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The Pretty T Girls Magazine

                              Published for the Most Beautiful Girls In The World

                              A publication of the Pretty T Girls io Group

                                                      March 2021
March 2021 Published for the Most Beautiful Girls In The World - Rachel's Place
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The Pretty T Girls Magazine

                              Published for the Most Beautiful Girls In The World

                              A publication of the Pretty T Girls io Group

                                                      March 2021
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        In This Issue
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Barbara Jean Update On My Health                                       4
7 Transgender People from History                                      5
Former WWE Superstar Gabi Tuft Comes Out As Transgender               10
AETNA Expands Gender Affirming Surgery For Transwomen                 12
Sehnsucht                                                             13
Trace Lysette Tells Why TG Actors Should Get First Dibs At TG Roles   15
Bluestocking Blue                                                     16
Kandi’s Land                                                          19
Marie’s Memories                                                      21
The Adventures of Judy Sometimes                                      25
Ask Hannah                                                            26
Mellissa’s Tips & Tricks                                              28
6 Trendy Lipstick Tips for Older Women                                34
How To Get The Best Eyebrow Shape For Your Face                       35
Low Cost Makeup That Beats Luxury Brands                              37
The Right Way To Apply Beauty Products                                43
Humor                                                                 46
Angels In The Centerfold                                              47
10 Beauty & Style Changes To Expect In 2021                           49
Diana Pemberton                                                       53
10 Accessories That Work With Any Outfit                              57
Inexpensive Extenders To Make Your Bra More Comfortable               62
Lucille Sorella                                                       64
From The Kitchen                                                      71
How To Cook Pork Chops Without Drying Them Out                        76
The Gossip Fence                                                       79
Calendar                                                               93
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Update on My Health
By: Barbara Jean

I know that a number of you girls have been wondering about my health. In November of 2019
a nodule was discovered on my left lung. A follow-up CT scan showed it was still there and
had not changed in size. The Thoracic Doctor who viewed the CT scan Said that she wanted
a needle biopsy on that nodule. She also did not like the sound of a cough I had and ordered
me to have an echocardiogram on my heart.

End results as of the end of June of 2020 a valve in my heart was not opening very much and I
was in need of heart surgery. The biopsy did not get enough tissue for a definitive results, but
it was suspected to be cancer. Another biopsy would be needed to get a definitive answer,
however due to the heart surgery done in June it would be at least 5 months before another
biopsy could be performed.

End of November of 2020 a second biopsy was performed and it was a definitive answer of
being cancer. One oncologist has declared it stage 4, the area is too large for radiation
treatment and so chemotherapy was recommended. I will start that on February 24th.

The prognosis on how long a life I have is unclear. Without treatment the doctor said I might
have 6 months or a year, maybe more. With treatment I might get an additional 3 to 6 months.
As I indicated earlier I will start chemotherapy on February 24th with one treatment every 3
weeks for 3 months. Then another CT scan will determine if the treatment was successful and
if a second round would be called for.

End results as for the group and the magazine, well I have appointed Alexis Taylor and
Leighann Allen as moderators and if the time comes I will transfer ownership of the group to
them. As for the magazine, well unless someone else decides to take over the job of
publishing it, sadly it would be brought to an end.

I do ask for prayers and I promise to keep everyone informed as to how things progress with
me.

Barbara Jean
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7 Famous Transgender People From History
You Can Mention Next Time Someone Says
‘Trans is a Trend’

The famous transgende r peo ple fea tu red i n this lis t a re fea tu red because the y made a
stir, in one wa y o r a nothe r.

Ama zing trans people ha ve e xisted probab l y as long as human societies ha ve e xis ted.
Onl y i ts no t alwa ys something tha t w e find ou t abou t, being as i ts no t rea ll y an yon e's
business but their own .
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Unfortuna tel y, o r fortuna tel y, the onl y ones we can remember a re the ones who came
out or were ou ted , th is list con tains a small number of these ba d-ass people who pro ve
tha t trans isn't a tre nd.

Trigge r warning : Some of the source material con tains trigge ring language . Histo ry and
historians themselves can be qui te transphobic.

                          The oldest en try on this list, Elean or R ykener. Reco rds e xis t for
                          this El eanor from 625 years ago bu t i ts no t clear when she w as
                          born.

                          In 1394 , she was arrested in London for prostitu tion and
                          sodomy. There is no t a lot o f in formation abo ut he r since she
                          li ved such a long time ago , but this is what we do know :

                          She p resented female and wo rked as an embroide rer and a
                          barmaid (typ icall y on l y jobs held b y women) as wel l as a se x
                          worker. She had relationships with men a nd women , but mostl y
                          men.

   1. Eleanor Rykene r  Eleanor’s i denti ty has been erased or ca tegorised b y cis /he t
                       historians who refe r to he r male name being used o n some co urt
documents. As i f medieval cou rt clerks are ab ove d ead-naming .

These boneh eads claim tha t she was a straigh t man who cross-dressed for wo rk.
The mind boggles at how the y can reach tha t conclusion when she clearl y was no t cis
and presen ted female for the trial (and her li fe). So in the interests o f un-e rasure she
tops ou r lis t, and yo u should spread the wo rd abou t he r too .

                            Al an L . Hart was a pionee ring radio logist, ph ysi cian and
                            tuberculosis research er.

                            His grea test work was arguabl y when he d isco vered tha t
                            x-ra ys could be used to de tect tuberculosis, sa ving cou ntless
                            li ves worldw ide.

                            He a tte nded medical school whil e p resenting female bu t tran -
                            sitioned soon afte r.

                            While working as a doctor a t at a hospital in Oreg on he was
                            recognised b y one of his fo rmer classmates who ou ted him
                            and he was forced to lea ve .

                            This was no t the onl y time this happened to Alan , and i t
       2. Alan L. Ha rt     began to ta ke its tol l on him.

Wri ting in his no vel The Undaun ted abou t a cha racter ca lled Sand y Farquhar, he wro te :
"He had been dri ven from place to place , from job to job , for fi fteen years because of
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something he could no t alter an y more th an he could change the colo r of his e yes.
Gossip, scandal , rumor alwa ys dro ve him on ."

He was also one of the fi rst re corded trans men to recei ve g ender a ffirming surge ry in
the US.

                                Lucy Hicks Ande rson was on e o f the earliest
                                recorde d demonstrato rs for marriage equa lity.

                                She was born in 1886 in Ken tucky. As a young child she told
                                her pa ren ts she wan ted to be a gi rl and go b y Lucy.

                                The y took he r to the famil y docto r w ho told them to respect her
                                choices and so she transitione d wi th their full support.

                               When she was old er she mo ved to Cali fornia a nd married a
                               man called Clare nce Hicks and the y opera ted a bro thel
                               toge ther. The y di vo rced in 1929 and she la ter married a soldier
                               called Rueben Ande rson who was sta tioned a t Mi tche l Field on
  3. Lucy Hicks Ande rson      Long Island, New Yo rk.

Perjury charges were b rough t ag ainst her beca use she signed the marri age d ocument
which swore tha t the re were ‘no legal obje cti ons’ to the marriag e. Sp eaking to the p ress
she said “I defy an y docto r in the world to pro ve tha t I am not a woman. I ha ve li ve d,
dressed, acted just wha t I am, a woman.” Sadl y she was found guil ty o f pe rjury and l ate r
she was con victed of fraud be cause she cashed cheques she recei ved from the
go vernment as the wi fe of a US soldier.

                                            Charle y Pa rkhu rst, also known as One -Eye d-
                                            Charle y was a famous American Ran cher in the
                                            1800s. He was bo rn and raised i n an o rphanage in
                                            New Eng land but he ra n awa y and changed his
                                            name befo re he tu rned 18.

                                            As many aspira tional Ameri cans did , he followed
                                            the Gol d Rush ou t West and buil t a repu ta tion as
                                            one o f the g reatest s tage coach d ri ve rs runni ng
                                            over Mt. Madonna on the West Coast.

                                            He gained his ni ckname 'One -Eye d-Cha rle y' afte r
                                            he was kicke d in the le ft e ye b y a horse tha t had
          4. Cha rley Pa rkhu rst           been sta rtl ed b y a ra ttlesnake .

Charle y was onl y oute d a fter his de ath .
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                                       Sir Lad y Ja va who 's still acti ve toda y, rose to fame in
                                       the 1960’s as an en te rtain er and e xo tic dan cer
                                       renowned fo r her perfe ct hou rglass shape.

                                       Born in 1943 she transitio ned at an earl y age with the
                                       support of he r mo ther and began dan cing and singing
                                       in loca l ni ghtclubs. In he r twe nties she mo ved to Los
                                       An geles and became associated wi th s tars li ke Redd
                                       Fo xx, Sammy Da vis Jr. and R icha rd Pryor.

                                       She was performing at Redd Fo xx’s famous club and
          5. Sir Lady Java             it’s rumoure d tha t her and Da vis Jr. were a co uple fo r a
                                       while.

In 1967 the L APD began shutting down Ja va’s famous performances ci ting a local law
prohibi ting "impersona tion, b y means o f costume or dress, a p erson o f the o pposite
sex.”

In response she pi cke ted the club and hired the American Ci vil Liberties U nion to
overturn the ruling . Eventuall y i t w as o ve rtu rned in 1969 a fte r a separa te dispute wi th
another pa rty bu t she was instrumental in this change .

                                                       Che valier d’ Eon was an 18th cen tury,
                                                       Fren ch sp y, diplomat and soldier. She
                                                       had the genius idea to disguise her
                                                       transgender iden ti ty, b y coming ou t as
                                                       transgender…

                                                       Bear wi th us it will make sense soon.
                                                       In 1728 D'Éon was born a
                                                       the Hôtel d 'U zès in To nnerre, Burgund y,
                                                       into a poor noble famil y.

                                                       Assigned male at bi rth she e xce lled at
                                                       school and in her milita ry training and
                                                       moved to Paris a t an earl y age.

                                                       By 35 she had been knigh ted and
                                                       gained a law deg ree, publ ished books
                6. Che valie r d’Eon                   on the French ta x s ystem and be come
                                                       a celeb ra ted fen cer.

Following this she jo ined the Secre t du Roi , the secre t ne twork of the kings spies and
reported dire ctl y to Louis XV.

After years o f service, she was passed o ver for a promo tion so she published a tell all
book o f the secre ts o f the kings spies.
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In her la ter yea rs she app lied to be assigned female a t birth , s tatin g she was assigned
male onl y to ensure she wo uld i nheri t th e famil y esta te .

This genius ruse paid o ff and w as accepted b y the Fren ch and the Bri tish go vernment -
she was li ving in London a t th e time.

Her gen der was made o ffici al an d she li ved he r remaining years 3 3 years completel y
free to be herself. Oh and she was still a badass fen cer too .

                                         Willmer ‘Little Ax’ was a talen ted g ospel qua rte t
                                         singer in th e 20 th ce ntu ry. He was born in 1916 in
                                         Te xas a nd w as ta ken wi th music from an earl y
                                         age.

                                         After mo ving to Sou thern Cali fo rnia in the mid-
                                         1940s, Wilmer and his bro the r, William, joined the
                                         Southe rn Gospel Singe rs.

                                         Later Willmer and Will iam formed the Fi ve
                                         Trumpets , the y we re bo th l ead singers and
     7. Willmer ‘Little Ax” B roadnax    Willmer was known for his powerful tenor voi ce .

Following this he perfo rmed wi th the Fairfiel d Fou r and the Fi ve Blin d Bo ys o f
Mississippi before fo rming his own g roup called Li ttle Ax and the Gol den Echoes .

He perfo rmed wi th his bro the r, who a ccep ted and supported h im, th rough his
life . Willmers trans iden ti ty was disco ve red a fte r his dea th in 1 992.

These in credible , famous, transgende r pe ople show that there ha ve been people like us
through out histo ry, ou t an d closeted who achi e ved grea t things. We ha ve alwa ys been
here an d we alwa ys will ... Sorry Grandma bu t there was such a thi ng as being trans-
gender back in your da y!

                                        March 31st
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Former WWE Superstar Gabbi Tuft Comes Out as
Transgender: 'I Love Myself for Who I Am'
"I am no longer afraid and I am no longer fearful," Gabbi Tuft wrot e in a statement on
her Instagram
By Gabrielle Chung

                                                Gabbi Tuft is living her truth.

                                                The former WWE superstar, 42, came out as
                                                transgender in a lengthy statement shared on
                                                her social media accounts on Thursday,
                                                writing alongside a photo of herself, "This is
                                                me. Unashamed, unabashedly me."

                                                "This is the side of me that has hidden in the
                                                shadows, afraid and fearful of what the world
                                                would think; afraid of what my family, friends,
                                                and followers would say or do," she continued.
                                                "I am no longer afraid and I am no longer
                                                fearful. I can now say with confidence, that I
                                                love myself for WHO I am."

Tuft, who previously wrestled under the ring name Tyler Reks, went on to open up about her
journey, saying that the "previous eight months have been some of the darkest of my entire
life."

"The emotional turmoil of being transgender and having to face the world has almost ended me
on multiple occasions," she recalled. "However, the day I stopped caring about what other
people thought, was the day I trul y became limitless and allowed my authentic self to come into
the light."

In her statement, Tuft also thanked her "loving" wife Priscilla — with whom she shares 9-year-
old daughter Mia — and those who "have accepted me for who I am."

"To them, I am forever grateful. Your support along the way means more than you will ever
know," she wrote.
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                                                 "I don't e xpect everyone to agree or
                                                 understand. It's not my place to change any of
                                                 your core beliefs. Just know that the outer shell
                                                 may change, but the soul remains the same,"
                                                 Tuft added.

                                                 "I promise to always be transparent and truthful
                                                 with my journey, and to be a light to those that
                                                 are in need. This is me," she concluded the
                                                 post.

                                                 Tuft also shared a teaser clip from
                                                 her upcoming interview with Extra on Twitter, in
                                                 which she spoke about how her transition has
                                                 affected her relationship with wife Priscilla.

                                                 "It's been a very interesting progression," she
                                                 shared. "Our intimate life has changed quite a
                                                 bit. We're not active in that wa y right now, but
                                                 what we've discovered is a whole different part
                                                 of our relationship."
                                                 Tuft has been married to Priscilla since 2002. In
                                                 a Instagram Story shared earlier this week,
                                                 Priscilla teased that the couple "will share the
                                                 most pivotal transformation in 23 years to-
                                                 gether."

On Wednesday, Tuft posted a heartfelt tribute to her wife, writing in part, "Our love has crossed
many lifetimes. We have fought battles to reach each other... and in other lives to break away
from each other. We have waged wars in the name of our love, lost our own life or lives
defending it, and been separated by insurmountable distances and odds. Somehow though, in
every life, we find each other and our physical and ethereal bodies unite as one soul, as it was
meant to be.

"I love you P, until my dying breath...and then I will find you again," she wrote.

Tuft retired from professional wrestling in 2014 following a six-year career with the WWE.
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Aetna expands gender-affirming surgerycoverage
for transgender women
                                                             Aetna announced that it has
                                                             expanded coverage of gender-
                                                             affirming surgery to include breast
                                                             augmentation for transfeminine
                                                             members of most of its commercial
                                                             plans.
                                                             The policy change was the result of
                                                             collaboration with Transgender
                                                             Legal Defense & Education Fund
                                                             and civil rights law firm Cohen
                                                             Milstein Sellers & Toll.

Through TLDEF and Cohen Milstein, two transgender women, Nancy Menusan and Cora Brna,
who were later joined by two additional transgender women, Allison Escolastico and Elissa
Gaytan, brought access-to-care issues to Aetna’s attention after being denied coverage for
breast augmentation as part of their gender-affirming treatment. On behalf of their clients,
TLDEF and Cohen Milstein initiated contact and worked with Aetna to update Aetna’s clinical
policy bulletin to cover breast augmentation for transfeminine members as medically necessary
when certain clinical requirements are met.

When TLDEF and Cohen Milstein approached Aetna about coverage exclusions for
transgender members, the company agreed to work collaboratively to improve access for
transition-related health care. This includes considering medical evidence and revising its
clinical policy on gender-affirming surgery to consider b reast augmentation medically
necessary rather than cosmetic for transgender memb ers who meet certain criteria, including a
letter of referral from a qualified mental health professional; persistent, well-documented
gender dysphoria; and the completion of one year of feminizing hormone therapy prior to
breast augmentation surgery

 “Our decision to update our clinical policy bulletin is consistent with many changes we have
made over the years to better serve the needs of the LGBTQ community,” said Dr. Jordan
Pritzker, Senior Director of Clinical Solutions for Aetna. “We appreciate the collaborative nature
of this process, which allowed us to make an evidence-based change to our coverage policies
regarding important care for members of the LGBTQ community.”

 “Aetna has been an industry leader in providing access to medically-necessary, transgender-
related health care coverage, and we commend them for continuing to lead by example,” said
TLDEF Executi ve Director Andy Marra. “Eliminating this exclusion is a vital step towards
providing comprehensive and medically-necessary care that all transgender people deserve to
ensure their health and wellbeing.”
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Sehnsucht
Emily

It is amazing to me that there are so many people who are neither transgender nor
transsexual and yet who want to tell those of us who are how we should live. From family and
friends to medical professionals to clergy to therapists, all of them think they know something
about what we live with and if we will just listen and do what they say then all will be good.
This is rather like me as a middle class white baby-boomer telling a black woman that I
understand what she went through growing up in Mississippi in the 1960s. That would be an
incredibly arrogant and absurd thing for me to say since I have not had the experience of
being black in any time let alone in the racist, prejudiced, cross burning south of the 1960s.
Nor do I have any experience of what it is like to be a black woman. Yet hundreds of cisgender
people, often wit h the best of intentions, commit this same act of arrogance by assuming that
they understand what it is like to be transsexual, and are therefore entit led to give advice or
make rules. The plain and simple truth is that they have no idea how we experience life. Even
within the trans community, while there are similarities or shared experiences, each of us is
unique. For example, I have no experience of what it is like to be, say, a Hmong trans woman
or trans man. We may have some similar experiences but we will also have differences that
neither one of us can fully grasp. Yet rather than listen to our stories and take us at our word
many cisgender people often insist that we are mistaken, don’t understand ourselves, or are
simp ly confused. Some even think we are crazy. In the case of the medical and therapy
professions, we must convince them, we must jump through their hoops and over their
hurdles, in order to get the treatment we need.

Some say that we should accept that our birth sex determines our gender. If I have a penis
then I am a male and must be and act male. If I have a vagina then I am female and must be
and act female. But is it really true that my identity is determined by my body? If I smash my
hand with a hammer I would not say that I hurt, I would say that my hand hurts. I make a
distinction that, while my hand is a part of me, it is not me. Similarly, if I lose a leg in an
accident I say I lost my leg. Yet who I am remains the same even though my leg is gone.

My identity, my being, my mind, my soul, my essence, the part of me that is me, or however
one wants to phrase it, is not determined by my body parts or lack thereof. Telling a
transsexual person they are a boy because they have a penis or a girl because they have a
vagina is to reduce that person’s identit y to nothing more than a body part. Using this logic if a
boy were accidentally castrated then they would no longer be male. Our body is a part of us,
but who we are, our identity, is more than our body. Cisgender people never have to think
about this because their body and identity agree.
The Germans have a word, sehnsucht, which is difficult to translate into English. It means
roughly a profound and intense, yearning, longing, a sense of missing something or
incompleteness, a feeling of being homesick, perhaps for a place you may have never been or
thing you may have never had and may never have, and yet which resonates as familiar. It is
a state of being. For me and perhaps others, this is what it is like being transsexual. It is a
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longing, a yearning, a knowledge that something is missing in your life and you are incomplete
without it. It is like an overwhelming heartache for oneness of body and mind so that the you
on the outside matches the you on the inside.
And all around there is a world of people telling you that you are wrong, mentally ill, confused,
sinful, even evil. They tell you that you can choose not to be this way if only you will heed
their advice and follow their rules. Please understand, no one chooses to be a transsexual
woman or man. Neit her is it contagious like a cold or the flu. Little Billy is not going to become
a trans girl just because his teacher read I Am Jazz to the class. It is something that is a part
of you, perhaps even from conception. No amount of advice, condemnation, treatment or
anything else has ever or, based on history, is ever going to change that basic fact.

Being a transsexual person is a part of your very being, part of what makes you, you. To
ignore and repress it is to live a lie. To hide it is to live in shame. To eliminate it would make
you into an entirely different person. At some level, those of us who are this way come to
realize this. At least some of us do. We reach a point where we cannot live a lie and we cannot
hide. And we understand that even if it were possible to do so, to remove or eliminate that
part of ourselves would fundamentally change us. We would be a different person. It would be
an act of murder. The only option for us is to accept who we are and do what we need to do
to live accordingly. All we ask from others is the grace and respect to allow us to be who we
are.
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Trace Lysette tells why trans actors should get first
dibs at transgender roles: 'We're out here struggling
to play ourselves'
Yahoo Entertainment Staff

 “I was just going through my Twitter, minding my own business, and there pops up the link
for your ‘SMB’ music video… ‘Self-Made B****es…” drag queen personality Monét X
Change asks actress Trace Lysette — known for her roles in Transparent and Hustlers, as
well as for being the one to call out her Transparent co-star Jeffrey Tambor in 2017 for
alleged sexual harassment — on her virtual Yahoo series The X Change Rate this week.
“What’s the tee?”
The tee, explains Lysette, is that she was inspired after shooting a film called Venus as a
Boy, about an aspiring rapper and wanted to do a track for the movie. “Let me give them
something with a message,” she says. “Something that related to me and my trans sisters.”
The song has “kind of a double meaning,” she explains, and refers to both being self-made
in terms of her career and also being trans. “Nobody gave me permission to exist in the
world like the woman that I am, but this is me and I’m going to take up space.”
X Change, pointing out a special flexing trick that Lysette does with her derriere in the
music video, asks for lessons to do the same, which Lysette says she could easily provide.
“It’s just some muscle isolations,” she says, adding that it’s something she’s good at since
she was “a stripper for almost a decade, so that was paying the rent for a long time.”
                                                                   When asked about the push for
                                                                   transgender actors to be the ones cast in
                                                                   trans roles, over cisgender actors,
                                                                   Lysette says she believes in it strongly
                                                                   — and that when people counter that by
                                                                   saying that cisgender actors should not
                                                                   be played by trans actors, it’s a false
                                                                   equivalency. “If all things were equal,
                                                                   maybe they would have a point, but all
                                                                   things are not equal, and so we’re out
                                                                   here struggling to play ourselves, let
                                                                   alone the superhero or the leading lady
                                                                   that isn’t trans. So when I can play
Trace Ly sette attends the Amazon Studios Golden Globes After
Party at the Beverly Hilton Hotel in January 2020 in California.
                                                                   Wonder Woman? Sure, have at it, you
(Photo: JC Oliv era/Getty Images)                                  can have the trans roles.”
                                                                   Lysette’s latest role has been behind the
                                                                   camera — as executive producer of the
                                                                   upcoming documentary Trans in
                                                                   Trumpland, which follows four
                                                                   transgender individuals in an attempt to
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“get to see what they were up against during the Trump administration” regarding the
various attacks on their rights and existence.
If she could speak directly to the former president, Lysette says she would tell him, “The
only way we’re going to cross this bridge between the way…marginalized folks think and
the way other people in America think is if we really come at them from a place of love and
compassion. So I wouldn’t mind having some kind of conversation with him.”

                  Bluestocking Blue
                  By: Vivienne

                                             Shifting Sands

Although it's over a year since its release, I came across this amazing publication, and I
wanted to give it wider recognition.

The Royal Australian and New Zealand College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists
(RANZCOG) is the medical college responsible for setting training standards for doctors
specializing in the field of Obstetrics and Gynecology in Australasia. So it's a very large, pres-
tigious, academic organization.

As most medical colleges do, it publishes a flagship academic journal; but also a more informal
publication, O&G Magazine, which I admit I had never come across until I saw a pile of them
lying in my hospital. The top one caught my eye, because it was colourful, and because it
looked like Tetris (which is one of my favourite games). When I looked closer, I saw that the
theme of this particular issue was "LGBTQIA", so I picked it up to have a read. I was
immediately captivated. Best of all, the entire issue is available free online here.

                            Let's start with the editorial, from incoming RANZCOG President Dr
                            Vijay Roach:
                            Roach: This issue of O&G Magazine addresses an important
                            aspect of social, cultural and clinical life in Australia and New
                            Zealand. Members of the LGBTI community have e xperienced a
                            long history of marginalization and discrimination, often to the
                            detriment of their physical and mental healthcare. While the
                            College acknowledges a diversity of opinion in the community and
                            among our members on many issues, on one thing we are united:
                            RANZCOG believes that every person, independent of their sexual
                            orientation, has the right to high-quality medical care.

                            In 2017, the RANZCOG Board issued a statement on same-sex
                            marriage which read, in part '… the Board affirms its support for
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marriage equality and calls upon the Australian Parliament to ensure equal opportunity for
lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and intersex (LGBTI) Australians in same-sex relationships
and their families …' I was proud to be a member of that Board and grateful to then-President
Prof Steve Robson for his leadership.
In this issue, the O&G Magazine editors have assembled a diverse series of articles relevant to
the care of the LGBTI community. It is compelling reading and relevant to everyone’s practice.
The list of articles is impressive:
Fertility options for gender and sexually diverse people (Bronwyn Devine)
Rainbow IVF (Sarah van der Wal)
Gender dysphoria (Simone Buzwell)
Gender dysphoria: a paediatric perspective (Noel Friesen)
Fertility preservation in the transgender child and adolescent (Tamara Hunter)
Intersex: variations in sex characteristics (Jennifer Beale)
What do intersex people need from doctors? (Morgan Carpenter)
Hormonal treatment of the transgender adult (Rosemary Jones)
Surgery for transgender individuals (Charlotte Elder)
LGBTQIA gynaecological screening (Kimberley Ivory)
Takatāpui (Elizabeth Kerekere)
Tekwab i Giz National LGBTI Health Alliance (Rebecca Johnson)
Glass closets and the hidden curriculum of medical school (Amy Coopes)
Australia's queer history (Robert French)

I read these articles with two sets of eyes. The first were my medical eyes: was this the sort of
thing that, as a doctor, would be helpful for me to read? The answer is clearly yes. The second
were my transgender eyes: was this the sort of thing that, as a trans person myself, I would
want doctors to read and know? The answer is also a clear yes. There is no doubt that
transgender people are becoming more and more visible; their care has been, in the main, not
that great; most doctors have very little training in care of transgender people, and reliable
resources for doctors to draw upon are few.

The various authors all have special expertise and interest in their various fields, which is
commendable. But it's the range of subjects which strikes me as particularly noteworthy. I've
sometimes felt that the T is kind of tacked on to the end of LGB as an afterthought. But here
we are, right in the middle, with articles dealing with not just hormones and surgery but issues
like fertility and childhood and emotional wellbeing. Amazing.

I was pleased to note that the tone of all the articles was spot on, from the acceptance of the
individuals, to recognition that care matters but is frequently lacking, to pragmatic information
and guidance for practitioners.

                                                             There are several points which are
                                                             very much worth making about a
                                                             publication of this type.

                                                             (1) First, it's great that a major
                                                             medical college is being so overtly
                                                             inclusive. That alone is magnificent.
                                                             RANZCOG is setting an example for
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others to follow. There has been lots of Twitter support for the issue.

(2) Second, most medical colleges publish guidelines for the care of patients with X condition.
What strikes me about this one is a subtle but powerful shift in tone: not "this is what these
patients are like" but "this is us, and that's OK". As Amy Coopes points out in her article, there
is still great stigma in medicine if you are gay or non-binary. So a publication like this is
extremely affirming. As a transgender person with a medical degree myself, I immediately
wanted to reach out and make contact, so I wrote to RANZCOG and congratulated them on
their magazine (and I’m not the only one: there is a very heartfelt response from a gay
obstetrician in the following issue here).

(3) I wouldn't have necessarily expected O&G to be the specialty which would deal with the
care of transwomen. Post-transition, care could potentially be complex, since O&G specialists
are more used to the care of people with a uterus and vagina than a prostate gland. But this
issue seems to be saying to its readers: don't panic, you can do it! It's started me discussing
these issues with some of my colleagues much more openly than previously.

Whether you are medical or not, it's well worth having a browse through this magazine. If
you're aware of any other medical organisations being explicitly rainbow-inclusive, please let
me know.
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                             Kandi’s Land
                   Observations, Adventures, Experiences of a Crossdresser
           Visit daily for uplifting posts at https://kandis328772669.wordpress.com/!

        Wearing Women’s Clothing vs. Dressing Like a Woman

by Kandi Robbins

Big difference. I frequent a popular CD forum and read all kind of things, some I can relate to,
some are touching and frankly many are simply silly, a few creep me out. One thread got me
thinking. Someone posed the question as to what everyone wears while lounging around the
house. She went on to say she was wearing a nightgown and pantyhose (and in typical CD
fashion, she referenced the specific brand of pantyhose as well as a very detailed description
of the nightgown). And that is the classic example of "wearing women's clothing". There is not
a single woman on this planet that would wear a nightgown with pantyhose.

I have certainly had my time wearing articles of women's clothing, often in combinations that
made zero sense. I now dress as a woman would. There is a tremendous difference in the two.
If you want to go out in public, if you want to be accepted by mainstream society, if you want to
feel like a woman does, then "dress like a woman would". Do not just throw on things because
they are female attire.

If you have a woman in your life, observe her. If not, take a look at the many women that walk
our planet. Make mental notes. Be observant. What are they wearing? How to they combine
different things? Is their blouse completely tucked in or partially tucked in the front and loose in
the back? What is the length of their jeans and what type of shoes are they wearing with those
jeans? What are they wearing over their sweater? Woman generally do not like wearing panty-
hose. They generally go barelegged in the summer.

When I watch TV, I notice different types of necklaces (Hallmark movies are great for this) and
how they work and with what. I pay attention to how things are combined. I am a sponge, trying
to make up for the years I was aching to be, but not able to be for many reasons, the woman I
have become.

This also goes for makeup. Watch, observe. Go to a makeup store and seek advice. Ask ques-
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tions. Learn. Watch YouTube videos. Don't walk out looking like Mimi from The Drew Carey
Show (Google it if you are not familiar).

If you take this seriously, meaning you want to be treated by the public as a woman, then show
some constraint and dress like a woman. Invest in your presentation, and I mean in terms of
time, study, observation, learning and the use of good judgement. Slow it down. We all know
the thrill of this (and there is an undeniable thrill to this), but do it right and you'll reap much
greater benefits. Just because you are wearing women's clothing does not make you a woman.
There is a difference. Dress like a woman, ladies!

PS For anyone new to Kandi's Land, we operate under one basic premise here. This is not
simply about "crossdressing". I am not transgendered as typically defined. I consider myself b i-
gendered. This is about presenting myself to the public (going out in public is THE key compo-
nent of me) as a woman. That means I wear generally what a woman would wear in the situa-
tion I place myself. So, you will see me in dresses, skirts, b lazers, sweaters, jeans, leggings,
basically the b road pallet of what real woman might wear to go shopping, to the museum, to
church, etc. In other words, this is all about dressing like a woman. Many other b logs cover
wearing women's clothes and do so much b etter than I do.

Visit Kandi's Land daily for uplifting and positive posts at

https://kandis328772669.wordpress.com/!"
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Marie’s Memories
By: Marie Green

     WHAT TO WEAR, WHAT TO WEAR, WHAT TO WEAR?

We are often faced with the question of what to wear to work or to go shopping with the Girls
(or by yourself) or for that special event - Be it dinner at a fine restaurant, church wedding or a
Broadway Play. An y or all of these are sometimes critical or monumental decisions (at least in
our own minds), but none came close to “What to wear to the Yacht Club 2020 Ball.” Our Gal
was recently faced with this crisis and less than four weeks before the “Event of the Year”.
First thoughts, - No problem, New venue, New group of people. Must have something that will
be appropriate in the Closet.

First Survey – Several Options – Five Contenders…… The Guest Bedroom Closet is the
home of the “Specials – Mostly Gowns”. The number currently stands at six including two
Wedding Gowns. The First in the lineup, just might work, it is a gorgeous satin slimline. It
worked at a Masquerade Affair as the Snow Princess but probably is not appropriate for this
affair. The Second Wedding Gown is ruled out because it is nothing but a decided Ball Gown
Wedding Masterpiece. So sorry it just heavenly to wear! And it does an absolutely wonderful
job of highlighting a perfectly womanly derriere. A Perfect Wonder Woman feeling!
The Third in the lineup is a sleeveless black piece with a light tint of a whitish-pink applique on
the bodice circling the bustline and descending to encircle the narrow waist. Designed for a
Vamp with its deep plunging lace trimmed neckline which extents to an equally deep cut in the
back exposing the gracefulness of the neck down to the lower extent of the female ribcage.
Perfect for an intercontinental ride on the Orient Express. However, this Vamp would not be
welcomed, by at least half the attendees, particularly when worn by an unattached and
moderately attracti ve woman, thus it also must be put on the discard side of the ledger.

The next candidate, Number Four comes from the Cassandra Design Group is also sleeveless
but with a much fuller skirt which begins just below the “Butt”. Perfect for the sweeping swirls
of the Waltz or the Tango also black but with shimmering net screen of more than 300-inch
sized ovals of a bright silver metallic thread. Great for dancing on the rear deck of an ocean-
going cruise ship or polished oak deck of an elegant private yacht under the warm glow of a
romantic moonlit evening.

Numb er Five in the competition is a Violet tinged strapless number with a lavish display of gold
studs which decorate the entire distance from the upper edge of the breast line down to the just
below the lower curve of the sculptured derriere at which point the skirt is overlaid by no less
than four alternating layers of a pink-violet net. Again, a magnificent vehicle devoted to
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displaying the skill and workmanship of the design and fabrication team as well as the most
salient points of the feminine anatomy, but alas perhaps just a little, or a lot more than would
be acclaimed by the older, more proper of segment of the high-society who might (most
probably) attending the Gala.
Dear Reader, as you might have judged the each of the candidates rested in Marie’s Guest
Bedroom Closet, although each is gorgeous and spectacular in its own right and would be the
envy of many a woman and head turner of many men. None were deemed appropriate for the
approaching Festivities.

This required a thorough and almost frantic search for an outfit of some sought which would be
perfectly acceptable to the unknown throng attending this Hi-Society gathering and a certain
segment who would immediately render a “Judgement” good or bad but neither would be
quickly forgotten or overlook.
Thus, before beginning the quest for “It” on her own, particularly given the very limited
resources available, our Gal alerted Gloria her dressmaker-seamstress that when “It” was
found some alterations, in all likelihood would be required. Next, she called Tanya, and
solicited her assistance and advice as to where to start the search. There was only one
Department Store and one upscale Consignment Shop (in the village) that might have the
answer. However, selecting a piece from the Consignment Shop ran the risk the previous
owner might be in attendance at the Gala and that “just” would not do.

Tanya agreed but suggested they team up and visit the Shoppe. The owner was a good friend
of Tanya and would know the history of every item and might be able to affect a miracle.
Although the odds were extremely low, the Shoppe was only a ten-minute drive and after an
alerting cell call, the owner would be standing by to assist. This was a good start as the
Department Store was a more than a 45-minute drive.
While waiting for Tanya and our Gal, the Shoppe owner pulled two candidates for their
consideration. She pictured this task would be equivalent to the Debutante selecting her gown
for her Coming Out Ball. The owner, Paulette greeted Tanya with a big hug and opened their
exchange with a typical female query. “Hi Girl, where have you been? Have not seen you in a
while. And who is your friend?” Tanya, after returning the hug, introduced our Gal, “This is
Marie Anne, good friend and client, but more so. We have to find her a dress for her the
Country Club 2020 Gala and we have to accomplish this in the next few days.”

Paulette responded, “Well thank you both for thinking of me. I hope we can find the perfect
dress or at least one that can meet and exceed your needs.” With that she cooed, “While I was
waiting for you, I scourged both my recent shipment of NEW outfits and also ran through some
near new Hi-End Consignment numbers that came in yesterday from an out of town partner of
mine, and selected one from each group. One is an elegant, sophisticated number and the
other is really cute and youthful and full of energy.
Let me show you them. Hopefully one of these will meet your needs.

Oh! Can I get either of you a coffee or tea? Tan ya responded “Not for me Thanks” and Marie
also declined with a shake of the head and a polite “No Thank You.”
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                                             “Okay then.” Paulette said and she reached behind a
                                             nearby velvet partition withdrawing a floor length
                                             Black gown accented by a sweeping pattern of small
                                             gold studs running from the neck line off to the
                                             shoulders and then down both arms narrowing just
                                             above the wrists while parallel lines of the same
                                             studs cascaded down the breast circling at the waist
                                             then plunging over the hips and ending just at
                                             random heights about the hem and about nine
                                             inches from the floor allowing a flash of slender
                                             ankle and fashionable heels. Paulette continued,
                                             “This number can be further accentuated by a Black
Bearded purse and either gold or pearl jewelry.” Catching her breath, Paulette continued, “I do
not think any alterations will be required, so if you are intrigued, it is time for Marie Anne to
disappear into the Changing Room and see if I am right.”
With that and a certain delicate flare, she draped the gown over her left arm and strode to the
dressing room waving Tanya and Marie to follow. She handed the gown to Tanya and ushered
the two women into the spacious mirror lined compartment and withdrew saying “I’ll be back in
a few minutes I’m off for coffee. Can I get you some?” There was a joint “No thanks” from the
room.
It took about seven minutes before Tanya
opened the door and with a girlish imitation of a
triumph flourish and sweep of her hand and a
slight bow waved a shimmering statuesque
Marie Anne to the waiting audience of one.
Paulette reacted far out of proportion to her
business interest with a cry of “Spectacular”
and clapping of hands and rushing forward
taking Marie’s face into her hands and saying
“Girl you will just absolutely stun them. But hold
on a minute I’ll be right back!

With that exclamation, Paulette dashed to a
Jewelry Case and grasping a key suspended
on a chain around her neck, she squatted down, female style, unlocked the case withdrawing a
velvet clad tray. She then stood and moved behind Michelle instructing her to remain still. As
Marie obliged, Paulette draped an intricate and unique piece of artistry around our Gal’s
shoulder (It might be called a Shawl, a Cowl or Throw but this creation was much, much more
than any of these titles conveyed).
It could best be described in several manners…Basically is was a reverse “Triangle” with its
two wings (such as an soaring Eagle or a gliding Flamingo) falling over her shoulders and
descending to the waist caressing her breasts in-route and transforming the simple lines of the
black dress to those of a magical cloak of femininity.
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While Tanya and Marie were appraising this vision of grace and beauty in the wall sized three-
panel mirror, Paulette dashed off again on another retrieval exercise. She returned almost
before the admiring pair realized she had left. By now she had left her business-like decorum
drop a little more. With her arms extended and holding her hands on high, saying “Look what I
have.”
                                                  She quickly approached Michelle and
                                                  directed “Girl please shed those beach
                                                  sandals and step into these. “These” were a
                                                  pair of 5-inch Fiomi pointed toe heels with
                                                  delicately scalloped lace sides. They just
                                                  broadcast Style, Sophistication and a polite
                                                  degree of sexiness.

                                                  That sealed the choice and ended the
                                                  search for the “Perfect Dress”.

MORE TO FOLLOW – The Other Dress

Realization - None Rang my Bell or stirred my imagination.
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The Adventures of Judy Sometimes
By: Judy Daniels

                         Disaster Averted

Shortly after making my post last night I received a text from my friend Kim who was to do my
hair and nails today saying she screwed up and was going to have to cancel my 12:00
appointment. The wedding that she is doing a "live" painting at is today, not tomorrow and she
would need to leave town by noon as its in Minneapolis which is about a 3.5 hour drive.

So after canceling all her other appoints, packing her clothes and car up and getting
everything in order she text me early this morning and said if I could come in at 9 she could still
squeeze me in before leaving. Needless to say I jumped on her request. The idea of going to
my reunion with "man" hands just was not an option. My nails were looking pretty bad last
weekend so I removed the acrylics exposing my own nails which are not a pretty sight. It was
bad enough going all week with gross nails and the thought of facing all my peers with my
natural nails turned my stomach. Of course either doing them myself or finding another salon to
have them done was always an option, but it wasn't something I was wanting to do at this
point. So when I showed up at her salon I was thinking all she would have time to do was my
nails, but when she guided me over to her hair station I was pleasantly surprised.

 So, here I am, not even noon wearing a cute outfit with my hair, nails and toes done, all ready
to go. The best part of all this happening is now I can go meet all the ladies for lunch. Every
reunion there is a standing invitation for a "ladies only" lunch at the Mexican Village, a
restaurant that has been around since we were all in high school, in fact, a few of the girls
actually were waitresses there back in the day.

I know a few of the girls are going to want to start "partying" right after lunch, but I'm going to
do my best and resist ... at least until my wife gets off work somewhere after 3. Might even try
and get a little nap time in. Could be a long night.

 Judy L ynn
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                       Ask Hannah
                       By: Hannah McKnight

Girls say hello to our newest columnist Hannah McKnight

                           Hi! My name is Hannah McKnight and I identify as
                           transgender but I prefer the term T-Girl. My mission is to talk
                           about what it’s like to balance a life between genders. I have
                           no plans to transition, live full-time as a woman, or take
                           hormones. I am happy to go back and forth between my
                           different gender identities. Over the years I have gotten more
                           involved with trans-activism, social awareness and creating a
                           supportive environment for all transwomen. I run a social and
                           support group for transgender women called the MN T-Girls.
                           I'm also currently writing a book about my experiences and
                           life.

I’ve Got to Admit it's Getting Better (it couldn't get no worse)

It's safe to say that from a legal perspective, it is getting... well, easier and safer to be
LGBTQ+.
If we are speaking in very general terms, there are more workplace protections than there were
ten years ago. Our community can do more than we could a decade ago, whether it was
adopting a child, marrying the person we love, or having medical benefits for hormones. I
mean, the bar was pretty low to begin with, in some ways it couldn't get worse.

And it's wonderful!
Really it is! I am thankful for every piece of legislation that is passed that makes it illegal to dis-
criminate someone for being queer. Laws can help "normalize" the non-cis/non-het commu-
nity. I mean, it's a slooooooooooow process but it's getting better.

But just because something is legal or illegal, it doesn't really mean that life gets easier. I
mean, yes, it does if you are looking to adopt children, get married or keep your job, but if
someone hates me because I am trans they'll still hate me no matter what the law says. I don't
need everyone to love me, but if someone is going to beat me up or harass me because I am
trans they are likely going to beat me up or harass me whether it is "legal" or not.
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The point is that a law doesn't necessarily lead to acceptance or a change in perspective, or a
change in behavior. It's not legal to pay a woman less than a man for the same job, but it still
happens. Racism, sexism, homophobia will probably always exist, no matter how laws
regarding equality are passed. A law isn't going to help our family accept us. Yes, we don't
need the acceptance of others, but we kind of do. It would be nice to have that. Although I can
get through life without the understanding/acceptance of others, it does get a little depressing
being reminded that there are countless people in the world who wish I didn't exist and think
there is something wrong with me.

If laws won't change how many people see us, what will? At my most optimistic I think time will
help. But my god, how long will that take? It won't be in my lifetime. To offer some
perspective (and at the risk of trivializing gender identity) I think about cis-women wearing
pants. If you see a woman wearing pants at the mall or whatever, you think nothing of it. I
mean, some t-girls might wonder a little why a woman would choose to wear pants when she
could wear a dress but that's not the point. What I'm saying is that it wasn't long ago that a
woman wearing pants was illegal. It took forever for women to be "allowed" to wear pants. It
took even longer for most of the population to stop making it a big deal. The point is that even
though it was legal for women to wear pants, even though it took a very long time to make it so,
it took even longer for (most) people to stop caring.

We as humans have a long history of overthinking clothes. That isn't going to change. Not for
a long, long, long, long time.

You can't rush progress. Cramming anything down someone's throat is not going to
work. You can't force acceptance, you can't bully someone into changing their mind, their
perspective, their opinion. If an ything is going to change, it's going to be through visibility,
representation, a unified voice, and a simple message.

This isn't going to be easy. Different letters of the L G B T Q + community want and need
different things. My friends who are L don't necessarily need the same things as the T
community does. Individuals in the T community also need different things. If you fall under
the T umbrella you likely identify in a different, more specific, more nuanced way than someone
else who is trans. A crossdresser is under the T umbrella and they may just want to stop being
looked at as a fetishinst. Someone who is non-binary wants people to use Them/They
pronouns. A drag queen might want to stop being politicized or demonized. We all are hoping
and fighting for different things. A drag queen's fight is not the same as my fight, if you follow.

BUT! If you step back you'll realize it really is.

An ything that impacts any individual in the LGBTQ affects all of us. If it's legal to refuse
medical treatment for someone who is gay, it's not too unrealistic to think that the
transcommunity will soon face that same discrimination as well. If people want to stop events
like drag queen story time at libraries it's possible that as a t-girl I wouldn't be allowed into the
library at all. Some people don't think there is a difference between a drag queen and a
transperson. For them, it comes down to men wearing dresses, regardless if it's for a
performance or if it's because of gender identity. I don't do drag but I will do whatever I can to
protect those that do.
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I know people who identify as crossdressers, but not as transgender. And that's fine, you can
identify however you wish to. Some have told me that they aren't worried about losing their job
if they li ve in a state where it's legal to fire someone for being LGBTQ. Afterall, the y are a
crossdresser, not transgender. But really, do you think a lawmaker or a human resources
manager sees, or cares about the difference between someone who identifies as a cross-
dresser and someone who is transgender? Again, it comes down to men wearing dresses, no
matter how they identify.

We have a loooooooong way to go when it comes to being protected. We have a long way to
go when it comes to being safe and accepted. It's so cliche to say, but we are really in this to-
gether.

Love, Hannah
hannahmcknight.org

                        Mellissalynn’s Tips & Tricks
Well, I just looked outside and guess what, ladies? It's still winter. The calendar at least says
that spring is getting closer, and the temperatures seem to be bearing that out, at least here in
Illinois.

I want to send well wishes to my readers in Texas before I go on. I hope all of you were safe
during the recent storms and power situations, and that you're all back with us to read this
month's newsletter.

For being such a short month, February was a very busy one for me! It was full of adventures
and misadventures, the latter mostly of the vehicle variety. Literally e very vehicle in my family
(my own and all of my children) decided to act up last month! The battery died in my Equinox
and had to be replaced, my Caravan had a broken water hose, my oldest son's Cadillac is
having brake issues, my middle son's pickup threw its transmission, and my youngest son had
a problem with his tensioner for his engine belt.
To add to the fun, most of this happened in a
week's stretch, during the bitter cold.

On the plus side, my granddaughter (pictured
with me here) turned four at the very end of
January and we finally were able to have her
birthday dinner/party in February. It was sweet;
we gave her her birthday presents, which she
loved, and the staff at the restaurant we went
to brought her a bowl of ice cream and get the
entire place to sing happy birthday.

In the world of sports, w had the Super Bowl.
Football season is now over and spring training
has started for basball! Menwhile, my Bulls are
doing halfway decent this year, and I've
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actually gotten to watch a game or two. I'd forgotten the joys of watching a basketball
game...still, I'm ready for baseball! Opening Day is coming soon...go Cubbies!

So tell me about your month, ladies! Tell me about your upcoming winter or spring plans, your
hopes for baseball, how strange you think the last year has been, a great show or a movie
you've watched, or share other news in general. You’re always welcome to share tips and
tricks, of course! Write to me, any time, at my e-mail: mlatjnadhmelly@gmail.com. You can hit
me up on Facebook; my username there is Mellissa Lynn. I ALWAYS answer any and all mail
I get! And, as many of you know, if you send me a question or a tip or trick, you'll see your
name in print in this column. I love hearing from you all, so send me that mail, lovelies!

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To start this month, I want to talk a little about your eyebrows. Are you ha ving an issue with
your eyebrows shedding? Well, chica, I have something for you to try for that! There are
shampoos out there, available in your local drugstore, that will prevent this from happening. I
know, it sounds bizarre, but remember, this is beauty! We have special products for everything.

I don't normally promote products, but this is specialized enough that I think I have to do so. It's
called Dove Dermacare Scalp Anti-Dandruff Shampoo. Once you get the shampoo, massage a
teaspoon of it onto your damp brows for a moment, then rinse. By doing so, you get rid of dead
skin and dandruff that can build up in the eyebrows and cause fall out.

While we're on the subject, here's a fast way to swell those hairs up and make your brows look
plumper. Get a small amount of olive oil. Dip a cotton swab in it and rub into your brows. Do
this twice daily.

The olive oil has fatty acids that instantly plump the brow hairs. Also, the inherent vitamin E will
help to condition the hairs. This will stop the breakage that causes the thinner look.

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In the winter, your skin gets dry, flaky, and cracked. This isn't news, is it? Well, the same is
also true of your nails, which are, after all, also made of keratin. To prevent this, follow these
simple easy steps!

- Keep your hands, fingers, and cuticles moisturized. This will help to keep your nails from be-
coming brittle and breaking. Your should apply a cuticle cream or oil once or twice a day and
make sure to massage it in for maximum effect. An effective homemade cuticle softener can be
created by mixing a tablespoon of pineapple juice, an egg yolk, and a teaspoon of cider vine-
gar. Apply this to your cuticles and let sit a moment or two for maximum potency.

- Keep your nails shorter and rounded in the winter; doing so can help prevent them from
breaking.

- Use a nail strengthener on your nails, whether you paint them or not. This will help combat
the harsh winter temperatures and winds. If you paint your nails after applying, also use a base
coat to keep the polish on longer.
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- When removing nail polish, try to use a nail polish remover with a conditioner built in. This will
help prevent the chemicals in the remover drying out your nails.

- Remember that your nails will grow slower in the winter. You can use a growth treatment on
your nails to help with this. Make sure to massage the treatment in completely, and make sure
that your nails are dry before applying anything else to them.

- Make sure to never cut or file your nails after a shower or bath. It can cause them to split.
When you do file your nails, the best method is to file your nails towards the middle instead of
back and forth across the nails. It will help prevent cracking or peeling of the nails.

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More oils! Have you ever heard of meadow foam oil? It's a plant-derived oil that will help to
fade scars, due to the vitamin E contained within. It will also help exfoliate the skin, making
scars (and other skin as well) feel and look less rough. For those of you (us) with stretch
marks, it can help those fade as well!

Side note: remember that the best time to apply an oil such as this is within three minutes of
getting out of the shower. The steam from showering will open the pores and let the oil absorb
into the skin faster and more deeply.

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Here's a new one on me! Have you ever heard of emu oil? It
comes from the fat of emus, from Australia.

I know, I know, you're wondering why I'm talking about the oil
from an Australian bird. Well, here's why: emu oil can cause
your hair follicles to switch into growth mode! A recent study
found that emu oil applied to the scalp caused an 8% increase in
hair growth in one month, and nearly half (48%) within six
months. The oil also soothes any scalp inflammation.

This oil is available at your local drugstore and is pretty
inexpensive. Apply a dime-sized amount to your scalp every
evening. Wear a shower cap to avoid getting the oil on your
pillowcase. In the morning, shampoo and rinse as normal.

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Here's some food for thought: did you know that you can get
even more sun damage in winter than in summer? Truth! The
facts are that snow and ice can intensify the sun's rays,
reflecting up to 90% of the solar output. Don't be fooled by cloudiness and gloom during the
season. The big ball of fire in the sky is still out there!
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