’s hope that as the secular calendar is turning to
                                                              2020/21, thank you very much. For those who have yet
                                                              to do so, please join us. Your $36 membership dues help
                                                              the Men’s Club provide assistance to our Synagogue for
2021, we can turn the corner and look to better and           capital improvements as well as charitable donations to
healthy days ahead.                                           many worthwhile causes.
     Even though we won’t be having our annual Super              We are looking for men who would like to be
Bowl Party, I’m still looking to do a Super Bowl grid at      trustees for the Men’s Club. Please contact Michael
the usual $5 per box so you can have some rooting             Katz at katzfamily4@aol.com if you are interested in
interest during the game.                                     joining our board.
     There’s also the possibility that when the 2020-21           When you look at the Men’s Club wall in the main
NHL hockey season begins, and if the NJ Devils have           entranceway, you will see a special “Men of
fans in attendance, even in a limited capacity, and if they   Distinction” section. As many of us have honored the
have a Jewish Heritage Night, we could be able to             special women in our lives with inclusion on the
purchase tickets to it. What a novel concept, attending       “Women of Valor” wall, the Men’s Club would like you
live entertainment events, be it sports, music, theater,      to honor those special men in your life with a plaque in
etc.                                                          the “Men of Distinction” section. The cost is $150 for
     To those who have already sent in their dues for         this special honor.

                             *)('&%$#"!% *E(%%&($(

              Is your husband, son, father, grandfather, or any other special man
       in your life deserving of special recognition? If your answer is yes, as
       well it should be, there is a way for you to honor that special man or
       men, i% % % %  % %  %  %   % % *' % $ % %  % %
       raising activities.
              As you may have noticed, one wall in our synagogue lobby is
        % % % *' % $ % %  % %  %  %  %  %  % %
        *%%  %  % % %&  ' %  %%%%%
       honor the man, or men, in your life by placing his name on what, we hope,
       will be a growing list. The cost for the brass plaque is $150 for a lifetime
       of honor.
               % *' % $ %  % %  %  % % %  % f ways since its
       inception 35 years ago. During that time, we have contributed over
       $100,000 to the Synagogue for capital improvements. In addition, we have
       donated over $50,000 to Jewish and other charities and have provided
       ongoing financial assistance to youth activities.
       %  %   % % % *% %   % % %
       please call the synagogue office or Michael Katz @732-792-1096.

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Sisterhood Scoop
                                             By Mindy Fromm

       I hope that this newsletter finds you all safe and well. As Chanukah has just past, I hope that you
all enjoyed your crispy latkes and donuts dripping with jelly. I sure did. Our Sisterhood Festival of Lights
Chanukah Program was a huge success. We shared some treasured family recipes and wonderful
heartwarming stories of traditions and memories that went along with them. We all enjoyed our Secret
Sister gift exchange that was spearheaded and coordinated by Barbara Zagha and Michelle Fields. Thank
you both so much for your efforts. Everyone enjoyed unwrapping a gift that was picked out for each of
us from our secret sister. What fun!! And finally, lighting our menorahs together created a heartwarming
and uplifting moment. As usual, it was wonderful sharing this with all of you.
       The ringing in of 2021 certainly will bring many sighs of relief that 2020 is in our past and now we
look forward to positive changes in this new year ahead. I pray that the spirit and hopefulness of a new
year will push forward and give us peace, health and joyful times. We certainly will have many stories to
tell. We look forward to sharing other programs with you in the upcoming months. Some of our sisters
are already planning and putting final touches on two special programs. Please watch your email for more
information on those and also our upcoming book chats with Jane Goldstein. Our social chair Dorothy
Jablonka will be continuing Daytime Social Club meetings. Please watch your email for dates and times.
       For many of us, we still struggle with muddling through these uncertain times. If you are in need
of any assistance or just feel like chatting please call me or any one of our presidium whose numbers are
listed below. We will help in any way we can. We were so excited to help some of you learn to zoom and
join in on our programs. Please continue to reach out. Our presidium misses everyone. We long to get
back to sharing time and events together and the little things that we took for granted. But for now we
will adapt and adjust. Stay well and healthy!

              Mindy 732-598-4589                           Donna 908-216-0272
              Vickie 732-740-0276                          Rochelle 732-598-9427

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ADULT EDUCATION

          Maxine Pilavin’s class on “Legends of the Rabbis” continues on Mondays at 6:45
    PM. The Zoom “link” for this class appears in the weekly e-mail.
          The Rabbi’s class on the weekly Torah portion continues on Wednesdays at 10 AM.
    The Zoom “link: for this class appears in the weekly e-mail.

                                       RITUAL NEWS
          TU B’SHEVAT (15 SHEVAT) IS WEDNESDAY NIGHT JANUARY 27
    Tu B’Shevat is the New Year of the Trees. In Israel, the day is celebrated as an ecological
    awareness day, and trees are planted in celebration. On Tu B’Shevat 1890, Rabbi Ze'ev
    Yavetz, one of the founders of the Mizrachi movement, took his students to plant trees in the
    agricultural colony of Zichron Yaakov. This custom was adopted in 1908 by the Jewish
    Teachers Union and later by the Jewish National Fund.

         JANUARY 17 SESSION: WHEN ONE RABBI DEFENDED SLAVERY
    On the eve of Martin Luther King Jr. Day, we mark the 160th anniversary of a famous pro-
    slavery sermon delivered by Rabbi Morris Jacob Raphall (1798-1868). This sermon was
    given in Congregation B’nai Jeshurun in New York during the period in between Lincoln’s
    election and the official start of the Civil War. The Rabbi will provide excerpts of this sermon
    and the arguments used from Genesis 9 and 16, Exodus 20 and Deuteronomy 5 (the Ten
    Commandments) and elsewhere. The Rabbi will begin his “Zoom” talk at 7:30 PM
    Sunday January 17 and end before minyan.

      The Jewish Community Emergency COVID Relief Fund Can Help
      Are you or someone you know facing hardship du   due to COVID-19? If
      so, we caan
                n help. The Jewish Commu munity Emergency COVID Relief
      Fund, brought to fruition with the help of the Jewish Federaattion in
      the Heart of NJ, is av
                          available to the Jewish commu
                                                      munity in Greater
      Middlesex and Monmouth counties. Funds distributed are for
      basic human needs such as food, shelter, medicine an and mental health. Famiilies who
      hav
       ave lost income and/or support services as a result of the pandemic are
      encouraged to reach out. Identity is kept confi
                                                    fidential. Please contact Stacy
      Feldman, StacyF@JewishHeartNJ.org.

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From My Perch
                                           By Maxine Pilavin
                                Mending the Ties that Break
        I have recently reconnected with some of my large extended family. Our shared isolation and
search for more human interaction likely sparked these renewed links. Cousins with whom I have not
had contact in years, have been emailing and texting me. A cousin I phoned in Atlanta told me of her
son’s recent marriage. Another cousin living in Israel now keeps me up to date on WhatsApp about
happenings in Israel and her family. A cousin in Florida called and informed me of both the sad and
the joyful news concerning her husband and son. It is wonderful to expand my list of contacts and
fascinating to discover what has been happening in my family’s lives.
        Still, there was one cousin about whom I was unsure, one with whom I’d had a bumpy
relationship many years ago. This cousin seemed to have an exaggerated view of my economic status
and once registered a complaint about it. She appeared jealous somehow. Over the years, I contacted
her on a couple of occasions, but she never called me. I suspect she never changed her views about
me, even 40 years later. Nonetheless, I considered reaching out to her. I emailed, asked her how she
was faring, told her what was happening with my family and me, and concluded that she should feel
free to reply if she wished. She did not respond.
        I felt bad about my cousin’s unwillingness to rebuild a relationship. Thoughts surfaced not only
about her envious feelings towards me, but also about envy’s destructive effects. In the Torah, we see
many examples of this. Cain jealously murders his brother Abel because God preferred Abel’s
offering. Joseph’s brothers become jealous of Joseph because he is the favored son. This causes the
brothers to try to murder him and then sell him into slavery. Miriam, one of the three most powerful
leaders in the Israelite community, speaks poorly of Moses to her brother Aaron. The siblings envy
Moses’ special relationship with God, and God punishes Miriam for this.
        Envy causes a blindness in us. Envious people focus on others’ blessings and do not see their
own, which, ironically, may be even more substantial. Jealous people, in emphasizing others’
blessings, are oblivious to others’ bad luck—luck which may actually outweigh their fortunes. Finally,
envious people, unable to see beyond their jealousies, end up breaking off relationships with the
people they envy, creating a rift in their friendships.
        Sadly, family members’ negative feelings for one another can last a long time, sometimes for a
lifetime. At my wedding, we could not seat any of my grandfather’s seven brothers at the same table
because of arguments that took place decades earlier. In my husband’s family, my father-in-law and
his brother lived a mile apart from each other, yet neither they nor their families had any interaction
for over 35 years.
        My husband advocates trying to mend the broken ties in our lives. He believes that with
periodic attempts, we can chip away at the rotten part of the relationship to reestablish a fruitful one.
True, it doesn’t always work, but it’s certainly worth a try. We can rejuvenate relationships and add to
our arsenal of contacts. In the words of Marie Kondo, that would spark joy, especially in these
isolating times.
        For any topics you would like addressed in future articles, please email me at:
mpilavin@gmail.com.

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IMPORTANT NOTICE

     We hope that all of our community is doing well. Please check
     your email or call the office at 732-446-3000 for our latest status.
     Note that many events and services will be taking place via Zoom.

     The office is open with limited hours. Please call before coming
     in as all visits will be by appointment only. All visitors to the shul
     are required to wear masks.

     We have installed a locked mailbox at the door of the shul for
     anyone wishing to drop off letters or payments. Allison & Rabbi
     Pilavin will continue to check their voicemail, email, and regular
     mail.

     Stay safe!

     Steve Kass
     President

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RABBI GEDALIA DOV SCHWARTZ SERVED CONGREGATION SONS OF ISRAEL

                                                        Rabbi Schwartz, a longtime judge in Orthodox
                                                rabbinical courts and a leading authority in Jewish
                                                law, passed away December 10. He was 95.
                                                        Rabbi Schwartz served as lead judge for the
                                                Beth Din of America, one of the major Jewish courts
                                                in the U.S., for nearly 30 years. He also led the court
                                                of the Chicago Rabbinical Council since moving there
                                                from Brooklyn in 1987. Prior to his post in Chicago,
                                                Schwartz held pulpits in Providence, Rhode Island;
                                                Englishtown, New Jersey; Philadelphia and Brooklyn.
                                                 In announcing his death, the Orthodox Union
                                                described Rav Schwartz as “a universally recognized
                                                leader of American Jewry whose psak halacha
(Jewish legal decisions) and wise counsel were sought by innumerable lay people, community
leaders, and rabbis alike.”
       A native of Newark, NJ, he studied at Yeshiva College and was among the first American-born
students to receive semicha (rabbinic ordination) from Rabbi Joseph B. Soloveitchik.
       Over sixty years ago, his original work “Divrei Regesh” was endorsed by Rav Aaron Kotler of
Lakewood. Our synagogue library includes a signed copy of this book given as a gift to Esther and
Percy Bloom, of blessed memory, on 9 Elul 5720 (September 1, 1960). The back page of this
Talmudic work acknowledges the publishing assistance of prominent members of Sons of Israel:
Milton Berger, Jack Goldfine, Dr. Samuel Bar, Murray Yacknowitz, Jack Zackowitz, Anna Berger and
Chevrat Lomday Chumash b’Englishtown (The Englishtown Society of Torah Students).

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Daughters of Israel
                                                
                                                        
                                                  

To the ladies of our community,

What is Sisterhood? We are a group of women who come together to promote the welfare of our
Congregation Sons of Israel family. We enhance our lives together - learning, laughing, exploring life and
trying to make a difference. To date, we are in the midst of planning programs, events and fundraising for
the upcoming year. Excellent ideas have been suggested and we look forward to doing as much as
possible.

WE NEED YOUR HELP        
Sisterhood as a strong and vital arm of our synagogue. Your contribution of annual dues to Daughters of
Israel helps us to maintain and enhance the physical and spiritual needs of our Congregation and our
community.

        We know how full        schedule.
        Get together with us for an event (or two), or a function (or two). Bring your friends and family!
                            We look forward to sharing good deeds and good times.

                                                      
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____Programs               ____Fundraising               ____ New Member Welcome Baskets
____Telephone Squad        ____Soup and Smiles

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DONATIONS
           Your dues make up only a small part of our synogogue’s total income. We rely upon
      your generous contributions and we thank the following for their tzedekah to our congregation.
RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND                           Susanna & German Faerman in memory of Rosaliya
Merrill & Charlie Jaslow in memory of Michael               Virtgaym
       Robinson                                      Jo Freud in memory of Gideon Freud
Rhoda & Manny Chodosh in memory of Michael           Jacqueline & S. David Cohen in memory of Eva
       Robinson                                             Cohen
Ellen, Alan & Melissa Reiman and Robin, Garrett &
       Rena Diamond in honor of the 50th             HOLOCAUST FUND
       anniversary of Marlene & Steve Greenblatt     Barbara & Bruce Forman & family in memory of
Alan Reiman for a speedy recovery to Ellen Reiman           Michael Robinson
Alan Reiman in memory of Rose Mann                   Barbara & Bruce Forman & family in memory of
Pnina & Ira Matlow in memory of Alfred Lawrence             Howard Liberman
       Matlow                                        Barbara & Bruce Forman in memory of Isaac
Mitchell Strear in memory of Irving Levine                  Kramer
Mitchell Strear in memory of Morris Levine           Nurit & Steve Litwok in memory of Bronka Kohn
Mitchell Strear in memory of Morris Strear                  Serebrin
Mimi & Jack Werbler in memory of Marion Werbler      Edith & Fred Mosesman in memory of Isaac Kramer
Regina & Dan Werbler in memory of Marion             Laurie Bernstein & Seth Ptasiewicz in memory of
       Werbler                                              Isidore Bernstein
Rhoda & Manny Chodosh in memory of Chaim Meir        Nancy & Bill Berger in memory of Harry Berger
       Chodosh
Gloria Pauker in memory of Michael Pauker            KIDDUSH FUND
Ruth & Abe Levine in memory of Solomon Levine        Maxine & Art Finkel in memory of Michael
Susan Feinstein in memory of Lorraine Kaye                  Robinson
Yvette & Mitchell Plattman in memory of Doreen       Maxine & Art Finkel in honor of the birth of their
       Plattman                                             grandson Elias Reed Weinberg
Susanna & German Faerman in memory of Rosaliya       Maxine & Art Finkel in memory of Hy Weiner
       Virtgaym                                      Vickie & Larry Amron in memory of Rhoda Amron
Cheryl & Stephen Rock in memory of Herbert Rock      Maxine & Art Finkel in memory of Jacob Kusselson
Marsha & Richard Reimer in memory of Richard
       Green                                         PRAYER BOOK FUND
Marsha & Richard Reimer in memory of Martin          Teri & Howard Mucha in memory of Lori
       Green                                                Goldhammer
Jacqueline Chaise in memory of Irving Shomer
                                                     READING IS REWARDING FUND
BIKUR CHOLIM FUND                                    Joan & Ivan Carr in memory of David Carr
Joel Iserson in memory of Phillip Sirota
Jack Schier in memory of Sybill Schier               SISTERHOOD GOLDEN CARDS
                                                     Sisterhood for a speedy recovery to the Harris family
CEMETERY FUND                                        Sisterhood for a speedy recovery to the Zagha family
Barbara & Maurice Zagha in memory of Beatrice        Sisterhood for a speedy recovery to Nurit & Steve
      Zagha                                                 Litwok
Barbara & Maurice Zagha in memory of Eli Zagha       Sisterhood in memory of Michael Robinson
Roberta & Marvin Friedman in memory of Jacob         Rochelle & Keith Epstein for a speedy recovery to
      Friedman                                              the Harris family
                                                                          Donations, continued on page 19

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Congregation Sons of Israel is selling honors & memories!!
                         We now have a program in which you can purchase trees for Israel.
                                          The cost will be $ 18 per tree

 (2 Trees)                                                  (2 Trees)
 TO: Bonnie Silverman & family                              TO: Sharon and Ilan Zarom
 In memory of your beloved father & grandfather,            In memory of your beloved granddaughter, Lily Bea
        Howard Liberman                                            Keyzner
 FROM: Edith & Fred Mosesman                                FROM: Jan & Jay Lillianthal

 TO: Mrs. Phoebe Hanft                                      (2 Trees)
 In memory of your beloved husband, Marcy Hanft             TO: Keren and Alex Keyzner
 FROM: Sharon & Saul Spital                                 In memory of your beloved daughter, Lily Bea
                                                                   Keyzner
 TO: Ms. Ellen Marcus                                       FROM: Jan & Jay Lillianthal
 In memory of your beloved brother, David Marcus
 FROM: Sharon & Saul Spital                                 (2 Trees)
                                                            TO: Melissa and Kenneth DePasquale
 TO: Richard Simon                                          In memory of your beloved daughter Carrie
 In memory of your beloved brother, Alan                    FROM: Jan & Jay Lillianthal
 FROM: Barbara & Maurice Zagha
                                                            TO: Allison & Richard Robinson
 TO: Alan & Bonnie Weiner                                   In memory of your beloved brother, Michael
 In loving memory of a devoted husband, father,                   Robinson
        grandfather and a wonderful man, Hy Weiner          FROM: Dorothy Jablonka
 FROM: Barbara & Maurice Zagha
                                                            TO: Alan & Bonnie Weiner
 TO: Lorraine & Sheldon Kane                                In memory of your beloved father, Hy Weiner
 In memory of your beloved mother, Roseanne Kane            FROM: Dorothy Jablonka
 FROM: Kim & Ray Gwertzman

 TO: Alyssa & Dan Kane
 In memory of your beloved grandmother, Roseanne
       Kane
 FROM: Kim & Ray Gwertzman

Rabbi, continued from page 3

        The Jewish Publication Society recently published Edward K. Kaplan’s one-volume biography:
Abraham Joshua Heschel: Mind, Heart, Soul. This book outlines Heschel’s Chasidic childhood in Warsaw, his
young adulthood in Vilna and Berlin, his escape from the Nazis, his arrival in America in 1940, and his role as
scholar and activist before his untimely passing in 1972.
        On Shabbat morning, January 9, Jews begin reading the Book of Exodus. When we do, I am sure to
recall Heschel’s words: “At the first conference on religion and race, the main participants were Pharaoh and
Moses…. The outcome of that summit meeting has not come to an end…”
        May the legacy of Rav Avraham Yehoshua ben Rav Moshe Mordecai continue to challenge and inspire!

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January Birthdays
1st                               10th                               Fred Stone
Cheryl Rock                       Jill Kellner                       21st
Emanuel B. Chodosh                11th                               Stuart Moskovitz
Bruce Beckerman                   Alexander Friedman                 23rd
3rd                               Bruce Forman                       Allan Katz
Nancy Berger                      12th                               Sheila Solat
4th                               Anita Raboi                        Donna Fassman
Genna Lillianthal                 H. Raymond Solk                    24th
5th                               13th                               Stephen Peller
Zachary Erdman                    Lauren Reich                       25th
Steven Ellis                      Halle Bernstein                    Ilene Resnick
Renee Ritz                        14th                               Jacqueline Roberman-Glyn
6th                               Jerry Deutsch                      28th
Paul Fried                        15th                               Esther Volet
7th                               Seth Wisniewski                    29th
Harlean Enis                      Sunny Schwartz                     Larry Finkelstein
8th                               17th                               Leah Moskowitz
Randi Kramer                      Michelle Fields                    Edith Mosesman
9th                               19th                               30th
Joel Rubin                        Ellen Bennet                       Rabbi Robert Pilavin
Alex Faerman                      20th
                                  Gerald Goldstein

                     January Anniversaries
14th                             18th                               24th
David & Donna Binder             Mayer & Marian Brandwein           Maurice & Barbara Zagha
15th                             19th                               30th
Richard & Marsha Reimer          Bernard & Sharon Gitlitz           Jay & Michelle Fields
16th                             Moshe & Sharon Benous              31st
Shaun & Genna Lillianthal                                           Steven & Beth Goldman

                                    Mazel Tov
             Carole & Steve Kass on the birth of their grandson, Mason Isaak Kofman
     Chaya Friedmann on earning her Doctorate in Education from Gratz College in Philadelphia
            Rochelle & Keith Epstein on the birth of their granddaughter, Julia Epstein
                 Jackie & Noah Glyn on the birth of their son, Boaz David Glyn

                              Condolences
 Alan & Bonnie Weiner & family on the loss of their beloved father and grandfather, and our beloved
                                      member, Hy Weiner

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JANUARY YAHRZEIT LIST
January 1            17 Tevet                    January 13          29 Tevet
Hyman Arenson        father of Eileen Stern      Samuel Bashner      grandfather of Alan
Lily Wold            mother of Aaron Wold                            Brooker
January 2            18 Tevet                    Louis Moskowitz     father of William
Ella Schier          mother of Jack Schier                           Moskowitz
January 3            19 Tevet                    Theodore Bass       father of Sharon
Ronald Eisenberg     brother of Linda Rubin                          Schleifstein
January 4            20 Tevet                    Alan Schildkraut    husband of Cheryl
Anna Goldfarb        mother-in-law of Gerald                         Schildkraut
                     Barad                       January 15          2 Shevat
January 5            21 Tevet                    Deborah Singer      mother of Esther Volet
Aileen Katz          mother of Allan Katz        Deborah Singer      mother of Rena Toubin
Martha Schweber      mother of Sandra            Lazarus Sigman      father of Marshall Sigman
                     Teitelbaum                  January 16          3 Shevat
Esther Tutnauer      mother of Barbara Rich      Sigmund Rizick      brother-in-law of Myrna
January 6            22 Tevet                                        Rizick
Harry Rubin          father of Alvin Rubin       January 17          4 Shevat
Harriet Hetchkop     sister of Shirley Wold      Isaac Kantor        brother of Teddy Kantor
Morris Rosenblum     grandfather of Harold       Bella Teitelbaum    mother of Isidore
                     Cohen                                           Teitelbaum
January 7            23 Tevet                    Anna (Chana) Bilmes grandmother of Roberta
Pearl Kass           mother of Steven Kass                           Thaler
Arthur Levine        father of Sharon Harrison   Jerome Weinberg     father of Caryn Sherman
Abe Kaplowitz        father of William           January 18          5 Shevat
                     Kaplowitz                   Hedvig Friedmann    mother-in-law of Chaya
Rae Thaler           grandmother of George                           Friedmann
                     Thaler                      January 19          6 Shevat
January 8            24 Tevet                    William Berns       stepfather of Larry
Marilyn Kaufman      mother of Mitchell                              Finkelstein
                     Kaufman                     Hadassah Nabozny    mother of Joshua Nabozny
January 9            25 Tevet                    Marvin Levine       brother of Abraham Levine
Simon Wisniewski     father of Martin            Marilyn Bleiweis    mother of Arlene
                     Wisniewski                                      Lustgarten
Eugene Virtgaym      father of Susanna Faerman   January 20          7 Shevat
Roslyn Iserson       wife of Joel Iserson        Herman Brenman      uncle of Mitchell Brenman
Bernard Schenerman   father of Randi Kramer      Ben List            father of Maurice List
January 10           26 Tevet                    January 21          8 Shevat
Seymour Scharf       father of Bonni Kurlander   Aaron Alpert        uncle of Alan Brooker
January 11           27 Tevet                    Gussie Dolman       mother of Allan Dolman
Julius Tutnauer      father of Barbara Rich      Sidney Dolled       father of Lonny Dolled
Goldie Levine        mother of Abraham Levine    Lillian Brown       grandmother of Stacey
Goldie Epstein       mother of Sandy Leiser                          Katz
                                                                    Yahrzeit, continued on page 19

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Yahrzeit, continued from page 18
January 22              9 Shevat                     January 30             17 Shevat
Ruth Barshay            mother of Nancy Bolotsky     Benjamin Lipsker       father of Fran Appelbaum
Alice Schultz           mother of Marsha Garber      Harriet Cohen          mother of Jeffrey Cohen
May Beckerman           mother of Bruce              Martin Ginsberg        father of Mark Ginsberg
                        Beckerman                    Benjamin Lipsker       father of Rochelle Berkal
January 23              10 Shevat                    Benjamin Lipsker       father of Sharon Schioppo
Martin Denman           stepfather of Jeremy         George Thaler          grandfather of George
                        Weinstein                                           Thaler
January 25              12 Shevat                    January 31             18 Shevat
Milton Berkal           father of Edward Berkal      Theodore Davidson      father of Beth Krinsky
January 26              13 Shevat                    Ruth Feldman           mother-in-law of Jack
Menyhert Groszman       father of Miriam Mishan                             Schier
January 28              15 Shevat                    Zygmunt Litwok         father of Stephen Litwok
Gertrude Fessler        mother of Stanley Fessler
January 29              16 Shevat
Joseph Goldberg         father of Richard Goldberg

Donations, continued from page 14
Rochelle Epstein in memory of Diane Arends’ son      Susan & Gary Finkelstein in memory of Michael
                                                            Robinson
SISTERHOOD SOUP & SMILES                             Teri & Howard Mucha in memory of Michael
Sharon & Lonny Dolled in honor of the birth of              Robinson
      Mason Isaak Kofman                             Nurit & Steve Litwok in memory of Hy Weiner
                                                     Nurit & Steve Litwok for a speedy recovery to Gary
TORAH FUND                                                  Girolamo
Rochelle & Keith Epstein in memory of Sam Roth       Nurit & Steve Litwok for a speedy recovery to
Rochelle & Keith Epstein in memory of Harry Berg            Henry Haimowitz
Pnina & Ira Matlow in memory of Bela Miodownik       Sandra & Murray Shenberg for a speedy recovery to
                                                            Gary Cohen
GENERAL DONATIONS                                    Robert & Tina Arky
Bonnie & Steven Leff for a speedy recovery to        Sandra & Murray Shenberg
       Marian Brandwein                              Nancy & Abe Bronner for Chanukah
Bonnie & Steven Leff for a speedy recovery to        Harold Cohen in memory of Abe Rosenflum
       Peggy Cohen                                   Ronnie & Aaron Gold in memory of Morris Gold
Harlean & Jerry Enis in memory of Michael            Nancy & Yitzhak Goldstein in memory of Wolf
       Robinson                                             Rechtman
Edith & Fred Mosesman in memory of Michael           Nancy & Yitzhak Goldstein in memory of Louis
       Robinson                                             Warech
Marge & Ken Schwartz in memory of Michael            Marvin Wakoff in memory of Estelle Wakoff
       Robinson                                      Mitchell Kershner in memory of Jill Kershner
Bonnie & Steven Leff in memory of Michael            Mitchell Kershner in memory of Milton Kershner
       Robinson                                      Ellen Groelinger in memory of Ruth Schneier
Sandra & Murray Shenberg for a speedy recovery to    Ronnie & Aaron Gold in memory of Arthur Schwartz
       Gary Cohen                                    Jodi Jacobs in memory of Charles Zimmer
Sandra & Murray Shenberg
Nurit & Steve Litwok in memory of Michael
       Robinson

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The Mens Club
                                      Congregation Sons of Israel
                                               P.O. Box 369
                                          33 Gordons Corner Road
                                       Manalapan, New Jersey 07726
                                Phone: 732-446-3000  Fax: 732-792-8062
     Rabbi Robert S. Pilavin                                                             www.sonsofisrael.com
                                                                                                      July 2020
     Dear Fellow Congregant:

     The Board %$#"! # ##!% #%#and your family are staying safe and well. We also hope that
     upon receiving this letter, you will consider becoming part of a very special group of men dedicated to
     providing service to our Synagogue and helping it to prosper and grow.

     ! # ####"#44th year of existence and continues to be an integral part of our Synagogue.
     ! #  # # $% # %#  !#  # #   # %"# "#   # ! #  % # #
     opportunity to develop friendships. It also offers educational and service opportunities that reflect the
     interests of its members. We sponsor youth events, host informative breakfast programs and furnish
      $"# "%# % #  "# " !# ! # ! #  # #  % # %" "%# "%# "! #  %  # $% #
     capital improvements including the sound system in the Sanctuary and social hall, a new oven in the
     Pareve kitchen exclusively for synagogue use, new chairs in the small Sanctuary, a new screen in the
     Simcha room, as well as charitable donations to secular and non-secular organizations. We have
     bolstered every facet of Synagogue activity. As you read this letter we are planning and hope to have
     many varied and stimulating in person programs for our 2020/2021 year. We look forward to your
     attendance and participation.

      #  !#  ##% # #%##  #%#"!####  #%$#"! # ## #
     annual dues are only $36. Please complete the membership form below with your payment and join us.

     Please note, we encourage you to join and become an active member and assist in planning and
     organizing our important programs. We hope you participate in our social activities as well as perform
     various supportive services for the Synagogue. Active participation can be very gratifying. It will be an
     exciting year with your support.

     If you have any questions or ideas, please feel free to contact Michael Katz at 732-792-1096
     (katzfamily4@aol.com) or Maurice Zagha at 732-303-9009 (mzagha@optonline.net). If you want to
     participate in any capacity, the doors are open.

     Thank you in advance for your support.

     Michael Katz                                   Maurice Zagha
     President                                      Vice President-Membership
                              ##20/2021   Dues: $36
     Name: _______________________________________________________________

     Address: _______________________________________________________________
     Phone #: ____________________________ E-mail: ___________________________

                      
               Forty Four years of serving the Synagogue and the community from 1976 to 2020.

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                           Minyan Times - January
Friday Afternoon (ZOOM Mincha)                                Sunday (ZOOM) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8:30 A.M.
   January 1, 8 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4:00 P.M.
   January 15, 22, 29 . . . . . . . . . . . . 4:15 P.M.       Weekday Mornings (ZOOM) . . . . . . 7:15 A.M.
                                                              Friday, January 1, is a legal holiday. The morning minyan
Saturday Mornings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9:30 A.M.       will be at 8:30 AM.
                (IN SYNAGOGUE)**
Saturday Afternoon (Mincha)                                   Sunday-Thursday Evenings (ZOOM)               8:00 P.M.
   January 2, 9, 16, 23, 30 . . . . . . . . 12:00 P.M.        Please support our services via ZOOM. Even a ZOOM
                  (IN SYNAGOGUE)**
                                                              service needs a minyan!
Saturday Evening (ZOOM Ma’ariv & Havdalah)                    ** If not cancelled due to Covid related concerns
   January 2, 9 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5:45 P.M.
   January 16, 23 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6:00 P.M.
   January 30 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6:15 P.M.
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