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                             GOOD IDEA             KOINONIA: A place for             AROUND THE DIOCESE
                            A confession          belonging, healing and             Lenten fish fries
                          from the heart             spiritual renewal
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FROM THE
                                                                                                       BISHOP KETTLER’S
    BISHOP
                                                                                                          CALENDAR
    REFLECTIONS ON MY RETREAT WITH THE                                                       MARCH 1
                                                                                              School Mass and visit, St. Mary of Mount
    PREACHER OF THE PAPAL HOUSEHOLD                                                           Carmel, Long Prairie
                                                                                             MARCH 2
                                                                                              “Annie” dinner theater, St. Peter, St. Cloud
      Dear brothers and sisters in Christ,                                                   MARCH 3
                                                                                              Confirmation at Morris for St. Anthony,
                                                                                              Browns Valley; St. Mary, Chokio; Sacred
       In January, I was among the U.S. bishops who attended a weeklong retreat at            Heart, Glenwood; Assumption, Morris;
    Mundelein Seminary at the University of St. Mary of the Lake near Chicago. We             St. Bartholomew, Villard; and Ave Maria,
    bishops were there to ask for forgiveness for our failures in not adequately and          Wheaton
    justly responding to sexual abuse in our Church and to pray that we might give a         MARCH 5
                                                                                              Diocesan Finance Council meeting, Chancery
    better response in the future.
                                                                                             MARCH 6
       Our retreat director was Capuchin Father Raniero Cantalamessa, who has                 Ash Wednesday Mass, Cathedral of St. Mary,
    served as preacher of the papal household for nearly 40 years. He was there at            St. Cloud
    the suggestion of Pope Francis, not to talk directly about the abuse crisis or offer     MARCH 7
    solutions, but to help us bishops reflect more deeply on our mission and ministry         Culture Development Team meeting, Pastoral
                                                                                              Center, St. Cloud; and St. Cloud Area Faith
    of serving Christ and the Church. In addition to the retreat talks, we spent time in
                                                                                              Leaders meeting, Chancery
    prayer — at daily Mass, in eucharistic adoration and at vespers.                         MARCH 8
       In his talks, Father Cantalamessa challenged us to grow closer to Jesus Christ         Ecumenical/Interreligious Commission
    through the Holy Spirit in our own vocations. He spoke about how he was greatly           meeting, Chancery
    influenced in his own faith journey by the working of the Holy Spirit. We felt that      MARCH 10
                                                                                              Confirmation at St. Stephen for Our Lady
    same Sprit at work during our gathering. I have been a bishop for more than 16
                                                                                              of Mount Carmel, Opole; St. Stephen, St
    years, and I have never felt the unity and camaraderie with my fellow bishops as I        Stephen; St. Columbkille, St. Wendel; and Rite
    did during our retreat.                                                                   of Election, Cathedral of St. Mary, St. Cloud
       The messages we heard reaffirmed for us the need to have better accountability        MARCH 15
    measures for bishops and additional initiatives to protect all church members from        Monastic leaders and CSB/SJU presidents’
                                                                                              luncheon, Chancery; and Nuns’ Banquet,
    sexual abuse. Father Cantalamessa also called on us bishops to respond better to          St. Benedict’s Monastery, St. Joseph
    the Church’s other needs at this time.                                                   MARCH 16
       I want to share some of the other points made during the retreat that I have been      Diaconate community gathering, TBD
    reflecting on these past weeks:                                                          MARCH 17
    • As Christians, we must be open to the working of the Holy Spirit.                       Confirmation at St. Paul, Sauk Centre for
                                                                                              Our Lady of Angels, Sauk Centre; St. Paul,
       The Holy Spirit is God’s highest gift to us and the Church, and this gift is alive     Sauk Centre
    in us. The Holy Spirit creates unity, but it needs our cooperation. The work of the      MARCH 19
    Holy Spirit is for the common good. The Holy Spirit brings the new commandment            Diocesan Presbyteral Council meeting,
    of love to the Church. This love makes following the law possible. Without the Holy       Chancery; and record TV Mass, Pastoral
                                                                                              Center
    Spirit, God is far away. With the Holy Spirit, the Church is alive.
                                                                                             MARCH 20
    • Prayer is essential to our lives as Christians, and we must be committed to it.         Confirmation at Elrosa for St. Francis de
       Pay attention to the value of an hour before Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament,           Sales, Belgrade; St. Donatus, Brooten, Sts.
    Father Cantalamessa told us. The best way to meet Jesus, who is always with us,           Peter and Paul, Elrosa
    is in the Eucharist. Turn to God in prayer. With God, “Abba,” all things are possible.   MARCH 21
                                                                                              Feast of St. Benedict Mass and breakfast,
    Even when there seems to be no possibility left, we can still pray. This prayer will
                                                                                              St. Scholastica Convent; and St. Cloud Mission
    never be in vain. The Our Father can be a prayer for every situation.                     Office corporate board meeting, Chancery
    • Beware of idolizing material things, including money.                                  MARCH 22
       Behind every evil is money. Never let money, power and other temptations steer         “Mary Poppins,” St. John’s Prep School at
    us away from God and his teachings. Rather, follow the riches of Christ. The Church       Paramount, St. Cloud
                                                                                             MARCH 24
    should be the Church of the poor, Father Cantalamessa said. The idolatry of money         Confirmation at Pierz for St. Michael, Buckman;
    must be attacked as much as the idolatry of sex.                                          Holy Cross, Harding; St. Rita, Hillman; St.
       I continue to reflect on the talks and messages that I heard at the retreat. We        John Nepomuk, Lastrup; Holy Cross, Onamia;
    have much to be proud about regarding our Church here in the Diocese of St. Cloud.        St. Joseph, Pierz; St. Therese Little Flower
                                                                                              Mission, Vineland; Sacred Heart, Wahkon
    But we also face some challenging issues now and as we look to the future.
                                                                                             MARCH 27
       I am thinking especially of our diocesan pastoral planning efforts and our             Diocesan staff development day, Cathedral of
    upcoming bankruptcy reorganization (although no date for filing has been set yet).        St. Mary, St. Cloud
       Please pray for me, so that I make good and wise decisions regarding these            MARCH 28
    issues. Please also pray for all of us bishops as we work to maintain and improve         Mass with students, Cathedral High School,
                                                                                              St. Cloud
    safe environments and accountability measures for all, including bishops. I am
                                                                                             MARCH 30
    praying daily for all the people of our diocese.                                          Knights of Columbus Minnesota state free
       May God bless you and your loved ones.                                                 throw contest, Cathedral High School, St.
                                                                                              Cloud; and Castaway Retreat, Detroit Lakes
      Sincerely yours in Christ,                                                             MARCH 31
                                                                                              Confirmation at Holdingford for St. Stanislaus
                                                 BISHOP DONALD J. KETTLER                     Kostka, Bowlus; St. Edward, Elmdale; All Saints,
                                                                                              Holdingford; Immaculate Conception, St. Anna;
                                                     is the ninth bishop of the               St. Francis, St. Francis; St. Mary, Upsala
                                              Diocese of St. Cloud, Minnesota.

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                                                     THIS ISSUE
The Magazine of the
Catholic Diocese of St. Cloud                        4    FROM THE EDITOR

MARCH 2019
                                                     		Social media and
VOLUME 1: ISSUE 3                                    		 fostering authentic
www.stcdio.org                                       		community
Bishop Donald J. Kettler
PUBLISHER
                                                     5		 SAINT OF THE MONTH
Joe Towalski                                         		 PRAY FOR PRIESTS
EDITOR AND DIRECTOR OF COMMUNICATIONS                		 PRAY WITH POPE
                                                     		FRANCIS
Kristi Anderson
Dianne Towalski
MULTIMEDIA REPORTERS
                                                     6    KOINONIA
Carol Jessen-Klixbull                                		A place for belonging,
Nikki Rajala
                                                     		 healing and spiritual
COPY EDITORS
                                                     		renewal
Barbara Simon-Johnson

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                                                     		 LENT this year?

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    EDITOR

                   Social media
           and fostering authentic community
                              Each year, Pope Francis customarily releases his annual World
                           Communications Day message on Jan. 24, the feast of St. Francis de Sales, the
                           patron saint of journalists. As a Catholic journalist for more than 25 years now,          FOR REFLECTION
                           I’m interested in how the pope’s words apply to those who work as professional      As you flip through the pages of
                           Catholic communicators. But his message always includes themes on which             The Central Minnesota Catholic, we
        JOE TOWALSKI       every Catholic should reflect.                                                      hope you will consider spending
      is the editor and       This year’s message is titled “‘We are members one of another’ (Eph 4:25):       some time in reflection. The
          the director of From social network communities to the human community.” The “members                questions below apply to articles
     communications                                                                                            in this edition and are intended
                           one of another” phrase from St. Paul’s Letter to the Ephesians reminds us
                                                                                                               to help you think more deeply.
         for the Diocese   that, through our baptism, we are all members of the body of Christ. It is a        Feel free to use these questions
            of St. Cloud.  membership rooted in truth, communion, love and concern for others.                 for silent reflection, with family or
                              In this context, the “net” and social media become valuable communications       friends, or come up with some of
    resources, if they are used properly: to foster healthy personal relationships, share knowledge, build     your own.
    community and nurture a sense of solidarity among people.
        But they aren’t substitutes for face-to-face relationships or participation in society on a personal    • People from across the diocese
    level. We don’t build community simply by increasing our followers on Facebook, Twitter or                   shared their ideas about Lent.
                                                                                                                 What is one way you will make
    Instagram. In fact, the internet and social media can become a realm in which we feel more alone             Lent meaningful this year?
    and isolated from others, particularly if these media are the predominant way we communicate with
    others or if they are used to spread disinformation, divide and demean people. The document notes           • Koinonia means “Christian
                                                                                                                 fellowship.” After reading the
    that one in four young people “is involved in episodes of cyberbullying” and that an International           story on pages 6-7, reflect on
    Observatory for Cyberbullying Prevention will be established with its headquarters in the Vatican.           where and how you experience
        Pope Francis wants us to understand that the “net,” social media and social network communities          “koinonia.” Is the Lord calling
    aren’t inherently good or bad. It depends on how we use them.                                                you to connect more deeply
        For me, this paragraph near the end of his message sums it up best:                                      with him? With others in your
                                                                                                                 community? How?
        “The image of the body and the members reminds us that the use of the social web is
    complementary to an encounter in the flesh that comes alive through the body, heart, eyes, gaze,            • What is one thing in this issue
    breath of the other. If the Net is used as an extension or expectation of such an encounter, then the        that you enjoyed? Why?
    network concept is not betrayed and remains a resource for communion. If a family uses the Net to           • What is something that
    be more connected, to then meet at table and look into each other’s eyes, then it is a resource. If a        challenged you? Why?
    Church community coordinates its activity through the network, and then celebrates the Eucharist
    together, then it is a resource. If the Net becomes an opportunity to share stories and experiences of            FAMILY CORNER
    beauty or suffering that are physically distant from us, in order to pray together and together seek                QUESTIONS
    out the good to rediscover what unites us, then it is a resource.”                                         Does your family have a special
        Take some time this month to reflect on how you and your family use the internet and social            Lenten tradition? Perhaps start a
    media. What is working well? What needs more work and attention?                                           new tradition and prepare one or
        May St. Francis de Sales intercede on our behalf, always guiding our communications with one           more of the Catholic Relief Services
    another — in person and online — for the benefit of all.                                                   Rice Bowl recipes featured in this
                                                                                                               magazine. Read the stories of other
                                                                                                               families around the world and pray
                                            OFFICIALS                                                          for them together.

      The Most Reverend Donald J. Kettler,               Reverend Timothy Gapinski to the Finance
                                                                                                                    QUESTION FOR MAY
                                                                                                               Do you know a couple who hold
    Bishop of the Diocese of Saint Cloud, makes            Council of the Diocese of Saint Cloud for
                                                                                                               the secret to a good marriage? A
    the following appointments in the Diocese of           a term of five years, ending December 31,
                                                                                                               couple with an inspirational story
    Saint Cloud, effective January 1, 2019:                2023.
                                                                                                               that they would be willing to share
                                                                                                               with others? We would like to
    Merle Felling to the Finance Council of the          Given at the Chancery
                                                                                                               feature their story in our May issue.
     Diocese of Saint Cloud for a term of five           Jane M. Marrin, Chancellor
                                                                                                               Please contact Kristi Anderson at
     years, ending December 31, 2023.                    Saint Cloud, Minnesota
                                                                                                               KBAnders@gw.stcdio.org or 320-
                                                         January 31, 2019
                                                                                                               258-7630.

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                                                                      Clip and save for April

A banner of Manuel Míguez González hangs from the facade of           April 1    Fr. Aaron Nett                 April 16 Steven Wielenberg
St. Peter’s Basilica at the Vatican in advance of his Oct. 15, 2017
canonization. (CNS photo/Paul Haring)
                                                                      April 2    Fr. Jeremy Theis               April 17 Kevin Soenneker
                                                                      April 3    Fr. Gabriel Walz               April 18 Daniel Ruprecht
                                                                      April 4    Our deceased priests with 		   April 19 Joseph VanDenheuvel
                         SAINT OF THE
                                                                                 April anniversaries            April 20 Nathaniel Daubner
                            MONTH
                                                                      April 5    Fr. Matthew Langager           April 21 Oliver Statz
                                                                      April 6    Fr. Douglas Liebsch            April 22 Bishop Donald Kettler
                                                                      April 7    Fr. Isaiah Frederick, OSB      April 23 Bishop Emeritus John Kinney
       ST. MANUEL MÍGUEZ GONZÁLEZ                                     April 8    Fr. Derek Wiechmann            April 24 Fr. Arthur Hoppe
                   FEAST DAY: MARCH 8                                 April 9    Deacon Richard Aubol           April 25 Fr. Sylvester Kleinschmidt
                                                                      April 10   Deacon Mark Botzet             April 26 Fr. Harold Pavelis
                                                                      April 11   Deacon Gregory Sauer           April 27 Fr. Edwin Kraemer
                                                                      April 12   Patrick Hoeft                  April 28 Fr. Kenneth Thielman
  Early in his priesthood, Manuel (who took the religious
                                                                      April 13   Brady Keller                   April 29 Fr. Richard Leisen
name Faustino of the Incarnation) was sent to Sanlúcar
                                                                      April 14   Thomas Skaja                   April 30 Fr. Arthur Vogel
de Barrameda in Spain, where he encountered illiterate
                                                                      April 15   Nikolas Zabinski
women who had been marginalized because of their
gender. Realizing the lifetime of injustices that had been            Sponsored by Serra Club of St. Cloud. For information on joining Serra
brought against these women, Father Faustino decided to               Club, call Joanne Benson at 320-654-8386.
take action. He prayed and sought the guidance of God,
but he knew he had to do more, so, in 1885, he established
the Daughters of the Divine Shepherdess, a new religious
congregation to educate women.
  Daughters of the Divine Shepherdess, also called the
Calasanzian Institute, emphasized the education and
promotion of girls and women with the intent of bettering               PRAY WITH POPE FRANCIS
their lives. Father Faustino’s order gained approval from               The following is Pope Francis’ prayer intention for March:
the archbishop of Seville in 1889, then received the pope’s
full approval in 1912.
  Born Manuel Míguez González in Spain in 1831, Father                    RECOGNITION OF THE RIGHT OF
Faustino is known for using his interests and passions —                  CHRISTIAN COMMUNITIES: “That
education and science — to advocate for the people he
encountered in his life. While he was well-known for his                  Christian communities, especially
devotion to the education of women, he was also devoted                   those who are persecuted, feel that
to science and the natural remedies found around him.
                                                                          they are close to Christ and have their
Early in his priesthood, Father Faustino began studying
the natural healing properties in plants, and saw them as                 rights respected.”
gifts from God that could help the sick. So, when those
who were ailing in some way would come to him for help,
he would create natural medicines out of his concoctions,
often curing those who sought his guidance. He became
known for his use of science and medicine in healing those
who needed it most.                                                      LITURGICAL CALENDAR
  Father Faustino had a proactive, hands-on nature.                   St. Casimir March 4 | Ash Wednesday March 6 | Sts. Perpetua and
Whether he was founding a new order for marginalized                  Felicity, martyrs March 7 | St. John of God, religious March 8 | St. Francis
women or creating natural medicines for the sick, he                  of Rome, religious March 9 | First Sunday of Lent March 10 | Second
showed his ability to truly and actively advocate for those           Sunday of Lent March 17 | St. Cyril of Jerusalem, bishop and doctor of
around him, doing whatever was necessary to make a                    the Church March 18 | Solemnity of St. Joseph, spouse of the Blessed
difference in the lives of those around him.                          Virgin Mary March 19 | St. Turibius of Mogrovejo, bishop March 23 | Third
  St. Manuel Míguez González was canonized by Pope                    Sunday of Lent March 24 | Solemnity of the Annunciation of the Lord
Francis in St. Peter’s Square in October 2017.                        March 25 | Fourth Sunday of Lent March 31

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    STORY

    Koinonia
    A place for belonging, healing
    and spiritual renewal
    story by              photography by
    KRISTI ANDERSON       DIANNE TOWALSKI

    A    lthough Deacon Carl Nord was raised Catholic, a negative
         experience in the Church as a young adult left him feeling
    excluded. He turned away from the Church and the community.
    He even doubted whether God truly existed.

       “I basically was an atheist,” Deacon Nord said.                               “And the other thing was that they included me without
       In 1991, his wife, Nancy, was going through a difficult                    question, and for me that was a big thing,” he added.
    time after her brother died by suicide. Some friends                             After the retreat, Deacon Nord shared his experience
    encouraged her to attend a Koinonia retreat.                                  with a friend.
       “Nancy had some friends who urged her to go because                           “My friend said, ‘Well, they scared you into becoming
    she needed some healing,” Deacon Nord said. “They had                         Catholic again.’ And I said, ‘No, they loved me back into it.’”
    found similar healing at Koinonia.”                                              Deacon Nord fell so in love with the program that
       Koinonia, pronounced ‘coy-nuh-knee-uh,’ means                              he continued on as a volunteer, leading and directing
    “Christian community” and is derived from a letter of                         numerous weekends. It was through the program that he
    St. Paul describing the early Church. Koinonia retreats                       also felt he heard the Lord calling him to the permanent
    are a community experience in Christian living designed                       diaconate. Deacon Nord was ordained a deacon in 1998.
    especially for adults. It is a Catholic retreat program                          After becoming a deacon, he served as spiritual director
    sponsored by the St. Cloud Diocese and open to people of                      on some of the weekends. Now, he serves on the board of
    all faiths.                                                                   directors and still participates as an annual retreatant.
       Nancy’s experience at Koinonia was so profound that                           “I continue to do weekends at least once a year now
    the first thing she said when she saw her husband was,                        because it helps regenerate my spirituality. When I came
    “You have to go on this retreat.”                                             in, I was an atheist. I didn’t have faith in anything. I didn’t
       Deacon Nord admits he was more than a little skeptical                     believe in anything. But like I said, it was the inclusion.
    about going on the retreat. He didn’t want to go. But he                      For me, that was an important thing,” he said.
    decided to attend for his wife’s sake and planned to just                        According to its website, Koinonia has a two-fold
    “hide out” in a corner. The first night he was there, he                      purpose: to provide a time and a place for adult Christians
    already felt the Holy Spirit working in him.                                  to experience the reality of Christian community,
       “At first, it was really difficult. Conversion itself is                   fellowship and sharing; and to provide a depth of faith-
    hard. But by the end of the second night, after seeing                        sharing support that allows and challenges inner renewal
    people who actually believed what they were talking                           for each participant at his or her own level.
    about and professed it, their faith was so apparent, it                          The theme of the Koinonia weekend is the Paschal
    began to change me,” Deacon Nord said. “By Sunday                             Mystery, the death and resurrection of Jesus. The first day
    morning I was ready to have that spiritual emptying,                          includes the celebration of Lent. There is a communal
    the dying to ‘self.’”                                                         penance service and the opportunity for individual

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confession through the sacrament of reconciliation. The
second day focuses on Easter and the implications that the
Resurrection brings to the life of each Christian. Pentecost
is celebrated on the third day by examining individuals’
roles in the Church.
   “People should go if they’re experiencing a dryness in
their faith. They should go if they want to find out what
the Catholic Church really can be. They should go if life
in general is getting them down and they need the kind of
comfort that Jesus can bring. They need to go if they think
their faith is just good and they want to make it better.
Especially they should go if they think that the Sunday
Mass once a week is all they need,” Deacon Nord said.
   The Koinonia retreat format also includes the mission of
renewal.
   “Depending on what God calls you to, the renewal part
involves a joyful engaging in your parish. It will help you
to renew the wonder of the Mass, renew your outlook on
the world in general. It will help you to renew your love
for your family,” he said.
   Deacon Nord added that many people come to the
weekend as skeptics, but he said it’s rare that anyone
leaves without a change of heart.
   “There have been people who have experienced changes
in their relationships with their spouses. We have a lot of
people who come on these weekends who are suffering
from addictions of one kind or another. People come with
all kinds of brokenness,” he said.
   “The object of the weekend is to have an experience of
Jesus Christ and to draw closer to him,” he said. “And I
would say that most people accomplish that.”

     2019 Koinonia retreats
      March 22-24
      CMK #220: Koinonia

      April 26-28
      CMSK #33: Koinonia en Español

      Sept. 13-15
      CMK #221: Koinonia

      Oct. 11-13
      CMSK #34: Koinonia en Español

      Nov. 8-10
      CMK #222: Koinonia

     Retreats are held at the TEC Center in
   Belle Prairie. For more information, visit
   centralmnkoinonia.org, call 320-217-2476
   or email info@centralmnkoinonia.org.

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HOW CAN I
     HAVE A GOOD
     LENT THIS YEAR?
     LENT BEGINS ON ASH
     WEDNESDAY, MARCH 6.

           Q     “Every year, I have good intentions about making Lent
                 meaningful. But every year I seem to fall short. What
                                                                                 season at its core, so that God may also raise us to a
                                                                                 new share in the life of grace.
                                                                                    What we learn from our failures is that we need a
         are some ways I can deepen my Lenten experience and stay                Savior, a Redeemer — that on our own, no matter how
         on track?”                                                              worthy our goals or how sincere our intentions, we just
                                                                                 cannot save ourselves. We need someone stronger,

      ASK FATHER
             TOM
                        P    erhaps 25 years ago, Peter Egan wrote a column
                             in the car magazine “Road and Track” titled
                        “Murphy’s Law in the Garage.” It was a wry look at all
                                                                                 wiser, greater than we are to do for us what we cannot
                                                                                 do. That awareness, born from our failures at natural
                                                                                 virtue and the insufficiency of our own resources,
                        the things that go wrong with amusing — or alarming      opens us to grace.
                        — consistency, depending on one’s point of view.            This does not mean we simply give up and put forth
                        Among his observations: “Any toolbox you can lift will   no effort at all. St. Paul captures this tension between
                        be missing the one tool you need.”                       our effort and God’s grace when he writes: “Work out
                           Adapted for Lent, we might say: “Any Lenten           your salvation in fear and trembling” (Philippians 2:12).
                        resolution you can keep without fail is not what you     Cooperating with God’s grace, we recognize both
                        really need to work on.”                                 how fragile we are and how enduring God’s mercy is.
                           Physical fitness is assessed by strength, endurance   Failing does not teach us not to try at all, but not to try
                        and flexibility. The same can be applied to spiritual    without God.
                        fitness. Forty days is a long time; what we might           Thus our Lenten failures can bring us to the heart
                        have the strength to do in short bursts often proves     of the Gospel message, again in St. Paul’s words:
                        inconsistent long-term; and some things come easier      “Indeed, only with difficulty does one die for a just
                        for us than others. Sincere attempts at improving as     person, though perhaps for a good person one might
                        disciples of Jesus reveal where we grow weak, give in    even find courage to die. But God proves his love for
                        and struggle with change.                                us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for
                           This would be discouraging if Lent were simply        us” (Romans 5:7-8).
                        a self-improvement program, in which we honed               Lent means most to us when we ask, not “How do
                        our own virtues and sought our own ends. Because         I want to change?” but rather, “Jesus, how do you
                        Lent is instead a penitential season that opens us       want me to change?” We enter these 40 days relying
       FATHER TOM       to God’s healing grace, we may be humbled by             on God, not our own power. As even Jesus did on the
        KNOBLACH        our imperfections, but we need never surrender to        road to Calvary, we may stumble and fall. He humbled
        is pastor of    discouragement.                                          himself, even to death on the cross, “but God greatly
     three parishes        As a time of preparation to share in the Paschal      exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is
                        Mystery, we are united with the whole of that pattern    above every name” (Philippians 2:9-10) — the name
       in St. Cloud:
                        of the cross: the suffering, death and resurrection      Jesus, which means “God saves.” His name is his
     Holy Spirit, St.
                        of Jesus. Failing in a truly worthy Lenten program       mission, and while we, too, may be humbled in this
    Anthony and St.     or practice, when we are sincerely trying to change,     season, we need never be discouraged or despair.
      John Cantius.     is one of the surest signs that we are engaging the         We fail, but God saves.

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Books for your Lenten journey
                                                                                                                             ANN JONAS

L  ent is a time for reflection, holy reading, and spiritual growth. A Way of the Cross companion, a Lenten
   contemplative book and a daily reflection book for teens are all new books for our Lenten journey.
Adults looking for a daily reflection book will once again find that the Liturgical Press publication
                                                                                                                            is the general
                                                                                                                           book buyer for
                                                                                                                         the College of St.
“Not by Bread Alone” by Mary DeTurris Poust is still one of the best for day-to-day Lenten reading.                      Benedict and St.
                                                                                                                        John’s University.

                    “WAY OF THE CROSS: STANDING BY                             consider issues in the contemporary world. Each
                    THE CRUCIFIED TODAY”                                       station has the conventional beginning and ending,
                    BY JEAN VANIER; MAGNIFICAT; 2018; 36 pp; $3.95             including the corresponding Stabat Mater verse, but
                                                                               the reflection and prayer are penned by Vanier, inviting
                       Jean Vanier is the founder of L’Arche, an               us to see Jesus in our suffering brothers and sisters
                    international federation of communities where people       today. Full-page illustrations by René-Marie Castaing
                    with and without disabilities live and work together.      (1896-1943) dramatically illuminate each station. Vanier
                    His Way of the Cross companion blends the traditional      has written many books; this one provides a new
                    version of the Way of the Cross with reflections that      approach to a time-honored tradition.

                                                                               is a short Lenten handbook, which is divided into
                    “GETTING MORE OUT OF LENT”                                 five sessions; each session is designed to take under
                    BY DEACON KEITH STROHM; Word Among Us Press;               an hour. A Scripture passage begins each session,
                    January 2019; 40 pp; $6.95                                 followed by a reflection by Deacon Strohm, who is a
                                                                               deacon for the Archdiocese of Chicago and well-known
                      The Word Among Us Press has published a new              public speaker. Each session ends with questions for
                    series of booklets titled “Something More Faith            reflection and discussion and a “Lenten Resolution”
                    Series,” designed for “individuals or parish groups that   which gives readers practical things to do to further
                    have limited time but are looking for a life changing      enhance the week’s theme. This booklet provides
                    relationship with the Lord.” The fourth in the series      excellent insight for a more meaningful Lent.

                                                                               passage, usually the Psalms, is given (just a few, short
                   “LENT: ONE DAY AT A TIME FOR                                lines) and then a couple of paragraphs of related
                   WCATHOLIC TEENS”                                            points to consider. Then a “Grow Your Soul” section
                   BY KATIE PREJEAN MCGRADY AND TOMMY MCGRADY; Ave Maria       suggests actions to take, along with further reading
                   Press, January 2019; 64 pp; $2.50                           and a brief closing prayer. On Saturdays, readers are
                                                                               invited to reflect on the week, using three questions
                      This small paperback offers daily readings and           pertaining to the week’s theme. On Sundays, readers
                    activities for teens to practice during Lent. The          are given three simple challenges: to build their prayer
                    McGradys (a husband and wife team) are youth               life, make intentional sacrifices, or give of themselves
ministry experts and state in their book’s introduction that they want to      in some way, all based on the Gospel passage listed.
help teens make meaningful changes in their lives and not just practice        The daily “feel ambitious?” segment offers additional
half-hearted Lenten sacrifices: “We want to help you break that cycle          reading and activities for those who want to do even
of lame Lents and instead take you on a journey of sorts that we hope          more. This booklet gives teens practical and prayerful
brings you closer to Jesus.” On weekdays, a short reflection on a Scripture    ways to observe the Lenten season.

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GOOD IDEA

     A CONFESSION
     FROM THE HEART
                                                                                    T    here are many good practical guides
                                                                                         for the preparation and form of the
                                                                                    sacrament of confession. As a complement
                                                                                    to them, here are a few insights on how
                                                                                    to make a good confession – not just the
                                                                                    practical, but from the heart.

                                                                                    I JUST WANT TO BE CLEAN.

                                                                                       One of the many blessings of the ministry of the Church
                                                                                    is to go into places where the world might not see and
                                                                                    bring the healing graces of our loving God. On one recent
                                                                                    visit to someone who is incarcerated, the man said before
                                                                                    we began the formal confession, “Father, I just want to
                                                                                    be clean.” There was little I could offer physically for this
                                                                                    man who was facing years of time in confinement. Yet, the
                                                                                    man’s own desire to know God has forgiven him brought
                                                                                    him to lay it all down at the feet of our Lord in confession.
                                                                                       Our own state in life or situation may feel confining
                                                                                    without sensing practical ways of external change in
                                                                                    the near future. Do not underestimate the graces of the
                                                                                    sacrament. The kingdom of God is near when we begin
                                                                                    again through the pardon and peace of Christ.

                                                                                    GO THE DISTANCE.

                                                                                      For most of us, the potential for participation in the
                                                                                    sacrament is no more than 10-15 miles away from our
                                                                                    homes. We certainly would have little hesitation to travel
                                                                                    that distance “for the big game” or our favorite activities.
                                                                                      The other day I was blessed with a person who traveled
                                                                                    more than 240 miles with a request for confession. Now
                                                                                    before you believe I am some St. John Vianney, it had

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our home only once a year, it may seem like it is always in
                                                                                     the same state. When we are truly working on a particular
                                                                                     sin or poor habit, it may be helpful to seek the sacrament
                                                                                     more frequently. A confessor can assist you with the
                                                                                     determining what might be best for your situation.

                                                                                     THE VOICES OF GUILT AND SHAME.

                                                                                        Some hearts say, “I don’t do anything that bad. God
                                                                                     loves me anyway.” Others say, “I will never be able to
                                                                                     change, I will never be loved.” In a spiritual sense, guilt is
                                                                                     a gift of the conscience which reminds us we have done
                                                                FATHER MICHAEL       wrong but nudges us to repent and change. Shame in
                                                                   WOLFBAUER         the spiritual sense is from the evil one, and is the voice
                                                                  is pastor of St.   expressing we are no longer worthy of being loved nor
                                                                  John Parish in     could ever change. In discerning spirits, it is helpful to ask
                                                                    Foley and St.    ourselves the origin of the voice. We denounce the voices
                                                                  Patrick Parish     of shame. The voices of guilt should move us to reconcile
                                                                      in Minden      and change aided by the graces of the sacrament.
                                                                      Township.

                                                                                     COME AS YOU ARE.
less to do with me and more to do with her response to
God. Here was a person who felt stuck in life, had been                                 “Where sin abounds, grace all the more!” This was the
away from the Church and needed help. A friend, who                                  personal mantra of a woman I once knew. This woman
is a parishioner, interceded and offered the woman the                               knew her own struggle and was stumbling in her Christian
services of her parish priest (she did ask me first). It                             walk. The phrase comes from Romans 5:20, in which St.
doesn’t mean you need to drive hours to make a good                                  Paul reminds us that whatever we have done, wherever we
confession. However, if it gets you there, or helps someone                          find ourselves, however low we have sunk, that is where
you know, go for it!                                                                 God can shower us with graces overflowing all the more
                                                                                     when we repent.
                                                                                        Coming humbly to the sacrament “just as we are” is a
HERE WE GO AGAIN.                                                                    key to a good confession. Preparing ourselves through an
                                                                                     examination of conscience categorizes our sins and assists
  One of the most frequent statements I hear in                                      in finding remedy. Bringing all our brokenness, our scars,
confession is, “Father, I have the same sins…” Many of                               our pain, our sins to our God, who is the Father of mercy, is
us do have particular sins we struggle with. If we find                              the remedy. We do not need to explain all the reasons and
ourselves saying it has been six months or longer between                            means for our sins. We need to come with a contrite heart,
confessions, it might be helpful to avail ourselves to the                           confess our sins, promise and do our penance, and God will
sacrament more frequently. Our Catholic faith invites us to                          do the rest. Now is the time! Through confession we walk
confess our sins at least once a year. If we decided to clean                        forward in peace knowing God’s mercy endures forever!

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                                                                                     “Joyful” is not typically
                                                                                     a word associated with
                                                                                     Lent. However, one
                                                                                     definition of love is to
                                                                                     sacrifice with joy for another.

         40 of
                                                                                     We are most joy-filled
                                                                                     when we exemplify Christ’s sacrificial love.

                                      Faces
                                                                                     Focusing on discipline and discipleship
                                                                                     during these 40 days and beyond is our Via
                                                                                     Dolorosa to an eternal joy.
                                                                                     Mary Kay Bodeen
                                                                                     Sts. Peter and Paul, Braham

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                                                                                     I do like to observe Lent with fasting. I
                                                                                     have found my small form of fasting helps
                                                                                                        me to remember all
                                                                                                        that Jesus did for me
                                                                                                        on the cross. Each day
                                                                                                        when I feel I “need” the
                                                                                                        particular thing I am
                                                                                                        fasting from, it brings my
                                                                                                        thoughts to Jesus.

                                                                                                        Jay Vogel
                                                                                                        Sacred Heart, Sauk Rapids

              collected by
              KRISTI ANDERSON
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                                                                                     I participate in the Stations of the Cross
                                                                                     each Friday evening at my local parish. I do
                                                                                     this to remember the great suffering that
                                                                                     our Lord and Savior went through on Good
                                                                                     Friday and goes through when we continue
              To assist readers in preparing for and reflecting upon                 to sin. I think the Stations
              the season of Lent, The Central Minnesota Catholic                     of the Cross help us lay
                                                                                     people to turn away from
              collected responses from 40 people across the diocese
                                                                                     sin, knowing how much he
              to share a short answer to one of three questions:
                                                                                     suffers when we do.
              What does Lent mean to you?                                            Heidi Hoslet
              What is one thing you do to observe Lent and why?                      Franciscan Community

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                                                                                     Volunteer, St. Cloud
              What is one word or phrase that captures the meaning
              of Lent for you?
                                                                                     In a U.S. Catholic Church, in which divisions
              Here are their responses.                                                       are caused by politics and the diversity
                                                                                              of races and ethnicity, at least during
                                                                                              Lent, all Catholics can let go of looking
                                                                                              at the color and language of people
                                                                                              and share a culture. I love Lent and the
                                                                                              universality and solidarity it brings.
                                                                                              In the U.S., for the first time, I feel
                                                                                              welcome to the Church through Lent.
                                                                                     Lesly Gonzalez-Barragan
                                                                                     Latino Outreach Coordinator for Youth in
                                                                                     Theology and Ministry, St. John’s School of
                                                                                     Theology and Seminary

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5                            Lent is more
                             than just a
                                                     6 When I was younger, I always felt very sad as
                                                       Lent approached. As a father, I realized that
                                                       I was passing this gloom and doom on to
                                                                                                         7
                                                                                                         “As Lent is the time for greater
                                                                                                         love, listen to Jesus’ thirst ...
                             season of                                                                   ‘Repent and believe,’ so Jesus
                                                       my children. We had to change. We started
                             fasting, but                                                                tells us. What are we to repent?
                                                       celebrating Lent. Lent was no longer a sad time
                             a time to be                                                                Our indifference, our hardness of heart. What are we
                                                                         but a new beginning. A time
                             filled, filled                                                              to believe? Jesus thirsts even now, in your heart and
                                                                         to re-evaluate our lives and
                             with the gifts                                                              in the poor — he knows your weakness. He wants only
                                                                         rid ourselves of those traits
                             of the Spirit,                                                              your love, wants only the chance to love you.” — St.
                                                                         that tied us to the world.
  and deepen our relationship with Christ.                                                               Mother Teresa of Calcutta
                                                                          Bob Lewis
  Nolan Lemna                                                             Chateau Waters Senior Living   Hannah Salfer
  St. Mary of the Presentation,                                           Community, Sartell             Christ Church Newman Center,
  Breckenridge                                                                                           St. Cloud

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Lent is a journey of 40 special days to walk more
consciously with the mind and heart of Jesus.
The Eucharist readings of Ash Wednesday
                                                     9
                                                     Lent is about Jesus’ love
                                                     and sacrifice for us. For
                                                     40 days, he prayed in
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                                                                                                          My favorite part of Lent is how Jesus washed
                                                                                                          the disciples’ feet to teach them, by his
                                                                                                          actions, how to serve. After Holy Thursday
inspire my deepening practices -- Joel calling       a desert, knowing he                                                         Mass, I draw warm,
                me to “return to God with all your   will soon be sacrificed                                                      bubbly water to wash
                heart,” St. Paul exhorting me to     to give us eternal life                                                      the feet of my children
                “be ambassadors for Christ” and      in heaven. During Lent,                                                      while we sing “The
                Matthew inviting me to give          it is important that we                                                      Servant Song.” They now
                alms, pray and fast!                 appreciate his love and let                                                  ask to do it back.
                                                     that guide our treatment of each other.
               Sister Julie Schleper                                                                                              Jill Lieser
               St. Benedict’s Monastery,             Reid Nydeen                                                                  St. Augustine,
               St. Joseph                            Senior, St. John’s Prep School, Collegeville                                 St. Cloud

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One thing I do during Lent is to read George
Herbert’s poem “Love” every day as the
beginning of my morning lectio/meditation.
                                                     12In my home parish of St. Donatus, our priest
                                                       began the Lenten chaplet. We pray seven Our
                                                       Fathers, seven Hail Marys and seven Glory Bes
                                                                                                         13
                                                                                                         Lent is a six-week journey in which I make
                                                                                                         more time for prayer and reflection, become
                                                                                                         more aware of the trappings
It reminds me that God’s love is first, that                            for someone, giving them the     that sway me from putting
God loves me first and that God’s love is so                            chaplet cross at the end. The    the Lord’s will before my
extravagant that I find it                                              tradition has continued at our   own. Lent opens my heart
overwhelming. It affirms                                                parishes here in Sauk Centre.    and mind to the presence of
my whole being. I feel                                                  We pray it as a family, each     our Lord for what he has done
loved.                                                                  with a special person in mind.   for us by dying on the cross.
Crosier Father                                                           Amy Klaphake
Ernest N. Martello                                                                                       Denise Kociemba
                                                                         Our Lady of Angels, Sauk        St. Mary, Melrose
Crosier Community                                                        Centre
of Onamia

14A word for Lent: “unfinished.” Learning “to
  care and not to care” (T.S. Eliot) that I am
                                                     15During Lent, I work on
                                                       fasting. Fasting for me
                                                       is not a favorite thing.
                                                                                                         16I see Lent as a time to draw closer to our
                                                                                                           God who went to such lengths to show his
  still being worked on by God. Learning               But fasting forces you                              immense love for me/us, and an annual
                  to do this partly by “sitting        to be more disciplined                              challenge to configure my life to his: to be
                  still,” listening more closely,      with your actions, with                                                   more loving, more self-
                  allowing him to penetrate            your ministry. It’s an                                                    effacing, more aware of
                                                       avenue for trying to do                                                   what it means to be a
                  my heart.
                                                       things better. I also try to spend more time                              redeemed child of God.
                  Jennifer (Jenna) Miller              in prayer.
                  St. Mary of Mt. Carmel,                                                                                        Poor Clare Sister
                  Long Prairie                         Bishop Donald Kettler                                                     Mary Matthew Tomsyck
                                                       Diocese of Saint Cloud                                                    St. Clare’s Monastery,
                                                                                                                                 Sauk Rapids

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     If there was one word to
     describe what Lent means
                                                         18 To me, Lent means a time of reflection. It’s
                                                            a time to look back on the past year and
                                                            recognize where there’s been growth in
                                                                                                             19
                                                                                                             Lent is my most
                                                                                                             motivated season as a
                                                                                                             time of reflection, sacrifice
     to me, that word would be
                                                                             my life and what areas          and preparation. Life
     “self-reflection.” I use Lent
                                                                             could use more work. It’s       feels different during
     as a time to self-reflect and
                                                                             also a time where I find a      that time leading up to
     examine if I have been                                                  sort of comfort and awe in      Jesus’ death. It is a sort
     living my life in a way that                                            thinking of all that Jesus      of somber and earnest
     God would want me to.                                                   endured for me.                 period, but we have constant underlying joy
                                                                              Teresa Callison
                                                                                                             because we know what’s awaiting us at the end.
     Karen Hernandez
     Immigrant community organizer/outreach                                   Christ Our Light, Princeton
     coordinator, Catholic Charities, St. Cloud                               and Zimmerman                  Chantelle Frie

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                                                                                                             St. Mary, Upsala

        Lent to me is a time of prayer and reflection.   Lent is a time to concentrate on the Stations       The phrase that I think of when I hear Lent
        I assign those I love, and those "causes"        of the Cross to truly embrace preparation for       is self-discipline.
                              I feel need praying        the Passion. The focus of our personal Lenten       It's easy to say that
                              for, a calendar page.      fasts or sacrifices is to allow a greater expanse   I am going to give
                              Each receives my           in our lives and hearts for the mercy and           up something, but
                              Communion prayers,         peace of Christ.                                    the bigger piece
                              Mass prayers, rosary                                                           is to have the self-
                              prayers and only "good
                                                         Deacon Mick Froslee
                                                         Deacon, Our Lady of the                             discipline to follow
                              thoughts" on their given   Lake, Battle Lake; St.
                                                         Edward, Henning; and St.
                                                                                                             through with the
                              day. It lifts me up!       James, Maine Township                               commitment.

                              Marilyn Muellner                                                               Angie Moscho
                                                                                                             St.Boniface, Cold Spring

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                              St.Joseph, Grey Eagle

        As a cradle Catholic, I believed growing up        Last year, I experienced the best Lent ever.      As children, we “gave up” candy. As young
        that the word “repent” meant to be sorry           In a video, Father Mike Schmitz said Lent         adults, we “added” prayer. Now I try to be
        for one’s sins. In fact, it                        is not about doing hard things, but about                           intentional during Lent —
        means to change my                                 doing whatever draws you closer to Christ.                          intentional about my gifts,
        behavior for the rest of                           That is what Lent is to me — a time to think                        and health and prayer;
        my life! What a different                                              about the unfathomable                          intentional to eliminate the
        spin that definition put                                               love of Jesus and to do                         things that turn me away
        on the season of Lent                                                  everything I can to make                        from God; intentional about
        for me.                                                                that journey to him.                            preparing for Easter.

        Benedictine Brother                                                   Cindy Fussy                                       David Eickhoff
        Paul-Vincent Niebauer                                                 St.Stanislaus Kostka,                             St. Michael, St. Cloud
        St. John’s Abbey, Collegeville                                        Bowlus

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      “Gethsemane” is the word that
      captures the meaning of Lent for
      me. Gethsemane has been called
                                                         27Lent is a time to reflect on what Christ did
                                                           for us and the small sacrifices we can do
                                                           in return for him. It is a
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                                                                                                             To me, Lent is a time for sacrifice. It’s a time
                                                                                                             to give something up in order to improve
                                                                                                             ourselves mentally and spiritually and to
      the “School of Christian Prayer.”                    time to notice all of our                         become more disciplined.
      It tells of Jesus asking his Father                  imperfections and work                            During Lent, simply giving
      if it is possible to remove his cup                  on being more Christ-like                         something up that we
      of suffering but then yielding his whole self in     in our everyday life. Lent                        might want, such as candy
      surrender, “not my will but yours be done” (Luke     is a great opportunity                            or watching TV, can help
      22:42). All prayer must come to the surrender of     to cleanse our soul and                           us focus our effort to make
      one’s personal preference to God’s will.             prepare for eternal life!                         ourselves better for God.

      Franciscan Sister Joan Tuberty                       Tricia Walz                                       John Hawkins
      Franciscan Sisters of Little Falls                   St. Mary’s Cathedral, St. Cloud                   Ninth-grader, Cathedral High School, St. Cloud

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Lent, for me, is a
time to step back
from ordinary life
                                                    30
                                                     During Lent, I watch videos presented by
                                                     Dynamic Catholic and Redeemed Online.
                                                     These videos educate me on Scripture
                                                                                                            31 Celebrate. As we celebrate
                                                                                                               the other liturgical
                                                                                                               seasons, we should
to focus on the                                      and give me some quiet time to reflect on                 celebrate Christ’s journey
extraordinary life to                                Jesus' passion. It increases                              to the cross. We should
come when I am,                                      my strength to carry each                                 joyfully give of ourselves on this journey,
through grace, face                                  cross in life by remembering                              thankful for Christ’s sacrifice. Practicing Lenten
to face with God.                                    everything Christ endured to                              commitments helps focus our minds and spirits
                                                     give us hope of life eternal.                             on Good Friday, but also, more importantly, on
Joanne E. Benson
St. Augustine,                                                                                                 the ultimate celebration, Easter Sunday.
St. Cloud                                            Hannah Walberg
                                                     St. Mary of the Presentation,
                                                     Breckenridge                                              Benedictine Brother Richard Crawford

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                                                                                                               St. John’s Prep School, Collegeville

 During Lent, I try to spend more time in           I focus on giving time to those                         “Cultivate” is the word that comes to mind when
 prayer and contemplation on our Lord’s life        who have the least in our                               I think of Lent. My soul grows weary in
               on earth and journey to the          community, including refugees                           the gray of winter and the season of Lent
               cross. The 40 days give me a         in St. Cloud trying to find safety                      comes at the perfect time to cultivate my
               chance to look at my life and        and education for their children,                       soul. I need this season to dig deep and
               see how well I’m doing on my         regardless of their faith. I also pray more often at    to look closely at the soil that hasn't been
               journey in faith. Our Lord made      home from the Give Us This Day periodical. Even         turned over in a while. Lent is the season to weed
               the ultimate sacrifice of love for   saying a short, simple daily prayer helps ground        out my sins of pride, to plant new seeds and habits
               me and I need to thank him by        me in the reality that I’m not the center of my world   and to pray for the Lord to continue to guide me
               showing my love to others.           and that Christ came to save me.                        along the right path.

               Ellen Ceynowa                        Raj Chaphalkar                                          Melaine Myklebust
                                                                                                            Mary of the Immaculate Conception, Rockville

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               St. Henry, Perham                    St. Joseph, St. Joseph

Lent is a particular season                           Lent means the redemption
of grace. It is a specific time                       of suffering. It is a season                                 Lent is a time for self-examination: a new
of preparation by repenting                           of suffering: penances of                                    attempt to let go of all that is seen and
of my sins through fasting,                           omitting something I like or                                                 temporary; to find a way
prayer and almsgiving. It is a                        taking on something I don’t;                                                 to determine my spiritual
period of meditation on the                           more liturgical obligations and                                              strengths and gifts; and to
passion and death of Jesus,                           the time and preparation that entails; and                                   contemplate the mystery
in order to worthily celebrate                        recalling the suffering and death of Christ.                                 of faith.
the greatest feast of Easter.                         Then, he rises, and makes it all salvific.                                     Amelia Crossen
                                                                                                                                     St. Ann, Wadena
Benedictine Father G. Arockiya Newton                 Father Matthew Crane
Associate pastor, St.Andrew, Elk River                Priest of the Diocese of St. Cloud, currently
                                                      studying canon law at St. Paul University in

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                                                      Ottawa, Canada

 Lent begins on Ash Wednesday with ashes              Lent is a time of voiced suffering, a humble            In the past few years, our family has chosen
 being put on our foreheads as a sign of              affirmation that we are not alone in any                someone each day of Lent to pray for and
 repentance. The ashes help me turn away              struggles we may encounter, and truth                   send them a card
                   from sin and help remind           in the face of a self-                                  letting them know.
                   me that I can turn to God          servicing world that                                    Despite our busy
                   no matter what. Lent               promotes the greedy                                     lives, I have found it
                   allows me to examine my            nature of humankind.                                    a rewarding sacrifice
                   life and re-evaluate my                                                                    to slow down and
                   faith.                             Katie Dusek                                             reach out to people.
                                                      St. Mary’s
                                                      Cathedral,
                     Alaina Laing                     St. Cloud                                               Amanda Kietzmann
                     St. Benedict, Avon                                                                       St. Mary, Alexandria

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Lenten

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                          SPIRITUAL PRACTICES
     During Lent, the focus often rests on three facets of spiritual life:
                                                                                                story by
     prayer, fasting and almsgiving. Below, three people share their                            KRISTI ANDERSON
     experiences with these traditions and how they deepen these
     practices during the Lenten season.

     PRAYER
        Allan Feirer of Holy Cross Parish in North     things in our lives. When you really think
     Prairie said he keeps his day-to-day prayer       about the words, it just helps you take a
     life pretty simple, rising early to have some     step back and realize we aren’t the ones in
     quiet time with the Lord before beginning         control,” Allan said.
     his daily chores.                                    He is also part of a men’s prayer group
        He moved to North Prairie in 1996 with         that meets every Saturday in Holdingford.

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     his wife, Yvonne, to “get back to their           Men of all ages, professions and life
     rural roots.” Allan spends most of his time       experiences gather to read Scripture, pray
     working on their hobby farm, where he             and share wisdom. He said his encounters
     grows corn and soybeans, while Yvonne             there have deepened his prayer life.
     works as a registered nurse in hospice care.          “There’s a lot of very good information.
        Each day, Allan reads Scripture, focusing      Everyone brings something to the table,
     on the daily readings. He then reflects on        everyone has a little piece of knowledge, a
     them and spends time in personal prayer.          lot of learning goes on,” he said. “There are
        “It’s a good way to start the day,” he said.   all different insights. It’s a real brotherhood.”
        In addition to morning prayer, he also prays      Lent, Allan said, feels like a time to
     when he swims at the YMCA, when he walks          refocus on grounding himself in prayer.
     his dogs and, of course, when he is out in the       “The world seems like everyone is going
     field. A prayer he loves is the Our Father.       so fast,” he said. “It seems like everyone
        “It’s the one that Christ taught, and if you   is becoming self-centered. It’s just nice to
     really listen to the words, ‘Thy will be done,’   try to slow down and spend time together
     it helps me because we all try to control         with God.”

                                               ALMSGIVING                                            “The first time I went to the Salvation
                                                  Fifth-grader Margaret Sanborn is no              Army, I felt really great after giving this one
                                               stranger to the practice of almsgiving.             specific person a bag because I said, ‘God
                                               After watching a YouTube video before               bless and Merry Christmas,’ and he started
                                               Christmas, she had the idea of helping those        to cry,” Margaret said.
                                               experiencing homelessness in her community.           “The second time I went there, I felt sad
                                                  Margaret, who attends St. Katharine              because there were so many kids there. I
                                               Drexel School in St. Cloud, began collecting        thought only adults were homeless,” she said.
                                               items she thought might help those in                 Margaret plans to continue her almsgiving
                                               need and put them into bags. Then she               during Lent. She collects items like hand-
                                               and her mother, Vicki, drove around the             warmers, toothbrushes, toothpaste, tissues,
                                               neighborhood and distributed the bags to            granola bars, sanitary wipes, socks, hats,
                                               people they encountered on the streets.             blankets, nail clippers, dental floss and
                                                  “She beamed when she handed out the              water flavoring. Each bag is different and
                                               bags. She was so happy, it made me happy,”          each bag says “God bless” on it.
                                               Vicki said.                                           “She prays for the homeless every night,”
                                                  For Christmas, Margaret asked family and         Vicki said. “The amount of smiles and
                                               friends not to give her gifts, but instead to       warmth she has received has made me filled
                                               gift her with things she could use to make          with so much joy. Her selflessness has been
                                               more bags, which she then handed out at             amazing. It’s been a real teaching point for
                                               the Salvation Army.                                 our family.”

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                                               rest, for when it covets nothing, nothing
FASTING                                        raises it up, and nothing weighs it down,
                                               because it is in the center of its humility.’
   Jason Ziegler has always observed              “Fasting is an exercise of stripping
the Church’s traditional Lenten fasting        away desire and expectation. Fasting is
rules. But in 2013, he said he looked more     not about punishing ourselves, but rather
deeply into the spirituality of the practice   gaining self-awareness and learning to
in the hopes of “resetting” himself.           follow the path of God’s call to holiness
   “I hoped that through the practice, I       according to the gifts he has given us,”
would grow past my old expectations of         Jason said.
who I was and how I lived my Catholic             Jason, who is the associate director
faith, and begin to build a foundation         of marketing and communications at St.
more on Christ and much less on my own         John’s Abbey in Collegeville, said the
ambitions,” he said.                           Lenten season is a good time to fast
   He spent the triduum alone, praying         because the Church is fasting.
and fasting, a work he said, “we initiate,        “Of course,” he said, “many would ask,
but God completes.”                            ‘Why would that matter?’ The reason
   “The Doctor of the Church St. John of       is, we are not Christian alone. As St.
the Cross has written beautifully on the       Paul teaches, being Christian is to be a
process and experience of God stripping        part of the body of Christ: the liturgy
away the desires we follow down                addresses spiritual matters that fasting
dead-end paths until finally, we reach         often reveals; parishioners are fasting,
a humility reminiscent of the Blessed          discussing, sharing and supporting one
Mother’s ‘fiat,’ or ‘let it be.’ He writes,    another; even if one is physically alone, it
‘In this nakedness, the spirit finds its       is in the Spirit that we all fast and pray.”

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ENCOUNTER LENT MORE DEEPLY
     THROUGH CRS RICE BOWL
     By Catholic Relief Services

        Lent is a 40-day journey of prayer,                     LENTEN PENITENTIAL REGULATIONS
     fasting and almsgiving. Each day
                                                     “The annual observance of Lent is the            years of age to 59 years of age are
     during Lent, we have the opportunity
                                                  special season for the ascent to the holy           obligated to fast.
     to be inspired by the stories of people
                                                  mountain of Easter. Through its two-                • The law of abstinence from meat
     and communities from around the
                                                  fold theme of repentance and baptism,               applies to all persons who have
     world, and to take time to set aside a
                                                  the season of Lent disposes both the                completed their 14th year of age.
     little of ourselves to make room for a
                                                  catechumens and the faithful to celebrate           However, it is highly recommended
     stranger. Catholic Relief Services Rice
                                                  the paschal mystery. Catechumens                    that children from ages 7 to
     Bowl invites you to read and reflect
                                                  are led to the sacraments of initiation             14 years also follow the law of
     on stories of hope, share a meatless
                                                  by means of the rite of election, the               abstinence.
     meal with your family, and donate the
                                                  scrutinies and catechesis. The faithful,            • All Catholics are encouraged
     money you save as well as other funds
                                                  listening more intently to the word                 to receive the Holy Eucharist
     to the Rice Bowl program. Funds
                                                  of God and devoting themselves to                   frequently during Lent and
     support CRS programs around the
                                                  prayer, are prepared through the spirit             to receive the sacrament of
     world. Twenty-five percent of the total
                                                  of repentance to renew their baptismal              reconciliation so that all may be
     alms collected in our diocese remain
                                                  promises.”                                          prepared to celebrate more fully
     here to support hunger-alleviation
                                                     — Ceremonial of Bishops, 249                     the paschal mystery at Easter.
     efforts.
                                                     The current discipline is as follows:         The determination of these days of
        Rice Bowl resources are offered
                                                       • Ash Wednesday and Good Friday           obligatory penance, as listed above,
     in both English and Spanish and are
                                                       are days of fast and abstinence.          should not be understood as limiting the
     available in print, on the web and
                                                       That is, limited to a single, full meal   occasions for Christian penance. This
     through a mobile app. Find them
                                                       and abstinence from meat.                 penance is to help us see and shorten the
     at: www.crsricebowl.org or www.
                                                       • The other Fridays of Lent are           distance between our present lives and
     crsplatodearroz.org. Organizations
                                                       days of abstinence from meat.             the life God wants for each of us.
     interested in applying for a Local
                                                       • The law of fasting permits only           “Penance should not be only internal
     Rice Bowl Grant can obtain the grant
                                                       one full meal a day, but it does          and individual but external and social.”
     guidelines and application form by
                                                       allow the taking of some food in          (Constitution on the Sacred Liturgy #110)
     contacting the St. Cloud Mission
                                                       the morning and a second light              Given at the Chancery
     Office at 320-251-1100 or visiting
                                                       meal at noon, or in the evening,            St. Cloud, Minnesota
     www.stcdio.org/mission.
                                                       as you prefer. Persons from 18              Feb. 25, 2019

       JOURNEY TO GUATEMALA • MARCH 10–16
                            GOD OF HOPE, WE ENCOUNTER                        CALDO DE FRIJOL                    •   2 tomatoes, diced
                            YOU IN THE FAMILY.                               BLACK BEAN SOUP                    •   1 green chili, diced
                              For young families living in the               Makes 4-6 servings                 •   2 t ground cumin
                             mountains of Guatemala, raising a                 • 1 T fair trade olive oil       •   2 t chili powder
                                baby can be hard. Most families grow           • 1 medium onion, chopped        •   1 ⁄ 2 t salt
                                  corn and beans for a living, but a           • 2 garlic cloves, minced        •   Cilantro, minced
                                   long-standing drought has caused            • 2 c water or vegetable             (optional)
                                    harvests to shrink. There are few            broth
                                     job opportunities, which means            • 3 15oz cans black beans,
                                      putting food on the table is a daily      drained and rinsed
                                      challenge.
                                         When Norma discovered she             In a large pot, sauté onion
                                       was pregnant, she wondered how          and garlic in oil until
                                       she would manage. “Sometimes,           brown. In a blender,
                                      my mom only had one egg for her          combine 1 c water/
                                 four children,” she said.                     vegetable broth and 2
       Norma wanted more for her son, Victor. She looked for help              cans of beans. Blend
     — and found it in a CRS-sponsored program that teaches young              until smooth. Add to
     mothers how to give their babies a healthy start. CRS provided            onion mixture. Stir in
     Norma with food throughout her pregnancy and medical                      tomatoes, chilis, remaining
     checkups during Victor’s first two years of life.                         beans, spices and remaining
       Now, Norma is a mother monitor. “I’m proud to share my                  water/broth. Bring to a boil. Reduce heat,
     experience and the lessons I learned with other women,” she says.         cover and simmer for 15 minutes. Serve
                                                                               with cilantro.

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