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National Regent’s Message

      Dear Sisters in Catholic Daughters,
          Hope all is well with you. May you have a very spiritual Holy Week and a Blessed
      Easter.
          The theme of this issue of Share is “Life is a Precious Gift.” From the moment of
      conception till we take our last breath, life is a precious gift from God; what we do
      with our life is our gift to God. What will you do with your gift? What are some of
      the gifts of life God has given us? First we must look toward our families. We must
      see that they are taken care of but also that we take time with them. If we have young
      children, grandchildren, nieces or nephews, we play with them, we work with them,
                                                                                                      National Regent
      and most of all we pray with them. We must let them know how much the gift of                   Shirley Seyfried
      them means to us. We show our young children and grandchildren how much we
      care and love them by rocking the babies, playing on the floor with the toddlers, attending school age children’s
      events and especially being there when they receive their Sacraments. Our husbands, mothers and fathers, sisters
      and brothers are all gifts from our loving God, and we want to show our appreciation of that gift by treating them
      with love and respect. Do we have elderly parents? If so, how can we help them? Time is a precious commodity
      for all of us. We sometimes get so busy that we don’t find time to share a visit with our parents and family. Give
      them a call to let them know you are thinking about them.
          Our friends and neighbors, and especially our CDA sisters, are all special gifts from God. We help each other
      out, and share our time and talent with them. In addition, we pray for each other, especially in times of need.
      When there is sickness or a death in the family, we are there for each other. In fact, we sometimes call our CDA
      sisters “our powerhouse of prayer” because we know that if we need help, we can always call on them to pray for
      our families and us. I am sure many of you have personally, as I have, experienced the peace of knowing that our
      CDA sisters are praying for us. We must remember to thank God for these wonderful gifts He has given us.
          So far I have talked about appreciating the gift of life that God has given to us in other people. What about the
      gift of life our God has given to us? One of the best gifts we can give to God is to live our theme for these two years,
      “Whatever you do for the least of My brethren, you do for Me.” Matthew 25:40. What are we doing “for the least
      of our brethren”? Have we given to the food shelf or helped feed the hungry at a soup kitchen? Have we donated
      clothing to help those who have less, or volunteered at a shelter for the homeless? What about helping build a
      Habitat house to help provide a home for a family? Is there something we can do at the crisis pregnancy center?
      Perhaps we can counsel a young expectant mother about God’s infinite love for her and her baby and pray that
      the mother and baby will be healthy. There are many ways we can share God’s gift of life to us by helping others.
          In this issue of Share, you will see how several people are showing appreciation for their gift of life from God
      by sharing the talents He has given them. May God truly bless you as you share your life with others. Thank you
      for sharing those gifts through CDA.
                                                                                    Peace and God Bless,
                                                                                    Shirley Seyfried
                                                                                    National Regent

         Mission Statement                                      AbouttheCover
           Catholic Daughters of the
          Americas strives to embrace
                                                                The cover picture is of the precious new gift born into
         the principle of faith working
         through love in the promotion
                                                                the Seyfried family while Grandma Shirley was on her
          of justice, equality, and the                         way to the March for Life. Ella Lydia was born Janu-
         advancement of human rights                            ary 19, 2015, and is the daughter of Shirley and Dave’s
           and human dignity for all.                           daughter, Christina, and her husband Gerardo.

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SHARE
Catholic Daughters of the Americas
                                                                                                Spring 2015
                                                                                            Volume 45• Number 2

                         National Officers                       12
                                                                 Adoption Stories
                                                                                                     24
                                                                                                     A Breath of New Life
                         National Regent
                          Shirley Seyfried
                            Minnesota

                       National Regent-Elect
                                                                 13
                                                                 Living with Autism
                                                                                                     28
                                                                                                     REGRET: Portraits
                          Helene Shepard                                                             of Post-Abortive

                                                                 16
                             New York                                                                Women
                 First Vice National Regent
                       Olga Samaniego                            Life is Precious
                            Texas

                Second Vice National Regent
                       Sherry Nilles
                           Iowa

               National Secretary-Treasurer

                                                                                                     29
                        Vickie Feist
                        South Dakota

                        National Directors                       20
                                                                 Leaders for Life
                                                                                                     Madonna Manor
                                                                                                     Cares for Retired
                                                                                                     Catholic Daughters
    Carolyn Bachmann        Ruth Guidry         Susan Moné

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          Texas              Louisiana            Arizona

      Letty Calvetti        Jo Hammen           Margi Oller
      Pennsylvania           Wisconsin            Ohio                                               Keeping Alive the
    Joyce Ann Fleming     Janet Martineau      Sheila Storey
                                                                                                     Precious Gift of Life
      Massachusetts          Montana           North Carolina

                         National Chaplain
                                                                 www.catholicdaughters.org
                         Rev. Matthew Kuhn
                              Minnesota
                                                                Editorial Offices:                    Advertising Sales
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                       National Office Staff
                                                                Catholic Daughters of the Americas    Tom Panas
                Executive Director/Publisher                    10 West 71st Street                   (212) 877-3041
                      Mary Impellizeri                          New York, NY 10023                    Email:
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Contents

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                March for Life Speech

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                                                                                                                     Quality of Life

     Departments
     1 National Regent’s Message                                   18 CDA in Action                                 41 People

     4 National Chaplain’s Message                                 36 Focus on Youth                                42 Anniversaries

     8 Catholic Daughter Projects                                  37 News & Notes                                  44 Book Corner

Submission of materials for publication in Share: All articles, stories and items must be submitted electronically via email to Tom Panas at the following email
address: cdashare@aol.com. They should be submitted in a Word document attached to your email or within the body of your email. Photos must be sent in
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submitted by authors and readers.

The Catholic Daughters of the Americas has 70,000 members in 1250 courts in the United States, Mexico, Guam, the Virgin Islands and Puerto Rico.

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National Chaplain’s Message

    Dear Sisters in Christ,

        Every life is a gift from God. Have you opened yours?
        In one of my favorite movies, Joe Versus the Volcano, an eager young woman
    tells Joe Banks that most people live as if asleep. In her words: “Only a few people
    are awake, and they live in a state of constant, total amazement.” I have always
    liked this quote because I think it captures the beauty of what faith does to our
    lives. When we acknowledge God’s role in our lives, we wake up! We see the world
    through the eyes of faith. Suddenly everything is a miracle. Everything becomes
    meaningful because everything is a gift from God. Life is an opportunity for
    constant, total amazement at how much God loves us.
        Saint John says this better in his First Letter: “See what love the Father has           Father Matthew Kuhn

    bestowed on us that we may be called the children of God. Yet so we are.” God
    wants us to acknowledge our relationship to Him and to live in a manner that is consistent with our identity as
    children of God. Every created thing exists because God thought the world would be better with that thing in it,
    even you--especially you! The world is better because you are in it. God created you for a beautiful purpose, and
    you make the world better just by being alive!
        So now, child of God, what will you do with the beautiful gift of life that your loving Father has bestowed upon
    you? How will you honor the Giver?
        One of my favorite ways of thanking God is to make a list of my blessings. I mean a real, physical list. Name and
    list every person, event, or thing that has been a source of joy in your life, even just for a moment:
       Thank you God for my father.
       Thank you God for my father’s sense of discipline which has helped me to grow in virtue.
       Thank you God for the guy who let me merge into traffic on my morning commute today.
       Thank you God for my favorite yellow sweater; it reminds me of the sunshine.
       Ooh! Thank you God for the sunshine!
       Whatever and however God has gifted your life, thank God for that.
       Then, if you are tempted to gossip, you have a whole list of better things to talk about. Just bring up one of your
    small gifts, or ask a friend about his or her gifts, or thank that friend for being a gift in your life. If you have a bad
    day, go back and review your list. If you are having a good day, add to the list. God has blessed you richly; all you
    have to do is open your eyes and be amazed.
       Near the end of Joe Versus the Volcano, Joe Banks finds himself adrift and utterly helpless. Feverish and alone,
    he looks up as the moon rises and bathes his little raft in light. Struck by the awesome beauty of the moment, Joe
    cries out to the heavens: “Dear God, whose name I do not know, thank you for my life. I forgot how big... thank
    you. Thank you for my life.”
       My dear sisters, may you always live fully awake to the precious gift of life. May you live in a state of constant,
    total amazement. And may God continue to bless you richly and bless others through your unity and charity.
                                                                                   Peace in Christ,
                                                                                   Father Matthew Kuhn
                                                                                   National Chaplain

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Shanley Catholic High School is located in Fargo, North Dakota. Because of the outstanding
    Pro-Life program at Shanley, they were asked to carry the lead banner in the March for
    Life in Washington, DC. The grandson of Shirley Seyfried, National Regent, and the nieces
    and nephew of Vickie Feist, National Secretary-Treasurer, attend Shanley and are active in
    the Pro-Life organization there. Julia Johnson, a senior at Shanley and also very active in
    the Pro-Life Program was the representative from Shanley High School who was chosen to
    speak at the National Mall before the March for Life. Having previously met and spoken
    with Julia, the Catholic Daughters were extremely proud of the wonderful speech she
                                                                                                         Julia Johnson
    delivered on the Mall in Washington just prior to the March. (There is an hour of Pro-Life
    speeches on the Mall prior to the beginning of the March). Below is the text of Julia’s speech. —Shirley Seyfried

                         March for Life Speech
                                                            by Julia Johnson

    T       hank you. As was mentioned my name is Julia Johnson, and I am a senior at
            Shanley High School in Fargo, ND. As a school we are humbled and honored to
    have been selected to carry the lead banner in this year’s March for Life.

                                                                                          To the youth of America, it
                                                                                      is our responsibility to end the
                                                                                      scourge of abortion. At Shanley
                                                                                      High School, we are trying to do
                                                                                      just that. We have had an active
                                                                                      pro-life group for many years
                                                                                      and in being named to carry the
                                                                                      lead banner, we decided to bring
                                                                                      our entire high school this year.
                                                                                      Including students, teachers, and
                                                                                      chaperones, we packed 400 pro-
    Shanley High School Students holding the banner leading the March.
                                                                                      life warriors into eight buses. We
                                                                                      have traveled for 24 hours to come
                                                                                      to DC to be a witness for Life in
                                                                                      our Nation’s capital. We are the
                                                                                      Pro-Life Generation!
                                                                                          To my fellow youth, our cause
                                                                                      in defending life is a noble one.
                                                                                      It is noble because we are living
                                                                                      in a modern-day Holocaust, a
                                                                                      Holocaust that on average takes
                                                                                      the lives of more than 3,000 babies
                                                                                      each day, which amounts to over
                                                                                      one million babies a year. The silent

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horror of abortion has embedded itself into society
  and has targeted the most vulnerable and precious of
  us all. But, we will not remain idle. We cannot! It is our
  job to protect our brothers and sisters in the womb and
  their right to life. It is our obligation to “speak up for
  those who cannot speak for themselves;” (Pr. 31:8) for
  one’s value is not determined by size, or age.
      As I look out I see hundreds of thousands of people
  willing to stand up for what is right and true and
  virtuous. Our generation has stared through the smoke
  screen of lies and deceit, and we have seen the truth! We
  know that human life is present in the womb, and we are
  willing to fight for it. We refuse to stand by and watch
  the lives of innocent children be discarded as nothing
  more than “medical waste.” This is why we March:
  we march to stop an injustice that has taken the lives
  of a third of our generation. This pro-life revolution
  was not born out of hate for our neighbors, but out of
  love for them. And as we walk today I look forward to
  experiencing the joy that comes from being a part of an
  event that is bigger than ourselves. I am privileged to                  Catholic Daughters gather to continue the annual tradition of
                                                                           attending the Vigil Mass at The Basilica of the National Shrine of the
  march with each one of you, and that together we will                    Immaculate Conception on the eve of the March for Life. In the front
  achieve victory for mothers and their babies, for our                    pew, left to right, are National Regent-Elect Helene Shepard, National
  country, and for our God. God bless you.                                 Regent Shirley Seyfried and Shirley’s husband Dave.

  The Catholic Daughters who marched together in the annual March for Life in Washington, D.C., January 22, 2015.

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Catholic Daughter Projects

    Speaking at the 55th Biennial National Convention last year, National Regent Shirley Seyfried asked that each court commit to one
    new activity or project each year. “Start a new project and let me hear about it,” Shirley said. “I would like to feature some projects
    in SHARE Magazine, in the Quarterly and on the Website.” This is SHARE’s New Projects section where some of your projects will
    be featured in each issue.

                                                                                                  Sponsor a child
                                                                                    Court Du Quoin #795, Du Quoin, Illinois
                                                                                   One of the main projects of CDA court #795 in Du
                                                                                   Quoin, Illinois is the sponsorship of a young boy from
                                                                                   Kenya from Project Nairobi, through the UNBOUND
                                                                                   organization. UNBOUND works side-by-side with
                                                                                   people living in poverty in 21 countries around the
                                                                                   world. Our parish priest and CDA chaplain, Father
                                                                                   Joseph Oganda, was born and raised in Nairobi,
                                                                                   Kenya, which is another reason we selected a
                                                                                   youth from this specific country. Several individual
                                                                                   members of our court have also elected sponsorship
                                                                                   of children, youth/students and/or the elderly in
                     Shoperoo and Missions                                         other countries.
     Court St. Petronille Parish #1096, Glen Ellyn, Illinois                           Our second major project that we have planned
    Court St. Petronille Parish #1096 in Glen Ellyn, Illinois, added Shoperoo      is to support a program our parish and diocese
    as a new charity for this year. My Circle of Love chairman, Gertrude           refer to as “Bibles for Life,” which funds the
    MacPhail, started it. Shoperoo is a free app for your smart phone that         purchase, translation and distribution of bibles to
    turns pictures of your shopping receipts into cash donations for your          underdeveloped countries throughout the world.
    designated school. The school receives $1 for every $500 of grocery            Again, several individual members of our court are
    receipts. Gertrude gathers all of our shopping receipts and records            personally supporting this missionary work through
    them in her smart phone. These are raising money for our parochial             voluntary donations. The cost of an individual bible is
    school.                                                                        greatly reduced when purchased in larger quantities,
        At this coming March meeting, I will present a program at our              which results in more bibles being donated.
    regular CDA meeting featuring Mary Miller, our Youth Minister                      In recognition of our national CDA theme
    from St. Petronille, and Karen O'Brien, our parish Christian Service           “Whatever you do for the least of My brethren,
    Minister. They will be presenting a film on their Mission trip to the De       you do for Me” —Matthew 25:40, we are extremely
    LaSalle Blackfeet School on the Blackfeet Reservation in Browning              proud and honored, as both CDA members and
    Montana. This reservation is home to twelve thousand Blackfeet                 individuals, to support both this projects.
    Indians who live in poverty and suffer many attendant problems such
    as unemployment, high rates of alcoholism and family dysfunction.              Brenda Sims, Regent
    The average family income is $12,000 per year. Some years ago,
    the De LaSalle Christian Brothers were asked to start an elementary
    school to educate children and give them hope for a brighter future.
    We understand that this school can use help with books and other
    materials for the children who attend. After the presentation to our
    membership, we hope to ask our group members if they would vote
    to add this to our list of charities this year. If our membership votes
    positively, we will then have our two new charities for this year as you
    hope each of our courts would do.

    Mary Ann Jung, Regent

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Catholic Daughter Projects

                               Quiet Bags
             Court St Rita #409, Perham, Minnesota
Court St Rita’s project is “Quiet Bags” for little children. Our Court Treasurer
Rosie Altstadt’s son Dewey crafted four stands with pegs to hang bags
on. The stands were embellished with a cross to better suit the church
environment. Our bags were imprinted with the Catholic Daughter emblem
so everyone using the bags can see that CDA is sponsoring the Quiet Bags.
The bags are supplied with religious children’s books, color crayons and a
weekly children’s bulletin. Families with young children are encouraged to
use these bags during Mass if they would like, returning them to the stands at
the end of Mass. The children’s weekly bulletin is for the child to take home.
The bags are then updated by the Catholic Daughters for the next week.
   Pictured in the photo are Father Matt Kuhn, our Parish Priest and National
Chaplain, Project Chairmen Janel Altstadt and Regent Dianne Rohde-Szarke.

Florence “Fuzz” Hammers

         Gifts for the Pregnancy Center
Court Mother Frances Cabrini #1415, Lebanon, Oregon
Court Mother Frances Cabrini #1415 chose our local Pregnancy
Center as our new project of the new year. We began by holding
our November meeting at the center. With about 15 members
attending, we were given a complete tour of the facility. It was
followed by a brief history as they had just celebrated their 25th
year. We left excited to begin and did so by using our Christmas
                                  party to collect personal items
                                  for the women and men clients
                                  of the center. With over 25                         Moms and Munchkins
                                  women attending our Christmas            Court Howard #1882, Ellicott City, Maryland
                                  party, we were able to deliver           In September 2014, Court Howard #1882 from Ellicott
                                  $300.00 worth of personal                City, Maryland launched a new program, Moms and
                                  items with gift bags and wrap            Munchkins. The purpose of the program is to provide
                                  to the center. They were thrilled.       stay-at-home moms with an opportunity for a morning
                                  Our next step was to host a              out, to meet with other moms while their children are
                                  baby shower in our parish with           supervised in a Catholic setting. Members of Court
setting up a crib near the altar. We began on the Sunday of the            Howard developed and led the program. The program
Feast of the Holy Family and it lasted a month, with our parish            provides liturgy sessions, prayer, song and arts & crafts
members filling the crib to overflowing. We delivered a pickup             activities for the children. The purpose is to bring the
truck loaded with almost 400 items and the crib to the center.             moms closer to the love of Jesus along with their
We will continue with delivering $5.00 Dutch Brothers gift cards           children. The sessions are on the third Friday of the
to the women on Mother’s Day and $5.00 gift cards to the men on            month. Participants have expressed appreciation for
Father’s Day. We will also continue by walking as a court in PAC’s         the program and the Court members involved are very
annual Walk For Life in May, one of their major fundraisers.               pleased with the events to date.

Chris Williamson, Regent                                                   Mary F. Messina, Regent

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Catholic Daughter Projects

              Neck Pillows for
              Hospice Patients
            Court Ludington #745,
             Ludington, Michigan
     We were approached by the father of one
     of our members who is active in Hospice
     of Ludington requesting assistance with
     sewing neck pillows for their patients. I
     made a few phone calls to members whom
     I knew were sewers. I soon had a group
     of able women to help with this project.
     Hospice provided us with a pattern and
                                                                             Spiritual Adoption Project
     some material and appropriate stuffing.
     We started this project the second week
                                                                    Court St. Veronica #1273, Hardwick, Vermont
     in December, which is busy for everyone,            Baby Shower for Care Net
     but we were able to complete enough                 For nine months, Catholic Daughters of the Americas Court St. Veronica #1273,
     pillows to take them through spring. One            Hardwick, Vermont, prayed for an unborn baby in danger of abortion. The Court
     of our members enlisted the help of her             “named” the baby Veronica in their prayers. To culminate the nine months, the
     granddaughter who had a new sewing                  Court held a baby shower on September 28, at St. Norbert Church in Hardwick,
     machine to use.                                     for Care Net Pregnancy Center of Central Vermont in Barre, Vermont. Court St.
         In the picture, Susan Boes is surrounded        Veronica and other Vermont court members and parishioners of Mary Queen of
     by a pile of neck bone pillows.                     All Saints Parish donated gifts for the baby shower. Sheila Bailey, Director of the
                                                         Care Net Pregnancy Center, spoke to the group about their work and the needs of
     Rosemarie DeLoof, Regent                            the Center to counsel women and men faced with unplanned pregnancies. They
                                                         help support pregnancies and parents with their baby boutique of maternity and
                                                         baby clothes, diapers, equipment and parenting classes.
                                                              Just as in a real baby shower, games and refreshments were part of the day,
                                                         as well as eyeing all the cute baby outfits and gifts. Ms. Bailey brought back the
                                                         baby clothes, diapers, wipes, lotions, baby wash, blankets, and more that had
                                                         filled a table and display rack to replenish their baby boutique.
                                                              In the photo, front row, left to right: Pat Lemay, Robin Gauthier, Mary Jane
                                                         Fradette, Debbie Brown, Sheila Bailey and Anne Renaud Conway. Back Row,
                                                         left to right, Emma Pudvah, Doris Voyer (regent), Beverly Shepard, Jeannette
                                                         Brochu, Jeannine Young, Helen Willey, Jocelyne Lussier and Lindsey Warren.

                                                         Doris Voyer, Regent

                                                        Pennies for the Poor
                                   Court Pere Marquette #1058, Sturgeon Bay, Wisconsin
     Court Pere Marquette #1058 would like to do what it can, but our court has many elderly members, so some projects would be
     too difficult due to limited physical abilities. The ladies of our court decided for this year our project will be Pennies for the Poor,
     with the contributions added up at the end of the year, and given to either the Hispanic community, Feed and Clothe My People
     (a local organization in our community) or the Christ Child Society.

     Jean Austad, Regent

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Catholic Daughter Projects

                   Family Christmas for Christmas
                         Court #1377, Iowa, Louisiana
The members of Court #1377 of Iowa, Louisiana, always exchange gifts at our Christmas
meeting. This year we decided to adopt a family of three: a father and his two grown
sons. They have hardly anything. We filled the trunks of two cars, bringing them
clothes (all new), cleaning supplies, food items and wash cloths/towels. They were so
appreciative, and so surprised. One said, “this is for all for us.” Then the church parish
gave them a food basket. This was a new project our court took on and the members
really came out supporting this project. It was a great success.
    In the photo, Dora LeBlanc, left, and Bobbie LeBlanc, right, show one of the car
trunks filled with donated items.

Vickie Broussard Melanson, Regent

 Ruby’s Pantry—Food Distribution                                                  Nursing Home Visits
         Court St. Joan of Arc #1291                                  Court St. Charles #472, Lincoln, Nebraska
            Marshall, Minnesota                                Court St. Charles #472 in Lincoln, Nebraska, adopted a new project:
Court St. Joan of Arc #1291 in Marshall, Minnesota,            Visits to Nursing Homes. We appointed a chairman and co-chairman
has adopted a new project called Ruby’s Pantry. The            and the court members sign up to visit when the priests lead the
program is a monthly Food Distribution program.                rosary and celebrate Mass at the local nursing homes.
Members of our Catholic Daughters of the Americas
Court have actively taken part in assisting with               Alice Rotter, Regent
the food distribution by stocking tables of food,
organizing lines of people for the event, and being
cashier. We will continue to assist with this program                                 Pro-Life Project
ongoing in the spirit of “Sharing the Love of Christ           Court Washington #1651, Washington, Pennsylvania
Through Food.” This food distribution program serves           Through the husband of one of our members, we learned of the
the entire community and is used by many.                      Knights of Columbus Ultrasound Machine Purchase Program,
                                                               which they launched as a new initiative aimed at providing women
Coleen Frye, Regent                                            considering abortion a new way of viewing the life within them.
                                                               After presenting this information to our members in September,
                                                               they unanimously voted to adopt this as our Court’s Pro-life project,
                                                               using the monies that are available in our Pro-Life Fund to help
                                                               fund the ultrasound machines. Our Pro-Life Fund comes from
                                                               loose change, as well as paper money, which is collected in our
                                                               baby bottle at each meeting throughout the year. We then invited
                                                               the State Co-Chair of the project to speak to our members at the
                                                               November meeting. He explained that our donation would be
                                                               applied to the purchase of an ultrasound machine for the “Women’s
                                                               Choice Network in Oakland, Pennsylvania.” A check in the amount
                                                               of $150 was presented at this meeting and we plan to make an
                                                               annual donation to the Knights Ultrasound Project. We are happy
                                                               to be able to assist those women who might be contemplating an
                                                               abortion to recognize the miracle of a new life within her.

                                                               Laraine A. McGinnis

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Adoption Stories
 B          oth National Regent-Elect, Helene Shepard and Past National Regent, Claudia
     Bosch have adopted children. As part of our “Life is a Precious Gift” issue, we asked
     them to share their stories of adoption.
     Helene Shepard                                                 Each year going to the March for Life has special
         Becoming birth parents is a gift from God. Sadly,       meaning for me because if their mothers had chosen
     not every married couple receives this gift. It was not     abortion, John, Patrick, and Allen would not have
     given to John and me. However, we realized that some        existed, and my life would have been vastly different.
     children are born from their mother and father, and         Life was given to Deacon John, and we in turn were
     some are born from the heart. This was the case for         able to give a new life to Patrick and Allen. If I could, I
     Patrick and Allen who were born from our hearts. Once       would do it all over again.
     we found out that we were unable to have our own
                     children, adoption became our goal.         Claudia Bosch
                        We adopted 10 year old, Patrick, and        When Jim and I were married, we had hoped for a
                     two years after we adopted Patrick, we      large family. Needless to say, when we became pregnant
                     found out that we could now adopt a         with our son, we were overjoyed. I was positive I was
                     four year old boy named Allen. The          the most beautiful mother-to-be who ever existed, even
                     twenty years Patrick was with us were       though I gained 45 pounds. I was so happy I was a mother,
     happy ones for each of us. He brought joy and happiness     that I strolled the baby all around town so everyone could
     to our home. We had the opportunity to become a             see I was a “Mom.” I even wore an apron at home because
     family. When he was thirty, he had a heart attack while     that also was a sign of motherhood (in my mind)!
     watching TV. This came as a shock to all of us. We felt,       As the years went by, we prayed for
     however, that it was, “Better to have loved and lost than   more children, but apparently God had
     not to have loved at all.” (Alfred, Lord Tennyson)          other plans for us. When our son was
         Allen on the other hand, had many needs, and he         seven, I thought about adoption. Notice
     presented numerous challenges to us. It is gratifying,      I said ‘I’ thought about it. Jim wasn’t
     however, to know that he did not have to spend his          too sure about the idea because he was
     life growing up in an orphanage. He could be part of a      concerned that he may not be able to love another child
     family through adoption.                                    as much as our biological son. After discussing this with
         Life to us has always been considered a precious        our dear priest friend, we soon realized and understood
     gift. Deacon John, my husband of happy memory, was          that childbirth is an act of nature and adoption is an act of
     not raised by his biological mother. The only contact       God. We contacted Catholic Family Services and were on
     he had with her was at the time of her death. He was        our way to increasing our family. Seven months later, we
     informed about it, and he insisted that we attend her       got “the call;” our daughter was waiting for us. Talk about
     funeral. When paying our respects, he put his hand          nerves! Paintbrushes and baby clothes were flying all over
     on her coffin and said something very powerful, “She        the place - we only had two day’s notice! I had to call my
     gave me life.” It made such an impression on me that        parents to come and care for our son because he had the
     I could not help but think that the world has been a        measles and couldn’t come with us. Talk about anxiety!
     better place because she gave him life. It also made me        Driving the 100 miles to meet our daughter was
     think of the many brave young women who choose to           worse than the labor I experienced giving birth to my
     give birth to their child rather than abort and allow
     that baby to be raised by a new and loving family.                                                  Continued on page 14

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Living with Autism
                                                     Sherry Nilles
                                               Second Vice National Regent

 R       especting life in all forms is one value that is central to Catholic teaching. Family
  is where values, attitudes, and acceptance are learned.
                “Emily doesn’t travel well.”                    patterns of autism. As a result of that, more individuals
                 —Anna, Emily’s sister, age nine.               are diagnosed and have access to resources needed.
                                                                Additionally, a widened definition of autism has also
     Emily is six years old. Her day is very structured.        accounted for some of the increased prevalence.
  Morning starts with choosing clothing for the day.                But what causes autism? A common misconception
  Shoes that were lined up perfectly the evening before         is that vaccines caused autism. Vaccines do NOT cause
  are slipped on.                                               autism. The study that originally caused people to
     She likes Pop Tarts with her milk for breakfast.           believe that vaccines caused autism was found to be
  Lunch favorites are chicken strips, fries and a milk          fraudulent and has been retracted from Lancet, the
  shake. The dinner menu includes spaghetti sauce with          journal in which the study was published. In fact, the
  noodles and milk. Snack specialties are grapes, Goldfish      drug Thimerosal, thought to have caused autism, was
  crackers or Alphabet cereal. Sounds pretty normal for a       removed from vaccines in 1992.
  child of six, doesn’t it? The items listed for Emily are the      There is probably not just one single answer
  only foods she will consume each and every day. Other         or cause for autism. As the label Autism covers a
  foods are not given consideration or tried.                   spectrum of symptoms and behaviors, so the causes
     Emily’s favorite time of day is the bus ride to her        may be many and varied. One of the observed factors
  school. She has her self-assigned seat on the bus. Only       common in autism is the age of the parents at the time
  that seat will do for the bus ride. The same route must       of conception. Another is exposure to certain agents
  be followed every day. Any deviations cause distress,         while the fetal brain is developing. Use of certain
  anxiety and a very unhappy child. Travel because of           medications is also on the list. In addition, there can
  its unstructured pattern is nearly                                              be some infectious agents that can
  impossible for Emily. What causes                                               cause autism. One area being studied
  this behavior? This family lives with                                           is specific genes that cause autism,
  autism.                                                                         not because genes are the only
     One in sixty-eight children is                                               cause, but that they can be readily
  diagnosed with autism. Why did Emily                                            defined and understood biologically.
  develop autism? Is there an autism                                              Understanding how the brain works
  epidemic? In the late 1980’s and early                                          and the biology behind it helps to
  1990’s, legislation was passed that                                             come up with strategies to be able
  provided autistic individuals with                                              to more completely understand and
  resources and access to educational                                             intervene.
  materials that would help them.                                                    Looking at the concordance rate,
  Given this increased awareness, more                                            that is the probability that more than
  parents, pediatricians and educators Emily (6) and her sister Anna (9) by the   one child in the same family will be
  learned to recognize the behavior Christmas tree.                               autistic, gives a further understanding

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 of genetics. Identical twins, fraternal twins and regular     parents were very concerned. When Emily was finally
 siblings were studied. The concordance rate was               diagnosed, an intensive program was set up for her.
 most prevalent in identical twins, yet only at a rate of          At the tender age of three, Emily was immersed
 77%. For fraternal twins the rate was only 31%. Genes         in a daily program for autistic children. The morning
 account for a lot of the risk, but not all, suggesting that   was spent with a one-on-one therapist in the family
 there are common exposures for fraternal twins that           home. Afternoons involved a school setting with other
 are not shared as commonly as siblings alone. In some         autistic children. She now attends kindergarten with
 individuals, autism can be genetic not because it runs in     the assistance of an aide. Her speech, while not yet age
 the family, but because certain individuals actually have     appropriate, is understandable and logical. Medication
 genetic changes or mutations that are not passed down         has helped lessen the anxiety she experiences. Food
 from the mother or the father, but actually start brand       choices are still limited, but new foods are hesitantly
 new in them.                                                  tried. Her parents continue, with normal discipline and
     The current estimation is that there are 200 to 400       exposure to the outside world, to encourage continued
 different genes that can cause autism. That explains the      growth and the ability to function in society. She plays
 broad spectrum of autism. Early diagnosis is critical         quietly, mostly by herself, and loves to be tickled!
 in the ability to transform and impact the growing                Respect for all life from conception to natural death
 developing brain.                                             includes accepting children and members of society
     Combinations of factors are being used to intervene.      who have challenges. Emily’s mother commented that
 Medications and drug therapy are commonly used.               working and living with Emily has made her more
 But beyond just drugs, educational strategies are used.       compassionate and accepting of God’s plan, realizing
 Autistic people are wired a bit differently. They learn       that God provides strength. Advocating for all children
 in different ways and absorb their surrounding in a           who need assistance has made her stronger and given
 different way. Although much is known, there is a long        a greater understanding that God is good.
 way to go and much more to learn along the way.                   Anna and Emily are my granddaughters.
     What is Emily’s prognosis? Because her mother is a
 registered nurse with experience in child development,           For additional information on autism,
 she recognized early warning signs. Her mom noticed           please go to www.autismspeaks.org
 no eye contact with mom during nursing. Speech that
 normally would have occurred by age two did not. Even                                    Sherry Nilles
 though the pediatrician was at first not concerned, her

 Adoption Stories (continued from page 12)

 son! This beautiful gift from God was lying in a crib,        beautiful gift. One needs to understand adoption is not
 eyes wide open looking at her Mommy and Daddy and             a birth mother’s rejection, but an unconditional love
 smiling at us. I started to cry, and Jim gently picked        that inspires her to put herself last and her baby first.
 her up and held her. She just stared at him and smiled.       My daughter is a product of two women - just two
 Once my tears stopped, Jim handed her to me, and the          different types of love. Today, this daughter is a mother
 look I got seemed to say, “It’s okay Mommy, I’m yours.”       of three children - one biological and two adopted.
 Thus we became a family of four.                                  Our birth announcement’s cover read:
    There is absolutely no difference between being
 biological or adopted - they are both special gifts from        NOT FLESH OF MY FLESH, NOR BONE
 God, and I am so lucky to be their Mother.                      OF MY BONE
    Over the years, we had the opportunity to meet our           BUT STILL MIRACULOUSLY MY OWN.
 daughter’s birth family, as well as the foster parents.         YOU DIDN’T GROW UNDER MY HEART,
 It gave us the opportunity to thank them for this               BUT IN IT.
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Life is Precious
                                          By Vickie Broussard Melanson
                             Past National Director and Past State Regent of Louisiana

     W       hy do we get distracted by everyday living? What importance do we place on
 our got-to-have list? Why has our must-do list grown so large? Why do we make life
 so difficult? Why do we place so much importance on the trivia of living?

     This all hit me July 2012, as Hospice was called in        health, and your children. If everything else was lost and
 for Johnny, my husband, who had cancer and there was           only they remained, your life would still be full. Pebbles
 nothing else to do for him. We traveled to MD Anderson         are other things that matter—like your job, your house,
 in Houston for three years praying for a miracle. The          your vehicle. The sand is everything else, the small stuff.
 name of his cancer, which I could not even pronounce,          If you had put the sand first, there would have been
 illustrated how complex we make life today.                    no room for pebbles or rocks. The same goes for your
     As we prepared to leave Houston and return home,           life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small
 I was scared, upset, and worried. How would I be               stuff, you will never have room for the things that are
 able to care for my husband around the clock? How              important. Pay attention to the things that are critical to
 would I be able to make him comfortable for the last           your happiness. Play with your children/grandchildren,
 few months of his life? I said, “I cannot do this.” As I       go dancing, go to the movies, sit and read a book, visit
 was forced to build up courage to face what was ahead,
 God was already delivering just what I needed. My
 family, along with Johnny’s, came forward to be with
 us during this time. My pastor, people of our church,
 friends, and neighbors surrounded us with love by
 doing things for us or just being there, but the greatest
 of all were the ones who prayed for and with us.
     The light and love of the people we loved showed
 through the everyday cluster of trivia we all put in our
 lives. Love flowed giving me strength and courage to
 overcome my fears and doubts. The power of love took
 over. Love soothed, healed, and showed the way of
 hope. Yes, LIFE IS PRECIOUS. All of us matter. Always
 remember, the greatest gift you can give to others is to
 share your time and talents to meet the human needs
 of others. Your love and your presence can change the
 world. Do not allow stuff to rule your world.
     I will explain to you what is very important and what
 matters. Get a jar and fill it with rocks, then pebbles, and
 last sand. That jar represents your LIFE. The rocks are
 the important things—your family, your spouse, your
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friends/relatives, please hug your family members daily,   others. LIFE IS PRECIOUS. Remember God expects
  and let them know you love them.                           the best from each of us and our fellow man depends
      Mother Teresa once asked, “What can you do to          on us. LIFE IS PRECIOUS.
  promote world peace?” The answer was to “go home               During my husband’s last few months of life, he
  and love your family.” Do not miss doing important or      quoted these lines of Scripture many times, “as it is these
  fun things with your family/friends because you have       remain: Faith, Hope, and Love. Of the three of them, the
  to do housework or other things like this. You see, your   greatest is LOVE.” My husband passed away in October
  family/friends may not be here tomorrow, but that          of 2012 after we were married four years. Both of us
  housework will still be there. Take care of the rocks      learned during this time that LIFE IS PRECIOUS; we
  first; these are the things that really matter. Set your   already knew this, but we took life for granted as most
  priorities, the rest is just sand. LIFE IS PRECIOUS.       of us do. We found out what was important in our
      Love truly matters; make one of your purposes in       life. Praying was also very important to us, we prayed
  life to be able to help someone today. Even if you do      together daily. So you see my friends, we may not be
  not have money or you’re not healthy—you can always        here tomorrow, so make the most of today, and enjoy
  help someone; there is always someone worse off            every minute as if it were your last to live.
  than you. I witnessed this many times going back and           I want to leave you with something to think
  forth to MD Anderson Hospital in Houston. Johnny           about: What is your plan to do with your PRECIOUS
  and I met a woman in an elevator all alone, and she        LIFE? As Dr. Seuss said so well, sometimes you will
  looked like she had received bad news so, as we were       never know the value of a moment until it becomes
  exiting the elevator, I asked her, “you need a hug?” So,   a memory. LIFE IS PRECIOUS. May God bless each
  I hugged her, and she thanked me and cried saying she      one of you and please enjoy each minute of your life,
  needed that. See it does not take much to show love to     because LIFE IS SO PRECIOUS.

   Prayer for Life
   O God, our Creator, all life is in your hands from conception
   until death. Help us to cherish our children and to reverence
   the awesom e privilege of our share in creation.
   M ay all people live and die in dignity and love.
   Bless all those who defend the rights of the unborn,
   the handicapped and the aged. Enlighten and
   be m erciful toward those who fail to love,
   and give them peace. Let freedom be tem pered
   by responsibility, integrity and m orality.
   — from Catholic.org
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       California Court Holds Bake Sale                               Louisiana Court Members
       Members of Court St. Raymond #2057, Dublin, California,
                                                                      Gather in Peaceful Protest in
       held its semi-annual bake sale with the generous support       Front of Abortion Clinic
       of parishioners who purchased and enjoyed homemade
       baked items prepared and donated by court members.
       The bake sale accommodated people with special
       dietary needs, offering sugar free and gluten free baked
       goods. The rain did not dampen the spirit of parishioners
       who stopped by to either purchase baked goods or make
       cash donations to the court.
                                            Court members,
                                            standing behind
                                            attractively packaged
                                            baked goods, are, left    Members of Court Regina Coeli #2063, Baton Rouge,
                                            to right, Sylvia San
                                                                      Louisiana, rallied in front of the Delta Clinic (an abortion
                                            Miguel, event chair,
                                            Nubia Walker, Nicole      provider) in Baton Rouge. The walk was part of the court’s
                                            Allen, recording          participation in the 40 Days For Life Campaign, which,
                                            secretary and Annie       according to its website, is “a community-based campaign
                                            Brozosky.
                                                                      that takes a determined, peaceful approach to showing local
                                                                      communities the consequences of abortion in their own
                                                                      neighborhoods, for their own friends and families.” Six court
                                                                      members and one guest participated. In the photo, left to
                                                                      right, are Gail Harris, Charlotte Mathis, Mary Decuir (guest), Liz
                                                                      Bennett, Joyce Eiserloh, Carolyn Bonfanti and Anita Harper.

                                                                        New York Court Collects
     Texas Court Helps Catholic                                         Supplies for Schoolchildren
     School Build Gymnasium
     Court Our Lady of the Gulf #2267, Port Lavaca, Texas,
     donated $10,000 to Our Lady of the Gulf Catholic School to
     help complete the school’s new gymnasium. In the photo, left
     to right, are Principal Theresa Dent, Margaret Rosales, Regent
     Margaret Hilscher, Treasurer Margaret Yanta, Pastor Rev.
     Tommy Chen, Vice Regent Georgia Mikosh, Nancy Thompson,
     Recording Secretary Vonnie Greenly, Patty Weaver and Rose
     Marie Knobles.
                                                                        Members of Court St. Ann #866, Piermont, New York,
                                                                        pack school supplies they collected for the People
                                                                        to People “To School With Dignity Drive,” a program
                                                                        dedicated to bringing confidence and dignity to needy
                                                                        children. Standing, left to right, are Edna Blose, May
                                                                        Pang, Therese O’Dowd, Janet Zahn, Bridget Rogan,
                                                                        Barbara Volpe and Anne Marie Flynn. Seated, left to
                                                                        right, Robin Miller and Maryann Beckerich.

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Leaders for Life
                                               Helene Shepard
                            National Regent-Elect, National Leadership Chairman

 B      ecause of our past wonderful leaders, we have made a smooth transition
 into the 21st century. We are proud and blessed to have many leaders who are able
 to continue to serve our organization after their terms as National Regent are
 completed. As a tribute to them, and also as a sign of gratitude, we are featuring
 them in the following article.
    Presently, there are seven living Past National        experience for me to visit the membership and to see
 Regents who have impacted the lives of all Catholic       them in all phases of our programs.”
 Daughters. They have reached the pinnacle of                 M. Joan McKenna served as National Regent
 leadership in their terms as Local, State, and National   from 2004-2006.
 Officers, and, ultimately, as National Regents. They         “Since my involvement with JCDA beginning in
 were each asked to respond to four questions, and as      1948, I have honed my leadership and mentoring
 you read, you will see that their service did not end     skills and strengthened my spirituality.”
 when their terms ended. They are Leaders for Life,           Claudia R. Bosch served as National Regent
 and they are all active members in their local courts     from 2006-2008.
 and have continued to serve in various capacities.           “The road I’ve traveled as a Catholic Daughter laid
                                                           the foundation for my being today. The opportunities
 How did your term as national Regent impact your          extended to me provided an inner strength I wasn’t
 life in a personal way?                                   aware existed. I discovered becoming involved in
                                                           spiritual and charitable works with CDA provided me
    Rayola McLaughlin served four years as                 with wonderful avenues I had not had the strength or
 National Regent from 1986 -1990.                          courage to encounter.”
     “It was invigorating to be alive and active, living      Libby Ramirez served as National Regent from
 and leading the Catholic Daughters in this Century.       2008 - 2010.
 It truly made me much more aware of the many                 “My life was impacted when I was elected
 challenges confronting us on a daily basis. It also       National Regent-Elect and especially when the road
 gave me a more reverent and respectful regard for the     to National Regent began. I had the opportunity to
 mystery of the Church.”                                   meet so many people and members of the Catholic
    Grace Di Cairano served as National Regent             Daughters that I would not have had an opportunity
 from 2002 - 2004.                                         to meet. It gave me the assurance to finally realize
    “I was proud and blessed to represent and lead         that I could do anything God had in store for me.”
 the members of our great organization of Catholic            Joanne Tomassi, Past National Regent served
 women. It was a distinct honor and a profound             2010 - 2012
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“Serving as National Regent was
  an amazing experience. The work
  seemed endless and very fulfilling.
  Ultimately, my term gave me the
  opportunity for a career change. It
  opened doors for me to go to work
  for my parish in a position that is
  service centered rather than profit
  focused.”
     Anne Nelson served as National
  Regent from 2012 - 2014
     “Meeting some of the greatest
  Catholic women in this organization
  had a profound impact on my life. I
  always stand taller knowing there
  are women of great faith, vision and
  energy carrying the CDA mission to
  their parishes, communities, states
  and world. I will treasure their
  friendship.”

  What projects or programs did you
  pioneer during your term? Of what
  are you most proud?
     All of the accomplishments of
  these women are too numerous to
  include in this one article. However,
  I do want to highlight one or two
  from each of their terms.               Past National Regents and the years they served. Back row, left to right, Claudia Bosch,
                                          2006-08, M. Joan McKenna, 2004-06, Grace DiCairano, 2002-04. Middle row, left to right,
     Rayola’s    project    was    the    Joanne Tomassi, 2010-12, Libby Ramirez, 2008-10. Front row: Anne Nelson, 2012-14. Missing
  “Relocation       Building     Fund     from picture: Rayola McLaughlin, 1986-90.

  Project.” CDA made a pledge of
  $500,000 to USCCB. The altar in the chapel of the             of CDA, in New York and in Washington DC. The
  bishops’ headquarters in Washington, D.C., was                highlight in this term was the trip to Rome and the
  designated as a gift from the Catholic Daughters.             presentation of the Spiritual Bouquet presented to
  Additionally, seed money in the amount of $20,000             the Holy Father for his anniversary and for the 100th
  was given to SOAR 28 years ago, and we continue to            anniversary of CDA.
  support this as a National Project. The highlight of             M. Joan fostered a monthly newsletter keeping
  her term was the presentation of Development 88-90.           Past National Regents abreast of pertinent
  The plan was to get 10,000 new members. They                  organizational and personal information. It was also
  exceeded their goal by 100% to 20,000, and 42 new             sent to all Past National Chaplains. The National
  courts were instituted.                                       Directors Club was organized, which has provided
     Grace’s major project was the publication of the           past national directors an opportunity to grow closer
  History Book – A Century in Review in concert                 and stay in constant contact with each other.
  with the authors and Mercury Publication Company.                Claudia stated that she followed in the footsteps of
  There were two celebrations of the 100th Anniversary          National Regents before her. “I do not wish to specify any
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