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Vol. 41, No. 2                                                                  Shevat-Adar I 5779                                                          February 2019
On the Same Page Chapter II
Featuring Bestselling Author and Award Winning Journalist
Martin Fletcher
Sunday, March 24, 7 PM in Sam                                                 many awards in TV journalism,                                         Copies of the book available
Lerner Center for Cultural Arts                                               including the DuPont (known as                                     to borrow or purchase at the
   The Center for Jewish Educa-                                               the TV Pulitzer), five Overseas                                    Levine-Sklut Judaic Library, as
tion (CJE) is proud to present the                                            Press Club awards, the Edward                                      well as online as part of our eB-
second chapter of our community                                               R. Murrow Award for Excellence                                     ooks selection.
wide read initiative: On the Same                                             and five Emmys, to name a few.                                        There is no charge for this
Page. Our goal for this initiative is                                         Anderson Cooper called him for                                     event. Space is limited and
to bring people together through                                              several decades “the gold stan-                                    pre-registration at www.jewish-
the reading and discussion of a                                               dard of war correspondents.”                                       charlotte.org/cje is requested. For
common book. Chapter II of our                                                   His fifth book Promised Land:                                   more information, please contact
community read invites every-                                                 A Novel of Israel is a sweep-                                      Debby Block, Center for Jewish
one to read Promised Land, the                                                ing saga of two brothers and the                                   Education Program Coordinator,
epic saga of Israel’s early years,                                            woman they love, a devastating                                     (704) 944-6780 or debby.block@
written by the former NBC News                                                love triangle set against the tu-          Martin Fletcher         jewishcharlotte.org.Y
Bureau Chief in Tel Aviv, Martin                                              multuous founding of Israel. New
Fletcher. Tom Brokaw calls the                                                York Times #1 bestselling author
book, “a riveting novel that picks                                            Nelson DeMille states: “Histori-
up where Exodus left off.”                                                    cal novels don’t get much better
   Fletcher spent the many years                                              than Promised Land.” Fletcher
covering the Middle East and Af-                                              will discuss his book on March 24
rica. He was NBC correspondent           el, including the first and second   as a culmination of our communi-
in Israel for 26 years and bureau        Palestinian uprisings and Israel’s   ty read. We invite you to join us
chief for 15 years. He has cov-          war with Lebanon in 2006.            to what promises to be an exciting
ered Kosovo, Rwanda, and Isra-              His reporting has earned him      and enlightening evening.

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                                                           JEWISH FEDERATION NEWS
Jewish Federation Announces the 12th Class of the
Bernstein Leadership Group
Applications Now Available at www.nextgencharlotte.com
   The Donald H. and Barbara K.          around the world. The program           gifted me with some incredible
Bernstein Leadership Develop-            also includes bringing in inter-        friendships as well as helped me
ment Group (BLG) of the Jewish           nationally renowned speakers as         to better understand myself as a
Federation of Greater Charlotte is       well as specialist in the fields of     Jewish leader and how I can best
getting ready to recruit for its 12th    communication and leadership            serve the community in which I
class. BLG was started in 1996 by        training.                               was born and raised. I chose to
Don and Bobbi Bernstein to pre-             Past participants include cur-       start by heading a committee at
pare the next generation of lead-        rent Jewish Federation of Greater       CJP where my daughter currently
ers to help ensure our Charlotte         Charlotte board president, Alli-        goes to preschool, and use this as
Jewish community remains thriv-          son Lerner, and board members           the stepping stone for a long and
ing and adaptable to the changing        of various Jewish organizations,        prosperous career of giving back
Jewish landscape.                        including The Charlotte Jewish          and strengthening our community
   The 18 month leadership pro-          Preschool, Jewish Family Ser-           for the generation to come.”
gram aims to foster a participant’s      vices, and the Levine Jewish               The 12th class of BLG will be-
Jewish identity, broaden knowl-          Community Center. In addition to        gin in April 2019 and run through
edge about the Charlotte Jewish          developing a deeper connection          August 2020. BLG is for 25-45
community and build leadership           to and understanding of the Char-       year olds with a desire to learn
skills. Participants will take part      lotte Jewish community, partic-         more about and become involved
in tzedakah, tikkun olam, and ini-       ipants also cultivate meaningful        with the Charlotte Jewish com-                              The 11th Bernstein Leadership Group at their “graduation.”
tiatives with Jewish continuity.         relationships with group mem-           munity. BLG members meet once
Together, the next BLG class will        bers by participating in a week-        a month on Sunday evenings                       impact on our Jewish community,                    Coordinator for Jewish Federa-
learn about the history of Jewish        end retreat, team building exer-        from 4-6:30 PM with the excep-                   an application is available online                 tion of Greater Charlotte, at Kara.
Charlotte, the various Charlotte         cises, social activities, and group     tion of the weekend retreat. If                  at: www.jewishcharlotte.org. To                    Culp@JewishCharlotte.org for
Jewish agencies and issues facing        discussions. Recent BLG gradu-          you or someone you know is in-                   learn more or to answer please                     an application. The application
our community and communities            ate Rachel Friedman said, “BLG          terested in making a meaningful                  contact Kara Culp, Engagement                      deadline is March 31.Y

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What is Partnership 2Gether (P2G)?
Learn About Federation’s City Sister Hadera
   P2G is the flagship program of      Where is our “Partnership             massive increase is due primarily
the Jewish Agency (JAFI) part-         region?”                              to the waves of immigration from
nering with local Federations to          Hadera sits on the Israeli         Ethiopia and the former Soviet
directly connect global Jewish         Mediterranean Coastal Plain in        Union. The disproportionately
communities with a specific geo-       between Tel Aviv and Haifa. Lo-       large number of new immigrants
graphic area in Israel. P2G’s vi-      cated along the flourishing coast     in Hadera today places a tremen-
sion is “A global and united Jew-      of Israel, Hadera was founded in      dous demand on the resources of
ish people made up of a tapestry       1891, in the early days of modern     the city.
of strong, lively, flourishing, and    Zionism by Eastern European im-       P2G Programs:
interconnected Jewish individ-         migrants as a farming colony. It         Here are some highlights from
uals, families, and communities        was the largest purchase of land      our 2018 P2G programs:
working together to enrich Jewish      in Palestine by a Zionist group,         * Providence Day School                            Israeli and American Educators Seminar.
                                                                             Teen Delegation: In March 2018,
                                                                             four teens from the Hadera-Eiron       other educators in Jewish com-         information, debating hot topics
                                                                             region came to Charlotte as part       munities in the southeast and Is-      in Jewish education, and spent
                                                                             of a teen exchange with Provi-         rael. The educators also engaged       a meaningful Shabbat together.
                                                                             dence Day School (PDS). The            in team building activities such       This wasn’t a room full of stuffy
                                                                             teens stayed in Charlotte for three    as a scavenger hunt around Sha-        teachers - we read, debated, cre-
                                                                             weeks, attending classes in PDS,       lom Park, as well as a friendly        ated, laughed, debated more, and
                                                                             interacting with their Jewish and      axe throwing competition. “I so        even threw axes as we celebrated
                                                                             non-Jewish peers. The Israeli          enjoyed working together with          our P2G Partnership. Unity, not
                                                                             teens also actively participated in    both our American and Israeli          uniformity.”
                                                                             Jewish community events, such          Educators,” shares Betsy Olinger,         For more information about
                                                                             as the Purim celebration with the      who participated in the seminar.       our P2G programs and ways to
                                                                             Charlotte Jewish Day School.           “It’s like a family reunion where      get involved, contact Tair Gi-
                                                                                * Medical Exchange: In May          we couldn’t wait to update each        udice, Director of Education
                                                                             2018, Charlotte hosted three Is-       other on what we’ve been doing         and Engagement, tair.giudice@
                                                                             raeli doctors from the Hillel Yaffe    and share ideas for future proj-       jewishcharlotte.org or 704-944-
                                                                             hospital in Hadera. This medical       ects. We came together at the          6759.Y
 Participants in the Educational Seminar enjoy an evening of axe throwing.   exchange offered the Israeli doc-      Five-Legged Table sharing new
                                                                             tors the opportunity to parallel
continuity and identity and cul-       although it was of low quality and    their work with the medical ad-
tural understanding between Jews       mostly swampland. The settlers        vancements in U.S. communities,
in Israel and their peers around       drained the swamps by building        to learn new methods, and to ex-                         The KEYS to a successful
the world.”                            canals and planting large euca-       change ideas with American col-                          real estate transaction...
   Put simply, the objective is to     lyptus groves.                        leagues. The Israeli doctors were
build connections between Jew-
ish communities across the world
                                          The city’s jurisdiction covers
                                       20.5 square miles, making it the
                                                                             matched with local physicians,
                                                                             hospitals, and medical practic-
                                                                                                                      Experience and Commitment!
and in Israel, one relationship at     fourth largest city in the country.   es in their fields of practice (in-
a time. These connections lead         The larger Hadera region includes     cluding Atrium, HopeWay, and               Buying...Selling...Relocating...
to exciting, effective, and often      Arab towns and villages of the        OrthoCarolina, among others),
ground-breaking programming
for every life stage and in every
                                       neighboring “Triangle” whose
                                       eastern edge shares a border with
                                                                             and were able to shadow their
                                                                             counterparts here in Charlotte. In
                                                                                                                         Ann and Andrew
area, from early childhood educa-      areas under the control of the Pal-   addition, our Partnership hosted               are your KEYS
tion to professional networking.       estinian Authority.                   a panel discussion on the state of
   For over ten years, Charlotte has      In the early 1990s, Hadera’s       medicine and healthcare in Israel,               to the local
been a part of a Southeastern Con-     population was only 42,000, but       which was attended by more than              Jewish Community.
sortium of communities (Char-          has now almost doubled. This          100 local doctors and medical
lotte, NC, Charleston, SC,                                                           practitioners. The second
Chattanooga, TN, Flagler                                                             part of this exchange took                  Serving the Charlotte
and Volusia Counties, FL,                                                            place this past January,                    community for over
Lee and Charlotte Counties,                                                          when two medical practi-                    30 years.
FL, Pinellas County, FL,                                                             tioners from the Charlotte
Jacksonville, FL, Knoxville,                                                         area had the unique op-
TN, Nashville, TN, and                                                               portunity to visit Israel on
Richmond, VA) partnering                                                             a customized medical trip.                       Ann Langman                 Andrew Rosen
with the Hadera-Eiron Re-                                                            The trip provided partici-                       704-502-4328                704-604-4756
gion of Israel. Our consor-                                                          pants with an inside look                        ann.langman@allentate.com   andrew.rosen@allentate.com
tium has actively participated                                                       at how Israeli healthcare
in various cultural, profes-                                                         system works and how
sional, educational, and                                                             Israel managed to build
youth exchanges as well as                                                           a universal health system
leadership development pro-                                                          at relatively low-cost.
grams. These programs cre-                                                           More on that experience
ate bonds of friendship, deep                                                        to come in the next issue
people-to-people       connec-                                                       of The Charlotte Jewish
tions between Charlotteans                                                           News.
and Israelis who are hosted                                                             * Educational Semi-
at people’s homes in Hadera                                                          nar: In December, Char-           A new home for the trusted service you
and Charlotte, enabling them                                                         lotte was selected to host
to truly understand and ex-                                                          a first of its kind educa-         expect from Greenspon & Associates
perience each other’s lives,                                                         tional seminar. Over 20
families, cultures, and com-                                                         Israeli and American ed-         Greenspon & Associates is proud to
munities.                                                                            ucators came together for        announce its merger with Windermere
   Our Partnership is led by                                                         a weekend of learning,           Insurance Group. Since 1974, we’ve
a joint steering committee,                                                          shared professional devel-       assisted clients with their group benefits,
comprised of volunteers                                                              opment, and meaningful           life & long term care insurance, annuities,
and professionals in com-                                                            interaction. The seminar         business continuation planning,
munities in Israel and our                                                           was facilitated by Melitz,       executive benefits, and 401(k) plans.
Southeastern Consortium,                                                             an educational organiza-
dedicated to the creation of                                                         tion offering a unique and       Our merger with Windermere enhances
ongoing, fruitful, bilateral                                                         inclusive educational ap-        our ability to deliver an extraordinary
engagement: unique pro-                                                              proach with an emphasis          level of service and expertise while also
                                                                                                                                                                       Keith Greenspon
grams and one-on-one en-                                                             on pluralism. The semi-          expanding our offerings to include                      Advisor
counters based on mutual                                                             nar provided the Ameri-          property and casualty insurance.
endeavors and shared Jew-                                                            can and Israeli educators
ish identity. All Partnership                                                        an opportunity to expand
activities are funded by its
member communities’ Fed-
                                                                                     their professional experi-
                                                                                     ence and connect person-
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erations.                                                                            ally and professionally to          kgreenspon@windinsgroup.com
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PJ Our Way: Books and Programs for Tweens
   PJ Our Way is the next chapter    8½-11). Recently, our Charlotte     It’s a first! PJOW program for                Space is limited. Register to-
of PJ Library, for kids ages 8½-     community nominated 12 kids to      all Jewish tweens                           day at www.nextgencharlotte.
11. With PJ Our Way (PJOW),          be the first, local PJOW Design        What: Laser Quest – Leader-              org.
rather than receiving a specif-      Team. The Design Team meets         ship and Team Building                        More info: Debby Block deb-
ic book in the mail, kids can go     quarterly and brainstorms activi-      Who: All Jewish kids between             by.block@jewishcharlotte.org,
to PJOW website every month          ties and programs for their peers   8½-11 years old                             704-944-6780.Y
to choose the book they want to      and promote PJ Our Way to their        When: Sunday, February 10
receive – for free. Kids can also    friends and classmates.                Time: 2–4 PM
submit reviews and videos about         Mazel tov to our PJ Our Way         Cost: $5
the books. If your child is not      first local Design Team members:
currently receiving PJ Our Way       George Couchenour, Maddie                                        Check out what’s happening this month at the CJE ?
books, simply go to www.pjour-       Friedlander, Lucas Jacobs, Dan-
way.org to sign up today.            iel Lopez, Hadley Lord, Sophie                                        CJE CALENDAR: FEBRUARY 2019
   In addition to providing books,   Manoim, Ruby Pesakoff, Dylan                     Sunday          Monday        Tuesday              Wednesday              Thursday                Friday
PJ Our Way promotes program-         Sacks, Asher Schreibman, Ben             The Center for Jewish Education (CJE) enhances community engagement,                         1
                                                                                                                                                                               PJ Library Baby Storytime
ming and leadership opportu-         Spiegler, Jonah Weiss, and Nora          promotes lifelong Jewish learning, and creates pathways to Jewish identity.
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                                                                                                                                           1:15 PM                             PJ Library Baby Storytime
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                                                                                     PJ Our Way                                     Once Upon a Storytime
                                                                                 Leadership & Team                                         1:15 PM                             PJ Library Baby Storytime
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                                                                                   at Laser Quest                              UNCC Salon | 5:30 - 7:30 pm
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                                                                                 Cooking Fun with                                    10:30 am - 12:00 pm                       PJ Library Baby Storytime
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      Sue’s Book Shelf                                                                                          remained paralyzed. He’s gone
                                                                                                                from wheelchair, to walker, to
                                                                                                                four-prong cane, to a regular
                                                                                                                                                      point in any long-term marriage
                                                                                                                                                      each partner is going to evolve
                                                                                                                                                      into someone new. When there
                  By Sue Littauer                                                                               cane.
                                                                                                                   Sue: You and Henry have been
                                                                                                                                                      is a scaffolding of love, you keep
                                                                                                                                                      moving through different ver-
                                                                                                                married for 51 years. What advice     sions of your marriage and stay
                                                                                                                would you give couples?               close as you move into unfamiliar
                                                                                                                   Judy: Changes just keep com-       territory. My memoir Together
                                                                                                                ing. You have to learn to adjust      records that progression.
                                                                                                                to the changes that occur in ev-         Please join us when we wel-
                                                                                                                ery relationship – ones that come     come Judy Goldman as our guest
Together: A Memoir of a Mar-        of interviewing Judy Goldman                                                with time and ones that come by       speaker at the CJE Book Club on
riage and a Medical Mishap by       about her new book, her writing                                             surprise.                             Wednesday, July 17 at 10:30 AM.
Judy Goldman                        style, and her views on marriage                                               Sue: As you know, the Center       Mark your calendars today.Y
   A routine procedure left nov-    and life in general.                                                        for Jewish Education concen-
elist, memoirist, and poet Judy        Sue: At which point in your          thing awful would happen again.     trates on books either written by a
Goldman’s husband Henry par-        and Henry’s story did you decide           Sue: What are the benefits of    Jewish author or having a Jewish
alyzed. Together is her unfor-      to write this book?                     writing a memoir?                   theme. Are there Jewish values
gettable account of the struggle       Judy: After Henry’s acci-               Judy: The book answers the       that influenced you during your
to regain their “normal” life and   dent, people kept asking me if I        central question “How do we react   lifetime which have been incor-
a nuanced portrait of a marriage    planned to write about it. I kept       when we encounter the unheard       porated into this book?
tested.                             saying “no” until two years later       of?” One of the rewards of writ-       Judy: All I write about is fam-
   Charlotte author Judy Gold-      when I was held up at gunpoint at       ing a memoir is self-understand-    ily and I know the importance of
man’s much anticipated memoir       the dry cleaners. After crying for      ing…trying to learn the deepest     family from my Jewish upbring-
will be published February 12 by    days, I realized that I felt the same   patterns of one’s personality. I    ing. The sanctity of marriage is
Doubleday Books and was edited      way I did after Henry’s procedure       teach memoir writing workshops      also a Jewish value I hold dear.
by Senior Vice President Nan A.     left him paralyzed. I realized that     and encourage people to be open     There were 28 people at my wed-
Talese. In my opinion, Together     life can change in an instant, and      to self-discovery through their     ding. It was held at my parents’
is Goldman’s finest work to date.   writing about my feelings helped        writing.                            house and the rabbi from Temple
   I had the delightful pleasure    me deal with my fear that some-            Sue: Readers will want to        Israel performed the ceremony.
                                                                            know how Henry is doing now.        The basic ideas incorporated into
                                                                               Judy: Henry is so strong. One    that Jewish ceremony formed the
            Jewish Family Services                                          leg came back spottily and one      basis for my marriage. At some

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  “There is an old saying: If you wish to find out
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    from God or anyone else, and whether you
  would perform the act in the same way if you
       were alone, unbeknown to others.”
                       –Bachya Ibn Pakuda, Duties of the Heart
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                     Jewish Family Services
JFS Annual Senior Adult Chanukah Party
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Misconduct in the                                       Foundations of Social Change
                                                                                                              Hebrew Bible                                             Third Annual Advocacy Education Program
                                                                                                             Sklut Community Lecture                                   (eight sessions)
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JFS Monthly Volunteers and Donors
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Mel Frank, Rob Friedman, Neil        Milgrim ,Fred Shporer, Harry       the many many individuals who         Jewish Studies at Queens University.                     social change.
Golub, Jennifer Golynsky, Gail       Sparks, Marcia Stern, Ken Stern,   collected gifts for the Holiday.
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Jacobson, Brooks Jaffa, Wendy        Weinberg, The Staff at Moishe      erous Hearts: Gladys Cherney,
Kweskin, Eric Lerner, Gary Le-       House: Eliza Carney, Lisa Co-      Sari Hochberg, Connie Green,
rner, Kim Levy, Matt Luftglass,      therman, David Cygielman, Sara     Johnson & Wales, Judy Kaufman,
Harriet Meetz, Frada Mozenter,       Gottschalk, Leah Jalfon, Rachel    Penny Kreiger, Andy McCleary,
Barbara Rein, Stefanie Rose,         Leibold, Dave Press, Jen Rosen,    Harriet Meetz, Helene Rivlin,
Jenny Rosenthal, Harry Ruben-        Ziva Sholin, Rachel Southmayd      Joyce Stoll                             1900 Selwyn Avenue, Charlotte,NC 28274               StanGreensponCenter.org
stein, Linda Safir, Fred Shporer,       Special Thanks for Help with
Louis Sinkoe, Mason Sklut, Har-
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                                     Chanukah Party: Hebrew High,
                                     Charlotte Jewish Day School and                                       At the Stan Greenspon
                                                                                                           Center, Community Is
Warshenbrot, Jan Weiner, Dori        Sammy Abrams for making Cha-
Whitman                              nukah cards. Charlotte Jewish
   Comedy Night Volunteers:          Preschool for making bookmarks
Suzy Catenazzo, Andrea Cron-
son, Maggie Fogel, Jodi Green-
                                     and performing, Charlotte Jew-
                                     ish Day School Student Council                                        Everything
wald, Kevin Levine, Adam Levy,       for handing out Chanukah cards,
Kim Levy, Adina Loewensteiner,       Cantor Shira Lissek for leading                                          For most       people in the U.S.,             ers celebrate friendships, middle
Staci Mond, Fred Shporer, Anna       prayers and song.                                                     February is       most closely asso-              school and high school students
Valdman, Liz Wahls, Sherri Zim-         Thanks for Contributing to                                         ciated with       the celebration of              celebrate first crushes or BFFs,
mermann                              the Dreidel Drive: Ballantyne                                         Valentine’s       Day. Kindergarten-              young adults celebrate romantic
                                                                                                                                                             relationships, and married cou-
                                                                                                                                                             ples celebrate another year of
                                                                                                                                                             partnership, better than the last.
                                                                                                                                                             Here at the Stan Greenspon Cen-
                                                                                                                                                             ter we also celebrate our relation-
                                                                                                                                                             ships.
                                                                                                                                                                During this past year we have
                                                                                                                                                             strengthened our relationships
                                                                                                                                                             with many wonderful educators.
                                                                                                                                                             Through professional develop-
                                                                                                                                                             ment sessions and one-on-one
                                                                                                                                                             meetings, staff at the Greenspon
                                                                                                                                                             Center got a chance to see and
                                                                                                                                                             hear the wonderful lessons being
                                                                                                                                                             taught by teachers throughout the
                                                                                                                                                             Charlotte-Mecklenburg, Union
                                                                                                                                                             County, and York County school
                                                                                                                                                             systems. We fell in love with
                                                                                                                                                             these amazing men and women.
                                                                                                                                                             We wish you could meet every
                                                                                                                                                             teacher and experience the pas-
                                              A tuition-free school of choice for                                                                            sion each one has for teaching
                                                                                                             “Best decision we                               about the Holocaust and human
                                            families looking for an academically                                                                             rights. You would love them as
                                                                                                              ever made! Tha                                 much as we do.
                                                challenging, globally-minded                                                                                    We developed stronger con-
                                                                                                              curriculum to the
                                           environment that focuses on building                                                                              nections at Shalom Park as we
                                                                                                            teacher and all the                              partnered with Jewish Family
                                               21st century skills, emphasizing                                                                              Services, Temple Beth El, Tem-
                                                                                                              extras make the
                                          research, critical thinking and problem                                                                            ple Israel, The Jewish Federation
                                                                                                             school top notch.”                              of Greater Charlotte, the LJCC
                                          solving abilities across all disciplines in                                                                        Butterfly Project, and the Jewish
                                                                                                               - UDS Parent                                  Community Refugee Initiative
                                                      a hands-on setting                                                                                     in 2018. Temple Beth El hosted
                                                                                                                                                             a group of educators for a day
                                                                                                                                                             as part of the week-long Holo-
                                                                                                                                                             caust Educator’s Summer Semi-
                 Tired of redistricting and overcrowding at your public school?                                                                              nar sponsored by the Greenspon
                                                                                                                                                             Center. Temple Israel welcomed
                 Looking for a challenging curriculum and tight-knit community                                                                               us with open arms to commem-
                                    your family can grow with?                                                                                               orate the 80th anniversary of
                                                                                                                                                             Kristallnacht and provide a beau-
                                                                                                                                                             tiful dinner to all of the survivors
                                                                                                                                                             who live in our community. In
                                           Welcome to Union Day School                                                                                       November and December, we ca-
                                                                                                                                                             pably stood with the Jewish Fed-
                     • K-8 Charter School, adding one grade annually (K-6 in 2019-20)                                                                        eration of Greater Charlotte and
                                                                                                                                                             the LJCC Butterfly Project to re-
                   • Hands-on learning through an Inquiry and Project-based Approach                                                                         spond to the rise of Antisemitism
                                                                                                                                                             in our schools. The Greenspon
       • Rigorous Curriculum: Singapore Math©, Handwriting Without Tears©, AIG program,                                                                      team is grateful to be part of such
                                                                                                                                                             a loving, caring, and responsive
                      Unique “School in the Woods” outdoor learning, Before and After                                                                        Jewish community.
                                                                                                                                                                As we move forward through
                                    Care and Enrichment Programs, and much more!                                                                             this year, the Stan Greenspon
                                                                                                                                                             Center will continue to bring out-
                         • International Baccalaureate (IB) curriculum in grades 6-8                                                                         standing programs to educators
                                                                                                                                                             and their students and collabo-
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   Y UR IMPACT
  The Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte supports programs and services that have
  real impact on Jewish life each and every day, in Charlotte, Israel and around the world.

  The combined generosity of hundreds of donors to the Annual Campaign makes it
  possible for our community to support more than 50 local, national and international
  agencies providing a lifeline that enhances and often saves Jewish lives.

  More than $4 million was raised this past year from over 1,500 generous donors like you!

   IT ALL STARTS WITH YOU. YOU MAKE EVERYTHING WE DO POSSIBLE!

                                              5569 students
                                                visited the

                                             the LJCC to learn
                                              more about the
                                                Holocaust
                     600 children                                         More than
                  visited the Shalom                                  6000 books were
                  Green Community                                     delivered to local
                       Garden for           SEE YOUR IMPACT!       young families raising
                      educational                                      Jewish children
                       programs                                      through PJ Library

                     Together our
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                                                                    1179 young adults
                      a recording
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                                                                     engaged Jewishly
                    $4,063,187 to
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Drinks and Dreidels 2018
Over 140 young Jewish professionals joined together to celebrate Chanukah at Ink and Ivy Up-
town Charlotte for Chabad Young Professionals annual Drink and Dreidels party. The event was
sponsored in part by Clinispan Health.

                                                                                                                         Brooke Rosenberg lights the 6 ft. menorah

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 ter Dreyer                                                  lor, Chaya Groner, and Nicole Avarello                        off, and Ana Silverstein

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Innovative and Impactful – The JFGC Awards Grant to The Ruach
   The Ruach Shabbat Ex-                                                        The award comes from the                           “We are grateful and humbled                         nections and, inspire and engage
perience is like nothing                                                     Federation’s 2019 Impact and                       by this generous award,” said Pe-                       people to embrace the religion
else in Charlotte. It is an                                                  Innovation Fund. Grants from                       ter Levinson, lead guitarist and                        and all that it has to offer. The Ru-
uplifting and welcoming                                                      this fund are intended to inspire                  co-founder of The Ruach. “This                          ach is: Nancy Nagler Good, lead
celebration of Shabbat that                                                  individuals, organizations, syn-                   grant, together with donations                          vocals and rhythm guitar; Peter
combines spirituality, mod-                                                  agogues, and agencies to devel-                    that we receive from other indi-                        Levinson, lead guitar and man-
ern music, and social inter-                                                 op innovative and/or impact-                       viduals and organizations, will                         ager; Dan Ruda, bass guitar and
action. Many Jews of all                                                     ful programs and services that                     allow us to continue to provide                         backing vocals; Franklin Kaunitz,
ages, whether affiliated or                                                  support and enrich the greater                     engaging new Jewish Shabbat                             violin and backing vocals; How-
not, have discovered this                                                    Charlotte Jewish community                         Experiences in non-traditional                          ard Swartz, percussion; and, Rick
joyous new way to enjoy                                                      and whose mission aligns with                      settings that are uplifting, spiritu-                   Lipson, drums. If you’d like to be
Shabbat and are now choos-                                                   one or more of the following                       al … and really enjoyable. As we                        added to The Ruach’s distribution
ing to be a part of The Ru-                                                  Areas of Community Impact,                         like to say, ‘don’t just celebrate                      list and stay informed about up-
ach Community by attend-                                                     each of which is consistent with                   Shabbat … experience it.’”                              coming Experiences, email the.
ing the monthly Shabbat                                                      the Federation’s mission and                          The Ruach is a 501(c)(3)                             ruach.band@gmail.com. Also, to
Experiences.                                                                 strategic objectives: Heritage,                    non-profit organization whose                           learn more about The Ruach like
   In recognition of The Ru-                                                 Culture, and Religion; Jewish                      mission is to spread the joy of Ju-                     the band on Facebook, and follow
ach’s success in creating a                                                  Identity and Engagement; Jew-                      daism through new Jewish musi-                          them on Instagram @the.ruach.
pathway for connecting and                                                   ish Education; Social Responsi-                    cal experiences that are meant to                       new.jewish.music and Twitter @
engaging Jews, the Jewish                                                    bility/Tikkun Olam; and, Israel.                   create and maintain personal con-                       TheRuachSpirit.Y
Federation of Greater Char-
lotte has awarded the band             Lead guitarist Peter Levinson.
a $5,000 grant to continue
providing its monthly alternative      year was an especially compet-
Shabbat Experiences.                   itive grant cycle. An exhaustive
   “The Federation values the          and rigorous evaluation process
contributions that The Ruach           by the Allocations Committee
makes to our community and is          resulted in funding 14 programs
pleased to be able to provide sup-     reflecting our diverse community
port of this program,” the Feder-      demographically, geographically,
ation said in a statement. “This       and programmatically.”

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9. HCA is a community wide
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Healthy vs. Unhealthy Teen Relationships                                                                          unhealthy relationships during
                                                                                                                  their youth, which is a time when
                                                                                                                                                        violence:
                                                                                                                                                           * It’s never too early to teach
Know the Difference and How To Protect Your Teen                                                                  they’re trying to figure them-        your child acceptable behaviors
                                                                                                                  selves and their peers out.           in a relationship. Create an envi-
   As parents, from the time our      emotional, or verbal abuse from      behavior.                                  One of our greatest challenges    ronment that makes it comfort-
children are infants, we strive to    a dating partner and 1.5 million        Unfortunately, while the data       is helping to protect our children    able to share their feelings and
do everything we can to protect       high school students will experi-    demonstrates the enormity of the       when they don’t want it or think      experiences
them from being hurt, both phys-      ence abuse from a dating partner     issue, there is a lack of aware-       they don’t need it. As teens, our        * Understand what consti-
ically and emotionally. We do         in a single year. One quarter of     ness regarding the prevalence of       kids believe they are capable of      tutes an abusive relationship, it’s
our best to make sure they go to      the abuse was first experienced      teen dating violence. Only 33%         handling any situation that comes     not just about physical violence:
the finest schools, know how to       between the ages of 11 and 17        of teens who were involved in          their way, especially with their      Yelling, bullying, constantly be-
select the right friends, and teach   years. Many of these youth fear      an abusive relationship told any-      friends, peers, and dating rela-      ing put down, controlling behav-
them to stay away from negative       reporting the abuse, so the num-     one and equally significant and        tionships. Parents often feel they    iors, inappropriate postings on so-
influences. And yet, in our soci-     ber of abuse incidents is likely     surprising is the fact that 81% of     are bystanders as teens are often     cial media are all types of abuse.
ety, impacting all socioeconomic      much higher than documented.         parents do not believe teen dating     seen as only being influenced by         * Check in regularly with your
groups, according to the Nation-      And sadly, it does not end in high   violence is an issue. Most parents     their peers and social media. Yet     teen about their dating experi-
al Council On Crime and Delin-        school. Nearly half of all dating    assume their children are not at       teens consistently say that parents   ences. They may be resistant to
quency, one in three girls in the     college women report experienc-      risk. Hopefully, your teen knows       – not partners, not pop culture –     sharing, however, helping them
US will be a victim of physical,      es of violent and abusive dating     and understands healthy relation-      most influence their decisions        to understand that you are truly
                                                                           ships and won’t need to work           about relationships and sex.          interested and just not prying will
                                                                           through an unhealthy relation-            So, as a parent, what should       help open the dialogue.
                                                                           ship. Sometimes everything starts      you do??                                 * Share your experiences, the

   The Sanctuary                                AT STONEHAVEN
                                                                           out great but slowly changes into
                                                                           a less healthy dynamic. Healthy
                                                                           and unhealthy relationships may
                                                                           not be clear cut. It is not uncom-
                                                                                                                     If you are ever worried about
                                                                                                                  relationship dynamics that you
                                                                                                                  see going on for your teen, we of-
                                                                                                                  fer the following tips for helping
                                                                                                                                                        good and the bad.
                                                                                                                                                           * Plan an activity where you
                                                                                                                                                        can meet your teen’s partner.
                                                                                                                                                           * Monitor your teen’s behav-
                                                                           mon for teens to get pulled into       to keep you teen safe from dating

                                       Reimagined
                                                                                                                                                                     (Continued on page 17)
  ASSISTED LIVING
   Only 5                                                                  “To Dust” – a Film Starring Matthew
 Minutes from
   Shalom
                                                                           Broderick and Geza Rohrig – Opens at
    Park                                                                   Ballantyne Theaters on February 15
                                                                           Run to Continue Throughout February and Into March
                                                                              Shmuel, a Hasidic cantor in
                                                                           upstate New York, is distraught
                                                                           by the untimely death of his wife,
                                                                           Rivkah. As he struggles to find
                                                                           solace in his religion, which prof-
                                                                           fers a stringent timeline for grief,
                                                                           Shmuel has increasingly haunted
                                                                           of visions of Rivkah’s decom-
                                                                           posing corpse. Convinced that
                                                                           her soul will suffer until her body
                                                                           returns to dust, Shmuel decides
                                                                           that to stop his feverish spiral he
  Combining the            Jewish ownership offers sensitivity to Jewish   must seek an understanding of the
                                                                           physical processes of her decay –
 luxuries of home             culture and interests. Our location - just
                                                                           despite the blasphemy inherent
                             minutes from the JCC - makes it an ideal      in any scientific inquiry. Risking     experiments that aim to approxi-      With their macabre moonlit mis-
         with                                                              discover and expulsion, Shmuel         mate a timeline for Rivkah’s dis-     adventures growing every more
                                choice for seniors looking to remain
  best-in-class care        connected with the local Jewish community.
                                                                           tip-toes outside his enclave,          solution – starting with the theft,   perilous, the odd couple will stop
                                                                           where his search leads to Albert, a    suffocation, and burial of a pig.     at nothing to satiate their curiosi-
                                         -Lev Saks, Owner                  bumbling biology professor at the      As amateur scientists practicing      ty and ultimately find Shmuel the
                                                                           local community college. Soon,         imperfect science and incompe-        comfort he desperately seeks.
                                                                           Albert is unwittingly seduced          tent criminals on progressive-           This unusual and poignant film
                                                                           into an odd world of homespun          ly absurd outings, the two find       deals directly with our potential
  SanctuarySenior.com                           704.233.3374               forensic research and begins to        themselves neck-deep in genres        discomfort as well as our accep-
                                                                           guide Shmuel through outrageous        in which neither of them belongs.     tance of the things surrounding
                                                                                                                                                        death. At the same time, it cele-
                                                                                                                                                        brates the relationship between
                                                                                                                                                        two essentially different people,
                                                                                                                                                        and how they relate and learn
                                                                                                                                                        from one another. Filled with hu-
                                                                                                                                                        morous moments, as well as bit-
                                                                                                                                                        tersweet and tender episodes, this
                                                                                                                                                        is a film that should appeal across
                                                                                                                                                        a wide demographic.Y
The Charlotte Jewish News - February 2019 - Page 13

Bal Tashchit and Beyond                                                       Man is not just a master but also
                                                                              a servant of nature. The second
                                                                              – leshomrah – means “to guard
                                                                                                                    guidance of the oral tradition
                                                                                                                    in interpreting “do not destroy”
                                                                                                                    expansively, not restrictively,
                                                                                                                                                               ing more about Shalom Green,
                                                                                                                                                               visit our website at www.sha-
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By David Rosenthal, Shalom            to the natural world: “They ask         it.” This is the verb used in later   should inspire us now. We should           Facebook. Follow us on Twitter
Green Board Member                    you to regard all living things as      Torah legislation to describe the     expand our horizons of environ-            and Instagram @ShalomGreen_
Le’ovdah and Leshomrah (cred-         God’s property. Destroy none;           responsibilities of a guardian of     mental responsibility for the sake         CLT.Y
it: Rabbi Jonathan Sacks)             abuse none; waste nothing; em-          property not belonging to him.        of generations not yet born, and
    Shalom Green is a group of        ploy all things wisely. Look upon       He must exercise vigilance in its     for the sake of God whose guests
Jewish community volunteers           all creatures as servants in the        protection and is liable for loss     on earth we are.
dedicated to promoting an under-      household of creation.”                 through negligence. This is per-         In 2019 and beyond, let’s en-
standing of Jewish environmental         Hirsch also gave a novel inter-      haps the best short definition of     deavor to show the same regard
values. Our mission is to educate     pretation to the phrase in Genesis      man’s responsibility for nature as    we show to our fellow human
and mobilize members of the           1, “Let us make man in our image        the Bible conceives it.               beings to every lower creature,
Charlotte Jewish community on         after our own likeness.” The pas-           Man’s dominion over nature is     to the earth, which bears and
environmental issues and Jewish       sage is puzzling, for at that stage,    thus limited by the requirement to    sustains all, and, to the world of
values related to sustainable liv-    prior to the creation of humans,        serve and conserve. The famous        plants and animals.
ing and protecting the planet. Our    God was alone. The “us,” says           story of Genesis 2-3 – eating the        If you have an idea for an ar-
goals: reduce the carbon footprint    Hirsch, refers to the rest of cre-      forbidden fruit and the subsequent    ticle, please email info@sha-
of Shalom Park facilities; main-      ation. Because man alone would          exile from Eden – makes just this     lomgreenCLT.org
tain the Shalom Park Community        develop the capacity to change          point. Not everything we can do,         If you are interested in learn-
Garden; and educate the commu-        and possibly endanger the natural       may we do. Transgress the limits,
nity about environmental issues.      world, nature itself was consulted      and disaster follows. All of this
    In 1836, Samson Raphael           as to whether it approved of such       is summed up by a simple Mid-                                        Larry Horowitz, CLU, ChFC
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With Demand Booming, Moishe House
Opens New Home to Serve Charlotte
Jewish Millennials
   Moishe House is posi-                                                        the potential to draw in a
tioning to become the hub                                                       newer, younger popula-
for a booming millennial                                                        tion of young adults into
Jewish life in North Caro-                                                      Moishe House program-
lina for years to come, after                                                   ming, but their choice to
dedicating a new home for                                                       live in NoDa meant that
post-college-age Jews in                                                        geographically, we would
the hip North Davidson –                                                        be able to effectively en-
or “NoDa” district of Char-                                                     gage individuals who
lotte.                                                                          might not otherwise be
   The NoDa house, opened                                                       attending Jewish young
in late November, with                                                          adult programming in
four residents ages 21-24.                                                      Charlotte.”
Moishe House NoDa joins                                                         About Moishe House:
another Charlotte Moishe                                                           Moishe House is a
House in Colonial Village,                                                      program for young Jew-
which originally opened in                                                      ish adults that creates                           AVAILABLE SUBSIDIES FOR
2013 and was rededicated                                                        meaningful, welcoming
this past March.                                                                communities for them-                               JEWISH EXPERIENCES
   New Moishe House res-              Moishe House NODA’s new residents.        selves and their peers in a           Jewish Experience Fund: Need based subsidies are available
ident, Caleb Seidler, said                                                      post-college world. Three
of this opportunity, “My goal is                                         to five 20-something residents               for families meeting at least one (1) of the following criteria:
                                      area’s hip bars and restaurants live together and host ongoing                        •     Household gross income not to exceed $75,000
to turn Moishe House into our
                                      extended venues for programs, events for their peers. Each year,                      •     Change in household circumstances within the last 6
Moishe ‘Home.’ I want to do this
                                      as well as draws for young Jew- the 100+ Moishe Houses around                               months necessitating financial assistance (ie: medical
by having Shabbat dinners that
go deep into the night and ear-       ish millennials to enjoy before the globe hold more than 11,000+                            concerns, job loss, change in family status, etc.)
ly morning, hopefully creating        and after more formal house ac- programs for 60,000+ unique                           •     Multiple children attending camps and/or Jewish programs
bonds with other young Jewish         tivities. So far programs include participants. Moishe House wel-                     •     Extenuating chronic family circumstances (ie: special
adults in Charlotte.”                 a Shabbat bagel brunch, Monday comes people from all Jewish                                 needs children; disability, etc.)
   Moishe House is a global or-       Night Football watch party, ice backgrounds and is supported
                                                                                                                      For more information, please contact Jewish Family Services. 704.364.6594.
ganization with 110 houses in         skating extravaganza and (secu- by organizations, individuals
27 countries worldwide, where         lar) New Year’s party.             and the young adult participants
young Jewish adults live togeth-         In addition to the two Moishe themselves. To find out more                   Gorelick Teens to Israel Fund: Subsidies are available to
er and host Jewish programs one       Houses in Charlotte, Moishe about Moishe House, visit www.                      local Jewish teens ages 13 - 19 traveling to Israel on a
to two times each week for their      House Triangle, located in down- moishehouse.org.Y                              Federation approved program
peers. In exchange, the residents     town Durham, has engaged more
receive a modest monthly rent         than 1,000 unique Jewish young                                                   Gloria & Harry Lerner Family Fund: Subsidies are available
subsidy, and a monthly program-       adults through over 200 programs                                                 to local Jewish young adults between the ages of 21-30
ming budget to create some 60         since opening in August 2015                                                     traveling to Israel on a Federation approved program
programs annually.                    with the purpose of providing
   Demand for millennial Jewish       meaningful, home-based Jewish                                                      For more information about Israel subsidies, please contact the Federation
                                      programming for 20-somethings                                                                    at 704.944.6757 or info@jewishcharlotte.org.
community in North Carolina
continues to drive Moishe House       in the Raleigh-Durham-Chapel
                                                                                                                       Special thanks to Bill and Patty* Gorelick and Harry and Gloria Lerner
in the state. The first Moishe        Hill community. [EC1]
                                         ”We are very excited about                                                                 for their ongoing support and generosity.
House Charlotte has so far attract-
ed more than 4,700 Jewish young       this new group of residents,”
                                                                                                                                                                          THE STRENGTH OF A PEOPLE.
adults to its programs. Residents     said Dave Press, Moishe House                                                                                                       THE POWER OF COMMUNITY.
of the new Moishe House Char-         Southeastern Director of Ad-
                                                                                                                                                                                    *of blessed memory
lotte in NoDa plan to make the        vancement. “They not only have
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