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                      New
                    Hampshire

     Your guide to the perfect wedding

March 2020
Photo by Dan Doke
at Searles Castle
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                  It’s the Real Deal
 Imagine your wedding here at our authentic English
 Tudor Castle nestled in the New Hampshire woods,
 high atop a 125-acre estate.

                                     © Tom Gibbons Photography

                                                                                             © Nu View Photography

                                                                   Begin your day with bridal preparations in our
                                                                 Bridal Suite followed by a spectacular Courtyard
                                                                 Ceremony. Guests will enjoy a cocktail hour with
                                                                 passed Hors-d’oeuvres inside the Castle and in
                                                                 the Courtyard.
                                                                   The festivities will continue with a Reception
                                                                 in our climate-controlled Palladium-style Euro
                                                                 tent. Searles Castle at Windham offers that truly
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                                                                 30 miles north of Boston and less than five
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              Pre-wedding beauty tips for the bride
     You want everything to be picture perfect
for your wedding, including your smile. But
like everything else about your big day, that
perfect smile could require some work ahead
of time. In fact, experts suggest starting your
entire beauty regimen six months before the
wedding. Here's a complete pre-wedding
beauty checklist.
     ❤ Lips: Get soft, kissable lips by brushing
away flakes of dry skin with an infant
toothbrush soaked in baking soda and water.                                                           makeup remover and cleanser at night and
Apply healing ointment, and in no time, your                                                          a daily moisturizer. Use a gentle facial scrub
lips will be ready for that "kiss the bride" kiss.                                                    once a week.
     ❤ Teeth: A cosmetic dentist can often                                                                ❤ Hair: If you're planning to change
correct an imperfect smile with veneers. But                                                          your hairstyle or color, experiment several
if spending painful hours in the dentist's                                                            months before the wedding so you have time
chair getting your teeth ground down sounds                                                           to correct any mistakes.
like it would put a damper on all the joyful                                                              ❤ Nails: If you're a nail-biter, get weekly
planning, here's good news: Lumineers (www.                                                           manicures to keep your nails healthy. Plan
lumineers.com) are now used by thousands of                                                           your last manicure a couple of days before the
dentists nationwide and can be applied in two                                                         big day. Choose a pretty pale pink or splurge
short, pain-free appointments. Unlike other                                                           on a French manicure, not just because it
veneer procedures, Lumineers are so strong                                                            looks great, but because the chips won't
and thin that they don't require removal of                                                           show as much and are easy to fix. You'll have
sensitive tooth structure. The procedure is                                                           beautiful hands for the rehearsal dinner and
quick, painless and even reversible.                 choose pink, berry, lilac, mauve or red with     any other festivities. Don't forget, practice
     ❤ Makeup: Women with warm skin                  blue undertones.                                 makes perfect. Schedule a trial run with your
tones look best in makeup with pink, coral,             ❤ Skin: Make your face glow with a            hair and makeup artists several days before
peach, amber, brown and red with yellow              good cleansing program. Use a cleanser that's    your wedding, so there are no surprises the
undertones. If you have a cool skin tone,            appropriate for your skin type in the morning,   day of the ceremony. (NewsUSA)

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    Marriage licenses; guide to getting married in NH
    All persons proposing to be joined in         marriage license application unless one of the      only valid for ceremonies taking place within
marriage within the State of New Hampshire        parties is in the military and unable to return     New Hampshire. Couples planning weddings
must first obtain a marriage license. Marriage    to New Hampshire before the ceremony. If            that will take place outside New Hampshire
license applications may be applied for at any    this is the case, please contact the city clerk’s   must contact the location where the marriage
town or city clerks’ office in the state.         office for instructions.                            will occur for licensing regulations.
    To be married in NH you do not have               As it does take about half an hour to               ❤ License Validity Period
to establish residency. A couple wishing to       process and issue marriage licenses, we ask             Marriage licenses are valid for 90 days
marry in the State of NH may complete an          that couples plan accordingly, and come in          from the date of issuance. There is no longer
application at any NH city or town clerk’s        to obtain their marriage licenses by 4:00 p.m.      a waiting period and the license may be used
office regardless of their place of residence.    Monday through Friday, with the exception of        the same day. The State of New Hampshire
This includes out-of-state residents as well.     Thursdays evenings when couples must come           does not require blood tests prior to marriage.
Once a valid license is issued, the couple will   in by 5:00 p.m.                                     Couples do not need to obtain licenses in
be free to marry within any city or town in NH.       Marriage licenses issued by municipal           the community in which they live or in the
Both parties must be present to complete the      clerks within the State of New Hampshire are        community where they are getting married. 

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     ❤ Fee
     The fee to obtain a marriage license in
New Hampshire is $50. The marriage license
fee is payable in cash or by debit and/or
credit card, no checks are accepted. The
license fee is set by RSA 457:29 and is payable
to the City Clerk at the time the intentions are
filed.
     Certified copies are available after the
ceremony has taken place and the marriage
license has been returned to the clerk's office.
Certified copies are $15 for the first copy and
$10 for subsequent copies issued at the same
time.
     Certified copies of the record can be
obtained for a fee from the city or town clerk
where the license was filed if marriage was
prior to 1989. If after 1989, a certified copy
should be able to be obtained at any city or
town clerk in the State.                           provide the following information when        of birth
     ❤ What to Bring with you when                 applying for a marriage license:            • Mothers full maiden name
        applying for a license                     • Full Name                                   and state of birth
     Applicants must bring a document that         • Date of Birth                                  ❤ Penalty
proves their identity and age such as a driver’s   • State of Birth                                 Any person shall be guilty of a Class B
license, non-drivers ID or passport.               • Current address                           Felony if he/she willfully and knowingly
     If either party applying for a marriage       • Social Security Number, if applicable     makes any false statement in an application
license has been married before they must          • Race                                      for a certified copy of a vital record. (NH RSA
present a certified copy of the document           • Ancestry                                  5-C:14).
that ended their most recent marriage when         • Years of Education                             All information on the application shall
applying for a new marriage license.               • Certified record of date last             be entered accurately. Falsification of any
     In addition to a photo ID and certified         marriage ended, if                        fact can cause great hardship to you at a later
documents that ended the previous marriage           applicable                                date and may make you liable for criminal
(when applicable), please be prepared to           • Fathers full name and state               prosecution.

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  Wedding gifts for grooms: A tradition brides shouldn't ignore
     The answer is: Yes, it's                                                                                          a reason a watch invariably
expected. But it's also a chance                                                                                       makes everyone's short list: It's
for all you brides out there to                                                                                        the perfect statement of who he
truly show you know that not                                                                                           is or aspires to be. (It's also a lot
everything is about you on your                                                                                        more impressive than a flask,
wedding day. That there really                                                                                         which for some reason also gets
is another person involved                                                                                             a few votes).
(that would be the groom) who                                                                                              No less a taste arbiter than
deserves a bit of recognition,                                                                                         MarthaStewartWeddings.
too. We're talking wedding                                                                                             com favors Baume & Mercier's
presents -- specifically, yours to                                                                                     Clifton line -- as elegant as
your husband-to-be. Tradition                                                                                          the original 1950s model that
does, indeed, hold that both                                                                                           inspired it -- for the way it
you and he exchange gifts. And                                                                                         "easily transitions from big
while it's true that some guys are                                                                                     day to every day." Like the
initially shocked to learn your                                                                                        Swiss watchmaker's timelessly
engagement ring doesn't also                                                                                           charming (and affordably
count as a "present," that's no                                                                                        luxurious) Classima line, it
excuse for you to waver. "Giving                                                                                       comes with a choice of straps,
him something that's just for                     just before the ceremony," says Brides.com.                          dial faces and a variety of what's
him will make him feel really special," advises       ❤ There's a thin line between                     known as "small complications" that go way
BrideBox.com. Here's what you need to know        "romantic" and "mushy." Some of you                   beyong just telling the hour. You can shop
now that it's prime time for weddings:            may be tempted to compile a "love notes"              them at the Baume & Mercier e-boutique
     ❤ When to exchange them. Etiquette           journal of every bit of correspondence you've         or by calling 1-800-MERCIER, where free
dictates that the hand-off occurs at one of       ever sent your groom. Even assuming he's              engraving and wrapping are available.
three times: the night before the wedding,        the type who wouldn't consider that a bit                 ❤ Fun fact. One writer at AskMen.
the morning of the ceremony, or right before      "over the top," there's always the chance he          com says he's "heard of women giving their
leaving on your honeymoon.                        might be left wondering, "Okay, where's my            husbands watches in the ceremony instead of
     Think it's bad luck to see the groom         real present?"-- especially if his gift to you is a   a wedding ring." If so, the answer is: No, just
before the nuptials? "Many couples choose to      serious piece of jewelry.                             like your engagement ring, that wouldn't also
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        Elegant wedding setting at Searles Castle

Above left: bridal suite portrait, photo by Nu View Photography. Above center: view of the pond with
water wheel, photo by Tom Gibbons Photography. Above right: silhouette view of the castle from the
gates, photo by Dan Doke. Bottom right: sun porch in bridal suite, photo by Matt Michaud Photography.
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  Red, white and sparkling: How to choose the right wine glass
    Wine connoisseurs know something even more important than             at its very best? Here
facts about vintages and varietals: It makes a big difference how your    are some guidelines.
wine is served. From the correct temperature to the glass you drink            ❤ Red wines
from, how any wine is presented can change the entire experience.              In general, the best
    And it's not just about aesthetics - although a beautiful glass may   glasses to enhance
enhance your visual experience, the size and shape of a wine glass        the bigger and bolder
can alter any wine's aroma and taste, for better or worse. The size       flavors of most red
and shape of the glass affects not just how the wine responds to its      wines should be taller
environment (exposure to oxygen and temperature, for example), but        and have a larger bowl
how we drink it. The way you hold the glass, how you tilt your head       than glasses meant
(forward or back - consider a martini glass versus a wine glass), where   for serving lighter or
your nose is centered as you sip and where on your tongue and palate      more delicate wines.
the wine first hits can all impact your experience of the wine.           Larger glasses allow a
    What do you need to know so your guests will experience your wine     wine to breathe more
                                                                          and permit the wine's
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                                                                          the glass also allows aromas to be released sufficiently - without losing
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     Even within the many varietals of reds       other sparkling wines to your guests, flutes or   glass helps to preserve the carbonation of
or whites, however, there can be great            a tulip shaped glass are recommended. These       your sparkling wine.
differences. Specially designed stemware is       glass shapes allow the chilled wine to stay           For more information on how to receive
often created to enhance a specific wine that     cooler longer.                                    the specially designed glasses, visit your
may not be at its best in any other glass.            Whereas a wider glass would offer too         independent retailer or go to www.uncorked.
     For example, Terlato Vineyards searched      much surface area, letting the delightful         com and search for Terlato Vineyards Pinot
for the perfect glass to bring out the best       bubbles fizzle out more quickly. A narrower       Grigio 2018. (BPT)
in the fourth-generation family company's
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Pinot Grigio is known for exceptional balance,
complex, layered aromas and flavors with
notes of ripe peach, apricot and pear, and
a crisp, mineral finish. Bill Terlato and his
daughter, Elise teamed up with Maximilian
and Georg Riedel of the 300-year-old crystal
company to develop a glass to optimize the
flavors and aromas of their Pinot Grigio.
     In the eyes of the Riedel company, wine
glasses are not just about aesthetics, but are
tools to help bring out the best in any wine.
For Terlato Vineyard's Pinot Grigio, they
created a glass with a distinctly elongated
bowl to heighten the mineral and fruity flavors
of the wine. The narrower opening of the glass
also helps the wine land in the mouth mid-
palate, where taste buds are more complex.
     This specially designed glass helps the
wine taster "pick up on those little nuances,"
observed Elise Terlato. "The mouth of the glass
enhances the texture and layered complexities
of the wine."
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                Tips for brides and grooms on budgets
    Between the thrilling proposal                                                                                 might make better deals.
and the pre-wedding whirlwind,                                                                                     Classy catering can come from
setting the date, finding the                                                                                      unexpected places.
perfect wedding dress, planning                                                                                         Boston Market restaurants
the honeymoon, weddings should                                                                                     provide full-service catering
feel joyous and romantic.                                                                                          options with elegant entrees
    But after the wedding, couples                                                                                 like roasted sirloin, turkey
should enjoy their newly wedded                                                                                    or rotisserie chicken, and a
bliss, not panic about digging                                                                                     selection of gourmet sides. The
themselves out of debt.                                                                                            cost? From $14.99 to $21.99 a
    According to the Association                                                                                   head.
for Wedding Professionals                                                                                               After the reception,
International, the average                                                                                         photography and videography
wedding costs between $18,000                                                                                      are the second largest budget-
and $21,000.                                                                                                       breakers. Couples can hire a
    In these difficult economic                                                                                    photographer and videographer
times, couples might need                                                                                          for the ceremony, then leave
to minimize the cost of their                                                                                      reception photographs to friends,
wedding. But brides on budgets do                                                                                  family and digital cameras.
not need to whittle their guest list                                                                                    To avoid the cost of a live
from 200 to 10.                                                                                                    band, brides and grooms can opt
    Here are some affordable and                                                                                   for MP3 playlists, customized
tasteful measures couples can take                                                                                 CDs and speaker rentals over
to stay within their budget.                        marrieds can serve champagne during the                        pricey bands. Finally, hiring a
    What eats up wedding cash? Wedding              toast, then offer beer and wine for the rest of   wedding coordinator can save time, manage
receptions usually account for half of a            the evening. Give clumsier guests white wine,     stress and get better deals.
wedding's cost. Dinner and drinks add up,           not red, and the evening should progress with         So, here's a toast to tweaking old traditions
especially if couples pay for a full or open bar.   fewer mishaps at a lower cost.                    to make a dream wedding financially
    To save money on the bubbly, couples                For dinner, couples should think outside      attainable, and to save enough money for a
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                         Saying 'I do' and enjoying it too
    For many brides, the quest to plan the                                                           of spending, causing the perfect wedding to
perfect day can quickly turn into a nightmare                                                        turn into fights over money. By managing
trip down the aisle. Here are a few tips to keep                                                     expectations of what a "dream" wedding
your wedding day bliss from turning into the                                                         should be, it is possible to have a lovely and
honeymoon blues.                                                                                     elegant wedding without breaking the bank.
    ❤ Marriage Planning 101: Once the                                                                     ❤ Bridezilla-free zone: The term
ring goes on, the race to plan the perfect                                                           "Bridezilla" has been used to describe a
wedding begins, giving couples little time to                                                        difficult, unpleasant, perfectionist bride
think about the marriage itself or how their                                                         whose obsession with planning the perfect
wedding spending decisions could affect their                                                        wedding day leaves frustrated family, friends,
future. But smart couples are now setting                                                            bridal vendors and even her groom distraught
aside time to address pre-wedding issues                                                             in her wake.
such as what they will do when it comes to                                                                Belligerent Bridezillas beware: Some
financial planning, spending money, raising        challenges such as increased costs, security      wedding vendors now go as far as to include
children and family politics.                      concerns, language barriers and unreliable        language in their contracts reserving the right
    With nearly half of all newlyweds taking       vendors. A less expensive alternative is          to cancel if the bride's behavior is determined
on debt to finance their "big day," couples        to pick a centrally located U.S. city like        to be "out of control or abusive."
should take every opportunity to make their        Chicago, known for fantastic wedding and               ❤ Just say "no": Brides place such
wedding-related and everyday spending              party venues, choice accommodations and           demands on their bridesmaids these days
count toward their future. One unique new          activities to suit any taste and budget. It may   that it is not uncommon for them to decline,
rewards program, uTANGO.com, offers                not be as exotic as Tahiti, but couples often     even when it's one of their best friends. The
couples $10,000, $100,000 and even $1 million      find that more family and friends can attend      massive to-do lists handed out by brides,
in cash rewards to stay married and shop           and planning challenges are drastically           coupled with the obligatory appearances
with uTANGO's 250-plus merchants such as           reduced when the nuptials stay stateside.         for shopping, parties and showers, can leave
Expedia, Target.com, Nordstrom.com and                 ❤ Managing wedding expectations:              bridesmaids feeling underappreciated,
BlueNile. They offer free advice from wedding,     For many brides, planning the perfect             overworked and broke after the wedding
financial and relationship experts.                wedding is a major life event decades in the      is over. Brides should be upfront about
    ❤ Destination USA: While destination           making. With this in mind, it's easy to see how   both time and financial expectations with
weddings, especially to international locales,     wedding expectations can get out of hand in       their friends when asking them to join their
continue to be one of the hottest wedding          a hurry. With wedding euphoria taking over,       wedding party and understand if the answer is
trends in recent years, they can also present      busy brides and grooms can quickly lose sight     no. (NewsUSA)

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    Wedding Checklist:
12 Months Out                                wedding dress
 Determine your budget                       Book hotel-room blocks for
 Make a guest list                          guests
 Hire a wedding planner                      Create your wedding
 Decide formality and                       website
overall theme                                 Take engagement photos
 Select the venue                           9 Months Out
 Select the caterer                             Buy your wedding dress
11 Months Out                                    Send save-the-dates
 Choose color theme                         8 Months Out
and start thinking of overall                 Register for gifts
design. Hire vendors who book                 Select the bridesmaids’
up quickly, including your                   dresses and
photographer, band, DJ, and                      schedule fittings within the
videographer                                 month
10 Months Out                                 Meet with potential florists                   Book the rehearsal-dinner
    Start shopping for your                 7 Months Out                                    venue				                 

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 Hire the ceremony
musicians
 Order rentals items, such
as specialty chairs, linens,
draping, lounge furniture,
white dance floor, etc.
 Hire an officiant
6 Months Out
   Start looking at invitations
   Hire a lighting technician
5 Months Out
 Book transportation for
guests, if needed                   Buy or rent the groom’s         Have your final tasting
 Book the bride and               tuxedo                           with the caterer
groom’s transportation (limo,       Begin premarital                Choose your cake
specialty car, etc.)               counseling                        Buy wedding bands
 Book the honeymoon               4 Months Out                      Hair and makeup trial 

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  Wedding Checklist cont.
 Select groomsmen’s attire                  if you haven’t already                  your band or DJ
and schedule fittings within                 2 Months Out                             Give the song selections to
the month                                     Send the wedding                      your ceremony musicians
3 Months Out                                 invitations (with RSVPs due one          Buy all small items,
 Order the invitations and                  month before the wedding)               including table numbers,
hire calligrapher                             Send out rehearsal-                   toasting flutes, cake topper,
                                             dinner invitations (these can           cake stand, cake knife, guest
 Create or plan your menu
                                                                                     book, card box, ring-bearer
 Brainstorm guest favors                    be included with the wedding
                                                                                     accessories, flower-girl
and gift bags                                invitations if you like)
                                                                                     accessories, a cute hanger for
 Book a photo-booth rental                   First dress fitting                   your dress, and a garter. Also
 Write your vows                             Pick up your marriage                 consider purchasing pashminas,
 Select readings                            license                                 flip-flops, and sunglasses for
 Meet with the officiant                     Buy wedding-party gifts               guests to change into at the
and invite him or her to the                  Do a floral mock-up with              reception, as well as baskets for
rehearsal dinner                             your florist                            them. You’ll also need to buy
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“Guest Book,” etc.).                stylist, makeup artist, drivers,   honeymoon
1 Month Out                         bartenders, and servers.            Any edible crafting
 Assemble gift bags                Many couples tip the wedding       Day of the Wedding
 Pay your vendors in full          planner as well.                    The big day is finally here!
 Create a seating chart            Final Week                         Here’s what to do the morning
 Order or make your escort          At this point, your              of the wedding:
cards and place cards               wedding-planning checklist is       Stay off your feet as much
 Have a final venue walk-          basically complete.                as possible
through                             Take care of things like:           Eat breakfast
 Put cash in tip envelopes            Refreshing your hair color      Drink water
for your planner to distribute.        Getting eyebrows done           Take your dress and veil
You don’t need to tip people           Manicure                       out of the bag early on and
that own their own business,           Pedicure                       have someone steam them if
such as photographers,              Other than that,                   needed
videographers, and florists. It’s   the only things left to do:         Lay out all the items (rings,
customary to tip the following         Final dress fitting            invitations, etc.) that you want
vendors: musicians, DJs, hair          Pack your bags for the         your photographer to capture

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    Questions to ask before hiring your wedding photographer
     Some moments are simply too                                                                                    equipment, extra memory cards
important to trust to a camera phone.                                                                               and batteries.
Your wedding will be one of the most                                                                                    ❤ 5. Do you have liability
memorable times of your life, and                                                                                   insurance?
no one can capture it better than a                                                                                     Accidents happen, and if one
professional photographer.                                                                                          of your guests trips over your
     So how do you find the right one?                                                                              photographer's light stand, it's good
As you interview photographers, ask                                                                                 to know you both are protected.
them these questions to help you                                                                                    Your reception venue may even
determine if he or she is the right                                                                                 ask the photographer to submit a
photographer for you.                                                                                               certificate of liability ahead of time.
     ❤ 1. Do you have a portfolio I                                                                                     ❤ 6. What happens to my
can review?                                                                                                         images after the wedding?
     Reviewing sample work allows                                                                                       Will your images be backed up
you to see the photographer's style.                                                                                to a hard drive or the cloud once
Is it more formal or candid? Look for                                                                               processed? How long will your
images you can see yourself in. Think                                                                               photographer keep the images
of three words that describe you and                    PPA photographers do more than just snap                    afterward? If you have any concerns
share those with your photographer.                     pictures. They have the technical expertise      about losing your photos, knowing what the
     ❤ 2. Will you create a detailed shot list?         and artistry to make you look your best and      photographer plans to do with your images
     This list will ensure no important photo is        bring your vision to life. Watch this video at   after your wedding is important.
missed during your wedding. You should be               PPA.com/SeeTheDifference/Wedding to see               ❤ 7. When will I get my photos?
able to create that list together. Take an honest       why you should always use a professional              Printed photos usually take several weeks,
look at what images really matter and fill              photographer in these true horror stories from   but your photographer may be able to get you
your photographer in on situations he or she            real brides!                                     some images for social media quickly. Just ask.
might need to be aware of in order to prevent               ❤ 4. Do you have backup equipment?                You won't be able to see everything
awkward moments.                                            You've prepared contingency plans            that happens at your wedding. The right
     ❤ 3. Do you belong to any professional             for every other aspect of your wedding;          photographer will capture moments you
associations, like the Professional                     your photographer should as well. A true         never knew existed. To learn how you can find
Photographers of America?                               professional will always bring one or two        the perfect photographer for your wedding,
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    Wedding tasting at Castle in the Clouds open to the public
     Moultonborough –                                                                                                         guests to and from the
On Saturday, April 18th,                                                                                                      Castle’s wedding ceremony
the Castle will host its                                                                                                      site on the lakeside
annual Wedding Tasting and                                                                                                    lawn. Tickets to
Open House from 12:00-                                                                                                        the Wedding Tasting and
3:00pm inside the Carriage                                                                                                    Open House are $5 per
House. This event provides                                                                                                    person and are available
an opportunity for attendees                                                                                                  online at castleintheclouds.
to see the wedding venue                                                                                                      org and at the door.
spaces available at Castle in                                                                                                      Attendees to
the Clouds and meet with DJs,                                                                                                 the Wedding Tasting Open
florists, photographers,                                                                                                      House should access the
photo booths, rental                                                                                                          Carriage House via the 586
companies and more to                                                                                                         Ossipee Park Road entrance.
discuss wedding details and                                                                                                   Castle in the Clouds was
services.                                                                                                                     a 2019 Best of the Lakes
     Guests can also try menu                                                                                                 Region Gold winner for “Best
samplings from the Castle’s                                                                                                   Wedding Venue”. It is listed
three preferred caterers: Hart’s                     a wedding.” says Jessica Mailloux, Wedding and                           on the National Register of
Catering, Great Events Catering and The Red          Events Coordinator. “We want this to be              Historic Places and is managed by the Castle
Blazer. Other participating vendors include Ben      a helpful event where attendees can tear             Preservation Society, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit
& Jerry’s, Blue Ribbon Entertainment, George         away from internet research to meet with             organization, whose mission is to preserve,
Parker on Guitar, Lotus Floral Designs, Nathan       key wedding day services and see our beautiful       interpret, and share the buildings and landscape
Moreau Photography, Peak Entertainment,              and unique venue spaces in person.” Castle           of Castle in the Clouds as a cultural resource for
Riverstone Floral & Design, Sutton Luxury            in the Clouds offers three on-site locations for     the benefit of the public.
Limousine, Sweep the Leg Entertainment,              ceremonies, cocktail hours and receptions.               For more information, or to learn more
Wolfeboro Trolley Co., and more. “There are          Weather permitting, trolley service will be          about Castle weddings, call 603-476-5900 or visit
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